WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bingo Beer and Mr. Grey

0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Bread and butter wins pair with the life moments you love,

0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:06.320
<v Speaker 1>offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauviignon, a silky smooth

0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:09.000
<v Speaker 1>piano now Are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter

0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:11.600
<v Speaker 1>wines are delicious. Find a bread and butter wines in

0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:15.920
<v Speaker 1>your favorite store. Second date update. We've got a woman

0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:19.000
<v Speaker 1>named Lisa who emailed us for a second date update.

0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:23.200
<v Speaker 1>And Lisa has a request. Okay, she says, she just

0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:28.480
<v Speaker 1>doesn't want us to think she's a bad person. We

0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:32.479
<v Speaker 1>are no matter what, you guys have to promise to

0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:34.920
<v Speaker 1>not think she's a bad person. That's what she's asked

0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:37.040
<v Speaker 1>of us. So can you guys promise? I promise. My

0:00:37.120 --> 0:00:40.080
<v Speaker 1>hand is over my heart. Promise. I you know I

0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:43.800
<v Speaker 1>don't like favorite promises that can't keep. I mean you Okay,

0:00:43.840 --> 0:00:46.360
<v Speaker 1>here's the thing, by her saying that she already thinks

0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:49.440
<v Speaker 1>she's a bad person, so but she doesn't want you

0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:55.680
<v Speaker 1>to think that. Can you promise not to think that? Please? Okay, there, everybody.

0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Because I read her email, of course I think she's

0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.920
<v Speaker 1>a bad person. I just don't want you guys to

0:01:00.080 --> 0:01:02.840
<v Speaker 1>think that. We can't all be in unison thinking now,

0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:06.320
<v Speaker 1>so hopefully she doesn't hear any of me saying any

0:01:06.360 --> 0:01:09.720
<v Speaker 1>of that. So Lisia there, I'm here. I'm conflicted about

0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:14.480
<v Speaker 1>being here, but I'm here. She definitely because Lisa, I

0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:19.240
<v Speaker 1>hope you didn't Yeah I heard. Oh well, okay, maybe

0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:22.360
<v Speaker 1>pretend like you didn't hear. All right, Okay, okay, I

0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:24.360
<v Speaker 1>do that. I mean, I just gotta say I was

0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:27.319
<v Speaker 1>disappointed in your email. Though. Oh no, that's the worst

0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:31.160
<v Speaker 1>to be. I feel so just well, no, it's not

0:01:31.240 --> 0:01:33.600
<v Speaker 1>like that. It's just because like it's not as naughty

0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:37.000
<v Speaker 1>as I had hoped. Oh well, when you hear someone

0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:40.240
<v Speaker 1>say I've been bad, I'm thinking like, oh, she's bad,

0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:43.480
<v Speaker 1>but no, she's just it's just bad bad. It's like

0:01:43.520 --> 0:01:46.039
<v Speaker 1>a very vanilla kind of fat. Yeah. All right, so

0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.000
<v Speaker 1>vanilla bad girl. Tell us about the guy you want

0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:52.760
<v Speaker 1>to call today. So his name is Jake. And I mean,

0:01:52.800 --> 0:01:55.120
<v Speaker 1>you're already going to start judging me when I tell

0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:58.640
<v Speaker 1>you where we met. Okay, we met at a convenience store.

0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that's fine. Yeah, why is that? I don't know.

0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.720
<v Speaker 1>It just seems like it's easily to meet someone. But anyway,

0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:08.800
<v Speaker 1>that was just like running a quick errand to grab

0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:11.200
<v Speaker 1>some beer. And it turns it out like as I

0:02:11.280 --> 0:02:13.560
<v Speaker 1>was rounding the corner, I was like, wow, there's only

0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:16.000
<v Speaker 1>one six pack left of my favorite one. So you

0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.080
<v Speaker 1>sprinted right because you had to get there first. I

0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:21.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't really sprint because I mean, I figured it wasn't

0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:24.320
<v Speaker 1>like there was a crowd convenient stores. But before I

0:02:24.360 --> 0:02:27.280
<v Speaker 1>got to the case, this guy reached in and grabbed

0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.839
<v Speaker 1>my beer. It's already become mine when I saw it there.

