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Speaker 1: My husband moved his siblings into our house without telling me.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's tough.

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Speaker 3: You just have new siblings. Now, that's all it means.

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for five years.

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Speaker 1: For some context, his siblings, twins, a male and female

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Speaker 1: early twenties, are underdeveloped physically and mentally. They can take

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Speaker 1: care of themselves as far as wiping themselves, going to

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Speaker 1: having brittle and fragile bones, and combined with their mental

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Speaker 1: maturity which is similar to that to a twelve to

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Speaker 1: for assisted with going upstairs, moving around for long distances,

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Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera. By the way, this comes from

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Speaker 1: Throwaway falling two through two on the R sized Okay,

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Speaker 1: story time, sep reread it. So they can't take care

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Speaker 1: of themselves financially because of all of this. All of

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Speaker 1: this I knew while we were dating, but they were

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Speaker 1: cared for by a team of nurses and caregivers.

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Speaker 2: At the time, not in our home or distinction. I

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Speaker 2: see you in foreshadowing.

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Speaker 1: That's that that is a huge responsibility, which it seems

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Speaker 1: so far Opie did.

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Speaker 2: Not sign up for not Yeah, it did not co

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Speaker 2: sign this.

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Speaker 1: But a few months ago the team was all fired.

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Speaker 1: My husband told me that he was planning to move

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Speaker 1: them in, and about a week or so later, they

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Speaker 1: moved in along with a new team.

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Speaker 2: It's not just the twins, it's a whole team.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you replaced one problem. Now there's a new problem,

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Speaker 3: which is we have a team living in the house.

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Speaker 2: Oh hi, hi, set sale, set sale. I had no

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Speaker 2: say or even much of a heads up about any

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Speaker 2: of it. Yeah, but basically like a week and then

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Speaker 2: they're like, oh, they're moving in, and then a week

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Speaker 2: later they're there.

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Speaker 1: The house suddenly became full of staff. Someone was always there.

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Speaker 1: Our privacy was basically snatched away my husband and who

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Speaker 1: already has a busy schedule. He's a doctor on call

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Speaker 1: time to ourselves. I'm competing with everything and everyone. We

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Speaker 1: were about to start a family, now that we were

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Speaker 1: all settled, things were good between us, but now everything

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Speaker 1: has been thrown into chaos and I don't know how

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Speaker 1: to feel. I feel almost a sense of grief. I

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Speaker 1: feel like I have no control over everything, and I

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Speaker 1: feel like he just threw away our future in plans.

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Speaker 1: As cruel as that may sound, we had to talk

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Speaker 1: about everything.

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Speaker 2: We had to talk and everything was pointing towards a divorce.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel so bitter. I feel like he's

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Speaker 2: giving up. He feels like I'm not being thoughtful enough.

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Speaker 2: I love him more than anything and want to salvage

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Speaker 2: our marriage if I can before I make any snap decisions.

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Speaker 2: Any advice is appreciated. We haven't edit coming up, but

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Speaker 2: we have to talk. Yeah, that's let's talk. That's a

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Speaker 1: What do you do it? Basically, my understanding tell me

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Speaker 1: we're going to have the twins move in at undisclosed time,

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Speaker 1: and then a week later it was just like everyone's

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Speaker 3: I mean I think it was she was aware of, like, yes,

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Speaker 3: and it was right. He didn't really tell her about that,

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Speaker 3: but it was like, this is this has to happen there,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't I'm not sure what situation.

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Speaker 1: They were confusing, but they lost. The original team is

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Speaker 2: That's all we know.

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Speaker 3: And so now they're living there and now I guess

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Speaker 3: they have a new team, which I want to say,

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Speaker 3: like w like brother for like really going out like beyond.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, it's like to put that

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Speaker 2: But same thing.

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Speaker 2: It's like like he had.

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Speaker 3: A life with these people before he even knew you,

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Speaker 3: Like he his family of twenty years and it's like,

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Speaker 3: you know, and they do have special needs, but it's

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Speaker 3: like that doesn't make op see them as any less

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Speaker 2: Right, Uh it is husband. It is husband.

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Speaker 1: And Opie didn't say this explicitly, but it's like, uh,

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Speaker 1: but you know, springing. The biggest thing here is like

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Speaker 1: Opie didn't even know when they were moving in. And

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Speaker 3: Some level of conversation, yeah, like a level of agreement, right,

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Speaker 3: it can't just like completely like blind like yeah, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like.

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Speaker 3: I mean, surprise. It sounds like everyone sucks here right now, guys. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's giving, it's giving.

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Speaker 2: Everyone sucks, although I think the op sucks a little

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Speaker 3: But it I don't know, it's it's just doing fair.

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Speaker 3: It's unfair for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I think, like I mean to your point,

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Speaker 3: Least like find a path like to where this isn't

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Speaker 3: It's like moving them into another like air facility or

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Speaker 2: We deal with divorce enough, that's my question. What are

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Speaker 3: I mean, like from Ope's perspective, I think instead of

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, all right, this is what like caring

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Speaker 1: Like I don't want to do that, could it be

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Speaker 3: And did was it Opie or the husband who was

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Speaker 2: Thought? They're the thought?

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Speaker 1: Seems like it seems like Ope, they're both kind of

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Speaker 3: Because that's the only thing I would say that makes

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Speaker 3: is if she was the one like pushing for a divorce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm saying nah right now because I

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and of course this is a workable problem.

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Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, yeah, we need at least need to

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Speaker 2: So edit.

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Speaker 1: Also, I should say his parents are estranged. I've never

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Speaker 2: To heart about everything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, good, yes, good, good good. We discussed the main

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Speaker 1: He told me that while he loves me more than anything,

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Speaker 3: So we got that's exactly we got W brother, el husband. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's tough. It's tough, dude. Ouch.

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Speaker 1: He told me that he couldn't handle anything else happening,

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Speaker 1: I have for this whole situation, I've realized some things.

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Speaker 1: He might have acted selfishly at first even if it

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Speaker 2: Oop. Uh, John's messing up the reading. Everybody in the stream,

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Speaker 2: Saint John messed up the reading. Don't don't attack him.

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Speaker 2: Don't do that, dude. Everybody has to love everybody. Come

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Speaker 1: Yes, So he might have acted selfishly at first, even

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Speaker 1: if it was understandable, But my reaction could have been better.

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Speaker 1: I admit he was breaking down right in front of me,

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Speaker 1: his parents were truly awful people. Their neglect caused the

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Speaker 1: undeveloped slash slash regressed state of the twins in the

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Speaker 2: Oh, that is bad.

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Speaker 3: That is a huge extra layer on top of this

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Speaker 3: reasoning coming from Op's husband, like he feels.

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Speaker 2: Like a duty to take care of his Yeah, his sibling, and.

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Speaker 1: If he hadn't taken care of them while they were small,

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Speaker 2: So it sounds like, uh, the husband is there like

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Speaker 2: So glad they actually talked. Yeah, thank god.

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Speaker 1: This story, our content when you tap our profile to

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Speaker 1: Thank you everyone. I'm logging out of his account now.

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Speaker 1: I appreciated some of the advice more than others. But

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Speaker 1: We both know where the other stands and what we've

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Speaker 1: I think it started off in a state of complete disarray,

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Same, I like this communication. That's what it is.

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Speaker 2: A key on. Oh look at him. Go everybody clap

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Speaker 1: You know what else is in the chat? Donations? You

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Speaker 3: We got five dollars donation from Mariah from Alaska. Nice

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Speaker 3: like the stream or else I'll sick my pet polar

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Speaker 2: I don't want that.

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Speaker 3: We nobody wants that. Nobody wants that. Nope, So if

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Speaker 2: It's time to like the stream. Come on from Thieve Guild.

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Speaker 3: That she's probably gonna thieve Guild her way back into

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Speaker 2: Love you, guys, We love you too.

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Speaker 1: Thief Guild Princess, Welcome to the stream. Family, Welcome, Welcome.

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Speaker 2: I love the Thieves Guild. It's my favorite playthrough, Corina,

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Speaker 2: I know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Uh, Skyrid John, you know being birthed by two years,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you were brothers. Brothers. Oh oh, I see what

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Speaker 2: We're the oldest ones here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the brotherhood. Listen, Riley's gone. Okay, we

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Speaker 3: My hardened skin, my scales. Yeah, I'm so old now

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Speaker 2: That's what happens. We all have it, and we need

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Speaker 2: super chats, Carino Winds, Welcome to the nights, Cushing, Cushing.

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Speaker 2: You can also probably command minus it a few.

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Speaker 5: It's for your eyes.

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Speaker 2: a little smaller. No, you asked for this, you get big.

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Speaker 3: Well, then here Johnny, I take it away with the

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Speaker 2: Making it up as I go. Thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 2: I wonder what would happen if everyone in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Donated five dollars hashtag ten hour stream That is how

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Speaker 2: That is probably what would happen. More time would be added.

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Speaker 2: Come on now, age of persuasions. Thanks for the two dollars.

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Speaker 2: We missed a mine and Josephe's donuts yesterday. Also, so sorry.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's go Tina and thanks for to Tim Buceron.

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Speaker 2: He's on tiplink, Dakota. I made you an emoji and

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Speaker 1: Discord copies last art key on my man? Are you

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Speaker 1: ready for your final test?

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Speaker 2: No? Phone is still on the charger in Riley's bathroom here.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, boy, I want to go into that discord and

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Speaker 2: you need to know my age?

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00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,880
Speaker 3: They want to know how old were you born?

442
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: What time was I? Sorry? Are you trying to date me?

443
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: I know you're astrology chart?

444
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 5: I was born? I think I was on the dot

445
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:23,960
Speaker 5: at like eleven am. Whoa, it's time to be on

446
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 5: the dot baby. Heck yeah, I'm on the dot baby.

447
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:29,880
Speaker 2: Oh, Martin just donated five bucks on the tip link

448
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 2: here take my money. Sure I am older than John,

449
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 2: that's right? What was It's like literally a month or whatever, right,

450
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,399
Speaker 2: a couple months. I think it's like a couple of months.

451
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 2: That makes me old. Your old room, you're old. We're

452
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: all together else to me, Yes, I'm the elder. The

453
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 2: elders have the elders, the elders right, Oh my god,

454
00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 2: I'm an elder. That kind of the elder scrolls. We

455
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 2: are the elder scrolls.

456
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Speaker 1: Yeah, mess with us, we will turn you into dust.

457
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: Wait, we're dust.

458
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 3: Mess with us and get dusty exactly.

459
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,119
Speaker 2: We know how, we know how it works.

460
00:23:08,119 --> 00:23:11,479
Speaker 1: And then, oh don't know from yesterday, doctor Jeco and

461
00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: mister Fry.

462
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Speaker 2: Thanks for the two bucks. I think that was me

463
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: and me and the Rile Star, doctor Jeka and mister Fry.

464
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 2: I think so. I think that's what it was. You

465
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,439
Speaker 2: did you get o Martin? Oh Martin, I did. We

466
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,160
Speaker 2: did take your money.

467
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Speaker 5: Thanks, thanks for your money for the old folks.

468
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Speaker 2: I guess we will.

469
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Speaker 1: I think that's it. On the Donos. Let's pull up

470
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Speaker 1: the next episode.

471
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Speaker 2: And this is the new one.

472
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Speaker 3: I will as soon as I can, I will see that.

473
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Speaker 3: I will check on the emoji. I'm sure it's fantastic.

474
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Speaker 2: I have I have lots of faith. Gosh, darn it.

475
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: The tape is in my way from ah.

476
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Speaker 5: We Another tip before we go into the store.

477
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Speaker 3: From Black Magic, tip five dollars late because work ran late.

478
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Speaker 3: Everyone donate five dollars so we can hang out all night.

479
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: You heard her, folks, you heard her.

480
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 1: There's something about when we come on that the people

481
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: really start for you, the people our stream. Well, hey,

482
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,200
Speaker 1: it's up to you. Like my middle school principle said,

483
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:24,160
Speaker 1: the choice is yours.

484
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 2: All right, John, are you ready? I am all right.

485
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:33,159
Speaker 2: Let's do it. Chat are you are you ready? Crickets cool,

486
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 2: speak up, guys, Okay, win, let's do it. All right.

487
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Speaker 1: My mom and grandma came to my wedding sick. Now

488
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: one third of my guests have the VID. Oh I

489
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: wonder why row Well. Apologies in advance for a long post.

490
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: I am really struggling emotionally to process and move past

491
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: the events of the last one point five weeks surrounding

492
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: our wedding on October fifth. Not sure what I'm looking

493
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: for other than a platform to get this all out there,

494
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 1: because it's weighing really heavily on me, and my heart

495
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 1: is broken by the way. This comes from Humble Donut

496
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: thirty nine on our sets. Okay, short time, sup about it?

497
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 1: So we just got back from our honeymoon in Mexico,

498
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: which we spent a year saving for and was ruined

499
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 1: by a by testing positive for the nasty old VID

500
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 1: while on the trip. As a result of decisions made

501
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,919
Speaker 1: by my mom and grandma, which I will detail below,

502
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 1: about a year ago, my maternal grandmother asked her cousin

503
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: to officiate our wedding without asking me first.

504
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 3: When is it with these people and just taking.

505
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 2: Over other people's weddings? Come? People love control.

506
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: I feel like it's because it's like the most special

507
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: day that means the most, which means it'll.

508
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 2: It's like the most like exertion of control. Just you

509
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I have a conversation people.

510
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 5: It's because everyone's there and they're like, you know what,

511
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 5: this is the perfect time to do it.

512
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,199
Speaker 1: I get to I get to force my will on

513
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Speaker 1: everyone at once. It's like it's like two for one,

514
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: how about one hundred for one? Greatest deal in the

515
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: century for my manipulation. Make it the biggest day for everybody.

516
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,439
Speaker 1: So about a year ago, about a year ago, my

517
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: marital grandmother asked her cousin to officiate our wedding without

518
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: even acting, without even asking me first. This was someone

519
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:22,120
Speaker 1: with whom I had no relationship and had only met

520
00:26:22,160 --> 00:26:25,160
Speaker 1: once prior. I had no desire for him to officiate

521
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: our wedding, but went along with it because in our family,

522
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 1: grandma gets what Grandma wants or there's hell to pay.

523
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 1: In fact, if you cross her, she will cry in

524
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,719
Speaker 1: her room, post something nasty about you on Facebook, and

525
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:44,240
Speaker 1: then write you off until you apologize if you've done nothing,

526
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: even if you've done nothing wrong, this is.

527
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Speaker 3: Little gremlin Grandma in her room night, She's like, never.

528
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Speaker 2: Teach you to talk to Well, you guys, proud of yourselves.

529
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: It's a god. Well you know what. I'm proud of

530
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 2: you both too. Goblins.

531
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Speaker 3: That's our new group name, Yeah, Goblin the other scrolls

532
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 3: for the Goblin grands.

533
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 2: Yeah.

534
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 1: Let's go fast forward to one week before our wedding.

535
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: We learned that the cousin slash are officiant and his

536
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: wife had been exposed to the VID and they were

537
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: on their way to Grandma's house to stay for the

538
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 1: week leading up to the wedding.

539
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: Why that's just not what you do when it happens.

540
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:36,359
Speaker 1: My out of state parents and brother were staying there

541
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 1: as well, and my dad and brother made the decision

542
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: to get out of there to avoid getting sick and

543
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: came to stay with fiance and me. Oh man, dude,

544
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 1: this is it sounds like that was not what Opie wanted.

545
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, God, I gotta agree, right. We all voice

546
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 2: our conferns.

547
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,399
Speaker 1: We all voiced our concerns and made it clear to

548
00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 1: my mom and grandma that it was a bad idea

549
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: to host people who had exposure a few days before

550
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: our wedding, and were met with the most pathetic display

551
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:12,199
Speaker 1: of immaturity and selfishness by my grandmother and mom. My

552
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: grandma started crying and saying they would all boycott our

553
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 1: wedding if we were that worried about it.

554
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 2: What what see ya? Go ahead?

555
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 1: Do you want me to make the picket sign for you.

556
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 3: I'll set you up in a really nice spot outside

557
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 3: across from the church, and you guys can just hang

558
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:34,959
Speaker 3: out out there with your nice little picket fen signs.

559
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: Oh he is in there. Uh, they don't want the cousin.

560
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 3: It's unfair we allowed to spread COVID.

561
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 2: Let us do it. I'm Grady's not being such a COVID.

562
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: Let us spread COVID. I'm grady goblin, give me what

563
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,880
Speaker 2: way one. My grandma started crying and saying they'd all

564
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 2: started boycotting our wedding if we were that worried about it,

565
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 2: which in twenty twenty four is just a cold absolutely

566
00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: zero attempt was made to acknowledge our concerns about public

567
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: health at our own event. For some additional backstory, my

568
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: maternal grandmother has always acted this way, and all four

569
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 2: of her children blindly give in to her antics, but

570
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,120
Speaker 2: especially my mom, and all of them have displayed an

571
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 2: extremely frustrating denial of science, which has gotten worse with

572
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 2: the political conflicts swirling in the family with the upcoming election.

573
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 2: Oh it is just oh boy, perfect recipe of a disaster.

574
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: We'll just make this, you know, real fun. Yeah, yeah,

575
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 2: so great. Let's get them all in one place, shall we. Yeah,

576
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: and tarts with one stone. Let's do this one boulder.

577
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,400
Speaker 1: Wait a second, now we're thinking here, yeah, graany go

578
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: with COVID cousin?

579
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Anyways, my family and I insisted that both.

580
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,800
Speaker 1: Our officiant and his wife take a rapid test before

581
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: we would allow them to come to the wedding, which

582
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:04,000
Speaker 1: that alone is like is more gracious, I think than

583
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: they even need to do, like they have with full writers,

584
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: to be like, no, you're you're not.

585
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 2: Coming in, let's go. You know who is coming in? Chris, Chris.

586
00:30:15,640 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 1: I want to see hats and the tinfoil flooding the

587
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: chat because Chris tinfoil hat is back at that with

588
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: twenty gifted memberships right at tat tat Wow. I mean, guys,

589
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: twenty twenty new people that the family. The family is

590
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: we just.

591
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 5: Said twenty birds with one boulder, and that's the boulder.

592
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 2: Who there it is? Okay, no strict Channis, pretty good, right, nor.

593
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 5: Respect your elders. Wait, you're the youngest one here. How

594
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 5: does it feel?

