Speaker 1: All right, y'all, it's a Monday. We here yet again.
Speaker 1: I'm hungover as fun. And let me just tell y'all,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We do have white people in the room,
Speaker 1: but just some white people ship that she just pulled.
Speaker 1: We just like, oh my god, I'll bring you a
Speaker 1: beer because you know it'll help you get over your hangover.
Speaker 1: This bitch brought seltzer water. It's not it's alcoholic seltzer water.
Speaker 1: It's in a can. We have to go on vacation
Speaker 1: in six days, so we're gonna be fine. You know
Speaker 1: when you were sucked up in your I mean we're
Speaker 1: going on vacation. That's not beer doesn't have bubbles, bitch,
Speaker 1: it has acidity or something. No, I don't see. This
Speaker 1: is what I'm working over. You Just no, she don't
Speaker 1: do liquor. Do the other next to it was next
Speaker 1: to the beer, and it was I'm mad, I'm drinking ginger.
Speaker 1: L thinks anyway, you've never heard our show. This one
Speaker 1: might be a nasty and so a great way to start.
Speaker 1: I wasn't even I wasn't even supposed to be here.
Speaker 1: She told me what we were about to talk about.
Speaker 1: I said, oh no, bro, you could do that ship
Speaker 1: by your goddamn stuff a solo episode, don't count me
Speaker 1: the fucking anyway. I guess let's introduce ourselves. For those
Speaker 1: of you who have not listened to the show before,
Speaker 1: I am Mandy Um and that's it. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: give you all my a k. He's another today. I'm
Speaker 1: wheezy and in the studio today we have a friend
Speaker 1: of mine who is now rich, so bitch, I can't
Speaker 1: wait for us to hang. But not like that. I
Speaker 1: didn't have seven movie deals hit me up after my
Speaker 1: book was out for a week. Damn, Vanity Fair didn't
Speaker 1: cover me or the New York Times. But you know
Speaker 1: here you are, by the way, Um, I would like
Speaker 1: to say, I've known Kristen just for a few years
Speaker 1: now and never known her to have a girlfriend. And
Speaker 1: doesn't it suck that, like, now you have all this
Speaker 1: money and now you've got a girlfriend. Okay, that's when
Speaker 1: she started ready at gonna be fair. I got a
Speaker 1: lot of pussy when I was So that's what j
Speaker 1: Cole said. Can you introduce yourself, Christen Kristin Arnett, And
Speaker 1: now I can say I'm a New York Times bestselling author,
Speaker 1: so like curious to know everybody talks about you in
Speaker 1: seven eleven? What's the seven eleven thing? With Twitter? And
Speaker 1: you like why did seven eleven love you? Oh? I'm
Speaker 1: just in my fucking seven eleven all the time, Like
Speaker 1: how are you famous for it? Oh? I did this
Speaker 1: tweet one time where I went in and there was
Speaker 1: a lizard in the seven eleven, like what happens in Florida,
Speaker 1: and I the cashier made a joke like, oh, it's
Speaker 1: just Marvin. He likes the coffee, and people like lost
Speaker 1: their fucking shit online. They like loved it. They were
Speaker 1: like drawing fan ard about this fucking lizards. Didn't you
Speaker 1: do like a book thing in seven eleven? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: did my book launch, my first book launching my seven elone.
Speaker 1: This is now, that is that is white people. This
Speaker 1: is very this is very wps. But I mean I
Speaker 1: was talking about her to somebody actually back girl, I
Speaker 1: know she was like the seven eleven not only I
Speaker 1: do want to say to like, I guess this is
Speaker 1: the balance that everyone talks about because I feel like
Speaker 1: every white guest thinks has been thanks to you kind of.
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't the white people come on show
Speaker 1: people you would know you'd be bringing the whites. No. No,
Speaker 1: she decided this is gonna be dope so nasty because
Speaker 1: you're disgusting. So, um, we're not going to get into
Speaker 1: how nasty until it happens. But I wanted to bring
Speaker 1: christin on here because she's here for Pride month and
Speaker 1: it's Pride weekend here in New York. We were sitting
Speaker 1: at dinner and I was telling her how scissors came
Speaker 1: on my stomach, and people were like, how is that sex?
Speaker 1: So it made me realize a lot of people don't
Speaker 1: know how lesbian sex works, especially non penetrative sex. We
Speaker 1: all know how like gay men funk, right, but like
Speaker 1: sometimes people are confused by womens. I want to dig
Speaker 1: into that. I want to talk about how to eat pussy.
Speaker 1: I almost brought a man go so you could show us.
Speaker 1: But but your girlfriends here, so let's start it off.
Speaker 1: What's the gayest thing you've done this month? Shit? Um?
Speaker 1: So this is where I was like, damn you as
Speaker 1: a good QUESSY ain't so. I was just with my homegirls.
Speaker 1: And I've been getting drunk a lot lately, um, so
Speaker 1: much so that I don't really remember the next day
Speaker 1: what happened. So apparently I ate my my friend. Now
Speaker 1: I ate her pussy and I didn't even remember eating
Speaker 1: her pussy out. So yeah, basically I ate pussy and
Speaker 1: forgot um, which makes me feel like her pussy probably
Speaker 1: tasted really good because I didn't even have an after
Speaker 1: taste of anything or anything. And I was like, why
Speaker 1: would you don't know, like when I sucked dick, bitch?
Speaker 1: I know I sucked it because I'm like, taste like dick. Well, no,
Speaker 1: it was cool. We had a good time and yeah,
Speaker 1: so what about you? I know you've been gayest fu
Speaker 1: all years. So yeah, so I came to Orlando. Um
Speaker 1: did you see you came? When you came, well, you
Speaker 1: know for the tray wave ak and um there's and
Speaker 1: I were chilling right the night before he got there
Speaker 1: or whatever. I mean, I'm sorry, let me. I'm like,
Speaker 1: is this drink a little bit? Just seltzer water? Okay,
Speaker 1: so anyway, this gota you know, I'm like, it's like
Speaker 1: a regular beer. Thank you, Just one though, So we
Speaker 1: were like really fucked up in super horny. We went
Speaker 1: out right and that night the coming on my stomach
Speaker 1: thing like, so I was scissoring and I got off
Speaker 1: and then she gets on top of me and sucks
Speaker 1: my entire body, like her pussy was like everywhere, like
Speaker 1: oh my titties all the way back down, and she
Speaker 1: like came hard as fun on my stomach. And then
Speaker 1: when she got off of me, it was like super
Speaker 1: wet and nasty. I loved it, but I was telling
Speaker 1: the story to Kristen about how like the next day
Speaker 1: when I mentioned it, this dude was like, I don't
Speaker 1: understand why you guys are sucking the stomach. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie like she sucked the elbow and ship, he said,
Speaker 1: the whole body. She just love chin. It was just
Speaker 1: And then literally after she came, she didn't even like
Speaker 1: cuddle like she got off of me. Dog, It was
Speaker 1: like like we didn't even know each other. I wonder, Okay,
Speaker 1: what's the gay ship you've done? How you gonna ask?
Speaker 1: Your girlfriend is right in the room. She knows how
Speaker 1: I am. How are you guys in an open relation?
Speaker 1: We are not look just you. It doesn't have to
Speaker 1: be sex like, no, I mean you look gay. You
Speaker 1: got a tongue rang. What's the gayest non sexual thing
Speaker 1: you did? This? The gayest non sexual thing I did.
Speaker 1: I cut the sleeves office. I got a T shirt
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what this just I
Speaker 1: just need to cut the sleeves right off. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: you were such a fucking dyke. Yeah, it's crazy, like
Speaker 1: you're really dyke ish. But when you were lipstick, I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: are you? Are you stem like a study fem? Is
Speaker 1: that a word? I don't know, You're just like a word,
Speaker 1: Like do you identify as anything? Do you think? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think I would. I definitely don't
Speaker 1: think I'm like fem. But I also don't think I'm
Speaker 1: like super butch. I just I don't know it is. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So when it comes to eating puss, I really want
Speaker 1: us to dig into um pun intended thinks. So I
Speaker 1: want us to dig into like the different types of
Speaker 1: pussy eating. But one in particular is our kink of
Speaker 1: the week. Have you ever heard our show us? Yes,
Speaker 1: we're just we're gonna go right into this kink we are.
Speaker 1: So it's called a rainbow kiss. Do you know what
Speaker 1: that is? Where? Do you? Rainbow kiss is a kiss
Speaker 1: between a female on her menstruation period. That's word at
Speaker 1: awful and the other person, usually male, which is probably
Speaker 1: bullshit after he performs oral sex and he gets blood
Speaker 1: in his mouth and then yeah, this is the way
Speaker 1: said I want to be here because she she'd be
Speaker 1: doing some nasty es ship but and eating bitches on
Speaker 1: a period is one and I'm just like ill. But
Speaker 1: we need to talk about it because a lot of
Speaker 1: people do it. You think it's gross, Okay, I'll be
Speaker 1: real with not that I think it's gross. It actually
Speaker 1: is a gross at Okay. Wait, I don't eat like
Speaker 1: the pussy with blood. I just like the clip if
Speaker 1: it's stopped up. Oh no, I definitely do that. What
Speaker 1: you eat it with the blood? Okay? Now you told
Speaker 1: me when you were eating that you prefer that. Why
Speaker 1: let's get it out right. Uh. Well, like when I'm
Speaker 1: on my like, I like somebody eat me out when
Speaker 1: I'm on my period, but like I'm more sensitive. It's
Speaker 1: usually like I'll come a lot harder, you come harder
Speaker 1: any Yeah, yeah, bitch, you'll be rude. This is king shading.
