1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: All right, y'all, it's a Monday. We here yet again. 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm hungover as fun. And let me just tell y'all, 3 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:09,800 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We do have white people in the room, 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: but just some white people ship that she just pulled. 5 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: We just like, oh my god, I'll bring you a 6 00:00:16,760 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: beer because you know it'll help you get over your hangover. 7 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:25,119 Speaker 1: This bitch brought seltzer water. It's not it's alcoholic seltzer water. 8 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 1: It's in a can. We have to go on vacation 9 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: in six days, so we're gonna be fine. You know 10 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: when you were sucked up in your I mean we're 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: going on vacation. That's not beer doesn't have bubbles, bitch, 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: it has acidity or something. No, I don't see. This 13 00:00:39,320 --> 00:00:45,880 Speaker 1: is what I'm working over. You Just no, she don't 14 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: do liquor. Do the other next to it was next 15 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 1: to the beer, and it was I'm mad, I'm drinking ginger. 16 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: L thinks anyway, you've never heard our show. This one 17 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: might be a nasty and so a great way to start. 18 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,319 Speaker 1: I wasn't even I wasn't even supposed to be here. 19 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: She told me what we were about to talk about. 20 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:06,240 Speaker 1: I said, oh no, bro, you could do that ship 21 00:01:06,240 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: by your goddamn stuff a solo episode, don't count me 22 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: the fucking anyway. I guess let's introduce ourselves. For those 23 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:14,199 Speaker 1: of you who have not listened to the show before, 24 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: I am Mandy Um and that's it. I ain't gonna 25 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: give you all my a k. He's another today. I'm 26 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: wheezy and in the studio today we have a friend 27 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 1: of mine who is now rich, so bitch, I can't 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:30,560 Speaker 1: wait for us to hang. But not like that. I 29 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: didn't have seven movie deals hit me up after my 30 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,039 Speaker 1: book was out for a week. Damn, Vanity Fair didn't 31 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 1: cover me or the New York Times. But you know 32 00:01:39,200 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: here you are, by the way, Um, I would like 33 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: to say, I've known Kristen just for a few years 34 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: now and never known her to have a girlfriend. And 35 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 1: doesn't it suck that, like, now you have all this 36 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: money and now you've got a girlfriend. Okay, that's when 37 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: she started ready at gonna be fair. I got a 38 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: lot of pussy when I was So that's what j 39 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:10,119 Speaker 1: Cole said. Can you introduce yourself, Christen Kristin Arnett, And 40 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: now I can say I'm a New York Times bestselling author, 41 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: so like curious to know everybody talks about you in 42 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 1: seven eleven? What's the seven eleven thing? With Twitter? And 43 00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 1: you like why did seven eleven love you? Oh? I'm 44 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: just in my fucking seven eleven all the time, Like 45 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 1: how are you famous for it? Oh? I did this 46 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: tweet one time where I went in and there was 47 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: a lizard in the seven eleven, like what happens in Florida, 48 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: and I the cashier made a joke like, oh, it's 49 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: just Marvin. He likes the coffee, and people like lost 50 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: their fucking shit online. They like loved it. They were 51 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: like drawing fan ard about this fucking lizards. Didn't you 52 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: do like a book thing in seven eleven? Yeah, I 53 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: did my book launch, my first book launching my seven elone. 54 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: This is now, that is that is white people. This 55 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: is very this is very wps. But I mean I 56 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: was talking about her to somebody actually back girl, I 57 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: know she was like the seven eleven not only I 58 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: do want to say to like, I guess this is 59 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: the balance that everyone talks about because I feel like 60 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: every white guest thinks has been thanks to you kind of. 61 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: I mean, we don't the white people come on show 62 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: people you would know you'd be bringing the whites. No. No, 63 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 1: she decided this is gonna be dope so nasty because 64 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:30,919 Speaker 1: you're disgusting. So, um, we're not going to get into 65 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: how nasty until it happens. But I wanted to bring 66 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 1: christin on here because she's here for Pride month and 67 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,040 Speaker 1: it's Pride weekend here in New York. We were sitting 68 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: at dinner and I was telling her how scissors came 69 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: on my stomach, and people were like, how is that sex? 70 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: So it made me realize a lot of people don't 71 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: know how lesbian sex works, especially non penetrative sex. We 72 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: all know how like gay men funk, right, but like 73 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 1: sometimes people are confused by womens. I want to dig 74 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: into that. I want to talk about how to eat pussy. 75 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,160 Speaker 1: I almost brought a man go so you could show us. 76 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: But but your girlfriends here, so let's start it off. 77 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: What's the gayest thing you've done this month? Shit? Um? 78 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,600 Speaker 1: So this is where I was like, damn you as 79 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: a good QUESSY ain't so. I was just with my homegirls. 80 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: And I've been getting drunk a lot lately, um, so 81 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 1: much so that I don't really remember the next day 82 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,160 Speaker 1: what happened. So apparently I ate my my friend. Now 83 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:20,920 Speaker 1: I ate her pussy and I didn't even remember eating 84 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: her pussy out. So yeah, basically I ate pussy and 85 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: forgot um, which makes me feel like her pussy probably 86 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 1: tasted really good because I didn't even have an after 87 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: taste of anything or anything. And I was like, why 88 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: would you don't know, like when I sucked dick, bitch? 89 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: I know I sucked it because I'm like, taste like dick. Well, no, 90 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: it was cool. We had a good time and yeah, 91 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: so what about you? I know you've been gayest fu 92 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 1: all years. So yeah, so I came to Orlando. Um 93 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: did you see you came? When you came, well, you 94 00:04:56,160 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 1: know for the tray wave ak and um there's and 95 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 1: I were chilling right the night before he got there 96 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: or whatever. I mean, I'm sorry, let me. I'm like, 97 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: is this drink a little bit? Just seltzer water? Okay, 98 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: so anyway, this gota you know, I'm like, it's like 99 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:21,039 Speaker 1: a regular beer. Thank you, Just one though, So we 100 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: were like really fucked up in super horny. We went 101 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,960 Speaker 1: out right and that night the coming on my stomach 102 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: thing like, so I was scissoring and I got off 103 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 1: and then she gets on top of me and sucks 104 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 1: my entire body, like her pussy was like everywhere, like 105 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 1: oh my titties all the way back down, and she 106 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: like came hard as fun on my stomach. And then 107 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: when she got off of me, it was like super 108 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 1: wet and nasty. I loved it, but I was telling 109 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: the story to Kristen about how like the next day 110 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: when I mentioned it, this dude was like, I don't 111 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 1: understand why you guys are sucking the stomach. I'm not 112 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: gonna lie like she sucked the elbow and ship, he said, 113 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:01,120 Speaker 1: the whole body. She just love chin. It was just 114 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: And then literally after she came, she didn't even like 115 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: cuddle like she got off of me. Dog, It was 116 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: like like we didn't even know each other. I wonder, Okay, 117 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: what's the gay ship you've done? How you gonna ask? 118 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: Your girlfriend is right in the room. She knows how 119 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: I am. How are you guys in an open relation? 