Speaker 1: Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I have heart radio
Speaker 1: podcast wind Down Mondays at Easton. We got John, we
Speaker 1: got Michael in the house today. Um, how was your weekend?
Speaker 1: It was fantastic. I went away for a couple of days.
Speaker 1: I took Rocko to the beach because the heat wave
Speaker 1: in l A's So we went to Newport Beach, went
Speaker 1: to the tide pools, swam in the pool. Did your
Speaker 1: boyfriend go with you? He did, in his thirteen year
Speaker 1: old daughter. So it was really fun. And let me
Speaker 1: tell you a whole new experience trying to keep a
Speaker 1: thirteen year old and a six year old entertained. Really,
Speaker 1: there's like a two prime ages that you can't what
Speaker 1: do you mean? I feel like their world is their oyster.
Speaker 1: It is, but they're interested in very different things. One
Speaker 1: months Mexican food, the other once Chi Contenders, one months
Speaker 1: Starbuck the other one wants, you know, donuts. Do they
Speaker 1: get along the kids, they get along, They're great. The
Speaker 1: one thing that unite them is wave jumping in Fortnite.
Speaker 1: That sounds amazing, It's no, it was really no. That's
Speaker 1: good to get along though, because that would be like
Speaker 1: the scariest thing I think about like blending a family
Speaker 1: is if knowing if the kids are going to get along,
Speaker 1: Because if the kids don't get along, it's like, all right, well,
Speaker 1: how are we going to do this? It just won't work.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't write. No, there's no way. They fight like
Speaker 1: simplings though. That's good, which is good, it's really And
Speaker 1: she's really sweet with him. Did she like you? Because
Speaker 1: a girl that a just tough. Yeah, but she's she's
Speaker 1: not super tough. She's really easy to get along with. Sensitive.
Speaker 1: That's good, super sweetly, grateful, thankful. I was too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was like hormones, know right, But it was really fun.
Speaker 1: It was It was nice to get out of the city. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I forget how you know, how we get I am
Speaker 1: such a creature of habit. I end up doing the
Speaker 1: exact same thing. Go to the country store for coffee,
Speaker 1: Farmer's market, Sunday, fer Farmer's market. Oh, let's go to
Speaker 1: the grove. It's like ground hugs day, every single at
Speaker 1: the grove in the heat, the worst place. Ever, how
Speaker 1: about you, guys, did you have a good weekend? We
Speaker 1: had an awesome week Yeah, we had like an amazing weekend.
Speaker 1: But before the weekend, we potty trained Jolie I love
Speaker 1: because it was so hot in l A. So we're like,
Speaker 1: we don't want to go outside. Right. She's about to
Speaker 1: start her you know, three day half school preschool days,
Speaker 1: so to be potty trained, she'd have to be but
Speaker 1: they encourage it obviously, and she knows she's two and
Speaker 1: a half. So we're like, okay, the time is now.
Speaker 1: And he had a lighter work schedule, so he's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be able to help because I didn't want
Speaker 1: to just I didn't want to put it on one
Speaker 1: of us. Just I wanted us to be able to
Speaker 1: help each other. It's a job stressful, it's very very stressful.
Speaker 1: But I think we did. I mean she was incredible.
Speaker 1: She was so good. Yeah, and like we just like
Speaker 1: worked together really well, and like it was it was good,
Speaker 1: Like she did great. Did you do the three days?
Speaker 1: We did the three day where she was just butt naked.
Speaker 1: It's the best way to do it, Yeah, it really isn't.
Speaker 1: By the third day, she was just like amazing. And
Speaker 1: girls are a little easier than potty training boys for
Speaker 1: some reason. Do you sit the boys down or do
Speaker 1: they stand up? They sit down and I don't know.
Speaker 1: He didn't start standing up until he was four using
Speaker 1: the restroom, actually standing up like a male because you
Speaker 1: have to push his peep down. Yes, he used to.
Speaker 1: So it's like that, did they know that they have
Speaker 1: to push it down? They know? They know, well, you
Speaker 1: teach them to the Other thing is I did the
Speaker 1: three day but I used a treasure chest. I went
Speaker 1: to the dollar store and I bought like a hundred
Speaker 1: dollars worth of just whatever. So every time he used
Speaker 1: the bathroom he got to pick something out of the
Speaker 1: treasure chest. O cute. So in with I waited until
Speaker 1: he was three because boys just need the extra They
Speaker 1: need extra time naturally like all things, like all things,
Speaker 1: and men need a little bit more time. So just
Speaker 1: know in the future you are going to want to wait. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when you have the boy, the little boy in the belly.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't tell you this this weekend, honey.
Speaker 1: We were out at lunch yesterday with some my family
Speaker 1: that we were in town, and Jolie's just playing this
Speaker 1: game now. She's just every five seconds she has to
Speaker 1: go potty. Right, So it's like you gotta take them
Speaker 1: because they're saying it because at one time they actually
Speaker 1: have to go and like it's you know, you want
Speaker 1: to make sure you take them. And so I took
Speaker 1: her in the men's room and we tried. She didn't
Speaker 1: have to go, So then I have to go to
Speaker 1: the bathroom. I used the urinal and so then she
Speaker 1: started pointing the other other urinals. She's like that one,
Speaker 1: like like she wanted to like she was like starting
Speaker 1: to mess with her hands. I considered it for a second.
Speaker 1: I was like, maybe I'll just hold her up, and
Speaker 1: se I was like, I don't want to start that habit.
Speaker 1: So she wanted, she wanted to stand up and Pee's
Speaker 1: so funny she um, she confuses a fart with like poop,
Speaker 1: so like she every time she's like patty, patty, patty,
Speaker 1: And then she'll go and she'll be like, uh done.
Speaker 1: I'm like, we're like, maybe that's a fart, Okay, so
Speaker 1: you can you can fart and not have to go
Speaker 1: to the bathroom, like it's plenty of you. Yeah, Like
Speaker 1: she doesn't. Yeah. So I was Michael and I were, um,
Speaker 1: we were coming back from lunch, and I said, when
Speaker 1: do you trust a fart? Because that's the thing. I'm
Speaker 1: like intellectual conversation this weekend and then drive back point
Speaker 1: do you trust a fart? Because I'm like if I
Speaker 1: was two and a half, Like I'm like, I still
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm thirty four years old. I still shouldn't
Speaker 1: trust a fart sometimes, you know what I mean. And
Speaker 1: it's like good on her to like not trust it
Speaker 1: because like I have sharted before, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like like I didn't. I should have trusted it and
Speaker 1: I did it. I know. Weekend, Tom, come on, everybody
Speaker 1: has no Listen, little boys, Rocco's still that's not going
Speaker 1: to admit she accidents. He you know, because it's hard
Speaker 1: for them. They just they don't know. They just don't know.
Speaker 1: No idea. So there is a new show. I don't
Speaker 1: know John, if you heard about this, but it is
Speaker 1: premiering on the TLC network. Premieres on Sunday at eight
Speaker 1: seven Central on TLC. It's called The Ninety Day Fiance.
Speaker 1: Have you heard about it? I've heard rumbling rumblings. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: let me just tell you this. It's the ninety Day
Speaker 1: Countdown known around the world. TLCS hit show Fiance is
Speaker 1: taking you on a journey from the very very beginning
Speaker 1: and going before the ninety days. These couples fall in
Speaker 1: love online and now we get to see their first
Speaker 1: day halfway around the world. They're taking Yeah, they're taking
Speaker 1: a huge risk and putting their life on the line
Speaker 1: for love. So there's culture, shock, language barriers, unexpected twists
Speaker 1: and turns. I mean, and on's relationships survive? Who will
Speaker 1: get done on one knee? I don't know. Um, some
Speaker 1: of the couples don't even speak the same language and
Speaker 1: they have to use a translator app to communicate. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: this second communication is hard enough anyway. Yeah, and I know, Um,
Speaker 1: so they've only talked online, but I guess anything is
Speaker 1: possible when they meet in person. Um, when they arrive
Speaker 1: in a foreign country, will their soul mate be there
Speaker 1: to meet them? And will they turn out to be
Speaker 1: who they say they are? I mean, will they return
Speaker 1: home engaged or heartbroken? You gotta find out once, which
Speaker 1: premiers Sunday eight, seven Central. Well, let's check out some
Speaker 1: of the cast. Did you read this? Rachel and John.
Speaker 1: She's a single mom from New Mexico. He's from England
Speaker 1: and has a criminal record. They met on a karaoke app. Oh,
Speaker 1: and then there's fifty two year old Angela's from Georgia,
Speaker 1: and or head over is head over heels for thirty
Speaker 1: year old Nigerian sweetheart Michael, whose friends question why he's
Speaker 1: dating a grandma. But Martha and I are my favorite.
Speaker 1: Though Martha is a Catholic exotic dancer and Dia is
Speaker 1: a devout Muslim and doesn't speak English. She's flying to
Speaker 1: Algeria to meet him. Sounds like love at first sight.