Speaker 1: I don't know, na. Na first off, right, wait, one
Speaker 1: motherfucking so, like, would you be with a woman if
Speaker 1: she said, hey, that's a little much for me I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna eat you, but you prefer it, and you're
Speaker 1: gonna probably try to get her to eat you out.
Speaker 1: Where are you bleeding? Like on day two? Like what
Speaker 1: day of the period? I guess whatever, there's that ship
Speaker 1: heaviest fun. I'm like, like day two is pretty heavy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is like that's usually what I'm like, super horny.
Speaker 1: So that's when you want it done. Why aren't you
Speaker 1: like is it just because you're wetter down there? You're
Speaker 1: feeling it? I usually like when I'm on my period,
Speaker 1: I just don't like not wet. It's blood but it
Speaker 1: so it doesn't count as being wet. It's wet. Now
Speaker 1: I'm curious to know your book is called Mostly Dead Things?
Speaker 1: Is the period at that point? I talk about periods
Speaker 1: like a lot in the book, just because I feel
Speaker 1: like a lot of like lit, like like fiction doesn't
Speaker 1: have periods in it, and like half the population is
Speaker 1: having a fucking here, And I'm like, why why don't
Speaker 1: we mention this? We always read read books all the
Speaker 1: time where it's like talking about some guy waking up
Speaker 1: with like morning would So it's like, why don't you
Speaker 1: like period in a book? Like they happen? All the time,
Speaker 1: and it affects like what you're doing. It affects like
Speaker 1: your day, It affects how you're feeling. It affects a
Speaker 1: lot of that ship. So I don't I don't get
Speaker 1: why it's not in books. What's your favorite type of
Speaker 1: period sex? Would you prefer to scissor would you prefer fingers?
Speaker 1: Or Oh no, I want somebody eat me out? Okay,
Speaker 1: so you'll be eating her out? World she be bleeding?
Speaker 1: You look like no, seriously, man, you just one day
Speaker 1: was like, I'll try it period. Oh but you've done
Speaker 1: it before. Now as far as like, because I noticed
Speaker 1: your topic, you told me about a time that you
Speaker 1: ruined a hotel room. What is this massacre that we're
Speaker 1: talking about? But this I need to know this. It
Speaker 1: was here in town. Actually here in town. Yeah, here
Speaker 1: in town, all right, Yeah, I left a really big tip,
Speaker 1: like a clean god. So we had to get asked
Speaker 1: for new sheets. I think I call it because we
Speaker 1: were like a dinner and us like to call and
Speaker 1: ask them to I was like, are they going to
Speaker 1: think like somebody got murdered here that much? It wasn't
Speaker 1: like that much. But towel, No towels don't help with
Speaker 1: sex from Yeah. Also if you're because it's just staying right,
Speaker 1: there would be splash and when I do it in mind,
Speaker 1: that's just going all over the place. If like with
Speaker 1: women having sex, I think just on your hands splash
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna tell me you'll blood. Don't be splashing. Bro,
Speaker 1: If I have a dick in me, no, it's less messy.
Speaker 1: But for lesbian sex, I can imagine that because you
Speaker 1: have hands, you're moving more. Yeah, I move more with
Speaker 1: women than I do them in plus they come quick time.
Speaker 1: Do you have any like tips for period sex, like
Speaker 1: how to get over like anything like what what's your
Speaker 1: what's your menstruating takeaway? Um? Well, I like, if it's
Speaker 1: something that you don't like to do, then just don't
Speaker 1: do it. I think that's I think that's my thing.
Speaker 1: Like if you're curious about it, then cool, like figure
Speaker 1: out if a person wants to But like some people
Speaker 1: like I've been with a lot of women that like
Speaker 1: to do that. It's so weird though, because not only
Speaker 1: have I I wouldn't say offended, but I've completely not
Speaker 1: wanted to funk with a guy ever. Again, if I'm
Speaker 1: on my period and he'd be like, so like to me,
Speaker 1: that's nasty, Like we're not even there yet, like especially
Speaker 1: cause I haven't been in a relationship casual sex like
Speaker 1: you should like, I don't want someone that's okay, what
Speaker 1: want your head like this and switch it a little
Speaker 1: bit like you said, you would be insulted. Right, A
Speaker 1: man that understands that women go through their period and
Speaker 1: can like to me, a man being understanding and comfortable
Speaker 1: with my situation, which I have every fucking month, Right,
Speaker 1: I think it's a nice to see because if a
Speaker 1: guy like that would make me more look at it
Speaker 1: like that, I'd be like, damn, nick, you thirsty uk?
Speaker 1: Wait three days? I have a three day period, six period.
Speaker 1: They can't wait six weeks? What are we doing next week?
Speaker 1: It's still a week more god like? To me, I
Speaker 1: look at more as like I wonder if the time
Speaker 1: frame isn't what your problem is? Just wait? Actually to
Speaker 1: speak on a week, it probably is seven days of blood,
Speaker 1: but like five days of real ship, it's not. I
Speaker 1: got my first day, then my second day is the heaviest.
Speaker 1: I don't even talk me about the third day. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, okay, did I start this in night? On
Speaker 1: the morning because by the third day at night, I
Speaker 1: might be able to like my period is like see,
Speaker 1: that's why you're talking like this, That's why you're able
Speaker 1: to get spicy about it. I'm telling you right now,
Speaker 1: I'm spicy. Average period time like four you're doing some
Speaker 1: libraries over you know it's five days, right, four days right? Average?
Speaker 1: So y'all always be a wee y'all abnormal? See for six,
Speaker 1: that's a I mean like you. We're gonna go ahead
Speaker 1: and get into our wait are you doing asking about
Speaker 1: blood because I've been done. I've been waiting to go
Speaker 1: to the So we are actually gonna talk about doubt
Speaker 1: for our Vanilla Ship, which, if you guys again, our
Speaker 1: first time listeners are Vanilla Ship segment is where we
Speaker 1: talk about sex in the news. We found this interesting
Speaker 1: one and it's actually on Vice dot com UM, where
Speaker 1: met students are doing vaginal exams on unconscious, non consenting patients. UM.
Speaker 1: The practice is still legal in forty two states despite
Speaker 1: decades long of ethical concerns. UM. Did you read into
Speaker 1: this and see, like what's really going on? No, So
Speaker 1: here's the gist of it. UM to practice doing exams,
Speaker 1: I guess I forgot what state it's it if you
Speaker 1: can find it. Basically, they're allowed to do vaginal exams
Speaker 1: on women that are in comas, that are completely unconscious,
Speaker 1: that are in a vegetative state. And um, I guess
Speaker 1: that state in particular finds nothing wrong with it because
Speaker 1: they're just learning and not being hurtful and it's a
Speaker 1: medical thing. Well, there's even this one, it says um.
Speaker 1: In two thousand seven, Ashley Whites was admitted to the
Speaker 1: hospital in Utah for extreme nausea and her doctor, I
Speaker 1: hate these words, anesticized, Oh bitch, I gotta um, so
Speaker 1: put her? Are you on the librarian? So she put
Speaker 1: her under anesthesia, Um, when other treatments weren't working, and Whites,
Speaker 1: who is a rape survivor, woke up to find that
Speaker 1: the doctor was examining her genitals. Horrible. That is horrible. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, especially when you're not aware of someone's trauma
Speaker 1: and you are putting them under like to just kind
Speaker 1: of do you remember Kill Bill when she woke up
Speaker 1: to the guy sucking her. Did you ever watch kill Bill? Yeah?
Speaker 1: With the blonde. So there's a scene where there's a
Speaker 1: bunch of people in comas and this guy pays someone
Speaker 1: that works there to funk one of the patients, and
Speaker 1: she could feel it, like even though she couldn't never talk.
Speaker 1: It's so sad. We actually had a vanilla ship not
Speaker 1: too long ago where there was a nursing home or
Speaker 1: something like that. When were or was it like and
Speaker 1: he got and yeah, so there was a staff worker
Speaker 1: that was having sex with these people who were in
Speaker 1: vegetative states, and one actually got pregnant. And so the
Speaker 1: family was trying to figure out, like how the fund
Speaker 1: does this happen, Like, you know, this person can't even
Speaker 1: consent or non consent, but yeah, she ended up being
Speaker 1: pregnant under the care of a home. So it's just sad.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but when when I'm trying
Speaker 1: to think the times that I go to that despect
Speaker 1: that the students are doing it is wild. That's wild.
