1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time? I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a giving them like the Millian 3 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: buck things in its true good together for I don't 4 00:00:39,120 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: join jo. You gotta turning? You are you gotta turn 5 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:46,759 Speaker 1: to turnout? Turn? You got to turn out? Then turn 6 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: the water to the water. Got come come on your 7 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: ba I shall well a good morning everybody. Y'all listening 8 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: to the voice, come on dig me now one it 9 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: only Steve Harley got a radio show. I was talking 10 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 1: with my wife and she said something her father always 11 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: used to tell her, just because you can do something 12 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: don't mean you should do it. I can't tell you 13 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: how many times I've had to learn that in my life. 14 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:27,239 Speaker 1: You know, just because you can do something does not 15 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: necessarily mean you should do it. I could tell people 16 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: off oftentimes, but it don't mean I should do it. 17 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: I could go here and set the record straight a 18 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: lot of times, but it don't mean I should do it. Well, 19 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,520 Speaker 1: I've learned a lot in that lesson, folks, And because 20 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: I have a relationship with my creator, what it's done 21 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:55,919 Speaker 1: is it's allowed me to learn even more how to 22 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: stay still on a lot of issues. That's troubling me. 23 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,679 Speaker 1: I've learned it the hard way. I do want you 24 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: to understand that that sometimes it's better to be still. 25 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 1: Sometimes it's better to just let God handle a situation. Now. 26 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,639 Speaker 1: I know it's hard to say because we think as people, 27 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 1: but if I do this, I would feel better. If 28 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: I do this now, they're feel how I feel. See, 29 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: But that's not always the best way though. I found 30 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,079 Speaker 1: in my life. Sometimes you gotta like old people used 31 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: to say, you gotta let go and let God. I'm 32 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 1: gonna tell you something, man, I learned a lot from 33 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:32,959 Speaker 1: my mother being a Sunday school teacher. But you know, 34 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: at the same time, when she was when I was young, 35 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: I thought she was just an old, old person just 36 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: talking to me. I didn't get it. You know how 37 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: your parents used to talk to you and you didn't 38 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: get it, and they used to always say, well wait 39 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: till you have your own kids. You would get it 40 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 1: then and showing off you got it then. Well, I'm 41 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: the same way. I'm no different. You know. I don't 42 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: have no different life than you. You know, don't have 43 00:03:51,680 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: no different upbringing than you. I don't have no different 44 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: ways that I can live and you can't. You know 45 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: that I gotta live by the same laws of the 46 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: land that you gotta live by. I gotta obey the 47 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: principles of success. If I want to be successful. I 48 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: got a bam and you know, and if I want 49 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 1: to go to heaven, I gotta do what God tell 50 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: me to do as many times as I can. Now, 51 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: you ain't gonna get it at all, right, but he 52 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: understand that, and I just get on with the best 53 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: I can. But so many times, man, we get stuck 54 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: right there, man, worrying about you know, how it's gonna 55 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 1: come across, and what I'm you know, I'm you know, 56 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm kind of going around here because I'm trying to 57 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 1: find a way to tell you this that you won't 58 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: get twisted. The bottom line, you gotta let go and 59 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 1: let God. You have to allow him to do it 60 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: his way. See, I thought myself to a certain point, 61 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: but to go further, I had to let God have it. 62 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: I found out I wasn't all that good a driver. 63 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: I found out I wouldn't all that good of all 64 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,640 Speaker 1: explore with a map. So I had to let go. 65 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: I had to let God. And you gotta understand that 66 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: God works in mysterious ways. How often had I thought 67 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: it was over for me. But what God was doing 68 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: was he was teaching me a lesson. He was showing 69 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,679 Speaker 1: me something that I needed to know. He was allowing 70 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: me to experience something. But he didn't let me go under. 71 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 1: You know how they say God had never put more 72 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: on you than you can bear. He won't let you 73 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,440 Speaker 1: go under you know, It's like the scripture that Bishop 74 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: Olmer taught me when I was going through that traumatic 75 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: thing on the internet. Man, it was really really man 76 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: trying to destroy what I had worked for and my 77 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: family and this new life to God had presented me. 78 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: And the devil is busy. The devil won't like to 79 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: see you happy. So here he comes. He puts you 80 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: under attack, and here comes internet and everything, and my 81 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: kids are suffering, but you know, here comes God. Though see, 82 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: God don't put more on you than you can bad. 83 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 1: Bishop Olmer sent me a scripture. He sent me Isaiah 84 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: forty three one and two. And then that scripture it 85 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: says to the effect that you can walk through the 86 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 1: water of the rivers and the water won't overcome you. 87 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 1: But then it said you can walk through the fire 88 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: and you will not get burned nor will kindling set 89 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: upon your clothing. I learned something very valuable that day. See, 90 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: God sent me through something, but he was showing me 91 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,160 Speaker 1: something too. Now he didn't do it. God didn't bring 92 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 1: that calamity into my life because in Isaiah fifty four 93 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: seventeen it says clearly that if anyone comes against you, 94 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: it will not be my doing. Now, this is what 95 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,520 Speaker 1: he promised you. When people come for you don't see. 96 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: And this is what I learned. That's why I have 97 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 1: no fear of the people coming anymore because I learned that. 98 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,479 Speaker 1: But God had to send me through a traumatic experience 99 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: in order for me to learn that. You can't have 100 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: a testimony without a test you know what I'm staying. 101 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 1: You can't learn nothing without a lesson. So what he 102 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: did was he allowed that internet thing crossed into my life, 103 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: but he taught me something. And Isaiah forty three one 104 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: and two was and you could walk through the fire 105 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: and not get burned, nor wal kindling set upon your clothing. 106 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: So what that said to me was, even though you 107 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: trying to do me and it's fire all around me, 108 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: I burn, but when it's over, kindlin won't set upon 109 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: your clothing. What that showed me was not only would 110 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: I walk through the fine not get burned, but there 111 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: would be no signs that I was ever in the fire. 112 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: There's no signs of it. But now hold up, though, 113 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: now he go apart, though that I had to learn, 114 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,040 Speaker 1: even though you can walk through the fire, y'all, and 115 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: even though you're being flames and scorching all around you, 116 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: if you trust him, he ain't gonna let you burn. 117 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,680 Speaker 1: But now hear what he did not say. Though he 118 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,000 Speaker 1: did not say that it was not going to be 119 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: uncomfortably hot, wickedly hot in there. He can't say that. 120 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: He just said you won't burn, and when it's over, 121 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: it won't be no signs that you was in the fire. 122 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: See what happened to me was after they tried to 123 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: destroy me, let me show you what God did from it. 124 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 1: Not only did they not accomplish what they set out 125 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 1: to do, but when they was through with me, though, 126 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: when they was through throwing the gas and throwing the fire, 127 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: throwing their hate and writing it in lyne and ain't 128 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: all these names for themselves so it could look like 129 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: more people was hating. When they got through with all that, man, 130 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: look what he did to me look what he did 131 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: fun me because he taught me something that day, and 132 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: I'm sharing it with you because God will do the 133 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: same thing for you. But you gotta trust him though. 134 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 1: You got to get in there and you got to 135 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: let him do it. You gotta let him handle it. So, 136 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: just like Pop Bridges taught my wife Margie, just because 137 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: you can do something, don't mean y'all to do something. 138 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: Yeah you could go down there and straight in the mouth, 139 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: but should you though, Yeah, you can go down there 140 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: and tell them all. Yeah, you can go down stand 141 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,719 Speaker 1: up and make sure they know it's your voice that 142 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: they're hearing. And you can get in their face and 143 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 1: make a scene. But should you though, or should you 144 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: let go and let God? So before we run all 145 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: out in the streets and somebody go out there and 146 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 1: do something crazy, let's hold tight. Now. I'm not saying 147 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 1: don't go out there, but you gotta watch who you 148 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: go out there with. But you can go down there 149 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: with peace in your heart. Somebody decide I'm gonna throw 150 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: a brick through here and bust a wonder. Hold up, partner, 151 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: hold up there, we're down here doing so. See. Sometimes man, 152 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: you gotta let go and you gotta let God. You 153 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: gotta let God have a situation sometimes and you get 154 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 1: it in and do the things that He tells you 155 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,280 Speaker 1: to do. See Bishop woman and taught me a lot. 156 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 1: He had another book out and he said, you know, 157 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: knowing God's Voice or something like that. I'm not sure 158 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,800 Speaker 1: the title, but I never really knew the definition of 159 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: how do you know as God's voice talking to you? Well, 160 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: he clearly made a statement. God's voice has no sin 161 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: in it. Whenever you're talking about I'm gonna go, I'm 162 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: gonna show him, I'm gonna get him back. If it's 163 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: sin in it, God ain't in it. See thats you now, 164 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,599 Speaker 1: God's voice has no sin in it. So when you 165 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: say God told me, be careful because God ain't never 166 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: told you to go do nothing wrong, that ain't what 167 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: he told you. And I learned that too. It's a lot. 168 00:09:50,600 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 1: So I'm just sharing to day. I hope it helps 169 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: somebody today get through a difficult time because the show 170 00:09:55,760 --> 00:10:03,559 Speaker 1: has helped me. