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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we are scrub a dub dumb so much has

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Speaker 3: happened to talk about?

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Speaker 4: Tell me well, first of all.

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Speaker 3: We have an ethic new setup in.

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Speaker 1: So if you're watching this, hey, fel if it feels

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Speaker 1: a little fresher less pixelated, Yes, because we got some

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Speaker 1: new gear in this.

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Speaker 4: Dude, that's right.

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Speaker 5: That's something problems says we can't cash and if you

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Speaker 5: don't know, it's gonna be le mixilated.

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Speaker 3: Yet that's true. That's true.

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Speaker 6: This is scrubbing in what ten point zero or something.

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Speaker 6: This is like a new era, that's what we.

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Speaker 4: Were going for.

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Speaker 6: We have a new producer era. Yes, new look, new lighting.

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Speaker 4: Yes, my own lighting.

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Speaker 2: Tanya has the Alex Earl light up. It's just in

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Speaker 2: full force.

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Speaker 6: Sure.

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Speaker 1: The best part about it though, is that it's actually

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Speaker 1: La Girl branded.

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Speaker 4: I got it in a gifting suite, so it's like

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Speaker 4: a branded light. Oh but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was just like a lot going on this

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Speaker 2: weekend in terms of like football and whatnot.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, a lot of tailor slift.

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Speaker 4: Just so much.

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Speaker 1: I've never been more excited about a football Sunday than

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Speaker 1: I was yesterday.

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Speaker 3: What tell me about it? Tell me about your Sunday,

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Speaker 3: because so.

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Speaker 1: Well, first of all, started out with my favorite gluten

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Speaker 1: free bagel in town. Shout out Pops Bagels. Oh my gosh, yes,

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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to.

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Speaker 4: I saw Hillary duffin there.

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Speaker 5: Wow dream Yeah, I'm sorry, I need to know what time.

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Speaker 4: I've never seen her there before.

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Speaker 1: I think this was like a rarity, to be honest,

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Speaker 1: but I literally was just like watching her like a

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she probably felt my eyes.

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Speaker 4: Was she wearing.

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Speaker 1: She was wearing all black, like a black blouse, black pants,

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Speaker 1: and sneakers. Got she so she she looked so I

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Speaker 1: was like, Sunday, I looked so haggard, and she looked

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Speaker 1: chet with like her hair and a ponytail.

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Speaker 4: Like she looked so cute.

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Speaker 1: And then they like she sat down and was waiting

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Speaker 1: for her order, and then they were like Hillary's like,

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Speaker 1: oh that's HER's she got it.

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Speaker 6: You see what she got to you.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't hear. I couldn't hear what she ordered. But

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Speaker 1: that was really really started my day off strong. And

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Speaker 1: then the the I actually don't know the names of

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Speaker 1: the teams, but Kristin Harper's fiance Jared.

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Speaker 3: Goff, Yeah, those are the Detroit Lions.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so they were playing against Olivia Colpos. Yes, the

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Speaker 1: friend Niners. So that was a thrill just because, like

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Speaker 1: because I love both of.

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Speaker 4: Them win, you know, like I was like, I can't

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Speaker 4: lose this match.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's more of like I love Kristen and I

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Speaker 2: love all of it. Like Olivia pops up on my

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Speaker 2: TikTok and Instagram and I'm just in awe, just happy.

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Speaker 4: She's so everything. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's uncom rule sometimes yeah, but anyway, so, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the two girls were going against each other.

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Speaker 1: Correct, and then you throw Taylor Swift in the mix,

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Speaker 1: I mean, with the win and she's on the field.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just so much. Did you watch the game?

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Speaker 1: Where were you at home? Haley's I was at home.

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Speaker 1: I didn't watch the game. Yeah, I don't at any games.

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Speaker 2: No, No, but I you know, was keeping up via

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Speaker 2: social media to see who was winning and stuff.

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Speaker 3: But that was the extent of my knowledge.

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Speaker 2: But I loved all the footage of her on the

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Speaker 2: field because that's a huge deal for her to go

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Speaker 2: down on the field and amongst all those.