Speaker 1: But I've been under of course, with like my surgery
Speaker 1: and everything like that. I don't remember ever signing, like
Speaker 1: is there even a paper, Like I don't even think
Speaker 1: there's anything to sign for. There might be something that
Speaker 1: says that I was just gonna say, there might be
Speaker 1: something that says, uh, Marcus in the healthcare field, but
Speaker 1: there might be something that says like, oh you can
Speaker 1: your body can be used for that's crazy. I was
Speaker 1: gonna say used for like training or something. I know.
Speaker 1: So when I got my breast son, it was six
Speaker 1: year or seven years ago. Um, my doctor asked my
Speaker 1: consent that morning. He was like, hey, I have a
Speaker 1: apprentice under me that is learning. Are you comfortable with
Speaker 1: him being in the room we're watching? And I said no,
Speaker 1: because just God forbid you in the middle of my
Speaker 1: tity and like, oh you see this right here in
Speaker 1: something slips And I said absolutely not. And I was like, sorry,
Speaker 1: I don't mean to be that person. Oh you're new,
Speaker 1: No practice on somebody else? No, no, no, not practice
Speaker 1: the plastic that someone could watch. But to me, I
Speaker 1: didn't want him to be pointing things out and talking
Speaker 1: and not doing that makes sense, like your focus would
Speaker 1: be off of my teeth. So the student wasn't even
Speaker 1: gonna touch you just being in the room you didn't
Speaker 1: even want to do. And it wasn't even a student.
Speaker 1: It was an actual doctor who was like kind of
Speaker 1: just getting in there and he asked, and he was
Speaker 1: somebody taking the attention away just so it's not myself.
Speaker 1: It makes like my teeth or something. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I've watched before and I've been going
Speaker 1: on my spot a minute. She's like, yeah, okay, if
Speaker 1: I bring somebody, you got what he's got, go ahead, whatever,
Speaker 1: it's just pussy back. No, No, you're like, don't want
Speaker 1: to go back. I just caught that. Okay. So here's
Speaker 1: what we're gonna talk about. Um, I want to talk
Speaker 1: about further decision. Obviously it's going to be eat pussy
Speaker 1: like a lesbian, but I do want to get into
Speaker 1: a little bit of your role during sex. So we've
Speaker 1: had conversations about you being dominating person um. Actually, and
Speaker 1: actually Mandy said to me, how I don't get what
Speaker 1: do you mean she's a dom? How are you a
Speaker 1: dom and a lesbian? How do you have a girl
Speaker 1: a dom? I mean, I know my problem is just
Speaker 1: knowing who the gonna pay? Will we go out? Me see? Well,
Speaker 1: I'll be like called it being like a kind of
Speaker 1: pay and be like a top. Now, why top versus dom?
Speaker 1: What is the difference? I don't know. It's a good question.
Speaker 1: I mean I feel like I am you feel like
Speaker 1: your just the top? Yeah, maybe but you like eight, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I want to tell somebody what to do. So
Speaker 1: walk us through? Like where you think what makes you
Speaker 1: a top? Like what character characteristics? Let's let's say as
Speaker 1: far as whether they be hitting on women paying for
Speaker 1: ship walk us through? Ah, smither. I guess I would
Speaker 1: be like, um, I confidence maybe like that's some of it.
Speaker 1: Also just a lot of women want to be and all.
Speaker 1: This is my personal experience of talking about my personal
Speaker 1: I love that my girlfriends I'm talking about. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's how I slid into her d M s And
Speaker 1: then she went forward, Oh, I was drunk. It was
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. I was like, I am drunk and it's
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day and I just want to I was like,
Speaker 1: you're cute. I just wanted to tell you that that
Speaker 1: was like sweet. I'm talking I put the little jib
Speaker 1: with the girl shooting a shot, but it said, hey,
Speaker 1: that's kind of cute. He thought it was so cute,
Speaker 1: and yeah, are you like, do you tell girls like
Speaker 1: that you want to suck them that night? Because that
Speaker 1: how pussy works for you? Like how I don't even
Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't even have to say,
Speaker 1: like I feel like if you have like a I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't usually have to say what I want. So
Speaker 1: as far as topping, how does that start for you?
Speaker 1: Because you liked someone to go down on you? But
Speaker 1: I've also heard you say like you've had a girl
Speaker 1: completely naked and you went down on them, So like,
Speaker 1: are you like walk us through that like when you're topping. Well,
Speaker 1: it's just I guess it's like queer sex works like
Speaker 1: for women in this kind of way where it's less
Speaker 1: because I I'm saying this is like I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is what I suppose about pero sex, right, this idea
Speaker 1: of like the penetrative act being like the main thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but the main event. And there's not like a main
Speaker 1: event like that going on for the most part, unless
Speaker 1: you're using like toys at that point, there is no
Speaker 1: main event. It's just a whole bunch of like touching
Speaker 1: and looking yeah, or I mean those fucking like with
Speaker 1: your hands, with your hands. So let's walk through all
Speaker 1: the types of lesbian sex you can. I was looking
Speaker 1: a lot of different kinds of sex. I was just
Speaker 1: looking at their nails. Y'all are lesbian? I don't na.
Speaker 1: As soon as you say I'm just looking like, well, yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so let's start with top three. So fucking when you
Speaker 1: say fucking, it's your hand, Yeah, okay, I would say that.
Speaker 1: So fucking is the penetrative act. I mean yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean you can also just like stick your tongue really
Speaker 1: up in somebody, like tongue sucks somebody. Yea tongue that
Speaker 1: like like I hope I'm not making that noise shet
Speaker 1: o here, like you just really what it is right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: So fucking with your hand, But I want to talk
Speaker 1: about scissoring and then so when you eat somebody out,
Speaker 1: you can funk them with your hand at the same
Speaker 1: time too. So there's that. But when you're like, let's
Speaker 1: talk about the like because when I have when I'm scissoring,
Speaker 1: sometimes it goes everywhere. Sometimes it's like I'm on her thigh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like what is that called? Like just kidding like yeah,
Speaker 1: like kind of grinding on somebody, Like I mean that's
Speaker 1: that's good too. I mean that's just like there's just
Speaker 1: me anyway you can kind of rub your ship. Why
Speaker 1: did you say grind on me? And then pretty Ricky
Speaker 1: just sounded to you. I don't know her fingers through
Speaker 1: my brains. Okay, So in particular, when it comes to
Speaker 1: your favorite type of sex, what is it? Oh? I
Speaker 1: like I like to fux somebody else. I guess you'd
Speaker 1: like to suck somebody else. Now, when you're sucking someone else,
Speaker 1: how are you getting off? Do you ever get off later?
Speaker 1: Do you touch yourself? Yeah? Well, I mean I'll just
Speaker 1: tell them what I want them to do usually. Now
Speaker 1: the top me mommy thing. Taught me mommy, let's talk
Speaker 1: it any of her book? No, it's not in my book.
Speaker 1: Oh I heard no, I wrote it on Christopher's copy.
Speaker 1: So how do you ask girls to call you mommy
Speaker 1: or daddy? I do not. Girls have definitely called me
Speaker 1: daddy before, though, But then I like that that's hot. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this guy just told This guy just told me he
Speaker 1: wanted me to be his daddy, clearly for that's it's
Speaker 1: sexiest fun. I love it. But taught me mommy. When
Speaker 1: did that come out? That's a phrase that my girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but like, when is she asking you to
Speaker 1: talk her? Um? No, she wouldn't ask me to do that.
Speaker 1: I just would do it. Oh yeah, and then she
Speaker 1: yells taught me mommy. Like while you're talking. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to understand this. What are the gay phrases that
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Speaker 1: I did say it was exceptional. Big word for you,
Speaker 1: I know, that's all. It was good I was. I
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Speaker 1: It's because like y'all are talking like about Matt gayship.
Speaker 1: But like the problem is, like my friends, so this
Speaker 1: is the problem too, Like when I have sex with
Speaker 1: a woman, I do just like pure sex with a woman,
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Speaker 1: so I don't want to talk about this ship. So
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Speaker 1: getting into like and I guess maybe guys have to
Speaker 1: deal with this. She wouldn't let me because she felt
Speaker 1: like all I wanted to do was just suck her.
Speaker 1: Did she trying to make me take her to the
Speaker 1: movies the next day? Like this is right? And I'm like,
Speaker 1: gotta deal with holy sh it? Like so, I just
Speaker 1: I guess why naked? My point? Why why did you
Speaker 1: get undressed? It was supposed to be a sleepover, like, hey, girl,
Speaker 1: come over, It was like corn. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: guess it's weird too. So for me, I feel like
Speaker 1: I identify as queer, but when I deal with women,
Speaker 1: I genuinely only want to deal with women, but only
Speaker 1: for like that very short say. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I can see myself with a woman, and then men
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Speaker 1: thinking it's a threesome vibe. So I do want to ask,
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Speaker 1: but I didn't you get pregnant. Yeah, after school special.
Speaker 1: So you sucked the guy once, Yeah, and got pregnant.