0:02:31.840 --> 0:02:34.480
<v Speaker 1>But when the refrigerator door closed, he looked over at me,

0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:36.600
<v Speaker 1>and I must have had, like, I have no poker face,

0:02:36.680 --> 0:02:40.120
<v Speaker 1>so my face must have said like, oh my gosh,

0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:43.280
<v Speaker 1>this is the worst thing that could happen. Yes, it

0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:48.079
<v Speaker 1>said wtf is what your face said? Probably probably so

0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:52.079
<v Speaker 1>he said something like you're gonna get this. I was like, Oh,

0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:54.720
<v Speaker 1>it's okay, you can have it, Lisa. You're in a

0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:56.959
<v Speaker 1>convenience store. You don't have to be Is this why

0:02:57.160 --> 0:02:59.120
<v Speaker 1>you think you're a bad person because you didn't stand

0:02:59.200 --> 0:03:03.040
<v Speaker 1>up for yourself. Yeah, I know. I was trying to

0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.160
<v Speaker 1>be nice about it and not make a big deal

0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:07.200
<v Speaker 1>because even though it's my favorite beer, it's not like

0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.600
<v Speaker 1>there was no other beer on the entire place, right, Yeah,

0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:11.720
<v Speaker 1>but he was super nice and he was like, well,

0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you're not busy right now, we could

0:03:13.919 --> 0:03:18.160
<v Speaker 1>share it. Oh well, look at that's so you just

0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.280
<v Speaker 1>went into the back alley of a convenience store and

0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:23.560
<v Speaker 1>beers with this dude. Well this is where it gets

0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:27.000
<v Speaker 1>to the vanilla bad. So I'm not really spoken for,

0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:30.600
<v Speaker 1>but I'm sort of not really spoken for. You're whispered for.

0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:33.440
<v Speaker 1>That sounds like you're like, you know what I mean

0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:36.560
<v Speaker 1>when you're like seeing someone but you never had to

0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:39.840
<v Speaker 1>talk about being exclusive, and it kind of feels like

0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:42.960
<v Speaker 1>you're both in it till something better comes along. So

0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.200
<v Speaker 1>you're sleeping with somebody else, is what you're saying. Yeah,

0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:49.560
<v Speaker 1>but not exclusive, Yeah, but like without strings? Yeah, funky.

0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:51.920
<v Speaker 1>Why is that bad? I don't know. It made me

0:03:51.960 --> 0:03:54.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like I was a bad person because I think

0:03:54.160 --> 0:03:56.440
<v Speaker 1>that not to like a Catholic girls school didn't share

0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:59.120
<v Speaker 1>like everything you do. You're very ashamed of yourself. Now

0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:03.119
<v Speaker 1>those Catholic are would do a lot more than just shue.

0:04:03.840 --> 0:04:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Why do you think you're so bad? I don't know.

0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:09.040
<v Speaker 1>I guess because I'm in this sort of gray zone

0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:12.800
<v Speaker 1>that's not really anything. But I don't know what did

0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:15.440
<v Speaker 1>you say to the guy to his proposal? So I

0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:18.560
<v Speaker 1>said that would be great, and he like he took

0:04:18.560 --> 0:04:20.360
<v Speaker 1>care to be here, Like we didn't go to the

0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:24.400
<v Speaker 1>back alley where there was like a food truck with

0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:26.719
<v Speaker 1>some pickney tables around, so we grabbed some food and

0:04:26.760 --> 0:04:28.320
<v Speaker 1>we were just like hanging out and had a couple

0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:30.919
<v Speaker 1>of beers. It was it was really fun. That sounds

0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:32.760
<v Speaker 1>like a good day, yeah, I mean it. But that

0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:34.920
<v Speaker 1>was just the beginning. Because there was a flyer up

0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.159
<v Speaker 1>for Bingo Night and it was that night and it

0:04:37.279 --> 0:04:39.680
<v Speaker 1>was like about start and he was like, hey, I

0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:41.120
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you would be up for this, but

0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:43.400
<v Speaker 1>you want to go to Bingo Bingo night at the

0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:47.440
<v Speaker 1>food truck somewhere else? It was near the food truck.