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Speaker 1: People, right, all the normies, well, not the normal I mean,

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Speaker 2: But I think going down and following his mom and

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Speaker 2: her letting her have the first hug with him, like

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Speaker 2: it was really cool and normalize her in this weird

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Speaker 2: way where you're like, Wow, she was just stoked to

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Speaker 1: I felt the same way, Like I'm like, she is

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Speaker 1: to see her be that role. Yeah, it was not

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Speaker 2: There's some speculations about what they were saying to each

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Speaker 2: other because they kind of covered. It was like she

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Speaker 2: was whispering something to him, so she like had her

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Speaker 3: But there's some speculation on what what was said. And uh,

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Speaker 3: there was a kiss.

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Speaker 4: The love you, there was no I heard it. I

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Speaker 4: listened back to that video one hundred times.

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Speaker 3: I listened to the sound. I thought, people are you

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Speaker 3: know I see I miss things like that? You know

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Speaker 3: how you miss things in.

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Speaker 2: Certain realms of pop culture where I'm like, how did

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Speaker 2: you miss that? I do miss things where I'm I

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Speaker 2: don't watch things like that over and over. I just

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Speaker 2: see the photos and stuff and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: it's so fun.

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Speaker 3: But that's yeah, So what what did she say there?

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Speaker 4: And I love you.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like that in my life. Taylor

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Speaker 1: said that, yeah, and then like he asked where they were,

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Speaker 1: where they were sitting or something, so she was like

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Speaker 4: It was kind of weird, honestly, but I thought it was.

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Speaker 6: Sweet and normal. I felt like a fly on the

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Speaker 6: wall and a normal conversation between them, don't you think.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I guess, but I think I would imagine, like.

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Speaker 6: You're going to the super Bowl, You've been there for

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Speaker 6: in the last five years whatever. Mark, I know, but

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying it's not it's not life changing for him.

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Speaker 6: He's been there many times.

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Speaker 1: And then she had the TNT bracelet on. Wait, I

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Speaker 1: need to ask you your thoughts on her nails.

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Speaker 2: I don't care, no, Like I'm I don't understand. I

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Speaker 2: didn't know that that was something to speculate. I just

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Speaker 2: thought they were.

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Speaker 1: Like for chiefs, like the color for the chiefs, and

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Speaker 1: they were long. Did that not weird you out?

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Speaker 3: She's not been playing her guitar.

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Speaker 4: My god, when have we ever seen her with long nails?

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Speaker 3: I don't think I pay attention.

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Speaker 4: Do it. Do a little google right now and your

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Speaker 4: nails are alone?

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Speaker 2: When I saw her at the Grammy party, oh, because

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Speaker 2: that was a whole speculation, it.

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Speaker 3: Is, you know what.

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Speaker 2: I had a moment thinking about that. The fact that

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Speaker 2: I have a photo with her is like so epic,

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Speaker 2: Like I can't believe that I've had conversations with her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Haley and I were.

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Speaker 2: Saying, and Haley's in her you need to calm down

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Speaker 2: video and she's like, I can't believe that I will

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Speaker 2: forever be in that music video.

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Speaker 1: Right, it's like documented in history and performed with her

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 3: It's really cool.

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Speaker 4: It's really cool.

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Speaker 2: But I just feel like she's When I saw the

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Speaker 2: they won, it felt like you know when something really

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Speaker 2: epic happens for your friend and you want to text

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Speaker 4: I'm so happy for her.

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Speaker 3: All this is so cool. I felt like I wanted

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Speaker 3: to do that, you know, like that's how she makes.

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Speaker 4: That's how I feel about her and Olivia like I'm

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Speaker 4: so torn.

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Speaker 3: Oh who are you going to root for?

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Speaker 4: I think the forty nine ers?

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Speaker 1: Wow, because they're getting married this year, and it's like,

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Speaker 1: how cute would that be if they get married and

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Speaker 1: he wins the Super Bowl in the same year?

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Speaker 3: What if Taylor and Travis get engaged this year?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 1: Well so no, Well, now I have a feeling that

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Speaker 1: the Chiefs are gonna win because it's Super Bowl.

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Speaker 4: What is LVIIII or whatever.

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Speaker 1: So anyways, I first of all convent to that is

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Speaker 1: so annoying. It definitely was a man because it's just annoying. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but it's just so nice. Anyways, it's fifty eight Okay,

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Speaker 1: five plus eight is thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I saw this. This is weird.

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Speaker 1: The forty nine ers four plus nine is thirteen thirteen.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be Taylor Swift's thirteenth game she's attended.

