WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Waiting For The Waiter

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update, Brooke, how do you feel about the

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<v Speaker 1>idea of meeting someone out in the real world?

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. I mean it's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, to be clear, I'm not talking about you meeting

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<v Speaker 1>another man.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really excited about that. I just meant in general,

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<v Speaker 3>think I thought you were talking about how.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel about meeting someone in the real world

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<v Speaker 1>while you're in the middle of a date with someone else?

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<v Speaker 3>About the time, Jeff, I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>It's one of those things where it's like, if you're

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<v Speaker 4>meant to be with the other person, Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>The bars set ankle low for Brooke because it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like it may have happened to one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>named Grace recently and she needs our help.

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<v Speaker 3>So Grace, welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh hi, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's your moral compass? Pointing Grace?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, she's tickled by the idea of this.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said in your email that you were out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with another guy when something right?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was the first date with a guy from

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<v Speaker 6>just the apps, you know all that?

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<v Speaker 7>All that?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So so no no skin in the game.

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<v Speaker 6>There, exactly exactly totally blind a blind guy.

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<v Speaker 4>That's new because it would be easier to hit on

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<v Speaker 4>somebody a true Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So he just was not turning out to be

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<v Speaker 5>that nice or that great.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he was like okay to me, wait, not

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<v Speaker 1>nice and that means you love him?

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<v Speaker 7>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you mean like specifically? How was he not nice?

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<v Speaker 7>Point?

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<v Speaker 6>It was just like he was treating the weight staff

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<v Speaker 6>really horribly.

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<v Speaker 7>No.

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<v Speaker 4>No, that such a turn that universal No, No, so

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<v Speaker 4>embarrassing to be with him.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to dream my mom. The first day, I

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<v Speaker 2>swear I don't know him.

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<v Speaker 6>Honestly exactly, like I don't can know this behavior. I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not a part of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, So when'd you beat the new guy?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, so the waiter, Darren, he was super.

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<v Speaker 5>Nice, and I thought, since because my date was being.

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<v Speaker 8>Such an ask to him, what better lesson to teach

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<v Speaker 8>him than to like ask Darren out Like when he

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<v Speaker 8>brought us the dessert menu, I was like.

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<v Speaker 9>Oh my gosh, in front of the guy you were out.

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<v Speaker 3>With, it's like you're trying to go lower.

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<v Speaker 2>Even if I thought of that in my head, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know if I could pull it off.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's hard, like he doesn't deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like you were getting vibes from Darren

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the night or did you just kind of surprise.

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<v Speaker 3>Him with that?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 8>No, I think I kind of took him off guard

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<v Speaker 8>because it was really more about me wanting to like

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<v Speaker 8>stick it to my date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it didn't matter what he said.

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<v Speaker 2>You are a bold woman. Seriously, what did you do?

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<v Speaker 2>How did you say it?

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<v Speaker 8>So when he was bringing over the dessert menu or

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<v Speaker 8>he asked us to bring it over, I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 8>but also because you maybe also bring over your number.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me know when you're out of here, because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, what did your date say?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean his ego couldn't really allow him to believe it.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, he was laughing, trying to laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>It off and be cool. But when I was doubling

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<v Speaker 5>down and I was like, no, no, no, this is happening.

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<v Speaker 3>Why got so bold? I would almost think my date's joking.

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<v Speaker 2>If I was a waiter, I would think it.

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<v Speaker 8>Was a joke.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, what was the response from Darren the waiter guy?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he was really trying to hold back his smile.

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<v Speaker 6>He you know, tried to keep it professional, but as

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<v Speaker 6>soon as my date realized that I was not joking,

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<v Speaker 6>he did the classics, threw down the napkin, stormed off

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<v Speaker 6>without paying. Actually, and so this was the kicker. Darren

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<v Speaker 6>paid for half of the meal because I was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, wow, even though he waited on you, he's still paid.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you tipped him on your half of the bill,

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<v Speaker 1>or hopefully Darren left a good tip for himself.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, I tipped him.

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<v Speaker 8>But I also was like, I'm serious about, like, hey,

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<v Speaker 8>where you're gonna.

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<v Speaker 5>Get off, Like, let me at least shoot you to

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<v Speaker 5>a drink and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, that's one way to let a guy

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<v Speaker 4>know you're not interested like the other guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Ye a nice closure. Yeah, I like it. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>in awe, I'm actually making it happen.

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<v Speaker 3>So did Darren take you up on the offer?

