WEBVTT - Ep. 12 Crossing Over 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.600 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I have heart radio 0:00:04.720 --> 0:00:13.640 podcast wind Down Mondays at Easton. We got John, we 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:18.440 got Michael in the house today. Um, how was your weekend? 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.200 It was fantastic. I went away for a couple of days. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:24.239 I took Rocko to the beach because the heat wave 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:29.000 in l A's So we went to Newport Beach, went 0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:32.559 to the tide pools, swam in the pool. Did your 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.040 boyfriend go with you? He did, in his thirteen year 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:39.720 old daughter. So it was really fun. And let me 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:42.240 tell you a whole new experience trying to keep a 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:45.880 thirteen year old and a six year old entertained. Really, 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.199 there's like a two prime ages that you can't what 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.159 do you mean? I feel like their world is their oyster. 0:00:51.600 --> 0:00:55.160 It is, but they're interested in very different things. One 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:59.400 months Mexican food, the other once Chi Contenders, one months 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:03.480 Starbuck the other one wants, you know, donuts. Do they 0:01:03.480 --> 0:01:05.600 get along the kids, they get along, They're great. The 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:11.400 one thing that unite them is wave jumping in Fortnite. 0:01:12.920 --> 0:01:15.600 That sounds amazing, It's no, it was really no. That's 0:01:15.640 --> 0:01:17.040 good to get along though, because that would be like 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.319 the scariest thing I think about like blending a family 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:21.920 is if knowing if the kids are going to get along, 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:25.200 Because if the kids don't get along, it's like, all right, well, 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.000 how are we going to do this? It just won't work. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.600 They wouldn't write. No, there's no way. They fight like 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:33.200 simplings though. That's good, which is good, it's really And 0:01:33.240 --> 0:01:36.920 she's really sweet with him. Did she like you? Because 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:41.680 a girl that a just tough. Yeah, but she's she's 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:47.000 not super tough. She's really easy to get along with. Sensitive. 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:52.280 That's good, super sweetly, grateful, thankful. I was too. Yeah, 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:57.120 I was like hormones, know right, But it was really fun. 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.440 It was It was nice to get out of the city. Yeah, 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:03.960 I forget how you know, how we get I am 0:02:04.040 --> 0:02:06.960 such a creature of habit. I end up doing the 0:02:07.000 --> 0:02:10.400 exact same thing. Go to the country store for coffee, 0:02:10.400 --> 0:02:14.680 Farmer's market, Sunday, fer Farmer's market. Oh, let's go to 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:20.240 the grove. It's like ground hugs day, every single at 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:24.200 the grove in the heat, the worst place. Ever, how 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:26.280 about you, guys, did you have a good weekend? We 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:30.000 had an awesome week Yeah, we had like an amazing weekend. 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:33.800 But before the weekend, we potty trained Jolie I love 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:36.800 because it was so hot in l A. So we're like, 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.200 we don't want to go outside. Right. She's about to 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:41.720 start her you know, three day half school preschool days, 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:44.519 so to be potty trained, she'd have to be but 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:47.359 they encourage it obviously, and she knows she's two and 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:49.480 a half. So we're like, okay, the time is now. 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.919 And he had a lighter work schedule, so he's like, Okay, 0:02:51.919 --> 0:02:53.320 I'm gonna be able to help because I didn't want 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:55.080 to just I didn't want to put it on one 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:56.760 of us. Just I wanted us to be able to 0:02:56.760 --> 0:03:00.680 help each other. It's a job stressful, it's very very stressful. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:04.080 But I think we did. I mean she was incredible. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:07.440 She was so good. Yeah, and like we just like 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:11.280 worked together really well, and like it was it was good, 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:13.239 Like she did great. Did you do the three days? 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:15.240 We did the three day where she was just butt naked. 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:17.720 It's the best way to do it, Yeah, it really isn't. 