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Speaker 1: was I got water bed seats in my limousine because

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Speaker 1: it was in a fucking sugar like. I was just like,

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Speaker 1: that's the silliest thing for a man to brag about.

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Speaker 1: I got water bed seats in my limousine. You're just

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Speaker 1: staying stuff. I think that's amazing that I wrote it down.

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Speaker 1: It was amazing, but not for the same reasons apparently

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Speaker 1: that you won't. I would do it. If I had

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Speaker 1: a limousine, I'd have that too, so I don't know

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Speaker 1: you'd have water bed and then i'd wrap about it.

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Speaker 1: So I don't really see the big deals. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't know. Money stuff I can't tell me there is

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Speaker 1: Welcome to my mom and told me the podcast where

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Speaker 1: we dive deep deep into the pockets of black conspiracy

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Speaker 1: theories and we weren't to finally prove that crank that

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Speaker 1: by Soldier Boy was in fact funded by the Marvel

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Speaker 1: Cinematic Universe to take eyes away from and discredit DC

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Speaker 1: during the Superman movie rollout. My name is David Bording.

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Speaker 1: WHOA I'm like stink Kerman and I'm I'm processinging. I'm

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Speaker 1: pieces wait so you're saying, you're saying that Marvel spent

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Speaker 1: money to make to make this soldier boy crank that

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Speaker 1: super the Superman these holes and have a negative effect overall.

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Speaker 1: They knew the dance was gonna work. They knew people

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Speaker 1: were not gonna people were not gonna think upon Superman

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Speaker 1: kindly after that, right, Superman seems like a real piece

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Speaker 1: of shit after Yeah, he's fucking slapping his sperm on

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Speaker 1: a lady's back after after a nice time. I think

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Speaker 1: maybe you misread what that dance was. Oh is that not?

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Speaker 1: Did y'all not hear that? Conspiracy theory? This isn't a

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Speaker 1: common knowledge conspiracy thing. This is for sure conspiracy on conspiracy.

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Speaker 1: What are you saying? I'm saying that it is. It

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Speaker 1: was a relatively well known conspiracy theory where I'm from

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Speaker 1: that the Soldier Boy dance had a double meaning in

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Speaker 1: that you would come on a lady's back and then

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Speaker 1: slap the sheets on that come, thus making a cape

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Speaker 1: that she is forced to walk around with. She is

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Speaker 1: Superman in this? She well, yes, but man, that Superman.

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Speaker 1: I think that was less of a regional thing. I

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Speaker 1: think it's more of an age thing. I think young

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Speaker 1: men have a lot of conspiracies about coming on women's

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Speaker 1: back and what's gonna happen after that, as opposed to

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be anything other than you're gonna get her

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Speaker 1: a towel and say thank you. But you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, he's what I was like, Yeah, he was

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Speaker 1: like my father listened to Soldier Boy differently than I

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Speaker 1: that yes, yeah, because young guys always like yeah, and

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Speaker 1: it's like, no, you wanted to go to see what

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Speaker 1: are you talking about? And now you're grateful And so

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Speaker 1: that's because that doesn't let's break this down through what

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Speaker 1: we're saying scientifically. You finished, you slap the sheets on

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Speaker 1: her back, and then she just walks around like she

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Speaker 1: to work as well. This is just I think. I

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Speaker 1: think that if she wants to put her Auntie as

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Speaker 1: uniform over that cape and and walk what you're saying

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Speaker 1: and walk into the office a little more powerful than

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Speaker 1: when she left, that's her business, because she just all right, baby, listen, listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh five was nuts. Yeah, it was a wild time.

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Speaker 1: I think you're you're landing on something very legitimate in

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Speaker 1: my mind. The only thing bigger than our dreams was

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Speaker 1: our T shirts and put that on a T shirt

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Speaker 1: that our guest today, she has watched us waste at

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Speaker 1: this point in innumerable amount of time. It's it's almost

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Speaker 1: unbelievable that she has not left. She she for some reason,

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Speaker 1: seems to be enjoying herself, and frankly, it baffles me.

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Speaker 1: She's far better than whatever this has been, and yet

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Speaker 1: here she is bullshitting with the likes of us. She's

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Speaker 1: so funny, so talented. You know her best from her

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Speaker 1: work on A Black Lady Sketch Show, which is appearing

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Speaker 1: April fourteenth. I think is season three or four? Excuse me,

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Speaker 1: brand new season coming out April fourteenth. She's so funny.