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you? Yes?

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<v Speaker 8>We met up at a bar after he got out

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<v Speaker 8>of work, like nearby the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 4>And did he think of it romantically because he may

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<v Speaker 4>have still been thinking, oh, I'm a good like almost friend.

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<v Speaker 2>That like saved you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like an apology totally totally yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Where we were there for about an hour or so.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I went in for the kiss when he

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<v Speaker 5>was walking into my car.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that doesn't narrow it down. I kiss a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of waiters.

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<v Speaker 7>After their ben.

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<v Speaker 4>I knew you guys were gonna end up making out

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<v Speaker 4>just because your voice got so high.

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<v Speaker 3>Clearly you are feeling Darren. Where are you two at now?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't know if I messed it up at

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<v Speaker 5>the end, because yeah, I went in for the kiss,

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<v Speaker 5>and then he wanted to take things back to his place.

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<v Speaker 5>But I'm that's where I flowed things down. Okay, he

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<v Speaker 5>felt rejected. Maybe I don't know because he's been very quiet.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean I said that I really wanted to see

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<v Speaker 8>him again.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he should understand you just met him hours

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<v Speaker 1>before for the first time ever. But maybe she was

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<v Speaker 1>so aggressive at the beginning. It was like meeting asking

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<v Speaker 1>out drinks, like and then she slammed on the brakes

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden that could have thrown for a loop.

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<v Speaker 4>He was like, yeah, he's in a relationship. We don't

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<v Speaker 4>know anything about this guy. He's making out with some

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<v Speaker 4>chick that he thinks he's just getting a thank you

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<v Speaker 4>drink from.

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<v Speaker 3>And like, maybe it is just like Brooks life. We're

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<v Speaker 3>gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 1>When we come back, we call Darren and well, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna try and get you your second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Updates. See where his head's at right after this second

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<v Speaker 3>date update. Two dates in one night with two different dudes, right,

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<v Speaker 3>what happens? What Alexis would call a slow evening.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you got your makeup done, you might as

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<v Speaker 2>well make the most of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, one of our listeners, Grace. It wasn't planned though.

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<v Speaker 1>The first guy that she was with turned out to

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<v Speaker 1>be a total jerk was acting rude to the waiter

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant, so to get back at him, Grace

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<v Speaker 1>asked the waiter out on a date and did it

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<v Speaker 1>at the table, right in front of the other guy.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot believe you could do that. I'm really loud.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a bold move and it worked because that

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<v Speaker 1>night she went out with the waiter Darren to grab

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<v Speaker 1>some drinks and they even smooched at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>Upgraded.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's why it's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Darren isn't answering back after they parted ways. Brooks theory

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<v Speaker 1>is that Darren is in a relationship, maybe even two,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's on the TLC show My Four Favorite Wives.

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<v Speaker 3>That's her idea.

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<v Speaker 2>I did say that. I did say that just moment

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<v Speaker 2>to go.

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<v Speaker 3>But we don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it is possible. We'll only find out once

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<v Speaker 1>we call him and get him to answer the phone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, wife three answers, we're gonna know right away exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But Grace, this was just like a one night drink situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Why was the meeting so important to you that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted us to get involved in it?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I mean when I saw how much of a

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<v Speaker 8>jerk this first date was, and then.

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<v Speaker 5>I saw how nice of.

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<v Speaker 8>A guy Darren was, it's like, wow, Okay, like my

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<v Speaker 8>type maybe is a.

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<v Speaker 3>Nice guy, you know, like you shot it by that. Well,

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes you think you have a type and you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Recently, I always said I never want to play video

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<v Speaker 1>games with my girlfriend, and I recently played video games

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl and it was amazing.

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<v Speaker 7>Something.

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<v Speaker 3>You bro, you're mature and you're trying new things. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>you mature and play video Yes, thank you, Jeff. Somebody

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<v Speaker 3>be nice to other weight staff.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you shame you if you don't tip twenty five percent.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's do this. So we're gonna call Darren. Hopefully he

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<v Speaker 3>picks up or one of his wives. Does, and here

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<v Speaker 3>we go. Hello, Hi is this Darren?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, hey Darren, good morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey is this hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a whole room full of people because we're

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm sure he doesn't listen.

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<v Speaker 4>Anybody who works like night dinner shifts is not Sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard that you're a waiter because you went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with one of our listeners named Grace recently.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to drink, so it was like an impromptu

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<v Speaker 1>date that happened the other night.

