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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date update. We've got a woman
Speaker 1: named Lisa who emailed us for a second date update.
Speaker 1: And Lisa has a request. Okay, she says, she just
Speaker 1: doesn't want us to think she's a bad person. We
Speaker 1: are no matter what, you guys have to promise to
Speaker 1: not think she's a bad person. That's what she's asked
Speaker 1: of us. So can you guys promise? I promise. My
Speaker 1: hand is over my heart. Promise. I you know I
Speaker 1: don't like favorite promises that can't keep. I mean you Okay,
Speaker 1: here's the thing, by her saying that she already thinks
Speaker 1: she's a bad person, so but she doesn't want you
Speaker 1: to think that. Can you promise not to think that? Please? Okay, there, everybody.
Speaker 1: Because I read her email, of course I think she's
Speaker 1: a bad person. I just don't want you guys to
Speaker 1: think that. We can't all be in unison thinking now,
Speaker 1: so hopefully she doesn't hear any of me saying any
Speaker 1: of that. So Lisia there, I'm here. I'm conflicted about
Speaker 1: being here, but I'm here. She definitely because Lisa, I
Speaker 1: hope you didn't Yeah I heard. Oh well, okay, maybe
Speaker 1: pretend like you didn't hear. All right, Okay, okay, I
Speaker 1: do that. I mean, I just gotta say I was
Speaker 1: disappointed in your email. Though. Oh no, that's the worst
Speaker 1: to be. I feel so just well, no, it's not
Speaker 1: like that. It's just because like it's not as naughty
Speaker 1: as I had hoped. Oh well, when you hear someone
Speaker 1: say I've been bad, I'm thinking like, oh, she's bad,
Speaker 1: but no, she's just it's just bad bad. It's like
Speaker 1: a very vanilla kind of fat. Yeah. All right, so
Speaker 1: vanilla bad girl. Tell us about the guy you want
Speaker 1: to call today. So his name is Jake. And I mean,
Speaker 1: you're already going to start judging me when I tell
Speaker 1: you where we met. Okay, we met at a convenience store.
Speaker 1: I think that's fine. Yeah, why is that? I don't know.
Speaker 1: It just seems like it's easily to meet someone. But anyway,
Speaker 1: that was just like running a quick errand to grab
Speaker 1: some beer. And it turns it out like as I
Speaker 1: was rounding the corner, I was like, wow, there's only
Speaker 1: one six pack left of my favorite one. So you
Speaker 1: sprinted right because you had to get there first. I
Speaker 1: didn't really sprint because I mean, I figured it wasn't
Speaker 1: like there was a crowd convenient stores. But before I
Speaker 1: got to the case, this guy reached in and grabbed
Speaker 1: my beer. It's already become mine when I saw it there.
Speaker 1: But when the refrigerator door closed, he looked over at me,
Speaker 1: and I must have had, like, I have no poker face,
Speaker 1: so my face must have said like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: this is the worst thing that could happen. Yes, it
Speaker 1: said wtf is what your face said? Probably probably so
Speaker 1: he said something like you're gonna get this. I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: it's okay, you can have it, Lisa. You're in a
Speaker 1: convenience store. You don't have to be Is this why
Speaker 1: you think you're a bad person because you didn't stand
Speaker 1: up for yourself. Yeah, I know. I was trying to
Speaker 1: be nice about it and not make a big deal
Speaker 1: because even though it's my favorite beer, it's not like
Speaker 1: there was no other beer on the entire place, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he was super nice and he was like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, if you're not busy right now, we could
Speaker 1: share it. Oh well, look at that's so you just
Speaker 1: went into the back alley of a convenience store and
Speaker 1: beers with this dude. Well this is where it gets
Speaker 1: to the vanilla bad. So I'm not really spoken for,
Speaker 1: but I'm sort of not really spoken for. You're whispered for.
Speaker 1: That sounds like you're like, you know what I mean
Speaker 1: when you're like seeing someone but you never had to
Speaker 1: talk about being exclusive, and it kind of feels like
Speaker 1: you're both in it till something better comes along. So
Speaker 1: you're sleeping with somebody else, is what you're saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but not exclusive, Yeah, but like without strings? Yeah, funky.