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:20.960 By the third day, she was just like amazing. And 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:24.480 girls are a little easier than potty training boys for 0:03:24.520 --> 0:03:26.519 some reason. Do you sit the boys down or do 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:31.720 they stand up? They sit down and I don't know. 0:03:32.240 --> 0:03:36.600 He didn't start standing up until he was four using 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:40.120 the restroom, actually standing up like a male because you 0:03:40.120 --> 0:03:42.200 have to push his peep down. Yes, he used to. 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:44.760 So it's like that, did they know that they have 0:03:44.800 --> 0:03:47.640 to push it down? They know? They know, well, you 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.280 teach them to the Other thing is I did the 0:03:50.360 --> 0:03:53.240 three day but I used a treasure chest. I went 0:03:53.280 --> 0:03:55.280 to the dollar store and I bought like a hundred 0:03:55.360 --> 0:04:00.880 dollars worth of just whatever. So every time he used 0:04:01.080 --> 0:04:03.640 the bathroom he got to pick something out of the 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:07.560 treasure chest. O cute. So in with I waited until 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.880 he was three because boys just need the extra They 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:15.680 need extra time naturally like all things, like all things, 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:17.400 and men need a little bit more time. So just 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.760 know in the future you are going to want to wait. Yeah, 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:24.400 when you have the boy, the little boy in the belly. 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:26.520 You know, I didn't tell you this this weekend, honey. 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:29.719 We were out at lunch yesterday with some my family 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.279 that we were in town, and Jolie's just playing this 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:34.960 game now. She's just every five seconds she has to 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:37.320 go potty. Right, So it's like you gotta take them 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:39.720 because they're saying it because at one time they actually 0:04:39.720 --> 0:04:41.400 have to go and like it's you know, you want 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:43.760 to make sure you take them. And so I took 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:46.239 her in the men's room and we tried. She didn't 0:04:46.240 --> 0:04:47.440 have to go, So then I have to go to 0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.320 the bathroom. I used the urinal and so then she 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:52.480 started pointing the other other urinals. She's like that one, 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:54.520 like like she wanted to like she was like starting 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:58.040 to mess with her hands. I considered it for a second. 0:04:58.080 --> 0:04:59.680 I was like, maybe I'll just hold her up, and 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.559 se I was like, I don't want to start that habit. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:05.920 So she wanted, she wanted to stand up and Pee's 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:12.720 so funny she um, she confuses a fart with like poop, 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:16.360 so like she every time she's like patty, patty, patty, 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:17.920 And then she'll go and she'll be like, uh done. 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:20.280 I'm like, we're like, maybe that's a fart, Okay, so 0:05:20.440 --> 0:05:21.919 you can you can fart and not have to go 0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:25.719 to the bathroom, like it's plenty of you. Yeah, Like 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.280 she doesn't. Yeah. So I was Michael and I were, um, 0:05:29.040 --> 0:05:31.000 we were coming back from lunch, and I said, when 0:05:31.040 --> 0:05:33.080 do you trust a fart? Because that's the thing. I'm 0:05:33.120 --> 0:05:39.080 like intellectual conversation this weekend and then drive back point 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:40.760 do you trust a fart? Because I'm like if I 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:42.520 was two and a half, Like I'm like, I still 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.880 I mean, I'm thirty four years old. I still shouldn't 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:48.600 trust a fart sometimes, you know what I mean. And 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:50.760 it's like good on her to like not trust it 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.599 because like I have sharted before, you know what I mean, 0:05:53.760 --> 0:05:58.320 Like like I didn't. I should have trusted it and 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:05.359 I did it. I know. Weekend, Tom, come on, everybody 0:06:05.400 --> 0:06:09.960 has no Listen, little boys, Rocco's still that's not going 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:13.800 to admit she accidents. He you know, because it's hard 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:17.240 for them. They just they don't know. They just don't know. 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:19.720 No idea. So there is a new show. I don't 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:21.400 know John, if you heard about this, but it is 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:24.880 premiering on the TLC network. Premieres on Sunday at eight 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.400 seven Central on TLC. It's called The Ninety Day Fiance. 