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Speaker 1: I did not know what to say, Like anything I

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Speaker 3: I asked that question now too, as like as an

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Speaker 4: But what a shitty question is?

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Speaker 3: How is that a shitty because it's such.

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Speaker 4: A because you know, you know where I want to

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Speaker 4: give me that ask question? Yes, you have to say bullshit.

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Speaker 3: Like that, tell the fucking truth. Why do you want

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Speaker 3: to fuck? N go fuck somebody else?

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Speaker 5: You know how the street ship goes always stayed down

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Speaker 5: on the streets ten toes. See me in the club

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Speaker 5: with at least six holes in my section. But you,

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Speaker 5: who I'm gonna leave with, th got you the mostown

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Speaker 5: ap Writst bros.

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Speaker 3: Passes.

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Speaker 5: Aside of my two dollars, I no niggas probably leasing

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Speaker 5: those no got him by the fleeting and sweet like candy,

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Speaker 5: your lover I can't escape from. But you my little secret,

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Speaker 5: so well, not a secret, but keep ship low the

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Speaker 1: Whoa we got game like that?

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Speaker 5: What other young nigga getting changed like that said, you

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Speaker 5: don't funk up with me, but you came right back

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Speaker 5: because you ain't never came like that.

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Speaker 1: Fact.

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Speaker 6: Oh shit, he took it out of hand.

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Speaker 2: Hairlines strong, It's.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't piss you off, Like why do you why do

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Speaker 4: you cover it? What your great hairline?

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Speaker 1: Again? My hair?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh god, why are you hiding that?

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Speaker 3: Oh you got good edges, mom, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You got good edges.

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Speaker 2: Mall.

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Speaker 3: Just you know, like when it hats, are you green hair?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing with it? Just you

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Speaker 4: You have like a Janelle Money thing with your hairline.

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Speaker 4: I just found out, like what she was hiding under

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Speaker 4: the Blues brothersuit, Like, God, look what you're hiding under

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Speaker 4: the hat man like's a new episode.

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Speaker 1: Hey, but you my hair?

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Speaker 4: I know it pisses me off every time I'm repeating myself,

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Speaker 4: Bob is me every time you take your head off

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Speaker 4: for one second, because why would you hide that beautiful thing?

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Speaker 2: I'm not yo, I'm comfortable as often as often as

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Speaker 2: we see Mall. It is always a surprise when you

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Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, I guess so, I guess a

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Speaker 1: lot of people that don't know, but Rory seen me

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Speaker 4: My corners are fighting for their life. My corners are

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Speaker 4: Simba's father at the edge of the fucking cliff and

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Speaker 1: But it is always funny when like people see me

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Speaker 1: Like this is just here and there's nothing up here.

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Speaker 3: Maybe, but you have have a shitty hairline. A lot

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not one of those. I let sh it

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, okay, drop that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's a better.

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Speaker 1: Right here, here you go.

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Speaker 4: You know we're here.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a new episode of the new Rory and

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Speaker 1: Mal Podcast. I am Mall, I'm Rory, and we are

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Speaker 1: back today with a special special episode.

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Speaker 4: The Most Specialists Special.

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Speaker 1: This is definitely a special special episode, special episode. Edit

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Speaker 1: you got that special. This is a special special special

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Speaker 1: episode because well number one, congrats to my to my

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Speaker 1: guy Rory on becoming a father.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yay, thank you. Graboration, Rory, wasn't that difficult?

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Speaker 1: Wasn't that difficult? Wasn't too much pain? So much pressure?

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Speaker 4: No, it's it's really crazy. I don't know if he knows.

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Speaker 4: All you have to do is have sex.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 4: It's really wild.

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Speaker 1: You know, was touch and go for man? Was is

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Speaker 1: he getting something? Is he not getting any? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And I mean I'm happy now everyone knows that I

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Speaker 1: You have had sex, So we do know that Rory

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Speaker 1: has had sex, heterosexual sex, right?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 6: Was there a doubt?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, listen, I don't ever want to

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Speaker 6: You literally just literally just led.

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Speaker 4: You just labeled my child's inception conception inception well with

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Speaker 1: But because I know you, I put that on you

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Speaker 4: Well, where do we begin? I kind of want to

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Speaker 4: begin with you guys. Well, of course I've been hiding

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Speaker 1: And it's been so much pressure. You've all been hiding

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Speaker 1: Like yeah, you know they want to know, does Rory

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Speaker 4: There was there was a stomach that.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like, yes, worries having a baby?

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Speaker 2: So or all right?

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Speaker 4: When I was hiding this child and even during the

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Speaker 1: To be respectful, and Freddie reached out to me till

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Speaker 3: Say, terrified? No, because I put, like all types, I

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Speaker 1: You put a lot on people's jackets. Marriage you do

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you are the jacket giver.

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Speaker 1: Uh No, he just said, my nigga, I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: This is Gibbs And I was like, okay, cool, gosh it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you knew it was him because his the tax

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Speaker 1: New number, and he said he's working on movies and

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Speaker 1: and you know, so always always well, wish is to Freddie.

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Speaker 1: That's one of my one of my favorite.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we call him the racist kid.

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Speaker 1: No and not telling me. I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: But what if his kid and Rory's kid become friends.

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Speaker 4: That's true. That could be in twenty twenty three, like

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Speaker 4: they're Yeah, it would be in the same grade.

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Speaker 2: Now we can look at all the kids in the

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Speaker 3: Are we allowed to say her name?

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Speaker 4: I'd rather not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're not going to say her name, but we

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Speaker 4: No.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, this lady Bro's not on the internet.

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Speaker 1: Though they wanted, they wanted his baby mother to release

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Speaker 4: Okay, Honorable Tente's down.

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Speaker 1: God listen.

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Speaker 4: I just we're having when we can finally talk about

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Speaker 4: me having a kid. And I was about Freddy Gibbs asshole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah about that already, and we ended up backing Freddy.

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Speaker 4: Somehow my daughter got in never mind, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: We were talking about how we all handled keeping a

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Speaker 4: Yes, and me like Dallas looking like I was raising

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was nah.

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Speaker 4: I don't have no kids.

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Speaker 2: Like the MAVs game, it's most well lit arena in

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Speaker 4: Big big, big stomach too, like not even one you

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Speaker 1: But it was it was. It was hard for for

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Speaker 4: I was just like, well, the hiding, the hiding a

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Speaker 4: child thing is more for jokes. Yeah, there was no hiding.

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Speaker 4: I was walking around. If you have seen me in

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Speaker 1: In the last though, I have.

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Speaker 4: Just because I didn't put it on social media, everyone

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Speaker 1: I mean social media. I'm never I don't care about

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Speaker 4: Oh well, I think that would just attest to them

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Speaker 4: not being in communication with me at all. I will say,

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Speaker 1: Hear me out, Okay, sure we go listen. Hold on

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Speaker 1: that because you got to bring this all the way home.

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Speaker 1: You just yeah, you got you said some crazy shit.

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Speaker 1: Just that it is to your point, like people you

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Speaker 4: It was people that I speak too often. And that's

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Speaker 4: we know each other, we're associates, we could even be friends,

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Speaker 4: but we don't speak. So I wasn't like adding them

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Speaker 1: Threats my mom Actually every time, well, your.

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Speaker 4: Mom doesn't text me, so.

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Speaker 1: She knows, but she asks about your daughter all the time.

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Speaker 6: It's very much a woman, which is like, keep that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've started to look at women I would never

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Well? What kind of cry?

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Speaker 4: Like you have to fend for yourself as a man.

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Speaker 4: that regard, like he just let you know, like I

447
00:18:48,680 --> 00:18:50,920
Speaker 4: have a whole another full time job now.

448
00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

449
00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, So yeah, it was a conversation we had to

450
00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,080
Speaker 4: have and I found out right before I got on

451
00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:59,320
Speaker 4: a plane to LA So I was on that flight, like.

452
00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:04,800
Speaker 1: Oh man, talk about anxiety, talk about anxiety. That flight

453
00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:06,240
Speaker 1: must have been the worst flight ever.

454
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,080
Speaker 4: It wasn't. It wasn't bad. It was just like, oh

455
00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,440
Speaker 4: fuck no, but you can't turn your brain off. No,

456
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:14,359
Speaker 4: god no, it was like you can't you just in

457
00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,760
Speaker 4: a in a cloud, yeah, literally, and in a blissful one.

458
00:19:18,760 --> 00:19:22,080
Speaker 4: Because I know people will take this as this sounds negative.

459
00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 4: It doesn't. I just think people lie about when these

460
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:27,000
Speaker 4: experiments happen. Because you don't really have time right away

461
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 4: to process it, to really have feelings. It's like, fuck, yeah, okay,

462
00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,800
Speaker 4: how do we adjust my entire life now? Which is

463
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:39,440
Speaker 4: not an easy thought right away, Like, of course it's

464
00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,600
Speaker 4: it's the most amazing feeling, but it's also all right,

465
00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 4: how do we adjust it so I don't ruin this

466
00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:48,119
Speaker 4: kid's life and I don't ruin everyone else's that I

467
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:51,200
Speaker 4: work with. It's an adjustment, for sure, And that's also

468
00:19:51,200 --> 00:19:53,960
Speaker 4: why I kind of kept so much of it quiet,

469
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,240
Speaker 4: because that was a process I had to learn more

470
00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:59,439
Speaker 4: or less. Like I didn't also feel like dealing with

471
00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:04,080
Speaker 4: the public bullshit because you know they'll also go after

472
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 4: everybody else too, which is the wild shit. Yeah, and

473
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,639
Speaker 4: during that time, that's definitely not something because you know,

474
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,080
Speaker 4: the Internet would not give a fuck like let's make

475
00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:17,159
Speaker 4: sure this woman's pregnancy is the worst thing ever in

476
00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,040
Speaker 4: flood terr comments, and you know the response to that

477
00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:20,520
Speaker 4: is like, yo, you.

478
00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:21,239
Speaker 1: Signed up for it.

479
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,800
Speaker 4: No, I did not sign up for you trying to

480
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 4: run a pregnancy, guys. So that was another reason I

481
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 4: want to keep ship to the side. Figuring all this

482
00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:33,359
Speaker 4: out with the pod at the time, not having the

483
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:36,679
Speaker 4: internet attack someone else like it was and I had

484
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:40,159
Speaker 4: to learn how to be a fucking father and not

485
00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:41,120
Speaker 4: talk about it on here.

486
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 1: Do you feel like since you've had a kid you've

487
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:46,920
Speaker 1: become closer with your parents?

488
00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 4: Yes and no. Yes, because there's much more understanding. We're

489
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 4: now on even playing fields. Like officially, it is a

490
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:00,600
Speaker 4: nice excuse when you become a dolt and you could

491
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:02,760
Speaker 4: tell like your parents, even if it's premature, like yo,

492
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,919
Speaker 4: I'm an adult. Now there's like we are all on

493
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:06,920
Speaker 4: even playing fields.

494
00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:07,440
Speaker 1: I have a kid.

495
00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 4: There's nothing you can say to me anymore. As far

496
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,359
Speaker 4: as I thought paying bills meant I didn't have to

497
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 4: answer to certain thing. Now it's like nothing at all.

498
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:21,840
Speaker 4: But there is some understanding to it. And you know,

499
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 4: I put out a clip on Instagram addressing some of

500
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:28,080
Speaker 4: that stuff. There is a larger clip regarding your exact question.

501
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 4: It is it is odd watching your parents become grandparents

502
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,360
Speaker 4: for the first time, so because it's the first time

503
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:38,239
Speaker 4: they're ever doing that. Yeah, as well, like they may think,

504
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,920
Speaker 4: all right, I've raised a kid. Being a grandparent is

505
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 4: not being a parent. So they're learning at the same time. Well,

506
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,000
Speaker 4: I'm learning and not to say that me and my

507
00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 4: parents aren't cool, but we've clashed in the past. Yeah,

508
00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 4: this has brought up some clashing, if you will, in

509
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 4: regards to how raising a child and the difference between

510
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,360
Speaker 4: being a parent and a grand parents. And on top

511
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:08,199
Speaker 4: of that, I'm their kid, and that's their granddaughter, but

512
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 4: it's like half their granddaughter if that makes sense. Of

513
00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 4: course it's their granddaughter, but I'm their kid.

514
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:13,119
Speaker 2: That's it.

515
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 4: That's half your grandkid. You don't get to have all

516
00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 4: to say.

517
00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: It's a thin line like grandparents, because it's yes, they've

518
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 1: raised the child before you, obviously, but this is different

519
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 1: in the sense of they're there too, you know, kind

520
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 1: of and and enhance what you're doing. Yeah, and help

521
00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: you along the way, like this is your responsibility. We

522
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 1: can give you pointers, we can you know, have conversations

523
00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: and help you along the way, but ultimately you're the

524
00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: one that has to raise this child. They're there to

525
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,720
Speaker 1: just kind of like beat the buffer for things you

526
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: can't quite figure out yet.

527
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 4: And I was laughing with my mom, but I was

528
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 4: like serious, you know, like when you joke, but you're serious. Yeah, Like, Mom,

529
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,840
Speaker 4: you raised one kid thirty three years ago. Stop walking

530
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,959
Speaker 4: in here, Like you John Madden, Like it's changed, like

531
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 4: your relaxed. Yeah, I understand you did a great job.

532
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 4: Love that, but that was thirty years ago. Things have

533
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,239
Speaker 4: changed a bit. You haven't raised the kid in a

534
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 4: long time. Yeah, so relaxed. Those ex'es and o's have changed.

535
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 2: The game has changed.

536
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 4: It's not the trying offense anymore.

537
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 6: Right.

538
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 1: I remember when my when my twin sister when she

539
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 1: had her U, when she had her son, my nephew.

540
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 1: Naturally that we were that's my closest nephew because that's

541
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: my twin sister. So it's just a different bond there.

542
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,720
Speaker 1: And one of the funny things that we talk about is, Yo,

543
00:23:33,800 --> 00:23:35,879
Speaker 1: you ever going to like beat him, like if he

544
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: like get out of line. And my sister's like, nah,

545
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 1: I don't think so, And I'm like, yo, I don't

546
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,639
Speaker 1: think I would be mad if you did. Like it's weird,

547
00:23:43,720 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: Like I got to ask from its growing up and

548
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 1: I know I needed him like I did. I deserved

549
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,959
Speaker 1: it because I was just bad. But like seeing my

550
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 1: nephew do shit, I'm just like, yo, Noah, you can't hear.

551
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 4: Him, but you're supposed to ask his uncle, like be

552
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,400
Speaker 4: the scapegoat to get him out of trouble.

553
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, for sure. But as a father, now

554
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: do you see yourself anything? Hell see what I'm saying like,

555
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: not even like not even like a little bit. This

556
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: is what I'm saying, Like, So this's to me. There's

557
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 1: nothing my sister could call me, tell me my nephew

558
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: did where I'm like, I feel like I have to

559
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,680
Speaker 1: yell at him. I'm definitely never gonna like hit him

560
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: like that's out. And I will be mad if my

561
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: sister called me like, yeah, I just had to pop

562
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why you hit him? Like I'm there

563
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: and that's not even my child.

564
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,800
Speaker 4: And like what I it's so weird once you get

565
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 4: older because I thought this even before she was born,

566
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 4: But like hitting a kid, even though I was and

567
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 4: I was an advocate at one point, Oh it's deserved.

568
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm still are j somebody.

569
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 4: It's a way to save things. It's not like, what

570
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 4: a terrible way to just break trust as a little kid,

571
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 4: like this giant is just gonna hit you and you

572
00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 4: it's the craziest. That concept is like the most helpless

573
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 4: easy in the world. And then like God forbid, all right,

574
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 4: this is crazy, right. Imagine if my daughter was in

575
00:24:56,720 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 4: here and Baisley was in here, If I hit Baisley,

576
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,080
Speaker 4: y'all be like, yo, what the fuck is wrong with you? Yeah,

577
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 4: if you hit your kid, it's like, it's cool, she.

578
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,160
Speaker 1: Probably did something where. But I just can never see

579
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: a dad hitting their door. Yeah, that's I mean, that's

580
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: next one, you know what I mean, Like, that's just like, yo,

581
00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

582
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 4: But I would feel the same way if I had

583
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:21,400
Speaker 4: a son. I couldn't see myself hitting my son.

584
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I just I think that's something that

585
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: our parents were. It was just handed down generationally, like

586
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,199
Speaker 1: youre just supposed to like spank a kid when they

587
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: get out of the line they do something bad. But

588
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: I just think that there's way more progressive. Like I

589
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: told you, the thing that hurt me more than my

590
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,720
Speaker 1: mom ever beating me was when she didn't speak to

591
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: me for like five days. It's a long time, yo,

592
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 1: But that's cruel though all YO know that, how old

593
00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: are we? I was like seventeen sixteen. No, that's fine, yo.

594
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: Five No, in the same house.

595
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 2: What you do?

596
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 4: Psychological warfare?

597
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,240
Speaker 1: I like it. I think I just like I failed

598
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: like two classes or something like that, and like my mom.

599
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 4: Was just like I like, I'm not mad, I'm disappointed.

600
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: It's no talking to you like okay, cool, you know everything,

601
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 1: And just five days I'm talking about nigga. It wasn't

602
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: the stove was cold like nigga. It wasn't no eating,

603
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: no cooking, no nothing. Like my mom came home from

604
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,200
Speaker 1: work straight in her room, didn't say nothing, and I'm

605
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: just like, yo, this is crazy. Like I hear her

606
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: on the phone in the room, laughing with my aunts

607
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 1: and all of them.

608
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 4: I'm thinking that's like yo, she ayes. She didn't have

609
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 4: your mood. I go knock on the door.

610
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 1: I hear hold on like she or the phones like

611
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: hold on what like damn she's still mad, Like wait, Jamal,

612
00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: I ain't eat either.

613
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,679
Speaker 4: Nah she ate, Okay, she didn't fail her classes.

614
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 1: She ate. She ate like we ate. But it was

615
00:26:39,480 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: like it wasn't like I was used to like home

616
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:42,919
Speaker 1: cooked meals.

617
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:43,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

618
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: The only time my mom didn't cook is she would

619
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,040
Speaker 1: ask us if we either wanted her to cook or

620
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: do we feel like eating outside, Like go to a restaurant,

621
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: go to you know somewhere and pick up some food.

622
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 1: But when your mother's not told my mother's because my

623
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,360
Speaker 1: mom is the mom that's cool with everybody, Like everybody

624
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 1: people still oh my mom to this day.

625
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 3: I can't imagine your mom not Yeah.

626
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: So my mom not speaking to me was the bro

627
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,919
Speaker 1: that her. I was like, yo, you could just hit me, like,

628
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: go get all.

629
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 4: My mom's gave me a classic ass with me with

630
00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 4: a tennis racket one time.

631
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't know where she got this tennis racket from.

632
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,000
Speaker 1: I never no, don't play now.

633
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,919
Speaker 4: How was her backhand incredible?

634
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: I was like, she came out the room. I'm like, first,

635
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: I'm looking like where did you get that?

636
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 4: She was trained with Richard Williams.

637
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 6: I'm like, what the fuck did you get it?

638
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 1: And it was a nice tennis racket. It wood in

639
00:27:31,440 --> 00:27:33,000
Speaker 1: the wood in the old school ship.

640
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 6: Damn bro, I'm talking.

641
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 1: I whooped my ass. I was. I was ready to

642
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 1: take that as long as she would talk to me. So,

643
00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,760
Speaker 1: I feel like there's more ways of disciplining your kids

644
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 1: than it is, like, you know, just beating your kids.

645
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,160
Speaker 1: To me, it just seems like such a crazy fucking thing. Now.

646
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 4: I mean, at this point, the kids I've seen there

647
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 4: are older, taking their phone or the screen of the

648
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 4: iPad away from them. They would they'd rather get punched

649
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:55,879
Speaker 4: in the notes.

650
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: That's how your birth a school shooters, every school shooter.

651
00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 4: They had like iPad or like Nintendo, taking something was

652
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 4: taken that they really just love and he never recovered

653
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 4: from that.

654
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: That's when they start winning all black. Yeah, hanging out

655
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 1: in front of hot topic, like that's how it happens, like,

656
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: oh mom, she took it. She took your Yeah, I

657
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: could see it.

658
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 4: Hanging out in front of hot topic, like just loitering

659
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 4: in front of hot topic.

660
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: On the hot topic. That's all they do, hang out

661
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:19,959
Speaker 1: in front of hot time.

662
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 2: I had a split household. My dad was right, he

663
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: got hit, so he would hit us, but my mom

664
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 2: wasn't in that environment. Yeah, it was weird, just handed

665
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 2: down because my dad would tell my mom because my

666
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: da would be at work. He would tell my mom

667
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 2: to like beat us, and we would start laughing because

668
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 2: she was terrible at it. Yeah, she would like miss

669
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: we'd like roll in that, and she like the belt.

670
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: The belt would just start slapping the literally ken on that.

671
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,400
Speaker 2: My brother just like, oh ship, stop it. And then

672
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: my dad would come home and fuck us up.

673
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: Before my mom stopped talking to me. I think the

674
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,520
Speaker 1: reason she didn't hit me that time was because the

675
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: last time she had tried to like hit me with

676
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: the belt, like she hit me and I was just

677
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 1: looking at it like it didn't even hurt.

678
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 3: And that's what you got.

679
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 1: She was at that point where she was acting. Yeah,

680
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,239
Speaker 1: then she would like threaten me like I'm gonna call

681
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: your uncles. I'm like, all right, if these niggas come

682
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 1: over here, they're gonna fuck me up. Like so, I'm like,

683
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: all right, let's talk about this because them niggas, how

684
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: about the silentary like them niggas is fresh out they

685
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: did fifteen years Like, Nah, them niggas ain't putting the

686
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: hand on.

687
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 4: They don't know how strong they are, like.

688
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: To call like we don't got to do that.

689
00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 4: But that was that's just the yard. That's the yard

690
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 4: strength and.

691
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: There's no talking. They'll come right in and be like, yo,

692
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:29,840
Speaker 1: so you acting up And what do you say to that? No,

693
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: I'm lying, Yes, I'm acting though I'm one hundred percent

694
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: the one reason why you're here, like I'm fucking up everywhere. Yeah,

695
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: So that is something that you know, like a lot

696
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,719
Speaker 1: of my homeboys that have daughters or have kids that

697
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: they say all the time, like, bro, I'm never putting

698
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: my hands on my kids. I can't. Like it's just

699
00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: I can't do it.

700
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I couldn't even fathom doing that.

701
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I think that should be.

702
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 4: Across the board for all parents. We should get rid

703
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 4: of hitting children.

704
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: We should. Now, I will say this.

705
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,040
Speaker 4: Maybe just like a flick on the forehead.

706
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: Then there's to be something because there's some kids that

707
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,080
Speaker 1: I've seen out in public with their parents that they

708
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: just start throw themselves on the floor, yelling, screaming, knocking

709
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: it off the shelves, cursing. I'm just like, yo.

710
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 4: But a lot of that comes from shitty parenting where

711
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 4: they should have parented before sure, and then they were

712
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 4: lazy and didn't parent and now it's like, well I gotta.

713
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 3: Hit them because that fear. You have to instill that

714
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 3: fear of embarrassing your parents in your kid early, like

715
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,400
Speaker 3: you would never even do no shit like that, even

716
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 3: at an early age, because you knew there was the

717
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 3: threat of the I could get fucked up for this.

718
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 3: Even if you never actually got fucked like this, I

719
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 3: know better than to do this, because that's you were

720
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 3: raised a lot of people, don't they think gentle. There's

721
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 3: this whole gentle parenting thing, and there's a difference between

722
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 3: being a gentle parent and being a negligent parent, Like

723
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 3: oh yeah, having your kid run around or talk to

724
00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 3: you however you want without instilling some type of respect

725
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 3: is how they grow up and they don't respect anybody

726
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: out in the world, and they embarrass you on planes

727
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 3: and shit like that.

728
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 4: So you're saying we should think we should threaten our

729
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 4: children with violence.

730
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 3: No, there's but see, honestly, if you're the type of

731
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 3: person that, how can I put this? I would My

732
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,719
Speaker 3: father never hit me. I think he might have hit

733
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 3: me once, and it was like because I hit him,

734
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 3: So it wasn't like.

735
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, it wasn't. It wasn't.

736
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,320
Speaker 4: That she didn't ever left them, So, I mean, it

737
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 4: was only the national My dad.

738
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 3: Had a bald head. I was a kid, I was

739
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 3: like eight. My dad had a bald head. No, but

740
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 3: dad had a bald head, so he was and me

741
00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 3: and my little sister like we used to like to

742
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 3: tap it when we were kids, but like it was

743
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 3: usually soft. One time he didn't see me coming because

744
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 3: I was like following him. Down the stairs and I

745
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 3: was like just a kid and I hit his head

746
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 3: and it was a reflex and he knocked me down

747
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 3: the stairs, but it was a complete.

748
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: Okay, he probably thought that was Darwskin Jermaine running down

749
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 1: on him for that money home like that ain't.

750
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't mean to h No, my father was

751
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:54,840
Speaker 3: a bit very big, like, well my mother hit me.

752
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: He said, Oh, if you or your mother or your

753
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,440
Speaker 3: sister ever put their hands on my daughter again, I

754
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 3: will knock all you bitches out. Like he didn't play.

755
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 3: Nobody could put their hands on me.

756
00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: What a great guy, great father. Father.

757
00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 4: Anyway, I don't touch my daughter, but all the women

758
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 4: in here blind knee to everyone's face, I get it

759
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 4: to touch my head. And once my daughter's past eighteen,

760
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 4: then then she's okay to hit Yeah.

761
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: Nah wow either. But what's the difference in uh, Because

762
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: I've never had white friends that I saw can get

763
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: beat Okay, like I've never I've never seen any of

764
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: my white friends growing up get get beat. So like

765
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 1: what is the Irish?