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Speaker 1: The flight from Tokyo to Vegas is thirteen hours. And

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Speaker 1: this I'm not sure about. Somebody just sent me this.

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Speaker 1: I guess there's a quarterback on the forty nine Ers

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Speaker 1: that has a number thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Does that have anything to do with her?

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Speaker 6: Remember?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think so does have anything to do.

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Speaker 3: There's always a number thirteen on teams most of the day.

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Speaker 4: There's another thirteen on the Chiefs.

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Speaker 6: Brock party is number thirteen.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, So all that's to say I think the

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Speaker 1: Chiefs are gonna win.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Okay, it's too much of cod.

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Speaker 1: Oh and the super Bowl is on February eleventh, which

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Speaker 1: is two and eleven, which is thirteen.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. It's really they really do be reaching.

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Speaker 4: Were reaching.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just saying.

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Speaker 1: It's like the littless like that's not even a reach.

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Speaker 1: It's like right next to us. It's like maple syrup

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Speaker 1: on the pancake.

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Speaker 4: Wow, it's not to reach at all.

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Speaker 3: Actually, maple syrup on the pancake, like mayonnaise.

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Speaker 6: And a pancake would be a reach, but mapup.

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Speaker 2: Like a reach would be like comparing almond and saying

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Speaker 2: it's nature's hamburger, which is what Tanya told me over

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Speaker 2: the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I failed myself because what I meant to

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Speaker 1: say was it's almonds are Nature's totsu rolls. It's still

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Speaker 1: it's still like they're little, they're bite size.

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Speaker 4: You can keep them in your pocket. They say, she

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Speaker 4: ate you.

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Speaker 1: They make you feel like yummy, and just keep it

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Speaker 4: Pop one in.

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Speaker 3: Do ttsy rolls make you feel that way?

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Speaker 4: I don't eat titsy rolls, but I imagine they would.

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Speaker 3: Oh but if you just what you imagine, they would be.

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Speaker 4: Yes, like small, bite sized little like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so not like a worther mint or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that feels more like that could have.

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Speaker 2: Been a good analogys she started with almonds or Nature's hamburger.

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Speaker 3: Which.

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Speaker 4: Protein I was going with, like a high protein snack.

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Speaker 2: I gasped, sneak snag. Okay, well that was interesting. I

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Speaker 2: had a lot of responses to this. They were like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like almonds. Almonds are a great thing to have

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Speaker 2: Something significant that happened to me personally is so Jillian

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, So this is your chance.

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Speaker 6: So now you respond by saying podcast Yeah, but I

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Speaker 4: You know what, take one for the team.

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Speaker 3: You don't either.

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Speaker 1: Well, you never asked me to get Selena on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: I'll send you a list of the celebrities you're around

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Speaker 6: Come on our show whenever she wants.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you shoot your shot with Jillian Depsy? I will.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's fine, great, I would love to.

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Speaker 4: Are you really going to I mean, do I ask

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Speaker 2: What do you mean I'm gonna have to like we're

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Speaker 4: Right, do it the professional way.

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Speaker 3: But I appreciated Yeah probably.

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Speaker 4: Maybe yeah, no, no, I don't think so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do you think it's like a scrubber who

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Speaker 3: I would love if it was a scrubber that he

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Speaker 4: To be honest, I don't think she has somebody doing that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people do.

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Speaker 4: Did she respond to anybody else?

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Speaker 4: I would do some serious investigating.

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Speaker 4: I never managed to get ahold of Christopher.

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of scrubbers who were on your side.

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Speaker 4: You know, and I feel really validated.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to extend my thank you to everybody

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Speaker 4: Whatever you call it, snapping my.

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Speaker 2: I still felt like Robbie stood his ground that it

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Speaker 4: We will never help.

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Speaker 3: Oh they think that you were you were like over

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Speaker 2: Well, I do want to get an update on your wedding,

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Speaker 3: But we're going to take a break before we get

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Speaker 3: to that, all right, Tanya. The wedding year amongst us

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Speaker 1: You know, it's so different than I ever anticipated, because

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Speaker 4: And so because we're now, we're really looking.

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Speaker 1: My sister has kids, his brother has kids, you know,

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Speaker 6: And You've mentioned this before, but doing it in Europe,

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Speaker 4: In Los Angeles, like a third of the cock.