Speaker 1: Why is that bad? I don't know. It made me
Speaker 1: feel like I was a bad person because I think
Speaker 1: that not to like a Catholic girls school didn't share
Speaker 1: like everything you do. You're very ashamed of yourself. Now
Speaker 1: those Catholic are would do a lot more than just shue.
Speaker 1: Why do you think you're so bad? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess because I'm in this sort of gray zone
Speaker 1: that's not really anything. But I don't know what did
Speaker 1: you say to the guy to his proposal? So I
Speaker 1: said that would be great, and he like he took
Speaker 1: care to be here, Like we didn't go to the
Speaker 1: back alley where there was like a food truck with
Speaker 1: some pickney tables around, so we grabbed some food and
Speaker 1: we were just like hanging out and had a couple
Speaker 1: of beers. It was it was really fun. That sounds
Speaker 1: like a good day, yeah, I mean it. But that
Speaker 1: was just the beginning. Because there was a flyer up
Speaker 1: for Bingo Night and it was that night and it
Speaker 1: was like about start and he was like, hey, I
Speaker 1: don't know if you would be up for this, but
Speaker 1: you want to go to Bingo Bingo night at the
Speaker 1: food truck somewhere else? It was near the food truck.
Speaker 1: It was near the food truck, dude, like the community
Speaker 1: center or something. That's awesome. Real. That is such a
Speaker 1: refreshing change from just all the stupid of online dating stuff, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, it was so much more fun. There was
Speaker 1: one little awkward moment because I did get a text
Speaker 1: from mister gray Zone and it was like where are
Speaker 1: you with the beer? So I had to teck bag
Speaker 1: really fast, like oh, sorry, you change a plan. Oh,
Speaker 1: you were getting beer for you and the other guy
Speaker 1: and ran into this new one. New guys. Definitely an
Speaker 1: upgrade if that counts for anything. Okay, that is definitely
Speaker 1: like I was cool with you dating other people, but
Speaker 1: not when you're currently on a date with someone. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you are bad. Is bad. That date hadn't actually started yet,
Speaker 1: so I mean technically there was just like a little overlap.
Speaker 1: So did you make it back to gray Zone's house
Speaker 1: after bingo? No? What happened? So? Bingo is super fun,
Speaker 1: and like there was one really awkward moment, which is
Speaker 1: where I think everything went so well? Was it? He said,
Speaker 1: this was so much fun, I'm gonna head home. My
Speaker 1: place is this way kind of just gestured and okay,
Speaker 1: I said, oh, is that like an invitation? And it
Speaker 1: was not an invitation, which she made very clear. Wow,
Speaker 1: that was a big jump from you, for sure, it was.
Speaker 1: But I thought it was cute and funny, and apparently
Speaker 1: it was really not cute and really not funny. And
Speaker 1: we've texted a few times since. And that's kind of
Speaker 1: where it all is right now. Okay, Can I just
Speaker 1: ask where's the situation with mister gray Zone? Well that
Speaker 1: isn't really a thing, right, I mean, sure, all right?
Speaker 1: Did you say? I mean we never had to talk
Speaker 1: about not seeing other people, so I mean that's okay, right, sure, Sea,
Speaker 1: everything's fine. All right. Well, here's what we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: We're gonna play a song. We'll come back and try
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. If you can stop
Speaker 1: yourself from being too bad in between, Okay, I'll try.
Speaker 1: She may find another radio show, just leave us all together.
Speaker 1: Hold on, Okay, if you're just tuning in for the
Speaker 1: second Date update, you're in luck because we've got a
Speaker 1: bad girl on the phone today. Oh yeah, Lisa is
Speaker 1: her name, and she is so so bad because she
Speaker 1: met a guy named Jake at one of the baddest
Speaker 1: places around, a convenience store. Yeah, maybe we should tune
Speaker 1: this down because we're gonna do some bad things when
Speaker 1: we listen to this. But she met Jake at a
Speaker 1: convenience store when they were both going for the same beer,
Speaker 1: but Jake got to it first and he offered to
Speaker 1: split it with her. They went to a food truck,
Speaker 1: went to a bingo hall after that. That's where all
Speaker 1: the bad girls go. It's actually a really cute and
Speaker 1: romantic it is. It's actually a very sweet story. And
Speaker 1: at the end of the night, there was an awkward
Speaker 1: moment where Jake said he had to go home, back
Speaker 1: to his place, and Lisa thought that was an invitation, like, oh,
Speaker 1: are you saying I should follow you there? And Jake
Speaker 1: is like, uh no, I just gotta go. So a
Speaker 1: little awkward there. But Lisa feels bad about how it
Speaker 1: all played out. Why because she has a gray man.