Speaker 1: Talk about the mother in law scary stories. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I'm excited to watch their journey and you guys can
Speaker 1: to premiere Sunday at eight seven Central on t Elsie.
Speaker 1: I'm watching it, but I'm really super excited because John Edward.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys know who he is,
Speaker 1: but he is incredible. But Amy, go ahead, Amy never
Speaker 1: talk I never talked besides when not Mayam And this
Speaker 1: you guys, so, Janna, I want you to tell like
Speaker 1: your personal how you've been wanting to meet John Edward
Speaker 1: right now? Yes, but first you guys like, I'm like
Speaker 1: my hands are sweating because this guy is so real.
Speaker 1: So here is what happened. This is years ago, like
Speaker 1: three or four years I'm like sweating he's so real,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a total naysayer, but this guy is real.
Speaker 1: He talks to dead people. Because I had a business
Speaker 1: call with him for something for Ryan Seacrest or something
Speaker 1: where it was like a business call wasn't supposed to be,
Speaker 1: like he was reading me. And at the time, I
Speaker 1: was going through this like super hard time, like it
Speaker 1: sucked so bad I can't even explain. So I'm on
Speaker 1: the phone with him talking work and he like stops
Speaker 1: the business call and says, hey, like are you all
Speaker 1: right or something like that, and I just started crying.
Speaker 1: He goes, I know there's an issue. The name is blank.
Speaker 1: Like my heart is pounding, like this is so real.
Speaker 1: It was the name. I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And he said there's an issue with
Speaker 1: a car, which there was a total issue with a car,
Speaker 1: and he said, you need to get this guy out
Speaker 1: of your life. He I said, like can we be friends?
Speaker 1: Like I was trying something. He said, you need to
Speaker 1: cut this guy out like a cancer. And he was
Speaker 1: so right, like nothing's ever been so right. And I was,
Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't do it at the time. I
Speaker 1: was just going to ask you that was my next question.
Speaker 1: Did you do it about let's see July augustly like
Speaker 1: four or five months later. This guy is so real,
Speaker 1: So like, if you're listening, I hope he reads Eugenna
Speaker 1: so bad. He's not going to I think we have
Speaker 1: a shot at it. Like I'm hoping he's going to
Speaker 1: come in and like get a vibe. So I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go get him, okay, because you guys don't understand, like
Speaker 1: it's so real. And Michael, my naysayer husband's like, I'm
Speaker 1: sure there was an email or something that he may
Speaker 1: be read on your Instagram. Yeah I'm a big skeptic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you are a huge skeptic. I just want to ask
Speaker 1: questions on where does it come from? Like yeah, start,
Speaker 1: how do you know? Yeah, like all that kind of stuff,
Speaker 1: like his kids, Like does he does he does he
Speaker 1: read his kids? Like he's got a family? Does he
Speaker 1: read his wife? His wife? Like, leave me alone, stop
Speaker 1: reading a much? Do you know what thinks? Like start
Speaker 1: my last like I said to cut you out like
Speaker 1: a cancer, Mike, And he's still here and still here baby,
Speaker 1: still fighting. Do you know she told me that, Like
Speaker 1: when we were at like a wedding, She's like the
Speaker 1: man you need to cut him out like a cancer.
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Speaker 1: since being pregnant, my boobs have turned into like a
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Speaker 1: I'm starstruck, and I'm m I'm freaking out a little bit,
Speaker 1: well a lot. But it's cool. Me and Amy where
Speaker 1: are just like fan girling over here because Mr John
Speaker 1: remembered he remember when I went out. He's like, how
Speaker 1: are you since the last time we talked? I'm like,
Speaker 1: how do you you talk to thousand? Since people already
Speaker 1: remember I remember the conversation. Amazing. I'm so happy. Now,
Speaker 1: don't tell me anything unless you're getting something that like,
Speaker 1: it's so I'm happy to hear you're good. Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: that voice that voices John Edward, and you didn't add
Speaker 1: an S like you actually said it the right way. Yeah,
Speaker 1: most people, most people add the S. Well, I know
Speaker 1: you because I've stopped you for years, like stopped and
Speaker 1: I'm okay, I'll tell you and my listeners this. So, um,
Speaker 1: I think it was No, it was before. It was
Speaker 1: definitely before you. But I was just at a total
Speaker 1: crossroads in my life and I just needed some guidance
Speaker 1: and I've just I've always like I've seen him medium
Speaker 1: before and um, but you know you're John Edward, like
Speaker 1: you're the biggest one out there. And so I went
Speaker 1: on your website tried to get like a private thing
Speaker 1: and it was like not happening. But but there was
Speaker 1: an ailing list that you can like you can get
Speaker 1: on that you can potentially have a reading with you.
Speaker 1: So I signed up, like a very very long time ago.
Speaker 1: I'm still waiting. I still get your news letters an
Speaker 1: over time, Like is it that? No, it's so can
Speaker 1: you bump Janna up? So when I when I was
Speaker 1: doing when I was doing the TV show, I actually
Speaker 1: had a policy that every the first it was the
Speaker 1: first Wednesday of the month, between like seven and nine thirty,
Speaker 1: I would open the phone lines and whoever got in
Speaker 1: got an appointment for the following month or they got
Speaker 1: on the list. Well, when the TV part of it
Speaker 1: started to happen, I just really honestly thought I was
Speaker 1: gonna do that for like thirteen weeks. I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna be done. I'm going
Speaker 1: back to what I do. And it didn't happen like that,
Speaker 1: So I didn't. I didn't see the success of what
Speaker 1: that was going to be. My waiting list became like
Speaker 1: eight years long. Yeah, and there were there were legitimately
Speaker 1: people that we're on the list that passed and then
Speaker 1: their families kept their appointments. Like seriously, I had one
Speaker 1: woman come through for her son and she must have
Speaker 1: said to me at least four or five times during
Speaker 1: the read this is this is my appointment. So I
Speaker 1: kept saying, you're here for your mom, and the guys
Speaker 1: looking at me like like shaking his head. But she
Speaker 1: said it like more than like one time. And usually
Speaker 1: when information comes through, if it gets validated, we move
Speaker 1: on to something else. But this was like a recurring theme.
Speaker 1: So finally at the end, I'm like, did I just
Speaker 1: ask your question. I go, did your mom repeat herself
Speaker 1: a lot like in life? And he goes, no, I
Speaker 1: said not. It's just weird because like you validated the
Speaker 1: fact that yes, you're here to talk to her. But
Speaker 1: I don't stand why she kept saying, this is my appointment.
Speaker 1: And he goes because it was her appointment, and I go,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? He goes, dude, I don't know
Speaker 1: who you are. He goes, but my mom just died.
Speaker 1: He goes, and she had copious notes in her appointment
Speaker 1: book about this is my this was like the appointment,
Speaker 1: and I'm assuming she was coming to talk to my dad,
Speaker 1: but it's like, you know, confirmed the appointment a week before,
Speaker 1: this is where you know, this is the this is
Speaker 1: the number to call. So she had all this stuff
Speaker 1: laid out, so he found it going through her stuff
Speaker 1: and did it and came and she came through. That's
Speaker 1: one of my like, yeah, like this is my appointment.
Speaker 1: That's incredible. My husband is like, he's You've always been
Speaker 1: like one of the naysayers. And I'd come home and
Speaker 1: I had this psychic reading and he was like, I
Speaker 1: was like, how did they know this? And he's like,
Speaker 1: they probably do Langlee, I think. I think this is
Speaker 1: healthy and I love these conversations because if somebody comes
Speaker 1: to my event, like I like watching their jaws drop
Speaker 1: in the beginning before I do readings, because I say
Speaker 1: to them, here's what I'm not going to talk about.
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about your hummingbirds, your cardinals, your feathers,
Speaker 1: your angels, seeing eleven eleven orbs in your photos, jewelries.
Speaker 1: I like, I go through a laundry list of all
Speaker 1: of the things that I think are low hanging fruit.
Speaker 1: When you do this work, like so I said, I
Speaker 1: want you to be a critical thinker. I want you
Speaker 1: to come to the subject matter as a critical thinker,
Speaker 1: and I want you to explore it. And I want
Speaker 1: you to think about what I'm saying, because if you're
Speaker 1: thinking about what I'm saying, it's gonna make my life
Speaker 1: a lot easier because then you're not just looking to
Speaker 1: go like, oh my god, this is amazing. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: cry because odds are I'm not going to make you cry.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make you think, because if I could actually
Speaker 1: do that, then I'm then I'm really leaving you better
Speaker 1: than I find you. And like nothing irks me more
Speaker 1: than I watch a reading performed. Yea, when it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's so true. I mean, although I didn't do it
Speaker 1: right when you said I should have, but it's so true.