120 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: We are not look just you. It doesn't have to 121 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: be sex like, no, I mean you look gay. You 122 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: got a tongue rang. What's the gayest non sexual thing 123 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: you did? This? The gayest non sexual thing I did. 124 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: I cut the sleeves office. I got a T shirt 125 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what this just I 126 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: just need to cut the sleeves right off. And I'm like, 127 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 1: you were such a fucking dyke. Yeah, it's crazy, like 128 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: you're really dyke ish. But when you were lipstick, I'm like, hey, 129 00:06:59,720 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: are you? Are you stem like a study fem? Is 130 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: that a word? I don't know, You're just like a word, 131 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 1: Like do you identify as anything? Do you think? I 132 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think I would. I definitely don't 133 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: think I'm like fem. But I also don't think I'm 134 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 1: like super butch. I just I don't know it is. Yeah. 135 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: So when it comes to eating puss, I really want 136 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 1: us to dig into um pun intended thinks. So I 137 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: want us to dig into like the different types of 138 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: pussy eating. But one in particular is our kink of 139 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: the week. Have you ever heard our show us? Yes, 140 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: we're just we're gonna go right into this kink we are. 141 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: So it's called a rainbow kiss. Do you know what 142 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 1: that is? Where? Do you? Rainbow kiss is a kiss 143 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: between a female on her menstruation period. That's word at 144 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 1: awful and the other person, usually male, which is probably 145 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,000 Speaker 1: bullshit after he performs oral sex and he gets blood 146 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 1: in his mouth and then yeah, this is the way 147 00:08:06,040 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: said I want to be here because she she'd be 148 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: doing some nasty es ship but and eating bitches on 149 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: a period is one and I'm just like ill. But 150 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 1: we need to talk about it because a lot of 151 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: people do it. You think it's gross, Okay, I'll be 152 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,679 Speaker 1: real with not that I think it's gross. It actually 153 00:08:20,840 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: is a gross at Okay. Wait, I don't eat like 154 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: the pussy with blood. I just like the clip if 155 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: it's stopped up. Oh no, I definitely do that. What 156 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 1: you eat it with the blood? Okay? Now you told 157 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: me when you were eating that you prefer that. Why 158 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: let's get it out right. Uh. Well, like when I'm 159 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,559 Speaker 1: on my like, I like somebody eat me out when 160 00:08:43,559 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm on my period, but like I'm more sensitive. It's 161 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: usually like I'll come a lot harder, you come harder 162 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: any Yeah, yeah, bitch, you'll be rude. This is king shading. 163 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, na. Na first off, right, wait, one 164 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 1: motherfucking so, like, would you be with a woman if 165 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: she said, hey, that's a little much for me I'm 166 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: not gonna eat you, but you prefer it, and you're 167 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 1: gonna probably try to get her to eat you out. 168 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: Where are you bleeding? Like on day two? Like what 169 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: day of the period? I guess whatever, there's that ship 170 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: heaviest fun. I'm like, like day two is pretty heavy. Yeah, 171 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: this is like that's usually what I'm like, super horny. 172 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: So that's when you want it done. Why aren't you 173 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: like is it just because you're wetter down there? You're 174 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: feeling it? I usually like when I'm on my period, 175 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: I just don't like not wet. It's blood but it 176 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: so it doesn't count as being wet. It's wet. Now 177 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,960 Speaker 1: I'm curious to know your book is called Mostly Dead Things? 178 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: Is the period at that point? I talk about periods 179 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:52,840 Speaker 1: like a lot in the book, just because I feel 180 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: like a lot of like lit, like like fiction doesn't 181 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: have periods in it, and like half the population is 182 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: having a fucking here, And I'm like, why why don't 183 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 1: we mention this? We always read read books all the 184 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: time where it's like talking about some guy waking up 185 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 1: with like morning would So it's like, why don't you 186 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: like period in a book? Like they happen? All the time, 187 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: and it affects like what you're doing. It affects like 188 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: your day, It affects how you're feeling. It affects a 189 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: lot of that ship. So I don't I don't get 190 00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 1: why it's not in books. What's your favorite type of 191 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: period sex? Would you prefer to scissor would you prefer fingers? 192 00:10:23,920 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: Or Oh no, I want somebody eat me out? Okay, 193 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: so you'll be eating her out? World she be bleeding? 194 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 1: You look like no, seriously, man, you just one day 195 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: was like, I'll try it period. Oh but you've done 196 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: it before. Now as far as like, because I noticed 197 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,679 Speaker 1: your topic, you told me about a time that you 198 00:10:55,800 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: ruined a hotel room. What is this massacre that we're 199 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,199 Speaker 1: talking about? But this I need to know this. It 200 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: was here in town. Actually here in town. Yeah, here 201 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: in town, all right, Yeah, I left a really big tip, 202 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: like a clean god. So we had to get asked 203 00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 1: for new sheets. I think I call it because we 204 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: were like a dinner and us like to call and 205 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: ask them to I was like, are they going to 206 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: think like somebody got murdered here that much? It wasn't 207 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: like that much. But towel, No towels don't help with 208 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 1: sex from Yeah. Also if you're because it's just staying right, 209 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: there would be splash and when I do it in mind, 210 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: that's just going all over the place. If like with 211 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: women having sex, I think just on your hands splash 212 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: and you're not gonna tell me you'll blood. Don't be splashing. Bro, 213 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: If I have a dick in me, no, it's less messy. 