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, man, have 171 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 1: your undivided attention. Please are you listening to it? This 172 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: is it? Make no mistake who you are. Yeah, this 173 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 1: is it? Right, yeah, this is Kenny Loggins kind of 174 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:28,199 Speaker 1: morning that ain't Joys, That ain't stud I thought that 175 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:32,439 Speaker 1: was Judas. Yeah, you know, Jodacy was good though, you know, 176 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:37,280 Speaker 1: h I probably can't name for Joda is so oh yes, 177 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: you can't. I mean I sing alone, but I probably 178 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:45,959 Speaker 1: can't name them. Oh, man to me, m talk to me, 179 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 1: won't you know? Coming talk to me? Yeah, you got 180 00:10:55,480 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 1: that down? Oh yeah, that's it. Okay, okay, give me 181 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: the next one. What's that? Stay? Uh huh yeah, day baby? 182 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: Won't you just stay for relate? You remember Joe? I 183 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: remember that wasn't like it wasn't that when you're singing it? Man, 184 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: do you ever go damn? This ain't it? I ever 185 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:29,439 Speaker 1: got when you sang it, you go damn damn just 186 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 1: saying that funking stay? Man? I didn't really what about whatever? 187 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:45,880 Speaker 1: That's whatever? My lady? You didn't you you knee nothing? Yeah? 188 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,800 Speaker 1: I didn't really. I didn't really know a lot of 189 00:11:47,880 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 1: Jody See songs though. What year was day Out? That's junior? Yeah, 190 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 1: body ninety ninety two till about Oh no, I was 191 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: all up in the middle of hell then I was. 192 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: I was trying to pull it together Jodas. All these 193 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 1: were smoking the stuff getting rested on the book. I 194 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: ain't got time with it. Well, I was trying to 195 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 1: put this money together. I was struggling man ninety one Jodas, 196 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: Oh man, cool man, I may give me another Jodas 197 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: in jail, okay, taking my month, my house and mom, 198 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,839 Speaker 1: my house and my car. Dude, do for right? Hit 199 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: up you? You didn't have it all, hey, because making 200 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: love come on jo every time we do, girl is 201 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: worse than drug. And I'm in attic for you got 202 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 1: me feed You know nothing. You making me hate Jodas. 203 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: You gonna not no none, but I appreciate the feeling 204 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: though you not my jam don. You was in it. 205 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: You was committed to it. I got somebody to come 206 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: in and saying all the hits through it. Roscoe, Baby, 207 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:19,800 Speaker 1: you gotta ask nobody twice. Well, I got somebody to 208 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: come here and wrote the songs. I ain't no get 209 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: out of here, Roscoe. Yeah, three to one, we'll be ready. 210 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:41,199 Speaker 1: You're listening show right now. It's time to run that 211 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: prank back with the nephew. Yeah what you got, nef 212 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:52,320 Speaker 1: shop lift? Oh m hmm, shop lift, shop stop lift, 213 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 1: run it hell yes, I'm trying to reach a tanyo. 214 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: Please hi. Tell you my name is Daniel, from the 215 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 1: head of store security here at your job. Yeah, uh, listen, 216 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm trying to see. Um, I'm gonna have to I 217 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: know today's your day off. I'm looking at the schedule here. 218 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 1: It seems that you don't come back in until Saturday. 219 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: I'm trying to see if it's possible I can get 220 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: you to come to the store. There's a bit of 221 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: a situation I want to discuss with you. There's about 222 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: eighteen hundred dollars worth of merchandise missing from the store. Yeah, 223 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: it's about eighteen hundred dollars worth of merchandise. And we 224 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 1: definitely know that this is a in house situation. This 225 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: is not someone walking in shoplifting. This is definitely an 226 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:44,800 Speaker 1: in house situation with employees who have evidently been shoplifting 227 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 1: from the store, taking things, and we want to get 228 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 1: down to the to the roots of the problem. Well, man, 229 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: it's uh, it's been brought to my attention that there's 230 00:14:55,640 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: a possibility that you may be part of this situation. 231 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: And I ain't. I don't steal. You don't call my 232 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: house accusing me. Is stealing. I stole nothing from nobody. Okay, Well, 233 00:15:11,400 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: my hangar man, what I'm trying to do is just 234 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: trying to you, trying to say out and hold something 235 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: and I stole them. Okay, wait just a second. Now, 236 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 1: do you have a sister named Cynthia? Yeah, what about it? Well, 237 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: now it seems that here on some of the footage 238 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: that we have on camera, that it's a possibility that 239 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,160 Speaker 1: it seems like your sister's actually wearing some of the 240 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: merchandise that we sell here in the store. Okay, just 241 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:40,800 Speaker 1: because she wears something that we sell in the store, 242 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:44,400 Speaker 1: don't mean that I stole it. Well, we don't see 243 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: where she's at. I've backed the footage up as far 244 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 1: as I could. I don't see any footage of where 245 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: she purchased this particular merchandise. And my assumption is maybe 246 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 1: you gave it to her. I gave her And just 247 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: because you don't see what somebody purchased it don't mean 248 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:03,560 Speaker 1: that it's miss stolen. Okay, here's what I'm gonna I'm 249 00:16:03,560 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: gonna just get to the chase of this, Tanya. What 250 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to do is this, If I can't 251 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: get you to come to the store man. And matter 252 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: of fact, here's another question for you before I go 253 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 1: any further. You have children at all? Tanya? Yeah, I 254 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 1: got children, wife, because I'm missing a lot of baby 255 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: merchandise as well. And you know what, you know what 256 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: you're really cruising for this morning, Okay, because you're gonna 257 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: call somebody on the off day accusing them of stealing. Okay, 258 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: here's what I gotta do. Are you coming into the 259 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: office so I can talk with you. I'm not coming 260 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: know where on my off day. Well, then what's gonna happen, 261 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: miss Tanya, is I'm gonna have to actually come to 262 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,040 Speaker 1: your home, check your closets. I'm gonna have to check 263 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: your kids and see if they're check and see if 264 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: they're wearing merchandise that comes from this Come to my 265 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: house if you want to, and they're gonna take your 266 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: somebody here in the body back exteals me. Me. You 267 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 1: heard what I said. You heard what I said. You 268 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 1: don't call nobody. I bust my death store. I bust 269 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: my to that store. You understand me. I work hard 270 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,600 Speaker 1: for y'all. Okay, you you've been busting you, You've been 271 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: busting your car. Here excusing me of stealing. I ain't 272 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 1: so from nobody. I don't have to steal. That's why 273 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:21,840 Speaker 1: I work all that. You understand. I think you've been 274 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:25,080 Speaker 1: busting your butt. Taking stuff is what you've been doing. 275 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: You've been from nobody. You understand me. I do not steal. 276 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come over there. I'm checking your closets things. 277 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 1: But it ain't no cease, you understand. And I'm checking 278 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 1: your babies as well. And I'm making check my babies 279 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 1: to see what happens. You put your heads on any 280 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,560 Speaker 1: damn thing in here and see what happens. Okay, I 281 00:17:44,600 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: don't want to have to drag your butt here. Oh 282 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna drag somebody? Oh? Now you threatening me? I 283 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 1: don't want to drag by of your house security guy. 284 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 1: You tough security guy. You like your job that much 285 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 1: you're willing to die for that? Huh? Who said anything 286 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: about me? Die? I did come over here, and that's 287 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:04,359 Speaker 1: what's gonna happen. That's what happens. When you put people 288 00:18:04,400 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 1: on the off day, you get hurt. Okay, I get 289 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: a couple of damn days off, and y'all gonna call 290 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: me with this. So are you threatening? Me now I'm 291 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: threatening you. Then you just call and say you was 292 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: coming over here. Yes, I did bring you. I'm don't 293 00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: bring your security. I don't let me tell you something. Okay, 294 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,199 Speaker 1: I get you. I can have you brought up on charges. 295 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: You know that. Bring me up on charges and see 296 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: what happens. I want charge, see if you get that first. 297 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: I'm on my way over there now to check you. 298 00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: When your kids. You understand, men come over here to 299 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,880 Speaker 1: check me and my kids and see how they checked y'all. 300 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: Somebody here. Let me tell you something. I ain't got 301 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: to tell me. You ain't got nothing to tell me. 302 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 1: You ain't got something to tell me. Why don't you 303 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:52,160 Speaker 1: go ahead and tell me what you took? Maybe I'll 304 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,520 Speaker 1: go light on you. I'll go light. Think I'm stupid 305 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 1: or something. You don't sound like a damn food. Why 306 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 1: don't you tell me what you took? I ain't took. 307 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: I bet you teaching your little kids over there how 308 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 1: to steal too? Aunt you what what you teach kid? Hey? Hey? Hey? Hey? 309 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 1: Now you want hey hey, hey, hey, hey hey? Don't 310 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:15,080 Speaker 1: call me with this on a stake. Let me tell 311 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:17,399 Speaker 1: you one mother, are you listening to me? I got 312 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 1: one more thing to say to you. You ain't got 313 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 1: nothing else to say to me. Are you listening? What 314 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: this is, Nephew timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. 315 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 1: You just got prank your sister sid for you? Okay? Okay? 316 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: Are you and that broad want to play games? Okay, 317 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 1: y'all want to play? Right? Y'all got Joe? Y'all got joke. 318 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:43,640 Speaker 1: I got Joe for both of y'all. I'm around here 319 00:19:43,760 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: taking care of her and all her ugly kid play 320 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: with me and all day. All right, tell you to me. 321 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 1: She told me, she said that Timmy be be pranking people. 322 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 1: You can't nobody to get me that on crazy stuff 323 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,520 Speaker 1: I come to people, don't know somebody calling tipping with this. 324 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,960 Speaker 1: You told me you couldn't. You thought you couldn't be 325 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:13,760 Speaker 1: got That's all right, y'all. I love you, I guess 326 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:18,200 Speaker 1: like all right, let me ask you one more thing. 