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Speaker 1: podcast wind Down Mondays at Easton. We got John, we

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Speaker 1: got Michael in the house today. Um, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: It was fantastic. I went away for a couple of days.

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Speaker 1: I took Rocko to the beach because the heat wave

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Speaker 1: to the tide pools, swam in the pool. Did your

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Speaker 1: boyfriend go with you? He did, in his thirteen year

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Speaker 1: old daughter. So it was really fun. And let me

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Speaker 1: tell you a whole new experience trying to keep a

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Speaker 1: thirteen year old and a six year old entertained. Really,

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Speaker 1: there's like a two prime ages that you can't what

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Speaker 1: do you mean? I feel like their world is their oyster.

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Speaker 1: It is, but they're interested in very different things. One

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Speaker 1: months Mexican food, the other once Chi Contenders, one months

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Speaker 1: get along the kids, they get along, They're great. The

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Speaker 1: one thing that unite them is wave jumping in Fortnite.

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Speaker 1: That sounds amazing, It's no, it was really no. That's

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Speaker 1: the scariest thing I think about like blending a family

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Speaker 1: Because if the kids don't get along, it's like, all right, well,

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Speaker 1: how are we going to do this? It just won't work.

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Speaker 1: They wouldn't write. No, there's no way. They fight like

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Speaker 1: simplings though. That's good, which is good, it's really And

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Speaker 1: she's really sweet with him. Did she like you? Because

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Speaker 1: That's good, super sweetly, grateful, thankful. I was too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I forget how you know, how we get I am

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Speaker 1: such a creature of habit. I end up doing the

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Speaker 1: exact same thing. Go to the country store for coffee,

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Speaker 1: the grove. It's like ground hugs day, every single at

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Speaker 1: the grove in the heat, the worst place. Ever, how

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Speaker 1: about you, guys, did you have a good weekend? We

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Speaker 1: had an awesome week Yeah, we had like an amazing weekend.

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Speaker 1: But before the weekend, we potty trained Jolie I love

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Speaker 1: so to be potty trained, she'd have to be but

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Speaker 1: But I think we did. I mean she was incredible.

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Speaker 1: Like she did great. Did you do the three days?

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Speaker 1: We did the three day where she was just butt naked.

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Speaker 1: It's the best way to do it, Yeah, it really isn't.

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Speaker 1: By the third day, she was just like amazing. And

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Speaker 1: like intellectual conversation this weekend and then drive back point

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Speaker 1: No idea. So there is a new show. I don't

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Speaker 1: know John, if you heard about this, but it is

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Speaker 1: premiering on the TLC network. Premieres on Sunday at eight

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Speaker 1: seven Central on TLC. It's called The Ninety Day Fiance.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard about it? I've heard rumbling rumblings. Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: let me just tell you this. It's the ninety Day

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Speaker 1: Countdown known around the world. TLCS hit show Fiance is

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Speaker 1: taking you on a journey from the very very beginning

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Speaker 1: and going before the ninety days. These couples fall in

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Speaker 1: for love. So there's culture, shock, language barriers, unexpected twists

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Speaker 1: and turns. I mean, and on's relationships survive? Who will

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Speaker 1: so they've only talked online, but I guess anything is

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Speaker 1: premiers Sunday eight, seven Central. Well, let's check out some

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Speaker 1: of the cast. Did you read this? Rachel and John.

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Speaker 1: She's a single mom from New Mexico. He's from England

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Speaker 1: and has a criminal record. They met on a karaoke app. Oh,

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Speaker 1: and then there's fifty two year old Angela's from Georgia,

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Speaker 1: Though Martha is a Catholic exotic dancer and Dia is

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Speaker 1: Talk about the mother in law scary stories. Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to watch their journey and you guys can

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Speaker 1: to premiere Sunday at eight seven Central on t Elsie.

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Speaker 1: I'm watching it, but I'm really super excited because John Edward.

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Speaker 1: Did you do it about let's see July augustly like

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Speaker 1: four or five months later. This guy is so real,

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Speaker 1: So like, if you're listening, I hope he reads Eugenna

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Speaker 1: it's so real. And Michael, my naysayer husband's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure there was an email or something that he may

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Speaker 1: be read on your Instagram. Yeah I'm a big skeptic. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: my last like I said to cut you out like

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Speaker 1: no offense to any of the virgos. I don't like

424
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:21,639
Speaker 1: virgo men. I didn't want him to be a virgo.

425
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:28,480
Speaker 1: So I said to the this is my favorite. I said,

426
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:31,520
Speaker 1: is my wife okay? And he's like, yeah, I go,

427
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: is the baby okay? And he goes, yeah, could we

428
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:39,200
Speaker 1: leave him in there for like another week? And the

429
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,239
Speaker 1: guy looked at me and he goes, why, I go,

430
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,159
Speaker 1: because if you have him on this day, he's going

431
00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 1: to be a virgo. I go. And if we can

432
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:46,640
Speaker 1: push it off just to another week, I go, it's

433
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 1: gonna be a libra. I'm a libra. I said, it's

434
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,520
Speaker 1: gonna be better. She's a Leo. I go, trust me,

435
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 1: it's gonna be really bad. And the guy looked at me.

436
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, only because you're you like

437
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: we're even having this conversation. And then he goes to me,

438
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:01,399
Speaker 1: but serious question. It happens if she goes into labor

439
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,639
Speaker 1: and like the baby comes, I'm like, well, then I

440
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,000
Speaker 1: know that that soul, for whatever reason, wants to be

441
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 1: a virgo, and I'll help navigate that as best I can.

442
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: I go, but can we schedule this for that? And

443
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:21,159
Speaker 1: he that's he's action was scheduled. So like that's a

444
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,480
Speaker 1: realistic how I used it in my everyday life. But

445
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 1: now from a lesson standpoint, I had a really bad

446
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 1: relationship with my dad, who was an aquarian, so he

447
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 1: was kind of like not part of my life. And

448
00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:34,480
Speaker 1: when I became a dad, I thought like, okay, so

449
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,720
Speaker 1: how do I how do I make sure that I

450
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: changed the pathways and parallels and lessons that I didn't

451
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,320
Speaker 1: learn with him there. So I thought I was gonna

452
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 1: be not a great dad, But my son and I

453
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: was awesome. It was like it was like easy. So

454
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be really really easy. And

455
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 1: then when my daughter was on her way and I

456
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 1: did the math and figure out what she was going

457
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,479
Speaker 1: to be, she was an aquarian and I thought, oh crap.

458
00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 1: So the lesson was the libre child with the aquarian

459
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: parent now got inverted to the libre parent to the

460
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,800
Speaker 1: Aquarian child. And I say this to people because we

461
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: don't we don't escape our lessons, so it's really important

462
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: to understand them while we're doing it so we can

463
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: make those choices interesting. So how do you shut off

464
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 1: the dead people? Though? The debt? It's really about listening.

465
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: So it's like it's it's a matter of protection, opening

466
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: myself up, meditating and prayer and then allowing stuff to

467
00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:27,719
Speaker 1: to happen, which I kind of did before I came

468
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 1: in here, just because I told me it was okay

469
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:30,960
Speaker 1: for me to do that. So whenever I have the

470
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: permission that, I feel like it's you know, it's it's okay.

471
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: But um if I'm like, you know, I just did

472
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: kt l A, like I was like powered down, lockdown,

473
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 1: because I don't have the ability I wish I did.

474
00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:43,280
Speaker 1: I don't have the ability to go read just here.