Speaker 1: How old are you? Eighteen? Damn the best time to
Speaker 1: get pregnant. See that's why you start. So what made
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Speaker 1: I was? I was extremely wrecked that night, and I
Speaker 1: wasn't like I was eighteen and I hadn't done a
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Speaker 1: ship that night. So damn you got pregnant on your
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Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? I'm just saying being like, no,
Speaker 1: you're gay, I'm gonna keep doing it. That to me, Bro,
Speaker 1: my friend gay fucked the dude once, literally got lamydia,
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Speaker 1: what you have. I just keep like, have you known
Speaker 1: any friends to get st d s from women? Women
Speaker 1: and women? I don't. I don't. I'm positive that that
Speaker 1: has to happen. And that's what I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 1: really know. And and also like that's the thing too,
Speaker 1: because I mean you're talking about like wanting to just
Speaker 1: fucking then not well, yeah, there's that, and so even
Speaker 1: just the the idea of of course if we're fucking
Speaker 1: with men, there's the plan B. There's all these contraceptives
Speaker 1: to keep from being so with women. What are the
Speaker 1: ways to have safe sex as a woman so that
Speaker 1: you're not contracting STDs? Have you ever had save sex
Speaker 1: as a woman, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I
Speaker 1: know there's dental dams, but where do you even buy
Speaker 1: those ships? Actually, it seems like they only give it
Speaker 1: to us in school to say hey, these things exist.
Speaker 1: And I was like, from does anyone in your looking
Speaker 1: plastic right like saranra like kind of like that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a tongue guard, there's finger gloves, finger comms before
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Speaker 1: the booty hole you've put Yes, especially with my crylics,
Speaker 1: like it helps when you have them in your home. No,
Speaker 1: but I've I've had them before. You get them I
Speaker 1: think for free, like I do, only get they passed
Speaker 1: them out. But I'm sorry you got finger cords and
Speaker 1: I used it like I'm curious, you know, I didn't
Speaker 1: get no guydam cors on the six train hole. I
Speaker 1: was probably I have so many cons of the house,
Speaker 1: but I had one of the like I got finger
Speaker 1: condoms don't And I tried and I was like, but
Speaker 1: how you use it? See? But we got other people
Speaker 1: use the finger commoms, don't finger commensation because I'm curious
Speaker 1: out why you used it because they were passing out.
Speaker 1: I wanted to try it and it helped because I
Speaker 1: was like, like he was scared of my crilic and
Speaker 1: I was like, I got you with it, Dusty. When
Speaker 1: you check it out, No, it's a bro. It's loud,
Speaker 1: like they're kind like they're kind of like ship on it.
Speaker 1: I mean that's why I've been dusty. Yeah. First off,
Speaker 1: I don't deal with no dusty ship and only stop. Okay,
Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm mad because I just thought I had
Speaker 1: some really great questions and apparently none of us know
Speaker 1: about Leslians. While you'll be out here eating, but you
Speaker 1: got ahle as girlfriend. You gotta hole lets girlfriend, and
Speaker 1: we can't talking about God the STDs. But letsbian say no,
Speaker 1: I think it's good to talk about it. Some good
Speaker 1: Leslian questions and you let's see on my fucking so,
Speaker 1: so that is a good a good thing. So it's
Speaker 1: on the train where they're now even including women in
Speaker 1: the narrative of prep um. But I guess that's also
Speaker 1: I would like to talk about that specifically because we
Speaker 1: also view HIV as a gay man um disease, which
Speaker 1: I don't think is you know, but there's ways there's
Speaker 1: a disease transmitted through but there's ways of contracting, especially
Speaker 1: if you're eating bloody pussies. I would assume that, like
Speaker 1: you can really get HIV from like eating period blood
Speaker 1: right in there? How to deal self help? I mean,
Speaker 1: I just want to know. So with with lesbians, is
Speaker 1: that something to where you guys even have the conversation
Speaker 1: of getting tested together and stuff, because it seems like
Speaker 1: you don't really know of STDs really and not women
Speaker 1: don't often have safe sex. So is it a conversation
Speaker 1: in a lesbian relationship to even talk about that? And
Speaker 1: how do relationships? Of course you clean, it's a common question,
Speaker 1: the same of course with gay men. But is that
Speaker 1: not a conversation with lesbians? It's not a conversation I've
Speaker 1: had too often to be fair, I'm not a relationship
Speaker 1: person so when you're just sucking. Yeah, it's not like
Speaker 1: you're using anything, Like has anyone ever asked you that?
Speaker 1: Like you really? So? Let these are really unsafe as
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that these conversations I think still
Speaker 1: should be had even with women on women. Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know, as it's crazy because damn especially because some women,
Speaker 1: especially like ones like like I still dip and dabble
Speaker 1: with me. Honest, I've never asked a girl, which is
Speaker 1: every guy, I fuck, I'm always like, right, but women
Speaker 1: can also carry things and if you're eating blood and
Speaker 1: ship like, y'all should really be testing up. I mean,
Speaker 1: I definitely go and do that, but I've never asked
Speaker 1: a woman. Yeah, I think it's the same way that
Speaker 1: we want to hold. I think it should be a
Speaker 1: thing with lesbian smell check, smell check? How do we
Speaker 1: get here? I'm just curious what I'm saying, Like that's
Speaker 1: normally what nick is. Do they like she smell alright?
Speaker 1: She smells cleand um so I mean, but not all
Speaker 1: STDs carryinally And then I really want to get into
Speaker 1: the smell test. How do you smell tested? Smell tested? Well? No,
Speaker 1: I mean I just I mean, I like how pussy
Speaker 1: smells me too, smell pussy. We didn't get like a
Speaker 1: live show what no one can get it consistent and
Speaker 1: it's different, I think everybody because everybody's bodies are different.
Speaker 1: It's like different, like a party bad. This guy at
Speaker 1: our Lives show said, it smells like salmon next to
Speaker 1: his bitch. He said, with which I just said it
Speaker 1: like that, and why did you girlfriend right to him?
Speaker 1: And we were like, oh, well, honey, I shouldn't smell
Speaker 1: like why did I try to give him a pass
Speaker 1: because he was talking about he was a I was like,
Speaker 1: it's the language barrier. I felt so bad because May
Speaker 1: wouldn't shut him about the l I was like, he's
Speaker 1: I will not date a guy salmon like Solomon. I
Speaker 1: also will not date a guy who orders his steak.
Speaker 1: What is it? Hard done? We can't date anymore. We
Speaker 1: can't date anymore. It is it's like, just don't make
Speaker 1: it a fu cliche. You know they're going to talk
Speaker 1: about us when they go to the back, maybe like
Speaker 1: that table over there all well done? No no, or
Speaker 1: chicken fried hard. That's another one, sir, I'm sorry, Yeah,
Speaker 1: chicken fried hard. You ain't never heard the chicken fried hard.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking. You know chicken fried heart, right,
Speaker 1: they'd like double fried and chicken. Yeah. First off, you
Speaker 1: just look at chicken fried hard. No, they do be
Speaker 1: asking for chicken fried heart. So you like the smell
Speaker 1: of pussy? Have you ever had that? You were just
Speaker 1: like you had to dodge and bob and weave the
Speaker 1: puss if I didn't like how it smelled them, I'm
Speaker 1: just not gonna someone. No, I wouldn't tell someone, bro,
Speaker 1: this is a conversation to have. What you just said,
Speaker 1: You wouldn't tell someone if they're pussy smelled. No, I
Speaker 1: would not do that. Why because there's also a thing
Speaker 1: too where it's like sometimes maybe you were out, like
Speaker 1: walking around all day and you're sweaty and it's a
Speaker 1: whole situation. But like, but if it's a whole situation,
Speaker 1: be like, since you had a whole situation today that
Speaker 1: was in a relationship with somebody. But like I'm too,
Speaker 1: I'm not like ineop sucking far into your thirties bitch
Speaker 1: and only have two girlfriends? Do you really just like
Speaker 1: causual pussy? Right? So with all the causual pussy, you
Speaker 1: still haven't if there was a stench. You know, you
Speaker 1: don't know how to have that conversation. N No, I
Speaker 1: don't think I would tell that to a woman because
Speaker 1: I people take that like very serious, like it would
Speaker 1: suck somebody up. I think it. But also she's gonna
Speaker 1: suck up someone's sucking clothes and hands. Shouldn't we as women,
Speaker 1: make it our fucking duty to tell you your post
Speaker 1: that is not my mean, you're putting your whole space
Speaker 1: down there. It should be kind of a job to
Speaker 1: let someone know because I can't fit my head down there.
Speaker 1: I've never had complaints. I've never I've never gone down
Speaker 1: on someone where it's been like I can't do No,
Speaker 1: it's never been like something horrible. Well you've been lucky.
Speaker 1: Like so many times we've had men talk about the stench.
Speaker 1: But I want to say this one, mean, what do
Speaker 1: men think pussy? Like there's a little musk to a man,
Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like maybe men have
Speaker 1: way higher expectations. So I like, like if something like
Speaker 1: has a strong smell, like I like that ship. I
Speaker 1: like pussy smell. Yeah, Like I don't like water smelling pussy.
Speaker 1: That's it's kind of weird. For me, there's really no water.