766
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 4: But Irish and Italian kids get that's normal, they get.

767
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: Fed up, But like what is your I don't like

768
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: what is the what's the soundtrack though, like what is

769
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: your mom saying why she's beating you?

770
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 4: It's not much of a soundtrack, Like, yeah, that's probably

771
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 4: that's probably difference because.

772
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah my mom she was she had bars when

773
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: she was beating me.

774
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 4: Okay, here's the biggest difference. Like mostly my West Indian

775
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 4: friends when they would talk about being beaten, I was like, Westdy,

776
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 4: you parents beat you like you know, when you would

777
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 4: share those stories, I'm like, oh I was being disciplined.

778
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 4: I think you were being abused. This is a salt one.

779
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 4: This is way different than my house old parents.

780
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:14,959
Speaker 1: Oh god, so yeah it was.

781
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 4: It wasn't the experience that I've heard from certain friends.

782
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 4: It's you know, there's a wooden spoon there, you catching that,

783
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 4: Like it's it's more of a reaction, like it's not

784
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: a whole experience, like I wasn't jumped, yeah the way

785
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 4: I've heard some of my friends where it's like the

786
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 4: whole family got in on it.

787
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:31,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, my mom used to take like tom out. She

788
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: used to call like twenty second time outs and the

789
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:39,320
Speaker 1: ass open, go gather herself, hydrate and come back and commenced.

790
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 2: For a round two. Oh yeah, it's like a showtime.

791
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: But that was also your time to like kind of

792
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: like double up on like the sweatpants through, put another

793
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: lay on, two hoodies.

794
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 4: Went to the respective corners.

795
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, like I know she's coming right back. Put

796
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: these we put these long jones.

797
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 4: On your sister. Put a corner on your face to

798
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 4: bring the swelling. Now, yeah, give you a peptal.

799
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: It was just it's almost over hang in there.

800
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 4: You do a spelit decision right now. She may have

801
00:34:06,960 --> 00:34:08,200
Speaker 4: to go for the Haymner to get the win.

802
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: Me and my mom talk about some astrobs now and

803
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 1: just laugh, bro, Like, I don't know what my mom

804
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,240
Speaker 1: was going through. Actually I do. She was a single

805
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 1: mom raising twins in the fucking Bronx. I get it.

806
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 1: Yet that sounds like I totally understanding. She was like, nigga,

807
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: you ain't about to be out here in the streets

808
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: doing some crazy shit. I give respect to any parent

809
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 1: that has twins. Yeah that has to be crazy. It

810
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: was well for my mother's words. You and I'm sure

811
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 1: you're experiencing this now as a new parent. One day

812
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 1: you look up and you just figure it out.

813
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 4: That is that is cool about just the human race

814
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 4: in general. Yeah, because no matter what, you feel like

815
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 4: you won't be prepared. Who's like prepared for something like that?

816
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 4: You figure it out no matter what, Like, there is

817
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 4: some human nature to parenting, like even her coming out,

818
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 4: the woman immediately latching to eat, Like that instinct also

819
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 4: kicks in on the parents side, Like you could watch

820
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 4: a million Instagram videos, blogs, listen, talk to parents all

821
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 4: that shit. Instincts do kick in. Yeah, you do know

822
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 4: immediately kind of what to do at all times in

823
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,239
Speaker 4: a weird way. So that has kind of been cool

824
00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 4: to see what, like animal instincts are exist. Yeah, I

825
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 4: mean I live in a first world country. My animal

826
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,839
Speaker 4: instincts don't kicking out only bar fights to the kick,

827
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 4: you know exactly. So that's actually been cool to like

828
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:33,600
Speaker 4: see how your mind kind of just knows what to

829
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 4: do instantly when certain things are happening, even though you

830
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,680
Speaker 4: haven't been trained that type of shit. But it was funny.

831
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 4: I was in an elevator with my daughter and there

832
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 4: was a woman in the elevator as well, and she

833
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 4: was like, oh, you have to understand I was on

834
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 4: like the twenty fifth floor. Wasn't a long elevator, right,

835
00:35:51,880 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 4: It's like, oh, it's so cute. Yeah, I have twins.

836
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 4: They both feed at different times and they both sleep at

837
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,439
Speaker 4: different times. Like no, hello, like nothing. She just need

838
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 4: to get that. She had to get that ship off,

839
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 4: and I didn't even know what to sounds like damn.

840
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 4: Yeah that sucks.

841
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: So no sleep for you. Huh. Yeah, that's how it was.

842
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: My mom. She said it was the same thing, like

843
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: when one would sleep, the other one would be up

844
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: so she could feed Jesus Christ. It was like almost

845
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: having one at a time. It wasn't always two.

846
00:36:20,760 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 4: So you have to think about that. Though you have

847
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 4: the twin g I have, I think it skips the skip.

848
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I know it's yeah, I know, I don't know,

849
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 1: but the twins do run heavy in my family. I

850
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 1: have a bunch of twins in my family. I have

851
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 1: twin nieces and nephews, so I know there's a great

852
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: chance that I have twins. But whatever I have, I

853
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: know I'm going to have daughters. That's just my karma.

854
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 6: That's your caramel.

855
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, elaborate well, because my biggest fear is, uh, my

856
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 1: daughter's bringing home a kid that was anything like me

857
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: in high school, Like you know, like on the surface,

858
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 1: like oh, respectful, genm. As soon as that dog close,

859
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 1: like yo, come on, just touch it like.

860
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 6: Wow, wow, wow wow.

861
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: You know you know the ones. He's such a nice,

862
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 1: respect very well spoken, well groove yeah. Like and as

863
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: soon as your mom's sound like she' in there sleeping,

864
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: he and their pants to his ankles.

865
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

866
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,279
Speaker 1: So I just know, like I just know that's my car.

867
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: I knew Rory was having a daughter at the moment

868
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:24,839
Speaker 3: he texts.

869
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 4: Me, Yeah, but I wanted a daughter. Yeah, when I

870
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 4: got that news, I wanted a daughter girls immediately, Yeah, yeah, mainly,

871
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,160
Speaker 4: And this is this is a very selfish.

872
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: She want a girl as well. I hear that mother's

873
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,799
Speaker 1: like women always usually their first one, they want a boy.

874
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 1: She was a little easier.

875
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,799
Speaker 4: She was cool the way, and I was cool either

876
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 4: way as well. But I did kind of want a daughter,

877
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 4: mainly because I watched my father's only sister take care

878
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:58,319
Speaker 4: of their father, well all the uncles. So it was

879
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 4: a very selfish reason. I just see, as you know,

880
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 4: the do as men of as you decline, like at

881
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 4: least I know I'll have somebody. And even my dad

882
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 4: had text me when she was born. He was like

883
00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 4: all right, you finally have unconditional love for the rest

884
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 4: of your life. Yeah, And I mean some would view

885
00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 4: that as like that's a odd text, like shouldn't he

886
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 4: have given you? That came from I was like, wait,

887
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 4: got it, now, I didn't have it.

888
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 3: You didn't have to give me.

889
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 4: My death loves me for sure. He really did send

890
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 4: that text. But that's pential text. Wait, I didn't have

891
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:35,959
Speaker 4: it before.

892
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,280
Speaker 1: No, no, unconditioned. It was very conditional.

893
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 4: But it is a little different. And you guys can

894
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 4: have your gender wars, but there is definitely human nature

895
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 4: with sons and their mothers and daughters with their fathers,

896
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 4: especially in the latter years of life. So I mean,

897
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 4: that's that's nice. Though I don't know if Demerius is

898
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 4: going to take care of me when I'm when I'm old, so.

899
00:38:54,960 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: She probably will. Daughter should might put some some baby

900
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,040
Speaker 1: pod on your balls and give your your bath or

901
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:03,720
Speaker 1: something like that.

902
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 6: That sounds about right, That's exactly what I was thinking.

903
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 4: Well, hr exist, y'all are not that far a partner.

904
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 3: That's what I'm like. Wait, we're both gonna be old

905
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: and his daughter will be taking care of us, But

906
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:18,759
Speaker 3: how how is it?

907
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 2: I meant to.

908
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,319
Speaker 3: I don't think me and you have had this conversation yet.

909
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 3: But that whole that daddy daughter thing that you mentioned,

910
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 3: like it gets strong like as you get older, like

911
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 3: it gets stronger, like your money no longer belongs to you.

912
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,800
Speaker 3: Being a daddy's girls my favorite part of like being.

913
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 2: A lost Yeah, gotta see you had a baby for

914
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:40,760
Speaker 2: sure already.

915
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 4: What if she wants to do nothing and doesn't matter?

916
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 1: Does she just exist?

917
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

918
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 3: For sure?

919
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 4: She would have named her nepa.

920
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 2: Is that how that goes?

921
00:39:50,840 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 3: Would have been a good hipster name?

922
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 4: Crazy?

923
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: It's a hips name.

924
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,560
Speaker 3: But yes, that that that whole daddy daughter Like are

925
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 3: you ready for that? Because it doesn't stop people say,

926
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 3: oh when against eighteen? It does not stop. I just

927
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 3: asked my dad for money, like twenty minutes ago.

928
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 4: Of course I will.

929
00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: But job and as men, we know that that's all

930
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: we're on this earth for.

931
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, do y'all why y'all be arguing on

932
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:17,440
Speaker 3: Twitter off splitting bills? If y'all know y'all born with

933
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:18,560
Speaker 3: this knowledge? Why are we there?

934
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:21,280
Speaker 1: But those are the men that you see on social

935
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: media arguing about paying bills. Those are guys that just

936
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,760
Speaker 1: they just haven't figured it out yet. Those are usually

937
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 1: younger guys. That's just like, you know what you mean,

938
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go a half on the homie with the

939
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: duve for the weed. Know that they still arguing about

940
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: going on half a weed, Like you don't want to

941
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 1: argue with them type of niggas. Like, but men know, like,

942
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:42,120
Speaker 1: I'm here to provide. I'm here for security. I'm here

943
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:46,000
Speaker 1: to you know, just make things easier for the women

944
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: in my life, not just my mom or my daughter,

945
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: just like the women in my life cousins. You know

946
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Shit Like, that's just what we're here for.

947
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 3: And it's not just money. It's a it's a there's

948
00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 3: a different type of security, like when you're like when

949
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,040
Speaker 3: your dad uplifts you. Yeah, as a girl, like there's

950
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 3: a different type of like I can go out into

951
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,560
Speaker 3: the world and I'm not afraid to fail at mad

952
00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 3: shit because I know, like at the end of the day,

953
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,720
Speaker 3: I can go cry to my dad and he'll money aside.

954
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 3: He'll be like It'll be okay.

955
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. One time we was out and it

956
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: was like a group of girls that was hanging out

957
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: with us, and it was one in particular. I was

958
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: like she was cool, but she was like more stand

959
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: all fish, not really like turned up as much as

960
00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 1: her homegirls. So I started talking to her like, I'm like, yeah,

961
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 1: what's up? You all right? Like what's going on? Like

962
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: you say, seemed like you a little like you're not

963
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,320
Speaker 1: feeling the vibe or whatever. She said, Nah, I'm cool,

964
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:40,880
Speaker 1: Like she was like, I'm just you know, I'm just chilling,

965
00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: like I don't really I'm not the stand on the

966
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: table dance type of girl. Like I just be chilling.

967
00:41:46,520 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: So I said, oh, okay, I say you got a boyfriend? Huh?

968
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 1: She said no, I just was raised by good father.

969
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, you know what, I understood what she

970
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 1: meant though in that moment not saying that the other

971
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: girls weren't, but she was more so saying like I'm

972
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: not going to even open the floor because we could

973
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: have a conversation when women are out and they're enjoying

974
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 1: themselves of you know, whatever type environment is. You know,

975
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 1: men know which women to approach and how to approach them,

976
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: and ones that don't have fathers and ones that don't

977
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: have fathersh you could just tell like can really talk,

978
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 1: I know, the girl that yo, nah, why she will

979
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: have this shit surrounded in ten minutes by a bunch

980
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 1: of niggas that did time in the seventies, Like you

981
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 1: just know, you just know, like yo, like nah? And

982
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 1: she when she staud it up, I laughed, and she

983
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: said no, like, I don't even want to open the

984
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: floor to a guy even halfway disrespecting me. Like if

985
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 1: I get on this table, I got a dress skirt on,

986
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: I start dancing, shaking my ass, A dude, come and

987
00:42:52,960 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: lift my shit up and grab my ass. It's going

988
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: a whole different way now. So I'm gonna just sit

989
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 1: here chill. You know, I'm drinking and having a good

990
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: time my girls. But I'm just not gonna go that

991
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: far because I know where it is going if somebody

992
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 1: disrespects me, and I don't want to even open up

993
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 1: the floor for disrespect. So I understood what she meant.

994
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, that makes perfect sense.

995
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 1: It was funny the way she like delivered it, but

996
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:18,959
Speaker 1: I know what she meant, like, nah, man, because if

997
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: somebody disrespect me here, it's gonna go a whole different way.

998
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 4: I do think this next generation of kids may this

999
00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 4: may be my naive prediction may end up being a

1000
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:37,360
Speaker 4: bit more private than this generation now because my parents

1001
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 4: didn't have social media, so I could post a lot

1002
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 4: of shit on my social media and my parents would

1003
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 4: never really see it. This next generation, even if Instagram

1004
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 4: is going by the time my daughter is in her teens,

1005
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 4: I grew up with social media, so I'm gonna probably

1006
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 4: move on to the next social media app that she's

1007
00:43:55,360 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 4: gonna be on. My parents are just discovering Facebook. That's

1008
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 4: not part of their world. We're gonna see everything they

1009
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 4: post no matter what.

1010
00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,440
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, they're about to get these new kids.

1011
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 4: So I think these new kids where everyone is like, oh,

1012
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 4: kids are gonna just put everything on the Internet, I

1013
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 4: think that shit is gonna change. I really think it's

1014
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 4: gonna change. I think they're going to start living off

1015
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 4: social media in some degree, because how could you get

1016
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,840
Speaker 4: your ship off when your parents see everything. They're on

1017
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 4: the same app as you. So I'm terrified in that

1018
00:44:27,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 4: regard because I won't be able to see everything. But

1019
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:33,359
Speaker 4: I mean, you gotta you can't have that anxiety all

1020
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 4: the time. You have to trust that you raise your

1021
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 4: kids out.

1022
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: And still certain things in them, certain levels of morals,

1023
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,280
Speaker 1: and things like that, and know that you know there's

1024
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:45,720
Speaker 1: sometimes their strength in privacy. Yeah, and just don't stand

1025
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: on the table with rich French told on the table

1026
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,440
Speaker 1: your feet shouldn't be there too, Like you know what

1027
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 1: I mean, It's just not this, it's not the envibment

1028
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: have fun, like you teach your kids to have fun,

1029
00:44:56,120 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 1: but be safe, be smart. But you want to open

1030
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: up that floor for your kids to feel like they

1031
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 1: can talk to you about anything. Oh, for sure, you

1032
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like, I'm going to have that dialogue, like, yo,

1033
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: you can tell me anything now. The first time your

1034
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,520
Speaker 1: daughter tells you she's dating, well.

1035
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 4: We can go back to your point of being the

1036
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,919
Speaker 4: nice Eddie Haskell guy. The difference way too old.

1037
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: Sorry, I've made peace with that already, have you, so

1038
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: you could say you made peace until.

1039
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 4: Now as long as it's a safe environment, like who, like,

1040
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 4: come on, I'm an adult now. Of course my daughter

1041
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:41,920
Speaker 4: eventually is going to want to date and consume herself

1042
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:43,320
Speaker 4: in those types of activities.

1043
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 2: You dumb, You're gonna shoot.

1044
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:49,360
Speaker 1: Them if it's anything but consensual and not safe.

1045
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 4: Of course, yeah, absolutely, Like I'm right behind for sure.

1046
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 4: But I mean, you've gotta like allow thee to live

1047
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 4: in that world. Because the same way Tomaro's like, can

1048
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,760
Speaker 4: y'all spot the girls that didn't have fathers, we also

1049
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 4: can spot the girls that were so sheltered and protected

1050
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 4: their entire life, and the moment they walk outside, it's like, oh,

1051
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 4: that's going to be the hoe because she has been.

1052
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 4: That's the ones that suck it sloppy, Like they have

1053
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 4: been so protected and so much under that father microscope

1054
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:22,760
Speaker 4: of like you can't go out, you can't do anything,

1055
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 4: you can't even explore who the fuck you are. And

1056
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 4: then of course they're going to become an adult and

1057
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 4: they're gonna go off on their own. It's like, well,

1058
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,680
Speaker 4: I need to experience the last decade of shit I

1059
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: wasn't able to, so that scares me more. I'd never

1060
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 4: want to be that father and that girl or even

1061
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,920
Speaker 4: guy to some degree has no relationship with their parents

1062
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 4: to talk about that stuff. I would like my daughter,

1063
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 4: when she becomes a teenager, to be able to talk

1064
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 4: about those conversations, like if there's some guy that is

1065
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:53,840
Speaker 4: like you and it's like yo, he was in the

1066
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 4: room saying touch it, touch and touch it. I want

1067
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 4: to be able to have that conversation. Yeah, I don't

1068
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 4: want to be like, yo, don't ever fucking talk to

1069
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 4: a guy.

1070
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: All right, you gotta see I'm different.

1071
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,680
Speaker 4: It's just not good parenting causes all boys have AIDS.

1072
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 6: Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

1073
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 4: Things have changed since cooties.

1074
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: Yeah we were from coodies. Yeah, kissed them, don't kiss them,

1075
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: don't hug them.

1076
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 2: Nothing.

1077
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 4: Just we're just big as they have eight and you're

1078
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 4: the only guy on earth that doesn't.

1079
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: That doesn't happen. That's cool. Different until they're old. You're like, listen,

1080
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: I had to feel that fear.

1081
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 4: You got the AIDS vaccine.

1082
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to instill that fear, like like just

1083
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: with daughters, because it's just different man, like you know,

1084
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,880
Speaker 1: having a boy, having a son. You know, it's just

1085
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 1: things happen, and it's like, Okay, my boy can defend himself.

1086
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 1: He could, you know, get out of certain situations with

1087
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 1: women because women are usually softer and just more you know,

1088
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: she's got a box. I mean well yeah, even if

1089
00:47:52,800 --> 00:47:56,319
Speaker 1: even if you have an active athletic daughter into you know,

1090
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 1: sports and things like that, it's just it's just a

1091
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: lot to fucked up people in this world. Man, you

1092
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and you know that's what that's

1093
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: what we're here for. That's why men are supposed to protect,

1094
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: provide security and things like that, because you know, just

1095
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: women are just out here sometimes and you know, they're

1096
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:14,359
Speaker 1: going somewhere with their girls and they think it's all good.

1097
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:15,759
Speaker 1: And then you have a bunch of dudes that's going

1098
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: on some different type of agenda.

1099
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 2: M h.

1100
00:48:17,840 --> 00:48:18,960
Speaker 1: And now you got to get out of your bed

1101
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: with your boys and go shoot sit up.

1102
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 3: But see that's this is this is this is what

1103
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 3: always confuses me when men say, oh, I'm so scared

1104
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 3: to have daughters because of things like that. Right, they're

1105
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:32,880
Speaker 3: so afraid of their daughters being victims. But I never

1106
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 3: hear men be afraid of their sons being.

1107
00:48:36,600 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 4: Can we stop with that narrative? I understand it when

1108
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:40,839
Speaker 4: women say that, but you're talking to us.

1109
00:48:41,239 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1110
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 3: But we have a podcast, so we're talking to for sure.

1111
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 2: But what's good y'all?

1112
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 4: We think that you should teach your sons not to

1113
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 4: victimize women, But we also live in the real world

1114
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 4: and understand that the same way we talk about there's

1115
00:48:55,600 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 4: not good fathers and daughters go out and do wild shit.

1116
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 4: There's not good fathers that don't father their sons and

1117
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:03,959
Speaker 4: then they go out and do wild shit. I would

1118
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 4: love to live in this perfect world where yes, the

1119
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,439
Speaker 4: answer is bother your sons so they don't abuse women.

1120
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 4: Completely agree, I also live in the real world, so yeah,

1121
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 4: my daughter has to keep her head on a swivel

1122
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 4: and know what time. Oh sure, I wish I lived

1123
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 4: in the utopia where people really father their sons and say, yo,

1124
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 4: do not disrespect women, do not take advantage of women,

1125
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 4: don't put your hands on women, don't get women drunk

1126
00:49:28,239 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 4: just to fuck them. I wish we lived in a

1127
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 4: world where that existed, but we don't. So I'm not

1128
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,759
Speaker 4: putting the blame and more pressure on women to say, like,

1129
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 4: you have to be ready, but let's just talk about realism.

1130
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 4: I'm not going to not get you prepared for that world. Yeah,

1131
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 4: because I think men should father their sons better, even

1132
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 4: though I do think that absolutely.

1133
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,520
Speaker 1: I mean that's first and foremost, father your kids correctly

1134
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 1: and raise your kids correctly. But we know that that

1135
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 1: doesn't happen. So our job is to prepare ours to

1136
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,919
Speaker 1: always protect themselves, and you know, to know that they

1137
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,399
Speaker 1: do have people behind them that support them that because

1138
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:07,800
Speaker 1: you know, you go out in the world and shit happens.

1139
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: We know that. But I'm just you know, you've seen

1140
00:50:11,880 --> 00:50:13,800
Speaker 1: so many things like that. That's why a lot of

1141
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 1: the times where I see you know, women with you know,

1142
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 1: men put their hands on women, That's why that shit

1143
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: bugs me out so much, because I'm just like, what

1144
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 1: do you like, how do you put your hands on somebody?

1145
00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 1: You you know, you clearly have an advantage over Yeah,

1146
00:50:30,320 --> 00:50:32,520
Speaker 1: like that, to me, that just doesn't make It's just

1147
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:33,960
Speaker 1: the weirdest thing in the world. And we know that

1148
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: it comes from insecurities and comes from trauma. It comes

1149
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 1: from a number of things. But my thing is, if

1150
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 1: you've come from a situation where you were abused, molested,

1151
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,359
Speaker 1: or you know, anything that happened traumatic as a kid,

1152
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't you not want anybody else to feel that? Like?

1153
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,000
Speaker 1: Isn't that to me? That seems like the more more

1154
00:50:58,120 --> 00:50:59,359
Speaker 1: natural thing.

1155
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 4: Like I want to answer you, but it's gonna sound

1156
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 4: like I'm like saying that behavior is okay to continue

1157
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 4: on with. But I guess with certain traumatic experience, I

1158
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 4: guess a lot of men that hit women grew up

1159
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 4: in households where domestic violence was a thing. So I

1160
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 4: think it tends to be okay. Even though it's painful

1161
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:27,439
Speaker 4: to watch their mother get beaten to them, they saw

1162
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,320
Speaker 4: it as more of a norm and like it was

1163
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,440
Speaker 4: kind of instilled in them. I guess is what a

1164
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 4: therapist would say. I'm not defending any of them. I'm

1165
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 4: just trying to answer your question for podcast.

1166
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 1: So my mom being abused, there's no way.

1167
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 4: Some people internalize it different that even the rage in

1168
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 4: which they felt watching their mother get beat can sometimes

1169
00:51:48,360 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 4: roll over into their relationship with a woman, and because

1170
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 4: that was so normal, it's kind of not it's not okay,

1171
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 4: but it's a reaction without thinking it may be a

1172
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 4: reaction to them because it's been instilled in them because

1173
00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,719
Speaker 4: they watched it so much.

1174
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 2: I guess seeing it happen doesn't mean you seeing it

1175
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 2: happen and knowing it's bad doesn't mean you develop the

1176
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 2: tools to make better decisions. It's just you can identify

1177
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 2: it's bad. But when that time comes in your relationship,

1178
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 2: your brain goes, oh, this is familiar, this is what

1179
00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:23,160
Speaker 2: I know. It takes like having discussions and meeting other

1180
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: people to be like, oh, I can identify that this

1181
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 2: looks painful, it's bad. Okay, let me see what I

1182
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 2: can do to avoid those situations. Like you can hate it,

1183
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: you can hate watching your mother get beat, but when

1184
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: it's your time, when you're with your girl or whatever

1185
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 2: your relationship status is, if you don't have the tools

1186
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 2: to communicate or do something different, you're just going to

1187
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: revert back to what you know.

1188
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 4: It's almost even like if someone has an attic parent

1189
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,200
Speaker 4: and they know how much that destroy their childhood, there's

1190
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 4: a high chance they become an addict because it's just

1191
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 4: kind of part of their upbringing. It becomes normalized. Even

1192
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,400
Speaker 4: though they hate it, it's still a thing and it

1193
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 4: doesn't make it right.

1194
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: But I don't see I grew up in with all

1195
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: of that shit was around me. Now, my mom was

1196
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: never abused. I was a type of kid. A nigga

1197
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: would put his hands to my mom's I was gonna

1198
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: grab a knife and kill something.

1199
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 4: I mean, I've met a few of your brothers. Yeah,

1200
00:53:11,040 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 4: I don't see it happening.

1201
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 1: Yeah no, But even growing up around drugs, like a

1202
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,760
Speaker 1: lot of my you know, relatives were addicted to drugs

1203
00:53:18,719 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 1: and things like that. But me seeing that. I never

1204
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 1: wanted to end up like that. Like I remember seeing

1205
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,759
Speaker 1: like some of my aunts strung out, some of my

1206
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: uncles and cousins and thing, and I'm just like like,

1207
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: this is what you be doing? Like to me, just

1208
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: something in my brain was like I'm never going to

1209
00:53:34,640 --> 00:53:35,160
Speaker 1: end up like that.

