WEBVTT - Ep127: Mostly Lesbian Things feat. Kristen Arnett

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, it's a Monday. We here yet again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hungover as fun. And let me just tell y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. We do have white people in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>but just some white people ship that she just pulled.

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<v Speaker 1>We just like, oh my god, I'll bring you a

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<v Speaker 1>beer because you know it'll help you get over your hangover.

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<v Speaker 1>This bitch brought seltzer water. It's not it's alcoholic seltzer water.

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<v Speaker 1>It's in a can. We have to go on vacation

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<v Speaker 1>in six days, so we're gonna be fine. You know

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<v Speaker 1>when you were sucked up in your I mean we're

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<v Speaker 1>going on vacation. That's not beer doesn't have bubbles, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>it has acidity or something. No, I don't see. This

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<v Speaker 1>is what I'm working over. You Just no, she don't

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<v Speaker 1>do liquor. Do the other next to it was next

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<v Speaker 1>to the beer, and it was I'm mad, I'm drinking ginger.

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<v Speaker 1>L thinks anyway, you've never heard our show. This one

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<v Speaker 1>might be a nasty and so a great way to start.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't even I wasn't even supposed to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>She told me what we were about to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh no, bro, you could do that ship

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<v Speaker 1>by your goddamn stuff a solo episode, don't count me

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking anyway. I guess let's introduce ourselves. For those

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<v Speaker 1>of you who have not listened to the show before,

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<v Speaker 1>I am Mandy Um and that's it. I ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give you all my a k. He's another today. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>wheezy and in the studio today we have a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of mine who is now rich, so bitch, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>wait for us to hang. But not like that. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have seven movie deals hit me up after my

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<v Speaker 1>book was out for a week. Damn, Vanity Fair didn't

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<v Speaker 1>cover me or the New York Times. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>here you are, by the way, Um, I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to say, I've known Kristen just for a few years

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<v Speaker 1>now and never known her to have a girlfriend. And

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't it suck that, like, now you have all this

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<v Speaker 1>money and now you've got a girlfriend. Okay, that's when

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<v Speaker 1>she started ready at gonna be fair. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pussy when I was So that's what j

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<v Speaker 1>Cole said. Can you introduce yourself, Christen Kristin Arnett, And

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<v Speaker 1>now I can say I'm a New York Times bestselling author,

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<v Speaker 1>so like curious to know everybody talks about you in

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<v Speaker 1>seven eleven? What's the seven eleven thing? With Twitter? And

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<v Speaker 1>you like why did seven eleven love you? Oh? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just in my fucking seven eleven all the time, Like

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<v Speaker 1>how are you famous for it? Oh? I did this

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<v Speaker 1>tweet one time where I went in and there was

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<v Speaker 1>a lizard in the seven eleven, like what happens in Florida,

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<v Speaker 1>and I the cashier made a joke like, oh, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just Marvin. He likes the coffee, and people like lost

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<v Speaker 1>their fucking shit online. They like loved it. They were

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<v Speaker 1>like drawing fan ard about this fucking lizards. Didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>do like a book thing in seven eleven? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>did my book launch, my first book launching my seven elone.

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<v Speaker 1>This is now, that is that is white people. This

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<v Speaker 1>is very this is very wps. But I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was talking about her to somebody actually back girl, I

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<v Speaker 1>know she was like the seven eleven not only I

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<v Speaker 1>do want to say to like, I guess this is

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<v Speaker 1>the balance that everyone talks about because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>every white guest thinks has been thanks to you kind of.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't the white people come on show

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<v Speaker 1>people you would know you'd be bringing the whites. No. No,

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<v Speaker 1>she decided this is gonna be dope so nasty because

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<v Speaker 1>you're disgusting. So, um, we're not going to get into

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<v Speaker 1>how nasty until it happens. But I wanted to bring

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<v Speaker 1>christin on here because she's here for Pride month and

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<v Speaker 1>it's Pride weekend here in New York. We were sitting

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<v Speaker 1>at dinner and I was telling her how scissors came

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<v Speaker 1>on my stomach, and people were like, how is that sex?

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<v Speaker 1>So it made me realize a lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how lesbian sex works, especially non penetrative sex. We

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<v Speaker 1>all know how like gay men funk, right, but like

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes people are confused by womens. I want to dig

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<v Speaker 1>into that. I want to talk about how to eat pussy.

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<v Speaker 1>I almost brought a man go so you could show us.

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<v Speaker 1>But but your girlfriends here, so let's start it off.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the gayest thing you've done this month? Shit? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is where I was like, damn you as

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<v Speaker 1>a good QUESSY ain't so. I was just with my homegirls.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've been getting drunk a lot lately, um, so

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<v Speaker 1>much so that I don't really remember the next day

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. So apparently I ate my my friend. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I ate her pussy and I didn't even remember eating

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<v Speaker 1>her pussy out. So yeah, basically I ate pussy and

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<v Speaker 1>forgot um, which makes me feel like her pussy probably

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<v Speaker 1>tasted really good because I didn't even have an after

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<v Speaker 1>taste of anything or anything. And I was like, why

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<v Speaker 1>would you don't know, like when I sucked dick, bitch?

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<v Speaker 1>I know I sucked it because I'm like, taste like dick. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it was cool. We had a good time and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so what about you? I know you've been gayest fu

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<v Speaker 1>all years. So yeah, so I came to Orlando. Um

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<v Speaker 1>did you see you came? When you came, well, you

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<v Speaker 1>know for the tray wave ak and um there's and

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<v Speaker 1>I were chilling right the night before he got there

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I mean, I'm sorry, let me. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>is this drink a little bit? Just seltzer water? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so anyway, this gota you know, I'm like, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a regular beer. Thank you, Just one though, So we

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<v Speaker 1>were like really fucked up in super horny. We went

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<v Speaker 1>out right and that night the coming on my stomach

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<v Speaker 1>thing like, so I was scissoring and I got off

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<v Speaker 1>and then she gets on top of me and sucks

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<v Speaker 1>my entire body, like her pussy was like everywhere, like

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<v Speaker 1>oh my titties all the way back down, and she

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<v Speaker 1>like came hard as fun on my stomach. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when she got off of me, it was like super

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<v Speaker 1>wet and nasty. I loved it, but I was telling

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<v Speaker 1>the story to Kristen about how like the next day

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<v Speaker 1>when I mentioned it, this dude was like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why you guys are sucking the stomach. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie like she sucked the elbow and ship, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>the whole body. She just love chin. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>And then literally after she came, she didn't even like

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<v Speaker 1>cuddle like she got off of me. Dog, It was

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<v Speaker 1>like like we didn't even know each other. I wonder, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the gay ship you've done? How you gonna ask?

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<v Speaker 1>Your girlfriend is right in the room. She knows how

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<v Speaker 1>I am. How are you guys in an open relation?

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<v Speaker 1>We are not look just you. It doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be sex like, no, I mean you look gay. You

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<v Speaker 1>got a tongue rang. What's the gayest non sexual thing

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<v Speaker 1>you did? This? The gayest non sexual thing I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I cut the sleeves office. I got a T shirt

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what this just I

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<v Speaker 1>just need to cut the sleeves right off. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you were such a fucking dyke. Yeah, it's crazy, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're really dyke ish. But when you were lipstick, I'm like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Are you stem like a study fem? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that a word? I don't know, You're just like a word,

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you identify as anything? Do you think? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't think I would. I definitely don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm like fem. But I also don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like super butch. I just I don't know it is. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So when it comes to eating puss, I really want

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<v Speaker 1>us to dig into um pun intended thinks. So I

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<v Speaker 1>want us to dig into like the different types of

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<v Speaker 1>pussy eating. But one in particular is our kink of

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<v Speaker 1>the week. Have you ever heard our show us? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just we're gonna go right into this kink we are.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's called a rainbow kiss. Do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is? Where? Do you? Rainbow kiss is a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>between a female on her menstruation period. That's word at

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<v Speaker 1>awful and the other person, usually male, which is probably

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<v Speaker 1>bullshit after he performs oral sex and he gets blood

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<v Speaker 1>in his mouth and then yeah, this is the way

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<v Speaker 1>said I want to be here because she she'd be

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<v Speaker 1>doing some nasty es ship but and eating bitches on

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<v Speaker 1>a period is one and I'm just like ill. But

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<v Speaker 1>we need to talk about it because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people do it. You think it's gross, Okay, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>real with not that I think it's gross. It actually

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<v Speaker 1>is a gross at Okay. Wait, I don't eat like

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<v Speaker 1>the pussy with blood. I just like the clip if

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<v Speaker 1>it's stopped up. Oh no, I definitely do that. What

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<v Speaker 1>you eat it with the blood? Okay? Now you told

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<v Speaker 1>me when you were eating that you prefer that. Why

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<v Speaker 1>let's get it out right. Uh. Well, like when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on my like, I like somebody eat me out when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on my period, but like I'm more sensitive. It's

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<v Speaker 1>usually like I'll come a lot harder, you come harder

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<v Speaker 1>any Yeah, yeah, bitch, you'll be rude. This is king shading.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, na. Na first off, right, wait, one

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucking so, like, would you be with a woman if

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<v Speaker 1>she said, hey, that's a little much for me I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna eat you, but you prefer it, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna probably try to get her to eat you out.

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<v Speaker 1>Where are you bleeding? Like on day two? Like what

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<v Speaker 1>day of the period? I guess whatever, there's that ship

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<v Speaker 1>heaviest fun. I'm like, like day two is pretty heavy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like that's usually what I'm like, super horny.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's when you want it done. Why aren't you

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<v Speaker 1>like is it just because you're wetter down there? You're

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<v Speaker 1>feeling it? I usually like when I'm on my period,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't like not wet. It's blood but it

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<v Speaker 1>so it doesn't count as being wet. It's wet. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to know your book is called Mostly Dead Things?

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<v Speaker 1>Is the period at that point? I talk about periods

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot in the book, just because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a lot of like lit, like like fiction doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have periods in it, and like half the population is

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<v Speaker 1>having a fucking here, And I'm like, why why don't

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<v Speaker 1>we mention this? We always read read books all the

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<v Speaker 1>time where it's like talking about some guy waking up

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<v Speaker 1>with like morning would So it's like, why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>like period in a book? Like they happen? All the time,

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<v Speaker 1>and it affects like what you're doing. It affects like

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<v Speaker 1>your day, It affects how you're feeling. It affects a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that ship. So I don't I don't get

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<v Speaker 1>why it's not in books. What's your favorite type of

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<v Speaker 1>period sex? Would you prefer to scissor would you prefer fingers?

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<v Speaker 1>Or Oh no, I want somebody eat me out? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you'll be eating her out? World she be bleeding?

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<v Speaker 1>You look like no, seriously, man, you just one day

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I'll try it period. Oh but you've done

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<v Speaker 1>it before. Now as far as like, because I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>your topic, you told me about a time that you

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<v Speaker 1>ruined a hotel room. What is this massacre that we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? But this I need to know this. It

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<v Speaker 1>was here in town. Actually here in town. Yeah, here

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<v Speaker 1>in town, all right, Yeah, I left a really big tip,

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<v Speaker 1>like a clean god. So we had to get asked

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<v Speaker 1>for new sheets. I think I call it because we

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<v Speaker 1>were like a dinner and us like to call and

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<v Speaker 1>ask them to I was like, are they going to

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<v Speaker 1>think like somebody got murdered here that much? It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>like that much. But towel, No towels don't help with

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<v Speaker 1>sex from Yeah. Also if you're because it's just staying right,

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<v Speaker 1>there would be splash and when I do it in mind,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just going all over the place. If like with

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<v Speaker 1>women having sex, I think just on your hands splash

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not gonna tell me you'll blood. Don't be splashing. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>If I have a dick in me, no, it's less messy.