0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:32.400 Have you heard about it? I've heard rumbling rumblings. Okay, well, 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:34.760 let me just tell you this. It's the ninety Day 0:06:34.760 --> 0:06:38.440 Countdown known around the world. TLCS hit show Fiance is 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:41.320 taking you on a journey from the very very beginning 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:45.640 and going before the ninety days. These couples fall in 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.960 love online and now we get to see their first 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:51.000 day halfway around the world. They're taking Yeah, they're taking 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:52.560 a huge risk and putting their life on the line 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:57.520 for love. So there's culture, shock, language barriers, unexpected twists 0:06:57.560 --> 0:07:02.240 and turns. I mean, and on's relationships survive? Who will 0:07:02.240 --> 0:07:05.560 get done on one knee? I don't know. Um, some 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:07.640 of the couples don't even speak the same language and 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:10.320 they have to use a translator app to communicate. Okay, wait, 0:07:10.360 --> 0:07:15.320 this second communication is hard enough anyway. Yeah, and I know, Um, 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.440 so they've only talked online, but I guess anything is 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:21.480 possible when they meet in person. Um, when they arrive 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:23.840 in a foreign country, will their soul mate be there 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:25.640 to meet them? And will they turn out to be 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.360 who they say they are? I mean, will they return 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:33.240 home engaged or heartbroken? You gotta find out once, which 0:07:33.240 --> 0:07:37.320 premiers Sunday eight, seven Central. Well, let's check out some 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:40.320 of the cast. Did you read this? Rachel and John. 0:07:40.440 --> 0:07:43.320 She's a single mom from New Mexico. He's from England 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:48.720 and has a criminal record. They met on a karaoke app. Oh, 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.360 and then there's fifty two year old Angela's from Georgia, 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:53.440 and or head over is head over heels for thirty 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:57.040 year old Nigerian sweetheart Michael, whose friends question why he's 0:07:57.120 --> 0:08:00.000 dating a grandma. But Martha and I are my favorite. 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:05.240 Though Martha is a Catholic exotic dancer and Dia is 0:08:05.280 --> 0:08:08.680 a devout Muslim and doesn't speak English. She's flying to 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:12.160 Algeria to meet him. Sounds like love at first sight. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:16.760 Talk about the mother in law scary stories. Yeah, well, 0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:19.360 I'm excited to watch their journey and you guys can 0:08:19.400 --> 0:08:22.000 to premiere Sunday at eight seven Central on t Elsie. 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:25.760 I'm watching it, but I'm really super excited because John Edward. 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:27.800 I don't know if you guys know who he is, 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:32.000 but he is incredible. But Amy, go ahead, Amy never 0:08:32.080 --> 0:08:36.520 talk I never talked besides when not Mayam And this 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.800 you guys, so, Janna, I want you to tell like 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:41.880 your personal how you've been wanting to meet John Edward 0:08:42.720 --> 0:08:45.839 right now? Yes, but first you guys like, I'm like 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:48.440 my hands are sweating because this guy is so real. 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:52.080 So here is what happened. This is years ago, like 0:08:52.200 --> 0:08:54.679 three or four years I'm like sweating he's so real, 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:57.680 Like I'm a total naysayer, but this guy is real. 0:08:57.800 --> 0:09:01.000 He talks to dead people. Because I had a business 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:03.520 call with him for something for Ryan Seacrest or something 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:06.160 where it was like a business call wasn't supposed to be, 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:09.120 like he was reading me. And at the time, I 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.240 was going through this like super hard time, like it 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:15.880 sucked so bad I can't even explain. So I'm on 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:18.520 the phone with him talking work and he like stops 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:23.120 the business call and says, hey, like are you all 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.920 right or something like that, and I just started crying. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:32.000 He goes, I know there's an issue. The name is blank. 0:09:33.080 --> 0:09:35.320 Like my heart is pounding, like this is so real. 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:38.600 It was the name. I was like, oh my god, 0:09:38.760 --> 0:09:41.520 Oh my god. And he said there's an issue with 0:09:41.520 --> 0:09:44.840 a car, which there was a total issue with a car, 0:09:45.640 --> 0:09:48.000 and he said, you need to get this guy out 0:09:48.040 --> 0:09:51.200 of your life. He I said, like can we be friends? 0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:53.360 Like I was trying something. He said, you need to 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:57.160 cut this guy out like a cancer. And he was 0:09:57.320 --> 0:10:01.680 so right, like nothing's ever been so right. And I was, 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:03.480 I mean, I didn't do it at the time. I 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.680 was just going to ask you that was my next question. 