Speaker 1: I mean you changed my life, Like that's what I
Speaker 1: just want to say, No, but you did. I didn't
Speaker 1: do it, you know what I'm saying, Like I got
Speaker 1: you to think about choices. And I think one of
Speaker 1: the things that concerns me about this subject matter is
Speaker 1: that people will be all too willing to surrender their
Speaker 1: free will and choice to what somebody else is going
Speaker 1: to tell them. And I'm like, whoa, I have my
Speaker 1: own karma, you know what I'm saying, Like, I got
Speaker 1: my own kids. I gotta worry about Like I got
Speaker 1: my own family. I don't need your karma. So it's like,
Speaker 1: here's the information making informed decision based upon your own
Speaker 1: free will. But you know, it's really raining out, so
Speaker 1: maybe take an umbrella. You know what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: it's it's a yeah, what is your because you had
Speaker 1: some really good questions, like what's your sign? My pisces,
Speaker 1: you should be totally into this. This This is like your
Speaker 1: this is like yeah, Usually piscenes are either completely like
Speaker 1: fearful of it or afraid of what they're gonna hear,
Speaker 1: or they don't even realize how intuitive they are. Like
Speaker 1: it's it's one of the more evolved signs when it
Speaker 1: comes to spirituality. So what makes you like a name
Speaker 1: sex um? I think just witnessing it before I feel
Speaker 1: like they are like John is talking about like the
Speaker 1: low hanging fruit, where I feel like some like mediums
Speaker 1: or psychics might like say things to get a reaction
Speaker 1: and kind of base it off of that, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I just I just never have really been
Speaker 1: drawn to it. And my question is too, is like
Speaker 1: I love to see that. You know, you have kids,
Speaker 1: you have a wife, you have a family. So my
Speaker 1: question is, all right, how does this affect your daily life?
Speaker 1: It's it's really just a it's like a philosophy, right.
Speaker 1: So I'm looking at you. You obviously work out, and
Speaker 1: you probably eat healthy. Right, you make choices about what
Speaker 1: you're going to eat or what you're not going to eat. Right,
Speaker 1: That's like that's like a choice. Correct. So I live
Speaker 1: my life in the same way. But when it comes
Speaker 1: to a spiritual belief, like so energetically, I look at
Speaker 1: how choices are being made, or how to create boundaries
Speaker 1: around around areas and protect energy. People think like everywhere
Speaker 1: I go, I'm like being psychic. I'm not like when
Speaker 1: I'm not doing readings, I am powered down. And the
Speaker 1: reason why I'm powered down is because I don't want
Speaker 1: to open up to someone's energy if they did not
Speaker 1: ask me. Like if I'm in a restaurant and they
Speaker 1: did not ask me, it's no different than me being
Speaker 1: a creeper in their backyard watching them through the winter.
Speaker 1: It's really unethical. It's not okay. So my kids look
Speaker 1: at energy from that standpoint about how do they how
Speaker 1: do they get an edge? So if they know someone right,
Speaker 1: if they know their sign, if they know their numerology,
Speaker 1: well now they have more information about that. I call
Speaker 1: it knowing your breed. I wrote a book called Infant Quest,
Speaker 1: and in the book I talk about knowing your breed.
Speaker 1: If you have a German shepherd, you immediately now have
Speaker 1: a visual view of a visual of what a German
Speaker 1: shepherd is. Now off, I say this person is a
Speaker 1: German shepherd compared to this person who's a poodle. You
Speaker 1: now have a completely uh comparative analysis of the two
Speaker 1: different breeds. Well, you could do that between the pisces
Speaker 1: and a leo. You know what I'm saying, Like, you
Speaker 1: could like look at the two the two different things.
Speaker 1: So it's amount of looking at things from an energetic standpoint,
Speaker 1: not from who I'm tuning in and getting readings. So
Speaker 1: it's using it as a lens. So I used glasses
Speaker 1: as an as an example. I didn't know I needed
Speaker 1: them until I was in high school. And when I
Speaker 1: realized that I needed glasses the first time I put
Speaker 1: them on and I walked outside, and I looked up
Speaker 1: like they weren't just fuzzy, blurry green things like leaves
Speaker 1: that actual shape, right, but it was like they were
Speaker 1: always there, but they were just green and fuzzy. Now
Speaker 1: I was like, oh wow. My mother was like staying
Speaker 1: in the parking lot, like can can we keep going?
Speaker 1: But it was the first time that I saw it
Speaker 1: with clarity. So I try to get people to look
Speaker 1: at life through an energetic pair of glasses, not to
Speaker 1: do readings, but to make better choices. And their sign
Speaker 1: is like how direct, that's one. That's that's one. That's
Speaker 1: one aspect, Like I'm not an astrologer, I'm a student
Speaker 1: of it. Um. I feel like I'm a student of
Speaker 1: all of this still, you know, after thirty or four years,
Speaker 1: and I think you need to be. But yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's an it's a tool, so astrology, numerology. You know.
Speaker 1: I didn't want my um my son to be a virgo,
Speaker 1: no offense to any of the virgos. I don't like
Speaker 1: virgo men. I didn't want him to be a virgo.
Speaker 1: So I said to the this is my favorite. I said,
Speaker 1: is my wife okay? And he's like, yeah, I go,
Speaker 1: is the baby okay? And he goes, yeah, could we
Speaker 1: leave him in there for like another week? And the
Speaker 1: guy looked at me and he goes, why, I go,
Speaker 1: because if you have him on this day, he's going
Speaker 1: to be a virgo. I go. And if we can
Speaker 1: push it off just to another week, I go, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a libra. I'm a libra. I said, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be better. She's a Leo. I go, trust me,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be really bad. And the guy looked at me.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, only because you're you like
Speaker 1: we're even having this conversation. And then he goes to me,
Speaker 1: but serious question. It happens if she goes into labor
Speaker 1: and like the baby comes, I'm like, well, then I
Speaker 1: know that that soul, for whatever reason, wants to be
Speaker 1: a virgo, and I'll help navigate that as best I can.
Speaker 1: I go, but can we schedule this for that? And
Speaker 1: he that's he's action was scheduled. So like that's a
Speaker 1: realistic how I used it in my everyday life. But
Speaker 1: now from a lesson standpoint, I had a really bad
Speaker 1: relationship with my dad, who was an aquarian, so he
Speaker 1: was kind of like not part of my life. And
Speaker 1: when I became a dad, I thought like, okay, so
Speaker 1: how do I how do I make sure that I
Speaker 1: changed the pathways and parallels and lessons that I didn't
Speaker 1: learn with him there. So I thought I was gonna
Speaker 1: be not a great dad, But my son and I
Speaker 1: was awesome. It was like it was like easy. So
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be really really easy. And
Speaker 1: then when my daughter was on her way and I
Speaker 1: did the math and figure out what she was going
Speaker 1: to be, she was an aquarian and I thought, oh crap.
Speaker 1: So the lesson was the libre child with the aquarian
Speaker 1: parent now got inverted to the libre parent to the
Speaker 1: Aquarian child. And I say this to people because we
Speaker 1: don't we don't escape our lessons, so it's really important
Speaker 1: to understand them while we're doing it so we can
Speaker 1: make those choices interesting. So how do you shut off
Speaker 1: the dead people? Though? The debt? It's really about listening.
Speaker 1: So it's like it's it's a matter of protection, opening
Speaker 1: myself up, meditating and prayer and then allowing stuff to
Speaker 1: to happen, which I kind of did before I came
Speaker 1: in here, just because I told me it was okay
Speaker 1: for me to do that. So whenever I have the
Speaker 1: permission that, I feel like it's you know, it's it's okay.
Speaker 1: But um if I'm like, you know, I just did
Speaker 1: kt l A, like I was like powered down, lockdown,
Speaker 1: because I don't have the ability I wish I did.
Speaker 1: I don't have the ability to go read just here.
Speaker 1: So if I if I try to read just here,
Speaker 1: I can read somebody that's out there. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I I jokingly say this that when I
Speaker 1: do readings um or when I open up, I'm kind
Speaker 1: of like the two year old that you want to
Speaker 1: potty train. You want them to hit the bowl. But
Speaker 1: it's you hit the floor, you hit the wall. Yet like,
Speaker 1: I can't just do that that. There were some people
Speaker 1: who can just do that. I can't. I can't do that.
Speaker 1: All right, when did this start for you? And that's
Speaker 1: what fascinates me too, is like, because like you said,
Speaker 1: you have cind of control over you know how to
Speaker 1: prep yourself yea, Like when were there's years of you
Speaker 1: just hearing things or feeling things that you didn't know
Speaker 1: what it was. So at fifteen I had a reading
Speaker 1: and that reading put me on this path. But before that,
Speaker 1: my mom, my uncle, and my grandmother, all my Italian
Speaker 1: side of the family, they used to have psychist come
Speaker 1: to the house all the time. I was the obnoxious
Speaker 1: high school kid who was making fun of all the
Speaker 1: people coming for the readings, and then I would pull
Speaker 1: apart They're they're literally pull apart their readings, and my
Speaker 1: mom would be like, why are you gotta be like that?
Speaker 1: You know you're taking away the fun. I'm like, why
Speaker 1: do you gotta help your paying people to like tell
Speaker 1: you reason? I'm like, buy a book, it'll be cheaper.