214 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 1: But for lesbian sex, I can imagine that because you 215 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 1: have hands, you're moving more. Yeah, I move more with 216 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: women than I do them in plus they come quick time. 217 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 1: Do you have any like tips for period sex, like 218 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: how to get over like anything like what what's your 219 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: what's your menstruating takeaway? Um? Well, I like, if it's 220 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: something that you don't like to do, then just don't 221 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:19,640 Speaker 1: do it. I think that's I think that's my thing. 222 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: Like if you're curious about it, then cool, like figure 223 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: out if a person wants to But like some people 224 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: like I've been with a lot of women that like 225 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: to do that. It's so weird though, because not only 226 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 1: have I I wouldn't say offended, but I've completely not 227 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 1: wanted to funk with a guy ever. Again, if I'm 228 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: on my period and he'd be like, so like to me, 229 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,680 Speaker 1: that's nasty, Like we're not even there yet, like especially 230 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: cause I haven't been in a relationship casual sex like 231 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 1: you should like, I don't want someone that's okay, what 232 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: want your head like this and switch it a little 233 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: bit like you said, you would be insulted. Right, A 234 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: man that understands that women go through their period and 235 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: can like to me, a man being understanding and comfortable 236 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: with my situation, which I have every fucking month, Right, 237 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: I think it's a nice to see because if a 238 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: guy like that would make me more look at it 239 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: like that, I'd be like, damn, nick, you thirsty uk? 240 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: Wait three days? I have a three day period, six period. 241 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: They can't wait six weeks? What are we doing next week? 242 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 1: It's still a week more god like? To me, I 243 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,680 Speaker 1: look at more as like I wonder if the time 244 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,960 Speaker 1: frame isn't what your problem is? Just wait? Actually to 245 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: speak on a week, it probably is seven days of blood, 246 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: but like five days of real ship, it's not. I 247 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: got my first day, then my second day is the heaviest. 248 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 1: I don't even talk me about the third day. I'd 249 00:13:40,679 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: be like, okay, did I start this in night? On 250 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: the morning because by the third day at night, I 251 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: might be able to like my period is like see, 252 00:13:50,559 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: that's why you're talking like this, That's why you're able 253 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: to get spicy about it. I'm telling you right now, 254 00:13:55,000 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: I'm spicy. Average period time like four you're doing some 255 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: libraries over you know it's five days, right, four days right? Average? 256 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:10,560 Speaker 1: So y'all always be a wee y'all abnormal? See for six, 257 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: that's a I mean like you. We're gonna go ahead 258 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:24,440 Speaker 1: and get into our wait are you doing asking about 259 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: blood because I've been done. I've been waiting to go 260 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: to the So we are actually gonna talk about doubt 261 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: for our Vanilla Ship, which, if you guys again, our 262 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: first time listeners are Vanilla Ship segment is where we 263 00:14:36,360 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 1: talk about sex in the news. We found this interesting 264 00:14:38,880 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: one and it's actually on Vice dot com UM, where 265 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: met students are doing vaginal exams on unconscious, non consenting patients. UM. 266 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: The practice is still legal in forty two states despite 267 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: decades long of ethical concerns. UM. Did you read into 268 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,400 Speaker 1: this and see, like what's really going on? No, So 269 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: here's the gist of it. UM to practice doing exams, 270 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 1: I guess I forgot what state it's it if you 271 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: can find it. Basically, they're allowed to do vaginal exams 272 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 1: on women that are in comas, that are completely unconscious, 273 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:18,160 Speaker 1: that are in a vegetative state. And um, I guess 274 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: that state in particular finds nothing wrong with it because 275 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: they're just learning and not being hurtful and it's a 276 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: medical thing. Well, there's even this one, it says um. 277 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: In two thousand seven, Ashley Whites was admitted to the 278 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 1: hospital in Utah for extreme nausea and her doctor, I 279 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: hate these words, anesticized, Oh bitch, I gotta um, so 280 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: put her? Are you on the librarian? So she put 281 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: her under anesthesia, Um, when other treatments weren't working, and Whites, 282 00:15:53,000 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: who is a rape survivor, woke up to find that 283 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: the doctor was examining her genitals. Horrible. That is horrible. So, 284 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:02,160 Speaker 1: I mean, especially when you're not aware of someone's trauma 285 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: and you are putting them under like to just kind 286 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: of do you remember Kill Bill when she woke up 287 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 1: to the guy sucking her. Did you ever watch kill Bill? Yeah? 288 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: With the blonde. So there's a scene where there's a 289 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: bunch of people in comas and this guy pays someone 290 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: that works there to funk one of the patients, and 291 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: she could feel it, like even though she couldn't never talk. 292 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:25,840 Speaker 1: It's so sad. We actually had a vanilla ship not 293 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 1: too long ago where there was a nursing home or 294 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: something like that. When were or was it like and 295 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: he got and yeah, so there was a staff worker 296 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,760 Speaker 1: that was having sex with these people who were in 297 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: vegetative states, and one actually got pregnant. And so the 298 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: family was trying to figure out, like how the fund 299 00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: does this happen, Like, you know, this person can't even 300 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: consent or non consent, but yeah, she ended up being 301 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 1: pregnant under the care of a home. So it's just sad. 302 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but when when I'm trying 303 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: to think the times that I go to that despect 304 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: that the students are doing it is wild. That's wild. 305 00:17:02,080 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: But I've been under of course, with like my surgery 306 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: and everything like that. I don't remember ever signing, like 307 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,959 Speaker 1: is there even a paper, Like I don't even think 308 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:14,919 Speaker 1: there's anything to sign for. There might be something that 309 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: says that I was just gonna say, there might be 310 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: something that says, uh, Marcus in the healthcare field, but 311 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: there might be