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Speaker 1: Hello, my beautiful listener. I hope you're having an amazing day,

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Speaker 1: an amazing night. I am having a great morning. I

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Speaker 1: woke up early, I got my workout in. I feel great,

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Speaker 1: I feel strong. I'm once again in the car driving

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Speaker 1: home from the gym, and I was thinking about relationships

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Speaker 1: and how a certain someone and I won't say names

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Speaker 1: because it's not necessary, but is not desperate. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: say desperate, but is I guess ready readier I don't

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Speaker 1: know if that's a word, but readier er than they

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Speaker 1: ever were to be in a relationship and they feel

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Speaker 1: they've done the work and they're waiting. They're like, where

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Speaker 1: is my person? When am I going to be in love?

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Speaker 1: When am I going to be loved? And it got

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Speaker 1: me thinks because I would much rather now Because for

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Speaker 1: a long time I was afraid to be alone. I

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Speaker 1: didn't know how to be alone. But when I finally

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Speaker 1: sat in my loneliness and felt all the feels and

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Speaker 1: did the healing, I realized that I would much rather

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Speaker 1: feel the feeling of loneliness and being sad because I'm alone,

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Speaker 1: then being with someone and feeling alone. Some people stay

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Speaker 1: in relationships or find whatever person to be with, just

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Speaker 1: to not be alone, settling to settle, and in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing worse than kind of wasting your time, especially

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Speaker 1: if this person isn't making you happy, doesn't love you

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Speaker 1: the way you deserve, but you think, well, at least

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Speaker 1: I have someone. No, I would much rather fall asleep

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Speaker 1: crying and hugging my pillow because I'm alone and there's

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Speaker 1: no one next to me, then feeling what I felt

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Speaker 1: for so long, crying on my pillow and having the

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Speaker 1: person that I loved next to me, and I did

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Speaker 1: not feel loved. I felt so alone, it felt so

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Speaker 1: ugly not to be wanted to be rejected in that way.

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Speaker 1: So if you're that person that is ready to be

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Speaker 1: in a relationship and you haven't yet found someone, wait

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Speaker 1: on God, have faith in God's plan for your life.

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Speaker 1: Don't rush things, don't force things, don't pressure anything, Sit

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Speaker 1: and wait and be patient, because when we just do

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Speaker 1: something to do it, or we force it, it's very

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Speaker 1: rare for it to work out the way you want.

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Speaker 1: I try to tell this person that and hopefully they understand,

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Speaker 1: because I'm like, you know what you've done, the healing,

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Speaker 1: you've done, the work I feel like you are your

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Speaker 1: best self right now in this moment, and the universe

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Speaker 1: and God they know this, and they're also preparing your

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Speaker 1: special person because you've done the work and it's not

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Speaker 1: just going to be anybody. So think about it that way.

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Speaker 1: I'm preparing myself while God is preparing my person, that

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Speaker 1: special someone for me that I deserve because it is

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Speaker 1: our God given right to be loved, It is our

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Speaker 1: God given right to be respected, to be happy. But

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Speaker 1: we have to want that pure love, not just love,

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Speaker 1: and not even love lust that's the word, not just lust.

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Speaker 1: We want true pure love. So just be patient, be patient,

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Speaker 1: be wise, be still. It always pays off at the end.

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Speaker 1: I love you, and I hope that this episode of

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Speaker 1: Sincerely Jennette helped you. And I'll catch you on the

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Speaker 1: next one. Sincerely Janney,