1210
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:38,959
Speaker 4: Yeah, just some people internalize those things differently. And even

1211
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 4: sometimes that's as much as an aunt and uncle are

1212
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 4: very close, it can be secondhand someone that I think

1213
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 4: is in the house with an addict in that regard,

1214
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 4: like the act like their mother Vie would have been differently.

1215
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: But even like my mom she grew up. I remember

1216
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: she smoked cigarettes. I never smoked a cigarette, like, not

1217
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 1: one in my life, you know. I mean like I

1218
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: used to go to the store with a note to

1219
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 1: get serruts for my mom. You know what I'm saying,

1220
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: Like and I one day she just quit. But like

1221
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: I never smoked. That never made me want to say,

1222
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,239
Speaker 1: And that's one thing my mom always say, like, yo,

1223
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 1: I love the fact that you never smoked a cigarette.

1224
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: Even with weed. I've never smoked weed in front of

1225
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: my mother and my mom and my mom smokes.

1226
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, you're also.

1227
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 3: Not an easily influenced person, then you don't have an

1228
00:54:24,560 --> 00:54:25,919
Speaker 3: addictive personality.

1229
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: No, I understand that, but I feel like a lot

1230
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: of people don't either though. But I do feel like

1231
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: a lot of people, you know, they fall into this

1232
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,960
Speaker 1: thing where they're trying to fit in. They don't they

1233
00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: don't know who they are, Like they have like an

1234
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: identity crisis type of thing where they're trying to figure

1235
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: out do I like this do or not? Do I

1236
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: want to be like this?

1237
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:43,120
Speaker 2: Do I not.

1238
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:44,880
Speaker 4: To me?

1239
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:46,880
Speaker 1: I remember early it was just certain things that I

1240
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: just was like, nah, I don't want to do that.

1241
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 4: It was Nancy Reagan, right.

1242
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 1: Well, it was Nancy Reagan. It was when she put

1243
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,320
Speaker 1: the egg in a pan and was like, this is

1244
00:54:57,360 --> 00:54:58,120
Speaker 1: your brain on drugs.

1245
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 4: I was like, really impact, I don't.

1246
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: Exactly absolutely, So it was just I remember from early man,

1247
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: it was just certain things I think that I was

1248
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:12,440
Speaker 1: just like I did. I didn't want to do that,

1249
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:14,920
Speaker 1: And that was just always been my mentality, like if

1250
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 1: I don't if something is just not me, it's not

1251
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: for me. I don't care how many other people doing this, Like.

1252
00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 4: It's just not my thing, and we can close the

1253
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 4: child conversation. But I do want to end it with

1254
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 4: you will be faced with way tougher questions and the

1255
00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 4: stuff we just discussed. Things you never thought you had

1256
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 4: to answer in your life. You have to answer kind

1257
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 4: of immediately, like what's your stance on Santa Claus? How

1258
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 4: do you feel about the tooth Fairy?

1259
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 3: You better? I don't know.

1260
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 6: How do you feel about the tooth fairy?

1261
00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: Like?

1262
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 6: How about you put it under her pillow?

1263
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 4: And with inflation? Yeah, like you can't put a quarter

1264
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:55,160
Speaker 4: on it at least five. I was going, see note,

1265
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 4: you gotta.

1266
00:55:57,480 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: Get money, No, the whole yard.

1267
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,280
Speaker 2: Damn, just put a mic stand under her pillow.

1268
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,440
Speaker 4: It was my daughter doesn't sleep. I would wake her

1269
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 4: up immediately if I try to take a tooth under

1270
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 4: her pillow.

1271
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:12,080
Speaker 1: It's fun to see kids that's still into that though,

1272
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: Like seeing my nephews still like into the tooth Fairy

1273
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: and things like that. That's fun. It's kind of like, okay,

1274
00:56:16,920 --> 00:56:17,880
Speaker 1: you still believe in that.

1275
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 2: I think my niece just got the news broken to her.

1276
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:24,880
Speaker 2: I think, damn, and I think so only about it

1277
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 2: a while ago. I think she kind of she's really

1278
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:28,759
Speaker 2: smart and I think she kind of figured it out,

1279
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:31,840
Speaker 2: like on her own and she was like, Eh, it's whatever.

1280
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 2: He was like, she was like thanks mom and dad,

1281
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 2: Like she was like more grateful that her parents were doing.

1282
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 1: I think you have to let kids have that because

1283
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:43,360
Speaker 1: that that promotes uh an imagination. To me, it promotes

1284
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: creativity and things like that. So I think that Santa

1285
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: Claus and things like that. Now as you get a

1286
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 1: certain age.

1287
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say it has to be a younger age

1288
00:56:51,760 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 4: that you cut it off. Yeah, yeah, because at what

1289
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 4: age could you have used Google?

1290
00:56:56,280 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 2: Which that's the thing she's smart. Yeah she could have.

1291
00:56:59,200 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 4: Because I feel like I've believed in Santa at an

1292
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 4: age I probably could have Googled had I had Google

1293
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 4: in a computer.

1294
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 3: Well, somebody has to insert the seed of doubt before

1295
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 3: you google it. Are you saying what I'm saying? Like,

1296
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 3: if I just know that the color red is the

1297
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 3: color red, I'm not gonna google is the color red

1298
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:15,759
Speaker 3: really red? You're not going to do that because you

1299
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,280
Speaker 3: know it as fact. Somebody has to implant that seated.

1300
00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 4: But I was also like a weird and quisitive kid

1301
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 4: where I always wondered still believed. I was like, how

1302
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 4: does how does Santa do all that? If I had

1303
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:29,920
Speaker 4: Google at that time to my disposal, I'd be like,

1304
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 4: how does Santa bring presents to everyone? Knowing that, and

1305
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 4: then I'm sure the first Google search and'd be like,

1306
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 4: yoah should ain't real, bro, And then there'd be a

1307
00:57:37,360 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 4: whole Reddit page and be like you should join q

1308
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:39,440
Speaker 4: and on.

1309
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 1: Somewhere intended to go right.

1310
00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 4: So that's almost what scares me with holidays of like

1311
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,680
Speaker 4: what if I send my kid down a rabbit hole

1312
00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 4: on Easter that they don't need to be in?

1313
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:54,320
Speaker 1: That's and then they end up with Freddy Gibbs and

1314
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: his stick stuff actually freestyle all that. I like that.

1315
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 3: Really, you're happy for you. I know I'm speaking. I

1316
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 3: know everybody here agrees. Watching you become a dad has

1317
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 3: been a very beautiful super Yes, we we love it.

1318
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 3: Every time we see you. We all love her. We

1319
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:17,560
Speaker 3: all have our own relationship with her.

1320
00:58:17,600 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 4: And she's gonna keeping the Ginger Jean a lot. Yeah

1321
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 4: the fuck you all you fucking gingers out there here

1322
00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 4: for the cast.

1323
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:33,040
Speaker 1: No, I didn't you definitely continued you know that your baby, Yeah,

1324
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: for sure, there's no denygning.

1325
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 6: There's no denying Big Pepy Yoh fucking daddy.

1326
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 4: The doctor, because I didn't think she was gonna right hair.

1327
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 4: The doctor said as she was coming out, like midway through.

1328
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 6: Like, no, that's how blood.

1329
00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 4: I was gonna say that looks looks like Dad's beard,

1330
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 4: was like, you took a peak. I mean I was

1331
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 4: watching did you look?

1332
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:55,240
Speaker 1: So?

1333
00:58:55,320 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 3: Did you look? Did you like?

1334
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 4: Of course you even't think I wanted to watch my

1335
00:58:58,720 --> 00:58:59,320
Speaker 4: daughter be born.

1336
00:58:59,840 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 2: I would have passed films.

1337
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 4: Know, we have a bunch of photos from the side angle,

1338
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:08,720
Speaker 4: not the vagina sick.

1339
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 1: I thought you had and set up the whole product.

1340
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought you know what I mean, Well, we'll

1341
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 2: put that cameras. Yeah, I thought that was our Patreon

1342
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 2: and it was like, could you.

1343
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: Put the mic close?

1344
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:22,080
Speaker 6: She can like din she count real quick?

1345
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 4: What patreons here? Would that content.

1346
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 7: Passed?

1347
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 1: Actually?

1348
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 4: Fivef you're kind of a sick if you want to watch.

1349
00:59:34,840 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 3: That's sick.

1350
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:36,720
Speaker 1: I think that's a very beautiful thing.

1351
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: We should put a helmet cam on Rory.

1352
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:44,920
Speaker 3: All the time that go pros shaky ship on the side.

1353
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 2: Cam.

1354
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: I gotta do the dad cam. But well, congratulations, man,

1355
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: I know that you've been keeping that to you and

1356
00:59:54,760 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: your family for a while, and now that you know

1357
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: you let everybody know that you are indeed a dad.

1358
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:02,120
Speaker 1: It's been. It's been dope to watch and transform into

1359
01:00:02,160 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: a dad. I think when you were a young, wild

1360
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: little lad running around with wood jewelry on, and now

1361
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: you have a beautiful, beautiful baby girl. So not much

1362
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,440
Speaker 1: has changed. Not much has changed, it's just better with

1363
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 1: your Yeah, not much has changed, but a lot has changed.

1364
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: So congratulations, God bless man, and you do have a beautiful,

1365
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 1: beautiful family.

1366
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 4: So outside of having like a child's also have an

1367
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 4: album also which is another child. It's it's been, it's

1368
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 4: been a weird week, it's been a year first feat. Yeah,

1369
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 4: you know, I just had to use my kid as

1370
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 4: a rollout.

1371
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 1: Well that's sick. It's not using the kid as a rollout.

1372
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 1: She doesn't have a job. Well, yeah that's true. Yeah,

1373
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,120
Speaker 1: I see what you put a give us.

1374
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:47,760
Speaker 4: Something if we family like you got to carry your

1375
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 4: weight over.

1376
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:49,600
Speaker 1: Carry your weight. I get it. I understand that.

1377
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 4: But Marrit is just telling me now what it's like

1378
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 4: to be a girl dad where you have to pay

1379
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 4: for fucking everything. Yeah, let's bring some attention to my album.

1380
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 4: Sis should have made it gonna be all your daughter's sisters,

1381
01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:04,479
Speaker 4: that's family. Is she gonna be the wark that is family,

1382
01:01:04,560 --> 01:01:08,160
Speaker 4: that first link family, She's not gonna be.

1383
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 1: No, she's not gonna be the work.

1384
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 4: We were family off first link first now that I

1385
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 4: think about it, me and my daughter were family off

1386
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 4: first link like that first night. Like we was cool,

1387
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 4: Like like now you like you family, Yeah.

1388
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 1: Your life is, yeah life, your life is. That's forever.

1389
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 4: Now we vibe.

1390
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 1: But I could tell you, just like me.

1391
01:01:29,440 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 2: In the face, I can't wait.

1392
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 1: For people to like see your daughter to understand how

1393
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: funny that is. Like once they see.

1394
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 4: Her, it's it's it's obnoxious. It's of how much she

1395
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 4: looks like.

1396
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 1: It's crazy, how red she is, Like I don't get mad,

1397
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: like she's like red.

1398
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 3: When she gets mad and she starts shaking, she turns

1399
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 3: like her eyebrows get super red.

1400
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the baby from the Incredibles.

1401
01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1402
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:53,840
Speaker 4: And I used to like hate when people be like, oh,

1403
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 4: she looks so much like you too, in general, when

1404
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,240
Speaker 4: I be like, yeah, that's someone's kid, of course is

1405
01:01:58,280 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 4: going to look like them. My daughter is like exact

1406
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 4: record just like you.

1407
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 1: It's it's hilarious, it's funny, like just.

1408
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:07,880
Speaker 3: Me she gets frustrated. I birth faces everything.

1409
01:02:08,280 --> 01:02:10,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, but so your birth of the album, first of all,

1410
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 4: congratu my flustered faces had.

1411
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 3: You're literally flustered all of the time I had.

1412
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: I had the privilege of hearing this album for at

1413
01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,439
Speaker 1: least a year and a half. Yeahs things have changed.

1414
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: Well no, no, no, because you added some songs. Definitely

1415
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: change You changed some some of the production on certain songs,

1416
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 1: for sure, added some things. So it's I've heard the

1417
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: shell of an album for about a year and a half,

1418
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 1: two years.

1419
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 4: And if they didn't take it from me, that would

1420
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 4: have continued.

1421
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. So now the album is finally done.

1422
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 4: It's out.

1423
01:02:40,560 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 1: The album is finally out. Congratulations that stream that ship

1424
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: fall asleep to it. And like I told you before

1425
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 1: the last time when I heard the final version of

1426
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: the album, it's an incredible, incredible album, incredible mix of

1427
01:02:55,280 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: different types of songs. You got verses on there from

1428
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: rappers that I never thought I would hear. I'm on

1429
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: certain types of production, the R and B is amazing,

1430
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 1: the features just mixed. Well, this is a really thought out,

1431
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 1: uh curated piece of work that you did. And I'm

1432
01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 1: proud of you because I know this was something that

1433
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,680
Speaker 1: you really like worked on diligently, and you're perfectionist. So

1434
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 1: even if you hear something and it's dope, you sit

1435
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: on it for about two three days and then pause

1436
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 1: and then you come right back and like now I

1437
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:26,040
Speaker 1: want to change I just want to change that.

1438
01:03:26,280 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 4: No, I mean having James fons Roy on your debut

1439
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 4: like is I would say the definition of bare minimum?

1440
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, men and him, because you could have that's

1441
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: really like could have gotten Stevie Wonder, so you know

1442
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: what I mean. It's just like Angel just getting Jay

1443
01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 1: elect and James fons Roy just yeah, I mean yeah,

1444
01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 1: did you even try on this project? Yeah? Like you

1445
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: you lived up to the bare minimum to that, so

1446
01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 1: this is this is Uh. I want to thank you

1447
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,560
Speaker 1: for at least keeping the bare minimum think. Yeah, you know,

1448
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,240
Speaker 1: don't do too much, never too much.

1449
01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,360
Speaker 4: Some local artists that do things for everybody.

1450
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 3: So what other artists are on the album for people

1451
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 3: who have not downloaded it yet? Uh?

1452
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,919
Speaker 4: Well I know that ship idiot sorry as he said,

1453
01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 4: and I guess by it on iTunes. Do whatever the

1454
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:10,680
Speaker 4: fuck you please.

1455
01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 6: At this point, we're poor.

1456
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:12,720
Speaker 2: Thank you ahead.

1457
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:15,160
Speaker 4: I haven't worked on this part of the press run

1458
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 4: yet to give like that. Pitch Yo May twenty sixth,

1459
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 4: available everywhere on all streaming platforms, featuring Alex islehold on

1460
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 4: I need.

1461
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:26,320
Speaker 1: To pick up the track with Alex, James font Roy.

1462
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 4: Ario Lennox, n Conway Machine, Carlson Fonte is on there.

1463
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:37,640
Speaker 4: I got Fonte on my first project, and you know,

1464
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 4: Fante is my favorite artist about that was the coolest

1465
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 4: shit ever to me, Like everything else is what it is.

1466
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 4: I'm in James Fonsroy's stand. That kind of like made

1467
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:49,360
Speaker 4: my life. That would be like having a whole feature

1468
01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 4: to me, like that's how much I love with Fonsroy.

1469
01:04:51,840 --> 01:04:56,240
Speaker 4: But having Fonte on the project was honestly, like thirteen

1470
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 4: year old Rory was like really really proud he was.

1471
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:02,800
Speaker 4: It's funny, thirteen year ROI was extremely proud of himself.

1472
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 1: I remember when you got the uh, the James faunt

1473
01:05:05,320 --> 01:05:06,240
Speaker 1: le Roy verse back.

1474
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 4: We were when you were being pissed on.

1475
01:05:08,120 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was being pissed on that day.

1476
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:12,000
Speaker 4: We were in the sex Dungeon no longer on Patreon

1477
01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:14,040
Speaker 4: because Patreon, Sorry, that was such great.

1478
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: Is there anywhere we could put that? We can't put

1479
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 1: that anywhere?

1480
01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 6: Can we put that on YouTube.

1481
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 3: No, if you send me money, I'll send you the link.

1482
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 6: We definitely can't put done.

1483
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:23,240
Speaker 1: We can't.

1484
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 6: I mean I would have to learn most of it

1485
01:05:26,160 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 6: for our content.

1486
01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: You said, Yeah, how much of that could we put

1487
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 2: on YouTube?

1488
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 6: I would just have to blur most we could do, like.

1489
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:34,160
Speaker 4: A one time dollar ninety nine feet on only fans

1490
01:05:34,360 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 4: just for that. That's sick and like that entire thing,

1491
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 4: we should be only fans. We could just put the

1492
01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:42,600
Speaker 4: raw footage, no pun intended on only fans for a dollar,

1493
01:05:42,880 --> 01:05:45,600
Speaker 4: just for that specific video. But anyways, Yeah, Maul was

1494
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 4: getting pissed on in a sex dungeon.

1495
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you walked out.

1496
01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 6: I was like, yos.

1497
01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 1: James sent his verse. I'm like, yo, but this beautiful

1498
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:57,560
Speaker 1: young woman it's peeing everywhere. They're like this is great,

1499
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:01,240
Speaker 1: a hydrated woman at that very high yellow peek.

1500
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 4: No.

1501
01:06:01,600 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 1: No, And you walked out, So I know you was

1502
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:06,040
Speaker 1: happy to get that. That was a super dope move

1503
01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:09,200
Speaker 1: because we all know how James doesn't just work with

1504
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:12,000
Speaker 1: any and everybody, and he's very you know, kept to

1505
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,440
Speaker 1: his circle of people that he works with. So that

1506
01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:15,520
Speaker 1: was that was a big movie.

1507
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I mean I don't really know how we

1508
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:22,120
Speaker 4: should go about this on our podcast, because did slash

1509
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:25,439
Speaker 4: doing a press run and those are weird? Man, I'd

1510
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:27,880
Speaker 4: rather talk about doing the press run here rather than

1511
01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:30,200
Speaker 4: give you my press run answers on this project. Yeah,

1512
01:06:30,480 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 4: was it amazing for thirteen year old Roy to have

1513
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:36,040
Speaker 4: Fante on the project. Of course, do y'all give a fuck? No, no,

1514
01:06:36,560 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 4: So let's talk about how awkward I am during press run.

1515
01:06:39,560 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. It's funny though, to see you actually doing a

1516
01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 1: press run about music. Though, it's cool because usually on

1517
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: the other side of it, usually you're working with an

1518
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: artist that isn't yes run, or you were at the

1519
01:06:49,240 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 1: label putting together press run shit for the artists. Now

1520
01:06:52,240 --> 01:06:54,800
Speaker 1: you're actually putting out a project, so now you have

1521
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 1: to promote it and you have to go to these

1522
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,040
Speaker 1: different outlets and talk about the project.

1523
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 4: But it is actually cool having the lens of watching

1524
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 4: so many press runs to go into one, like, I

1525
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,200
Speaker 4: already know what's gonna look corny, look weird, like look

1526
01:07:07,240 --> 01:07:09,600
Speaker 4: at the great press runny even like the people that

1527
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 4: I picked for the press run per se, I didn't

1528
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 4: want to go to everybody. I wanted to do what

1529
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:18,400
Speaker 4: I thought would be impactful conversations where I would have

1530
01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:21,720
Speaker 4: a different conversation with each person, not so like, tell me,

1531
01:07:22,600 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 4: tell me what the process with Bink was like on

1532
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:28,280
Speaker 4: the outro, like I knew that can only go so far,

1533
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 4: especially with the audience now on YouTube, like they don't care.

1534
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 4: So it's been fun sort of. Let me start with

1535
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:44,360
Speaker 4: playbacks For those that don't know what playbacks are. I'm

1536
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 4: not gonna co sign Julian's uugh, even though I feel

1537
01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 4: it internally because I am appreciative of playbacks. For those

1538
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 4: that don't know playbacks are you get on Zoom since

1539
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:58,720
Speaker 4: covid used to do them in person. Now no matter what,

1540
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 4: they're on Zoom and you have it could range from

1541
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 4: seven people in some cases it's twenty people. Yeah, and

1542
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 4: they're all from different offices, whether it be New York, LA, Nashville, Atlanta,

1543
01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 4: and it's the DSPs and you play them their album

1544
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:18,679
Speaker 4: in hopes that they will support it. They introduce everyone

1545
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:21,160
Speaker 4: from each department and you kind of run through that

1546
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 4: entire thing, which I am extremely appreciative of, and I

1547
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:26,400
Speaker 4: do think people care about them, But boy are they

1548
01:08:26,479 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 4: the most awkward fucking things ever.

1549
01:08:28,880 --> 01:08:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1550
01:08:29,120 --> 01:08:32,800
Speaker 4: One, the sound is insane. No, matter what, they've tried

1551
01:08:32,800 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 4: to find ways to do plug ins, all this shit.

1552
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 1: Every the sound is. It doesn't not gonna do nothing.

1553
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 4: It's just Ali can't figure out how to make playback.

1554
01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 4: It's always trash, which is all like weird to begin with,

1555
01:08:44,520 --> 01:08:46,840
Speaker 4: especially when like with an album like mine where it's

1556
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 4: mostly live instruments and like you can't hear certain shit

1557
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 4: and you don't want to come across as that guy like, hey,

1558
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:54,000
Speaker 4: did you do you hear the chime on that one?

1559
01:08:54,040 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 4: Did you the triangle? Because I know you can't, right,

1560
01:08:56,320 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 4: you're right, right. Then there's the awkward position of you

1561
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 4: don't know what beat everyone is on because it's just

1562
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:07,840
Speaker 4: an array of zooms everyone. It's like the Brady Bunch,

1563
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:10,160
Speaker 4: and you play the record like, hey, this is this record,

1564
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 4: and then it starts and one person is on the one,

1565
01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,519
Speaker 4: one person is on the three, one person is on

1566
01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,760
Speaker 4: the two, one person is on the four. Someone has

1567
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 4: a lagged Wi Fi so they may be on beat,

1568
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 4: but they still look like they're on the one. And

1569
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 4: you're just looking at faces off something that you've worked

1570
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:33,759
Speaker 4: on ever, and they're at their desk and they are busy,

1571
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 4: like they have shit going on in their life and

1572
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 4: their job as well. And I'm sure that an email

1573
01:09:39,680 --> 01:09:42,519
Speaker 4: just came across their shit like yo, playback, need you here.

1574
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:45,560
Speaker 4: They don't know who it is. They don't care. This

1575
01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:47,960
Speaker 4: may even interfere with their lunch. They were gonna have

1576
01:09:47,960 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 4: an hour lunch. Now they have a twenty minute lunch

1577
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 4: because they have to sit at their desk and watch

1578
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:57,439
Speaker 4: some guy go so for my next record. Yeah, it's

1579
01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 4: the weirdest process ever. But it's a mess, but it's

1580
01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:04,920
Speaker 4: I I appreciate Apple Spotify, everyone that I've done that with.

1581
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:07,559
Speaker 4: I do appreciate it for real, Like I'm not shitting

1582
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 4: on that process. Just the awkwardness of it is literally

1583
01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 4: it's unbearable watching someone listen to your shitty audio on

1584
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:20,640
Speaker 4: Zoom and they can playlist you.

1585
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:24,919
Speaker 1: Right, It's crazy. It's great, But again it's a necessary

1586
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,800
Speaker 1: thing because you do have to get people to hear it,

1587
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 1: and you do want it to get it playlisted. You

1588
01:10:29,520 --> 01:10:31,759
Speaker 1: do want, you know, people to support the project because

1589
01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:33,720
Speaker 1: you work, You worked hard on it, so you want

1590
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 1: people to appreciate it. But I think that you know this,

1591
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: this this project you put together. It's easy for anybody

1592
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 1: that's a music lover to enjoy it. It's a it's

1593
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:46,800
Speaker 1: an easy listen, it's a dope listen. It's a lot

1594
01:10:46,880 --> 01:10:49,120
Speaker 1: a lot of good music, good lyrics. It's just you

1595
01:10:49,160 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 1: could tell that you really took time and didn't just

1596
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:53,680
Speaker 1: put something together because you want to put something together.

1597
01:10:53,720 --> 01:10:55,880
Speaker 1: It really took your time with it and you cared

1598
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:57,600
Speaker 1: about the music and the product, and then it's a

1599
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: whole full thing. It's not just something you slapped together.

1600
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 1: Everything was very thought out, very meticulous, very like attention

1601
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: to detail. And as somebody that just.

1602
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 4: Like shit like that, I appreciate that, and I appreciate that.

1603
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:13,200
Speaker 4: Can I ask you as a vulnerable question?

1604
01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:15,559
Speaker 1: I love when you ask vulnerable questions.

1605
01:11:16,400 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 4: Okay, I did a lot of feedback I've gotten from

1606
01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:22,880
Speaker 4: people within the industry that I've sent it to, not

1607
01:11:23,120 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 4: like to artists or friends or people that like I.

1608
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 4: We have music conversations all the time.

1609
01:11:28,840 --> 01:11:29,240
Speaker 1: Type of shit.

1610
01:11:29,280 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 4: You know, you have to do your due diligence and

1611
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 4: send the shit out. You have to be you want

1612
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:33,400
Speaker 4: to listen to my project, like you have.

1613
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:33,680
Speaker 2: To do that.

1614
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:39,160
Speaker 4: That bullshit I've gotten back A word that has kept

1615
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 4: me up at night outside of my daughter's crying and

1616
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:46,520
Speaker 4: cluster feeding. It's refreshing.

1617
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 2: Oh they're gonna say mid.

1618
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:52,719
Speaker 4: They should have said mid.

1619
01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:56,520
Speaker 1: Nah, But I understand.

1620
01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:01,280
Speaker 4: We're doing a difference. Have a roll out at this podcast.

1621
01:12:01,560 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 4: I'm doing my press.

1622
01:12:02,439 --> 01:12:02,800
Speaker 2: Run with me.