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<v Speaker 1>But for lesbian sex, I can imagine that because you

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<v Speaker 1>have hands, you're moving more. Yeah, I move more with

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<v Speaker 1>women than I do them in plus they come quick time.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have any like tips for period sex, like

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<v Speaker 1>how to get over like anything like what what's your

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<v Speaker 1>what's your menstruating takeaway? Um? Well, I like, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that you don't like to do, then just don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I think that's I think that's my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you're curious about it, then cool, like figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if a person wants to But like some people

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<v Speaker 1>like I've been with a lot of women that like

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. It's so weird though, because not only

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<v Speaker 1>have I I wouldn't say offended, but I've completely not

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to funk with a guy ever. Again, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on my period and he'd be like, so like to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's nasty, Like we're not even there yet, like especially

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<v Speaker 1>cause I haven't been in a relationship casual sex like

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<v Speaker 1>you should like, I don't want someone that's okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>want your head like this and switch it a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit like you said, you would be insulted. Right, A

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<v Speaker 1>man that understands that women go through their period and

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<v Speaker 1>can like to me, a man being understanding and comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>with my situation, which I have every fucking month, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a nice to see because if a

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<v Speaker 1>guy like that would make me more look at it

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<v Speaker 1>like that, I'd be like, damn, nick, you thirsty uk?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait three days? I have a three day period, six period.

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<v Speaker 1>They can't wait six weeks? What are we doing next week?

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<v Speaker 1>It's still a week more god like? To me, I

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<v Speaker 1>look at more as like I wonder if the time

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<v Speaker 1>frame isn't what your problem is? Just wait? Actually to

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<v Speaker 1>speak on a week, it probably is seven days of blood,

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<v Speaker 1>but like five days of real ship, it's not. I

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<v Speaker 1>got my first day, then my second day is the heaviest.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even talk me about the third day. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, okay, did I start this in night? On

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<v Speaker 1>the morning because by the third day at night, I

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<v Speaker 1>might be able to like my period is like see,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why you're talking like this, That's why you're able

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<v Speaker 1>to get spicy about it. I'm telling you right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm spicy. Average period time like four you're doing some

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<v Speaker 1>libraries over you know it's five days, right, four days right? Average?

0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:10.560
<v Speaker 1>So y'all always be a wee y'all abnormal? See for six,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a I mean like you. We're gonna go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and get into our wait are you doing asking about

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<v Speaker 1>blood because I've been done. I've been waiting to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the So we are actually gonna talk about doubt

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<v Speaker 1>for our Vanilla Ship, which, if you guys again, our

0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:36.360
<v Speaker 1>first time listeners are Vanilla Ship segment is where we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about sex in the news. We found this interesting

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<v Speaker 1>one and it's actually on Vice dot com UM, where

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<v Speaker 1>met students are doing vaginal exams on unconscious, non consenting patients. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>The practice is still legal in forty two states despite

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<v Speaker 1>decades long of ethical concerns. UM. Did you read into

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<v Speaker 1>this and see, like what's really going on? No, So

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<v Speaker 1>here's the gist of it. UM to practice doing exams,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I forgot what state it's it if you

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<v Speaker 1>can find it. Basically, they're allowed to do vaginal exams

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<v Speaker 1>on women that are in comas, that are completely unconscious,

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<v Speaker 1>that are in a vegetative state. And um, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>that state in particular finds nothing wrong with it because

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<v Speaker 1>they're just learning and not being hurtful and it's a

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<v Speaker 1>medical thing. Well, there's even this one, it says um.

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<v Speaker 1>In two thousand seven, Ashley Whites was admitted to the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital in Utah for extreme nausea and her doctor, I

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<v Speaker 1>hate these words, anesticized, Oh bitch, I gotta um, so

0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:49.000
<v Speaker 1>put her? Are you on the librarian? So she put

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<v Speaker 1>her under anesthesia, Um, when other treatments weren't working, and Whites,

0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.040
<v Speaker 1>who is a rape survivor, woke up to find that

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<v Speaker 1>the doctor was examining her genitals. Horrible. That is horrible. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, especially when you're not aware of someone's trauma

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<v Speaker 1>and you are putting them under like to just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of do you remember Kill Bill when she woke up

0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:10.640
<v Speaker 1>to the guy sucking her. Did you ever watch kill Bill? Yeah?

0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:13.720
<v Speaker 1>With the blonde. So there's a scene where there's a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of people in comas and this guy pays someone

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<v Speaker 1>that works there to funk one of the patients, and

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<v Speaker 1>she could feel it, like even though she couldn't never talk.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so sad. We actually had a vanilla ship not

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<v Speaker 1>too long ago where there was a nursing home or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that. When were or was it like and

0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.440
<v Speaker 1>he got and yeah, so there was a staff worker

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<v Speaker 1>that was having sex with these people who were in

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<v Speaker 1>vegetative states, and one actually got pregnant. And so the

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<v Speaker 1>family was trying to figure out, like how the fund

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<v Speaker 1>does this happen, Like, you know, this person can't even

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<v Speaker 1>consent or non consent, but yeah, she ended up being

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<v Speaker 1>pregnant under the care of a home. So it's just sad.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, but when when I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to think the times that I go to that despect

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<v Speaker 1>that the students are doing it is wild. That's wild.

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<v Speaker 1>But I've been under of course, with like my surgery

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<v Speaker 1>and everything like that. I don't remember ever signing, like

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<v Speaker 1>is there even a paper, Like I don't even think

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<v Speaker 1>there's anything to sign for. There might be something that

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<v Speaker 1>says that I was just gonna say, there might be

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<v Speaker 1>something that says, uh, Marcus in the healthcare field, but

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<v Speaker 1>there might be something that says like, oh you can

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<v Speaker 1>your body can be used for that's crazy. I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say used for like training or something. I know.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I got my breast son, it was six

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<v Speaker 1>year or seven years ago. Um, my doctor asked my

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<v Speaker 1>consent that morning. He was like, hey, I have a

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<v Speaker 1>apprentice under me that is learning. Are you comfortable with

0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:49.200
<v Speaker 1>him being in the room we're watching? And I said no,

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<v Speaker 1>because just God forbid you in the middle of my

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<v Speaker 1>tity and like, oh you see this right here in

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<v Speaker 1>something slips And I said absolutely not. And I was like, sorry,

0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to be that person. Oh you're new,

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<v Speaker 1>No practice on somebody else? No, no, no, not practice

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<v Speaker 1>the plastic that someone could watch. But to me, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't want him to be pointing things out and talking

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<v Speaker 1>and not doing that makes sense, like your focus would

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<v Speaker 1>be off of my teeth. So the student wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>gonna touch you just being in the room you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even want to do. And it wasn't even a student.

0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:19.879
<v Speaker 1>It was an actual doctor who was like kind of

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<v Speaker 1>just getting in there and he asked, and he was

0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:24.280
<v Speaker 1>somebody taking the attention away just so it's not myself.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes like my teeth or something. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, I've watched before and I've been going

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<v Speaker 1>on my spot a minute. She's like, yeah, okay, if

0:18:32.080 --> 0:18:39.320
<v Speaker 1>I bring somebody, you got what he's got, go ahead, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just pussy back. No, No, you're like, don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go back. I just caught that. Okay. So here's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna talk about. Um, I want to talk

0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:03.280
<v Speaker 1>about further decision. Obviously it's going to be eat pussy

0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:05.440
<v Speaker 1>like a lesbian, but I do want to get into

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of your role during sex. So we've

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<v Speaker 1>had conversations about you being dominating person um. Actually, and

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<v Speaker 1>actually Mandy said to me, how I don't get what

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean she's a dom? How are you a

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<v Speaker 1>dom and a lesbian? How do you have a girl

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<v Speaker 1>a dom? I mean, I know my problem is just

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<v Speaker 1>knowing who the gonna pay? Will we go out? Me see? Well,

0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I'll be like called it being like a kind of

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<v Speaker 1>pay and be like a top. Now, why top versus dom?

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<v Speaker 1>What is the difference? I don't know. It's a good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I feel like I am you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>your just the top? Yeah, maybe but you like eight, Yeah,

0:19:42.000 --> 0:19:48.320
<v Speaker 1>but I want to tell somebody what to do. So

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<v Speaker 1>walk us through? Like where you think what makes you

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<v Speaker 1>a top? Like what character characteristics? Let's let's say as

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<v Speaker 1>far as whether they be hitting on women paying for

0:19:56.960 --> 0:20:01.720
<v Speaker 1>ship walk us through? Ah, smither. I guess I would

0:20:01.760 --> 0:20:06.480
<v Speaker 1>be like, um, I confidence maybe like that's some of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Also just a lot of women want to be and all.

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<v Speaker 1>This is my personal experience of talking about my personal

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<v Speaker 1>I love that my girlfriends I'm talking about. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how I slid into her d M s And

0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:24.399
<v Speaker 1>then she went forward, Oh, I was drunk. It was

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day. I was like, I am drunk and it's

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day and I just want to I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're cute. I just wanted to tell you that that

0:20:33.880 --> 0:20:38.600
<v Speaker 1>was like sweet. I'm talking I put the little jib

0:20:39.119 --> 0:20:42.240
<v Speaker 1>with the girl shooting a shot, but it said, hey,

0:20:43.720 --> 0:20:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that's kind of cute. He thought it was so cute,

0:20:46.520 --> 0:20:50.359
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, are you like, do you tell girls like

0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:51.960
<v Speaker 1>that you want to suck them that night? Because that

0:20:52.160 --> 0:20:54.480
<v Speaker 1>how pussy works for you? Like how I don't even

0:20:54.480 --> 0:20:55.840
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like I don't even have to say,

0:20:55.960 --> 0:20:59.160
<v Speaker 1>like I feel like if you have like a I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't usually have to say what I want. So

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<v Speaker 1>as far as topping, how does that start for you?

0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Because you liked someone to go down on you? But

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<v Speaker 1>I've also heard you say like you've had a girl

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<v Speaker 1>completely naked and you went down on them, So like,

0:21:16.920 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 1>are you like walk us through that like when you're topping. Well,

0:21:21.800 --> 0:21:25.320
<v Speaker 1>it's just I guess it's like queer sex works like

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<v Speaker 1>for women in this kind of way where it's less

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<v Speaker 1>because I I'm saying this is like I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 1>is what I suppose about pero sex, right, this idea

0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:40.160
<v Speaker 1>of like the penetrative act being like the main thing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but the main event. And there's not like a main

0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:44.680
<v Speaker 1>event like that going on for the most part, unless

0:21:44.680 --> 0:21:47.359
<v Speaker 1>you're using like toys at that point, there is no

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<v Speaker 1>main event. It's just a whole bunch of like touching

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<v Speaker 1>and looking yeah, or I mean those fucking like with

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<v Speaker 1>your hands, with your hands. So let's walk through all

0:22:00.119 --> 0:22:01.880
<v Speaker 1>the types of lesbian sex you can. I was looking

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of different kinds of sex. I was just

0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:09.199
<v Speaker 1>looking at their nails. Y'all are lesbian? I don't na.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as you say I'm just looking like, well, yes, okay,

0:22:16.600 --> 0:22:20.240
<v Speaker 1>so let's start with top three. So fucking when you

0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:23.240
<v Speaker 1>say fucking, it's your hand, Yeah, okay, I would say that.

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<v Speaker 1>So fucking is the penetrative act. I mean yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you can also just like stick your tongue really

0:22:29.640 --> 0:22:34.920
<v Speaker 1>up in somebody, like tongue sucks somebody. Yea tongue that

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<v Speaker 1>like like I hope I'm not making that noise shet

0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:48.600
<v Speaker 1>o here, like you just really what it is right now. Okay,

0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:51.480
<v Speaker 1>So fucking with your hand, But I want to talk

0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:53.760
<v Speaker 1>about scissoring and then so when you eat somebody out,

0:22:53.800 --> 0:22:55.640
<v Speaker 1>you can funk them with your hand at the same

0:22:55.680 --> 0:22:58.440
<v Speaker 1>time too. So there's that. But when you're like, let's

0:22:58.440 --> 0:23:01.520
<v Speaker 1>talk about the like because when I have when I'm scissoring,

0:23:01.560 --> 0:23:04.440
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it goes everywhere. Sometimes it's like I'm on her thigh. Yeah,

0:23:04.640 --> 0:23:08.600
<v Speaker 1>Like what is that called? Like just kidding like yeah,

0:23:08.840 --> 0:23:11.800
<v Speaker 1>like kind of grinding on somebody, Like I mean that's

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.600
<v Speaker 1>that's good too. I mean that's just like there's just

0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:21.680
<v Speaker 1>me anyway you can kind of rub your ship. Why

0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:24.120
<v Speaker 1>did you say grind on me? And then pretty Ricky

0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:32.840
<v Speaker 1>just sounded to you. I don't know her fingers through

0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:37.919
<v Speaker 1>my brains. Okay, So in particular, when it comes to

0:23:38.040 --> 0:23:40.719
<v Speaker 1>your favorite type of sex, what is it? Oh? I

0:23:40.760 --> 0:23:43.120
<v Speaker 1>like I like to fux somebody else. I guess you'd

0:23:43.160 --> 0:23:46.680
<v Speaker 1>like to suck somebody else. Now, when you're sucking someone else,

0:23:47.560 --> 0:23:50.400
<v Speaker 1>how are you getting off? Do you ever get off later?

