WEBVTT - Second Date Update: French Air Kiss 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.360 It's a very special episode today because Jeffrey is in 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:08.039 our podcast Open What's Happened? It is where we open 0:00:08.080 --> 0:00:10.280 and we let everybody know it's a new episode today, 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:11.639 and then we go back and we read a couple 0:00:11.640 --> 0:00:14.360 of comments. But today, Jeff, we've got to tell everyone 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.000 that we've got another live video up on. 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:20.919 Our YouTube page. Yeah, I have a second day Well, 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:21.920 I mean that's what we call them. 0:00:21.960 --> 0:00:24.400 Okay, you know, they're like live to tape and then 0:00:24.400 --> 0:00:27.440 we put the recording up to don't complicate the. 0:00:28.120 --> 0:00:29.440 Yeah, sure it's a live video. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.400 You could see one of our second date updates happening 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:34.560 in the studio right now. 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.839 It is our second one and it's up on our 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:39.960 YouTube page. African Jeffrey, I think that's what Jeff meant 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:41.639 to say. Yeah, that's definitely what he meant. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:44.000 Ye, And it's great. People are loving it. What are 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:45.000 some of the comments coming? 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:45.159 In? 0:00:45.320 --> 0:00:46.120 More videos? 0:00:46.159 --> 0:00:47.560 Please let's go. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:50.879 I love this way better when it's a video and 0:00:50.880 --> 0:00:51.839 not a static image. 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:55.080 See our faces are an improvement, which is. 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.440 Oh this one the new thumbnail made me think this 0:00:57.520 --> 0:00:58.360 was a pirate account. 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:01.959 Yeah, you should probably report it just to be. 0:01:01.920 --> 0:01:06.040 Safe, all right, again, follow definitely at Brook and Jeffrey 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:08.479 please on YouTube and right now we're rolling out those 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:11.080 videos once a week, so hopefully we're going to ramp 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:12.520 that up and there's gonna be more of them soon. 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:16.440 But for today, go enjoys yesterday's and right now enjoy 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.559 this brand new second Date podcast live. 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:20.920 No, this one's we don't call it that. 0:01:20.959 --> 0:01:22.560 Oh okay, jeff you. 0:01:22.520 --> 0:01:26.360 Don't get it. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:27.360 Date Updates. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:34.039 In this busy, crazy, insane world, sometimes schedules just don't 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.320 match when it's time to pick a time. 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:36.959 For a first date. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:40.720 Seriously, that's why you got to be flexible. Like our 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:46.240 listener Danny, when the girl he went out with apparently suggested, Hey, why. 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:48.640 Don't I just tag along with you while you go 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:49.600 run errands? 0:01:50.200 --> 0:01:54.880 And he thinks that turned out pretty well according to 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:55.520 his email. 0:01:55.720 --> 0:01:57.480 Well that's interesting because he's on the phone with us. 0:01:57.840 --> 0:01:59.720 Well, yeah, that's a little bit of a flaw. He's 0:01:59.720 --> 0:02:01.800 not a callback, so we're going to try to help 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.440 him today. Please welcome to the show. 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:07.840 Danny, Hey Danny, Hey Danny. 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.679 Sorry we should have done I should have cued the applause. 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:12.760 But what's up? 0:02:12.800 --> 0:02:13.360 Guy. 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:16.120 Maybe he just wasn't responding because he's still multitasking. 0:02:16.639 --> 0:02:20.480 Oh you know the story now, yeah, to do this, 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:22.400 he's still in the middle of running your chores or 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:24.200 are you ready to talk to us? 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:25.760 No, I'm here, I'm good. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:28.880 Okay, check that one off the list. 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:31.720 So tell us about this woman that convinced you to 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:33.280 run errands with her. 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:38.200 Well, I matched with viv On Hinge and I've been 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:41.040 I've been on and off that app because I was 0:02:41.160 --> 0:02:44.720 actually catfished once before. It was it was real bad, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:47.280 So I had to take a couple of months off. Yeah, 0:02:47.280 --> 0:02:47.880 it was terrible. 