327 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land. Steve 328 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:32,679 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show? Oh oh god, I hate this. Tommy 329 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:36,879 Speaker 1: gotta go there. You got to go there, all right, 330 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: don't be scared go sometimes you're listening Steven Show. It 331 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve 332 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 1: Harvey is here ready for your love questions. Anonymous in 333 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: Virginia says, my boyfriend's mother is staying with us and 334 00:20:57,200 --> 00:21:00,840 Speaker 1: her boyfriend has his own place, but he staying overnight 335 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: at our house. He smoked cigarettes and goes in our 336 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:08,200 Speaker 1: driveway to light up, and I don't want him out 337 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:11,320 Speaker 1: there looking get up. My husband and I were raised 338 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 1: very differently, so I've learned to overlook a lot that 339 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,040 Speaker 1: his mom does. But can I draw the line with 340 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: her stinky boyfriend? Yes, because it's your house, you absolutely can. 341 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 1: You are the queen of the castle. Your husband is 342 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: the king of the castle, and you all get to 343 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: make rules. And I could just tell you flat out 344 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:37,200 Speaker 1: the queen's rules at the castle outweighed the king's rules. 345 00:21:37,359 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna tell you that now you can act 346 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: like it. Don't if you want to, you sadly mistake 347 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: it in the way. The thing really does work. Queen's rules, 348 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: make the rules, set it, and then tell your king 349 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: that's what you won't carry it out at your house 350 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 1: that his mom was staying. There's one thing, but hello, 351 00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: puck ass boyfriend coming over that smoking cigarettes and stuff 352 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,400 Speaker 1: we're not doing that. A matter of fact, he can't 353 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: stay here. He got his own place. Keno, man comes, 354 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: stay in my house. Man sleep with somebody. Man, get 355 00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: out of here. You have me crazy gon put your 356 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:21,240 Speaker 1: foot down, all right? Moving on to Madeline and Austin. 357 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:24,159 Speaker 1: Madeline rights to have two children by a man I 358 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: was with for six years. He got married a year 359 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,280 Speaker 1: after we broke up, and I still cannot get over 360 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: the fact that he moved on so quickly. I feel 361 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: like he didn't give our relationship a chance, and he 362 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,680 Speaker 1: threw me and the kids to the side for his 363 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 1: new wife. Was he cheating with her all along? What 364 00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 1: difference do it make? What difference do it make? You 365 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: had two children with this man in six years. A 366 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:55,119 Speaker 1: year after y'all break up, he married somebody else. Now 367 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: you can't get over that because you want to know 368 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: if he was cheating with this woman and he just 369 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: throw you away and the kids for the woman. Yes, 370 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:10,720 Speaker 1: now what okay? So now now now what? Now you're 371 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 1: gonna stay, You're gonna stay there in that past or 372 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna get up and realize that that was that 373 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,520 Speaker 1: was probably a reason for that. First of all, he 374 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 1: was not your soul mate. If he was your soul mate, 375 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: y'all will still be made it. That's not him and 376 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: he's gone. These are facts, yea. And men don't do closure, 377 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 1: So quit looking for him to come over there to 378 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 1: explain to you what he did. We're telling you what 379 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,960 Speaker 1: you wrote in the line of what he did. Did 380 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 1: he leave gone? What they always got to know if 381 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,920 Speaker 1: they want to know the whole story, how it started, 382 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 1: when it started, when it ended, It don't matter. And 383 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,320 Speaker 1: and you you you got the story, you got the opening, 384 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: you got the after. Yeah, you got the closing, you 385 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,919 Speaker 1: got the forwards, you got the baby, you got everything 386 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,200 Speaker 1: in the store. She just doesn't want to face it. Yeah, 387 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: all right, moving on, thank you have no choice. Yeah, 388 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,479 Speaker 1: that's right. And she's got two kids, she's an example 389 00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:21,679 Speaker 1: for this, and they're watching. You're all. That's right, all right, 390 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: Madeline and Austin. Moving on to LaToya and Henderson Nevada. 391 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,159 Speaker 1: LaToya says, I'm a personal chef for newlyweds, and they 392 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: host wild dinner parties that usually end up with people 393 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: dancing naked and hooking up. I was safe for the 394 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,960 Speaker 1: first few months, but now the husband wants me. I 395 00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 1: told him, I'd do a threesome with his wife, but 396 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,960 Speaker 1: she said she's not interested. It's awkward knowing that she 397 00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 1: doesn't want me. What is this awkward for me to 398 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: get a new job? What? So, LaToya? First of all, 399 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,680 Speaker 1: this is the first profession. And I've heard that's a 400 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 1: chef for newlyweds. That's the first time i've heard that specific. 401 00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: I'm a chef for newlyweds. So let's be honest. Is 402 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 1: the chef a cover because that's what it sounds like 403 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: because you're specific just to newlyweds. Now the husband won't 404 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 1: you and you said you'd be willing to do a 405 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:37,159 Speaker 1: threesome with him, but now the wife don't want you. 406 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: Now it's awkward for you being a newlywed chef cost 407 00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: she don't want you. I'm so damned. Why why did 408 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: you write us? I don't know? You know, I don't 409 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 1: know doctor Phiel Okay, old broh, somebody who care? Oh ya? 410 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: You could have wrote Yalla fixed my life because I 411 00:26:10,040 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: would really she retired. She's true with people done, but 412 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:23,640 Speaker 1: too much for her. Where is the next dinner party? Though? 413 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: That's I mean, we really should and you need to 414 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: know this? Why? Well, I like to cook. I like 415 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:36,399 Speaker 1: to cook. Y'all like to cook here? Yeah? Yeah, you 416 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:40,080 Speaker 1: like to cook, but don't swom it here. Let's go ahead. 417 00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 1: S all right, Uh, we don't have a lot of time, 418 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,959 Speaker 1: but let's see. It's Stella in Bergen County says, I'm 419 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: dating a man that is insecure, and every time I'm 420 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 1: on the phone with my male best friend, he's right 421 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 1: in my face, listening to every word. He's forbidden me 422 00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:57,359 Speaker 1: to visit him at his house, and we can't travel 423 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,840 Speaker 1: together anymore. He said it would help if my friend 424 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,720 Speaker 1: weren't so fine. Is it okay for a man to 425 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: say that? Excuse me? You have a male best friend 426 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: that your husband has told you he don't want you 427 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:13,399 Speaker 1: talking to no more. He don't want you visited, and 428 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:17,480 Speaker 1: he don't want y'all taking trips no more. You' you' 429 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: you're listening all right? As comments? It is time to 430 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: ask Steve. You're ready, Steve, Yeah, right, I'll kick it up. 431 00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this. What's the one thing that 432 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: you just love doing right now? I'm talking besides golf 433 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: and smoking cigars and everything, but what makes you really 434 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: happy right now? M my, my yearly vacation that my 435 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:53,719 Speaker 1: wife and I take every year. It's the most relaxing, rewarding. 436 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: It's it's it's our gift to herself for a year 437 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 1: of labor. Nice and just you two without the kids 438 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: and every well, you know, we had the kids on 439 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: it for a week. Yeah, last year, and it was 440 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 1: really nice, man, because my kids have grown up. Man, 441 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,639 Speaker 1: it was like amazing. They were talking about going to 442 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: all these clubs and every night they went nap. We 443 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,399 Speaker 1: ain't going nowhere, and it's just nice to watch them 444 00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 1: grow up in front of your face, you know. And 445 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: we had some interesting conversation. We had some real, real 446 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 1: conversations with each other, and so it was really nice. 447 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: It was revealing. But that's my favorite thing to do. Okay, Carla, 448 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: I got a question, So where do you go to think, Steve? 449 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 1: You know, you're always on, you're always working, you know, radio, TV. 450 00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 1: It's a couple of things out in the backyard. I 451 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:44,080 Speaker 1: have a special place in the backyard I go to 452 00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: do some thinking. I also I do my morning meditation 453 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: at my desk in my office. Every morning. I read 454 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 1: my scriptures, I go with my motivational talks and phrases 455 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: and a girl at work gave me a Jesus's calling 456 00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 1: leather bound daily you know daily bread type format. Yeah, 457 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: kind of devotional. She gave me one was really really 458 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: helpful to me. All right, junior, what you got we're doing? 459 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:20,160 Speaker 1: All right? Uh? What is uh? Your favorite word? Just 460 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: a word motivational word. Well, we may need to get 461 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: the beeper ready for the PROD. You know what? I 462 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: don't know, man, I guess I don't know my favorite word. Yeah, yeah, 463 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:42,080 Speaker 1: you're Sammy Jackson got the same word. I don't know. 464 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 1: Why are you waiting? Oh? No, no, man, that's not 465 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: my favorite word, not not not the big thirteen letter one. Now, 466 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: it's not my favorite word. It ain't even what I've 467 00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 1: used it often, but you've used it more than anything. 468 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: My favorite word. You're really it's not gonna be it's 469 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: not for radio. Okay, okay, let's move. Yeah, tell me 470 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: what you wait? Wait, run over that you know, not 471 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,920 Speaker 1: for radio. We're all out the radio. We're on the radio. Time. 472 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,760 Speaker 1: Tell him call him protect the brand. We want to 473 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:23,000 Speaker 1: be at the mall time. All right, let me ask 474 00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:27,600 Speaker 1: him a popcorn question then something, you know what I 475 00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,840 Speaker 1: got one? Since he's been he's been eating right, what's 476 00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 1: your favorite vegetable? You've been eating a lot of them. 477 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 1: You're on the plant. I like. I like vegetables, though, 478 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: you know favorite then call a flower. It's one of 479 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: my favorites. Broccoli. I love mushrooms. I love all beans. 