0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:50.240
<v Speaker 1>It was near the food truck, dude, like the community

0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:57.520
<v Speaker 1>center or something. That's awesome. Real. That is such a

0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:01.400
<v Speaker 1>refreshing change from just all the stupid of online dating stuff, right,

0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:03.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was so much more fun. There was

0:05:03.279 --> 0:05:05.920
<v Speaker 1>one little awkward moment because I did get a text

0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.960
<v Speaker 1>from mister gray Zone and it was like where are

0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:10.920
<v Speaker 1>you with the beer? So I had to teck bag

0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:14.240
<v Speaker 1>really fast, like oh, sorry, you change a plan. Oh,

0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.400
<v Speaker 1>you were getting beer for you and the other guy

0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:19.599
<v Speaker 1>and ran into this new one. New guys. Definitely an

0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:22.680
<v Speaker 1>upgrade if that counts for anything. Okay, that is definitely

0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:26.520
<v Speaker 1>like I was cool with you dating other people, but

0:05:26.680 --> 0:05:30.440
<v Speaker 1>not when you're currently on a date with someone. Yeah,

0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:34.800
<v Speaker 1>you are bad. Is bad. That date hadn't actually started yet,

0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:38.360
<v Speaker 1>so I mean technically there was just like a little overlap.

0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:40.920
<v Speaker 1>So did you make it back to gray Zone's house

0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:46.559
<v Speaker 1>after bingo? No? What happened? So? Bingo is super fun,

0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:50.919
<v Speaker 1>and like there was one really awkward moment, which is

0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:54.559
<v Speaker 1>where I think everything went so well? Was it? He said,

0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.760
<v Speaker 1>this was so much fun, I'm gonna head home. My

0:05:58.839 --> 0:06:01.839
<v Speaker 1>place is this way kind of just gestured and okay,

0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, is that like an invitation? And it

0:06:06.640 --> 0:06:09.719
<v Speaker 1>was not an invitation, which she made very clear. Wow,

0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:13.800
<v Speaker 1>that was a big jump from you, for sure, it was.

0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.520
<v Speaker 1>But I thought it was cute and funny, and apparently

0:06:16.520 --> 0:06:19.000
<v Speaker 1>it was really not cute and really not funny. And

0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:22.400
<v Speaker 1>we've texted a few times since. And that's kind of

0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:25.240
<v Speaker 1>where it all is right now. Okay, Can I just

0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:29.479
<v Speaker 1>ask where's the situation with mister gray Zone? Well that

0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:33.640
<v Speaker 1>isn't really a thing, right, I mean, sure, all right?

0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:38.360
<v Speaker 1>Did you say? I mean we never had to talk

0:06:38.400 --> 0:06:45.680
<v Speaker 1>about not seeing other people, so I mean that's okay, right, sure, Sea,

0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:48.640
<v Speaker 1>everything's fine. All right. Well, here's what we're gonna do.

0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.760
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna play a song. We'll come back and try

0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:53.880
<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. If you can stop

0:06:53.880 --> 0:06:57.560
<v Speaker 1>yourself from being too bad in between, Okay, I'll try.

0:06:57.720 --> 0:07:01.760
<v Speaker 1>She may find another radio show, just leave us all together.

0:07:04.200 --> 0:07:07.719
<v Speaker 1>Hold on, Okay, if you're just tuning in for the

0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:11.080
<v Speaker 1>second Date update, you're in luck because we've got a

0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:17.520
<v Speaker 1>bad girl on the phone today. Oh yeah, Lisa is

0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:22.280
<v Speaker 1>her name, and she is so so bad because she

0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:24.840
<v Speaker 1>met a guy named Jake at one of the baddest

0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:31.280
<v Speaker 1>places around, a convenience store. Yeah, maybe we should tune

0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:32.960
<v Speaker 1>this down because we're gonna do some bad things when

0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:35.560
<v Speaker 1>we listen to this. But she met Jake at a

0:07:35.600 --> 0:07:38.640
<v Speaker 1>convenience store when they were both going for the same beer,

0:07:39.280 --> 0:07:41.520
<v Speaker 1>but Jake got to it first and he offered to

0:07:41.560 --> 0:07:44.080
<v Speaker 1>split it with her. They went to a food truck,

0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:47.520
<v Speaker 1>went to a bingo hall after that. That's where all