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:09.840 Did you do it about let's see July augustly like 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:12.880 four or five months later. This guy is so real, 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:16.280 So like, if you're listening, I hope he reads Eugenna 0:10:16.480 --> 0:10:18.960 so bad. He's not going to I think we have 0:10:19.000 --> 0:10:21.000 a shot at it. Like I'm hoping he's going to 0:10:21.080 --> 0:10:22.960 come in and like get a vibe. So I'm gonna 0:10:23.000 --> 0:10:25.000 go get him, okay, because you guys don't understand, like 0:10:25.480 --> 0:10:30.480 it's so real. And Michael, my naysayer husband's like, I'm 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.520 sure there was an email or something that he may 0:10:32.600 --> 0:10:39.160 be read on your Instagram. Yeah I'm a big skeptic. Yeah, 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:41.440 you are a huge skeptic. I just want to ask 0:10:41.520 --> 0:10:45.040 questions on where does it come from? Like yeah, start, 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:49.600 how do you know? Yeah, like all that kind of stuff, 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.400 like his kids, Like does he does he does he 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:54.520 read his kids? Like he's got a family? Does he 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:56.720 read his wife? His wife? Like, leave me alone, stop 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.120 reading a much? Do you know what thinks? Like start 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:00.559 my last like I said to cut you out like 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:04.360 a cancer, Mike, And he's still here and still here baby, 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:06.360 still fighting. Do you know she told me that, Like 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:09.200 when we were at like a wedding, She's like the 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:11.120 man you need to cut him out like a cancer. 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:15.920 So I'm like, actually really pumped about this spot because 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.280 since being pregnant, my boobs have turned into like a 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:22.760 national monument and none of my bras fit me like 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:26.679 at all. Um, and I feel like the bras that 0:11:26.720 --> 0:11:28.920 I have been wearing are just super super uncomfortable. 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All right, you guys, I'm like, I'm 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:46.160 I'm starstruck, and I'm m I'm freaking out a little bit, 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.319 well a lot. But it's cool. Me and Amy where 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:51.440 are just like fan girling over here because Mr John 0:12:51.559 --> 0:12:56.000 remembered he remember when I went out. He's like, how 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.120 are you since the last time we talked? I'm like, 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:00.720 how do you you talk to thousand? Since people already 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:06.800 remember I remember the conversation. Amazing. I'm so happy. Now, 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:09.000 don't tell me anything unless you're getting something that like, 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:12.400 it's so I'm happy to hear you're good. Okay, guys, 0:13:12.520 --> 0:13:20.080 that voice that voices John Edward, and you didn't add 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:22.719 an S like you actually said it the right way. Yeah, 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:24.760 most people, most people add the S. Well, I know 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:28.360 you because I've stopped you for years, like stopped and 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:32.400 I'm okay, I'll tell you and my listeners this. So, um, 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:35.640 I think it was No, it was before. It was 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.160 definitely before you. But I was just at a total 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:42.360 crossroads in my life and I just needed some guidance 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:46.720 and I've just I've always like I've seen him medium 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:50.200 before and um, but you know you're John Edward, like 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:53.360 you're the biggest one out there. And so I went 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.240 on your website tried to get like a private thing 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:59.800 and it was like not happening. But but there was 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.160 an ailing list that you can like you can get 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:04.600 on that you can potentially have a reading with you. 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:06.679 So I signed up, like a very very long time ago. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:10.679 I'm still waiting. I still get your news letters an 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:13.679 over time, Like is it that? No, it's so can 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:17.080 you bump Janna up? So when I when I was 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:19.400 doing when I was doing the TV show, I actually 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.920 had a policy that every the first it was the 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.480 first Wednesday of the month, between like seven and nine thirty, 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.080 I would open the phone lines and whoever got in 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:28.120 got an appointment for the following month or they got 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:30.960 on the list. Well, when the TV part of it 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:33.160 