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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update? You know how many girls

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Speaker 1: that I went to high school with refer to me

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Speaker 1: as the one that got away? Too many to count yep,

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Speaker 1: I can't even count how many girls refer to me?

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Speaker 1: Is that I can't really count anyway, But that's beside

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Speaker 1: the facts. And Casey, who's on the phone with us

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Speaker 1: right now, had a chance with her high school crush

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Speaker 1: and I'm guessing it didn't go very well because she's

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Speaker 1: calling in for a second date update. What's up, Casey?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Do well? I'm okay. Your email

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Speaker 1: said that you got a chance with your high school crush. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Like he was, you know, on the football team and

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Speaker 1: really hot and really cool all the same time. Kind

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Speaker 1: of works that way. What's his name? His name's Zach, Zach.

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Speaker 1: I see he even held a cool name. You guys.

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Speaker 1: It was terrible and I had this super big crush

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Speaker 1: on him all through high school. But I was super

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Speaker 1: shy and nerdy and you know, not the best stressor

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, and like nothing ever happened in

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Speaker 1: high school. Was it one of those things where he

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Speaker 1: never even noticed you in high school? Or did you

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Speaker 1: guys actually have like a friendly relationship. I don't think

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Speaker 1: he even knew my name. I think he might like

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Speaker 1: know me on site. All right, kind of a one

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Speaker 1: sided thing. How long ago was high school? We graduated

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Speaker 1: about six years ago? Okay, all right, how did you

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Speaker 1: guys run into each other again? I see him every

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Speaker 1: once in a while around town, Like we've actually bumped

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Speaker 1: into each other a couple times. But like that creepy

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Speaker 1: thing where like I'm in a coffee shop and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know him. I should not go, say high

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Speaker 1: remember me from high school? No, yeah, I don't remember

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Speaker 1: you at all from high school, but like creeper thing.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, no, that's not me. But like we're friends

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Speaker 1: high school on Facebook? Book is how that goes? So

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Speaker 1: like I've kind of like, no, he's around, okay, so

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Speaker 1: how'd you run into him? Then? Like, how did you

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Speaker 1: guys strike up something that's leading to a second date?

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Speaker 1: It was really super random. I was out with some friends.

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Speaker 1: We were kind of just having a bar hopping kind

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Speaker 1: at a bar, and I was like, oh, in my brain,

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, it's back. How funny. We're at

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Speaker 1: the same bar. And he totally came up to me

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, amazing he knew your name.

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Speaker 1: I know, all right, it's got to be exciting. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, girls, Yeah, do you still have butterflies when

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Speaker 1: you see this guy? Even though it's been six years.

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Speaker 1: It is so dumb, right, Like I have been to college,

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Speaker 1: I have met other people, stuff that's happened, like I

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Speaker 1: have transformed, and I still I'm totally like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: this guy is so cool and so hot. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: Facebook and they had like really downgraded. You're like, oh

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Speaker 1: this guy hasn't lost his swag. No, ZAC still got

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Speaker 1: it going on. It's still working. So he did he

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Speaker 1: ask you out right on the spot. Oh. We were

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Speaker 1: It was ridiculous, all right, it was really really good.

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling really I'm feeling like, you know, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: the date. So this is where it takes a turn.

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Speaker 1: We were chatting and he's like, oh, I'm going to

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, sure, no problem, got this. He still smokes.

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Speaker 1: He is the coolest, So it's kind of horrible but

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Speaker 1: So my girlfriends were like, let's go to different bar.

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Speaker 1: so you went and met him at his place? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and we had some wine and it got later and yeah,

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Speaker 1: so what did you go? As according as planned? Like

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Speaker 1: morning after? Well, because I wasn't super sure and I

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Speaker 1: a Hey, that was super fun, Let's do it again.

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Speaker 1: Note on his bridge, Really, why did you do that?

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Speaker 1: Because it was a little bit like Cinderella waking up

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Speaker 1: after the night of the ball and she's back in

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Speaker 1: her like, you know, horrible ratty clothes, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: him to see me like this. All right, So you

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Speaker 1: left him a note? Did he hit you up? I

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Speaker 1: have heard nothing nothing from that name. But crickets, have

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Speaker 1: you tried texting him? I sent one text like hey,

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Speaker 1: she got my note, and he didn't even respond. Simpson.

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Speaker 1: I have been like, oh, you are a dumb girl. Hey,

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Speaker 1: not really. You got to enjoy it one night stand

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Speaker 1: this man for years. We're talking like going on ten.

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Speaker 1: So you did at least like a sober do over here.

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Speaker 1: brooking jubil in the morning. Second update. Today's second date

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Speaker 1: update can only be wrapped up by a reading from

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Speaker 1: one of the greatest poets of our time, Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 1: She wears short skirts, I wear T shirts. She's cheer

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Speaker 1: captain and I'm on the bleachers dreaming about the day

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Speaker 1: when you wake up and find that's what you're looking for.

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Speaker 1: Has been here the whole time. Thank you very much

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Speaker 1: to the heart. Talking about Casey, who is on the

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Speaker 1: did I read a poem from Taylor Swift's song? Well,

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Speaker 1: because she actually reconnected with her crush from high school.

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Speaker 1: The guy didn't really know she existed in high school,

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Speaker 1: but they met at a bar ended up exchanging numbers

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Speaker 1: So we're about to call him. Get him on the

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Speaker 1: Casey that you just don't want to leave this one alone?

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Speaker 1: to my high school Crowking. Did you check his breathing

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Speaker 1: That's he's a live. Don't say that. Don't even say that.

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Speaker 1: Can I speak to Zach please? Zach? Hey, Zach? What's up?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Man? This is Jewil from Brook and

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Speaker 1: speeds too wild for you. Huh. You're the one I

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Speaker 1: don't know, aren't you? The one that Booty called her

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Speaker 1: like an hour later and asked her to come over. Well,

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Speaker 1: like because I hooked up with her last night. What Wait,

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Speaker 1: bounced on your homeboy to go over to your house? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: just that's what you mean by a little too fast

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Speaker 1: what I should tell you, Zach, what that she's been

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Speaker 1: Well that's part wasn't important, Yeah, the important part of

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Speaker 1: I've said that before too, Casey, and it wasn't true. No,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing, Zach. If she didn't know that you

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Speaker 1: I tried to help you out. Hey, Zach, I'd love

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