something that says like, oh you can 312 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:30,359 Speaker 1: your body can be used for that's crazy. I was 313 00:17:30,400 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: gonna say used for like training or something. I know. 314 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 1: So when I got my breast son, it was six 315 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 1: year or seven years ago. Um, my doctor asked my 316 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 1: consent that morning. He was like, hey, I have a 317 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: apprentice under me that is learning. Are you comfortable with 318 00:17:46,119 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: him being in the room we're watching? And I said no, 319 00:17:49,520 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: because just God forbid you in the middle of my 320 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: tity and like, oh you see this right here in 321 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,640 Speaker 1: something slips And I said absolutely not. And I was like, sorry, 322 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 1: I don't mean to be that person. Oh you're new, 323 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,440 Speaker 1: No practice on somebody else? No, no, no, not practice 324 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: the plastic that someone could watch. But to me, I 325 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: didn't want him to be pointing things out and talking 326 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:12,600 Speaker 1: and not doing that makes sense, like your focus would 327 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,520 Speaker 1: be off of my teeth. So the student wasn't even 328 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 1: gonna touch you just being in the room you didn't 329 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 1: even want to do. And it wasn't even a student. 330 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,879 Speaker 1: It was an actual doctor who was like kind of 331 00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: just getting in there and he asked, and he was 332 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: somebody taking the attention away just so it's not myself. 333 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:26,920 Speaker 1: It makes like my teeth or something. I don't know. 334 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I've watched before and I've been going 335 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: on my spot a minute. She's like, yeah, okay, if 336 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:39,320 Speaker 1: I bring somebody, you got what he's got, go ahead, whatever, 337 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: it's just pussy back. No, No, you're like, don't want 338 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: to go back. I just caught that. Okay. So here's 339 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:58,440 Speaker 1: what we're gonna talk about. Um, I want to talk 340 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: about further decision. Obviously it's going to be eat pussy 341 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: like a lesbian, but I do want to get into 342 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 1: a little bit of your role during sex. So we've 343 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,159 Speaker 1: had conversations about you being dominating person um. Actually, and 344 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 1: actually Mandy said to me, how I don't get what 345 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:17,119 Speaker 1: do you mean she's a dom? How are you a 346 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,160 Speaker 1: dom and a lesbian? How do you have a girl 347 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:21,879 Speaker 1: a dom? I mean, I know my problem is just 348 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:26,040 Speaker 1: knowing who the gonna pay? Will we go out? Me see? Well, 349 00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 1: I'll be like called it being like a kind of 350 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 1: pay and be like a top. Now, why top versus dom? 351 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: What is the difference? I don't know. It's a good question. 352 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 1: I mean I feel like I am you feel like 353 00:19:37,960 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: your just the top? Yeah, maybe but you like eight, Yeah, 354 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 1: but I want to tell somebody what to do. So 355 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 1: walk us through? Like where you think what makes you 356 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: a top? Like what character characteristics? Let's let's say as 357 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:56,919 Speaker 1: far as whether they be hitting on women paying for 358 00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 1: ship walk us through? Ah, smither. I guess I would 359 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: be like, um, I confidence maybe like that's some of it. 360 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 1: Also just a lot of women want to be and all. 361 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: This is my personal experience of talking about my personal 362 00:20:13,760 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: I love that my girlfriends I'm talking about. I mean, 363 00:20:19,320 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 1: that's how I slid into her d M s And 364 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 1: then she went forward, Oh, I was drunk. It was 365 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:29,119 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day. I was like, I am drunk and it's 366 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: Valentine's Day and I just want to I was like, 367 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: you're cute. I just wanted to tell you that that 368 00:20:33,880 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 1: was like sweet. I'm talking I put the little jib 369 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: with the girl shooting a shot, but it said, hey, 370 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: that's kind of cute. He thought it was so cute, 371 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 1: and yeah, are you like, do you tell girls like 372 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: that you want to suck them that night? Because that 373 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,480 Speaker 1: how pussy works for you? Like how I don't even 374 00:20:54,480 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 1: I just feel like I don't even have to say, 375 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:59,160 Speaker 1: like I feel like if you have like a I don't. 376 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 1: I don't usually have to say what I want. So 377 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: as far as topping, how does that start for you? 378 00:21:08,280 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: Because you liked someone to go down on you? But 379 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 1: I've also heard you say like you've had a girl 380 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,840 Speaker 1: completely naked and you went down on them, So like, 381 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: are you like walk us through that like when you're topping. Well, 382 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: it's just I guess it's like queer sex works like 383 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: for women in this kind of way where it's less 384 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: because I I'm saying this is like I'm like, this 385 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: is what I suppose about pero sex, right, this idea 386 00:21:36,280 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 1: of like the penetrative act being like the main thing. Yeah, 387 00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: but the main event. And there's not like a main 388 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: event like that going on for the most part, unless 389 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: you're using like toys at that point, there is no 390 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: main event. It's just a whole bunch of like touching 391 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,880 Speaker 1: and looking yeah, or I mean those fucking like with 392 00:21:54,880 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 1: your hands, with your hands. So let's walk through all 393 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: the types of lesbian sex you can. I was looking 394 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,439 Speaker 1: a lot of different kinds of sex. I was just 395 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: looking at their nails. Y'all are lesbian? I don't na. 396 00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:16,120 Speaker 1: As soon as you say I'm just looking like, well, yes, okay, 397 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: so let's start with top three. So fucking when you 398 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: say fucking, it's your hand, Yeah, okay, I would say that. 399 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 1: So fucking is the penetrative act. I mean yeah, I 400 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: mean you can also just like stick your tongue really 401 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 1: up in somebody, like tongue sucks somebody. Yea tongue that 402 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: like like I hope I'm not making that noise shet 403 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: o here, like you just really what it is right now. Okay, 404 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: So fucking with your hand, But I want to talk 405 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: about scissoring and then so when you eat somebody out, 406 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,640 Speaker 1: you can funk them with your hand at the same 407 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: time too. So there's that. But when you're like, let's 408 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: talk about the like because when I have when I'm scissoring, 409 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:04,440 Speaker 1: sometimes it goes everywhere. Sometimes it's like I'm on her thigh. Yeah, 410 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: Like what is that called? Like just kidding like yeah, 411 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: like kind of grinding on somebody, Like I mean that's 412 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: that's good too. I mean that's just like there's just 413 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:21,680 Speaker 1: me anyway you can kind of rub your ship. Why 414 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 1: did you say grind on me? And then pretty Ricky 415 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: just sounded to you. I don't know her fingers through 416 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: my brains. Okay, So in particular, when it comes to 417 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,719 Speaker 1: your favorite type of sex, what is it? Oh? I 418 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: like I like to fux somebody else. I guess you'd 419 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 1: like to suck somebody else. Now, when you're sucking someone else, 420 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: how are you getting off? Do you ever get off later? 