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Speaker 1: I love her so much. Give it up for sky

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Speaker 1: Towns Day. Yeah, oh man, what an intro? Hell yeah,

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Speaker 1: I tried to hit a drop through you my mouth.

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Speaker 1: It didn't work. How dare you don't miss the next drop?

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Speaker 1: Okay don't Yeah, Lee, you are supposed to hit it

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Speaker 1: after season four and then it was city Bar. It's

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Speaker 1: not good, lady. Wow, I'm disappointed. I'm out of here.

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Speaker 1: This is is done, this is over. But imagine if

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Speaker 1: That would have been I would have felt special. I

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Speaker 1: just you need to tighten up. Okay, tighten up a million.

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Speaker 1: Are you reading journal? Everything you watch the You're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: at least get the drops right. If you're gonna play

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Speaker 1: city boys, city boy, you gotta be man man next time.

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Speaker 1: It's okay. I believe in you. I feel really optimistic

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Speaker 1: You're welcome. You're welcome. I'm here for you. We have

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Speaker 1: to tighten up because we have a conspiracy theory that

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Speaker 1: I think is it has a level of controversy to it,

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Speaker 1: uh one one could say, you said, my mama told

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Speaker 1: So so hold on, I'm about to just sell all

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Speaker 1: my business. But that's fine because I haven't had shame

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Speaker 1: in a long time. So okay, So I was in

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Speaker 1: like whatever. So I was in a relationship for a

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Speaker 1: really long time, seven years, right, and then I decided

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Speaker 1: to embark on a journey of sexual liberation. Right. That

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Speaker 1: was a great time in my life. However, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. So I met a guy from New York

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Speaker 1: two ways this story goes. That food. Please, that's what

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna feel myself, please black So, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: So literally, so mind you, I'm all in. You know,

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Speaker 1: So I'm cooking and I'm like, you know, I'm making

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Speaker 1: I'm very aware that's a crazy way to respond dinner

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Speaker 1: you don't have a car. What do you thinking? I cook?

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Speaker 1: Like what you live amongst rackets and roaches. Let's them

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Speaker 1: down on people who don't have cars. They could just

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Speaker 1: Maybe they don't see this. There's gonna be a plot

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Speaker 1: So you know, he asked me if I could cook,

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know that was how they got down.

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Speaker 1: He thought they swipe their metro card across your face.

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Speaker 1: Like then I start spiraling, can anyone in my family

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Speaker 1: Like ever, like if my mom's cooking quite a minute,

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Speaker 1: salad from Shider Joe's. I'm gonna just dice up a

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Speaker 1: banana like my mom will not when she's salad. Whoa, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's that's crazy. These are two separate These are two

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Speaker 1: You don't worry to cook if bananas and salad out

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Speaker 1: of the kitchen. Oh no, that's how you make. That's

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Speaker 1: how you make. That's like one of those cursed combinations.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, no no turns the chemical. So

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Speaker 1: then it'll be like a Trader Joe salad. Like there's

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Speaker 1: father cook? No, uncle, don't know. That's grandmother though, grandma

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Speaker 1: getting the cultural experience with them. Question, and this is

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Speaker 1: for her man after work. She's doing so food Sunday.

421
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 1: And I was skeptical. I hear y'all, you know, but

422
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 1: I really just I had to open up my mind

423
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:16,440
Speaker 1: and I'm looking at it and even the people in

424
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,960
Speaker 1: the comments are like, damn, she did that. And I said, Okay,

425
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 1: it's not just me. So I'm telling you I think

426
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: it can be learned. I think it's like science. Right,

427
00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: Cooking's like science. Once you go, oh, you know what

428
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: starts a good bass? Lemon olive, oil, salt, pepper, and garlic. Okay,

429
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: I got a basse? Now you feel me like it's

430
00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: a science. I was never ineligible bull to play football

431
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:49,879
Speaker 1: because of my cooking. It's all I know how to.

432
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: I know how to make a castle role. I do

433
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: not know how listen, Yeah, maybe you should learn how

434
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 1: photosynthesis works and the castle role. Okay, this is what

435
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:04,159
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Those are achievable for the common man. I

436
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 1: would hope what I've done. Okay, Okay, I just yeah,

437
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: I think it's like it's if once you think about

438
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 1: it like that and that you know A A plus

439
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: B and then you get to see it's like, okay,

440
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: like it's just you know what I mean? That was deep, right? Yeah, total, No,

441
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: we have totally I go off a field really cooking off.

