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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Conrad is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Iliana. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna see if we can figure out why he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still

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Speaker 2: wants thee and he finds out why in just a second.

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Speaker 2: But Conrad, before we get into your date, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Iliana.

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Speaker 3: Oh, it's almost a week.

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Speaker 4: It's been like six days right now.

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Speaker 5: So let's go backwards. Let's talk about the date. How

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Speaker 5: you guys met, and let's get to where we're at now.

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Speaker 6: We we really like food, you know, and when we

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Speaker 6: both met, we were.

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Speaker 7: Talking about going to this restaurant they specialized in and

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Speaker 7: by I'm sorry, I can't pronounce it darren words. But anyway,

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Speaker 7: date they're known for that, They're known for their sangria.

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Speaker 7: Everything was great, right and super romantic spot even like

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Speaker 7: like after like eight o'clock, there's a dj that comes out.

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Speaker 7: They had like a danceclore platform they bring out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool.

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Speaker 6: It was really really nice dance. I mean, we were

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Speaker 6: laughing it up the whole night. We took pictures in

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Speaker 6: the photo booth at the restaurant.

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Speaker 3: They had them.

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Speaker 4: The bathrooms was super cute. We loved the spot. So

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Speaker 4: that was the first time he met. It was a

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Speaker 4: great date.

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Speaker 6: And that was That was pretty much how that.

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Speaker 5: Went, because it sounds like it went pretty good in

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Speaker 5: my eyes. What was the last thing you said to her?

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Speaker 4: Well, the last yes, that's it, you know what. It

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Speaker 4: wasn't like, you know, we had some last words or

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Speaker 6: We just, you know, pretty much we're talking, and you know,

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Speaker 6: there was a situation. I think maybe they had something

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Speaker 6: me back. I don't know if this is a sights

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Speaker 6: or not, but she did. But she was complaining about

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Speaker 6: being cold. Was we were next to event, right, but

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Speaker 6: the food was already on the table, So I went

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Speaker 6: ahead and asked the waiters if they can you know,

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Speaker 6: switch us, when she was like, you know, don't make

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Speaker 6: but I insisted because I didn't want her to be cold.

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Speaker 6: So you know, we moved and you know, even like

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Speaker 6: we had like a real cool exchange exchanges like you know,

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Speaker 6: like like almost like we've been together or something like that,

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Speaker 6: because it was like a little bickering over like what

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Speaker 6: we're gonna order. It was all playful, you know, nothing

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Speaker 6: angry about it. She even said something about like, oh man,

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Speaker 6: we must have been lovers in the past life, and

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Speaker 6: I was like, oh man, it was like so so cool,

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Speaker 6: like superheated, super fun. So it wasn't like any of

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Speaker 6: the last words I said to her, I just don't.

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Speaker 6: It was a text message I send her afterwards, you know.

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Speaker 4: But that wasn't you know.

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Speaker 3: I just said, you know, I had a great time,

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Speaker 2: When you say that it was superheated where you're arguing, No, it.

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Speaker 6: Was like it was like a good like passion between us.

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Speaker 6: What I mean, It's like it was like a real

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so easy.

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Speaker 4: It was like you known each other.

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Speaker 3: For a while.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well what do you think happened? Then?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: And the only thing I assumed was that maybe, like

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Speaker 6: for us, after all the food was out on the table.

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Speaker 4: But that's so minor, so.

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Speaker 6: I'm not thinking that that might be it because I

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Speaker 6: can't think of any things to tell you the truth.

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Speaker 5: Well, maybe do you think it is intense that she's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: People get scared really easily, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if it's it can't be, or if

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Speaker 5: it's like, oh my gosh, like what if I can't

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Speaker 5: do this it didn't work out in another life, how

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Speaker 6: I would hope that she would just like tell me that,

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Speaker 2: What was the last thing that she said to you?

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Speaker 6: The last thing she to me on the text message

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Speaker 6: was that, you know, she just thank me and she

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Speaker 6: said she had a good time.

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Speaker 3: So that was it. That was the last time we

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we'll try to figure out for you. Then

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Speaker 2: play a song, come back and call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she says why you're getting ghosted, and then maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date if you still want on. Okay, cool,

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Speaker 2: all right, we'll get your first day follow up, next first.

