1 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Welcome everyone. 2 00:00:05,080 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 2: Hi there, this is Amy and TJ here, and welcome 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 2: back to the podcast. Amy and TJ, and we have 4 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: some thank yous to you all. First and foremost, we 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: are beyond grateful by the response we've gotten from you 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 2: all from our first couple of episodes. 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 1: That's right, and we're excited because we got some news 8 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 1: over the weekend. We're going to be releasing two podcasts 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 1: this week and next week up until the end of 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: the year. We'll see how it goes from there, but 11 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,559 Speaker 1: we're really excited about it. We told iHeart we like 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 1: to work. 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 2: They believed us, No, well we have. We're two people 14 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: who are used to going, going, going, and long days, 15 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,519 Speaker 2: lots of travels, so we're not used to something like 16 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 2: once a week. We're like, ah, that's no problem. But 17 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: we wouldn't be doing two a week now if there 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 2: wasn't some interest. And we got the response and from 19 00:00:57,680 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: you all, and it's been a good one and we're 20 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 2: excited to be able to share more. So yes, for 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 2: the next couple weeks, you'll get two from us. This 22 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: is one of them. But this week's episodes are going 23 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 2: to be special because they're centered on you. 24 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: That's right, So we're excited, but I'm going to continue 25 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: my but I'm nervous theme. Hopefully I can get past 26 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:20,119 Speaker 1: that in the new year. But we are putting ourselves 27 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: on the hot seat literally. We asked you all to 28 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: write in some questions, leave them in the comments section, 29 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: and you know, we don't look at the comments, but 30 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:30,919 Speaker 1: I did say see that it was over eight hundred, 31 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,039 Speaker 1: So there were a lot of questions that. 32 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,319 Speaker 2: You all had, and so we're going to answer as 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: many of them as we can. But the kicker here 34 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 2: is that we haven't seen them ahead of time. We 35 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 2: specifically asked our producers do not let us know the 36 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 2: questions ahead of time. So they went through them. They 37 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 2: picked out as many as they as many as they could, 38 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 2: and we're going to try to get to as many 39 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 2: as we can in the next couple of episodes, starting 40 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: with this one. 41 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: Yes, so it's fun not to see the questions. It 42 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: can be a little uncomfortab well not to see the questions, 43 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:03,560 Speaker 1: but let's see what happens. Andy, what's our first one. 44 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 3: We have a whole bunch of questions. I'll dive right 45 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 3: into it. This first one comes from Cameron and he 46 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 3: asks if you're willing to share more. I'd love to 47 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 3: hear about how you two fell in love after being 48 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 3: friends for so long. What changed, When did you know 49 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 3: your feelings were changing, and how long before you told 50 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 3: each other this? Romantic would love to know. 51 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: Okay, fine, I having a problem with that. Look, when 52 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 2: we knew it was probably summer of last year where 53 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 2: we're like, oh that things were something else was evolving. 54 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 2: Obviously we were about we were very close to entering 55 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 2: divorce proceedings, but at that point we knew something was different. 56 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 2: We didn't share that because we didn't share that season 57 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,399 Speaker 2: talking about publicly. We didn't share that with each other. Yes, 58 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: because I am sitting over here going Lord, this has 59 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: been a great best friend friendship. I don't need to 60 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: screw this up by saying to her that there's something 61 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: I'm feeling for her beyond the friendship. So we kind 62 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: of tiptoed around it, and I didn't want to say anything. 63 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: You didn't want to say anything. But then as we 64 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: proceeded through last summer, things definitely changed and we started 65 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: having conversations. 66 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 1: I suppose yes, I gosh, we've actually talked about this 67 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: with each other. Trying to remember the moment, I think 68 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: we started looking at each other differently. Is that fair? 69 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: Wait? How'd you start looking at me? This is? This 70 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 2: is new to me too? Who was that romantic? The 71 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 2: Cameron camera? Okay, Cameron, we are about to learn this 72 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 2: together because I didn't know she was looking at me differently, 73 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: So go go ahead. 74 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 1: I think I saw you looking at me different What 75 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: the hell? 76 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: That sounds creepy as hell. 77 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: No, it was just we were spending so much time 78 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: together at work, and then we didn't want it to end. 79 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: I remember us both saying, oh, Fridays are a bummer 80 00:03:56,480 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: because normally people are excited about Fridays, right, because. 81 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 2: You get to go home for the weekend. But that 82 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: means we couldn't see each other again until. 83 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: Monday, right, and then Mondays were always like ugh for 84 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: most people, and we were excited about Monday's. Yeah. And 85 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: I think for me, that's when it started to feel 86 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: different and we didn't necessarily want to be honest, I 87 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: think with how we were feeling about each other because 88 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:26,920 Speaker 1: it didn't feel right, and I think that's when we 89 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: kind of had to start asking ourselves without talking to 90 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 1: each other first, about what was different. And so I 91 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 1: think that's when it started in the summer where I 92 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,679 Speaker 1: didn't want it to be Friday and I was excited 93 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: about Monday. 94 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 2: So all right, well we learned that together, Cameron. Did 95 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,919 Speaker 2: she really answer that? And I think so? How you 96 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 2: looked at you? Said you noticed I started looking at 97 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 2: you did? That's what it was. 98 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: I feel like there was a little extra twinkle in 99 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: your eyes. 100 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: Oh my, it's absurd, a twinkle. I keep a twinkle 101 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 2: in my eyes. 102 00:04:57,880 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: You do have a twinkle in thank you? Yeah? 103 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 2: And he said the same thing. Look at me right now, Andy, 104 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,080 Speaker 2: you see a twinkle, don't you? You have twinkling? 