1623
01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:04,479
Speaker 4: Let's have a real conversation.

1624
01:12:04,760 --> 01:12:05,240
Speaker 6: But don't do that.

1625
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:07,559
Speaker 4: No artist ever talks about when they send their project

1626
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 4: to the industry world and they get back certain adjectives

1627
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 4: and artists you can lie about that. I felt weird

1628
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 4: about it.

1629
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 2: Refreshing sounds like a beverage No, but it's refreshing, refreshing

1630
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:21,200
Speaker 2: thing when I hear.

1631
01:12:21,720 --> 01:12:25,639
Speaker 1: But refreshing is not refreshing is from from how I'm

1632
01:12:25,680 --> 01:12:31,600
Speaker 1: taking it. Refreshing means yes, yeah, thank god, this is

1633
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 1: something that I could Actually this is joy. Get into

1634
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 1: appreciate this.

1635
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:38,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1636
01:12:38,280 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: Like, to me, refreshing is like, this is what I've

1637
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 1: been waiting. It's like when you're in a hot ass

1638
01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:45,519
Speaker 1: room and finally somebody turns the AC.

1639
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 2: On you, like, oh, brisk God, It's like no, it's

1640
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: just like brisk.

1641
01:12:49,160 --> 01:12:52,400
Speaker 1: Yes, this is what I was looking for. This is

1642
01:12:52,520 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 1: what I've been wanting to hear. So refreshing to me

1643
01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:57,599
Speaker 1: is a great thing.

1644
01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 4: You guys told me refreshing. I would feel really good

1645
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:05,840
Speaker 4: about it, because when you're doing the industry back and

1646
01:13:05,960 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 4: forth with certain people and their family refreshing fans who

1647
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:16,040
Speaker 4: told you almost it sounds like no more than one person.

1648
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:18,599
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, is this is this the new words?

1649
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 2: Is this the hey?

1650
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 4: It was sequenced well, or maybe it was just this

1651
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:24,479
Speaker 4: is refreshing, that new buzzword.

1652
01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:27,160
Speaker 2: People don't want to wear ourselves though they probably said that,

1653
01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 2: like this is the new word. We don't want to

1654
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 2: sound like everyone else. Let's say something different. It's refreshing.

1655
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: No, but I don't want you to put that.

1656
01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 4: Who else? Who else do they think was refreshing? That's

1657
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 4: where I'm at in my head.

1658
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: That's what you should ask.

1659
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,560
Speaker 4: You should have asked that, like what wild question to

1660
01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:42,840
Speaker 4: ask someone?

1661
01:13:42,880 --> 01:13:44,240
Speaker 1: I would have said, when was the last time you

1662
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: heard something refreshing? When was the last artist that you

1663
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 1: were I've been on both?

1664
01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 4: Actually, Ice Spice is a refreshing in some yes, I

1665
01:13:55,400 --> 01:13:58,680
Speaker 4: would say she's refreshing in a good way. No, well,

1666
01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 4: it's a different type of sound within the quote unquote

1667
01:14:02,720 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 4: pussy wrap female era. I think it's refreshing.

1668
01:14:05,120 --> 01:14:08,160
Speaker 2: I think it's new. So do you go but refresh.

1669
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 6: You are ginger laatee ginger lat.

1670
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 1: You are pumpkin spice. That's ice spice. You're pumpkin spiding.

1671
01:14:15,400 --> 01:14:17,519
Speaker 1: That's all. That's all the labels are trying to tell you, Rory.

1672
01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:21,920
Speaker 4: When Halloween comes around, this is your time. I don't know,

1673
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:24,280
Speaker 4: and I'm not going to have that conversation with someone

1674
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 4: that I just have an industry relationship with because I've

1675
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 4: been on both sides. So I'm grateful that people would

1676
01:14:32,760 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 4: even listen to it because I know how busy people

1677
01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 4: are and i know the times people have asked me

1678
01:14:36,240 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 4: to listen to music and I just wanted to but

1679
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,679
Speaker 4: didn't have the time to and me even giving feedback

1680
01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:45,920
Speaker 4: is tough sometimes with the schedule. So I'm so appreciative

1681
01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:51,559
Speaker 4: where I'm happy with refreshing, but it my mind wanders

1682
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,880
Speaker 4: at two am, like, so what did he mean by refreshing? Yeah,

1683
01:14:56,160 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 4: it has to be the new industry.

1684
01:14:57,360 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: Where it's it has to be your industry brain like

1685
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 1: taking over right there, because you like, this is a

1686
01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: sensitive artists, this is the new this is the new industry.

1687
01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 4: Term like they don't they hate it, but they don't

1688
01:15:08,320 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 4: want to say they hate it like this is their

1689
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:11,960
Speaker 4: way of letting me down easy, Like or did they

1690
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:12,679
Speaker 4: even listen?

1691
01:15:13,520 --> 01:15:17,240
Speaker 2: Probably not, because I used to do. I would even

1692
01:15:17,720 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 2: they have to listen to I would, oh my god,

1693
01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 2: I wouldn't listen to ninety percent of them.

1694
01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 4: Which, honestly, I would not be offended at all, again

1695
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 4: because I've been on both sides. If I sent it

1696
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:31,720
Speaker 4: to someone and they did not listen to it, I'm

1697
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:32,519
Speaker 4: totally fine.

1698
01:15:32,960 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: No, I would be.

1699
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 4: I was only mad at you that one time.

1700
01:15:35,240 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: I listened to listen to the album.

1701
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 4: What you like in that world? If they listen to it, great,

1702
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 4: if they can support it, great, But if they don't,

1703
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 4: I don't take that personally.

1704
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: Listen just you. You just have to trust and know

1705
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:51,880
Speaker 1: that you just don't call my ship brisk. That's that's

1706
01:15:51,920 --> 01:15:54,479
Speaker 1: what they said. But you just have to first of all,

1707
01:15:55,479 --> 01:15:58,960
Speaker 1: as a music lover, as a person that appreciates good music,

1708
01:15:59,040 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: it would be hard to see the track list, see

1709
01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 1: those features and not listen.

1710
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:06,719
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

1711
01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 1: Like if you're a music lover, if you're somebody that

1712
01:16:09,479 --> 01:16:13,000
Speaker 1: knows like damn like Alex Eisley, like sing my ass off,

1713
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:15,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Jay alect he don't wrap

1714
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:17,840
Speaker 1: no time, no, but nobody other than.

1715
01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:20,320
Speaker 4: JAYZ like you're there, so it's like okay, and then

1716
01:16:20,360 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 4: you have all these other conway, let me hear this

1717
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:24,320
Speaker 4: ain't a darrener beat, like who did?

1718
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 1: Like you understand I'm saying, it's just a different it's.

1719
01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:28,840
Speaker 2: Gold Link, who's been pretty low.

1720
01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you would be inclined that you have to

1721
01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:34,880
Speaker 1: know what that sounds like because these you have names

1722
01:16:34,960 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: and features and artists that you usually don't hear from,

1723
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:39,759
Speaker 1: and if you do hear from them, it's quality.

1724
01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, And this is cool because it's like, in its

1725
01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 2: true sentence, a collaborative project, like you're not inviting them

1726
01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 2: on the track and just letting them run rampant with

1727
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,759
Speaker 2: like you're helping with the writing in most of the cases,

1728
01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 2: like your your influences in the writing and the production.

1729
01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:58,880
Speaker 2: So it's it's from a curiosity aspect alone. I think

1730
01:16:58,920 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 2: it's incentivized people to check it out because this is

1731
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:04,600
Speaker 2: a really accurate insight I think to you as a

1732
01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:06,760
Speaker 2: person and reflects who you are. So a lot of

1733
01:17:06,800 --> 01:17:09,240
Speaker 2: these records, I'm like, oh, like this is I can

1734
01:17:09,360 --> 01:17:12,920
Speaker 2: hear Rory saying this and conversations we've had, and it's

1735
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 2: cool that you were able to sequence that and put

1736
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:16,760
Speaker 2: it on a production that match that same entergy.

1737
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 4: So refreshing.

1738
01:17:18,760 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 2: It is refreshing, but refreshing the sense that it's like,

1739
01:17:21,479 --> 01:17:23,920
Speaker 2: like you said, Jay does Jala doesn't do versus like

1740
01:17:24,000 --> 01:17:27,760
Speaker 2: he did for your album, Like it's a refreshing take

1741
01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:29,600
Speaker 2: on an artist that we haven't heard this kind of

1742
01:17:29,680 --> 01:17:30,120
Speaker 2: music from.

1743
01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:32,200
Speaker 4: Does Refreshing have replayed value?

1744
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

1745
01:17:33,160 --> 01:17:33,720
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think so?

1746
01:17:33,880 --> 01:17:35,960
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh no, I know my album does. I'm just

1747
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,800
Speaker 4: I'm only focusing on the word refreshing. My album I

1748
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 4: know is correct.

1749
01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:40,240
Speaker 2: I run back.

1750
01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:43,600
Speaker 4: That album is incredible and I stand by it.

1751
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 1: Can I read Can I read Don Cannon's report card

1752
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:48,519
Speaker 1: on it?

1753
01:17:49,560 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 6: Of course Don Cannon's report card.

1754
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 2: What do you think Pitchfork's gonna give it?

1755
01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I don't mean this in like a

1756
01:17:56,479 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 4: shot or thing. Does Pitchfork still Yeah?

1757
01:17:58,920 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 2: Remember the Ice they've raided Ice b.

1758
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, of course, of course I doubt they'll review it.

1759
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 4: I don't think I'm in there. They're cool.

1760
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:10,120
Speaker 2: I'll hit him a realm. I want some content. We'll

1761
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 2: make sure.

1762
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:14,000
Speaker 4: So I would like to. I would like Pitchfork.

1763
01:18:16,120 --> 01:18:16,439
Speaker 1: All right.

1764
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:17,680
Speaker 4: I don't know if we'll be able to do this.

1765
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:21,599
Speaker 4: This is just me spitballing in person. Anyone that reviews

1766
01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:27,240
Speaker 4: my album on Patreon, I would love to have you

1767
01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:29,800
Speaker 4: come to our studio and talk to you about the review.

1768
01:18:29,840 --> 01:18:32,120
Speaker 2: Where does Anthony Fantano live? He could come in.

1769
01:18:33,280 --> 01:18:35,800
Speaker 4: Here's the thing. I know everyone thinks he's that culture

1770
01:18:35,840 --> 01:18:37,640
Speaker 4: Vulture hate him all that. I emailed it to him.

1771
01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,360
Speaker 1: He's great. I think he's cool.

1772
01:18:39,479 --> 01:18:41,000
Speaker 4: I emailed him the album. I don't know if he's

1773
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 4: going to review it. He's turned me down on like

1774
01:18:43,400 --> 01:18:44,799
Speaker 4: five emotional origins projects.

1775
01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but after after MA gives you don Cannon's report,

1776
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:51,519
Speaker 3: I do want to ask you a question at about

1777
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:53,600
Speaker 3: as far as your contributions to the album, because I

1778
01:18:53,640 --> 01:18:55,320
Speaker 3: know you think it's press releasey and you don't want

1779
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:56,679
Speaker 3: to do press release. He stuff here.

1780
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 4: Doing it with eleg keV Hi everybody.

1781
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:02,479
Speaker 3: This is your big platform and our fans need answers.

1782
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 2: This is a press run low kid like like I

1783
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:05,280
Speaker 2: wanted to.

1784
01:19:06,000 --> 01:19:07,439
Speaker 4: I wanted to have the fun conversation.

1785
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:09,160
Speaker 1: We will have.

1786
01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:10,720
Speaker 4: The fun only came with me to.

1787
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 2: To e Bro.

1788
01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:14,559
Speaker 3: It's still a question. It's still your biggest fan base.

1789
01:19:14,760 --> 01:19:17,000
Speaker 3: They deserve to answers to certain questions. What was Don

1790
01:19:17,120 --> 01:19:18,320
Speaker 3: Cannon's report?

1791
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:20,640
Speaker 1: All right, so Don Cannon, where you know this is

1792
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 1: the Generation now versus Rory and mall group chat there

1793
01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 1: and uh yeah, I don't know who named it that,

1794
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 1: but where where we're probably it's like the Avengers versus

1795
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:31,719
Speaker 1: the fucking Marvel guys. I don't know, the DC comics.

1796
01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. But so Don Cannon says his report card.

1797
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:39,360
Speaker 1: It says favorite song, sobering thoughts enough, don't go the

1798
01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:44,080
Speaker 1: golding interlude and surrender overall thoughts. This is solid. This

1799
01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:47,760
Speaker 1: is a solid offering. Surprise Conway wrapped on that beat.

1800
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:50,799
Speaker 1: The artist selection is dope, replayed, a lot of replay

1801
01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:53,519
Speaker 1: value in this Rory overall of B plus I'll take it.

1802
01:19:53,560 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 3: Why laughing because he said this is a you know

1803
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 3: when people say it's a solid effort, like but.

1804
01:19:59,200 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 2: You all right?

1805
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:03,679
Speaker 4: From anyone else besides offering? Can you read what Lake

1806
01:20:03,760 --> 01:20:07,759
Speaker 4: said afterwards, because that will sum up Don Cannon's report.

1807
01:20:07,840 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: He said, Wow, this is a game changer. This nigga

1808
01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 1: don't even this nigga doesn't even like himself. So the

1809
01:20:15,240 --> 01:20:18,200
Speaker 1: fact that I will take a solid effort quote unquote

1810
01:20:18,240 --> 01:20:21,240
Speaker 1: from Don Cannon any day and listen because.

1811
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:22,000
Speaker 4: He does not like him.

1812
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 1: We've had some some some great conversations off the record

1813
01:20:26,680 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 1: with Don Don and he doesn't like ship that we

1814
01:20:30,360 --> 01:20:34,000
Speaker 1: deemed our classics. So for him to send an actual

1815
01:20:34,120 --> 01:20:37,839
Speaker 1: report card and off of those words that caught everybody

1816
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 1: in a chat, oh god, like what the fuck like?

1817
01:20:40,760 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 4: And when I put it in the chat, he's listened

1818
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:46,200
Speaker 4: kind of like right away and was giving feedback as

1819
01:20:46,280 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 4: he was listening, and he's like, oh shit, this shouldn't

1820
01:20:49,240 --> 01:20:49,639
Speaker 4: even whack.

1821
01:20:50,600 --> 01:20:58,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's coming from Don Cannon. That is absolutely like damn.

1822
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:01,800
Speaker 1: That's like when your dad never hugged you, like you

1823
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:04,240
Speaker 1: do something good and he gives you like the he

1824
01:21:04,320 --> 01:21:07,000
Speaker 1: punches you on the shoulder. It's like he loves me, man,

1825
01:21:07,280 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like that's just our

1826
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,800
Speaker 1: way of like, Yo, he actually listened and he likes

1827
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 1: it because dog Cannon on like anything other than Gez

1828
01:21:16,360 --> 01:21:18,160
Speaker 1: and fucking Hlula Wayne.

1829
01:21:18,040 --> 01:21:22,240
Speaker 4: And I know he listened out of friendship. So the

1830
01:21:22,320 --> 01:21:25,000
Speaker 4: fact that he's like, oh shit, this is damn all right,

1831
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:26,280
Speaker 4: my bad, I didn't know this was good.

1832
01:21:26,439 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: No, I told I told you when I listened to it, Yo, listen,

1833
01:21:28,880 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 1: it's an easy listen. You could just put it on

1834
01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:35,040
Speaker 1: whatever you're doing. It just matches. You're gonna find something

1835
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:37,479
Speaker 1: on there that just suits exactly what you're doing at

1836
01:21:37,479 --> 01:21:37,800
Speaker 1: the moment.

1837
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,639
Speaker 3: It's amazing cleaning and cooking music. Well, I'm a person

1838
01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:42,439
Speaker 3: who likes to have like an amazing It's a.

1839
01:21:42,439 --> 01:21:44,639
Speaker 1: Good drive record too. Yeah, it's a good drive album

1840
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:46,559
Speaker 1: if you have a nice little road trip.

1841
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 3: What's fucking Roy's album?

1842
01:21:48,160 --> 01:21:49,000
Speaker 1: It's been on the back.

1843
01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 4: Oh no, y'all are gonna have kids to refill? No

1844
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 4: pun Yeah, you guys have to join me just based

1845
01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:58,320
Speaker 4: off refill that alone.

1846
01:21:58,720 --> 01:21:59,120
Speaker 2: Missionary.

1847
01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 4: That's missionary music for sure.

1848
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's made mission I don't want to know if

1849
01:22:03,520 --> 01:22:06,040
Speaker 1: I want to be missionary about Conway rapping though, that's

1850
01:22:06,040 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 1: when you switch position. No, just.

1851
01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:14,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, and again, I don't want to press run it

1852
01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:16,439
Speaker 4: because like it's not I would love to tell that

1853
01:22:16,520 --> 01:22:17,360
Speaker 4: the Conway story.

1854
01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 3: Oh that yeah, but that's funny though. Also side note,

1855
01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:24,200
Speaker 3: I saw a tweet that said, why all the Griselda

1856
01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:27,360
Speaker 3: beats sound like a grand piano falling down the.

1857
01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 2: Stairs, and then they like had evidence of ever it

1858
01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 2: was like six or seven songs in a row. It's

1859
01:22:32,960 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 2: just like they're rolling piano works.

1860
01:22:36,720 --> 01:22:37,040
Speaker 3: It does.

1861
01:22:37,160 --> 01:22:40,920
Speaker 1: It does like they ushered in a whole different well

1862
01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:43,920
Speaker 1: not different, but they brought back a genre of m

1863
01:22:44,000 --> 01:22:47,599
Speaker 1: seeing and rapping that was like missed. So, I mean,

1864
01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,720
Speaker 1: I get it, have jokes, but that Darren Joe loop beat,

1865
01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:52,080
Speaker 1: I love it.

1866
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 4: So we were in engine room, you were with us, Yeah,

1867
01:22:57,439 --> 01:22:59,240
Speaker 4: Conway and there was there was a bunch of people

1868
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:01,160
Speaker 4: when they were just listening to a bunch of records.

1869
01:23:01,200 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 4: But like once everything dispersed, Conway and I had another

1870
01:23:05,280 --> 01:23:07,760
Speaker 4: session and had another session the next day. But he

1871
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:09,920
Speaker 4: came up to me like once people had left, it

1872
01:23:09,960 --> 01:23:13,240
Speaker 4: was like, bro, why you send me that beat? And

1873
01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 4: I was like, wait, I thought he was ready to

1874
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 4: kill me, Like I thought he was offended, and he

1875
01:23:18,240 --> 01:23:22,280
Speaker 4: was like, now everyone just sends me fucking like these

1876
01:23:22,479 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 4: diet Alchemist beats, so they try to sound like Darrenger

1877
01:23:25,240 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 4: and like I would have done the verse for you

1878
01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:29,040
Speaker 4: because I fuck with you. But when I opened it,

1879
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:31,760
Speaker 4: I was like actually excited to rap, Like no one

1880
01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:35,400
Speaker 4: had ever sent me something like that before, and that's

1881
01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 4: the type of win to me.

1882
01:23:37,960 --> 01:23:39,679
Speaker 1: But that's but you know, you know how I feel

1883
01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 1: about Conway. To me, he's he's such a just a

1884
01:23:43,920 --> 01:23:46,439
Speaker 1: different type of rapper. He's he's he pays attention to

1885
01:23:47,080 --> 01:23:50,599
Speaker 1: the real pin pushes the real spinners. And I understand

1886
01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:52,560
Speaker 1: why he would say that, because he listens to a

1887
01:23:52,680 --> 01:23:53,840
Speaker 1: lot of different type of shit.

1888
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:57,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, and he was like, he's like, I'm actually excited

1889
01:23:57,360 --> 01:23:59,960
Speaker 4: to cut this, Like I really want to do this record.

1890
01:23:59,800 --> 01:24:00,439
Speaker 1: Rather than like.

1891
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 3: Heard that that is like the Shrake verse with all

1892
01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:09,719
Speaker 3: the fucking photo captions. Like I've had those photo captions

1893
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:11,600
Speaker 3: in my phone for like a year a week to

1894
01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:12,479
Speaker 3: throw them.

1895
01:24:12,640 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 4: Out, and even like when I did the Apple Music playback,

1896
01:24:15,640 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 4: you know, typically they tell you to do the one

1897
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 4: with like the craziest names, and of course Conway is

1898
01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:23,880
Speaker 4: a big name, but Hablo Brown is one of my

1899
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 4: favorite groups, but up and coming. Still, that wouldn't be

1900
01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:27,880
Speaker 4: one that you played. That was by far the one

1901
01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:30,640
Speaker 4: that everyone was like, this is it, we love this

1902
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 4: this record. And when I was making that ship with Hobblo,

1903
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:38,200
Speaker 4: I was like, this needs a really weird feature and

1904
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 4: it's not someone that gets like having Golink on the

1905
01:24:42,160 --> 01:24:44,000
Speaker 4: album is incredible. We could have put gold ink on

1906
01:24:44,080 --> 01:24:46,479
Speaker 4: that song, but Golnk's been on those type of beats,

1907
01:24:46,600 --> 01:24:49,080
Speaker 4: like he's in that dance world. I was like, man,

1908
01:24:49,120 --> 01:24:51,280
Speaker 4: I need to put Griselda on this type of ship.

1909
01:24:51,720 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 4: This is what is needed right now.

1910
01:24:54,400 --> 01:24:55,040
Speaker 1: It's the most.

1911
01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:56,679
Speaker 4: Typical fucking thing ever.

1912
01:24:56,840 --> 01:24:58,800
Speaker 1: No, it messed. It messed really well. I was kind

1913
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,680
Speaker 1: of when you played it be in the studio, I

1914
01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:02,040
Speaker 1: was like, I wanted to see what he was going

1915
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:05,080
Speaker 1: to do, and then he automatically called it and started

1916
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:07,040
Speaker 1: going off. I was like, oh, nah, this is That's

1917
01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 1: how you know. Conway is just a dude that just

1918
01:25:09,000 --> 01:25:12,160
Speaker 1: loves music. Anything that's good music is if he doesn't,

1919
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: he doesn't feel out of place listening to something like

1920
01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:16,760
Speaker 1: yes we know him from this sound that we know

1921
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:20,479
Speaker 1: him from this type of content and lyrics. But when

1922
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:23,320
Speaker 1: you're a writer and a creator, like you want to

1923
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:26,200
Speaker 1: push yourself to do different things and show people that Nah,

1924
01:25:26,200 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 1: I could do that too, don't yeah, don't discount me,

1925
01:25:28,360 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: don't count me out when you hear this like, nah,

1926
01:25:30,040 --> 01:25:31,439
Speaker 1: we can't send that to com I send it to me.

1927
01:25:31,439 --> 01:25:33,240
Speaker 1: You'll be surprised. And I think the people are gonna

1928
01:25:33,320 --> 01:25:33,800
Speaker 1: enjoy that one.

1929
01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:37,639
Speaker 3: It's refreshing, always refreshing. To answer that, to answer the question,

1930
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:41,599
Speaker 3: I refresh this. What makes this your album?

1931
01:25:42,320 --> 01:25:42,360
Speaker 1: Like?

1932
01:25:42,520 --> 01:25:44,240
Speaker 3: What did you? Don't have to go through it? And

1933
01:25:44,760 --> 01:25:46,720
Speaker 3: oh I had an idea when I was laying down

1934
01:25:46,760 --> 01:25:48,560
Speaker 3: in my bed at seven am and it was raining, Like,

1935
01:25:48,760 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 3: you don't have to go through all that. But tell

1936
01:25:50,280 --> 01:25:52,240
Speaker 3: us what makes this your album? What did you do?

1937
01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:54,559
Speaker 3: Because a lot of I see a lot of comments

1938
01:25:54,680 --> 01:25:57,320
Speaker 3: on social media like this Rory rap? Does he sing?

1939
01:25:57,560 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 3: Does he produce? So please just quickly you tell us.

1940
01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:01,720
Speaker 3: I know you only want to do the press one thing.

1941
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:04,280
Speaker 3: What it is you do, how you made this out.

1942
01:26:04,400 --> 01:26:06,559
Speaker 4: I had a hand in every single record as far

1943
01:26:06,640 --> 01:26:11,640
Speaker 4: as actual production, arranging, as Ebro put it, which I

1944
01:26:11,680 --> 01:26:14,240
Speaker 4: would never take that, but it's the best way to

1945
01:26:14,280 --> 01:26:17,120
Speaker 4: put it. Quincy Jones like, I'm not touching every instrument,

1946
01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:20,599
Speaker 4: but I'm certainly arranging every single song. I'm let drummers

1947
01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:23,240
Speaker 4: go for an hour and then pick every part I

1948
01:26:23,479 --> 01:26:26,080
Speaker 4: liked off that hour session to make a drum loop,

1949
01:26:26,360 --> 01:26:28,519
Speaker 4: and then from there, all right, I think I hear

1950
01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 4: strings on this. Let's make this the string section. I

1951
01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:34,360
Speaker 4: want the strings to sound like this, and coaching people

1952
01:26:34,520 --> 01:26:42,080
Speaker 4: through that process it is producing to me, I know,

1953
01:26:42,520 --> 01:26:46,080
Speaker 4: are not Quincy, not Rory Jones. No, no, I are

1954
01:26:46,160 --> 01:26:49,280
Speaker 4: not comparing. Just that's the process of how this was made.

1955
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:53,479
Speaker 4: On an actual producer standpoint. I'm not a musician, I'm

1956
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:56,479
Speaker 4: not a beat maker. Those are different things and those

1957
01:26:56,520 --> 01:27:00,160
Speaker 4: people are way more talented than me. But I is

1958
01:27:00,200 --> 01:27:03,400
Speaker 4: a producer on this, which I think people get fucked up,

1959
01:27:03,760 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 4: and I think hip hop kind of changed that term.

