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Speaker 1: So let's shine a light eight hundred two nine two

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Speaker 2: Let us know. We want to do that. We want

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Speaker 1: Turn your lights on, y'all spreading love to those who

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Speaker 2: Light, shine a light on. It's time to shine a

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Speaker 1: What's up is way up at Angela yee, and it's

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Speaker 1: time to shine a light. And today I want to

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Speaker 1: shine a light on Jessica English. She is leading De

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Speaker 1: who do you guys want to shine a light on? Kelvin,

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Speaker 1: Who do you want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 3: I want to shine a light on monkey Asia. You

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Speaker 3: got sixteen days until our wedding.

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Speaker 2: We're y'all getting married at.

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Speaker 3: We're getting married at the Embasy Hotel.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we see you. And is it a big wedding?

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Speaker 1: And how involved were you and planning the wedding? Were

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Speaker 3: Oh it's been a while. I've been ten years, so

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Speaker 2: All right, you gonna put her time in?

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well congratulations. I hope you guys have

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you. I hope you'll have a blood day.

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Speaker 2: All right, you too? All right?

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Speaker 1: Well that was shine of light, and you know what

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Speaker 1: we do it all We shine a light, but we

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Speaker 2: This is a judgment.

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Speaker 2: Tell us a secret. What's up?

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Speaker 1: As way up at angela yee? And the number is

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Speaker 2: What's up? Anonymous?

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Speaker 2: Tell us your secret.

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Speaker 3: So I just left an abist of relationship Saturday. The

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I just filed a protection in order today.

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Speaker 2: Yes, as you should.

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, I don't know, feel free, but I'm sad.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, it definitely should. I'm so glad you left.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what my mom was saying. She was like,

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Speaker 1: Honestly, whatever they get is what they deserve. If you

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Speaker 1: You should you should know this as what's up? His

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Speaker 2: Ask ye. I'm here to help you out. Now. We

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Speaker 2: Hey, how you feeling?

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Speaker 4: So I've been single for four years, divorcee for two

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he said, I got here safely and that was it.

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Speaker 1: How long has this been going on a couple of

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Speaker 1: And has he called your sense like there's been no

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Speaker 1: You know, like you said, you've only been single now

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Speaker 1: Thank you all right, and don't second guess yourself, trust yourself.

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Speaker 3: Your voice heard.

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Speaker 2: What the word bit is the last word on way

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Speaker 1: What's up? Its way up with Angela yee. Hopefully you

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Speaker 4: I fell love with my girl cousin, and now we

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Speaker 5: Her name is Kelly. I don't know what she is

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Speaker 4: They way up, duck, you tapped in and way up

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