105 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: But what does Andy need to start questioning his friendship 106 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: with you? 107 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 2: You were questioning your friendship with me? Okay, Cameron, this 108 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: is a rough start. No, I didn't know that part 109 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 2: about you thought I was looking at you differently. 110 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 1: I felt it. 111 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 2: We did run together a lot. 112 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 1: We did run. 113 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 2: You didn't see how I was looking at you when 114 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 2: I was sorry? 115 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: He did run behind me? 116 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 2: All right, all right, Andy, what else you got? What 117 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: does you get? 118 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 3: This next one comes from Charles. He asks who made 119 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 3: the first move? How is your first kiss? And who 120 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 3: said I love you first? 121 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: Definitely I was I said I love you first? That 122 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 2: is for sure. Who made the first move? I don't 123 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,840 Speaker 2: think there was. But if I had to argue, if 124 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: I go back, it was you. Wow, I would argue 125 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 2: with you. 126 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: Yep, I saw the twa Did I lean in first? 127 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: It's not about a leaning in. It's about a move 128 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:02,719 Speaker 2: somebody who initiated something physical that was beyond what the 129 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,679 Speaker 2: friendship had been. I think that was you. 130 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: You think it was me? 131 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 2: I am. I am sure it was you, because look, 132 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 2: so many people have stories of the people they've been with. 133 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: We met here, we had a date here, Our first 134 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,919 Speaker 2: kiss was here. We don't I don't know when the 135 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: first time it was I met you because we started 136 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: out as strength somewhere to the studio. Did we have 137 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: an official first date? No, I can't. We stream together 138 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: the number of lunches and dinners and drinks we've had 139 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 2: for the past nine years that nothing felt like a 140 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 2: first anything. So when did we make it we had 141 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 2: an official first? Maybe trip as a couple made an 142 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 2: official first something like that, I remember, But no, we 143 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 2: just don't have that because of how our relationship was. Man, 144 00:06:45,040 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: you are this year, I'm the worst. You're the worst. 145 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 2: At this game, I have to look. 146 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: Back at pictures from last week to remember, like what 147 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,279 Speaker 1: did we do? What was our lunch? And then I 148 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 1: have to go back. And that's why I like to 149 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: take pictures, because it reminds me of what we did. 150 00:06:57,320 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 2: We'll go back and figure out when you made that 151 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,279 Speaker 2: move on me, Andy? What else you get? 152 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:07,559 Speaker 3: The next question is from Amelia and she writes, excuse me, y'all, 153 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 3: I'm drunk at the Mariah concert in Philly, and I 154 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 3: have two questions. One did Robin Roberts and others abandon 155 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 3: y'all and cut contact? And two? One song that hypes 156 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 3: y'all up on a run love y'all. 157 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: I love that she said, y'all. 158 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:23,559 Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, where is she from? Where was Mariah before 159 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 2: me in Philly? 160 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: Yeah she's not from Philly? 161 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 2: If she said, y'all, yeah, I don't think so. 162 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:33,360 Speaker 1: Right. No, first question, we initially, I will say this, 163 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: received nothing but support. I think we have texts to 164 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 1: back that up. And when we first went back to 165 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: work those first two days, my dressing room was filled 166 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: with love and support. So I will say that that's 167 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:57,640 Speaker 1: where I can say things without any question. There was 168 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 1: immediate and initial support okay. 169 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 2: Well, well the next part of that, the question was 170 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 2: did did did Robin and who abandon us? Everybody else? 171 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: It okay, you're done. 172 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 1: Not everyone. Not everyone abandoned us, And I would say 173 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 1: that we got a lot of follow up texts, and 174 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 1: I don't you know, I don't know how people feel 175 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: about being aligned with us now, and I don't want 176 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: to cause anybody any trouble. We all joked about Sarah 177 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: Haynes and then it became like this headline. So I 178 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: actually feel like I want to be careful about who 179 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: I say continues to support us. But we have a 180 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: lot of support from our former co worker. 181 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 2: I think that's a damn shame. We've had these conversations 182 00:08:37,840 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 2: behind the scenes, and I think it's absolutely ridiculous that 183 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 2: we are sitting here and we we we shouldn't even 184 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 2: look at ourselves that way, like we are worried that, oh, 185 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 2: if somebody is affiliated with us, that it's going to 186 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 2: hurt them. That's I hate that we are even in 187 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 2: that position. I don't think we should and that's something 188 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: we're putting on ourselves. And we can talk about this. 189 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 2: Just this week, this just happened, a headline about me 190 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: and Charles Barkley going out for drinks. And you know 191 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 2: this because he sent me the message the next day, 192 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 2: and my heart sank and my first reaction was, man, 193 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:13,719 Speaker 2: I'm sorry that you had your name is even affiliated 194 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 2: with me. This is a mother that I have been 195 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 2: friends with for seventeen eighteen years, okay, and to feel 196 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 2: that way is not how we should feel. And every 197 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 2: single person we have said, well, we don't want to 198 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 2: say your name, they said, I don't give a damn. 199 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 2: I love you. I know it's okay, So maybe we 200 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: should start getting out of that and away from that. 201 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 2: But I understand for folks who have been in this industry, 202 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,599 Speaker 2: who have worked all these years to get their reputation 203 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 2: to a certain place, that they don't want to at 204 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 2: all be affiliated with anything that seems untowards it seems salacious. 