1960
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:10,639
Speaker 4: There's beat makers and there's producers, and then there's both.

1961
01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:11,400
Speaker 2: You get it.

1962
01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:14,160
Speaker 4: Just Blaze, just Blaze is a beat maker and a producer.

1963
01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:18,120
Speaker 4: But there's also people that just make amazing beats, send

1964
01:27:18,160 --> 01:27:20,360
Speaker 4: it to the artist, and the artist will produce a

1965
01:27:20,439 --> 01:27:23,720
Speaker 4: lot of that. And then there's producers that don't touch

1966
01:27:23,760 --> 01:27:26,360
Speaker 4: an NPC, don't touch the keys, don't touch anything. But

1967
01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:28,080
Speaker 4: they know how to arrange everything, they know how they

1968
01:27:28,120 --> 01:27:33,080
Speaker 4: want things to sound, and it was in a huge

1969
01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 4: collaborative process. In no way was I sitting there with

1970
01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:40,120
Speaker 4: my fucking baton telling the orchestra to go like this.

1971
01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:43,880
Speaker 4: But baton, it's not even what it's called. It's not

1972
01:27:44,160 --> 01:27:46,520
Speaker 4: just to show y'all how.

1973
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:46,640
Speaker 1: Ignorant I am.

1974
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:49,479
Speaker 4: I mean, I know how to keep account. That's how

1975
01:27:49,520 --> 01:27:52,360
Speaker 4: I was keeping the count on the playbacks. One to

1976
01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:55,400
Speaker 4: know that you're on the one, sir, turn your camera

1977
01:27:55,479 --> 01:28:01,200
Speaker 4: off so you But yeah, no, very much arranging every record.

1978
01:28:02,360 --> 01:28:05,080
Speaker 4: The Division Interlude I think is the only record that

1979
01:28:05,280 --> 01:28:09,880
Speaker 4: was like given, and that was just because we had

1980
01:28:09,960 --> 01:28:12,519
Speaker 4: went through like two or three Division records that I

1981
01:28:12,560 --> 01:28:14,360
Speaker 4: still think we'll see the light of day. But that

1982
01:28:14,439 --> 01:28:16,320
Speaker 4: one just fits so well and as something eighty five

1983
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:19,880
Speaker 4: and Daniel had already and it was it just worked

1984
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:22,400
Speaker 4: so well in the sequence and how I wanted to

1985
01:28:23,000 --> 01:28:26,439
Speaker 4: break up the different sounds on the album. So yeah,

1986
01:28:26,439 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 4: I mean, I could never say have anything to do

1987
01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:30,800
Speaker 4: with that that record, but it was an interlude, so

1988
01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:31,400
Speaker 4: I felt.

1989
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:33,160
Speaker 1: Okay, what's something that you want?

1990
01:28:33,280 --> 01:28:36,200
Speaker 4: Writing wise, I was involved heavily as well.

1991
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:38,840
Speaker 1: What's something that you want people to take away from

1992
01:28:38,880 --> 01:28:41,519
Speaker 1: this project? Like when they listen to this, what's something

1993
01:28:41,560 --> 01:28:45,720
Speaker 1: you want them to well, if they never, excuse me,

1994
01:28:45,760 --> 01:28:47,240
Speaker 1: if they never listened to it again, what's something you

1995
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:49,240
Speaker 1: want them to take away from listening to it?

1996
01:28:50,920 --> 01:28:53,160
Speaker 4: Their own interpretation. I don't know if that's like a

1997
01:28:53,200 --> 01:28:58,439
Speaker 4: political answer, whatever they want to take from it. There's

1998
01:28:58,479 --> 01:29:02,040
Speaker 4: so much emotion on that album. That's why I almost

1999
01:29:02,320 --> 01:29:04,880
Speaker 4: didn't answer Demrius's question correctly because I thought she was

2000
01:29:04,920 --> 01:29:09,840
Speaker 4: asking a different one. My contributions outside of the music

2001
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 4: like that shit is my life. Like each song specifically

2002
01:29:13,280 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 4: has a theme for a reason, Like this wasn't just

2003
01:29:16,640 --> 01:29:20,759
Speaker 4: random records that were put together. Every last song fully

2004
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:23,400
Speaker 4: has to do with the theme of I thought it'd

2005
01:29:23,439 --> 01:29:26,840
Speaker 4: be different. Yeah, it's my twenties. Yeah, everything is a

2006
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 4: different emotion, even down to Conway's verse just fell in

2007
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:34,479
Speaker 4: that way, like I felt how Conway has felt in

2008
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 4: that regard and it ignorant in the club. The entire

2009
01:29:41,960 --> 01:29:46,639
Speaker 4: project is pretty much my twenties, is the best way

2010
01:29:46,960 --> 01:29:49,080
Speaker 4: to put it. I guess you've been working on this

2011
01:29:49,240 --> 01:29:50,960
Speaker 4: joint for That's why I have no words for it.

2012
01:29:51,240 --> 01:29:55,040
Speaker 4: It's so far out of my fucking mind from when

2013
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:55,720
Speaker 4: I was creating it.

2014
01:29:55,760 --> 01:29:56,559
Speaker 1: It's so tough.

2015
01:29:56,800 --> 01:29:58,560
Speaker 4: It's so tough to talk about it now. This is

2016
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:01,040
Speaker 4: like I don't know how to verbalize it the best way.

2017
01:30:01,080 --> 01:30:04,760
Speaker 4: It's it's what four years no but close.

2018
01:30:04,880 --> 01:30:07,680
Speaker 3: He started working on the album that he started working on.

2019
01:30:07,840 --> 01:30:10,479
Speaker 3: I feel like four years ago is not no album.

2020
01:30:10,520 --> 01:30:11,760
Speaker 4: It's not even the same.

2021
01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:14,280
Speaker 3: There's four process like this.

2022
01:30:14,640 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 1: This started, This started. This was something that you want.

2023
01:30:16,880 --> 01:30:18,439
Speaker 1: You started doing at least four years ago.

2024
01:30:18,560 --> 01:30:18,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2025
01:30:18,800 --> 01:30:22,439
Speaker 4: The idea was when I was having DSPs reach out

2026
01:30:22,439 --> 01:30:25,000
Speaker 4: to me to do their playlisting when we were doing

2027
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:29,200
Speaker 4: the Sleeper Picture, and that turned into me thinking like,

2028
01:30:29,280 --> 01:30:31,720
Speaker 4: all right, I should do an original one where it

2029
01:30:31,760 --> 01:30:34,800
Speaker 4: would be more exclusives, like this playlist is going to

2030
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:38,640
Speaker 4: be actually new music that I was involved with, with

2031
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 4: artists that I like that are up and coming. And

2032
01:30:41,120 --> 01:30:43,200
Speaker 4: once I started on that, it started to form into

2033
01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:45,200
Speaker 4: an album, and I started to find even more of

2034
01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:50,800
Speaker 4: a passion within the studio outside of me just being

2035
01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:54,040
Speaker 4: a fly on the wall that I was before. Said Fuck,

2036
01:30:54,080 --> 01:30:56,680
Speaker 4: this is an album. This is not a playlist. And

2037
01:30:56,760 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 4: I mean, I saw what happened with rap Cavia and

2038
01:31:01,280 --> 01:31:03,439
Speaker 4: that's none of my business, but I saw what happened

2039
01:31:03,439 --> 01:31:07,120
Speaker 4: when someone can start a playlist and lose creative control

2040
01:31:07,160 --> 01:31:09,720
Speaker 4: of it. Yeah, and it scared me when I was

2041
01:31:09,760 --> 01:31:13,720
Speaker 4: in the process of starting this journey, and I was like, well,

2042
01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:16,400
Speaker 4: fuck it, I could just owe my own album with

2043
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:19,439
Speaker 4: the same exact concept, yeah, and make this a full

2044
01:31:19,560 --> 01:31:21,679
Speaker 4: project rather than a playlist.

2045
01:31:21,880 --> 01:31:25,040
Speaker 2: Well, now that you have a proof of concept, first

2046
01:31:25,080 --> 01:31:28,240
Speaker 2: one's done and you're going to go back into I mean,

2047
01:31:28,240 --> 01:31:31,599
Speaker 2: I'm sure, and you're already preparing and writing and getting

2048
01:31:31,680 --> 01:31:34,680
Speaker 2: to the creative of the second one already. What do

2049
01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 2: you want to do anything like differently, or what are

2050
01:31:37,160 --> 01:31:40,280
Speaker 2: your goals, how have your goals shifted moving forward? Or

2051
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:41,639
Speaker 2: if you even want to do this again?

2052
01:31:42,360 --> 01:31:47,000
Speaker 4: Oh no, I definitely do. The most exciting part about

2053
01:31:47,040 --> 01:31:51,000
Speaker 4: it is I don't know. Yeah, Like I've experimented a

2054
01:31:51,080 --> 01:31:54,760
Speaker 4: little bit since we turned in the mixes, at least

2055
01:31:54,800 --> 01:31:58,040
Speaker 4: before we got it mastered. I have no idea where

2056
01:31:58,040 --> 01:31:59,519
Speaker 4: the next one's going to go, and I kind of

2057
01:31:59,600 --> 01:32:02,240
Speaker 4: love that process. In no way it's going to take

2058
01:32:02,320 --> 01:32:04,120
Speaker 4: the same amount of time because at least they'll have

2059
01:32:04,160 --> 01:32:07,519
Speaker 4: a proven concept, Because I was also tough going to

2060
01:32:07,680 --> 01:32:10,679
Speaker 4: artists that I have a relationship with. Pretty much everyone

2061
01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:13,320
Speaker 4: on here I have a relationship with. Even explaining that

2062
01:32:13,680 --> 01:32:19,640
Speaker 4: to friends and family Reddit was weird. They're like, so

2063
01:32:19,760 --> 01:32:23,439
Speaker 4: what is it exactly? You're like, you want to produce

2064
01:32:23,479 --> 01:32:25,680
Speaker 4: something for me? I'm confused what you want me to do.

2065
01:32:26,920 --> 01:32:29,439
Speaker 4: Now that there is a proven concept, that process will

2066
01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:32,400
Speaker 4: be a bit easier. But now I have to figure

2067
01:32:32,400 --> 01:32:36,400
Speaker 4: out what that sound looks like because I it can't

2068
01:32:36,439 --> 01:32:40,479
Speaker 4: sound like this one. Yeah, I'm gonna have to go

2069
01:32:41,520 --> 01:32:44,759
Speaker 4: take some shrooms and go to the woods of Montreal

2070
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:46,759
Speaker 4: trying to figure out what the funk I want.

2071
01:32:46,600 --> 01:32:48,000
Speaker 3: To do with this one? Why do you feel like

2072
01:32:48,080 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 3: the next one can't sound like this one? The reason why?

2073
01:32:51,040 --> 01:32:52,640
Speaker 3: I mean, like, when I say that, I don't mean

2074
01:32:52,720 --> 01:32:55,680
Speaker 3: exactly like this, but I mean the vibe of this right.

2075
01:32:55,800 --> 01:32:56,240
Speaker 2: So, I.

2076
01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 3: Think everybody in this room knows the type of music

2077
01:33:00,920 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 3: that you like. Everybody who's ever listened to your sleeper

2078
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:05,960
Speaker 3: picks knows the type of music that you like that

2079
01:33:06,040 --> 01:33:07,720
Speaker 3: you play on a day to day right outside of

2080
01:33:07,800 --> 01:33:11,240
Speaker 3: rep So that's what you're known for.

2081
01:33:11,800 --> 01:33:15,080
Speaker 4: But even that, the original title was bare Feet Volume one.

2082
01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:18,640
Speaker 4: Yeah you're yeah for sure, but it changed that. I

2083
01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:21,360
Speaker 4: thought it'd be different outside of everything else in my life,

2084
01:33:21,400 --> 01:33:23,040
Speaker 4: which we obviously talked about with kids and all that,

2085
01:33:25,240 --> 01:33:26,200
Speaker 4: the album is different.

2086
01:33:26,720 --> 01:33:26,960
Speaker 2: It is.

2087
01:33:27,320 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 4: There's only one quote unquote bare foot song on here.

2088
01:33:32,520 --> 01:33:35,120
Speaker 4: I would say the Other Side featuring font and b

2089
01:33:35,240 --> 01:33:39,160
Speaker 4: my Fiasco is the only clean, your fucking crib barefoot

2090
01:33:39,560 --> 01:33:43,120
Speaker 4: type of upbeat record. Maybe you could say I Want

2091
01:33:43,200 --> 01:33:47,879
Speaker 4: You is as well, But I found way more success

2092
01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:50,880
Speaker 4: and peace within some of the slower records, like the

2093
01:33:50,960 --> 01:33:53,479
Speaker 4: BPM's on this, But I think this project are way

2094
01:33:53,560 --> 01:33:57,920
Speaker 4: lower than any barefoot shit is. So I went into

2095
01:33:58,000 --> 01:34:00,280
Speaker 4: this process trying to do all the up temple ship

2096
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:03,439
Speaker 4: that I love, and I was way more successful at

2097
01:34:03,439 --> 01:34:04,920
Speaker 4: the other stuff. So that's why I need to like

2098
01:34:05,040 --> 01:34:06,760
Speaker 4: figure out what to do with the next one.

2099
01:34:07,120 --> 01:34:09,720
Speaker 2: You think you need like a theme, like you said,

2100
01:34:09,760 --> 01:34:13,760
Speaker 2: this encapsulates your twenties, but it doesn't need to be

2101
01:34:13,800 --> 01:34:15,519
Speaker 2: like a singular through line. You can just kind of

2102
01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:15,920
Speaker 2: go off.

2103
01:34:15,960 --> 01:34:18,400
Speaker 1: You got to make it look a like Daddy's Daycare

2104
01:34:18,520 --> 01:34:24,080
Speaker 1: volume Volume one. Yeah, something like that. You can come

2105
01:34:24,320 --> 01:34:25,400
Speaker 1: put the baby to sleep too.

2106
01:34:26,760 --> 01:34:30,320
Speaker 3: Rain sounds yeah, you know, I mean the other day

2107
01:34:30,520 --> 01:34:31,360
Speaker 3: rain sounds funny.

2108
01:34:31,720 --> 01:34:35,639
Speaker 4: Rain saw my daughter was listening to Baby Sharks as

2109
01:34:35,720 --> 01:34:37,200
Speaker 4: all that's there, all about the bench of.

2110
01:34:37,200 --> 01:34:37,960
Speaker 1: Course, of course.

2111
01:34:39,760 --> 01:34:42,280
Speaker 2: Multi multi platinum, and I tried.

2112
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:44,559
Speaker 4: To remix it to you are being brain washwash wash

2113
01:34:44,640 --> 01:34:47,439
Speaker 4: or wash wash, and oh god, my child's mother got

2114
01:34:47,600 --> 01:34:49,120
Speaker 4: so mad at me when I was singing that in

2115
01:34:49,200 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 4: her face, you are beating brain washedwashed grand grammy. But yeah,

2116
01:35:00,479 --> 01:35:01,760
Speaker 4: I don't know what the next one is gonna be

2117
01:35:01,760 --> 01:35:04,840
Speaker 4: And I think that's the beauty of it in a

2118
01:35:04,880 --> 01:35:08,920
Speaker 4: really corny way, because this album helped me personally to

2119
01:35:09,040 --> 01:35:11,080
Speaker 4: get through other shit, like I had something that I

2120
01:35:11,080 --> 01:35:13,760
Speaker 4: could attach myself to when I needed it the most,

2121
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:19,080
Speaker 4: and going into even a peaceful environment with my child

2122
01:35:19,160 --> 01:35:24,000
Speaker 4: and parenting, you still also need something else. So it

2123
01:35:24,120 --> 01:35:27,720
Speaker 4: may look different, but I still see this project or

2124
01:35:27,800 --> 01:35:30,360
Speaker 4: the second album rather being that for me. I just

2125
01:35:30,400 --> 01:35:33,120
Speaker 4: don't know what that's gonna sound like. Yeah, it could

2126
01:35:33,160 --> 01:35:36,799
Speaker 4: be ayahuasca, it could be it could be shitty diapers.

2127
01:35:36,920 --> 01:35:38,080
Speaker 4: I don't know what's gonna spark it.

2128
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:42,000
Speaker 1: Something is gonna just go off for you, Like that's it. Yeah,

2129
01:35:42,560 --> 01:35:43,720
Speaker 1: And that's the best way it should be. That's the

2130
01:35:43,720 --> 01:35:44,599
Speaker 1: way it's supposed to happen.

2131
01:35:46,160 --> 01:35:49,320
Speaker 4: The next album is not my fear. It's my daughter's

2132
01:35:49,640 --> 01:35:52,240
Speaker 4: friends parents and me having to hang out with them

2133
01:35:52,400 --> 01:35:54,640
Speaker 4: is my biggest fear. The next album is. That's the

2134
01:35:54,680 --> 01:35:58,040
Speaker 4: scary that's figuring out. This next project is not it.

2135
01:35:58,240 --> 01:36:00,720
Speaker 4: It's who she's gonna choose is from and who are

2136
01:36:00,760 --> 01:36:03,720
Speaker 4: their parents? And I'm gonna have to sit across from

2137
01:36:03,720 --> 01:36:06,560
Speaker 4: them in a living room going Yeah, it's like, what

2138
01:36:06,640 --> 01:36:11,559
Speaker 4: do you do? We're in for life now, our children

2139
01:36:11,600 --> 01:36:13,400
Speaker 4: are friends. So I have to fucking deal with you

2140
01:36:13,560 --> 01:36:14,919
Speaker 4: every fucking Saturday.

2141
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:18,639
Speaker 1: Now. Yeah, well that's my fear. The album is available

2142
01:36:18,720 --> 01:36:22,080
Speaker 1: now on your DSPs, download that, stream that by that,

2143
01:36:22,800 --> 01:36:26,720
Speaker 1: play that, and and leave us voicemails about how you

2144
01:36:26,760 --> 01:36:29,240
Speaker 1: feel about the album his voicemails. Let us know what

2145
01:36:29,360 --> 01:36:32,240
Speaker 1: your favorite songs are. Uh, let us know what you

2146
01:36:32,320 --> 01:36:34,240
Speaker 1: were doing the first time you listen to the album.

2147
01:36:34,560 --> 01:36:35,360
Speaker 1: If you think it's.

2148
01:36:35,320 --> 01:36:37,799
Speaker 2: Trash, let us know if you think it's refreshing.

2149
01:36:38,120 --> 01:36:42,840
Speaker 1: But if you think but cool, if you refreshing, no, no,

2150
01:36:43,000 --> 01:36:45,320
Speaker 1: if you think it's trash, tell us it's trash. But

2151
01:36:45,400 --> 01:36:47,640
Speaker 1: tell us why you think it's trash. I'm not mad

2152
01:36:47,680 --> 01:36:50,760
Speaker 1: at somebody saying something is trash. Tell me why you

2153
01:36:50,800 --> 01:36:53,400
Speaker 1: feel like it's trashed, Like, tell me why you feel

2154
01:36:53,439 --> 01:36:55,200
Speaker 1: that way. Don't just say the ship trash and then

2155
01:36:55,240 --> 01:36:58,800
Speaker 1: hang up. Let no, let's have a deeper conversation, man,

2156
01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:01,200
Speaker 1: why do you feel like this is trash?

2157
01:37:01,360 --> 01:37:04,200
Speaker 4: I'm still with If you can talk to Pitchfork and

2158
01:37:04,240 --> 01:37:06,040
Speaker 4: whoever wants to review it, I would happily have a

2159
01:37:06,080 --> 01:37:09,679
Speaker 4: conversation with him afterwards. Yeah, but either way, it's something

2160
01:37:09,720 --> 01:37:13,719
Speaker 4: that we could introduce. But I don't think the media

2161
01:37:13,760 --> 01:37:17,720
Speaker 4: outlets as far as print goes, would do that. I

2162
01:37:17,800 --> 01:37:20,360
Speaker 4: think podcasters we just go straight to the writer. But

2163
01:37:20,400 --> 01:37:23,599
Speaker 4: I know I'm saying the writer vacation. All right, writer,

2164
01:37:24,560 --> 01:37:26,200
Speaker 4: let's sit down and tell me why you think that.

2165
01:37:26,320 --> 01:37:28,560
Speaker 4: With I can get I have a platform with a microphone,

2166
01:37:28,760 --> 01:37:31,000
Speaker 4: we can really talk about why you think it's.

2167
01:37:30,880 --> 01:37:35,040
Speaker 2: Trash if if you want, I can get a really

2168
01:37:35,400 --> 01:37:37,800
Speaker 2: well known staff writer from Complex to come in, someone

2169
01:37:37,880 --> 01:37:40,519
Speaker 2: that contributed to the list that we went over. I

2170
01:37:40,560 --> 01:37:41,960
Speaker 2: can have him come in. He would love to do that,

2171
01:37:43,400 --> 01:37:44,280
Speaker 2: but not if he likes it.

2172
01:37:47,479 --> 01:37:48,680
Speaker 4: Come in here and tell me he likes it.

2173
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:50,280
Speaker 2: He hasn't heard it yet.

2174
01:37:50,600 --> 01:37:55,080
Speaker 1: Well, I'm definitely gonna stream this all all week and

2175
01:37:55,720 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 1: you know, catch some vibes to it. Man, And even

2176
01:37:58,360 --> 01:38:00,560
Speaker 1: though I have it in my phone, he takes that

2177
01:38:00,600 --> 01:38:04,080
Speaker 1: sound cloud link Stewart, he does killed it. No, It's okay. So,

2178
01:38:04,280 --> 01:38:05,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been listening to it, but I'm gonna

2179
01:38:05,880 --> 01:38:09,200
Speaker 1: download it, stream it. It's great music, it's great vibes,

2180
01:38:09,200 --> 01:38:11,280
Speaker 1: great energy on it, and it is refreshing. I know

2181
01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:13,479
Speaker 1: exactly what that person meant when they said it was refreshing.

2182
01:38:13,560 --> 01:38:14,760
Speaker 4: Do you think Biggs will listen to it?

2183
01:38:15,439 --> 01:38:20,160
Speaker 1: Absolutely? Yeah, Yeah, that's his type of ship. Okay, that's

2184
01:38:20,200 --> 01:38:23,200
Speaker 1: his type. That's his type of music. Trust one type

2185
01:38:23,200 --> 01:38:23,479
Speaker 1: of ship.

2186
01:38:23,720 --> 01:38:25,720
Speaker 4: I haven't sent it to. Would you guys judge me

2187
01:38:25,760 --> 01:38:26,639
Speaker 4: if I sent it to Drake?

2188
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:28,040
Speaker 8: No?

2189
01:38:28,400 --> 01:38:29,200
Speaker 3: No, I wouldn't judge it.

2190
01:38:30,000 --> 01:38:30,599
Speaker 4: That's nasty.

2191
01:38:30,680 --> 01:38:31,200
Speaker 6: I'll judge.

2192
01:38:31,360 --> 01:38:31,679
Speaker 4: I would.

2193
01:38:32,520 --> 01:38:34,200
Speaker 3: I fucking judge you, and I'll hate.

2194
01:38:34,040 --> 01:38:34,360
Speaker 7: You for it.

2195
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:40,920
Speaker 4: Your big bro listened to his music musical selection?

2196
01:38:41,160 --> 01:38:45,000
Speaker 1: No man, you get cold, Drake? Yeah, try to hop

2197
01:38:45,040 --> 01:38:46,920
Speaker 1: all this. You can't call nobody, big bro that you

2198
01:38:46,960 --> 01:38:47,280
Speaker 1: don't have this?

2199
01:38:48,400 --> 01:38:49,559
Speaker 4: What if I email it to Jay?

2200
01:38:50,040 --> 01:38:50,920
Speaker 2: I have his personal phone.

2201
01:38:51,360 --> 01:38:53,800
Speaker 1: I think that you could email it to Jay.

2202
01:38:55,160 --> 01:38:55,720
Speaker 3: Can't You can't.

2203
01:38:55,760 --> 01:38:56,679
Speaker 4: You can't go to the phone.

2204
01:38:57,040 --> 01:38:59,479
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no. You can email it

2205
01:38:59,520 --> 01:39:02,600
Speaker 1: to him, but email. I think he would funk with it.

2206
01:39:03,760 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 4: I mean this, this, this albums heard enough, but that

2207
01:39:06,880 --> 01:39:08,840
Speaker 4: he wouldn't this album up.

2208
01:39:09,040 --> 01:39:13,439
Speaker 1: This, this project is made for It's a certain level

2209
01:39:13,479 --> 01:39:17,240
Speaker 1: of taste that would appreciate it. This, this, this music

2210
01:39:17,360 --> 01:39:20,799
Speaker 1: is for the ones that you know you order salad

2211
01:39:20,880 --> 01:39:23,479
Speaker 1: before you eat the meal. A lot of niggas going

2212
01:39:23,600 --> 01:39:25,200
Speaker 1: just want the steak and the potatoes to come out.

2213
01:39:26,040 --> 01:39:28,080
Speaker 1: It's like, no, you know, clean your palate up a

2214
01:39:28,080 --> 01:39:30,280
Speaker 1: little bit, get some greens in you, and the not

2215
01:39:30,360 --> 01:39:32,360
Speaker 1: the season. No, no, no, no no, never the season.

2216
01:39:32,800 --> 01:39:33,439
Speaker 1: Never the season.

2217
01:39:33,960 --> 01:39:34,439
Speaker 3: Don't do that.

2218
01:39:34,640 --> 01:39:38,880
Speaker 1: No, we ain't eat no Caesar, You're real. Salad is

2219
01:39:38,960 --> 01:39:43,479
Speaker 1: ghetto either salad, Get the apples and walnuts, get the

2220
01:39:43,640 --> 01:39:47,720
Speaker 1: real ship that se that.

