WEBVTT - Skylar Neese

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, everyone, welcome back to Facing Evil. I'm Rasha Pacuerero and.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Evet Genteeley. And this week we are talking about

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<v Speaker 3>the death of Skyler Nice, a teenager who was murdered

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<v Speaker 3>by the closest people to her, her two best friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, her two teenage best friends. And it's absolutely heartbreaking

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm sure everyone is wondering, how could this happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Why did this happen? That is the question that we're

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<v Speaker 3>always asking why. But today we are so happy to

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<v Speaker 3>welcome back our friend em William Phelps, investigative journalists and

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<v Speaker 3>host of the podcast Paper Ghost and Crossing the Line.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, we like to call him Matthew, even though most

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<v Speaker 2>other people call him Phelps, and we're really looking forward

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<v Speaker 2>to talking to him today. But first our producer Trevor

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<v Speaker 2>is going to walk us through today's case. Ten years ago,

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<v Speaker 2>Skyler Nice came to this spot and never returned. Now

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<v Speaker 2>a decade later, her memory lives on and those who

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<v Speaker 2>knew her best.

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<v Speaker 1>We never want anyone to go through what we went through.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the worst hell I've ever ever been through, no.

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<v Speaker 4>Matter what she says now. But she was young and

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<v Speaker 4>she didn't know better. I'm sorry. Five and ten year

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<v Speaker 4>olds know not to commit murder.

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<v Speaker 1>Skyler Nice was a sixteen year old girl from Star City,

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<v Speaker 1>West Virginia, who was stabbed to death by her two

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<v Speaker 1>closest friends and left to die in a remote area

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<v Speaker 1>one state away. Skyler was described by most as a

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<v Speaker 1>good girl with nice friends and two loving parents in

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<v Speaker 1>a pleasant home in suburban West Virginia. She was just

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<v Speaker 1>eight years old when she met her best friend, a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Sheila Eddie. Eddie had a troubled relationship with

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<v Speaker 1>her own parents, but grew to be very close with

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<v Speaker 1>Skyler's parents, who described her as a second daughter. Their

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<v Speaker 1>freshman year, Sheila transferred to Skyler's high school, and they

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<v Speaker 1>both started hanging out with a third girl, Rachel's Chouf.

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<v Speaker 1>The trio were inseparable, but when Skyler and Rachel started

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<v Speaker 1>getting close, Sheila got jealous. Skyler and Sheila began having

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<v Speaker 1>public arguments on Twitter, and in a tweet in August

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<v Speaker 1>of twenty eleven, Skyler alluded to having dirt on both friends.

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<v Speaker 1>She may have been alluding to a recent night when

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<v Speaker 1>she allegedly witnessed Sheila and Rachel making out. After raiding

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel's mom's liquor case. Sheila and Rachel now both turned

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<v Speaker 1>on their former friend and tried to smear her reputation

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<v Speaker 1>at school. They told classmates she was annoying and clinging,

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<v Speaker 1>but then they went a step further planning her murder.

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<v Speaker 1>When some classmates overheard them talking in school, they were

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<v Speaker 1>sent to the principal's office, but then sent back to class. Then,

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<v Speaker 1>on July fifth, twenty twelve, Rachel and Sheila invited Skuyler

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<v Speaker 1>out for a late night drive while her parents slept.

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<v Speaker 1>Skyler snuck out and the three drove to a remote

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<v Speaker 1>area just over the West Virginia border into Pennsylvania. There,

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel and Sheila brandished knives and stabbed Skyler nice until

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<v Speaker 1>she was no longer moving. They then dragged her body

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<v Speaker 1>to a nearby creek and hid it under some sticks.

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<v Speaker 1>Rocks and dirt. Skuyler's parents were alarmed about her disappearance,

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<v Speaker 1>but Sheila told them they'd drop Skyler off a few

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<v Speaker 1>blocks down the street. After the late night hangout, months passed,

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<v Speaker 1>during which Sheila spent a great deal of time with

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<v Speaker 1>the Nice family, crying over Skuyler's disappearance, and even hanging

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<v Speaker 1>up missing persons posters around the neighborhood. At school, Sheila

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<v Speaker 1>and Rachel grew reserved and only hung out with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>When they were questioned by police, Rachel acted nervous, but Sheila,

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<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, acted quote perky, one officer said, quote,

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<v Speaker 1>She'd look you in the eye and speak matter of faculty. Finally,

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<v Speaker 1>in January of twenty thirteen, Rachel's chauf had a mental breakdown.

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<v Speaker 1>After going to a psychiatric ward, she confessed to the crime.