Speaker 1: If I water smelling pussy, I mean no smell like
Speaker 1: like like after I eat somebody out or like finger
Speaker 1: somebody to be like smell it on me afterwards. I
Speaker 1: love that me too, Ye same, Yeah, but she wanted
Speaker 1: she got on me because I said dead on Vice
Speaker 1: and you had a problem. You said, it's in my hair.
Speaker 1: I don't you know what it was. I think it
Speaker 1: wasn't that you said it. It's just that we were
Speaker 1: on TV because I suck before we went there, and
Speaker 1: that's still smell him in my hair and I it
Speaker 1: just smell good. That was a lot being real Judging
Speaker 1: pussy eating tips, Megan the Stallion has said recently, you
Speaker 1: look at my pussy too hard. That ship is aggravating.
Speaker 1: I would like to talk about the dudes and don'ts
Speaker 1: of pussy eating. Yeah, I would say, like the best
Speaker 1: tip about it, because everybody likes different ships, like some
Speaker 1: people like you to really go to town on them,
Speaker 1: and some people don't even like people, and some people don't.
Speaker 1: Some people don't like that ship, and some people also
Speaker 1: maybe barely like you to touch them, or some people
Speaker 1: want you to touch their clip directly, and some people
Speaker 1: don't like that. Yeah, see some people don't like that
Speaker 1: to you. It's it's really like every single time I
Speaker 1: feel like I've ever gone down someone, it's like, let's
Speaker 1: figure out not only that, I think it's that there
Speaker 1: should be a conversation there because even so for me,
Speaker 1: I guess I just really like penetration. So even when
Speaker 1: a guy and some guys just enjoy giving heads of
Speaker 1: if you really want to pussy, I'll let you, but
Speaker 1: even while you're down there, like I need you to
Speaker 1: finger me. And there's been so many women that say
Speaker 1: they don't like fingers in them at all. So it's
Speaker 1: like definitely a conversation to where if you do have
Speaker 1: someone down there, let him know if he's hurting you
Speaker 1: or she sorry, I'm bringing this back hetero, but let
Speaker 1: them know it's good to be vocal about I don't
Speaker 1: like this, or do this instead maybe or something like
Speaker 1: eating is a big deal and a lot of people
Speaker 1: will complain about it, and I'm like, why not just
Speaker 1: make it like a sexy thing of have someone like
Speaker 1: walk you through what they like. If you tell somebody
Speaker 1: what you like, then they can do that again for you.
Speaker 1: Do you ask when you're putting your fingers inside of women. Um,
Speaker 1: I don't. But if somebody told me that they didn't
Speaker 1: like it or not to do that, then I just wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I just wouldn't do that. What do you think is
Speaker 1: the a common mistake with pussy eating or something that
Speaker 1: like generally you're like, what the people are too rough?
Speaker 1: I was like with this woman this one time, and
Speaker 1: she the next day I was like, I feel like
Speaker 1: I rode a horse for like twelve hours. I was
Speaker 1: like this hor no from like like because you know,
Speaker 1: like a lot of times people are eating you out
Speaker 1: and like fingering you at the same time. I was
Speaker 1: just like, what has gone on in your life that
Speaker 1: you are like punching me and the crotch like fist
Speaker 1: people to like it people on fistings. Have you fisted?
Speaker 1: I have done that for people. I don't want that
Speaker 1: for me. I don't want to fist either. So this
Speaker 1: is how I want to say this one more time
Speaker 1: so we can get over this. I did just bring
Speaker 1: this up. But I did just bring this up. I
Speaker 1: just want said. She asked me for three and then four,
Speaker 1: and then he said put all of it, and so
Speaker 1: then I took the other finger and I didn't say
Speaker 1: I punched the pussy. They just put all of the
Speaker 1: fingers in there and went like this. It sounds like
Speaker 1: a fist to me. Is that a fist? Yes, it's
Speaker 1: all it's a hand. Okay, you're handing this. I feel
Speaker 1: like a fist includes the number juices to my knowledge,
Speaker 1: and then you make a fist. I didn't make a
Speaker 1: fist your hand on what designed? So it didn't when
Speaker 1: you fisted. Has it freaked you out? No? Uh no,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not gonna do anything I don't want
Speaker 1: to do. Have you used the spit or lube for
Speaker 1: a fist? Or I would use like lube? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: so then they really wanted to because we didn't have
Speaker 1: to get the loupe out. Now, how deep was your hand?
Speaker 1: Can you show me? Oh my god, um show me
Speaker 1: that ship. I mean, like, I guess more than sixty
Speaker 1: percent if we're doing the math correctly, more than sixty percent.
Speaker 1: I feel like so out the loop with all this
Speaker 1: conversation the whole episode, I felt kind of out the loop.
Speaker 1: How do you women? But I'll beat? How could you
Speaker 1: feel out the loop when you fu girls? Because first off,
Speaker 1: the last time I didn't even remember I did it,
Speaker 1: So there's one um, and I don't do it as often,
Speaker 1: you know, I'd just be sucking my friends and then
Speaker 1: be like drunk nights on bitch. I don't like go
Speaker 1: out and I don't meet women. I don't really approach women, like,
Speaker 1: so all the girls i'd be sucking be my friends.
Speaker 1: I don't like go out and meet girls and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: let's hang out and now. So I don't know. It
Speaker 1: just made me think I had a conversation with a
Speaker 1: girl in my DNA. Oh no, I didn't have a conversation,
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Speaker 1: fucking the first time? And advice for a woman that
Speaker 1: wants to have sex with a girl for the first time.
Speaker 1: It doesn't really know what to do. Things are going
Speaker 1: to probably be awkward, and it's okay, like for things
Speaker 1: to be like awkward and just like when he was
Speaker 1: kids and you play a house, that's how you start
Speaker 1: with the dry grinding with the clothes on first, and
Speaker 1: then you slowly take the clothes off and kiss a
Speaker 1: whole lot of kissing because Nik's gonna be kissing. This
Speaker 1: is Mandy just in background. Mandy loves storylines. I do.
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like this is why all of
Speaker 1: the ship She's like, you do the clothes out. Then
Speaker 1: you gets I'm gonna write a book. I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: porn scenes and like all the different times I told
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Speaker 1: a comment, what's the nastiest scene in your book? The
Speaker 1: nastiest scene in my book? Because wait, wait, is this
Speaker 1: like a erotic like a Zane book or how to books?
Speaker 1: Like it was a novel and it's about it's a
Speaker 1: the book itself. I wanted to be very queer book,
Speaker 1: but I didn't want it to be a kind of
Speaker 1: coming out book. I just wanted to be about a
Speaker 1: woman who happens to be gay, and so like, you know,
Speaker 1: sex happens in the book because you know, people fuck facts. Yeah,
Speaker 1: do you get really detailed? I don't get too deep.
Speaker 1: Got two girls and you told me about the call
Speaker 1: they get like a lot of hardcore lesbian f in
Speaker 1: the book. Oh which one against the truck outside of
Speaker 1: a bar, like on the street, Um, like just kind
Speaker 1: of fingering someone through their jeans. You're not making this
Speaker 1: sell sexy. I'm talking. We want people to be wet
Speaker 1: at their desks right now thinking about you knowing right
Speaker 1: like I said, thing like you get out of a bar,
Speaker 1: you're kind of drunk in your horny and you're like
Speaker 1: getting in the car to go, and then maybe you
Speaker 1: would suck against a car like that's that's the thing
Speaker 1: everybody likes Friday parking lot at Yeah, how did that happen?
Speaker 1: Can you make it sexy for us? Tell us how
Speaker 1: you're sucking against the truck? Went? It was Ami Memorial weekend,
Speaker 1: which already makes it not sexy. Also, the car was
Speaker 1: neither of ours, but it also hit us and brings
Speaker 1: the excitement. It also hit us from the other side
Speaker 1: of the street. Um. I don't know her name though,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I ate a girl's pussy out in the
Speaker 1: bathroom at Jerry's when Jerry's used to be on the beach,
Speaker 1: coming out of What club was it? I don't know.
Speaker 1: Just yeah, when I'm drunk. She was at the table.
Speaker 1: She was cute, and we want to get eggs and
Speaker 1: shipped after the club and we want to use the
Speaker 1: bathroom together. And what's up with you in the bathroom thing?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a funk in the bathroom
Speaker 1: I talked about in the bathroom. In the bathroom, Oh
Speaker 1: that was in the house. This was a was a
Speaker 1: toilet there. No, are you coming for me right now? Yes?
Speaker 1: You also had sex on a strip club floor. I did.
Speaker 1: That was fun though, That was fucking fun. So this
Speaker 1: is why I read sex with the stripper and the
Speaker 1: strip club beat me? Wait did you did you pay
Speaker 1: for it? No? You win? She was like boar boar
Speaker 1: sitting Yeah, we having gunshot? Wait have you when you
Speaker 1: sucked the stripper in the shop club? Did she you
Speaker 1: ever met her before? And nothing like that? Was she gay? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of strippers are gay? Huh?
Speaker 1: Where where are you? Did you know? She took me
Speaker 1: in a room? Shut up? And she's like, my real
Speaker 1: name is Jamie. Oh, she wanted you to know her
Speaker 1: real name. She she was connected to She was connected
Speaker 1: to you, Well, we're gonna go ahead and get into
Speaker 1: our home segment, or do you have any to ask? Oh?