Speaker 1: So like that's my but that's my personality, right. So
Speaker 1: my grandmother came down and she was crying. Now my
Speaker 1: grandmother was like my other mom. And I was like, Grandma,
Speaker 1: why are you crying? And She's like, I'm not crying
Speaker 1: because I'm sad. I'm crying because I'm happy. She told
Speaker 1: me your grandfather was standing next to me. And I
Speaker 1: was like, Grandma, Grandpa's dead and she's like, yes, I know.
Speaker 1: I was there when they put him in the ground.
Speaker 1: I go, what did this woman say to you to
Speaker 1: make you cry? Because now I'm like I'm now I'm angered.
Speaker 1: Now it's like the you know, the Italian male side
Speaker 1: of me came in. I was like, what did she
Speaker 1: made my grandma cry? So she said she told me
Speaker 1: that Tony was standing behind me and that he was
Speaker 1: still there. And they started to laugh. And I was like, Grandma,
Speaker 1: you introduced to her as Mrs Esposito. To say that
Speaker 1: there's a Tony somewhere in your family is not really
Speaker 1: really psychic, know what I'm saying, Like there's gonna be
Speaker 1: Did she ask you if there was in Maria too?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like, so my grandmother was
Speaker 1: like flipped around really quick. She goes, then how did
Speaker 1: she know he was buried with a mandolin. I didn't
Speaker 1: know that my grandfather passed where I was born. So
Speaker 1: this is what my brain this. I have O c D,
Speaker 1: so my brain thinks in a specific way, so you
Speaker 1: get it. So I I go to the list of
Speaker 1: the people that went up before my grandmother. I wanted
Speaker 1: to see who on that list might have known that
Speaker 1: information to extrapolate it to then deliver it to the
Speaker 1: old woman in the house. But none of the people
Speaker 1: on the list were family. They were all friends of
Speaker 1: family that would not have known my grandfather was better
Speaker 1: with the mandolin. So I couldn't figure that out. So
Speaker 1: long story short, I go for the reading and I said,
Speaker 1: I am not going to help her. I said, this
Speaker 1: woman will get absolutely no help from me. And I
Speaker 1: literally sat there like this, like nothing. She took my
Speaker 1: high school ring and she put it like over her forehead,
Speaker 1: which we considered the third eye chakra, and she starts
Speaker 1: reading for me, at which point she's told me I
Speaker 1: had highly evolved beings of white and gold light and
Speaker 1: they were ready to work with me and put me
Speaker 1: on my path. Now, if you tell a fifteen year
Speaker 1: roll sophomore kid this information, right, and they're not looking
Speaker 1: at like I remember thinking, like seriously, she could have said,
Speaker 1: I've got my spaceship in the back yard, I'll take
Speaker 1: you for a spin, and I was like all right,
Speaker 1: and then she went on to give me stuff that
Speaker 1: I have to be honest, it was applicable to me,
Speaker 1: but I could rationalize it away and say, well, I
Speaker 1: could have probably the five other guys in high school.
Speaker 1: But then the last part of the reading I couldn't explain.
Speaker 1: I would have had to have been with her. I
Speaker 1: would have had to personally have confided in her. Nobody, nobody.
Speaker 1: My mother would have killed me if she knew like
Speaker 1: what this woman had said to me, and then she
Speaker 1: gave me the outcome of it. So because I was
Speaker 1: nervous about getting in trouble, I locked. I did. I lied.
Speaker 1: I said to our girl, I don't know who that is,
Speaker 1: and she smiled and went okay, and then told me
Speaker 1: what was going to happen. And then within two weeks
Speaker 1: it happened. So for two weeks I was completely freaked
Speaker 1: out because I felt like, there's no way possible this
Speaker 1: woman could have known that. So I said, all right,
Speaker 1: she's a mind reader. She was able to do something
Speaker 1: like she got in here and read stuff, which, by
Speaker 1: the way, freaked me out. And I tell people like,
Speaker 1: I didn't like it. I felt violated. I would say
Speaker 1: my first reading wasn't cool. It was a violation. It's
Speaker 1: like you came home at your house and somebody was
Speaker 1: in your you know, somebody's in your stuff, they moved
Speaker 1: your It's like I didn't like it. I did not
Speaker 1: like it, not not even a little bit. And when
Speaker 1: you have that violation, you want to put an alarm
Speaker 1: system in. So within that moment, I'm now reading about
Speaker 1: the subject matter, which back in was the occult. And
Speaker 1: then two weeks later all this stuff happened, and it
Speaker 1: literally was my world shifted, because you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: very skeptical and very analytical, but I'm not a closed
Speaker 1: minded person. So I had no choice but to go, Okay,
Speaker 1: what the hell, like, what is this? And then the
Speaker 1: more I studied, the more I started going, well, this
Speaker 1: is not psychic, this is normal. I've been doing this
Speaker 1: my entire life, exactly my entire life. But I think
Speaker 1: when you look at movies and TV and like you know,
Speaker 1: reality shows today, what happens is whenever they depict something psychic,
Speaker 1: they make it either stereotypical, over the top, right, so
Speaker 1: it's like everyone has a grandparents they lost, or but
Speaker 1: it's but it's dramatic and it's it's really not true.
Speaker 1: I mean it's dramatic, but it's subtle. And that's where
Speaker 1: I think people miss. I think they missed the subtlety
Speaker 1: of something. So like when my son was being born,
Speaker 1: I meditated like I was going to be at the
Speaker 1: Staple Center doing a reading for like that many people
Speaker 1: like I was waiting for all of this information from
Speaker 1: my mom and my grandparents, like all the stuff to
Speaker 1: come through. And it wasn't until like my wife looked
Speaker 1: at me, like, uh, could you focus here like having
Speaker 1: a baby. So I was looking up and almost missed
Speaker 1: what was taking place here. Again an example of pay
Speaker 1: attention to the lessons we're living here. But in the
Speaker 1: conversations after my son was born, between the doctors and
Speaker 1: the nurses and the text in the room, they by
Speaker 1: name named every single person that I wanted to hear
Speaker 1: from everyone, But they were just talking, so they weren't
Speaker 1: like it wasn't psychic. It was just a conversation. So
Speaker 1: for me, it was that shout out moment, but it
Speaker 1: was subtle. So it was a matter of like having
Speaker 1: to pay attention. Some people would say, oh, it was
Speaker 1: a coincidence. I don't think it's a coincidence. Not when
Speaker 1: every person I wanted to hear was brought up in
Speaker 1: a conversation ten minutes after my son was born. So
Speaker 1: sometimes we our messages in ways that are not the
Speaker 1: way that we're looking to hear it. So I've been
Speaker 1: reading a lot about um like law of attraction and
Speaker 1: energy and your own energy and kind of making yourself
Speaker 1: happy and kind of all that. Abraham Hicks, before Abraham
Speaker 1: Hicks and before you know whatever the secret was. There
Speaker 1: was a book like thirty years ago called Creative Visualization
Speaker 1: by an author named Shock de GWayne. Same premise, it's
Speaker 1: really what you put out there is what you attract.
Speaker 1: So right now, you guys think of that. I think
Speaker 1: it's very accurate. It's it's it's it's real. It's like
Speaker 1: you create your own future. And that's why I want
Speaker 1: people to do. I want people to think about what
Speaker 1: their thoughts are, because your thoughts are going to create
Speaker 1: your own reality. I think Richard Bach and another you
Speaker 1: know guy, kind of made his own James Quick at
Speaker 1: something along the lines of if you fight for your limitations,
Speaker 1: you're gonna get a chance to keep them. You know,
Speaker 1: if you argue a case for the negative, you're gonna
Speaker 1: win that. So why not argue for the positive? But
Speaker 1: it's easier to be negative, and it's easier to come
Speaker 1: from a place of fear because it's the lowest common denominator.
Speaker 1: It's the lowest common doom. It is. It is the
Speaker 1: it's the fast food of thought. It is the easiest,
Speaker 1: quickest and cheapest place to go fast food of thought.
Speaker 1: But if you want to eat clean and healthy, you
Speaker 1: gotta work at that, right. So it's like those thoughts
Speaker 1: are are the important pots. But if what you put
Speaker 1: out there, it's important. So if you guys with this
Speaker 1: show decided I only want to attract, now, you know,
Speaker 1: moms between the ages of twenty, then everything you talk
Speaker 1: about are going to be has to be about moms
Speaker 1: between the ages. No sixty year old woman is gonna
Speaker 1: want to listen to that because she's not there in
Speaker 1: her life. Right, So it's really important to think about
Speaker 1: what do you want to attract in your life because
Speaker 1: if you want to actually attract something different, you have
Speaker 1: to put that out there to pull it in and
Speaker 1: then be patient. It's really important to be patient. Are
Speaker 1: you a believer, Mike, Yeah, I do have one more
Speaker 1: skeptical questions. Skeptical questions are good. I'm on the edge.