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<v Speaker 1>She then led the police to Skuyler's body. Sheila Eddie

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<v Speaker 1>was at Skuyler's parents when the discovery was made, and

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<v Speaker 1>she cried along with Skuyler's family. When the police asked

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<v Speaker 1>Rachel why they killed their friend, she simply replied, we

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't like her. The two girls were arrested. Sheila

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<v Speaker 1>was convicted of first degree murder and sentenced to life

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<v Speaker 1>in prison. Rachel was sentenced to thirty fe years in prison.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what happened to Skyler Nice? How did a

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<v Speaker 1>friendship between teenage girls turn into a bloody murder? And

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<v Speaker 1>how does this story reveal a troubling mental health crisis

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<v Speaker 1>for teenagers which often leads to violence.

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<v Speaker 3>A few months ago, we talked about the case of

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<v Speaker 3>Michelle McNeil with the one and only m William Phelps,

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<v Speaker 3>who is the true crime author and host of the

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<v Speaker 3>podcast Paper Ghosts and Crossing the Line. We are back

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<v Speaker 3>with we like to call him Matthew is in the house.

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<v Speaker 3>We are so excited to have you back on facing

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<v Speaker 3>evil and you know today we're talking about Skylar Nice,

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<v Speaker 3>so we'll get into that in a little bit. But Matthew,

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<v Speaker 3>tell us, you know what's been going on, what's coming

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<v Speaker 3>up next for you. I know we were just talking about,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the world that we live in and all

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<v Speaker 3>the crazy things that are happening. That really takes a

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<v Speaker 3>toll on us. But you know, you're such a deep, sensitive,

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<v Speaker 3>wise human being and I know you always push forward.

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<v Speaker 3>So what's new with you? Tell us what's new?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm working on season four of Paper Ghosts, my limited

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<v Speaker 5>series podcast, and I'm just getting ready to head out

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<v Speaker 5>to the Ozarks. There's a case out there of a

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<v Speaker 5>young girl who went missing in the late eighties and

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<v Speaker 5>she was found some time later, and I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of other cases that are similar to it

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<v Speaker 5>that could be connected to hers. And there's cause at

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<v Speaker 5>the time, late eighties, early nineties, that area of the country,

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<v Speaker 5>the Midwest, if you will, there was a rash of

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<v Speaker 5>you know, young teen girls going missing and some of

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<v Speaker 5>them found, some not found. So this case is really interesting.

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<v Speaker 5>I have a suspect that I'm really focused on that

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<v Speaker 5>hasn't been named, and no one knows. Yeah, we'll see

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<v Speaker 5>where it leads. You know. It's always interesting when I

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<v Speaker 5>go out there and spend a couple of weeks and

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<v Speaker 5>start knocking on doors and talking to people. So I'm

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<v Speaker 5>looking forward to that. I have a few other podcasts

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<v Speaker 5>that I'm in the process of developing and producing and

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<v Speaker 5>things like that that are similar. You know, one of

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<v Speaker 5>them is very different, but mostly they're similar to what

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<v Speaker 5>I do, which is investigative journalism.

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<v Speaker 2>It's funny since we last interviewed you, Matthew, I have

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you, like, you're one of our very first interviews,

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<v Speaker 2>and we've interviewed you know, several people since, and it

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<v Speaker 2>makes me think, especially like how you got into the

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<v Speaker 2>true crime genre and how you're still like moving your

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<v Speaker 2>way through it, like this has been a calling, I

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<v Speaker 2>think for all of us, because we just want to

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<v Speaker 2>see the light in the darkness in this world. And

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<v Speaker 2>I know that's exactly what you do. And the more

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<v Speaker 2>and more that we're in this I'm like, oh, we're

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be here, and I just feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>do that every single day. And I just have to

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<v Speaker 2>say it's very very beautiful and you're an amazing example

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<v Speaker 2>of what one person can do.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, thank you very much. I mean, I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm humbled by that. I was recently watching something and

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<v Speaker 5>it's a metaphor really for what you just said. So

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<v Speaker 5>when the sun goes down, it doesn't get dark, the

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<v Speaker 5>sky doesn't get dark. What it is, according to physicists

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<v Speaker 5>and scientists is the light from the stars we see

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<v Speaker 5>hasn't reached us yet. That's why they look dim. It

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<v Speaker 5>hasn't reached us yet, So it doesn't light up the earth.

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<v Speaker 5>When the sun goes around us.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And then when the sun comes out, we can't see

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<v Speaker 5>we can't see any of them. So that little tiny

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<v Speaker 5>bit of light heading towards the earth to shine, I

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<v Speaker 5>look for that little tiny bit of light, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and see where I can. I can just get in there.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why we love you.