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Speaker 2: No. I think people see and think about doing a

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Speaker 1: It's also harder to conceptualize because most of these places,

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Speaker 2: So to sum it up, nothing has moved forward. Yeah, basically, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you are looking at options. It is crazy to

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Speaker 4: No problem do any weekend.

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Speaker 3: Feel about a twenty twenty five wedding.

449
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Speaker 1: I don't love it. I mean, I'm like, it seems far.

450
00:19:48,720 --> 00:19:50,240
Speaker 1: It's not even April twenty twenty four.

451
00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a long time for now. But maybe that

452
00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,639
Speaker 6: takes some of the pressure off because you have more

453
00:19:56,640 --> 00:19:57,320
Speaker 6: time to plan it.

454
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

455
00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,159
Speaker 1: And I was actually I was talking to Tony and

456
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,760
Speaker 1: one of our other friends about this, and she was like,

457
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 1: this is your only time in your life that you're

458
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:05,200
Speaker 1: going to be engaged. She's like, it's April twenty twenty five,

459
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:07,159
Speaker 1: is going to be here before you know it, Like,

460
00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 1: just enjoy it, don't you know? Because I'm like, because

461
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,119
Speaker 1: everybody's saying just do it. This summer, hurry up, but

462
00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 1: just get it done. And I'm like that stresses me

463
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:14,920
Speaker 1: out thinking about that.

464
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:17,680
Speaker 3: It's like I'm saying that that's terrible advice.

465
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Speaker 4: Oh, Pauline, I was like, I think summer would be great.

466
00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 4: I'm like, that seems so soon. So uh yeah, it's

467
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:26,200
Speaker 4: just like a lot.

468
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, it feels like a lot.

469
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Speaker 4: Yeah, But I think the Thanksgiving thing is making me.

470
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Speaker 1: I feel bad to ask people to come to my

471
00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,120
Speaker 1: wedding on things like what if we do it on Thanksgiving?

472
00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,440
Speaker 1: The wedding, Yeah, that's tough, like a big Thanksgiving tough?

473
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Speaker 6: Is it to I would not be there.

474
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Speaker 4: Thank you so much, thank you for that.

475
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Speaker 6: That that's crucial, But I wouldn't And I think I

476
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,040
Speaker 6: pry a lot of people would be in that situation.

477
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,440
Speaker 1: But would they like so I thought about that too,

478
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Speaker 1: Like I was like, maybe not on Thanksgiving, but maybe

479
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Speaker 1: like either the Friday after Thanksgiving or the Wednesday before

480
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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and then people just spend the rest of their

481
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:05,879
Speaker 1: Giving break, you know in Europe. And all my friends

482
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,919
Speaker 1: that I've like floated it by were like, I'd be

483
00:21:09,200 --> 00:21:12,359
Speaker 1: so down to go to Europe for Thanksgiving. So like

484
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 1: people's reactions have been the opposite of what I expected.

485
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Speaker 3: So there will be ten of us there attendance.

486
00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:22,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's just.

487
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 4: Family. It would be like, yeah, it would be our family.

488
00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: And then I checked in on my bridal party and

489
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 1: that's kind of where I landed.

490
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Speaker 2: Well, this is exciting news, and we'll continue with updates

491
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 2: as we get them.

492
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Speaker 1: I do feel though, I'm feeling more like I'm really excited.

493
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: I think that once I figure out the venue and

494
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: the date, I think it's gonna be really really fun

495
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 1: for me because I'm having a lot of fun with

496
00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 1: like my bridesmaid baskets and like making those and so like,

497
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 1: I feel like the actual nitty gritty of the wedding

498
00:21:57,680 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: stuff I think I'm gonna have fun with. I think

499
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:02,959
Speaker 1: it's like the nailing down when and wear that is

500
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 1: like causing me a lot of stress.

501
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 2: Speaking of bridesmaids, I saw this video of a polite

502
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 2: way to decline being a bridesmaid, which is not going

503
00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:13,679
Speaker 2: to be me.

504
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:20,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, this feels very uh pointed.

505
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 3: I just copy and paste.

506
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,600
Speaker 4: It just showed up in your algorithm. This had a say.