475
00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 1: So if I if I try to read just here,

476
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 1: I can read somebody that's out there. I don't. I

477
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 1: don't know. I I jokingly say this that when I

478
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: do readings um or when I open up, I'm kind

479
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: of like the two year old that you want to

480
00:23:57,160 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: potty train. You want them to hit the bowl. But

481
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: it's you hit the floor, you hit the wall. Yet like,

482
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: I can't just do that that. There were some people

483
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 1: who can just do that. I can't. I can't do that.

484
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: All right, when did this start for you? And that's

485
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 1: what fascinates me too, is like, because like you said,

486
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 1: you have cind of control over you know how to

487
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 1: prep yourself yea, Like when were there's years of you

488
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: just hearing things or feeling things that you didn't know

489
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:32,479
Speaker 1: what it was. So at fifteen I had a reading

490
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,400
Speaker 1: and that reading put me on this path. But before that,

491
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 1: my mom, my uncle, and my grandmother, all my Italian

492
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 1: side of the family, they used to have psychist come

493
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:43,719
Speaker 1: to the house all the time. I was the obnoxious

494
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 1: high school kid who was making fun of all the

495
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: people coming for the readings, and then I would pull

496
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: apart They're they're literally pull apart their readings, and my

497
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: mom would be like, why are you gotta be like that?

498
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: You know you're taking away the fun. I'm like, why

499
00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 1: do you gotta help your paying people to like tell

500
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,959
Speaker 1: you reason? I'm like, buy a book, it'll be cheaper.

501
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: So like that's my but that's my personality, right. So

502
00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: my grandmother came down and she was crying. Now my

503
00:25:08,920 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 1: grandmother was like my other mom. And I was like, Grandma,

504
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: why are you crying? And She's like, I'm not crying

505
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 1: because I'm sad. I'm crying because I'm happy. She told

506
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 1: me your grandfather was standing next to me. And I

507
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 1: was like, Grandma, Grandpa's dead and she's like, yes, I know.

508
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: I was there when they put him in the ground.

509
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: I go, what did this woman say to you to

510
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 1: make you cry? Because now I'm like I'm now I'm angered.

511
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: Now it's like the you know, the Italian male side

512
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: of me came in. I was like, what did she

513
00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 1: made my grandma cry? So she said she told me

514
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 1: that Tony was standing behind me and that he was

515
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: still there. And they started to laugh. And I was like, Grandma,

516
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 1: you introduced to her as Mrs Esposito. To say that

517
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: there's a Tony somewhere in your family is not really

518
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 1: really psychic, know what I'm saying, Like there's gonna be

519
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: Did she ask you if there was in Maria too?

520
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Like, so my grandmother was

521
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 1: like flipped around really quick. She goes, then how did

522
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 1: she know he was buried with a mandolin. I didn't

523
00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: know that my grandfather passed where I was born. So

524
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: this is what my brain this. I have O c D,

525
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 1: so my brain thinks in a specific way, so you

526
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,119
Speaker 1: get it. So I I go to the list of

527
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: the people that went up before my grandmother. I wanted

528
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 1: to see who on that list might have known that

529
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: information to extrapolate it to then deliver it to the

530
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: old woman in the house. But none of the people

531
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 1: on the list were family. They were all friends of

532
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,720
Speaker 1: family that would not have known my grandfather was better

533
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: with the mandolin. So I couldn't figure that out. So

534
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: long story short, I go for the reading and I said,

535
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 1: I am not going to help her. I said, this

536
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: woman will get absolutely no help from me. And I

537
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,879
Speaker 1: literally sat there like this, like nothing. She took my

538
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: high school ring and she put it like over her forehead,

539
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 1: which we considered the third eye chakra, and she starts

540
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,040
Speaker 1: reading for me, at which point she's told me I

541
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 1: had highly evolved beings of white and gold light and

542
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: they were ready to work with me and put me

543
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: on my path. Now, if you tell a fifteen year

544
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 1: roll sophomore kid this information, right, and they're not looking

545
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: at like I remember thinking, like seriously, she could have said,

546
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 1: I've got my spaceship in the back yard, I'll take

547
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: you for a spin, and I was like all right,

548
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: and then she went on to give me stuff that

549
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 1: I have to be honest, it was applicable to me,

550
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:10,600
Speaker 1: but I could rationalize it away and say, well, I

551
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 1: could have probably the five other guys in high school.

552
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: But then the last part of the reading I couldn't explain.

553
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: I would have had to have been with her. I

554
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: would have had to personally have confided in her. Nobody, nobody.

555
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 1: My mother would have killed me if she knew like

556
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: what this woman had said to me, and then she

557
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 1: gave me the outcome of it. So because I was

558
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: nervous about getting in trouble, I locked. I did. I lied.

559
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,840
Speaker 1: I said to our girl, I don't know who that is,

560
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 1: and she smiled and went okay, and then told me

561
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: what was going to happen. And then within two weeks

562
00:27:39,800 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: it happened. So for two weeks I was completely freaked

563
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 1: out because I felt like, there's no way possible this

564
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 1: woman could have known that. So I said, all right,

565
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: she's a mind reader. She was able to do something

566
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: like she got in here and read stuff, which, by

567
00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: the way, freaked me out. And I tell people like,

568
00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,200
Speaker 1: I didn't like it. I felt violated. I would say

569
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: my first reading wasn't cool. It was a violation. It's

570
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: like you came home at your house and somebody was

571
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: in your you know, somebody's in your stuff, they moved

572
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: your It's like I didn't like it. I did not

573
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 1: like it, not not even a little bit. And when

574
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: you have that violation, you want to put an alarm

575
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 1: system in. So within that moment, I'm now reading about

576
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: the subject matter, which back in was the occult. And

577
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: then two weeks later all this stuff happened, and it

578
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: literally was my world shifted, because you know what, I'm

579
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: very skeptical and very analytical, but I'm not a closed

580
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: minded person. So I had no choice but to go, Okay,

581
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 1: what the hell, like, what is this? And then the

582
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 1: more I studied, the more I started going, well, this

583
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: is not psychic, this is normal. I've been doing this

584
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 1: my entire life, exactly my entire life. But I think

585
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: when you look at movies and TV and like you know,

586
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: reality shows today, what happens is whenever they depict something psychic,

587
00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: they make it either stereotypical, over the top, right, so

588
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: it's like everyone has a grandparents they lost, or but

589
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: it's but it's dramatic and it's it's really not true.

590
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: I mean it's dramatic, but it's subtle. And that's where

591
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: I think people miss. I think they missed the subtlety

592
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: of something. So like when my son was being born,

593
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: I meditated like I was going to be at the

594
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: Staple Center doing a reading for like that many people

595
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: like I was waiting for all of this information from

596
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: my mom and my grandparents, like all the stuff to

597
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,920
Speaker 1: come through. And it wasn't until like my wife looked

598
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: at me, like, uh, could you focus here like having

599
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: a baby. So I was looking up and almost missed

600
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:27,400
Speaker 1: what was taking place here. Again an example of pay

601
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: attention to the lessons we're living here. But in the

602
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 1: conversations after my son was born, between the doctors and

603
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: the nurses and the text in the room, they by

604
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: name named every single person that I wanted to hear

605
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: from everyone, But they were just talking, so they weren't

606
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: like it wasn't psychic. It was just a conversation. So

607
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: for me, it was that shout out moment, but it

608
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: was subtle. So it was a matter of like having

609
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: to pay attention. Some people would say, oh, it was

610
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 1: a coincidence. I don't think it's a coincidence. Not when

611
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 1: every person I wanted to hear was brought up in

612
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: a conversation ten minutes after my son was born. So

613
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: sometimes we our messages in ways that are not the

614
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 1: way that we're looking to hear it. So I've been

615
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,240
Speaker 1: reading a lot about um like law of attraction and

616
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 1: energy and your own energy and kind of making yourself

617
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: happy and kind of all that. Abraham Hicks, before Abraham

618
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,479
Speaker 1: Hicks and before you know whatever the secret was. There

619
00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 1: was a book like thirty years ago called Creative Visualization

620
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 1: by an author named Shock de GWayne. Same premise, it's

621
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: really what you put out there is what you attract.