595
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:54,959
Speaker 6: Oh?

596
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 2: I clucked something red flag or grief like you're the

597
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 2: youngest one here. I am a red flag?

598
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 3: You youngsters?

599
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: You know me so bit a bit of it.

600
00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 1: So I contacted the venue and had a backup officiant

601
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: all lined up. I personally gave my mom two rapid

602
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,360
Speaker 1: tests and asked her to make sure both the officiant

603
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: and his wife tested negative. On Friday morning, I believe

604
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: that the new one oh oh sorry, the current ones

605
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: rather the day of the rehearsal dinner, my mom texted

606
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: me the lepers are clean, and I called her to ask,

607
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: point blank, Mom, do you swear that both our officiant

608
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 1: and his wife had tested negative?

609
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 2: And she swore to me that they had.

610
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: So I called the venue, canceled the backup officiant, and

611
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: we went ahead with the wedding weekend.

612
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,760
Speaker 3: Oh N, I gotta say, though, the lepers are clean

613
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 3: is one of the funniest ways.

614
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 2: That's really fun. That's kind of.

615
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: Funny, funny, funny, Mom, Paul lying or not?

616
00:32:00,480 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 2: Is Mama lying? I say not.

617
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 3: Because I think if they took those rapid tests, it's

618
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 3: like those tests can be wrong all the time.

619
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: Oh that's a good I like that. I like that's

620
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: a good that's a good conspiracy theory. I respect that.

621
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 3: I've had false negative COVID tests before, and it was

622
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 3: from the rapid ones true.

623
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 2: Same, same.

624
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: We've lived it, folks, guys, guys, we've lived it.

625
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: Sam has had it seven times? What seven times? But

626
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 2: what an overachiever. I call him the King of COVID. Yeah,

627
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: he's got it the most of any So vote in

628
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 2: the poll. We're about to check it out.

629
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: But we're gonna keep going now or nar or nor.

630
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: Everything went perfectly. Our wedding was everything I dreamed. The

631
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: only tainted memories I will carry with me forever are

632
00:32:51,520 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: the ones of my grandma acting cold and stand offish

633
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: to me at our rehearsal dinner and the entire wedding

634
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: day because I had the audacity to insult her. I

635
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,480
Speaker 1: will never forget the way she treated me. Fast forward

636
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: to the Monday after the wedding, we were headed to

637
00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 1: the airport and fly to Mexico for our honeymoon, and

638
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,440
Speaker 1: caught wind from my mom that my grandma had come

639
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: down with a cold.

640
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 2: Down with the sickness. Grandma, let your grandma at the floor. Well,

641
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 2: let's see if Granny really does at the floor.

642
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 1: I told her to make sure that she tests for

643
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 1: the vid uh as that would be the obvious assumption

644
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: for anyone with two brain cells count on one, not

645
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: just one, but two.

646
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 2: We landed in Mexico and we were just happy to

647
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: be there to enjoy.

648
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: Then ah helber clues. We found out while in Mexico

649
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 1: that my grandma had hosted my other grandparents' dad's side

650
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: for the dinner the night that we left. While actively

651
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: symptomatic and they were both now testing positive. Then the

652
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: truth slowly started coming to light, and we learned that

653
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: my mom had lied to me about our officiant and

654
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: his wife both testing negative. Only our officiant had tested.

655
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: His wife had the sniffles, and they knew if she

656
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: tested positive, I'd throw a wrench in their plans, so

657
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: they just didn't test her.

658
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Speaker 3: Oh, good old American ingenuity. And when you're like, there's

659
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Speaker 3: this is gonna be a problem and it's gonna affect others.

660
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Speaker 2: What should I do? Nothing, I'll lie. Let me be selfish,

661
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Speaker 2: keep going, yeah, granny, Hey, Granny said? What Granny says?

662
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Speaker 3: Granny goes, Yeah, it's you know, she's a real uh oh,

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Speaker 3: I can't think of any old tiny I had such

664
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Speaker 3: a good old timey like phrase in my head, like

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Speaker 3: a nickname as a firebox?

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Speaker 2: No, what is firecracker? Now? What's a firebox? I don't

667
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Speaker 2: know what you said about granny's box? Whoa what about? Ah?

668
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Speaker 5: What about granny's box being on fire?

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Speaker 3: It's on fire? She came down with something Grandpa's been

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Speaker 3: at the clubs.

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Speaker 1: I got more upset than I've had ever been in

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Speaker 1: my life, and I texted my mom that we were

673
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: feeling completely betrayed, and that at the very least my

674
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: grandma owes an apology to my dad's parents for getting

675
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Speaker 1: them sick. In return, I got a screenshot from my

676
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Speaker 1: brother showing that my grandma had texted him tell.

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Speaker 2: Your sister, why not she can put the shellfish bee

678
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 2: who ruined my honeymoon on my headstone. Wow. Wow Wow.

679
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Speaker 2: I was about to say wow too. I was Wow.

680
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Speaker 2: Dag it we almost I kind of mouthed it. I was,

681
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Speaker 2: We'll get it there, boys, We'll get there one day.

682
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Speaker 2: All in all, twenty.

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Speaker 1: Six people were sick. Dude, more than a third of

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Speaker 1: our guests. Some were severely ill. My dad has it

685
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Speaker 1: the worst. He called me last night to ask uh

686
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 1: to ask how to know it's time to go to

687
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Speaker 1: the hospital.

688
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 2: For labored breathing. Wow.

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00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 1: My mom is denying that she lied. My grandma is

690
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: texting the entire family trying to get them on her side.

691
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: And I'm being told I overreacted and because I'm brainwashed

692
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: by the leftist media, they strike again. They struck again,

693
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Speaker 1: They struck.

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Speaker 3: It was actually the leftist media that infected them all

695
00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 3: with COVID too.

696
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 2: It's that's what that's what they don't want you, dude,

697
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 2: what the hell is a vid? Yeah? Who's Who's co

698
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:50,439
Speaker 2: back in my day? I'll tell you about some videos. Enny,

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Speaker 2: Well don't know. I had a meltdown.

700
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 1: I had a melt down on her honeymoon and just

701
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 1: sobbed on my new husband's lap for an hour. By

702
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 1: the way, you can always sob by tapping our profile

703
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Speaker 1: and joining our live every weekday.

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Speaker 2: At three pm PSD. Just make sure to pack some

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Speaker 2: extra tissues. It'll make us sob you can s Yeah,

706
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 2: they're keons. Whoa Keon alert? He's the one offering Keon's

707
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 2: lap Alert. Once you get on Keon's lap, you can't

708
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Speaker 2: get key off. That's all I'm saying. Now.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to move past this or whether

710
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 1: I ever want to speak to my mom or grandma again.

711
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: I feel like bit aside, they chose to prioritize their

712
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Speaker 1: own experience at the expense of nearly thirty people, including

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Speaker 1: us the wedding couple. I will never forget this portrayal,

714
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: and I just don't know what to do. I'm morning

715
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Speaker 1: the aftermath of my own wedding.

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00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It does suck, but it's like as long as the

718
00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,640
Speaker 3: wedding was not too I mean, it sounds like that

719
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 3: your grandma was like really old and mean on your wedding,

720
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:02,200
Speaker 3: which does suck. But honestly, it sounds like your grandma sucks. Sorry, sorry,

721
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 3: it sounds like you have a sucky grandma. Hey, yo,

722
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 3: I can't relate. I can't relate, could never relate. So

723
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 3: you're saying, grandparent, he's got a firebox and his sucky Dakota,

724
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 3: what are you telling us right now? You and the

725
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 3: grandma's Ah, I'm sorry of any grandparents watching this right now.

726
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,400
Speaker 2: This is why I told you you can't watch. He

727
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: is the oldest. He is the oldest.

728
00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 3: Look I plead the fifth all right, which makes me

729
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 3: sound guilty now exactly exact.

730
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got him, let me, let me hear. I'll

731
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Speaker 1: gump together, I'll dig you out the pet. Yeah, I think. Uh,

732
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: here's the question and what I would love a new

733
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,600
Speaker 1: poll for. Cut them off, cut them off? Yeah, cut

734
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:51,399
Speaker 1: off mom and grandma. Let's talk about the poll.

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Speaker 5: First forty nine of you, Oh that she was lying

736
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Speaker 5: and why the fu lion?

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00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 2: Why you always lying away? While you always lying? That's true?

738
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 2: The lepers? Yeah, who wasn't me, it was the lepers. Also,

739
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 2: it could be it could be like, uh, what do

740
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,279
Speaker 2: you what do you want John for the pull? Oh? Yes,

741
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: oh what was it? Uh? Oh?

742
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: Cut them off or not so basically cut off the

743
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 1: grandma and the mom like all the toxic family or not.

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00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 3: So well, it sounds like the grandma might get cut

745
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:30,839
Speaker 3: off by COVID. Honestly good, she's unfortunate, Like you never

746
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:34,120
Speaker 3: want that. I told you so situation to end with someone.

747
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: Dying is the craziest I told you so.

748
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,920
Speaker 3: Ever, like it's just a cold that's like meanwhile, I

749
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 3: was like on your deathbed and you're just like, it's

750
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,080
Speaker 3: that cold treat. I mean, no one would want to

751
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 3: do that. Yeah, but you see that I told you.

752
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 2: Wanted a good time in Mexico or grandma just wanted

753
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 2: a good time and she guess what she gets.

754
00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 3: Last time when in Mexico wild Box Wardrone.

755
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Speaker 2: I regret so much trying to come up with an

756
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 2: old time. He's saying, Box, you went with Firebox, Bro,

757
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 2: you had anything else like snaggle pace they called it.

758
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 2: I mean I still count Oh I'm shane. They call

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00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: them big bee for a reason, and that folks, is true. Yeah,

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00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 2: oh and one hundred percent of the chat currently we have,

761
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 2: the votes are flooding in. It's going it's going cut

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Speaker 2: them off. I mean, yeah, that's going crazy with the

763
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,240
Speaker 2: votes to say if that's you know, they don't seem

764
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: very supportive. They seem pretty toxic and self centered. It's like,

765
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:40,360
Speaker 2: just enjoy.

766
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 3: Your time with your husband, focused on yourselves, like, focus

767
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 3: on your own family. I come crawling back. They'll try to,

768
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,399
Speaker 3: but yeah, only let.

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Speaker 1: The good ones in understand theth like it's definitely an

770
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Speaker 1: urge to like it just would would would naturally bother anyone,

771
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 1: but just if you can let go.

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Speaker 5: And I guarantee you if someone passed away from the VID,

773
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 5: Grandma wouldn't cheap bike.

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00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: I'm Grandma, you she would offer. You think you look

775
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,879
Speaker 2: at shash and think I'm going down? You think?

776
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,719
Speaker 3: Do you think I should vive the stock market crash

777
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 3: of nineteen whenever?

778
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 2: The first one?

779
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 3: Is it called black Tuesday?

780
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 2: If I could give the big D greaty cancherrive anything. Yeah,

781
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 2: that's thanks John.

782
00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 3: I saw maybe a comment that my mom's in the

783
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 3: stream now, so hey, welcome in, Mom.

784
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 2: Sorry Mom, No, don't be mom. I warned her.

785
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 3: I said, fair warning. If you're in the stream, you're

786
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 3: gonna hear some stuff. You won't lie in fairness. I'm

787
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: going pretty fairal today.

788
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 2: All right, far John has made an appearance, has interedos,

789
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 2: and now we will all live.

790
00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 5: Move on to the next story. But we do have donos.

791
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 5: Oh oh, let's do these guys.

792
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 1: Check it out, Kayler van camp and thanks for the

793
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: five bucks ten hour stream ten hour stream.

794
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 2: I don't know I said that like that.

795
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:15,959
Speaker 1: Brie, thanks for thirty bucks in the total link ten

796
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: hour stream with our nineties kings. That's right, that's us

797
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: and Mama Alli, thanks are the five bucks.

798
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 2: I should be editing VIDs, but I can't stop watching

799
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: ten hour stream. Let's do this people. I love the

800
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 2: irony of she should be editing videos but she is

801
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: watching hours. Yeah.

802
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 3: Hey, you know you can make a video about that.

803
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, apply to our editor team. And then I think

804
00:42:42,600 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: that's oh uh Mariah from Alaska with the five bucks

805
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: the Golden Guys stream. Oh, we're the Golden guys.

806
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 5: No, we're the goblin.

807
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 3: Someone needs to make an edit where it's instead of

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00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 3: the Golden Girls, it's the Golden Guys, and it's all

809
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 3: of us, but then halfway through it changes from the

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Speaker 3: golden guys to the goblin guys.

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Speaker 2: It's all of us going fairal today. I love that.

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00:43:03,960 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 3: Yes, I guess, I guess now that's Josephine's job to do,

813
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,359
Speaker 3: because I think I think she was.

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00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,359
Speaker 2: The ones making. She'd be doing club, she'd be doing

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Speaker 2: some clips. Yeah, there you go, by the way.

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00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:16,840
Speaker 1: Total side note, but that that theme song is a

817
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: banger seeing a friend do.

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00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 2: Do do do? Do do do? Anyways? Uh, it's yeah, I

819
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 2: should stay for that kind of fire anyways, Kelsey Off,

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Speaker 2: thanks for the ten bucks on a hiplank. I love

821
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:31,120
Speaker 2: watching you guys.

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00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: Always a good time and the adrenaline of these stories

823
00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 1: is a perfect discraction from the craziness called my life.

824
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: And I have a real story about my life about

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Speaker 1: something fifty one out of fifty huh, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know how We're awhere to submit it. Go to our

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Speaker 1: subreddit on reddit dot com are slash okay story time,

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00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 1: type it in, I won't check it out.

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Speaker 3: That is right, And fifty one fifty is the involuntary

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Speaker 3: psychiatric call.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, that's what that is. Thank you, full of knowledge,

832
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 2: you full of knowledge. Hey, you know it's me.

833
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 3: I'm full of knowledge, just all a guy the Times

834
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Speaker 3: knowledge knowledge on Py Lopez in my garage with.

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Speaker 2: My all.

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Speaker 1: We read that one chats yeah, I think so, rap

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Speaker 1: Breath the Horizon. Thanks for the two bucks, goodbye, Grandma,

838
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Speaker 1: see you later, and then Megan, Welcome to the Knights,

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Speaker 1: Joining Knights.

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00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 2: Let's freaking go any other super shots. That's really Asian persuasion,

841
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 2: says Dakota. Sounds like the possum from ice Age. He

842
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 2: kind of looks like one of them too. I'm not

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00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:51,319
Speaker 2: gonna lie which that's like the the later ones. That

844
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:52,880
Speaker 2: wasn't an odd one?

845
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 3: That's a third one, isn't there one that's Australian and

846
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 3: wears a bucket hat?

847
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 2: Or am I crazy?

848
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:57,640
Speaker 3: No?

849
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: He wears an iPad? I pat yea yeah that guy?

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00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 2: That guy and so can.

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00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 5: Someone in the discord edit that we're Dakottli So that'd

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Speaker 5: be great.

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00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: With the ones above that. Uh do we do that one?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. Erin O'Dell, thanks for being a

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00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 1: member of two months. Oh wow, two months. I'll reward

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00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: myself with some late night waffles. Okay, story time and

858
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 1: my favorite anime also like the stream. Guys, Wow, we

859
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: are so close.

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Speaker 2: What's your favorite anew? We are? We are thirty eight? No,

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Speaker 2: not even twenty. Don't do math twenty eight. I couldn't

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00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 2: do it either. I was twenty eight likes away from

863
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Speaker 2: a wheel spin. We can pop Keyon's wheel cherry. Let's go, guys,

864
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Speaker 2: let's not do that. We do. I don't think I

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Speaker 2: want to be popped today. You have the power? Or

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Speaker 2: do I pomp it? That is the question. We all

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Speaker 2: know you do? Kean stop it?

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Speaker 1: And I think I saw there might have been another

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Speaker 1: don't know that came in ling Oh No, it's more

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Speaker 1: O there.

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Speaker 2: Sorry. Sebastian Coaching. Thanks Friday fifty five, one hundred CLP.

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Speaker 2: I love these three Musketeers or reading these stories. Guess

873
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: what so do I? We love it? I said it.

874
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 2: I said it, we love it. We love it? And

875
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,800
Speaker 2: then do we read that one Kristin for hat? Do

876
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Speaker 2: you think twenties? And I don't think we got the

877
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 2: one above it? Yes? That is from Timberly Fine. Thanks

878
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 2: for the five bucks five dollars night long? Is that

879
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: supposed to be like to the tune of Oh night long?

880
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 2: Five dollar long? Oh?

881
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,439
Speaker 5: Which is like five dollars long.

882
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, five dollars.

883
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:38,799
Speaker 5: We can't say that. We're not going to say that.

884
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 2: Oh it's the five dollars night long. Oh, but I

885
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: don't even think they do that anymore. I read they don't,

886
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,359
Speaker 2: but I read I read it as the oh night long. Yeah,

887
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 2: not a great song.

888
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,840
Speaker 3: That's right, both got music brands sync up.

889
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Speaker 2: You're anymore anymore super chats? I think we just got

890
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Speaker 2: a let me refresh. Oh, we're gonna hit no refirst

891
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: with that girl magic. Thanks on a five bucks. Oh

892
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 2: my god, another one came on time.

893
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Speaker 1: If you called her more dimples, she wouldn't have to

894
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: show up at work.

895
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 3: I literally called her today and we talked for an

896
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 3: hour and twenty minutes, and she actually said the same thing.

897
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 2: He was like, Oh my god, call me.

898
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 3: I wouldn't have to, you know, bomb you in the chat.

899
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 3: Call you one hundred dollars donation Tuesday.

900
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 2: Dude, it's so funny. I was like. I told her.

901
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 3: I was like, next time, just donate the dollars and

902
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:35,479
Speaker 3: then like just say that you put the other ninety

903
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 3: nine in my bank account, right, that'd be final.

904
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Speaker 2: It, mom Ellie, Thanks on the five bucks.

905
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: My only qualification for editing is that I can't afford

906
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 1: to pay someone else to do it. You don't want

907
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 1: me on your team, fair enough, but we'll have you

908
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 1: in chat.

909
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,400
Speaker 2: And our hearts. That's right right here. It was there

910
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: one blow that black girl magic as well.

911
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: Uh Megan Morales thinking of a five buck tip, longtime

912
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: worker listener, first time, don't it.