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<v Speaker 3>You remember Grace?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh, yeah, I know who Grace is. And yeah, we

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<v Speaker 7>went on a date. What about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you do consider a date?

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, well, I mean she asked me to drink. What

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<v Speaker 7>am I supposed to call it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Well she asked you in front of her current date.

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<v Speaker 4>Like yeah, yeah, we would be like, yes, I want

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<v Speaker 4>to hear your side of that story.

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<v Speaker 3>We've heard that.

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<v Speaker 1>We've heard Grace's version of it. She painted it very romantically.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, so she's kind of she's interesting. Okay, So I

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<v Speaker 7>was waiting on her and she was on another date,

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<v Speaker 7>but I could totally tell she was flirting with me.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, really good.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, that was her goal though.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when we talked to her, she didn't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>She said it was more of like a last second

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<v Speaker 1>thing when you brought the dinner menu over.

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<v Speaker 3>Towards the end.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, no, no. I could totally tell like she

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<v Speaker 7>was paying attention to me. She was looking at me.

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<v Speaker 7>There was definitely a vibe.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, she has to look at you to give an order.

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<v Speaker 7>I waited tables a long time. I know how to

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<v Speaker 7>pick up on vibes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So, like the feelings weren't reciprocated on your end

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<v Speaker 1>because she said that you guys kissed at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the.

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<v Speaker 3>Night, and now you're not calling her back.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I don't know if she told you everything, because

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<v Speaker 7>when we went out, she treated the bartender the same

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<v Speaker 7>way that she was treating me when she was on

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<v Speaker 7>the other day, she was flirting with the bartender in

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<v Speaker 7>front of me.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sure you're just terrible at knowing what flirting

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<v Speaker 4>is because she was like adamant that she wasn't flirting

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<v Speaker 4>with you.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe that could be Well no, because here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 7>I got a text message from the bartender who happens

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<v Speaker 7>to be a friend of mine. I know him. He

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<v Speaker 7>works at the bars right down the street. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 7>he said, hey, bro, watch out, the girl came back

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<v Speaker 7>in and got my number.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, she's a busy bee.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>We did not hear any of that from Grace. She

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<v Speaker 1>was just talking about you.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you sure he didn't mix her up or something

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<v Speaker 2>like it was her?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know who.

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<v Speaker 1>It's better to just ask Grace this because I need

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<v Speaker 1>to let you know, Darren. She is on the other

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<v Speaker 1>line right now listening in.

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<v Speaker 3>She has our number two.

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<v Speaker 6>No oh no, oh man, you wait, Oh no.

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<v Speaker 2>You got found out? Or oh no, you did it.

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<v Speaker 6>There's there's an explanation, guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so you did. You went back and got the

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<v Speaker 3>bartender's number.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, I mean, but I needed it for a very

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<v Speaker 8>specific reason.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not scandalous.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you just needed to make the best Manhattan of

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<v Speaker 4>your life recipe.

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<v Speaker 3>You were saving him from a date.

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<v Speaker 5>He was also on what excuse, It's not an excuse.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I have other stuff going on in my life,

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<v Speaker 8>and like there's okay, my my sister is getting married

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<v Speaker 8>and we're having a party for her, and so.

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<v Speaker 6>I was getting this bartender number so.

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<v Speaker 7>He can be the bartender.

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<v Speaker 1>Why does it sound like you're making this up on

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<v Speaker 1>the spot right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, I mean sure, maybe that's true. So why

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<v Speaker 4>wouldn't you ask that in front of Darren.

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't really even think about it until after I left.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, she was so focused on Darren d I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not why she could pull off for long.

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<v Speaker 2>If her sister's getting married, it's and they go on

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<v Speaker 2>a date.

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<v Speaker 3>All you better be the wedding date.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we've heard the explanation, Darren, what do you think, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't know buying it? No, I'm not. I'm really not

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<v Speaker 7>buying it.

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<v Speaker 1>She kissed you that night, Darren, not the bartender, unless

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Did your bartender mention anything else happening

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<v Speaker 1>besides the phone number exchange.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I don't know if they've gone out on a

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<v Speaker 7>date or anything yet. But I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>That just seems sketchy to me. Oh, I'm sorry. I'm

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<v Speaker 7>not born yesterday, all right. I worked in the service industry.

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<v Speaker 7>I know bartenders all the time. I have a guy

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<v Speaker 7>bartender that picks up on women all the time who

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<v Speaker 7>are there with dates, and they come back and the

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<v Speaker 7>girls give him their numbers. It's a comment like no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 7>I don't buy that.