622
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: So right now, you guys think of that. I think

623
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 1: it's very accurate. It's it's it's it's real. It's like

624
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,520
Speaker 1: you create your own future. And that's why I want

625
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: people to do. I want people to think about what

626
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 1: their thoughts are, because your thoughts are going to create

627
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,160
Speaker 1: your own reality. I think Richard Bach and another you

628
00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 1: know guy, kind of made his own James Quick at

629
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: something along the lines of if you fight for your limitations,

630
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: you're gonna get a chance to keep them. You know,

631
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: if you argue a case for the negative, you're gonna

632
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 1: win that. So why not argue for the positive? But

633
00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: it's easier to be negative, and it's easier to come

634
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 1: from a place of fear because it's the lowest common denominator.

635
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,959
Speaker 1: It's the lowest common doom. It is. It is the

636
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: it's the fast food of thought. It is the easiest,

637
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 1: quickest and cheapest place to go fast food of thought.

638
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: But if you want to eat clean and healthy, you

639
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,960
Speaker 1: gotta work at that, right. So it's like those thoughts

640
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: are are the important pots. But if what you put

641
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 1: out there, it's important. So if you guys with this

642
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: show decided I only want to attract, now, you know,

643
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 1: moms between the ages of twenty, then everything you talk

644
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: about are going to be has to be about moms

645
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: between the ages. No sixty year old woman is gonna

646
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:31,720
Speaker 1: want to listen to that because she's not there in

647
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: her life. Right, So it's really important to think about

648
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: what do you want to attract in your life because

649
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: if you want to actually attract something different, you have

650
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: to put that out there to pull it in and

651
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 1: then be patient. It's really important to be patient. Are

652
00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 1: you a believer, Mike, Yeah, I do have one more

653
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: skeptical questions. Skeptical questions are good. I'm on the edge.

654
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: But what you just said just now really got me.

655
00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 1: Because I'm a big believer an optimism. I'm thinking stuff

656
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 1: like that. I think that's the way to live for

657
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 1: me personally. Um, but have you ever been wrong? A lot? Absolutely,

658
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: so it's interpretational for me. So sometimes, like I I,

659
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: sometimes I get it right by being wrong. So if

660
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: I use an example from this from the show, I

661
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:21,080
Speaker 1: read for a woman and I said, somebody was shot

662
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: in a cab. Why did I say that? I saw

663
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: a gun in the New York City TAXI? So I said,

664
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: somebody was shot in a cab, right, I symbolically put

665
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: it together and the woman said yes. I said, and

666
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: this was connected to your husband, and she goes, it

667
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: was actually my husband's dad is my father in law.

668
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:35,120
Speaker 1: I said, this is how he passed and she said, no,

669
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 1: he's alive. And I got confused, nobody was shot in

670
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: a cab and she said, yes, he was shot in

671
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: the cab of an eighteen wheeler. Now here's the interesting thing.

672
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: If I would have said was somebody shot in a

673
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 1: car or a taxi, it would have been inaccurate. But

674
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: they got me to say cab right. In my New

675
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: York City vernaculator came out cab right. But if I

676
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: was a taxi would have been wrong. But there are

677
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: many times where I will interpret something um and a

678
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: lot of times I want to be wrong. So if

679
00:33:03,640 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: I'm reading for someone and I see something that's not positive,

680
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 1: I say to them, I go, I'm seeing something that

681
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,680
Speaker 1: to me would feel cautionist, to be careful. Let's not

682
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 1: let this happen. You know, I was completely wrong about

683
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: Barack Obama. I lived. I said to know Barack Obama

684
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: when he was running. I said to my cousin because

685
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: I host a show online, And I said to my

686
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:25,479
Speaker 1: cousin is my co host? I go, if they left him,

687
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: I'll eat my show. And she looked at me and

688
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: she goes, why would you say that. She's like, you're

689
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: so like non political. I go, I am not political.

690
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:33,960
Speaker 1: I go, but I read energy. I said, I just

691
00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: don't think the country is in a place where they're

692
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: ready for a black man whose name ron Zod Osama,

693
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: you know, to to be to be the president. And

694
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: I was not talking about it from any other experience

695
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 1: because I knew nothing about him. I knew no platforms

696
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: um To be quite honest, up until a year ago,

697
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: I thought the GOP was could have like general order

698
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 1: of patriots. You know, I'm saying like I had. I'm

699
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: completely clueless, Like I'm not, I'm not that guy. So

700
00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 1: but I also don't know right when he got elected,

701
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: and my cousin was like, remember that prediction, and I

702
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: was like I do, and she's like yeah, and she

703
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: literally reached down on camera and whipped out her kid

704
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: and she was like, have at it. So then I

705
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: sat there and I own it. And for eight years

706
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: it was a thing that we would go back and

707
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 1: forth as we banter, like if I was you know,

708
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,720
Speaker 1: I could be wrong. It should be like like the election,

709
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:23,800
Speaker 1: I'd be like, seriously, well when where we are now happened?

710
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: I said, back, yep, I said, I take all that back.

711
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,280
Speaker 1: I go. I was not wrong. We were not ready

712
00:34:30,680 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: and this is the result. And now I was like,

713
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:39,360
Speaker 1: but but it's it's it's about it's about energy. So

714
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: I look at everything through an energetic lens, you know,

715
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:47,719
Speaker 1: whether it be you know, it's really a philosophy for me,

716
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: it really is just you know, people say it's about

717
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 1: being psychic. It's not being a psychic. It's it's being

718
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 1: a thinker. You know. Um, I find it interesting that

719
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: I have a lot of atheists that follow me, and yeah,

720
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: it's I'm like, I almost want to be like, why

721
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: are you guys following? But you've asked that though, You're like,

722
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: it's almost like playing god in a way, not not

723
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: not in this sense. On some people's places, I would say, yes, yeah, yeah,

724
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,000
Speaker 1: I agree with what John saying, not in his sense

725
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,919
Speaker 1: his philosophy. The problem is is when you literally take

726
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: somebody who's got an ability and deemed special, and if

727
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 1: that ignites their ego, that's dangerous, you know what I'm saying.

728
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: So I learned from a really young age like this

729
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: is not about me. So for four decades now I've

730
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:34,840
Speaker 1: been doing work and I recognize I am just the phone.

731
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,839
Speaker 1: I'm not the conversation. You know what I'm saying, And

732
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: like at this point, like I'm like in iPhone sex,

733
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like what I'm saying, I

734
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:45,040
Speaker 1: still function, but it's still the conversation. It's it's to me,

735
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:47,399
Speaker 1: it's it's really important to always make sure that we're

736
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: upgrading our own energy iOS, that we're always making sure

737
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: that we're on on point. I love it. Yeah, there's

738
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: so much codependency out there and so much like people

739
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: are looking for other people too directly their life. Where

740
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 1: that's where I like what John saying, because it's not

741
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 1: about that. He's just laying the stuff out there and

742
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: it's your decision to what you want to go with.