913
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 2: Let's freaking go.

914
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 1: Thank you for getting me through my first year of

915
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,760
Speaker 1: motherhood with all the stories and laughs.

916
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 2: Love y'all, Hey, we love it that too.

917
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: And then Cowboy is God, Dakota's mom and family. We

918
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: love his hat. Dakota's family. Anyone in the chat. Let

919
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: it be known we approve of his hat proof. But

920
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 1: you know we can do some hat, we can do

921
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 1: some hair, we can we can.

922
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: Do it all. Sure, you know you know what, Just

923
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 2: for Cowbot, the hat stays on, staying hat staying on.

924
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 3: I was gonna take it off. Now we keep it on.

925
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 1: Animal and Alyssa, thanks for joining our gifting a membership,

926
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: growing the family. We love to see you with that.

927
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. Before anything Hell's happens, Dakota, please do

928
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:41,479
Speaker 1: the honor.

929
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:45,839
Speaker 3: Let's get into this next story, Hold on after kean.

930
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:51,440
Speaker 2: All lined up? Hold of wait, wait, wait a minute

931
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 2: it let it go for fourteen likes. Yeah, guys, you

932
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 2: are wax and we gave a wheel span the Golden Boys.

933
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: We're the Golden Boys. Yeah right are we? Well? Okay?

934
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, my brother and his wife always leave important events early,

935
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 3: so I stopped inviting them all together.

936
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: Makes sense and me, we'll see about that. Hello.

937
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:21,839
Speaker 3: I am sorry for the long post, but there's a

938
00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 3: lot of background information that is necessary. I thirty seven female,

939
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:28,759
Speaker 3: am taking a lot of flak from my brother and

940
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 3: other family members for not including my sister in law,

941
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 3: Jennifer thirty four female, in any family events that my

942
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 3: husband and I host. I am upset because I feel

943
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 3: like I shouldn't invite people who clearly don't care or

944
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:46,799
Speaker 3: want to be there any It's fair. By the way,

945
00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 3: This comes from user little blue Sky eighty seven on

946
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 3: the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So fake names out

947
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 3: of respect for my mother who as for some anonymity.

948
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 2: I don't respect your mother.

949
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:02,880
Speaker 3: John doesn't respect anyone's mother, nor does he respect their

950
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 3: grandparents or their.

951
00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: I respect your mother with their boxes immensely.

952
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 5: I respect your mother John for having you just cooking

953
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Speaker 5: in there.

954
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Speaker 2: Thank you. She cooked for list fifteen months. I was,

955
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Speaker 2: I was, I was overdone.

956
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 5: Came out a little well done.

957
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 3: You came out wearing glasses already. You went to the apologist.

958
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 3: I don't know what else to tell you, okay.

959
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 2: Uh.

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00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 3: Firstly, I'd like to give some context on the dynamic

961
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 3: of my family. I come from a huge family. My

962
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 3: mom is the oldest of six siblings who all have

963
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 3: three plus kids, and my dad is the youngest son

964
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 3: of ten siblings who all also have between two and

965
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:53,840
Speaker 3: six kids themselves. That is a lot of family.

966
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 2: I can't even keep track of the math. I just

967
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: read it. That is just a lot same I.

968
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 3: I have one set of living grandparents on dad's side,

969
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 3: and lots of great aunties and uncles still alive on

970
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,400
Speaker 3: my mom's side. I myself am the oldest of nine,

971
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:13,960
Speaker 3: and we are all approximately ten to eighteen months apart

972
00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:17,920
Speaker 3: in age. I have five sisters and three brothers. I

973
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 3: am close with and get along with all of them

974
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 3: for the most part outside of normal sibling squabbles, with

975
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 3: the exception of one sister, that is Sarah, who's twenty eight.

976
00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 3: Female everyone's named Sarah. Sarah's just to trigger you. Oh jeez,

977
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 3: who has chosen a life of trucks?

978
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,000
Speaker 2: Wait, can't laugh while I say that? Rewind?

979
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 3: Okay, So it gets along, gets along with all of

980
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:57,960
Speaker 3: the siblings, with the exception of one, a sister named Sarah,

981
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 3: who has chosen a life of substances over.

982
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 2: Her own children.

983
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 3: Seven of my siblings have children and families of their own,

984
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 3: and we get together frequently, taking turns on who was

985
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:15,959
Speaker 3: hosting events for various holidays, birthdays, and other celebrations. Last

986
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:21,280
Speaker 3: year was both incredible and very sad. My dad, fifty

987
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 3: six male, passed away suddenly under some tragic and horrible

988
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 3: circumstances that left our family shaken and devastated a mere

989
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:33,360
Speaker 3: six weeks my wedding. I was my dad's power of

990
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:37,120
Speaker 3: attorney while he was hospitalized, and I'm the one who

991
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,880
Speaker 3: had to sign the paperwork take him off of Bceoh

992
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 3: that is super super.

993
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,760
Speaker 2: Hard, so so tough.

994
00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, just.

995
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: Another unimaginable situation.

996
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, just like a pit in my absolutely thinking about

997
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:56,560
Speaker 3: having to do that. My paternal grandparents both walked me

998
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 3: down the aisle on my wedding day in my dad's

999
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:00,480
Speaker 3: place day was.

1000
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 2: Bittersweet, But overall of.

1001
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 3: Talk about bittersweet, that's the most appropriate use of bittersweet.

1002
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 2: I've heard of hot minute.

1003
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:13,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, this issue is about my brother Troy thirty five

1004
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 3: and his wife, Jennifer thirty four. They are generally very

1005
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 3: quiet and introverted and do not host gatherings unless it

1006
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 3: involves their daughter, who is four, specifically the baby shower,

1007
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 3: her birth and birthdays, et cetera. This is fine, and

1008
00:53:31,120 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 3: we don't usually make a fuss over this because that's

1009
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 3: sort of just the way Troy is and always has been.

1010
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 3: But he usually attends the events that they're not hosting.

1011
00:53:41,600 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 3: But I've noticed a pattern, and I am really upset

1012
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 3: by this. When our dad passed, Troy left the service

1013
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:51,840
Speaker 3: immediately after he did the viewing, and Jennifer did not

1014
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:54,759
Speaker 3: come to the funeral home at all. He sat in

1015
00:53:54,800 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 3: the car and texted him so often that our grandmother

1016
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 3: actually got upset and asked if he could please set

1017
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:04,160
Speaker 3: his phone on vibrate out of respect for everyone else

1018
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 3: in attendance. Dude, you don't have your phone on vibrate

1019
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: at the funeral. That's what are you doing?

1020
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:15,160
Speaker 2: Easy ahole move, Yeah, easy, It sounds like we're already

1021
00:54:15,200 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 2: leaning in one direction here. Yeah, he refused to Ah,

1022
00:54:25,880 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: we are one God, no keeps going wit we hit

1023
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 2: the lakes. We did well up. Guys will do the

1024
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 2: wheel spin after this episode. I just wanted to let

1025
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:41,360
Speaker 2: you guys know this episode. We have not read this story.

1026
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 3: And apparently Kean and Riley are turning into a megazord

1027
00:54:44,640 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 3: because they are stacked on top of one each other.

1028
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 2: Oh.

1029
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 1: Also, someone said, uh, if asked if Dakota's mike was

1030
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: cutting out, please let us know if anyone else here's that.

1031
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,640
Speaker 2: Was? I was, I just two above it. Okay, we

1032
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:07,080
Speaker 2: could do it. We should we point, we could tilted

1033
00:55:07,120 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 2: Mortis chin, yeah, Blake put it in your mouth like

1034
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 2: this way? Yeah yeah yeah, Chipal right there.

1035
00:55:16,560 --> 00:55:17,879
Speaker 7: You sorry.

1036
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 3: So she sat in the car and texted him so

1037
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 3: often that our grandmother actually got upset and asked if

1038
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 3: he could please set his phone on vibrate out of

1039
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 3: respect for everyone else in attendance. He refused and obnoxiously

1040
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 3: kept texting his wife throughout the first few minutes of

1041
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 3: the service, until he was finally asked to step outside

1042
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 3: to take the call so as to not disrupt the

1043
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:45,280
Speaker 3: eulogy that our grandfather was making. Troy sort of shrugged

1044
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 3: his shoulders, hugged our mother and then left, like he

1045
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 3: literally went home. And he was supposed to be a

1046
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:56,720
Speaker 3: pallbearer with our other brother's uncle grandpa and his nephew,

1047
00:55:57,160 --> 00:56:00,799
Speaker 3: our dad's eldest grandson, but he literally just left and

1048
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,439
Speaker 3: went home.

1049
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: Dude, Oh dude, oh mom, this is how do you?

1050
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 3: Like I kind of want to maybe give him half

1051
00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 3: of a pass for like, I mean, it's a hard

1052
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 3: thing to deal with, like like your father passing, but

1053
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 3: it's also hard for everyone else. And you're acting like

1054
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 3: a like a complete child, like the phone stuff, like

1055
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 3: I can't like it's it's not it's not working.

1056
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, this isn't.

1057
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 3: This isn't like he's like, uh.

1058
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 1: Like, oh, he can't contain himself and it's like interrupting

1059
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: the service or something along those lines.

1060
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 2: This is just like he's just being an ahle. Yeah,

1061
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:38,759
Speaker 2: it seems it feels like he doesn't even care.

1062
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, complete complete nonchalant. I'm not even putting my phone

1063
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 3: on vibrate at the funeral scenario. That's who are you?

1064
00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 3: I can't even imagine being so h what are you?

1065
00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 2: Uh?

1066
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:01,239
Speaker 3: I understood this wow way to go op because I

1067
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 3: don't understand it, and so did the rest of our family,

1068
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 3: because we figured that it was just too overwhelming for

1069
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,880
Speaker 3: him and he had to leave now.

1070
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 2: Onto the wedding. Oh boy.

1071
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 3: I'd like to note that the only reason why my

1072
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 3: husband and I didn't postpone was because my dad would

1073
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 3: have been incredibly upset with us for postponing on his account.

1074
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:25,640
Speaker 3: We actually took an anonymous vote with the family on

1075
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 3: this exact subject, so we went ahead and honored Dad

1076
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 3: by having our officiant talk about him before the ceremony.

1077
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:37,919
Speaker 3: When my husband and I got engaged, I asked most

1078
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 3: of my sisters and Jennifer to be bride'smaids and was

1079
00:57:41,560 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 3: going to have my chosen sister aka my bestie, to

1080
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:48,960
Speaker 3: be my maid of honor. I then asked Jennifer and

1081
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:53,480
Speaker 3: Troy if their daughter, Cindy for could be my flower girl.

1082
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 3: Everyone gladly accepted. Troy and Jennifer were over the moon

1083
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 3: with excitement about their little girl being a flower girl,

1084
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 3: and all was well, or so it seemed. About three

1085
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 3: months before the wedding, during our second first dress fitting,

1086
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 3: Troy suddenly texted me and said, that Jennifer didn't want

1087
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Speaker 3: to be a bridesmaid okay, Uh, that she never wanted

1088
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: to be one in the first place, and that she

1089
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 3: didn't know how to say no to me when I

1090
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 3: first asked, and that she really hated the idea of

1091
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:35,520
Speaker 3: doing quote bridesmaid crap, and that she absolutely refused to

1092
00:58:35,600 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 3: wear the dress that she picked out herself.

1093
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 2: Wow, the math. I feel like they just don't like you.

1094
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,919
Speaker 2: Something is not adding up here. Yeah, is not making

1095
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 2: sense here.

1096
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody just does not like somebody.

1097
00:58:49,760 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 5: Come on, because like, being a bridesmaid is really fun?

1098
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 5: Are being like a grouseman?

1099
00:58:54,760 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 2: I love being a bridesmaid?

1100
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I personally every time I've been a bridesmaid, I've

1101
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 3: had the best time in my life life.

1102
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 2: Every time, it's just gotten better and better and better.

1103
00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 2: Every time. Do the single ladies dance all together? Yep,

1104
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 2: that's every time. Mandatory, mandatory times every day because it's

1105
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:15,520
Speaker 2: my day, I'm the bridesmaid. Uh. Okay, back back to

1106
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 2: the story here.

1107
00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 5: Uh.

1108
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 3: She then said that she might not even attend the

1109
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:23,120
Speaker 3: wedding and that she was even thinking about not allowing

1110
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,680
Speaker 3: Cindy to be my flower girl. I was crushed because

1111
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 3: my husband and I had paid for all of the

1112
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:34,520
Speaker 3: wedding expenses ourselves, including the entire wedding parties, dresses, and suits. Well,

1113
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 3: it looks like somebody is trying to throw a wrench

1114
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 3: into things here.

1115
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1116
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 3: Thankfully my parents convinced them aka bribed them with a

1117
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 3: large sum of money to still allow Cindy to be

1118
00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:52,000
Speaker 3: in the wedding party.

1119
00:59:52,480 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 2: Well, good thing. The parents have bribery money and just

1120
00:59:55,680 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 2: laying around.

1121
00:59:56,440 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: Geez, when you got to bribe your family, like let

1122
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: your daughter be like the flower girl?

1123
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:08,439
Speaker 2: And I participate with, yeah, what are we doing?

1124
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 3: I'm too good to do bridesmaid crap for you?

1125
01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,680
Speaker 2: Sorry, what's wrong? It's not even this? It's his daughter, right,

1126
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 2: And they're like yeah, and also, now my daughter is

1127
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:16,920
Speaker 2: not gonn to be your face.

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01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 3: I said yes to all of this, now, No, is

1129
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 3: that an official confirmation? Kean has said yes to the dress?

1130
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 2: You look stunning today, and listen said yes, he looked

1131
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 2: dang great in it. He does. Look at him, go,

1132
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 2: I apologize him, said what I said.

1133
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 3: So the day of the wedding, Jennifer refused to allow

1134
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 3: our hairdresser to do Cindy's hair and did it herself.

1135
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 3: She just my niece's hair into a ponytail and refused

1136
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 3: all offers to help. And then she allowed my niece

1137
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:56,520
Speaker 3: to go barefoot during the aisle walk. Okay, I mean

1138
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,120
Speaker 3: that's kind of cute. I guess she's four, but like,

1139
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 3: oh k, it's.

1140
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:05,680
Speaker 1: Just like again, like why it feels like they're just

1141
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 1: intentionally doing things to like mess with Opie. Yeah, for

1142
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 1: no good reason other than to just like drive her

1143
01:01:12,240 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 1: instand these people just trying to pull power plays on

1144
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: like people's wedding day. It's like what what stop it?

1145
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: Quit stop doing that.

1146
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:20,200
Speaker 2: God.

1147
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 6: Ugh.

1148
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 3: So as soon as Cindy's part was quote unquote finished,

1149
01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 3: as in as soon as she got to the front

1150
01:01:27,560 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 3: of the chapel, and before the officiant even began speaking,

1151
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 3: Troy scooped Cindy up and left, with Jennifer following closely behind.

1152
01:01:37,160 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 3: She even took the flower girl basket with her. I

1153
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:43,439
Speaker 3: didn't notice until after the ceremony and it was time

1154
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:45,960
Speaker 3: for pictures when my grandma told me that she saw

1155
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 3: my brother take Cindy to the potty. I called Troy,

1156
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 3: asking where Cindy was because it was time for the

1157
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:56,360
Speaker 3: photo shoot. Jennifer answered the call and said, she's with us.

1158
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,920
Speaker 3: We left again.

1159
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 2: For what reason? Why? Like, where do you have to be?

1160
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 2: Did you you double booked today? No, dude, If I.

1161
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 1: Had my four year old daughter in the wedding, I'd

1162
01:02:09,640 --> 01:02:11,360
Speaker 1: be like, this is the most adorable thing ever.

1163
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,000
Speaker 2: This is great. We're gonna party, We're gonna have a

1164
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,840
Speaker 2: good time. She can be all cute, throwing the little

1165
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 2: foul pedals. It's gonna be a good time. Why you

1166
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:20,200
Speaker 2: gotta leave early?

1167
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:22,560
Speaker 5: I would be so happy to be like, my daughter

1168
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 5: is gonna be one of the centers of attention.

1169
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,120
Speaker 2: Dude, the star of the show.

1170
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:30,200
Speaker 5: Literally, honestly, literally, I just had I just went to

1171
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 5: a wedding.

1172
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 2: Make a short, a long story short.

1173
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 5: My cousin's four year old son in a little tuxedo

1174
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 5: in bow tie bro cutest thing ever, cutest thing, cudest

1175
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 5: thing ever, cutest thing ever.

1176
01:02:43,160 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 3: The only person allowed to outshine like the bride and

1177
01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 3: groom on the wedding day is like the little baby,

1178
01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 3: like the ring.

1179
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 5: Bearer or the ring cover or the plower girl.

1180
01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 2: When I was a ring bearer, they handed me a

1181
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 2: heart shaped pillow upside down and I said, why is

1182
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:03,280
Speaker 2: it a butt? And it was funny. Yeah, it's still funny.

1183
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 2: It's funny right now what I'm saying. So so Op

1184
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 2: gets the news that she left and was absolutely crushed.

1185
01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:14,280
Speaker 3: But I didn't want that to ruin my day, so

1186
01:03:14,320 --> 01:03:17,200
Speaker 3: I made excuses and just dropped it for the time being.

1187
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 3: Ever since then, I've tried inviting them to other family events,

1188
01:03:21,080 --> 01:03:24,240
Speaker 3: such as my oldest son's high school graduation party, is

1189
01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:27,640
Speaker 3: eighteenth birthday party, Thanksgiving, it was my turn to host

1190
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 3: that year, et cetera. And every single time I'm left

1191
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,160
Speaker 3: on red or the RSVP goes unanswered and they do

1192
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,760
Speaker 3: not attend. To be fair, they also don't attend some

1193
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 3: of our other siblings events either, but this feels incredibly

1194
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:44,080
Speaker 3: personal because they made the effort to travel across the

1195
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:49,280
Speaker 3: province to attend our youngest brother's birthday party this past June. Okay,

1196
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:51,880
Speaker 3: so clearly it's like a favoritism thing and like somebody

1197
01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:55,479
Speaker 3: just really doesn't like ope. Yeah, and it's like they're

1198
01:03:55,520 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 3: not really shy about making it blatantly obvious. Yeah, which

1199
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 3: is crappy behavior. Yes, So now I've decided to stop

1200
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,520
Speaker 3: expecting them to come to events and have even stopped

1201
01:04:11,640 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 3: inviting them to things that I host all together. Jennifer

1202
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 3: recently saw pictures on my Facebook and Instagram and blew

1203
01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 3: up at me. She accused me of alienating my brother

1204
01:04:23,240 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 3: and niece from the family and that I'm being malicious

1205
01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 3: by excluding them.