Speaker 1: I wanted to ask. The weirdest place You've ever had sex?
Speaker 1: The weirdest place I've ever had sex? Oh god? Oh wait? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Michael's Craft Store. And that was with an employee from
Speaker 1: Michael's craft that I met that day in the Michael's
Speaker 1: crafts wait wait, wait wait, and then about that action
Speaker 1: and then she gave me her employee discount. That means
Speaker 1: you did good. You did the next time I went
Speaker 1: into that Michael's to get like some craft ship, they
Speaker 1: were like, oh, aren't you so and So's girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, ship, I can't come back to the
Speaker 1: Michaels anymore. What did you buy? I bought? What didn't
Speaker 1: I buy? A bottle of a bunch of How much
Speaker 1: was it? It was? It was a good discount. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, ship, this is Michael's discounts, like the
Speaker 1: back towards like the yarn, not towards the yard. That
Speaker 1: is really towards the yard. It was like towards the
Speaker 1: scrap book. I'd be like, okay, that's like the scrap book.
Speaker 1: That's too upfront. That's you don't know the layout of Michaels.
Speaker 1: You know Michaels, you know by the yarn in the back.
Speaker 1: That was that was after That was Actually I took
Speaker 1: a woman on a date to the Olive Garden that
Speaker 1: was next door of the Michaels and the date, like,
Speaker 1: I made out with that woman in the parking lot,
Speaker 1: and I was drunk from drinking at the Olive Garden,
Speaker 1: so I walked into Michaels and then sucked that woman.
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, this is the
Speaker 1: employee you met while you were shopping and then guys fucked. Yes,
Speaker 1: this was after a date with another one. Bro, have
Speaker 1: you ever said the weirdest place you've ever fucked? She
Speaker 1: beats me Michael's Craft Store? No, no, no, that's pretty good.
Speaker 1: What's yours? I can't even think. Okay, I was probably
Speaker 1: just a strip club that's pretty bad on the floor
Speaker 1: and sit sees, Oh my god, wheest place I've ever
Speaker 1: had sex. When I was fucking lover Boing Aily, we
Speaker 1: fucked in this alley and it was by water and
Speaker 1: it was like really beautiful boat and then the boat came.
Speaker 1: So that was pretty good, and I was sucking. Then
Speaker 1: whenever came it was almost like a show at that
Speaker 1: point because they couldn't see my face, and I was
Speaker 1: like fucking and I was like, you know, the sounds
Speaker 1: really making these noises noises. You have a really bad
Speaker 1: gag reflex. Someone love it. Someone don't. Beard baby does
Speaker 1: not like it. Sounds like you're gonna but most guys
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, it's just an eager big Oh
Speaker 1: my god, they didn't. We're gonna get into our homemail.
Speaker 1: Not that one. We're going to read the queer one
Speaker 1: for Christian's. That's no, that's a girl asking to come on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she did have a question. Oh is there a question? Well, damn,
Speaker 1: I want listen. We can answer it when she come home. No,
Speaker 1: she's not coming on. You see if she if you'll
Speaker 1: come on, bitches, wheezy fault. I wanted her to come home.
Speaker 1: It's cool, it's your You look like that. Maybe she'll
Speaker 1: come on. Maybe she won't know you read it. Huge
Speaker 1: fan of the show. Listening for a year, You guys
Speaker 1: have covered a bunch of topics related to sell sex, health,
Speaker 1: and relationships, but there's one thing you haven't dived into,
Speaker 1: which is a sexuality. A lot of shame around women
Speaker 1: not having too much sex or not really wanting it,
Speaker 1: but what about women that don't desire sex at all?
Speaker 1: Recently have come to terms of being on the A
Speaker 1: sexuality spectrum, and I've had a hard time speaking to
Speaker 1: people because there's not much discussion around it. Being black, queer,
Speaker 1: mask presenting woman. On top of this as an added
Speaker 1: a layer, that's proven to be a bit of a
Speaker 1: roller coaster, especially since I've had sex with a handful
Speaker 1: of people, men and women. Navigating reationships is tricky. Um,
Speaker 1: I would love to speak to you guys who come
Speaker 1: on the podcast about it, since I think it would
Speaker 1: generate blah blah blah. Here's what I want to talk about,
Speaker 1: A sexuality feeling weird and shame about that. A close
Speaker 1: friend of ours mutual friend UM name starts with the
Speaker 1: K is recently discussed that he may think he's a
Speaker 1: sexual I want to know how both of you would
Speaker 1: feel if you met someone and got interested in them
Speaker 1: with their A sexuality. If you feel like that's like
Speaker 1: a total note, well, how would you work around it?
Speaker 1: If you start want talking anymore? Bro? The nick I'm
Speaker 1: talking to now thinks it's insane that I want to
Speaker 1: go to a sex club, Like no, Like even dealing
Speaker 1: with someone who's vanilla has become a challenge for me.
Speaker 1: I like sex too much, so I would date someone
Speaker 1: with the and then people, but I would keep someone
Speaker 1: in my life if I really liked him that I
Speaker 1: think that's a that's a questions. It's a question to ask, like, okay,
Speaker 1: then to like, also what level of comfort of intimacy
Speaker 1: or the hate that I just said that that are
Speaker 1: they comfortable with it? Does that mean they don't like kissing?
Speaker 1: Does that mean they don't like any kind of touching?
Speaker 1: In kind of ways, I think it is to like
Speaker 1: a person a person think if it's somebody I really liked,
Speaker 1: then I would want to maybe be around them, but
Speaker 1: I also would want to be honest up front about
Speaker 1: my specific needs. I am a person that likes it
Speaker 1: would be like, what does it look what does it
Speaker 1: look like to you for us to be together? Does
Speaker 1: it mean that like I can have sex with other people,
Speaker 1: because that's something that would be like really necessary for me.
Speaker 1: And if it wouldn't be okay with them, then if
Speaker 1: that's not gonna be something that's compatible. But that's like
Speaker 1: you have to have a whole last conversation about it.
Speaker 1: I think. So an interesting thing from the mutual friend.
Speaker 1: Now he's not I don't know if he is a sexual,
Speaker 1: but he brought up that he might be. He masturbates,
Speaker 1: and I found that that was interesting because I guess
Speaker 1: we kind of all assume if someone isn't fucking or
Speaker 1: doesn't like fucking, like they're not getting pleasure. So he masturbates,
Speaker 1: he's just not finding interest in intimacy for other people.
Speaker 1: I've you, guys, ever known anybody like that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know that there are people who who are like that.
Speaker 1: I can't. I think I actually I have another friend
Speaker 1: who's like that as well. I met an a sexual
Speaker 1: person at the Girl Mob when I did it last year.
Speaker 1: It was a panel I spoke on and she walked
Speaker 1: up and that was her issue, is that she was
Speaker 1: a sexual. And I think her parents every time she
Speaker 1: went around her family, they asked about babies and all
Speaker 1: this stuff, and so she did actually and I never
Speaker 1: got her contact. I think I was drunk that did
Speaker 1: it too. But she's the only person I've met who's
Speaker 1: openly admit, like known for herself that she was all
Speaker 1: my friends are hose so bitch. No, I don't know
Speaker 1: anyone personally. Um, we like sex like everyone that I
Speaker 1: know like sas. So I think that's a hard thing
Speaker 1: for people to say because there's this idea of like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if I tell people I'm a sexual and then what
Speaker 1: if I want what if that feels like it changes,
Speaker 1: like maybe someday I do want to do something else.
Speaker 1: Like that's a that's a difficult and it's also like, right,
Speaker 1: what does it mean? And a lot of people do
Speaker 1: have an understanding about it, so it would be hard
Speaker 1: for people to tell about it. I'm gonna look, I
Speaker 1: wonder if there's a dating app for that ship. There's
Speaker 1: gotta gotta be right. I had a friend of mine,
Speaker 1: um that didn't have sex for seven years. Um, you
Speaker 1: know I'm talking about no Oh, he didn't have sex
Speaker 1: for seven years, but that was purposeful, like that was
Speaker 1: his choice that he didn't want to. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it's you just like it just didn't happen. And then
Speaker 1: after a while I write sexual and then I was like,
Speaker 1: well do you want to? And he was like, I
Speaker 1: guess I could. And then finally I was like, we
Speaker 1: use a puss and we did, but we wasn't me.
Speaker 1: But I remember like after that it kind of jumped
Speaker 1: started that and he was talking about and he's like,
Speaker 1: after a while, you literally forget about it. And I
Speaker 1: think with a sexual people it's just they learned like
Speaker 1: feel intimate and feel pleasure from other things to where
Speaker 1: like that. And it's totally legitimate that people would be
Speaker 1: a sexual and just not just not want to have
Speaker 1: that kind of that kind of intimacy with other people.