0:23:50.600 --> 0:23:54.119
<v Speaker 1>Do you touch yourself? Yeah? Well, I mean I'll just

0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:57.840
<v Speaker 1>tell them what I want them to do usually. Now

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<v Speaker 1>the top me mommy thing. Taught me mommy, let's talk

0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:07.040
<v Speaker 1>it any of her book? No, it's not in my book.

0:24:07.080 --> 0:24:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh I heard no, I wrote it on Christopher's copy.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you ask girls to call you mommy

0:24:15.200 --> 0:24:18.200
<v Speaker 1>or daddy? I do not. Girls have definitely called me

0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:21.480
<v Speaker 1>daddy before, though, But then I like that that's hot. Yeah,

0:24:22.240 --> 0:24:24.000
<v Speaker 1>this guy just told This guy just told me he

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 1>wanted me to be his daddy, clearly for that's it's

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:29.080
<v Speaker 1>sexiest fun. I love it. But taught me mommy. When

0:24:29.080 --> 0:24:33.880
<v Speaker 1>did that come out? That's a phrase that my girlfriend?

0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:39.639
<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, but like, when is she asking you to

0:24:39.760 --> 0:24:42.679
<v Speaker 1>talk her? Um? No, she wouldn't ask me to do that.

0:24:42.720 --> 0:24:46.040
<v Speaker 1>I just would do it. Oh yeah, and then she

0:24:46.119 --> 0:24:50.000
<v Speaker 1>yells taught me mommy. Like while you're talking. I'm just

0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to understand this. What are the gay phrases that

0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 1>go ones? Like, for example, like I'm always talking about

0:24:56.760 --> 0:24:59.240
<v Speaker 1>how good dick feels, like how I can't wait to taste.

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:03.000
<v Speaker 1>What are the things that you say during your lesbian assex? Well,

0:25:03.000 --> 0:25:04.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean if sex is good, then all like you

0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:07.480
<v Speaker 1>can talk about like like like your pussy tastes good

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<v Speaker 1>or yeah, give us more tips, bitch. He was exceptional

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<v Speaker 1>at the end in my future voice, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was exception exceptional? Can we've been saying we do right? Exceptional?

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<v Speaker 1>I did say it was exceptional. Big word for you,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, that's all. It was good I was. I

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<v Speaker 1>was thinking of big words, just the word right out here.

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<v Speaker 1>It's because like y'all are talking like about Matt gayship.

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<v Speaker 1>But like the problem is, like my friends, so this

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<v Speaker 1>is the problem too, Like when I have sex with

0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:51.080
<v Speaker 1>a woman, I do just like pure sex with a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's it. Like one girl got all the ways,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't want to talk about this ship. So

0:25:55.480 --> 0:25:57.320
<v Speaker 1>this one girl got in my bed this one time, right,

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<v Speaker 1>booty ass. But as a kid, she liked girls. I

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<v Speaker 1>like girls, so we in bed and then she starts

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<v Speaker 1>getting into like and I guess maybe guys have to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with this. She wouldn't let me because she felt

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<v Speaker 1>like all I wanted to do was just suck her.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she trying to make me take her to the

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<v Speaker 1>movies the next day? Like this is right? And I'm like,

0:26:16.920 --> 0:26:19.439
<v Speaker 1>gotta deal with holy sh it? Like so, I just

0:26:19.520 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess why naked? My point? Why why did you

0:26:23.560 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>get undressed? It was supposed to be a sleepover, like, hey, girl,

0:26:27.040 --> 0:26:33.119
<v Speaker 1>come over, It was like corn. I don't know. I

0:26:33.119 --> 0:26:35.840
<v Speaker 1>guess it's weird too. So for me, I feel like

0:26:35.880 --> 0:26:37.879
<v Speaker 1>I identify as queer, but when I deal with women,

0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:40.480
<v Speaker 1>I genuinely only want to deal with women, but only

0:26:40.520 --> 0:26:42.679
<v Speaker 1>for like that very short say. I don't know if

0:26:42.680 --> 0:26:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I can see myself with a woman, and then men

0:26:45.720 --> 0:26:48.159
<v Speaker 1>often because they know I like women, automatically go to

0:26:48.200 --> 0:26:51.119
<v Speaker 1>thinking it's a threesome vibe. So I do want to ask,

0:26:51.520 --> 0:26:54.280
<v Speaker 1>are you guys have you ever been with men? And

0:26:54.280 --> 0:26:56.880
<v Speaker 1>if so, doesn't is there ever an urge to bring

0:26:56.960 --> 0:27:00.080
<v Speaker 1>a man into the bedroom with lesbian sext? Never? I

0:27:00.080 --> 0:27:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I have been just the one time okay with the man,

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:08.800
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't you get pregnant. Yeah, after school special.

0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:13.760
<v Speaker 1>So you sucked the guy once, Yeah, and got pregnant.

0:27:14.080 --> 0:27:18.320
<v Speaker 1>How old are you? Eighteen? Damn the best time to

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:24.240
<v Speaker 1>get pregnant. See that's why you start. So what made

0:27:24.240 --> 0:27:26.360
<v Speaker 1>you like you knew you were gay the whole time? Right?

0:27:26.600 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I was? I was extremely wrecked that night, and I

0:27:30.560 --> 0:27:32.720
<v Speaker 1>wasn't like I was eighteen and I hadn't done a

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 1>lot of like I was, like, did a bunch of

0:27:34.560 --> 0:27:38.879
<v Speaker 1>ship that night. So damn you got pregnant on your

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 1>first try. You know what that really shows you steer clear?

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<v Speaker 1>What is wrong with you? I'm just saying being like, no,

0:27:47.880 --> 0:27:52.560
<v Speaker 1>you're gay, I'm gonna keep doing it. That to me, Bro,

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 1>my friend gay fucked the dude once, literally got lamydia,

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 1>could do ten years later got pregnant. So here's a question.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad you brought this up. It was asked

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<v Speaker 1>in our d m um, and I'm actually curious. So again,

0:28:09.920 --> 0:28:12.639
<v Speaker 1>dealing with men, I hate that we're even really attaching

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<v Speaker 1>STDs to just men. What are the possibilities of catching

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:20.240
<v Speaker 1>STDs in lesbian sex and how does that come about?

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<v Speaker 1>With of course exchanging in fluids, But what are the

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<v Speaker 1>don't what are I'm asking you? Like you would know

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<v Speaker 1>what you have. I just keep like, have you known

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<v Speaker 1>any friends to get st d s from women? Women

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:33.160
<v Speaker 1>and women? I don't. I don't. I'm positive that that

0:32:33.160 --> 0:32:35.080
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0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:38.240
<v Speaker 1>really know. And and also like that's the thing too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean you're talking about like wanting to just

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<v Speaker 1>fucking then not well, yeah, there's that, and so even

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<v Speaker 1>just the the idea of of course if we're fucking

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<v Speaker 1>with men, there's the plan B. There's all these contraceptives

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<v Speaker 1>to keep from being so with women. What are the

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<v Speaker 1>ways to have safe sex as a woman so that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not contracting STDs? Have you ever had save sex

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I

0:33:02.560 --> 0:33:04.320
<v Speaker 1>know there's dental dams, but where do you even buy

0:33:04.360 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 1>those ships? Actually, it seems like they only give it

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<v Speaker 1>to us in school to say hey, these things exist.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, from does anyone in your looking

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<v Speaker 1>plastic right like saranra like kind of like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a tongue guard, there's finger gloves, finger comms before

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<v Speaker 1>I also have this shows before these finger condoms before

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:32.760
<v Speaker 1>that's the only series. Yes for what to play with

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>the booty hole you've put Yes, especially with my crylics,

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:40.840
<v Speaker 1>like it helps when you have them in your home. No,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've I've had them before. You get them I

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<v Speaker 1>think for free, like I do, only get they passed

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<v Speaker 1>them out. But I'm sorry you got finger cords and

0:33:48.880 --> 0:33:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I used it like I'm curious, you know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>get no guydam cors on the six train hole. I

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<v Speaker 1>was probably I have so many cons of the house,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had one of the like I got finger

0:33:58.560 --> 0:34:01.120
<v Speaker 1>condoms don't And I tried and I was like, but

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<v Speaker 1>how you use it? See? But we got other people

0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:06.400
<v Speaker 1>use the finger commoms, don't finger commensation because I'm curious

0:34:06.480 --> 0:34:09.120
<v Speaker 1>out why you used it because they were passing out.

0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:15.840
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to try it and it helped because I

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:17.880
<v Speaker 1>was like, like he was scared of my crilic and

0:34:17.920 --> 0:34:20.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I got you with it, Dusty. When

0:34:20.960 --> 0:34:23.640
<v Speaker 1>you check it out, No, it's a bro. It's loud,

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:27.200
<v Speaker 1>like they're kind like they're kind of like ship on it.

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's why I've been dusty. Yeah. First off,

0:34:31.560 --> 0:34:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't deal with no dusty ship and only stop. Okay,

0:34:40.920 --> 0:34:42.920
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I'm mad because I just thought I had

0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:44.600
<v Speaker 1>some really great questions and apparently none of us know

0:34:44.800 --> 0:34:46.440
<v Speaker 1>about Leslians. While you'll be out here eating, but you

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:48.279
<v Speaker 1>got ahle as girlfriend. You gotta hole lets girlfriend, and

0:34:48.280 --> 0:34:51.040
<v Speaker 1>we can't talking about God the STDs. But letsbian say no,

0:34:51.120 --> 0:34:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I think it's good to talk about it. Some good

0:34:56.120 --> 0:35:00.760
<v Speaker 1>Leslian questions and you let's see on my fucking so,

0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.600
<v Speaker 1>so that is a good a good thing. So it's

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:05.799
<v Speaker 1>on the train where they're now even including women in

0:35:05.840 --> 0:35:09.320
<v Speaker 1>the narrative of prep um. But I guess that's also

0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:11.799
<v Speaker 1>I would like to talk about that specifically because we

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 1>also view HIV as a gay man um disease, which

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:22.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think is you know, but there's ways there's

0:35:22.600 --> 0:35:25.480
<v Speaker 1>a disease transmitted through but there's ways of contracting, especially

0:35:25.480 --> 0:35:28.120
<v Speaker 1>if you're eating bloody pussies. I would assume that, like

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 1>you can really get HIV from like eating period blood

0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:35.799
<v Speaker 1>right in there? How to deal self help? I mean,

0:35:35.840 --> 0:35:37.840
<v Speaker 1>I just want to know. So with with lesbians, is

0:35:37.880 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>that something to where you guys even have the conversation

0:35:40.640 --> 0:35:43.600
<v Speaker 1>of getting tested together and stuff, because it seems like

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:47.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't really know of STDs really and not women

0:35:47.280 --> 0:35:50.400
<v Speaker 1>don't often have safe sex. So is it a conversation

0:35:50.480 --> 0:35:53.120
<v Speaker 1>in a lesbian relationship to even talk about that? And

0:35:53.160 --> 0:35:56.760
<v Speaker 1>how do relationships? Of course you clean, it's a common question,

0:35:56.800 --> 0:35:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the same of course with gay men. But is that

0:35:58.600 --> 0:36:02.359
<v Speaker 1>not a conversation with lesbians? It's not a conversation I've

0:36:02.360 --> 0:36:04.879
<v Speaker 1>had too often to be fair, I'm not a relationship

0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:09.400
<v Speaker 1>person so when you're just sucking. Yeah, it's not like

0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:11.520
<v Speaker 1>you're using anything, Like has anyone ever asked you that?

