WEBVTT - Is Kidnapping a Business with Tatyana Ali and

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, family, I'm your girl to mek A D. Mallory,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your boy, my son in general, and we are

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<v Speaker 1>your host of street politicians the place where this is

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<v Speaker 1>a heavy show, Mike, were getting ready to get into

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<v Speaker 1>something that's deep, deep, deep deep deep. Ready. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a tough one man, you know. Just over the last

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks, you know, this first story that we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about had me and tears. And I don't usually cry,

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<v Speaker 1>but this won't hav me in tears. You cry sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I try not to, you know, trying not

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<v Speaker 1>to try not to cry. I do. I ain't gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm one of the people that trying not to cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting better aty not to cry. You should get

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<v Speaker 1>at it, yeah, because the stuff we deal with is heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's heavy, and actually I've been really um. I have

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<v Speaker 1>actually been blessed by the fact that you and other

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<v Speaker 1>men around y'all do expect yourselves not just in tears,

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<v Speaker 1>but even in words and just making it clear to hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this ship hurts. You know it hurts. So I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think you should try not to cry, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see you crying any minute. All

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<v Speaker 1>the time every day, because I don't think you want

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<v Speaker 1>to see me crying every minute all the time. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a heavy discussion. We're talking about this new term

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<v Speaker 1>that we're learning around medical kidnapping. Some people are calling

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<v Speaker 1>it legal kidnapping. Others are calling it removal of children

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<v Speaker 1>from the home, which is the that's really the basis

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<v Speaker 1>of the argument. There's some people who are um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just calling all types of things and I'm learning something.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning so many terms and the other thing, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that this whole and then we're also talking about

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<v Speaker 1>human trafficking and how the things intersect um and and

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that I know, and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>said to us a million times, you know, the adults

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<v Speaker 1>will always say, you stop learning a debt. So for us,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a new world that we've been introduced to

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<v Speaker 1>and we're learning new terminology, learning about issues that we

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know, and how it kind of connects to

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<v Speaker 1>the work we do every day. Yeah, interesting, very much so, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and it's this this listening, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>viewing what's happened with Sasha and time in Tyrene and

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<v Speaker 1>just seeing what's going on, just paying attention and to

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<v Speaker 1>start learning. There was a line you have to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people whose sight in Tyrene if you haven't been paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention to the news. Um, there are a couple whose

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<v Speaker 1>baby was, you know, medically kidnapped as you said, or

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<v Speaker 1>people say that some people say and just watching it.

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<v Speaker 1>There was alive where she had to turn in her

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<v Speaker 1>baby to the to the hospital, and she was on

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<v Speaker 1>live with another young lady who I think maybe have

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<v Speaker 1>been a lawyer or something, and she was giving them

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<v Speaker 1>terms to use as they took took her baby, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>allow into the hospital, wouldn't allow them to do to

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<v Speaker 1>even be there while they took tests or did whatever

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<v Speaker 1>that was they would do. So I was just listening

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<v Speaker 1>to the lady and she was giving her advice and saying,

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<v Speaker 1>ask them these questions right this down, asked them, all

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<v Speaker 1>you telling me that I can't be present with my child?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you telling me that I'm not allowed to be

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<v Speaker 1>present with my child while you are performing medical examinations?

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<v Speaker 1>Like there was a lot of things going on in

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<v Speaker 1>that thing, and I just started learning. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, it's it's we need to be informed, we

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<v Speaker 1>need to know what our legal rights. All we need

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<v Speaker 1>to know what they're able to do, what they're not

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<v Speaker 1>able to do. So this whole situation every day, every minute,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm learning more and more about it. Yeah. No, So

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<v Speaker 1>Saisha and Ti Tyrene Um, so that folks know, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they are a couple that after their child was one

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<v Speaker 1>years old, they lost their son. And after losing the

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<v Speaker 1>first baby, it was already determined that CPS Child Protective

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<v Speaker 1>Services would be somehow involved in the birth of a

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<v Speaker 1>new child that Saysha was pregnant with, which baby I set.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's such a beautiful name. Uh. She was

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<v Speaker 1>now returned to her family, but after one week she

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<v Speaker 1>had been removed from the household because of the things

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<v Speaker 1>that have been already happening with baby Rock. Um. And

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<v Speaker 1>so they are this has been going off for six

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<v Speaker 1>months that their son was removed from the home and Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a movement that has really been developing around helping

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<v Speaker 1>them to fight for their children and so Um, like

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<v Speaker 1>you said, we've been getting deep into learning and understanding

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<v Speaker 1>that there are so many families across the country. And

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<v Speaker 1>guess what, there's some families that probably need their children

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<v Speaker 1>taken right. Some there are people who do not deserve

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<v Speaker 1>to have children. But when I see the number of

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<v Speaker 1>folks that have been reaching out to us recently, they

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<v Speaker 1>know about some's wrong here. Something is wrong, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't you just look at just look at the way

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<v Speaker 1>that this couple love doing their children and used to

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<v Speaker 1>just see the intensity and an intention of love that

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<v Speaker 1>they give to these babies. You know, it just it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like something is definitely all wrong here. Yeah, And

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<v Speaker 1>being being a loving parents, being a good person does

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<v Speaker 1>not mean you're perfect. It just all may that not

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<v Speaker 1>being perfect doesn't mean that's somebody to take your children

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<v Speaker 1>exactly exactly. You might not get the laxation process right,

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<v Speaker 1>which was the case in sietious situation. You might not

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<v Speaker 1>get you know, the child might fall and hurt themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And I get it. The system doesn't know when to

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<v Speaker 1>activate and when not. Because you don't know people lie.

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<v Speaker 1>Children can't necessarily speak for themselves or advocate. But there

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<v Speaker 1>has to be a better way than to rip babies

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<v Speaker 1>out the arms of their mothers, mothers and fathers. So

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<v Speaker 1>we're talking about that today, and I had I have

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<v Speaker 1>a little thought though that is totally not a part

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<v Speaker 1>of this conversation around um, these new terms that we're

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<v Speaker 1>learning medical kidnapping, understanding more about human trafficking and sex trafficking.

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<v Speaker 1>Those things are really serious and we really are focused

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<v Speaker 1>on that in this show. UM, like my Daughter of

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<v Speaker 1>the Day, as I have been on my social media

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<v Speaker 1>the last few days, and you know that. Uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean obviously you invited uh Snoop to be on our board.

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<v Speaker 1>These Uncle Snoop dogs to us. We love him so much. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a great support of Until Freedom, our organization, Until

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<v Speaker 1>Freedom Go. Get you a T shirt from where Until

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<v Speaker 1>Freedom is that? And um, and he has been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about this Craig challenge. I'm trying to understand most people,

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<v Speaker 1>most people, because there are some people who are there

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<v Speaker 1>definite and usually as white folks that be their deafin.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people get hurt doing something that they did not

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<v Speaker 1>want to get hurt. They weren't trying to get hurt,

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<v Speaker 1>they weren't expecting to get hurt, and they thought that

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<v Speaker 1>the odds for them to to do this thing, we

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<v Speaker 1>are tying their favor right. They thought they thought I

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<v Speaker 1>could ride this motorcycle. I'm a willie. I know that

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<v Speaker 1>I shouldn't be, but the odds are most people can

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<v Speaker 1>pop a willie and they're good. Right. The crate challenge,

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<v Speaker 1>the odds are all the way against you, and only

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<v Speaker 1>a point point point one percent of people will actually succeed.

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<v Speaker 1>But dot two, three four or whatever, getting as close

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<v Speaker 1>to a hundred percent as possible will not just fall,

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<v Speaker 1>but will hit the concrete. You don't have control of

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<v Speaker 1>your face, your head, nothing, or you're hitting these crates.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen people hit their their head with the crates.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen people their sides getting slammed. So they are

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<v Speaker 1>intentionally going out to do something where the odds are

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<v Speaker 1>that you could really hurt yourself really bad. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to understand who the hell came up with it,

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<v Speaker 1>and why are black people who, by the way, don't

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<v Speaker 1>like to go to the hospital because we are not

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<v Speaker 1>treated properly when we get there. And a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>us don't have proper health insurance. Some of us don't

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<v Speaker 1>have health insurance at all. Some folks got to go

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<v Speaker 1>to work, or at least I thought maybe the pandemic's

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<v Speaker 1>got something to do with it, because you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be at work now, your arm is hurting, your head's hurtain.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't got knocked out your side, it's not right?

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<v Speaker 1>What sense that maybe you could tell me? What sense

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<v Speaker 1>does this make? It is stupid? It ain't like for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at it and I'm like, yo, who came

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<v Speaker 1>up with? Let me just see if I could Because

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<v Speaker 1>after watching two or three of them in the way

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<v Speaker 1>they're falling, I'm like, it's no way I'm trying that,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if there's no possible way that I'm walking up

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<v Speaker 1>crates where people fall on a slide on a side,

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<v Speaker 1>the legs flip open, people hitting the ground. The last

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<v Speaker 1>onee somebody, the last one I've seen. Moody actually kicked

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<v Speaker 1>the dude all of his and he felt it almost

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<v Speaker 1>broke his neck. And I'm like, yo, why do we

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<v Speaker 1>find amusement in the stupidest ship? Like what it is? Like?

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<v Speaker 1>What it's like? We ain't chat. We don't have the

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<v Speaker 1>challenge to get money, We don't have the challenge to

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<v Speaker 1>build business. We ain't got the challenge to be entrepreneurs.

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<v Speaker 1>We ain't got the challenge to friends make money together

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<v Speaker 1>a challenge, but we got to create chat like come on,

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<v Speaker 1>like I mean, listen, I guess it's entertained to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, it's stupid do pick completely, and I hope

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<v Speaker 1>that people will be smarter than the stupidity that we see.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's done. Before we go to the next segment

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<v Speaker 1>and have our special guests joint, we're gonna take a

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<v Speaker 1>quick break for our sponsors. So I am uh just

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<v Speaker 1>so how be. But unfortunately it's not a happy occasion,

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<v Speaker 1>uh to have a young woman with us today that

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<v Speaker 1>has really truly UM over the last few weeks shown

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<v Speaker 1>me what humble aggression is all about. A very uh,

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<v Speaker 1>soft spoken woman but yet very powerful in that when

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<v Speaker 1>she sees injustice, she's gonna find everybody that's necessary to

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<v Speaker 1>get involved and to help. UM. Most of you saw

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<v Speaker 1>that until Freedom has been supporting Saysha and Ti, who

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<v Speaker 1>lost their two children. They've now UM received one of

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<v Speaker 1>their babies back, been reunited with with with their younger

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<v Speaker 1>daughter UM with the newborn, but they still have not

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<v Speaker 1>been reunited with their son. And there is a major

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<v Speaker 1>campaign to bring raw home. And you all have been

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<v Speaker 1>very much so involved in that, UM. But I've found

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<v Speaker 1>out because Tatiana ilily called me and over the last

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks, UM, we have bonded. Unfortunately, in trauma, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people don't recognize how much trauma brings people together. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be the same for our relationship, my song

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<v Speaker 1>with the with the Brianna Taylors family, with Trayvon Martin's family.

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<v Speaker 1>You've become really close to so many individuals based upon trauma,

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<v Speaker 1>and that has happened here with Tatiana and I being

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone morning, noon and night trying to assist

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<v Speaker 1>this family in whatever way that we can, understanding that

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<v Speaker 1>the system we're up against has a lot of power

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of people who support it, even people

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<v Speaker 1>who look like us. So Tatiana, this past weekend you

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<v Speaker 1>were in um Sara sold to Florida at a rally

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<v Speaker 1>that we all kind of worked on. UM. A shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to the family and our sister Denisia, who was

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<v Speaker 1>really the lead organizer on putting the alete together. And

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<v Speaker 1>we were all supposed to be there, and then Hurricane

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<v Speaker 1>Henry Kane and decided that those of us leaving from

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<v Speaker 1>the northeast wouldn't be able to make it. But you

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<v Speaker 1>were still able to go trade the truth to our brother,

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<v Speaker 1>who we are on the front lines with every day,

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<v Speaker 1>was there. He could travel. Thankfully this time the hurricane

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't in Houston, Texas, where he is unfortunately always UM

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<v Speaker 1>on the front lines dealing with people who are experiencing

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<v Speaker 1>that issue and the tragedies associated with hurricanes. So we

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<v Speaker 1>weren't able to be there, but you all held down

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<v Speaker 1>the fort and we wanted to hear from you firsthand

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. You know, what did you see? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you experience? Thanks to make up for for everything that

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<v Speaker 1>that you've done. And and I want to say that

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<v Speaker 1>like I you know, I see the way you move

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<v Speaker 1>and so um that's why I put the a p

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<v Speaker 1>B out on you. Everybody was calling me like ta Tiana,

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<v Speaker 1>I leave needs to talk to you. I pretext, I

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<v Speaker 1>got emails, I got phone calls, I got d M

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<v Speaker 1>s on Twitter and Instagram. Everybody I did um and

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<v Speaker 1>uh so so um so in Snnesota. UM, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to um meet cit entire in person. I

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<v Speaker 1>also got a chance to meet baby. I said, um

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<v Speaker 1>uh and um uh baby, I said Grandma Tai's mom, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>Mrs Elma Mackay uh. And it was just a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>It was a beautiful gathering of um their community and

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<v Speaker 1>the people in their community that have really been rallying

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<v Speaker 1>around them and getting the message out. UM. I also

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<v Speaker 1>met other families UH from Kentucky, from Texas, from New York,

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<v Speaker 1>from Alabama who made their way UM, who were able

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<v Speaker 1>to make their way over UH to be there because

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<v Speaker 1>for them, this was their first opportunity to UM, to

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<v Speaker 1>speak on it in a more public way. They've been

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<v Speaker 1>trying very much, and nobody's answering their calls, nobody's listening. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. I mean to say, it was a unity rally.

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<v Speaker 1>It started with meditation, It started with quiet, and you know,

0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:27.440
<v Speaker 1>people's hearts are broken because they're longing for their children. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>And in many cases they are the very space that

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<v Speaker 1>they went to for help is where they were attacked

0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:38.000
<v Speaker 1>and where they were victimizing, where their children were taken

0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:44.760
<v Speaker 1>or you know, um illegally or legally sorry, legally kidnapped. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. It was beautiful that all the families spoke. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>There was music, UM, and it was a lot. This

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<v Speaker 1>was just yesterday. So so I'm I'm still just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of downloading with myself just you know, emotionally what was there.

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<v Speaker 1>And and sometimes you go into these spaces and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was there for to help and to say like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I care, and I'm there and I'm willing

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<v Speaker 1>to too, willing and I hope God willing able to

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<v Speaker 1>help as much as I can, but also to provide

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<v Speaker 1>encouragement that they're not alone in sarah Soota, and that

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<v Speaker 1>there are people all over the country and even people

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<v Speaker 1>outside of the country who are starting to pay attention

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<v Speaker 1>and who who want to help and want to know

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<v Speaker 1>how to help. Um it's tough. It's tough. When I

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things that I said when I was there,

0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:44.920
<v Speaker 1>when I got a chance to speak, and your message

0:16:44.960 --> 0:16:48.160
<v Speaker 1>that you sent, Tomika was really well received and and

0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:52.560
<v Speaker 1>it was beautiful and very powerful, as you always are. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>But one of the things that I um I said is,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's true. What drew me in to their story

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<v Speaker 1>when it was sent to me by a friend was

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<v Speaker 1>amen Ra's eyes. They look like my baby's eyes. They're

0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:13.320
<v Speaker 1>full of light. They're happy, they're joyful. You know how,

0:17:13.440 --> 0:17:15.080
<v Speaker 1>you know how black babies when we love on them,

0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:18.240
<v Speaker 1>they're all nice and oil and their hair is curl

0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:20.280
<v Speaker 1>because they got the oils on them. You know, they

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<v Speaker 1>got cocoa butter and shay and everything. And this is

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<v Speaker 1>what this baby looks like. And and and and immediately

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<v Speaker 1>just from his face, from from the light in his eyes,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, wait a minute, he has loved what is

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<v Speaker 1>going on here. And and I recognize my sons in

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<v Speaker 1>him and in all of the children whose pictures were

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<v Speaker 1>up there. And you know, wrong is wrong? Um? I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like if if we are a village, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>independent of how far we are by miles, and when

0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.760
<v Speaker 1>you take our children, there has to be a response.

0:17:55.400 --> 0:17:58.560
<v Speaker 1>They're there. Without our children, we we don't have anything.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, they are there are greatest wildest dreams, dreams

0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:06.320
<v Speaker 1>we can't even begin to conceive of. They are those

0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:09.840
<v Speaker 1>things manifest in this world, and without them we have nothing.

0:18:10.600 --> 0:18:13.399
<v Speaker 1>They can't they can't. This can't stand, so can I?

0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to ask you like a two part question.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, for for all of those I think

0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:23.359
<v Speaker 1>pretty much most people know what happened with the situation,

0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:26.240
<v Speaker 1>but some people may not. So I want you to

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<v Speaker 1>give like a brief synopsis about what happened. And then

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you talked about the rally and the people

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<v Speaker 1>who were there and some of the stories. Can you,

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<v Speaker 1>like give us a couple of the stories, because this,

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<v Speaker 1>to me, this is my bigline when I first seen this,

0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:42.879
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't even believe this was happening. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's hard for a lot of people to understand,

0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.600
<v Speaker 1>and it's hard for a lot of people to believe.

0:18:48.080 --> 0:18:50.439
<v Speaker 1>And I'll share a little bit about what brought me

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<v Speaker 1>to this work, and by my baseline is maybe it's

0:18:54.160 --> 0:18:57.920
<v Speaker 1>easier for me to believe. So I had an experience

0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.560
<v Speaker 1>with the birth of my son i Sie, he now five,

0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:04.600
<v Speaker 1>in the hospital that was dreadful. It. You know, they

0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:09.639
<v Speaker 1>they did many things wrong and um, many things that

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<v Speaker 1>are abusive, like when I explained it to professionals, their

0:19:13.960 --> 0:19:17.440
<v Speaker 1>DAWs to drop the kind of physical things that were

0:19:17.440 --> 0:19:19.720
<v Speaker 1>done to me. And it ended up with my baby

0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:21.760
<v Speaker 1>being in the Nike for five days. And I had

0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:24.960
<v Speaker 1>a very healthy pregnancy, there was no reason for him

0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:29.000
<v Speaker 1>to be sick. Um, but he was hurt during my

0:19:29.040 --> 0:19:35.480
<v Speaker 1>delivery by by members of the hospital and that led

0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:40.320
<v Speaker 1>me to shock. You know, we were we were traumatized

0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:44.359
<v Speaker 1>and extremely shocked, especially during that first year. We didn't

0:19:44.359 --> 0:19:47.320
<v Speaker 1>know what hit us. And it wasn't until I became

0:19:47.359 --> 0:19:50.800
<v Speaker 1>pregnant with my second son, Alejandro, that we just were like,

0:19:50.960 --> 0:19:53.200
<v Speaker 1>we can't. The hospital became a scary place. I need

0:19:53.200 --> 0:19:56.479
<v Speaker 1>to find some other way, and I um in my

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<v Speaker 1>search found this was welcomed at stually by this incredible

0:20:01.880 --> 0:20:05.880
<v Speaker 1>community of Black birth workers and Black Midwise and Duelus.