442
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I could do it with my eyes. I

443
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,640
Speaker 1: just kind of I'm smelling it, I'm tasting it. It's

444
00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: like I'm around. Yeah, it's most don't you like it

445
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: needs like, oh it needs a little tang, so I'm

446
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: gonna go to. Oh it needs a little salt, so

447
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to That doesn't feel like an artistic

448
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: science to you, It feels artistic to me. It does

449
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 1: not feel like okay, that's fair. Science to me feels

450
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: like A Y equals MX plus B all over. You

451
00:28:49,920 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Okay, that's fair for me. It's alchemy. Anyway,

452
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: I did some research Sky on your conspiracy theory, and

453
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: obviously when I first read this conspiracy theory, and I'm

454
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: amazed that hasn't come up yet, But my first thought

455
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: was the very popular meme that circled around of big

456
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: Mama your arm. Yes, do we all remember Big Mama

457
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 1: your arm? And from that's right, Big Mama, the matriarch

458
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: of the family has diabetes and and for some reason

459
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 1: is losing feeling in her extremities and burns her arm

460
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: on a stove, and the little boy says, big Mama,

461
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 1: your arm to alert her to her arm being literally

462
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: on fire without her knowledge. He's he's big now, he's

463
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: the grown man, and I think he's about I think

464
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:53,960
Speaker 1: he's one of those that that pretty much marked the

465
00:29:54,040 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: same size. Is it like Nicky from Fresh Prince? Yeah,

466
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,959
Speaker 1: it kind of has those vibes where it's just like, oh,

467
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: you just a man version of the boy you were

468
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: and we can't got us than that. As far as yeah,

469
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:13,120
Speaker 1: he was, he was so cute as a kid. And

470
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: then they can't last. It can't last. Like I'm telling

471
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,560
Speaker 1: you right now, if you have a but ugly kid,

472
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 1: kiss him because you will go well into the future.

473
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,400
Speaker 1: You don't want your kid. You don't want your babies

474
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: to be too cute. No, if they're if they're sick.

475
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 1: He was on like six sitcoms. Wow cute, you know

476
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,200
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like, he was on a lot of

477
00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: fucking ship as the cute kid, and they were and

478
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,160
Speaker 1: as soon as they were like, hey, this ain't working

479
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: no more, it did not work, you know what I mean,

480
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 1: They couldn't take and what's he gonna and what's he

481
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: gonna say? Now? Hey, I was, Hey girl, I was.

482
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: I was nicky on Fresh Prince. You remember when they

483
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: did the jump on It dance and she'll be like

484
00:30:55,240 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 1: the cute one and and and spit shows spit after anyways.

485
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 1: So so obviously that meme is one that's become very popular,

486
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: and to the point that you've made Sky a lot

487
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: of the associations for the meme are people essentially saying

488
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: the exact same thing that a thick arm is better

489
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: for cooking that. Like it's always the meme is like,

490
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: big Mama, your arm next to some delicious food, because

491
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: that motherfucker went in and it's it's a thick lady

492
00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 1: that makes Yeah, yeah, it's the it's I think the

493
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 1: meme started the conversation and then everybody just chimed in

494
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:41,080
Speaker 1: and was like, yeah, yeah, I ain't. No, well, no

495
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 1: skinny girls, you know, kitching on the cook out. And

496
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, but what if she just as a fast metabolism.

497
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: So you're saying, and I like this, you're suggesting then

498
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: that that maybe it's not even a real heartfelt feeling

499
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: that people are going with. They're just repeating some shit

500
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 1: that one internet bozo turned into a popular thing, or

501
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,480
Speaker 1: they just never met a girl with the skinny arm

502
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 1: that cooked and that's fine, that's valid. Then it's like, okay,

503
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: you know what I get it. The woman who cooks

504
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: in your family, she's think she got body and you

505
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,720
Speaker 1: trust her, so she's who you feel like? Whoa? Whoa

506
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:25,080
Speaker 1: just feels like a different I will say, think and

507
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: having body does not make me trust at least not

508
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: the thing I'm thinking of it. I think we're talking

509
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: about the difference between sturdy and might be. I think

510
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: you're drop terms. I think we all know we I

511
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: think we all know the kind of arms we're thinking.

512
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, guys, so you arms. If the arms

513
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 1: got that plate over the like if it's like it's

514
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: like a peak. Is it just the specific part of

515
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 1: the arm that you trust or is it does the

516
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: whole arm matter earth I'm taking I'm taking in the

517
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,959
Speaker 1: whole body first of all. Okay, that's okay, that's fair.