507
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 2: Bridesmaceuf all the time, so it feels accurate that it

508
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,199
Speaker 2: would show up in my algorithm. Anyways, it was like

509
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 2: a very plate way because sometimes people, especially now, it's

510
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 2: like a lot of financial stress, it's traveling, it's a

511
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,959
Speaker 2: lot of commitment, time and energy, and I think people

512
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 2: if they feel like they're not able to give that,

513
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,239
Speaker 2: they feel this guilt of like, Okay, it was an

514
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: honor that they asked me, and it's so important, but

515
00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,639
Speaker 2: I don't feel like I can be the part that

516
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 2: they need me to be in it. And so it

517
00:22:54,880 --> 00:23:01,199
Speaker 2: was like a really nice letter basically declined, just like

518
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,760
Speaker 2: coffee and paste it and it's donny after she gives

519
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: me my basket.

520
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: I know, because we will be having family meetings. Oh yeah,

521
00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:14,919
Speaker 1: oh yes, yes, how often tbd, but it'll be me,

522
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 1: you and Paulina, And yeah, family meetings.

523
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 4: I'm giving you guys planners, personalized planners.

524
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:30,919
Speaker 3: Those mandatory meeting I'm just kidding. It'd be so cute.

525
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 2: I knew what I was getting into when I committed

526
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 2: to be your best friend.

527
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, switching topics, did you watch the Bachelor premiere?

528
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 1: I did not because I'm very into another show. But

529
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: let's talk about the Bachelor show.

530
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 3: Get into another show.

531
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:57,679
Speaker 6: The rest of the doc whenever I got scheduled for

532
00:23:57,720 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 6: this show. She can go off on the show for

533
00:23:59,480 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 6: half an hour.

534
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 2: Correct, Well, I'm just going to give a quick since

535
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: no one else is watching The Bachelor in.

536
00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: Here anti the Bachelor, I'll give it a world because

537
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: I like this Joey guy.

538
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 3: He is so cute.

539
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 2: I feel like he's the best Bachelor we've had in years.

540
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 2: And I might be biased, but I would say since

541
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 2: Ben Higgins, you know, I feel like he was exceptional

542
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 2: and I feel like Joey is bringing back.

543
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 3: The core audience of The Bachelor.

544
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,720
Speaker 4: I met him at the Jonas Brother show.

545
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:32,919
Speaker 3: That one right before he started filming.

546
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: Yes, and like the I think the ABC Public City

547
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: team was like around him, and so they wanted us

548
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 1: to meet and we were having such a great conversation

549
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 1: with him. We were like, oh my gosh, I like

550
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: try to get Paulina to like talk and floor with

551
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: him because.

552
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 4: I was like, he's so cute, so cute, He's so charming,

553
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 4: he said.

554
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 1: They were like, oh, he's about to go be the Bachelor, Timlina.

555
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,760
Speaker 2: He looks like he could be a Jonas brother. He

556
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 2: looks like he's like a joke Kevin Mix. Yeah, that's

557
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,119
Speaker 2: what Taylor Banks sent to me, and so now that's

558
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: that's what I see. Yeah, but I just am so

559
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 2: excited for this season. It's so cute, and I would

560
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't hate if you watch it, so we could

561
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 2: just chout about it.

562
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but tell me about the new show that you're watching.

563
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: Because oh, it comes out once a week, so I

564
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 1: do have some time to kill in between you do.

565
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,080
Speaker 2: But this was this is the crazy thing. There are

566
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 2: two there's a two sisters on the show. So one

567
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 2: of them is twenty eight and one of them is

568
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 2: twenty six. So on bed season, we had the twins.

569
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 4: Emily on The Bachelor.

570
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, oh.

571
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: Sorry, not we haven't moved on yet to what you're

572
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,720
Speaker 2: gonna say. So there's Lauren, she's the older sister. She's

573
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 2: twenty eight, and Alison is twenty six, and so there's

574
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 2: this like dynamic where it feels kind of funny and

575
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 2: like not serious.

576
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 4: Right now, I hate that. I would hate nothing more.

577
00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,280
Speaker 4: I would hate to do it with a best friend.

578
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 3: I think you would hate to do it period. Correct.

579
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:52,159
Speaker 1: I would not like my boyfriend dating multiple women. Call

580
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:52,719
Speaker 1: me crazy.

581
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 2: Imagine Robbie was a bachelor and we meet you and

582
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 2: Paulina Little, what would you do?

583
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 4: I would hate it?

584
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 1: Like, nothing sounds worse to me, honestly, but like, who

585
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 1: wants their boyfriend dating other people?