743
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: And I feel like other mediums or the one that

744
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: told me to leave you especially, nobody said that. Somebody

745
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:19,439
Speaker 1: said that, Yeah, now look at us, just happy as ever.

746
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: You know What's here's the problem, Like, even if I

747
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: saw a situation, even if I saw a situation that

748
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 1: might not have been healthy, it was definitely not a

749
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: great situation. And in hindsight, and not to cut you off,

750
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: but in hindsight, like yes, like any person that may

751
00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: have felt that would say run, But I stayed and

752
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: we worked through it and it's great now, but go ahead, right,

753
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 1: But if you look at a snapshot of anybody's relationship,

754
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 1: if they're in a rough patch, then somebody could say,

755
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: somebody could say run, you know what I'm saying, Like,

756
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 1: of any relationship, if it's the long term that you're

757
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: looking at, that's something I think, you know, even if

758
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: we talked way back when the ultimate free will and

759
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: choice has to be in the person's timing, when they're right,

760
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: based upon what they're seeing and based upon their own experiences.

761
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: So like, there's a lot of times I know that

762
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 1: I can't say something too, let's say a friend, because

763
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: if I say it to them, it's going to push

764
00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 1: the lesson off. So I know that I have to

765
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut and wait until certain things play

766
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: out so that they can turn around and say to me,

767
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: how come you didn't say something, And I'll be honest

768
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,360
Speaker 1: with them, like, well, if I would have said it,

769
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: would you have listened? And they go, no, I go,

770
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: that's why I didn't say anything. So I'm actually helping

771
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,719
Speaker 1: you by not saying something. And it's sped up the

772
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 1: reality of where you're at because you don't feel defensive

773
00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 1: now of the relationship. You're including me and asking my

774
00:37:41,640 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 1: opinion about what's taking place. Are transpired And by the way,

775
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you had to get to this point, but

776
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,680
Speaker 1: you wouldn't have learned you can't frost the cake until

777
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: you bake it, so she had to bake her own cake.

778
00:37:52,200 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 1: I love that. Okay, speechless, Usually I'll still keep attacking.

779
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 1: Can Mike, do you do any type of public speaking

780
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: or traveling in public speaking? But it's something that we're

781
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: looking into. I almost feel like there's a platform for

782
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: you that you're looking to kind of launch where it

783
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,400
Speaker 1: would be you kind of taking people that would be

784
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: broken and trying to not fix them but give them

785
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 1: the tools of understanding what they can do. And I

786
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 1: don't know why, but I'm seeing a lot of Asian

787
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: symbolism around you, like like Asian like like Asian symbols

788
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: like Japanese, Japanese, and like there's no trip to Japan

789
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: or no trip to China. There's nothing that's like you

790
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,520
Speaker 1: don't have any like you haven't been invited from a

791
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: corporate standpoint to do something or anything. There might be

792
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 1: something that's going to have that kind of outside of

793
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 1: the like almost like us like across the Pacific kind

794
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 1: of vibe for you. Interesting. No, but we've honestly been

795
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: talking about that because you know, he's been through a

796
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: lot and we've talked about him. Yeah, not saving or whatever,

797
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 1: but just offering advice and can I be personal like yeah, okay,

798
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 1: did somebody pass from the suicide? Like did somebody cross

799
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: themselves over? Where someone's actions? Yeah, because I feel like

800
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 1: somebody's taking responsibility for how they got there. And I

801
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 1: almost feel like it wasn't something that was discussed in

802
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 1: other words, like people glossed over in other words like

803
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 1: we know what happened. It was discussed, but there's a

804
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,759
Speaker 1: twofold story to that. So I don't I don't feel

805
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: like it's just I don't feel like it's just a suicide.

806
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: I feel like there's, like you know, it might have

807
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 1: been an underlying issue as well as so. I mean,

808
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 1: most people when they cross themselves over, there's multiple underlying issues.

809
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: But for me to say it, I feel like there's

810
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: two separate things. Is your mom still here and is

811
00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 1: she in a different state that I'm standing in? Kay um?

812
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 1: And are you going to work to bridge bridge that

813
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: relationship my mom and I? Yeah, we're good, Okay. I

814
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: feel like there's going to be some things that need

815
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 1: to be discussed, that's all. So maybe being being a

816
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 1: mom and some of those some of those things kind

817
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:15,919
Speaker 1: of coming coming in. We got into it on fourth

818
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: of July, kind of our first like fight. Is it

819
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 1: your first fight or is the first time you stood

820
00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 1: up yourself? So I feel like, what's really really important? No, seriously,

821
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: what's what's really important is that as you're now moving

822
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: into your um power as a mom right as a partner,

823
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,200
Speaker 1: there's a power commodity that has to be looked at

824
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: regarding who's brokering it. So you don't want to put

825
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: him in a position of competing with her when it

826
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: comes to what's happening in your future. You want to

827
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:53,279
Speaker 1: be something that's symbiotic, and I feel like on some

828
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 1: level there's a passive aggressive energy that needs to be addressed.

829
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: I agree. So if you don't create those boundaries, like

830
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: if you don't like call it out and like go

831
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: like this is really uncomfortable and not how I was

832
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: raised and I want to be respectful and all that

833
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, um, it could create issues for

834
00:41:11,000 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 1: you longer term, especially when you know, I'll say to

835
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: people like if somebody's having a child and one person's

836
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:20,640
Speaker 1: Catholic and one person is Jewish, but neither were really practicing,

837
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: so they kind of appease their family, and they have

838
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,680
Speaker 1: like the rabbi and the priest married them kind of

839
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 1: just to kind of keep the peace, but nobody really cares.

840
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 1: Five years later when the baby shows up, I always

841
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 1: say super Catholic and super jew show up. It's like

842
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: at that moment, all of a sudden, it's kind of

843
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like it's like it's like, you know,

844
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: it's like now we're ready to We're ready to battle

845
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,319
Speaker 1: for church over temple. And it's like, WHOA. But I

846
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:44,279
Speaker 1: see it a lot. And the reason why is that

847
00:41:44,360 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: we are programmed, right, so we have patterns and pathways

848
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: that get passed down. So it's a it's an automatic

849
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: thing that you want to impart to your child what

850
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: you think and feel and know. So you speak English,

851
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: you want to teach that child English. My wife speaks Portuguese.

852
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: They learned Portuguese, right you asked down? You know, I

853
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: speak energy. They speak that. If there's a conflict on

854
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: some level that needs to be addressed way before. So

855
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: I think that there could there could be that issue.

856
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: But there is a dad figure who has passed, so

857
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 1: there's definitely a vibe of of a dad that's passed.

858
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:19,719
Speaker 1: So whoever you would see as being like that paternal

859
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: like role model, or there's like an our name like

860
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:26,840
Speaker 1: Robert Roger, who's the r. Not for you guys, somebody's

861
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:28,359
Speaker 1: got a dad that's passed and there's an our name

862
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 1: connected to it, and he passed from cancer. No, just

863
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: remember that I'm saying that. So for me, it's like,

864
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 1: you know, older male uncle, father, grandfather, there's an our

865
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 1: name pass from cancer. February is connected in the family

866
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: birthday anniversary past he did from cancer. Yeah, so for

867
00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: my birthday was in February and my mom's their anniversary Inbruary.

