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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Hey Carly, Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 3: Can you hear me?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Loud and clear, loud and clear, clear, Good morning morning

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Speaker 2: to Carly.

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Speaker 1: What's going on with this guy? Chris?

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Speaker 2: Who I guess? Why don't you tell us how you met?

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Speaker 2: About any days you've been on? And then where things

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Speaker 2: are now, Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, man, It was such It was interesting

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Speaker 3: because we met on a dating app, and you know

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Speaker 3: how those are, like sometimes just you get some randos.

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Speaker 3: But I met this guy, Chris, and she was super

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Speaker 3: hot and he suggested that we go on a weekend

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Speaker 3: trip for our.

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Speaker 1: First day really.

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Speaker 4: And I just, yeah, isn't that wild?

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Speaker 1: That's kind of a ball.

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Speaker 2: So you meet a guy in a dating app and

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Speaker 2: he's like, let's go out of town immediately. I mean,

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Speaker 2: that's that's how Daately episodes.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, that's how you end up dead. But you

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Speaker 1: were like, okay, you know, I was like.

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Speaker 3: He's super hot, and I thought, you know what, I'm

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Speaker 3: just going to take the risk. And I thought the

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Speaker 3: worst that could happen is we meet at the airport,

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Speaker 3: he's not who he said he.

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Speaker 4: Was, and I leave.

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Speaker 3: And the wild thing is he ended up being totally

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Speaker 3: who he said he was, and you know, he had

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Speaker 3: he had like hat friends when his protyle, he looked

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Speaker 3: like he did some things, and we ended up going.

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Speaker 3: We had a great weekend. He was a gentleman, he

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Speaker 3: paid for everything.

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Speaker 4: We had a great.

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Speaker 3: Time, and then at the end of the trip, we

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Speaker 3: hugged at the airport and I never.

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Speaker 1: Heard from him again.

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Speaker 2: Really, this dude took you to New Orleans and you're

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Speaker 2: saying that the trip went well and then he never

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Speaker 2: called you after the trip Like that is that's a

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Speaker 2: wild story. I mean, you met a random stranger and

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Speaker 2: went on a trip. I will tell you this though, Carly.

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Speaker 2: When I'm first dating someone, if I think it's going

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Speaker 2: to go somewhere, which just doesn't happen very often, but

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Speaker 2: if I think it's going somewhere, I do.

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Speaker 1: Kind of rush the trip effort.

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Speaker 2: Now, not like on the first date, but you know,

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Speaker 2: within like the first month or two, because I think

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Speaker 2: you can tell a lot about somebody about how they

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Speaker 2: travel and how you travel together. And you know, are

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Speaker 2: they the people that show up after the flight already left?

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Speaker 1: You know? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like how much do they pack? You know, do they

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Speaker 2: have a TSA pre check or not? It's a huge

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Speaker 3: Well, now I'm wondering. I agree, But now I am

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Speaker 3: thinking maybe there's a real when we do that after

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Speaker 3: a month or two and not the her time we've

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Speaker 1: But okay, so I get it totally.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you go on a trip with this man and

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Speaker 2: you think it went well, and then he never calls

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Speaker 2: you again, and you're like, what, what on earth? So

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Speaker 2: we're going to call this guy Chris. We're going to

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Speaker 2: ask these questions on your behalf and try and figure

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Speaker 2: this out. In the hope, of course, as always, is

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Speaker 2: that we can straighten this out. Maybe there's some good

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Speaker 2: reason why he hasn't called you, and and maybe you

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Speaker 2: guys can go out again. We're not paying for a trip,

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Speaker 2: we don't have that kind of money, but we'll pay

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Speaker 2: for a table locally and you can go on that

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Speaker 2: if we can work it out.

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Speaker 4: Sound good, sounds great. I'm so confused by this dude.

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Speaker 3: That's bizarre to me.

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Speaker 2: So hey, Carly, all right, I always call this guy Chris.

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Speaker 2: You met on the dating apps, and you just described

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Speaker 2: to us something that I really haven't heard maybe ever

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Speaker 2: in waiting by the phone. But you never met the guy.

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Speaker 2: You just messaged with him. You thought the profile looked good.

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Speaker 2: He asked you if you wanted to go to New Orleans,

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Speaker 2: and you said sure, and you met the guy at

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Speaker 2: the airport and you went on a trip for the

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Speaker 2: weekend and you say it went really well, and he was,

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Speaker 2: and he says he was and the trip was a success,

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Speaker 2: except Carly, you told us a minute ago.