0:36:11.960 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Like you really? So? Let these are really unsafe as

0:36:17.760 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying that these conversations I think still

0:36:19.960 --> 0:36:23.640
<v Speaker 1>should be had even with women on women. Um, I

0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:28.399
<v Speaker 1>don't know, as it's crazy because damn especially because some women,

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:31.440
<v Speaker 1>especially like ones like like I still dip and dabble

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:35.160
<v Speaker 1>with me. Honest, I've never asked a girl, which is

0:36:35.600 --> 0:36:39.640
<v Speaker 1>every guy, I fuck, I'm always like, right, but women

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:42.560
<v Speaker 1>can also carry things and if you're eating blood and

0:36:42.560 --> 0:36:45.600
<v Speaker 1>ship like, y'all should really be testing up. I mean,

0:36:45.600 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 1>I definitely go and do that, but I've never asked

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:50.960
<v Speaker 1>a woman. Yeah, I think it's the same way that

0:36:51.000 --> 0:36:54.080
<v Speaker 1>we want to hold. I think it should be a

0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:58.360
<v Speaker 1>thing with lesbian smell check, smell check? How do we

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:00.799
<v Speaker 1>get here? I'm just curious what I'm saying, Like that's

0:37:00.880 --> 0:37:02.600
<v Speaker 1>normally what nick is. Do they like she smell alright?

0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:06.279
<v Speaker 1>She smells cleand um so I mean, but not all

0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 1>STDs carryinally And then I really want to get into

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 1>the smell test. How do you smell tested? Smell tested? Well? No,

0:37:14.719 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean I just I mean, I like how pussy

0:37:16.400 --> 0:37:19.960
<v Speaker 1>smells me too, smell pussy. We didn't get like a

0:37:20.000 --> 0:37:22.719
<v Speaker 1>live show what no one can get it consistent and

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:26.080
<v Speaker 1>it's different, I think everybody because everybody's bodies are different.

0:37:26.120 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>It's like different, like a party bad. This guy at

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:30.759
<v Speaker 1>our Lives show said, it smells like salmon next to

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:34.880
<v Speaker 1>his bitch. He said, with which I just said it

0:37:34.920 --> 0:37:38.120
<v Speaker 1>like that, and why did you girlfriend right to him?

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:40.760
<v Speaker 1>And we were like, oh, well, honey, I shouldn't smell

0:37:40.760 --> 0:37:42.200
<v Speaker 1>like why did I try to give him a pass

0:37:42.239 --> 0:37:43.880
<v Speaker 1>because he was talking about he was a I was like,

0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:50.120
<v Speaker 1>it's the language barrier. I felt so bad because May

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't shut him about the l I was like, he's

0:37:52.880 --> 0:37:57.200
<v Speaker 1>I will not date a guy salmon like Solomon. I

0:37:57.239 --> 0:37:59.360
<v Speaker 1>also will not date a guy who orders his steak.

0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:06.200
<v Speaker 1>What is it? Hard done? We can't date anymore. We

0:38:06.239 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 1>can't date anymore. It is it's like, just don't make

0:38:09.480 --> 0:38:11.000
<v Speaker 1>it a fu cliche. You know they're going to talk

0:38:11.000 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 1>about us when they go to the back, maybe like

0:38:12.719 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 1>that table over there all well done? No no, or

0:38:16.360 --> 0:38:19.839
<v Speaker 1>chicken fried hard. That's another one, sir, I'm sorry, Yeah,

0:38:20.040 --> 0:38:22.680
<v Speaker 1>chicken fried hard. You ain't never heard the chicken fried hard.

0:38:22.760 --> 0:38:24.960
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking. You know chicken fried heart, right,

0:38:26.600 --> 0:38:34.319
<v Speaker 1>they'd like double fried and chicken. Yeah. First off, you

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:38.400
<v Speaker 1>just look at chicken fried hard. No, they do be

0:38:38.440 --> 0:38:41.239
<v Speaker 1>asking for chicken fried heart. So you like the smell

0:38:41.280 --> 0:38:43.920
<v Speaker 1>of pussy? Have you ever had that? You were just

0:38:43.960 --> 0:38:46.120
<v Speaker 1>like you had to dodge and bob and weave the

0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:48.080
<v Speaker 1>puss if I didn't like how it smelled them, I'm

0:38:48.120 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 1>just not gonna someone. No, I wouldn't tell someone, bro,

0:38:53.160 --> 0:38:56.120
<v Speaker 1>this is a conversation to have. What you just said,

0:38:56.120 --> 0:38:58.600
<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't tell someone if they're pussy smelled. No, I

0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:01.080
<v Speaker 1>would not do that. Why because there's also a thing

0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>too where it's like sometimes maybe you were out, like

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:06.080
<v Speaker 1>walking around all day and you're sweaty and it's a

0:39:06.120 --> 0:39:09.520
<v Speaker 1>whole situation. But like, but if it's a whole situation,

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:14.040
<v Speaker 1>be like, since you had a whole situation today that

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.439
<v Speaker 1>was in a relationship with somebody. But like I'm too,

0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:22.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like ineop sucking far into your thirties bitch

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.120
<v Speaker 1>and only have two girlfriends? Do you really just like

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 1>causual pussy? Right? So with all the causual pussy, you

0:39:28.600 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 1>still haven't if there was a stench. You know, you

0:39:31.400 --> 0:39:33.160
<v Speaker 1>don't know how to have that conversation. N No, I

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:34.800
<v Speaker 1>don't think I would tell that to a woman because

0:39:34.840 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>I people take that like very serious, like it would

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:42.959
<v Speaker 1>suck somebody up. I think it. But also she's gonna

0:39:42.960 --> 0:39:49.120
<v Speaker 1>suck up someone's sucking clothes and hands. Shouldn't we as women,

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:51.399
<v Speaker 1>make it our fucking duty to tell you your post

0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:55.200
<v Speaker 1>that is not my mean, you're putting your whole space

0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:57.040
<v Speaker 1>down there. It should be kind of a job to

0:39:57.120 --> 0:39:59.839
<v Speaker 1>let someone know because I can't fit my head down there.

0:40:00.000 --> 0:40:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I've never had complaints. I've never I've never gone down

0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>on someone where it's been like I can't do No,

0:40:06.000 --> 0:40:09.400
<v Speaker 1>it's never been like something horrible. Well you've been lucky.

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Like so many times we've had men talk about the stench.

0:40:13.440 --> 0:40:16.040
<v Speaker 1>But I want to say this one, mean, what do

0:40:16.160 --> 0:40:19.359
<v Speaker 1>men think pussy? Like there's a little musk to a man,

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:22.359
<v Speaker 1>Like you know what I'm saying, Like maybe men have

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:25.880
<v Speaker 1>way higher expectations. So I like, like if something like

0:40:25.960 --> 0:40:28.359
<v Speaker 1>has a strong smell, like I like that ship. I

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:32.160
<v Speaker 1>like pussy smell. Yeah, Like I don't like water smelling pussy.

0:40:32.560 --> 0:40:36.440
<v Speaker 1>That's it's kind of weird. For me, there's really no water.

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:38.560
<v Speaker 1>If I water smelling pussy, I mean no smell like

0:40:38.800 --> 0:40:41.080
<v Speaker 1>like like after I eat somebody out or like finger

0:40:41.160 --> 0:40:43.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody to be like smell it on me afterwards. I

0:40:43.480 --> 0:40:46.759
<v Speaker 1>love that me too, Ye same, Yeah, but she wanted

0:40:47.160 --> 0:40:48.680
<v Speaker 1>she got on me because I said dead on Vice

0:40:48.680 --> 0:40:50.439
<v Speaker 1>and you had a problem. You said, it's in my hair.

0:40:50.520 --> 0:40:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't you know what it was. I think it

0:40:52.960 --> 0:40:54.680
<v Speaker 1>wasn't that you said it. It's just that we were

0:40:54.680 --> 0:40:59.680
<v Speaker 1>on TV because I suck before we went there, and

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:02.440
<v Speaker 1>that's still smell him in my hair and I it

0:41:02.560 --> 0:41:06.360
<v Speaker 1>just smell good. That was a lot being real Judging

0:41:06.400 --> 0:41:10.360
<v Speaker 1>pussy eating tips, Megan the Stallion has said recently, you

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:12.640
<v Speaker 1>look at my pussy too hard. That ship is aggravating.

0:41:13.239 --> 0:41:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I would like to talk about the dudes and don'ts

0:41:15.600 --> 0:41:19.360
<v Speaker 1>of pussy eating. Yeah, I would say, like the best

0:41:19.400 --> 0:41:23.080
<v Speaker 1>tip about it, because everybody likes different ships, like some

0:41:23.080 --> 0:41:25.080
<v Speaker 1>people like you to really go to town on them,

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.520
<v Speaker 1>and some people don't even like people, and some people don't.

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.759
<v Speaker 1>Some people don't like that ship, and some people also

0:41:29.920 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>maybe barely like you to touch them, or some people

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 1>want you to touch their clip directly, and some people

0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:37.080
<v Speaker 1>don't like that. Yeah, see some people don't like that

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:39.480
<v Speaker 1>to you. It's it's really like every single time I

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:41.840
<v Speaker 1>feel like I've ever gone down someone, it's like, let's

0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:44.879
<v Speaker 1>figure out not only that, I think it's that there

0:41:44.880 --> 0:41:47.400
<v Speaker 1>should be a conversation there because even so for me,

0:41:47.480 --> 0:41:49.920
<v Speaker 1>I guess I just really like penetration. So even when

0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:52.400
<v Speaker 1>a guy and some guys just enjoy giving heads of

0:41:52.440 --> 0:41:54.680
<v Speaker 1>if you really want to pussy, I'll let you, but

0:41:54.760 --> 0:41:56.440
<v Speaker 1>even while you're down there, like I need you to

0:41:56.480 --> 0:41:58.879
<v Speaker 1>finger me. And there's been so many women that say

0:41:58.920 --> 0:42:01.399
<v Speaker 1>they don't like fingers in them at all. So it's

0:42:01.440 --> 0:42:03.440
<v Speaker 1>like definitely a conversation to where if you do have

0:42:03.480 --> 0:42:05.640
<v Speaker 1>someone down there, let him know if he's hurting you

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:09.160
<v Speaker 1>or she sorry, I'm bringing this back hetero, but let

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:12.040
<v Speaker 1>them know it's good to be vocal about I don't

0:42:12.080 --> 0:42:14.440
<v Speaker 1>like this, or do this instead maybe or something like

0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:18.440
<v Speaker 1>eating is a big deal and a lot of people

0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 1>will complain about it, and I'm like, why not just

0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:23.000
<v Speaker 1>make it like a sexy thing of have someone like

0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:25.280
<v Speaker 1>walk you through what they like. If you tell somebody

0:42:25.280 --> 0:42:28.840
<v Speaker 1>what you like, then they can do that again for you.

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:32.719
<v Speaker 1>Do you ask when you're putting your fingers inside of women. Um,

0:42:32.760 --> 0:42:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't. But if somebody told me that they didn't

0:42:36.280 --> 0:42:37.920
<v Speaker 1>like it or not to do that, then I just wouldn't.

0:42:37.920 --> 0:42:39.840
<v Speaker 1>I just wouldn't do that. What do you think is

0:42:39.920 --> 0:42:43.719
<v Speaker 1>the a common mistake with pussy eating or something that

0:42:43.840 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 1>like generally you're like, what the people are too rough?

0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like with this woman this one time, and

0:42:48.040 --> 0:42:51.239
<v Speaker 1>she the next day I was like, I feel like

0:42:51.239 --> 0:42:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I rode a horse for like twelve hours. I was

0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:57.279
<v Speaker 1>like this hor no from like like because you know,

0:42:57.320 --> 0:42:58.680
<v Speaker 1>like a lot of times people are eating you out

0:42:58.680 --> 0:43:00.239
<v Speaker 1>and like fingering you at the same time. I was

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:01.960
<v Speaker 1>just like, what has gone on in your life that

0:43:02.000 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 1>you are like punching me and the crotch like fist

0:43:05.320 --> 0:43:11.400
<v Speaker 1>people to like it people on fistings. Have you fisted?