started to happen, I just really honestly thought I was 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:34.840 gonna do that for like thirteen weeks. I was like, 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:36.480 I'm gonna do this. I'm gonna be done. I'm going 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:39.400 back to what I do. And it didn't happen like that, 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.200 So I didn't. I didn't see the success of what 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:43.120 that was going to be. My waiting list became like 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:46.920 eight years long. Yeah, and there were there were legitimately 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:51.240 people that we're on the list that passed and then 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.400 their families kept their appointments. Like seriously, I had one 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.880 woman come through for her son and she must have 0:14:56.880 --> 0:14:59.080 said to me at least four or five times during 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:02.560 the read this is this is my appointment. So I 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.320 kept saying, you're here for your mom, and the guys 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:08.200 looking at me like like shaking his head. But she 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:10.160 said it like more than like one time. And usually 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:12.960 when information comes through, if it gets validated, we move 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:15.520 on to something else. But this was like a recurring theme. 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:17.560 So finally at the end, I'm like, did I just 0:15:17.560 --> 0:15:19.920 ask your question. I go, did your mom repeat herself 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.800 a lot like in life? And he goes, no, I 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.960 said not. It's just weird because like you validated the 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.000 fact that yes, you're here to talk to her. But 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:28.320 I don't stand why she kept saying, this is my appointment. 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:31.080 And he goes because it was her appointment, and I go, 0:15:31.400 --> 0:15:33.160 what do you mean? He goes, dude, I don't know 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:35.120 who you are. He goes, but my mom just died. 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:38.000 He goes, and she had copious notes in her appointment 0:15:38.000 --> 0:15:40.760 book about this is my this was like the appointment, 0:15:40.880 --> 0:15:42.920 and I'm assuming she was coming to talk to my dad, 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:46.240 but it's like, you know, confirmed the appointment a week before, 0:15:46.680 --> 0:15:48.040 this is where you know, this is the this is 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:49.960 the number to call. So she had all this stuff 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.200 laid out, so he found it going through her stuff 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:56.040 and did it and came and she came through. That's 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:59.040 one of my like, yeah, like this is my appointment. 0:16:01.080 --> 0:16:07.080 That's incredible. My husband is like, he's You've always been 0:16:07.480 --> 0:16:09.640 like one of the naysayers. And I'd come home and 0:16:09.680 --> 0:16:12.200 I had this psychic reading and he was like, I 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:14.000 was like, how did they know this? And he's like, 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:18.240 they probably do Langlee, I think. I think this is 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:22.000 healthy and I love these conversations because if somebody comes 0:16:22.040 --> 0:16:24.600 to my event, like I like watching their jaws drop 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.720 in the beginning before I do readings, because I say 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:28.640 to them, here's what I'm not going to talk about. 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:31.400 I'm not talking about your hummingbirds, your cardinals, your feathers, 0:16:31.440 --> 0:16:34.520 your angels, seeing eleven eleven orbs in your photos, jewelries. 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:37.400 I like, I go through a laundry list of all 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:39.600 of the things that I think are low hanging fruit. 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.920 When you do this work, like so I said, I 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:43.640 want you to be a critical thinker. I want you 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:46.080 to come to the subject matter as a critical thinker, 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:48.800 and I want you to explore it. And I want 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:50.440 you to think about what I'm saying, because if you're 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:52.200 thinking about what I'm saying, it's gonna make my life 0:16:52.240 --> 0:16:54.200 a lot easier because then you're not just looking to 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:56.520 go like, oh my god, this is amazing. I'm gonna 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:59.240 cry because odds are I'm not going to make you cry. 0:16:59.360 --> 0:17:02.040 I'm gonna make you think, because if I could actually 0:17:02.080 --> 0:17:03.960 do that, then I'm then I'm really leaving you better 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:06.879 than I find you. And like nothing irks me more 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:11.280 than I watch a reading performed. Yea, when it's like, oh, 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:13.720 that's so true. I mean, although I didn't do it 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:16.520 right when you said I should have, but it's so true. 