Speaker 1: But what you just said just now really got me.
Speaker 1: Because I'm a big believer an optimism. I'm thinking stuff
Speaker 1: like that. I think that's the way to live for
Speaker 1: me personally. Um, but have you ever been wrong? A lot? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: so it's interpretational for me. So sometimes, like I I,
Speaker 1: sometimes I get it right by being wrong. So if
Speaker 1: I use an example from this from the show, I
Speaker 1: read for a woman and I said, somebody was shot
Speaker 1: in a cab. Why did I say that? I saw
Speaker 1: a gun in the New York City TAXI? So I said,
Speaker 1: somebody was shot in a cab, right, I symbolically put
Speaker 1: it together and the woman said yes. I said, and
Speaker 1: this was connected to your husband, and she goes, it
Speaker 1: was actually my husband's dad is my father in law.
Speaker 1: I said, this is how he passed and she said, no,
Speaker 1: he's alive. And I got confused, nobody was shot in
Speaker 1: a cab and she said, yes, he was shot in
Speaker 1: the cab of an eighteen wheeler. Now here's the interesting thing.
Speaker 1: If I would have said was somebody shot in a
Speaker 1: car or a taxi, it would have been inaccurate. But
Speaker 1: they got me to say cab right. In my New
Speaker 1: York City vernaculator came out cab right. But if I
Speaker 1: was a taxi would have been wrong. But there are
Speaker 1: many times where I will interpret something um and a
Speaker 1: lot of times I want to be wrong. So if
Speaker 1: I'm reading for someone and I see something that's not positive,
Speaker 1: I say to them, I go, I'm seeing something that
Speaker 1: to me would feel cautionist, to be careful. Let's not
Speaker 1: let this happen. You know, I was completely wrong about
Speaker 1: Barack Obama. I lived. I said to know Barack Obama
Speaker 1: when he was running. I said to my cousin because
Speaker 1: I host a show online, And I said to my
Speaker 1: cousin is my co host? I go, if they left him,
Speaker 1: I'll eat my show. And she looked at me and
Speaker 1: she goes, why would you say that. She's like, you're
Speaker 1: so like non political. I go, I am not political.
Speaker 1: I go, but I read energy. I said, I just
Speaker 1: don't think the country is in a place where they're
Speaker 1: ready for a black man whose name ron Zod Osama,
Speaker 1: you know, to to be to be the president. And
Speaker 1: I was not talking about it from any other experience
Speaker 1: because I knew nothing about him. I knew no platforms
Speaker 1: um To be quite honest, up until a year ago,
Speaker 1: I thought the GOP was could have like general order
Speaker 1: of patriots. You know, I'm saying like I had. I'm
Speaker 1: completely clueless, Like I'm not, I'm not that guy. So
Speaker 1: but I also don't know right when he got elected,
Speaker 1: and my cousin was like, remember that prediction, and I
Speaker 1: was like I do, and she's like yeah, and she
Speaker 1: literally reached down on camera and whipped out her kid
Speaker 1: and she was like, have at it. So then I
Speaker 1: sat there and I own it. And for eight years
Speaker 1: it was a thing that we would go back and
Speaker 1: forth as we banter, like if I was you know,
Speaker 1: I could be wrong. It should be like like the election,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, seriously, well when where we are now happened?
Speaker 1: I said, back, yep, I said, I take all that back.
Speaker 1: I go. I was not wrong. We were not ready
Speaker 1: and this is the result. And now I was like,
Speaker 1: but but it's it's it's about it's about energy. So
Speaker 1: I look at everything through an energetic lens, you know,
Speaker 1: whether it be you know, it's really a philosophy for me,
Speaker 1: it really is just you know, people say it's about
Speaker 1: being psychic. It's not being a psychic. It's it's being
Speaker 1: a thinker. You know. Um, I find it interesting that
Speaker 1: I have a lot of atheists that follow me, and yeah,
Speaker 1: it's I'm like, I almost want to be like, why
Speaker 1: are you guys following? But you've asked that though, You're like,
Speaker 1: it's almost like playing god in a way, not not
Speaker 1: not in this sense. On some people's places, I would say, yes, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree with what John saying, not in his sense
Speaker 1: his philosophy. The problem is is when you literally take
Speaker 1: somebody who's got an ability and deemed special, and if
Speaker 1: that ignites their ego, that's dangerous, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So I learned from a really young age like this
Speaker 1: is not about me. So for four decades now I've
Speaker 1: been doing work and I recognize I am just the phone.
Speaker 1: I'm not the conversation. You know what I'm saying, And
Speaker 1: like at this point, like I'm like in iPhone sex,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like what I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: still function, but it's still the conversation. It's it's to me,
Speaker 1: it's it's really important to always make sure that we're
Speaker 1: upgrading our own energy iOS, that we're always making sure
Speaker 1: that we're on on point. I love it. Yeah, there's
Speaker 1: so much codependency out there and so much like people
Speaker 1: are looking for other people too directly their life. Where
Speaker 1: that's where I like what John saying, because it's not
Speaker 1: about that. He's just laying the stuff out there and
Speaker 1: it's your decision to what you want to go with.
Speaker 1: And I feel like other mediums or the one that
Speaker 1: told me to leave you especially, nobody said that. Somebody
Speaker 1: said that, Yeah, now look at us, just happy as ever.
Speaker 1: You know What's here's the problem, Like, even if I
Speaker 1: saw a situation, even if I saw a situation that
Speaker 1: might not have been healthy, it was definitely not a
Speaker 1: great situation. And in hindsight, and not to cut you off,
Speaker 1: but in hindsight, like yes, like any person that may
Speaker 1: have felt that would say run, But I stayed and
Speaker 1: we worked through it and it's great now, but go ahead, right,
Speaker 1: But if you look at a snapshot of anybody's relationship,
Speaker 1: if they're in a rough patch, then somebody could say,
Speaker 1: somebody could say run, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: of any relationship, if it's the long term that you're
Speaker 1: looking at, that's something I think, you know, even if
Speaker 1: we talked way back when the ultimate free will and
Speaker 1: choice has to be in the person's timing, when they're right,
Speaker 1: based upon what they're seeing and based upon their own experiences.
Speaker 1: So like, there's a lot of times I know that
Speaker 1: I can't say something too, let's say a friend, because
Speaker 1: if I say it to them, it's going to push
Speaker 1: the lesson off. So I know that I have to
Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut and wait until certain things play
Speaker 1: out so that they can turn around and say to me,
Speaker 1: how come you didn't say something, And I'll be honest
Speaker 1: with them, like, well, if I would have said it,
Speaker 1: would you have listened? And they go, no, I go,
Speaker 1: that's why I didn't say anything. So I'm actually helping
Speaker 1: you by not saying something. And it's sped up the
Speaker 1: reality of where you're at because you don't feel defensive
Speaker 1: now of the relationship. You're including me and asking my
Speaker 1: opinion about what's taking place. Are transpired And by the way,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you had to get to this point, but
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have learned you can't frost the cake until
Speaker 1: you bake it, so she had to bake her own cake.
Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, speechless, Usually I'll still keep attacking.
Speaker 1: Can Mike, do you do any type of public speaking
Speaker 1: or traveling in public speaking? But it's something that we're
Speaker 1: looking into. I almost feel like there's a platform for
Speaker 1: you that you're looking to kind of launch where it
Speaker 1: would be you kind of taking people that would be
Speaker 1: broken and trying to not fix them but give them
Speaker 1: the tools of understanding what they can do. And I
Speaker 1: don't know why, but I'm seeing a lot of Asian
Speaker 1: symbolism around you, like like Asian like like Asian symbols
Speaker 1: like Japanese, Japanese, and like there's no trip to Japan
Speaker 1: or no trip to China. There's nothing that's like you
Speaker 1: don't have any like you haven't been invited from a
Speaker 1: corporate standpoint to do something or anything. There might be
Speaker 1: something that's going to have that kind of outside of
Speaker 1: the like almost like us like across the Pacific kind
Speaker 1: of vibe for you. Interesting. No, but we've honestly been
Speaker 1: talking about that because you know, he's been through a
Speaker 1: lot and we've talked about him. Yeah, not saving or whatever,
Speaker 1: but just offering advice and can I be personal like yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: did somebody pass from the suicide? Like did somebody cross
Speaker 1: themselves over? Where someone's actions? Yeah, because I feel like
Speaker 1: somebody's taking responsibility for how they got there. And I
Speaker 1: almost feel like it wasn't something that was discussed in
Speaker 1: other words, like people glossed over in other words like
Speaker 1: we know what happened. It was discussed, but there's a
Speaker 1: twofold story to that. So I don't I don't feel
Speaker 1: like it's just I don't feel like it's just a suicide.
Speaker 1: I feel like there's, like you know, it might have
Speaker 1: been an underlying issue as well as so. I mean,
Speaker 1: most people when they cross themselves over, there's multiple underlying issues.
Speaker 1: But for me to say it, I feel like there's
Speaker 1: two separate things. Is your mom still here and is
Speaker 1: she in a different state that I'm standing in? Kay um?