868
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: So this would be your step dad's way of letting

869
00:42:54,200 --> 00:42:56,240
Speaker 1: me know that that he's here. He had two different

870
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 1: types of cancer too, it wasn't just one. So you

871
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 1: either had it twice and then somebody had like a

872
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: surgical cochlear implant or somebody had like a hearing. It

873
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 1: is somebody going for a hearing anything I do know someone. Yeah,

874
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 1: So that's so in the big scheme of things, like

875
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 1: that's a current event in your circle of energy that

876
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 1: your stepfather would come through talking about to let you

877
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 1: know that it's for you. And backing that up and

878
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 1: then there's a jay like Jack or James. There's a

879
00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 1: Jay name that I'm supposed to bring up? Who's the Jay?

880
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: And he's one of three? Or you're one of three? Yeah?

881
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 1: And then and then connected through your biological dad, is

882
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,800
Speaker 1: he's still here, but he's off right, he's out there, okay?

883
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 1: Because I feel like that's an emotional junkyard for you.

884
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 1: It's like there's a lot of stuff you have to

885
00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 1: walk through when it comes to what that is. And

886
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: your stepfather was kind of like the guy that played

887
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: the role of dad on on on some level. So

888
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 1: in some respects, you didn't get a chance to grieve

889
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:53,840
Speaker 1: your step dad and set that in the way that

890
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: you would like to grieve because it was more like

891
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: your mom's husband and he might have had his own

892
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: biological children, so you didn't want to step in the

893
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 1: way of that, right. And then connected to him, is

894
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: that where William comes in or the w name is

895
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 1: at that side of the family. My sister's husband is William.

896
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: Is he still here? Okay? So that's his way of

897
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,440
Speaker 1: letting me know I need to say hello to William.

898
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,680
Speaker 1: And then did you just get a parking ticket? Did

899
00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:21,920
Speaker 1: you just get like a ticket or pulled over. No,

900
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm seeing talk about the ticket, like be careful with

901
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: the ticket. But I almost want to say it happens.

902
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: So maybe somebody like your sister just got pulled over.

903
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: And it's like his way of bringing this up. And

904
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,560
Speaker 1: I know that you said he passed in February, but

905
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: October seems to be important too, so I don't if

906
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: there's a birthday in October. His birthday was in February.

907
00:44:39,280 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 1: He passed in August, and he showed me ten. So

908
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: when I see ten, I think October or the tenth

909
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: of a month, but there's a ten connection that comes

910
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 1: up with him. Is your mom still here? Can you

911
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 1: please let her know that he came through. Yes, I

912
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 1: think it'll help person know. Ha is he gone in

913
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,439
Speaker 1: the last three years? How long has he gone? It's

914
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:03,760
Speaker 1: been make people cry John three years ago though somebody

915
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: else must have just passed because he showed me that

916
00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: we're coming up on the third anniversary of something. So

917
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: three years ago, so what do we two eighteen? There

918
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,839
Speaker 1: was a passing because he's letting me know he's he's

919
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:22,799
Speaker 1: bringing bringing that up. But he's good. Okay, he's good.

920
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 1: Thank you for letting me do that. You do make

921
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:31,360
Speaker 1: people cry, not like not attentionally. It's a small byproduct

922
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: on occasion. But he would be like, Okay, there's got

923
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: to be somebody in there that hasn't our. That's what

924
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: you would like say, And that's I don't know, I believe.

925
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: But then it's don't change, say exactly the way you are.

926
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: You know why you're going to get more out of

927
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 1: life and experiences by doing what you're doing, which is

928
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:59,040
Speaker 1: questioning because it's so much it's so much more important

929
00:45:59,080 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: to recognize what you did that because you'll get more,

930
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: you'll get more out of it. I agree. Can you

931
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 1: tell us what you're doing, UM, you're doing in intensive

932
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 1: events on your Facebook? Yeah. So one of the things

933
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: that UM, I have, Like I took like a ten

934
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: year absence of being in front of the camera, like

935
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: I just wanted to focus, like look at you. You're great,

936
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: You're good, thank you. I appreciate that, thank you. UM.

937
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 1: I kind of felt like I did it, Like I

938
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,440
Speaker 1: did it. You know, I did four years of crossing

939
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 1: over that went inter national, that I did three years

940
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: of a show called cross Country that went inter national,

941
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,280
Speaker 1: And I was like okay, like I want to teach,

942
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: and TV is not gonna let me teach. No way

943
00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 1: with TV would let me have these conversations. So I

944
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: went online. So about a decade ago, I one online

945
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,920
Speaker 1: and you know, created an online forum and people can

946
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: find that throw on John Everard dot net. But um,

947
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 1: now that that's like up and running, now, I feel

948
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: like I'd like to kind of go back more to

949
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: the mainstream. Still not sure if TV would let me

950
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:56,760
Speaker 1: do what I wanted to do. But I was approached

951
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 1: to do something on Facebook Watch, so I did five

952
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,120
Speaker 1: episodes for them to call the Psychic. People can find

953
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,560
Speaker 1: it on Facebook. I'm not really sure how they find

954
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: on Facebook. No, It's just really funny because it's like,

955
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 1: you know, it's like I have my Facebook page that's

956
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,120
Speaker 1: which is my private page, like a personal page, but

957
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: you have to have like a personal page in order

958
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:18,840
Speaker 1: to have your professional page. And then off of the

959
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: professional page, now there's the psychic page. I'm like, why

960
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: can't just be in one spot? Yeah, I know, like

961
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: a supermarket. Um, don't you almost want to go back

962
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: to TV because there are so many psychics that are

963
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: getting there on TV shows and you're just kind of

964
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: don't you just want to hit them over the head

965
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: with like a book. You know. Somebody said to me

966
00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:38,120
Speaker 1: about a year and a half ago, um, you know,

967
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: you're leaving your Harry Potter years. And I was like,

968
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: what does that mean. He's like, well, you know you

969
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: started so young and you're like Harry Potter, like you know,

970
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:46,600
Speaker 1: the Wizard. He's like, and now you're moving into your

971
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: Dumbledore years. And I was like, Okay, this dude just

972
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: told me old, like right to my face. I was like, well,

973
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: can I be early dumble? Like I gotta go like

974
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: full rope and beer. And I have to say that

975
00:47:57,160 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: just something about recognizing after four decades and being in

976
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,200
Speaker 1: this field thirty or four years of doing it, that yeah,

977
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: I have an opinion. And you know, I've been more

978
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: open with how I feel about stuff that I see

979
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: and and it it. I don't like the gimmicky stuff

980
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: I don't like. I don't like seeing the subject matter

981
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,360
Speaker 1: not treated with respect. I think it's okay for it

982
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: to be deemed entertainment on television, but you know what,

983
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,719
Speaker 1: I lost my mom. There's nothing entertaining about that, you

984
00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, there's nothing entertaining about grief.

985
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: It could be educational, and education could be entertaining. But

986
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: I think there's a problem with TV. I think everything

987
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 1: is too reality based. I think that's why they need

988
00:48:32,880 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 1: you then, because you've got to keep it real. But

989
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 1: who I don't. I don't know if people would watch,

990
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: I'll I will debate that with you. Because of the

991
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,719
Speaker 1: stuff that Michael and I've gone through and all of

992
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: his our issues, people want real. It's not pretty. It's

993
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: utterly what we've been through, but it's people relate to that.

994
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: People want to like be there and sit through that.

995
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: And because they feel like they don't want all the

996
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: rainbows and butterflies, right well, I'm definitely not rainbows and

997
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I think it's changing, like people want

998
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,600
Speaker 1: the realness people. If I have that opportunity, I promise

999
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,160
Speaker 1: you I will take it. I got pulled. I got

1000
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: pulled it on the radio. Yeah, an intimate connection, it

1001
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: really is. Radio is my first love. Radio is my

1002
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:19,520
Speaker 1: first love. We can talk right out. Radio. Has your

1003
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: ability gotten strong? It has it has? Somebody recently said

1004
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: to me, like, why don't you bring Crossing Over back?