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:50.480 You get your heart like excited about someone and they 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:51.000 weren't real. 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:53.080 That's so funny that you think. The first thing I 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:54.640 thought was how much money did you lose? 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:56.440 Oh? 0:02:56.520 --> 0:02:59.160 I really? Yeah? Scarred? Scarred? 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:01.279 Okay, while okay. 0:03:03.040 --> 0:03:05.560 So I got back out there and I'm matched with 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:10.720 this lovely girl, viv and we were chatting and she 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:12.520 asked if I had plans this weekend and I was 0:03:12.600 --> 0:03:14.520 kind of just joking around and I was like, I 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:16.400 got to hit up the Trader Joe's and She's like, oh, 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:18.320 oh my God, like can I go with you? 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:22.360 And it was cool always tell me about it. 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:24.400 So she came on your errands. 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:29.320 I was thinking it was the TJ's. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:32.359 Every girl perks up and they're like, absolutely, I want 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:32.799 to be there. 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:36.480 So you were like, yeah, I come with me grocery shopping, right, 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:37.560 So we met up. 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:39.760 We went grocery shopping and it was what it was. 0:03:39.800 --> 0:03:41.839 I got my groceries and we put them in my car, 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:45.600 but then also got some extra stuff because we decided 0:03:45.760 --> 0:03:47.240 just to go down the road a bit and do 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:52.440 a little picnic. We got some branded chips, got that 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:57.520 kettle corn, little delitray, you know all the goodies do They. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:59.040 Have this like olive dip that I love. 0:03:59.120 --> 0:03:59.280 There? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.240 You should have gotten some of that, but it has 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:05.080 like hunks of cheese. Anyway, But how did it go? 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:09.080 It went really good. Honestly, it was kind of the 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:12.520 most different, unique date that I've ever really been on. 0:04:13.120 --> 0:04:15.080 I figured we might do something after and I'm a 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.039 little bit of a nerd, so I brought little Lego 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:19.120 set to build just so we kept an activity. I 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:21.039 don't know, but we hung out. 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:22.320 What did you build? 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.039 It was just a little Star Wars. 0:04:25.040 --> 0:04:28.360 Actually, why am I picturing the Death Star? 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:28.560 Right? 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:33.280 Yeah? The five hundred dollars thousand dollars, lego set Hey, 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:34.080 the other. 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:34.520 Side of this we. 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:38.320 Planet right now. 0:04:38.400 --> 0:04:40.680 Hold on, you built it? Did you let her take 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:41.160 it with her? 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:44.240 I kept it, She didn't ask. I don't think that 0:04:44.360 --> 0:04:47.320 was the idy of the issue. The only thing, so 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.440 this is why I'm calling y'all is because at one 0:04:49.520 --> 0:04:52.960 point she had to use the park restroom and she 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:56.240 walked off and she looked back at me. We don't know. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:05:02.040 For some reason, I blew her a kiss. We were 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:05.560 having we were having the picnic thing. The vibe was there, No, 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:08.400 and then she then she turned back again and I 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:13.159 then I did it again, you second time, and she 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:17.839 didn't blow back. She didn't blow back. 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:21.599 Had you really like, actually kissed her before this or 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:25.080 this is your first step to kissing? 0:05:25.440 --> 0:05:29.480 No? No, But we're still continued with our afternoon, and 0:05:29.640 --> 0:05:31.960 at the end of it, I went for it and 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:34.160 I did give her a kiss, and it landed in 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:34.680 real life. 0:05:34.760 --> 0:05:38.839 Okay, okay, So she didn't they cringe too much from 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:40.000 seeing you blow a kiss. 0:05:40.040 --> 0:05:44.080 There's just something about blowing blowing It's just not sex. 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.479 I know, I know, as long as there was no 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:48.640 tongue in the air, kiss. 