480 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: That's not a bean that I don't like. Pintoe, lime, 481 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: navy white, guy peas, snow peas, snap peas. In the 482 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 1: mind the Mommy oh Man, man boy shot peas, green peas, 483 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: snap peas, chick peas, man chick peas, hummus. Yeah, there's 484 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 1: not a bean. There's no black beas. There's not a 485 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 1: bean I don't like. What's your least favorite vegetable, Bob CHOI, 486 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,320 Speaker 1: that's your least favorite. I don't even understand what they 487 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,960 Speaker 1: do with that. Why he's in on the plate and 488 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: you can't chew it? All right, I got another question 489 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,440 Speaker 1: for you, Steve. Everybody loves you. I mean, you have 490 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,400 Speaker 1: so many wonderful, wonderful fans, But I want to know 491 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: what your craziest fans story is your craziest quickly, you 492 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: know he ain't no one man. I had this lady 493 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: in Nashville one time the show was over, went to 494 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: a club and I saw this girl in the club. 495 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god, this girl was amazing. She was this 496 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: girl was stunningly gorgeous, stunningly gorgeous in Nashville. And I 497 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,120 Speaker 1: was heading over tour and this girl grabbed me by 498 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,120 Speaker 1: the arm and said, hey, Steve Harvey. I said, hey, baby, 499 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,160 Speaker 1: how you doing? What's going on? She said, all right, 500 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 1: come on, let's dance. I said, no, I don't dance. 501 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,479 Speaker 1: What No, I don't. I don't go to no clubs 502 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: to dance. Famous. She ain't never seen me and no 503 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 1: club dancing ship I told her. I said no, no, 504 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: thank you, I don't dance. Okay. So I went over 505 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,680 Speaker 1: and the girl was standing there. As soon as she 506 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,640 Speaker 1: turned around, she said, oh my god, Steve Harve, I 507 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: was hoping you came over to say to me. You 508 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:49,000 Speaker 1: were so funny tonight. This girl walked up behind me 509 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:52,400 Speaker 1: and said, I thought your blankety blank blank said you 510 00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: didn't dance lit me. I wasn't even on the floor dancing. 511 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: But I'm standing here talking to this girl yet. But 512 00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: I guess she that I went over there and asked 513 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 1: the girl to dance. That wasn't even on my minor. Man, 514 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: that woman cuss me out. She cuts me out so bad. 515 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 1: I actually turned around and said I asked her to 516 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: dance just a blankety blanket a live I see. We 517 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,120 Speaker 1: gotta get out of here, everybody, you know who this is? This? 518 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 1: I want to invite everybody down to invest Fest. Invest Fest. 519 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,120 Speaker 1: It's gonna be at the Georgia World Congress Center in Atlanta, Georgia, 520 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:37,200 Speaker 1: August fifth through the seventh. Come down and enrich your 521 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:42,520 Speaker 1: life period. I'll be there and walk away with takeaway. 522 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: Get yourself together, let's get it done. All information just 523 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: go to investfest dot com. See you there August fifth 524 00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: through the seventh in Atlanta. You're listening show all right, Junior? 525 00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 1: Is he gonna bless us with you know he's such 526 00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: a poet. Yeah, he's going to bless us with the 527 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,640 Speaker 1: birthday poem? Yeah? Yeah, Yeah, I'm a poet. I'm a poet. 528 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 1: My art is what my art is, you know. And 529 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:14,239 Speaker 1: I don't I don't care how y'all feel about this. Yeah, 530 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: don't judge me. I'm just I'm just doing what comes 531 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,360 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, I'm just coming here. And let me 532 00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,359 Speaker 1: just tell you see, I've turned a nice number now 533 00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:25,520 Speaker 1: and and now life has gotten a little bit confused. 534 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: Oh I really want to hear this, you know, you know, 535 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,360 Speaker 1: And so I had expressed myself in a lot of 536 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,040 Speaker 1: different ways. So I wrote down a bunch of things 537 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 1: for this poem that that that tells you, like how 538 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: life is so confused in that and okay, lett you 539 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:47,600 Speaker 1: get that here it is. The poem is called It's like, okay, yeah, 540 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:53,959 Speaker 1: it's called it's called it's like um after the fact, 541 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: it's life is. It's like the unhealthy doctor with a 542 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:05,479 Speaker 1: high blood pressure. It's like the schoolteacher who own child 543 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:12,600 Speaker 1: can't read. It's like the psychiatrist who has a psychiatrist. 544 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:19,959 Speaker 1: Life is like it's like the clown that hates keith. See. 545 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:26,280 Speaker 1: It's like the backslide preacher. What a side piece because 546 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:33,000 Speaker 1: his birthday ain't no poets. It's like the militant black man, 547 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:38,839 Speaker 1: uh huh, but married to a white woman is really well, 548 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:43,480 Speaker 1: that's what life is like. It's confusing. It's like, yeah, 549 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 1: it's like the mechanic who drive a raggedy car. Why. 550 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 1: It's like the police offer to tell you hawked, but 551 00:35:53,120 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: he got two kids in jail. How life is like 552 00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: the chef who never had no food in the refrigerator 553 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: and always hungry. Why are you cooking? Okay, it's like 554 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 1: the strip that goes to church every Sunday, But she 555 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 1: also lead the prayer meeting. How how how it's like 556 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 1: the uber drive Yeah that you get in the car 557 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:28,799 Speaker 1: with pick you up, but he asked you where we're going? 558 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: How that for me is what life is like? Wow? Yeah, yeah, 559 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:41,560 Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah, you don't have I didn't. It wasn't 560 00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:47,520 Speaker 1: like a poem, but I like, yeah, all poems don't rhyme. 561 00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:51,600 Speaker 1: I'm at another level now. The true form of poetry 562 00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: is to get to the level where it is conversation. 563 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:59,880 Speaker 1: So y'all didn't know that you're listening? Is your relations 564 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 1: and ship so good? Guys that sometimes you wish you 565 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 1: and your spouse would argue more? Huh if far? So? 566 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:19,840 Speaker 1: If one argument, just one argument, could save your marriage, 567 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,600 Speaker 1: that is it. But this husband cooked, clean, swept, and 568 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: loved his wife passionately completely. She in turn, felt choked 569 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 1: by his affection and now wants to divorce him. The 570 00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: woman sought divorce from her husband in a city in 571 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:39,480 Speaker 1: the United Arab Emirates because his love was too much 572 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: for her to bear. He never yelled at me or 573 00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:45,520 Speaker 1: turned me down. The woman told the court, I was 574 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:49,080 Speaker 1: choked by extreme love and affections. He even helped me 575 00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 1: clean the house. The court ordered the adjournment of the 576 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:56,760 Speaker 1: case to give a couple a chance at reconciliation. So, guys, 577 00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Do you wish you and 578 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:03,400 Speaker 1: your spouse would actually argue more? Or have you ever 579 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 1: ended a relationship because there was no conflict at all? 580 00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: It's just too much love and affection. Jay, don't answer 581 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:15,640 Speaker 1: this no, please see they need to stay away from it. 582 00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: As soon as soon as you say something to him, 583 00:38:20,840 --> 00:38:24,720 Speaker 1: you disagree with his ass is getting some papers drawed. 584 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Are you serious? Talk back too much? 585 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:33,799 Speaker 1: I'm out of this relationship? Is that fast? Can be quick? 586 00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: Getting that? Really? Jay? Yeah? He out? I'm out, he 587 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 1: out out. I don't know who wants an argument, but 588 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:48,040 Speaker 1: this woman, what's wrong with her? Exactly? She's a problem 589 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: standing what real love is. She's got a different view. 590 00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:58,040 Speaker 1: She saw somebody getting cussed out abuse something. I want that? Yeah, 591 00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: that's probably yeah, she said something. Yeah, I want to 592 00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 1: get cussed out. Too much love and affection. I've never 593 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: heard a woman wants who want that unless he's ultra cleaning. 594 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 1: She did say she felt choked by his love. He 595 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:25,720 Speaker 1: felt choked by it. You mean be choked. He cooked, 596 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 1: he cleaned, He cooked, he clean, He loved her passionately 597 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 1: and completely. This sounds like a romance, Joe. Yeah, he 598 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,960 Speaker 1: said he never yelled at me or turned me down, 599 00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: but never yet. Go baby, you need to be who 600 00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: are you? He never turned you down? Oh my god. 601 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:53,320 Speaker 1: So this is the opposite of an abusive relationship. He 602 00:39:53,520 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: cook extreme, He cooking and cleaning. Girl, Please, yeah, cook, 603 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna clean. He swept well, olive was pot 604 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 1: on a stove in a heartbeat. Wow, this this, I mean? 605 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,799 Speaker 1: Women say all the time they want a good man. 606 00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 1: Women complain all the time. He never helps me around 607 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: the house. I don't. We never spend enough time together. 608 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: He's not affectionate, he's not romantic. I help you back. 609 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:40,960 Speaker 1: But Jay, Now, one time she said something, she's out, 610 00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: You're done. Well. I don't take tell them back. I 611 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:48,920 Speaker 1: don't what is talking back? What we're doing there? Her daddy, 612 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: you're her husband, you're her man. Jack your daddy say uh, 613 00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 1: dad say, oh, we don't do back. We just do 614 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 1: folk ain't. I've never heard of this before. But Jay, 615 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:15,279 Speaker 1: we can't disagree. We can't agree you talking back to me, 616 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:17,320 Speaker 1: you would have been done. But we don't like what 617 00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 1: you're saying. Jay, we have a right to say. Yeah, 618 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:25,919 Speaker 1: you don't like somebody's daddy. Yeah, nobody. I'm just gonna 619 00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:31,120 Speaker 1: pack you up. But that's all I'm gonna done. Yeah man, Wow, 620 00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:35,719 Speaker 1: all right? Coming up? More more music, more fun, more chauvinism. 621 00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:43,600 Speaker 1: Sound like, Yeah, you're listening to morning show right now. 622 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 1: The nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What 623 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 1: you got for us? Nap? You want me to be stupid? Like, 624 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,040 Speaker 1: what y'all want? What level you want today? Go to 625 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: the heist. It's not that we want you to be 626 00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:59,320 Speaker 1: we effected because you are. I'll tell you what. I'm correct, 627 00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:00,880 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you. Well, I tell it. 628 00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: Give us your level two. Let's let's see what that. 629 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,000 Speaker 1: Oh you want him to go on? Let me regroup? 630 00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:09,359 Speaker 1: You want it too, Yeah, I'll pull it to watch 631 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 1: be a ten. Okay, let me shoot detect to him. 632 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull a tooth for you now. I'm watching 633 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: his level two. Yeah, y, you will see if you 634 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:27,720 Speaker 1: ever want to ask for teen? Okay, you're schooling me. Okay, 635 00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 1: Steve on the stupidity the levels of it. Okay, because 636 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm a little and if is listening, watch me work, baby, 637 00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:38,000 Speaker 1: This is how I do this double old time right there, 638 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:41,480 Speaker 1: right there? Are you starting to get the feeling that 639 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 1: they all the levels is the same that you hear? 640 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,839 Speaker 1: I didn't hit a stupid shot. He just called out 641 00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:56,320 Speaker 1: indriss elbum right there, indriss, No, that was that was 642 00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: his level two? Right there? He called out interest right, 643 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,759 Speaker 1: I'm with you when you're right scring a bell. No, 644 00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,440 Speaker 1: let's go catch the description. Told me that a lot 645 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:09,280 Speaker 1: of people have for leading man tall, dark and handsome. 