1206
01:04:28,760 --> 01:04:31,640
Speaker 2: You know, it's kind of hard to include you when

1207
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 2: you're not there. You're already not there. Bad brother. Can't

1208
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,960
Speaker 2: exclude you from the things you don't come to. Brother,

1209
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 2: Come on, what are we talking about? Oh yeah, yea,

1210
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 2: I argued back.

1211
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 3: To get back into the story, I argue back then,

1212
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 3: it seems like they don't want anything to do with

1213
01:04:50,480 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 3: me or my family anyway, and that I okay, yeah,

1214
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 3: I found it and that was I'm gonna say that

1215
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,520
Speaker 3: was Keon's fault, even though it's not um.

1216
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 2: And look how good he looks in that dress? He said. Yes.

1217
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 3: Anyways, She accused me of alienating my brother and niece

1218
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 3: from the family and that I'm being malicious by excluding them.

1219
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 3: I argued back that it seems like they don't want

1220
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 3: anything to do with me or my family anyway, and

1221
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 3: that I was saving them the time and effort of

1222
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 3: ignoring my invitations by simply not inviting them. And we

1223
01:05:31,920 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 3: invite you to join us live on YouTube every weekday

1224
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 3: at three pm. Just tap on our profile. You're always invited.

1225
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:40,720
Speaker 2: That's right.

1226
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,960
Speaker 3: Now I'm getting called petty by some of my aunts

1227
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,760
Speaker 3: and uncles. My grandpa even called to ask me why

1228
01:05:47,800 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 3: I'm excluding my niece from family events. Uh so I'm

1229
01:05:52,280 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 3: now feeling incredibly guilty for at least not going through

1230
01:05:55,440 --> 01:05:58,480
Speaker 3: the motions of inviting them to my hosted events. My

1231
01:05:58,600 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 3: mother is on my side, as are six of my

1232
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 3: eight siblings. So Reddit, am I the a hole for

1233
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:08,280
Speaker 3: refusing to include my brother and sister in law family

1234
01:06:08,320 --> 01:06:12,920
Speaker 3: events that I post? And that is it? And I

1235
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 3: gotta say no. But you know what would be great

1236
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:20,160
Speaker 3: is if because clearly it's the kid is blameless here, right,

1237
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:24,480
Speaker 3: the niece is blameless. So what would be great is

1238
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 3: instead of inviting your you know, Troy and the sister

1239
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 3: in law, you just invite the niece.

1240
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 2: Just invite the niece. Just invite the niece and then

1241
01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 2: they are like, oh, you can't go, and she's like,

1242
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:37,920
Speaker 2: but I want to.

1243
01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm invited because I'm cool, because I'm so.

1244
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 2: Cool, right, Oh, invite her and then be like, hey,

1245
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 2: we got like I don't know what is what what

1246
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 2: are the things she's into?

1247
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: Like, hey, we have like a my little pony, Yeah,

1248
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: gift basket, I don't know, poldy pocket, something bro, the

1249
01:06:56,840 --> 01:07:01,160
Speaker 1: poly pocket bull playhouse set waiting for you there, just

1250
01:07:01,200 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 1: like pull.

1251
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 2: Up, yeah, pull up, pull ups any in the in

1252
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:09,040
Speaker 2: the like the the the electric little ge little convertible.

1253
01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:13,000
Speaker 2: Yeah dude, oh yeah, good stuff. Oh yeah.

1254
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,240
Speaker 1: But ladies and gentlemen, there's something else good that's about

1255
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:19,440
Speaker 1: to happen. He didn't want his virginity to be taken,

1256
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 1: but today we are taking it and he's gonna love it.

1257
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen. I don't give consent. I don't give consent.

1258
01:07:27,560 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 2: Spin spin that will. It's right there, it's this. I've

1259
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:38,280
Speaker 2: never done this, I've never done so innocent and ni

1260
01:07:40,880 --> 01:07:44,120
Speaker 2: here we go, give it, give it at arms. The

1261
01:07:44,240 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 2: nice rice is right, spin up black, let's where you

1262
01:07:54,400 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 2: can go that? Oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah, gotta love it. Man.

1263
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 2: Grow in the family. Today, family's grown a lot family.

1264
01:08:07,440 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 3: The family continues to expand, like, uh, who was the

1265
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 3: it was Violet Bloom?

1266
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: What was your name? Violet Beauregard?

1267
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:21,760
Speaker 1: Oh we already did. Can we uh donate them?

1268
01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 2: Can can we add can we add fifteen minutes? Let's

1269
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 2: do it all right, guys, we already used all of

1270
01:08:30,160 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: our free ones, so we're gonna buy them. Here we go.

1271
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 2: They're on the way. Producers are are are our megatron?

1272
01:08:36,920 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 2: Producers is figuring it out? All the autobots assembled Megatron?

1273
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:54,919
Speaker 2: Uh yeah? Does it have a name on it? Rollout?

1274
01:08:55,479 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 2: Is it either me or Sam? Probably? Sam?

1275
01:09:01,080 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 1: Okay, let's do the main one. Yeah, thank you bleat

1276
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 1: sauce for figuring out.

1277
01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen.

1278
01:09:06,120 --> 01:09:08,559
Speaker 3: Need that means now we're only two hundred and thirty

1279
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 3: likes away from another wheelspin.

1280
01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 2: If my math is mathing, we're only two here. This

1281
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:15,439
Speaker 2: is what you guys did you guys? Thirty likes away?

1282
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 2: That's true from another one.

1283
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 6: Whoa, whoa, whoa. They're transformat, they're transformag get it work.

1284
01:09:24,520 --> 01:09:28,240
Speaker 2: Hey, there we go. Five memberships.

1285
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:33,519
Speaker 3: Nice, thanks okay, storytime for those donated memberships, thank us.

1286
01:09:34,240 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 2: Heck yeah, I gotta love it. Four and more people

1287
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:45,000
Speaker 2: in the family. Five. Yeah, what the idiot. Ladies and gentlemen,

1288
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:49,360
Speaker 2: let's let's do what we do best. Let's get into this.

1289
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:52,320
Speaker 5: Read another story it give you another another one.

1290
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 2: Read some dons so let me Yeah, let me go

1291
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 2: ahead and do some stuff first. Yes, sir, here, I'll

1292
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 2: start with here, Grandma's got body mouth. Thanks for the

1293
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 2: twenty books on tiplink. Uh this is for key On.

1294
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 2: I hope I spelled that right. I don't know why

1295
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 2: his I don't really want to get popped and I

1296
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 2: bade me laugh out loud. Uh. Maybe because he's a hilarious,

1297
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 2: charming individual. Yeah, a little dimple Dimple boys? Wait, do

1298
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:23,479
Speaker 2: we have dimples? I deal with they're hidden? You get

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01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:28,599
Speaker 2: one's are we the dimple boys? Dimple boys only have one?

1300
01:10:29,120 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 2: So you get the good side? Oh yeah, dude.

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01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:36,120
Speaker 1: The producer cam just just makes people look sexy. It's

1302
01:10:36,360 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 1: it's just crazy refreshing.

1303
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 2: Claim. Claim my title is King of dimples. I claim

1304
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 2: King of dimples, King of dimples. Go to King of dimples.

1305
01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,760
Speaker 2: Should we read and we read mama Eli's right, Yes

1306
01:10:50,840 --> 01:10:53,080
Speaker 2: we did, Yes we did. So that's caught up on tiplink.

1307
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:57,120
Speaker 2: And then shout us to us for being us. Also

1308
01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:58,439
Speaker 2: shout out to Carla Woods.

1309
01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 1: Could be wrong and flame me in the comment if

1310
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 1: I am first uh first gifted membership drop from from

1311
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: Carlo Woods.

1312
01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 2: Freaking love to see it.

1313
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 6: Oh.

1314
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 2: I always love when we see we get new people

1315
01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 2: doing that. And then Alyssa Monday, I think she's done

1316
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 2: it before as well.

1317
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:13,599
Speaker 1: But big shout to you for also gifting and membership.

1318
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 1: Let's go, uh, Natalie Nola Dakota looks like my high

1319
01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: school ex. He even rocked a very similar bucket hat

1320
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 1: back in ninety.

1321
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:36,280
Speaker 2: The Carnation, Natalie, is that you all this time? No, Natalie, Natalie, No,

1322
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 2: we can still be together.

1323
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:45,360
Speaker 1: When it goes dark. It doesn't do it for everyone, right,

1324
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:52,040
Speaker 1: It's just something and obvious. Okay, when the full screen

1325
01:11:52,120 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 1: goes black? Okay, could you click back on that dark

1326
01:12:00,439 --> 01:12:03,000
Speaker 1: it gets when you're not in my life, Natalie, Babe.

1327
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: Sally Cat, thanks for the twenty Canadian Bucarinis.

1328
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 2: Actually, Loony's love you guys even if I am a dinosaur,

1329
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:13,599
Speaker 2: since you are elders as I am fifty one, Well,

1330
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 2: good news, Sally Cat. Everybody loves dinosaurs. Boom, Let's go dinosaur.

1331
01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:20,639
Speaker 2: I've never met anyone who doesn't like dinosaurs.

1332
01:12:22,680 --> 01:12:25,040
Speaker 3: The meteor was just trying to give the dinosaurs a.

1333
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 2: Hug, that's true. It didn't know its own strength and

1334
01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:28,919
Speaker 2: it just made a mistake.

1335
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 1: Oh, man, and then Alessa Monday and I'm a gifted

1336
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 1: memberships freaking got so many I'll say it again.

1337
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:36,519
Speaker 5: Uh.

1338
01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 2: And then cowboys guy, we got that, all right, we

1339
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:41,280
Speaker 2: got that. I'm just go ahead and editing front. Yeah,

1340
01:12:41,360 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 2: you're we're getting the next one pulled up there or there,

1341
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,360
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen. Darkness is it still dark? It is

1342
01:12:47,439 --> 01:12:48,000
Speaker 2: not darkness?

1343
01:12:48,160 --> 01:12:51,439
Speaker 1: It is not darkness. Yeah, sorry, guys, I didn't know.

1344
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:53,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know that that happens. But it's good to know.

1345
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 2: And Jan's just so cute. It breaks the stream, you know,

1346
01:12:57,080 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 2: it's it's it's it's too honorable, too adorable. Uh.

1347
01:13:01,360 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 1: Wesley, thanks for donating five bucks to the Dimple Boys,

1348
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:05,919
Speaker 1: but specifically to the King of Dimples.

1349
01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:07,599
Speaker 2: You know who you are.

1350
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 3: It is me.

1351
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 2: And Wesleyan. Oh I just read that. There's another one.

1352
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 2: We are Precia. I'm blunt, you can see it. I'm

1353
01:13:19,240 --> 01:13:24,360
Speaker 2: blushing making it a little real over here, Weslean real real.

1354
01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:26,760
Speaker 2: Oh uh.

1355
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:30,599
Speaker 1: Just Tina, Tina, thanks for the five bucks, first time donating.

1356
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 1: I've been a silent watcher for a while.

1357
01:13:33,000 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 2: I love you all. A lot of lurkers have been

1358
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:37,120
Speaker 2: sounding off.

1359
01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 3: They have been, haven't they if you were a lurker,

1360
01:13:40,160 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 3: sound off, sound off lurkers.

1361
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:46,880
Speaker 2: Sound off in the comments. In fact, type sound off

1362
01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:48,519
Speaker 2: in the comments and see if it pops through.

1363
01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,680
Speaker 1: Because I want to see if Riley is still censoring you,

1364
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: because I because I, for one, for one, I care

1365
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 1: about free speech.

1366
01:13:57,720 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 2: I can say it. He cares about free speech.

1367
01:14:00,840 --> 01:14:03,040
Speaker 3: John is a champion of the First Amendment.

1368
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:08,439
Speaker 2: Ha ha, got him. I hate when you limit my

1369
01:14:08,479 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 2: free speech. That's what I'm We are good, gentlemen, We

1370
01:14:11,360 --> 01:14:11,720
Speaker 2: are good.

1371
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:14,600
Speaker 3: I think letting people do hate speech is like a

1372
01:14:14,720 --> 01:14:17,120
Speaker 3: double edged sword because they out themselves and then you

1373
01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:19,400
Speaker 3: get to say, oh, you're a horrible person, and no

1374
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 3: one should listen to you because look at you doing

1375
01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:21,719
Speaker 3: hate speech.

1376
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: You're the worst.

1377
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 3: Right not it shouldn't be supported, but it should be

1378
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 3: like ah, like thank you, you suck and.

1379
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 1: People are sounding off, thanks for your sound offs. Speaking

1380
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 1: of which, we're going to keep the sound on In Dakota,

1381
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:37,200
Speaker 1: why don't you do your things again?

1382
01:14:37,280 --> 01:14:37,639
Speaker 2: Dakota?

1383
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 3: We are.

1384
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:43,040
Speaker 2: Nine five? Are we waiting? Is it the same? This

1385
01:14:43,160 --> 01:14:46,600
Speaker 2: is the same one. We're on story three. No, I

1386
01:14:46,640 --> 01:14:48,559
Speaker 2: thought we were on story three or nine five four?

1387
01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 3: No?

1388
01:14:50,960 --> 01:14:54,120
Speaker 2: Uh, yep, we are on s three of nine to

1389
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 2: five four I messed up? Uh oh I actually.

1390
01:15:01,160 --> 01:15:04,840
Speaker 3: He went to the next one, the one everybody clap

1391
01:15:04,960 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 3: for keyon. He's doing great job.

1392
01:15:07,160 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 2: He is doing a great job. He know he's dying,

1393
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:11,760
Speaker 2: he's not time. He is doing a great job. He's

1394
01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 2: doing much better than I would do. That's for sure.

1395
01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 2: Wes lean is say, says Riley is silencing us. I'm

1396
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:20,120
Speaker 2: not saying that, but maybe I am.

1397
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 3: Uh John skipped someone's dono who what?

1398
01:15:25,439 --> 01:15:29,920
Speaker 2: We will do it? Who? Eighty six fifteen do do

1399
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:34,639
Speaker 2: control my? Ah? Here we go? Uh mellow six fifteen

1400
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 2: says five dollars. I need to see you guys do

1401
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 2: the single ladies dance now, let it be known. Uh.

1402
01:15:39,960 --> 01:15:42,799
Speaker 2: When I was in summer camp when I was twelve,

1403
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:44,920
Speaker 2: we were taught a single ladies dance and we did

1404
01:15:45,000 --> 01:15:48,160
Speaker 2: do it. I only know that one move. It's like that.

1405
01:15:49,640 --> 01:15:57,320
Speaker 2: Oh yes, I know. Oh he's got it. He's keeping

1406
01:15:57,640 --> 01:15:59,760
Speaker 2: he's doing the hand thing. It's all got. Let's all got.

1407
01:15:59,880 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 2: I can't remember. Yeah, but old we got it. We

1408
01:16:04,240 --> 01:16:04,720
Speaker 2: still got it.

1409
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:08,719
Speaker 3: Though it's been what's that line from Titanic, It's.

1410
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 2: Been eighty four years.

1411
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,479
Speaker 3: Since I did the single lady's dad with Jack.

1412
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:21,679
Speaker 2: Which is almost your name. True, it is a nickname

1413
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 2: of my name. Yeah, it is Jack, a nickname for John.

1414
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:26,000
Speaker 3: It is.

1415
01:16:27,800 --> 01:16:28,679
Speaker 2: That seems greedy.

1416
01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:32,000
Speaker 3: It's like you could already just be John instead of Jonathan,

1417
01:16:32,080 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 3: but then you also have to be Jack, exactly like

1418
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,719
Speaker 3: pick one. It's like people with like two first names

1419
01:16:38,040 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 3: or two last names. You know, there's a there's a

1420
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:45,640
Speaker 3: guy who plays baseball whose name is Iverson Allen for

1421
01:16:45,760 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 3: all my base for all the sports people out there

1422
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 3: will understand. But Alan Iverson was a very popular famous

1423
01:16:52,439 --> 01:16:57,599
Speaker 3: basketball player. Yeah, and his this guy's dad liked Alan Iverson,

1424
01:16:57,840 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 3: so he named his son Iverson and their last name

1425
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 3: is Allan.

1426
01:17:02,720 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 2: That is hilarious.

1427
01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:07,200
Speaker 3: Yes, weird, and he ended up playing professional baseball. So

1428
01:17:07,520 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 3: very confusing.

1429
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 2: You gotta love it, okay you reading? Yes, ready to

1430
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:13,639
Speaker 2: rock and roll? Baby, Oh my god?

1431
01:17:15,080 --> 01:17:19,600
Speaker 4: Except actually, Chris Tinfoil Hat just donated one hundred and

1432
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:25,520
Speaker 4: four dollars and six cents, uh even gang and another

1433
01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:27,759
Speaker 4: thirty wow?

1434
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:34,120
Speaker 2: Wow? It just does it stop with Chris tinfoil Hat.

1435
01:17:34,640 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 2: My goodness, speechless?

1436
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:38,600
Speaker 3: And I know if if Giants milk is still in

1437
01:17:38,680 --> 01:17:41,000
Speaker 3: the chat, Giants milk is gonna feel some type of

1438
01:17:41,040 --> 01:17:41,559
Speaker 3: way about that.

1439
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 2: And we might see a tsunami of cowcl lots of calcium.

1440
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1441
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 1: Our bones are about to get real strong. Possibly there's

1442
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 1: gonna be a tug of war in the In the dude,

1443
01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:56,559
Speaker 1: big milk was going crazy in the two thousand.

1444
01:17:56,880 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 3: Does big milk actually make your bones weaker?

1445
01:17:58,920 --> 01:17:59,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. Who knows.

1446
01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:02,479
Speaker 3: There's some stuff out there that says it might. God,

1447
01:18:04,160 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 3: but we have another half hour and we have another

1448
01:18:06,160 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 3: story ready to go.

1449
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 2: Right now, am I right? Let's get it. Let's be good.

1450
01:18:10,320 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 2: Are we going?

1451
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:11,920
Speaker 5: You're good, You're good, You're great.