2221
01:39:48,360 --> 01:39:50,680
Speaker 3: No, it's because I eat the.

2222
01:39:50,720 --> 01:39:52,120
Speaker 1: Salad is chicken nuggets, bro.

2223
01:39:53,640 --> 01:39:55,559
Speaker 4: Chicken nuggets. And I love a good Caesar salad. Don't

2224
01:39:55,560 --> 01:39:56,200
Speaker 4: get me wrong, but.

2225
01:39:58,160 --> 01:39:58,479
Speaker 6: Salad.

2226
01:39:58,920 --> 01:40:01,559
Speaker 2: Why McDonald, sir? Was this Caesar Donald?

2227
01:40:01,600 --> 01:40:03,880
Speaker 4: It shakes out, ain't it.

2228
01:40:03,960 --> 01:40:07,240
Speaker 1: But this, this, this project is definitely for a certain

2229
01:40:08,040 --> 01:40:10,960
Speaker 1: it's a certain uh, it's a certain level of taste.

2230
01:40:11,040 --> 01:40:13,200
Speaker 4: It's not Kale per se. Kale, I think is too

2231
01:40:13,320 --> 01:40:16,479
Speaker 4: high brow of music. Whether you wouldn't understand it. I

2232
01:40:16,560 --> 01:40:17,759
Speaker 4: think it's a good arugula.

2233
01:40:18,600 --> 01:40:21,720
Speaker 1: That's the ring you you gotta appreciate. It's for the

2234
01:40:21,760 --> 01:40:28,639
Speaker 1: ones that appreciate good music, real instrumentation, real lyrics, real content.

2235
01:40:28,840 --> 01:40:31,960
Speaker 1: It's real emotions, real feeling and soul in the music.

2236
01:40:32,000 --> 01:40:33,679
Speaker 2: So block slippers.

2237
01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:35,120
Speaker 4: I just don't know if we can ever stay at

2238
01:40:35,120 --> 01:40:37,439
Speaker 4: the Madre on again. By the way, I definitely fleeced

2239
01:40:37,520 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 4: us in that regard, because that whole reason outro was

2240
01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:42,439
Speaker 4: a conversation reason I had outside of the madre on

2241
01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:43,920
Speaker 4: that we just then turned into a hunk.

2242
01:40:44,720 --> 01:40:45,759
Speaker 2: That's that's free press.

2243
01:40:47,000 --> 01:40:49,200
Speaker 4: They then they should take they should take my fucking

2244
01:40:49,320 --> 01:40:54,440
Speaker 4: smoking fee off. When I didn't smoke, give smoking.

2245
01:40:56,439 --> 01:40:56,879
Speaker 2: Hilarious.

2246
01:40:57,160 --> 01:41:00,280
Speaker 4: It was five hundreds. I was like, I don't they said.

2247
01:41:00,880 --> 01:41:02,760
Speaker 4: For a while, I thought they were talking about like

2248
01:41:03,040 --> 01:41:04,840
Speaker 4: a blunt or someone's like, did I have anyone in

2249
01:41:04,960 --> 01:41:07,120
Speaker 4: my room that maybe smoked weed and maybe left it?

2250
01:41:07,479 --> 01:41:07,679
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2251
01:41:07,840 --> 01:41:10,639
Speaker 4: They said, oh no, we found cigarette butts in your room.

2252
01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:12,400
Speaker 4: I was like, all right, let me talk to that maid.

2253
01:41:12,560 --> 01:41:13,240
Speaker 4: Which room was it?

2254
01:41:13,560 --> 01:41:13,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2255
01:41:14,120 --> 01:41:18,000
Speaker 4: Cigarettes, yes, yeah, that was on the last trip, two

2256
01:41:18,080 --> 01:41:18,559
Speaker 4: trips ago.

2257
01:41:18,960 --> 01:41:21,560
Speaker 1: Damn, that's wild. Yeah. Cigarettes.

2258
01:41:22,000 --> 01:41:25,360
Speaker 4: So Madrin, I've given you some mad We need we

2259
01:41:25,439 --> 01:41:25,640
Speaker 4: need it.

2260
01:41:25,680 --> 01:41:27,880
Speaker 1: We need like your song now, we need two months

2261
01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:32,479
Speaker 1: of free rooms, two months consecutively, like we just.

2262
01:41:32,520 --> 01:41:36,360
Speaker 2: Need like, yeah, we spent too much stage like London.

2263
01:41:36,920 --> 01:41:39,240
Speaker 1: Well listen, make a gratch once again on on the

2264
01:41:39,280 --> 01:41:44,000
Speaker 1: Beautiful Family, the Beautiful Baby Girl, Congratulations on a beautiful album.

2265
01:41:44,439 --> 01:41:47,080
Speaker 1: Thank you, A beautiful selection of music, a beautiful selection

2266
01:41:47,280 --> 01:41:52,000
Speaker 1: of instrumentation and lyrics, and just a great, great project

2267
01:41:52,040 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 1: that you very meticulously curated over the years and put

2268
01:41:55,640 --> 01:41:58,320
Speaker 1: together and it's finally done. So I know that you're

2269
01:41:58,360 --> 01:42:01,599
Speaker 1: extremely happy about that, because you are are maniacol when

2270
01:42:01,640 --> 01:42:04,120
Speaker 1: it comes to just being a perfectionist and you want

2271
01:42:04,160 --> 01:42:06,320
Speaker 1: things to sound and look a certain way. So I

2272
01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:07,560
Speaker 1: know it took a lot for you to get to

2273
01:42:07,640 --> 01:42:10,719
Speaker 1: this point and sleep easy knowing that you put together

2274
01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:12,720
Speaker 1: a great project and the people are going to love it,

2275
01:42:12,760 --> 01:42:14,960
Speaker 1: that people are going to receive it well. Even though

2276
01:42:15,000 --> 01:42:18,240
Speaker 1: you take Refreshing as a fucking knock, it's not a knock.

2277
01:42:19,360 --> 01:42:23,400
Speaker 1: It was confused, confused, It's a refreshing project. So everybody

2278
01:42:23,520 --> 01:42:27,240
Speaker 1: download that stream that support Rory and his project available

2279
01:42:27,360 --> 01:42:28,880
Speaker 1: now on all your DSPs.

2280
01:42:29,160 --> 01:42:31,400
Speaker 4: Are you gonna try to get some publishing? Since I

2281
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:32,920
Speaker 4: put the new Rory mal drop on the intro.

2282
01:42:33,520 --> 01:42:37,000
Speaker 1: H yeah, the lawyers on the line now I heard it.

2283
01:42:37,080 --> 01:42:38,080
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, there we go.

2284
01:42:39,400 --> 01:42:41,960
Speaker 1: Check God nah Man was actually.

2285
01:42:41,680 --> 01:42:43,679
Speaker 4: Really cool about that, and we can't close. I promise.

2286
01:42:44,520 --> 01:42:48,000
Speaker 4: I got to give my cousin's son publishing on that song.

2287
01:42:48,120 --> 01:42:52,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he's credit as a writer and has publishing

2288
01:42:52,240 --> 01:42:54,479
Speaker 4: on that record. That's fine because he because he wrote

2289
01:42:55,400 --> 01:42:58,280
Speaker 4: new or more. That's his voice, that's his melody, that's he.

2290
01:42:58,400 --> 01:43:00,880
Speaker 1: Did write it, that's him. So yeah, that's fire.

2291
01:43:01,360 --> 01:43:04,080
Speaker 4: A shout out to you are Actually we might need

2292
01:43:04,120 --> 01:43:05,320
Speaker 4: a familiar publishing at this point.

2293
01:43:05,439 --> 01:43:07,880
Speaker 1: We might need we might need an older ash drop

2294
01:43:07,960 --> 01:43:12,000
Speaker 1: now now that he's older. Oh he's worthy, we might

2295
01:43:12,080 --> 01:43:14,519
Speaker 1: be to give us like an older, older new Rory

2296
01:43:14,560 --> 01:43:15,000
Speaker 1: and mall drop.

2297
01:43:15,240 --> 01:43:16,479
Speaker 4: It's going to be a very long drop.

2298
01:43:16,520 --> 01:43:19,479
Speaker 1: He's shut up charge this now for shure, Like I'm

2299
01:43:19,600 --> 01:43:20,840
Speaker 1: talking to my talk to my people.

2300
01:43:21,000 --> 01:43:23,920
Speaker 4: I have a drop somewhere where uh my cousin sent

2301
01:43:24,000 --> 01:43:31,080
Speaker 4: me after that said, Rory, where's my royalties? I have

2302
01:43:31,160 --> 01:43:31,760
Speaker 4: to find that drop.

2303
01:43:31,800 --> 01:43:33,439
Speaker 1: But that's dope that you gave him publishing on that.

2304
01:43:33,560 --> 01:43:34,080
Speaker 1: That was fire.

2305
01:43:34,720 --> 01:43:38,880
Speaker 2: Should be adding some questions, yeah, all right, Well, in

2306
01:43:39,000 --> 01:43:42,880
Speaker 2: the theme of the album and growing and becoming a

2307
01:43:42,920 --> 01:43:46,320
Speaker 2: better person, I took like some relationship questions here. So okay,

2308
01:43:46,800 --> 01:43:48,679
Speaker 2: let's jump in. We have two that kind of parallel

2309
01:43:48,720 --> 01:43:49,600
Speaker 2: with each other. To start with.

2310
01:43:52,479 --> 01:43:57,120
Speaker 7: Yop Rory and Maul. The Maris Eden Julian was good.

2311
01:43:57,439 --> 01:44:01,240
Speaker 7: Uh my name is at and from the more in Iowa.

2312
01:44:02,280 --> 01:44:07,760
Speaker 7: So my question is, so, I'm a guy and I

2313
01:44:07,840 --> 01:44:10,439
Speaker 7: always have female friends and it's great, you know what

2314
01:44:10,439 --> 01:44:14,320
Speaker 7: I mean, love having them around, letting off from them,

2315
01:44:14,360 --> 01:44:18,679
Speaker 7: you know what i mean. But I'm kind of getting

2316
01:44:18,720 --> 01:44:20,200
Speaker 7: tired of it. You know, it can be a lot,

2317
01:44:20,280 --> 01:44:24,479
Speaker 7: it can be draining, and I just would want my

2318
01:44:24,560 --> 01:44:28,599
Speaker 7: own girl, you know, for once. Like I'm putting attention

2319
01:44:28,760 --> 01:44:30,640
Speaker 7: in time to all this and that, and then you know,

2320
01:44:30,760 --> 01:44:34,519
Speaker 7: you should their friendships. You know, friendships are important and everything,

2321
01:44:34,640 --> 01:44:38,599
Speaker 7: but it would be nice to have my own girl.

2322
01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:40,479
Speaker 7: You know, where I'm putting all my time and effort

2323
01:44:40,560 --> 01:44:42,920
Speaker 7: and I'm kind of getting something back from it, you

2324
01:44:42,960 --> 01:44:45,880
Speaker 7: know what I'm saying. Yeah, how do you think I

2325
01:44:45,920 --> 01:44:46,720
Speaker 7: should go about that?

2326
01:44:48,720 --> 01:44:52,479
Speaker 4: And from Iowa or Ohio de Moines, Iowa, from the Moines,

2327
01:44:52,520 --> 01:44:54,439
Speaker 4: Iowa and asking us how to get a girlfriend.

2328
01:44:54,520 --> 01:44:57,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, but he's saying all his relationships with women like.

2329
01:44:57,120 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 1: So it sounds like his problem is different on him. Yeah,

2330
01:45:01,200 --> 01:45:03,040
Speaker 1: like all of the girls are friend zoning him. Yeah,

2331
01:45:03,280 --> 01:45:04,599
Speaker 1: that's what it sounds like. I don't know, he might

2332
01:45:04,680 --> 01:45:06,560
Speaker 1: just have a bunch of female friends that he's just

2333
01:45:06,680 --> 01:45:08,960
Speaker 1: cool with and they didn't friend zone him. He might

2334
01:45:09,000 --> 01:45:10,800
Speaker 1: be smashing all of them. I don't know. It sounds

2335
01:45:10,880 --> 01:45:13,439
Speaker 1: like he wants to have a girlfriend, he's tired of

2336
01:45:13,560 --> 01:45:14,400
Speaker 1: just being the friend.

2337
01:45:14,840 --> 01:45:15,880
Speaker 4: He has to be intentional.

2338
01:45:16,400 --> 01:45:19,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to let him know, like, listen, this

2339
01:45:19,479 --> 01:45:22,639
Speaker 1: dick work, you know right, period, and I want somebody

2340
01:45:22,760 --> 01:45:24,600
Speaker 1: to suck it and sit on it every night in a.

2341
01:45:24,640 --> 01:45:27,120
Speaker 4: More healthy way and maybe with because I'm sure some

2342
01:45:27,240 --> 01:45:28,880
Speaker 4: of these women that you're friends with you may have

2343
01:45:29,080 --> 01:45:32,559
Speaker 4: liked before and you didn't have the confidence to say hey,

2344
01:45:32,640 --> 01:45:35,240
Speaker 4: I like you, and then you got put in the

2345
01:45:35,280 --> 01:45:37,160
Speaker 4: friend zone and now you're just.

2346
01:45:37,439 --> 01:45:38,639
Speaker 2: Now you're the only guy at brunch.

2347
01:45:39,040 --> 01:45:41,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then I've been that guy and now and

2348
01:45:41,800 --> 01:45:43,120
Speaker 4: then they look at you to pay. I'm like, oh,

2349
01:45:43,360 --> 01:45:45,080
Speaker 4: I'm a chick in this circle.

2350
01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:48,519
Speaker 1: I'm not the guy e equal opportunity. I'm one of

2351
01:45:48,560 --> 01:45:48,960
Speaker 1: the girls.

2352
01:45:50,080 --> 01:45:52,200
Speaker 4: And you have to be confident, which I know can

2353
01:45:52,280 --> 01:45:55,360
Speaker 4: be tough, but you have to be intentional, say hey,

2354
01:45:55,560 --> 01:45:57,920
Speaker 4: I'm interested in you and more more than a front.

2355
01:45:58,840 --> 01:46:01,160
Speaker 4: And what I'm really saying is what Maul is saying,

2356
01:46:01,200 --> 01:46:03,000
Speaker 4: Hey I want to fuck, but say it in a

2357
01:46:03,120 --> 01:46:06,080
Speaker 4: nice way. I like you and I look at you

2358
01:46:06,360 --> 01:46:08,360
Speaker 4: more than a friend. I'm not sure if you feel

2359
01:46:08,400 --> 01:46:10,800
Speaker 4: the same way. If you don't, it's fine, Yo.

2360
01:46:10,840 --> 01:46:12,760
Speaker 1: Nothing hurts more than being friends zoned by a girl

2361
01:46:12,800 --> 01:46:15,400
Speaker 1: that you really like. Tough that shit stings you a

2362
01:46:15,400 --> 01:46:18,120
Speaker 1: little bit. Yeah that ship, I mean that shit leave

2363
01:46:18,520 --> 01:46:21,680
Speaker 1: uh the soul you never fully recover from. That.

2364
01:46:22,920 --> 01:46:25,000
Speaker 4: Man up a good point, though, How many l ols

2365
01:46:25,040 --> 01:46:26,639
Speaker 4: do you use when you hit that point?

2366
01:46:27,920 --> 01:46:30,000
Speaker 1: You asking me now nothing? I want them to know.

2367
01:46:30,040 --> 01:46:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm upset. I ain't laughing at ship years ago? Two

2368
01:46:34,800 --> 01:46:35,280
Speaker 1: l ols?

2369
01:46:36,200 --> 01:46:37,800
Speaker 4: Now wait now you thought it like I was not

2370
01:46:37,960 --> 01:46:39,559
Speaker 4: we friends? Like wait, you thought I.

2371
01:46:39,680 --> 01:46:40,920
Speaker 2: Liked you like a brother.

2372
01:46:41,479 --> 01:46:42,360
Speaker 1: I don't do that no more.

2373
01:46:42,360 --> 01:46:44,559
Speaker 4: I'll be like, well, you use the l ol button

2374
01:46:44,640 --> 01:46:47,400
Speaker 4: way too much once you realize you are a friend when.

2375
01:46:47,560 --> 01:46:49,160
Speaker 1: When I was younger, I definitely did. But now I

2376
01:46:49,280 --> 01:46:50,360
Speaker 1: let them know, Like damn.

2377
01:46:50,280 --> 01:46:53,760
Speaker 3: Because girls friends girls be fake friends on him in

2378
01:46:54,360 --> 01:46:56,680
Speaker 3: what does that mean? Sometimes they fake friends? I've done that.

2379
01:46:56,760 --> 01:46:59,080
Speaker 3: I'm fake friend zoned. Like a guy that was like

2380
01:46:59,120 --> 01:47:00,639
Speaker 3: trying to come on to me like kind of friends

2381
01:47:00,680 --> 01:47:02,120
Speaker 3: told him to see like if he still wanted to

2382
01:47:02,120 --> 01:47:04,200
Speaker 3: be my friend and if he didn't want to be

2383
01:47:04,240 --> 01:47:06,400
Speaker 3: my friend anymore, then like no, no, you're I'm really

2384
01:47:06,439 --> 01:47:06,920
Speaker 3: never getting me.

2385
01:47:06,920 --> 01:47:08,639
Speaker 1: I remember one of my one of my homegirls friends

2386
01:47:08,720 --> 01:47:11,640
Speaker 1: on me and she was she said, she said what

2387
01:47:12,120 --> 01:47:13,479
Speaker 1: she said, all right, I'll take you off the friend

2388
01:47:13,520 --> 01:47:15,840
Speaker 1: zone if you can answer this question. So I'm thinking,

2389
01:47:15,960 --> 01:47:20,240
Speaker 1: like I got mad. Answers all right, I got mad

2390
01:47:20,320 --> 01:47:23,960
Speaker 1: and she don't even know she said a BT. She

2391
01:47:24,040 --> 01:47:25,400
Speaker 1: said why do you want to fuck me?

2392
01:47:26,880 --> 01:47:27,160
Speaker 2: Damn?

2393
01:47:27,680 --> 01:47:29,920
Speaker 1: I did not know what to say, Like anything I

2394
01:47:29,920 --> 01:47:31,320
Speaker 1: would have said in that moment was going to be

2395
01:47:31,360 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 1: like all right, that's exactly why I'm not fucking. Yeah,

2396
01:47:33,960 --> 01:47:37,680
Speaker 1: you're asked dumb fat Like what was I gonna say?

2397
01:47:37,800 --> 01:47:40,840
Speaker 1: Like I had nothing. There was nothing I could have said, right,

2398
01:47:41,280 --> 01:47:42,760
Speaker 1: And it was a real question. She was like, why

2399
01:47:42,800 --> 01:47:44,439
Speaker 1: do you want to have sex with me? And I

2400
01:47:44,520 --> 01:47:48,120
Speaker 1: was like, I like you because like that don't really

2401
01:47:48,280 --> 01:47:49,080
Speaker 1: land you know what I'm saying.

2402
01:47:49,080 --> 01:47:52,160
Speaker 3: It's like, okay, what else I asked that question now too,

2403
01:47:52,240 --> 01:47:54,040
Speaker 3: as like as an adult woman, Yeah, that question I

2404
01:47:54,080 --> 01:47:55,360
Speaker 3: didn't want to fuck me so bad?

2405
01:47:55,560 --> 01:47:58,880
Speaker 1: And I couldn't say because I heard that pussy was good.

2406
01:47:58,920 --> 01:47:59,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't say that.

2407
01:48:00,160 --> 01:48:01,240
Speaker 4: But what a shitty question is?

2408
01:48:01,520 --> 01:48:03,639
Speaker 3: How is that a shitty because it's such a because

2409
01:48:03,680 --> 01:48:06,479
Speaker 3: you know, you know I want to weird.

2410
01:48:06,520 --> 01:48:07,639
Speaker 1: Give me that question.

2411
01:48:08,320 --> 01:48:10,320
Speaker 4: No, but just then, now you're forcing me to try

2412
01:48:10,360 --> 01:48:13,320
Speaker 4: to be poetic about a regular thought. I want to

2413
01:48:13,360 --> 01:48:16,000
Speaker 4: fuck you because you look good, and we'll figure it

2414
01:48:16,040 --> 01:48:16,599
Speaker 4: out from there.

2415
01:48:17,000 --> 01:48:17,759
Speaker 1: And you can't.

2416
01:48:19,200 --> 01:48:19,479
Speaker 2: Like you.

2417
01:48:19,600 --> 01:48:23,679
Speaker 4: Oh, I can feel your energy between us. I can't

2418
01:48:24,120 --> 01:48:26,280
Speaker 4: subside from it, like you have to try to make

2419
01:48:26,360 --> 01:48:29,559
Speaker 4: up words astrology. Yeah, you have to be poetic because

2420
01:48:29,560 --> 01:48:33,000
Speaker 4: when I look at your yes, you have to say

2421
01:48:33,040 --> 01:48:34,800
Speaker 4: bullshit like that, tell the fucking truth.

2422
01:48:34,840 --> 01:48:39,000
Speaker 3: Why do you want to fuck? Oh, fuck somebody else.

2423
01:48:43,960 --> 01:48:44,320
Speaker 2: Tonight?

2424
01:48:45,200 --> 01:48:49,200
Speaker 4: To exactly, you have to come up with some bullshit

2425
01:48:49,840 --> 01:48:51,360
Speaker 4: and claim you want honesty. You want to be like

2426
01:48:51,439 --> 01:48:52,840
Speaker 4: I just want to This is.

2427
01:48:52,840 --> 01:48:54,840
Speaker 3: The problem what you're always saying that people can't tell

2428
01:48:54,880 --> 01:48:57,080
Speaker 3: the truth. Y'all want to be able to tell the truth,

2429
01:48:57,240 --> 01:48:59,360
Speaker 3: and the truth be shitty, and we just have to

2430
01:48:59,439 --> 01:49:00,800
Speaker 3: do and still get what you want.

2431
01:49:02,479 --> 01:49:04,040
Speaker 4: If you're asking a man, why do you want to

2432
01:49:04,040 --> 01:49:07,880
Speaker 4: funk me, you've probably already entertained the idea, and I'm

2433
01:49:07,920 --> 01:49:10,120
Speaker 4: sure your answer is very similar to ours.

2434
01:49:10,880 --> 01:49:12,200
Speaker 6: I want to funk you because you look good.

2435
01:49:14,320 --> 01:49:16,880
Speaker 4: Yeah you know, No, don't don't make your eyebrows like

2436
01:49:16,960 --> 01:49:24,400
Speaker 4: my daughters that's like you want to try to crunch

2437
01:49:24,439 --> 01:49:25,200
Speaker 4: your eye round like that?

2438
01:49:25,360 --> 01:49:26,800
Speaker 1: Why you want to have sex with the dude you

2439
01:49:26,880 --> 01:49:28,800
Speaker 1: have sex with? What I said?

2440
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:30,240
Speaker 2: You heard exactly what you.

2441
01:49:31,800 --> 01:49:32,080
Speaker 1: Before?

2442
01:49:32,200 --> 01:49:32,719
Speaker 2: This whole.

2443
01:49:34,640 --> 01:49:37,920
Speaker 6: Right now like this, you can talk to you like.

2444
01:49:37,960 --> 01:49:41,479
Speaker 1: This show answer the question what did you say?

2445
01:49:41,600 --> 01:49:41,760
Speaker 2: Mam?

2446
01:49:41,880 --> 01:49:43,439
Speaker 1: What did you say the marriag stop playing with.

2447
01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:48,240
Speaker 4: Him?

2448
01:49:49,040 --> 01:49:50,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it one more time and you better

2449
01:49:50,760 --> 01:49:53,840
Speaker 1: have an answer. Raise up out it, seat up till you.

2450
01:49:56,479 --> 01:49:57,000
Speaker 2: Go to buy.

2451
01:49:59,080 --> 01:50:02,080
Speaker 1: Why do you you want to have sex with the

2452
01:50:02,120 --> 01:50:03,320
Speaker 1: guys You want to have sex.

2453
01:50:03,200 --> 01:50:05,160
Speaker 3: With because I think that he can fuck That's why.

2454
01:50:05,920 --> 01:50:09,599
Speaker 2: Okay, But if you said that to a guy, he'd

2455
01:50:09,600 --> 01:50:11,360
Speaker 2: be like, Okay, cool, we're good. But if we said

2456
01:50:11,400 --> 01:50:12,640
Speaker 2: that to a woman, she'd be like with.

2457
01:50:12,840 --> 01:50:16,320
Speaker 1: Dogs, there are pieces of ship and explaining it to

2458
01:50:16,439 --> 01:50:17,840
Speaker 1: five million of you is why I'm sorry.

2459
01:50:18,040 --> 01:50:21,760
Speaker 3: Not always, not always, because it's because you can save me.

2460
01:50:22,280 --> 01:50:25,240
Speaker 3: You're shamed, yes, or know him to pussy off that question,

2461
01:50:25,520 --> 01:50:27,719
Speaker 3: but it leads you up to your follow up question.

2462
01:50:28,000 --> 01:50:29,639
Speaker 3: You want to fuck me because I look good okay,

2463
01:50:30,120 --> 01:50:31,559
Speaker 3: or you want to or even like what I said,

2464
01:50:31,560 --> 01:50:33,000
Speaker 3: you want to fuck me because you think it's gonna

2465
01:50:33,000 --> 01:50:34,560
Speaker 3: be good. Okay, So if it is good, then what

2466
01:50:34,880 --> 01:50:36,719
Speaker 3: you want to continue to fuck my band?

2467
01:50:39,840 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 2: You want to.

2468
01:50:40,160 --> 01:50:40,920
Speaker 6: Continue to fuck me?