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<v Speaker 6>Amen to that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just so interesting how you you know, like Russia said,

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<v Speaker 3>we have interviewed so many different people, but there's just

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<v Speaker 3>certain people when you know you're of like mind and

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<v Speaker 3>like spirit, and we've felt that way with you from

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<v Speaker 3>the get because this is a you know, as we know,

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<v Speaker 3>this is a hard industry, you know, to be in

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<v Speaker 3>to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>This, it's heavy, too heavy, shiite.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But like you know, like I said before, if

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<v Speaker 3>we can just open you know, one person's mind right,

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<v Speaker 3>or help someone heal and move upward and onward, or

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<v Speaker 3>solve a case, you know, like you.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, with bringing justice.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it's these these things are so important, so

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<v Speaker 3>important in this world.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>Bringing answers to families is really rewarding. That that really

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<v Speaker 5>keeps me going when I get with a family and

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<v Speaker 5>I say, look, I've spent a couple of years here

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<v Speaker 5>on this and this is what happened. This is what

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<v Speaker 5>you're never going to hear because law enforcement doesn't have

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<v Speaker 5>the resources, they don't have the budget.

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<v Speaker 2>So here you go, like, please do something with this.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah yeah, right now, I mean they can know that

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<v Speaker 5>at least they have some information about what happened. Yeah, right,

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<v Speaker 5>there's a why. And actually I was talking to a

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<v Speaker 5>prosecutor interviewing a prosecutor the other day and he was saying, look,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm happy to talk with you because you know,

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<v Speaker 5>no one else is going to do anything with this,

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<v Speaker 5>so you know, I'm very happy to give you what

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<v Speaker 5>you need to find out what you can, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>And that's that's pretty gratifying for me after a long

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<v Speaker 5>career of doing this, you know that the trust Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>there's a lot of bullshit podcasts true crime, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>makeup and TikTok and all of this out there.

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<v Speaker 2>So right, we're all of us are trying our best

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<v Speaker 2>to do ethical true crime. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>To get back to the case that we're talking about today,

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<v Speaker 2>like you mentioned, you know, finding out the why. So

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<v Speaker 2>let's talk about the case of Skyler Niece. This is

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<v Speaker 2>not unsolved. We do know who did this? But what

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<v Speaker 2>were your first impressions about this case, about this young

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<v Speaker 2>girl Skyler.

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<v Speaker 5>I've written many books about teens and murder, teens who kill,

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<v Speaker 5>that sort of thing, so I'm very familiar with the

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<v Speaker 5>psychology and what's going on. Right. So, all of these cases,

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<v Speaker 5>this one especially, they're devastating. Right. These are people who

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<v Speaker 5>haven't lived a life yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, their brain's not even fully developed.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>What struck me was a touching scene that I read

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<v Speaker 5>about the dad and her and a tea party. That

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<v Speaker 5>was very touching.

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<v Speaker 4>King and the.

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<v Speaker 5>Punchline is that you know he he he asks her,

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<v Speaker 5>you can't reach the water faucet. Where you getting the

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<v Speaker 5>water from that? You've been that I've been drinking And

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<v Speaker 5>she said, oh, the toilet.

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<v Speaker 6>That's right.

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<v Speaker 5>That really shows you know, love, you know, the love

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<v Speaker 5>between between them all. But the other thing that stands

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<v Speaker 5>out to me but doesn't surprise me, is in all

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<v Speaker 5>of these cases, you have a leader and a follower,

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<v Speaker 5>and very very rarely that will a team kill by

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<v Speaker 5>his or herself. Right. They always there's always someone else connected.

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<v Speaker 5>There's always someone else involved. Many times there's more than

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<v Speaker 5>one involved. Yeah, Right, this case also struck me as

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<v Speaker 5>the I will say. I mean, I can't diagnose anybody.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not a psychologist, but one of these girls is

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<v Speaker 5>bona fide so show path the other isn't. That's that's

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<v Speaker 5>clear to me here, you know. And the behavior after

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<v Speaker 5>the murder right.

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<v Speaker 2>With their family.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this case, right, it's so baffling when you think

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<v Speaker 3>about it, because you think about teenage girls and you

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<v Speaker 3>know they should just be having fun going to a prom,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, living their lives, not this heavy, heavy duty

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<v Speaker 3>jealousy and anger.

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<v Speaker 6>But you see it so much.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like I think about the cases that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we've worked on in the past with Conrad Roy, that

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<v Speaker 3>particular case where it's Michelle Carter, you know, and even

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<v Speaker 3>the Shonda Shaer case. You know, it's a leader and

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<v Speaker 3>a follower and someone gets incredibly upset and then get

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<v Speaker 3>someone else to join and does these horrible things. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>it turns into a paradox of violence.

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<v Speaker 6>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>The mental issues that these children have gone through that

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<v Speaker 3>have led to this moment that has a lot to

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<v Speaker 3>do with it, don't you think.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me ask you both a question, Yeah, how do

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<v Speaker 5>you feel social media played in this case? Particularly huge?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>It's huge, and I have to say full, full, full disclosure.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been on social media since my Space, and

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<v Speaker 2>for me, you know, it's always been something that's very

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<v Speaker 2>prominent in my life. But I joined as an adult.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm forty four years old, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>I started. I was on my Space whenever it started,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was already in my late twenties. I was

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<v Speaker 2>not a teenager. I cannot even imagine what these girls

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<v Speaker 2>were going through. And we know that, you know, Twitter

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<v Speaker 2>at the time had a lot to do with it.

