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Speaker 1: All right, it's time for my Strawberry letter for today.

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Speaker 1: The subject Wow, wait till you hear this. Listen if

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Speaker 1: you If you need advice in relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna

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Speaker 1: read this one right now. Nef buckle up, hold on tight,

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Speaker 1: we got it for you here. It is a Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: I'd rather watch him than talk to them. All right,

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Speaker 1: that is a subject. Excuse me, dear Stephen Shirley. My

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Speaker 1: friends and family say that I have a problem. I

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Speaker 1: don't think I do. Here's the issue at hand. I'm

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Speaker 1: in love with a married, handsome Debonair bald Man. He's

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Speaker 1: married to a very beautiful woman, and he has a

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Speaker 1: beautiful family that he adores greatly. I want to be clear.

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Speaker 1: I'm not in love with him in a sexual way.

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Speaker 1: I'm just in love with his TV show. I'm totally hooked.

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Speaker 1: Can I get through the letter? Please? Thank you. I

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Speaker 1: watch all of his shows, and I listen to him

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Speaker 1: daily on the radio. I can watch I can't watch

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Speaker 1: two shows at a time because I have a firestick,

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Speaker 1: I DVR anything I miss, and I follow all of

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Speaker 1: his social media pages. I even watch YouTube clips at

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Speaker 1: work on my break My friends and my husband constantly

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Speaker 1: tell me that there are other shows on TV, but

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Speaker 1: not to me. When this show moved from Chicago to

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Speaker 1: I was heartbroken. I live in a Chicago suburb and

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Speaker 1: it just felt good to be in the same city

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Speaker 1: with him. I hate that I never go I never

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Speaker 1: got to see one of his TV show live tapings

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Speaker 1: in Chicago, and this has started to take over my life.

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Speaker 1: But now it's all I do for fun. Do you

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Speaker 1: see this as being a problem. If so, how can

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Speaker 1: I wean myself from my TV and this addiction so

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Speaker 1: that I can joy the holidays with my family and friends.

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Speaker 1: I'm sick of the jokes and remarks. Please help me.

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Speaker 1: Who is this strange man you speak about TV shows?

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Speaker 1: Social media page moved from Chicago to LA sounds like

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey to me. All right, we're kidding, we know

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Speaker 1: it's Steve Harvey. You're in love with Steve Harvey, Tommy Jay,

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Speaker 1: and Junior. I'm mad right now because you call them handsome,

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Speaker 1: but and you know they think they're all fine and

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Speaker 1: handsome in everything, but at least especially Tommy, at least

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Speaker 1: you said you weren't in love with him in a

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Speaker 1: sexual way, so they may be all right on that.

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Speaker 1: There are no twelve step programs to help you get

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Speaker 1: rid of your obsession with Steve Harvey, and yes it

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Speaker 1: is an obsession, and yes you do need some help.

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Speaker 1: So I'd say you're just gonna have to You're just

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Speaker 1: gonna have to figure out how to live with this situation.

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Speaker 1: I say you start off by listening to his radio show,

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Speaker 1: continuing to do that, you know, the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 1: Show starting at six am Eastern five Central where you are,

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Speaker 1: because you know that, with a healthy dose of his

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Speaker 1: talk show. Steve then follow that up with a nice

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Speaker 1: serving of family feud and celebrity family feud. And not

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Speaker 1: to mention, you wrote us just in time to catch

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Speaker 1: him on the Miss Universe pageant. Okay, so you're gonna

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Speaker 1: be busy over the holidays, girl. Basically, basically, Steve loves

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Speaker 1: his fans. Okay, he loves his fans. You're gonna be fine,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure glad that you know he's gonna respect

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Speaker 1: your loyalty because he is, but ps, please cut some

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Speaker 1: help because you are obsessed with him. You are. It

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Speaker 1: is getting a little out of control. But he does

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Speaker 1: love his fans, and we respect and love you too,

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Speaker 1: Steve Man of the moment. I need a whole I'm

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Speaker 1: in love with a married handsl deble Now, yeah, did

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Speaker 1: you just look off at anybody else? I'm show feeling

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Speaker 1: this right I'm feeling this right now. This is really

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Speaker 1: about me. He's married to a very beautiful woman, He's

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Speaker 1: got a beautiful family. Here doors greatly. I want to

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Speaker 1: be clear. I'm not in love with him in a

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Speaker 1: sexual way. I'm just in love with his TV show.