586
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's good. It's a good point.

587
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 2: Much less your sister, especially for the older sister. I

588
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: think that, Like, you know, I, when I met Haley,

589
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 2: I my intention was to set her up with Hank,

590
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 2: my youngest sister, and like, thank god, it never even

591
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,439
Speaker 2: got to a point where they hung out or anything.

592
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 3: But I'm like, I'm so happy.

593
00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 4: That that you snatched her up, snatched her up when

594
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:24,119
Speaker 4: I did.

595
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly the Anyways, I'm excited to see how that

596
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,120
Speaker 2: plays out.

597
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 3: So maybe if you watch it, we can see it.

598
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 3: Watch it. I'm pulled together.

599
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 1: I'll watch it. I'll watch it, all right, because right

600
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:35,159
Speaker 1: now I'm deadlocked.

601
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: Tell me about it.

602
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 4: This is the best show that is on television right now.

603
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,280
Speaker 4: Oh okay, here we go, traders.

604
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: Tell me what is it?

605
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,439
Speaker 4: So have you really not heard of it?

606
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 3: No?

607
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 4: Okay, it's like taking over the world.

608
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 3: Oh it's huge.

609
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 1: So basically, I want to say, it's kind of like

610
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: a real life clue. It's kind of like a murder mystery. Okay,

611
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: they put all these people in a house, right, and

612
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: it's like mansion in Scotland or something. The best part

613
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 1: is is like these people I know all of them

614
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: because I used to watch The Challenge on MTV.

615
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 4: So there's like old Challenge people. There's a girl Trischelle

616
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,119
Speaker 4: from Real World like in the show, Yes show, she's

617
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 4: on it.

618
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 3: Whoa.

619
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: There's like housewives like Tamra and the House. There's like

620
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,960
Speaker 1: an Atlanta housewife. There's a New Jersey house. There's like

621
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:44,360
Speaker 1: all these different housewives on there. There's uh Pilot Pete

622
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: is on there, my girl Achen Sue from Love Island UK.

623
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 4: There's just like all these random.

624
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: Celebrities that like you don't know but you know, do

625
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,160
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like you recognize their faces.

626
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 1: And so they get in this house and basically they're oh,

627
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: the girl from Survivor Poverty, megal Poverty.

628
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

629
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 1: So they're in this house and basically the host selects

630
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,120
Speaker 1: trade people to be traders, and basically every night they

631
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: go and they decide who they're.

632
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 4: Going to kill off from the show.

633
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,120
Speaker 1: So so every night the traders get together with their

634
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: cloaks and they kill somebody and then every morning they

635
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: go in to get breakfast and somebody new has died.

636
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 4: And then every night time.

637
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: Before they do this, they have like a round table

638
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: where they basically have to banish one person from the

639
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 1: house and it's they have to try and catch the trader.

640
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

641
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: So they have to like they're all like, let's imagine

642
00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: us all in the thing, and let's say Easton is

643
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: the trader and the rest of us are faithful, right,

644
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 1: but so you have to like try and see who's lying,

645
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: Like who's is it like mafia?

646
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:47,720
Speaker 2: Yes okay, yes, the glorified mafia with the old reality stars.

647
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: Yes okay, and these people are just former former yes,

648
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: correct form it is so I don't know what it is,

649
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: but the show is so good.

650
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 4: I binged it so fast and now I done. Well,

651
00:28:59,480 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 4: I'm on.

652
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: There's only five episodes out on Peacock right now, so

653
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 1: I'm caught up and they only drop one a week.

654
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I know, are you supposed to I'm

655
00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 1: gonna watch season one. I'm gonna go back and watch

656
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 1: season one, and then there's like, okay, yes there's a

657
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: season one. This is season two airing, and then there's

658
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,760
Speaker 1: a UK version and an Australian version.

659
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 4: Wow, you're set up set. Yeah, that's great.

660
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 2: I wonder if you're gonna like the UK version better

661
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 2: because you always seem to lean towards the UK.

662
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 4: I think I will if it's a bunch of Love

663
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 4: Island UK people freak out.

664
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,520
Speaker 2: Well, that's exciting something to watch. I will try to

665
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 2: watch that if please.

666
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 3: Join in on The Bachelor.

667
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,160
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it is great to and the host

668
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: is like so weird, but like it works like it is.