0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I started working on a documentary um that I'm still

0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:12.520
<v Speaker 1>in the midst of this, this working with scientation. I

0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:15.080
<v Speaker 1>have nothing to do with that, but I'm sorry, citations,

0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:18.679
<v Speaker 1>I have nothing to do with that. But but um,

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<v Speaker 1>I started interviewing black midwise and and and do us,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've heard many stories about their work preemptively trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that CPS Child Protective Services does not

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<v Speaker 1>you know, has has trying to gather trying to gather

0:20:42.720 --> 0:20:44.600
<v Speaker 1>all of the information. They try to gather as much

0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:48.280
<v Speaker 1>information during the pregnancy as they can so that if

0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:52.480
<v Speaker 1>CPS comes their arms. You see what I'm saying, because

0:20:52.520 --> 0:20:57.080
<v Speaker 1>it happens so often um taking newborns away, um um

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<v Speaker 1>and then going after other children in the home. So

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<v Speaker 1>I had a baseline of understanding that when I met

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<v Speaker 1>virtually with with Sigan Tie, I had heard this before.

0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:12.600
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't that brand new, and it wasn't that far fetched.

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<v Speaker 1>And what often happens UM, this is also something that's common.

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<v Speaker 1>Saisha went to with lactation concerns. She was weaning Ra.

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<v Speaker 1>In the process of weaning Ra, she was he was

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<v Speaker 1>a breastfed, solely breastfed baby, and in the process of weaning.

0:21:34.840 --> 0:21:37.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, anybody who's breastfed their children, I have to

0:21:37.320 --> 0:21:40.600
<v Speaker 1>it's an experience that I have. UM. Even a hospital

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<v Speaker 1>unders stands, truly understands lactation and really has lactation people there,

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<v Speaker 1>or they don't. And UM, in this case, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been brought to my attention that the lactation people

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<v Speaker 1>in this hospital, this one woman in particular, is horrendous

0:21:56.760 --> 0:22:05.120
<v Speaker 1>and ultimately they were there for two weeks. UM they

0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:09.000
<v Speaker 1>wanted to give him a very high dose of vitamin B.

0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:14.600
<v Speaker 1>Um Seisha recorded the moment when they actually came in

0:22:14.640 --> 0:22:19.320
<v Speaker 1>to take him to take raw away, and she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even decline the offer for the vitamin B. What she

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<v Speaker 1>said was, I want to consult with my husband and

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<v Speaker 1>because of COVID, he wasn't able to be there the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. He was actually on the phone, and you

0:22:32.920 --> 0:22:36.120
<v Speaker 1>can hear her in her recording crying and saying I'm

0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:39.680
<v Speaker 1>not saying no, I just want to I want to consult.

0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I want more information. Now, remember she went to the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital for help, So they're claiming medical neglect. Um, but

0:22:48.960 --> 0:22:52.160
<v Speaker 1>to claim medical neglect when you're asking for medical help,

0:22:52.640 --> 0:22:56.800
<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make sense. That's that doesn't make sense. And

0:22:56.800 --> 0:23:02.040
<v Speaker 1>and Manate County where they are has a history. Um,

0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:05.159
<v Speaker 1>it's in if there was a USA Today article. They

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<v Speaker 1>have a history of really doing terrible things to families

0:23:09.440 --> 0:23:13.720
<v Speaker 1>and taking children out of loving homes. Um. It's incredible

0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:17.600
<v Speaker 1>that some of those same workers in CPS that are

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:21.600
<v Speaker 1>in these articles still have almost a rubber stamp in

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<v Speaker 1>the county to take children away. Why they haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>up for review. I don't know how many articles have

0:23:27.560 --> 0:23:30.760
<v Speaker 1>to be written. There apparently is even a documentary in

0:23:30.800 --> 0:23:35.520
<v Speaker 1>the works at a major uh you know, uh streaming

0:23:35.560 --> 0:23:40.040
<v Speaker 1>outlet about these people, and they're not up for review

0:23:40.080 --> 0:23:42.479
<v Speaker 1>and they still have a rubber stamp even with this family.

0:23:42.760 --> 0:23:46.200
<v Speaker 1>It's um, that's that's only part of their story. Um,

0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:51.400
<v Speaker 1>there's there's uh you know, there's much more. And then

0:23:51.440 --> 0:23:54.480
<v Speaker 1>they came into baby I want to say it right,

0:23:54.800 --> 0:23:58.520
<v Speaker 1>I keep saying yes, But it's spelled A S T.

0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:01.399
<v Speaker 1>She's named after a got it. Yeah, So that's the piece.

0:24:01.480 --> 0:24:04.360
<v Speaker 1>The only other part that I didn't hear right, right,

0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:10.160
<v Speaker 1>So baby asset. Now. Part of the reason uh Saysha

0:24:10.240 --> 0:24:12.720
<v Speaker 1>was trying to wean baby raight at the time she

0:24:12.800 --> 0:24:15.680
<v Speaker 1>was was because she was pregnant with us Set and

0:24:16.240 --> 0:24:23.119
<v Speaker 1>um what while she was pregnant when they took so

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:25.399
<v Speaker 1>she was going through all of this in a pregnancy,

0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:30.600
<v Speaker 1>during a pregnancy. UM. I believe I Set was born

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:34.880
<v Speaker 1>at home. They had a home birth, and they came

0:24:34.920 --> 0:24:41.760
<v Speaker 1>and took her with with no cause other than the

0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:46.159
<v Speaker 1>fact that they had taken raw and that happens often

0:24:46.200 --> 0:24:49.560
<v Speaker 1>as well. They took her at when she was six,

0:24:49.920 --> 0:24:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I think about six. I think she was like six

0:24:51.640 --> 0:24:57.359
<v Speaker 1>days old, days old. Um in an incredible display of force,

0:24:58.600 --> 0:25:01.560
<v Speaker 1>not feeling any of the baby. And because I'm human,

0:25:02.280 --> 0:25:06.680
<v Speaker 1>my days old and you're taking my baby away from me,

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:13.160
<v Speaker 1>you're taking my baby away from me. You have no right,

0:25:17.000 --> 0:25:22.320
<v Speaker 1>don't make it. I'm crazy, Okay, I know you have children.

0:25:22.480 --> 0:25:26.960
<v Speaker 1>This is my baby. They terrorized this family for doing

0:25:27.080 --> 0:25:31.000
<v Speaker 1>both people and that's where most people get involved, because

0:25:31.520 --> 0:25:34.000
<v Speaker 1>what I mean by that, I'm talking about the general public.

0:25:34.880 --> 0:25:37.800
<v Speaker 1>Prior to that, you knew and others knew, and there

0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:40.920
<v Speaker 1>were some folks advocating but it was when they went

0:25:41.040 --> 0:25:45.679
<v Speaker 1>live during the seizure if you will, of a child

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:50.439
<v Speaker 1>of a newborn baby, that world saw it and said,

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:53.840
<v Speaker 1>what in the hell is happening? So people know they

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:56.920
<v Speaker 1>had already they said they were coming to take the baby.

0:25:56.960 --> 0:26:01.840
<v Speaker 1>The lawyer that was dealing with Rod's case, um Derreck

0:26:01.920 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 1>mcburrow's that this legal team, they're doing an incredible job.

0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:14.119
<v Speaker 1>They they coordinated with the property, with CPS, with the agency.

0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:17.760
<v Speaker 1>They knew she was she they were bringing the baby

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 1>to them, okay tow CPS. They knew they had to

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:24.879
<v Speaker 1>abide by this court order. And when they were on

0:26:25.000 --> 0:26:31.959
<v Speaker 1>their way that sege happened, they already were on their way.

0:26:32.000 --> 0:26:38.840
<v Speaker 1>It's just and and that part the terror, the the

0:26:38.840 --> 0:26:45.720
<v Speaker 1>the this sort of active chase um and consistent, NonStop,

0:26:45.920 --> 0:26:51.800
<v Speaker 1>relentless policing of of these families. That is a very

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:53.760
<v Speaker 1>that was a common theme in all the stories that

0:26:53.800 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 1>were told, uh yesterday at the rally. It was a

0:26:57.480 --> 0:27:00.600
<v Speaker 1>it was a common theme of all of the stories. Um.

0:27:00.640 --> 0:27:03.400
<v Speaker 1>There's another theme that I find very disturbing that I've

0:27:03.520 --> 0:27:06.400
<v Speaker 1>found in two stories that's not this is not part

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:10.800
<v Speaker 1>of Sation Entie story, but two of the mothers that

0:27:11.040 --> 0:27:17.680
<v Speaker 1>spoke were foster children than themselves. When you're a foster child,

0:27:17.720 --> 0:27:20.119
<v Speaker 1>and I'm now learning more about this, so forgive me

0:27:20.240 --> 0:27:22.280
<v Speaker 1>people that are out there that no more if I

0:27:22.320 --> 0:27:26.560
<v Speaker 1>say this a little off, I'm still learning. Okay, when

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:29.880
<v Speaker 1>you're apparently, when you're in foster care or you've grown

0:27:29.960 --> 0:27:33.200
<v Speaker 1>up in foster care, and even after you graduate out

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:36.600
<v Speaker 1>of it, which you know happens at eighteen, you're given

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:43.680
<v Speaker 1>a number between one to thirty that I guess states

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:47.640
<v Speaker 1>your risk level, independence of whether that number was put

0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:50.439
<v Speaker 1>on you fairly or not, and that number stays with

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:53.560
<v Speaker 1>you throughout your life, and if your number is too high,

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:57.000
<v Speaker 1>you're put on a live it's called a live birth list,

0:27:57.240 --> 0:28:00.360
<v Speaker 1>is what I was sold. So that when you give

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:03.440
<v Speaker 1>birth in the hospital, they have the right to come

0:28:03.560 --> 0:28:08.199
<v Speaker 1>and take your child, your newborn baby, based on the

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:11.879
<v Speaker 1>fact that you were a foster child, based on whatever

0:28:12.720 --> 0:28:15.600
<v Speaker 1>you might have been involved with as a teenager, may

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:19.920
<v Speaker 1>or may not have. UM. I just find that astounding.

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, think about that you were in the system

0:28:24.720 --> 0:28:26.879
<v Speaker 1>and say now you're now you belong to us and

0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:35.080
<v Speaker 1>your children belong to us. What is happening? It's re traumatized,

0:28:35.080 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>and it's just like you can't even escape the trauma level,

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:41.760
<v Speaker 1>and it's so unfortunate. It's really unfortunate. You know. I

0:28:41.800 --> 0:28:44.440
<v Speaker 1>can hear the passion in your voice and just listening

0:28:44.480 --> 0:28:48.440
<v Speaker 1>to this, it gets you emotional. It does, it does,

0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:53.680
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's um. You know, we've we've learned a

0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:58.640
<v Speaker 1>language to speak about policing and to speak about um

0:28:58.680 --> 0:29:02.480
<v Speaker 1>the car Serle state, and I think a lot of

0:29:02.480 --> 0:29:08.239
<v Speaker 1>that language applies to what's going on here. Families are

0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:11.640
<v Speaker 1>being policed, children are being put into the system and

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 1>never allowed to get out. Money dollars are flooding through

0:29:16.400 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 1>this system based on the amount of hours that social

0:29:20.680 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 1>workers spend with each child. There are bonuses, adoption bonuses,

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:29.880
<v Speaker 1>So there are some family there. One woman who spoke

0:29:30.600 --> 0:29:34.920
<v Speaker 1>was told even though her case is there's also there's

0:29:34.920 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>also lack of view process happening, No investigation into the home. No, no,

0:29:41.680 --> 0:29:44.760
<v Speaker 1>none of the things that you think happen with child

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>protective services that should be happening. Is this okay, So

0:29:48.960 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>there's this um assessment that happens. None of these none

0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:56.560
<v Speaker 1>of that DOW process is being followed with any of

0:29:56.560 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>these families. The belief is we have the right want

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>to actually like how can people get involved to help?

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 1>Like what what should we be doing? Which how can

0:30:05.720 --> 0:30:09.640
<v Speaker 1>we really help this process? Because prior to me hearing

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:12.080
<v Speaker 1>from Tamika after you spoke to her about this, I

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't even understand. So what do people what should they

0:30:15.840 --> 0:30:18.160
<v Speaker 1>be doing? What should we be doing? How you know

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 1>there's still another child that this trying to get back, Like,

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 1>what is the process? What should we be doing to help?

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:26.320
<v Speaker 1>How can we help this people? Well, I I would

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:29.920
<v Speaker 1>love even you know after this broadcast, Tamika, We've been

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:33.680
<v Speaker 1>given phone numbers to Manatee County, the right numbers to call,

0:30:34.320 --> 0:30:38.640
<v Speaker 1>so that the pressure is put on the county to

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>do the right thing. I think the fact that a

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>set was given back to them, it is evidence that

0:30:42.560 --> 0:30:45.600
<v Speaker 1>this is a safe home. They also have other children

0:30:45.600 --> 0:30:49.240
<v Speaker 1>in the home. Who are who are there? Who are

0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's clear that this home is a safe home.

0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:54.880
<v Speaker 1>And a little bit you know a little bit about

0:30:55.400 --> 0:31:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Citian and Thai. You know Thi works with false of children.

0:31:01.800 --> 0:31:06.840
<v Speaker 1>He's a trusted person who works with foster children. So

0:31:06.880 --> 0:31:09.040
<v Speaker 1>the fact that this same system is saying no, you're

0:31:09.080 --> 0:31:11.360
<v Speaker 1>not worthy you're not trustworthy to take care of your

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:17.600
<v Speaker 1>own is is insane. So so those numbers. Um that's

0:31:17.640 --> 0:31:21.200
<v Speaker 1>one way to help citation tie when you see these

0:31:21.200 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 1>stories post about them, because many of these families, they

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 1>are they are calling organizations NonStop. I mean, I keep

0:31:29.920 --> 0:31:33.400
<v Speaker 1>hearing that from the mothers and fathers. They are nobody's

0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:36.320
<v Speaker 1>answering their call. But people will start to answer their

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 1>call if we answer their call. And that's that's on

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 1>that's on a level of how to help families who

0:31:42.840 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>already experiencing it, how to help yourself in some of

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:52.360
<v Speaker 1>these situations, look for the birth workers in your area.

0:31:52.040 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm serious and I've said this as a black

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:57.640
<v Speaker 1>maternal health advocate to this is something that we talk

0:31:57.720 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 1>about and something that even at the legislatre should level,

0:32:00.600 --> 0:32:03.920
<v Speaker 1>people are fighting for. You know, there are black midwives,

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 1>there are black duelas, community midwives, community duel as, people

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:11.720
<v Speaker 1>who are not biased, who can help with with your needs,

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>um as parents, even lactation consulting. You know that those

0:32:17.000 --> 0:32:20.840
<v Speaker 1>questions that that SI had could have been answered by

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody she was safe with. So that's one way to

0:32:24.600 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>also protect yourself. There's those are those are those are

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 1>the two things right now. I mean to make you

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're like in the midst. I feel like

0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:34.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm in the midst of it and also trying to

0:32:34.560 --> 0:32:37.040
<v Speaker 1>figure out how and I'm so glad that you're doing

0:32:37.040 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 1>this podcast. How do we raise the alarm Black Lives

0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Matter activists out there, a c l U people out there,

0:32:46.920 --> 0:32:50.000
<v Speaker 1>and double a c P people out there, legislators that

0:32:50.040 --> 0:32:54.160
<v Speaker 1>are out there. These families are calling you. Pay attention,

0:32:54.640 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 1>they are pay attention. They are calling And I'm going

0:32:58.360 --> 0:33:03.120
<v Speaker 1>to be very traitful, it invulnerable and honestly saying I

0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:06.240
<v Speaker 1>don't have an answer, but I'm trying to figure it

0:33:06.280 --> 0:33:10.080
<v Speaker 1>out and once something and this is the thing about

0:33:10.840 --> 0:33:14.640
<v Speaker 1>until freedom. Um. Now, we have a chat, a long

0:33:14.760 --> 0:33:17.440
<v Speaker 1>chat where all of the folks who are on our

0:33:17.480 --> 0:33:20.520
<v Speaker 1>team and people who are with us constantly as we

0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:24.080
<v Speaker 1>travel across the country, we talk about everything when we

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 1>drop this into the chat. It has now become the

0:33:27.200 --> 0:33:31.040
<v Speaker 1>number one issue that is coming up every day where

0:33:31.040 --> 0:33:33.800
<v Speaker 1>people are trying to figure out what do we do.

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:37.560
<v Speaker 1>We're protested, so we're like, We're gonna go chain ourselves

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 1>to the nanitys Nanity County, whoever is door. But then

0:33:43.160 --> 0:33:47.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to create a situation where there's retaliation

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>against the family and the babies. So you really have

0:33:51.400 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 1>to find the right balance of how to address this

0:33:56.800 --> 0:34:02.400
<v Speaker 1>issue where we protect families yet vigorously advocate for them.

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:06.080
<v Speaker 1>Because I did not. I you know, you think I

0:34:06.160 --> 0:34:08.000
<v Speaker 1>know a lot, and I do, but I did not

0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 1>know anything about this dark area of And I knew

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:19.440
<v Speaker 1>women were losing their babies physically, like you know, children dying,

0:34:20.120 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 1>mother's dying at birth. I know that very maternal health issues,

0:34:25.920 --> 0:34:31.360
<v Speaker 1>get that right, or maternal treatment now treatment. Yeah, I

0:34:31.440 --> 0:34:35.160
<v Speaker 1>knew that was happening. But the idea that I watched

0:34:35.160 --> 0:34:39.960
<v Speaker 1>the Kentucky video that you sent me and to see

0:34:40.640 --> 0:34:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I think you posted it my son, and once you

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:46.279
<v Speaker 1>posted it, I think like Snoop or somebody else posted it.