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Speaker 1: I'm totally hoop. I watch you every damn day. I

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Speaker 1: listened to him on the reader. I watched two shows

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Speaker 1: at a time because I have a fire stick. Well

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Speaker 1: I got a fire stick too, how about it, lady.

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Speaker 1: I DVR anything I miss and I follow all his

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Speaker 1: social media pages. I watch YouTube clips at work on

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Speaker 1: my break my friends now hear the keyword and my

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Speaker 1: husband yes, constantly tell me that the other shows on TV,

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Speaker 1: but not to me. When this show moved from Chicago

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Speaker 1: to LA I was heartbroken. It was too cold up there.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't take another damn vortech. You know it's cold

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Speaker 1: when they quit calling Nicole is hell and they rename

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Speaker 1: it to Vortex scientific. I hate that I never got

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Speaker 1: to see one of his shows live. Sometimes you have

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Speaker 1: to find things and thank God for you ever had

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Speaker 1: to thank God for something you ain't know nothing about?

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Speaker 1: One of them? I hate that I never got to

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Speaker 1: see one of his TV shows in Chicago. See how

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Speaker 1: God keep giving you reason to thank you. That wall

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Speaker 1: is start to take over my life and now it's

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Speaker 1: all I do for fun? Do you see that's as

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Speaker 1: being a problem. I do, Yes, I absolutely. He calls

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Speaker 1: it the key word. And this whole thing for me

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Speaker 1: is my husband. I don't need his ass looking for me.

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Speaker 1: How can I ween myself from his TV show in

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Speaker 1: this addiction so I can enjoy the holidays with my

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Speaker 1: family and friends. I'm sick of the jokes and the remarks.

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Speaker 1: Please help, I just see divorce happening. Really, y'all gonna

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Speaker 1: survive because I show know how you feeling about that? Dude,

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Speaker 1: You just try that's all handsome, I'm saying. I do

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Speaker 1: things like that, all right, Steve hold on, Okay, I know, right,

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Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming on you

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Speaker 1: hold on, you come on, married handsome debonair ball man.

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Speaker 1: We'll be right back right after this. You're listening to,

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Speaker 1: come on Steve with part two of your response. Subject,

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Speaker 1: I ain't o recap. She just strong. That's all strong out,

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Speaker 1: a little strong. You know, got a little thing going on.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know it's what I do. You know,

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Speaker 1: I'm so solid are you talking about? You know? Sometimes

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Speaker 1: I try to turn it off, but it just drips.

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Speaker 1: See what's your favorite line in this whole letter? Handle

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Speaker 1: devil nail ball man. That right, that that just says

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Speaker 1: it all. Handsome man, devil nare girl. I ain't never

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Speaker 1: been there before. I got to drink. I'm a handsome

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Speaker 1: man devil now, but then lit a cigar man, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I can't. That's what handsome devil nair men do, Junior. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: I'm Will's most interesting man. I drink del sucking. I'm

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Speaker 1: the black dude now. I took over. I'm will most

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Speaker 1: interested man. Yeah, man, So it's just all that. You know,

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Speaker 1: we just in here just trying to make it ain't

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Speaker 1: really I tried. JA don't go down. You just don't

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Speaker 1: go down. It's just try yeah, full blast the time.

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Speaker 1: Dog dog. It's like I'm wanted eyes on your stober broke.

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Speaker 1: he ain't even got no Simon. It's just off and

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Speaker 1: hot o. Tommy's quite every since she says you were hands.