421 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: Do you touch yourself? Yeah? Well, I mean I'll just 422 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: tell them what I want them to do usually. Now 423 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: the top me mommy thing. Taught me mommy, let's talk 424 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: it any of her book? No, it's not in my book. 425 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: Oh I heard no, I wrote it on Christopher's copy. 426 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,119 Speaker 1: So how do you ask girls to call you mommy 427 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 1: or daddy? I do not. Girls have definitely called me 428 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:21,480 Speaker 1: daddy before, though, But then I like that that's hot. Yeah, 429 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 1: this guy just told This guy just told me he 430 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 1: wanted me to be his daddy, clearly for that's it's 431 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: sexiest fun. I love it. But taught me mommy. When 432 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,880 Speaker 1: did that come out? That's a phrase that my girlfriend? 433 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,639 Speaker 1: Oh okay, but like, when is she asking you to 434 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,679 Speaker 1: talk her? Um? No, she wouldn't ask me to do that. 435 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 1: I just would do it. Oh yeah, and then she 436 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: yells taught me mommy. Like while you're talking. I'm just 437 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: trying to understand this. What are the gay phrases that 438 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 1: go ones? Like, for example, like I'm always talking about 439 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: how good dick feels, like how I can't wait to taste. 440 00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: What are the things that you say during your lesbian assex? Well, 441 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: I mean if sex is good, then all like you 442 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: can talk about like like like your pussy tastes good 443 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 1: or yeah, give us more tips, bitch. He was exceptional 444 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: at the end in my future voice, I was like, 445 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 1: that was exception exceptional? Can we've been saying we do right? Exceptional? 446 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: I did say it was exceptional. Big word for you, 447 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 1: I know, that's all. It was good I was. I 448 00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:35,919 Speaker 1: was thinking of big words, just the word right out here. 449 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 1: It's because like y'all are talking like about Matt gayship. 450 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: But like the problem is, like my friends, so this 451 00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,240 Speaker 1: is the problem too, Like when I have sex with 452 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 1: a woman, I do just like pure sex with a woman, 453 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:53,400 Speaker 1: and then that's it. Like one girl got all the ways, 454 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: so I don't want to talk about this ship. So 455 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 1: this one girl got in my bed this one time, right, 456 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 1: booty ass. But as a kid, she liked girls. I 457 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: like girls, so we in bed and then she starts 458 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,760 Speaker 1: getting into like and I guess maybe guys have to 459 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: deal with this. She wouldn't let me because she felt 460 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:09,479 Speaker 1: like all I wanted to do was just suck her. 461 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,960 Speaker 1: Did she trying to make me take her to the 462 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: movies the next day? Like this is right? And I'm like, 463 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,439 Speaker 1: gotta deal with holy sh it? Like so, I just 464 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: I guess why naked? My point? Why why did you 465 00:26:23,560 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: get undressed? It was supposed to be a sleepover, like, hey, girl, 466 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 1: come over, It was like corn. I don't know. I 467 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: guess it's weird too. So for me, I feel like 468 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 1: I identify as queer, but when I deal with women, 469 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 1: I genuinely only want to deal with women, but only 470 00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: for like that very short say. I don't know if 471 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,160 Speaker 1: I can see myself with a woman, and then men 472 00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: often because they know I like women, automatically go to 473 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 1: thinking it's a threesome vibe. So I do want to ask, 474 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,280 Speaker 1: are you guys have you ever been with men? And 475 00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 1: if so, doesn't is there ever an urge to bring 476 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:00,080 Speaker 1: a man into the bedroom with lesbian sext? Never? I 477 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 1: I have been just the one time okay with the man, 478 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: but I didn't you get pregnant. Yeah, after school special. 479 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: So you sucked the guy once, Yeah, and got pregnant. 480 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 1: How old are you? Eighteen? Damn the best time to 481 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:24,240 Speaker 1: get pregnant. See that's why you start. So what made 482 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,360 Speaker 1: you like you knew you were gay the whole time? Right? 483 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: I was? I was extremely wrecked that night, and I 484 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 1: wasn't like I was eighteen and I hadn't done a 485 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: lot of like I was, like, did a bunch of 486 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:38,879 Speaker 1: ship that night. So damn you got pregnant on your 487 00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 1: first try. You know what that really shows you steer clear? 488 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: What is wrong with you? I'm just saying being like, no, 489 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: you're gay, I'm gonna keep doing it. That to me, Bro, 490 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: my friend gay fucked the dude once, literally got lamydia, 491 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:02,160 Speaker 1: could do ten years later got pregnant. So here's a question. 492 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: I'm so glad you brought this up. It was asked 493 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: in our d m um, and I'm actually curious. So again, 494 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,639 Speaker 1: dealing with men, I hate that we're even really attaching 495 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 1: STDs to just men. 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And and also like that's the thing too, 578 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: because I mean you're talking about like wanting to just 579 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,920 Speaker 1: fucking then not well, yeah, there's that, and so even 580 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: just the the idea of of course if we're fucking 581 00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 1: with men, there's the plan B. There's all these contraceptives 582 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 1: to keep from being so with women. What are the 583 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: ways to have safe sex as a woman so that 584 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: you're not contracting STDs? Have you ever had save sex 585 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 1: as a woman, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I 586 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 1: know there's dental dams, but where do you even buy 587 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,560 Speaker 1: those ships? Actually, it seems like they only give it 588 00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,000 Speaker 1: to us in school to say hey, these things exist. 