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Speaker 1: Date follow up by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at dot.

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Speaker 2: Com if you're just joining us for today's first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. Conrad is on the phone and he's getting

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Speaker 2: ghasted by Iliana and we're about to call her and

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Speaker 2: see if we can figure out why and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date. But before we do that, while you

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Speaker 2: refresh everybody's memory about your date with Ileana.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, well my day was Eleana was great, went.

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Speaker 3: To a great restaurant.

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Speaker 6: We had great food, we had great drinks, We danced,

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Speaker 6: we laughed, We really hit it off, super big connection.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 6: We both loved the spot that we went to, and

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Speaker 6: that was pretty much it. It was just real natural and

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Speaker 6: just real fun, like super fun.

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Speaker 2: Okay, And you have no idea why she's not calling

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Speaker 2: you back.

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Speaker 6: The only idea I can come up with is something

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Speaker 6: that is just like far fetched to me because it's

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Speaker 6: not even a real reason. Like I said, it was

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Speaker 6: just me because she was complaining she was cold. She

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Speaker 6: was like, hey, I'm under that, and I was like,

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Speaker 6: oh my gosh, so this move let's move out the

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Speaker 6: way that was already after the food was there, So

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Speaker 6: that was it?

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we call her right now, you're ready? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Hello, I may I speak to Iliana? Please? Hi, Ileana?

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Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's name of the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi, the whole show's here too. Before you jump back in,

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Speaker 5: my name is Nita, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing well.

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Speaker 2: Do you listen to the show at all?

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Speaker 4: I've never listened.

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Speaker 3: To it before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, No, you don't have apologize. Maybe you will. Now

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Speaker 2: we do a segment on the show. It's called the

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Speaker 2: first Dight follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, that person can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why so you are ghosting

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Speaker 2: someone and they email us about you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, got it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, who.

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Speaker 4: I don't think so?

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Speaker 2: What about a guy named Conrad Conrad?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Oh Conrad, Yeah, I remember him?

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Speaker 2: Okay, what do you remember about him?

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Speaker 4: Six? Days ago.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we went on a date a few days ago

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Speaker 8: and what I thought was a hookup of a friend,

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Speaker 8: and the restaurant was a really nice place. You know,

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Speaker 8: I can't lie, but for me, it was a bit

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Speaker 8: too romantic for the first date. Okay, you know, so

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Speaker 8: it kind of felt weird, but you know, I said,

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Speaker 8: goes on. We danced, the food was wonderful. I mean,

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Speaker 8: he was so nice. He even had the table moved

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Speaker 4: Which I thought was really nice of him.

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Speaker 8: I didn't want him to do it because the food

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Speaker 8: was already on the table. However, he did it anyway,

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Speaker 8: and I really appreciate that. But later on that night,

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Speaker 8: I mean everything just got too lovey dovey for me.

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Speaker 8: I mean, he joked about being lovers in a past life,

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Speaker 8: so something like that. It just got really weird after that.

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Speaker 8: The next day I go to work, I find flowers

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Speaker 8: at my desk, which I thought was romantic. However, again

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Speaker 8: the lovers in a past life. Then he's texting me constantly.

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Speaker 8: When I'm like I'm busy, He's like, okay, well text

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Speaker 8: just becoming too much at one time, and I felt

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Speaker 5: I just had to go, Wow, I kind of feel

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Speaker 8: But I mean I felt like I was being love bombed,

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Speaker 4: Yea, at one time, it was moving too fast for me.

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Speaker 5: And it was just that he was coming on too

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Speaker 5: trying to protect yourself or it was just like, oh man,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was just sicky for me all together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well, thank you for being honest with us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, he's nice. He's a nice guy for somebody else, just.

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Speaker 3: Not for me.

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Speaker 2: Dele Jana. He is on the phone listing and wants

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Speaker 4: Man, Hello, hey, hey, how are you? I'm doing?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 4: What is this about? Oh? But I mean I just

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Speaker 6: I was wondering what was going on with us, and

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Speaker 6: I just realized that maybe you thought I was loved

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Speaker 6: by me?

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Speaker 4: But that wasn't me. I was just very excited, you know,

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Speaker 3: Maybe something and maybe I just scited.