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Speaker 1: Tommy ain't said nothing. Well, Tommy thought it was him

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Speaker 1: to me. Tommy ain't never heard it that before. So

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Speaker 1: it's a real shocking the hem. Yeah, he could have

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Speaker 1: been tight. What do you want? I mean, you haven't

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Speaker 1: said anything. She called your uncle Hanson and Devin Air.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I thought you knew you don't want to

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Speaker 1: say name. I'm saying watched TV all day. I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to. I didn't want to say that about the lady.

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Speaker 1: The lady blind and she watched TV or listening to

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Speaker 1: YouTube all day. Okay, let that lady have that. You

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Speaker 1: understand that I had that blind people. Well, you know, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: she might be blind, but she can hear good. And

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Speaker 1: I didn't hear your name in this letter. Not now.

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Speaker 1: Damn you on the radio. Yeah you got a TV show,

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Speaker 1: you got TV show. I understand the ball hid it,

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Speaker 1: Yes I am, But I want it stopped at Chicago.

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Speaker 1: When she said Chicago, I was glad because I was out.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you was out at Handsome Devil. Let No,

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to tell you that that's how you

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Speaker 1: knew it wasn't about blind later touching the TV feeling

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Speaker 1: you boys stop that. Yeah, but she Tommy, stop Tommy

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Speaker 1: listening though blind or not, you ain't got one of

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Speaker 1: these letters. I've had one of these before anybody. Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know they're my letters. I've never heard

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Speaker 1: Handsome debonair in reference to you tell me I have.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I heard from your mouth. I'm gonna stop this.

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Speaker 1: Am I Handsome Debonair shirt? He don't know. I'm not

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Speaker 1: asking shirt. He's saying that I'm not talking about He's

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Speaker 1: not blind, you know, wild the best kind of way, Julian.

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Speaker 1: You don't like who, you like? You comparing yourself to who.

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Speaker 1: Let's let your uncle have this. Go on, man, go on,

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Speaker 1: devil now, I know, man, just gonna a man. Don't

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Speaker 1: let him bother and bothering him because he's normally he

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Speaker 1: would have said something by now that's his first time

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Speaker 1: being devil. Now let me say that. Hold on time,

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Speaker 1: it's a whole lot of ways to take you out.

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Speaker 1: Just let him, handsome, let me, let me just go

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Speaker 1: through the letter handsome devil. Now, Oh, I'm just saying

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Speaker 1: That takes y'all. I listened to him daily on the radio.

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Speaker 1: That ain't you because you missed so many Damn. I

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Speaker 1: time because I got a fire stick. You don't need

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Speaker 1: a five stick with your career. That was low. I'm

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Speaker 1: going low. You ain't. Ain't no human on the high road.

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Speaker 1: Oh you wanna think this Michelle Obama concert. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: when when they go when they go low, we go high.

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Speaker 1: Now now you go lower. I'm down. I guess which

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Speaker 1: Oh we gullet Washington. But she did say that she

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Speaker 1: felt good to be in the same city with you, Steve,

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Speaker 1: when you were in Chicago. She lives in a Chicago

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Speaker 1: and I thank God for that. Now she said she'd

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Speaker 1: But what is you though? You? Yeah, Devia, now, but

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Speaker 1: shot in here, but you should feel She called him handsome,

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Speaker 1: but she says she's not in love with him in

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Speaker 1: a sexual way. Though she did say that, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: but sure I can't take USTe right now. He doesn't

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Speaker 1: button on his shoes. What's your shirt? Just read the

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Speaker 1: let up if you don't see that? Up and devil

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Speaker 1: now six with you back and forth with you live

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Speaker 1: in my bath life. She was really heartbroken though, when

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Speaker 1: you moved from Chicago out here to lay Yeah, well

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I missed the city. I missed the people,

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Speaker 1: I missed the restaurants. I do not miss that Chicago.

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Speaker 1: I'm just right the winter it is. I grew up

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Speaker 1: in it. It is Chicago did something to me. All

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Speaker 1: y'all want to school and in it? Oh yeah, but

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Speaker 1: if you're born in it, you know it's all you know,

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Speaker 1: that's all you know. Yeah, how'd you go to school?

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Speaker 1: All right? We gotta go email us your Instagram us

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on today. Strawberry letter, my bike was always broken.

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