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:49.520 I think this is sound. 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.840 That is interesting. I never thought about a friend a 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:55.200 French air kiss. 0:05:55.320 --> 0:05:57.320 Yeah, it could be romantic. 0:05:57.839 --> 0:06:01.520 Oh, someone's gonna try that, all right, So good thing 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.320 you left it with an actual mouth to mouth kiss. 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:06.920 That went. Well. What's happened since. 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:08.760 I just tried to I tried to reach out to 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:12.040 her and she hasn't returned any of my tex I'm 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:14.800 just unsure where we're at right now. 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:18.120 I feel like after your first experience of that terrible 0:06:18.160 --> 0:06:20.720 catfish like getting ghosted is not what you need right 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.120 now after being on the apps. 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:23.520 Nod. 0:06:24.279 --> 0:06:27.000 Yeah, yeah, it sounds like you're doing a good job though, 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.520 Like that was creative, it was spontaneous, which is fun. 0:06:31.120 --> 0:06:33.760 There was some flirting, a good kiss, like we got 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:34.440 a lot to work with. 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.160 Yeah, I'm optimistic when we come back and we call 0:06:37.320 --> 0:06:39.520 Viv for you, try to get you your second date up, 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.760 damn it. Give you a little good luck forehead kiss 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:42.559 before we start. 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:45.720 Just that's also not. 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.039 I didn't even put tongue on it. Bro, I don't 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:53.800 even know lick is for her for good luck. We'll 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:55.560 see how it goes when we come back and get 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:56.480 you your second date. 0:06:56.560 --> 0:06:58.320 Update right after this hold. 0:06:58.160 --> 0:07:01.200 On brooking Jeffrey in the morning updates. 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:08.760 One date, three kisses, two of them air kisses without tongue, 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:12.280 one of them a mouth kiss tongue questionable. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.160 I don't think we need to go real hard on 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.000 whether or not what the tongue was doing. 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:18.240 Let's just leave that. 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:21.840 We're not that deep of investigative reporters. Although I'm kind 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:22.800 of sad. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:26.320 Yeah, but our listener Danny took his date viv to 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:31.840 Trader Joe's and turned grocery shopping into a little cute 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:33.239 picnic in a nearby park. 0:07:33.400 --> 0:07:35.320 I mean, it's actually a pretty romantic date. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:37.120 Yeah. 0:07:37.160 --> 0:07:39.800 He was even considered enough to bring an activity for 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:42.880 them to do, a lego Star Wars set that they 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:43.840 could build together. 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:45.080 I think that's so cute. 0:07:45.200 --> 0:07:47.600 And then at the end, when she asked politely to 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.520 have it, he ripped it out of her hands and said. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:50.880 He's got. 0:07:52.680 --> 0:07:53.360 I'm just kidding. 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:54.960 She never asked for it. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:55.880 She didn't want it. 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.840 Yeah, and apparently she didn't want Danny either, because she 0:07:58.920 --> 0:08:02.240 has not returned any of his calls or his texts. 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:04.320 No, I just picture him sitting by himself right now 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.160 on the other end of the phone. Holding his lego 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:07.080 Star Wars set. 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.840 You got your Star Wars set nearby you, Danny. 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:14.040 Look, it was an a RC one seventy Starfighter. It 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:15.760 was pretty complicated to put together. 0:08:16.040 --> 0:08:18.280 I think my eight year old son built that one 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:19.240 a couple of months ago. 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:22.880 About okay, So if we can't get you a romantic 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:24.680 date with Viv, we could at least get you a 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:25.920 playdate with books Sun. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:26.640 Yeah. 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:28.880 Yeah, no, but he's got to be a smart kid, 0:08:28.920 --> 0:08:30.400 because I was pretty complicated. 