0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.480
<v Speaker 1>the bad girls go. It's actually a really cute and

0:07:50.560 --> 0:07:53.640
<v Speaker 1>romantic it is. It's actually a very sweet story. And

0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:55.680
<v Speaker 1>at the end of the night, there was an awkward

0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.720
<v Speaker 1>moment where Jake said he had to go home, back

0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:02.760
<v Speaker 1>to his place, and Lisa thought that was an invitation, like, oh,

0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:05.240
<v Speaker 1>are you saying I should follow you there? And Jake

0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:09.560
<v Speaker 1>is like, uh no, I just gotta go. So a

0:08:09.600 --> 0:08:13.120
<v Speaker 1>little awkward there. But Lisa feels bad about how it

0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:16.080
<v Speaker 1>all played out. Why because she has a gray man.

0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:20.080
<v Speaker 1>Mister gray Zone. Yeah, mister gray Zone is a guy

0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:23.320
<v Speaker 1>that she's kind of seeing, kind of not like it's

0:08:23.400 --> 0:08:26.000
<v Speaker 1>not really anything she was buying who she was buying

0:08:26.000 --> 0:08:28.440
<v Speaker 1>the beer for. But that's another story, right right, We're

0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:32.760
<v Speaker 1>focusing on Jake and bad girl Lisa. Yeah, all right, Lisa,

0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:35.920
<v Speaker 1>you're ready to call him? I mean I need to

0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:38.120
<v Speaker 1>know what happened or what's going to happen. So yes,

0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.480
<v Speaker 1>let's do it. Okay, I'm gonna dial Jake's phone number

0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:52.400
<v Speaker 1>right now. Here we go, Hello, Hi, can I speak

0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:56.360
<v Speaker 1>to Jake please? I think he got the wrong number.

0:08:57.200 --> 0:09:00.520
<v Speaker 1>There's no Jake there, No, this is who are you

0:09:00.520 --> 0:09:02.959
<v Speaker 1>looking for? Okay, guys, we should just hang up. Let's

0:09:02.960 --> 0:09:04.600
<v Speaker 1>hang out the fall, right now wait, hold on, wait,

0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.679
<v Speaker 1>why are you right? Come on? Um? So wait, what

0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:10.400
<v Speaker 1>do you say? Tom is your name? Yeah? That's right,

0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay Tom, My name is Jeffrey from the radio show

0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:16.640
<v Speaker 1>Broken Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, seriously, someone gave us

0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:19.920
<v Speaker 1>this number. But no, please, seriously, you guys, can you

0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:21.720
<v Speaker 1>just hang up the phone and I will tell you

0:09:21.760 --> 0:09:26.320
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Okay, put her down? Sorry about that. So, yeah,

0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.640
<v Speaker 1>we're doing something called a second eight update, and we're

0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:31.880
<v Speaker 1>calling you about a woman named Lisa, who you probably

0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:35.160
<v Speaker 1>just heard a second ago. Do you know Lisa? Yeah?

0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:37.600
<v Speaker 1>I know Lisa. Do you remember meeting Lisa at a

0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:40.839
<v Speaker 1>convenience store? And you, guys showed a six pack of beer,

0:09:41.240 --> 0:09:43.440
<v Speaker 1>went to a food truck, spent some time in a

0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:48.520
<v Speaker 1>bingo hall? What? No, none of that's ringing a bell. No,

0:09:48.800 --> 0:09:51.240
<v Speaker 1>that is not how Lisa and I met. How did

0:09:51.240 --> 0:09:56.000
<v Speaker 1>you meet Lisa? We met through a friend at a party.

0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you're talking about. Convenience store? What?

0:10:00.160 --> 0:10:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Just give us the wrong phone number? Like you're just

0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:04.640
<v Speaker 1>a friend of Lisa's. Then you're just like a buddy.