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Speaker 8: I mean, you don't even give me a chance to

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Speaker 8: respond to your messages.

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Speaker 4: You're constantly texting me.

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Speaker 8: I tell you that I'm busy, and it's like you

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Speaker 6: I don't want to say I can pull back on that.

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry. I think that I just jumped the gun.

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Speaker 6: I was so excited, like I said, and I mean

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Speaker 6: I would really love to go on the second day

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Speaker 6: with you. I really apologize if I came on too.

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Speaker 4: Strong, and you know, that's just how I am. Maybe

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Speaker 4: I should have just you know, waited.

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Speaker 3: For you to respond, but I'm just.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean you really got weird or anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not trying to be weird out and like that.

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Speaker 3: It's just it's just.

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Speaker 4: How how I am.

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Speaker 3: I can wear my heart on my sleeve.

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Speaker 6: So it's just like I was just trying to, you know,

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Speaker 6: express that you know, I really enjoyed meeting you and

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Speaker 6: you know that's all.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I enjoyed meeting me too, but like I said,

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Speaker 8: it was just too much for me at one time,

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Speaker 8: and it just seemed like you weren't going to give up.

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Speaker 8: And I appreciate the pursuit, but it's not for me.

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Speaker 8: Maybe for somebody else.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well, maybe I showed you so much, you know, attention,

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Speaker 6: for that short period of time that maybe now I

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Speaker 6: just eats back and like not really.

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Speaker 3: Like he was much.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's been weirder. I thought we had a connection.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be weird.

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Speaker 6: It was just I'm just I'm thrown back by this.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I can see the text messages and you know,

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Speaker 6: and the flowers, but you know, to me, this is

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Speaker 6: how a man's supposed to be. No express, I'm romantic.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna throw it back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I know I probably fight that's too fast, but

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Speaker 6: I guess said I'll go one hundred miles an hour.

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Speaker 6: I promise to do twenty miles an hour. I'll be

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Speaker 6: twenty the next day.

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Speaker 2: I feel you. I have that same problem, Conrad, cause

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Speaker 2: I'm like that too. Like honestly, if I meet someone up,

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Speaker 2: I may be trying to date him for a month,

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Speaker 2: but I still want to do all the flowers. I

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Speaker 2: you know, people get scared. So then it's like hard

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Speaker 2: to figure out what to do because then I'm like, well,

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Speaker 2: all right, well I don't really play games, so I

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Speaker 2: just will not do the stuff, and then it looks

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Speaker 2: like I don't like him.

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Speaker 5: You just got everybody's just got to start asking each

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Speaker 5: other what your love language is, because that's what you

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Speaker 5: cater to. And if people are scared of gifts and

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Speaker 5: the extra like you know, attension, you just go back

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Speaker 5: a little bit.

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Speaker 6: They want you to find out what their love language is.

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Speaker 6: And then like I'd rather just just shoot at it,

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Speaker 6: you know what I mean. It's because like, so most

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Speaker 6: of the time you're gonna express that scene.

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Speaker 5: Well you did, Conrad, you did in this time, it

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Speaker 5: just doesn't seem like it worked out, and I'm really sorry.

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Speaker 5: Let's see for sure, Eleana, would you like to go

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Speaker 5: on another day with Conrad? Will pay for it? We

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Speaker 5: want to pay for it because you don't want that. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I feel so bad. I really want to go on

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Speaker 4: a date with Conrad. Now, Oh that would be great.

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Speaker 6: I'm telling you I would go four miles an hour

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Speaker 6: in a fifty miles.

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Speaker 4: But hours on to tell you, I'll be an old man.

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Speaker 8: Okay, I probably if you slow it down just a

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Speaker 8: little bit.

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Speaker 2: So that's a yes.

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Speaker 4: Really maybe should I? Should I do it?

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I think so? Why not? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man, what's the worst I caond happen?

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Speaker 3: That's great, that's great, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so second day, Yes, I'm up for it. H

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Speaker 4: Where do you want to go? Like, what kind of

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Speaker 4: food do you want to? What you? Guys? Let me

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Speaker 4: let me step back and let you plan everything.

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Speaker 3: The events will be.

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Speaker 2: This is gonna be funny. Do it, but try. Best

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Speaker 2: of luck.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. Jus.

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