669
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 4: I don't know his name, Alan Comming, Yeah, Alan coming like.

670
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Speaker 3: The famous actor actor.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I don't know. He's like, are you a faithful

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Speaker 4: or are you a twitter?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 4: He like he makes it.

675
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Speaker 1: It's like you feel like you're watching like a movie,

676
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Speaker 1: Like it's so good.

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Speaker 4: Wow, and my girl Parvet's a trader like.

678
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Speaker 1: The spoiler alert it's okay, yeah it's not really spoiler.

679
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Speaker 1: But I think about like Rob and I were talking

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Speaker 1: about if we were on it, like would we want

681
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Speaker 1: to be a trader or a faithful? And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'd have to be a faithful. There's no way I could, like.

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Speaker 6: Is it up to you? I thought it was up

684
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Speaker 6: to Alan Allen picks.

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Speaker 4: It's not up to you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he picked it starts with the game of heads

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Speaker 5: up seven out right kind.

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Speaker 4: Of yeah on the shoulder, like you're the trader. It's

689
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Speaker 4: so good.

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Speaker 3: Right, something to try to get into. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: To be able to watch it with Virginize again is

692
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Speaker 1: just like what a gift I have?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, gift you've been given a given.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, we are going to take a break and

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Speaker 2: we'll be right back. I think we have one email,

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Speaker 2: all right, before we get to the email. I noticed

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Speaker 2: that last week when we were talking about not having

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Speaker 2: a producer, there was a lot of scuttle in the

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Speaker 2: Facebook group.

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Speaker 6: They were like, I must have gotten me, Like, why

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Speaker 6: isn't Mark the producer?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there was a lot of confusion because what is

703
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Speaker 2: your title in this show?

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Speaker 6: I don't have one. I don't think so it's weird.

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Speaker 6: You know, producers a big category. A lot of people

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Speaker 6: fall under the category of producer. Like even on the

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Speaker 6: sequest show, I'm the executive producer, but there's one hundred

708
00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:34,560
Speaker 6: other people for this show. I edit it, I contribute

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Speaker 6: when needed. I would say I'm a producer on this show,

710
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Speaker 6: but I'm not the producer on this show. Okay, And

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Speaker 6: we didn't have that person, right, but now we do.

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Speaker 2: It's basically what we what we were saying, we didn't

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Speaker 2: have with someone who was giving us like a run

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Speaker 2: of show.

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Speaker 6: Basically, prepare the show, give you ideas, topics to talk about.

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Speaker 3: Mark and Easton edit. Easton's our engineer.

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Speaker 2: So for the sound, they're they're like, what makes the

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Speaker 2: podcast sound and look the best, and they're like a

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Speaker 2: produce and they chime in. But we didn't have anyone

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Speaker 2: that was giving us like a rundown, right.

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Speaker 1: So just the air, we were just talking out of

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Speaker 1: a guiding force.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, guiding force.

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Speaker 5: I got a lot of d ms asking what's going

725
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Speaker 5: on with Mark if there's no producer, and I said, sadly,

726
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Speaker 5: he was fired. I told a lot of people that

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry if I told you that information.

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Speaker 4: No, but everybody welcome Sam.

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Speaker 1: Welcome Sam, Sam.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Sam is part of the team now.

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Speaker 4: So if you hate the podcast, please damn her.

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Speaker 3: It's her fault. Dang, I'm joking.

733
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Speaker 1: Okay, thought she'd pop in and say hi, but hire if.

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Speaker 3: You hate it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we love I love Sam.

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Speaker 3: We're very happy that she's she's our guiding force.

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Speaker 4: So yes, So with that said Mark.

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Speaker 6: Away, Sam, Is it okay if I still read the

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Speaker 6: emails in this new era? Do you feel like that's

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Speaker 6: been focus grouped enough and that people enjoy me reading

741
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Speaker 6: emails or should we think outside the box on this?

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Speaker 4: No, you can go ahead and read the email, k

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Speaker 4: you very much like No.

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Speaker 6: I want maybe fine. This is one of those emails.