518
00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: If we're gonna cook, okay, I'm taking in the whole body,

519
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: it's fair. That's fair. He takes it in slowly, he's not.

520
00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: You're not trying to rest, We're not all night. That's fair.

521
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: That's fair. I mean, and I just think there's a

522
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: level of like, I hate I feel like we go

523
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: at it a lot on this podcast, and I don't

524
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: want you. But like, like if Jada Pinkett was like, hey,

525
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna cook up some dinner, I would be like,

526
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: quite quite respectfully, no, really, you would refuse it. I

527
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: do not want who damn. I was gonna be like,

528
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 1: here's some berries I forage from the forest, and then

529
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: and then yeah, I drink Car's gonna be a silly dinner.

530
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: I think we can agree it's gonna be a silly

531
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: She's like, did you know squirrel meat is actually very

532
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: good for you? I I will say that I I

533
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 1: while I would not trust that this is going to

534
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: be a satisfying dinner, I would not refuse it. And

535
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: that is where I've I think I've taken issue with

536
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 1: some of the responses. Is like, my nigga, it's still

537
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 1: a dinner and I'm gonna take that dinner and then

538
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: have a story afterwards, or I'm not. I'm not refusing

539
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: nothing from nobody. If you're gonna make me food, I'll

540
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 1: eat it, baby girl, and I will make fun of

541
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 1: you after, but I will eat it. That's nice. What

542
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: if it's bad? I hate to quote the sugar Hill,

543
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: but have you ever been over to a friend's house

544
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: and ain't good? Yeah? You just you get me pause

545
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: for a second, just rap about anything back then? Yeah,

546
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: they had it so good, so good, it's so good,

547
00:34:54,880 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: it's so good. What are you talking about? You had

548
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 1: a bad dinners? I was staring at my end table

549
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: when realized all my tissue was almost gone, And it's

550
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 1: like what you were talking about. They didn't have to

551
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: have any kind of double ontodres or metaphors. Just's like

552
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 1: no TV. So I can see that's not even. It

553
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,160
Speaker 1: wasn't even the TV's like a black, black black. Let

554
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: me let me hit you with a little bit more

555
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: of what I found, and maybe some of this will

556
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: help you to prove your point. The meme as it

557
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: was originally posed, which I think almost has an air

558
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: of quality similar to what you originally presented, is a

559
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 1: little more positive in just celebration of big women rather

560
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: than a besmirching of the skin that it's more the

561
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:59,320
Speaker 1: original meme is basically suggestive of if you if you

562
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: have a fat arm, I trust you, rather than if

563
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,040
Speaker 1: you have a skinny arm. So he made it negative

564
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: on me for no reason. Yeah, he weaponized it against Wow. Wow.

565
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad he played me, now you know, I really

566
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: am Like I didn't say that wow. So he made

567
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 1: he pulled in all New York. That wasn't fair. It

568
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: was a positive moment of uplifting a woman that maybe

569
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: I believe, but he had to flip it and just

570
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: he had. Yeah, he could have been like, I see

571
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 1: the fat arm inside of you. Give me that good

572
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: fat army, and you could have felt all the positive

573
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: feels entering into this, and instead you entered it with

574
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: and distrust and ultimately it's the reason relationship. Yeah, that's

575
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:54,279
Speaker 1: why he wasn't my king. Yeah, I'm gonna say thank

576
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: you so much. I feel that way, I really do.

577
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:01,319
Speaker 1: You know, I blends for the rest of your life.

578
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't mind, but I'm happy without them,

579
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:09,800
Speaker 1: you know. Also, no shade of New York guys. I

580
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 1: really don't want those problems, you really do. I want

581
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 1: to be at peace when I'm walking through mostly white neighborhoods. Yeah,

582
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 1: I dodged a bullet because to take something so positive,

583
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: you know, and then make it an attack on me

584
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: versus just being open minded, you know, like, why couldn't

585
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 1: you just pull up and be like, man, I don't

586
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: know about this, but I'll try it. He hadn't get

587
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:37,919
Speaker 1: in my brain and then make me feel a little

588
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 1: iffy about what I did, you know, and do what

589
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: the rest of it? And this is my issue with

590
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: New Yorkers. And I do want New York. I want

591
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: beef with every single one of you. The top markets

592
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 1: we know now, all right, yeah, fuck them, They're dead

593
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 1: to me, every every New Yorker. But but part of

594
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: my issue is we the rest of the country has

595
00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: learned that you have to stuff some feelings down, that

596
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: some of these are just meant to be private thoughts

597
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 1: you don't say out loud that you keep to yourself,

598
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 1: and eventually it turns into some kind of sickness in

599
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: your body whatever. But New York's like no, I will

600
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: say every thought out loud at any time that it's available,

601
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 1: and it's like, bro, shit, we all none of us

602
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 1: would have trusted sky At come over and get anyway. Yeah. Second,

603
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 1: she's a little silly, she's skinny, she's a little silly.