205 00:09:47,120 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 2: I get that. But to the question from the folks 206 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 2: he are asking, look we talked to I said before. 207 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: They have plenty of folks we saw every single day 208 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 2: we ain't heard from since. And then there are plenty 209 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 2: of people that we don't talk to that often or 210 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,600 Speaker 2: didn't who have been checking on us every day. So 211 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 2: there's plenty of support. I don't know how quiet it is, 212 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 2: but there are plenty of people at that network where 213 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 2: we worked and at that show who have reached out, 214 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 2: who have checked on, who are wonderful friends to us. 215 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 2: And that continues. 216 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: And you can look at the comments because anyone who 217 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: I follow can comment on our instagrams. So there are 218 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: people who have decided to comment publicly, and I think 219 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: those are the people who are okay with us talking 220 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: about their support publicly. 221 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 2: And the other part of that was about the song, 222 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: the hype song You're Run Too Ah. 223 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: I love levitating dua lipa. I think one of the 224 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:38,959 Speaker 1: ones that comes to my mind right away. 225 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,840 Speaker 2: Mine, of course is Meek Mill Dreams of Nightmares. 226 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: Oh yes, hold. 227 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 2: Up, wait a minute, y'all thought I was finished. Oh 228 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 2: my god, I love a song. 229 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: You play that for me the other day. 230 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 2: That's like the only lyric I can give that's clean 231 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: enough for refeat. I think I love that song all right. 232 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 3: The next question is from Lisa, and she asks do 233 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 3: you miss being an a and if you've got the opportunity, 234 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 3: would you guys go back? 235 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: Absolutely yes, I do miss my job as an anchor. 236 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 1: I spent nearly three decades getting to that place, and 237 00:11:12,679 --> 00:11:15,680 Speaker 1: so had I felt like I checked all the boxes 238 00:11:15,720 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: in everything I set out to do. Yes, and I 239 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: was excited about more so, I one hundred percent missed 240 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,080 Speaker 1: my job. And would I go back on TV? Would 241 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: I go back to being an anchor if it was 242 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:26,920 Speaker 1: the right fit. Yes. 243 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,440 Speaker 2: I think we're at that point now. To answer our question, 244 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,560 Speaker 2: Lisa's question is that we are a little more discerning 245 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:35,720 Speaker 2: about what types of things we would do. There were 246 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 2: plenty of opportunities that came our way in the past year. 247 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 2: At least say ah, that wasn't the right thing, it 248 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 2: didn't feel like the right thing, it wasn't the right time. 249 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: So miss I miss people. I miss certain people I 250 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 2: work with, But I also missed certain types of stories 251 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 2: I did there. But there was a certain type of 252 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: grind that I don't miss. There was a certain type 253 00:11:55,040 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 2: of just energy zapping reality sometimes Network TV News that 254 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 2: I don't necessarily miss, but has everything to do with 255 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 2: what the opportunity is, where it is, what the responsibilities 256 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 2: would be, what the commitment would be, and who I 257 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,599 Speaker 2: get to work with. Because my last co anchor, I 258 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 2: would never go through that again. I will never have 259 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 2: that kind of experience Andy that I had the last 260 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 2: time I had a TV game, because that shit went sideways. 261 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:31,880 Speaker 3: You don't say, Brittany, she asks, agree or disagree with 262 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:34,920 Speaker 3: the why. The fact is that you two stood up 263 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:38,560 Speaker 3: against unbelievable odds, unprecedented scrutiny, and the judgment of the 264 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 3: world to rewrite your stories and live your truth. What 265 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,560 Speaker 3: advice would you give someone afraid to reset life mid 266 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,120 Speaker 3: cycle to live authentically? 267 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: I would say, well, I would say the bank. All 268 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:55,199 Speaker 1: of those things are practical. I'm going to talk about 269 00:12:55,240 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: it from a personal, spiritual level. You have one shot 270 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: at this life, and time is not guaranteed, and today 271 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 1: is all you have. And so I thought about all 272 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 1: of those things when I thoughtfully chose to be with 273 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: this man. I think even when my daughters found out 274 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 1: about this because of the tabloids, and they were shocked 275 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,960 Speaker 1: and thrown a punch that I think a lot of 276 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: people felt when they found out about us. I remember 277 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 1: my oldest daughter said to me, you know, that was 278 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: just so such a like a like. She thought it 279 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 1: was such a quick decision, that it was just an 280 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: abrupt thing. I just leapt into and I said, no, 281 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: I thought about this. I sat with this. I knew 282 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: how I felt, I knew how he felt about me, 283 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: I knew how I felt about him, And I really 284 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: carefully considered what I wanted to do before I did it. 285 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: And part of what I considered was my answer journey, 286 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: the people who I love, who I am friends with, 287 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:08,680 Speaker 1: who are living it still, and I am so acutely 288 00:14:08,720 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: aware of how rare it is to find something like this, 289 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 1: and how we have one shot at life and one 290 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: shot at love. And I wasn't living my truth. And 291 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: if living your truth means making a change, it's hard, 292 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 1: it can be messy, it's difficult oftentimes, and you will 293 00:14:27,520 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: be met with a lot of people telling you otherwise. 