0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:07.440
<v Speaker 1>We're talking about the same Lisa here. I don't understand

0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:10.000
<v Speaker 1>let's just obviously you heard it that she's on the

0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.400
<v Speaker 1>other line listening. Usually we'd wait to tell you that,

0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:19.120
<v Speaker 1>but let's just bring her back on Lisa. Yeah, okay, guys, Yeah,

0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:22.080
<v Speaker 1>what's going on? Yeah, well, I don't want to say

0:10:22.120 --> 0:10:26.800
<v Speaker 1>a whole lot right now the radio. I yeah, I'm

0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:30.920
<v Speaker 1>really sorry about that. Tom. Um, so I didn't mean

0:10:30.960 --> 0:10:33.520
<v Speaker 1>to give you mister Grayson's number is maybe the way

0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:38.160
<v Speaker 1>to put it. Oh it was, mister Grayson. Oh, Tom,

0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.959
<v Speaker 1>you and Lisa are like seeing each other a little bit. Huh. Yeah,

0:10:42.000 --> 0:10:44.760
<v Speaker 1>And Tom, we can totally talk all about this later,

0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:46.800
<v Speaker 1>like I'll see you later and we can have a

0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:50.160
<v Speaker 1>nice mistake. No no, no, no, no, no, no no, no,

0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.840
<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna talking about this right now? What is

0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:55.600
<v Speaker 1>going on? You like trying to embarrass me on the

0:10:55.679 --> 0:11:00.559
<v Speaker 1>radio or something? What is this? Right? Is? No? Tom,

0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:03.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm really sorry. It's just it's a big mix up.

0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:07.120
<v Speaker 1>And um, I mean, I don't know. I guess there's

0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:11.040
<v Speaker 1>never a good time to have this conversation. Um. Look,

0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:19.000
<v Speaker 1>I um, Tom, I met someone. You met someone, and

0:11:19.080 --> 0:11:21.280
<v Speaker 1>this is how you decided to tell me in front

0:11:21.320 --> 0:11:24.280
<v Speaker 1>of like a million other people or whoever is not

0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:27.080
<v Speaker 1>you do not have that many listeners. You give us

0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:30.280
<v Speaker 1>way too much credit. Lisa, I'm really sorry. I didn't.

0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to have a private conversation with you, which

0:11:33.080 --> 0:11:35.040
<v Speaker 1>I think we could still do. Right. We can eat,

0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:38.280
<v Speaker 1>we can talk, we can have a private conversation anytime

0:11:38.400 --> 0:11:44.760
<v Speaker 1>we lived together, Lisa, whoa hold on? Are you like

0:11:44.920 --> 0:11:49.040
<v Speaker 1>living boyfriend girlfriend's situation? Well, he's kind of not telling

0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.440
<v Speaker 1>the truth. I mean, yeah, I spend the night a

0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.360
<v Speaker 1>couple of few times a week. We do not live

0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:57.120
<v Speaker 1>together here all the time. You have a suitcase with

0:11:57.160 --> 0:11:59.600
<v Speaker 1>all your clothes in it. I could throw it out

0:11:59.600 --> 0:12:03.160
<v Speaker 1>the wind right now. They were like almost moving in together.

0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:07.800
<v Speaker 1>What's that weird? I mean not really. I mean you

0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.959
<v Speaker 1>never wanted to be official, so I figure, if we're

0:12:11.000 --> 0:12:14.160
<v Speaker 1>not official, it's okay to other people. What are you

0:12:14.240 --> 0:12:17.280
<v Speaker 1>talking about, I'm not seeing other people. I assume you're

0:12:17.280 --> 0:12:19.400
<v Speaker 1>not seeing other people. You never bring it up that

0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:22.920
<v Speaker 1>you want to like be official or anything. Yeah, but

0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:25.840
<v Speaker 1>you never brought it up that we're official. And I

0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.400
<v Speaker 1>mean it's awkward for girls to do that because guys

0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:31.080
<v Speaker 1>feel so pressured. So I just figure that you want

0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.079
<v Speaker 1>to that awkward. You want you want to bring it

0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:37.560
<v Speaker 1>up on the radio instead. Up, can wait? Hold on, Tom,

0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:40.560
<v Speaker 1>how long have you and Lisa been not official? We've

0:12:40.559 --> 0:12:46.120
<v Speaker 1>been dating for like six months now. That's just like

0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.920
<v Speaker 1>that's like a grandfather clause, Like if you're together for

0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.680
<v Speaker 1>that long, it's official, whether you say it or not. Yeah,

0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:53.920
<v Speaker 1>listen to her. Whoever that is? I agree with her

0:12:58.080 --> 0:13:00.640
<v Speaker 1>in her life? Yeah, who is mister Gray? Is that

0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:08.000
<v Speaker 1>like a third guy you're seeing? I'm a code name now? Wow? Wow? Yeah,

0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:11.000
<v Speaker 1>you're like a secret agent. You're cool. Oh my god,

0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.559
<v Speaker 1>she went out to get beer for you. Guys, because

0:13:13.600 --> 0:13:17.680
<v Speaker 1>you were basically living together, you cannot take his side.