604
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: There's no way this is gonna work out in our

605
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 1: favorite Google. But maybe it does, and we gotta figure

606
00:38:49,600 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: that out together. I appreciate that. And you shouting out

607
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: all of New York. I would just like to say,

608
00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: there we go. I would like to say if the

609
00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: listeners you said, there's a lot for New York, Yeah,

610
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: a lot, pretty much pretty much all of them. Okay today, lovely.

611
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm still I'm not giving up on New York men.

612
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 1: So I'm I'm single. If you're from New York and

613
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:19,000
Speaker 1: you're listening, preferably Jamaican open to Dominican, um, thank you

614
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 1: very much. Well, I feel like you're courting your own issues. Yeah,

615
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:42,759
Speaker 1: you're asking Pamaican. I think we all know yeah, all right.

616
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: So I just know I had to know if the

617
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: juices were to squeeze but go crazy. I just had

618
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: to make it clear. Yeah, he had to make it clear.

619
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: I didn't give up. I didn't give up. He didn't

620
00:39:56,000 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: scare me. He didn't scare me. Original don dada. Yes, yes,

621
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: I want rude boy so cute. No, Oh my god,

622
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for him. Oh my god. Oh yeah, so

623
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 1: I want I want to take this time to say

624
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: I want zero smoke with Jamaicans now for any time

625
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: in my life that I actually come but that I

626
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: actually agree with. Let's keep this, Let's keep all the Caribbean.

627
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yes, yes, love Caribbean. I will say that. Additionally,

628
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,720
Speaker 1: one of the things that that I sort of stumbled

629
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: across was this article written by this person who argues

630
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Speaker 1: that this celebration of the the fat arm woman is

631
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 1: in fact just connected to our tethering to like slave

632
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: food and ultimately our own sort of like uh lowered

633
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: status in America. Food isn't delicious, you know, that's like

634
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: a cornballs. That's like a very elitist way to look

635
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: at it. Yeah. I will say that the author is

636
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: very clear about that. He does acknowledge, like, yo, this

637
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: is not in any way suggesting that it's not like

638
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 1: better tasting whatever. It's a good fucking meal. But he's

639
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 1: like when we sit around and basically like reduce ourselves

640
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: to to being like the big armed lady makes the

641
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: best version of the food that nobody wanted that is

642
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:50,319
Speaker 1: ultimately killing us. Home You're not here, boy, you don't

643
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: like it? That's wow? Sky where are you at? How

644
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:58,760
Speaker 1: do you feel about this this man's argument? You definitely

645
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: he made it heavy, he did. He made it heavy.

646
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: And then then anytime I think about my ancestors, I

647
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 1: get sad. So I'm just gonna be like, I'm gonna

648
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:12,319
Speaker 1: get sad. I just I think to have come up

649
00:42:12,360 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: with food that tastes that good with limited resources. I'm like,

650
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: black people are magical, and that's all I can think about.

651
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: But that's just the thing. The thing piece was a

652
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: little heavy for me, you know, I mean, I'm not

653
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,959
Speaker 1: even gonna hold you. Also, what if we French food

654
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: is French food is considered the top. I mean, eating

655
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 1: fucking cheese and butter over there. It sucks cigarettes and

656
00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 1: but she gets we're going to get me snails for

657
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars an ounce, but I can't enjoy chicken, Like,

658
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: shut up, bro. Like it's like there is such a

659
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 1: thing as over intellectualizing these things. There is. There's first

660
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 1: of all, I love your cashion. Second of all, how

661
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: do you really feel? I like the food? I went

662
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,840
Speaker 1: over there? It was good food. I will say that

663
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 1: I do think that there is a tendency to sort

664
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:04,480
Speaker 1: of like suggests that that soul food has like this

665
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:09,280
Speaker 1: lowered value because of the obviously the fat content whatever,

666
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: like the frying, all of the things that make it

667
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 1: not good for us. But it doesn't. They don't often

668
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 1: address how many other types of food are really fucking bad.