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<v Speaker 2>And now Twitter now, for me, of course, in twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty three, is not my favorite place. It makes me

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<v Speaker 2>scared for my daughter, who's eleven. Yeah, yeah, right, So

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<v Speaker 2>we must all think that social media has a lot

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<v Speaker 2>to do with it, right.

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<v Speaker 5>Particularly here I'm looking at Sheila Eddie yep, and how

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<v Speaker 5>she says I feel great right now, Skyler answers, this

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<v Speaker 5>is the best night ever, right, and you know she's

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<v Speaker 5>about to be murdered.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me just back up. They're talking during the day

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<v Speaker 5>on social media. Other people are piping in, amping up

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<v Speaker 5>the conversation, right, so there's all these influences coming in

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<v Speaker 5>that are just invisible, right, invisible influences, right, yeah, kind

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<v Speaker 5>of stoking the fire if you will, yeah, yeah, And

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<v Speaker 5>she says at one point, it really, this is Skyler.

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<v Speaker 5>It really doesn't take much to piss me off.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>She talks about how stress will be the death of her,

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<v Speaker 5>about being bored, and I looked at that and I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>it's the classic confluence of peer pressure, right, the symptoms

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<v Speaker 5>of peer pressure. An environment for someone so young, a

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<v Speaker 5>mind so young, kind of in a social pressure cooker,

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<v Speaker 5>keeping up with her friends, trying to fit in, trying

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<v Speaker 5>to be popular, trying not to be bullied. And then

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<v Speaker 5>on July fifth, twenty twelve, Shila and Rachel invite Skyler

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<v Speaker 5>to go out. And what struck me here is this.

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<v Speaker 5>They pack knives, paper towels, bleach things to clean up

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<v Speaker 5>with and to shovel.

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<v Speaker 2>They meditated.

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<v Speaker 5>This is not an impulsive decision. Now, I remember I

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<v Speaker 5>did the slender Man case and it involved same age kids,

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<v Speaker 5>three kids, same age, three girls, and one was a follower,

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<v Speaker 5>one was a leader. You know, they did the same thing.

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<v Speaker 5>They packed a knife, they went out into the woods,

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<v Speaker 5>same thing. I don't know that this sort of thing

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<v Speaker 5>happened in my.

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<v Speaker 6>Day mine either, Matthew.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I think social media plays a big part

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<v Speaker 3>in it, and I think television as well. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>I think, how do they know to go and get

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<v Speaker 3>bleach and do this and do that?

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think that we're bombarded with with all of

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<v Speaker 3>this evil, like twenty four to seven, that it's available

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<v Speaker 3>to these young minds and unless the parents, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and obviously a parent can't monitor everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, you can't keep the kids in a bubble.

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<v Speaker 3>But when it comes to social media, like I don't

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<v Speaker 3>have children, but I can tell you this now, Like

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<v Speaker 3>my niece Lee Lani, it's like she's like, I want Instagram.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a mother. I'm not a mother, but I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>definitely not no TikTok, no Instagram, not till you're one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's great because with that stuff, the more you

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<v Speaker 5>look at, the more you get. So it has to

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<v Speaker 5>have an effect on the mind of someone so young.

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<v Speaker 5>But the question, I think, if we're facing evil, the

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<v Speaker 5>question becomes cannot push a kid over the edge right

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<v Speaker 5>and to commit some sort of violent act. And the

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<v Speaker 5>big question in this case is what you started with me?

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<v Speaker 5>Is the why?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 6>Why?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there's just a couple of things also that stood

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<v Speaker 5>out to me when I went through the case, and

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<v Speaker 5>that was the murder itself. How you know, of course

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<v Speaker 5>they tackled her, started stabbing her, they did all of

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<v Speaker 5>that stuff, and she fought back, right, And then there's

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<v Speaker 5>the comment, but Sheila kept stabbing her until she was

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<v Speaker 5>no longer moving and her quote neck stopped making gurgling

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<v Speaker 5>sounds end quote. So for a child to use those words,

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<v Speaker 5>that detail is significant. It's significant in the fact that

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<v Speaker 5>it tells me how active, aware and completely in touch

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<v Speaker 5>with what is happening and what they are doing. In

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<v Speaker 5>order to make that observation and then later talk about it,

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<v Speaker 5>you are in the moment, you know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>You're not in some blind rage, you're not blacking out,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you know exactly what you're doing and the

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<v Speaker 5>consequences of what is happening.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's when we go back to and this is

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<v Speaker 3>the question, because there was no remorse, you know, after

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<v Speaker 3>this happened, Sheila was you know, confronting and you know, consoling,

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<v Speaker 3>I should say, the parents, and she knew what she did.