589 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 1: And I was like, from does anyone in your looking 590 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,240 Speaker 1: plastic right like saranra like kind of like that. Yeah, 591 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: there's a tongue guard, there's finger gloves, finger comms before 592 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: I also have this shows before these finger condoms before 593 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: that's the only series. Yes for what to play with 594 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: the booty hole you've put Yes, especially with my crylics, 595 00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 1: like it helps when you have them in your home. No, 596 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: but I've I've had them before. You get them I 597 00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: think for free, like I do, only get they passed 598 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:48,840 Speaker 1: them out. But I'm sorry you got finger cords and 599 00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 1: I used it like I'm curious, you know, I didn't 600 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: get no guydam cors on the six train hole. I 601 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: was probably I have so many cons of the house, 602 00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: but I had one of the like I got finger 603 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 1: condoms don't And I tried and I was like, but 604 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: how you use it? See? But we got other people 605 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,400 Speaker 1: use the finger commoms, don't finger commensation because I'm curious 606 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,120 Speaker 1: out why you used it because they were passing out. 607 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to try it and it helped because I 608 00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 1: was like, like he was scared of my crilic and 609 00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I got you with it, Dusty. When 610 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,640 Speaker 1: you check it out, No, it's a bro. It's loud, 611 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: like they're kind like they're kind of like ship on it. 612 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:31,520 Speaker 1: I mean that's why I've been dusty. Yeah. First off, 613 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:39,720 Speaker 1: I don't deal with no dusty ship and only stop. Okay, 614 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm mad because I just thought I had 615 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: some really great questions and apparently none of us know 616 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: about Leslians. While you'll be out here eating, but you 617 00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: got ahle as girlfriend. You gotta hole lets girlfriend, and 618 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 1: we can't talking about God the STDs. But letsbian say no, 619 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:56,000 Speaker 1: I think it's good to talk about it. Some good 620 00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:00,760 Speaker 1: Leslian questions and you let's see on my fucking so, 621 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 1: so that is a good a good thing. So it's 622 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 1: on the train where they're now even including women in 623 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,320 Speaker 1: the narrative of prep um. But I guess that's also 624 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 1: I would like to talk about that specifically because we 625 00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:18,680 Speaker 1: also view HIV as a gay man um disease, which 626 00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: I don't think is you know, but there's ways there's 627 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 1: a disease transmitted through but there's ways of contracting, especially 628 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: if you're eating bloody pussies. I would assume that, like 629 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:32,640 Speaker 1: you can really get HIV from like eating period blood 630 00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: right in there? How to deal self help? I mean, 631 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: I just want to know. So with with lesbians, is 632 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,600 Speaker 1: that something to where you guys even have the conversation 633 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,600 Speaker 1: of getting tested together and stuff, because it seems like 634 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,240 Speaker 1: you don't really know of STDs really and not women 635 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,400 Speaker 1: don't often have safe sex. So is it a conversation 636 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 1: in a lesbian relationship to even talk about that? And 637 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,760 Speaker 1: how do relationships? Of course you clean, it's a common question, 638 00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 1: the same of course with gay men. But is that 639 00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:02,359 Speaker 1: not a conversation with lesbians? It's not a conversation I've 640 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,879 Speaker 1: had too often to be fair, I'm not a relationship 641 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: person so when you're just sucking. Yeah, it's not like 642 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: you're using anything, Like has anyone ever asked you that? 643 00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:16,000 Speaker 1: Like you really? So? Let these are really unsafe as 644 00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying that these conversations I think still 645 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 1: should be had even with women on women. Um, I 646 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:28,399 Speaker 1: don't know, as it's crazy because damn especially because some women, 647 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 1: especially like ones like like I still dip and dabble 648 00:36:31,480 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: with me. Honest, I've never asked a girl, which is 649 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: every guy, I fuck, I'm always like, right, but women 650 00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:42,560 Speaker 1: can also carry things and if you're eating blood and 651 00:36:42,560 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: ship like, y'all should really be testing up. I mean, 652 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: I definitely go and do that, but I've never asked 653 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: a woman. Yeah, I think it's the same way that 654 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 1: we want to hold. I think it should be a 655 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:58,360 Speaker 1: thing with lesbian smell check, smell check? How do we 656 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,799 Speaker 1: get here? I'm just curious what I'm saying, Like that's 657 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,600 Speaker 1: normally what nick is. Do they like she smell alright? 658 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:06,279 Speaker 1: She smells cleand um so I mean, but not all 659 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: STDs carryinally And then I really want to get into 660 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,440 Speaker 1: the smell test. How do you smell tested? Smell tested? Well? No, 661 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 1: I mean I just I mean, I like how pussy 662 00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: smells me too, smell pussy. We didn't get like a 663 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: live show what no one can get it consistent and 664 00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 1: it's different, I think everybody because everybody's bodies are different. 665 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 1: It's like different, like a party bad. This guy at 666 00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,759 Speaker 1: our Lives show said, it smells like salmon next to 667 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:34,880 Speaker 1: his bitch. He said, with which I just said it 668 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: like that, and why did you girlfriend right to him? 669 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,760 Speaker 1: And we were like, oh, well, honey, I shouldn't smell 670 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: like why did I try to give him a pass 671 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:43,880 Speaker 1: because he was talking about he was a I was like, 672 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 1: it's the language barrier. I felt so bad because May 673 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,640 Speaker 1: wouldn't shut him about the l I was like, he's 674 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 1: I will not date a guy salmon like Solomon. I 675 00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: also will not date a guy who orders his steak. 676 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 1: What is it? Hard done? We can't date anymore. We 677 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:09,440 Speaker 1: can't date anymore. It is it's like, just don't make 678 00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 1: it a fu cliche. You know they're going to talk 679 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 1: about us when they go to the back, maybe like 680 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:16,279 Speaker 1: that table over there all well done? No no, or 681 00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,839 Speaker 1: chicken fried hard. That's another one, sir, I'm sorry, Yeah, 682 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 1: chicken fried hard. You ain't never heard the chicken fried hard. 683 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,960 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking. You know chicken fried heart, right, 684 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 1: they'd like double fried and chicken. Yeah. First off, you 685 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 1: just look at chicken fried hard. No, they do be 686 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,239 Speaker 1: asking for chicken fried heart. So you like the smell 687 00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 1: of pussy? Have you ever had that? You were just 688 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: like you had to dodge and bob and weave the 689 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 1: puss if I didn't like how it smelled them, I'm 690 00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:52,719 Speaker 1: just not gonna someone. No, I wouldn't tell someone, bro, 691 00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:56,120 Speaker 1: this is a conversation to have. What you just said, 692 00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 1: You wouldn't tell someone if they're pussy smelled. No, I 693 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,080 