Speaker 1: I would date somebody who was a sexual if I could,
Speaker 1: on the premise that I could suck other people like
Speaker 1: I would because you're an emotional person. So if this
Speaker 1: is someone where you only have that emotional connection to
Speaker 1: when you're still able to get your rocks off by
Speaker 1: someone else, yeah, sure, it's like, well, what are you
Speaker 1: getting out of any relationship? Like friendships give you a
Speaker 1: kind of intimacy. I did look it up if if
Speaker 1: any of you guys do feel like you may be
Speaker 1: a sexual. There are dating apps um a Sexuallytic, a
Speaker 1: sexual match, a sexual Cupid, um, and they actually celibate passions,
Speaker 1: and they actually the celibate passions and they also actually
Speaker 1: say um. The number one site for a sexuals ironically
Speaker 1: is match dot com and that is because because it
Speaker 1: is one of the world's best dating sites. Um, but
Speaker 1: it's one of the best sites for not only finding lovers,
Speaker 1: but you can't find friendships, companionships and no strings attached romance.
Speaker 1: Right You're finding levels of finding levels of compatibility using
Speaker 1: match dot com, So that would also be a good
Speaker 1: one for a sexual Um, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean that you wouldn't come on. I just
Speaker 1: meant not today. But I do want to talk about
Speaker 1: the a sexuality spectrum because, like you mentioned, um, what
Speaker 1: level of intimacy. I think that's a conversation you have
Speaker 1: with any with any person that you're sucking around with
Speaker 1: or deciding you want to have a relationship with. That's
Speaker 1: just like a broader conversation about like what what do
Speaker 1: you want? I watched a documentary anywhere people. I think
Speaker 1: it was like three couple. I do not mean episode
Speaker 1: before we go. I do want to ask how do
Speaker 1: you feel when men say they could turn you out
Speaker 1: or they could change you. I hate that ship. So
Speaker 1: guys don't usually do that to me, Like I don't
Speaker 1: come up to me and or saying things like that
Speaker 1: to me, but they'll do that sometimes if I'm like
Speaker 1: with somebody, like making out a bar. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you all saw the couple in UK that was
Speaker 1: just so a couple in UK for you guys that
Speaker 1: don't know. They were riding a train after a night
Speaker 1: out UM with each other and I guess they must
Speaker 1: have kissed or something. Even in the narrative, they're not
Speaker 1: sure how it ended that way, but basically these guys
Speaker 1: started heckling them, asking them to kiss because they were
Speaker 1: aroused by the two women kissing to where they even
Speaker 1: started throwing coins at them. And then at one point
Speaker 1: one of the women did get up to confront them,
Speaker 1: and it turned into where she got beat up by
Speaker 1: three guys and then they beat up the other couple
Speaker 1: as well. So they posted a picture of their bloody
Speaker 1: faces online and let them know, like, um that this
Speaker 1: is also something the homophobic slurs and things that were
Speaker 1: geared towards them, um, And it actually brought light to
Speaker 1: this and I liked it because I think when we
Speaker 1: talk about homophobia, UM, it automatically goes to gay men UM,
Speaker 1: because they feel like women aren't really gay and a
Speaker 1: lot of men are aroused by it, so they're not
Speaker 1: looked at the same. So I'm glad that they did
Speaker 1: bring light that lesbians also do you know, face homophobia
Speaker 1: and also get you know, kind of things staring at them.
Speaker 1: We um the security guard of the hotel and I
Speaker 1: didn't tell her this, but she was kissing and touching
Speaker 1: me a lot. We were on vacation, right, and uh.
Speaker 1: The guy at the hotel was like, you shouldn't hold
Speaker 1: hands in the uber and he was like, you know,
Speaker 1: just keep it safe. And I was like damn and
Speaker 1: he was like, no disrespect, but I mean I get it,
Speaker 1: Like he didn't know how else I say it. He
Speaker 1: don't want to be rude. He just was like, funk,
Speaker 1: how do I help these girls? Um? And yeah, it
Speaker 1: was kind of we felt uncomfortable for sure. Well, there's
Speaker 1: also this thing too, where it's like there's this idea
Speaker 1: that you're performing for people. I hate that, like guys
Speaker 1: that literally once you say you like girls or like
Speaker 1: that's been my curve line, which doesn't work anymore. If
Speaker 1: I'm with my home girl, like and a guy is
Speaker 1: trying to talk to me that I don't really want
Speaker 1: to talk to something like oh, well this is my girlfriend,
Speaker 1: And so many times guys have been like, well let
Speaker 1: me see, I'll kiss then, like on some prove it
Speaker 1: type ship, and it's like it's really corny. I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's it's really bad. So yeah, but where someone asked
Speaker 1: you to prove it, not that they've asked me to
Speaker 1: prove it, but I've I've definitely been in lots of
Speaker 1: such she cutting to sleaves off her T shirts and
Speaker 1: she got it, ave ship. I don't have to do that,
Speaker 1: But like, there's been lots of times where if I'm
Speaker 1: with a woman and we're being like if we're kissing
Speaker 1: or doing something like that, that men will insert themselves,
Speaker 1: especially when I feel like, oh, this is a dainty BASI.
Speaker 1: I see her T shirt sleeves are full length. But
Speaker 1: no for for our listeners, I'm sure we hope that
Speaker 1: all of you guys have enjoyed this episode and learn
Speaker 1: some some tips, maybe about eating pussy, maybe just mad
Speaker 1: gay ship apparently, and I kept trying to make it
Speaker 1: heater as fun. I'm sorry, Um, but um, where can
Speaker 1: our listeners find you? Where can they get your book? Um?
Speaker 1: The name of your book? Drop all your little actually
Speaker 1: dropped the accolades. But where where can people go ahead
Speaker 1: and support you. The book is called Mostly Dead Things
Speaker 1: and you can buy it anywhere. I'm like, oh, they're
Speaker 1: sold out on Amazon, Alex Wanas. I do want to
Speaker 1: mention that you can possibly watch the show, the movie
Speaker 1: whatever on TV one day. We cannot wait but that
Speaker 1: to happen. Can you make sure I'm casting? Look, she
Speaker 1: wrote be that girl like she's look, she's aiming to
Speaker 1: be on TV two. So now scripted whatever you need.
Speaker 1: Unscripted is what I'm being shot for people like the
Speaker 1: agencies and ship. But I would like to do a
Speaker 1: script I mean, you know what I'm saying. You know me,
Speaker 1: we both hold I feel like you know I can
Speaker 1: and also a bit you better have a black girl
Speaker 1: in it. So hello, actually we're not trying to see what. No,
Speaker 1: I'll put my Puss on TV? How about any Fanny?
Speaker 1: And so it's sold on Amazon, so basically we're fucked. No,
Speaker 1: you can you can order it and like it's actually
Speaker 1: I'm going to do like here in New York, I'm
Speaker 1: going to go around to a bunch of different bookstores.
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna be at strand You're going to that's
Speaker 1: my favorit books. Are you going to Bose Stockings, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm going to all that's right by my place, sign
Speaker 1: in stock and there's there's definitely like it's good to
Speaker 1: go buy the indie bookstores because the authors make more
Speaker 1: money if you go to indie bookstores, and so do
Speaker 1: the publishers. And the bookstores are Yeah, it's it's much so.
Speaker 1: Blue Stockings are the very pro queer, pro black. They
Speaker 1: got their Black Lives Matter ship and all the gay
Speaker 1: flags up there. It's in the Lower East Side on
Speaker 1: Alan and Stanton. And what I love about this book
Speaker 1: store is they have signs that say, please don't steal
Speaker 1: from us, go to the chain down the street if
Speaker 1: you can't afford it for though. That's cute. Yeah, it's cute.
Speaker 1: So do you have a social social media handle? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm on Twitter being dumb all the time. Same says
Speaker 1: you have really good tweets. Thank you so much that
Speaker 1: you seem like a comedian in your tweet. That's basically
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do, a stand up I feel
Speaker 1: like all the time. It's it's at Kristen underscore our net.
Speaker 1: But holl you are a second white Christen here, we
Speaker 1: had the which the author to ship the same black
Speaker 1: girl name like we know Dan because we get creative
Speaker 1: with our names. But guys, if you guys want to follows,
Speaker 1: it's kind of black name Kayla. You don't know. No,
Speaker 1: all my friends named were black. Okay Ta nah is
Speaker 1: it not? It's Kayla a white name. Oh he said,
Speaker 1: many whites yo. I want you all to tweet us
Speaker 1: and tell us kayleb black black Kaylor a white Kayley.
Speaker 1: Shut the funk up? You you say, do us some
Speaker 1: dumb ship? She do be like Pole. I'll be voting
Speaker 1: on my own in my favorite UM for any of
Speaker 1: you guys who are interested in in reading Christen's book,
Speaker 1: following her comedic tweets apparently UM and just more so
Speaker 1: supporting UM, a woman who is out here doing the
Speaker 1: goddamn thing. We will be putting all of her information
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Speaker 1: So okay, gonna be offering more merch options, okay, because
Speaker 1: she'll be like, then we're gonna bring you another episode,
Speaker 1: and I mean, like, god, damnit, I already see enough
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Speaker 1: more than other Patreon platforms offer. Let's like a lot
Speaker 1: we have to coming. It's a lot of work. But
Speaker 1: now that we are both self employed, we are more
Speaker 1: content and at least do those episodes together. We have
Speaker 1: like really worked hard in the last two years curating
Speaker 1: this podcast and just even trying to make time to
Speaker 1: get in here. People would think, like if we couldn't
Speaker 1: do an episode together, like they're right, and sometimes we were.