0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it might have been something different, but

0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I know that when I I showed it to my team,

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:56.239
<v Speaker 1>everybody was trauma to like what is happening because it

0:34:56.320 --> 0:34:59.960
<v Speaker 1>did not seem like there have been any prior conversation

0:35:00.239 --> 0:35:02.360
<v Speaker 1>with her if I removing her child, because she was

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:05.319
<v Speaker 1>at the front door with her baby in the in

0:35:05.360 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 1>the in the car seat, ready to leave, and the

0:35:08.080 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 1>police officers snatched her child and fought her. It is

0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:15.920
<v Speaker 1>it is unreal. And I think the thing that you said,

0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>it's so true. The trauma and the abuse, and the

0:35:21.000 --> 0:35:27.400
<v Speaker 1>over policing, the aggressive policing, the illegal policing, the discrimination,

0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>all of those things exists in so many different areas

0:35:32.160 --> 0:35:34.879
<v Speaker 1>that if you, if you're an advocate that just wants

0:35:34.920 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>to address the idea though, well, when we're driving and

0:35:37.680 --> 0:35:41.200
<v Speaker 1>driving wild black, well, now it's having a baby, just

0:35:41.360 --> 0:35:43.800
<v Speaker 1>being having a baby. I can't even say wild black

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 1>because when we asked the question about Manatee County, we said,

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>there anybody out there that has experienced this, get in

0:35:53.480 --> 0:35:56.439
<v Speaker 1>touch with us. Most of the people who came back

0:35:56.440 --> 0:36:00.279
<v Speaker 1>were actually white folks. There were white women, white women

0:36:00.320 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 1>who said, I didn't have the money to fight, I

0:36:02.600 --> 0:36:06.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't have so us on medicaid exactly. So you can

0:36:06.080 --> 0:36:12.279
<v Speaker 1>tell and I'm sure exactly exactly, but I'm sure if

0:36:12.320 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 1>you do the real numbers and you drill down, you're

0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna find that there's more black and brown people who

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.680
<v Speaker 1>are impacted across the nation. But at the end of

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>the day, this is about, as you said my song class,

0:36:25.800 --> 0:36:28.840
<v Speaker 1>it's about who has the money and the resources to

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:34.719
<v Speaker 1>have the duelahs, to have the additional advocates in the room,

0:36:35.040 --> 0:36:40.800
<v Speaker 1>and those people who don't and that is unacceptable. There's

0:36:40.880 --> 0:36:46.560
<v Speaker 1>for for for people who you know, UM yeah, get

0:36:46.560 --> 0:36:48.840
<v Speaker 1>excited by the history of it as well. And I

0:36:48.880 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 1>mean excited not in a happy way. I mean excited

0:36:51.520 --> 0:36:53.920
<v Speaker 1>in a in a in a I want to move

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:56.560
<v Speaker 1>sort of way, or I can get behind this sort

0:36:56.600 --> 0:36:59.960
<v Speaker 1>of way. It isn't new. This country has a law

0:37:00.000 --> 0:37:03.200
<v Speaker 1>own history of UM. This is why I draw the

0:37:03.239 --> 0:37:06.279
<v Speaker 1>parallels to to what's happened in the last couple of

0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 1>years with people protesting and and and with police reform

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:14.919
<v Speaker 1>or and and policing in our neighborhoods. This also has

0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>a very very long history. People's belief UM, the powerful people,

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:30.320
<v Speaker 1>their belief that we are not trustworthy with our children,

0:37:31.000 --> 0:37:34.160
<v Speaker 1>that we are, which is so interesting because we're trustworthy

0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>to take care of their children absolutely, but we're not

0:37:37.320 --> 0:37:40.080
<v Speaker 1>trust We we don't have the right to our own

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:45.000
<v Speaker 1>We don't have the right to ask questions about care

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 1>about medical care. We don't have the right to too culturally,

0:37:50.760 --> 0:37:54.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, make certain decisions about UM about the way

0:37:54.400 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 1>we raise our children. Cite entire are vegan, and they

0:37:57.640 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 1>believe that that's also a part of what happened to

0:38:00.800 --> 0:38:05.920
<v Speaker 1>that yes, exactly, not just them being vegan, it's also

0:38:06.080 --> 0:38:10.360
<v Speaker 1>their appearance when I saw them for the first time

0:38:10.400 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 1>on the call that you put together, and I saw

0:38:13.440 --> 0:38:18.800
<v Speaker 1>especially Tie, who by the way, Tie has this similar

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:23.680
<v Speaker 1>almost the same hairstyle with his dreads as jay Z,

0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:27.680
<v Speaker 1>to be clear exactly how jay Z looks with it.

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:32.840
<v Speaker 1>You know that the dreads are together, right, not singular dreads,

0:38:32.880 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 1>but that again, jay Z doesn't have to go. He's

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:39.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna pay for his children to be born in a

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>safe environment, probably a safer environment than you and I

0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:48.160
<v Speaker 1>could ever even understand, right, But in size situation, when

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:52.880
<v Speaker 1>he walks into any room except rooms that understand him,

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:55.400
<v Speaker 1>people are going to look at him differently. And I

0:38:55.520 --> 0:38:59.840
<v Speaker 1>knew that that was a major part of what happened here,

0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:03.080
<v Speaker 1>That they believe that they could um do what they

0:39:03.120 --> 0:39:07.200
<v Speaker 1>did to that family based upon appearance and these ideas,

0:39:07.280 --> 0:39:11.160
<v Speaker 1>these biases that are in the minds of folks who

0:39:11.160 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>are supposed to be or who are in positions of authority.

0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:18.000
<v Speaker 1>That is not okay, okay, Because as I have been

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:23.279
<v Speaker 1>talking to Tie along with you, every day. He is intelligent, Okay,

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:25.840
<v Speaker 1>he knows everything that's going on. Like you said, he

0:39:25.880 --> 0:39:29.719
<v Speaker 1>works with foster children, he has other children. How dare

0:39:29.760 --> 0:39:32.799
<v Speaker 1>you make a determination about a man because of his

0:39:32.920 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>hair or his clothing, or because my son may be

0:39:36.080 --> 0:39:38.840
<v Speaker 1>wearing a hoodie as Trey von Martin was wearing a

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:50.640
<v Speaker 1>hood how dare we? Right? Right? I? I I um I.

0:39:51.000 --> 0:39:54.719
<v Speaker 1>One thing that I has been remarkable about them as

0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:57.160
<v Speaker 1>a family, and I want to share this with people

0:39:57.280 --> 0:40:00.239
<v Speaker 1>because I think it's their source. It is there's source

0:40:00.280 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 1>of strength. But it also tells you the kind of

0:40:02.440 --> 0:40:05.480
<v Speaker 1>people they are is that in every ANTHEMI you can

0:40:05.480 --> 0:40:08.799
<v Speaker 1>attest this in every conversation that I've had with them,

0:40:08.920 --> 0:40:15.000
<v Speaker 1>that they always bring up the other families. They always

0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:17.360
<v Speaker 1>bring up the other families. I know, y'all. If I

0:40:17.360 --> 0:40:19.799
<v Speaker 1>know you all are helping us, you've got to help

0:40:19.840 --> 0:40:22.359
<v Speaker 1>them too. They were part of this, This is part

0:40:22.360 --> 0:40:25.279
<v Speaker 1>of what's happening that I mean, that just goes to

0:40:25.360 --> 0:40:30.160
<v Speaker 1>show you how they're exception. They're really remarkable people. And

0:40:30.200 --> 0:40:33.399
<v Speaker 1>I gotta chance to meet the family this Sunday. There.

0:40:34.840 --> 0:40:38.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm so mad at our flights. The hurricane messed up

0:40:38.160 --> 0:40:40.879
<v Speaker 1>because I was really definitely looking forward to go into

0:40:40.920 --> 0:40:43.960
<v Speaker 1>that rally and actually meeting with them, but we're gonna

0:40:44.000 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 1>we're not gonna hold you too much longer. I just

0:40:45.640 --> 0:40:48.640
<v Speaker 1>want to say thank you for your advocacy and the

0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:51.640
<v Speaker 1>passion and you know, the love that you brought to this,

0:40:51.840 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, just seeing just listening to you. If you're

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 1>not moved to do something in this situation, then it's

0:40:57.040 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 1>just something wrong with you. So we just want to

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:01.919
<v Speaker 1>say that we truly appreciate you, and we are here

0:41:02.000 --> 0:41:06.000
<v Speaker 1>for you. We will do all that we can. You know,

0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:08.160
<v Speaker 1>I had a crush on Ashley Banks since I was

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:11.080
<v Speaker 1>like twelve and thirteen years old. So to see that

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:14.600
<v Speaker 1>you aging backwards and you come to this this level

0:41:14.640 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 1>of passion, you know, for the things that really count

0:41:17.239 --> 0:41:19.719
<v Speaker 1>in our society is definitely a plus. So I just

0:41:19.760 --> 0:41:21.880
<v Speaker 1>want to say thank you. Continue to do what you

0:41:22.000 --> 0:41:26.320
<v Speaker 1>do and we got your back. Definitely, thank you. Guys. Listen,

0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>you're amplifying the rally right now and and I know

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:35.600
<v Speaker 1>you'll continue to do that. And um, thank you for

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 1>having me on and letting me talk about it and

0:41:38.000 --> 0:41:41.000
<v Speaker 1>for all all all the words that you'll do. Oh

0:41:41.080 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 1>my goodness. Um. Yeah, and just you know it's Here's

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:51.160
<v Speaker 1>the go to message even in black maternal health and

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:56.160
<v Speaker 1>and advocacy is listen. Listen to black women, Listen to

0:41:56.440 --> 0:41:59.960
<v Speaker 1>black fathers, Listen to black families. You know, if if

0:42:00.080 --> 0:42:05.600
<v Speaker 1>people are calling out, it's hear them, hear them. We

0:42:05.640 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 1>could all do better with that, Tatiana, everything who wants

0:42:09.120 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 1>us to do a better job of listening. Thank you

0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 1>for being with us today. We're not leaving your side.

0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 1>We're together in this and thanks for educating us and

0:42:17.920 --> 0:42:21.000
<v Speaker 1>making me aware of something that I should have been

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:23.919
<v Speaker 1>involved in a long time ago. But we're here now

0:42:24.080 --> 0:42:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and we all have a responsibility. We'll see you on

0:42:27.040 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 1>the TV screen and in the streets. Yes man, Yes,

0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:35.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm proviously everybody. Thank you so much. Thank you queen.

0:42:35.920 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>Before we go to the next segment and have our

0:42:38.040 --> 0:42:40.440
<v Speaker 1>special guests joint, we're gonna take a quick break for

0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:46.759
<v Speaker 1>our sponsors, Tatiana said something that is really important and

0:42:46.840 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 1>we didn't trill down on it, but it's also supporting

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:54.280
<v Speaker 1>black fathers because I think we automatically when we think babies,

0:42:54.320 --> 0:42:57.040
<v Speaker 1>we think moms, and we go directly to moms. And

0:42:57.120 --> 0:42:59.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't think there's anything wrong with that,

0:42:59.400 --> 0:43:03.160
<v Speaker 1>but has been a major advocate in this situation as well.

0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:06.360
<v Speaker 1>Um And I think he also needs to be uplifted

0:43:06.360 --> 0:43:09.200
<v Speaker 1>and that there's probably a conversation that we need to

0:43:09.200 --> 0:43:12.640
<v Speaker 1>be having about black men or fathers in general and

0:43:12.760 --> 0:43:16.680
<v Speaker 1>their side of the trauma and the experience, and how

0:43:16.760 --> 0:43:20.360
<v Speaker 1>we can help and support um men who are dealing

0:43:20.440 --> 0:43:23.719
<v Speaker 1>with this who who If women can't get support and

0:43:23.800 --> 0:43:26.319
<v Speaker 1>mothers are experience in this type of thing, we can

0:43:26.320 --> 0:43:29.960
<v Speaker 1>only imagine what fathers are going through. Yeah, it's definitely

0:43:30.400 --> 0:43:34.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, for me, I have actually seen some level

0:43:34.040 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 1>of him before I even seen Saysha, and he, like

0:43:37.800 --> 0:43:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I felt his pain as a father, just trying to identify,

0:43:41.800 --> 0:43:43.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, how do you even deal with something like

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:46.040
<v Speaker 1>this as a father. You know, he's been very vocal.

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:49.160
<v Speaker 1>You can see the love that he has for his children.

0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:52.879
<v Speaker 1>He expresses it, you know, and just going through this,

0:43:53.120 --> 0:43:54.520
<v Speaker 1>it's got to be a lot. So, you know, I

0:43:54.560 --> 0:43:56.680
<v Speaker 1>just want to give a shout out to him. I

0:43:56.719 --> 0:43:58.520
<v Speaker 1>was really looking forward to me and both of them,

0:43:58.560 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>but I really wanted to meet him and just and

0:44:00.960 --> 0:44:05.600
<v Speaker 1>tell him how I appreciate his representation of black fatherhood.

0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:08.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, how he was standing on what he was

0:44:08.040 --> 0:44:10.200
<v Speaker 1>supposed to stand on in the way that he exhibited

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:13.120
<v Speaker 1>the love and the protection for his family in general,

0:44:13.200 --> 0:44:15.440
<v Speaker 1>not just the kids, but the way he stood by

0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:17.799
<v Speaker 1>his wife, you know, and they stood by each other.

0:44:17.840 --> 0:44:20.279
<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to say that, you know what though,

0:44:20.320 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 1>it was something that Tie said to me, And I

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:25.279
<v Speaker 1>can't wait till we have them on hopefully UM and

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:27.960
<v Speaker 1>our next show, we'll be able to have Tie and

0:44:28.160 --> 0:44:31.239
<v Speaker 1>Side and some of the other families. That's what we're

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:36.040
<v Speaker 1>working on UM behind the scenes. But something that Tie

0:44:36.160 --> 0:44:40.879
<v Speaker 1>said on the phone the other day, let me tell

0:44:40.880 --> 0:44:44.000
<v Speaker 1>you what he said. We were talking about what happened

0:44:44.040 --> 0:44:46.840
<v Speaker 1>at the hospital and the live footage that people saw

0:44:47.000 --> 0:44:49.840
<v Speaker 1>of first of all, the baby being taken baby I

0:44:49.920 --> 0:44:52.799
<v Speaker 1>set being taken from the car, and then they went

0:44:52.840 --> 0:44:55.480
<v Speaker 1>to the hospital and they were in the hospital for hours,

0:44:55.520 --> 0:44:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and outside the hospital they weren't allowed to be with

0:44:57.960 --> 0:45:00.480
<v Speaker 1>the baby. It was so much happening, And I was

0:45:00.520 --> 0:45:04.160
<v Speaker 1>on the phone with Tatiana and them, UM, just holding

0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:06.319
<v Speaker 1>on the phone with Tie, listening to a lot of

0:45:06.360 --> 0:45:10.440
<v Speaker 1>things that was happening. And Tie was very very controlled.

0:45:10.960 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 1>He kept a cool even though he was crying at times.

0:45:16.719 --> 0:45:21.320
<v Speaker 1>Uh Saisha was crying. She was obviously very emotional. But overall,

0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:24.920
<v Speaker 1>and of course there his mother was there. Overall, they

0:45:24.960 --> 0:45:30.560
<v Speaker 1>still maintain a level of calm that was clearly necessary

0:45:30.920 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 1>not to exacerbate the situation. And when we were speaking

0:45:35.160 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 1>with him a few days later, Tatiana and I, he said,

0:45:39.040 --> 0:45:42.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, I had to practice, he said, throughout this process.

0:45:42.719 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 1>I have had to practice a level of meditation during

0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:50.839
<v Speaker 1>all of these incidents, because I know that if I'm

0:45:50.960 --> 0:45:54.120
<v Speaker 1>even a little bit aggressive, just a little bit, the

0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:57.080
<v Speaker 1>slightest bit, that it will turn into a situation where

0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:59.560
<v Speaker 1>he could be harmed, heard, his family, could be killed,

0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:01.840
<v Speaker 1>his children, and can be taking his other three children

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>like it can get it can escalate to a level

0:46:04.600 --> 0:46:07.600
<v Speaker 1>it seems like he said, no one will understand that

0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm a father who lost my children. I'm watching my

0:46:10.680 --> 0:46:15.719
<v Speaker 1>wife hurt. Right. It reminded me of when one of

0:46:15.760 --> 0:46:19.920
<v Speaker 1>the witnesses was on the stand for George Fooy, of

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:23.200
<v Speaker 1>the Black Man who we all loved because of how

0:46:23.239 --> 0:46:26.480
<v Speaker 1>he answered questions his way and not the way that

0:46:26.760 --> 0:46:30.160
<v Speaker 1>other people things thought that he should be responding. And

0:46:30.160 --> 0:46:33.880
<v Speaker 1>at one point when they were asking him about how

0:46:33.960 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 1>he was because remember he was the person that kept saying, hey,

0:46:38.120 --> 0:46:40.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, you guys need to stop touching him. But

0:46:40.360 --> 0:46:42.960
<v Speaker 1>he was doing it in a way that they they

0:46:43.040 --> 0:46:48.200
<v Speaker 1>said was harassment. They said he was taunting and something

0:46:48.239 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 1>else some other language that they used. But he he

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:55.680
<v Speaker 1>exhibited extreme control. He said, I knew that I had

0:46:55.719 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 1>to be in a meditative status. So it's almost like,

0:47:00.440 --> 0:47:04.760
<v Speaker 1>no matter how it's like to talk to your honest point,

0:47:06.200 --> 0:47:09.520
<v Speaker 1>the same narratives are popping up in so many different

0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:15.320
<v Speaker 1>places because our experiences across the board are so traumatizing

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:19.200
<v Speaker 1>that our men, you as a black man, are having

0:47:19.239 --> 0:47:25.520
<v Speaker 1>to learn how to experience the worst situations ever the

0:47:25.960 --> 0:47:30.319
<v Speaker 1>mass injustice and focus on meditating so that you can

0:47:30.400 --> 0:47:33.439
<v Speaker 1>keep yourself and your family safe in the midst of

0:47:33.520 --> 0:47:37.320
<v Speaker 1>someone doing something that is so unjust. And it really

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:42.000
<v Speaker 1>requires it, really, it really it demands that you respond

0:47:42.200 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 1>by all means necessary to save your child or whatever.

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:49.279
<v Speaker 1>But you can't. And that has got to be in

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:53.719
<v Speaker 1>and in and of itself, um demeaning and oppressive, if

0:47:53.760 --> 0:47:57.640
<v Speaker 1>you will it is. It is very demeaning, especially when

0:47:58.239 --> 0:48:00.799
<v Speaker 1>you are out for male you know, and you and

0:48:00.880 --> 0:48:05.840
<v Speaker 1>you speak with affirmative You're very affirmative, and you speak

0:48:05.960 --> 0:48:08.880
<v Speaker 1>from affirmative point of view, and you have some levels

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:12.480
<v Speaker 1>of aggression just how you communicate naturally. And we know

0:48:12.560 --> 0:48:15.719
<v Speaker 1>that that's been weaponized against us. You know, police use

0:48:15.840 --> 0:48:18.640
<v Speaker 1>it as they feel like their threats for their lives.

0:48:19.040 --> 0:48:21.239
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. We've been in school where

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:26.319
<v Speaker 1>we've been deemed uncontrollable. Throughout our lives. Those natural attributes

0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:30.359
<v Speaker 1>of manhood that we actually possessed have been weaponized against us.

0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.719
<v Speaker 1>And then this is in this situation. Is no this

0:48:33.120 --> 0:48:36.560
<v Speaker 1>no different? So looking at this situation, I understand exactly

0:48:36.600 --> 0:48:39.440
<v Speaker 1>what demand of the George Floyd trial had to deal with.

0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:43.000
<v Speaker 1>I understand exactly what you know, um Ty had to

0:48:43.040 --> 0:48:45.840
<v Speaker 1>deal with when me and you were at the American Airlines.

0:48:45.960 --> 0:48:48.960
<v Speaker 1>I had to exhibit the same level of control because

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I understood, and still I was you know, I still

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 1>had to deal with whatever situation and I didn't do anything.

0:48:55.080 --> 0:48:57.879
<v Speaker 1>I was so much under control because I understood, this

0:48:57.920 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 1>is the narrative that you want to paint. You want

0:49:00.239 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 1>to paint the narrative that this aggressive black man. I'm

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:06.120
<v Speaker 1>already you know, kind of stocky and bigger. So I

0:49:06.160 --> 0:49:08.560
<v Speaker 1>have to deal with those situations. So as black men.