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:38.440 No, he does the fifteen plus lego shouts No, the 0:08:38.559 --> 0:08:40.240 age is fifteen pluss. 0:08:40.400 --> 0:08:43.320 It's not quite a man yet, is he. Anyway, let's 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.000 try and reach out to Viv here. We'll see if 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:48.080 she answers the phone and hopefully has an explanation for 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:49.280 why she's not responding. 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:50.400 Are you ready, Danny? 0:08:51.360 --> 0:08:52.520 I'm as ready as I can be. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:09:03.840 Wrere we go. Hello. Hey, is this Viv? 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:05.560 Yes? 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:08.240 Is this hey Viv. This is a radio show called 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:09.480 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:12.320 Sorry, if you're busy. You sound a little busy. 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:13.760 I am. 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:15.600 What's going on? 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:18.560 This is something that we do on our show. We 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:19.959 hope you can be a part of it. It's called 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:21.120 a second Date Update. 0:09:21.520 --> 0:09:24.120 It's kind of flattering, honestly to be featured on it. 0:09:24.720 --> 0:09:27.559 I mean, somebody likes you and is excited about you. 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.560 Yeah, we're trying to hyper. 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:30.920 Up ye, really trying to sell you on this. 0:09:31.400 --> 0:09:31.600 Yeah. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.400 So we reach out to somebody to try and figure 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:37.760 out if there's a reason they're not calling the other 0:09:37.880 --> 0:09:39.520 person back after a date. 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.160 And today we're doing that for a guy named Danny. 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:48.679 Danny, Yeah, because Danny told us about your date, and 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:52.360 the interesting part about it to me was that you 0:09:52.400 --> 0:09:55.160 guys had a kiss at the end, right before you left. 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.320 I'm going to jump right into that part of it. 0:09:57.360 --> 0:09:59.080 Well, that's the most interesting part that there would be 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.440 a kiss at the end of and then you still 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:04.840 wouldn't be like responding to him at all. I'm just 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:08.760 reading the signals, and I didn't think that he was interested. 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.640 What's which you possibly are we talking about the same guy? 0:10:12.800 --> 0:10:14.720 What signals are you reading? 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:18.880 The day after our date, I went to his dating 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:22.840 profile and he was updating it, like his pictures and bios. 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:26.840 So like, that tells me he's doing that for someone else. 0:10:27.120 --> 0:10:29.840 But it's not like you deleted your dating profile. You 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:32.120 were still on there enough to be able to see. 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:36.360 His Yeah, but like, I'm not doing an overhaul of 0:10:36.400 --> 0:10:37.679 my profile. 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.160 Like, Okay, what is he updating overhauling? What do you 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:40.560 mean by that? 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:44.720 I'm like his pictures, even his bio. 0:10:45.240 --> 0:10:47.040 I guess I could see what she's saying, Like, it's 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:49.520 a mixed signal when you go out with someone one 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.120 day and then the next morning you're changing everything on 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.120 your profile trying. 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:54.800 To get new matches. 0:10:55.160 --> 0:10:58.600 But before we start making assumptions about what that means, 0:10:58.720 --> 0:11:00.920 like didn't you have a great time with them? It 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.360 sounds like you really wanted to see him again, and 0:11:03.440 --> 0:11:06.280 even like maybe saw yourself in a relationship with him. 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:08.080 Yeah, I did. 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:10.600 I had a great time, which is why I was 0:11:10.640 --> 0:11:12.800 a little confused. 0:11:13.360 --> 0:11:15.320 Too much, because is that the only thing? 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:18.160 Yeah, I mean, I don't think it's reading into it 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:21.160 too much. Dating is trash, and. 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.640 But the interesting piece is that he's had the same 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:31.320 terrible experiences you have, Like he just finally got back 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.480 on the dating app because it had been so. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:34.600 Awful for him. 0:11:35.440 --> 0:11:37.920 And if you're into reading signals about whether or not 0:11:37.960 --> 0:11:40.679 he's interested, I would say it's a pretty strong signal 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.680 that he's asked this radio show to reach out to 0:11:42.720 --> 0:11:46.040 you and maybe even stronger that he's been waiting on 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.720 the other line, wanting to jump in and speak to 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:49.440 you romance. 0:11:51.360 --> 0:12:00.240 He's on the other line. Yeah, I think so we 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:03.240 forgot to ask about that. I'm kind of glad we didn't. Danny, 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:03.760 are you there? 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.680 Hey, yeah, I'm I'm here. 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.640 Could you understand what Vivi is talking about. Why it's 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:14.240 a red flag that you're immediately updating your dating profile. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:19.120 Well, it's totally not like that. Actually, I didn't update 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:23.080 my profile to get more girls. I honestly I did 0:12:23.080 --> 0:12:27.920 that for my mom. What that sounds really bad? 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:28.840 How did you make it wor? 0:12:29.200 --> 0:12:33.240 No? No, my mom is on the app too, because 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:36.800 I don't do Facebook or other social medias and she 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:40.559 doesn't have Instagram. We don't live close, and it's really 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.000 the only way that we can keep up with each other. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.360 So I just wanted her to have a new pick. 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:49.839 You don't need a lie, man, Praying to God, that's 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:50.280 a lie. 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:53.120 I'm not lying. That's how I keep in touch with her, 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:54.320 That's how she knows what I'm doing. 0:12:54.480 --> 0:12:57.079 I'm sorry, But doesn't it mean if she's going to 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:59.720 see you like your stuff and what you're doing. Doesn't 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:03.080 she you have to like match with you on the 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:05.439 dating app, keep you in her algorithm. 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:07.640 Yeah, I mean it doesn't mean that you're actually romantic 0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:08.040 with someone. 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:08.559 Are you talking? 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.880 It's my mom. It's my mom. And that's just a technicality. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.240 It's the only way that she She's always wanted me 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:19.000 to sender picks and look at my profile. 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:20.760 Well, and I gotta I gotta get on my tender 0:13:20.760 --> 0:13:22.200 and send my mom a pick real quick. 0:13:23.400 --> 0:13:27.080 So is that how you guys communicate within the dating 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:29.040 app instead of via text? 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.600 It's just like what I said, like, this is how 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:33.959 we communicate. Okay, that's what we do. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:36.560 I look at that. It makes sense. 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.120 He wasn't trying to get other women. He was just 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:41.679 trying to show his mom what a fun life he had. 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:45.000 Yeah, you're saying, awfully quiet, I'm curious what's going through 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:45.520 your mind? 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:50.360 She are actually believing this? I still it's so it'd. 0:13:50.240 --> 0:13:52.960 Be worse to make this a lie. 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.240 One of those so creative, Like how would you think 0:13:56.280 --> 0:13:58.920 of this? The lie? Creative is a very generous word 0:13:59.320 --> 0:13:59.959 for what's happened. 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:04.280 Oh here, I'm being completely serious. I didn't match with 0:14:04.320 --> 0:14:06.760 my mom, but it's honestly just for the pick. She 0:14:06.920 --> 0:14:09.560 likes to know my hobbies and what I'm doing. It's 0:14:09.559 --> 0:14:14.000 not weird. I'm not. I'm not so it's weird. Is 0:14:14.040 --> 0:14:18.560 your mom also dating on the hinge like she does 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:19.280 her own thing? 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:23.640 Yeah's your thing? 0:14:23.920 --> 0:14:29.160 Like if she shouldn't do Hinge, she can do Instagram 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:30.800 Like that is so weird. 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:33.680 It does feel like you'd be able to teach her 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:37.400 how to use another more appropriate social media platform for 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:38.960 communicating with parents. 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:40.840 We could go back and forth on what his mom 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.160 should do and shouldn't do. The whole point was viv 0:14:43.240 --> 0:14:45.680 thought that he was interested in other women, and he's 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:46.400 obviously not. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:48.200 He obviously wants to date. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:50.920 You know, but he's still matching with his mom. 0:14:50.720 --> 0:14:54.960 On the dating parents on social media as a whole other. 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:58.920 Yeah, it's not just my mom, it's my dad too. 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:01.960 He lives in a completeletly different state. They're not together, 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:04.760 and he's been trying to match with dudes to find me. 0:15:05.640 --> 0:15:06.360 Take it forever. 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:10.240 It's a very open family. Yeah, we're not. 0:15:10.320 --> 0:15:11.160 Dating each other. 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:16.720 Okay, he's just trying to match with you familiar. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.280 Whatever. It's what he's doing. 0:15:19.400 --> 0:15:21.760 But is it it's just weird because you could be 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:25.000 actively cheating on your girlfriend and say, oh, I'm just 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:26.120 on here for my parents. 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.080 Yeah, if you end up in a relationship with Viv, 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:31.840 I think Jeff's right, you're gonna have to find a different. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:33.440 Form of communication for your mom. 0:15:33.920 --> 0:15:36.520 Yeah, but no, I don't know. In my mind, even 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:39.560 if I get married, I'm still gonna have my dating 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:43.960 bio and picks up for my mom. 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:45.400 It's just easier way. 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:50.360 That's a word wedding photos on there though, so people 0:15:50.400 --> 0:15:54.120 will know that you. Actually, I really thought your answer 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:55.960 is gonna be like, yeah, obviously. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.720 He's hardline, hinged for life. 0:16:00.240 --> 0:16:02.960 Okay, Hey, that's a different well Okay, I was trying. 0:16:03.360 --> 0:16:04.760 That's the conclusion here, guys. 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:08.120 It really comes down to Viv's conclusion. Because we would 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.120 like to offer to send you on another date with Danny. 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:14.040 If you're open to giving him one more chance, we 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:15.400 would pay for it. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:20.600 Here's the thing. I believe him because I've met him. However, 0:16:21.360 --> 0:16:24.560 I don't know if I could handle like the lack 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:28.040 of boundaries, Like there are so many other. 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.680 Ways to communicate other than her being on hinge. 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:35.360 But you don't get it. She's on hinge all the time. 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:36.880 This is how we talk. 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:40.040 Oh so that's where you're competing for your mother's attention 0:16:40.280 --> 0:16:40.680 with all. 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:44.680 This is more out of convenience. 0:16:44.920 --> 0:16:48.240 Yeah, okay, well all that could be done by text. 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:49.840 I don't know. I'm sorry. 0:16:50.520 --> 0:16:53.480 You know, Viv, we tried to make this happen, but 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:55.120 it's sounding like it's a no from. 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.200 You and Danny. 0:16:56.240 --> 0:17:00.080 You're not willing to abandon your mom online unmatchre Okay. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:03.000 You know, any chick that is gonna ask me to 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:06.199 choose between her and my mom, it's just not going 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:11.560 to end. Well, there's no way in their boundaries rights. 0:17:12.560 --> 0:17:15.320 Brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:18.040 I didn't bring it up to Danny, but this is 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.679 totally something my mom would want to do. 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:22.919 She'd want to imagine you want to. 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:25.560 Do, she would do hundred percent. 0:17:25.680 --> 0:17:28.840 Want to go on JAD find me, take a few 0:17:28.880 --> 0:17:32.080 screenshots and put it into my family newsletter for all 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:33.600 my aunts and uncles to see. 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:37.399 Like, look, there's jeff He likes the outdoors. He's into 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.680 bird play and inflatables. 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.600 Yeah, what a big boy. 0:17:41.640 --> 0:17:42.919 He's growing up so quickly. 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:44.760 On Facebook. 0:17:44.880 --> 0:17:47.440 Oh yeah, everybody would see jd profile. 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:48.520 You may be up there. 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:52.360 She has made you profiles before without your know that's true. 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:54.280 I haven't gone in check to see how many more 0:17:54.320 --> 0:17:57.159