Speaker 1: It's a very special episode today because Jeffrey is in
Speaker 1: our podcast Open What's Happened? It is where we open
Speaker 1: and we let everybody know it's a new episode today,
Speaker 1: and then we go back and we read a couple
Speaker 1: of comments. But today, Jeff, we've got to tell everyone
Speaker 1: that we've got another live video up on.
Speaker 2: Our YouTube page. Yeah, I have a second day Well,
Speaker 2: I mean that's what we call them.
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, they're like live to tape and then
Speaker 1: we put the recording up to don't complicate the.
Speaker 3: Yeah, sure it's a live video.
Speaker 1: You could see one of our second date updates happening
Speaker 1: in the studio right now.
Speaker 2: It is our second one and it's up on our
Speaker 2: YouTube page. African Jeffrey, I think that's what Jeff meant
Speaker 2: to say. Yeah, that's definitely what he meant.
Speaker 1: Ye, And it's great. People are loving it. What are
Speaker 1: some of the comments coming?
Speaker 4: In?
Speaker 2: More videos?
Speaker 3: Please let's go.
Speaker 1: I love this way better when it's a video and
Speaker 1: not a static image.
Speaker 2: See our faces are an improvement, which is.
Speaker 1: Oh this one the new thumbnail made me think this
Speaker 1: was a pirate account.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you should probably report it just to be.
Speaker 1: Safe, all right, again, follow definitely at Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: please on YouTube and right now we're rolling out those
Speaker 1: videos once a week, so hopefully we're going to ramp
Speaker 1: that up and there's gonna be more of them soon.
Speaker 1: But for today, go enjoys yesterday's and right now enjoy
Speaker 1: this brand new second Date podcast live.
Speaker 2: No, this one's we don't call it that.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, jeff you.
Speaker 1: Don't get it. Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second
Speaker 1: Date Updates.
Speaker 5: In this busy, crazy, insane world, sometimes schedules just don't
Speaker 5: match when it's time to pick a time.
Speaker 3: For a first date.
Speaker 5: Seriously, that's why you got to be flexible. Like our
Speaker 5: listener Danny, when the girl he went out with apparently suggested, Hey, why.
Speaker 3: Don't I just tag along with you while you go
Speaker 3: run errands?
Speaker 5: And he thinks that turned out pretty well according to
Speaker 5: his email.
Speaker 2: Well that's interesting because he's on the phone with us.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, that's a little bit of a flaw. He's
Speaker 5: not a callback, so we're going to try to help
Speaker 5: him today. Please welcome to the show.
Speaker 2: Danny, Hey Danny, Hey Danny.
Speaker 3: Sorry we should have done I should have cued the applause.
Speaker 4: But what's up?
Speaker 3: Guy.
Speaker 2: Maybe he just wasn't responding because he's still multitasking.
Speaker 5: Oh you know the story now, yeah, to do this,
Speaker 5: he's still in the middle of running your chores or
Speaker 5: are you ready to talk to us?
Speaker 4: No, I'm here, I'm good.
Speaker 2: Okay, check that one off the list.
Speaker 5: So tell us about this woman that convinced you to
Speaker 5: run errands with her.
Speaker 4: Well, I matched with viv On Hinge and I've been
Speaker 4: I've been on and off that app because I was
Speaker 4: actually catfished once before. It was it was real bad,
Speaker 4: So I had to take a couple of months off. Yeah,
Speaker 4: it was terrible.
Speaker 5: You get your heart like excited about someone and they
Speaker 5: weren't real.
Speaker 1: That's so funny that you think. The first thing I
Speaker 1: thought was how much money did you lose?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: I really? Yeah? Scarred? Scarred?
Speaker 2: Okay, while okay.
Speaker 4: So I got back out there and I'm matched with
Speaker 4: this lovely girl, viv and we were chatting and she
Speaker 4: asked if I had plans this weekend and I was
Speaker 4: kind of just joking around and I was like, I
Speaker 4: got to hit up the Trader Joe's and She's like, oh,
Speaker 4: oh my God, like can I go with you?
Speaker 5: And it was cool always tell me about it.
Speaker 2: So she came on your errands.
Speaker 1: I was thinking it was the TJ's.