0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:14.560
<v Speaker 1>I have done that for people. I don't want that

0:43:14.680 --> 0:43:17.120
<v Speaker 1>for me. I don't want to fist either. So this

0:43:17.160 --> 0:43:19.359
<v Speaker 1>is how I want to say this one more time

0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:20.879
<v Speaker 1>so we can get over this. I did just bring

0:43:20.920 --> 0:43:23.680
<v Speaker 1>this up. But I did just bring this up. I

0:43:23.760 --> 0:43:29.240
<v Speaker 1>just want said. She asked me for three and then four,

0:43:29.560 --> 0:43:31.879
<v Speaker 1>and then he said put all of it, and so

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:34.319
<v Speaker 1>then I took the other finger and I didn't say

0:43:34.320 --> 0:43:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I punched the pussy. They just put all of the

0:43:37.880 --> 0:43:41.239
<v Speaker 1>fingers in there and went like this. It sounds like

0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:43.399
<v Speaker 1>a fist to me. Is that a fist? Yes, it's

0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:45.560
<v Speaker 1>all it's a hand. Okay, you're handing this. I feel

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:50.840
<v Speaker 1>like a fist includes the number juices to my knowledge,

0:43:51.400 --> 0:43:53.719
<v Speaker 1>and then you make a fist. I didn't make a

0:43:53.760 --> 0:44:11.040
<v Speaker 1>fist your hand on what designed? So it didn't when

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:14.839
<v Speaker 1>you fisted. Has it freaked you out? No? Uh no,

0:44:15.200 --> 0:44:16.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm not gonna do anything I don't want

0:44:16.640 --> 0:44:18.279
<v Speaker 1>to do. Have you used the spit or lube for

0:44:18.280 --> 0:44:21.520
<v Speaker 1>a fist? Or I would use like lube? Yeah? Okay,

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:23.440
<v Speaker 1>so then they really wanted to because we didn't have

0:44:23.480 --> 0:44:26.080
<v Speaker 1>to get the loupe out. Now, how deep was your hand?

0:44:26.120 --> 0:44:30.719
<v Speaker 1>Can you show me? Oh my god, um show me

0:44:30.760 --> 0:44:33.560
<v Speaker 1>that ship. I mean, like, I guess more than sixty

0:44:33.560 --> 0:44:40.160
<v Speaker 1>percent if we're doing the math correctly, more than sixty percent.

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:42.160
<v Speaker 1>I feel like so out the loop with all this

0:44:42.280 --> 0:44:45.719
<v Speaker 1>conversation the whole episode, I felt kind of out the loop.

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:50.160
<v Speaker 1>How do you women? But I'll beat? How could you

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:53.080
<v Speaker 1>feel out the loop when you fu girls? Because first off,

0:44:53.080 --> 0:44:54.759
<v Speaker 1>the last time I didn't even remember I did it,

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:58.400
<v Speaker 1>So there's one um, and I don't do it as often,

0:44:58.520 --> 0:44:59.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'd just be sucking my friends and then

0:44:59.920 --> 0:45:02.680
<v Speaker 1>be like drunk nights on bitch. I don't like go

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:06.399
<v Speaker 1>out and I don't meet women. I don't really approach women, like,

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 1>so all the girls i'd be sucking be my friends.

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't like go out and meet girls and be like, oh,

0:45:12.000 --> 0:45:13.920
<v Speaker 1>let's hang out and now. So I don't know. It

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:15.880
<v Speaker 1>just made me think I had a conversation with a

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:17.640
<v Speaker 1>girl in my DNA. Oh no, I didn't have a conversation,

0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:19.480
<v Speaker 1>but she wrote when she said, wheezy, please help me.

0:45:19.920 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm about to have lesbian sex for the first time.

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:24.719
<v Speaker 1>Like what do I do little baby, little baby gay?

0:45:24.880 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you like the baby gays? The baby gay? Really?

0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:34.479
<v Speaker 1>Like what do you think is good for a girl

0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:37.239
<v Speaker 1>fucking the first time? And advice for a woman that

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:38.960
<v Speaker 1>wants to have sex with a girl for the first time.

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:40.719
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't really know what to do. Things are going

0:45:40.760 --> 0:45:43.120
<v Speaker 1>to probably be awkward, and it's okay, like for things

0:45:43.200 --> 0:45:46.120
<v Speaker 1>to be like awkward and just like when he was

0:45:46.200 --> 0:45:48.480
<v Speaker 1>kids and you play a house, that's how you start

0:45:48.680 --> 0:45:50.799
<v Speaker 1>with the dry grinding with the clothes on first, and

0:45:50.840 --> 0:45:53.400
<v Speaker 1>then you slowly take the clothes off and kiss a

0:45:53.440 --> 0:45:55.920
<v Speaker 1>whole lot of kissing because Nik's gonna be kissing. This

0:45:55.960 --> 0:46:04.560
<v Speaker 1>is Mandy just in background. Mandy loves storylines. I do.

0:46:04.719 --> 0:46:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I feel like this is why all of

0:46:06.560 --> 0:46:08.520
<v Speaker 1>the ship She's like, you do the clothes out. Then

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:11.799
<v Speaker 1>you gets I'm gonna write a book. I'm gonna do

0:46:12.400 --> 0:46:15.000
<v Speaker 1>porn scenes and like all the different times I told

0:46:15.040 --> 0:46:16.560
<v Speaker 1>you i'd be like when they just be playing video

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>games and then it turns into this second time and

0:46:19.080 --> 0:46:24.080
<v Speaker 1>it's going to write erotica. Holla, may you know, drop

0:46:24.080 --> 0:46:27.719
<v Speaker 1>a comment, what's the nastiest scene in your book? The

0:46:27.800 --> 0:46:30.520
<v Speaker 1>nastiest scene in my book? Because wait, wait, is this

0:46:30.600 --> 0:46:34.560
<v Speaker 1>like a erotic like a Zane book or how to books?

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:37.319
<v Speaker 1>Like it was a novel and it's about it's a

0:46:38.239 --> 0:46:41.319
<v Speaker 1>the book itself. I wanted to be very queer book,

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:42.440
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't want it to be a kind of

0:46:42.480 --> 0:46:44.520
<v Speaker 1>coming out book. I just wanted to be about a

0:46:44.600 --> 0:46:47.640
<v Speaker 1>woman who happens to be gay, and so like, you know,

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:50.879
<v Speaker 1>sex happens in the book because you know, people fuck facts. Yeah,

0:46:51.320 --> 0:46:54.520
<v Speaker 1>do you get really detailed? I don't get too deep.

0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Got two girls and you told me about the call

0:46:58.239 --> 0:47:04.360
<v Speaker 1>they get like a lot of hardcore lesbian f in

0:47:04.400 --> 0:47:10.360
<v Speaker 1>the book. Oh which one against the truck outside of

0:47:10.400 --> 0:47:14.600
<v Speaker 1>a bar, like on the street, Um, like just kind

0:47:14.640 --> 0:47:17.759
<v Speaker 1>of fingering someone through their jeans. You're not making this

0:47:17.800 --> 0:47:24.080
<v Speaker 1>sell sexy. I'm talking. We want people to be wet

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:28.480
<v Speaker 1>at their desks right now thinking about you knowing right

0:47:28.520 --> 0:47:30.080
<v Speaker 1>like I said, thing like you get out of a bar,

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:31.680
<v Speaker 1>you're kind of drunk in your horny and you're like

0:47:31.680 --> 0:47:33.040
<v Speaker 1>getting in the car to go, and then maybe you

0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:35.480
<v Speaker 1>would suck against a car like that's that's the thing

0:47:35.480 --> 0:47:41.280
<v Speaker 1>everybody likes Friday parking lot at Yeah, how did that happen?

0:47:41.320 --> 0:47:43.359
<v Speaker 1>Can you make it sexy for us? Tell us how

0:47:43.600 --> 0:47:48.520
<v Speaker 1>you're sucking against the truck? Went? It was Ami Memorial weekend,

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:52.920
<v Speaker 1>which already makes it not sexy. Also, the car was

0:47:53.040 --> 0:47:55.959
<v Speaker 1>neither of ours, but it also hit us and brings

0:47:56.000 --> 0:47:58.279
<v Speaker 1>the excitement. It also hit us from the other side

0:47:58.280 --> 0:48:01.160
<v Speaker 1>of the street. Um. I don't know her name though,

0:48:01.680 --> 0:48:03.640
<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I ate a girl's pussy out in the

0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:06.120
<v Speaker 1>bathroom at Jerry's when Jerry's used to be on the beach,

0:48:06.400 --> 0:48:08.880
<v Speaker 1>coming out of What club was it? I don't know.

0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Just yeah, when I'm drunk. She was at the table.

0:48:12.920 --> 0:48:15.120
<v Speaker 1>She was cute, and we want to get eggs and

0:48:15.160 --> 0:48:18.279
<v Speaker 1>shipped after the club and we want to use the

0:48:18.320 --> 0:48:22.520
<v Speaker 1>bathroom together. And what's up with you in the bathroom thing?

0:48:22.640 --> 0:48:24.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I have a funk in the bathroom

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:28.439
<v Speaker 1>I talked about in the bathroom. In the bathroom, Oh

0:48:28.560 --> 0:48:33.600
<v Speaker 1>that was in the house. This was a was a

0:48:33.680 --> 0:48:39.920
<v Speaker 1>toilet there. No, are you coming for me right now? Yes?

0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:43.279
<v Speaker 1>You also had sex on a strip club floor. I did.

0:48:43.360 --> 0:48:46.160
<v Speaker 1>That was fun though, That was fucking fun. So this

0:48:46.200 --> 0:48:47.840
<v Speaker 1>is why I read sex with the stripper and the

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:51.799
<v Speaker 1>strip club beat me? Wait did you did you pay

0:48:51.840 --> 0:48:59.200
<v Speaker 1>for it? No? You win? She was like boar boar

0:48:59.239 --> 0:49:06.279
<v Speaker 1>sitting Yeah, we having gunshot? Wait have you when you

0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:08.000
<v Speaker 1>sucked the stripper in the shop club? Did she you

0:49:08.000 --> 0:49:11.840
<v Speaker 1>ever met her before? And nothing like that? Was she gay? Yeah?

0:49:12.080 --> 0:49:17.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of strippers are gay? Huh?

0:49:17.600 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 1>Where where are you? Did you know? She took me

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:21.239
<v Speaker 1>in a room? Shut up? And she's like, my real

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:27.400
<v Speaker 1>name is Jamie. Oh, she wanted you to know her

0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:30.200
<v Speaker 1>real name. She she was connected to She was connected

0:49:30.400 --> 0:49:32.719
<v Speaker 1>to you, Well, we're gonna go ahead and get into

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:35.680
<v Speaker 1>our home segment, or do you have any to ask? Oh?

0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to ask. The weirdest place You've ever had sex?

0:49:37.640 --> 0:49:40.879
<v Speaker 1>The weirdest place I've ever had sex? Oh god? Oh wait? Yeah,

0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Michael's Craft Store. And that was with an employee from

0:49:46.719 --> 0:49:50.760
<v Speaker 1>Michael's craft that I met that day in the Michael's

0:49:50.760 --> 0:49:56.960
<v Speaker 1>crafts wait wait, wait wait, and then about that action

0:49:57.120 --> 0:50:00.640
<v Speaker 1>and then she gave me her employee discount. That means

0:50:00.680 --> 0:50:03.560
<v Speaker 1>you did good. You did the next time I went

0:50:03.600 --> 0:50:05.839
<v Speaker 1>into that Michael's to get like some craft ship, they

0:50:05.840 --> 0:50:08.000
<v Speaker 1>were like, oh, aren't you so and So's girlfriend. I

0:50:08.040 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, ship, I can't come back to the

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Michaels anymore. What did you buy? I bought? What didn't

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:16.799
<v Speaker 1>I buy? A bottle of a bunch of How much

0:50:16.960 --> 0:50:19.200
<v Speaker 1>was it? It was? It was a good discount. I

0:50:19.239 --> 0:50:23.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, ship, this is Michael's discounts, like the

0:50:23.000 --> 0:50:27.120
<v Speaker 1>back towards like the yarn, not towards the yard. That

0:50:27.280 --> 0:50:30.440
<v Speaker 1>is really towards the yard. It was like towards the

0:50:30.440 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 1>scrap book. I'd be like, okay, that's like the scrap book.