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<v Speaker 2>As a sociopathic part right, so that.

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<v Speaker 3>We could absolutely say Sheila is a sociopath without diagnosing.

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<v Speaker 6>Of course.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let's consider the situation for a minute. So what

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<v Speaker 5>you have is a true, unempathetic, cold person, And let's

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<v Speaker 5>look at what she's actually doing. She's in the family's house, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>consoling the family, handing out flyers, hanging up She's participating.

0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:19.800
<v Speaker 5>If we think back, who else did that?

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<v Speaker 2>Michelle carter Yep.

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<v Speaker 5>So it shows callousness, it shows deception, it shows well

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<v Speaker 5>thought out lies. Right, and it begins to borderline on

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<v Speaker 5>psychopathy and the characteristics of the sociopath. We can't deny that,

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<v Speaker 5>whether we're psychologists or not.

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<v Speaker 2>It's there, yeah, right, yeah, right, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, you would look at it as sadistic, antisocial,

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<v Speaker 5>all of that stuff, all that bad stuff that goes

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<v Speaker 5>along with being a sociopath and being devious and manipulating

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<v Speaker 5>all the way until the end.

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<v Speaker 2>Right. And she was with the family when Skuyler's body

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<v Speaker 2>was discovered.

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<v Speaker 5>If I'm not mistaken, yeah, she's she counseled the family.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah said how said how sorry she was?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>But let's put our attention to and this happens in

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<v Speaker 5>every one of these cases. So when you have a

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<v Speaker 5>leader and a follower, the follower always cracks.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, yeh, which is what happened.

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<v Speaker 5>Followers the one with remorse, with guilt, with a conscience,

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<v Speaker 5>and the follower always goes in and cuts that deal first, right, right,

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<v Speaker 5>And that's exactly what you have here, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Think Rachel, you know, yes, she did, you know kind

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<v Speaker 3>of deal, but it like really started to weigh on

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<v Speaker 3>her her psychological, her well being, Like she couldn't she

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't hold that anymore, she couldn't function.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. The other girl, you know, Sheila, it was like nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>Because she didn't feel. Yeah, she has no capability, no

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<v Speaker 5>feeling of love of what we talk about a lot,

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<v Speaker 5>which is that empathy putting herself in the parent's position.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and it's very.

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<v Speaker 5>Common in teens who kill that one of them is

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<v Speaker 5>like that, it is, yeah, yeah, And you know, let's

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<v Speaker 5>go back into their lives and we can see how

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<v Speaker 5>that has an effect on it. Because Rachel talks about

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<v Speaker 5>having a good upbringing, you know, parents who loved her.

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<v Speaker 5>That's whereas Shila talks about not having that.

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<v Speaker 6>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that factors into it, for sure.

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<v Speaker 5>It's different wires and all these wires start to cross,

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<v Speaker 5>and it's very rare that that happens, and it's sad

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<v Speaker 5>all around.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, for sure, Like you said earlier, especially when

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<v Speaker 3>it's it's young kids, you know, young minds that are

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<v Speaker 3>doing these god awful things and hurting other young people

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<v Speaker 3>that it's just so heartbreaking. It goes back to mental

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<v Speaker 3>well being, you know, because there's something you know where

0:22:57.160 --> 0:23:01.720
<v Speaker 3>she's not one hundred percent Well that's awful, right, Yeah, she.

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<v Speaker 5>Had an eating disorder, she was she was depressed. Yeah,

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:06.159
<v Speaker 5>there was a lot of factors going on.

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<v Speaker 6>There, a lot of things happening when.

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<v Speaker 5>Her Bodi's found Skyler. Sheila even posts on Twitter, worst

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<v Speaker 5>day of my whole life.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>With Shila, it's clear that there is no why. There

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<v Speaker 5>is no why. What it is is she wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>get back at this girl for something we probably will

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<v Speaker 5>never know, no, yeah, and instead of just unfriending her, right,

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:38.560
<v Speaker 5>she decided violence and murder was the way to do that.

0:23:38.560 --> 0:23:42.080
<v Speaker 5>That she had to pay a price for whatever she did.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know there's people out in the world like that, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 5>that that's what they choose, you know, they choose violence

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<v Speaker 5>over just walking away.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think that's where social media comes in again,

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:58.960
<v Speaker 3>you know, and we can talk about this all day long.