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<v Speaker 4>What if the bartender was just trying to call DIBs,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, like he's the one that made it up,

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<v Speaker 4>Like maybe she's telling the truth and he's like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I want to ask her out, and so he's trying

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<v Speaker 4>to get you to like leave the situation.

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, I know my friend, Like he's not going

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<v Speaker 7>to do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just tell her the truth. I would feel really bad

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<v Speaker 3>for her in this situation.

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<v Speaker 1>No, she like dodged a jerk and then she met

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<v Speaker 1>a nice guy who she's trying to court on a bridday.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so when's your sister's wedding and how.

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<v Speaker 5>Soon it's in six months?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, weirdly, I believe it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, there's a long pause there.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want, if you want the bartender to help

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<v Speaker 1>with the wedding, maybe you want Daring to be a

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<v Speaker 1>waiter at your sister's wedding too, so that way you

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of even it out.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants him to be her date.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh ya, that would be more romantic, wouldn't That was

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<v Speaker 3>literally set up for you. I don't know why I

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<v Speaker 3>stuck him in the services.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Okay, if she can prove, if she can prove

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<v Speaker 4>it with like some sort of save the date or

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<v Speaker 4>invitation that this is actually happening, would you believe.

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<v Speaker 3>Even if it is a lie, do you care?

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<v Speaker 1>But we're not going to be able to produce that

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<v Speaker 1>here in the next few seconds, because you.

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<v Speaker 7>Let me, let me talk to some of y'all who

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<v Speaker 7>haven't been around the block a little bit. He may

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<v Speaker 7>very well have a sister who's getting married in six months,

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<v Speaker 7>but that just might have been an excuse for her

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<v Speaker 7>to go back and get that guy's number.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh man, you know, actually I'm feeling a little attack

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<v Speaker 8>with this right now.

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<v Speaker 6>He's being a little accusatory, so it doesn't feel very

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<v Speaker 6>worth it at this point.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought you were a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, look I'm not the person I went behind somebody's

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<v Speaker 7>back to get somebody else's phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>I am the nice guy. Yeah, he is a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know who to believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, well, I want to be a nice guy

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<v Speaker 1>in this moment and offer to send you to on

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<v Speaker 1>another date and we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 8>I really don't think he's gonna say yes.

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<v Speaker 5>He's already so skeptical and.

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<v Speaker 3>Honest. Well, Darren, what do you think it balls in

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<v Speaker 3>your court?

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<v Speaker 7>Nah? I can't do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, oh man, you can do his gun.

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<v Speaker 4>You're gonna feel so foolish when you see your friend

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<v Speaker 4>bartending at her sister's wedding.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, you want to pay me to bartend at her

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<v Speaker 7>sister's wedding. I'll glad they do.

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<v Speaker 3>It, all right, I just won't be her date.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, Darren, as I said before, we already got the

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<v Speaker 8>bartending position billed.

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<v Speaker 7>So oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Darren.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, can you just clear something up for

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<v Speaker 1>us real quick? Do you have four wives? I've been

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<v Speaker 1>dying to know.

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<v Speaker 9>No, i swear he was the guy for jeff I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 9>only twenty bucks Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We keep trying to figure out if she was lying

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<v Speaker 1>or if she wasn't lying.

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<v Speaker 3>But what if it was just an old H and.

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<v Speaker 10>H guys, you know, like Brooke used to do with

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<v Speaker 10>the promo team, hire and hook up, just a classic

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<v Speaker 10>H and H situation.

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<v Speaker 9>Exadly is usually the reverse. I'd dump them and then

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<v Speaker 9>I'd hire them, and then it was awkward. Sometimes we'd

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<v Speaker 9>hook back. Okay, I shouldn't get into all.

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<v Speaker 3>The stories, the ultimate pity.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it wasn't good.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, Okay, made some poor choices in my life, so

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<v Speaker 9>did this girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Us.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of poor choices were made all throughout this

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<v Speaker 1>phone call and throughout that date, so no surprise they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go out again. But doesn't mean there's not hope

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<v Speaker 1>for you. We can call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back, maybe get your little H and H situation,

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<v Speaker 1>or just a regular second day.

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<v Speaker 2>The regular second day would probably be a better Just

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<v Speaker 2>one of those ages.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just email us and go check out all of

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<v Speaker 1>our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffries

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning