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Speaker 1: We got all right, Thank you, nephew. We do need

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Speaker 1: to do a disclaimer, I think at the beginning of

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Speaker 1: this one, because it's got some Yeah, we got some

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Speaker 1: stuff in this one as well. So if you have

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Speaker 1: young children that you don't want to hear things of

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Speaker 1: an explicit nature, then now is the time to take

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Speaker 1: them away from the radio. Subject be quiet, Steve, Subject,

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Speaker 1: is it possible? Is it possible? I Steve. I'm twenty

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Speaker 1: three years old and I am married to a twenty

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Speaker 1: one year old man. We have two babies together. He's

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Speaker 1: in the military and I stay at home and watch

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Speaker 1: the kids. I am bisexual, so before we even started

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Speaker 1: to get serious serious, I explained to him that I

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Speaker 1: would possibly have a girlfriend from time to time. This,

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Speaker 1: he said, was fine. Now our relationship is amazing, but

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Speaker 1: I can't seem to get him to stop introducing me

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Speaker 1: to other females that are also by or lesbian. I

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Speaker 1: don't want to have to share everything with him, and

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Speaker 1: I know that he liked the first time we had

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Speaker 1: a threesome, but I am not necessarily trying to do

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Speaker 1: it again. Do you think it is possible for a

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Speaker 1: person who is bisexual to have a serious marriage or

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Speaker 1: am I being selfish? I mean, I'm gonna throw a

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Speaker 1: question back at you. How can you I'm gonna ask

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Speaker 1: you this, How can you or anyone else straight by

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Speaker 1: whatever for that matter, have a serious marriage or relationship

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Speaker 1: when an outside person is involved? If I if I'm

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Speaker 1: reading your your your letter correctly, Uh, you haven't said

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Speaker 1: that you're going to put that part of your life

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Speaker 1: just don't want to share it with your husband anymore?

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Speaker 1: Am I? Am I reading this right? The problem is

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Speaker 1: to me that, um, you know you did that in

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Speaker 1: the beginning, so he figures he you know that he

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Speaker 1: hit the jackpots, so you know, let's do it. Let's

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be. So, I mean, you started it and

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Speaker 1: Now you want to change the game. So you got

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Speaker 1: Are you being selfish? I don't know. This whole thing

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Speaker 1: is crazy to me, Steve, am I am I reading

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Speaker 1: this writer? I don't know, I don't know, I don't

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Speaker 1: know subject. Is it possible, lady? You're married to a

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Speaker 1: twenty one year old dude. Y'all got two babies together,

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Speaker 1: You're bisexual, so before you even got serious with this guy,

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Speaker 1: from time to time. This, he said was fine. Now

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Speaker 1: him to stop introducing me to other females that are

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Speaker 1: share everything with him, and I know that he liked

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Speaker 1: it the first time we had a threes but I'm

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Speaker 1: not necessarily trying to do it. Do you think it

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Speaker 1: is possible for a person who is bisexual to have

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Speaker 1: a serious marriage or am I being selfish? Lady? I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure if you can have a serious marriage or

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Speaker 1: any other kind of marriage. You need to get a

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Speaker 1: better definition of marriage, because it ain't what the rest

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Speaker 1: of us is thinking. Threesomes, other people at the house,

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Speaker 1: Your man out hunting for lesbians and by she bringing

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Speaker 1: them home, and you just going along with it. You tired,

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Speaker 1: he full of energy? What is it? What is y'all

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's get to part two of your

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Speaker 1: response to today's Strawberry letter. Uh, well, it doesn't really say. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's a possible person who is bisexually have

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Speaker 1: marriage is. Marriage is supposed to be two people joined

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Speaker 1: know that means when you and your husband is living there,

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Speaker 1: y'all can't which another body in there. Thank you. I

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Speaker 1: don't care how happy y'all are with it. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: create a problem. Not the problem you having is you

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Speaker 1: don't want to share everything with your husband. Cause see

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Speaker 1: what you want is you want the other girl by yourself.

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Speaker 1: my question do you become, young lady, What what is

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Speaker 1: the marriage for? Because you can make this arrangement very

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Speaker 1: very easily without degrading a marriage. All you got to

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Speaker 1: will tell you, hey, I'm involved, I don't really want

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Speaker 1: nothing wild like that. But the rest of them are

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Speaker 1: gonna say yes. And then when you say, but here's

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Speaker 1: the catch, I'm going to want to sleep with women

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Speaker 1: also from time to time. I hope you don't mind.

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Speaker 1: The same men who say yes right away immediately will

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Speaker 1: think am I in this? And if you allow it

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Speaker 1: to happen one time? I can't tell you. It's like

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Speaker 1: sitting at a slot machine in Vegas putting in three

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Speaker 1: feeling he has when he comes home now with a

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Speaker 1: new lesbian bisexual girl. Do you understand, No, you can't

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Speaker 1: have a serious marriage, but you can have a wild

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Speaker 1: times with a lot of guys, which is what seems

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Speaker 1: to me more like you're interested in than a serious marriage.

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Speaker 1: So why don't you just get you an arrangement and

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Speaker 1: have some wild times with some wild guys I'm must

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Speaker 1: remind you though, all of you will be going to

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Speaker 1: Hale alright, Steve, we got to get out of here.

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Speaker 1: You can email us or Instagram what's your thoughts on

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. At My Girls, Shirley, you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show