669
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: Like a Scotch egg is a fucking fried egg in meat,

670
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: like it ain't. Yeah, yeah, it me like what you're

671
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 1: talking about, Like that's what I mean. It's like this thing.

672
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: It's like it's like I understand y wanting to get

673
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 1: a wise ourselves, but it's like you're doing that by

674
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: putting the food below. What is just food? And I like,

675
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:48,320
Speaker 1: I like French food, but I am saying they're just

676
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 1: over there, it's all milk. But like that's like peasant

677
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,760
Speaker 1: food and it's still allowed to be considered top tier

678
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: expensive food, you know what I mean, Like I don't.

679
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 1: It's still like, it feels still very I will also

680
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: say that it does remind me, though, that part of

681
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: the reason we celebrate like French food, Italian food is

682
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: in part because their foods are not like cooked with

683
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: like secret poisons and ship do you know what I mean?

684
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 1: Like yeah, but I mean they also feed ducks. That's

685
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: not I'm not saying they're good people. I'm saying that

686
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 1: literally their their government isn't conspiring with Kello to make

687
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 1: our ship more poisonous. And that's not that's not so food. No,

688
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,480
Speaker 1: And I think that's the point, right, is that maybe

689
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,879
Speaker 1: the real problem here is less the the thick armed

690
00:44:39,960 --> 00:44:43,720
Speaker 1: chef or the food itself, and more the the fucking

691
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: institutions that make our foods more poisonous than they have

692
00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:52,319
Speaker 1: to be understandable. That being said, big ladies, thick arms,

693
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: make me a plate. I'll yes, I appreciate it. I

694
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:59,000
Speaker 1: will be saying my stand up dates later coming to

695
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: the show with a plate. Just put some tinfoil on it.

696
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: I'll get to it afterwards. Tell the door guys put

697
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: it in the green room. I didn't say, so, I

698
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: appreciate it. I one of the last things I'll point

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00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 1: out to you. Well, there's two more things I'll point out.

700
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,280
Speaker 1: One of the things that he says, and I'm curious

701
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: to hear you guys thoughts on this is He also

702
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 1: says that there's a dangerous sort of like manipulation in

703
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: the way that we are represented as it relates to

704
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: the fat arms. Right that, like a lady with a

705
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:32,400
Speaker 1: fat arm is a great cook, we all celebrate her cooking,

706
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: but when it comes to the actual like selling of

707
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: the food and the eating of the food, we call

708
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: in a skinny lady to make it attractive for an audience.

709
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 1: Right that, Like it's sweety having a McDonald's meal versus

710
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:50,399
Speaker 1: like Irma p Hall still with us. That's big, mama,

711
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: she could have a McDonald's meal. Why why we don't

712
00:45:52,640 --> 00:46:00,879
Speaker 1: let Irma get out there yet? Yes, Hey, I think

713
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: he just I think his argument is he wants the

714
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 1: arma hall spit some bars and they get a sandwich. Yeah,

715
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what you like. Yeah, I'm feeling because

716
00:46:14,520 --> 00:46:18,160
Speaker 1: I understand what he's making. I think it's thin. I

717
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: think it's thin. I think I think it's whole premise

718
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 1: is thin. I'm trying to like articulate it without just

719
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: like yelling about French people. I just like, I understand

720
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: you're saying what you're saying, but I don't think this

721
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: is I don't think this is where the hill is

722
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: to die on for that point. Because also like when

723
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: you sat because initially when you brought this to us

724
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: and I started thinking about it, I never even brought race.

725
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 1: I mean I thought about it because I think about

726
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 1: black people first, but like across the board, I don't

727
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:55,600
Speaker 1: even thin women, white women, I don't want their food. Sure,

728
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: or it's just like, you know what I'm saying, though,

729
00:46:58,080 --> 00:46:59,880
Speaker 1: this wasn't a racial This wasn't as much of a

730
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: racial thing is I think he's making it out to be.