294 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 1: But you know, like when you feel your chest and 295 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,680 Speaker 1: your heart like you know what's right. And if you 296 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: follow that and you try to do write by everybody 297 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: along the way, I say, go for it. 298 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: And we don't that you're that point there we I 299 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 2: don't necessarily find what we went through extraordinary. I only 300 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 2: find it extraordinary in the way it got covered and 301 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 2: things like that. But there are so many folks in 302 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 2: in this country right now who have lived some type 303 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 2: of journey that was that one didn't work out, so 304 00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: I ended up here or just life, love, marriage, relationships 305 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: can be messy, and everybody actually knows that if you've 306 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 2: lived a certain amount of life. But it just happens 307 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 2: that ours was thrown out and we didn't have control 308 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 2: of a certain story. And think, okay, fine, but I 309 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 2: don't think. I don't want to hold us up as 310 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: anything any more extraordinary necessarily than so much of what 311 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 2: other people are going through. I do find it extraordinary 312 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 2: that people follow through on it. Sometimes we ended up 313 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,880 Speaker 2: in this point. I never wanted to be divorced. I 314 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 2: never wanted a little Sabine's family to not be together. 315 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 2: But here is where we are, and I am happier 316 00:15:49,440 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 2: and healthier and actually a better daddy to now to 317 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 2: being the place that I am now. So I agree 318 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,480 Speaker 2: with everything that Robot just said. But yeah, life is 319 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 2: life is really really short. And you go through something 320 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 2: like she went through with her cancer journey, and all 321 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 2: of our families we've had issues and cancer and death 322 00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 2: we've seen around us, you just like, wow, you stop. 323 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 2: I heard this word. We were out not too long ago. 324 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 2: Somebody use this word. I was used the phony like 325 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 2: I was a phony. And I don't want to live 326 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 2: that you live when we live public lives, and you 327 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 2: want to live truly personally and behind the scenes, but 328 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 2: also publicly as well. So here we are. So what 329 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 2: was her name again? The person asked a question that 330 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:32,200 Speaker 2: was Brittany. Okay, Brittany, Thank you. 331 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: Brittany, go for it, Live your truth. 332 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 3: This next one comes from Abigail. She asks what kind 333 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:47,760 Speaker 3: of stories and guests do you guys hope to have 334 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 3: on the podcast and do you have any dream guests 335 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 3: for the podcast? 336 00:16:52,160 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: Mmmm. I think both of us are storytellers and we 337 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,680 Speaker 1: love to tell other people's stories, so we cannot wait 338 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 1: to start talking about other people. But you know what, 339 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: I hope to These are always the things I want 340 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: to do, and I hope we can do this in 341 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:14,800 Speaker 1: this podcast. We want to entertain, we want to inform, 342 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 1: we want to inspire, and we want to give something 343 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: to people to aspire to maybe even to learn from. 344 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 1: And I'm always learning and oftentimes you learn through difficult times. 345 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 1: So we're hoping this is a safe space for anybody 346 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: who has something to share with our audience. Like if 347 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:35,120 Speaker 1: we can bring people on, I don't care if they're 348 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: famous or they're not who when you're listening to them, 349 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: you learn something from them, and yes, we hope you're 350 00:17:41,800 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: entertained along the way as well. But I really hope 351 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:46,479 Speaker 1: there's a takeaway each time we have a guest. So 352 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 1: there's not a guest or a specific person, I think 353 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: it's the story and the idea behind whatever their message is. 354 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: That's we're looking for something that's going to give you inspiration, 355 00:17:56,960 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: give you purpose, give you something to learn from, even 356 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 1: if it's don't do what I did. You know, that's 357 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,480 Speaker 1: the kind of guest and those are the kinds of 358 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: stories we're hoping to tell. 359 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: I was trying to say I agree with everything she said. 360 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 2: I just was trying to find a like a name, 361 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,560 Speaker 2: who I would love to in this format, because there's 362 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 2: people I would have loved to interview you on television 363 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 2: that in this format I wouldn't necessarily want them, right, 364 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 2: this is just the more comfortable. It's an intimate way 365 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: of chatting with somebody. So a name, because I want 366 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:30,879 Speaker 2: to give to Abigail something like an actual name. But 367 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:32,399 Speaker 2: soon as I give a name, it's going to end 368 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: up being. 369 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: A call out, Hey, yeah, and did they get them 370 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:38,119 Speaker 1: or not? 371 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: Maybe you should do that. We should just list a 372 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 2: whole bunch of people now and put them on the spot. 373 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:43,639 Speaker 1: We'll just start booking people right now. 374 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 2: All right, what do you got next? I all right. 375 00:18:45,960 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 3: The next one comes from Susie and she asks, are 376 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 3: you guys spending the holidays together? 377 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:53,919 Speaker 1: Susie, that's a good question, you know. I think a 378 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,760 Speaker 1: lot of people are in this situation. Everyone would love 379 00:18:57,760 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: a nuclear, traditional family, and one divorce is hard enough, 380 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,960 Speaker 1: trying to figure that out two divorces is even more complicated. 381 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:10,119 Speaker 1: So I think we're trying to do what our kids 382 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:12,560 Speaker 1: would like us to do. I think we've let them 383 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 1: lead the way up until now. And I don't think 384 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: there's a playbook or a handbook for this, and a 385 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 1: different therapist will tell you something different. But we will 386 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: spend time together. Yeah, I've gone through a few in 387 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: my life. I'm yeah, I think, yeah, that's embarrassing, but true. Well, 388 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:34,199 Speaker 1: I'm always looking for help and guidance, and I know 389 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: I don't know best always, but we will be together, 390 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:41,680 Speaker 1: and we're we don't have the exact plan in place. 391 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 1: We're trying to figure it out, but we're both going 392 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: to be here in New York and our daughters are 393 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:47,520 Speaker 1: going to be here in New York, and so we 394 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,199 Speaker 1: will piece it together. 