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:11.640
<v Speaker 1>We always have to lessen our emotions. We have to

0:49:11.680 --> 0:49:14.880
<v Speaker 1>be in full control because the minute that we show

0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:18.960
<v Speaker 1>any level of aggression and raising in our voice, a

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:22.120
<v Speaker 1>vein in your forehead can put you in your family

0:49:22.160 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 1>at rest. Wow. Well, I'm sorry. I wish there was

0:49:28.200 --> 0:49:30.759
<v Speaker 1>something that we could do about it. Um and we are,

0:49:30.880 --> 0:49:35.799
<v Speaker 1>we're fighting, but it's unfortunate. It really is. It really is.

0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:37.640
<v Speaker 1>I heard that and it brought up for me that

0:49:39.560 --> 0:49:42.040
<v Speaker 1>we just deal with too much and black men certainly

0:49:42.640 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>are dealing with a lot. So sa Ali another one

0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:49.880
<v Speaker 1>of our friends. She's a new friend, new friend. I

0:49:49.920 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 1>told I had a question, Actually Banks, since I was

0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:53.840
<v Speaker 1>a kid, ain't no, it's nobody in the world I

0:49:53.880 --> 0:49:56.800
<v Speaker 1>didn't love, Actually Banks. And to watch you grow into

0:49:56.880 --> 0:49:59.799
<v Speaker 1>this woman with that level of passion, just listening to

0:50:00.480 --> 0:50:03.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, our intelligence, she is, our passion she is,

0:50:03.600 --> 0:50:06.560
<v Speaker 1>and how much of a humanitarian that's a humanitarian spirit

0:50:06.920 --> 0:50:10.399
<v Speaker 1>that she has. Man, it's it's inspirational and motivation now

0:50:10.480 --> 0:50:12.960
<v Speaker 1>it is it is. And you know, we find too

0:50:12.960 --> 0:50:15.320
<v Speaker 1>many celebrities that just want to be a celebrity. But

0:50:15.400 --> 0:50:19.720
<v Speaker 1>she's stepping into something that is very, very dangerous because

0:50:19.840 --> 0:50:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, people making a whole lot of money, a

0:50:24.000 --> 0:50:29.000
<v Speaker 1>lot of money, and they are they are. So there's

0:50:29.080 --> 0:50:33.680
<v Speaker 1>there's so many different things happening. We just in this

0:50:33.719 --> 0:50:36.640
<v Speaker 1>conversation when we're talking to Tatiana, I'm thinking about our

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:40.520
<v Speaker 1>next guest who's joining us right now, and I was

0:50:40.520 --> 0:50:43.359
<v Speaker 1>thinking about how so many things are connected that many

0:50:43.400 --> 0:50:45.960
<v Speaker 1>of us don't see and don't hear about because it's

0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:50.680
<v Speaker 1>not in our everyday lives. But what we know about

0:50:51.280 --> 0:50:54.359
<v Speaker 1>issues with CPS, and to be very clear, which is

0:50:54.400 --> 0:50:58.080
<v Speaker 1>the Child Protective Services around the nation. We're certainly not

0:50:58.920 --> 0:51:04.000
<v Speaker 1>indicting all CPS workers or the entire system UM, but

0:51:04.160 --> 0:51:08.600
<v Speaker 1>just like every other system in America, there's loopholes, there's failures,

0:51:08.640 --> 0:51:11.400
<v Speaker 1>and there's a need for an overhaul, a clean up,

0:51:11.840 --> 0:51:15.320
<v Speaker 1>tear down, and a rebuild of something that actually fits

0:51:15.400 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 1>the times and the needs of the world that we

0:51:18.560 --> 0:51:23.040
<v Speaker 1>currently live in. UM. And I met this young sister

0:51:23.400 --> 0:51:28.360
<v Speaker 1>who is now joining us, Tony D. Rivera some time ago.

0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:32.520
<v Speaker 1>It's been many years. I met her long Yandy Smith

0:51:32.560 --> 0:51:36.040
<v Speaker 1>Harris and uh, you know our manager LaToya Bond and

0:51:36.120 --> 0:51:39.839
<v Speaker 1>others who sing her praises. In fact, I've watched her

0:51:40.080 --> 0:51:43.880
<v Speaker 1>on interviews with the breakfast club with our brother Charlemagne

0:51:43.880 --> 0:51:49.200
<v Speaker 1>and God and and others across the country and probably

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:53.320
<v Speaker 1>now around the world listening to her story of being

0:51:53.440 --> 0:51:58.680
<v Speaker 1>one who used to participate in helping to traffic young

0:51:58.760 --> 0:52:04.000
<v Speaker 1>women UM and is now engaged in saving young women

0:52:04.160 --> 0:52:08.440
<v Speaker 1>and men, young girls and boys UM and helping to

0:52:08.600 --> 0:52:12.280
<v Speaker 1>free them. And I, you know, I don't know, Tony.

0:52:12.360 --> 0:52:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you're here with my son and I h

0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 1>street politicians today. And some people would say that these

0:52:18.600 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 1>two situations that we just talked with Tatiana Ali about

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:28.680
<v Speaker 1>a family that lost their children in uh Sara Soda Florida,

0:52:28.800 --> 0:52:33.560
<v Speaker 1>Saisha and Tyrene Um. You know, let's make sure we

0:52:33.640 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 1>call the baby's names baby raw and then also baby

0:52:38.120 --> 0:52:41.560
<v Speaker 1>a Set who is now reunited with her family, a

0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:44.880
<v Speaker 1>newborn baby. They've been going through this for six months

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:48.480
<v Speaker 1>and as a result of us learning, we now started

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:52.319
<v Speaker 1>to learn a lot more about many of the families.

0:52:52.560 --> 0:52:56.200
<v Speaker 1>There are lawyers and advocates who have different terminology. Some

0:52:56.280 --> 0:52:59.479
<v Speaker 1>people are calling it legal kidnapping, some people are calling

0:52:59.480 --> 0:53:01.880
<v Speaker 1>it medal kidnapp and some people are saying it's just

0:53:02.000 --> 0:53:06.160
<v Speaker 1>failures in the system. Others are saying that we were crazy,

0:53:06.200 --> 0:53:08.760
<v Speaker 1>and that you know, the system is right and everybody

0:53:08.760 --> 0:53:12.520
<v Speaker 1>else is wrong. But something, something is going on. My

0:53:12.680 --> 0:53:17.879
<v Speaker 1>intuition tells me something is happening, and I'm trying to

0:53:17.960 --> 0:53:22.880
<v Speaker 1>figure out how, because I don't believe anything happens by chance.

0:53:23.440 --> 0:53:26.000
<v Speaker 1>We've been trying to find ways to work together for

0:53:26.080 --> 0:53:31.240
<v Speaker 1>many years, and somehow another, these two things collide where

0:53:31.360 --> 0:53:35.799
<v Speaker 1>I see big money some in my song. We just

0:53:35.840 --> 0:53:39.080
<v Speaker 1>talked about this in the other interview. I mean, Tatiana

0:53:39.200 --> 0:53:43.200
<v Speaker 1>ran down a list of ways that people are making money,

0:53:44.400 --> 0:53:48.160
<v Speaker 1>she said, even even she said to Tony and and hi, Tony,

0:53:48.160 --> 0:53:50.839
<v Speaker 1>because I'm talking so much, but we haven't introduced you

0:53:51.040 --> 0:53:54.560
<v Speaker 1>formally into the show. So Tony Rivera is with us.

0:53:54.600 --> 0:54:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Thank you Tony for being here. But Tony, Tatiana ran down.

0:54:01.000 --> 0:54:03.359
<v Speaker 1>And you know Tatiana, Ali's young lady who was on.

0:54:03.719 --> 0:54:06.560
<v Speaker 1>We know her, uh well, we know for a lot

0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:09.399
<v Speaker 1>of things, but we love her for what's her name,

0:54:09.480 --> 0:54:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Ashley Ashley Banks on Freshmencivalaire and so she's engaged. She's

0:54:15.600 --> 0:54:18.560
<v Speaker 1>when it got us involved. She ran down a list

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:24.160
<v Speaker 1>of ways that money is being made. Bonuses for adoption, uh,

0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:28.560
<v Speaker 1>money for hours that a child sits with the social worker,

0:54:29.320 --> 0:54:34.240
<v Speaker 1>clearly the fceter care system, and she said some other things.

0:54:34.280 --> 0:54:38.040
<v Speaker 1>So money is being made somehow I leave out what

0:54:38.040 --> 0:54:40.680
<v Speaker 1>what you did? What the most important thing she left

0:54:40.680 --> 0:54:44.799
<v Speaker 1>out is when it comes to CPS and with this

0:54:44.880 --> 0:54:47.799
<v Speaker 1>whole system and with the money and everything. She left

0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:52.799
<v Speaker 1>out the kids, if they're triplets, if they're twins, if

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:58.560
<v Speaker 1>they're girls, and if they're boys, there's money. Yes, yes,

0:54:59.239 --> 0:55:03.080
<v Speaker 1>you get money for all of that. Yeah, Um, I

0:55:03.080 --> 0:55:07.000
<v Speaker 1>saw did you hear what she said? If it's multiple children,

0:55:07.520 --> 0:55:13.399
<v Speaker 1>if it's twins, and if it's boys, or if it's

0:55:13.440 --> 0:55:17.560
<v Speaker 1>girls it's girls. Yes, it's just everything that you're saying

0:55:18.040 --> 0:55:21.760
<v Speaker 1>and you're seeing everything's crossing the same line, the same half.

0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:27.520
<v Speaker 1>It's just like trafficking. You can call it um medical kidnapping,

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:32.200
<v Speaker 1>legal kidnapping. All of its trafficking. It's trafficking. And how

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:36.200
<v Speaker 1>is the trafficking? You may ask, how how is trafficking?

0:55:36.360 --> 0:55:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Is I'm taking you from someone and I'm putting you

0:55:39.600 --> 0:55:42.080
<v Speaker 1>somewhere else. You don't necessarily have to be in the

0:55:42.160 --> 0:55:45.399
<v Speaker 1>same state. You can go to another state. But once

0:55:45.440 --> 0:55:47.960
<v Speaker 1>you're laying into the home, you don't know what's going

0:55:48.000 --> 0:55:49.880
<v Speaker 1>on in that home. So you said, we don't know

0:55:49.920 --> 0:55:55.440
<v Speaker 1>what's happening. You don't know, you don't know what's happening. Um,

0:55:55.560 --> 0:55:59.040
<v Speaker 1>it's all only the same umbrella, all on the same umbrella.

0:55:59.360 --> 0:56:03.080
<v Speaker 1>So Tony, let's talk about the story that you tell

0:56:03.560 --> 0:56:07.040
<v Speaker 1>all every day. You tell this story about what happened

0:56:07.080 --> 0:56:12.600
<v Speaker 1>to you, how you got into the trafficking business, and

0:56:12.719 --> 0:56:16.480
<v Speaker 1>why you decided to be on the other side, which

0:56:16.520 --> 0:56:19.399
<v Speaker 1>is an advocate to end it and I and at

0:56:19.440 --> 0:56:22.000
<v Speaker 1>some point we need to ask the question. And you know,

0:56:22.239 --> 0:56:24.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure my son's gonna want to know this about

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.880
<v Speaker 1>your safety. But let's put that you know towards the

0:56:27.960 --> 0:56:30.400
<v Speaker 1>latter part of this convo and just talk to us

0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:36.200
<v Speaker 1>about your story. From South Calina, small town in South Calina.

0:56:36.480 --> 0:56:38.840
<v Speaker 1>One night, man, my friends decided to go to Atlanta.

0:56:39.120 --> 0:56:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna give you the short version. Um, we decided

0:56:41.640 --> 0:56:44.279
<v Speaker 1>to go to Atlanta to the freakent me. I wasn't

0:56:44.280 --> 0:56:46.640
<v Speaker 1>supposed to be there. Were supposed to actually be in

0:56:46.640 --> 0:56:48.879
<v Speaker 1>the house at another friend's house at a speek over.

0:56:49.400 --> 0:56:53.440
<v Speaker 1>Got down there and I fell into the wrong hands. UM.

0:56:53.520 --> 0:56:55.759
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't a kid that was brought up about knowing

0:56:55.800 --> 0:57:00.319
<v Speaker 1>about stranger danger. UM. I wasn't a kid all up

0:57:01.000 --> 0:57:06.240
<v Speaker 1>where I had to look at everybody as an enemy. Um,

0:57:06.360 --> 0:57:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I just fell in the wrong hands. Um. The gentleman

0:57:08.920 --> 0:57:13.000
<v Speaker 1>approached me. He started buying me things. Um, he started doing,

0:57:13.239 --> 0:57:15.799
<v Speaker 1>giving me the honeymoon stage, just doing things for me.

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:21.440
<v Speaker 1>And that night we wound up in a club in Atlanta,

0:57:21.680 --> 0:57:24.280
<v Speaker 1>and he knew I liked to dance because that's where

0:57:24.280 --> 0:57:27.360
<v Speaker 1>he seen me doing at the Freak Me at that time.

0:57:28.160 --> 0:57:30.280
<v Speaker 1>And we went to a club and next thing I know,

0:57:30.440 --> 0:57:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I hear on the the DJ saying, UM, Southern Bill,

0:57:36.760 --> 0:57:39.280
<v Speaker 1>you know. And I'm like, that's I didn't know who

0:57:39.280 --> 0:57:43.920
<v Speaker 1>they was calling, you know, And UM, I later found

0:57:43.960 --> 0:57:45.760
<v Speaker 1>out that it was me because he came up to me.

0:57:45.840 --> 0:57:48.560
<v Speaker 1>It was like, UM, go ahead to the stage. So

0:57:48.640 --> 0:57:51.240
<v Speaker 1>I went to the stage, and still not knowing what

0:57:51.320 --> 0:57:55.000
<v Speaker 1>was going on, UM really into it now because I

0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:59.000
<v Speaker 1>see all this money being thrown at me. I'm dancing

0:58:00.240 --> 0:58:03.680
<v Speaker 1>and I just see all this money. As I get

0:58:03.680 --> 0:58:06.640
<v Speaker 1>finished dancing, I come off the stage, he gave me

0:58:06.720 --> 0:58:08.280
<v Speaker 1>a bag and he was like. I was like, so,

0:58:08.320 --> 0:58:10.160
<v Speaker 1>what I gotta do with the money and he said,

0:58:10.160 --> 0:58:16.120
<v Speaker 1>it's yours. Still not knowing he's basically sugarcoatingut trying to

0:58:16.160 --> 0:58:20.680
<v Speaker 1>woo me in or whatever. Um. After that, I went

0:58:20.720 --> 0:58:23.200
<v Speaker 1>back to South Carolina, like the next day. I came

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:27.360
<v Speaker 1>back UM weekend. We I thought he was my boyfriend.

0:58:27.440 --> 0:58:30.440
<v Speaker 1>We saw each other on and off that you know,

0:58:30.560 --> 0:58:34.240
<v Speaker 1>other black urban events. We saw each other, not knowing

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 1>that he was actually keeping tabs on me. I left

0:58:38.760 --> 0:58:43.320
<v Speaker 1>um my twelfth grade years. I left South Carolina and

0:58:43.360 --> 0:58:46.880
<v Speaker 1>I was going off to school University of Pittsburgh, get

0:58:46.960 --> 0:58:50.280
<v Speaker 1>there and um no, I was leaving, and he told

0:58:50.280 --> 0:58:52.080
<v Speaker 1>me to come see him. So I stopped in Charlotte,

0:58:52.120 --> 0:58:53.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, I fell out of to go see it.

0:58:54.280 --> 0:58:59.040
<v Speaker 1>And he didn't let me leave. Mm hmm. He didn't

0:58:59.080 --> 0:59:02.720
<v Speaker 1>let me leave. He kept me there. Um when I tried,

0:59:02.720 --> 0:59:04.400
<v Speaker 1>and he would let me go back and forth home

0:59:04.920 --> 0:59:07.040
<v Speaker 1>like a day or so. But I had always come back.

0:59:07.680 --> 0:59:09.920
<v Speaker 1>But when I was like, I'm done, I'm tired, I

0:59:11.360 --> 0:59:13.720
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do this no more, I couldn't leave

0:59:13.840 --> 0:59:16.520
<v Speaker 1>no more. It was like all my freedom was taking

0:59:17.720 --> 0:59:19.960
<v Speaker 1>and then we were just went from state to state,

0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:25.600
<v Speaker 1>UM recruiting girls. UM. I didn't wind up at University

0:59:25.600 --> 0:59:29.400
<v Speaker 1>of pick Um. I talked to the females every day

0:59:29.800 --> 0:59:33.680
<v Speaker 1>who Um, I actually was gonna put my claws into

0:59:34.200 --> 0:59:37.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, but something hit me and was like, don't

0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:41.680
<v Speaker 1>do that. And I helped them actually escaped when we

0:59:41.680 --> 0:59:45.200
<v Speaker 1>was at University of prip. So I keep in close

0:59:45.240 --> 0:59:48.760
<v Speaker 1>contact with them and talk to their kids and you know,

0:59:48.920 --> 0:59:54.080
<v Speaker 1>we I'm teaching. I'm teaching a lot of people and

0:59:54.240 --> 0:59:57.160
<v Speaker 1>not just black people. You know what's going on and

0:59:57.200 --> 1:00:00.560
<v Speaker 1>how this thing. I've got schools that are as asking

1:00:00.560 --> 1:00:03.240
<v Speaker 1>me to like come in and speak to their freshman

1:00:03.360 --> 1:00:06.800
<v Speaker 1>kids when they're coming in because and I tell parents

1:00:07.960 --> 1:00:11.200
<v Speaker 1>with kids that are leaving home from school, from high school,

1:00:11.240 --> 1:00:15.480
<v Speaker 1>going to college, it's free game. It's free gew because

1:00:15.520 --> 1:00:18.520
<v Speaker 1>they're there. They don't have nobody tell them go in.

1:00:19.080 --> 1:00:22.920
<v Speaker 1>If they become friends with the r A, it's really

1:00:22.920 --> 1:00:26.480
<v Speaker 1>on them. Poppingment. People can do anything. So I give

1:00:26.560 --> 1:00:30.600
<v Speaker 1>tips to parents of how to do and what to do. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually the Seanie O'Neill um, what was going on with

1:00:33.720 --> 1:00:36.160
<v Speaker 1>when her I think it was her daughter. Somebody went

1:00:36.160 --> 1:00:38.640
<v Speaker 1>off to school and she was just scared out of

1:00:38.640 --> 1:00:43.160
<v Speaker 1>her mind and um, someone hit her upper was like, yo,

1:00:43.280 --> 1:00:47.880
<v Speaker 1>you need to get these tips. So she didn't pick

1:00:47.920 --> 1:00:49.800
<v Speaker 1>me up. So they asked me to email them to us.