Speaker 1: And are you going to work to bridge bridge that
Speaker 1: relationship my mom and I? Yeah, we're good, Okay. I
Speaker 1: feel like there's going to be some things that need
Speaker 1: to be discussed, that's all. So maybe being being a
Speaker 1: mom and some of those some of those things kind
Speaker 1: of coming coming in. We got into it on fourth
Speaker 1: of July, kind of our first like fight. Is it
Speaker 1: your first fight or is the first time you stood
Speaker 1: up yourself? So I feel like, what's really really important? No, seriously,
Speaker 1: what's what's really important is that as you're now moving
Speaker 1: into your um power as a mom right as a partner,
Speaker 1: there's a power commodity that has to be looked at
Speaker 1: regarding who's brokering it. So you don't want to put
Speaker 1: him in a position of competing with her when it
Speaker 1: comes to what's happening in your future. You want to
Speaker 1: be something that's symbiotic, and I feel like on some
Speaker 1: level there's a passive aggressive energy that needs to be addressed.
Speaker 1: I agree. So if you don't create those boundaries, like
Speaker 1: if you don't like call it out and like go
Speaker 1: like this is really uncomfortable and not how I was
Speaker 1: raised and I want to be respectful and all that
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, um, it could create issues for
Speaker 1: you longer term, especially when you know, I'll say to
Speaker 1: people like if somebody's having a child and one person's
Speaker 1: Catholic and one person is Jewish, but neither were really practicing,
Speaker 1: so they kind of appease their family, and they have
Speaker 1: like the rabbi and the priest married them kind of
Speaker 1: just to kind of keep the peace, but nobody really cares.
Speaker 1: Five years later when the baby shows up, I always
Speaker 1: say super Catholic and super jew show up. It's like
Speaker 1: at that moment, all of a sudden, it's kind of
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like it's like it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: it's like now we're ready to We're ready to battle
Speaker 1: for church over temple. And it's like, WHOA. But I
Speaker 1: see it a lot. And the reason why is that
Speaker 1: we are programmed, right, so we have patterns and pathways
Speaker 1: that get passed down. So it's a it's an automatic
Speaker 1: thing that you want to impart to your child what
Speaker 1: you think and feel and know. So you speak English,
Speaker 1: you want to teach that child English. My wife speaks Portuguese.
Speaker 1: They learned Portuguese, right you asked down? You know, I
Speaker 1: speak energy. They speak that. If there's a conflict on
Speaker 1: some level that needs to be addressed way before. So
Speaker 1: I think that there could there could be that issue.
Speaker 1: But there is a dad figure who has passed, so
Speaker 1: there's definitely a vibe of of a dad that's passed.
Speaker 1: So whoever you would see as being like that paternal
Speaker 1: like role model, or there's like an our name like
Speaker 1: Robert Roger, who's the r. Not for you guys, somebody's
Speaker 1: got a dad that's passed and there's an our name
Speaker 1: connected to it, and he passed from cancer. No, just
Speaker 1: remember that I'm saying that. So for me, it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, older male uncle, father, grandfather, there's an our
Speaker 1: name pass from cancer. February is connected in the family
Speaker 1: birthday anniversary past he did from cancer. Yeah, so for
Speaker 1: my birthday was in February and my mom's their anniversary Inbruary.
Speaker 1: So this would be your step dad's way of letting
Speaker 1: me know that that he's here. He had two different
Speaker 1: types of cancer too, it wasn't just one. So you
Speaker 1: either had it twice and then somebody had like a
Speaker 1: surgical cochlear implant or somebody had like a hearing. It
Speaker 1: is somebody going for a hearing anything I do know someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So that's so in the big scheme of things, like
Speaker 1: that's a current event in your circle of energy that
Speaker 1: your stepfather would come through talking about to let you
Speaker 1: know that it's for you. And backing that up and
Speaker 1: then there's a jay like Jack or James. There's a
Speaker 1: Jay name that I'm supposed to bring up? Who's the Jay?
Speaker 1: And he's one of three? Or you're one of three? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And then and then connected through your biological dad, is
Speaker 1: he's still here, but he's off right, he's out there, okay?
Speaker 1: Because I feel like that's an emotional junkyard for you.
Speaker 1: It's like there's a lot of stuff you have to
Speaker 1: walk through when it comes to what that is. And
Speaker 1: your stepfather was kind of like the guy that played
Speaker 1: the role of dad on on on some level. So
Speaker 1: in some respects, you didn't get a chance to grieve
Speaker 1: your step dad and set that in the way that
Speaker 1: you would like to grieve because it was more like
Speaker 1: your mom's husband and he might have had his own
Speaker 1: biological children, so you didn't want to step in the
Speaker 1: way of that, right. And then connected to him, is
Speaker 1: that where William comes in or the w name is
Speaker 1: at that side of the family. My sister's husband is William.
Speaker 1: Is he still here? Okay? So that's his way of
Speaker 1: letting me know I need to say hello to William.
Speaker 1: And then did you just get a parking ticket? Did
Speaker 1: you just get like a ticket or pulled over. No,
Speaker 1: I'm seeing talk about the ticket, like be careful with
Speaker 1: the ticket. But I almost want to say it happens.
Speaker 1: So maybe somebody like your sister just got pulled over.
Speaker 1: And it's like his way of bringing this up. And
Speaker 1: I know that you said he passed in February, but
Speaker 1: October seems to be important too, so I don't if
Speaker 1: there's a birthday in October. His birthday was in February.
Speaker 1: He passed in August, and he showed me ten. So
Speaker 1: when I see ten, I think October or the tenth
Speaker 1: of a month, but there's a ten connection that comes
Speaker 1: up with him. Is your mom still here? Can you
Speaker 1: please let her know that he came through. Yes, I
Speaker 1: think it'll help person know. Ha is he gone in
Speaker 1: the last three years? How long has he gone? It's
Speaker 1: been make people cry John three years ago though somebody
Speaker 1: else must have just passed because he showed me that
Speaker 1: we're coming up on the third anniversary of something. So
Speaker 1: three years ago, so what do we two eighteen? There
Speaker 1: was a passing because he's letting me know he's he's
Speaker 1: bringing bringing that up. But he's good. Okay, he's good.
Speaker 1: Thank you for letting me do that. You do make
Speaker 1: people cry, not like not attentionally. It's a small byproduct
Speaker 1: on occasion. But he would be like, Okay, there's got
Speaker 1: to be somebody in there that hasn't our. That's what
Speaker 1: you would like say, And that's I don't know, I believe.
Speaker 1: But then it's don't change, say exactly the way you are.
Speaker 1: You know why you're going to get more out of
Speaker 1: life and experiences by doing what you're doing, which is
Speaker 1: questioning because it's so much it's so much more important
Speaker 1: to recognize what you did that because you'll get more,
Speaker 1: you'll get more out of it. I agree. Can you
Speaker 1: tell us what you're doing, UM, you're doing in intensive
Speaker 1: events on your Facebook? Yeah. So one of the things
Speaker 1: that UM, I have, Like I took like a ten
Speaker 1: year absence of being in front of the camera, like
Speaker 1: I just wanted to focus, like look at you. You're great,
Speaker 1: You're good, thank you. I appreciate that, thank you. UM.
Speaker 1: I kind of felt like I did it, Like I
Speaker 1: did it. You know, I did four years of crossing
Speaker 1: over that went inter national, that I did three years
Speaker 1: of a show called cross Country that went inter national,
Speaker 1: And I was like okay, like I want to teach,
Speaker 1: and TV is not gonna let me teach. No way
Speaker 1: with TV would let me have these conversations. So I
Speaker 1: went online. So about a decade ago, I one online
Speaker 1: and you know, created an online forum and people can
Speaker 1: find that throw on John Everard dot net. But um,
Speaker 1: now that that's like up and running, now, I feel
Speaker 1: like I'd like to kind of go back more to
Speaker 1: the mainstream. Still not sure if TV would let me
Speaker 1: do what I wanted to do. But I was approached
Speaker 1: to do something on Facebook Watch, so I did five
Speaker 1: episodes for them to call the Psychic. People can find
Speaker 1: it on Facebook. I'm not really sure how they find
Speaker 1: on Facebook. No, It's just really funny because it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I have my Facebook page that's
Speaker 1: which is my private page, like a personal page, but
Speaker 1: you have to have like a personal page in order
Speaker 1: to have your professional page. And then off of the
Speaker 1: professional page, now there's the psychic page. I'm like, why
Speaker 1: can't just be in one spot? Yeah, I know, like
Speaker 1: a supermarket. Um, don't you almost want to go back
Speaker 1: to TV because there are so many psychics that are
Speaker 1: getting there on TV shows and you're just kind of
Speaker 1: don't you just want to hit them over the head
Speaker 1: with like a book. You know. Somebody said to me
Speaker 1: about a year and a half ago, um, you know,
Speaker 1: you're leaving your Harry Potter years. And I was like,
Speaker 1: what does that mean. He's like, well, you know you
Speaker 1: started so young and you're like Harry Potter, like you know,
Speaker 1: the Wizard. He's like, and now you're moving into your
Speaker 1: Dumbledore years. And I was like, Okay, this dude just
Speaker 1: told me old, like right to my face. I was like, well,
Speaker 1: can I be early dumble? Like I gotta go like
Speaker 1: full rope and beer. And I have to say that
Speaker 1: just something about recognizing after four decades and being in
Speaker 1: this field thirty or four years of doing it, that yeah,
Speaker 1: I have an opinion. And you know, I've been more
Speaker 1: open with how I feel about stuff that I see
Speaker 1: and and it it. I don't like the gimmicky stuff
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like seeing the subject matter
Speaker 1: not treated with respect. I think it's okay for it
Speaker 1: to be deemed entertainment on television, but you know what,
Speaker 1: I lost my mom. There's nothing entertaining about that, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, there's nothing entertaining about grief.