1452
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:16,799
Speaker 2: My sister in law keeps disrespecting me, so I'm cutting

1453
01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 2: her out.

1454
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:19,960
Speaker 3: Of my baby's life. Get out here, get out of

1455
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 3: here for the child. For the child, first time here.

1456
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:25,799
Speaker 3: But I really need an outside opinion.

1457
01:18:26,320 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 2: Bear with me.

1458
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 3: My husband's sister has been cold towards me for the

1459
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:32,840
Speaker 3: past two and a half years that I've known her.

1460
01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:35,600
Speaker 3: I feel that I have gone above and beyond to

1461
01:18:35,680 --> 01:18:38,080
Speaker 3: be kind to her and make her comfortable with me.

1462
01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:41,479
Speaker 3: She can be shy, which is his excuse for her behavior,

1463
01:18:41,840 --> 01:18:45,160
Speaker 3: but we'll get into that. By the way, this comes

1464
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:48,800
Speaker 3: from a user sudden traffic eight or nine five three

1465
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 3: nine on the r slash okay, storytime separate it so.

1466
01:18:53,479 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 3: She does not speak to me unless spoken to, not

1467
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 3: a high or a bye. Even at my own apartment.

1468
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,280
Speaker 3: My husband and I eloped. I didn't get a congratulations

1469
01:19:03,320 --> 01:19:03,599
Speaker 3: from her.

1470
01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:04,640
Speaker 2: Hi.

1471
01:19:05,400 --> 01:19:08,040
Speaker 3: I doubt it, not unless she said hi first true.

1472
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:12,640
Speaker 3: On my birthday, she called my husband to chat. He

1473
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:14,960
Speaker 3: mentioned that we were on our way to dinner for

1474
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:18,760
Speaker 3: or my birthday, but no happy birthday from her. When

1475
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,000
Speaker 3: we found out that I was pregnant, she was the

1476
01:19:21,040 --> 01:19:22,439
Speaker 3: first person my husband told.

1477
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:23,920
Speaker 2: I didn't hear from her.

1478
01:19:24,960 --> 01:19:28,240
Speaker 3: She came to visit us three weeks later, again walked

1479
01:19:28,240 --> 01:19:32,400
Speaker 3: into our apartment without acknowledging me and did not congratulate me.

1480
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:35,960
Speaker 2: Or ask about the pregnancy at all while she was here.

1481
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:38,840
Speaker 3: To add to that, I was extremely sick with a

1482
01:19:38,880 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 3: condition called hyper hyper emesis bravadd gravidarum.

1483
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:47,439
Speaker 2: I don't even that sounds that's.

1484
01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 5: So, says a spell from Harry Potter.

1485
01:19:49,439 --> 01:19:51,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that sounds insane.

1486
01:19:51,439 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 3: Got affected with a Harry Potter spell. It's like morning

1487
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 3: sickness on steroids. I had been in the er days

1488
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:02,639
Speaker 3: prior and continued to vomit every hour. She was aware

1489
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:05,760
Speaker 3: of this before coming over. There was no acknowledgment from her,

1490
01:20:06,080 --> 01:20:08,599
Speaker 3: and I was treated like I didn't exist.

1491
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:14,320
Speaker 7: So quick, pause pause. This person is the worst. Yeah,

1492
01:20:14,400 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 7: perpetually stuck in high school. I like Kimberly right here,

1493
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:22,560
Speaker 7: Kimberly put not wow, sorry, but Aaron said wow. But

1494
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:23,679
Speaker 7: Kimberly said.

1495
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:28,439
Speaker 2: Enope, she enoped. Yeah. Respect. Respect.

1496
01:20:29,560 --> 01:20:33,120
Speaker 3: I mean, what could have possibly happened to prompt this

1497
01:20:33,240 --> 01:20:33,880
Speaker 3: kind of behavior?

1498
01:20:33,960 --> 01:20:35,600
Speaker 2: And a grown adult like.

1499
01:20:36,160 --> 01:20:38,600
Speaker 3: This is something that you do when you are fifteen

1500
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 3: and your friend is like dating your crush? Is it?

1501
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 2: Is it?

1502
01:20:43,280 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 1: And this is again, uh Opie's husband's sister. Yes, it's

1503
01:20:47,880 --> 01:20:49,559
Speaker 1: the in law her law.

1504
01:20:49,640 --> 01:20:49,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1505
01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 1: So is it a case of uh like, I mean

1506
01:20:53,520 --> 01:20:56,000
Speaker 1: she's the Lulu, right, that's for sure. Is it a

1507
01:20:56,120 --> 01:21:00,679
Speaker 1: case of she's like, oh, you're taking my brother away

1508
01:21:00,720 --> 01:21:02,680
Speaker 1: from me. I can't I can't let you because this.

1509
01:21:02,800 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 3: Is Sircey Lanister type type beat right now? Is she

1510
01:21:07,080 --> 01:21:09,880
Speaker 3: so in love with her brother that she can't even

1511
01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:12,960
Speaker 3: tolerate the existence of like.

1512
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,760
Speaker 2: Her brother's wife. I wasn't even saying that, But I

1513
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:19,560
Speaker 2: have something that might be even more shocking than what

1514
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:20,240
Speaker 2: you just said.

1515
01:21:20,320 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 3: Oh, well, to be fair, I didn't Oh yeah, maybe

1516
01:21:24,880 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 3: that was a bit of an extreme analysis. I just

1517
01:21:27,960 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 3: mean like she's really attached to her brother, well, not

1518
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:34,760
Speaker 3: that attached, not attached in the same way.

1519
01:21:35,280 --> 01:21:36,400
Speaker 2: This is what you insinuated.

1520
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: However, who also flew our minds is bring me the

1521
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 1: horizon for dropping another fifty buckets on the donor link.

1522
01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say for this weekend. But let's keep this going, Chris.

1523
01:21:54,000 --> 01:21:57,400
Speaker 1: This is a this is a a Dono off. Yeah,

1524
01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:03,559
Speaker 1: this is we're going Dono for for supremacy going.

1525
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:05,559
Speaker 3: Man.

1526
01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:08,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So.

1527
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:12,519
Speaker 3: Clearly OP is being treated like they do not exist

1528
01:22:12,840 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 3: from their sister.

1529
01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1530
01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:17,640
Speaker 3: In the past, I've asked my husband if he was

1531
01:22:17,720 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 3: aware of any issues that she had with me. Maybe

1532
01:22:20,439 --> 01:22:22,920
Speaker 3: I said or did something that she didn't like and

1533
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:27,000
Speaker 3: didn't know. He said, no, why would you think that? Well,

1534
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:31,880
Speaker 3: clearly because she's ignoring my existence, dude. I told him

1535
01:22:31,880 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 3: how I felt and mentioned the things above. This was

1536
01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:37,080
Speaker 3: before the pregnancy. He said that he was sorry that

1537
01:22:37,160 --> 01:22:39,240
Speaker 3: I felt that way and that he would talk to

1538
01:22:39,280 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 3: her about it. He also mentioned that she was a

1539
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:47,000
Speaker 3: very shy person, so it is most likely unintentional. He's right,

1540
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:50,439
Speaker 3: she is not the most outgoing person, but I can't

1541
01:22:50,600 --> 01:22:53,679
Speaker 3: just chalk it up to that. We've been in plenty

1542
01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 3: of social settings together. I've seen how she greets and

1543
01:22:57,200 --> 01:23:02,280
Speaker 3: acknowledges other people, even strange. She doesn't just lack manners

1544
01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 3: or social cues because she's shy. I think it's a

1545
01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:05,839
Speaker 3: poor excuse.

1546
01:23:07,160 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 2: I agree. Anyway, he lets me know that they spoke and.

1547
01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 3: She doesn't dislike me and didn't realize that she was

1548
01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:18,040
Speaker 3: being rude to me, but will make a conscious effort

1549
01:23:18,200 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 3: to be more respectful going forward.

1550
01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:21,720
Speaker 2: I call bs on that.

1551
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:25,760
Speaker 3: I call she's getting called out by her brother, so

1552
01:23:25,840 --> 01:23:26,960
Speaker 3: she's playing the oh my.

1553
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 2: Gosh, I totally didn't even know. I guess I'll try

1554
01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 2: better now.

1555
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 1: Or it could even be she's like whatever and he's like, yeah,

1556
01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:37,080
Speaker 1: she said she totally apologized.

1557
01:23:37,280 --> 01:23:40,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that the husband husband's covering to like try

1558
01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 2: to Yeah. At either rate, I don't think she means it.

1559
01:23:44,280 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is there's no way you don't do this

1560
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:51,400
Speaker 3: to someone unintentionally, Like when you hear someone is pregnant

1561
01:23:52,280 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 3: and you don't reach out to them to like let

1562
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:58,479
Speaker 3: them know, like like a congratulations at least or even

1563
01:23:58,520 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 3: mention it. The next time you see them, you're doing

1564
01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:04,640
Speaker 3: that on purpose. Let's not kid ourselves here, right, kid it?

1565
01:24:06,760 --> 01:24:10,920
Speaker 3: So the next time that we see her, we visit

1566
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:15,200
Speaker 3: her and their brother at their place. I had a

1567
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:18,479
Speaker 3: terrible headache, and their brother offered the second bed in

1568
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 3: the sister's room if I wanted to lay down. They

1569
01:24:21,520 --> 01:24:23,519
Speaker 3: live on campus in a house where the rooms are

1570
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:26,360
Speaker 3: set up dorm style, but she does not have a roommate.

1571
01:24:27,120 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 3: Before I could even say anything, she gives him a

1572
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:30,439
Speaker 3: side eye and says.

1573
01:24:32,240 --> 01:24:32,280
Speaker 5: No.

1574
01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:37,479
Speaker 3: I said, no worries and went to lay in his room,

1575
01:24:37,840 --> 01:24:40,640
Speaker 3: same setup, extra bed that was my husband's while he

1576
01:24:40,720 --> 01:24:44,320
Speaker 3: was in college. My husband told her that was not

1577
01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:48,040
Speaker 3: cool and asked her to apologize. She did, and she

1578
01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:50,519
Speaker 3: said she had just done some laundry and used the

1579
01:24:50,640 --> 01:24:54,640
Speaker 3: extra bed dump or clean clothes, so that was the

1580
01:24:54,720 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 3: reason for her saying no, and it was not a

1581
01:24:57,000 --> 01:25:00,840
Speaker 3: personal thing. I thanked her for apologizing and was happy

1582
01:25:00,920 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 3: to move on. I asked their brother for his opinion.

1583
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 3: He's a year younger than my husband, and him and

1584
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:09,800
Speaker 3: I get along very well. He basically said that she's

1585
01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 3: the only girl out of four in this family. Oh wait,

1586
01:25:14,160 --> 01:25:17,200
Speaker 3: that she's the only girl out of four, so the

1587
01:25:17,280 --> 01:25:21,200
Speaker 3: family is used to her attitude and doesn't mine. Oh so,

1588
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:23,679
Speaker 3: he implies that the attitude is there all the time.

1589
01:25:24,680 --> 01:25:27,800
Speaker 3: For example, she will yell at them, call them names,

1590
01:25:27,920 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 3: demand things, hang up the phone on them when they

1591
01:25:30,360 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 3: can't fulfill her needs immediately, et cetera. Although my siblings

1592
01:25:34,240 --> 01:25:36,240
Speaker 3: and I didn't grow up treating each other that way,

1593
01:25:36,320 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 3: I know that some do so if they allow it.

1594
01:25:38,720 --> 01:25:42,559
Speaker 2: Cool but towards me, no, thank you. Yeah.

1595
01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 3: The next time we saw, which was most recent, is

1596
01:25:46,600 --> 01:25:50,000
Speaker 3: when she came over after finding out that I was pregnant.

1597
01:25:50,800 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 3: Her and my husband were spending a day together out

1598
01:25:53,840 --> 01:25:56,200
Speaker 3: of the house. I was too sick to leave the bed,

1599
01:25:56,960 --> 01:25:59,560
Speaker 3: and I couldn't help but to send a text and

1600
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 3: let him know how I felt. I told him that

1601
01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 3: I should not feel that way in my own home,

1602
01:26:05,360 --> 01:26:08,639
Speaker 3: especially at such a vulnerable time. I don't know if

1603
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:12,800
Speaker 3: any of you are familiar with her condition, but it

1604
01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:17,800
Speaker 3: is debilitating. I would not wish it on anyone. Later

1605
01:26:18,000 --> 01:26:20,760
Speaker 3: on that day, he asked if she could come in

1606
01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:24,800
Speaker 3: and apologize. In hindsight, I really wish that I would

1607
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:27,439
Speaker 3: have taken him up on that offer, but in the moment,

1608
01:26:27,560 --> 01:26:31,600
Speaker 3: I was so overwhelmed physically, mentally, and emotionally that I

1609
01:26:31,720 --> 01:26:33,760
Speaker 3: told him it was not a good time for me,

1610
01:26:34,400 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 3: which is fair, right, if you're going through morning sickness

1611
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:41,880
Speaker 3: on steroids and you feel disrespected and it's like, you know,

1612
01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:47,639
Speaker 3: hindsight's twenty twenty, you know, in the moment, completely understand.

1613
01:26:47,800 --> 01:26:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1614
01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 3: In the past, she has asked my husband to place

1615
01:26:52,360 --> 01:26:55,719
Speaker 3: Amazon orders for her because she doesn't have a Prime account.

1616
01:26:57,000 --> 01:26:59,240
Speaker 2: He told her that I have a Prime account, so

1617
01:26:59,400 --> 01:27:06,920
Speaker 2: he would relate that message. I would was that Riley says,

1618
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:09,240
Speaker 2: that's a body. That's a body. If you'll give your

1619
01:27:09,280 --> 01:27:12,479
Speaker 2: Amazon account to someone that's not your family or seeing

1620
01:27:12,560 --> 01:27:17,040
Speaker 2: of another, yeah, it's too much. That's a body. That's

1621
01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 2: a body, folks. And I totally knew that lingo and

1622
01:27:20,400 --> 01:27:27,920
Speaker 2: slang right away. Family correct family, family.

1623
01:27:30,240 --> 01:27:31,439
Speaker 3: So he told her I have a Prime a gown.

1624
01:27:31,479 --> 01:27:33,439
Speaker 3: He would relate the message. I would then place the

1625
01:27:33,600 --> 01:27:36,680
Speaker 3: order and text her the tracking information. I don't know

1626
01:27:36,880 --> 01:27:38,920
Speaker 3: if this is where her being shy comes into play,

1627
01:27:39,280 --> 01:27:42,760
Speaker 3: but it would be the same approach. Every time she

1628
01:27:42,840 --> 01:27:46,200
Speaker 3: would call him directly ask him, and he would say,

1629
01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:51,240
Speaker 3: I'll ask Ope, she has prime, I do not. About

1630
01:27:51,240 --> 01:27:54,160
Speaker 3: a month after our last interaction, she called him to

1631
01:27:54,320 --> 01:27:58,960
Speaker 3: ask him to place an order. I come on, I

1632
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 3: know some people like this, and it really I mean,

1633
01:28:01,120 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 3: it's it's exhausting. Yeah, it's exhausting. Just talk to me,

1634
01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:07,639
Speaker 3: talk to who you need to talk to. Stop doing

1635
01:28:07,920 --> 01:28:09,200
Speaker 3: like phone tag.

1636
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:12,640
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm shy. No, I don't care. You scared me.

1637
01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:15,320
Speaker 3: I don't care. I'm scarier now because how am.

1638
01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:17,400
Speaker 1: I supposed to ice you out otherwise? How am I

1639
01:28:17,439 --> 01:28:21,400
Speaker 1: supposed to just make you go crazy by never talking

1640
01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:22,720
Speaker 1: to you or acknowledging you ever?

1641
01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:23,840
Speaker 2: How am I supposed to do it?

1642
01:28:24,200 --> 01:28:26,640
Speaker 3: Well, then you're not getting your Amazon order. Oh, I

1643
01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:27,720
Speaker 3: guess you're gonna have to talk to me.

1644
01:28:28,080 --> 01:28:33,559
Speaker 2: I can't confrontation. Huh, I guess nice guys don't get

1645
01:28:33,640 --> 01:28:34,920
Speaker 2: Amazone packages.

1646
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:37,760
Speaker 3: Okay, fine, you guys are so cute. I guess I'll

1647
01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:38,000
Speaker 3: do it.

1648
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:42,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how you gaslight somebody. You just gotta be cute.

1649
01:28:42,680 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 2: I don't even know the meaning of the word. Yeah, okay. Sure.

1650
01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:54,559
Speaker 3: So I was baffled after knowing that I am very

1651
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:57,400
Speaker 3: uncomfortable with how she treats me. She can't even send

1652
01:28:57,560 --> 01:29:02,080
Speaker 3: an apology text yet, how is she so comfortable asking

1653
01:29:02,240 --> 01:29:05,640
Speaker 3: me for favors? I told him exactly that, and he

1654
01:29:05,720 --> 01:29:08,320
Speaker 3: said he understands. He would ask her to reach out.

1655
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:10,679
Speaker 3: A few more weeks past and I get an email

1656
01:29:11,120 --> 01:29:14,560
Speaker 3: that reads, thank you for your order from Amazon. I

1657
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:16,719
Speaker 3: asked him if he placed the order on my phone

1658
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:19,760
Speaker 3: and he said yes, she sent the money, so I

1659
01:29:19,880 --> 01:29:22,360
Speaker 3: had to. I told him that I was not okay

1660
01:29:22,439 --> 01:29:24,200
Speaker 3: with him going behind my back to do something I

1661
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,960
Speaker 3: was not comfortable with. He said that she asked him

1662
01:29:27,040 --> 01:29:30,320
Speaker 3: to do her a favor, not me, but really she

1663
01:29:30,479 --> 01:29:33,320
Speaker 3: goes through him to avoid asking me. I told him

1664
01:29:33,360 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 3: that at this point, my issue is no longer with

1665
01:29:35,200 --> 01:29:37,439
Speaker 3: how she treats me. I am okay with not seeing

1666
01:29:37,520 --> 01:29:39,880
Speaker 3: or speaking to each other moving forward. I feel like

1667
01:29:40,000 --> 01:29:42,280
Speaker 3: I've been begging her to be nice to me, and

1668
01:29:42,400 --> 01:29:46,680
Speaker 3: I'm done. My issue is now with him. He is

1669
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:50,599
Speaker 3: responsible for making sure that his sister respects his wife,

1670
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:55,960
Speaker 3: and he has done a poor job of that. M Am,

1671
01:29:56,040 --> 01:29:58,280
Speaker 3: I the a hole for telling my husband that if

1672
01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:00,360
Speaker 3: she doesn't want to respect me, that it's it's okay.