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<v Speaker 3>Because when you're putting your stuff out there on social media,

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<v Speaker 3>as you know Skyler and Sila and Rachel were doing

0:24:07.280 --> 0:24:11.080
<v Speaker 3>on Twitter and saying things, you're putting it out there

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<v Speaker 3>for an audience. So now it's not just between the

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<v Speaker 3>three of you of what's going on, but now it's

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<v Speaker 3>like a boxing match, you know what I mean. Now

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:23.800
<v Speaker 3>you're putting it out there into the world, and people

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<v Speaker 3>are festering on that and creating this evil.

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<v Speaker 5>No, there's been studies about crowds and how crowds react.

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<v Speaker 5>So crowds, you know, will react one person, then ten people,

0:24:39.200 --> 0:24:41.320
<v Speaker 5>then twenty people started reacting a certain way, the whole

0:24:41.320 --> 0:24:44.080
<v Speaker 5>crowd will start following them. Yeah, right, because oh my god,

0:24:44.119 --> 0:24:46.520
<v Speaker 5>oh my god. Whatever. So in this case, you have

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<v Speaker 5>it on social media. But again going back to Shila,

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<v Speaker 5>Shila was using social media as a cover. Basically, she

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<v Speaker 5>was putting out lies on social media to cover up

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<v Speaker 5>what she did, and she was probably getting a high

0:25:00.880 --> 0:25:03.760
<v Speaker 5>off that. I'm sure she was getting an adrenaline rush,

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<v Speaker 5>because the one thing that sociopaths need more than a

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<v Speaker 5>lot of things is stimulation. They need to be stimulated. Yeah,

0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:18.119
<v Speaker 5>and that's like here you have Sheila interacting with the

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<v Speaker 5>girl's family, so she's that's stimulating to her. She'd walk

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:25.879
<v Speaker 5>away from that house guaranteed. Look what I got away

0:25:25.920 --> 0:25:29.800
<v Speaker 5>with today telling herself, Wow, what it would a fix?

0:25:30.040 --> 0:25:31.480
<v Speaker 5>You know, what a high see.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm still sitting here with the why. I'm still

0:25:34.119 --> 0:25:35.880
<v Speaker 2>like why. I mean, they were friends from the time

0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 2>they were little kids. It's not like that, you know,

0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:41.920
<v Speaker 2>Sheila and Skuyler had just met. Rachel obviously was new

0:25:41.960 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 2>to the click. That's a really hard question to answer.

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 2>It could just be, you know how people are jealous,

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<v Speaker 2>and jealous turns into hurtful and evil, and you just

0:25:55.800 --> 0:25:59.040
<v Speaker 2>don't know, and you don't know what happened in her past,

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:03.399
<v Speaker 2>Like you said, she didn't have the upbringing that Rachel had,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you never know what triggered in her brain as

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 2>a young child that set her in this direction. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I remember I had been interviewing a serial killer for

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<v Speaker 5>at the time, it was about six years, and I'd

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<v Speaker 5>often try to rope him into talking about God and

0:26:21.840 --> 0:26:24.720
<v Speaker 5>evil and good and this and that, just to get

0:26:24.760 --> 0:26:27.359
<v Speaker 5>his sense of it. And he didn't believe in God,

0:26:27.920 --> 0:26:31.760
<v Speaker 5>of course, and so I said, let's talk about evil,

0:26:32.040 --> 0:26:34.400
<v Speaker 5>and he said this was his comedy. He said, well,

0:26:34.600 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 5>if there is evil in the world, I'm it.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 5>So he knew, right, He says, if we're going to

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<v Speaker 5>use evil as a word to describe something, that's me wow.

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<v Speaker 5>And for him there was no why. There didn't have

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<v Speaker 5>to be a why. There were triggers. There were triggers,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, a woman said something he didn't like or

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<v Speaker 5>whatever triggered him. But there never was no why other

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<v Speaker 5>than the fact that at this is a decision he made. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I'm going to kill this woman today, end

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<v Speaker 5>of story. In Sheila's case, she made that decision. It's

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<v Speaker 5>clear that they made that decision a long time before

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<v Speaker 5>they took carried out this murder because of all the

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<v Speaker 5>things they took with them, the pre planning, the driving

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<v Speaker 5>out to the area, and then everything after that, the

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<v Speaker 5>social media posts, we miss you, where are you Skyler,

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<v Speaker 5>we miss you? Come home, handing out the flyers, getting

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<v Speaker 5>with the family. That's all part of the stimulation, the

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 5>high the why, that's all part of the why why.

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<v Speaker 5>Because she wanted to.

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<v Speaker 2>And she thought she could get away with it, or

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<v Speaker 2>she just didn't care.

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<v Speaker 5>Most sociopaths, you know when we look at their behavior later,

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<v Speaker 5>we're like Jesus, I mean, how the hell did you

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<v Speaker 5>think you could possibly get away with this?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 5>But now let's put ourselves in their position. Their position narcissism.

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<v Speaker 5>I believe I'm.