Speaker 1: It could be educational, and education could be entertaining. But
Speaker 1: I think there's a problem with TV. I think everything
Speaker 1: is too reality based. I think that's why they need
Speaker 1: you then, because you've got to keep it real. But
Speaker 1: who I don't. I don't know if people would watch,
Speaker 1: I'll I will debate that with you. Because of the
Speaker 1: stuff that Michael and I've gone through and all of
Speaker 1: his our issues, people want real. It's not pretty. It's
Speaker 1: utterly what we've been through, but it's people relate to that.
Speaker 1: People want to like be there and sit through that.
Speaker 1: And because they feel like they don't want all the
Speaker 1: rainbows and butterflies, right well, I'm definitely not rainbows and
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I think it's changing, like people want
Speaker 1: the realness people. If I have that opportunity, I promise
Speaker 1: you I will take it. I got pulled. I got
Speaker 1: pulled it on the radio. Yeah, an intimate connection, it
Speaker 1: really is. Radio is my first love. Radio is my
Speaker 1: first love. We can talk right out. Radio. Has your
Speaker 1: ability gotten strong? It has it has? Somebody recently said
Speaker 1: to me, like, why don't you bring Crossing Over back?
Speaker 1: And I was like, you mean like the reruns? And
Speaker 1: they were like yeah. I was like no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: and they was like why. I was like, no, no,
Speaker 1: I'm way better at doing this today than I was
Speaker 1: back then. Not that it wasn't good for them, just
Speaker 1: so much growth. Yeah, and it's so funny again not
Speaker 1: to be political, but like when I was listening, I
Speaker 1: was waiting to pick up my son at school, and
Speaker 1: they were doing I don't know who the guy's name,
Speaker 1: but somebody was like one of the s Screme Courts people.
Speaker 1: They were like talking about what his nomination, talking about
Speaker 1: what his views were on certain things. So I immediately
Speaker 1: identified with that and go, well, you know, if you
Speaker 1: would ask me today what my views are on something
Speaker 1: in my field, I'm gonna judge that differently because I've
Speaker 1: got twenty years more experience than if you ask me
Speaker 1: that Sammy's that question back then. So I was like interesting.
Speaker 1: So I always trying to again to real life, to
Speaker 1: our parallels energetically to get people to think, like, you know,
Speaker 1: do you feel the same way about something today that
Speaker 1: you did five years ago or five years before. Probably not.
Speaker 1: That's growth, you know. So well, I just cannot thank
Speaker 1: you enough for coming on the show, and I really
Speaker 1: hope that you bought me up on the list. I'd
Speaker 1: like to I'd like to be a two years at
Speaker 1: least out versus my twenty years out. So but no,
Speaker 1: I just really thank you. Is refreshing. Thank you, Thank
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Speaker 1: never cry in front of people. It's my thing, like
Speaker 1: I'm super strong. You're a pretty crier though, You're like,
Speaker 1: like it's and I'm like that, so at least in
Speaker 1: an ugly cry. No, that was pretty. Oh thank you, sorry, Carunderwood.
Speaker 1: There is people can cry pretty. I usually descried pretty.
Speaker 1: That was a pretty cry and Michael had a little
Speaker 1: Jen cried. I was speechless. You're a little stank and
Speaker 1: you're got a little onion cut going on. And I did,
Speaker 1: I did. When you talked about the speaking stuff, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because we've we've we've discussed that, We've talked about it
Speaker 1: with a lot of different people, and so he picked
Speaker 1: up on that was just crazy. Yeah. As soon as
Speaker 1: he said that, just because I know the backstory of it,
Speaker 1: I was like, here we go, buffle, your kid got
Speaker 1: lost with when he started to like dive into other things. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's just where my skepticism just comes into play.
Speaker 1: And I just questioned all of that because it's just
Speaker 1: you know, find a needle in haystack or you know,
Speaker 1: it's just somebody has somebody you're fishing, you're fishing, you're
Speaker 1: throwing it out there, you're hoping, you're seeing what sticks,
Speaker 1: and you're going off of that. Yeah, I just have
Speaker 1: a hard time. I know, even with like the suicide thing.
Speaker 1: It's kind of like I'm sure a lot of people
Speaker 1: here have you know what i mean, like someone we know,
Speaker 1: so it's I don't know. So that's where it's like
Speaker 1: the fishing thing kind of gets a little. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: I knew a kid in elementary school or committed suicide
Speaker 1: elementary school. His name was Suicide an elementary school. He
Speaker 1: was in seventh grade, six or seven grades, six or
Speaker 1: seventh it might have been six. Wow, yeah he must have.
Speaker 1: Really it was bad. It was bad, not supported at home. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was really really bad. And his name and his
Speaker 1: name started with an R and so like that. But
Speaker 1: but it's like that was however many years ago. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm in my thirties, Like come on, like, I'm not
Speaker 1: going that far back. That's not coming up for you
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, you know what i mean. Were you
Speaker 1: even close to them? We're friends right right. It's just
Speaker 1: one of those where it's like and then I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, maybe he met my friend Rachel or
Speaker 1: like or yeah, I was just not not the comment suicide.
Speaker 1: But you know I'm saying with the other stuff, right,
Speaker 1: So it's just crazy. But but either way, regardless of
Speaker 1: whether that was really obviously there was real connection to
Speaker 1: you with some of those things. But I love, I
Speaker 1: do love his energy, and I love that he saesn't
Speaker 1: is without projecting that kind of energy. I think we
Speaker 1: can all do that. Yeah, y'all, you know, listen to
Speaker 1: your gut and read energy. Yeah. I think that he's
Speaker 1: the perfect person for any kind of skeptic out there
Speaker 1: about that, because I'm the one of the world's biggest
Speaker 1: skeptics when it comes to that stuff. Where his energy,
Speaker 1: his philosophy just on life and positivity and optimism and
Speaker 1: just how to change your mindset. Um, I think that
Speaker 1: can kind of convert any skeptic into believing to an
Speaker 1: extent things with because honestly, like you know, people, I
Speaker 1: hear people and Janna talk about all the time with
Speaker 1: friends or their kids, like oh, what sign are you
Speaker 1: or what signing? And to me that means nothing And
Speaker 1: maybe I should that's something I should look more into
Speaker 1: and research more about pisces or whatever. But just to me,
Speaker 1: I've never really correlated how people are with that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I I agree to extend like some people
Speaker 1: are so into their signs where it's like, yes, I
Speaker 1: definitely have Sagittarius traits, but I also, you know, I
Speaker 1: don't like live and die by it, where I don't
Speaker 1: like I you know. And obviously he's very strong about
Speaker 1: to be able to keep his kid and then the
Speaker 1: womb for longer. But it's like for me, I'm like,
Speaker 1: is it really like you can still you're not defined
Speaker 1: by just your trade. But I don't know who knows.
Speaker 1: Some people get so crazy to stars and analogies and
Speaker 1: and that's exactly where my issue is, because I feel
Speaker 1: like people read their sign like, all right, I'm a Sagittarius.
Speaker 1: That means I'm supposed to be this, this, this, and this,
Speaker 1: and so then they act according to what the signs
Speaker 1: tells them they're supposed to be like. And then it's
Speaker 1: like you're not making your own personality, You're just going
Speaker 1: off of the stars. It's like, come on. And that's
Speaker 1: when John talked about free will, because I'm sure all
Speaker 1: of you, all of us in this room, have friends
Speaker 1: who go to psychics who then say, well, the psychic
Speaker 1: told me this is going to happen, so I'm just
Speaker 1: going to wait until this happens. And I always say
Speaker 1: to them. You what are you doing living your life
Speaker 1: according to someone else what they've told you? And I'm sorry, baby,
Speaker 1: you said you're a pisces Okay, I just google the
Speaker 1: pisces man in love. Every time this man falls in love,
Speaker 1: he will think that he found the love of his life.