Speaker 1: would not do that. Why because there's also a thing 694 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 1: too where it's like sometimes maybe you were out, like 695 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 1: walking around all day and you're sweaty and it's a 696 00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,520 Speaker 1: whole situation. But like, but if it's a whole situation, 697 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 1: be like, since you had a whole situation today that 698 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,439 Speaker 1: was in a relationship with somebody. But like I'm too, 699 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:22,720 Speaker 1: I'm not like ineop sucking far into your thirties bitch 700 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,120 Speaker 1: and only have two girlfriends? Do you really just like 701 00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: causual pussy? Right? So with all the causual pussy, you 702 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,360 Speaker 1: still haven't if there was a stench. You know, you 703 00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 1: don't know how to have that conversation. N No, I 704 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:34,800 Speaker 1: don't think I would tell that to a woman because 705 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:39,719 Speaker 1: I people take that like very serious, like it would 706 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,959 Speaker 1: suck somebody up. I think it. But also she's gonna 707 00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:49,120 Speaker 1: suck up someone's sucking clothes and hands. Shouldn't we as women, 708 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,399 Speaker 1: make it our fucking duty to tell you your post 709 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 1: that is not my mean, you're putting your whole space 710 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,040 Speaker 1: down there. It should be kind of a job to 711 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 1: let someone know because I can't fit my head down there. 712 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,880 Speaker 1: I've never had complaints. I've never I've never gone down 713 00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 1: on someone where it's been like I can't do No, 714 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 1: it's never been like something horrible. Well you've been lucky. 715 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:13,240 Speaker 1: Like so many times we've had men talk about the stench. 716 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: But I want to say this one, mean, what do 717 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,359 Speaker 1: men think pussy? Like there's a little musk to a man, 718 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,359 Speaker 1: Like you know what I'm saying, Like maybe men have 719 00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 1: way higher expectations. So I like, like if something like 720 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:28,359 Speaker 1: has a strong smell, like I like that ship. I 721 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,160 Speaker 1: like pussy smell. Yeah, Like I don't like water smelling pussy. 722 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 1: That's it's kind of weird. For me, there's really no water. 723 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,560 Speaker 1: If I water smelling pussy, I mean no smell like 724 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,080 Speaker 1: like like after I eat somebody out or like finger 725 00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 1: somebody to be like smell it on me afterwards. I 726 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 1: love that me too, Ye same, Yeah, but she wanted 727 00:40:47,160 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: she got on me because I said dead on Vice 728 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,439 Speaker 1: and you had a problem. You said, it's in my hair. 729 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,840 Speaker 1: I don't you know what it was. I think it 730 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,680 Speaker 1: wasn't that you said it. It's just that we were 731 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: on TV because I suck before we went there, and 732 00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 1: that's still smell him in my hair and I it 733 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:06,360 Speaker 1: just smell good. That was a lot being real Judging 734 00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: pussy eating tips, Megan the Stallion has said recently, you 735 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: look at my pussy too hard. That ship is aggravating. 736 00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 1: I would like to talk about the dudes and don'ts 737 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,360 Speaker 1: of pussy eating. Yeah, I would say, like the best 738 00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: tip about it, because everybody likes different ships, like some 739 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,080 Speaker 1: people like you to really go to town on them, 740 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 1: and some people don't even like people, and some people don't. 741 00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,759 Speaker 1: Some people don't like that ship, and some people also 742 00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 1: maybe barely like you to touch them, or some people 743 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,320 Speaker 1: want you to touch their clip directly, and some people 744 00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,080 Speaker 1: don't like that. Yeah, see some people don't like that 745 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: to you. It's it's really like every single time I 746 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 1: feel like I've ever gone down someone, it's like, let's 747 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,879 Speaker 1: figure out not only that, I think it's that there 748 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: should be a conversation there because even so for me, 749 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: I guess I just really like penetration. So even when 750 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: a guy and some guys just enjoy giving heads of 751 00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,680 Speaker 1: if you really want to pussy, I'll let you, but 752 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,440 Speaker 1: even while you're down there, like I need you to 753 00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,879 Speaker 1: finger me. And there's been so many women that say 754 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,399 Speaker 1: they don't like fingers in them at all. So it's 755 00:42:01,440 --> 00:42:03,440 Speaker 1: like definitely a conversation to where if you do have 756 00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: someone down there, let him know if he's hurting you 757 00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:09,160 Speaker 1: or she sorry, I'm bringing this back hetero, but let 758 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,040 Speaker 1: them know it's good to be vocal about I don't 759 00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 1: like this, or do this instead maybe or something like 760 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: eating is a big deal and a lot of people 761 00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,480 Speaker 1: will complain about it, and I'm like, why not just 762 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 1: make it like a sexy thing of have someone like 763 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,280 Speaker 1: walk you through what they like. If you tell somebody 764 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,840 Speaker 1: what you like, then they can do that again for you. 765 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,719 Speaker 1: Do you ask when you're putting your fingers inside of women. Um, 766 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 1: I don't. But if somebody told me that they didn't 767 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 1: like it or not to do that, then I just wouldn't. 768 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: I just wouldn't do that. What do you think is 769 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,719 Speaker 1: the a common mistake with pussy eating or something that 770 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 1: like generally you're like, what the people are too rough? 771 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 1: I was like with this woman this one time, and 772 00:42:48,040 --> 00:42:51,239 Speaker 1: she the next day I was like, I feel like 773 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: I rode a horse for like twelve hours. I was 774 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: like this hor no from like like because you know, 775 00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:58,680 Speaker 1: like a lot of times people are eating you out 776 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: and like fingering you at the same time. I was 777 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: just like, what has gone on in your life that 778 00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:05,200 Speaker 1: you are like punching me and the crotch like fist 779 00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:11,400 Speaker 1: people to like it people on fistings. Have you fisted? 