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<v Speaker 1>So I email her the tips of what they look

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<v Speaker 1>out for, um, how to pinpoint your kids, how they

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<v Speaker 1>how they know where your kid is in any time

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<v Speaker 1>a day. Um, there's just a lot of tips that

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<v Speaker 1>I give. But with the recruited thing, how that started

1:01:08.440 --> 1:01:11.840
<v Speaker 1>to go back into the story. I wasn't getting paid,

1:01:12.320 --> 1:01:17.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, to do recruiting. I wasn't getting paid. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It was you know how you say you misery loves company.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of it, you've been hurt so much

1:01:26.440 --> 1:01:30.200
<v Speaker 1>so you don't mind hurting others. Yeah, that was my

1:01:30.280 --> 1:01:35.280
<v Speaker 1>mind That was my mind frame. That was my mind frame. Um,

1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm hurting, so why not let somebody else hurt? And

1:01:39.160 --> 1:01:42.520
<v Speaker 1>my big thing was going to the churches because I

1:01:42.600 --> 1:01:47.040
<v Speaker 1>knew I knew what I was looking for. It wasn't

1:01:47.040 --> 1:01:50.400
<v Speaker 1>so much as plain on the week. It was more

1:01:51.680 --> 1:01:55.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm a I'm a Christian girl. I went to church.

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<v Speaker 1>If this Sunday, Um, I know what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 1>I know where you're coming up to the altar every Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>You asked me for something. You you want something, maybe

1:02:08.120 --> 1:02:13.080
<v Speaker 1>it's money, close hot, something you're asking So I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>point I'm gonna penpoinct you out when you leave out

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<v Speaker 1>of that church, and I'm gonna ask you what is

1:02:17.200 --> 1:02:19.000
<v Speaker 1>it that you want? What what you keep praying for?

1:02:19.480 --> 1:02:21.760
<v Speaker 1>I see you go to the off jow every Sunday.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it that you're playing for? So that was

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<v Speaker 1>my main place is the churches. And you've got so

1:02:27.680 --> 1:02:29.520
<v Speaker 1>much of it going on right now in the churches

1:02:30.120 --> 1:02:33.080
<v Speaker 1>that the pastors don't even know. They don't even know

1:02:34.200 --> 1:02:38.720
<v Speaker 1>even even like with covid um you have churches that

1:02:38.760 --> 1:02:42.320
<v Speaker 1>were still open in Cali and there was a lot

1:02:42.400 --> 1:02:46.520
<v Speaker 1>going down there. But with COVID COVID made everything worse

1:02:46.840 --> 1:02:50.560
<v Speaker 1>when it cames when it comes to um set trafficking

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<v Speaker 1>and this medical kidnapping because they're asking the parents, um

1:02:55.880 --> 1:02:59.680
<v Speaker 1>the young lady does in Mexican Kentucky. I don't know

1:02:59.720 --> 1:03:05.360
<v Speaker 1>if you've I saw that. My baby, I'm talking right here,

1:03:05.480 --> 1:03:07.720
<v Speaker 1>this is what I'm talking. So, but what y'all want

1:03:07.720 --> 1:03:09.720
<v Speaker 1>to talk about? What do you want to talk about?

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<v Speaker 1>The baby is not Look, let me tell you something.

1:03:16.120 --> 1:03:18.360
<v Speaker 1>The baby doesn't know how any dressed in this system does.

1:03:18.440 --> 1:03:31.439
<v Speaker 1>He does do it one time? My baby, don't do it? Hey,

1:03:31.720 --> 1:03:36.000
<v Speaker 1>don't do that to me? Like that me New York.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys have you guys, do not do this to me?

1:03:41.640 --> 1:03:45.560
<v Speaker 1>What do you think my baby? Please like me, please

1:03:45.800 --> 1:03:47.240
<v Speaker 1>come back. You don't want to go to your arm

1:03:47.480 --> 1:03:53.439
<v Speaker 1>please let go car Let like okay, Well, my ex

1:03:53.520 --> 1:03:58.640
<v Speaker 1>husband is annoyed. He's down there in Lexington. UM. He

1:03:58.800 --> 1:04:01.480
<v Speaker 1>actually was the a D and what made him quit

1:04:01.680 --> 1:04:07.240
<v Speaker 1>was the Brianna Taylor. He quit after that. But my

1:04:07.320 --> 1:04:10.920
<v Speaker 1>ex husband he confided in me and told me some things.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason what was going on, they're targeting black people

1:04:16.320 --> 1:04:20.720
<v Speaker 1>because they're no, we're not taking this vaccination. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>so here. How he explained, it is like they're actually

1:04:25.600 --> 1:04:30.560
<v Speaker 1>saying that we're neglected. If we're neglecting ourselves, what use

1:04:30.640 --> 1:04:33.480
<v Speaker 1>are we're gonna do with the babies. We're gonna neglect

1:04:33.560 --> 1:04:35.280
<v Speaker 1>them if it's when it's time for them to get

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<v Speaker 1>um vaccinated or whatever. But he said that's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>to do with it. He said the lady did not

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<v Speaker 1>have any drugs and her system. The baby did not

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<v Speaker 1>have any drugs and system. He said. What happened is

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<v Speaker 1>she asked one of the other mercies to come in

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<v Speaker 1>um because the baby frit was turning blue um and

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<v Speaker 1>she asked if that they use in it, and the

1:04:59.360 --> 1:05:02.440
<v Speaker 1>nervers that he man was like, it's fun. So she

1:05:02.560 --> 1:05:04.360
<v Speaker 1>asked for somebody else to come in. So it was

1:05:04.880 --> 1:05:07.320
<v Speaker 1>it was more of a racial thing with them. Man

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<v Speaker 1>like you to ask questions, yes, and she started asking

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<v Speaker 1>questions and that's when it went south. And he told me,

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<v Speaker 1>he said, Tony, it's gonna be so many more kids

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<v Speaker 1>that are being taken, especially coming from Hispanics and black women,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's so much money to be made. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go back a little bit, you know

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm when I'm listening to your story, and it

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<v Speaker 1>seems like the common theme in in these situations like

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<v Speaker 1>when when we even when we look about the r

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<v Speaker 1>Kelly situations, a lot of these women. Is it mental emotional?

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<v Speaker 1>Why why aren't women able to leave? Like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>you went came back home. He would let you leave

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<v Speaker 1>for and you didn't really want to be there. What

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<v Speaker 1>is it that keeps you there? Like, what is the

1:05:58.840 --> 1:06:03.520
<v Speaker 1>fact that that keeps you there? It with and this

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<v Speaker 1>goes back to um the hospital thing more than a child,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why they want them young. Also, that's why they're

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<v Speaker 1>kidnapping these kids because they're gonna mold them into what

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<v Speaker 1>they want. UM. As far as keeping me in the

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<v Speaker 1>life and what makes women stay, I don't know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>brush wire to me when it comes to oh, they

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<v Speaker 1>were brainwashed, that's not it. If someone tells you that

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<v Speaker 1>that's just example that they've given it, they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to give you the real example, the real reason, the

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<v Speaker 1>real reason, what I've found in for me, UM, what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna leave for is nothing better out there for me.

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<v Speaker 1>He's taken care of me. UM, even though he's not

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<v Speaker 1>giving me money and the things that I want. I

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<v Speaker 1>still have a roof over my head. I eat, if

1:06:54.760 --> 1:06:58.920
<v Speaker 1>I do good, UM, I get praised if I UM,

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<v Speaker 1>if I bring a certain amount of money in. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all these things that come with that lifestyle. Now

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<v Speaker 1>times out of tend you wasn't getting it before you

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<v Speaker 1>came in. Your life was worse, way worse than what

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<v Speaker 1>it is before you got in that lifestyle. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it was with me. I came from UM, a

1:07:22.520 --> 1:07:28.280
<v Speaker 1>pretty decent family. UM. I was molested, I was raped,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I got into the lifestyle, it was like

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<v Speaker 1>for me, okay, if I'm giving it up. Two my

1:07:38.160 --> 1:07:40.760
<v Speaker 1>cousin who's raping and molested me? Why not give it

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<v Speaker 1>up to a complete stranger for free? Wow? So do

1:07:44.200 --> 1:07:46.160
<v Speaker 1>you think that those are those things play? A fact

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<v Speaker 1>that you based on your you know, your expertise. More

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<v Speaker 1>are a lot of the women who have become involved

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<v Speaker 1>in this have they been raped or molested prior to

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<v Speaker 1>them engaging in this lifestyle? A lot of have a

1:08:00.680 --> 1:08:03.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of them have they don't know how to cope with, um,

1:08:05.240 --> 1:08:07.800
<v Speaker 1>but everyday life. Um. They don't know how to cope

1:08:07.840 --> 1:08:10.080
<v Speaker 1>with the trauma that they had in their past life,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when they were younger. So it's coming out

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't get counseling or some some sort of

1:08:15.240 --> 1:08:18.880
<v Speaker 1>counseling for it. Um. Mental illness play a big part

1:08:19.680 --> 1:08:22.200
<v Speaker 1>in sex traffic. When I say huge air plays are

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<v Speaker 1>huge part um and I'm speaking not only for me

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<v Speaker 1>but for others, you know, when it comes to mental

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<v Speaker 1>illness and not getting the help that we need before

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<v Speaker 1>we went across that street to get into this lifestyle. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you spoke to a little bit about the r. Kelly case.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we had talked to in that you were

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<v Speaker 1>here in New York doing something regarding that. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I've been in New York, back and forth in New York.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably since June. I've been doing my little steakouts where

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<v Speaker 1>I've been going around to shelters, staying in shelters for

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<v Speaker 1>my organization, looking for girls looking for kids. And that's

1:09:05.280 --> 1:09:08.280
<v Speaker 1>a whole another story right there. Um. But I found

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of them that are in the shelters here

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<v Speaker 1>in New York, and the people don't even know at

1:09:13.800 --> 1:09:18.080
<v Speaker 1>path what's going on. Um. But the r Kelly thing, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>young lady I think her name was Fernandez, I believe

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<v Speaker 1>that was when she reached out to me and asked

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<v Speaker 1>me that I meet them in Brooklyn, to come and

1:09:27.320 --> 1:09:33.600
<v Speaker 1>just give them not um advice. But they wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>basically have me listen to the questions that they were

1:09:39.160 --> 1:09:42.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna ask. So they don't do like um, they don't

1:09:42.800 --> 1:09:45.519
<v Speaker 1>ask the question and it triggers somebody in there. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>They want to ask the question the right way. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was more of us consultant things where going and

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<v Speaker 1>they're asking and we're talking, and they just want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what questions to ask versus them asking a question

1:10:02.240 --> 1:10:06.360
<v Speaker 1>and it triggers something and it manipulates whatever the witnesses

1:10:06.439 --> 1:10:10.719
<v Speaker 1>saying on the stand okay, so are you staying before.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to interrupt you, but to bring it

1:10:13.080 --> 1:10:15.759
<v Speaker 1>back a little bit. So you're saying that the shelter

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<v Speaker 1>is one of the pre places that people are praying

1:10:18.840 --> 1:10:22.880
<v Speaker 1>on the young girls and getting them engaged in the lifestyle. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't say the name. I was in the shelter

1:10:25.640 --> 1:10:30.080
<v Speaker 1>here in New York for like three weeks. I made

1:10:30.160 --> 1:10:36.160
<v Speaker 1>six rescues. The last rescue I made was um July twelve. Um.

1:10:36.880 --> 1:10:40.280
<v Speaker 1>The young lady who was here, her gorilla pimp was

1:10:40.479 --> 1:10:43.240
<v Speaker 1>in the shelter and her bottom bitch was in the shelter.

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<v Speaker 1>She had a baby, so they asked her to tran

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a whole work up. And you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>my big thing coming back to New York because I'm like,

1:10:53.479 --> 1:10:55.960
<v Speaker 1>I need to talk to Eric Adams. I need to

1:10:56.040 --> 1:10:59.880
<v Speaker 1>let him know you gotta do something. You have to

1:11:00.040 --> 1:11:02.679
<v Speaker 1>do it because New York was all the way down

1:11:02.840 --> 1:11:08.040
<v Speaker 1>y'all to number ten. Asked me where New York is there? Now?

1:11:11.280 --> 1:11:14.439
<v Speaker 1>New York is number two for the hoobs five of

1:11:15.000 --> 1:11:18.960
<v Speaker 1>sexy human trafficking. It's number two now. It was ten,

1:11:19.479 --> 1:11:26.559
<v Speaker 1>number one, Atlanta, Georgia, Atlanta Georgia's number one, Atlanta's number one,

1:11:26.760 --> 1:11:32.519
<v Speaker 1>New York's number two, Florida's three, Texas for California five, Um,

1:11:34.160 --> 1:11:39.639
<v Speaker 1>New Orleans is six, Colorado is seven, Oregon is eight,

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<v Speaker 1>Um Boston is nine. And what's crazy is Arizona is

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<v Speaker 1>fucking ten. How crazy is that? That? That's crazy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're living in the shelter. No, I that's the

1:12:02.439 --> 1:12:04.760
<v Speaker 1>thing that you do, is you physically, it's you know,

1:12:04.920 --> 1:12:08.960
<v Speaker 1>very similar to us. We've moved to other places to

1:12:09.120 --> 1:12:11.680
<v Speaker 1>be closer to our you know, whatever we're fighting for

1:12:11.840 --> 1:12:15.760
<v Speaker 1>and including and of course most notably when we moved

1:12:15.840 --> 1:12:21.200
<v Speaker 1>to Louisville, Kentucky, to fight for Brianna Taylor, which is dangerous.

1:12:21.760 --> 1:12:29.200
<v Speaker 1>It's dangerous. The surveillance that we experienced, the tear gassing,

1:12:30.160 --> 1:12:37.000
<v Speaker 1>the flash bombing, people being arrested again in the surveillance area,

1:12:37.640 --> 1:12:40.000
<v Speaker 1>we have seen, I mean we've seen it all. We

1:12:40.080 --> 1:12:43.760
<v Speaker 1>have seen people in the bushes across the street from

1:12:43.800 --> 1:12:48.439
<v Speaker 1>our house, that our security found lights being on our

1:12:48.520 --> 1:12:52.360
<v Speaker 1>house all night long, where they're just trying to intimidate us.

1:12:53.040 --> 1:12:57.200
<v Speaker 1>Helicopters flying low over our residence were with staining so

1:12:57.320 --> 1:12:59.880
<v Speaker 1>that they can get surveillance on what we're doing, and

1:13:00.080 --> 1:13:03.240
<v Speaker 1>even probably to get recording of the conversations going on

1:13:03.479 --> 1:13:07.320
<v Speaker 1>in the house. Drones. I mean, we experience all of that.

1:13:08.240 --> 1:13:11.479
<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine what it is to be living in

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<v Speaker 1>a shelter. Yeah, and how dangerous it is that at

1:13:16.520 --> 1:13:19.600
<v Speaker 1>some point, I mean, you're known, people know you, so

1:13:19.800 --> 1:13:22.439
<v Speaker 1>it's not like you're you're not undercover. People know why

1:13:22.520 --> 1:13:27.519
<v Speaker 1>you're there. Yeah, but they you know. UM. I always

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<v Speaker 1>talked to the directors UM when I came in, because

1:13:30.640 --> 1:13:33.280
<v Speaker 1>I did it just like everybody else would do it. Um,

1:13:33.400 --> 1:13:37.680
<v Speaker 1>you go through path, tell them you're homeless, and it

1:13:37.800 --> 1:13:40.040
<v Speaker 1>goes from there wherever they place you. That's where I

1:13:40.120 --> 1:13:43.759
<v Speaker 1>started with. I let them director know that next morning,

1:13:43.880 --> 1:13:46.880
<v Speaker 1>who I am, what I do? I've had I've been

1:13:46.920 --> 1:13:50.000
<v Speaker 1>on the total of ten shelter since May here in

1:13:50.040 --> 1:13:54.719
<v Speaker 1>New York, and every one of the directors actually followed

1:13:54.760 --> 1:13:58.840
<v Speaker 1>me on social media and they was like, shoot, we

1:13:59.080 --> 1:14:01.320
<v Speaker 1>we don't know what you're doing here and what's going on.

1:14:01.760 --> 1:14:03.320
<v Speaker 1>And I had to sit down and just talk to them,

1:14:03.439 --> 1:14:06.920
<v Speaker 1>like I'm doing this for my organization. I say, I don't.

1:14:07.120 --> 1:14:11.559
<v Speaker 1>I'm not your regular organization. I'm here because New York

1:14:11.640 --> 1:14:14.080
<v Speaker 1>is a hub spot, and I found out why New

1:14:14.160 --> 1:14:17.439
<v Speaker 1>York is a hub spot. If I'm six teams and

1:14:17.600 --> 1:14:21.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm pregnant, I can go to a shelter. I can

1:14:21.400 --> 1:14:24.519
<v Speaker 1>go to path fill out information state that my parents

1:14:24.600 --> 1:14:26.800
<v Speaker 1>have kicked me out, even though they probably have it.

1:14:27.600 --> 1:14:30.240
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna place me in a shelter. I'm gonna have

1:14:30.479 --> 1:14:34.720
<v Speaker 1>ten days where that case is pending if I'm the

1:14:34.880 --> 1:14:39.200
<v Speaker 1>eligible or if I'm ineligible. If I'm ineligible, they're gonna

1:14:39.280 --> 1:14:41.679
<v Speaker 1>keep placing me up for a total of ninety days.

1:14:42.280 --> 1:14:45.880
<v Speaker 1>If I'm eligible, they're gonna find me an apartment with

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<v Speaker 1>um either Session eight, City, Phelps, or SOSA. Those are

1:14:51.080 --> 1:14:53.320
<v Speaker 1>the three here in New York. Once they find me

1:14:53.400 --> 1:14:56.240
<v Speaker 1>an apartment, I can set up shop. I can move

1:14:56.320 --> 1:14:58.920
<v Speaker 1>my guerrilla pimp in. I can move my bottom bitch in.

1:14:59.360 --> 1:15:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I have my baby. The next in line is gonna

1:15:03.000 --> 1:15:05.720
<v Speaker 1>use my baby. I'm not gonna put the father's name

1:15:06.160 --> 1:15:08.400
<v Speaker 1>on the birth certificate. My name is going to be

1:15:08.439 --> 1:15:11.240
<v Speaker 1>on the birth certificate. Whoever goes in with this baby

1:15:11.720 --> 1:15:13.680
<v Speaker 1>is going to say, hey, I'm taking care of this

1:15:13.840 --> 1:15:17.120
<v Speaker 1>baby because the mother is incocerated. She's e to my

1:15:17.200 --> 1:15:20.240
<v Speaker 1>sister or cousin and it is going to continue continue

1:15:20.439 --> 1:15:25.120
<v Speaker 1>the baby away from these. She sold her baby pretty much.

1:15:26.000 --> 1:15:28.439
<v Speaker 1>So you have a lot of that that is going

1:15:28.560 --> 1:15:35.120
<v Speaker 1>on in the hospitals and in the shelters. Um. The

1:15:35.240 --> 1:15:37.240
<v Speaker 1>last one I did, like I was saying, back in July,

1:15:37.600 --> 1:15:40.439
<v Speaker 1>this young lady, she actually ran the whole game down

1:15:40.520 --> 1:15:43.479
<v Speaker 1>to us. We took her to back out to Brooklyn.