1005
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: And I was like, you mean like the reruns? And

1006
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,359
Speaker 1: they were like yeah. I was like no, no, no, no, no,

1007
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: and they was like why. I was like, no, no,

1008
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 1: I'm way better at doing this today than I was

1009
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: back then. Not that it wasn't good for them, just

1010
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 1: so much growth. Yeah, and it's so funny again not

1011
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 1: to be political, but like when I was listening, I

1012
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: was waiting to pick up my son at school, and

1013
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: they were doing I don't know who the guy's name,

1014
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,399
Speaker 1: but somebody was like one of the s Screme Courts people.

1015
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: They were like talking about what his nomination, talking about

1016
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 1: what his views were on certain things. So I immediately

1017
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,600
Speaker 1: identified with that and go, well, you know, if you

1018
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: would ask me today what my views are on something

1019
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,799
Speaker 1: in my field, I'm gonna judge that differently because I've

1020
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: got twenty years more experience than if you ask me

1021
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: that Sammy's that question back then. So I was like interesting.

1022
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,400
Speaker 1: So I always trying to again to real life, to

1023
00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: our parallels energetically to get people to think, like, you know,

1024
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 1: do you feel the same way about something today that

1025
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,879
Speaker 1: you did five years ago or five years before. Probably not.

1026
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: That's growth, you know. So well, I just cannot thank

1027
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 1: you enough for coming on the show, and I really

1028
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,439
Speaker 1: hope that you bought me up on the list. I'd

1029
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,319
Speaker 1: like to I'd like to be a two years at

1030
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 1: least out versus my twenty years out. So but no,

1031
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: I just really thank you. Is refreshing. Thank you, Thank

1032
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:42,959
Speaker 1: you so much. We talk about sleeping a lot because

1033
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: we like to sleep right, and I always say that

1034
00:50:45,120 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: you have to have a great mattress, but you need

1035
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:51,360
Speaker 1: good sheets. I am the sheet queen. I changed my

1036
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: sheets every day, that's crazy to me. Every day. I

1037
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 1: was at a hotel this weekend and I called down

1038
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: to have them come up and change the sheets. You know,

1039
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 1: that's not very good for the environment, I know, but

1040
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,920
Speaker 1: it's really good for my sleep. That's good. I mean

1041
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: if it helps you sleep, then yeah, do whatever, you

1042
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,239
Speaker 1: know what you want to do. But for me, like

1043
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 1: sheets is everything. You can have a comfy bed, but

1044
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: if you don't have comfy sheets, that just screws up,

1045
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 1: like the whole thing. So that's why I'm obsessed with Brooklyn,

1046
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 1: and because the sheets are so incredibly comfortable, and they're

1047
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:24,600
Speaker 1: they're like designer but at a discount. I love love

1048
00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,320
Speaker 1: with discount. Yeah no, it's it's so good. It's um

1049
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: they're like fancy hotel sheets like you were sleeping in.

1050
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: But it's reasonable prices, so I love it. So their

1051
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 1: methods take up the middleman, keep things personal just between

1052
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: them and the customer all the way from design to

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Speaker 1: I'm super strong. You're a pretty crier though, You're like,

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Speaker 1: like it's and I'm like that, so at least in

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Speaker 1: an ugly cry. No, that was pretty. Oh thank you, sorry, Carunderwood.

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Speaker 1: There is people can cry pretty. I usually descried pretty.

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Speaker 1: That was a pretty cry and Michael had a little

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00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:59,680
Speaker 1: Jen cried. I was speechless. You're a little stank and

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00:52:59,680 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 1: you're got a little onion cut going on. And I did,

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00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:05,359
Speaker 1: I did. When you talked about the speaking stuff, Yeah,

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00:53:05,440 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: because we've we've we've discussed that, We've talked about it

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Speaker 1: with a lot of different people, and so he picked

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00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:15,040
Speaker 1: up on that was just crazy. Yeah. As soon as

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Speaker 1: he said that, just because I know the backstory of it,

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00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 1: I was like, here we go, buffle, your kid got

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00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: lost with when he started to like dive into other things. Yeah,

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00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:28,319
Speaker 1: and that's just where my skepticism just comes into play.

1084
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 1: And I just questioned all of that because it's just

1085
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: you know, find a needle in haystack or you know,

1086
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: it's just somebody has somebody you're fishing, you're fishing, you're

1087
00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: throwing it out there, you're hoping, you're seeing what sticks,

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00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 1: and you're going off of that. Yeah, I just have

1089
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: a hard time. I know, even with like the suicide thing.

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00:53:45,920 --> 00:53:48,240
Speaker 1: It's kind of like I'm sure a lot of people

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00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: here have you know what i mean, like someone we know,

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00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 1: so it's I don't know. So that's where it's like

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00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 1: the fishing thing kind of gets a little. Yeah, like

1094
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 1: I knew a kid in elementary school or committed suicide

1095
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 1: elementary school. His name was Suicide an elementary school. He

1096
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 1: was in seventh grade, six or seven grades, six or

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00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: seventh it might have been six. Wow, yeah he must have.

1098
00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: Really it was bad. It was bad, not supported at home. Yeah,

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00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: it was really really bad. And his name and his

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Speaker 1: name started with an R and so like that. But

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00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:24,040
Speaker 1: but it's like that was however many years ago. You know,

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00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm in my thirties, Like come on, like, I'm not

1103
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 1: going that far back. That's not coming up for you

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00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: right now. Yeah, you know what i mean. Were you

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00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: even close to them? We're friends right right. It's just

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00:54:36,239 --> 00:54:37,680
Speaker 1: one of those where it's like and then I'm like,

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00:54:37,719 --> 00:54:39,719
Speaker 1: oh my god, maybe he met my friend Rachel or

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00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: like or yeah, I was just not not the comment suicide.

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00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: But you know I'm saying with the other stuff, right,

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00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 1: So it's just crazy. But but either way, regardless of

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00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 1: whether that was really obviously there was real connection to

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00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: you with some of those things. But I love, I

1113
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,200
Speaker 1: do love his energy, and I love that he saesn't

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00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 1: is without projecting that kind of energy. I think we

1115
00:55:00,360 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: can all do that. Yeah, y'all, you know, listen to

1116
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,399
Speaker 1: your gut and read energy. Yeah. I think that he's

1117
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: the perfect person for any kind of skeptic out there

1118
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:10,720
Speaker 1: about that, because I'm the one of the world's biggest

1119
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 1: skeptics when it comes to that stuff. Where his energy,

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00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: his philosophy just on life and positivity and optimism and

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00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: just how to change your mindset. Um, I think that

1122
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:25,120
Speaker 1: can kind of convert any skeptic into believing to an

1123
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:28,360
Speaker 1: extent things with because honestly, like you know, people, I

1124
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: hear people and Janna talk about all the time with

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00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 1: friends or their kids, like oh, what sign are you

1126
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 1: or what signing? And to me that means nothing And

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00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,520
Speaker 1: maybe I should that's something I should look more into

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00:55:37,760 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: and research more about pisces or whatever. But just to me,

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00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 1: I've never really correlated how people are with that. Yeah,

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00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I I agree to extend like some people

1131
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: are so into their signs where it's like, yes, I

1132
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: definitely have Sagittarius traits, but I also, you know, I

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00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: don't like live and die by it, where I don't

1134
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Speaker 1: like I you know. And obviously he's very strong about

1135
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 1: to be able to keep his kid and then the

1136
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:03,880
Speaker 1: womb for longer. But it's like for me, I'm like,

1137
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 1: is it really like you can still you're not defined

1138
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 1: by just your trade. But I don't know who knows.