Speaker 1: Mister gray Zone. Yeah, mister gray Zone is a guy
Speaker 1: that she's kind of seeing, kind of not like it's
Speaker 1: not really anything she was buying who she was buying
Speaker 1: the beer for. But that's another story, right right, We're
Speaker 1: focusing on Jake and bad girl Lisa. Yeah, all right, Lisa,
Speaker 1: you're ready to call him? I mean I need to
Speaker 1: know what happened or what's going to happen. So yes,
Speaker 1: let's do it. Okay, I'm gonna dial Jake's phone number
Speaker 1: right now. Here we go, Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Jake please? I think he got the wrong number.
Speaker 1: There's no Jake there, No, this is who are you
Speaker 1: looking for? Okay, guys, we should just hang up. Let's
Speaker 1: hang out the fall, right now wait, hold on, wait,
Speaker 1: why are you right? Come on? Um? So wait, what
Speaker 1: do you say? Tom is your name? Yeah? That's right,
Speaker 1: Okay Tom, My name is Jeffrey from the radio show
Speaker 1: Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, seriously, someone gave us
Speaker 1: this number. But no, please, seriously, you guys, can you
Speaker 1: just hang up the phone and I will tell you
Speaker 1: what's going on? Okay, put her down? Sorry about that. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're doing something called a second eight update, and we're
Speaker 1: calling you about a woman named Lisa, who you probably
Speaker 1: just heard a second ago. Do you know Lisa? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I know Lisa. Do you remember meeting Lisa at a
Speaker 1: convenience store? And you, guys showed a six pack of beer,
Speaker 1: went to a food truck, spent some time in a
Speaker 1: bingo hall? What? No, none of that's ringing a bell. No,
Speaker 1: that is not how Lisa and I met. How did
Speaker 1: you meet Lisa? We met through a friend at a party.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about. Convenience store? What?
Speaker 1: Just give us the wrong phone number? Like you're just
Speaker 1: a friend of Lisa's. Then you're just like a buddy.
Speaker 1: We're talking about the same Lisa here. I don't understand
Speaker 1: let's just obviously you heard it that she's on the
Speaker 1: other line listening. Usually we'd wait to tell you that,
Speaker 1: but let's just bring her back on Lisa. Yeah, okay, guys, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what's going on? Yeah, well, I don't want to say
Speaker 1: a whole lot right now the radio. I yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry about that. Tom. Um, so I didn't mean
Speaker 1: to give you mister Grayson's number is maybe the way
Speaker 1: to put it. Oh it was, mister Grayson. Oh, Tom,
Speaker 1: you and Lisa are like seeing each other a little bit. Huh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And Tom, we can totally talk all about this later,
Speaker 1: like I'll see you later and we can have a
Speaker 1: nice mistake. No no, no, no, no, no, no no, no,
Speaker 1: what we're gonna talking about this right now? What is
Speaker 1: going on? You like trying to embarrass me on the
Speaker 1: radio or something? What is this? Right? Is? No? Tom,
Speaker 1: I'm really sorry. It's just it's a big mix up.
Speaker 1: And um, I mean, I don't know. I guess there's
Speaker 1: never a good time to have this conversation. Um. Look,
Speaker 1: I um, Tom, I met someone. You met someone, and
Speaker 1: this is how you decided to tell me in front
Speaker 1: of like a million other people or whoever is not
Speaker 1: you do not have that many listeners. You give us
Speaker 1: way too much credit. Lisa, I'm really sorry. I didn't.