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:37.000
<v Speaker 1>That's too upfront. That's you don't know the layout of Michaels.

0:50:37.000 --> 0:50:40.520
<v Speaker 1>You know Michaels, you know by the yarn in the back.

0:50:40.680 --> 0:50:42.920
<v Speaker 1>That was that was after That was Actually I took

0:50:43.160 --> 0:50:45.239
<v Speaker 1>a woman on a date to the Olive Garden that

0:50:45.320 --> 0:50:47.319
<v Speaker 1>was next door of the Michaels and the date, like,

0:50:47.360 --> 0:50:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I made out with that woman in the parking lot,

0:50:49.080 --> 0:50:50.960
<v Speaker 1>and I was drunk from drinking at the Olive Garden,

0:50:51.000 --> 0:50:53.200
<v Speaker 1>so I walked into Michaels and then sucked that woman.

0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:56.319
<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, this is the

0:50:56.440 --> 0:51:01.120
<v Speaker 1>employee you met while you were shopping and then guys fucked. Yes,

0:51:01.400 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 1>this was after a date with another one. Bro, have

0:51:09.960 --> 0:51:12.239
<v Speaker 1>you ever said the weirdest place you've ever fucked? She

0:51:12.360 --> 0:51:16.080
<v Speaker 1>beats me Michael's Craft Store? No, no, no, that's pretty good.

0:51:16.120 --> 0:51:21.320
<v Speaker 1>What's yours? I can't even think. Okay, I was probably

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:24.239
<v Speaker 1>just a strip club that's pretty bad on the floor

0:51:24.239 --> 0:51:26.759
<v Speaker 1>and sit sees, Oh my god, wheest place I've ever

0:51:26.800 --> 0:51:30.360
<v Speaker 1>had sex. When I was fucking lover Boing Aily, we

0:51:30.480 --> 0:51:32.560
<v Speaker 1>fucked in this alley and it was by water and

0:51:32.600 --> 0:51:35.120
<v Speaker 1>it was like really beautiful boat and then the boat came.

0:51:35.200 --> 0:51:38.399
<v Speaker 1>So that was pretty good, and I was sucking. Then

0:51:39.080 --> 0:51:40.880
<v Speaker 1>whenever came it was almost like a show at that

0:51:40.880 --> 0:51:42.279
<v Speaker 1>point because they couldn't see my face, and I was

0:51:42.320 --> 0:51:45.200
<v Speaker 1>like fucking and I was like, you know, the sounds

0:51:45.239 --> 0:51:50.799
<v Speaker 1>really making these noises noises. You have a really bad

0:51:50.840 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 1>gag reflex. Someone love it. Someone don't. Beard baby does

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:56.440
<v Speaker 1>not like it. Sounds like you're gonna but most guys

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:59.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like, you know, it's just an eager big Oh

0:51:59.120 --> 0:52:03.200
<v Speaker 1>my god, they didn't. We're gonna get into our homemail.

0:52:04.080 --> 0:52:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Not that one. We're going to read the queer one

0:52:06.760 --> 0:52:10.120
<v Speaker 1>for Christian's. That's no, that's a girl asking to come on. Yeah,

0:52:10.120 --> 0:52:12.879
<v Speaker 1>but she did have a question. Oh is there a question? Well, damn,

0:52:12.920 --> 0:52:14.880
<v Speaker 1>I want listen. We can answer it when she come home. No,

0:52:15.880 --> 0:52:19.600
<v Speaker 1>she's not coming on. You see if she if you'll

0:52:19.600 --> 0:52:22.919
<v Speaker 1>come on, bitches, wheezy fault. I wanted her to come home.

0:52:23.880 --> 0:52:26.839
<v Speaker 1>It's cool, it's your You look like that. Maybe she'll

0:52:26.840 --> 0:52:29.400
<v Speaker 1>come on. Maybe she won't know you read it. Huge

0:52:29.400 --> 0:52:31.040
<v Speaker 1>fan of the show. Listening for a year, You guys

0:52:31.040 --> 0:52:33.520
<v Speaker 1>have covered a bunch of topics related to sell sex, health,

0:52:33.600 --> 0:52:35.839
<v Speaker 1>and relationships, but there's one thing you haven't dived into,

0:52:35.840 --> 0:52:38.479
<v Speaker 1>which is a sexuality. A lot of shame around women

0:52:38.560 --> 0:52:40.640
<v Speaker 1>not having too much sex or not really wanting it,

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:42.799
<v Speaker 1>but what about women that don't desire sex at all?

0:52:42.840 --> 0:52:44.360
<v Speaker 1>Recently have come to terms of being on the A

0:52:44.440 --> 0:52:47.040
<v Speaker 1>sexuality spectrum, and I've had a hard time speaking to

0:52:47.040 --> 0:52:49.720
<v Speaker 1>people because there's not much discussion around it. Being black, queer,

0:52:50.160 --> 0:52:54.080
<v Speaker 1>mask presenting woman. On top of this as an added

0:52:54.080 --> 0:52:55.600
<v Speaker 1>a layer, that's proven to be a bit of a

0:52:55.680 --> 0:52:57.960
<v Speaker 1>roller coaster, especially since I've had sex with a handful

0:52:57.960 --> 0:53:02.160
<v Speaker 1>of people, men and women. Navigating reationships is tricky. Um,

0:53:02.200 --> 0:53:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I would love to speak to you guys who come

0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:04.960
<v Speaker 1>on the podcast about it, since I think it would

0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:08.000
<v Speaker 1>generate blah blah blah. Here's what I want to talk about,

0:53:08.040 --> 0:53:13.160
<v Speaker 1>A sexuality feeling weird and shame about that. A close

0:53:13.200 --> 0:53:16.040
<v Speaker 1>friend of ours mutual friend UM name starts with the

0:53:16.120 --> 0:53:18.880
<v Speaker 1>K is recently discussed that he may think he's a

0:53:18.960 --> 0:53:21.399
<v Speaker 1>sexual I want to know how both of you would

0:53:21.480 --> 0:53:23.879
<v Speaker 1>feel if you met someone and got interested in them

0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:28.359
<v Speaker 1>with their A sexuality. If you feel like that's like

0:53:29.239 --> 0:53:32.960
<v Speaker 1>a total note, well, how would you work around it?

0:53:33.000 --> 0:53:35.799
<v Speaker 1>If you start want talking anymore? Bro? The nick I'm

0:53:35.800 --> 0:53:37.920
<v Speaker 1>talking to now thinks it's insane that I want to

0:53:37.960 --> 0:53:40.879
<v Speaker 1>go to a sex club, Like no, Like even dealing

0:53:40.880 --> 0:53:44.160
<v Speaker 1>with someone who's vanilla has become a challenge for me.

0:53:44.600 --> 0:53:47.280
<v Speaker 1>I like sex too much, so I would date someone

0:53:47.600 --> 0:53:51.239
<v Speaker 1>with the and then people, but I would keep someone

0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:52.880
<v Speaker 1>in my life if I really liked him that I

0:53:52.880 --> 0:53:56.800
<v Speaker 1>think that's a that's a questions. It's a question to ask, like, okay,

0:53:57.000 --> 0:54:01.600
<v Speaker 1>then to like, also what level of comfort of intimacy

0:54:01.760 --> 0:54:03.440
<v Speaker 1>or the hate that I just said that that are

0:54:03.440 --> 0:54:06.080
<v Speaker 1>they comfortable with it? Does that mean they don't like kissing?

0:54:06.160 --> 0:54:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Does that mean they don't like any kind of touching?

0:54:08.200 --> 0:54:10.600
<v Speaker 1>In kind of ways, I think it is to like

0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:12.640
<v Speaker 1>a person a person think if it's somebody I really liked,

0:54:12.640 --> 0:54:15.200
<v Speaker 1>then I would want to maybe be around them, but

0:54:15.280 --> 0:54:17.960
<v Speaker 1>I also would want to be honest up front about

0:54:18.080 --> 0:54:21.759
<v Speaker 1>my specific needs. I am a person that likes it

0:54:21.760 --> 0:54:24.880
<v Speaker 1>would be like, what does it look what does it

0:54:24.920 --> 0:54:27.440
<v Speaker 1>look like to you for us to be together? Does

0:54:27.480 --> 0:54:30.359
<v Speaker 1>it mean that like I can have sex with other people,

0:54:30.360 --> 0:54:32.520
<v Speaker 1>because that's something that would be like really necessary for me.

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:34.120
<v Speaker 1>And if it wouldn't be okay with them, then if

0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:36.120
<v Speaker 1>that's not gonna be something that's compatible. But that's like

0:54:36.800 --> 0:54:38.719
<v Speaker 1>you have to have a whole last conversation about it.

0:54:38.760 --> 0:54:42.720
<v Speaker 1>I think. So an interesting thing from the mutual friend.

0:54:42.960 --> 0:54:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Now he's not I don't know if he is a sexual,

0:54:45.480 --> 0:54:49.600
<v Speaker 1>but he brought up that he might be. He masturbates,

0:54:50.760 --> 0:54:54.520
<v Speaker 1>and I found that that was interesting because I guess

0:54:54.560 --> 0:54:57.040
<v Speaker 1>we kind of all assume if someone isn't fucking or

0:54:57.080 --> 0:55:01.319
<v Speaker 1>doesn't like fucking, like they're not getting pleasure. So he masturbates,

0:55:01.320 --> 0:55:04.360
<v Speaker 1>he's just not finding interest in intimacy for other people.

0:55:04.400 --> 0:55:07.399
<v Speaker 1>I've you, guys, ever known anybody like that. I mean,

0:55:07.440 --> 0:55:10.399
<v Speaker 1>I know that there are people who who are like that.

0:55:10.600 --> 0:55:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I can't. I think I actually I have another friend

0:55:12.960 --> 0:55:15.040
<v Speaker 1>who's like that as well. I met an a sexual

0:55:15.080 --> 0:55:17.399
<v Speaker 1>person at the Girl Mob when I did it last year.

0:55:17.880 --> 0:55:19.760
<v Speaker 1>It was a panel I spoke on and she walked

0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:22.360
<v Speaker 1>up and that was her issue, is that she was

0:55:22.400 --> 0:55:24.920
<v Speaker 1>a sexual. And I think her parents every time she

0:55:24.960 --> 0:55:27.640
<v Speaker 1>went around her family, they asked about babies and all

0:55:27.640 --> 0:55:30.680
<v Speaker 1>this stuff, and so she did actually and I never

0:55:30.719 --> 0:55:32.279
<v Speaker 1>got her contact. I think I was drunk that did

0:55:32.320 --> 0:55:36.040
<v Speaker 1>it too. But she's the only person I've met who's

0:55:36.120 --> 0:55:39.879
<v Speaker 1>openly admit, like known for herself that she was all

0:55:39.880 --> 0:55:42.080
<v Speaker 1>my friends are hose so bitch. No, I don't know

0:55:42.120 --> 0:55:45.160
<v Speaker 1>anyone personally. Um, we like sex like everyone that I

0:55:45.200 --> 0:55:47.279
<v Speaker 1>know like sas. So I think that's a hard thing

0:55:47.320 --> 0:55:49.479
<v Speaker 1>for people to say because there's this idea of like, Okay,

0:55:49.520 --> 0:55:51.239
<v Speaker 1>if I tell people I'm a sexual and then what

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:53.880
<v Speaker 1>if I want what if that feels like it changes,

0:55:54.200 --> 0:55:56.319
<v Speaker 1>like maybe someday I do want to do something else.