395 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:51,679 Speaker 2: Yes, is the answer. 396 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 1: Mine was a little bit more complicated and probably too honest. 397 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:58,320 Speaker 1: Go ahead, next question. 398 00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 3: Lease, all right. This next one comes from jam and 399 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 3: it's a great question. She asks, what do you wish 400 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,000 Speaker 3: everyone knew about your story that they don't know right now? 401 00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:14,840 Speaker 2: Oh? That's that is great. I you know, I wish 402 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,479 Speaker 2: folks got to uh, had a better understanding of the 403 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 2: past eight years, eight years before we started dating, and 404 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: understanding of the foundation that we had built right it's 405 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 2: and where we were. People saw chemistry on the air, 406 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:31,480 Speaker 2: people saw and people behind the scenes saw our friendship. 407 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 2: We were ridiculous together to the point of annoyance, Like 408 00:20:34,680 --> 00:20:36,640 Speaker 2: those two just get me away from these things. 409 00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: We were the kids in the class. You had to 410 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 1: be separated by the teacher always. 411 00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 2: So I just that friendship is something I wish people 412 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 2: had a better understanding of, because again, we didn't have 413 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: control over when people found out that we were actually 414 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:56,640 Speaker 2: in a relationship. So it was I think that disgusted 415 00:20:56,720 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 2: us most is that something that was we were so 416 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 2: careful about and so deliberate and took so much great 417 00:21:04,640 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 2: care in was being thrown out as just something salacious and. 418 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 1: Tawdryus an affair, some sexy like just affair, which it 419 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: was the last thing that this was. TJ told me 420 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: he loved me before he ever held my hand. I 421 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever had that experience before in my life, 422 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 1: where it was an emotional connection that we acknowledged before 423 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: anything physical ever happened. And that was pretty amazing. I'd 424 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,439 Speaker 1: like people to know that that was. 425 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that sucks. I mean, everybody seemed to know 426 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 2: how great we were, even where we worked, knew how 427 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 2: great we were because they were the ones that kept 428 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 2: putting us together. 429 00:21:48,680 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 1: Y'all are greed together. You should go to London together. 430 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: Y'all should go to yeah, New Orleans together. Y'all should 431 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,480 Speaker 1: just be on the road and and and so there 432 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:00,600 Speaker 1: was something to it, I don't It just took us 433 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:01,919 Speaker 1: a little bit longer to realize it. 434 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 3: Interesting, and this next question comes from Elvin. It's an 435 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 3: interesting one. They ask, do you think you were set 436 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:10,680 Speaker 3: up because of the Epstein case? 437 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: No, I don't think that this had anything to do 438 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: with that. There are a lot of conspiracy theories that 439 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: surround that. And you know that well, I think we'll 440 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: probably get into that in another episode, another podcast, because 441 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: there was a lot to be told about that, and 442 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 1: I understand why people are interested. I was frustrated, I think, 443 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:37,680 Speaker 1: if anyone doesn't know, long story short, I was caught 444 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: on a hot mic at ABC when I was in 445 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: between promos, when I didn't think I was being recorded, 446 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 1: when I didn't think I was being listened to. But 447 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: that shame on me, because I should know better. When 448 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: you have a microphone on, someone's always listening and someone 449 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: could always potentially be recording, and that's what happened. But yes, 450 00:22:55,560 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: I had done a very significant interview which clearly pointed 451 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 1: the finger at Epstein. I believe it was several years 452 00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:09,720 Speaker 1: before he was actually found out, and so I was 453 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 1: extremely frustrated at work that I wasn't able to get 454 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,840 Speaker 1: that story on the air. And so in a moment 455 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:21,840 Speaker 1: where I was frustrated, it got caught on camera. And yeah, 456 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: so there are a lot of people who believe that 457 00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 1: there was some sort of backlash or some sort of 458 00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 1: you know, agenda against me, and you know, I did 459 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: deal with some repercussions because of that, But I don't 460 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 1: think that what was put out about TJ and I 461 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: had anything to do with my Epstein reporting or my 462 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:40,679 Speaker 1: lack thereof. 463 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 2: We know it didn't, gotcha. 464 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 3: Next one, on the topic of therapy, Susie asked, do 465 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 3: you actually see a couple therapists? 466 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,880 Speaker 2: We're looking right now. 467 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have God, we don't think God. We 468 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 1: don't need a couple therapists yet. And I say yet yet, 469 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: I'm kidding. I feel like, oh, this experience has been 470 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 1: therapy in and of itself. But I have been in 471 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: therapy for quite some time. I actually don't see one 472 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 1: regularly now, but I like through this all, I think 473 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 1: nine months every week I was in therapy starting last 474 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:22,919 Speaker 1: the summer before this all came to light. And you 475 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 1: know my daughters, one of them is now actually still 476 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:27,439 Speaker 1: seeing a therapist, the other one's not. But I'm always 477 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 1: open to it. 478 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 2: And you think we should know, all right? Why not? 479 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,439 Speaker 1: We talk a lot, We talk it out, and I 480 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: think we actually have really great communication, which is pretty unique. 481 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 3: Great Kevin, he asks, who was the first person that 482 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:48,080 Speaker 3: both of you told about your relationship? 483 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 1: Okay, I know mine, Oh, Nikki, my best friend, Niki Espina, 484 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: She's the first person I told. I told her I 485 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: told her speaking of a therapist. She she guessed, and 486 00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: I confirmed when right before it came out. 487 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: You didn't tell me this. 488 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,080 Speaker 1: I know. I'm telling you now. 489 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,600 Speaker 2: You gotta be getting me right now, Bro, you told her? 490 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 1: I confirmed right before. 