1139
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 1: Some people get so crazy to stars and analogies and

1140
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:14,719
Speaker 1: and that's exactly where my issue is, because I feel

1141
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: like people read their sign like, all right, I'm a Sagittarius.

1142
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: That means I'm supposed to be this, this, this, and this,

1143
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:22,280
Speaker 1: and so then they act according to what the signs

1144
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 1: tells them they're supposed to be like. And then it's

1145
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 1: like you're not making your own personality, You're just going

1146
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,359
Speaker 1: off of the stars. It's like, come on. And that's

1147
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,919
Speaker 1: when John talked about free will, because I'm sure all

1148
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,959
Speaker 1: of you, all of us in this room, have friends

1149
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,160
Speaker 1: who go to psychics who then say, well, the psychic

1150
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: told me this is going to happen, so I'm just

1151
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 1: going to wait until this happens. And I always say

1152
00:56:43,880 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: to them. You what are you doing living your life

1153
00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:53,680
Speaker 1: according to someone else what they've told you? And I'm sorry, baby,

1154
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: you said you're a pisces Okay, I just google the

1155
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: pisces man in love. Every time this man falls in love,

1156
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Speaker 1: he will think that he found the love of his life.

1157
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: With a certain relative view, this might actually be true

1158
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: for each one of his loves. Every relationship in his

1159
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: life is very different from the previous one, and each

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Speaker 1: one represents an important lesson. My mom, Mom, who says

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00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: right here though, it says, um pisces man has the

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00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 1: heart of a poet and the soul of a mystic.

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00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 1: Tell me what that means. I'm just saying, like, that's

1164
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:29,520
Speaker 1: not you. Okay, Here's like a slippery fish. The pisces

1165
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: man is hard to pin down. There we go, so

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Speaker 1: the one thing to protect his freedom before he'll commit

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00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: to anything. This is true, That is very true. You

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Speaker 1: have dating you can be quite the adventure. Um, yes,

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Speaker 1: so I think it's I think you definitely have some right.

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00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,640
Speaker 1: But you could probably go through all signs, however many

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00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 1: they are, and find certain traits of that have And

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Speaker 1: so I am a Gemini into cancer because I was

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Speaker 1: born than the Yeah, and I do have some Gemini traits,

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Speaker 1: but I also have a ton of cancer traits that

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Speaker 1: are grounding, and you know, like I'm a homebody. I'm

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Speaker 1: not a flake like most Geminis are. You know, some

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Speaker 1: people will say, well, Geminis are like they you know,

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Speaker 1: they're very selfish, right, And I'm not that person, and

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Speaker 1: I'm more of a cancer. When it's that I'm going

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Speaker 1: to nurture you, I'm going to conture you. I'm like,

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00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: I'm calling total to this one. A pisces man in

1182
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: love will give his entire self to his partner, sooning

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Speaker 1: in the dance of two souls, merging as one that

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Speaker 1: Like all staring into Janna's eyes last night, everywhere, all

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Speaker 1: trying to stand staring to Janna's eyes last night, and

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Speaker 1: of um relationships, we have a bunch of emails here,

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Speaker 1: do we. Let's read some and this one is this

1208
01:00:01,800 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 1: is from Cat. This is a complicated emotional situation that

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Speaker 1: Cat's going through. You want to read it? Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: I can read it. So my boyfriend and I are

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Speaker 1: living separately. Hi, Janna and Jen my boyfriend and I

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Speaker 1: of ten years And Mike, Sorry, I should have added

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Speaker 1: that Hi, Janna and Jen and my my boyfriend and

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Speaker 1: I have ten years, have recently decided that we want

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Speaker 1: to live apart for a while, meaning I'm moving back

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Speaker 1: into my parents house and he's going to stay in

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Speaker 1: the house that we've rented for the past five years

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Speaker 1: or move into an apartment. The plan is to move

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Speaker 1: back in together eventually. We do have two kids, both boys,

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Speaker 1: eight and two. My boyfriend is four years younger than me,

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Speaker 1: and we are complete opposites where I'm okay with staying

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01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:53,280
Speaker 1: in and he loves to go out and party. He

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01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 1: was so quick to agree with us living separately, and

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Speaker 1: even though we said we aren't breaking up and we

1225
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Speaker 1: are all going to be together, it just feels like

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Speaker 1: it's the beginning of the end. What do you guys

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01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: think and how should I handle the situation? I think

1228
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:10,720
Speaker 1: your gut just told you the answer. Yeah, trust your intuition,

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Speaker 1: that inner voice. Never if he ever steers you wrong, ever,

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Speaker 1: And if he's like a partier and was like, of

1231
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:21,360
Speaker 1: course he wants to live separate, He's like you, I'm

1232
01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: gonna be able to do my own thing and I

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01:01:23,000 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: don't have any rules. Well, do you want that like

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Speaker 1: it's like, you guys have kids, and I mean no judgment,

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Speaker 1: but it's like, I mean, if it works for you,

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01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: like Carrie and Big have like a separate place, but like,

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01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:37,960
Speaker 1: but the kids once they transition and adjust to living

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01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: back at your parents house and I'm just assuming the

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01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 1: kids are going with you. I don't know why, but um,

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Speaker 1: it's going to be it's a really difficult transition to

1241
01:01:47,320 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: them pull them out and go back. You guys need

1242
01:01:51,800 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: to make a decision. You need to go to therapy

1243
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: and make a decision. You do because you're either like

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01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: you either need to break up or honestly getting get married,

1245
01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: because yeah, but this is not sounding lovely to me, Michael,

1246
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: You're getting married is not the answer. Well, obviously break

1247
01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: up or get married one of the other. They clearly

1248
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: need to work through like a ton of issues. Yeah,

1249
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:17,840
Speaker 1: just my just the only thing I could say is

1250
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,040
Speaker 1: you have to side with the girl's trust your gut,

1251
01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:23,600
Speaker 1: but communicate, have a conversation, be like what is it

1252
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: about the topic of living separately, Like, you know, what

1253
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: is what are you looking to get out of it?

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01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: Meaning ask him what are you looking at? Yeah? And

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Speaker 1: that's I mean, honestly, that's you know for me. You know,

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Speaker 1: we've talked about this, like you always crack jokes. I

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Speaker 1: love when you go out of town now and stuff

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Speaker 1: like that. But I tell Jane, I'm like, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: cool for twenty four hours and I'm like, a, right,

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Speaker 1: this sucks. And yeah, sometimes guys we just need like

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01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: that free space to like just do yeah whatever it

1262
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: may be, be lazy, beat, dirty, no, not to move out.

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Speaker 1: So this seems a little extreme. Yeah, if you told

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Speaker 1: me you wanted to move out, I'd be like, please

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01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: sign here on this piece of paper exactly. And you

1266
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: need to be ready for the answers that you don't

1267
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: want to hear, because he needs to be honest with

1268
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: you and you might not like what he has to say. Yeah,

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01:03:15,320 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: it just doesn't sound like it sounds like he's still

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01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:19,040
Speaker 1: in it's like party years, and he doesn't seem like

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01:03:19,040 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 1: a very grown up, especially if he wants to go

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01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: out party that much and you got eight and a

1273
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 1: two year old might come on, dude, come on button

1274
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:27,480
Speaker 1: it up a little bit. Stop paying out with Scott

1275
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Speaker 1: de Sect. Okay, time to grow up. Find find a man, Yes,

1276
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: find a man. On the same page, you will say yeah,

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01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: I mean Grant and Michael is younger than me, but

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Speaker 1: well not just someone who who is wants to live

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01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 1: in the same way. Yes, right, yeah, you like go

1280
01:03:45,760 --> 01:03:51,360
Speaker 1: to bed before midnight? Yeah right, I mean anything after ten.

