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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fredshell.

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Speaker 1: Hey Todd, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 2: How are you. I'm well and doing okay.

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Speaker 1: Man, what's going on with Alexis? We gotta know kind

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Speaker 1: of how you met, not kind of. I gotta know

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Speaker 1: how you met, about any dates you've been on and

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Speaker 1: in any details, and why do you think you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 3: Well, so I met this and so yes, her name

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Speaker 3: is Alexis. She's one of the most beautiful women I've

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Speaker 3: ever met, and we met unhinged. I sent her a

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Speaker 3: rose and she responded.

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Speaker 1: And for the people who don't know him in the

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Speaker 1: way the rose, you get one rose a week on

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Speaker 1: the hinds and then you get you can buy them

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Speaker 1: and so that it's like an elevated like it's like

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Speaker 1: it's like if you get like unless you buy them

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Speaker 1: for like four bucks each, you got one a week.

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Speaker 1: So you send it to like if you really want

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Speaker 1: to it stands out like you go to the top

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Speaker 1: of the list, little rose next to it. So this man,

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Speaker 1: this man really liked her at least for the week. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: or unless you got a credit card and you put

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Speaker 1: in it, you buye a bunch of roses. But anyway, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so and so.

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Speaker 3: Then she responded and we messages back and forth a

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Speaker 3: little bit, and then we went out, and then we

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Speaker 3: went out twice and both and first time she after dinner,

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Speaker 3: she came back to my place and we watched the

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Speaker 3: movie and we left on good term. She left on

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Speaker 3: good term. Second time around, she we went out and

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Speaker 3: then she came back, came back to my apartment and

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Speaker 3: we watched the movie and then we and then she

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Speaker 3: hung out and like I thought, I had a great time,

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Speaker 3: and I thought she did too, but I haven't. I

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Speaker 3: haven't heard from her since that was about two weeks ago.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean two days both back at your place.

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Speaker 1: I mean this all good stuff, Like I would think

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Speaker 1: this was going well, this is promising, and then to

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Speaker 1: be ghosted after that, I'm sure it's puzzling. And so

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Speaker 1: that's where we come in. We're gonna call this a lexus.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time, and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna try and get some info for you. At

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Speaker 1: some point you're welcome to jump in on the call.

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Speaker 1: But the hope is that we can straighten this out,

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Speaker 1: figure out what's going on. And then set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on a third date that we paid for. Sound good, Hey, Todd,

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call Alexis. You guys met on Hinge.

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Speaker 1: You said a minute ago she was the most beautiful

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Speaker 1: woman you ever seen, which that is really something. And

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Speaker 1: you gave her a rose on the app, which is

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Speaker 1: an elevated like I mean, this is serious. You went

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Speaker 1: on two dates, you thought both went well, both wound

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Speaker 1: up back at your place. He left on good terms.

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Speaker 1: Except you haven't heard from her for about two weeks,

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Speaker 1: and it's bugging you. How do we go from two

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Speaker 1: good dates to being ghosted? You want to know why?

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Speaker 2: That's right?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's call her now. Good luck, Todd? Hi

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Speaker 1: is this Alexis? Hi, Alexis, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show.

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Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the

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Speaker 1: radio right now, and I would need your permission to

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Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can whichat for just a second.

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Speaker 1: You can hang up anytime, okay, okay, good, thank you.

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Speaker 1: So we're calling on behalf of a guy named Todd

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Speaker 1: who reached out to us. Todd says that he met

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Speaker 1: you on a dating app and you guys went out

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Speaker 1: a couple of times.

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Speaker 2: You remember this guy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I remember Todd uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So he liked you, and he said he had

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Speaker 1: very nice things to say about you and was excited

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Speaker 1: about where things were going. But he says he hasn't

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Speaker 1: heard from you in a couple of weeks after two dates.

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Speaker 2: So what happened? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 4: So I guess I'll just shart from the beginning we met.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what he's told you, but like we

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Speaker 4: met on Hinge, we know that you okay, and like

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Speaker 4: I was excited because he was hot and he seemed

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Speaker 4: then like our first.

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Speaker 2: Date was great. I mean, the drinks were flowing.

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Speaker 4: I even asked if he like we could go hang

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Speaker 4: out in his place, you know, with dregs of wine.

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Speaker 4: We watched a movie, we played with his cat, and

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Speaker 4: I just left feeling like this could but really be something.

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Speaker 4: I was really excited about it. We go on our

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Speaker 4: second date that started off great too. We go to dinner,

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Speaker 4: but this time when we get back to his place,

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Speaker 4: like that's when things got weird. Okay, we're there, and

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Speaker 4: you know, after a bit, I realized I haven't seen

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Speaker 4: his cat, and I asked where the cat was, and

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Speaker 4: he goes, what do you mean, I don't have a cat?