0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:58.560
<v Speaker 1>Like that's a that's a difficult and it's also like, right,

0:55:58.640 --> 0:55:59.920
<v Speaker 1>what does it mean? And a lot of people do

0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:01.719
<v Speaker 1>have an understanding about it, so it would be hard

0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:04.480
<v Speaker 1>for people to tell about it. I'm gonna look, I

0:56:04.520 --> 0:56:06.719
<v Speaker 1>wonder if there's a dating app for that ship. There's

0:56:06.719 --> 0:56:09.160
<v Speaker 1>gotta gotta be right. I had a friend of mine,

0:56:09.400 --> 0:56:12.120
<v Speaker 1>um that didn't have sex for seven years. Um, you

0:56:12.160 --> 0:56:16.640
<v Speaker 1>know I'm talking about no Oh, he didn't have sex

0:56:16.680 --> 0:56:20.279
<v Speaker 1>for seven years, but that was purposeful, like that was

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:22.520
<v Speaker 1>his choice that he didn't want to. Yeah, I think

0:56:22.560 --> 0:56:24.160
<v Speaker 1>it's you just like it just didn't happen. And then

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:27.160
<v Speaker 1>after a while I write sexual and then I was like,

0:56:27.160 --> 0:56:28.319
<v Speaker 1>well do you want to? And he was like, I

0:56:28.320 --> 0:56:30.319
<v Speaker 1>guess I could. And then finally I was like, we

0:56:30.640 --> 0:56:35.279
<v Speaker 1>use a puss and we did, but we wasn't me.

0:56:35.680 --> 0:56:38.239
<v Speaker 1>But I remember like after that it kind of jumped

0:56:38.239 --> 0:56:39.799
<v Speaker 1>started that and he was talking about and he's like,

0:56:39.800 --> 0:56:42.160
<v Speaker 1>after a while, you literally forget about it. And I

0:56:42.200 --> 0:56:45.000
<v Speaker 1>think with a sexual people it's just they learned like

0:56:45.920 --> 0:56:48.560
<v Speaker 1>feel intimate and feel pleasure from other things to where

0:56:48.680 --> 0:56:51.480
<v Speaker 1>like that. And it's totally legitimate that people would be

0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:53.600
<v Speaker 1>a sexual and just not just not want to have

0:56:53.840 --> 0:56:56.400
<v Speaker 1>that kind of that kind of intimacy with other people.

0:56:56.520 --> 0:56:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I would date somebody who was a sexual if I could,

0:56:58.640 --> 0:57:00.400
<v Speaker 1>on the premise that I could suck other people like

0:57:00.480 --> 0:57:02.960
<v Speaker 1>I would because you're an emotional person. So if this

0:57:03.040 --> 0:57:05.120
<v Speaker 1>is someone where you only have that emotional connection to

0:57:05.160 --> 0:57:06.839
<v Speaker 1>when you're still able to get your rocks off by

0:57:06.880 --> 0:57:09.600
<v Speaker 1>someone else, yeah, sure, it's like, well, what are you

0:57:09.640 --> 0:57:11.920
<v Speaker 1>getting out of any relationship? Like friendships give you a

0:57:12.000 --> 0:57:14.600
<v Speaker 1>kind of intimacy. I did look it up if if

0:57:14.640 --> 0:57:16.800
<v Speaker 1>any of you guys do feel like you may be

0:57:17.200 --> 0:57:21.840
<v Speaker 1>a sexual. There are dating apps um a Sexuallytic, a

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:27.160
<v Speaker 1>sexual match, a sexual Cupid, um, and they actually celibate passions,

0:57:29.680 --> 0:57:33.800
<v Speaker 1>and they actually the celibate passions and they also actually

0:57:33.880 --> 0:57:37.600
<v Speaker 1>say um. The number one site for a sexuals ironically

0:57:37.880 --> 0:57:40.720
<v Speaker 1>is match dot com and that is because because it

0:57:40.800 --> 0:57:43.240
<v Speaker 1>is one of the world's best dating sites. Um, but

0:57:43.320 --> 0:57:46.560
<v Speaker 1>it's one of the best sites for not only finding lovers,

0:57:46.640 --> 0:57:50.280
<v Speaker 1>but you can't find friendships, companionships and no strings attached romance.

0:57:50.360 --> 0:57:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Right You're finding levels of finding levels of compatibility using

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:56.600
<v Speaker 1>match dot com, So that would also be a good

0:57:56.640 --> 0:58:00.000
<v Speaker 1>one for a sexual Um, you know what I mean.

0:58:01.080 --> 0:58:02.560
<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean that you wouldn't come on. I just

0:58:02.600 --> 0:58:05.919
<v Speaker 1>meant not today. But I do want to talk about

0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:10.240
<v Speaker 1>the a sexuality spectrum because, like you mentioned, um, what

0:58:10.400 --> 0:58:13.440
<v Speaker 1>level of intimacy. I think that's a conversation you have

0:58:13.560 --> 0:58:16.320
<v Speaker 1>with any with any person that you're sucking around with

0:58:16.440 --> 0:58:18.280
<v Speaker 1>or deciding you want to have a relationship with. That's

0:58:18.320 --> 0:58:20.840
<v Speaker 1>just like a broader conversation about like what what do

0:58:20.880 --> 0:58:24.800
<v Speaker 1>you want? I watched a documentary anywhere people. I think

0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:31.360
<v Speaker 1>it was like three couple. I do not mean episode

0:58:33.080 --> 0:58:35.480
<v Speaker 1>before we go. I do want to ask how do

0:58:35.520 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 1>you feel when men say they could turn you out

0:58:37.640 --> 0:58:40.160
<v Speaker 1>or they could change you. I hate that ship. So

0:58:41.160 --> 0:58:43.240
<v Speaker 1>guys don't usually do that to me, Like I don't

0:58:43.240 --> 0:58:45.440
<v Speaker 1>come up to me and or saying things like that

0:58:45.480 --> 0:58:47.440
<v Speaker 1>to me, but they'll do that sometimes if I'm like

0:58:47.520 --> 0:58:50.560
<v Speaker 1>with somebody, like making out a bar. I don't know

0:58:50.560 --> 0:58:53.320
<v Speaker 1>if you all saw the couple in UK that was

0:58:53.440 --> 0:58:56.120
<v Speaker 1>just so a couple in UK for you guys that

0:58:56.160 --> 0:58:58.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know. They were riding a train after a night

0:58:58.200 --> 0:59:01.560
<v Speaker 1>out UM with each other and I guess they must

0:59:01.560 --> 0:59:03.520
<v Speaker 1>have kissed or something. Even in the narrative, they're not

0:59:03.560 --> 0:59:06.840
<v Speaker 1>sure how it ended that way, but basically these guys

0:59:06.840 --> 0:59:09.840
<v Speaker 1>started heckling them, asking them to kiss because they were

0:59:09.840 --> 0:59:12.920
<v Speaker 1>aroused by the two women kissing to where they even

0:59:12.920 --> 0:59:15.439
<v Speaker 1>started throwing coins at them. And then at one point

0:59:15.480 --> 0:59:17.040
<v Speaker 1>one of the women did get up to confront them,

0:59:17.040 --> 0:59:19.240
<v Speaker 1>and it turned into where she got beat up by

0:59:19.280 --> 0:59:21.720
<v Speaker 1>three guys and then they beat up the other couple

0:59:21.760 --> 0:59:23.960
<v Speaker 1>as well. So they posted a picture of their bloody

0:59:23.960 --> 0:59:26.360
<v Speaker 1>faces online and let them know, like, um that this

0:59:26.440 --> 0:59:29.520
<v Speaker 1>is also something the homophobic slurs and things that were

0:59:29.520 --> 0:59:32.840
<v Speaker 1>geared towards them, um, And it actually brought light to

0:59:32.880 --> 0:59:34.840
<v Speaker 1>this and I liked it because I think when we

0:59:34.880 --> 0:59:40.000
<v Speaker 1>talk about homophobia, UM, it automatically goes to gay men UM,

0:59:40.040 --> 0:59:42.680
<v Speaker 1>because they feel like women aren't really gay and a

0:59:42.680 --> 0:59:44.560
<v Speaker 1>lot of men are aroused by it, so they're not

0:59:44.560 --> 0:59:46.440
<v Speaker 1>looked at the same. So I'm glad that they did

0:59:46.440 --> 0:59:51.240
<v Speaker 1>bring light that lesbians also do you know, face homophobia

0:59:51.320 --> 0:59:54.280
<v Speaker 1>and also get you know, kind of things staring at them.

0:59:54.400 --> 0:59:59.400
<v Speaker 1>We um the security guard of the hotel and I

0:59:59.400 --> 1:00:02.360
<v Speaker 1>didn't tell her this, but she was kissing and touching

1:00:02.400 --> 1:00:05.240
<v Speaker 1>me a lot. We were on vacation, right, and uh.

1:00:05.840 --> 1:00:07.760
<v Speaker 1>The guy at the hotel was like, you shouldn't hold

1:00:07.800 --> 1:00:10.040
<v Speaker 1>hands in the uber and he was like, you know,

1:00:10.120 --> 1:00:13.080
<v Speaker 1>just keep it safe. And I was like damn and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like, no disrespect, but I mean I get it,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he didn't know how else I say it. He

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be rude. He just was like, funk,

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<v Speaker 1>how do I help these girls? Um? And yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of we felt uncomfortable for sure. Well, there's

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<v Speaker 1>also this thing too, where it's like there's this idea

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<v Speaker 1>that you're performing for people. I hate that, like guys

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<v Speaker 1>that literally once you say you like girls or like

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<v Speaker 1>that's been my curve line, which doesn't work anymore. If

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with my home girl, like and a guy is

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<v Speaker 1>trying to talk to me that I don't really want

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to something like oh, well this is my girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 1>And so many times guys have been like, well let

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<v Speaker 1>me see, I'll kiss then, like on some prove it

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<v Speaker 1>type ship, and it's like it's really corny. I think, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's really bad. So yeah, but where someone asked

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<v Speaker 1>you to prove it, not that they've asked me to

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<v Speaker 1>prove it, but I've I've definitely been in lots of

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<v Speaker 1>such she cutting to sleaves off her T shirts and

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<v Speaker 1>she got it, ave ship. I don't have to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>But like, there's been lots of times where if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman and we're being like if we're kissing

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<v Speaker 1>or doing something like that, that men will insert themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>especially when I feel like, oh, this is a dainty BASI.

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<v Speaker 1>I see her T shirt sleeves are full length. But

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<v Speaker 1>no for for our listeners, I'm sure we hope that

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<v Speaker 1>all of you guys have enjoyed this episode and learn

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<v Speaker 1>some some tips, maybe about eating pussy, maybe just mad

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<v Speaker 1>gay ship apparently, and I kept trying to make it

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<v Speaker 1>heater as fun. I'm sorry, Um, but um, where can

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners find you? Where can they get your book? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>The name of your book? Drop all your little actually

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<v Speaker 1>dropped the accolades. But where where can people go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>and support you. The book is called Mostly Dead Things

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<v Speaker 1>and you can buy it anywhere. I'm like, oh, they're

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<v Speaker 1>sold out on Amazon, Alex Wanas. I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>mention that you can possibly watch the show, the movie

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<v Speaker 1>whatever on TV one day. We cannot wait but that

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. Can you make sure I'm casting? Look, she

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<v Speaker 1>wrote be that girl like she's look, she's aiming to

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<v Speaker 1>be on TV two. So now scripted whatever you need.

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<v Speaker 1>Unscripted is what I'm being shot for people like the

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<v Speaker 1>agencies and ship. But I would like to do a

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<v Speaker 1>script I mean, you know what I'm saying. You know me,

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<v Speaker 1>we both hold I feel like you know I can

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<v Speaker 1>and also a bit you better have a black girl

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<v Speaker 1>in it. So hello, actually we're not trying to see what. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll put my Puss on TV? How about any Fanny?

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<v Speaker 1>And so it's sold on Amazon, so basically we're fucked. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you can you can order it and like it's actually

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to do like here in New York, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to go around to a bunch of different bookstores.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm gonna be at strand You're going to that's

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<v Speaker 1>my favorit books. Are you going to Bose Stockings, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to all that's right by my place, sign

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<v Speaker 1>in stock and there's there's definitely like it's good to

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<v Speaker 1>go buy the indie bookstores because the authors make more

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<v Speaker 1>money if you go to indie bookstores, and so do

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<v Speaker 1>the publishers. And the bookstores are Yeah, it's it's much so.