Speaker 1: With a certain relative view, this might actually be true
Speaker 1: for each one of his loves. Every relationship in his
Speaker 1: life is very different from the previous one, and each
Speaker 1: one represents an important lesson. My mom, Mom, who says
Speaker 1: right here though, it says, um pisces man has the
Speaker 1: heart of a poet and the soul of a mystic.
Speaker 1: Tell me what that means. I'm just saying, like, that's
Speaker 1: not you. Okay, Here's like a slippery fish. The pisces
Speaker 1: man is hard to pin down. There we go, so
Speaker 1: the one thing to protect his freedom before he'll commit
Speaker 1: to anything. This is true, That is very true. You
Speaker 1: have dating you can be quite the adventure. Um, yes,
Speaker 1: so I think it's I think you definitely have some right.
Speaker 1: But you could probably go through all signs, however many
Speaker 1: they are, and find certain traits of that have And
Speaker 1: so I am a Gemini into cancer because I was
Speaker 1: born than the Yeah, and I do have some Gemini traits,
Speaker 1: but I also have a ton of cancer traits that
Speaker 1: are grounding, and you know, like I'm a homebody. I'm
Speaker 1: not a flake like most Geminis are. You know, some
Speaker 1: people will say, well, Geminis are like they you know,
Speaker 1: they're very selfish, right, And I'm not that person, and
Speaker 1: I'm more of a cancer. When it's that I'm going
Speaker 1: to nurture you, I'm going to conture you. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm calling total to this one. A pisces man in
Speaker 1: love will give his entire self to his partner, sooning
Speaker 1: in the dance of two souls, merging as one that
Speaker 1: sounds like I'm just I'm the most intimate man in relationship.
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Speaker 1: do we. Let's read some and this one is this
Speaker 1: is from Cat. This is a complicated emotional situation that
Speaker 1: Cat's going through. You want to read it? Yeah, like
Speaker 1: I can read it. So my boyfriend and I are
Speaker 1: living separately. Hi, Janna and Jen my boyfriend and I
Speaker 1: of ten years And Mike, Sorry, I should have added
Speaker 1: that Hi, Janna and Jen and my my boyfriend and
Speaker 1: I have ten years, have recently decided that we want
Speaker 1: to live apart for a while, meaning I'm moving back
Speaker 1: into my parents house and he's going to stay in
Speaker 1: the house that we've rented for the past five years
Speaker 1: or move into an apartment. The plan is to move
Speaker 1: back in together eventually. We do have two kids, both boys,
Speaker 1: eight and two. My boyfriend is four years younger than me,
Speaker 1: and we are complete opposites where I'm okay with staying
Speaker 1: in and he loves to go out and party. He
Speaker 1: was so quick to agree with us living separately, and
Speaker 1: even though we said we aren't breaking up and we
Speaker 1: are all going to be together, it just feels like
Speaker 1: it's the beginning of the end. What do you guys
Speaker 1: think and how should I handle the situation? I think
Speaker 1: your gut just told you the answer. Yeah, trust your intuition,
Speaker 1: that inner voice. Never if he ever steers you wrong, ever,
Speaker 1: And if he's like a partier and was like, of
Speaker 1: course he wants to live separate, He's like you, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be able to do my own thing and I
Speaker 1: don't have any rules. Well, do you want that like
Speaker 1: it's like, you guys have kids, and I mean no judgment,
Speaker 1: but it's like, I mean, if it works for you,
Speaker 1: like Carrie and Big have like a separate place, but like,
Speaker 1: but the kids once they transition and adjust to living
Speaker 1: back at your parents house and I'm just assuming the
Speaker 1: kids are going with you. I don't know why, but um,
Speaker 1: it's going to be it's a really difficult transition to
Speaker 1: them pull them out and go back. You guys need
Speaker 1: to make a decision. You need to go to therapy
Speaker 1: and make a decision. You do because you're either like
Speaker 1: you either need to break up or honestly getting get married,
Speaker 1: because yeah, but this is not sounding lovely to me, Michael,
Speaker 1: You're getting married is not the answer. Well, obviously break
Speaker 1: up or get married one of the other. They clearly
Speaker 1: need to work through like a ton of issues. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just my just the only thing I could say is
Speaker 1: you have to side with the girl's trust your gut,
Speaker 1: but communicate, have a conversation, be like what is it
Speaker 1: about the topic of living separately, Like, you know, what
Speaker 1: is what are you looking to get out of it?
Speaker 1: Meaning ask him what are you looking at? Yeah? And
Speaker 1: that's I mean, honestly, that's you know for me. You know,
Speaker 1: we've talked about this, like you always crack jokes. I
Speaker 1: love when you go out of town now and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But I tell Jane, I'm like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: cool for twenty four hours and I'm like, a, right,
Speaker 1: this sucks. And yeah, sometimes guys we just need like
Speaker 1: that free space to like just do yeah whatever it
Speaker 1: may be, be lazy, beat, dirty, no, not to move out.
Speaker 1: So this seems a little extreme. Yeah, if you told
Speaker 1: me you wanted to move out, I'd be like, please
Speaker 1: sign here on this piece of paper exactly. And you
Speaker 1: need to be ready for the answers that you don't
Speaker 1: want to hear, because he needs to be honest with
Speaker 1: you and you might not like what he has to say. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it just doesn't sound like it sounds like he's still
Speaker 1: in it's like party years, and he doesn't seem like
Speaker 1: a very grown up, especially if he wants to go
Speaker 1: out party that much and you got eight and a
Speaker 1: two year old might come on, dude, come on button
Speaker 1: it up a little bit. Stop paying out with Scott
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Speaker 1: find a man. On the same page, you will say yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean Grant and Michael is younger than me, but
Speaker 1: well not just someone who who is wants to live
Speaker 1: in the same way. Yes, right, yeah, you like go
Speaker 1: to bed before midnight? Yeah right, I mean anything after ten.
Speaker 1: I'm like, shoot, I'm like thirty yeah, no, I'm in.
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Speaker 1: a funny one. Let's do that. Whenever my boyfriend is
Speaker 1: in the mood to have sex, he just goes for it,
Speaker 1: and then when he finishes it all stops. I don't
Speaker 1: like the term quickie because to him it means he
Speaker 1: doesn't need to worry about my needs. He can just
Speaker 1: finish and be done with it. But I also don't
Speaker 1: like when it lasts forever. When I brought it up
Speaker 1: to him, as response was to tell me how silly
Speaker 1: I was. He's really good to me. I just don't
Speaker 1: think he understands that penetration isn't as enjoyable for me
Speaker 1: as it is for him. I am taking antidepressants and
Speaker 1: they seem to be really lowering my sex drive. I
Speaker 1: want us to both enjoy it, but I just don't
Speaker 1: know how. I definitely think it's insensitive, and I feel
Speaker 1: like men do this a lot where they don't they
Speaker 1: don't get the needs of the woman and they roll
Speaker 1: off it. And why why are you smirking on it
Speaker 1: saying like you like, it's not like I just feel
Speaker 1: like the ratio is skewed there. Why is it like?
Speaker 1: Why is it okay that you guys just are like, okay,
Speaker 1: gonna And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa? Why haven't you
Speaker 1: finished me? But I think not all men are like that,
Speaker 1: not all. And my husband's kidding all our nights. So
Speaker 1: here's here's my bottom bottom line advice. She at it
Speaker 1: up to him, He pushed it back, projected it back
Speaker 1: on to her how silly she is. Yeah, that's that's rude.
Speaker 1: I would say, bring it up one more time, express
Speaker 1: your needs and maybe there's some other issues in the
Speaker 1: relationship in a calm, non accusing way. Guys will be
Speaker 1: very defensive offensive about that, right, Yeah, because you're that's yeah,
Speaker 1: that's very vulnerable and that's very very intimate thing for
Speaker 1: a guy to Yeah, that can kill kill confidence in
Speaker 1: and a guy. So but you know, it's that's tough
Speaker 1: for It's like I don't want to quickly, but I
Speaker 1: don't want to take too long. Well there, however, is
Speaker 1: kind of like, yeah, it sucks for us too. We
Speaker 1: get tired, cramped, hamstring cramps, but starts tightening up. Arms
Speaker 1: are tired. Well, she's also on antidepressants and they're lowering
Speaker 1: her sex drive, which could be very frustrating too. I
Speaker 1: was on Zola for like three years and didn't have
Speaker 1: one orgasm the entire time, so so I'll get it.
Speaker 1: That's just sucks. So maybe try switching presence. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: can talk to your psychiatrists and maybe try different dosage
Speaker 1: levels twitching. I'm on lex prow and I love it personally,
Speaker 1: so all in all, talk to him about it. Validate him,
Speaker 1: don't say it's about him. Just say, hey, I love
Speaker 1: having sex with you, I love our sex life. I
Speaker 1: would just you know, for me, I would really love
Speaker 1: for my needs to be met a little bit more.
Speaker 1: But I just you know, I love you. I just
Speaker 1: you know, I just wished my needs were met a
Speaker 1: little bit more. You get it, or add some toys
Speaker 1: to your game, do something, bring it, bring it all right.
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