Speaker 5: Every girl perks up and they're like, absolutely, I want
Speaker 5: to be there.
Speaker 2: So you were like, yeah, I come with me grocery shopping, right,
Speaker 2: So we met up.
Speaker 4: We went grocery shopping and it was what it was.
Speaker 4: I got my groceries and we put them in my car,
Speaker 4: but then also got some extra stuff because we decided
Speaker 4: just to go down the road a bit and do
Speaker 4: a little picnic. We got some branded chips, got that
Speaker 4: kettle corn, little delitray, you know all the goodies do They.
Speaker 2: Have this like olive dip that I love.
Speaker 1: There?
Speaker 2: You should have gotten some of that, but it has
Speaker 2: like hunks of cheese. Anyway, But how did it go?
Speaker 4: It went really good. Honestly, it was kind of the
Speaker 4: most different, unique date that I've ever really been on.
Speaker 4: I figured we might do something after and I'm a
Speaker 4: little bit of a nerd, so I brought little Lego
Speaker 4: set to build just so we kept an activity. I
Speaker 4: don't know, but we hung out.
Speaker 3: What did you build?
Speaker 4: It was just a little Star Wars.
Speaker 3: Actually, why am I picturing the Death Star?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah? The five hundred dollars thousand dollars, lego set Hey,
Speaker 1: the other.
Speaker 2: Side of this we.
Speaker 3: Planet right now.
Speaker 2: Hold on, you built it? Did you let her take
Speaker 2: it with her?
Speaker 4: I kept it, She didn't ask. I don't think that
Speaker 4: was the idy of the issue. The only thing, so
Speaker 4: this is why I'm calling y'all is because at one
Speaker 4: point she had to use the park restroom and she
Speaker 4: walked off and she looked back at me. We don't know.
Speaker 4: For some reason, I blew her a kiss. We were
Speaker 4: having we were having the picnic thing. The vibe was there, No,
Speaker 4: and then she then she turned back again and I
Speaker 4: then I did it again, you second time, and she
Speaker 4: didn't blow back. She didn't blow back.
Speaker 5: Had you really like, actually kissed her before this or
Speaker 5: this is your first step to kissing?
Speaker 4: No? No, But we're still continued with our afternoon, and
Speaker 4: at the end of it, I went for it and
Speaker 4: I did give her a kiss, and it landed in
Speaker 4: real life.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So she didn't they cringe too much from
Speaker 1: seeing you blow a kiss.
Speaker 2: There's just something about blowing blowing It's just not sex.
Speaker 5: I know, I know, as long as there was no
Speaker 5: tongue in the air, kiss.
Speaker 3: I think this is sound.
Speaker 2: That is interesting. I never thought about a friend a
Speaker 2: French air kiss.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it could be romantic.
Speaker 5: Oh, someone's gonna try that, all right, So good thing
Speaker 5: you left it with an actual mouth to mouth kiss.
Speaker 3: That went. Well. What's happened since.
Speaker 4: I just tried to I tried to reach out to
Speaker 4: her and she hasn't returned any of my tex I'm
Speaker 4: just unsure where we're at right now.
Speaker 1: I feel like after your first experience of that terrible
Speaker 1: catfish like getting ghosted is not what you need right
Speaker 1: now after being on the apps.
Speaker 3: Nod.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sounds like you're doing a good job though,
Speaker 1: Like that was creative, it was spontaneous, which is fun.
Speaker 2: There was some flirting, a good kiss, like we got
Speaker 2: a lot to work with.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm optimistic when we come back and we call
Speaker 5: Viv for you, try to get you your second date up,
Speaker 5: damn it. Give you a little good luck forehead kiss
Speaker 5: before we start.
Speaker 2: Just that's also not.
Speaker 5: I didn't even put tongue on it. Bro, I don't
Speaker 5: even know lick is for her for good luck. We'll
Speaker 5: see how it goes when we come back and get
Speaker 5: you your second date.
Speaker 3: Update right after this hold.
Speaker 2: On brooking Jeffrey in the morning updates.
Speaker 5: One date, three kisses, two of them air kisses without tongue,
Speaker 5: one of them a mouth kiss tongue questionable.
Speaker 1: I don't think we need to go real hard on
Speaker 1: whether or not what the tongue was doing.