2469
01:50:40,960 --> 01:50:43,200
Speaker 3: But wait, okay, so then when I say wait, so

2470
01:50:43,320 --> 01:50:45,439
Speaker 3: then when no, no, no, no no. So then when

2471
01:50:45,439 --> 01:50:47,280
Speaker 3: I say, why are you looking for a relationship? Now,

2472
01:50:47,320 --> 01:50:48,880
Speaker 3: I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, but

2473
01:50:48,920 --> 01:50:50,400
Speaker 3: you want to fuck me because you think it's good.

2474
01:50:50,400 --> 01:50:51,639
Speaker 3: And if it is good, you're gonna want.

2475
01:50:51,520 --> 01:50:53,360
Speaker 6: To continue to When did we talk about that part?

2476
01:50:53,640 --> 01:50:53,680
Speaker 7: No?

2477
01:50:54,040 --> 01:50:56,040
Speaker 1: But can we cross that bridge when we get there?

2478
01:50:56,680 --> 01:50:58,360
Speaker 4: That's sex.

2479
01:50:58,920 --> 01:51:00,479
Speaker 1: Let me find out if it's that good.

2480
01:51:00,720 --> 01:51:03,320
Speaker 3: If it's good, I'm here telling you that.

2481
01:51:07,320 --> 01:51:11,599
Speaker 4: Changing to go through that, you'll hear the hypocrisy coming

2482
01:51:11,640 --> 01:51:15,560
Speaker 4: from you want the dude because he could probably fuck it.

2483
01:51:15,680 --> 01:51:18,960
Speaker 4: She's thinking. And now when she asked him, oh, were

2484
01:51:19,000 --> 01:51:21,040
Speaker 4: you looking for a relationship? You wasn't looking for one?

2485
01:51:21,080 --> 01:51:23,160
Speaker 3: You know, I know I am, But I'm asking you.

2486
01:51:23,240 --> 01:51:24,480
Speaker 3: Are you you are a relationship?

2487
01:51:24,600 --> 01:51:25,880
Speaker 4: So we're on the same page.

2488
01:51:25,960 --> 01:51:27,280
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, no no no, because

2489
01:51:27,280 --> 01:51:28,840
Speaker 3: I'm looking for a relationship are you?

2490
01:51:29,960 --> 01:51:30,000
Speaker 7: No?

2491
01:51:30,479 --> 01:51:32,640
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, you're not looking for a relationship, but you

2492
01:51:32,720 --> 01:51:34,719
Speaker 3: want to fuck me because you think that is gonna

2493
01:51:34,720 --> 01:51:36,760
Speaker 3: be good. You're gonna want to continue to fund me,

2494
01:51:36,880 --> 01:51:38,599
Speaker 3: which means that you're gonna want to continue to fuck

2495
01:51:38,640 --> 01:51:40,160
Speaker 3: me while not giving me a relationship.

2496
01:51:40,880 --> 01:51:42,080
Speaker 6: To give you a relationship.

2497
01:51:41,680 --> 01:51:43,560
Speaker 3: Somebody else to fuck me. So you don't want to

2498
01:51:43,560 --> 01:51:46,360
Speaker 3: give me a relationship, but want my pussyly, my pussy

2499
01:51:46,640 --> 01:51:48,920
Speaker 3: exclusive to be yours because I know it's good.

2500
01:51:48,840 --> 01:51:52,479
Speaker 6: And you are talking about it's good. Say his name right?

2501
01:51:53,240 --> 01:51:55,920
Speaker 1: Also, that sounded so soncks.

2502
01:51:57,400 --> 01:52:01,160
Speaker 2: We're straying away from and explicitly said he wants a girlfriend.

2503
01:52:01,439 --> 01:52:04,400
Speaker 1: So let's go back to quest you sorry about that

2504
01:52:04,560 --> 01:52:06,320
Speaker 1: he wants He said.

2505
01:52:06,160 --> 01:52:08,599
Speaker 2: He wants a girlfriend. How do we get and because

2506
01:52:08,640 --> 01:52:10,519
Speaker 2: clearly he called because he has a group of friends.

2507
01:52:10,800 --> 01:52:12,960
Speaker 2: One of those girls is the girl he clearly wants

2508
01:52:13,000 --> 01:52:16,000
Speaker 2: to pursue for sure, so he called because he identified

2509
01:52:16,040 --> 01:52:18,479
Speaker 2: the one. He's in the friend zone. How do we

2510
01:52:18,560 --> 01:52:21,519
Speaker 2: get and to get out of it, just be just be,

2511
01:52:22,040 --> 01:52:22,280
Speaker 2: just be.

2512
01:52:22,439 --> 01:52:24,920
Speaker 1: Up front, just be you know, straightforward, like yo, listen,

2513
01:52:25,040 --> 01:52:27,560
Speaker 1: I like you, I like you past a friend. I

2514
01:52:27,640 --> 01:52:29,920
Speaker 1: think we get along great. I would love to be

2515
01:52:30,280 --> 01:52:32,320
Speaker 1: intimate with you. I would love to explore that part

2516
01:52:32,360 --> 01:52:36,200
Speaker 1: of our relationship, if that part of our relationship exists yeah.

2517
01:52:36,760 --> 01:52:40,640
Speaker 3: And if not, Nigga, I feel like I feel like

2518
01:52:40,640 --> 01:52:41,200
Speaker 3: you being the food.

2519
01:52:41,240 --> 01:52:43,120
Speaker 1: No, no, you got aunt twitch them. I would not.

2520
01:52:43,560 --> 01:52:46,439
Speaker 3: He just said. He literally just said, I'm doing all

2521
01:52:46,479 --> 01:52:48,920
Speaker 3: this stuff for all these women, but they're not my women,

2522
01:52:49,280 --> 01:52:51,439
Speaker 3: and I'm not getting anything in return, which means you

2523
01:52:51,600 --> 01:52:53,280
Speaker 3: doing all this ship and they going to fucking somebody

2524
01:52:53,280 --> 01:52:54,200
Speaker 3: else and calling you and telling you.

2525
01:52:55,439 --> 01:52:59,760
Speaker 2: And looks like he you don't even know it. Listen

2526
01:52:59,840 --> 01:53:00,640
Speaker 2: to he sounds like.

2527
01:53:02,520 --> 01:53:04,040
Speaker 1: He's in the friend zone. He can't get out.

2528
01:53:04,360 --> 01:53:04,880
Speaker 4: It's family.

2529
01:53:05,040 --> 01:53:07,080
Speaker 2: First of all, he's on the album.

2530
01:53:08,520 --> 01:53:11,240
Speaker 4: He's in the credit, so thank you. And I think

2531
01:53:11,280 --> 01:53:16,840
Speaker 4: approaches every single interaction with women as a potential relationship.

2532
01:53:16,960 --> 01:53:19,120
Speaker 4: And that's where I think an it's fucking up every

2533
01:53:19,200 --> 01:53:21,360
Speaker 4: girl he sees that he thinks is pretty or cool

2534
01:53:21,920 --> 01:53:25,080
Speaker 4: he looks as a potential relationship. And that's where everybody,

2535
01:53:25,200 --> 01:53:28,479
Speaker 4: not just men, fucks up everything. Sometimes chicks is just

2536
01:53:28,560 --> 01:53:31,599
Speaker 4: pretty and sometimes chicks is just cool. Not everything has

2537
01:53:31,680 --> 01:53:34,479
Speaker 4: to be a potential relationship. You have to dive, nose

2538
01:53:34,600 --> 01:53:38,600
Speaker 4: dive into every single friendship that you think could be

2539
01:53:38,600 --> 01:53:40,320
Speaker 4: a relationship. Just get to know people and see if

2540
01:53:40,320 --> 01:53:43,639
Speaker 4: it's for you. Yeah, it sounds like from this fifty

2541
01:53:43,680 --> 01:53:47,000
Speaker 4: seven second message. Anytime he meets a chick that he

2542
01:53:47,080 --> 01:53:50,080
Speaker 4: thinks is pretty, he tries to be their friend and

2543
01:53:50,200 --> 01:53:50,800
Speaker 4: it gets weird.

2544
01:53:51,240 --> 01:53:53,200
Speaker 2: In Ant's defense, as someone that does have a lot

2545
01:53:53,240 --> 01:53:55,559
Speaker 2: of girlfriends, you also know when you meet a girl

2546
01:53:56,160 --> 01:53:58,360
Speaker 2: off rip like I'm off like the first link I

2547
01:53:58,439 --> 01:53:59,040
Speaker 2: could tell of this.

2548
01:53:59,120 --> 01:54:01,439
Speaker 4: But you're also a whole aunt sounds like a wholesome human.

2549
01:54:01,479 --> 01:54:05,439
Speaker 2: Not true, actively not true whatever you want to put

2550
01:54:05,960 --> 01:54:06,320
Speaker 2: who is it?

2551
01:54:06,360 --> 01:54:07,439
Speaker 1: Objectively not true to?

2552
01:54:07,560 --> 01:54:08,599
Speaker 2: You don't have a kid.

2553
01:54:09,600 --> 01:54:11,320
Speaker 6: That doesn't make you make you a whore.

2554
01:54:11,520 --> 01:54:13,920
Speaker 2: I'm just saying I don't know. I'm just gonna die

2555
01:54:13,960 --> 01:54:14,320
Speaker 2: in the hill.

2556
01:54:14,760 --> 01:54:15,800
Speaker 1: Okay, well down the hill.

2557
01:54:16,400 --> 01:54:19,840
Speaker 2: I have a lot of I have that I have.

2558
01:54:20,880 --> 01:54:22,760
Speaker 4: Your parents a whore? No, hold on, you can't.

2559
01:54:22,920 --> 01:54:23,840
Speaker 2: My dad was a horror.

2560
01:54:23,920 --> 01:54:25,360
Speaker 1: You can't say you're not a whore. Did say I

2561
01:54:25,439 --> 01:54:26,360
Speaker 1: have a lot of girlfriends?

2562
01:54:26,720 --> 01:54:29,640
Speaker 2: No, but meaning friends that are purely platonic friends like

2563
01:54:29,720 --> 01:54:32,440
Speaker 2: I have a I have a group chat with like guys,

2564
01:54:32,520 --> 01:54:33,600
Speaker 2: girl like it's a mixed bunch.

2565
01:54:33,640 --> 01:54:34,680
Speaker 1: Would you beat No?

2566
01:54:35,160 --> 01:54:39,080
Speaker 2: Okay no, I wouldn't wear is one of them? You

2567
01:54:39,160 --> 01:54:41,400
Speaker 2: guys know how you guys were convinced that Greer and

2568
01:54:41,440 --> 01:54:44,200
Speaker 2: I hooked up. Yeah, no, you've all.

2569
01:54:44,200 --> 01:54:46,240
Speaker 1: Made Until I got to know was I was never

2570
01:54:46,320 --> 01:54:48,040
Speaker 1: convinced that you you hooked up with Greer.

2571
01:54:49,000 --> 01:54:50,680
Speaker 3: I looked at Greer and knew you in your type.

2572
01:54:51,160 --> 01:54:54,960
Speaker 4: Until I got to know Greer about maybe women you

2573
01:54:55,040 --> 01:54:56,840
Speaker 4: had brought around, I assumed. But then I got to

2574
01:54:56,960 --> 01:54:59,600
Speaker 4: know Greer and understood that she was an upstanding citizen.

2575
01:54:59,640 --> 01:55:01,000
Speaker 4: I was like, she would never fuck.

2576
01:55:00,800 --> 01:55:05,560
Speaker 2: You in Wow, understandings, We're good, We're great friends.

2577
01:55:06,400 --> 01:55:11,080
Speaker 4: Sometimes that makes the greatest friends like never but great friend.

2578
01:55:11,120 --> 01:55:13,040
Speaker 2: But I'm saying Ant's defends you can have a lot

2579
01:55:13,120 --> 01:55:16,200
Speaker 2: of girlfriends, just to account what Rory said you just

2580
01:55:16,240 --> 01:55:17,640
Speaker 2: because they're your friends doesn't mean at one point you

2581
01:55:17,640 --> 01:55:19,200
Speaker 2: wanted to fuck them. You can have those girlfriends, but

2582
01:55:19,240 --> 01:55:21,560
Speaker 2: you can also have a completely different romantic relationship with

2583
01:55:21,760 --> 01:55:24,560
Speaker 2: a woman. Absolutely that can be cool with those girls,

2584
01:55:24,720 --> 01:55:26,440
Speaker 2: But like, you need to approach differently.

2585
01:55:26,520 --> 01:55:28,880
Speaker 4: You can't be like, that's my advice to aunt And

2586
01:55:29,160 --> 01:55:32,680
Speaker 4: is running into every single person that he meets that

2587
01:55:32,760 --> 01:55:34,880
Speaker 4: he finds pretty that it's a relationship. Sometimes you can

2588
01:55:34,960 --> 01:55:36,640
Speaker 4: just be friends with pretty chicks and.

2589
01:55:36,920 --> 01:55:39,280
Speaker 1: Just be straightforward. Man, tell a girl that you like

2590
01:55:39,360 --> 01:55:41,840
Speaker 1: her and you want to pursue something deeper and more

2591
01:55:41,880 --> 01:55:44,680
Speaker 1: intimate than just a platonic friendship.

2592
01:55:45,040 --> 01:55:47,240
Speaker 4: Or go with Maul's initial advice and say, yo, I'm

2593
01:55:47,240 --> 01:55:47,960
Speaker 4: trying to fuck.

2594
01:55:48,600 --> 01:55:49,240
Speaker 1: That works too.

2595
01:55:50,080 --> 01:55:51,400
Speaker 2: All right's what we got?

2596
01:55:51,440 --> 01:55:51,920
Speaker 1: Who's next?

2597
01:55:51,960 --> 01:55:53,840
Speaker 2: All right, we're going to do the girl version of

2598
01:55:53,920 --> 01:55:54,840
Speaker 2: this pretty much?

2599
01:55:55,400 --> 01:55:57,640
Speaker 1: Yes, Mary, I love giving women advice.

2600
01:55:57,880 --> 01:56:00,280
Speaker 3: Hey, y'all, what's up. My name is Dedra. I live

2601
01:56:00,320 --> 01:56:02,000
Speaker 3: in Atlanta, so real fast.

2602
01:56:02,400 --> 01:56:05,920
Speaker 9: I feel like a lot of girls, women whoever, these days,

2603
01:56:06,040 --> 01:56:07,960
Speaker 9: just be going for bullshit like and I feel like

2604
01:56:08,000 --> 01:56:09,760
Speaker 9: a lot of dudes are used to girls just going

2605
01:56:09,800 --> 01:56:11,920
Speaker 9: for the bullshit and being able to have ask it

2606
01:56:12,080 --> 01:56:13,200
Speaker 9: and not really have to put in a lot of

2607
01:56:13,240 --> 01:56:16,040
Speaker 9: effort to you what they want from women period. I

2608
01:56:16,080 --> 01:56:17,800
Speaker 9: don't be going for the bullshit. I'm not here for it.

2609
01:56:18,200 --> 01:56:20,920
Speaker 9: I need nigga to come correct. I need pressure always,

2610
01:56:21,440 --> 01:56:24,840
Speaker 9: And I feel like I'm constantly kind of like being

2611
01:56:25,720 --> 01:56:28,880
Speaker 9: persecuted by niggas because I don't go for the bare

2612
01:56:28,960 --> 01:56:31,440
Speaker 9: minimum like I would like, Oh that was not shade,

2613
01:56:31,760 --> 01:56:34,480
Speaker 9: But I don't just want the bare minimum from niggas.

2614
01:56:34,800 --> 01:56:37,920
Speaker 9: So I don't know, like the GM data now we

2615
01:56:38,320 --> 01:56:40,440
Speaker 9: into it because I told him like, he be so

2616
01:56:40,760 --> 01:56:42,200
Speaker 9: dry when I talk to him all the time, and

2617
01:56:42,240 --> 01:56:43,200
Speaker 9: he's like, well, I don't know what to tell you,

2618
01:56:43,240 --> 01:56:43,720
Speaker 9: that's how I am.

2619
01:56:43,720 --> 01:56:45,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, well make me feel like you don't

2620
01:56:45,160 --> 01:56:45,320
Speaker 3: like me.

2621
01:56:45,720 --> 01:56:47,680
Speaker 9: And he's like, oh, you just always you just ask

2622
01:56:47,760 --> 01:56:49,680
Speaker 9: for too much. And I'm like, damn, am I asking

2623
01:56:49,720 --> 01:56:51,640
Speaker 9: for too much? Asking me to be excited to talk

2624
01:56:51,720 --> 01:56:54,000
Speaker 9: to me? Am I accent for too much? Like just

2625
01:56:54,360 --> 01:56:57,120
Speaker 9: wanting niggas to show that they like me.

2626
01:56:57,680 --> 01:57:01,760
Speaker 3: I don't know. Let me know, all right, I'm gonna

2627
01:57:01,760 --> 01:57:03,400
Speaker 3: be the one to tell you. I'm not even gonna

2628
01:57:03,520 --> 01:57:06,200
Speaker 3: like I completely agree with you. A lot of women

2629
01:57:06,280 --> 01:57:09,040
Speaker 3: are accepting the bare minimum and it does make it

2630
01:57:09,120 --> 01:57:11,040
Speaker 3: harder for the rest of us, and they call us

2631
01:57:11,120 --> 01:57:13,560
Speaker 3: high maintenance and say that we're requiring too much. But

2632
01:57:13,680 --> 01:57:16,040
Speaker 3: let me tell you something. If he sounds dry when

2633
01:57:16,080 --> 01:57:19,000
Speaker 3: he's talking to you, and then when you tell him

2634
01:57:19,000 --> 01:57:21,320
Speaker 3: about it, his response was, well, that's just how I am.

2635
01:57:21,680 --> 01:57:25,080
Speaker 3: Or maybe he don't like you. He don't like you,

2636
01:57:25,880 --> 01:57:32,760
Speaker 3: he doesn't like you. You've dated people you don't like before. No, No,

2637
01:57:34,520 --> 01:57:36,720
Speaker 3: he doesn't like you. Like that you are a placeholder

2638
01:57:36,880 --> 01:57:38,920
Speaker 3: and he is way when he when he finds the

2639
01:57:38,960 --> 01:57:41,560
Speaker 3: girl he really, really really likes. She'll get that effort

2640
01:57:41,600 --> 01:57:43,800
Speaker 3: from him. You're just he don't like being alone right now.

2641
01:57:43,840 --> 01:57:44,880
Speaker 1: And what's her name, Deirdre?

2642
01:57:45,280 --> 01:57:48,720
Speaker 2: I think her name is Deirdre, Deirdre de Very from Atlanta.

2643
01:57:48,840 --> 01:57:50,520
Speaker 4: That's that was Drea from Poor Minds.

2644
01:57:52,280 --> 01:57:52,600
Speaker 2: Deirdre.

2645
01:57:52,680 --> 01:57:55,520
Speaker 1: It's very simple, Deirdre. All you gotta do is post

2646
01:57:55,560 --> 01:57:58,760
Speaker 1: a picture. H random picture of just a guy sitting

2647
01:57:58,800 --> 01:58:02,960
Speaker 1: at the table, was armed, mmmm, and his watch. It

2648
01:58:04,000 --> 01:58:05,560
Speaker 1: ain't even she ain't even got to be the one

2649
01:58:05,560 --> 01:58:07,680
Speaker 1: sitting across from the table. Just google image of one

2650
01:58:07,720 --> 01:58:08,320
Speaker 1: of them pictures.

2651
01:58:08,480 --> 01:58:09,720
Speaker 4: He's gonna turn into Shakespeare.

2652
01:58:09,800 --> 01:58:12,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he's like your eyes your hair just

2653
01:58:12,640 --> 01:58:14,440
Speaker 1: flows in the wind. Like now, this nigga gonna start

2654
01:58:14,480 --> 01:58:16,320
Speaker 1: seeing everything to you. She's got to shake him up

2655
01:58:16,360 --> 01:58:17,720
Speaker 1: little bit and let him know that you're stilling hot

2656
01:58:17,760 --> 01:58:19,600
Speaker 1: the man out here that guys would love.

2657
01:58:19,480 --> 01:58:19,920
Speaker 2: To be with you.

2658
01:58:20,600 --> 01:58:22,920
Speaker 4: I guess I'll ask why she likes him. Let's tie

2659
01:58:22,920 --> 01:58:25,280
Speaker 4: this into your question with Aunt, when you would say,

2660
01:58:27,000 --> 01:58:29,840
Speaker 4: why do you want to fuck me? Why does DJ

2661
01:58:30,000 --> 01:58:30,600
Speaker 4: even like this guy?

2662
01:58:30,640 --> 01:58:31,000
Speaker 2: To begin with?

2663
01:58:31,080 --> 01:58:33,160
Speaker 4: If he's super dry, they're already dating, Like, at what

2664
01:58:33,320 --> 01:58:36,920
Speaker 4: point did she say I like this guy. I feel

2665
01:58:36,960 --> 01:58:39,480
Speaker 4: like there's some things she's not bringing up on why

2666
01:58:39,560 --> 01:58:42,520
Speaker 4: she likes this gentleman. Sure, I think there may be

2667
01:58:42,680 --> 01:58:47,360
Speaker 4: some materialistic items this man may have that she put

2668
01:58:47,440 --> 01:58:51,720
Speaker 4: up with the dryness, and now she's getting to her

2669
01:58:51,760 --> 01:58:54,160
Speaker 4: breaking point because she can find another guy that has

2670
01:58:54,200 --> 01:58:56,400
Speaker 4: the same range rover and maybe has a few more jokes.

2671
01:58:56,480 --> 01:58:58,240
Speaker 1: We need to know if that man has a do

2672
01:58:58,320 --> 01:58:59,040
Speaker 1: is he have kids?

2673
01:59:00,280 --> 01:59:01,800
Speaker 2: What the fuck does that to do anything?

2674
01:59:01,880 --> 01:59:03,640
Speaker 1: Because a lot of his energy and shit could be

2675
01:59:03,680 --> 01:59:06,400
Speaker 1: going towards another relationship with his baby mother.

2676
01:59:06,600 --> 01:59:08,880
Speaker 4: True, how we just put a whole narrative together.

2677
01:59:09,880 --> 01:59:11,800
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, I just need to know you're about

2678
01:59:11,800 --> 01:59:12,320
Speaker 3: to give him fuck?

2679
01:59:13,480 --> 01:59:14,000
Speaker 2: She like him?

2680
01:59:14,040 --> 01:59:15,600
Speaker 4: Like, how could you She can have a boyfriend that

2681
01:59:15,880 --> 01:59:18,280
Speaker 4: get dating someone you find super dry. That's what's crazy

2682
01:59:18,320 --> 01:59:20,400
Speaker 4: to me. Must have liked him for something else.

2683
01:59:20,800 --> 01:59:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, he got money, he gets like.

2684
01:59:23,000 --> 01:59:25,080
Speaker 4: Mall now where I think every girl just wants a

2685
01:59:25,200 --> 01:59:26,160
Speaker 4: guy with money.

2686
01:59:26,560 --> 01:59:27,960
Speaker 1: But the girl does want to guy.

2687
01:59:28,240 --> 01:59:30,480
Speaker 4: It sounds like someone that you only like this gentleman.

2688
01:59:30,760 --> 01:59:32,360
Speaker 3: I know a lot of women who they broke.

2689
01:59:32,440 --> 01:59:32,520
Speaker 7: Man.

2690
01:59:32,560 --> 01:59:34,200
Speaker 3: I don't know why you don't don't.

2691
01:59:34,000 --> 01:59:36,200
Speaker 1: Want him leave with money?

2692
01:59:36,240 --> 01:59:36,960
Speaker 3: That's not true.

2693
01:59:37,120 --> 01:59:39,000
Speaker 1: Oh, then they stupid talking about stuid people. They exist.

2694
01:59:39,080 --> 01:59:39,400
Speaker 2: We know that.

2695
01:59:41,960 --> 01:59:43,960
Speaker 1: That happens right there, stupid people in the world.

2696
01:59:44,040 --> 01:59:45,760
Speaker 4: With all my exes alone because I was I was

2697
01:59:45,880 --> 01:59:46,240
Speaker 4: very poor.

2698
01:59:46,360 --> 01:59:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, we know stupid people exist. Like,

2699
01:59:48,360 --> 01:59:51,400
Speaker 1: if you're actively just looking and dating broke people, what

2700
01:59:51,560 --> 01:59:52,040
Speaker 1: are you doing?

2701
01:59:52,200 --> 01:59:54,040
Speaker 4: You're looking for love all mam.

2702
01:59:54,120 --> 01:59:56,960
Speaker 2: Let's not know. You can't say that and you go out.

2703
01:59:57,120 --> 01:59:59,880
Speaker 1: And it's actively love age. You mean to tell me

2704
02:00:00,040 --> 02:00:02,560
Speaker 1: there's people out here that on the dating scene that

2705
02:00:02,640 --> 02:00:05,120
Speaker 1: says I want somebody that there's nothing.

2706
02:00:05,680 --> 02:00:09,640
Speaker 2: Yes, there's no slider that's like income below thirty thousand.

2707
02:00:10,520 --> 02:00:12,240
Speaker 2: You meet someone you're having to fall in love and

2708
02:00:12,320 --> 02:00:13,200
Speaker 2: then you find out.

2709
02:00:13,160 --> 02:00:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't fall in love before you realize,

2710
02:00:15,600 --> 02:00:17,280
Speaker 1: like he can't take care of himself.

2711
02:00:18,040 --> 02:00:20,600
Speaker 4: She's falling in love and now he's dry and has

2712
02:00:20,680 --> 02:00:22,400
Speaker 4: no conversation. I don't say you've never had.

2713
02:00:22,640 --> 02:00:23,280
Speaker 3: Did he get dry?

2714
02:00:23,720 --> 02:00:24,240
Speaker 1: Can't be out here?

2715
02:00:24,320 --> 02:00:26,160
Speaker 3: This is important?