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:21.159 I mean you changed my life, Like that's what I 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:23.040 just want to say, No, but you did. I didn't 0:17:23.080 --> 0:17:26.040 do it, you know what I'm saying, Like I got 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:28.720 you to think about choices. And I think one of 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:30.520 the things that concerns me about this subject matter is 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:33.480 that people will be all too willing to surrender their 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:35.919 free will and choice to what somebody else is going 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:38.560 to tell them. And I'm like, whoa, I have my 0:17:38.600 --> 0:17:40.000 own karma, you know what I'm saying, Like, I got 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:41.560 my own kids. I gotta worry about Like I got 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:43.800 my own family. I don't need your karma. So it's like, 0:17:44.000 --> 0:17:47.400 here's the information making informed decision based upon your own 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:50.760 free will. But you know, it's really raining out, so 0:17:50.920 --> 0:17:55.520 maybe take an umbrella. You know what I'm saying. It's 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:58.719 it's it's a yeah, what is your because you had 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:03.200 some really good questions, like what's your sign? My pisces, 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.280 you should be totally into this. This This is like your 0:18:05.680 --> 0:18:09.840 this is like yeah, Usually piscenes are either completely like 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.440 fearful of it or afraid of what they're gonna hear, 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:15.560 or they don't even realize how intuitive they are. Like 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:17.639 it's it's one of the more evolved signs when it 0:18:17.640 --> 0:18:21.000 comes to spirituality. So what makes you like a name 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:26.280 sex um? I think just witnessing it before I feel 0:18:26.280 --> 0:18:28.000 like they are like John is talking about like the 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:30.520 low hanging fruit, where I feel like some like mediums 0:18:30.560 --> 0:18:33.000 or psychics might like say things to get a reaction 0:18:33.119 --> 0:18:35.920 and kind of base it off of that, and I 0:18:35.960 --> 0:18:37.879 don't know, I just I just never have really been 0:18:37.960 --> 0:18:40.320 drawn to it. And my question is too, is like 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:41.680 I love to see that. You know, you have kids, 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:43.480 you have a wife, you have a family. So my 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:46.600 question is, all right, how does this affect your daily life? 0:18:46.920 --> 0:18:49.959 It's it's really just a it's like a philosophy, right. 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:52.080 So I'm looking at you. You obviously work out, and 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.880 you probably eat healthy. Right, you make choices about what 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.199 you're going to eat or what you're not going to eat. Right, 0:18:57.240 --> 0:18:59.800 That's like that's like a choice. Correct. So I live 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:01.880 my life in the same way. But when it comes 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:06.159 to a spiritual belief, like so energetically, I look at 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:10.240 how choices are being made, or how to create boundaries 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:14.520 around around areas and protect energy. People think like everywhere 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.200 I go, I'm like being psychic. I'm not like when 0:19:17.200 --> 0:19:20.359 I'm not doing readings, I am powered down. And the 0:19:20.400 --> 0:19:22.920 reason why I'm powered down is because I don't want 0:19:22.920 --> 0:19:26.280 to open up to someone's energy if they did not 0:19:26.359 --> 0:19:28.560 ask me. Like if I'm in a restaurant and they 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:31.840 did not ask me, it's no different than me being 0:19:31.880 --> 0:19:34.160 a creeper in their backyard watching them through the winter. 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:38.520 It's really unethical. It's not okay. So my kids look 0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:42.119 at energy from that standpoint about how do they how 0:19:42.119 --> 0:19:45.239 do they get an edge? So if they know someone right, 0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:47.760 if they know their sign, if they know their numerology, 0:19:47.840 --> 0:19:50.440 well now they have more information about that. I call 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:52.400 it knowing your breed. I wrote a book called Infant Quest, 0:19:52.400 --> 0:19:53.960 and in the book I talk about knowing your breed. 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:57.320 If you have a German shepherd, you immediately now have 0:19:57.400 --> 0:19:59.480 a visual view of a visual of what a German 0:19:59.480 --> 0:20:01.439 shepherd is. Now off, I say this person is a 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:03.879 German shepherd compared to this person who's a poodle. You 0:20:04.040 --> 0:20:08.080 now have a completely uh comparative analysis of the two 0:20:08.080 --> 0:20:10.320 different breeds. Well, you could do that between the pisces 0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:11.399 and a leo. You know what I'm saying, Like, you 0:20:11.440 --> 0:20:13.680 could like look at the two the two different things. 0:20:13.720 --> 0:20:17.080 So it's amount of looking at things from an energetic standpoint, 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:20.160