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<v Speaker 6>Smarter than everybody else.

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<v Speaker 5>I believe what I'm doing. No one's going to figure out.

0:28:10.119 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 5>I can convince, I can trick, I can manipulate, I

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<v Speaker 5>can lie, and people are going to believe it. So

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<v Speaker 5>although it looks like kind of megalomaniac thinking to us,

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<v Speaker 5>it's how they think. This is how their brain spinds,

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<v Speaker 5>which makes them dangerous.

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<v Speaker 2>So shifting gears a little bit, I do want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you about what you think about this. So

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<v Speaker 2>one issue in Skyler's case is that the amber alert

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<v Speaker 2>didn't go out for Skylert. But do you think that

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<v Speaker 2>law enforcement failed her because they just thought, oh, she's sixteen,

0:29:10.240 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 2>she ran away, so as you run away, yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 2>not a victim, you know, do you think that was

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<v Speaker 2>a mistake.

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<v Speaker 5>I see a lot of cases like this where a

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<v Speaker 5>team goes missing and immediately they just jumped.

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<v Speaker 2>To that they ran away.

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<v Speaker 5>They took off with a boy or a girl, and

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<v Speaker 5>they're they're you know, they're on their way to love

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<v Speaker 5>finding the sunset from the beach, and they'll be back.

0:29:33.320 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 5>Most good law enforcement don't think like that.

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<v Speaker 2>If they're under eighteen, they'll just issue the amber alert.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, they'll just boom. And it should be

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<v Speaker 5>that way. It should just be automatic.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>If she ran away, okay, fine, then we'll find her

0:29:46.640 --> 0:29:47.440
<v Speaker 5>with the amber alert.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't hurt anything, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>What it does is get people involved in the present

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 5>moment of the day basically.

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<v Speaker 6>Right, it's the community involved, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>It baffles the mind, you know, it baffles the mind

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<v Speaker 5>when I see stuff like that and it doesn't happen.

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<v Speaker 5>I think in this case, a law then gets enacted

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<v Speaker 5>because of this case.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's actually called Skuyler's Law. So it expanded the

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<v Speaker 2>date's Amber alert system to include any child who has

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<v Speaker 2>disappeared and is believed to be endangered.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the silver lining, Right.

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<v Speaker 5>I have an amber alert story I can tell you of. Yeah,

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 5>case said, I wrote a book. So, all right, So

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<v Speaker 5>there's this woman who's eight months pregnant and another woman

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<v Speaker 5>decides that it's her baby.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not.

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<v Speaker 5>So she drives from Kansas to Missouri, and she had

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<v Speaker 5>befriended this pregnant woman, and she drives there one day,

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:48.840
<v Speaker 5>takes a pairing knife, cuts that baby out of her,

0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 5>takes the baby, takes off. The sheriff shows up. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>Sheriff ben Espy, great person that I've met along my journey.

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<v Speaker 5>He shows up and he wants to issue an amber

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<v Speaker 5>alert immediately. Of course, here's what he gets. He gets, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we're not issuing an ambler for it's a fetus. I

0:31:11.080 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 5>don't know if it's a baby. They get into this hole,

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 5>back and forth. Right, So finally he says I needed that.

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 5>He tells me, he says, I needed that Amber alert

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.040
<v Speaker 5>to find that kid. I mean I needed to have

0:31:23.120 --> 0:31:26.280
<v Speaker 5>that amber I mean you put on an ambler alert

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<v Speaker 5>for a baby that's been born.

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<v Speaker 2>That way, people are gonna be looking, Yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 5>They're gonna notice. They're gonna notice something's wrong with that kid. Right,

0:31:36.000 --> 0:31:40.840
<v Speaker 5>Long story short. He ends up calling the congress person

0:31:40.880 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 5>in his district and he says, listen, he said, if

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 5>you ever want to get elected again, you're gonna get

0:31:46.880 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 5>that fucking Amber alert out tonight. Yep, and bang, they

0:31:51.200 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 5>put that amber alert out. Within a couple hours, had

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<v Speaker 5>all kinds of calls. Perpetrator was found with the baby

0:31:58.000 --> 0:31:58.600
<v Speaker 5>in her arms.

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<v Speaker 6>Wow.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, going back to Skylar's case, I mean, it

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 3>took them six months longer just to find her body,

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 3>you know, because they just assumed she was a runaway.

0:32:10.760 --> 0:32:13.120
<v Speaker 3>But the parents, you know, the parents were on them

0:32:13.280 --> 0:32:18.200
<v Speaker 3>to find her. So it's like, we need people in

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<v Speaker 3>the justice system, you know, in all of these communities

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<v Speaker 3>to really listen to what these families are saying, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and care, like truly care.

0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:34.040
<v Speaker 5>It's easier to love than to hate. We've said this before.