Speaker 2: Let's just leave that.
Speaker 3: We're not that deep of investigative reporters. Although I'm kind
Speaker 3: of sad.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but our listener Danny took his date viv to
Speaker 5: Trader Joe's and turned grocery shopping into a little cute
Speaker 5: picnic in a nearby park.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's actually a pretty romantic date.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: He was even considered enough to bring an activity for
Speaker 5: them to do, a lego Star Wars set that they
Speaker 5: could build together.
Speaker 2: I think that's so cute.
Speaker 5: And then at the end, when she asked politely to
Speaker 5: have it, he ripped it out of her hands and said.
Speaker 2: He's got.
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.
Speaker 2: She never asked for it.
Speaker 3: She didn't want it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and apparently she didn't want Danny either, because she
Speaker 5: has not returned any of his calls or his texts.
Speaker 1: No, I just picture him sitting by himself right now
Speaker 1: on the other end of the phone. Holding his lego
Speaker 1: Star Wars set.
Speaker 3: You got your Star Wars set nearby you, Danny.
Speaker 4: Look, it was an a RC one seventy Starfighter. It
Speaker 4: was pretty complicated to put together.
Speaker 2: I think my eight year old son built that one
Speaker 2: a couple of months ago.
Speaker 5: About okay, So if we can't get you a romantic
Speaker 5: date with Viv, we could at least get you a
Speaker 5: playdate with books Sun.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, but he's got to be a smart kid,
Speaker 4: because I was pretty complicated.
Speaker 2: No, he does the fifteen plus lego shouts No, the
Speaker 2: age is fifteen pluss.
Speaker 5: It's not quite a man yet, is he. Anyway, let's
Speaker 5: try and reach out to Viv here. We'll see if
Speaker 5: she answers the phone and hopefully has an explanation for
Speaker 5: why she's not responding.
Speaker 3: Are you ready, Danny?
Speaker 4: I'm as ready as I can be.
Speaker 3: Wrere we go. Hello. Hey, is this Viv?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 3: Is this hey Viv. This is a radio show called
Speaker 3: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Sorry, if you're busy. You sound a little busy.
Speaker 4: I am.
Speaker 3: What's going on?
Speaker 5: This is something that we do on our show. We
Speaker 5: hope you can be a part of it. It's called
Speaker 5: a second Date Update.
Speaker 1: It's kind of flattering, honestly to be featured on it.
Speaker 1: I mean, somebody likes you and is excited about you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're trying to hyper.
Speaker 3: Up ye, really trying to sell you on this.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So we reach out to somebody to try and figure
Speaker 5: out if there's a reason they're not calling the other
Speaker 5: person back after a date.
Speaker 3: And today we're doing that for a guy named Danny.
Speaker 5: Danny, Yeah, because Danny told us about your date, and
Speaker 5: the interesting part about it to me was that you
Speaker 5: guys had a kiss at the end, right before you left.
Speaker 2: I'm going to jump right into that part of it.
Speaker 5: Well, that's the most interesting part that there would be
Speaker 5: a kiss at the end of and then you still
Speaker 5: wouldn't be like responding to him at all. I'm just
Speaker 5: reading the signals, and I didn't think that he was interested.
Speaker 1: What's which you possibly are we talking about the same guy?
Speaker 3: What signals are you reading?
Speaker 4: The day after our date, I went to his dating
Speaker 4: profile and he was updating it, like his pictures and bios.
Speaker 3: So like, that tells me he's doing that for someone else.
Speaker 1: But it's not like you deleted your dating profile. You
Speaker 1: were still on there enough to be able to see.
Speaker 4: His Yeah, but like, I'm not doing an overhaul of
Speaker 4: my profile.
Speaker 3: Like, Okay, what is he updating overhauling? What do you
Speaker 3: mean by that?
Speaker 4: I'm like his pictures, even his bio.
Speaker 5: I guess I could see what she's saying, Like, it's
Speaker 5: a mixed signal when you go out with someone one
Speaker 5: day and then the next morning you're changing everything on
Speaker 5: your profile trying.
Speaker 2: To get new matches.