491 00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:20,399 Speaker 2: I mean you confirmed. No, that's told not. 492 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:25,199 Speaker 1: No, she asked me directly. I said, yes, or more 493 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:25,600 Speaker 1: than friends. 494 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 2: Are you aware that you didn't tell me that? I am? Okay, Now, 495 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 2: why didn't you tell me that? 496 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 1: Because a lot happened, like it was literally days? 497 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 2: No, no, no, no. Why didn't you tell me that? Because you 498 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,199 Speaker 2: knew my reaction might be how it is right now 499 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: and I'd be pissed. Yeah, because that's what's happened. 500 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 1: Probably, Sorry, Okay, maybe we need a therapist. 501 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,920 Speaker 2: Oh so this relationship is all jokes to you now, huh, 502 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:47,639 Speaker 2: it's just funny. 503 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 1: I know, Yeah, that happened. Wow, who's the first person 504 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 1: you told? 505 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 2: I didn't tell anybody? Yeah, because I didn't have to 506 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 2: because everybody knew by the time I was getting around 507 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 2: to it, so I didn't. There was nobody ever told. Yeah, 508 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 2: not a soul. I didn't think I should because I 509 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,439 Speaker 2: thought that might be a betrayal to the person I 510 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 2: was dating Andy. 511 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Kevin, great question. Yeah all right, 512 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 3: Katrina asks, are you guys going to tie the knot? 513 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,240 Speaker 2: You want to answer this to? Have you already told 514 00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:24,000 Speaker 2: somebody that we are? Should I call Nikki and see 515 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 2: how our relationship is going? 516 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 1: No? 517 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:27,400 Speaker 2: No, no, no, oh. 518 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:31,119 Speaker 1: You he's still reeling from the last ques. 519 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 2: Like all I see in your face right now is 520 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:35,280 Speaker 2: Denise Richards and undercover brothers. 521 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, yes, oh my god, it's it's under consideration. 522 00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:43,640 Speaker 2: What was the question again? 523 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 3: Are you guys going to tie the knot? 524 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 2: Oh? Please? Yeah, I'm learning so much about it. 525 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 1: So here's what I would say. We did not enter 526 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: this relationship for fun or for let's see what happens. 527 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,479 Speaker 1: We entered this relationship because we intended on spending our 528 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: lives together. So whether or not we have some sort 529 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 1: of legal uh you know, I don't know button on it, 530 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 1: that's like I don't know. We we both have two 531 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 1: marriages under our belts, and so it's not something we're 532 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:21,000 Speaker 1: racing to or rushing towards. But there is something I 533 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 1: get it. It's this this thing that I don't I 534 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:30,320 Speaker 1: can't even explain why there's this desire but I want 535 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: to spend the rest of my life with you. 536 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 2: I can say that, but you don't want to marry me. 537 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: It's on the table. It's on the table. 538 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 2: We do need a marriage counselor excuse me, a couple 539 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,480 Speaker 2: of counselors, a couple. 540 00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 1: You jumped to the next step, but wait, how about 541 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 1: you only I answered that. Yeah, that's funny. 542 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,840 Speaker 2: You've seen the gifts under the tree. You notice that 543 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 2: little bit box. Did you notice the tiny box? 544 00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: Yeah? I did. I know what's in it, though, Savine keeps. 545 00:27:57,960 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 2: Talking about the tiny box. Yeah, she wants to know 546 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 2: the time. Surprise in that tiny box. 547 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 1: Yeah it's not from Jared. 548 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:14,479 Speaker 2: Okay, I want to marry you in part right, I'm 549 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,639 Speaker 2: saying that out loud. Yeah, I want to marry you 550 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 2: because you are fifty and I'm forty. 551 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: Six, and you had to point the very. 552 00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,639 Speaker 2: Sick of introducing you, a fifty year old woman, this 553 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 2: is my girlfriend. That just sounds stupid. 554 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: But thank you for noting the age difference everybody. 555 00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,160 Speaker 2: I appreciate that everybody. But you're gonna be fifty one soon. 556 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 2: I'll be forty six. So this means when you're in 557 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,959 Speaker 2: high school, I was in elementary school. 558 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: He does this a lot. He loves to point this. 559 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 2: Out in college. I was in junior high school. Wow, 560 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:44,840 Speaker 2: how cool. 561 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: If you could only have known that. 562 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 2: This is awesome. 563 00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: Yeah right, I'm impressed for you. 564 00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 2: S So yes, we're going to again, friend of you know, 565 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 2: we brought up Chuck already, So friend Charles Charles Barkley. 566 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 2: He's been saying this for years. If you get it 567 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 2: past a certain age thirty plus, you cannot be calling 568 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 2: somebody your girlfriend and your boyfriend. You've outgrown that. 569 00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 1: You did. Note though, Lucky for us, when we actually 570 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: meet people, we don't have to say this is my boyfriendj. 571 00:29:11,000 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: They already know we're past that. We don't really have 572 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: to introduce each other, so we don't really have to 573 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: use that language. 574 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,760 Speaker 3: Oscar asks, what is one word to sum up your 575 00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 3: twenty twenty three. 576 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:41,080 Speaker 1: Educational peace. 577 00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 2: You want to elaborate on yours. 578 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 1: I've just learned more than I've ever learned about, not 579 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: just myself, about people who I thought I knew about, 580 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: what I thought journalism was, what I thought it could 581 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 1: feel you like to be on the other side of 582 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 1: public opinion, just things that I thought I knew I 583 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: was wrong about and I have learned so much. I 584 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 1: am wiser and I am more prepared for what comes next. 585 00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 2: And I think my answer peace actually ties into all that. 586 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 2: In learning all of those things as well, I have 587 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 2: gotten to like really one of the best places I've 588 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 2: ever been in my life with friends, some people and 589 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 2: friends in or whatever it may, whoever it may be. 590 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:32,960 Speaker 2: Some things have gotten out of my life that serve 591 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,240 Speaker 2: their purpose. But it's time for those things to go. 592 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 2: And when you start to find you get back to 593 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 2: who you actually are when you strip away some of 594 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,360 Speaker 2: these things, like wow, I was doing this for that 595 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 2: person or I was being this way for that thing 596 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 2: or for that job, because I thought this was you 597 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 2: finally get to a point of peace. And so I'll 598 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 2: keep saying I'm happier and healthy and I've ever been 599 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:00,680 Speaker 2: in my life. And it took twenty twenty three and 600 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: a year of peace, and it was more stuff in there, 601 00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 2: but it's there was some peace outs. Thank God. Though 602 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 2: really you look at some of that stuff, but yeah, 603 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 2: piece is mine. Well as you got. 604 00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 3: Andy, Tony asks what's your favorite thing to cook together? 