731
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 1: It feels like a bit of a straw man. I

732
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 1: think he's using the correlation of the meme and sort

733
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,480
Speaker 1: of like the frequency at which this meme circulates in

734
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: a in the black lexicon as its evidence of this

735
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 1: being a black Yeah right, but I mean I saw, wait,

736
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 1: I've seen when there's just what we're talking about, if

737
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: we're talking about harmful memes to the culture, Yeah, yeah,

738
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: that that Jordan crying meme didn't do a lot for

739
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: emotional exploration. No, I don't think I've cried since I've

740
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: seen it. I've never been more certain that I should

741
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 1: be stuffing this stuff down. Oh man, I thank God

742
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 1: for disassociation. Oh that's You're not gonna catch me weeping

743
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 1: in public. That's just where I'm at my therapyture. I'm

744
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 1: always torn because my dad is a sick comedian and

745
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:04,640
Speaker 1: my mom's a therapist. So my brain is always like,

746
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: is it funny or is it healing? You know, I

747
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: like mine doesn't know the difference between those two terms.

748
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: So that's mine, you know, God bless I give you

749
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 1: a hug. This has been a real wild episode. It's

750
00:48:22,880 --> 00:48:25,480
Speaker 1: been a real wild ride. It has been a while ride.

751
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: I'll hit you with one more little piece of evidence. Well,

752
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: we'll chat about this briefly and then we'll close this

753
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: thing out. One of the other things that I wanted

754
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 1: to look up was where do fat arms come from?

755
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Was the grow Come on, man, Well,

756
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: that's what I needed to go. I needed official evidence

757
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,319
Speaker 1: where fat arms come from. And what I found, which

758
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,879
Speaker 1: I found to be interesting, was was that they say

759
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:02,920
Speaker 1: scientifically it's actually much more genetic than it is just

760
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 1: whether you're eating a certain way, diet, exercise type thing

761
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 1: that some women. Yeah, and so I think in some

762
00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:15,040
Speaker 1: ways it maybe is working against your argument Sky that

763
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: like there are fat armed women even when they are skinny,

764
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:23,240
Speaker 1: even when they are whatever the fuck that that maybe

765
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 1: just have the source inside of them from the Okay, no, no, no,

766
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: I liked where you were going. I have to stop

767
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: right there. Listen, this is in my argument. I'm merely

768
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 1: repeat it back. I heard that episode. Hear me out.

769
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 1: This episode is good because we're treading on all our insecurities. No,

770
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,800
Speaker 1: I totally hear what you're saying. But my thing is this,

771
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: all the women in my family right like, we can't.

772
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,479
Speaker 1: We can't. Everybody's like hoping that weight disperses a certain

773
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,400
Speaker 1: way on a woman's body. Right in my family, we

774
00:49:57,640 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 1: can eat like I mean, queen, and we're gonna get guts.

775
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:04,160
Speaker 1: We're only gonna get guts. We're gonna we'll have tone

776
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: legs and tone arms and a big belly We're never

777
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 1: gonna gain and our arms are our legs. We'll have

778
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 1: muscularized legs and a big belly. That's just like how

779
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: we gain. So when people are like, man, she's just

780
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: not eating enough, I'm like, no, you don't understand. I

781
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 1: just can't disperse it there. But I'm eating good. Yeah,

782
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 1: just don't go there, you know what I'm saying. But

783
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: I think that's what this is suggesting, is that for

784
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: some people it is strictly gonna go there and so

785
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: and so in that way. Yeah, but it doesn't being

786
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,399
Speaker 1: they're a good cook. It could just be genetics. Maybe

787
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 1: they're just airbenders, and we just got to accept that.

788
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: That's that's you're still leading the talent being in there,

789
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:49,720
Speaker 1: you think that that's all I'm I'm not leading anywhere.

790
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: I haven't shown my hand once all. I'm why why

791
00:50:57,600 --> 00:50:59,799
Speaker 1: can't it be if she has big calves, she can

792
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: look like, oh you've seen the calves on her, she

793
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,359
Speaker 1: could throw down you know what I'm saying. I would,

794
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: But this, well, like I said, I think in every

795
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 1: part of the Buffalo. Yeah, that's and I always said

796
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: I thought Big Mama's cooking got worse once they took

797
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,800
Speaker 1: that leg because she lost some of her powers. You know,

798
00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: you're a bad I can't believe you're so food in

799
00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 1: this way. I hope you hide when God strikes you down,

800
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 1: like when Goku goes from super sayan two to super

801
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:41,360
Speaker 1: saying regularly, you know what I mean, You're still powerful,

802
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 1: but but it ain't the same. I just think we

803
00:51:47,360 --> 00:51:49,880
Speaker 1: gotta program this thing. Man. I'm gonna start saying, if

804
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,960
Speaker 1: she has a wide waist like me and the rest

805
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: of my family, she could cook. Okay, Yeah she got Yeah,

806
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,120
Speaker 1: she got a little broad shoulder in a wide waist

807
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 1: so she can throw down. I gotta just reap program

808
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 1: us to open our minds to different types of thickness.