Speaker 1: But before we start making assumptions about what that means,
Speaker 1: like didn't you have a great time with them? It
Speaker 1: sounds like you really wanted to see him again, and
Speaker 1: even like maybe saw yourself in a relationship with him.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: I had a great time, which is why I was
Speaker 1: a little confused.
Speaker 2: Too much, because is that the only thing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't think it's reading into it
Speaker 3: too much. Dating is trash, and.
Speaker 1: But the interesting piece is that he's had the same
Speaker 1: terrible experiences you have, Like he just finally got back
Speaker 1: on the dating app because it had been so.
Speaker 2: Awful for him.
Speaker 5: And if you're into reading signals about whether or not
Speaker 5: he's interested, I would say it's a pretty strong signal
Speaker 5: that he's asked this radio show to reach out to
Speaker 5: you and maybe even stronger that he's been waiting on
Speaker 5: the other line, wanting to jump in and speak to
Speaker 5: you romance.
Speaker 3: He's on the other line. Yeah, I think so we
Speaker 3: forgot to ask about that. I'm kind of glad we didn't. Danny,
Speaker 3: are you there?
Speaker 4: Hey, yeah, I'm I'm here.
Speaker 5: Could you understand what Vivi is talking about. Why it's
Speaker 5: a red flag that you're immediately updating your dating profile.
Speaker 4: Well, it's totally not like that. Actually, I didn't update
Speaker 4: my profile to get more girls. I honestly I did
Speaker 4: that for my mom. What that sounds really bad?
Speaker 3: How did you make it wor?
Speaker 4: No? No, my mom is on the app too, because
Speaker 4: I don't do Facebook or other social medias and she
Speaker 4: doesn't have Instagram. We don't live close, and it's really
Speaker 4: the only way that we can keep up with each other.
Speaker 4: So I just wanted her to have a new pick.
Speaker 1: You don't need a lie, man, Praying to God, that's
Speaker 1: a lie.
Speaker 4: I'm not lying. That's how I keep in touch with her,
Speaker 4: That's how she knows what I'm doing.
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, But doesn't it mean if she's going to
Speaker 5: see you like your stuff and what you're doing. Doesn't
Speaker 5: she you have to like match with you on the
Speaker 5: dating app, keep you in her algorithm.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it doesn't mean that you're actually romantic
Speaker 1: with someone.
Speaker 2: Are you talking?
Speaker 4: It's my mom. It's my mom. And that's just a technicality.
Speaker 4: It's the only way that she She's always wanted me
Speaker 4: to sender picks and look at my profile.
Speaker 5: Well, and I gotta I gotta get on my tender
Speaker 5: and send my mom a pick real quick.
Speaker 1: So is that how you guys communicate within the dating
Speaker 1: app instead of via text?
Speaker 4: It's just like what I said, like, this is how
Speaker 4: we communicate. Okay, that's what we do.
Speaker 3: I look at that. It makes sense.
Speaker 1: He wasn't trying to get other women. He was just
Speaker 1: trying to show his mom what a fun life he had.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're saying, awfully quiet, I'm curious what's going through
Speaker 5: your mind?
Speaker 3: She are actually believing this? I still it's so it'd.
Speaker 2: Be worse to make this a lie.
Speaker 3: One of those so creative, Like how would you think
Speaker 3: of this? The lie? Creative is a very generous word
Speaker 3: for what's happened.
Speaker 4: Oh here, I'm being completely serious. I didn't match with
Speaker 4: my mom, but it's honestly just for the pick. She
Speaker 4: likes to know my hobbies and what I'm doing. It's
Speaker 4: not weird. I'm not. I'm not so it's weird. Is
Speaker 4: your mom also dating on the hinge like she does
Speaker 4: her own thing?
Speaker 2: Yeah's your thing?
Speaker 4: Like if she shouldn't do Hinge, she can do Instagram
Speaker 4: Like that is so weird.
Speaker 5: It does feel like you'd be able to teach her
Speaker 5: how to use another more appropriate social media platform for
Speaker 5: communicating with parents.
Speaker 1: We could go back and forth on what his mom
Speaker 1: should do and shouldn't do. The whole point was viv
Speaker 1: thought that he was interested in other women, and he's
Speaker 1: obviously not.
Speaker 2: He obviously wants to date.