646 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:18,400 Speaker 1: You ain't. No, I ain't man wanted them No, no 647 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:26,239 Speaker 1: dog light handsome. I got that. I got that. No 648 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 1: has that all boxer short? Now they was looking for 649 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: short light and strange. You could be strange whatever. I 650 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:46,240 Speaker 1: ain't gonna let you out. I got my sex short yellow, 651 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:57,359 Speaker 1: add your short yellow limited, shut up your tall light 652 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 1: and two out of three got rich. One more thing, 653 00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,719 Speaker 1: fix all that. Yes, yes you do it, sir, Yes, 654 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 1: that box good money. We're sick of you with that. 655 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 1: Tommy okay, yeah, okay, I'm ugly. I take it. I'm 656 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,320 Speaker 1: gonna give y'all a number two right here. This is 657 00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,600 Speaker 1: a number two right here is uh your daughter bit 658 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:30,320 Speaker 1: my son? Your daughter bit my son. This is a 659 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:32,840 Speaker 1: on scale of one to ten. I'm giving you a 660 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:37,800 Speaker 1: two of my stupid Let's go catch hello, Hello, sweet? 661 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:43,920 Speaker 1: This is this is look do you do you do 662 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:48,120 Speaker 1: your daughter go to little academy? Yes? Who's this? And 663 00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:51,080 Speaker 1: her name is? Yes? Who's this? Listen? Your daughter and 664 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,880 Speaker 1: bit my son? Uh, Joshua went on the back. This 665 00:44:56,080 --> 00:45:00,320 Speaker 1: is Wilton, your daughter and bit my son down. You 666 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,080 Speaker 1: can't just call my house and tell me my daughter 667 00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: bit your say and be cussing at me. Lady. I 668 00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,480 Speaker 1: just said, your daughter Secura bit my son Joshua in 669 00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,600 Speaker 1: the back, and I just let no. I just said 670 00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,640 Speaker 1: no two things. One my daughter wouldn't bite nobody, and two, 671 00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 1: don't call my house with this tone. I called with 672 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:18,839 Speaker 1: any kind of tone I want to call with. All 673 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm saying is your daughter then bit my son in 674 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:23,760 Speaker 1: the back. And I'm gonna tell you. All I'm saying 675 00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 1: is don't call my house with this att to saying 676 00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: some that my daughter beat your child in the back. 677 00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:32,720 Speaker 1: My daughter has manners and she wouldn't be biting nobody 678 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 1: in the back. Did you know, somebody, how the hell 679 00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: you know what your daughter gonna be doing if you 680 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:44,200 Speaker 1: ain't there my daughter you're raising. Ain't you just come 681 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 1: in one month and trying to do some kind of 682 00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,480 Speaker 1: daddy work. No dad, but four years old, Hignail, You 683 00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 1: don't you know how that? Damn well, I've been with 684 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 1: her for four years. You being my daughter does not 685 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,680 Speaker 1: be biting people around in the back of the neck 686 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,800 Speaker 1: or anything like that. What the hell is wrong with you? 687 00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,440 Speaker 1: Don't call my house to attitude where I get. I 688 00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,040 Speaker 1: don't how you figure I'm a weekend daddy. I'm calling 689 00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,160 Speaker 1: you about what's going on with my child. But I 690 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 1: don't think you got your facts straight. So next time 691 00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,440 Speaker 1: you call somebody to tell them about their child, figure 692 00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 1: out everything about your child first. All I'm saying is 693 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,160 Speaker 1: that the people at the academy says, so, Carol, my 694 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,400 Speaker 1: son Joshua were in the back. Well, I can't understand 695 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 1: what you're saying because I don't like your tongue. So 696 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: don't call me about my baby. Have her mama called me? It? 697 00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,879 Speaker 1: Don't make no difference. If a mama or daddy called 698 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:35,960 Speaker 1: long with somebody called hello, call her back? Hello? Is 699 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,840 Speaker 1: this Carol? This is Why are you hanging up on me? 700 00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:41,040 Speaker 1: Why are you still calling me? And why are you 701 00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 1: yelling at me? My child didn't bite your child in 702 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:46,319 Speaker 1: the back. When I picked up my child. They didn't 703 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:48,399 Speaker 1: say to me, your child is fighting in the back. 704 00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:51,719 Speaker 1: Child with my child every day? Like I said in 705 00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,720 Speaker 1: the first lady, you must be some kind of weekend daddy. 706 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: How can I know my child? I'm with my child 707 00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:01,040 Speaker 1: every day. How can you are you? I'm I don't 708 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: even know who Joshua is. She should have just hit 709 00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,320 Speaker 1: him in the head. Ain't what you ain't gonna do 710 00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 1: and sit there and talk about my baby? Now? You 711 00:47:07,239 --> 00:47:08,879 Speaker 1: asked me to lower my talk. You know what I'm 712 00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:14,800 Speaker 1: gonna do. I'm gonna hang up one lay hello Hello? 713 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: Called back? Then call her back cat Hello, don't hang 714 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:24,279 Speaker 1: up on me no more, lady number again. I'm gonna 715 00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,879 Speaker 1: call you until you tell me why you your child 716 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: beat me? Just bite my child in the back. I 717 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:31,839 Speaker 1: Am not in the mood to play with you right now. 718 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:34,000 Speaker 1: You're gonna miss try to get you and your child 719 00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:38,080 Speaker 1: swoop you and your child. You don't whoa whoa whoa. 720 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:41,240 Speaker 1: Guess what Shakira got her? Daddy? You talking about whipping somebody? 721 00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,680 Speaker 1: Daddy else to say. You can't call my house and 722 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: threaten me and my job. If my child beat you up, child? 723 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:53,799 Speaker 1: What your child deserved? He got whoop? Datta whooped? Your 724 00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,640 Speaker 1: frinds just probably want me to laught trying the little 725 00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,800 Speaker 1: fast not in those kids. Don't be talking about me 726 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,600 Speaker 1: my when fake facts. She didn't bite him in the back. 727 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,560 Speaker 1: She might have whooped, but my daughter don't play now 728 00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:12,120 Speaker 1: what keep talking? You found my phone number, fore my 729 00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:16,520 Speaker 1: address and have kids, daddy beat your you what I said, 730 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: bring your one over again? My babies mine sare with 731 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,800 Speaker 1: your babies. My baby Daddy gonna whiop y'all bring it on. 732 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 1: I'm coming over there and beat you and your child 733 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,600 Speaker 1: for the day. You don't call a woman and telling 734 00:48:28,640 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: you coming over to behind child. You come up here 735 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 1: and beat her. Daddy, Come over here and beat your kids. Daddy, 736 00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: he don't he don't want not to me. You don't 737 00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: want it. I'm on my way over without now bringing on. 738 00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:45,640 Speaker 1: Is somebody gonna get dake ye daddy home? Week. He 739 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,560 Speaker 1: ain't got no damn y'all. You he got a job, 740 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: y'all gonna make me come overout a night. Bring it 741 00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,279 Speaker 1: on right now? You know you know what. I'm gonna 742 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 1: tell you something. I'm gonna tell me something else. You 743 00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,719 Speaker 1: gonna get bit and your baby gonna get bit too. 744 00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,920 Speaker 1: You gonna bite me and my baby she gonna whoop? Yo? 745 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 1: Can I say something to you? Say something to me? 746 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:09,799 Speaker 1: Then a few timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 747 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:17,600 Speaker 1: You just got prive you. Oh, I am shame. I 748 00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: am just got prank. Your sister Glinda told me, she 749 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:26,799 Speaker 1: said they could get me. She said get She said 750 00:49:26,800 --> 00:49:31,720 Speaker 1: you always never get me. That I told that wouldn't 751 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:34,560 Speaker 1: happen to me. But you can't call somebody talk about baby. 752 00:49:40,760 --> 00:49:43,080 Speaker 1: That's that's where I killman. Don't don't call nobody. But 753 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: you got my heart hearted? Look, can I ask you something? 754 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:49,600 Speaker 1: Let me ask you what is the baddest radio show 755 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:57,440 Speaker 1: in the land. Steve Harvey Morning Show. You that's a 756 00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,480 Speaker 1: tool right there was still the one the team. That's 757 00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:06,280 Speaker 1: my two. Yeah, yeah, that's a deuce. That's a two. Okay, okay, 758 00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,800 Speaker 1: d did I do? I rest my case he's one level, y'all. 759 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: You can't attach numbers to him. He's one level stupid. 760 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 1: Your school doesn't all right? All right? Thank enough? You 761 00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,480 Speaker 1: coming on next? Did he change my number? I don't 762 00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:31,600 Speaker 1: get it? What happens? Strawberry letter? You're ranking. You're listening 763 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:37,839 Speaker 1: to show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if 764 00:50:37,880 --> 00:50:41,480 Speaker 1: you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting, 765 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,080 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 766 00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could 767 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like 768 00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now, right now. 769 00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you. 770 00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,960 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you enough you subject. 771 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 1: The child won't understand this. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am 772 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,520 Speaker 1: a thirty four year old single mother. I have had 773 00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 1: the same best friend for twenty years and she is 774 00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 1: my daughter's godmother. My daughter's father died when she was 775 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,520 Speaker 1: two years old, and my best friend said she would 776 00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 1: always be there for my child. Well, she has not 777 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:24,879 Speaker 1: kept her promise. My daughter is seven years old now 778 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 1: and she has a spicy personality and behavioral problems. She 779 00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,920 Speaker 1: acts out when she's upset, and she has a problem 780 00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:37,880 Speaker 1: with being disrespectful to adult. I have tried everything to 781 00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:42,440 Speaker 1: discipline her, but nothing has worked. This past Saturday, her 782 00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 1: godmother took her to a birthday party for me so 783 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:48,520 Speaker 1: I could rest and nurse a cold. Within thirty minutes 784 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:52,040 Speaker 1: of leaving, my child walked back in yelled at the 785 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:55,439 Speaker 1: top of her lungs at her godmother. The godmother said 786 00:51:55,520 --> 00:51:57,680 Speaker 1: that as soon as she got to the party, this 787 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 1: child of mine insulted the birthday girl and told her 788 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 1: that her hair was a mess, her party decorations were terrible, 789 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:09,360 Speaker 1: and her house was stinky. My best friend said she 790 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:13,240 Speaker 1: was so embarrassed she drugged my daughter out of the party, 791 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 1: kicking and screaming. I know my friend was very upset, 792 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 1: but I thought as an adult, she should have handled it. 793 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,840 Speaker 1: A few hours later, I called my best friend to 794 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:25,439 Speaker 1: see if she cooled off. She said she wasn't mad, 795 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 1: but she is done with my daughter for good. She 796 00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:32,840 Speaker 1: denounced her title as the godmother of my child. I 797 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,799 Speaker 1: didn't even know you could