1281
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, shoot, I'm like thirty yeah, no, I'm in.

1282
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:59,439
Speaker 1: We're in bed. We put Jolie down, We're in bed,

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01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 1: teeth brush, ready to go, and so romantic at the

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Speaker 1: cost an household. By the way, we look at this

1285
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,479
Speaker 1: visual too, I was like, okay, maybe I'll like slip

1286
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 1: into like some launder lingerie and so, like you know,

1287
01:04:20,160 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 1: it's like failing myself put some laundry on. But then

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01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:24,800
Speaker 1: it was like it was a tubetop basically. But I

1289
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:25,960
Speaker 1: was I was like it was it was like one

1290
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 1: of those mid drift tops. I was like, this is

1291
01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: not sexy, Like my belly is like poking out. My

1292
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,160
Speaker 1: laundry is like hits the top of my belly button.

1293
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 1: And I'm like, you time to go to Target and

1294
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 1: get some moves. You look amazing beautiful anymore. That sounds good? Well, hey,

1295
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:45,360
Speaker 1: I will say this. I want you guys to email

1296
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:49,000
Speaker 1: us whatever you want us to answer. I mean, from

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Speaker 1: sex to relationships to anxiety to I mean, like literally

1298
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Speaker 1: whatever it could be. Why is the sky blue? I

1299
01:04:54,480 --> 01:05:00,160
Speaker 1: don't know why? But kids, yeah, money, whatever, jan a

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Speaker 1: Creamer at I Heart Media dot com and we will

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01:05:03,360 --> 01:05:06,280
Speaker 1: answer emails and get some you know, some some legit

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01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: people to help answer them as well. Gender brush your

1303
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:13,720
Speaker 1: teeth probably about three or four times a day, you

1304
01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,360
Speaker 1: really do. I'm lucky if I get one. But have

1305
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 1: you ever tried quip? I haven't, but I you know

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Speaker 1: what I was thinking this weekend as I was stuffing

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Speaker 1: my toothbrush into my little carry on case. I don't

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01:05:27,840 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 1: have to do that with right. It's got a really

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01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: it's very it's it's a it's reasonable, it's not like two,

1310
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Speaker 1: it's not bulky, and it's got a really cool um

1311
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Speaker 1: cover case that actually is not only a case. But

1312
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Speaker 1: if you can stick it on your mirror. I love

1313
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Speaker 1: that because it's so gross if you don't have your toothbrusholder.

1314
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Speaker 1: That's what happened to me this week, kind of just

1315
01:05:47,680 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: stuck it in my bag. I usually threw my toothbrush

1316
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:51,520
Speaker 1: in like a makeup bag and then I have like

1317
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: bronzer on my makeup. I don't have a toothbrush, and

1318
01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 1: then finger here it comes, but with Quip. With Equip,

1319
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Speaker 1: I don't need that because again it has it's really cute,

1320
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Speaker 1: it's rose gold. Oprah loves it. It was on her

1321
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Speaker 1: three months, so every three months you need a new head.

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Speaker 1: com slash Janna. I don't like the term quickie. That's

1332
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 1: a funny one. Let's do that. Whenever my boyfriend is

1333
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: in the mood to have sex, he just goes for it,

1334
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:46,680
Speaker 1: and then when he finishes it all stops. I don't

1335
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: like the term quickie because to him it means he

1336
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 1: doesn't need to worry about my needs. He can just

1337
01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:53,439
Speaker 1: finish and be done with it. But I also don't

1338
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: like when it lasts forever. When I brought it up

1339
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: to him, as response was to tell me how silly

1340
01:06:57,600 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: I was. He's really good to me. I just don't

1341
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,560
Speaker 1: think he understands that penetration isn't as enjoyable for me

1342
01:07:02,600 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 1: as it is for him. I am taking antidepressants and

1343
01:07:05,200 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: they seem to be really lowering my sex drive. I

1344
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 1: want us to both enjoy it, but I just don't

1345
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: know how. I definitely think it's insensitive, and I feel

1346
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:19,520
Speaker 1: like men do this a lot where they don't they

1347
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: don't get the needs of the woman and they roll

1348
01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 1: off it. And why why are you smirking on it

1349
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: saying like you like, it's not like I just feel

1350
01:07:31,560 --> 01:07:36,280
Speaker 1: like the ratio is skewed there. Why is it like?

1351
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:38,520
Speaker 1: Why is it okay that you guys just are like, okay,

1352
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 1: gonna And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa? Why haven't you

1353
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:45,919
Speaker 1: finished me? But I think not all men are like that,

1354
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:54,320
Speaker 1: not all. And my husband's kidding all our nights. So

1355
01:07:54,520 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: here's here's my bottom bottom line advice. She at it

1356
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: up to him, He pushed it back, projected it back

1357
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: on to her how silly she is. Yeah, that's that's rude.

1358
01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:09,920
Speaker 1: I would say, bring it up one more time, express

1359
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 1: your needs and maybe there's some other issues in the

1360
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:18,920
Speaker 1: relationship in a calm, non accusing way. Guys will be

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01:08:19,040 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 1: very defensive offensive about that, right, Yeah, because you're that's yeah,

1362
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 1: that's very vulnerable and that's very very intimate thing for

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01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: a guy to Yeah, that can kill kill confidence in

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01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:34,080
Speaker 1: and a guy. So but you know, it's that's tough

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01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: for It's like I don't want to quickly, but I

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01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: don't want to take too long. Well there, however, is

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01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,080
Speaker 1: kind of like, yeah, it sucks for us too. We

1368
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: get tired, cramped, hamstring cramps, but starts tightening up. Arms

1369
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:50,679
Speaker 1: are tired. Well, she's also on antidepressants and they're lowering

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01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:54,320
Speaker 1: her sex drive, which could be very frustrating too. I

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01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,439
Speaker 1: was on Zola for like three years and didn't have

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01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:59,320
Speaker 1: one orgasm the entire time, so so I'll get it.

1373
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 1: That's just sucks. So maybe try switching presence. Yeah, you

1374
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 1: can talk to your psychiatrists and maybe try different dosage

1375
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 1: levels twitching. I'm on lex prow and I love it personally,

1376
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 1: so all in all, talk to him about it. Validate him,

1377
01:09:15,080 --> 01:09:17,400
Speaker 1: don't say it's about him. Just say, hey, I love

1378
01:09:17,439 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 1: having sex with you, I love our sex life. I

1379
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 1: would just you know, for me, I would really love

1380
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 1: for my needs to be met a little bit more.

1381
01:09:24,200 --> 01:09:28,599
Speaker 1: But I just you know, I love you. I just

1382
01:09:29,000 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 1: you know, I just wished my needs were met a

1383
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: little bit more. You get it, or add some toys

1384
01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 1: to your game, do something, bring it, bring it all right.

1385
01:09:40,120 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 1: So please, we really really really want to answer your

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01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: emails Janne Kramer at i heeartmedia dot com and we

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01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: cannot wait to wind down with you again next Monday.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye later New