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<v Speaker 1>Blue Stockings are the very pro queer, pro black. They

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<v Speaker 1>got their Black Lives Matter ship and all the gay

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<v Speaker 1>flags up there. It's in the Lower East Side on

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<v Speaker 1>Alan and Stanton. And what I love about this book

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<v Speaker 1>store is they have signs that say, please don't steal

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<v Speaker 1>from us, go to the chain down the street if

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<v Speaker 1>you can't afford it for though. That's cute. Yeah, it's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you have a social social media handle? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on Twitter being dumb all the time. Same says

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<v Speaker 1>you have really good tweets. Thank you so much that

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<v Speaker 1>you seem like a comedian in your tweet. That's basically

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm trying to do, a stand up I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like all the time. It's it's at Kristen underscore our net.

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<v Speaker 1>But holl you are a second white Christen here, we

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<v Speaker 1>had the which the author to ship the same black

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<v Speaker 1>girl name like we know Dan because we get creative

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<v Speaker 1>with our names. But guys, if you guys want to follows,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of black name Kayla. You don't know. No,

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<v Speaker 1>all my friends named were black. Okay Ta nah is

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<v Speaker 1>it not? It's Kayla a white name. Oh he said,

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<v Speaker 1>many whites yo. I want you all to tweet us

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us kayleb black black Kaylor a white Kayley.

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<v Speaker 1>Shut the funk up? You you say, do us some

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<v Speaker 1>dumb ship? She do be like Pole. I'll be voting

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<v Speaker 1>on my own in my favorite UM for any of

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<v Speaker 1>you guys who are interested in in reading Christen's book,

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<v Speaker 1>following her comedic tweets apparently UM and just more so

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<v Speaker 1>supporting UM, a woman who is out here doing the

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn thing. We will be putting all of her information

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<v Speaker 1>in the description to this episode. And of course, if

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<v Speaker 1>you guys go to our horrible Underscore Decisions page on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll see our lovely picture and we will also put

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<v Speaker 1>her information there. Once again, before we get out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>we do want to thank all of our patrons, all

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<v Speaker 1>of you YouTube people watching us, even though we're never

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get money from YouTube because we talked to Nasty.

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<v Speaker 1>It says not monetary like we can't get money from

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<v Speaker 1>your host, but the but thanks for watching on YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>and again for our patrons. Without you guys, we wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be where we are today. Um, so we want to

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. And if you guys are all cut up

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<v Speaker 1>with all of our episodes, there's another forty episodes on

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<v Speaker 1>does her little Wheezy wines. You get a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more in depth of what is going on with us

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<v Speaker 1>and the things that we only post specifically to the patres. Patrons,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, and once we get there, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>say nothing ship because but you'd be talking ship and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, no, I don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, gonna be offering more merch options, okay, because

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<v Speaker 1>she'll be like, then we're gonna bring you another episode,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean, like, god, damnit, I already see enough

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<v Speaker 1>five dollars. Bro That ship is a lot, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>more than other Patreon platforms offer. Let's like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>we have to coming. It's a lot of work. But

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<v Speaker 1>now that we are both self employed, we are more

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<v Speaker 1>content and at least do those episodes together. We have

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<v Speaker 1>like really worked hard in the last two years curating

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast and just even trying to make time to

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<v Speaker 1>get in here. People would think, like if we couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do an episode together, like they're right, and sometimes we were.

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<v Speaker 1>But but seriously though, like it was very hard to

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<v Speaker 1>make ship it work and put out content, so you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even invest it. We both got mix on our

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<v Speaker 1>house now, so I'll be like, bitch for core one

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<v Speaker 1>by yourself, get a friend, come over ya do that

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<v Speaker 1>now that we should be doing it together, Mandy because

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<v Speaker 1>we have more time. Bitch, I'm staying ask the Bronx. No,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not doing time episodes today. No, we're gonna. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna you come long distance to me. Sometimes absolutely not,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not coming to the Bronx, but you don't go

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<v Speaker 1>about straight. But no, But I want to again shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to our patrons. That link will also be in

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<v Speaker 1>the description. So it is eighteen plus because of sucking

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<v Speaker 1>dick um, but Patreon fist plus sas are eating blood,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's it's Patreon dot com back slash. Horrible Decisions, Um, again,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys for supporting us. At the end of

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<v Speaker 1>on a motherfucking Monday, this has been you had another

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Horrible Decisions. Would you consider Grace the main character? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're kind of around here. So Grace basically moves back

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<v Speaker 1>to Memphis, UM to rejoin her family and the church

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of, you know, feel a commanderie between the

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<v Speaker 1>family UM since her sister committed suicide, but it's also

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<v Speaker 1>seeking revenge on her uncle UM. So what I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to talk about now is during Grace's time is this one? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>So Darren, Grace's stay back in Memphis, she seeks out

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<v Speaker 1>other victims from Uncle Mac. And so one of the

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<v Speaker 1>victims was a dominique that sounds like the name I

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<v Speaker 1>want to I want to go for Uncle Mack paid

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<v Speaker 1>the lawyer. Yes, So there's a there's a girl, um

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<v Speaker 1>that Grace finds in the episode who went forward to

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<v Speaker 1>the cops, said her whole story about being raped by

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<v Speaker 1>Uncle Mac and then on tape, and then she recanted

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<v Speaker 1>everything a few days later, and so no charges were

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<v Speaker 1>brought against Uncle Mac. And when Grace approaches this young lady,

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<v Speaker 1>her kind of immediate response was, well, I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to ruin everything. So the conversation now that I want

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<v Speaker 1>to have, UM, and Amanda and I actually kind of

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<v Speaker 1>had a conversation UM at lunch, and I would love

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<v Speaker 1>for you to bring it up. So it's sexual assault

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<v Speaker 1>victims not feeling the need to come forward, specifically when

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<v Speaker 1>it's someone in the family or someone close, feeling like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, now I'm gonna call so much drama.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me not open my mouth. UM. So, Amanda, do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to talk about what you were telling me earlier? So, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not easy for me to talk about. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tryout. Yeah, when I was younger, so the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that I really really like I was talking Mandy like

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the show. I was like DM email

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<v Speaker 1>like her like tech me or like Mandy, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>come because like the green Leaf show is kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a Scandal, but it's like with like I told him,

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt like I was watching Scandal, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was like more Christian base. So like it was like

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<v Speaker 1>in the church. And I grew up in the church,

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<v Speaker 1>and my father was a pat ster and he still

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<v Speaker 1>is to this day. He has a congregation. So I

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is to be a pastor's kid. I

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is to grow up in the spotlight.

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<v Speaker 1>I know all about that realm. So one of the

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<v Speaker 1>deacons of the family, like of my not a member

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<v Speaker 1>of my family directly, but a deacon of the church.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was fourteen years old, he's sexually molested me.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was married, he had three kids. I was fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know anything, Like I was still you know, innocent,

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<v Speaker 1>like my parents raised me like a good quote unquote

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<v Speaker 1>like church girl. So I didn't know anything about sex.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know anything about like period. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>anything believe in sex before marriage at all. No, that

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<v Speaker 1>was bad, Like that was such a taboo in my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Like no, like you're just supposed to be with your

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<v Speaker 1>husband on your wedding night and that's it. Like my

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<v Speaker 1>dad was like so like protecting me and my sister's virginity.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a sister that's three years older than me,

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<v Speaker 1>so he was like the prison guard. Like my sister

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<v Speaker 1>and I would joke when we were little, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we live in a prison. We grew up in a prison.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was because my dad was like so like

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<v Speaker 1>overprotective of us. And needless to say, one of the

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<v Speaker 1>deacons of his church molested me when I was fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>And this went on for a few months until I

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<v Speaker 1>finally came forward to like, you know, say something. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you battle with coming forward? I did for a long

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<v Speaker 1>time because like him and my dad were like best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Like he would come over our house with his wife

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<v Speaker 1>and his kids and they would play dominoes so three

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, and then like the guy was singing

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<v Speaker 1>the church like it was it was a lot, and

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<v Speaker 1>like he would tell me, like, you can't tell anybody

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<v Speaker 1>because what's gonna happen is like you're gonna get in trouble,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he would say, like I was gonna get in

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<v Speaker 1>trouble like you touching my boobs? How am I going

1:11:25.320 --> 1:11:27.519
<v Speaker 1>to get in trouble like you found? Like how am

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<v Speaker 1>I going to get in trouble for something you're doing?

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<v Speaker 1>But I was just I was fourteen. What was what

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<v Speaker 1>was the response? And if this, if this went on

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<v Speaker 1>for a couple of months, what was the tipping point

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<v Speaker 1>to you telling your father that this is what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>I told my sister, my sister three years older than me,

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<v Speaker 1>and my sister like she left home. She couldn't deal

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<v Speaker 1>with like my dad being so strict and like I

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<v Speaker 1>would see like my sister actually having freedom and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen at this time, I was fifteen. I remember my

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen birthday and this man was like in our living

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<v Speaker 1>room to celebrate my birthday, and I'm like, I know

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<v Speaker 1>what he's doing to me, Like like even one time

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<v Speaker 1>he was like touching me when we were like out

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<v Speaker 1>of baptism, like in the water, like the people are

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<v Speaker 1>getting baptized and he's like touching me. Like it was

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<v Speaker 1>just a lot, and I just couldn't deal, So I

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<v Speaker 1>told my sister. My sister ended up telling her boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and my boyfriend was her boyfriend was the one that

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<v Speaker 1>ended up like telling my dad and my dad went apeship,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he kicked him out the church. And that's the

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<v Speaker 1>difference from the show. Yeah, and they showed the show,

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<v Speaker 1>they covered and it was it sucked because he was

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<v Speaker 1>around in the church and and you throughout the season

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<v Speaker 1>one and into season two, you see that he did

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<v Speaker 1>it to multiple women and was using scholarship funds from

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<v Speaker 1>the church to pay off the families so that they

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<v Speaker 1>could shut up that this was happening. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I do commend you know, your dad for

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<v Speaker 1>taking the righteous So he kicked him out the church.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what that relationship is like now? And

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<v Speaker 1>why was no charges ever pressed? Well, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>he was like an illegal immigrant, so my dad wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get him deport it. But the guy like fled

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<v Speaker 1>state with his family and his wife's stood by his

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<v Speaker 1>side with the kids. It's been what fourteen fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anything of the situation. All I know

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<v Speaker 1>is like he was cleared of the church and I

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<v Speaker 1>just never heard from him again, and he fled like

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<v Speaker 1>he went to he went to the court, like he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go to court. I'm sorry, Like my dad was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to press charges, but he went to the police

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<v Speaker 1>station to answer questions and nothing happened after that. He

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<v Speaker 1>just fleed the state. And I have no idea where

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<v Speaker 1>he is. And you know, it's crazy. You don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know that. I don't know. You don't know if he's alive.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he's dead. But I know he

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<v Speaker 1>had three. And the thing is, like I was fourteen.

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<v Speaker 1>I had just turned fifteen, and he had two young

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<v Speaker 1>daughters like he had, Like his two daughters were like

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<v Speaker 1>a few years younger than me, and they were like

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<v Speaker 1>role modeling me because I was like, they're Bible teacher

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<v Speaker 1>in church, so I'm like teaching. I'm like teaching his

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<v Speaker 1>daughters in church about the Bible. Well, why your dad

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<v Speaker 1>is like doing things to me with his wife and

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<v Speaker 1>his three kids in the church. It's crazy because you

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<v Speaker 1>actually just sigud kind of the next topic. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>skipping around here because what you just said is that

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<v Speaker 1>the wife stayed. UM. Once we get into season two, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>although he was put into Uncle Mack was put into jail,

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<v Speaker 1>he was not charged with UM. The molestation of all

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<v Speaker 1>of these underage women, and we see that he eventually

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<v Speaker 1>gets into a relationship with a woman, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to know your your opinion on this, Brianna. So he

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<v Speaker 1>gets into a relationship with another woman. So despite having

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<v Speaker 1>the allegations of being a pedophile and a child molester UM,

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<v Speaker 1>this woman has now become his girlfriend and she's at

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<v Speaker 1>his house a lot, and they're dating, and she is

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<v Speaker 1>questioning kind of his movements in the phone. As we

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<v Speaker 1>know he was still communicating with an underage girl. But

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know how would you guys react UM

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<v Speaker 1>to possibly dating someone who was UM I guess accused

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<v Speaker 1>of child molestation, pedophilia UM or rape. Even if if

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<v Speaker 1>we want to get into that matter, is that something

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<v Speaker 1>that you could handle