0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.280
<v Speaker 1>We were not basically living together. A couple few nights

0:13:20.280 --> 0:13:22.200
<v Speaker 1>a week. I was at his place and we never

0:13:22.280 --> 0:13:26.120
<v Speaker 1>had to talk. Were you out in yourself? You know

0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:29.320
<v Speaker 1>you were doing something wrong? You said you felt bad

0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:33.520
<v Speaker 1>and this is why. Yeah. I mean, look, it just

0:13:33.559 --> 0:13:36.640
<v Speaker 1>seems like Tom, like, obviously we're kind of overdue for

0:13:36.720 --> 0:13:41.240
<v Speaker 1>a talk, So maybe we should talk. Maybe, I mean,

0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:45.120
<v Speaker 1>women is up? Yeah, hey, Tom, if it makes you

0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:47.640
<v Speaker 1>feel better. The guy shooting out with isn't calling her back.

0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:52.079
<v Speaker 1>So are you sure you had the right number or

0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:54.640
<v Speaker 1>were you sure you just didn't give him my number. Instead,

0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:58.760
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna call me later, maybe looking for adage. Well,

0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:00.880
<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you guys have a lot you need

0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.560
<v Speaker 1>to talk about, sort of sort things out, and I

0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.000
<v Speaker 1>think maybe you could do that when we send you

0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.719
<v Speaker 1>guys out on another date. We'll pay for it. I

0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:12.200
<v Speaker 1>live together. Well, we can still pay for them to

0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:17.560
<v Speaker 1>go out and talk things through. What do you say, Tom, Tom, Like, listen,

0:14:17.640 --> 0:14:19.680
<v Speaker 1>it's not a bad idea. I mean, I think that

0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:22.240
<v Speaker 1>we should just like figure out where we're at and

0:14:22.280 --> 0:14:25.240
<v Speaker 1>what we're doing, and going out on a nice date

0:14:25.320 --> 0:14:27.720
<v Speaker 1>would be a cool way to do that. Maybe this

0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.680
<v Speaker 1>mistake was meant to be. This is the final step

0:14:30.720 --> 0:14:34.400
<v Speaker 1>that pushes you guys into the beautiful harmonious relationship that

0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.440
<v Speaker 1>you clearly have. Or it's a free steak dinner on

0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:41.680
<v Speaker 1>a breakup night, you know. Yeah, Yeah, clearly we need

0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:44.880
<v Speaker 1>to talk some things out here. Gee. So that's a

0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:48.800
<v Speaker 1>yes to a second date. Technically it's not a second date,

0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:54.160
<v Speaker 1>but yes, all right, days for this. Yeah, I'm in awesome,

0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:57.640
<v Speaker 1>all right, I mean it's just singing and you and

0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:02.000
<v Speaker 1>not whoever all these other guys are okay, all right, Well,

0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:04.920
<v Speaker 1>it's only one other guy and his name is Jake,

0:15:04.960 --> 0:15:07.520
<v Speaker 1>And honestly, I mean I think maybe we should reach

0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:11.440
<v Speaker 1>out to him too. Oh why why would you want that?

0:15:12.120 --> 0:15:14.000
<v Speaker 1>Because that's why I got in touch with you in

0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.160
<v Speaker 1>the first place. You already know this. I feel like

0:15:17.200 --> 0:15:19.360
<v Speaker 1>you lied to us. I don't think you deserve it, Lisa.

0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:21.840
<v Speaker 1>We're not going to call Jake for you again. Okay,

0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:28.400
<v Speaker 1>this is like prison. You only get one call, so

0:15:28.520 --> 0:15:33.080
<v Speaker 1>you're stuck with Tom. Deal with it. I guess that's fair. Yeah,

0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:35.200
<v Speaker 1>ninety two point five