do that. She doesn't want 798 00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,960 Speaker 1: my child to interfere with our friendship. I'm like, what, 799 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,320 Speaker 1: who does that? I tried reasoning with her, but she 800 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,239 Speaker 1: kept saying that she's not changing her mind. It's going 801 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:48,080 Speaker 1: to devastate my child because she loves her godmother. So 802 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,279 Speaker 1: how will I tell my child that her godmother quit her? 803 00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 1: I'm so upset? Well, I mean, really, can you blame 804 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 1: her though? I mean, no one likes a bad but child, 805 00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,400 Speaker 1: just no one likes bad babies type kids. No one 806 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:03,799 Speaker 1: likes them but their parents. Sorry, and you're her mom, 807 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,560 Speaker 1: so uh you know, I mean, truth be told her 808 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:12,239 Speaker 1: godmother might come back if little goddaughter, you know, is 809 00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:16,359 Speaker 1: better behaved. Um, but I just got to ask where 810 00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:20,799 Speaker 1: is she getting this attitude? I mean at seven years old? Who? Who? 811 00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:26,120 Speaker 1: What kind of little friends does she have? Um? She's disrespectful, 812 00:53:26,160 --> 00:53:29,000 Speaker 1: as she showed at the party. She's unruly, she's way 813 00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,319 Speaker 1: too grown. She's just a bad little kid. I mean, 814 00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:34,600 Speaker 1: what is wrong? Are you doing your part as mom? 815 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:42,200 Speaker 1: H and as her as her mother? Okay, as her mother? Um, 816 00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:46,799 Speaker 1: I think you gotta know that this is more than 817 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 1: what you call a spicy personality. I think you're overlooking 818 00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,360 Speaker 1: this whole thing because she's your daughter. I think you 819 00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,080 Speaker 1: just can't wait for the godmother to godmother to come 820 00:53:57,160 --> 00:54:00,520 Speaker 1: over and discipline your child the stuff that her godmother 821 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:02,440 Speaker 1: does every once in a while, every now and then. 822 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 1: That's not gonna stick. That's not gonna stay with your child. 823 00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:09,239 Speaker 1: It really isn't, you know. And she could very well 824 00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,279 Speaker 1: be through with your daughter because your daughter did act up. 825 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:15,080 Speaker 1: The question is why is she doing all this and 826 00:54:15,440 --> 00:54:18,560 Speaker 1: if it's going to devastate your child so much because 827 00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,879 Speaker 1: she loves her godmother, maybe you know that would reel 828 00:54:22,000 --> 00:54:25,120 Speaker 1: your daughter in and make her behave better. But I 829 00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,799 Speaker 1: think the best thing to do is to get your 830 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 1: daughter into some kind of therapy right away. I know 831 00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,359 Speaker 1: people will disagree with me. Someone are just gonna say 832 00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:36,919 Speaker 1: you should whoop her a little behind. I know people 833 00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 1: are gonna say that, but I mean she's only seven. 834 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 1: She's only seven. Maybe it's their fool, but anyway, that's 835 00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,640 Speaker 1: what I think about this, because you know she suffered 836 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 1: major loss. I mean even though she was only two 837 00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,640 Speaker 1: years old. You're a single mom, there is no man 838 00:54:57,760 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 1: in the home. She could just be acting out. To 839 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 1: get her into some therapy. Okay, Steve, please, Oh I 840 00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:12,120 Speaker 1: thought you had more? Okay, everybody ready? Yes, you read 841 00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:24,440 Speaker 1: Happy Knew Year. This is random. Jesus. Well, you're thirty 842 00:55:24,480 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 1: four year old single mother. You got this best friend 843 00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:32,080 Speaker 1: you didn't had for twenty years. She's your daughter's god mother. 844 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:37,800 Speaker 1: That's a given title. That's just the inner, you know, 845 00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:42,920 Speaker 1: when you somebody god mother, godfather, that's just a title. 846 00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:51,759 Speaker 1: You ain't really posted do nothing, got really really, dog? Listen, 847 00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:55,239 Speaker 1: just you don't really posted do nothing. If that's your 848 00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 1: god mother, that's your god cousin, that's your god brother. 849 00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you ain't. You ain't really supposed 850 00:56:00,360 --> 00:56:04,919 Speaker 1: to do nothing? All right. She said her father died 851 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,520 Speaker 1: when she was two, and your best friend said she'd 852 00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:11,959 Speaker 1: always be there for your child. Everybody say that. Don't 853 00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: nobody mean that. Let's just gonna be real. Who mean 854 00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:20,839 Speaker 1: that I'll always be there for your child? That means 855 00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:27,479 Speaker 1: I'll always know them? Her name Brenda, Yes, Brenda dog 856 00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:34,520 Speaker 1: but qua yes, but sheiqua. Well she has not kept 857 00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: her promise. My daughter is seven years old now. She 858 00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:42,320 Speaker 1: has a spicy personality and behavioral problems. Pump your brakes 859 00:56:42,440 --> 00:56:46,320 Speaker 1: right there, SAMN year old with a spicy personality and 860 00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:53,399 Speaker 1: behavioral problems. You know what that means? This little health 861 00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 1: for crazy SAMN. Your old little health for crazy. No, 862 00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:03,720 Speaker 1: I ain't on Steve nothing. She acts out when she's upset, 863 00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:06,000 Speaker 1: and here goes a big one. She got a problem 864 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 1: with being disrespectful to adults. You know why because she's 865 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:14,359 Speaker 1: been allowed. Hello, now when I come back, here come 866 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:16,920 Speaker 1: the truth. All right, all right, we're gonna have part 867 00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three after 868 00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:24,240 Speaker 1: the hour. Subject of today's Strawberry Letter, the child won't 869 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 1: understand this. We'll be back right after this. You're listening show, 870 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,000 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. 871 00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:37,360 Speaker 1: Subject the child won't understand this. Thirty four year old lady, 872 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 1: got a friend, been there free in twenty years, got 873 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: a little girl. The little girl father to die when 874 00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:45,840 Speaker 1: she was two. The lady that's been her free and 875 00:57:46,000 --> 00:57:50,480 Speaker 1: is her god mother. We've discussed this. That don't mean nothing. 876 00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 1: That title, that term just a throwaway line. That's like, hey, 877 00:57:57,240 --> 00:57:59,760 Speaker 1: happy New Year. Really give a damn how your year? 878 00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:09,560 Speaker 1: We've just got this year out, sayybody, yeah, Happy New Year, 879 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:14,960 Speaker 1: Happy New Year. It's the seventh. It's just tradition. It's 880 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:20,000 Speaker 1: that tradition. Nobody really care. How are you today? Like, 881 00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 1: I give a damn now, I really don't want to 882 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 1: know how you do today. I want you to say 883 00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,280 Speaker 1: I'm fine. I don't want to hear about your problems 884 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 1: god mother, godfather. The same thing. How you doing, how 885 00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:37,200 Speaker 1: you feeling that? We don't really want to know that now. 886 00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:40,520 Speaker 1: She says she'd always be there for the little girl, 887 00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:43,120 Speaker 1: and she ain't kept her problems. The little girl seven 888 00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:48,560 Speaker 1: years old. He got a spicy personality and behavioral problems flash. 889 00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:52,160 Speaker 1: That means it's little health of crazy. He acts out 890 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,880 Speaker 1: when she's upset, okay, And she has a problem with 891 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:58,880 Speaker 1: being disrespectful to adults. And you know why she has 892 00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,720 Speaker 1: a problem with beings to adults because she has been 893 00:59:01,760 --> 00:59:04,840 Speaker 1: allowed to be disrespectful to adults and it ain't been 894 00:59:04,880 --> 00:59:08,440 Speaker 1: no consequence. I have tried everything to disappline her, but 895 00:59:08,600 --> 00:59:12,680 Speaker 1: nothing has worked. Oh no, you ain't. Oh no, yeah, 896 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:19,080 Speaker 1: you ain't did everything. If you did everything, you wouldn't 897 00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 1: be writing this damn letter. You've tried something. What did 898 00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:32,360 Speaker 1: she try? Oh? Time out that ain't worked. Told her 899 00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:36,200 Speaker 1: she couldn't go outside. Don't nobody give a damn about that? 900 00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 1: No more, go to your room. Hell, that's where my 901 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:46,360 Speaker 1: computer that I'm good. Yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna get 902 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 1: you nothing for Christmas. Have far got a whole year 903 00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:53,320 Speaker 1: for you to change your man. I've tried everything, but 904 00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:56,560 Speaker 1: nothing has worked. You ain't tried everything. But let's move 905 00:59:56,640 --> 01:00:00,120 Speaker 1: on this past sadday. Her godmother took her to a 906 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 1: birthday party for me. Now keep in mind who took her, 907 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:12,200 Speaker 1: now her godmother the throwaway title. Now this same thing, 908 01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:16,840 Speaker 1: the mama took her grandmother. Her godmother took her this 909 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,600 Speaker 1: party for me so I could rest in nurse a cold. 910 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:23,640 Speaker 1: Penty minutes after leaving, my child walked back in the house, 911 01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 1: yelling at the top of her lungs at her god mother, 912 01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:29,520 Speaker 1: You don't bring me back to this damn party. I 913 01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,840 Speaker 1: just went to the party. How you gonna bring me back? 914 01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 1: You don't bring me back home? About you back oncause 915 01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:38,400 Speaker 1: your ass can't dry. You're back in this house because 916 01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:41,040 Speaker 1: you don't know how to act, the godmother said. As 917 01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,000 Speaker 1: soon as she got to the party, this child of 918 01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 1: mine in something. The birthday girl tell her that her 919 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,560 Speaker 1: hand was a mess, her party decorations was terrible, that 920 01:00:49,680 --> 01:00:52,160 Speaker 1: her house was thinking, we gotta get this half out 921 01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 1: of here. See the godmother said, I gotta get this 922 01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 1: little ignorant health of out this woman, how she hid 923 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 1: this and kill everybody an here. It wasn't a little 924 01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:02,640 Speaker 1: girl she was concerned about. It was the little girl 925 01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: who mama threw the party that hadn't invited Joe Poe 926 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,200 Speaker 1: asked daughter over to the house that ain't bought the 927 01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:11,800 Speaker 1: damn gift. You know why because she funking and she 928 01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:14,400 Speaker 1: got a bad attitude. So she just over there insulting 929 01:01:14,440 --> 01:01:17,640 Speaker 1: some people's house. So your best friend says, she was 930 01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:20,720 Speaker 1: so embarrassed she drugged her daughter out the party, kicking 931 01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:24,080 Speaker 1: and screaming like she was posed to, because you know why, 932 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:27,720 Speaker 1: she the god mother. She ain't got invest no more 933 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,640 Speaker 1: her day in this little helpful your little girl crazy. 934 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:34,479 Speaker 1: I know my friend was very upset, but I thought 935 01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:37,520 Speaker 1: as an adult, she could have handled it better. Oh 936 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,680 Speaker 1: you're talking about handled it better to the little girl. 937 01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,320 Speaker 1: That's disrespectful to adults, right, You thought she could have 938 01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:46,920 Speaker 1: handled it better. I agree with you right there. I 939 01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 1: think she could have handled it better too. Think of 940 01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,240 Speaker 1: what iuda did soon as she said something about the 941 01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:54,120 Speaker 1: little girl messed up here, I'd have missed her head. 942 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,640 Speaker 1: Now you're both standing here with your hair all over 943 01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:00,520 Speaker 1: your head. How you like that? And then i'd have 944 01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,840 Speaker 1: said something about her dress. Out of threw punch on 945 01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:06,440 Speaker 1: her dress. Now everybody outfit messed up and out of 946 01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,320 Speaker 1: stuff to one of them balloons in her little ragged 947 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 1: ass mouth because she keeps running it. That's how out 948 01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 1: of hand it. Oh, we just stayed at the party 949 01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 1: because I'm not going to the party and don't get 950 01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:18,800 Speaker 1: no damn cake. So we got leaving this party right here. 951 01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:23,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna guessing I like going to kids party because 952 01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:26,600 Speaker 1: kid part of her good ad cake because some of 953 01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,280 Speaker 1: they had a little crazy ass writing on it, but 954 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 1: it'd be red velvet on the inside. So I don't 955 01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,480 Speaker 1: know why you think we'venna lead this party about this cake. 956 01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 1: I beat your daughter ass and bought her back. But see, 957 01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 1: you know why she don't beat your daughter ass, because 958 01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:41,560 Speaker 1: she just a god mother. Now she was the grandmother. 