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Speaker 1: You haven't heard from him since then?

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Speaker 4: You guys exactly right?

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Speaker 3: Has the the airport?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: This is wild. Well let's call chrisy. We can get

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Speaker 2: him on the phone figure out why he's ghosting you. Now,

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Speaker 2: all right, good luck, thank you?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi? Is this Chris Chris? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, the morning radio show. I have to tell

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Speaker 2: you the whole crew is here. We are on the radio,

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Speaker 2: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can which apter for just a second? Would you mind?

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Speaker 4: Do you have to do you? I mean, do you

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Speaker 4: have to use my last name?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to use your last name. I

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Speaker 2: don't even know your last name. I'm only using your

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Speaker 2: first name.

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Speaker 4: Sure, so that's fine, that's yeah, you're sure?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, i'd so no last name, just Chris. But

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Speaker 2: I'm calling on behalf of a woman named Carly, who

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Speaker 2: I guess you just went to New Orleans with you

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Speaker 2: met her on the datingnap and he went to New Orleans?

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Speaker 2: Do you remember this?

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Speaker 1: I hope I do remember that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, Well, she reached out to us, had nice

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Speaker 2: things to say about you, said that, you know, she

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Speaker 2: going to New Orleans, and she came back alive, which

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Speaker 2: is nice, right. But she said you were good looking,

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Speaker 2: You were who you said you were. She said you

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Speaker 2: were a gentleman on the trip, paid for everything. But

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Speaker 2: what she's wondering is why you haven't reached out for

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Speaker 2: another date, because in her opinion, everything went really well.

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Speaker 2: That was kind of a big risk and everybody went

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Speaker 2: for it. And here we are. Why are you calling her?

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Speaker 2: I mean.

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Speaker 4: It's like this, Okay, she I like to go big,

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Speaker 4: you know obviously.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's not very common for somebody asked somebody

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Speaker 5: that is a big thing. And she said yes. And

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Speaker 5: for me, when somebody says that, that means something, you know.

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Speaker 5: So like, yeah, what I saw at the airport, everything

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Speaker 5: was lining up. She was hot, just like you know,

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Speaker 5: just like I expected. She was willing to take a risk,

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Speaker 5: which is attractive, and everything looked like it was going

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Speaker 5: to be a great weekend.

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Speaker 4: So I was.

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Speaker 5: But she I mean, let me just lay it out here.

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Speaker 5: She didn't want to stay in the same hotel room

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Speaker 5: that that is like part of the deal of something

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Speaker 1: Well, what do you hold on a second, let's stop

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Speaker 1: right there.

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Speaker 2: So when did you learn that she wasn't going to

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Speaker 2: stay in the same hotel room as you? Like, was

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Speaker 2: that part of the Hey, I'll go with you on

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Speaker 2: this trip, and here are the rules? Like did you

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Speaker 2: how did you know that that's what she wanted? No,

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Speaker 2: when we got to the hotel is when I found out.

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Speaker 5: And it's fine, you know, I'm like, like, you know,

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Speaker 5: I'm willing to pay for everything. But I mean, number one,

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Speaker 5: it was inconvenient. I found out right when I'm getting

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Speaker 5: to the hotel. You know, I could have gotten that information.

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Speaker 5: I mean, it would have screwed up the whole thing

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Speaker 5: from the get go, but I mean it still had

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Speaker 5: been better to get that information early. But yeah, right

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Speaker 5: when we get to the hotel, I find out, and

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Speaker 5: you know, we kind of went back and forth on

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Speaker 1: That is what I would say.

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Speaker 5: We got like two beds in the same room, which is.

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Speaker 4: Weird, you know, and she didn't show.

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Speaker 5: Any affection, you know, because I I flew her, I

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Speaker 5: paid for everything, you know, and I just nothing happened,

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Speaker 5: like there was no reciprocal action at all.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you know, so you didn't there was nothing physical.

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Speaker 2: You didn't you didn't have any adult interaction of the

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Speaker 2: naked gut. Uh, that's what you're saying. And you're and

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Speaker 2: you so and and you suggested that if you had

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Speaker 2: room as you. You kind of alluded to how maybe

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Speaker 2: this trip wouldn't have even happened if you had known

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, we agree with that.

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Speaker 2: So so basically because you paid for everything and she

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Speaker 2: agreed to go, that it was implied that there was

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Speaker 2: supposed to be other things that happened like that was just.

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Speaker 1: Implied by this. He never said that.

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Speaker 2: Oh well, there's Carl. I forgot to mention. Carly's here.

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Speaker 2: I'm very forgetful. Carly Chris you know each other. But

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Speaker 2: I want to get to this part. So I just

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Speaker 2: want to be clear. I don't want to mischaracterize here.

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Speaker 2: You you said, Hey, let's go on a trip. I'll

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Speaker 2: pay for everything. But it wasn't it had conditions, they

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Speaker 2: were just unspoken.

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Speaker 5: In my opinion, it's common knowledge. That is a common

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Speaker 5: knowledge thing that you know. Otherwise I would have just

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Speaker 5: taken my buddy. It's common knowledge.

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Speaker 2: You go, you wild, Okay, So back to you, Carly.

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Speaker 2: It's common knowledge, right, I mean you heard the man.

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Speaker 4: No way, I'm sorry, there's nothing we've just met.

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Speaker 1: We go on a trip.

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Speaker 3: There's no set precedent for that. I look on a

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Speaker 3: neuralan date, you have some drinks, you needed a bar,

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Speaker 3: you can make it.

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Speaker 4: We literally get on a plane, we.

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Speaker 3: Go straight to a hotel and I'm going after some sort

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Speaker 3: of contingency here.

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Speaker 4: And we didn't talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Sort of made a very boss minute choice, like there

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Speaker 3: what we didn't talk particulate. They just said we're gonna

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Speaker 3: feel it out.

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Speaker 4: I mean that's what you say.

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Speaker 5: Listen, if you didn't want to get you know, intimate,

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Speaker 5: you shouldn't have agreed to the trip like it's I

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Speaker 5: would never, I would never.

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Speaker 5: It's like you want a free car and you went

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Speaker 2: No, I want me who got a freak you? What happened?

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Speaker 2: She owes you nothing, Chris, Let's men be really clear.

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Speaker 2: Nobody als. Nobody owes you anything now now here, I

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Because I will say if I'm if I'm staying in

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Speaker 1: We're really just going forward here.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't think that's an unfair thing to consider.

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Speaker 2: That being said, she didn't owe you anything. This was

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Speaker 2: That's there's a there's a name for that. It's the

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Speaker 1: But I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe there couldn't have been some kind of conversation from

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Speaker 1: I will accept this trip. I'm excited to go.

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Speaker 2: I just want you to know, you know, nothing is

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Speaker 1: But she doesn't owe you anything, man, She owes you nothing,

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Speaker 5: I in my mind, like I said, there's an unspoken

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Speaker 5: I didn't put any pressure on her the pressure.

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Speaker 5: But now I don't know, Carly, what do you think

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Speaker 3: I mean, definitely not now. But that's all that said

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Speaker 4: So this is a blatant example of me being used,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would use you to You don't even know

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Speaker 1: You a flight like you did.

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Speaker 4: You know she knows a lot Aboutmies.

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Speaker 1: New Orleans. And I don't blame city girls are okay?

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Speaker 2: You you swung thing, and I respect the move. I

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Speaker 2: see what you were doing. It didn't work. She doesn't

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Speaker 2: be angry about it.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: I'm not angry. I'm not angry. I'm not angry.

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm disappointed and I feel used, and I'm just not.

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Speaker 4: That a first date is the first date.

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Speaker 3: And if you were like you may not come on

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Speaker 4: You didn't say.

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Speaker 1: You read the you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You know what's ever read the fine print of the ticket.

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Speaker 2: But it says it right there. You have to look

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Speaker 5: It's implied we flew, we flew to a different city together.

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Speaker 4: We didn't go to all.

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Speaker 1: Done that on the first date.

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Speaker 4: And you were very much the first that's every date.

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Speaker 4: That's every date you that's every date.

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Speaker 2: then you know, he didn't do that because he knows

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Speaker 2: I mean, so, yeah, I guess there could have been

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Speaker 2: which did happen. But all the why, well he's mad

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Speaker 2: I think that's the risk you take. But look, she

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Speaker 2: doesn't want to go out with you again. Chris. I

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Speaker 2: don't think you were used. You took a shot, it

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Speaker 2: didn't work. I wish you the best, Carley. I wish

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Speaker 2: you the best as well.

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Speaker 4: Thanks,