1:15:44.000 --> 1:15:46.400
<v Speaker 1>It was called I think it was the seventy It

1:15:46.520 --> 1:15:49.599
<v Speaker 1>was either seventy or the seventy ninth Precincts. We took

1:15:49.640 --> 1:15:51.639
<v Speaker 1>her back out there because that's where she came from.

1:15:51.760 --> 1:15:54.320
<v Speaker 1>She's asked me from Atlanta. She said. It was a

1:15:54.400 --> 1:15:59.200
<v Speaker 1>total of eight guerrilla pimps in that shelter, along with

1:15:59.240 --> 1:16:02.320
<v Speaker 1>their sneaking pen in their bottom ditches. Two ladies had

1:16:02.400 --> 1:16:05.760
<v Speaker 1>they've given birth there in the shelter. One came back

1:16:05.800 --> 1:16:09.880
<v Speaker 1>with the baby, the other one didn't come to find

1:16:09.920 --> 1:16:13.000
<v Speaker 1>out the baby was taken by a CS. By the

1:16:13.080 --> 1:16:17.560
<v Speaker 1>time they found where the baby was at um the

1:16:17.640 --> 1:16:21.360
<v Speaker 1>girls pregnant again. So it's like an open and ongoing

1:16:21.479 --> 1:16:25.320
<v Speaker 1>cycle here in New York. Then it's like nobody's even caring.

1:16:25.439 --> 1:16:27.400
<v Speaker 1>They're not teaching the a c S workers or the

1:16:27.479 --> 1:16:31.800
<v Speaker 1>DHS workers, Um, the tips, they're not showing them how

1:16:31.960 --> 1:16:35.160
<v Speaker 1>to wed these people out, how to vet them, how

1:16:35.320 --> 1:16:38.639
<v Speaker 1>they're not showing them anything. The directors is actually coming

1:16:38.720 --> 1:16:41.320
<v Speaker 1>to me asking me how to do it. So when

1:16:41.400 --> 1:16:44.240
<v Speaker 1>you say you're you're as we wind them down. And

1:16:44.680 --> 1:16:49.439
<v Speaker 1>you know, we just did a six week series on

1:16:49.600 --> 1:16:52.400
<v Speaker 1>gun violence because there's so many areas and things you

1:16:52.479 --> 1:16:55.719
<v Speaker 1>need to get into. And now I'm like, we gotta

1:16:55.800 --> 1:17:02.240
<v Speaker 1>do uh, you know, several series. You know, uh, we

1:17:02.360 --> 1:17:05.920
<v Speaker 1>have to do several shows and have a series on

1:17:06.240 --> 1:17:09.240
<v Speaker 1>this issue as well. Because one of the things that

1:17:09.560 --> 1:17:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure we will not get into enough in this

1:17:12.600 --> 1:17:16.639
<v Speaker 1>conversation is that it's not just women. It's not just girls.

1:17:17.080 --> 1:17:20.040
<v Speaker 1>There are boys and men who are also caught up

1:17:20.080 --> 1:17:22.439
<v Speaker 1>in the same system. And people often think of the

1:17:22.560 --> 1:17:26.320
<v Speaker 1>mail as being the perpetrator and not the victim. And

1:17:26.520 --> 1:17:28.800
<v Speaker 1>yet there is so we want I want to hear

1:17:28.800 --> 1:17:30.760
<v Speaker 1>about that. But but but, but the thing I'm gonna

1:17:30.800 --> 1:17:34.200
<v Speaker 1>ask you is when you say you saved them or

1:17:34.280 --> 1:17:37.439
<v Speaker 1>you rescued these women, let's not say save. I think

1:17:37.520 --> 1:17:39.439
<v Speaker 1>saved they. I don't don't really like us to use

1:17:39.520 --> 1:17:44.479
<v Speaker 1>the word saved, but that they will rescue. What does

1:17:44.600 --> 1:17:50.479
<v Speaker 1>that look like? Right? How like what's the process of it?

1:17:50.880 --> 1:17:54.800
<v Speaker 1>And then for your own safety once people recognize why

1:17:54.880 --> 1:17:58.559
<v Speaker 1>you're there, what is what happens when you come into

1:17:58.680 --> 1:18:01.960
<v Speaker 1>contact with the bottom bitch as you said, or the

1:18:02.040 --> 1:18:07.120
<v Speaker 1>gorilla pen? How do you navigate those things? Well? How

1:18:07.160 --> 1:18:08.960
<v Speaker 1>to rescue? Usually words I go up to them and

1:18:08.960 --> 1:18:12.400
<v Speaker 1>I asked them, you know you're good? Um, it's just

1:18:12.520 --> 1:18:14.640
<v Speaker 1>like the gift the gap. You gotta know how to

1:18:14.720 --> 1:18:16.519
<v Speaker 1>talk to people. You have to know the words to say.

1:18:16.760 --> 1:18:18.280
<v Speaker 1>If you don't know the words to say, they're gonna

1:18:18.280 --> 1:18:21.080
<v Speaker 1>look at you crazy and they're gonna walk away from you. Um.

1:18:21.479 --> 1:18:24.760
<v Speaker 1>Usually when I'm doing a rescue and it's somebody there,

1:18:24.760 --> 1:18:27.080
<v Speaker 1>I usually go, I'm like, yo, can I pick the roles?

1:18:27.120 --> 1:18:28.840
<v Speaker 1>I need to pick the roles right quick? What's up?

1:18:29.800 --> 1:18:31.840
<v Speaker 1>They'll come talk to me. They'll tell me, Yo, you

1:18:31.920 --> 1:18:33.439
<v Speaker 1>can go see such a set if you pick you

1:18:33.520 --> 1:18:36.479
<v Speaker 1>some roses. But I can put your something down if

1:18:36.520 --> 1:18:38.960
<v Speaker 1>you um, if you really if you want them now.

1:18:39.360 --> 1:18:41.920
<v Speaker 1>But you don't know if the pedals is gonna be okay,

1:18:42.200 --> 1:18:43.800
<v Speaker 1>So you have to really look them over to make

1:18:43.840 --> 1:18:46.600
<v Speaker 1>sure the pedals stick together. That means I can go

1:18:47.360 --> 1:18:49.840
<v Speaker 1>grab you say them off the corner, rang them to you.

1:18:50.280 --> 1:18:52.160
<v Speaker 1>But you gotta check and make sure if their teeth

1:18:52.280 --> 1:18:54.680
<v Speaker 1>is good, if they got gonna red, they got any

1:18:54.760 --> 1:18:58.679
<v Speaker 1>kind of STV. You gotta check them over. Um. Once

1:18:58.800 --> 1:19:01.240
<v Speaker 1>you do that or she do that. At they bring

1:19:01.360 --> 1:19:04.719
<v Speaker 1>them to me, I pretty much can tell the ages

1:19:05.000 --> 1:19:07.680
<v Speaker 1>of them. UM. So when I'm talking to him, I'm

1:19:07.720 --> 1:19:10.080
<v Speaker 1>asking them like, do you want to stay? Once we

1:19:10.200 --> 1:19:13.960
<v Speaker 1>leave the situation, I get a hotel room. Um, I

1:19:14.080 --> 1:19:18.000
<v Speaker 1>call whatever police precinct is near me. I don't know

1:19:18.160 --> 1:19:20.880
<v Speaker 1>my one. Let them know I've done a rescue. I

1:19:21.000 --> 1:19:24.479
<v Speaker 1>have such and such people here, Um, can you can

1:19:24.560 --> 1:19:29.240
<v Speaker 1>send somebody over? They usually come. So many task force

1:19:29.400 --> 1:19:33.280
<v Speaker 1>have been like demolished when it comes to subtracting because

1:19:33.360 --> 1:19:37.000
<v Speaker 1>of you know, they the fund the police and other

1:19:37.080 --> 1:19:39.880
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. Is not as many task force. So

1:19:40.040 --> 1:19:42.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm basically out here on my own unless I'm calling

1:19:42.800 --> 1:19:45.000
<v Speaker 1>the police. And sometimes I can't even call the police

1:19:45.040 --> 1:19:47.559
<v Speaker 1>because they don't trust the police. They've had so many

1:19:47.640 --> 1:19:50.960
<v Speaker 1>dealers with the police, so they don't trust the police.

1:19:51.400 --> 1:19:53.200
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I'm not too big of a fan

1:19:53.640 --> 1:19:57.320
<v Speaker 1>of calling the police myself because I don't trust them

1:19:57.360 --> 1:19:58.920
<v Speaker 1>because of what happened to me when I was in

1:19:58.960 --> 1:20:01.840
<v Speaker 1>the life. How to get helped by a cop, you know,

1:20:02.200 --> 1:20:05.800
<v Speaker 1>and um, they don't want me to. So usually I've

1:20:05.920 --> 1:20:07.960
<v Speaker 1>asked to yo, you know, how to get in contact

1:20:08.000 --> 1:20:10.479
<v Speaker 1>with any of your family members or anything like that.

1:20:10.840 --> 1:20:15.240
<v Speaker 1>And I called them, and usually I sent a ticket

1:20:16.240 --> 1:20:18.000
<v Speaker 1>to come pick them up, or I get on the

1:20:18.040 --> 1:20:19.760
<v Speaker 1>plane because I don't put him on a bus or

1:20:19.800 --> 1:20:22.120
<v Speaker 1>anything like that. I would do plane with him and

1:20:22.120 --> 1:20:24.479
<v Speaker 1>I would drop him off at home. Um. But yeah,

1:20:24.520 --> 1:20:27.920
<v Speaker 1>asked one young lady who I rescued that was from here. Um,

1:20:28.240 --> 1:20:30.360
<v Speaker 1>her family actually came out she had been missing for

1:20:30.400 --> 1:20:37.080
<v Speaker 1>six years, okay six years from the hospital here in

1:20:37.120 --> 1:20:41.400
<v Speaker 1>New York. Yes, and she was the guy told her

1:20:41.520 --> 1:20:44.799
<v Speaker 1>that she was in Arizona. She had When her family

1:20:44.880 --> 1:20:49.559
<v Speaker 1>got there, they thought I had kidnapping. Um. The police

1:20:49.600 --> 1:20:51.800
<v Speaker 1>had to let them know, like, no, she don't want

1:20:51.840 --> 1:20:54.360
<v Speaker 1>to leave his lady house. Um, so we they had

1:20:54.400 --> 1:20:57.800
<v Speaker 1>to stay outside of my house for my protection. But

1:20:58.120 --> 1:21:01.840
<v Speaker 1>during that night we went and we rescue a total

1:21:01.920 --> 1:21:04.240
<v Speaker 1>of thirty two more girls because she led us where

1:21:04.600 --> 1:21:08.040
<v Speaker 1>everybody was staying at. She thought she was in Arizona,

1:21:08.200 --> 1:21:10.760
<v Speaker 1>but she knew the hotel in the area in Gardena,

1:21:11.120 --> 1:21:13.599
<v Speaker 1>but she was staying there, so we want to rescuing

1:21:13.920 --> 1:21:17.360
<v Speaker 1>thirty two more girls in that night and it all

1:21:17.439 --> 1:21:19.439
<v Speaker 1>left and that one girl who had been missing for

1:21:19.520 --> 1:21:23.439
<v Speaker 1>six years from a CS taking her from the hospitals

1:21:23.520 --> 1:21:26.479
<v Speaker 1>and her mind and putting her back. And she told

1:21:26.560 --> 1:21:29.760
<v Speaker 1>us the night they took her. Two days later, the

1:21:30.080 --> 1:21:33.720
<v Speaker 1>Foster day sold her to the plane. Yes, that is

1:21:33.800 --> 1:21:37.120
<v Speaker 1>just crazy listening to these stories. You know, I'm gonna

1:21:37.120 --> 1:21:39.479
<v Speaker 1>say that you're pretty much a blessing. Like we always say,

1:21:39.520 --> 1:21:42.519
<v Speaker 1>those closest to the problem have to be the solution,

1:21:43.080 --> 1:21:45.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, the work that we do anto violence and

1:21:46.200 --> 1:21:48.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, getting people off the street. I know my

1:21:48.760 --> 1:21:52.400
<v Speaker 1>background in the streets, you know, and being formally inconcerated

1:21:52.479 --> 1:21:54.880
<v Speaker 1>and knowing how like you said, the lingo and talking

1:21:54.920 --> 1:21:58.240
<v Speaker 1>these roses and pedals right that those things are necessary,

1:21:58.720 --> 1:22:01.200
<v Speaker 1>you know. And when we talk about defunding the police,

1:22:01.800 --> 1:22:04.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, and just to just to give a little background,

1:22:04.320 --> 1:22:07.519
<v Speaker 1>it's about giving people like you the resources, right, It's

1:22:07.520 --> 1:22:10.320
<v Speaker 1>about getting a bunch of people like you to be

1:22:10.479 --> 1:22:13.680
<v Speaker 1>the first line of defense to go win in them

1:22:13.800 --> 1:22:17.120
<v Speaker 1>coming behind you instead of going in there scaring the girls,

1:22:17.200 --> 1:22:20.040
<v Speaker 1>locking the girls up, getting them all type of millions

1:22:20.040 --> 1:22:22.400
<v Speaker 1>of years. So we we we definitely want to make

1:22:22.439 --> 1:22:24.599
<v Speaker 1>sure that people the work that you do, you should

1:22:24.600 --> 1:22:28.120
<v Speaker 1>be paid the same salary that police officers get paid, right,

1:22:28.120 --> 1:22:30.280
<v Speaker 1>and they're supposed to be working in connection with you,

1:22:30.880 --> 1:22:33.000
<v Speaker 1>so hand in hand with you. So when you call them,

1:22:33.000 --> 1:22:34.560
<v Speaker 1>they're supposed to know what it is. They're supposed to

1:22:34.600 --> 1:22:37.120
<v Speaker 1>give you the first option to go into these communities

1:22:37.120 --> 1:22:39.960
<v Speaker 1>because you speak to Lingle, you understand what they're dealing with.

1:22:40.120 --> 1:22:42.799
<v Speaker 1>You know how to bring these rescue these these girls,

1:22:42.960 --> 1:22:44.960
<v Speaker 1>and you know. So that's what it is for us.

1:22:45.200 --> 1:22:47.519
<v Speaker 1>So and a lot of times, like you said, what

1:22:47.640 --> 1:22:50.559
<v Speaker 1>they're doing is trying to weaponize it because we want

1:22:50.920 --> 1:22:53.000
<v Speaker 1>we want to be able to say, hey, the people

1:22:53.240 --> 1:22:55.639
<v Speaker 1>who have been through this, who who understand what's going

1:22:55.680 --> 1:22:57.960
<v Speaker 1>on these communities need to be the people that we

1:22:58.240 --> 1:23:00.840
<v Speaker 1>we we lean on who are the first responders to

1:23:00.960 --> 1:23:03.120
<v Speaker 1>these situations. So they're like, well, let them do it

1:23:03.200 --> 1:23:06.040
<v Speaker 1>by theirselves, you know, we we we don't want to

1:23:06.080 --> 1:23:07.800
<v Speaker 1>do anything, and that's not what it should be. It

1:23:07.840 --> 1:23:11.200
<v Speaker 1>should be, you know, the people who understand the community,

1:23:11.280 --> 1:23:13.760
<v Speaker 1>the people will understand what's going on. With these people

1:23:14.000 --> 1:23:16.000
<v Speaker 1>are the first line and the police are supposed to

1:23:16.000 --> 1:23:17.920
<v Speaker 1>be there to back them up. And I think when

1:23:17.960 --> 1:23:20.479
<v Speaker 1>we work in units in that way, it would be beautiful.

1:23:20.520 --> 1:23:23.160
<v Speaker 1>With the work that you the work that you're doing

1:23:23.360 --> 1:23:25.680
<v Speaker 1>is phenomenal, you know. I just want to let you

1:23:25.800 --> 1:23:27.680
<v Speaker 1>know that we I don't want to hold you long,

1:23:27.800 --> 1:23:31.000
<v Speaker 1>but the work that you doing is phenomenal, and you know,

1:23:31.160 --> 1:23:34.240
<v Speaker 1>whatever we can do, like Jamika said, we want to

1:23:34.280 --> 1:23:36.240
<v Speaker 1>probably I think we need to do like a six

1:23:36.320 --> 1:23:40.160
<v Speaker 1>week series on this and really talk about what's going on,

1:23:40.479 --> 1:23:42.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, and how because people don't know what it's

1:23:42.320 --> 1:23:44.639
<v Speaker 1>listening to you and just listening to all of these

1:23:44.720 --> 1:23:47.560
<v Speaker 1>things and just listen to how you psychologically in the

1:23:47.680 --> 1:23:50.479
<v Speaker 1>gap and the way that you understand this. It's it's

1:23:50.520 --> 1:23:53.120
<v Speaker 1>something that we might be able to see, you know,

1:23:53.439 --> 1:23:56.240
<v Speaker 1>just getting these these pointers from you and were around

1:23:56.680 --> 1:24:00.240
<v Speaker 1>situations like this that we probably are directly. You don't

1:24:00.280 --> 1:24:05.439
<v Speaker 1>even we had church all the time with people and

1:24:05.479 --> 1:24:07.639
<v Speaker 1>we don't know what's going on is these young girls

1:24:07.720 --> 1:24:11.040
<v Speaker 1>and in situations. So we definitely need to get some

1:24:11.160 --> 1:24:13.800
<v Speaker 1>more insight from you. And this definitely is not gonna

1:24:13.800 --> 1:24:15.479
<v Speaker 1>be our last interview with you, and I just want

1:24:15.520 --> 1:24:17.040
<v Speaker 1>to say thank you for the work that you're doing.