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Speaker 6: By the way, well, I feel like they know the

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Speaker 6: answer to the question they're asking, but they had to

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Speaker 6: get it out. Dear Beca and Tanya. I started listening

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Speaker 6: to the podcast in twenty nineteen. Your episodess brought me

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Speaker 6: through my season of singleness and kept the modern woman

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Speaker 6: energy high while I navigated the dating world until I

751
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Speaker 6: called in the one. This past October, I got engaged

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Speaker 6: in my very own red Star, and it feels full

753
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Speaker 6: circle to be engaged in the same year as Tanya

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Speaker 6: and probably married before Tanya. I am in the early stage.

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Speaker 6: That was me, by the way, I interjected that that

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Speaker 6: was not literally. I am in the early stages of

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Speaker 6: wedding planning, and I'm trying to decide if I want

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Speaker 6: to have a bridal party or not. I've been a

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Speaker 6: bridesmaid in two friends' weddings in the past year, and

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Speaker 6: when I think about who I want to have my

761
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Speaker 6: bridal party, neither of those girls would make the list.

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Speaker 6: I feel guilty on asking them. I already have the

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Speaker 6: five girls that I would ask, and my level of

764
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Speaker 6: friendship with then runs much deeper. Should I consider not

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Speaker 6: having a bridal party to avoid any conflict and just

766
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Speaker 6: do a maid of honor? Or should I move ahead

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Speaker 6: with the five friends that I know i'd have? That's

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Speaker 6: from live.

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Speaker 3: Do you can answer? Since you're going through this process

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Speaker 3: of like having to think about bridal party, but I

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Speaker 3: have an opinion on it as well, not having any Well,

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Speaker 3: I'm eerious.

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Speaker 1: I think you should move ahead with the five friends

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Speaker 1: that you know and love and that you feel are

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Speaker 1: your best representation of like your life.

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Speaker 4: You know, Like, I think it's totally fine. I don't

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Speaker 4: think you need to. I understand what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I've been bridesmaids in people's weddings that I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: ask to be my bridesmaids. But I also think too,

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Speaker 1: like life happens, relationships change things, ebb and flow, and

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Speaker 1: that's okay. I think it's okay, and that you should

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Speaker 1: go with the five girls that you want.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was gonna say, if you're planning to

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Speaker 2: do a bachelorette party or any bridal showers, I think

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Speaker 2: inviting those people that that if that makes you feel

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Speaker 2: better to have them included in certain things. But I

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Speaker 2: think when it comes to your wedding day and who

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Speaker 2: you want standing up there with you, I think you

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Speaker 2: choose the people that are represent that those positions for you.

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Speaker 2: But I also think that you can just say, like,

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Speaker 2: this is the amount that I'm able to have and

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Speaker 2: I love you guys, I would love for you to

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Speaker 2: be involved if we do a bachelorette party or any showers.

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Speaker 2: But you know, and they probably won't even say anything.

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Speaker 2: They'll probably like they most likely won't say like why

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Speaker 2: didn't you invite me? If they think it, then let

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Speaker 2: them think it. But it's your day, so don't.

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Speaker 1: I know that's what everyone says, it's your day doing

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Speaker 1: what you want. It's like that, it's like you just can't.

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Speaker 3: You might have to hurt feelings.

801
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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true, you're gonna hurt feelings.

802
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Speaker 3: I don't accept that hurt feelings might be hurt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But like Ali for her bachelorette were there's people

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Speaker 2: that aren't part of her wedding party going.

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Speaker 4: Right, such as myself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's like you can include them in ways

807
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Speaker 2: so that they don't feel like, wow, she doesn't care

808
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Speaker 2: about us at all without needing to have them as.

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Speaker 3: Part of your official bridal party. Yeah, so good luck.

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Speaker 4: It does get very tricky.

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Speaker 3: That was very funny.

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Speaker 1: I was going through all that stuff, like actually with

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Speaker 1: Paulina this weekend and she's like, who would you want,

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00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: like who would become to your bacherette? And I was

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Speaker 1: like my bridal party. Like I was literally just like

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Speaker 1: that's it. She's like, you don't want to invite anyone else?

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Speaker 6: And I'm like market.

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Speaker 1: It was like kind of like, uh no, I don't

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Speaker 1: think so, like I have no idea who else I

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Speaker 1: would invite?

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Speaker 4: Kind of dark.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean that's nice. That really clear is there

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Speaker 3: for you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Makes it very easy. Yeah, all right, and we hope

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Speaker 3: you have a wonderful week and we love you so much,

827
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Speaker 3: Love you so much.

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Speaker 2: Bye,