605 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: He's laughing because, oh that Tony, So I used to cook, 606 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:30,440 Speaker 1: but he's so much better than me, So I like 607 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: to watch him cook. And what is our favorite? So 608 00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:35,520 Speaker 1: my favorite thing that you cook, I can say that 609 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: is the chimmy chery sauce and the steak and the salad. 610 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,560 Speaker 1: It's really good. 611 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,520 Speaker 2: Savine loves that too, that's a favorite. But yes, I 612 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 2: we don't. We don't cook together. 613 00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 1: Well, I'm in the room with you, I'm in the kitchen. 614 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 2: We're together while I'm cooking. How about that? Yes, so, 615 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 2: but we don't. We do not cook together. And I 616 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 2: love cooking. I love being I love that environment. I 617 00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,760 Speaker 2: love being in the kitchen and people around and the 618 00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 2: wine is flowing and people are chatting. But I love, 619 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 2: love love that. So I'll well, yesterday was I can 620 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 2: I believe you said? This is one of the favorite 621 00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 2: things I've ever made. 622 00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:10,840 Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so good. 623 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 2: It was just lunch. She wanted lunch and we were 624 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,200 Speaker 2: gonna have lunch. And we had an option. You could 625 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 2: just heat something up, we could just throw something in. 626 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:23,480 Speaker 2: But I made a shaved Brussels sprout, chicken. 627 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: Rilled chicken, hard boiled egg. It was so good. But 628 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,680 Speaker 1: by the way, I would help, he just won't let me. 629 00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:31,160 Speaker 1: You know, when I say, hey, is there anything I 630 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,400 Speaker 1: can do? Do you know what he says to me, 631 00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 1: just don't make me nervous, and said, so. 632 00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 2: That's our cooking experience, don'ty. We don't cook together, even 633 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,000 Speaker 2: we have parties that we've hosted. Yeah, and I have 634 00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 2: to feed twenty people and I cook every single bite 635 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,880 Speaker 2: of food that is consumed that night. 636 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: And I'm so happy to take the chef hat off 637 00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 1: after like, yes I am. I'm just And by the way, 638 00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: I know when someone's better than. 639 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 2: Me, So just a certain things. 640 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, you're better at preparing meals than me. 641 00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 2: Wow. You made sure you corrected that, didn't you. 642 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, all right, Haley, she asks, it's corny. But 643 00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 3: I want to know. I want to know if y'all 644 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: have a song after episode two. I'd be willing to 645 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 3: bet it's not anything in the yacht rock genre. I 646 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 3: love having you guys back on the air in this new, 647 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 3: awesome capacity. 648 00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 2: Oh thank you, Hailey for that. 649 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: We do have a song. 650 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 2: There's a bunch of songs. Do you want to give 651 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 2: it out? Because we were considering you want to give 652 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 2: it out? 653 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: Okay, fine, okay, Ed Sharon leave your life. 654 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 2: I sent that song to her it was probably last 655 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 2: summer at some point I heard that song and just 656 00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 2: if people are familiar with it, if you're not, go 657 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,320 Speaker 2: listen to it now. But at Sharon, leave your life, 658 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 2: I'm never going to leave your life. 659 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: That's when I knew you love me. 660 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 2: And that's what it was. We have a bunch of 661 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 2: other songs that we crack up about. 662 00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's our song. 663 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,480 Speaker 2: That would be the one that's it. That's so cute. Oh. 664 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:05,240 Speaker 3: Jessica asks, what's your advice for someone who has a 665 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 3: crush on or is falling for their best friend whoa It's. 666 00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: Tough right getting out of the friend zone because we 667 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,399 Speaker 1: valued our friendship so much. That was the scariest thing. 668 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: Do we actually do this and risk losing our best friend? 669 00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 2: We had that conversation. We actually it was more important 670 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:31,640 Speaker 2: that we stayed friends than it was to risk and 671 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,399 Speaker 2: trying a relationship. 672 00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: There really was the advice I would say, ugh, is 673 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,800 Speaker 1: make sure the other one feels the same way about 674 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 1: you before you. 675 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 2: Say see no, no, no, no, no, okay, okay, Well was 676 00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 2: it Haley? That is a typical her answer. This is 677 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 2: where we are different because I would give different advice. 678 00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 2: She would and I absolutely you would hold on to 679 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,720 Speaker 2: and make sure you didn't put yourself out there without 680 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:01,720 Speaker 2: knowing it's going to absolute be reciprocated because you couldn't 681 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 2: stand the rejection of the humiliation. Is that fair to say? 682 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,440 Speaker 1: Yes? But I also didn't want to make it weird too. Yes. Correct. 683 00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:10,640 Speaker 1: I fully admit that. Okay, fully admit that. 684 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,440 Speaker 2: So I and I'm on the other side of that 685 00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:16,839 Speaker 2: in that I ain't got I'm a grown ass man. 686 00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,320 Speaker 2: Why am I handing a note like I'm in third grade? 687 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 2: Do you like me? Check yes or no? No, I'm 688 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,799 Speaker 2: a grown man. If you don't feel the same way, 689 00:35:25,840 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 2: why am I sitting? I can't hold it to myself? 