1:24:19.560 --> 1:24:22.320
<v Speaker 1>I share my son and sentiments, and I just have

1:24:22.439 --> 1:24:28.400
<v Speaker 1>been really working on vulnerability and being honest because I

1:24:28.600 --> 1:24:31.280
<v Speaker 1>finally have made it to a place in my career

1:24:31.360 --> 1:24:33.640
<v Speaker 1>and in my life where I can say what the

1:24:33.720 --> 1:24:37.240
<v Speaker 1>hell I want to say and be honest about who

1:24:37.360 --> 1:24:41.760
<v Speaker 1>I am, and I'm no longer living for a facade

1:24:42.040 --> 1:24:45.519
<v Speaker 1>of what people want to see. And so I've been

1:24:45.640 --> 1:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>working at when things come up in me that need

1:24:49.080 --> 1:24:51.880
<v Speaker 1>to be stated, regardless of how people will like take it,

1:24:52.040 --> 1:24:54.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say so. I want to say I apologize

1:24:54.760 --> 1:24:59.519
<v Speaker 1>to you publicly because this topic scares me so much

1:24:59.560 --> 1:25:05.040
<v Speaker 1>that I have literally been running from I working together,

1:25:05.479 --> 1:25:07.720
<v Speaker 1>because first of all, I have so much trauma and

1:25:07.840 --> 1:25:10.400
<v Speaker 1>what I'm already dealing with every day. It's so much

1:25:10.479 --> 1:25:14.760
<v Speaker 1>trauma and addressing police violence. It's so much trauma and

1:25:14.840 --> 1:25:19.280
<v Speaker 1>dealing with racial justice. Um, there's so much trauma wrapped

1:25:19.360 --> 1:25:21.559
<v Speaker 1>up in the work that we do every single day,

1:25:21.680 --> 1:25:27.519
<v Speaker 1>watching people murdered, listening to people who are incarcerated, telling

1:25:27.560 --> 1:25:31.720
<v Speaker 1>their stories, trying to help to have someone then come

1:25:31.800 --> 1:25:35.680
<v Speaker 1>into your world and say, and they're trafficking women and

1:25:35.960 --> 1:25:40.320
<v Speaker 1>men or boys and girls, and there's all the stuff

1:25:40.360 --> 1:25:43.599
<v Speaker 1>that has to be done now. I got them taking

1:25:43.880 --> 1:25:48.880
<v Speaker 1>babies from the hospital. I'm literally am afraid of what

1:25:49.080 --> 1:25:53.200
<v Speaker 1>will happen to those of us who are already mentally

1:25:53.400 --> 1:25:59.439
<v Speaker 1>strained trying to make space for another issue that is

1:25:59.560 --> 1:26:02.280
<v Speaker 1>so serious. I mean, we and you know, you know

1:26:02.720 --> 1:26:04.400
<v Speaker 1>that I love it and care for you, and and

1:26:04.920 --> 1:26:07.880
<v Speaker 1>and that and that. Um, you know, I understand the

1:26:07.960 --> 1:26:11.920
<v Speaker 1>significance of the issue. But to my son's point, we

1:26:12.120 --> 1:26:14.720
<v Speaker 1>can't do nothing. We we we just can't, like, we

1:26:15.280 --> 1:26:19.960
<v Speaker 1>cannot sit and allow this stuff to be happening around

1:26:20.120 --> 1:26:25.599
<v Speaker 1>us and do nothing. I got a Instagram tag today

1:26:26.560 --> 1:26:29.120
<v Speaker 1>and several of the people I work with were also

1:26:29.280 --> 1:26:31.920
<v Speaker 1>tag and I'm sure they're afraid to deal with it.

1:26:32.760 --> 1:26:35.920
<v Speaker 1>We don't even know. You don't even know. I you know,

1:26:36.400 --> 1:26:42.519
<v Speaker 1>if somebody kills if a police officer, or even a

1:26:42.680 --> 1:26:45.639
<v Speaker 1>shooting that happens among us, or a murder that happens

1:26:45.680 --> 1:26:49.040
<v Speaker 1>among us, I know the steps. I know the steps

1:26:49.240 --> 1:26:51.639
<v Speaker 1>have to be taken. I know how to get people

1:26:51.680 --> 1:26:54.280
<v Speaker 1>on the phone, I know how to get media there.

1:26:54.400 --> 1:26:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I know how to support families. I know how to

1:26:56.800 --> 1:27:00.400
<v Speaker 1>raise money, I know how to organize rallies. I know

1:27:00.720 --> 1:27:03.720
<v Speaker 1>what to do. I'm an expert in dealing with what

1:27:03.880 --> 1:27:08.639
<v Speaker 1>I do. That's a fact, yes, But when somebody comes

1:27:08.720 --> 1:27:10.280
<v Speaker 1>to me and tells me the kind of story I

1:27:10.360 --> 1:27:13.880
<v Speaker 1>heard this morning, I don't know the first place to

1:27:14.040 --> 1:27:18.800
<v Speaker 1>go to address someone sending me a post where a

1:27:18.920 --> 1:27:22.519
<v Speaker 1>woman is saying help me because she was in a

1:27:22.640 --> 1:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>Walmart or asto. I talked to the police um with

1:27:30.760 --> 1:27:33.760
<v Speaker 1>the white a little and the black girl and the

1:27:34.520 --> 1:27:40.559
<v Speaker 1>the the young black girl is clearly disturbed by something.

1:27:41.160 --> 1:27:44.479
<v Speaker 1>In fact, the adults who are there, the white adults

1:27:44.560 --> 1:27:48.080
<v Speaker 1>that are there, that the woman looks like she might

1:27:48.200 --> 1:27:51.720
<v Speaker 1>actually be experiencing some type of trauma herself, and to

1:27:51.960 --> 1:27:55.800
<v Speaker 1>her point, it may now be being inflicted upon this

1:27:56.040 --> 1:27:58.120
<v Speaker 1>young girl who's there in the midst of them, who

1:27:58.160 --> 1:28:01.320
<v Speaker 1>probably should not be placed with that family. I'm I

1:28:01.520 --> 1:28:04.400
<v Speaker 1>sat there this morning and sent the message to our

1:28:04.560 --> 1:28:07.280
<v Speaker 1>group and said, what do y'all things? And we started

1:28:07.360 --> 1:28:11.200
<v Speaker 1>talking about it. But that's where it stopped, because nobody

1:28:11.320 --> 1:28:16.880
<v Speaker 1>in our group knows Step one is to do this

1:28:17.560 --> 1:28:20.280
<v Speaker 1>right and I and I almost feel bad that step

1:28:20.360 --> 1:28:22.920
<v Speaker 1>one is to call Tony. Called Tony, call to because

1:28:23.080 --> 1:28:26.640
<v Speaker 1>how much can you call Tony unless we are financially

1:28:27.640 --> 1:28:31.880
<v Speaker 1>supporting Tony to be able to expand what it is

1:28:32.000 --> 1:28:36.120
<v Speaker 1>that she's doing. So I'm just I'm sorry that I

1:28:36.240 --> 1:28:39.719
<v Speaker 1>have not been more present, but I'm being very honest

1:28:39.800 --> 1:28:47.559
<v Speaker 1>and saying this scares me. There's no agi. Um, I'm

1:28:47.560 --> 1:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna give you a funny moment. So you know we,

1:28:51.360 --> 1:28:53.040
<v Speaker 1>like you said, we know on each other for years,

1:28:54.040 --> 1:28:58.840
<v Speaker 1>fucking lie with Yandy crazy then and she always we

1:28:58.920 --> 1:29:04.759
<v Speaker 1>gotta help Tone yes, always hit me. And what's crazy

1:29:04.960 --> 1:29:08.799
<v Speaker 1>is all the rest of you. I've been doing to leaker.

1:29:10.040 --> 1:29:12.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't do the ship for you know, to be publicized.

1:29:12.840 --> 1:29:14.960
<v Speaker 1>I do it because I don't and now I have

1:29:15.120 --> 1:29:17.160
<v Speaker 1>in my mindset I don't want these kids to go

1:29:17.280 --> 1:29:21.120
<v Speaker 1>through where I went. What really made me really start

1:29:21.200 --> 1:29:23.360
<v Speaker 1>doing it was because I saw the signs of somebody

1:29:23.439 --> 1:29:25.679
<v Speaker 1>tried to kidnap my daughter and she was six years

1:29:25.720 --> 1:29:29.960
<v Speaker 1>old on the number six trains on a hundred. I

1:29:30.120 --> 1:29:33.400
<v Speaker 1>sucked this man up. They take him to the hospital,

1:29:36.280 --> 1:29:40.439
<v Speaker 1>they arrested me. It took people that was there at

1:29:42.120 --> 1:29:46.040
<v Speaker 1>to tell the cops. No, he was trying to pull

1:29:46.160 --> 1:29:49.200
<v Speaker 1>her daughter out of her arm. He fractured my daughter's arm.

1:29:51.560 --> 1:29:54.360
<v Speaker 1>We found out seventy two hours later that this man

1:29:54.520 --> 1:29:56.639
<v Speaker 1>was the purchase of a person of interest in Oregon,

1:29:57.120 --> 1:30:01.880
<v Speaker 1>New Mexico and Las Vegas for kidnap four girls. H

1:30:02.920 --> 1:30:05.559
<v Speaker 1>So then they called me and my husband. We get

1:30:05.640 --> 1:30:08.640
<v Speaker 1>down there and my husband said to me and my

1:30:08.960 --> 1:30:11.479
<v Speaker 1>my husband, my husband got locked up. When I knew

1:30:11.520 --> 1:30:13.519
<v Speaker 1>my husband, he was young before he got locked up.

1:30:13.560 --> 1:30:15.320
<v Speaker 1>He got locked up. He's what you called he was

1:30:15.400 --> 1:30:18.760
<v Speaker 1>what you called, um, a juvenile lifer. He made up

1:30:18.800 --> 1:30:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the whole term juvenile lifer. He had like all his

1:30:21.760 --> 1:30:23.920
<v Speaker 1>backing and all that. He got locked up when he

1:30:24.000 --> 1:30:27.639
<v Speaker 1>was fourteen and didn't get out until he was thirty one.

1:30:28.520 --> 1:30:32.400
<v Speaker 1>M Um, my husband knew who I was, like I said,

1:30:32.640 --> 1:30:35.320
<v Speaker 1>when he was young, he knew who I was. Um,

1:30:36.080 --> 1:30:37.920
<v Speaker 1>when this halfer he told me, he said, don't you

1:30:38.000 --> 1:30:40.600
<v Speaker 1>think it's time now? It's time now for you to

1:30:40.640 --> 1:30:43.920
<v Speaker 1>tell your story? He said, because I remember them asked

1:30:43.960 --> 1:30:47.400
<v Speaker 1>what we used to get in Philly, you know, coming

1:30:47.439 --> 1:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>in money short. He was like, it's time now, he

1:30:50.040 --> 1:30:53.040
<v Speaker 1>was like, it's only years past. You're working as a nurse.

1:30:53.560 --> 1:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>You people thinking that you just up and up and

1:30:57.080 --> 1:30:59.360
<v Speaker 1>nice lady. They don't know your life stories. And you

1:30:59.439 --> 1:31:03.800
<v Speaker 1>think you should at them, so to skip ahead. Were

1:31:03.840 --> 1:31:07.879
<v Speaker 1>wrestling all these little black kids, some white, some Hispanic.

1:31:09.439 --> 1:31:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you know what got me my verification badge? To

1:31:12.160 --> 1:31:15.400
<v Speaker 1>me and my son, I want you all to hear

1:31:15.439 --> 1:31:16.880
<v Speaker 1>me when I say this, do you know what got

1:31:16.920 --> 1:31:20.559
<v Speaker 1>me my verification badge? And I put it on my page.

1:31:21.240 --> 1:31:23.880
<v Speaker 1>I found a forty year old white lady down on

1:31:23.920 --> 1:31:26.639
<v Speaker 1>a skit role who had been missing for two years,

1:31:27.040 --> 1:31:30.200
<v Speaker 1>who just gave up her kids. She was being six

1:31:30.280 --> 1:31:33.040
<v Speaker 1>traffic they had been looking for. We even posted it

1:31:33.120 --> 1:31:37.479
<v Speaker 1>on my page and UM get alive when we found

1:31:37.520 --> 1:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>her and everything. Come to find out, you got a

1:31:42.680 --> 1:31:46.479
<v Speaker 1>verification on social media? Yes, that's when I got when

1:31:46.560 --> 1:31:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I when I found her and we found out a

1:31:50.120 --> 1:31:52.800
<v Speaker 1>week after that when they these people called me and

1:31:52.880 --> 1:31:55.000
<v Speaker 1>asked me to come because there was like we've been

1:31:55.040 --> 1:31:57.560
<v Speaker 1>trying to find her for two years. We gave you

1:31:57.680 --> 1:32:00.640
<v Speaker 1>her picture and you found her in three days? H

1:32:01.320 --> 1:32:05.759
<v Speaker 1>What the hell? I found out she was actually her husband?

1:32:05.880 --> 1:32:08.519
<v Speaker 1>Is this big time to do x Susman? Is this

1:32:08.640 --> 1:32:11.920
<v Speaker 1>big time director producers? I never met the man over

1:32:12.000 --> 1:32:15.360
<v Speaker 1>there in Hollywood and he's the one who gave me

1:32:15.439 --> 1:32:18.680
<v Speaker 1>my donation. It was like, people need to know who

1:32:18.760 --> 1:32:20.720
<v Speaker 1>you are. I woke up the next one and I

1:32:20.800 --> 1:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>had a verification. Are so say that? They say, you

1:32:25.920 --> 1:32:30.599
<v Speaker 1>got a verification for helping to rescue a white woman

1:32:30.800 --> 1:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>who was grown. Yes, babies, babies, you didn't get no

1:32:37.720 --> 1:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>verification for that? Mm hmmm mmm, Sonny, we gotta we

1:32:43.760 --> 1:32:49.320
<v Speaker 1>gotta go. Huh. I'm burdened to that. And every time

1:32:49.360 --> 1:32:51.120
<v Speaker 1>I talked to you, I'm burden. And let me tell you,

1:32:51.640 --> 1:32:54.479
<v Speaker 1>people are the same way with me. My son knows.

1:32:54.960 --> 1:32:56.680
<v Speaker 1>As soon as they see me, they just be like

1:32:56.960 --> 1:33:00.200
<v Speaker 1>who it's a lot like we will talking to you

1:33:00.280 --> 1:33:03.559
<v Speaker 1>they are. They're like, we love to Maka, but it's

1:33:03.640 --> 1:33:09.200
<v Speaker 1>just too much. Like I'm thinking about times that my sign,

1:33:09.320 --> 1:33:12.559
<v Speaker 1>myself and others have gone to Jada Pinkett's house, right

1:33:13.040 --> 1:33:14.840
<v Speaker 1>and m c light on meet us over there, and

1:33:14.920 --> 1:33:17.439
<v Speaker 1>we got other friends and we'll all get together at

1:33:17.800 --> 1:33:21.840
<v Speaker 1>will and Jada's house and we end up talking about

1:33:22.080 --> 1:33:26.479
<v Speaker 1>so many different issues that at times the whole room

1:33:26.640 --> 1:33:29.160
<v Speaker 1>is like, Okay, wait, it's too much. But then they

1:33:29.280 --> 1:33:31.800
<v Speaker 1>still want more because they want to know, want to

1:33:32.560 --> 1:33:34.479
<v Speaker 1>like so then what so what do we do here?

1:33:35.360 --> 1:33:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Jade is like when her check book out right in

1:33:37.920 --> 1:33:40.280
<v Speaker 1>the check to the people. I'm telling her over here

1:33:40.439 --> 1:33:45.160
<v Speaker 1>need how she's doing a show creating. Um, you know

1:33:45.439 --> 1:33:47.760
<v Speaker 1>she's figuring out with her producers, how she's gonna do

1:33:47.840 --> 1:33:51.200
<v Speaker 1>a show on this issue. Light is calling this one

1:33:51.320 --> 1:33:53.080
<v Speaker 1>to get them to post the thing and the thing.

1:33:53.200 --> 1:33:56.439
<v Speaker 1>We got a full work session going on while trying

1:33:56.520 --> 1:34:00.360
<v Speaker 1>to enjoy just being together because there's so much ship happening,

1:34:01.560 --> 1:34:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and not discuss these things when we get together. I

1:34:04.200 --> 1:34:08.000
<v Speaker 1>always say black people need a meeting everythingree single day.

1:34:08.800 --> 1:34:11.240
<v Speaker 1>You gotta have. So what I want to say is

1:34:12.040 --> 1:34:16.160
<v Speaker 1>people's oftentimes say protecting me de Mallory at all costs,

1:34:16.880 --> 1:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>and we have to be saying the same thing about

1:34:19.240 --> 1:34:23.840
<v Speaker 1>Tony Rivera at Tony at all courts. How do people

1:34:24.040 --> 1:34:28.880
<v Speaker 1>give to you today? How can they get Um? I

1:34:29.000 --> 1:34:32.320
<v Speaker 1>usually just give my information out the zel on to

1:34:32.439 --> 1:34:35.280
<v Speaker 1>go straight to Rose because I don't want anything come

1:34:35.320 --> 1:34:39.320
<v Speaker 1>to me. It held straight to my organization. Um, I

1:34:39.400 --> 1:34:41.240
<v Speaker 1>think it's time I have to look at it again.

1:34:41.360 --> 1:34:44.639
<v Speaker 1>I know it's Tony at roles slash organization dot com.

1:34:44.960 --> 1:34:47.240
<v Speaker 1>So you don't have a cash at or your website

1:34:47.280 --> 1:34:49.040
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have a link. Do we need to do all

1:34:49.160 --> 1:34:52.720
<v Speaker 1>your business, Tony when I say to me, let me

1:34:52.800 --> 1:34:56.040
<v Speaker 1>tell you that's why I told this Toya. Um, I

1:34:56.160 --> 1:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>think I'm gonna be management again because I'm trying to

1:34:58.680 --> 1:35:01.640
<v Speaker 1>do everything on my own. Yeah, and I'm really not

1:35:01.840 --> 1:35:05.160
<v Speaker 1>able to um because I got so much going on.

1:35:05.360 --> 1:35:08.759
<v Speaker 1>I got like six projects I'm doing. I just finished

1:35:08.800 --> 1:35:13.320
<v Speaker 1>so many pitch decks. I finished four pitch decks for podcasts,

1:35:13.400 --> 1:35:16.200
<v Speaker 1>two reality shows. And see, I mean I'm just then

1:35:16.240 --> 1:35:19.400
<v Speaker 1>I just got my own um ton of real production started.

1:35:19.840 --> 1:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>So I'm just like I'm moving because I'm coming out

1:35:23.960 --> 1:35:26.479
<v Speaker 1>of the rescuing and you know I'm coming out of

1:35:26.520 --> 1:35:29.320
<v Speaker 1>that because of my kids. My kids are older. I

1:35:29.400 --> 1:35:33.400
<v Speaker 1>got three that are in college. Um, my fourteen year

1:35:33.439 --> 1:35:35.719
<v Speaker 1>old she wants to be you know, live a little.

1:35:36.439 --> 1:35:39.719
<v Speaker 1>But everybody come up tour and like, yo, it's Tona,

1:35:39.760 --> 1:35:41.519
<v Speaker 1>do you you're your mom? If they see me and

1:35:41.640 --> 1:35:44.160
<v Speaker 1>her out, um, they see my boys in school. So

1:35:44.320 --> 1:35:46.679
<v Speaker 1>it's like, you know what, I'm gonna pull back from

1:35:46.760 --> 1:35:50.640
<v Speaker 1>the now from the rescue and yeah, rescue side, so

1:35:50.720 --> 1:35:52.280
<v Speaker 1>they can live a little. So I said, you know what,

1:35:52.320 --> 1:35:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go focus on me and concentrate on me. Well,

1:35:55.000 --> 1:35:57.040
<v Speaker 1>people need to give you some money to be able

1:35:57.080 --> 1:35:59.720
<v Speaker 1>to do that, and of course the world continues, you

1:35:59.760 --> 1:36:01.960
<v Speaker 1>need to able to hire you should have to my

1:36:02.120 --> 1:36:07.040
<v Speaker 1>soience point, Tony needs to have a major building organization

1:36:07.360 --> 1:36:12.160
<v Speaker 1>somewhere where there are many people that are working just

1:36:12.360 --> 1:36:14.960
<v Speaker 1>like we would have. That's why we say defund the police.