0:32:34.080 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 5>I think doesn't take anything to love somebody, but it

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:40.240
<v Speaker 5>takes so much energy to hate so much.

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<v Speaker 2>Matthew, I wish you had met our mom because my

0:32:46.560 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 2>mom always said something to me and to Evet, but

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:51.720
<v Speaker 2>more to me because I'm the more sensitive one. She

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<v Speaker 2>would always say, Rashia, there's more good than there is

0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 2>evil in the world. No matter how dark it gets,

0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 2>you have to know that the light is always going

0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 2>to shine.

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:03.160
<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, our mother was, you know, a bright light who

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:11.080
<v Speaker 3>had a very very very hard and dark life. But

0:33:12.120 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 3>through all of that darkness, she fought for the light,

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:20.720
<v Speaker 3>and she fought for the light and Therefore she instill that,

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:23.800
<v Speaker 3>you know, in both Russia and I so to be here,

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 3>to be with you on this platform with a like

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 3>minded soulmate, you know, is very empowering for us because

0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:36.240
<v Speaker 3>again I go back to this is not an easy industry.

0:33:36.280 --> 0:33:38.560
<v Speaker 3>You know, people a lot of people just like to

0:33:38.600 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 3>hear the brutality of it all, the sensationalism of it all.

0:33:43.200 --> 0:33:46.440
<v Speaker 3>But there's so much more to that, you know, because

0:33:46.480 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 3>it affects everyone. It affects the family, it affects the neighbors,

0:33:51.960 --> 0:33:54.800
<v Speaker 3>it affects the community, it affects the world.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you got to have responsibility talking about.

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<v Speaker 3>This, yeah, exactly.

0:34:01.560 --> 0:34:04.560
<v Speaker 5>So yeah, some people don't, but you know, I just

0:34:04.680 --> 0:34:05.920
<v Speaker 5>I don't pay attention to that.

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:09.759
<v Speaker 3>What is the light for you in this case? Like,

0:34:10.719 --> 0:34:12.640
<v Speaker 3>where's the hope? Where's the growth?

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:17.240
<v Speaker 5>Part of it is that Amber alert lag Skyler's law. Yeah,

0:34:17.280 --> 0:34:19.920
<v Speaker 5>so at least something good came out of it. The

0:34:19.960 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 5>other part of it for me was Rachel's behavior at

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:28.960
<v Speaker 5>the end. How she takes responsibility. Yeah, she displays remorse,

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:34.880
<v Speaker 5>she displays empathy, sorrow, and she takes responsibility. Yes, I

0:34:34.880 --> 0:34:35.960
<v Speaker 5>think that says a lot.

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:36.799
<v Speaker 2>It does.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, It's been an amazing, amazing hour having you here

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<v Speaker 3>on this show.

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<v Speaker 6>Matthew.

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<v Speaker 3>Again, we appreciate your light, your wisdom, your heart, your intelligence,

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:55.839
<v Speaker 3>but most of all, we just appreciate you for being

0:34:55.880 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 3>you and being here on facing evil with us.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, thank you so much. I really appreciate you asking

0:35:02.960 --> 0:35:05.399
<v Speaker 5>me again to come on. I'm very honored that you did.

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:08.040
<v Speaker 5>And you know we're friends for life.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, that's right. Today's message of hope and healing goes

0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:20.560
<v Speaker 2>out to the Ohanna, or the family of Skyler niece.

0:35:21.040 --> 0:35:26.120
<v Speaker 2>Skyler's family remembers her fondly. She was a big reader

0:35:26.200 --> 0:35:29.640
<v Speaker 2>who loved the Twilight books and she was just getting

0:35:29.719 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 2>into the classics like Great Expectations. She was a girl

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:35.959
<v Speaker 2>after my own heart.

0:35:36.040 --> 0:35:37.320
<v Speaker 6>She loved hip hop.

0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:42.279
<v Speaker 3>Tyler the Creator and mac Miller were two of her

0:35:42.520 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 3>favorite artists.

0:35:44.040 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 2>Her family also said she had a wicked sense of humor.

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:51.760
<v Speaker 2>Her aunt, Carol recalls that Skyler gave her the nickname

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 2>Sparky after she accidentally set some tissue papers on fire.

0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 2>She even decorated a spark plug as a Christmas ornament

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:01.520
<v Speaker 2>and gave it to her aunt as a guide gift.

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<v Speaker 3>And while we know all these things about Skyler, the

0:36:05.840 --> 0:36:10.759
<v Speaker 3>truth was that she was still figuring out who she

0:36:11.160 --> 0:36:15.320
<v Speaker 3>was and something that she would never get a chance

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>And so today's message of hope and healing goes out

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<v Speaker 2>to the memory of Skuyler and to her Ohana, her family,

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<v Speaker 2>Onward and upward.

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<v Speaker 6>Emua emua.

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