1673
01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:03,200
Speaker 3: But when our baby comes, his sister will not be

1674
01:30:03,360 --> 01:30:08,960
Speaker 3: having a relationship with them. This may be a hot take,

1675
01:30:09,439 --> 01:30:11,800
Speaker 3: but I don't believe that anybody who disregards the well

1676
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:14,839
Speaker 3: being of the mother throughout her pregnancy should have access

1677
01:30:14,880 --> 01:30:18,200
Speaker 3: to the baby just because they're family. The other things

1678
01:30:18,240 --> 01:30:21,920
Speaker 3: I could let go of if she was empathetic during

1679
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:24,640
Speaker 3: this time. His other siblings check in on me and

1680
01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,920
Speaker 3: the baby often and are very supportive and encouraging. I

1681
01:30:27,960 --> 01:30:30,080
Speaker 3: would have the same feelings towards any of my family

1682
01:30:30,120 --> 01:30:32,800
Speaker 3: members if they treated me or a husband the way

1683
01:30:32,960 --> 01:30:36,880
Speaker 3: that his sister has been treating me. Sorry for such

1684
01:30:36,880 --> 01:30:39,519
Speaker 3: a long winded post. Let me know if you have

1685
01:30:39,600 --> 01:30:43,680
Speaker 3: any questions that will give better context. Thank you is

1686
01:30:43,720 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 3: an update, but before we get into that.

1687
01:30:46,320 --> 01:30:49,320
Speaker 2: Yes, how are we feeling?

1688
01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:53,000
Speaker 1: I like what she said, if you can't respect the mother,

1689
01:30:53,320 --> 01:30:55,599
Speaker 1: then you don't get time with the baby.

1690
01:30:56,280 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 2: Facts. That's one hundred big facts.

1691
01:30:58,640 --> 01:31:01,320
Speaker 1: And yeah, basically the sentiment that she's kind of said

1692
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:06,639
Speaker 1: throughout the story so far, like, husband, this is your sister.

1693
01:31:06,880 --> 01:31:10,479
Speaker 1: She has continued to disrespect me, and like at this point,

1694
01:31:10,760 --> 01:31:16,559
Speaker 1: I'm like you could this would be me personally. I'm like, listen,

1695
01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:19,880
Speaker 1: you can keep having a relationship with them, That's fine.

1696
01:31:19,880 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 2: I don't care.

1697
01:31:20,400 --> 01:31:22,360
Speaker 1: I don't want to get in between it there, but

1698
01:31:22,520 --> 01:31:26,600
Speaker 1: like I basically want zero interaction. Yeah, I'll still go

1699
01:31:26,720 --> 01:31:29,519
Speaker 1: to like the family get togethers whenever, but like she

1700
01:31:29,640 --> 01:31:33,600
Speaker 1: doesn't get to order packages on my freaking account, Like

1701
01:31:34,160 --> 01:31:36,479
Speaker 1: she doesn't get to like come come in our house

1702
01:31:36,600 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 1: and just like disrespect me and not even talk to

1703
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 1: me like that all stops unless you really can't get

1704
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,160
Speaker 1: through to her, which like and I'm and I'm gonna

1705
01:31:45,240 --> 01:31:49,000
Speaker 1: tell you straight up like if if she's actually come

1706
01:31:49,040 --> 01:31:51,240
Speaker 1: through or not, so unless you want to go through

1707
01:31:51,240 --> 01:31:53,360
Speaker 1: a whole thing of like this whole thing again of

1708
01:31:53,479 --> 01:31:55,960
Speaker 1: like going to her, Oh she apologizes it, and then

1709
01:31:56,000 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, no, she's literally not changed her behavior at all.

1710
01:31:58,560 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 2: So if you want to keep going through that put

1711
01:32:01,280 --> 01:32:02,479
Speaker 2: a wall up between us.

1712
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:07,559
Speaker 3: Yep, the apologies have to be followed up on with action, action, action,

1713
01:32:07,800 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 3: and change.

1714
01:32:09,120 --> 01:32:10,240
Speaker 2: She already didn't change once.

1715
01:32:10,320 --> 01:32:12,400
Speaker 3: And it's like I don't know, I wouldn't want to

1716
01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:14,559
Speaker 3: like watching the baby or like being around the baby

1717
01:32:14,600 --> 01:32:18,320
Speaker 3: if she's like like incapable of even like like so

1718
01:32:19,040 --> 01:32:22,000
Speaker 3: I can see from this perspective, it's like the sister

1719
01:32:22,080 --> 01:32:25,519
Speaker 3: in law like is already maybe like shy and then

1720
01:32:25,600 --> 01:32:29,160
Speaker 3: op makes like you know, brings up an issue that

1721
01:32:29,200 --> 01:32:31,640
Speaker 3: she has of being like, I feel like I'm being disrespected,

1722
01:32:32,000 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 3: and then that sort of feeds into the feedback loop

1723
01:32:34,160 --> 01:32:36,000
Speaker 3: that the sister in law hads. Now the sister in

1724
01:32:36,080 --> 01:32:37,559
Speaker 3: law is even more shy because she's like.

1725
01:32:37,640 --> 01:32:40,040
Speaker 2: Oh, I guess I'm being disrespectful all the time, and

1726
01:32:40,080 --> 01:32:42,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to be disrespectful accidentally, so I guess

1727
01:32:42,280 --> 01:32:44,320
Speaker 2: I just will never talk to her and just make

1728
01:32:44,360 --> 01:32:47,720
Speaker 2: her order stuff for me on Amazon, which is disrespectful. Yes,

1729
01:32:47,880 --> 01:32:51,320
Speaker 2: so it's like compounding the issue. Yeah, but like sister

1730
01:32:51,400 --> 01:32:54,160
Speaker 2: in law needs to, you know, get it together like

1731
01:32:54,479 --> 01:32:56,760
Speaker 2: a little have a little more self awareness here. That's it.

1732
01:32:56,960 --> 01:33:00,120
Speaker 1: Either either you do that or you don't get to

1733
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:03,320
Speaker 1: see me the baby use my Amazon character, I guess.

1734
01:33:03,439 --> 01:33:05,839
Speaker 3: But we didn't really talk about like is the husband

1735
01:33:05,960 --> 01:33:08,880
Speaker 3: like how much is the husband being an a hole here?

1736
01:33:10,000 --> 01:33:11,680
Speaker 3: I feel like he could have done a better job

1737
01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:12,919
Speaker 3: of like trying.

1738
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:18,360
Speaker 5: To husband's brother a yeah, yeah.

1739
01:33:18,439 --> 01:33:21,720
Speaker 2: For just letting the sort of disrespect perpetuate. Yeah, I

1740
01:33:21,920 --> 01:33:25,919
Speaker 2: think I think. So, I think I would be a little.

1741
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,000
Speaker 3: More defensive if it was like if it was my child,

1742
01:33:28,080 --> 01:33:31,400
Speaker 3: and like my own sister was like being kind of

1743
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:34,040
Speaker 3: icy to my wife, I'd be like, hey, stop hating

1744
01:33:34,080 --> 01:33:36,519
Speaker 3: my wife, but hey, we do have an update, so

1745
01:33:36,600 --> 01:33:40,840
Speaker 3: maybe we'll see the conclusion of this this storyline with

1746
01:33:40,920 --> 01:33:44,400
Speaker 3: the husband here, let's run it again, first time poster.

1747
01:33:44,880 --> 01:33:46,840
Speaker 3: So maybe I should have looked up Reddit etiquette to

1748
01:33:46,840 --> 01:33:48,679
Speaker 3: make sure I'm doing this right. Thank you to everybody

1749
01:33:49,000 --> 01:33:52,320
Speaker 3: for taking their time to respond. I appreciate all opinions

1750
01:33:52,360 --> 01:33:54,960
Speaker 3: and perspectives, even the ones that think I'm a crazy

1751
01:33:55,040 --> 01:33:58,880
Speaker 3: sensitive ahle who's going to die alone smiley face.

1752
01:34:00,360 --> 01:34:03,599
Speaker 2: Uh. I wanted to answer some recurring questions, so let's

1753
01:34:03,680 --> 01:34:03,920
Speaker 2: do it.

1754
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:07,920
Speaker 3: As far as autism and neurodiversity, I know that there

1755
01:34:08,040 --> 01:34:11,560
Speaker 3: is a not there is not a current diagnosis, and

1756
01:34:11,640 --> 01:34:14,000
Speaker 3: I'm not familiar enough with the traits to say if

1757
01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:16,040
Speaker 3: I think that could be a factor. I find this

1758
01:34:16,160 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 3: take very interesting because if she genuinely does not realize

1759
01:34:19,160 --> 01:34:21,559
Speaker 3: that her actions can be perceived as rude as they claim,

1760
01:34:22,040 --> 01:34:23,720
Speaker 3: then this would explain.

1761
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:27,320
Speaker 2: A lot Some people to think seem to think it

1762
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:29,280
Speaker 2: is a huge concern that my husband is not a

1763
01:34:29,439 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 2: user on my Prime account. The priorities, right, Yeah, let's

1764
01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:36,519
Speaker 2: go the real questions in real answer.

1765
01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:42,400
Speaker 3: Honestly, neither of us knew that it was a feature.

1766
01:34:42,880 --> 01:34:45,080
Speaker 3: I subscribed a long time ago for free shipping and

1767
01:34:45,160 --> 01:34:48,360
Speaker 3: never paid much attention to the different features. Good to know, though,

1768
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:51,920
Speaker 3: so I guess good job that they're joined?

1769
01:34:52,320 --> 01:34:54,479
Speaker 2: Are you? Do you have a conjoined Prime account? Though?

1770
01:34:54,880 --> 01:34:57,760
Speaker 2: Do you know? Do you know where your husband's account is?

1771
01:34:58,479 --> 01:35:02,080
Speaker 2: That's ten PM? Yeah? Wow, it's ten PM? Who's on

1772
01:35:02,160 --> 01:35:03,840
Speaker 2: your Prime account? Is it your husband? Or is a

1773
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:04,680
Speaker 2: sister in law? Oh?

1774
01:35:06,880 --> 01:35:10,479
Speaker 3: Some people asked if I am the only sister in

1775
01:35:10,560 --> 01:35:14,080
Speaker 3: law and the answer is yes. My husband is the

1776
01:35:14,160 --> 01:35:17,519
Speaker 3: oldest and the first to marry. Why do I care

1777
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:20,040
Speaker 3: if she likes me or not? Call me stupid, but

1778
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:22,799
Speaker 3: ideally I would like to get along with the family

1779
01:35:22,840 --> 01:35:23,479
Speaker 3: I married into.

1780
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:27,519
Speaker 2: Yeahay, no, duh, gotcha.

1781
01:35:29,080 --> 01:35:31,280
Speaker 3: No, we do not need to be bestie, but to

1782
01:35:31,400 --> 01:35:35,800
Speaker 3: pretend like the other person doesn't exist. Just because that's

1783
01:35:35,920 --> 01:35:39,200
Speaker 3: unnatural to me, I will no longer force it, but

1784
01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:41,120
Speaker 3: I at least had to try to see if it

1785
01:35:41,160 --> 01:35:44,120
Speaker 3: could work. Am I mad because she will not make

1786
01:35:44,200 --> 01:35:48,840
Speaker 3: small talk? No, the greetings doesn't have to expand into conversation.

1787
01:35:49,439 --> 01:35:52,720
Speaker 3: She said she didn't even say hello in my own home,

1788
01:35:53,120 --> 01:35:56,080
Speaker 3: or I said, she didn't even say hello in my

1789
01:35:56,200 --> 01:35:59,120
Speaker 3: own home, which is not small talk. That's just manners.

1790
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:03,080
Speaker 3: I mentioned that small talk is non existent for context. Also,

1791
01:36:03,400 --> 01:36:07,200
Speaker 3: it's much less about the congratulations and about the principle

1792
01:36:07,439 --> 01:36:10,640
Speaker 3: of just acknowledging her existence.

1793
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:11,360
Speaker 2: Yeah right.

1794
01:36:13,360 --> 01:36:15,800
Speaker 3: Some people think that she will not care to know

1795
01:36:15,920 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 3: the baby based on how she treats me. While that

1796
01:36:19,320 --> 01:36:22,320
Speaker 3: is a possibility, I highly doubt it because they are

1797
01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:26,240
Speaker 3: a very close family and I just cannot imagine her

1798
01:36:26,360 --> 01:36:30,160
Speaker 3: ignoring this child in the same way. Why am I

1799
01:36:30,280 --> 01:36:31,519
Speaker 3: weaponizing the baby?

1800
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:32,760
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1801
01:36:33,680 --> 01:36:37,160
Speaker 3: My goal is not to hurt her or gain anything

1802
01:36:37,240 --> 01:36:40,200
Speaker 3: from this. Someone mentioned me using the baby to get

1803
01:36:40,240 --> 01:36:41,120
Speaker 3: her to be nice to me.

1804
01:36:41,560 --> 01:36:42,799
Speaker 2: The point is being missed.

1805
01:36:43,520 --> 01:36:46,200
Speaker 3: If I'm supposed to avoid this person for my own piece,

1806
01:36:46,640 --> 01:36:49,240
Speaker 3: why would I put the baby in that same uncomfortable

1807
01:36:49,280 --> 01:36:52,560
Speaker 3: position that I just remove myself from, Because there's a

1808
01:36:52,640 --> 01:36:53,719
Speaker 3: fifty to fifty chance.

1809
01:36:53,600 --> 01:36:57,160
Speaker 2: That she will treat them differently. So we're just gambling

1810
01:36:57,200 --> 01:36:58,160
Speaker 2: with our children.

1811
01:36:57,880 --> 01:37:00,640
Speaker 1: Out of here, got it? Okay, you do have to

1812
01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:06,400
Speaker 1: just throw this out there. The husband is like, uh oh, hey,

1813
01:37:06,880 --> 01:37:07,519
Speaker 1: here's the baby.

1814
01:37:07,600 --> 01:37:09,040
Speaker 2: You could you could go in the nursery. She's in

1815
01:37:09,080 --> 01:37:12,200
Speaker 2: the crib, right, sister in law walks up to the crib,

1816
01:37:13,160 --> 01:37:15,120
Speaker 2: peers over. It's like, oh, look, she's like turned to

1817
01:37:15,200 --> 01:37:17,560
Speaker 2: the side. I can't see her face. Blanket you know

1818
01:37:17,760 --> 01:37:20,519
Speaker 2: in the way or whatever pulls back the blanket. It's

1819
01:37:20,600 --> 01:37:24,400
Speaker 2: op in a little like you know, baby suit thing

1820
01:37:24,520 --> 01:37:26,519
Speaker 2: with like her head popping up and she's like, ah,

1821
01:37:27,360 --> 01:37:30,640
Speaker 2: I got you. Now you have to pay attention. Now

1822
01:37:30,720 --> 01:37:31,560
Speaker 2: you have to talk to me.

1823
01:37:31,760 --> 01:37:35,560
Speaker 3: John plays the long con everybody John says, he's like

1824
01:37:35,680 --> 01:37:38,000
Speaker 3: he plans and he schemes with his wisdom.

1825
01:37:38,840 --> 01:37:43,520
Speaker 2: He has He has scrolls full of schemes many many years, dusty.

1826
01:37:43,280 --> 01:37:47,960
Speaker 3: Scrolls full of ancient schemes that passed down through the generations.

1827
01:37:48,080 --> 01:37:50,400
Speaker 2: Me and my felder elder scrolls have been have been

1828
01:37:50,479 --> 01:37:51,320
Speaker 2: swapping notes.

1829
01:37:51,880 --> 01:37:55,080
Speaker 3: We're all old swapping scrolls, swapping scroll bro.

1830
01:37:55,160 --> 01:37:57,679
Speaker 2: We be swapping it rolls. We're in scroll club.

1831
01:37:57,840 --> 01:38:06,519
Speaker 3: Could it be all elder bros bro, Yes, let us

1832
01:38:06,600 --> 01:38:10,720
Speaker 3: know in the chat. The biggest concern has been with

1833
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:14,920
Speaker 3: my husband. I appreciate all of the advice and suggestions

1834
01:38:15,000 --> 01:38:16,840
Speaker 3: on how to approach this topic with him.

1835
01:38:17,240 --> 01:38:19,920
Speaker 2: Moving forward and by the way, moving forward. You can

1836
01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:22,840
Speaker 2: join us live on YouTube every weekday at three pm.

1837
01:38:23,120 --> 01:38:27,240
Speaker 2: Just tap our profile. Do it. Just do it. Honestly,

1838
01:38:27,360 --> 01:38:28,080
Speaker 2: you're like, just do it.

1839
01:38:29,400 --> 01:38:31,360
Speaker 3: I do not know how long this post will be

1840
01:38:31,520 --> 01:38:34,200
Speaker 3: up because this is my first time signing up to

1841
01:38:34,280 --> 01:38:37,200
Speaker 3: have my personal life picked apart by strangers, so it

1842
01:38:37,280 --> 01:38:40,759
Speaker 3: can be a bit overwhelming a helpful experience.

1843
01:38:40,840 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 2: Nonetheless, again, thank you for your time. So that's the

1844
01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:45,600
Speaker 2: end of that.

1845
01:38:45,760 --> 01:38:49,840
Speaker 3: We didn't really get an update on status of like husbands.

1846
01:38:50,600 --> 01:38:52,400
Speaker 2: You know, is he the a hole? Is he not?

1847
01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:58,720
Speaker 3: From Op's perspective, although she definitely was upset that he

1848
01:38:58,880 --> 01:39:04,880
Speaker 3: was not backing her up. Yeah, I guess just like

1849
01:39:05,479 --> 01:39:09,040
Speaker 3: it's at the end of the day, like it's your kid,

1850
01:39:10,040 --> 01:39:14,040
Speaker 3: you can kind of dictate who you want.

1851
01:39:14,720 --> 01:39:15,000
Speaker 2: I get.