1:36:15.000 --> 1:36:16.720
<v Speaker 1>I heard you saying that earlier, and I know what

1:36:16.840 --> 1:36:20.800
<v Speaker 1>you're saying is that because of the budget cuts in

1:36:20.960 --> 1:36:23.920
<v Speaker 1>some departments and in the police, and the police and

1:36:24.120 --> 1:36:26.600
<v Speaker 1>and in the cities, they will say they don't have

1:36:26.760 --> 1:36:30.479
<v Speaker 1>enough money to continue to do this work. But that's

1:36:30.520 --> 1:36:34.920
<v Speaker 1>about prioritization, because they got enough money to buy what

1:36:35.120 --> 1:36:38.479
<v Speaker 1>their own weapons of mass destruction where they are where

1:36:38.479 --> 1:36:42.439
<v Speaker 1>they bring tanks out to meet protesters in the street. Okay,

1:36:42.600 --> 1:36:45.639
<v Speaker 1>So that's that's how we say defund the police because

1:36:45.720 --> 1:36:50.200
<v Speaker 1>money needs to be shifted from policing and over police

1:36:50.240 --> 1:36:53.080
<v Speaker 1>and two things like what you're talking about. But we

1:36:53.240 --> 1:36:56.080
<v Speaker 1>want to give the information you just gave us. It

1:36:56.160 --> 1:36:59.080
<v Speaker 1>ain't together. We need to help you before today. We're

1:36:59.120 --> 1:37:01.760
<v Speaker 1>gonna you stay behind, We're gonna get yoursel and we're

1:37:01.760 --> 1:37:04.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna put it out and make sure that people know

1:37:04.960 --> 1:37:08.080
<v Speaker 1>how they can give you money because you need to

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<v Speaker 1>be funded and supported. Oh yeah, I mean, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying to do my little thing. But um,

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<v Speaker 1>I look at it as you know, everybody said, oh Tony,

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<v Speaker 1>you need money, and you're not the first one to

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<v Speaker 1>say it. And I've always said that. The miss Toyat

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<v Speaker 1>and Andy, I'm looking at this thing is God is

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<v Speaker 1>using me for a vessel. Yes, right, I can't put

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<v Speaker 1>a price tag on what he's using it for. Um.

1:37:33.920 --> 1:37:37.639
<v Speaker 1>Me putting a price tag on it is really like, um,

1:37:39.000 --> 1:37:44.400
<v Speaker 1>it's like demoting me and pushing him his agenda aside. Yeah,

1:37:44.479 --> 1:37:47.080
<v Speaker 1>it's no price. Um, I'm helping kids get out of

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<v Speaker 1>a lifestyle that God allowed me to go through. No,

1:37:51.560 --> 1:37:56.000
<v Speaker 1>and I look at it. He knew I was a survival.

1:37:56.080 --> 1:37:59.599
<v Speaker 1>He knew I was a strong person, so he let

1:37:59.680 --> 1:38:03.240
<v Speaker 1>me go through this. So I'm helping them. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>funny like with the money and aspect and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I used the ship coming out of me

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<v Speaker 1>in my husband's pocket. No, we're not rich. We do. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we've done thank you for your time, but we're not

1:38:17.960 --> 1:38:20.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna do because we've done that. We've done that, and

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<v Speaker 1>not only have we put out so much. We still

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<v Speaker 1>do it. We still do it. I was listening the

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<v Speaker 1>other day, we were somewhere, and I was watching my

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<v Speaker 1>son literally paying for organizational expenses with his personal car RD.

1:38:32.200 --> 1:38:34.439
<v Speaker 1>I do it all the time. I bought flights on

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<v Speaker 1>my own. If I get a check from speaking somewhere

1:38:37.479 --> 1:38:39.920
<v Speaker 1>and some money comes in, I use And he will

1:38:39.960 --> 1:38:42.080
<v Speaker 1>attest to this and so many others because they know

1:38:42.560 --> 1:38:45.480
<v Speaker 1>I will use some of that money for me personally

1:38:45.520 --> 1:38:48.280
<v Speaker 1>to pay for organizational expenses, because we don't want to

1:38:48.360 --> 1:38:50.200
<v Speaker 1>run out of money to do out of work. You

1:38:50.280 --> 1:38:52.800
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So I know all about what

1:38:52.960 --> 1:38:55.760
<v Speaker 1>you're saying. And there are people who try to tell

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<v Speaker 1>us that we shouldn't have money to do what we do.

1:38:59.320 --> 1:39:04.680
<v Speaker 1>We be heminently reject that we veheminently rejected. If you

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<v Speaker 1>can give money to celebrities for music and and entertainers

1:39:09.720 --> 1:39:13.120
<v Speaker 1>and and and athletes to play ball, you can also

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<v Speaker 1>help people like a Tony Rivera my Phone, Lenard, Tamika Mallory,

1:39:17.439 --> 1:39:20.519
<v Speaker 1>Erica Ford's and so many others that's doing work to

1:39:20.640 --> 1:39:23.320
<v Speaker 1>be able to do what we do. So we're gonna

1:39:23.360 --> 1:39:30.080
<v Speaker 1>put your infinite and he's right. Thank you, Tony, thanks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny because when I'm looking at Tony, I

1:39:36.400 --> 1:39:41.680
<v Speaker 1>see that she's overwhelmed, you know, she's she's overworked, She's overwhelmed.

1:39:42.640 --> 1:39:46.560
<v Speaker 1>That's no joke. That's a burden. That's a burden. And

1:39:46.680 --> 1:39:50.200
<v Speaker 1>the fearlessness which is still there's fear even in the

1:39:50.320 --> 1:39:53.880
<v Speaker 1>fearlessness um of getting out there and being like I'm

1:39:53.960 --> 1:39:58.800
<v Speaker 1>going at it no matter what. That's some serious stuff. Yeah, man,

1:39:58.880 --> 1:40:00.400
<v Speaker 1>And that just and that brings you to my I

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<v Speaker 1>don't get it, you know, I just I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>how people pray when our kids, you know, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>really don't like as a man, who who see who

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<v Speaker 1>really wants to be a protector and provider for children?

1:40:20.960 --> 1:40:23.240
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't see how you look at a young

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<v Speaker 1>girl six years old, ten years old, any teen years old,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, how do you pray on our children? Like

1:40:33.200 --> 1:40:35.160
<v Speaker 1>what is it? What you know? It has to be

1:40:35.360 --> 1:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>some mindst I don't even I can't even identify, like

1:40:39.080 --> 1:40:42.120
<v Speaker 1>what it would take to be a grown adult as

1:40:42.280 --> 1:40:45.439
<v Speaker 1>man and pray on our babies. Man, and it to

1:40:45.520 --> 1:40:50.000
<v Speaker 1>men and women. We got to change the language. Yeah.

1:40:50.280 --> 1:40:52.599
<v Speaker 1>But the thing is this, most times the women who

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<v Speaker 1>are doing it are being the victim, not necessarily. I

1:40:57.200 --> 1:41:00.960
<v Speaker 1>mean from what I'm seeing. I thought eat the other

1:41:01.080 --> 1:41:03.519
<v Speaker 1>day that's been moving around online and I actually was

1:41:03.560 --> 1:41:06.160
<v Speaker 1>gonna post it, but I you know, when I post something,

1:41:06.200 --> 1:41:08.000
<v Speaker 1>when you post something, we gotta be ready to deal

1:41:08.040 --> 1:41:13.679
<v Speaker 1>with it because it it goes wildfire. And the tweet said,

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<v Speaker 1>stop making men think it's a badge of honor that

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<v Speaker 1>they were victimized at thirteen and fourteen years old by

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<v Speaker 1>an older babysitter or an older family member or an

1:41:29.040 --> 1:41:35.599
<v Speaker 1>older neighbor neighbor, because we will look at that and say, yeah,

1:41:35.800 --> 1:41:38.720
<v Speaker 1>you know he had he was getting it early. But

1:41:38.840 --> 1:41:41.800
<v Speaker 1>the truth of the matter is that at thirteen years old,

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<v Speaker 1>if the twenty six year old babysitter is having sex

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<v Speaker 1>with you, that's rape. It's rape, and it's moles stationed,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is traumatizing, and it is taking the innocence

1:41:54.439 --> 1:41:59.280
<v Speaker 1>of a young child away, and that's gonna take about

1:41:59.320 --> 1:42:03.320
<v Speaker 1>to retreat him in state of the man it really is,

1:42:03.479 --> 1:42:07.960
<v Speaker 1>because I don't, I can't really, you probably find a handful,

1:42:08.120 --> 1:42:11.160
<v Speaker 1>if you can find that, of men that will identify

1:42:11.360 --> 1:42:14.360
<v Speaker 1>that with any level of trauma or any level of pain,

1:42:15.200 --> 1:42:18.680
<v Speaker 1>like right, because when it's just looking at just as

1:42:18.800 --> 1:42:21.720
<v Speaker 1>from a sexist I mean, not a sex from a

1:42:21.840 --> 1:42:26.640
<v Speaker 1>sex um inter you you know, from a woman and men,

1:42:26.760 --> 1:42:30.160
<v Speaker 1>just the sex of different sexes. Men don't. We don't

1:42:30.240 --> 1:42:32.920
<v Speaker 1>see it that way. We just we like as much

1:42:32.960 --> 1:42:35.040
<v Speaker 1>as I sit there and think about it, and when

1:42:35.120 --> 1:42:37.439
<v Speaker 1>and when you start tearing back the layers and you

1:42:37.520 --> 1:42:40.760
<v Speaker 1>start doing you know, the psychological of how men are

1:42:40.800 --> 1:42:44.120
<v Speaker 1>sexualized and how we equate every a lot of things,

1:42:44.240 --> 1:42:49.080
<v Speaker 1>which sex. Maybe that is what has led to that mentality.

1:42:49.200 --> 1:42:53.040
<v Speaker 1>But we don't see ourselves as victims Anymost of men,

1:42:53.640 --> 1:42:55.880
<v Speaker 1>young boys at that time, think that they got over

1:42:56.520 --> 1:42:58.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, it was a badge of honor. They didn't

1:42:59.000 --> 1:43:02.320
<v Speaker 1>feel we didn't feel nass Steve, we didn't feel violated,

1:43:02.400 --> 1:43:05.639
<v Speaker 1>we didn't feel any level of trauma. So to get

1:43:05.720 --> 1:43:08.760
<v Speaker 1>us to identify with that mentality, it's gonna be a

1:43:08.840 --> 1:43:11.479
<v Speaker 1>lot harder not seeing this wrong because you're right now

1:43:11.800 --> 1:43:15.680
<v Speaker 1>when adult is playing on a thirteen twelve whatever, yo,

1:43:15.880 --> 1:43:19.479
<v Speaker 1>then there's definitely still should be um statutory rate the

1:43:19.560 --> 1:43:22.080
<v Speaker 1>same thing. But I'm just trying to say most men

1:43:22.240 --> 1:43:25.719
<v Speaker 1>that I speak to will never really identify that because

1:43:25.840 --> 1:43:27.719
<v Speaker 1>the thing is, and that's why I said, I didn't

1:43:27.720 --> 1:43:29.719
<v Speaker 1>post it yet because I was like, gotta be ready

1:43:29.840 --> 1:43:31.879
<v Speaker 1>when get it? This is getting ready to be comments.

1:43:32.040 --> 1:43:34.800
<v Speaker 1>Let and you would have been one of the people

1:43:34.840 --> 1:43:37.040
<v Speaker 1>in my comments that I would have to tell leave

1:43:37.080 --> 1:43:40.320
<v Speaker 1>me alone. But he was giving you because I'm cold,

1:43:40.640 --> 1:43:43.760
<v Speaker 1>my whole life can give you that point of view.

1:43:44.080 --> 1:43:46.560
<v Speaker 1>I know that that's that I totally respected, and I

1:43:46.640 --> 1:43:48.679
<v Speaker 1>know it's a feeling in my twenty two year old

1:43:48.840 --> 1:43:51.479
<v Speaker 1>to read says the same thing everybody. Everybody feels the

1:43:51.560 --> 1:43:58.320
<v Speaker 1>same way. But there is so much about a man's

1:43:59.439 --> 1:44:05.160
<v Speaker 1>Some men, too many men lack of and I when

1:44:05.200 --> 1:44:08.760
<v Speaker 1>I say sensitivity, it's the wrong word for this context.

1:44:09.600 --> 1:44:13.680
<v Speaker 1>But ability to treat a woman the right way sexually.

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<v Speaker 1>That comes from not having a natural progression into your

1:44:19.240 --> 1:44:25.519
<v Speaker 1>sexual into your sexuality, and into your sexual understanding. Right,

1:44:26.720 --> 1:44:31.000
<v Speaker 1>There's so many women who are not being pleased sexually

1:44:31.160 --> 1:44:34.640
<v Speaker 1>by men because the way that they were taught to

1:44:35.000 --> 1:44:40.680
<v Speaker 1>have sex was not actually the right again natural experience

1:44:40.800 --> 1:44:44.160
<v Speaker 1>of the first time you're having sex, you might be

1:44:44.439 --> 1:44:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm just using this and I'm not suggesting at all

1:44:47.600 --> 1:44:50.400
<v Speaker 1>that this happened, but I'm just saying you sixteen or

1:44:50.479 --> 1:44:53.360
<v Speaker 1>seventeen and you have sex with another sixteen seventeen year old.

1:44:53.400 --> 1:44:56.360
<v Speaker 1>So y'all are learning things about one another or whatever.

1:44:56.479 --> 1:44:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Maybe you start out sixteen, you're just kissing. Seventeen might

1:44:59.120 --> 1:45:00.920
<v Speaker 1>be a little more so. Eight seem to you know,

1:45:01.240 --> 1:45:04.320
<v Speaker 1>And there's a process that you're going through. Instead, you're

1:45:04.360 --> 1:45:08.080
<v Speaker 1>a young kid that is being taken advantage of buy

1:45:08.120 --> 1:45:13.200
<v Speaker 1>an adult who doesn't care about you. They are literally

1:45:13.439 --> 1:45:17.120
<v Speaker 1>taking advantage of you for their own purposes. And so

1:45:17.320 --> 1:45:21.800
<v Speaker 1>then you begin to reenact the same things over and

1:45:21.920 --> 1:45:24.360
<v Speaker 1>over and over again because you think that that's the

1:45:24.520 --> 1:45:27.760
<v Speaker 1>right way to handle a woman or to be in

1:45:27.920 --> 1:45:32.120
<v Speaker 1>relationship into in sexual relationship with somebody. So I get

1:45:32.360 --> 1:45:35.800
<v Speaker 1>why it's cool, and the other thing is mine. I

1:45:35.920 --> 1:45:38.160
<v Speaker 1>keep telling you this over and over and over again.

1:45:38.760 --> 1:45:42.760
<v Speaker 1>So much of what we all believe is what was

1:45:42.920 --> 1:45:46.800
<v Speaker 1>told to us, or what in a patriarchal society was

1:45:46.960 --> 1:45:51.320
<v Speaker 1>sold to us as the truth, when if we really

1:45:51.479 --> 1:45:54.960
<v Speaker 1>sit and think back on how it all and I'm

1:45:55.000 --> 1:45:57.559
<v Speaker 1>not by the way, if you go back and look

1:45:57.600 --> 1:45:59.840
<v Speaker 1>at the history of where some of us come from,

1:46:01.320 --> 1:46:03.920
<v Speaker 1>taking advantage of young kids has been a thing forever.

1:46:04.400 --> 1:46:06.600
<v Speaker 1>This is not like the same. I'm not saying that

1:46:06.680 --> 1:46:09.000
<v Speaker 1>all became the America or we whatever, and it No,

1:46:09.200 --> 1:46:13.040
<v Speaker 1>this has been a thing for too long and it's

1:46:13.080 --> 1:46:17.439
<v Speaker 1>always been wrong right in my judgment, And I think

1:46:17.640 --> 1:46:21.000
<v Speaker 1>we have a responsibility, as I often tell you, to

1:46:21.160 --> 1:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>deal with this. So when you say you don't get it,

1:46:24.000 --> 1:46:27.200
<v Speaker 1>we ain't been getting it. This is the world. And

1:46:27.479 --> 1:46:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I ended and I ended on this right because I

1:46:30.000 --> 1:46:32.720
<v Speaker 1>was just listening to your perspective. And yeah, maybe you

1:46:32.840 --> 1:46:37.360
<v Speaker 1>know a lot of men, you know, because of sexual

1:46:37.439 --> 1:46:40.880
<v Speaker 1>experience they had they weren't natural, that were you know,

1:46:41.040 --> 1:46:44.600
<v Speaker 1>out of order, probably have you know, made them a

1:46:44.720 --> 1:46:49.160
<v Speaker 1>lot less compassionate and even understanding about women and take

1:46:49.240 --> 1:46:51.560
<v Speaker 1>the time to do. But I'm being honest with me.

1:46:52.960 --> 1:46:56.479
<v Speaker 1>My sexual experiences were older women is what taught me

1:46:56.800 --> 1:46:59.280
<v Speaker 1>sexually as it may. Like when I was having sex

1:46:59.320 --> 1:47:02.040
<v Speaker 1>withal younger, I didn't even though it wasn't having sex, right,

1:47:02.040 --> 1:47:04.439
<v Speaker 1>I thought I was actually having sex and I wasn't.

1:47:05.320 --> 1:47:08.040
<v Speaker 1>That I found out from an older woman like that's

1:47:08.040 --> 1:47:10.720
<v Speaker 1>not You didn't you didn't go in anywhere, like you

1:47:10.760 --> 1:47:12.639
<v Speaker 1>didn't even put it. You just was in between my legs.

1:47:12.760 --> 1:47:15.720
<v Speaker 1>Nothing actually happened. A young girl just didn't even know.

1:47:15.920 --> 1:47:18.519
<v Speaker 1>She wasn't telling me anything. So I mean, there's this

1:47:18.880 --> 1:47:21.960
<v Speaker 1>variation and this and that might be something that's necessary.

1:47:22.439 --> 1:47:26.080
<v Speaker 1>You made need to go through the process of learning

1:47:26.280 --> 1:47:29.200
<v Speaker 1>and knowing and this and that, and I don't. And

1:47:29.520 --> 1:47:31.720
<v Speaker 1>I know for sure that an older woman has no

1:47:31.880 --> 1:47:34.960
<v Speaker 1>business teaching that to a child, right. That should not

1:47:35.080 --> 1:47:40.280
<v Speaker 1>be happening because it also goes along manipulating the mental

1:47:40.760 --> 1:47:44.280
<v Speaker 1>ability and capacity of a younger person. It's a lot

1:47:44.360 --> 1:47:46.880
<v Speaker 1>of stuff that happens. But I will say this, and

1:47:47.000 --> 1:47:49.679
<v Speaker 1>you write we're done on because me and you every

1:47:49.760 --> 1:47:53.360
<v Speaker 1>week we end up fighting all this kind of stuff.

1:47:53.520 --> 1:47:57.400
<v Speaker 1>But I will say good, most dudes don't even know

1:47:57.600 --> 1:47:59.720
<v Speaker 1>how to have sex, even though they had it with

1:47:59.840 --> 1:48:05.880
<v Speaker 1>the old women, because most women are faking orgasms during sex.

1:48:06.160 --> 1:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>So the brother can get the hell uh, that is

1:48:09.320 --> 1:48:18.599
<v Speaker 1>what's happening, ladies, y'all, But it's the true happened. I'm

1:48:18.680 --> 1:48:23.080
<v Speaker 1>just telling you. And with that said, we're gonna end

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