809
00:52:04,200 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: You know what, if you're thick in the waist, you

810
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, that's my internet history. Will a test.

811
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,479
Speaker 1: I am open to all kinds of different thick okay,

812
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 1: and I will eat anyone's plate for the thick arms.

813
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 1: But you have you have you have made me see

814
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: that I was being prejudice and that's not okay. Once again,

815
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 1: if you want to bring me a plate, bring it

816
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 1: to my show coverage and tinfoil, preferably the cardboard with

817
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: the thick bottoms. Yes, so there, wow, wow, tip of

818
00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:43,040
Speaker 1: a blue or red drink to wash it down. I

819
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:47,600
Speaker 1: couldn't agree more with with everything that's being said the year,

820
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: I do think that this has been a very heartwarming,

821
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 1: enlightening episode, and I hope that others are walking away

822
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: feeling where their their hatred was. Maybe was maybe sitting

823
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: that that it and have been sitting that that maybe

824
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 1: there's a little Hayden in your heart that needs to

825
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: be left being. Yeah, be more open minded. That's the

826
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 1: key to life, right, Like, if you have big calves,

827
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:11,640
Speaker 1: you might make amazing salmon. I don't know, like the

828
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:20,359
Speaker 1: open mind, Yeah, like you know, Okay, Yeah, they cook

829
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:24,200
Speaker 1: pigs in the ground. Period. Well I don't know where

830
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:30,960
Speaker 1: they cooked their pigs, but they cook them really good. Yeah,

831
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 1: I might be I might be confusing terms I saw. Yeah,

832
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,839
Speaker 1: it's okay, it's okay. Sky Could you tell the people

833
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 1: at home where they can find you on what cool

834
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: shit you have? Oh? Man? Uh, where can they find me? Well?

835
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: I have social media, but I'm rarely ever on it.

836
00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:47,560
Speaker 1: But they can find me at Skytownsend. I'm on a

837
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: Black Lady skettle right now, so they can find me

838
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:53,839
Speaker 1: there and uh not my dms unless they're Jamaican them

839
00:53:53,880 --> 00:53:58,720
Speaker 1: from New York. Wow, do you know what you're opening yourself?

840
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 1: You're going I am crazy. Yeah, yeah, I need a round,

841
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 1: I need a round two. I I am really down

842
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: to experiment this, you know, experience this roller coaster again.

843
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: It was a hard time in my life, but I'm down.

844
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I'm really ready. Your dms are about to

845
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:23,960
Speaker 1: explode with dudes who have motors on their posts. Go

846
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: let's go. Take me all the way to let's go.

847
00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:31,879
Speaker 1: This is crazy. I don't think to put this out.

848
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: I'm single. I'm ready to fingle. Okay, okay. Boy boy

849
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 1: tells the people where they can find you anywhere. This

850
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: is the opposite of her ms. If you if you

851
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:51,920
Speaker 1: you want to make it from New York, do not

852
00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: Now I'm a combob. I don't know where I'm at.

853
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: I just cool, guy, jokes CD seven on Instagram. Post

854
00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: there watch Royal Crackers on HBO Max. So then you know,

855
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 1: hug your mom do all those things in that order.

856
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: That skinny ladies food. She deserves it and you do too.

857
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: You can always find me at Lengthston Cleman on Instagram

858
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 1: and uh and if you want to see me live,

859
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: I'll be at the mic Drop in San Diego on

860
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 1: April fifteenth and then April twenty eighth and twenty ninth.

861
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 1: I'll be in Bloomington, Indiana at the Comedy Attict. Bring

862
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: your ass out and if you want to send us

863
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: your own conspiracy theories, your own drops. If you just

864
00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: want to tell us how offensive our usage of of

865
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: fat and skinny were as terms, please send that all

866
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: to my mama pod at gmail dot com. We would

867
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: love to hear from you. That's it, that's everything. Bye, bitch.

868
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: You're ugly, You're disgusting. I'm gonna kill you. Give me

869
00:55:51,640 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars jimsy, Your pans Kawa Bears are racist.

870
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: The also player for pasting money versions defending turkey stuff.

871
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: I can't tell me, God,