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Speaker 4: And I started feeling like I was going crazy because

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Speaker 4: I know he has a cat. He has an orange

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Speaker 4: cat named Chloe. We literally played with her for half

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Speaker 4: an hour the last time I was there on our

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Speaker 4: first date, and things just kept getting weirder. He kept

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Speaker 4: it was so weird. It got to the point where

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Speaker 4: I just left and I thought I would never hear

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Speaker 4: for him again. So I'm shocked, like he doesn't know

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Speaker 4: why I'm not.

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Speaker 3: Calling him back.

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Speaker 1: So there was a cat on the first date. I

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Speaker 1: just want to make sure I'm completely clear on this.

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Speaker 1: And then on the second day there was no cat,

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Speaker 1: and not only have, but there was cat denial, right,

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Speaker 1: there's denial of the existence of a cat named Chloe

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Speaker 1: at any point. So so whatever happened on the first day,

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Speaker 1: you imagined that, did you guys do any kind of

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Speaker 1: LSD or mushrooms or anything.

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Speaker 2: I mean certain that there was a cat.

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Speaker 4: I'm certain two glasses of winds faced over hours, like

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Speaker 4: there was no there's no there was a hundred the

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Speaker 1: Okay, So your issue is why are you denying? Like

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Speaker 1: why why whatever happened on this first day? You're saying

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Speaker 1: it never happened and it's it's weird. Yeah, Well, let

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Speaker 1: me bring Todd and I forgot to mention that Todd

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Speaker 1: is here. Todd, what happened to the cat?

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Speaker 3: I don't have a cat?

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Speaker 2: What was the cat on the first day? Where where

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Speaker 2: did this cat come from?

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Speaker 1: Was a stray cat that just happened to me in

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean if I knew that, I guess I

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Speaker 3: would have acted differently if I knew that she wanted

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Speaker 3: have a cat.

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Speaker 1: So you're saying there was no cat in your home

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Speaker 1: on the first date, even though she's insisting there was

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Speaker 2: What is going along?

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've had roommates with cats. I grew up

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Speaker 2: Are you punking us? Who is bunking us?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 2: Where? So you're saying you've never had a cat.

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Speaker 1: There is not a cat in your house and there

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Speaker 1: has not been since the time that you met Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Wow. I mean if I had a cat you were,

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Speaker 3: wouldn't there be a little bar? Do you remember there

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Speaker 3: being a little bar when you came over?

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Speaker 1: If there was a cat in a house and not

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Speaker 1: searching for the litter, I assume there's.

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Speaker 2: A letter lot. What did you do with the cat? Like,

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Speaker 2: I'm worried about the cat?

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Speaker 1: Alexis you you're sure you're not confusing this with some

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Speaker 1: other hitch statement. You definitely you were at Todd's house

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Speaker 1: petting his cat.

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Speaker 4: This is so rare. He told me. It's named Chloe.

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Speaker 4: We literally for half an hour. This was not just

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Speaker 1: Okay, you have Okay, Todd, you have a cat. Where

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Speaker 1: is the cat?

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Speaker 3: Well? I mean it's I got a really good deal

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Speaker 3: to lose this apartment, and so I do not have

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Speaker 3: a cat because the landlord says I can't have a

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Speaker 3: cat or a dog for that matter, and so.

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Speaker 2: So you do have a cat.

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Speaker 1: We're just pretending we don't have a cat because you're

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Speaker 1: not supposed to have it. So now we're pretending. But

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Speaker 1: that doesn't answer the question as to where the cat

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Speaker 1: was on number two?

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Speaker 2: Was the cat avoiding your landlord?

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Speaker 1: Like? What was the cat out to dinner? Was the

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Speaker 1: someone else have custody of the cat?

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Speaker 3: I mean like I have this friend in Kensington name Morris,

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Speaker 3: and you know he want of the guys who walks

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Speaker 3: his cat with the cat?

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Speaker 2: I don't care about your friend. Where is Chloe? Where

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Speaker 2: is the cat?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what the cat there?

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Speaker 3: Because I mean it's possible that that like that was

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Speaker 3: on the on the count because okay, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Like a cat from the business.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what I honestly, I have a cat.

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Speaker 1: I feel like something is happening in my brain right now.

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Speaker 1: So all right, Alexis, look, he has he has a cat. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where the cat cat was in vacation.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'll ask the question. I know the answer, would you

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Speaker 1: like to go out with this guy again? And then

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Speaker 1: the people who are saying I'm being mean to Todd.

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Speaker 1: He hasn't he has a disappearing cat. Okay, he's not

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Speaker 2: I don't know what. It's weird. I'm confused. I don't

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Speaker 2: like it. I don't like the way that I feel

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I'm gonna go ahead and I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: get going now.

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Speaker 3: Alexis, thank you for I'm telling you.

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Speaker 1: You're not telling me anything, Todd. Nothing, not all right, Alexis.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your time. Todd.

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Speaker 2: Good luck,