1852
01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:17,320
Speaker 3: I get it being like, yeah, she wasn't concerned about

1853
01:39:17,360 --> 01:39:19,400
Speaker 3: me as the pregnant mother. It's like why should she

1854
01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:22,720
Speaker 3: now be able to like be concerned for my kid.

1855
01:39:23,360 --> 01:39:25,719
Speaker 3: And also it's like I would kind of be nervous

1856
01:39:25,760 --> 01:39:28,760
Speaker 3: if it's like what if you know, like if she

1857
01:39:29,080 --> 01:39:31,800
Speaker 3: you know, like I wouldn't want her like watching the

1858
01:39:31,880 --> 01:39:34,519
Speaker 3: kid for sure. Yeah, because it's like what if she's

1859
01:39:34,600 --> 01:39:37,439
Speaker 3: like too anxious or like nervous to like call nine

1860
01:39:37,479 --> 01:39:40,280
Speaker 3: one one, like if like something happens, or it's like,

1861
01:39:40,320 --> 01:39:42,000
Speaker 3: you know, something's wrong with the baby and she's like.

1862
01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:44,240
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I guess I'm gonna

1863
01:39:44,280 --> 01:39:47,760
Speaker 2: just you know, get anxious about it in silence and

1864
01:39:48,160 --> 01:39:50,400
Speaker 2: do nothing about it. I guess I'm just gonna order

1865
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:52,840
Speaker 2: something else in your private out through my brother and

1866
01:39:53,080 --> 01:39:53,519
Speaker 2: your husband.

1867
01:39:53,960 --> 01:39:56,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think really quick, just to uh some of

1868
01:39:56,560 --> 01:39:59,840
Speaker 1: the comments that I did hear, I think she can

1869
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:02,720
Speaker 1: almost do the same thing while kind of making it

1870
01:40:02,840 --> 01:40:04,519
Speaker 1: less about the baby and just be like, listen, I

1871
01:40:04,600 --> 01:40:07,560
Speaker 1: don't really like if you're just gonna not acknowledging me

1872
01:40:07,640 --> 01:40:10,120
Speaker 1: and not respect me, I don't really want to be

1873
01:40:10,200 --> 01:40:12,960
Speaker 1: involved with you, which means you coming over to see

1874
01:40:13,000 --> 01:40:16,880
Speaker 1: the baby and things like that. So it's it's almost

1875
01:40:16,960 --> 01:40:19,360
Speaker 1: more of like a like a framing, if you will.

1876
01:40:19,640 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 1: But I think it's more like, hey, listen, if you

1877
01:40:22,120 --> 01:40:25,080
Speaker 1: don't want to acknowledge me, great, but then I'm just

1878
01:40:25,200 --> 01:40:29,160
Speaker 1: gonna not acknowledge you, And therefore she doesn't interact with

1879
01:40:29,479 --> 01:40:33,800
Speaker 1: the baby because and it's just so I guess it's

1880
01:40:33,960 --> 01:40:37,200
Speaker 1: less like because I feel I could get lost in

1881
01:40:37,280 --> 01:40:39,840
Speaker 1: translation or seem like what people are saying, Oh, is

1882
01:40:39,840 --> 01:40:42,280
Speaker 1: she using the baby to weaponize Da Dada. It's like, no,

1883
01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:45,040
Speaker 1: I just don't want to see you, so because you're

1884
01:40:45,080 --> 01:40:47,560
Speaker 1: not coming over and whatever else, you're not seeing the

1885
01:40:47,600 --> 01:40:48,200
Speaker 1: baby that way, And.

1886
01:40:48,200 --> 01:40:50,439
Speaker 3: If you literally can't acknowledge my existence, why would you

1887
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:51,559
Speaker 3: even want to see my kid anyway?

1888
01:40:51,640 --> 01:40:54,320
Speaker 2: Let's be honest one percent. And I know that there's

1889
01:40:54,439 --> 01:40:54,720
Speaker 2: like the.

1890
01:40:54,760 --> 01:40:57,240
Speaker 3: Neurospiciness is like thrown in there as a question mark

1891
01:40:57,280 --> 01:40:59,320
Speaker 3: would be we don't know, like at this point, like

1892
01:40:59,400 --> 01:41:01,479
Speaker 3: with the family being like, yeah, she's the only girl

1893
01:41:01,520 --> 01:41:03,360
Speaker 3: in the family and we've all just learned to deal

1894
01:41:03,400 --> 01:41:06,200
Speaker 3: with her. Antics really feels like this is not a

1895
01:41:06,280 --> 01:41:07,920
Speaker 3: case of she does not know what she's doing. She

1896
01:41:08,040 --> 01:41:09,760
Speaker 3: knows what she's doing. That's what I'm gonna say.

1897
01:41:09,800 --> 01:41:12,800
Speaker 1: I think it's just like, uh, whether or not it

1898
01:41:12,960 --> 01:41:15,599
Speaker 1: is the neurospiciness, that's not what Opie deserves.

1899
01:41:15,640 --> 01:41:18,040
Speaker 2: OPI doesn't deserve to be ignored.

1900
01:41:18,240 --> 01:41:21,400
Speaker 1: So it's just like, yeah, I just you know, I

1901
01:41:21,439 --> 01:41:22,880
Speaker 1: don't know, I don't I don't I don't want to

1902
01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:25,160
Speaker 1: have to deal with that, you know, the op Opie

1903
01:41:25,400 --> 01:41:28,720
Speaker 1: doesn't deserve to deal with that just because they or

1904
01:41:28,800 --> 01:41:31,040
Speaker 1: may not be a case no one's getting tested whatever,

1905
01:41:31,320 --> 01:41:32,519
Speaker 1: like oh, doesn't deserve it.

1906
01:41:32,720 --> 01:41:34,439
Speaker 2: It's just putting strain out there, that's true.

1907
01:41:34,479 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 1: But we do deserve to bring these a mother freaking

1908
01:41:37,040 --> 01:41:39,960
Speaker 1: donos unless the money takes out of five bucks. Finally

1909
01:41:39,960 --> 01:41:42,040
Speaker 1: got my son into a specialists, found out that he's

1910
01:41:42,120 --> 01:41:44,040
Speaker 1: going deaf surgery for him soon.

1911
01:41:44,600 --> 01:41:44,720
Speaker 2: Uh.

1912
01:41:44,920 --> 01:41:47,439
Speaker 1: You guys make these hard days tolerable. And the Okay

1913
01:41:47,560 --> 01:41:49,360
Speaker 1: Chat Fam, I want to see.

1914
01:41:49,800 --> 01:41:54,000
Speaker 2: A bazillion parts in the chat Alissa, best of luck

1915
01:41:54,080 --> 01:41:57,599
Speaker 2: and prayers out to you and your son. Chat. Let's

1916
01:41:57,720 --> 01:41:59,360
Speaker 2: let's show a less of the love one.

1917
01:41:59,320 --> 01:42:02,560
Speaker 3: But that the Okay fam can give quadrilliant hearts.

1918
01:42:02,280 --> 01:42:06,680
Speaker 1: In the Chat one Quadrillian hearts. Yes and Celine g

1919
01:42:06,960 --> 01:42:10,600
Speaker 1: thanks for joining the shing ching the nights. Love to

1920
01:42:10,640 --> 01:42:10,920
Speaker 1: see that.

1921
01:42:11,600 --> 01:42:13,839
Speaker 2: And then Jessica celebrating six months of membership.

1922
01:42:14,160 --> 01:42:16,920
Speaker 1: I got halfway through the sixth parter on the do

1923
01:42:17,000 --> 01:42:19,680
Speaker 1: It for Dan episode and went to bed. Can't wait

1924
01:42:19,760 --> 01:42:23,320
Speaker 1: to finish that one. OMG, the audacity of Dan. I

1925
01:42:23,640 --> 01:42:27,799
Speaker 1: was dying laughing at y'all. Love Orange.

1926
01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:30,360
Speaker 2: It was a crazy episode. I'm sorry you guys missed it.

1927
01:42:30,640 --> 01:42:32,760
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have you to catch you up whenever we.

1928
01:42:32,800 --> 01:42:34,559
Speaker 2: Have a spare six hours. Just check it out.

1929
01:42:35,360 --> 01:42:37,840
Speaker 1: Emily, thanks for to ten bucks. Don't like Dakota. What

1930
01:42:38,040 --> 01:42:40,559
Speaker 1: is your favorite color? Asking for creative reasons.

1931
01:42:41,200 --> 01:42:44,200
Speaker 2: My favorite color changes, it does not stay stable. I

1932
01:42:44,200 --> 01:42:45,200
Speaker 2: don't have a favorite color.

1933
01:42:45,320 --> 01:42:48,400
Speaker 3: Maybe like right now, Yeah, that's I mean, that would

1934
01:42:48,439 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 3: be my answer.

1935
01:42:49,040 --> 01:42:52,720
Speaker 2: John, John, do you love all colors? Sure? All right?

1936
01:42:52,800 --> 01:42:55,800
Speaker 2: So your favorite color is white, because it is all

1937
01:42:55,840 --> 01:42:56,519
Speaker 2: colors white?

1938
01:42:56,600 --> 01:42:59,200
Speaker 3: No, actually, white, white is the I'm gonna go ahead

1939
01:42:59,200 --> 01:43:00,880
Speaker 3: and call you on that right now now, as your elder.

1940
01:43:00,960 --> 01:43:03,559
Speaker 2: White is the absence of color. Black is all colors.

1941
01:43:04,240 --> 01:43:06,799
Speaker 2: I thought I thought black absorbed all colors.

1942
01:43:07,640 --> 01:43:11,880
Speaker 6: I am in the middle of this battlefield, so exactly black,

1943
01:43:12,320 --> 01:43:20,160
Speaker 6: black reflects all, or absorbs all of the spectrum of light,

1944
01:43:20,360 --> 01:43:23,639
Speaker 6: the full visible spectrum, so it absorbs everything.

1945
01:43:24,200 --> 01:43:26,840
Speaker 2: White reflects every.

1946
01:43:28,160 --> 01:43:30,760
Speaker 3: Every wavelength on the visible spectrum, which is why it's

1947
01:43:30,800 --> 01:43:33,400
Speaker 3: the absence of color. So black is every single color

1948
01:43:33,439 --> 01:43:35,520
Speaker 3: on the color spectrum at the same time being absorbed.

1949
01:43:35,560 --> 01:43:40,320
Speaker 2: Okay, we'll split the middle. John loves gray. I love nothing.

1950
01:43:40,840 --> 01:43:45,320
Speaker 2: I love you. I love it you, buddy. Then who else?

1951
01:43:45,680 --> 01:43:49,280
Speaker 2: Oh bring me the horizon. My goodness, gracious Bree is

1952
01:43:49,400 --> 01:43:52,320
Speaker 2: just absolutely on fire. I gotta say it. This weekend.

1953
01:43:52,400 --> 01:43:54,600
Speaker 2: But let's keep this going. Chris, Oh, I already read that,

1954
01:43:54,640 --> 01:43:55,960
Speaker 2: but it's so nice. I had to read it twice.

1955
01:43:56,439 --> 01:43:58,160
Speaker 2: And with that, I think we're going to have to

1956
01:43:58,200 --> 01:44:00,519
Speaker 2: pick a color though. For Emily, Oh, yes, pick your color.

1957
01:44:00,680 --> 01:44:02,719
Speaker 2: You're so distracted. You have a coin.

1958
01:44:04,320 --> 01:44:06,800
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna randomly pick between the cock or front

1959
01:44:07,200 --> 01:44:12,519
Speaker 3: purple and orange. Front is purple, back is orange. We

1960
01:44:12,640 --> 01:44:15,000
Speaker 3: got orange orange orange.

1961
01:44:14,680 --> 01:44:15,120
Speaker 2: On the back.

1962
01:44:18,560 --> 01:44:21,760
Speaker 3: Yep, I guess so orange, orange and blue, which are

1963
01:44:21,840 --> 01:44:23,400
Speaker 3: actually complimentary colors.

1964
01:44:24,520 --> 01:44:28,880
Speaker 2: That's funny how that worked out. That was random? Right?

1965
01:44:32,200 --> 01:44:33,439
Speaker 2: Is a blue?

1966
01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:33,600
Speaker 5: Now?

1967
01:44:33,680 --> 01:44:42,360
Speaker 2: We believe are on our episode the okay d Coda

1968
01:44:42,400 --> 01:44:48,080
Speaker 2: still reading? Okay, okay, okay, I don't know. Yes, we

1969
01:44:48,160 --> 01:44:52,519
Speaker 2: are torturing Dakota. We're we are taking Dakota's gorgeous face

1970
01:44:52,640 --> 01:44:58,360
Speaker 2: and just pushing it everywhere, pumping it. Hmmm, you gotta

1971
01:44:58,360 --> 01:45:02,360
Speaker 2: grow it out. No, I don't want that. I want

1972
01:45:02,360 --> 01:45:05,680
Speaker 2: I don't want chat chat you want it? Right? Uh?

1973
01:45:06,040 --> 01:45:11,840
Speaker 2: Huh uh? What what's our number? Uh? Five? Nine five

1974
01:45:11,880 --> 01:45:18,479
Speaker 2: eight eight? Yeah, I did it. You gotta take safety

1975
01:45:18,560 --> 01:45:21,800
Speaker 2: tape off. How's my scrolling, guys? How's my scrolling guys?

1976
01:45:21,880 --> 01:45:36,880
Speaker 2: And guys and gals ands. All right, s one ready

1977
01:45:36,920 --> 01:45:44,439
Speaker 2: whenever you're ready. I am ready, I'm ready. Okay, okay,

1978
01:45:44,920 --> 01:45:53,000
Speaker 2: So here's the earth. Uhh uh. My mom wants me

1979
01:45:53,160 --> 01:45:56,240
Speaker 2: to sell her house when she dies by bad. Let

1980
01:45:56,280 --> 01:45:58,160
Speaker 2: me do that again because that wish efforts.

1981
01:45:59,120 --> 01:46:01,599
Speaker 3: My mom wants me to sell her house when she dies.

1982
01:46:02,200 --> 01:46:05,120
Speaker 3: Now my sister is trying to bully her out of it.

1983
01:46:07,920 --> 01:46:09,519
Speaker 3: That's just a fun family time.

1984
01:46:09,640 --> 01:46:09,840
Speaker 5: Huh.

1985
01:46:10,000 --> 01:46:12,200
Speaker 2: Don't do that fun time for the whole family.

1986
01:46:13,439 --> 01:46:16,600
Speaker 3: So my eighty three year old mother had her financial

1987
01:46:16,720 --> 01:46:20,120
Speaker 3: power of attorney changed from my sister and me being

1988
01:46:20,280 --> 01:46:23,880
Speaker 3: co financial power of attorneys to me being the sole

1989
01:46:24,080 --> 01:46:25,320
Speaker 3: financial power of attorney.

1990
01:46:25,360 --> 01:46:27,120
Speaker 2: That's a lot of financial power of attorneys. That's a

1991
01:46:27,200 --> 01:46:28,840
Speaker 2: lot of FPOA.

1992
01:46:30,880 --> 01:46:33,679
Speaker 3: The purpose was to make sure her house is sold

1993
01:46:33,720 --> 01:46:36,639
Speaker 3: after she dies and that the profit is split between

1994
01:46:36,720 --> 01:46:39,559
Speaker 3: my sister and I. She needed to do this because

1995
01:46:39,600 --> 01:46:42,120
Speaker 3: my sister mentioned a few times that she was just

1996
01:46:42,240 --> 01:46:44,640
Speaker 3: going to let her son and his kids live in

1997
01:46:44,720 --> 01:46:46,360
Speaker 3: the house or her daughter.

1998
01:46:47,640 --> 01:46:48,320
Speaker 2: And her family.

1999
01:46:49,600 --> 01:46:52,120
Speaker 3: By the way, this is coming from user no More

2000
01:46:52,200 --> 01:46:53,040
Speaker 3: Drama on the r.

2001
01:46:53,120 --> 01:46:58,479
Speaker 2: Slash okay storytime subreddit, So either way, no one was

2002
01:46:58,520 --> 01:46:59,439
Speaker 2: going to pay for the house.

2003
01:46:59,520 --> 01:47:03,040
Speaker 3: And any quote inheritance. My mom intended the house to

2004
01:47:03,120 --> 01:47:06,040
Speaker 3: bring would never come because it would not be sold.

2005
01:47:06,720 --> 01:47:10,599
Speaker 3: My mom is one hundred percent against this. My nephew

2006
01:47:10,960 --> 01:47:13,840
Speaker 3: is thirty three years old and pretty much a free loader.

2007
01:47:14,520 --> 01:47:17,960
Speaker 3: He has mowing. He has a mowing business.

2008
01:47:18,320 --> 01:47:22,200
Speaker 2: I thought it was mewing. I can't chat. I can't

2009
01:47:22,200 --> 01:47:24,840
Speaker 2: do it. That's my weakness. I can't view, can't I

2010
01:47:24,880 --> 01:47:28,760
Speaker 2: can't do it, I can't mod I did it? You

2011
01:47:28,800 --> 01:47:29,080
Speaker 2: missed it?

2012
01:47:29,320 --> 01:47:29,479
Speaker 5: Ah?

2013
01:47:29,760 --> 01:47:31,200
Speaker 2: Okay, it's okay, it's okay.

2014
01:47:32,120 --> 01:47:34,559
Speaker 3: Uh. So he has a mowing business, but it doesn't

2015
01:47:34,560 --> 01:47:37,360
Speaker 3: seem to be very busy anymore. He needs another job

2016
01:47:37,520 --> 01:47:39,840
Speaker 3: to help bring in money, but he's told me he

2017
01:47:40,000 --> 01:47:42,000
Speaker 3: isn't going to apply for any kind of job if

2018
01:47:42,000 --> 01:47:43,840
Speaker 3: it's not something he wants to do as a career.

2019
01:47:44,680 --> 01:47:47,040
Speaker 3: But there's also another side of the story there.

2020
01:47:48,400 --> 01:47:49,080
Speaker 2: What could it be?

2021
01:47:52,080 --> 01:47:52,200
Speaker 4: Uh?

2022
01:47:53,600 --> 01:47:56,160
Speaker 3: But my sister thinks that this is his chance to

2023
01:47:56,320 --> 01:47:59,000
Speaker 3: not have to work like a real adult in order

2024
01:47:59,120 --> 01:47:59,880
Speaker 3: to have a house.