Speaker 1: But but seriously though, like it was very hard to
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Speaker 1: on a motherfucking Monday, this has been you had another
Speaker 1: episode of Horrible Decisions. Would you consider Grace the main character? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're kind of around here. So Grace basically moves back
Speaker 1: to Memphis, UM to rejoin her family and the church
Speaker 1: and kind of, you know, feel a commanderie between the
Speaker 1: family UM since her sister committed suicide, but it's also
Speaker 1: seeking revenge on her uncle UM. So what I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about now is during Grace's time is this one? Yes,
Speaker 1: So Darren, Grace's stay back in Memphis, she seeks out
Speaker 1: other victims from Uncle Mac. And so one of the
Speaker 1: victims was a dominique that sounds like the name I
Speaker 1: want to I want to go for Uncle Mack paid
Speaker 1: the lawyer. Yes, So there's a there's a girl, um
Speaker 1: that Grace finds in the episode who went forward to
Speaker 1: the cops, said her whole story about being raped by
Speaker 1: Uncle Mac and then on tape, and then she recanted
Speaker 1: everything a few days later, and so no charges were
Speaker 1: brought against Uncle Mac. And when Grace approaches this young lady,
Speaker 1: her kind of immediate response was, well, I didn't want
Speaker 1: to ruin everything. So the conversation now that I want
Speaker 1: to have, UM, and Amanda and I actually kind of
Speaker 1: had a conversation UM at lunch, and I would love
Speaker 1: for you to bring it up. So it's sexual assault
Speaker 1: victims not feeling the need to come forward, specifically when
Speaker 1: it's someone in the family or someone close, feeling like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, now I'm gonna call so much drama.
Speaker 1: Let me not open my mouth. UM. So, Amanda, do
Speaker 1: you want to talk about what you were telling me earlier? So, UM,
Speaker 1: this is not easy for me to talk about. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tryout. Yeah, when I was younger, so the reason
Speaker 1: that I really really like I was talking Mandy like
Speaker 1: to be on the show. I was like DM email
Speaker 1: like her like tech me or like Mandy, I gotta
Speaker 1: come because like the green Leaf show is kind of
Speaker 1: like a Scandal, but it's like with like I told him,
Speaker 1: like I felt like I was watching Scandal, but it
Speaker 1: was like more Christian base. So like it was like
Speaker 1: in the church. And I grew up in the church,
Speaker 1: and my father was a pat ster and he still
Speaker 1: is to this day. He has a congregation. So I
Speaker 1: know what it is to be a pastor's kid. I
Speaker 1: know what it is to grow up in the spotlight.
Speaker 1: I know all about that realm. So one of the
Speaker 1: deacons of the family, like of my not a member
Speaker 1: of my family directly, but a deacon of the church.
Speaker 1: When I was fourteen years old, he's sexually molested me.
Speaker 1: And he was married, he had three kids. I was fourteen.
Speaker 1: I didn't know anything, Like I was still you know, innocent,
Speaker 1: like my parents raised me like a good quote unquote
Speaker 1: like church girl. So I didn't know anything about sex.
Speaker 1: I didn't know anything about like period. I didn't know
Speaker 1: anything believe in sex before marriage at all. No, that
Speaker 1: was bad, Like that was such a taboo in my house.
Speaker 1: Like no, like you're just supposed to be with your
Speaker 1: husband on your wedding night and that's it. Like my
Speaker 1: dad was like so like protecting me and my sister's virginity.
Speaker 1: I have a sister that's three years older than me,
Speaker 1: so he was like the prison guard. Like my sister
Speaker 1: and I would joke when we were little, like, oh,
Speaker 1: we live in a prison. We grew up in a prison.
Speaker 1: But it was because my dad was like so like
Speaker 1: overprotective of us. And needless to say, one of the
Speaker 1: deacons of his church molested me when I was fourteen,
Speaker 1: And this went on for a few months until I
Speaker 1: finally came forward to like, you know, say something. Did
Speaker 1: you battle with coming forward? I did for a long
Speaker 1: time because like him and my dad were like best friends.
Speaker 1: Like he would come over our house with his wife
Speaker 1: and his kids and they would play dominoes so three
Speaker 1: in the morning, and then like the guy was singing
Speaker 1: the church like it was it was a lot, and
Speaker 1: like he would tell me, like, you can't tell anybody
Speaker 1: because what's gonna happen is like you're gonna get in trouble,
Speaker 1: Like he would say, like I was gonna get in
Speaker 1: trouble like you touching my boobs? How am I going
Speaker 1: to get in trouble like you found? Like how am
Speaker 1: I going to get in trouble for something you're doing?
Speaker 1: But I was just I was fourteen. What was what
Speaker 1: was the response? And if this, if this went on
Speaker 1: for a couple of months, what was the tipping point
Speaker 1: to you telling your father that this is what's happening.
Speaker 1: I told my sister, my sister three years older than me,
Speaker 1: and my sister like she left home. She couldn't deal
Speaker 1: with like my dad being so strict and like I
Speaker 1: would see like my sister actually having freedom and I'm
Speaker 1: fourteen at this time, I was fifteen. I remember my
Speaker 1: fifteen birthday and this man was like in our living
Speaker 1: room to celebrate my birthday, and I'm like, I know
Speaker 1: what he's doing to me, Like like even one time
Speaker 1: he was like touching me when we were like out
Speaker 1: of baptism, like in the water, like the people are
Speaker 1: getting baptized and he's like touching me. Like it was
Speaker 1: just a lot, and I just couldn't deal, So I
Speaker 1: told my sister. My sister ended up telling her boyfriend
Speaker 1: and my boyfriend was her boyfriend was the one that
Speaker 1: ended up like telling my dad and my dad went apeship,
Speaker 1: Like he kicked him out the church. And that's the
Speaker 1: difference from the show. Yeah, and they showed the show,
Speaker 1: they covered and it was it sucked because he was
Speaker 1: around in the church and and you throughout the season
Speaker 1: one and into season two, you see that he did
Speaker 1: it to multiple women and was using scholarship funds from
Speaker 1: the church to pay off the families so that they
Speaker 1: could shut up that this was happening. So, I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess I do commend you know, your dad for
Speaker 1: taking the righteous So he kicked him out the church.
Speaker 1: Do you know what that relationship is like now? And
Speaker 1: why was no charges ever pressed? Well, to be honest,
Speaker 1: he was like an illegal immigrant, so my dad wanted
Speaker 1: to get him deport it. But the guy like fled
Speaker 1: state with his family and his wife's stood by his
Speaker 1: side with the kids. It's been what fourteen fifteen years.
Speaker 1: I don't know anything of the situation. All I know
Speaker 1: is like he was cleared of the church and I
Speaker 1: just never heard from him again, and he fled like
Speaker 1: he went to he went to the court, like he
Speaker 1: didn't go to court. I'm sorry, Like my dad was
Speaker 1: trying to press charges, but he went to the police
Speaker 1: station to answer questions and nothing happened after that. He
Speaker 1: just fleed the state. And I have no idea where
Speaker 1: he is. And you know, it's crazy. You don't even
Speaker 1: know that. I don't know. You don't know if he's alive.
Speaker 1: I don't know if he's dead. But I know he
Speaker 1: had three. And the thing is, like I was fourteen.
Speaker 1: I had just turned fifteen, and he had two young
Speaker 1: daughters like he had, Like his two daughters were like
Speaker 1: a few years younger than me, and they were like
Speaker 1: role modeling me because I was like, they're Bible teacher
Speaker 1: in church, so I'm like teaching. I'm like teaching his
Speaker 1: daughters in church about the Bible. Well, why your dad
Speaker 1: is like doing things to me with his wife and
Speaker 1: his three kids in the church. It's crazy because you
Speaker 1: actually just sigud kind of the next topic. So I'm
Speaker 1: skipping around here because what you just said is that
Speaker 1: the wife stayed. UM. Once we get into season two, UM,
Speaker 1: although he was put into Uncle Mack was put into jail,
Speaker 1: he was not charged with UM. The molestation of all
Speaker 1: of these underage women, and we see that he eventually
Speaker 1: gets into a relationship with a woman, and I want
Speaker 1: to know your your opinion on this, Brianna. So he
Speaker 1: gets into a relationship with another woman. So despite having
Speaker 1: the allegations of being a pedophile and a child molester UM,
Speaker 1: this woman has now become his girlfriend and she's at
Speaker 1: his house a lot, and they're dating, and she is
Speaker 1: questioning kind of his movements in the phone. As we
Speaker 1: know he was still communicating with an underage girl. But
Speaker 1: I wanted to know how would you guys react UM
Speaker 1: to possibly dating someone who was UM I guess accused
Speaker 1: of child molestation, pedophilia UM or rape. Even if if
Speaker 1: we want to get into that matter, is that something
Speaker 1: that you could handle