959 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,360 Speaker 1: She bought your little baby back home with a couple 960 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,040 Speaker 1: of wounds on her ass. But she bought this looked 961 01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,640 Speaker 1: crazy health of back. A few hours later, I called 962 01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:51,760 Speaker 1: my best friend to see if she cool off. She 963 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,240 Speaker 1: said she wasn't mad, but she's done with my daughter 964 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:55,600 Speaker 1: for good. I'm through it. I don't want to be 965 01:02:55,640 --> 01:03:00,280 Speaker 1: the god mother Tyler anyway. I ain't never would be 966 01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:02,120 Speaker 1: damn god mother way. But you said you beat that 967 01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 1: for a lot. As far as I go, I ain't 968 01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 1: beat that normal. I've been there for seven years. I 969 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,480 Speaker 1: ain't need to beat that normal. I'm just a god mother. 970 01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:10,440 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna be it no more. I won't finish 971 01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:12,880 Speaker 1: this letter when I come back, because I got motor sake. 972 01:03:13,400 --> 01:03:15,680 Speaker 1: I got motives sake. Go to this shoe, all right. 973 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:21,040 Speaker 1: Poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter Steve Harvey fem on 974 01:03:21,120 --> 01:03:23,640 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Don't forgot to check out the Struwberry 975 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:27,040 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. Coming up. Steve has Part three 976 01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,040 Speaker 1: of the Strawberry Letter. The subject is the child won't 977 01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:34,680 Speaker 1: understand this and uh, we'll be back right after this. 978 01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:40,040 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve 979 01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,160 Speaker 1: back to the Strawberry Letter. This is part three, by 980 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,520 Speaker 1: the way, hart three of a letter of a seven 981 01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:50,200 Speaker 1: year old and ain't got no home training, behead problems, 982 01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:56,560 Speaker 1: a folking attitude. When her godmother personality went and picked 983 01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 1: up to take her to a party, for her sick 984 01:03:58,880 --> 01:04:03,760 Speaker 1: ass friend got to the party. Now her friend wasn't 985 01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,760 Speaker 1: really sick. Her friend knew what was gonna happen at 986 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:07,920 Speaker 1: the guard at the party and decided she wasn't going 987 01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:09,720 Speaker 1: over to the party. Let me take somebody else to 988 01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,440 Speaker 1: the party. Take this a little crazy to help them. 989 01:04:11,440 --> 01:04:13,280 Speaker 1: Go over here and show and exactly what she did. 990 01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:16,280 Speaker 1: Took a little crazy ass over that insulted the girl's health, 991 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:19,680 Speaker 1: talked about the declarations and everything. Now I can't get 992 01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:22,600 Speaker 1: no damn cake. Now I didn't draw you way over here. 993 01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,520 Speaker 1: Now we're back in the house. The little up glass 994 01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 1: girl coming to the house, just just just cussing everybody 995 01:04:28,360 --> 01:04:30,280 Speaker 1: else because you know, when you got a nasty child 996 01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,880 Speaker 1: with that hands up, spicy personality and behavior problems, ain't 997 01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:44,240 Speaker 1: they unattractive children? I don't care how cute the baby is. 998 01:04:44,720 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 1: Once they got a spicy personality and behavior problem, the 999 01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:51,280 Speaker 1: u lass little kids, then that's when you're started finding 1000 01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:53,760 Speaker 1: something wrong with the kids. You look jets like your 1001 01:04:53,800 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 1: damn daddy. Yeah, set up here, your glass sitting up 1002 01:04:56,800 --> 01:05:00,479 Speaker 1: in here. You look jest like your grandmother. Caref her either, 1003 01:05:01,280 --> 01:05:03,200 Speaker 1: And she took a little ugly ass out of the house, 1004 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 1: insulting people like she cute seven year old little Heller 1005 01:05:07,000 --> 01:05:10,640 Speaker 1: got behavioral problems in her spicy personality. You can beat 1006 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,280 Speaker 1: spice out of a child, you can get the spice 1007 01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,480 Speaker 1: right out of date. Yeah, yeah, come on, got to 1008 01:05:16,520 --> 01:05:19,840 Speaker 1: have behavioral problems, I have, no You be quiet, Shelley, 1009 01:05:20,080 --> 01:05:22,000 Speaker 1: You said a bed time I go to therapy. I 1010 01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,960 Speaker 1: never went to there. I had a spicy ass personality 1011 01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:28,040 Speaker 1: and I had behavioral problems, all of it at the 1012 01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:31,200 Speaker 1: same time. Nick Harvey got rid of all of that 1013 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: in eight nine ass whippings. I no longer had a spice, 1014 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 1: and I didn't have no behavioral problems because my daddy, 1015 01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,280 Speaker 1: Nick Harvey, we ain't had no money for therapy. You're 1016 01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:50,240 Speaker 1: not going down now, laying on the white folk couch 1017 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,880 Speaker 1: with no legal pand sharing your problem. I'm gonna beat 1018 01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:59,240 Speaker 1: your ass until you straighten your stupid ass up. Look 1019 01:05:59,280 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 1: at me, not look I had behavioral problem, my ain't 1020 01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:11,080 Speaker 1: I study? He beat me till I started stuntering. Now, 1021 01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,720 Speaker 1: then she's done with your daughter for good. She denounced 1022 01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,800 Speaker 1: her title as the godmother my child because it ain't 1023 01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 1: really no title. I ain't the godmother no more. That 1024 01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:26,280 Speaker 1: probably gone. Now we can as a part God, we'll 1025 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:35,080 Speaker 1: be back with the Morning Show. You're listening Morning Show. Okay, guys, 1026 01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:38,080 Speaker 1: I don't know people if you have breakfast yet and 1027 01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:40,640 Speaker 1: you're already thinking about what am I gonna have for lunch? 1028 01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 1: Or maybe you're gonna make a sandwich? So Steve Jay Junior, 1029 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:49,360 Speaker 1: y'all gonna break it down the ten best sandwiches. We're 1030 01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:51,680 Speaker 1: gonna talk about that right now lunch. Let's go. Let 1031 01:06:51,760 --> 01:06:53,800 Speaker 1: me hear it. I got one right up the top. 1032 01:06:53,880 --> 01:06:56,280 Speaker 1: I can't think of the name of the restaurant, but 1033 01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:59,880 Speaker 1: they make a turkey sandwich. It's good. Not only didn't 1034 01:06:59,880 --> 01:07:03,560 Speaker 1: make the real good, they put cranberry sauce on top 1035 01:07:03,720 --> 01:07:07,320 Speaker 1: of the tecoma man, what you might know the name 1036 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:12,480 Speaker 1: of that place? I can't think in the name of 1037 01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:19,920 Speaker 1: it Penars or something that is it paro? Yes, yes, lord, 1038 01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:23,640 Speaker 1: that's a good ass sound with what you got? Hell yeah, 1039 01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:30,720 Speaker 1: damn foot long with chili on it and onions long. 1040 01:07:31,080 --> 01:07:35,120 Speaker 1: Hell yeah yeah, with chili on it and boardy to 1041 01:07:35,240 --> 01:07:41,439 Speaker 1: sell them. Oh man, what you got? I'm getting hungry? Yeah? 1042 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,440 Speaker 1: In that same vein that that Earl Campbell hot link. 1043 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:49,160 Speaker 1: We split that hot link with that mayo with cheese 1044 01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:53,320 Speaker 1: on it and squeeze. Y'all have mercy. I'm gonna take 1045 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 1: y'all back ten best sounds. Get that big rollers bologny 1046 01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,880 Speaker 1: that your mom a bought from the store. Slice it 1047 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:04,080 Speaker 1: as thick as you possibly can, keep the band around it. 1048 01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,080 Speaker 1: It ain't right until it bubble up in the middle. 1049 01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:10,480 Speaker 1: What when when it bubble up and you put that 1050 01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:13,320 Speaker 1: bread in that pan and put that Greek I know 1051 01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:15,880 Speaker 1: it ain't good. That's why I'm probably a diabetic today. 1052 01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:25,360 Speaker 1: But that's a damn good as that blogey. That's a 1053 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:28,720 Speaker 1: good Yeah, yeah, yeah. They call that and stop six 1054 01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:33,519 Speaker 1: over and fort Worth Bolow saying before you say it, 1055 01:08:33,640 --> 01:08:38,600 Speaker 1: stop six stop. That's that's just deep man, all right. 1056 01:08:38,640 --> 01:08:44,640 Speaker 1: He got to know your way out that this is 1057 01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:46,720 Speaker 1: just a Cleveland sandwich. A lot of people don't know 1058 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,760 Speaker 1: about these, but that's just y'all stamn problem. I'll be 1059 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:52,760 Speaker 1: making them all the week long at the camp. I 1060 01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:58,320 Speaker 1: use Earl Campbell Sausage. I put down a hot dog, 1061 01:08:59,280 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 1: I put a couple of crinkle cut or order fries 1062 01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 1: in the bottom of the hot dog. I laid the 1063 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:09,040 Speaker 1: hot Link sauceage on top. I put some more fries 1064 01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:12,240 Speaker 1: on top of the hot league with a row of 1065 01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:15,680 Speaker 1: cold slaw, and then I drizzle it in bar a 1066 01:09:15,800 --> 01:09:21,880 Speaker 1: q sauce. That's the sandwich right there. That's called the 1067 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,000 Speaker 1: Polish Boy. But when I do it at the camp, 1068 01:09:24,080 --> 01:09:28,000 Speaker 1: I called it the Clevelander. The Clevelander. Yeah, I like 1069 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: the Cleveland. What best sandwich? Hell? I want that one? 1070 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:37,960 Speaker 1: He just said, why are you playing me too? And 1071 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,559 Speaker 1: that's something better than the sandwich. I'm about to say 1072 01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:43,720 Speaker 1: what you got though? What you gotta tell? Oh my god, 1073 01:09:44,080 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 1: anybody still appreciate the magic of a grilled cheese? It 1074 01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:59,160 Speaker 1: ain't by anybody. Yes, nothing like a grilled cheese, saying nothing? 1075 01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:03,640 Speaker 1: Since we talking about something what you can't appreciate? You 1076 01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:07,439 Speaker 1: still can't. Whoop a really good thick ass peanut butter 1077 01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:13,040 Speaker 1: and jealous what I'm talking about real hood, Just great 1078 01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:22,160 Speaker 1: damn jelly with mur mur murk, not milk, murk lurk. 1079 01:10:22,400 --> 01:10:26,040 Speaker 1: You got to have cold, yes, so wash it down, 1080 01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,600 Speaker 1: glass of milk. Who Yeah, I ain't mad at the 1081 01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:34,840 Speaker 1: Steve good. Yeah, we got time for one more. Come on, 1082 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:40,479 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie to teeth man. This is good ass. 1083 01:10:40,760 --> 01:10:42,559 Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna throw out two of them, right quick. 