690 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 2: Life is short. You talked about this, so life, Haley, 691 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 2: you go for it. If this is what you feel 692 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 2: that person, you could lose them tomorrow and you will 693 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,919 Speaker 2: never They will never know how you felt about them 694 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,160 Speaker 2: if they reciprocate. Fine, but how are you ever going 695 00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:45,320 Speaker 2: to know unless you speak? 696 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 1: You go for it. You were really good. I remember 697 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,399 Speaker 1: the conversation now, and you were just like, look, I'm 698 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,279 Speaker 1: feeling this way. If you don't feel the same way, 699 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: that's fine. But here's what I'm feeling and it took 700 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: someone to make a bold move and it wasn't me. 701 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:08,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, like in the kitchen, I'm chadding and I'm chadding. 702 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 2: I'm kidding, I'm kidding, But that was So what would 703 00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:14,680 Speaker 2: you tell Hayley? No, make sure the other person feels 704 00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: the same? How are you gonna find out? You're almost 705 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 2: embarrassed by the advice? But I don't know. 706 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: It's scary, it's a I'm just acknowledging. I'm validating how 707 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 1: she's feeling because it's scary. It's very scary, and you 708 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: don't want to lose the friendship, Okay, but you. 709 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 2: Don't also want to lose the opportunity. And life is 710 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:37,440 Speaker 2: fricking short. Go for it now. If you're not hurting 711 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 2: yourself or hurting somebody else, then I am fully endorsing 712 00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 2: whatever it is you may want to do. That's what's 713 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,200 Speaker 2: the worst that can happen? They say, I don't feel 714 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 2: the same, So what's the best that can happen? And 715 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 2: that Michael Singer we always talk about all the time. 716 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 2: He always tells people, all right, we always sit up 717 00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 2: all day long and think about what could go wrong, 718 00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:58,839 Speaker 2: worst case scenario. We don't ever think about the best 719 00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:03,279 Speaker 2: case scenario. Haley's going to write in next week and say, hey, Jerks, 720 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:13,480 Speaker 2: so I took your advice. He moved all right. 721 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:16,200 Speaker 3: This next question comes from Kyle. He asks, if you 722 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,080 Speaker 3: guys were asked to be on Dancing with the Stars, 723 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:18,960 Speaker 3: would you accept them? 724 00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:19,120 Speaker 1: No? 725 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 2: Okay, no, next question, do we. 726 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,040 Speaker 1: Want to talk about rhythm? No, we can do that later. 727 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 3: Okay, new way, all right, so no Dancing with the Stars. 728 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,319 Speaker 3: Jenny asks what got you through this last year and 729 00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,399 Speaker 3: if anything, what would you have maybe done a little 730 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 3: bit differently. 731 00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 2: The past year. I think each other. I don't think 732 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,879 Speaker 2: there's any question about that. We Yeah, we we had 733 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 2: each other and it was it meant everything, and there 734 00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 2: was I guess easily we could have broken down in 735 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 2: a whole bunch of moments, but we got better and stronger. 736 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:57,880 Speaker 2: And I think we've said it before. I shout her 737 00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,040 Speaker 2: to think if we didn't have each other through this all, 738 00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 2: and so I think. 739 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 1: That was There's no question. Some people might call it 740 00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:11,719 Speaker 1: trauma bonding, but I would actually say we did lean 741 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 1: on each other in such a beautiful way, and I 742 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,080 Speaker 1: actually feel like it was d that we were both 743 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,799 Speaker 1: really low. If you were low, I was up. If 744 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 1: I was low, you were up. And we really did 745 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: just lift each other back up. We just happened to 746 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 1: not be in sync when it came to those low moments, 747 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 1: which was a good thing. And I cannot imagine going 748 00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:40,080 Speaker 1: through something like this alone. And yeah, we got stronger, better, deeper. 749 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 2: And you said that was the last part of that question. 750 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,640 Speaker 3: What was the what would you have done differently? 751 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 2: Definitely differently this past year? Again, it's the past year 752 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,239 Speaker 2: is one thing. I think it's just initial. It was 753 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 2: just an initial letting our families, our kids know what 754 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 2: was going on. I think we that's the thing we 755 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,759 Speaker 2: go back to. I can't. It's still difficult to what 756 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,080 Speaker 2: I would have done differently. It's so easy to go 757 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,879 Speaker 2: back right in hindsight and do it. But every time, 758 00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,960 Speaker 2: like I'm sitting here in this room with Emma and 759 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:12,439 Speaker 2: Andy in the Ourheart studio with a woman I love 760 00:39:12,560 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 2: talking openly about wanting to marry her that I feel 761 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 2: great about doing that, if anything had been done differently, 762 00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 2: maybe who knows how it would have ended up. So 763 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 2: it's hard to go back and have regret. I just 764 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 2: I think that's all just being more open to the 765 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 2: kids about it and being more open, I guess publicly, 766 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 2: but still it's hard to put myself in the mindset 767 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 2: that I need to tell the world that I'm getting 768 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 2: a divorce. It's just it's tough to do that. But 769 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 2: I guess those were the things to do differently. 770 00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:47,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I agree with everything you're saying. Transparency would 771 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,160 Speaker 1: have been better for us getting through the year, But 772 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,840 Speaker 1: once we were in the thick of it, I don't 773 00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 1: know what else we could have done. And I'm actually 774 00:39:56,680 --> 00:40:01,040 Speaker 1: proud that we didn't speak. I'm actually happy and really 775 00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 1: okay with the fact that we laid low and took 776 00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: our time to process what was going on and to 777 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 1: try and help heal our families. I definitely believe that 778 00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:13,880 Speaker 1: was the right thing to do. We wanted to speak, 779 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,919 Speaker 1: we wanted to clap back, we wanted to say that's 780 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 1: not right, that's not true, and it was frustrating not 781 00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,319 Speaker 1: to be able to do so. But I still stand 782 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,800 Speaker 1: by our decision to be quiet and to let things settle. 783 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,479 Speaker 1: But it was tough.