2716
02:00:26,520 --> 02:00:26,960
Speaker 2: Oh you know.

2717
02:00:28,440 --> 02:00:30,240
Speaker 4: Somebody that she liked because he had money.

2718
02:00:30,600 --> 02:00:34,000
Speaker 1: That's what this is or that's not that that's a

2719
02:00:34,040 --> 02:00:37,480
Speaker 1: good that could be It could be did you he

2720
02:00:37,560 --> 02:00:41,800
Speaker 1: probably has money? No, personality, no personality, he has no personality.

2721
02:00:41,920 --> 02:00:44,080
Speaker 1: Has a nice car, is a nice house like whatever?

2722
02:00:44,600 --> 02:00:46,600
Speaker 1: Jewelry or let you know, ship that girls like. He

2723
02:00:46,720 --> 02:00:48,360
Speaker 1: probably has that that starter kid.

2724
02:00:48,360 --> 02:00:52,040
Speaker 4: For future reference, one time that a girl liked a

2725
02:00:52,160 --> 02:00:54,360
Speaker 4: quiet kid. He was a school shooter at one point.

2726
02:00:54,640 --> 02:00:56,400
Speaker 4: Only the way this works is if he had money.

2727
02:00:56,400 --> 02:00:59,280
Speaker 4: If you date the quiet guy, yeah, quiet man, You

2728
02:00:59,320 --> 02:01:01,360
Speaker 4: don't you like why men that have personality?

2729
02:01:01,480 --> 02:01:04,760
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna talk to other women quiet. You don't

2730
02:01:04,800 --> 02:01:06,280
Speaker 1: like a nigga that's gonna sit at the dinitable with

2731
02:01:06,360 --> 02:01:08,800
Speaker 1: you and not say nothing. Quiet. You don't like that.

2732
02:01:08,920 --> 02:01:10,480
Speaker 1: You want to quiet the mother bitches.

2733
02:01:10,680 --> 02:01:11,320
Speaker 3: He's quiet.

2734
02:01:11,480 --> 02:01:12,280
Speaker 4: You can't flirt with the way.

2735
02:01:12,320 --> 02:01:14,400
Speaker 1: You don't be laughing at these bitches like you be

2736
02:01:14,560 --> 02:01:16,040
Speaker 1: quiet with them, but you talk to me, that's what

2737
02:01:16,120 --> 02:01:16,360
Speaker 1: you like.

2738
02:01:16,440 --> 02:01:17,440
Speaker 4: But what the bitches is funny?

2739
02:01:18,080 --> 02:01:19,160
Speaker 1: Bitches be funny.

2740
02:01:22,640 --> 02:01:26,400
Speaker 3: When they come out gigg with another bitch.

2741
02:01:26,440 --> 02:01:27,240
Speaker 6: And you got a girlfriend.

2742
02:01:27,520 --> 02:01:28,440
Speaker 2: Now women are.

2743
02:01:28,400 --> 02:01:31,280
Speaker 1: Fucking when you got a girlfriend. You got a girlfriend

2744
02:01:31,360 --> 02:01:32,800
Speaker 1: of said Chris Rock wasn't funny.

2745
02:01:32,840 --> 02:01:34,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you did say that you shop on that whole special.

2746
02:01:34,880 --> 02:01:37,400
Speaker 4: You're losing this argument. Yeah, Also you should text him,

2747
02:01:38,680 --> 02:01:40,920
Speaker 4: that's true. You should you've personalized all.

2748
02:01:40,880 --> 02:01:43,920
Speaker 1: These Dedrew, just post a picture of another dude's arm

2749
02:01:43,960 --> 02:01:45,720
Speaker 1: at the table. Best advice, I guarantee you that.

2750
02:01:45,760 --> 02:01:48,240
Speaker 2: Your advice is to make the guy jealous. That's your advice.

2751
02:01:48,360 --> 02:01:50,680
Speaker 3: It always go find a nigga that really like you,

2752
02:01:50,960 --> 02:01:51,720
Speaker 3: and that's going to give you that.

2753
02:01:51,800 --> 02:01:53,720
Speaker 1: They probably don't really like it. Oh, we don't even

2754
02:01:53,760 --> 02:01:54,920
Speaker 1: think about this her energy?

2755
02:01:55,480 --> 02:01:58,400
Speaker 3: What if because she's not your type.

2756
02:01:59,880 --> 02:02:04,760
Speaker 2: A voicemail like she was saying a lot like maybe

2757
02:02:05,800 --> 02:02:08,800
Speaker 2: also could be the opportunity to look inWORD be like,

2758
02:02:08,960 --> 02:02:13,839
Speaker 2: maybe I'm asking for too much. I'm creating a picture

2759
02:02:14,000 --> 02:02:17,280
Speaker 2: a version of someone. Look at the Mars face doesn't exist.

2760
02:02:17,640 --> 02:02:19,760
Speaker 1: It's very I mean you you you like you kind

2761
02:02:19,760 --> 02:02:21,680
Speaker 1: of like went like into a whole nother thing there.

2762
02:02:21,920 --> 02:02:23,120
Speaker 1: I don't think we have to go that deep.

2763
02:02:23,160 --> 02:02:25,640
Speaker 2: And we're talking about range rovers and this, but I think.

2764
02:02:25,600 --> 02:02:27,120
Speaker 1: No, no, I think that what it could be. What

2765
02:02:27,400 --> 02:02:30,440
Speaker 1: a part that we overlook is what if, Dear Dre

2766
02:02:32,280 --> 02:02:33,560
Speaker 1: it's just not that interesting.

2767
02:02:34,800 --> 02:02:36,480
Speaker 3: There just sounds very interesting.

2768
02:02:37,400 --> 02:02:39,240
Speaker 1: Off of a thirty second voicemail.

2769
02:02:39,280 --> 02:02:41,440
Speaker 3: There just sounds like she has personality enough to where

2770
02:02:41,440 --> 02:02:43,800
Speaker 3: when she's having a conversation, you'd want to have a

2771
02:02:43,840 --> 02:02:45,000
Speaker 3: conversation back with her.

2772
02:02:45,160 --> 02:02:47,240
Speaker 1: You could talk, Yeah, but I'm just saying, what if

2773
02:02:47,240 --> 02:02:50,600
Speaker 1: she's just like, what if she's just not like you

2774
02:02:50,680 --> 02:02:52,320
Speaker 1: can only deal with that shit for like eight months.

2775
02:02:53,160 --> 02:02:54,920
Speaker 3: All she asking is for a nigga that sound excited

2776
02:02:54,960 --> 02:02:56,640
Speaker 3: to talk to her, and y'all are making her seem

2777
02:02:56,720 --> 02:02:57,480
Speaker 3: like she is asked.

2778
02:02:57,600 --> 02:02:57,920
Speaker 2: No, no, no no.

2779
02:02:58,080 --> 02:02:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, we have to.

2780
02:02:59,160 --> 02:02:59,600
Speaker 4: We have to.

2781
02:02:59,720 --> 02:03:02,200
Speaker 1: We have to just turn over every stone. That's what

2782
02:03:02,280 --> 02:03:05,080
Speaker 1: I said. What if he has a baby mother? You

2783
02:03:05,160 --> 02:03:06,960
Speaker 1: know some days he's just like depressed and he's not

2784
02:03:07,080 --> 02:03:07,920
Speaker 1: he doesn't like talking.

2785
02:03:08,080 --> 02:03:09,240
Speaker 2: But we're adding elements.

2786
02:03:10,720 --> 02:03:11,280
Speaker 3: We have to.

2787
02:03:11,920 --> 02:03:13,600
Speaker 1: We can't just give her. We can't just think that

2788
02:03:13,680 --> 02:03:15,120
Speaker 1: this guy is just a piece of ship and doesn't

2789
02:03:15,200 --> 02:03:15,400
Speaker 1: like her.

2790
02:03:15,560 --> 02:03:19,640
Speaker 4: Like, no, let's take away to talk to.

2791
02:03:20,600 --> 02:03:23,440
Speaker 3: I just said, That's what I said, talk to you,

2792
02:03:23,520 --> 02:03:24,320
Speaker 3: go find somebody else.

2793
02:03:25,520 --> 02:03:30,760
Speaker 2: He could be all right, He's no, we got it.

2794
02:03:33,120 --> 02:03:35,360
Speaker 3: He'say, go find somebody like you want to do one

2795
02:03:35,360 --> 02:03:36,240
Speaker 3: more voicemail.

2796
02:03:35,880 --> 02:03:37,840
Speaker 2: Before they have the blue che with the homies dirt,

2797
02:03:38,520 --> 02:03:39,120
Speaker 2: That's what Julian.

2798
02:03:39,200 --> 02:03:41,600
Speaker 1: He will send us another voicemail in like two weeks

2799
02:03:41,640 --> 02:03:43,640
Speaker 1: giving us an update. Yeah, please let us know how

2800
02:03:43,640 --> 02:03:44,000
Speaker 1: it's going.

2801
02:03:44,120 --> 02:03:45,720
Speaker 3: Send me his Instagram and I'm gonna let you know.

2802
02:03:48,280 --> 02:03:52,360
Speaker 6: You gotta find your own boyfriend text him back you.

2803
02:03:54,520 --> 02:03:55,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, what's wrong with you?

2804
02:03:55,680 --> 02:03:58,440
Speaker 2: I gotta stop and to call you.

2805
02:03:59,000 --> 02:04:01,160
Speaker 1: You just told his other you'll hit you up because

2806
02:04:01,320 --> 02:04:04,600
Speaker 1: because yo, listen, like you ain't betting these calls and

2807
02:04:04,680 --> 02:04:05,720
Speaker 1: just beat niggas right.

2808
02:04:05,760 --> 02:04:06,800
Speaker 6: Because we're ripe on.

2809
02:04:07,200 --> 02:04:09,760
Speaker 3: They're asking, they're asking for our opinions on things, and

2810
02:04:09,840 --> 02:04:11,600
Speaker 3: we don't have the backstory. So I'm like, listen, we

2811
02:04:11,720 --> 02:04:13,200
Speaker 3: answered this now, but if you want to come to

2812
02:04:13,280 --> 02:04:14,640
Speaker 3: me and give you a backstory, I'll give you.

2813
02:04:14,680 --> 02:04:16,800
Speaker 2: You can call in and leave a more detoy to

2814
02:04:17,000 --> 02:04:18,960
Speaker 2: come to me and give me your backstory. Go over it?

2815
02:04:20,160 --> 02:04:22,000
Speaker 2: Can we get it? The next one for yeah, well

2816
02:04:22,240 --> 02:04:23,960
Speaker 2: we'll stay on the relationships.

2817
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Speaker 8: Last one, Hey, guys, this is Tony from Biloxi. I'm

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02:04:32,320 --> 02:04:36,280
Speaker 8: twenty one years old. I've been talking to this girl

2819
02:04:36,760 --> 02:04:39,040
Speaker 8: that I met at this university that I'm going to.

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02:04:42,320 --> 02:04:45,880
Speaker 8: We've been talking from October twenty twenty two to like

2821
02:04:46,080 --> 02:04:49,160
Speaker 8: now no. And I made it very clear about I

2822
02:04:49,520 --> 02:04:51,360
Speaker 8: like her and stuff like that. I don't know, like

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02:04:51,440 --> 02:04:53,800
Speaker 8: a romantic leble. And she said she doesn't want to

2824
02:04:53,880 --> 02:04:57,400
Speaker 8: rush things, and that's completely fine. You know, we're still

2825
02:04:57,440 --> 02:05:01,600
Speaker 8: talking and stuff like that. But what I want to

2826
02:05:01,640 --> 02:05:05,400
Speaker 8: get to is just like to not put her stuff

2827
02:05:05,440 --> 02:05:08,240
Speaker 8: out too much. And to make a short.

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02:05:10,200 --> 02:05:13,480
Speaker 10: I think she's really used to like people doing her

2829
02:05:13,600 --> 02:05:17,800
Speaker 10: dirty and I'm not that type of person. I've been

2830
02:05:18,240 --> 02:05:20,840
Speaker 10: doing right by her for the longest. Not to like

2831
02:05:20,960 --> 02:05:21,360
Speaker 10: bragg or.

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02:05:21,360 --> 02:05:23,680
Speaker 11: Anything, but that's just it's just what I do. It's

2833
02:05:23,760 --> 02:05:27,160
Speaker 11: just I genuinely care about this girl. But she's constantly

2834
02:05:27,440 --> 02:05:30,760
Speaker 11: like having doubts and just questioning like whether or not

2835
02:05:30,840 --> 02:05:33,680
Speaker 11: I'm going to screw her over or not. She's telling me, oh,

2836
02:05:33,800 --> 02:05:37,120
Speaker 11: you know, it's okay. You know you can just leave

2837
02:05:37,160 --> 02:05:39,200
Speaker 11: if you want to. I'm used to it, and like

2838
02:05:39,680 --> 02:05:40,720
Speaker 11: that's not what I want to do.

2839
02:05:41,760 --> 02:05:46,680
Speaker 10: So basically what I'm asking is, is there some way

2840
02:05:47,040 --> 02:05:51,280
Speaker 10: I can like reassure her or is this just up

2841
02:05:51,360 --> 02:05:52,440
Speaker 10: to her to figure out?

2842
02:05:53,560 --> 02:05:56,880
Speaker 4: So she's she's reassuring you, Tony, she's going crazy at

2843
02:05:56,880 --> 02:05:59,640
Speaker 4: the university. She's telling you you should leave because this

2844
02:05:59,760 --> 02:06:00,440
Speaker 4: is not gotta work.

2845
02:06:00,720 --> 02:06:00,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2846
02:06:01,520 --> 02:06:03,640
Speaker 4: I hate to break that one to you. That's when

2847
02:06:03,680 --> 02:06:04,720
Speaker 4: you learn with with age.

2848
02:06:04,960 --> 02:06:09,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. And another thing, Tony, she sounds like she needs, uh, therapy, therapy.

2849
02:06:10,040 --> 02:06:12,120
Speaker 1: She sounds like she's been through some some things in

2850
02:06:12,160 --> 02:06:15,720
Speaker 1: a previous relationships. She has trust issues, she's still not

2851
02:06:15,880 --> 02:06:19,720
Speaker 1: healed from, you know, previous relationships and things like that. Uh,

2852
02:06:19,880 --> 02:06:22,080
Speaker 1: So continue to it sounds like you have a great,

2853
02:06:22,560 --> 02:06:24,360
Speaker 1: you know, dialogue with each other. You sound like y'all

2854
02:06:24,360 --> 02:06:27,440
Speaker 1: speak a lot about your feelings and things that on

2855
02:06:27,520 --> 02:06:30,640
Speaker 1: your mind. Continue to do that. But at some point,

2856
02:06:30,680 --> 02:06:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, You're gonna just have to move on,

2857
02:06:33,360 --> 02:06:35,120
Speaker 1: like you're gonna have to start dating somebody else. As

2858
02:06:35,200 --> 02:06:37,720
Speaker 1: much as you know you like this girl. Uh, but

2859
02:06:38,160 --> 02:06:42,440
Speaker 1: it's clearly October until now is like what eight months?

2860
02:06:42,560 --> 02:06:46,000
Speaker 1: Seven months? And I mean how much slower is she

2861
02:06:46,080 --> 02:06:46,720
Speaker 1: trying to take things?

2862
02:06:46,760 --> 02:06:50,560
Speaker 4: And in college time, that's that's like yeah, yeah, ten years.

2863
02:06:50,680 --> 02:06:54,520
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah. So I mean a good guy. It sounded

2864
02:06:54,520 --> 02:06:58,320
Speaker 1: like a good guy from below Bloxi Bloxi, right, sounds

2865
02:06:58,320 --> 02:07:01,680
Speaker 1: like a good guy, good good, good gentleman. He sounds

2866
02:07:01,680 --> 02:07:02,440
Speaker 1: like a gentleman, but.

2867
02:07:03,120 --> 02:07:05,120
Speaker 4: He sounded defeated. I could tell you to.

2868
02:07:05,080 --> 02:07:08,600
Speaker 1: Get Tony, get some dog in you, get some dog.

2869
02:07:08,520 --> 02:07:11,000
Speaker 4: In you, and she's telling you something you should leave

2870
02:07:11,280 --> 02:07:12,520
Speaker 4: is what I'm saying, you should and.

2871
02:07:12,480 --> 02:07:13,880
Speaker 1: You should tell her that. You' like, listen, I got

2872
02:07:13,880 --> 02:07:17,840
Speaker 1: this girl coming over tonight, so you should probably don't change,

2873
02:07:19,480 --> 02:07:21,000
Speaker 1: not in a sexual way, just like y'all have a

2874
02:07:21,080 --> 02:07:24,680
Speaker 1: female friend coming over. You know we're gonna watch the TV. Yeah,

2875
02:07:25,440 --> 02:07:27,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like she's taking things slow

2876
02:07:27,800 --> 02:07:29,400
Speaker 1: to girl you're talking to, So it's like, all right.

2877
02:07:29,360 --> 02:07:32,000
Speaker 2: Well, you know he's not take their dating. He's just

2878
02:07:32,040 --> 02:07:34,240
Speaker 2: saying she thinks it's all going to come to a

2879
02:07:34,280 --> 02:07:35,640
Speaker 2: crashing in because that's what she knows.

2880
02:07:35,800 --> 02:07:38,360
Speaker 1: She He also said that she's been she wants to

2881
02:07:38,400 --> 02:07:40,880
Speaker 1: take things slow. That's what he said. And I'm like,

2882
02:07:41,200 --> 02:07:43,240
Speaker 1: October to, now you've been dating, you want to take

2883
02:07:43,240 --> 02:07:44,800
Speaker 1: things slow. I want to know did they even have sex?

2884
02:07:44,840 --> 02:07:45,560
Speaker 1: Shit that?

2885
02:07:45,800 --> 02:07:46,000
Speaker 2: Yes?

2886
02:07:46,720 --> 02:07:48,320
Speaker 1: How are you answering it like that? You?

2887
02:07:49,280 --> 02:07:49,840
Speaker 3: That's why I asked.

2888
02:07:49,920 --> 02:07:54,920
Speaker 4: The location he said, was that Bible belt close?

2889
02:07:56,160 --> 02:07:57,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that mississipp Where's.

2890
02:07:58,720 --> 02:07:59,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, they could be good Christians.

2891
02:08:00,440 --> 02:08:01,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're not having sex.

2892
02:08:02,200 --> 02:08:04,640
Speaker 4: There be a lot of Dissanta's votes over there. They

2893
02:08:04,680 --> 02:08:06,320
Speaker 4: may not want to have sex this early.

2894
02:08:06,880 --> 02:08:09,800
Speaker 1: No, he wanted Tony want to hit Tony wants to love.

2895
02:08:10,080 --> 02:08:11,880
Speaker 2: How she wants to hit other people down, like she's

2896
02:08:11,920 --> 02:08:12,640
Speaker 2: been having sex.

2897
02:08:14,200 --> 02:08:16,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but not with Tony. Tony sounds like he ain't

2898
02:08:16,800 --> 02:08:21,480
Speaker 1: getting none. I know the influx in the voice. He's

2899
02:08:21,480 --> 02:08:23,600
Speaker 1: sounding like he just he's selling. He said that voicemail

2900
02:08:23,600 --> 02:08:25,120
Speaker 1: while he was in bed looking at the ceiling.

2901
02:08:27,000 --> 02:08:30,320
Speaker 3: Tony, we love you, don't I don't know that.

2902
02:08:30,480 --> 02:08:30,920
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

2903
02:08:31,200 --> 02:08:32,520
Speaker 3: I have a conversation with her.

2904
02:08:33,400 --> 02:08:34,880
Speaker 4: Man, I don't know he's family.

2905
02:08:36,080 --> 02:08:38,080
Speaker 3: Have a conversation with her. And if you don't feel

2906
02:08:38,080 --> 02:08:39,640
Speaker 3: like things are going to change, and you're tired of

2907
02:08:39,720 --> 02:08:42,600
Speaker 3: it and you want more than you leave word. You

2908
02:08:42,720 --> 02:08:44,320
Speaker 3: know that you're a good guy. Don't stop being a

2909
02:08:44,360 --> 02:08:46,360
Speaker 3: good guy because you got with a girl to.

2910
02:08:47,280 --> 02:08:49,440
Speaker 1: Bring bring another girl around that look better than her.

2911
02:08:49,520 --> 02:08:52,760
Speaker 1: Watch out fast, shorty, start moving, Watch out quickly, thinks progressing.

2912
02:08:53,680 --> 02:08:53,720
Speaker 4: Ma.

2913
02:08:53,960 --> 02:08:56,320
Speaker 2: Do you have friends that have gone through that, like

2914
02:08:56,440 --> 02:08:59,640
Speaker 2: they've been done over poorly and they you like the

2915
02:08:59,720 --> 02:09:01,440
Speaker 2: guy it's now in their life, but they don't feel it.

2916
02:09:01,520 --> 02:09:03,040
Speaker 2: Have you had someone like that? Yes?

2917
02:09:03,680 --> 02:09:04,760
Speaker 3: I've been also been the girl.

2918
02:09:04,920 --> 02:09:06,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how's that worked out?

2919
02:09:06,720 --> 02:09:08,760
Speaker 3: It's I mean, well, at twenty one, it didn't work

2920
02:09:08,760 --> 02:09:11,720
Speaker 3: out pretty well. As adults, It's kind of like, okay, guys,

2921
02:09:11,800 --> 02:09:14,520
Speaker 3: like y'all, are you need to heal because we can

2922
02:09:14,560 --> 02:09:16,640
Speaker 3: afford therapy now. But at twenty one, it's just like,

2923
02:09:17,400 --> 02:09:19,440
Speaker 3: at twenty one, have you even really been done dirty?

2924
02:09:19,480 --> 02:09:21,880
Speaker 3: You think you've been done dirty, You haven't been done dirty.

2925
02:09:21,960 --> 02:09:23,320
Speaker 4: That's what I was about to say, Like how much

2926
02:09:23,840 --> 02:09:27,280
Speaker 4: outside of how much in relationships can you get done

2927
02:09:27,320 --> 02:09:28,120
Speaker 4: dirty at twenty one?

2928
02:09:28,240 --> 02:09:28,400
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2929
02:09:28,440 --> 02:09:32,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, that one is sixteen. Hit your heart. I'm supposed

2930
02:09:32,880 --> 02:09:34,560
Speaker 2: to go to the prom say we didn't hold hands

2931
02:09:34,600 --> 02:09:35,320
Speaker 2: at social studies.

2932
02:09:35,600 --> 02:09:38,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, so Tony, you're gonna be okay. I know it

2933
02:09:38,760 --> 02:09:41,040
Speaker 4: doesn't meeem that way at twenty one, but you are

2934
02:09:41,080 --> 02:09:41,760
Speaker 4: gonna be fine.

2935
02:09:41,960 --> 02:09:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's gonna this girl in a year from now. Wow,

2936
02:09:44,960 --> 02:09:46,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna look back like I can't believe I thought

2937
02:09:46,600 --> 02:09:48,400
Speaker 1: that was my wife. Yeah, it'd be like.

2938
02:09:48,480 --> 02:09:51,360
Speaker 2: If you slide to uh, Georgia, you can meet Deirdre

2939
02:09:51,480 --> 02:09:54,680
Speaker 2: in Atlanta and maybe is way too old to baby

2940
02:09:56,200 --> 02:09:56,960
Speaker 2: maybe like I'm young?

2941
02:09:57,520 --> 02:09:59,760
Speaker 4: Did you might be like female?

2942
02:09:59,800 --> 02:10:04,520
Speaker 1: Who? Yeah?

2943
02:10:06,080 --> 02:10:07,360
Speaker 4: Anyways, let's wrap up.

2944
02:10:07,560 --> 02:10:09,680
Speaker 1: Thank y'all for leaving these voicemails. Man, he's a very

2945
02:10:09,760 --> 02:10:12,920
Speaker 1: fun and entertaining. I would ask that you just give

2946
02:10:13,040 --> 02:10:16,320
Speaker 1: us a little more detail. Detail. Intel, If you're sending

2947
02:10:16,360 --> 02:10:20,080
Speaker 1: relationship advice, just know you know what's the situation. Is

2948
02:10:20,160 --> 02:10:24,400
Speaker 1: this person somebody you're already intimate with, like you have kids,

2949
02:10:24,480 --> 02:10:26,120
Speaker 1: like something. Just give us a little more detail so

2950
02:10:26,200 --> 02:10:29,600
Speaker 1: we can correctly assess these voicemails and the answer in

2951
02:10:29,680 --> 02:10:32,560
Speaker 1: a more productive I guess progressive manner. I don't know,

2952
02:10:33,280 --> 02:10:35,160
Speaker 1: but either way, this is fun. I appreciate it. Yeah,

2953
02:10:35,640 --> 02:10:36,720
Speaker 1: all right, man, So what you got going on for

2954
02:10:36,760 --> 02:10:37,920
Speaker 1: the rest of the week. Nothing, We're out of here.

2955
02:10:38,000 --> 02:10:40,240
Speaker 6: Y're listen, man, We love you, love it.

2956
02:10:40,320 --> 02:10:44,840
Speaker 1: We appreciate Yah. Download Rory's album now, Rory different title please.

2957
02:10:45,880 --> 02:10:46,800
Speaker 4: I thought it'd be different.

2958
02:10:46,920 --> 02:10:48,560
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be different. I thought we would in

2959
02:10:48,640 --> 02:10:49,520
Speaker 1: this episode differently.

2960
02:10:49,560 --> 02:10:49,960
Speaker 2: But we're not.

2961
02:10:50,280 --> 02:10:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm that nigga. He's just ginger.

2962
02:10:52,120 --> 02:10:52,520
Speaker 2: We love you.

2963
02:10:52,600 --> 02:10:53,120
Speaker 1: We out peace.