1084 01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:48,040 Speaker 1: Chick fil A, Yes, sandwich Chick fil A. It's the greatest, 1085 01:10:48,200 --> 01:10:51,960 Speaker 1: greatest fast food sandwich available. But please don't sleep on 1086 01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:58,000 Speaker 1: that triple decker at damn Wendy's with cheese. Please. I 1087 01:10:58,080 --> 01:11:01,280 Speaker 1: ain't had one about thirteen years, but that damn triple 1088 01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:07,080 Speaker 1: decade windows would change. Shut up, shut up, Coming up, 1089 01:11:07,120 --> 01:11:09,599 Speaker 1: we got more music and fun on a Steve Happy 1090 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,759 Speaker 1: Morning Show with twenty minutes after the hour. You're listening 1091 01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:18,280 Speaker 1: to Steve Morning Show, all right, Well, most people at 1092 01:11:18,360 --> 01:11:21,360 Speaker 1: work right now, and you're already thinking about the end 1093 01:11:21,400 --> 01:11:23,680 Speaker 1: of the day, right like maybe going to get a 1094 01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:26,760 Speaker 1: drink after work or a happy hour. Well, according to 1095 01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:28,960 Speaker 1: a new of course, I'm talking about going to my 1096 01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:33,880 Speaker 1: next job. Yes. According to a new survey Steve by 1097 01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:38,200 Speaker 1: the Food and Wine magazine, the booze most recommended by 1098 01:11:38,320 --> 01:11:40,880 Speaker 1: bartenders when it's when it's time to do a shot, 1099 01:11:40,920 --> 01:11:49,280 Speaker 1: it's jack uncle, what thunderbird? Now? Now, this was a 1100 01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:53,400 Speaker 1: pretty big survey here, with with nearly ten thousand bartenders 1101 01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:57,479 Speaker 1: asked to give their opinions. Patron Tequila, Gray Goose Vodka 1102 01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:02,040 Speaker 1: and Johnny Walker Scotch also ranked hi, but Jack John 1103 01:12:02,280 --> 01:12:10,400 Speaker 1: Walker Scotch man, I can't stand that. That's that's not man. 1104 01:12:10,600 --> 01:12:14,720 Speaker 1: If you drink real I don't see how anybody good stuff. Man, 1105 01:12:14,760 --> 01:12:18,639 Speaker 1: I don't see how anybody drink Johnny Walker that I can't. 1106 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:23,080 Speaker 1: I can't do it, man, I can't do it. Maybe 1107 01:12:23,120 --> 01:12:25,160 Speaker 1: I'm not a real Scotch drinker. I don't know. But 1108 01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:30,479 Speaker 1: at that black label and Johnny Walker about the blue label, 1109 01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:36,600 Speaker 1: I don't like none of no, man, I promise you 1110 01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:43,760 Speaker 1: down more is what I like it? Oh man, Oh yeah, yeah. 1111 01:12:44,040 --> 01:12:47,040 Speaker 1: Glenn Levitt is good. Glenn Levitt or John Palmer turned 1112 01:12:47,080 --> 01:12:49,640 Speaker 1: me on to Glenn Levitt. It's real good. Well you 1113 01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:52,920 Speaker 1: got a high end Glenn Levitt. Tho yeah twenty one. 1114 01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,960 Speaker 1: All right, listen, we'll be back with more of the 1115 01:12:56,720 --> 01:13:04,639 Speaker 1: Steve coming up right after this. You're listening, all right, Junior. 1116 01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:07,920 Speaker 1: It's gonna bless us with you know, he's such a poet. Yeah, 1117 01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:11,160 Speaker 1: he's going to bless us with the birthday poem today. Yeah. Yeah, 1118 01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:15,200 Speaker 1: I am. Yeah, I'm a poet. I'm a poet. My 1119 01:13:15,439 --> 01:13:18,800 Speaker 1: art is what my art is, you know, I don't 1120 01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't care how y'all feel about this. Don't judge Yeah, 1121 01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:23,760 Speaker 1: don't judge me. I'm just I'm just doing what comes 1122 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:26,960 Speaker 1: to me. Yeah, I'm just coming here. And let me 1123 01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:29,719 Speaker 1: just tell you the seat I've turned a nice number 1124 01:13:29,800 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: now and and now life has gotten a little bit confused. 1125 01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:35,800 Speaker 1: Oh I really want to hear this, you know, you know, 1126 01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:39,000 Speaker 1: And so I had expressed myself in a lot of 1127 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:40,719 Speaker 1: different ways. So I wrote down a bunch of things 1128 01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:43,840 Speaker 1: for this poem that that that tells you, like how 1129 01:13:43,960 --> 01:13:46,439 Speaker 1: life is so confusing now and okay, let you go, 1130 01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,880 Speaker 1: let you get that here it is. The poem is 1131 01:13:48,960 --> 01:14:00,479 Speaker 1: called It's like, Okay, yeah, it's called It's called It's like, um, 1132 01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:05,960 Speaker 1: it's life is. It's like the unhealthy doctor with a 1133 01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:13,320 Speaker 1: hot blood pressure. It's like the schoolteacher who own child 1134 01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:20,480 Speaker 1: can't read. It's like the psychiatrist who has a psychiatrist. 1135 01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:27,880 Speaker 1: Life is like. It's like the clown that hates kids. See. 1136 01:14:28,640 --> 01:14:34,240 Speaker 1: It's like the backslide preacher. What a side piece because 1137 01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:40,400 Speaker 1: his birthday It ain't No, it's it's like the militant 1138 01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:46,840 Speaker 1: black man but married to a white woman is really well, 1139 01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 1: that's what life is like. It's confused. It's like, yeah, 1140 01:14:51,920 --> 01:14:55,160 Speaker 1: it's like the mechanic who drive a raggedy car. Why 1141 01:14:58,479 --> 01:15:01,040 Speaker 1: it's like the police offered the are you hawked? But 1142 01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:08,200 Speaker 1: he got two kids in jail. How life is like 1143 01:15:08,360 --> 01:15:11,640 Speaker 1: the chef who never had no food in the refrigerator 1144 01:15:11,800 --> 01:15:18,280 Speaker 1: and always hungry. Why are you cooking? Okay? It's like 1145 01:15:18,479 --> 01:15:22,920 Speaker 1: the stripper that goes to church every Sunday, but she 1146 01:15:23,080 --> 01:15:30,560 Speaker 1: also lead the prayer meeting. How how How it's like 1147 01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:33,880 Speaker 1: the over drive that you get in the car with 1148 01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 1: pick you up, but he asked you where we're going? 1149 01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:44,960 Speaker 1: How that for me is what life is like. Yeah, yeah, 1150 01:15:45,000 --> 01:15:49,880 Speaker 1: that's it. Yeah you don't have I didn't. It wasn't 1151 01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:56,040 Speaker 1: like a poem. But yeah, all poems don't rhyme. I'm 1152 01:15:56,040 --> 01:16:00,240 Speaker 1: at another level now. The true form of poetry is 1153 01:16:00,280 --> 01:16:02,280 Speaker 1: to get to the level where it is conversation. So 1154 01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:08,080 Speaker 1: y'all didn't notice you're listening? All right, here we go, 1155 01:16:08,320 --> 01:16:10,559 Speaker 1: last break of the day. This has been a good morning. 1156 01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:13,680 Speaker 1: All right, we're ready stay for your closing remark. Well, 1157 01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,160 Speaker 1: you know today, man, it's something that I was that 1158 01:16:17,360 --> 01:16:19,280 Speaker 1: was brought to my attention. I told you ill do 1159 01:16:19,479 --> 01:16:22,920 Speaker 1: my morning meditation and this morning, man, I got up 1160 01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:25,719 Speaker 1: a little early and I was going over some stuff 1161 01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:32,439 Speaker 1: and I was doing some reading. Uh uh uh this Christian? 1162 01:16:32,960 --> 01:16:36,679 Speaker 1: What am I saying? She, this lady on the job, 1163 01:16:36,800 --> 01:16:41,200 Speaker 1: gave me as a Christmas gift. Uh Like the devotional Yeah, 1164 01:16:41,240 --> 01:16:46,360 Speaker 1: this devotional book and the name of the book is 1165 01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:49,479 Speaker 1: Jesus Calling. You know. But when I talk to people, 1166 01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:52,200 Speaker 1: I talk to people of all faiths. I'm not trying 1167 01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:55,120 Speaker 1: to ram my belief down your throat. I believe that 1168 01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:57,840 Speaker 1: God is real. I believe that Dad's one God. So 1169 01:16:58,320 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: you know, what you call him is, you'll be business. 1170 01:17:01,160 --> 01:17:03,720 Speaker 1: But that's just my belief. There's one God. We serve 1171 01:17:03,840 --> 01:17:06,960 Speaker 1: him in different ways. It's not my judgment call to 1172 01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:09,600 Speaker 1: make a call on anybody's way that they choose to 1173 01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,920 Speaker 1: serve him. As long as you serve the true and 1174 01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:16,280 Speaker 1: living God, that's all that matters to me. So I'm 1175 01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:18,280 Speaker 1: talking to everybody. But one of the things I was 1176 01:17:18,439 --> 01:17:21,880 Speaker 1: learning today, and I don't know if some of you, well, 1177 01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,880 Speaker 1: yes you are, because we're all guilty of it. And 1178 01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,840 Speaker 1: it's something that I learned that we all have to 1179 01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:34,599 Speaker 1: stop judging and evaluating ourselves. I want you to understand 1180 01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,040 Speaker 1: what I was reading this morning and learning that we 1181 01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:41,840 Speaker 1: all got to stop judging and evaluating salves because that's 1182 01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:44,519 Speaker 1: not your role. Your role is not to judge or 1183 01:17:44,600 --> 01:17:47,559 Speaker 1: evaluate yourself, and I do it all the time, man, 1184 01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:50,840 Speaker 1: But let me tell you what it does. And also, 1185 01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:55,680 Speaker 1: not only are we not supposed to judge and evaluate ourselves, 1186 01:17:56,200 --> 01:18:02,800 Speaker 1: here's the big culprit. We should all stop comparing ourselves 1187 01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:09,679 Speaker 1: to other people. That's a huge danger man, And once 1188 01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:13,800 Speaker 1: again I'm guilty of it too. This one was a 1189 01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 1: tough one for me to learn to not judge and 1190 01:18:17,240 --> 01:18:21,000 Speaker 1: evaluate yourself because I was always taught to self evaluate 1191 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,519 Speaker 1: yourself so you learn or how to improve. But if 1192 01:18:24,600 --> 01:18:28,080 Speaker 1: you self evaluate yourself to where as a detriment to 1193 01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:31,559 Speaker 1: you moving forward, you're doing yourself a disservice with your 1194 01:18:31,600 --> 01:18:35,960 Speaker 1: evaluation because in your evaluation, if you find yourself comparing 1195 01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:39,320 Speaker 1: yourself to other people, what this does is when you 1196 01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:44,080 Speaker 1: compare yourself to other people, check this out, it produces 1197 01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:51,840 Speaker 1: feelings of pride or inferiority. This is what I learned 1198 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:55,280 Speaker 1: this morning, because if you notice it, if you compare 1199 01:18:55,320 --> 01:18:59,920 Speaker 1: yourself to people who let's say, got more than you, 1200 01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:03,200 Speaker 1: are dressed better than you, and live in a better 1201 01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:06,000 Speaker 1: neighborhood than you, and make more money than you then 1202 01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:11,120 Speaker 1: guess what. You sometimes produce a feeling of inferiority, and 1203 01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:15,479 Speaker 1: you are not inferior to this person. But here's the 1204 01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:18,519 Speaker 1: other one. If you compare yourself to somebody who has 1205 01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:23,560 Speaker 1: less than you, you develop a sense of superiority, and 1206 01:19:23,760 --> 01:19:28,880 Speaker 1: you ain't superior to nobody. Man, God knows what he's 1207 01:19:28,960 --> 01:19:32,120 Speaker 1: trying to teach us. That's the cold part, man, Like 1208 01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:34,920 Speaker 1: I say, Look, i ain't no perfect Christian. I ain't 1209 01:19:35,000 --> 01:19:38,200 Speaker 1: to do man, I'm just telling you real how I'm 1210 01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:41,519 Speaker 1: trying to get better in my life, in my walk 1211 01:19:41,600 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: as a human being on this planet while I'm while 1212 01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:46,600 Speaker 1: I'm here, I'm just trying to I'm just trying to 1213 01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 1: better myself with the stuff that's coming my way. And 1214 01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:52,559 Speaker 1: if I can share what you all what I'm learning, man, 1215 01:19:52,640 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 1: then that's just my mission. Those of you that don't 1216 01:19:55,120 --> 01:19:57,479 Speaker 1: accept it, I ain't ramming it down your throat, turn 1217 01:19:57,560 --> 01:20:01,040 Speaker 1: your station, do you talk, don't go where you're going. 1218 01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:04,400 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be mean to you. I'm doing uplifting, 1219 01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:06,800 Speaker 1: empowering stuff. I ain't telling you to join in with 1220 01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:09,479 Speaker 1: me and hate this or hate that. I'm saying these 1221 01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:11,760 Speaker 1: are things we could do if we stop judging and 1222 01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:16,960 Speaker 1: evaluating ourselves, and if we stop comparing ourselves to other people, 1223 01:20:17,439 --> 01:20:22,560 Speaker 1: because guess what, God made you uniquely you you, He 1224 01:20:22,760 --> 01:20:28,160 Speaker 1: taylor made you. Everybody's different. Your path, your walk, your 1225 01:20:28,280 --> 01:20:32,559 Speaker 1: journey is different from everybody else's. Stop letting people put 1226 01:20:32,600 --> 01:20:35,840 Speaker 1: you under the microscope too. You know, well, when I 1227 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:37,640 Speaker 1: did it this way, this is what I did. You 1228 01:20:37,800 --> 01:20:41,680 Speaker 1: doing it that way, You're wrong. They don't know. They 1229 01:20:41,720 --> 01:20:47,120 Speaker 1: don't know, and you don't know. But here's what I 1230 01:20:47,240 --> 01:20:51,519 Speaker 1: do know. We are all uniquely made by our creator. 1231 01:20:52,640 --> 01:20:55,639 Speaker 1: He made all of us. That's how different we are. 1232 01:20:56,360 --> 01:21:00,040 Speaker 1: Do you know that God is so powerful that I 1233 01:21:00,280 --> 01:21:05,280 Speaker 1: know two human beings with the same fingerprint? Hold up, man, 1234 01:21:05,520 --> 01:21:09,479 Speaker 1: wrap your mind around it. What is it? Six eight 1235 01:21:09,600 --> 01:21:14,200 Speaker 1: billion people on the earth and none of them have 1236 01:21:14,400 --> 01:21:18,360 Speaker 1: the same fingerprint. There have been billions of people who 1237 01:21:18,479 --> 01:21:21,920 Speaker 1: have died and ain't none of them have the same 1238 01:21:22,120 --> 01:21:26,840 Speaker 1: fingerprint as you. That's how unique God made you. So 1239 01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:30,880 Speaker 1: why are you comparing yourself to somebody else? Put your 1240 01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,519 Speaker 1: focus on him, what He trying to do with you 1241 01:21:33,680 --> 01:21:36,200 Speaker 1: in your life and going to have yourself a great life. 1242 01:21:36,439 --> 01:21:39,760 Speaker 1: Stop comparing yourself to other people. It's like putting your 1243 01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:41,840 Speaker 1: fingerprinting up next today is talking about look at how 1244 01:21:41,960 --> 01:21:45,440 Speaker 1: much the same we are you not? And God intentionally 1245 01:21:45,680 --> 01:21:48,320 Speaker 1: made you that way and that's a good thing, you 1246 01:21:48,439 --> 01:21:52,880 Speaker 1: being different. It's good. Those are my remarks today. Drop it, 1247 01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:57,840 Speaker 1: you better speak why. Let's just get with yourself though, 1248 01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:03,000 Speaker 1: up in him? Why with you? Love you? Come on, man? 1249 01:22:03,360 --> 01:22:05,920 Speaker 1: Do you you? If you just put your focus on you, 1250 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:09,519 Speaker 1: that's your man. Your best chance to succeed is right there. Y'all. 1251 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:25,640 Speaker 1: Have a nice weekend. For all Steve Harvey contests. No 1252 01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:29,200 Speaker 1: purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US 1253 01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:32,760 Speaker 1: residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 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