Speaker 1: I wanted to have a private conversation with you, which
Speaker 1: I think we could still do. Right. We can eat,
Speaker 1: we can talk, we can have a private conversation anytime
Speaker 1: we lived together, Lisa, whoa hold on? Are you like
Speaker 1: living boyfriend girlfriend's situation? Well, he's kind of not telling
Speaker 1: the truth. I mean, yeah, I spend the night a
Speaker 1: couple of few times a week. We do not live
Speaker 1: together here all the time. You have a suitcase with
Speaker 1: all your clothes in it. I could throw it out
Speaker 1: the wind right now. They were like almost moving in together.
Speaker 1: What's that weird? I mean not really. I mean you
Speaker 1: never wanted to be official, so I figure, if we're
Speaker 1: not official, it's okay to other people. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about, I'm not seeing other people. I assume you're
Speaker 1: not seeing other people. You never bring it up that
Speaker 1: you want to like be official or anything. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you never brought it up that we're official. And I
Speaker 1: mean it's awkward for girls to do that because guys
Speaker 1: feel so pressured. So I just figure that you want
Speaker 1: to that awkward. You want you want to bring it
Speaker 1: up on the radio instead. Up, can wait? Hold on, Tom,
Speaker 1: how long have you and Lisa been not official? We've
Speaker 1: been dating for like six months now. That's just like
Speaker 1: that's like a grandfather clause, Like if you're together for
Speaker 1: that long, it's official, whether you say it or not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: listen to her. Whoever that is? I agree with her
Speaker 1: in her life? Yeah, who is mister Gray? Is that
Speaker 1: like a third guy you're seeing? I'm a code name now? Wow? Wow? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're like a secret agent. You're cool. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she went out to get beer for you. Guys, because
Speaker 1: you were basically living together, you cannot take his side.
Speaker 1: We were not basically living together. A couple few nights
Speaker 1: a week. I was at his place and we never
Speaker 1: had to talk. Were you out in yourself? You know
Speaker 1: you were doing something wrong? You said you felt bad
Speaker 1: and this is why. Yeah. I mean, look, it just
Speaker 1: seems like Tom, like, obviously we're kind of overdue for
Speaker 1: a talk, So maybe we should talk. Maybe, I mean,
Speaker 1: women is up? Yeah, hey, Tom, if it makes you
Speaker 1: feel better. The guy shooting out with isn't calling her back.
Speaker 1: So are you sure you had the right number or
Speaker 1: were you sure you just didn't give him my number. Instead,
Speaker 1: he's gonna call me later, maybe looking for adage. Well,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you guys have a lot you need
Speaker 1: to talk about, sort of sort things out, and I
Speaker 1: think maybe you could do that when we send you
Speaker 1: guys out on another date. We'll pay for it. I
Speaker 1: live together. Well, we can still pay for them to
Speaker 1: go out and talk things through. What do you say, Tom, Tom, Like, listen,
Speaker 1: it's not a bad idea. I mean, I think that
Speaker 1: we should just like figure out where we're at and
Speaker 1: what we're doing, and going out on a nice date
Speaker 1: would be a cool way to do that. Maybe this
Speaker 1: mistake was meant to be. This is the final step
Speaker 1: that pushes you guys into the beautiful harmonious relationship that
Speaker 1: you clearly have. Or it's a free steak dinner on
Speaker 1: a breakup night, you know. Yeah, Yeah, clearly we need
Speaker 1: to talk some things out here. Gee. So that's a
Speaker 1: yes to a second date. Technically it's not a second date,
Speaker 1: but yes, all right, days for this. Yeah, I'm in awesome,
Speaker 1: all right, I mean it's just singing and you and
Speaker 1: not whoever all these other guys are okay, all right, Well,
Speaker 1: it's only one other guy and his name is Jake,
Speaker 1: And honestly, I mean I think maybe we should reach
Speaker 1: out to him too. Oh why why would you want that?
Speaker 1: Because that's why I got in touch with you in
Speaker 1: the first place. You already know this. I feel like
Speaker 1: you lied to us. I don't think you deserve it, Lisa.
Speaker 1: We're not going to call Jake for you again. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is like prison. You only get one call, so
Speaker 1: you're stuck with Tom. Deal with it. I guess that's fair. Yeah,
Speaker 1: ninety two point five