Speaker 3: You know, but he's still matching with his mom.
Speaker 5: On the dating parents on social media as a whole other.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not just my mom, it's my dad too.
Speaker 4: He lives in a completeletly different state. They're not together,
Speaker 4: and he's been trying to match with dudes to find me.
Speaker 4: Take it forever.
Speaker 2: It's a very open family. Yeah, we're not.
Speaker 4: Dating each other.
Speaker 5: Okay, he's just trying to match with you familiar.
Speaker 2: Whatever. It's what he's doing.
Speaker 5: But is it it's just weird because you could be
Speaker 5: actively cheating on your girlfriend and say, oh, I'm just
Speaker 5: on here for my parents.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you end up in a relationship with Viv,
Speaker 1: I think Jeff's right, you're gonna have to find a different.
Speaker 2: Form of communication for your mom.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but no, I don't know. In my mind, even
Speaker 4: if I get married, I'm still gonna have my dating
Speaker 4: bio and picks up for my mom.
Speaker 3: It's just easier way.
Speaker 1: That's a word wedding photos on there though, so people
Speaker 1: will know that you. Actually, I really thought your answer
Speaker 1: is gonna be like, yeah, obviously.
Speaker 3: He's hardline, hinged for life.
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, that's a different well Okay, I was trying.
Speaker 3: That's the conclusion here, guys.
Speaker 5: It really comes down to Viv's conclusion. Because we would
Speaker 5: like to offer to send you on another date with Danny.
Speaker 5: If you're open to giving him one more chance, we
Speaker 5: would pay for it.
Speaker 4: Here's the thing. I believe him because I've met him. However,
Speaker 4: I don't know if I could handle like the lack
Speaker 4: of boundaries, Like there are so many other.
Speaker 3: Ways to communicate other than her being on hinge.
Speaker 4: But you don't get it. She's on hinge all the time.
Speaker 4: This is how we talk.
Speaker 1: Oh so that's where you're competing for your mother's attention
Speaker 1: with all.
Speaker 3: This is more out of convenience.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, well all that could be done by text.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: You know, Viv, we tried to make this happen, but
Speaker 5: it's sounding like it's a no from.
Speaker 3: You and Danny.
Speaker 5: You're not willing to abandon your mom online unmatchre Okay.
Speaker 4: You know, any chick that is gonna ask me to
Speaker 4: choose between her and my mom, it's just not going
Speaker 4: to end. Well, there's no way in their boundaries rights.
Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 5: I didn't bring it up to Danny, but this is
Speaker 5: totally something my mom would want to do.
Speaker 2: She'd want to imagine you want to.
Speaker 3: Do, she would do hundred percent.
Speaker 5: Want to go on JAD find me, take a few
Speaker 5: screenshots and put it into my family newsletter for all
Speaker 5: my aunts and uncles to see.
Speaker 3: Like, look, there's jeff He likes the outdoors. He's into
Speaker 3: bird play and inflatables.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what a big boy.
Speaker 3: He's growing up so quickly.
Speaker 2: On Facebook.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, everybody would see jd profile.
Speaker 2: You may be up there.
Speaker 1: She has made you profiles before without your know that's true.
Speaker 5: I haven't gone in check to see how many more
Speaker 5: she's created for me. It does sound like Danny is
Speaker 5: a lot more comfortable with the idea of interacting with
Speaker 5: his mother on dating profiles.
Speaker 3: Then I would be.
Speaker 2: The yeah yeah, yeah. I mean you wouldn't participate.
Speaker 1: It would just be your mob talking back and forth
Speaker 1: with the fake Jeffrey profile that she made for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, or with the other women on the app, which
Speaker 3: is even more horrifying.
Speaker 2: I mean, it is weird.
Speaker 1: He's just like he was so close to hearing her
Speaker 1: and then stopped listening.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he just drew a line in the sand. Yeah,
Speaker 5: him and his mom are going to be matched on
Speaker 5: a hinge for life.
Speaker 2: I think that's the way mommy wants it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it seems like they're all happy, but didn't work
Speaker 5: out for a second date. Update doesn't mean it can't
Speaker 5: work out for you. If you ever need help in
Speaker 5: your love life, email the show. We can call the
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