2025
01:48:00,640 --> 01:48:03,960
Speaker 2: Wait, was that the other side of the story, right?

2026
01:48:04,800 --> 01:48:07,080
Speaker 3: I guess that is him the butt threw me off

2027
01:48:07,120 --> 01:48:07,639
Speaker 3: at the beginning.

2028
01:48:07,800 --> 01:48:11,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, So the other side of the story is that

2029
01:48:11,160 --> 01:48:15,000
Speaker 2: my sister thinks that, what did you just your butt

2030
01:48:15,040 --> 01:48:18,920
Speaker 2: always throws me off. Yeah, well there's a lot, there's

2031
01:48:18,920 --> 01:48:22,040
Speaker 2: a lot of butt throwing around, a lot of butts

2032
01:48:22,040 --> 01:48:24,599
Speaker 2: are being thrown, butts are swinging. Who's going to catch him?

2033
01:48:24,840 --> 01:48:27,639
Speaker 2: He's going to catch those butts chat, not me. Who's

2034
01:48:27,840 --> 01:48:29,040
Speaker 2: who's responsibility?

2035
01:48:29,280 --> 01:48:32,920
Speaker 3: I'm ready, he said, he already said yes to that dress.

2036
01:48:33,000 --> 01:48:36,120
Speaker 2: Next part of your training. I say yes to this. Yeah,

2037
01:48:36,320 --> 01:48:36,720
Speaker 2: let's do it.

2038
01:48:37,720 --> 01:48:42,400
Speaker 3: The cheeks Okay, too much butt, too much butt, butt overload,

2039
01:48:42,520 --> 01:48:46,600
Speaker 3: moving on. So my sister thinks that really this is

2040
01:48:46,680 --> 01:48:48,679
Speaker 3: his chance to not have to work like a real

2041
01:48:48,760 --> 01:48:50,439
Speaker 3: adult in order to have a house.

2042
01:48:50,560 --> 01:48:52,840
Speaker 2: Indeed, okay, my adult.

2043
01:48:52,680 --> 01:48:55,080
Speaker 3: Niece had told my mom that she and her husband

2044
01:48:55,120 --> 01:48:57,240
Speaker 3: would love to live in the house, but my mom

2045
01:48:57,360 --> 01:48:59,320
Speaker 3: has straight up told her they would need to buy

2046
01:48:59,360 --> 01:49:01,640
Speaker 3: it off of my in me so we get our

2047
01:49:01,720 --> 01:49:02,599
Speaker 3: inheritance money.

2048
01:49:02,720 --> 01:49:05,400
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, he just did a house for no reason.

2049
01:49:05,640 --> 01:49:09,080
Speaker 3: Mom's will is that she wants the house money to

2050
01:49:09,240 --> 01:49:14,280
Speaker 3: go to the sisters. That's how it's gotta go. My

2051
01:49:14,479 --> 01:49:19,759
Speaker 3: niece acted a little offended, but then said, oh well yeah, yeah, okay,

2052
01:49:20,640 --> 01:49:23,040
Speaker 3: kind of like she was just agreeing to make my

2053
01:49:23,160 --> 01:49:27,400
Speaker 3: mom happy. My mom has taken fabulous care of her

2054
01:49:27,439 --> 01:49:29,880
Speaker 3: home and property, and the house is worth a good

2055
01:49:30,000 --> 01:49:32,920
Speaker 3: amount of money. She was a teacher and knew this

2056
01:49:33,000 --> 01:49:34,760
Speaker 3: would be the only way she'd be able to leave

2057
01:49:34,840 --> 01:49:39,000
Speaker 3: us with an inheritance. The change was made to make

2058
01:49:39,439 --> 01:49:42,439
Speaker 3: me the financial power of attorney to make sure the

2059
01:49:42,520 --> 01:49:45,320
Speaker 3: house is sold. There was nothing else changed in the

2060
01:49:45,400 --> 01:49:47,960
Speaker 3: will to leave anyone out or to give anyone more

2061
01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:50,680
Speaker 3: than anyone else. So I guess she just made the

2062
01:49:50,800 --> 01:49:53,519
Speaker 3: call that like OP was the one who needed to

2063
01:49:53,600 --> 01:49:56,680
Speaker 3: be making calls. Still wants to split the profit of

2064
01:49:56,720 --> 01:49:59,360
Speaker 3: the house down the middle with OP and Op's sister,

2065
01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:02,559
Speaker 3: But now Op is just the one pulling the trigger

2066
01:50:02,640 --> 01:50:04,040
Speaker 3: on that process.

2067
01:50:04,560 --> 01:50:07,040
Speaker 2: She's the shot caller when it comes to selling the house.

2068
01:50:07,240 --> 01:50:09,680
Speaker 2: This is good, okay, as long as the bills on her.

2069
01:50:10,479 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 3: But oh now my sister and her daughter are being

2070
01:50:16,560 --> 01:50:20,559
Speaker 3: incredibly obnoxious about it and have been harassing my mom,

2071
01:50:21,000 --> 01:50:25,960
Speaker 3: accusing me of manipulating her. Oh, I had done nothing,

2072
01:50:27,439 --> 01:50:29,400
Speaker 3: and I had nothing to do with her making the

2073
01:50:29,479 --> 01:50:33,760
Speaker 3: decision about the f POA, which is financial power of

2074
01:50:33,760 --> 01:50:38,439
Speaker 3: attorney For those listening, She recognized that my sister was

2075
01:50:38,560 --> 01:50:41,880
Speaker 3: intent on preventing the sale of the house by letting

2076
01:50:41,920 --> 01:50:45,640
Speaker 3: her kids live there, and I would receive no inheritance.

2077
01:50:46,560 --> 01:50:49,760
Speaker 3: My mom has given my sister and her kids money

2078
01:50:49,880 --> 01:50:53,360
Speaker 3: constantly through the years to help them with things, primarily

2079
01:50:53,479 --> 01:50:57,360
Speaker 3: because they're irresponsible. She doesn't want them to continue to

2080
01:50:57,400 --> 01:51:00,920
Speaker 3: take advantage of her as after she dies. She replied

2081
01:51:00,920 --> 01:51:03,120
Speaker 3: to them multiple times that I had nothing to do

2082
01:51:03,360 --> 01:51:07,120
Speaker 3: with this issue, but they won't back down. I had

2083
01:51:07,200 --> 01:51:09,720
Speaker 3: to report them to the state for elder abuse this

2084
01:51:09,840 --> 01:51:15,800
Speaker 3: morning because yeah, crazy left turn less than a week ago.

2085
01:51:16,560 --> 01:51:20,720
Speaker 3: They've texted her at least three hundred times over this.

2086
01:51:21,640 --> 01:51:25,000
Speaker 3: They called her being belligerent enough that my mom has

2087
01:51:25,160 --> 01:51:27,880
Speaker 3: hung up on them and blocked them just so she

2088
01:51:28,000 --> 01:51:32,720
Speaker 3: can calm down and sleep. Wow, so literally harassing her

2089
01:51:32,880 --> 01:51:35,840
Speaker 3: so hard that she had to call the state to

2090
01:51:35,960 --> 01:51:36,400
Speaker 3: get them to.

2091
01:51:36,479 --> 01:51:39,920
Speaker 2: Leave her alone. Wild, that's way too much.

2092
01:51:40,160 --> 01:51:42,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you think that that's what the three

2093
01:51:43,000 --> 01:51:47,679
Speaker 3: hundred and first time that you call, she's gonna be like, okay, fine, yeah, fine,

2094
01:51:47,960 --> 01:51:53,400
Speaker 3: sure he'll do it. So she unblocked them this morning,

2095
01:51:53,479 --> 01:51:56,240
Speaker 3: and I think that there hasn't been any more harassment today.

2096
01:51:56,600 --> 01:51:59,240
Speaker 2: But my sister is a real piece of work.

2097
01:52:00,000 --> 01:52:04,760
Speaker 3: The lies they've been texting are ridiculous and comical. Last year,

2098
01:52:04,800 --> 01:52:06,799
Speaker 3: I told my sister I needed to get an appraisal

2099
01:52:06,880 --> 01:52:10,000
Speaker 3: on a diamond ring my mom gave me thirty years

2100
01:52:10,040 --> 01:52:13,160
Speaker 3: ago because I've never worn it and it's just, you know,

2101
01:52:13,520 --> 01:52:15,719
Speaker 3: been wasting sitting in my safe.

2102
01:52:17,320 --> 01:52:18,160
Speaker 2: She's used to that.

2103
01:52:18,320 --> 01:52:21,720
Speaker 3: She's used that to lie to my mom that I

2104
01:52:21,800 --> 01:52:24,040
Speaker 3: said I was going to have all of my mom's

2105
01:52:24,160 --> 01:52:27,200
Speaker 3: jewelry of praise to sell after she dies so I

2106
01:52:27,280 --> 01:52:33,679
Speaker 3: can make money one hundred false. Yeah, I mean Op's

2107
01:52:33,720 --> 01:52:36,720
Speaker 3: sister is really doing some piece of work activities here.

2108
01:52:36,840 --> 01:52:39,439
Speaker 2: At least it seems like the mom has the wear.

2109
01:52:39,520 --> 01:52:40,920
Speaker 2: We'll fall to understand what's going on.

2110
01:52:41,320 --> 01:52:44,479
Speaker 3: So far, Yeah, I mean, yeah, mom. Mom is not

2111
01:52:44,640 --> 01:52:48,000
Speaker 3: being swayed by the bs thrown at her by the sister,

2112
01:52:48,640 --> 01:52:53,200
Speaker 3: which good. Uh, this is all sort of proving why

2113
01:52:54,040 --> 01:52:56,320
Speaker 3: they made the decision the mom. The mom had the

2114
01:52:56,520 --> 01:52:58,960
Speaker 3: good you know, the good site. Maybe she should be

2115
01:52:59,000 --> 01:52:59,719
Speaker 3: the one in charge.

2116
01:53:00,200 --> 01:53:01,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's.

2117
01:53:01,000 --> 01:53:06,200
Speaker 3: Absolutely losing it about not being in charge. My mom

2118
01:53:06,360 --> 01:53:10,120
Speaker 3: even said the jewelry that she had left is junk.

2119
01:53:11,040 --> 01:53:15,800
Speaker 3: Another lie is that I john laughing at the word junk.

2120
01:53:28,840 --> 01:53:33,840
Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm feel old for this you're Yeah, you're

2121
01:53:33,880 --> 01:53:37,680
Speaker 2: too young for this. I'm a baby. You are? You

2122
01:53:39,360 --> 01:53:42,920
Speaker 2: two s baby? More lies.

2123
01:53:43,240 --> 01:53:46,439
Speaker 3: Another lie is that I snuck in my mom's house

2124
01:53:46,520 --> 01:53:48,280
Speaker 3: and put my name on the back of all my

2125
01:53:48,400 --> 01:53:51,080
Speaker 3: mom's art pieces so that they'd come to me and

2126
01:53:51,200 --> 01:53:53,439
Speaker 3: I could sell them and make a lot of money.

2127
01:53:54,000 --> 01:53:58,280
Speaker 3: So clearly somebody just doesn't even understand what that name

2128
01:53:58,479 --> 01:54:02,120
Speaker 3: on the art is. Like, it's like, she put your

2129
01:54:02,200 --> 01:54:04,200
Speaker 3: name on she put her name on all your art,

2130
01:54:04,280 --> 01:54:05,200
Speaker 3: so it's gonna be hers.

2131
01:54:05,280 --> 01:54:08,240
Speaker 2: It's like, that's really not even how that works.

2132
01:54:10,320 --> 01:54:14,599
Speaker 3: So yesterday I went to my mom's and video recorded

2133
01:54:14,720 --> 01:54:16,880
Speaker 3: every piece of art from the front, then flipped it

2134
01:54:16,920 --> 01:54:18,439
Speaker 3: to the back to show that my name is not

2135
01:54:18,760 --> 01:54:21,559
Speaker 3: on all of the art. After we did every single

2136
01:54:21,600 --> 01:54:24,479
Speaker 3: piece of art, probably one hundred plus, my name was

2137
01:54:24,520 --> 01:54:28,240
Speaker 3: on two pictures. My sisters and her kids' names were

2138
01:54:28,320 --> 01:54:31,679
Speaker 3: on all the rest. They also tried to claim I'm

2139
01:54:31,680 --> 01:54:36,480
Speaker 3: a huge I'm a huge god, a huge little stony

2140
01:54:36,560 --> 01:54:40,400
Speaker 3: bolognay and cannot be trusted to be in charge of

2141
01:54:40,440 --> 01:54:41,160
Speaker 3: my mom's estate.

2142
01:54:41,960 --> 01:54:43,960
Speaker 2: Well, I'm not a pothead at all.

2143
01:54:44,160 --> 01:54:48,400
Speaker 3: I have not used any merijuana for several years, And

2144
01:54:48,680 --> 01:54:51,480
Speaker 3: as far as being trusted with finances. I have two

2145
01:54:51,560 --> 01:54:54,840
Speaker 3: college degrees, a great job, own a house, and a car.

2146
01:54:55,320 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 3: My credit score is excellent. I'm a responsible adult.

2147
01:54:58,360 --> 01:54:59,680
Speaker 2: Go off, Go off.

2148
01:55:00,080 --> 01:55:05,400
Speaker 3: Meanwhile, my sister has been fired from almost every job.

2149
01:55:05,640 --> 01:55:08,160
Speaker 3: She has never paid for her living situation. She has

2150
01:55:08,200 --> 01:55:11,320
Speaker 3: a rich boyfriend right now, she has no bank account,

2151
01:55:11,560 --> 01:55:14,360
Speaker 3: just the boyfriend giving her money because she has no job.

2152
01:55:14,480 --> 01:55:16,600
Speaker 2: Bohm hmmm.

2153
01:55:16,880 --> 01:55:19,600
Speaker 3: I'm starting to see maybe why the mother did not

2154
01:55:19,760 --> 01:55:22,200
Speaker 3: want you to be her financial power of attorney.

2155
01:55:22,320 --> 01:55:25,120
Speaker 2: I get it, so she can have the finances because

2156
01:55:25,160 --> 01:55:28,920
Speaker 2: she has none. Yeah, it's you don't have any experience

2157
01:55:29,080 --> 01:55:33,360
Speaker 2: in having a bank account, so uh, maybe you shouldn't

2158
01:55:33,400 --> 01:55:39,040
Speaker 2: be someone's financial power of attorney. My niece has a

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Speaker 2: degree and a good job, but she is heavily in

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Speaker 2: debt because instead of paying her bills, she goes on

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Speaker 2: all these trips with her friends.

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Speaker 3: She admitted to me a few weeks ago that she

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Speaker 3: just ignores her student loan bill. She's just waiting for

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Speaker 3: that student loan forgiveness to hit baby. She also admits

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Speaker 3: that she shop lifts from Walmart all the time. She

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Speaker 3: was arrested for shoplifting a long time ago, so I

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Speaker 3: can see that happening again. Yeah, okay, yeah, okay, really

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Speaker 3: really really seeing why you're.

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Speaker 2: Not the financial power of the term.

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Speaker 3: Two of them, the two of them went shopping last

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Speaker 3: year and saw a purse someone left next to their

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Speaker 3: next to their car. They went through it to see

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Speaker 3: if they could get it to the owner until they

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Speaker 3: saw a bank envelope with over two thousand dollars in Oh,

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Speaker 3: they stole the.

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Speaker 2: Money and put the purse under the car.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, God, or like, let's put the purse under

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Speaker 3: the car just to be nice, but also we're gonna

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Speaker 3: take that two.

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Speaker 2: Thousand dollars might be a felony, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's definitely a felony. Over over one thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: I believe becomes a class sea felony. Yeah, beyond petty theft. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they've desperately tried to trash my character to my mom,

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Speaker 3: but she is not having any of it.

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Speaker 2: Yet they keep going at it.

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Speaker 3: I am not in any way opposed to my sister

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Speaker 3: buying me out, or my niece buying the house slash

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Speaker 3: buying me out, or my nephew buying the house bat chance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the nephew is just looking for a free ride.

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Speaker 3: The bottom they think my intention is to sell it

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Speaker 3: away from them so they can't even buy it, and

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Speaker 3: that is totally false. And they've been told that bottom

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Speaker 3: line is the sale of the house was always intended

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Speaker 3: so that there was an inheritance. And these freeloaders think

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Speaker 3: they get to change the intention after my mom dies. No,

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Speaker 3: but by the way, you know what's never gonna die

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Speaker 3: us going live at three pm every weekday. Join us

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Speaker 3: by tapping our profile. Okay, I don't really even have

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Speaker 3: a question for other editors. I just wanted to get

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Speaker 3: this all written out as some kind of a release.

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Speaker 3: If I have any kind of question, it would be

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Speaker 3: reporting them to the police for harassment if they keep

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Speaker 3: it up, actually do anything for the situation. When I

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Speaker 3: reported them to the state for elder abuse, they state

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Speaker 3: that it would The state said that they would investigate,

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Speaker 3: but they'll just go to my mom's house and interviewer.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that my sister would continue. She hasn't

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Speaker 3: sent a text all day. But I just want to

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Speaker 3: know if a harassment report to the police would be useful.

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Speaker 3: And I think that is the end of that particular story.

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Speaker 2: Try it, you know, but just keep doing what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: I mean, if a job, I can't see an official

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Speaker 3: report being a bad thing. Yeah, go three hundred texts

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Speaker 3: in like a day or two.

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Speaker 2: Like, keep doing what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: That's that I think, especially when it's like the like

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Speaker 3: clearly they're trying to subvert the mom's actual wishes to

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Speaker 3: It's like this is someone like who's basically like getting

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Speaker 3: all these they're preparing to die and pass, and they're like,

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Speaker 3: I want to make sure that my wishes are kept

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Speaker 3: to and it's it's like, I don't know these these

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Speaker 3: these people are kind of getting a little unhinged when

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Speaker 3: it comes to on the train, three hundred messages.

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Speaker 2: That's why. Just keep keep doing what you're doing. These

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Speaker 2: all your tools, and I think we'll be doing a

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Speaker 2: good job. I think I'll be doing a good job.

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Speaker 2: You know, keep keep the keep the option open, I

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Speaker 2: guess to sell the house. Like if they want to

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Speaker 2: actually buy the house, they can buy the house. That's

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Speaker 2: she's made it very clear. Yeah, doing all the right things. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think it's it's correct. You have done well. Wop.

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