780 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:14,560 Speaker 1: I have done that for people. I don't want that 781 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:17,120 Speaker 1: for me. I don't want to fist either. So this 782 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:19,359 Speaker 1: is how I want to say this one more time 783 00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:20,879 Speaker 1: so we can get over this. I did just bring 784 00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:23,680 Speaker 1: this up. But I did just bring this up. I 785 00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:29,240 Speaker 1: just want said. She asked me for three and then four, 786 00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:31,879 Speaker 1: and then he said put all of it, and so 787 00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,319 Speaker 1: then I took the other finger and I didn't say 788 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: I punched the pussy. They just put all of the 789 00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,239 Speaker 1: fingers in there and went like this. It sounds like 790 00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,399 Speaker 1: a fist to me. Is that a fist? Yes, it's 791 00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 1: all it's a hand. Okay, you're handing this. I feel 792 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:50,840 Speaker 1: like a fist includes the number juices to my knowledge, 793 00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 1: and then you make a fist. I didn't make a 794 00:43:53,760 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 1: fist your hand on what designed? So it didn't when 795 00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:14,839 Speaker 1: you fisted. Has it freaked you out? No? Uh no, 796 00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: I mean I'm not gonna do anything I don't want 797 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 1: to do. Have you used the spit or lube for 798 00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,520 Speaker 1: a fist? Or I would use like lube? Yeah? Okay, 799 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 1: so then they really wanted to because we didn't have 800 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,080 Speaker 1: to get the loupe out. Now, how deep was your hand? 801 00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:30,719 Speaker 1: Can you show me? Oh my god, um show me 802 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:33,560 Speaker 1: that ship. I mean, like, I guess more than sixty 803 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:40,160 Speaker 1: percent if we're doing the math correctly, more than sixty percent. 804 00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,160 Speaker 1: I feel like so out the loop with all this 805 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,719 Speaker 1: conversation the whole episode, I felt kind of out the loop. 806 00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:50,160 Speaker 1: How do you women? But I'll beat? How could you 807 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 1: feel out the loop when you fu girls? Because first off, 808 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 1: the last time I didn't even remember I did it, 809 00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:58,400 Speaker 1: So there's one um, and I don't do it as often, 810 00:44:58,520 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 1: you know, I'd just be sucking my friends and then 811 00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 1: be like drunk nights on bitch. I don't like go 812 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,399 Speaker 1: out and I don't meet women. I don't really approach women, like, 813 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,960 Speaker 1: so all the girls i'd be sucking be my friends. 814 00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,880 Speaker 1: I don't like go out and meet girls and be like, oh, 815 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: let's hang out and now. So I don't know. It 816 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: just made me think I had a conversation with a 817 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: girl in my DNA. Oh no, I didn't have a conversation, 818 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,480 Speaker 1: but she wrote when she said, wheezy, please help me. 819 00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: I'm about to have lesbian sex for the first time. 820 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:24,719 Speaker 1: Like what do I do little baby, little baby gay? 821 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,520 Speaker 1: Do you like the baby gays? The baby gay? Really? 822 00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,479 Speaker 1: Like what do you think is good for a girl 823 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 1: fucking the first time? And advice for a woman that 824 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 1: wants to have sex with a girl for the first time. 825 00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:40,719 Speaker 1: It doesn't really know what to do. Things are going 826 00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:43,120 Speaker 1: to probably be awkward, and it's okay, like for things 827 00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,120 Speaker 1: to be like awkward and just like when he was 828 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,480 Speaker 1: kids and you play a house, that's how you start 829 00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 1: with the dry grinding with the clothes on first, and 830 00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,400 Speaker 1: then you slowly take the clothes off and kiss a 831 00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,920 Speaker 1: whole lot of kissing because Nik's gonna be kissing. This 832 00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:04,560 Speaker 1: is Mandy just in background. Mandy loves storylines. I do. 833 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like this is why all of 834 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: the ship She's like, you do the clothes out. Then 835 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 1: you gets I'm gonna write a book. I'm gonna do 836 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: porn scenes and like all the different times I told 837 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: you i'd be like when they just be playing video 838 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 1: games and then it turns into this second time and 839 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 1: it's going to write erotica. Holla, may you know, drop 840 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,719 Speaker 1: a comment, what's the nastiest scene in your book? The 841 00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: nastiest scene in my book? Because wait, wait, is this 842 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,560 Speaker 1: like a erotic like a Zane book or how to books? 843 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,319 Speaker 1: Like it was a novel and it's about it's a 844 00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:41,319 Speaker 1: the book itself. I wanted to be very queer book, 845 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 1: but I didn't want it to be a kind of 846 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 1: coming out book. I just wanted to be about a 847 00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 1: woman who happens to be gay, and so like, you know, 848 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:50,879 Speaker 1: sex happens in the book because you know, people fuck facts. Yeah, 849 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: do you get really detailed? I don't get too deep. 850 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,560 Speaker 1: Got two girls and you told me about the call 851 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:04,360 Speaker 1: they get like a lot of hardcore lesbian f in 852 00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 1: the book. Oh which one against the truck outside of 853 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,600 Speaker 1: a bar, like on the street, Um, like just kind 854 00:47:14,640 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: of fingering someone through their jeans. You're not making this 855 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 1: sell sexy. I'm talking. We want people to be wet 856 00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: at their desks right now thinking about you knowing right 857 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,080 Speaker 1: like I said, thing like you get out of a bar, 858 00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:31,680 Speaker 1: you're kind of drunk in your horny and you're like 859 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:33,040 Speaker 1: getting in the car to go, and then maybe you 860 00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: would suck against a car like that's that's the thing 861 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:41,280 Speaker 1: everybody likes Friday parking lot at Yeah, how did that happen? 862 00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,359 Speaker 1: Can you make it sexy for us? Tell us how 863 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 1: you're sucking against the truck? Went? It was Ami Memorial weekend, 864 00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 1: which already makes it not sexy. Also, the car was 865 00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,959 Speaker 1: neither of ours, but it also hit us and brings 866 00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,279 Speaker 1: the excitement. It also hit us from the other side 867 00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: of the street. Um. I don't know her name though, 868 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: but yeah, I ate a girl's pussy out in the 869 00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 1: bathroom at Jerry's when Jerry's used to be on the beach, 870 00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,880 Speaker 1: coming out of What club was it? I don't know. 871 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: Just yeah, when I'm drunk. She was at the table. 872 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,120 Speaker 1: She was cute, and we want to get eggs and 873 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:18,279 Speaker 1: shipped after the club and we want to use the 874 00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 1: bathroom together. And what's up with you in the bathroom thing? 875 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have a funk in the bathroom 876 00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:28,439 Speaker 1: I talked about in the bathroom. In the bathroom, Oh 877 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:33,600 Speaker 1: that was in the house. This was a was a 878 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 1: toilet there. No, are you coming for me right now? Yes? 879 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,279 Speaker 1: You also had sex on a strip club floor. I did. 880 00:48:43,360 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: That was fun though, That was fucking fun. So this 881 00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:47,840 Speaker 1: is why I read sex with the stripper and the 882 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 1: strip club beat me? Wait did you did you pay 883 00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:59,200 Speaker 1: for it? No? You win? She was like boar boar 884 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:06,279 Speaker 1: sitting Yeah, we having gunshot? Wait have you when you 885 00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,000 Speaker 1: sucked the stripper in the shop club? Did she you 886 00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 1: ever met her before? And nothing like that? Was she gay? Yeah? 887 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:17,520 Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of strippers are gay? Huh? 888 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 1: Where where are you? Did you know? She took me 889 00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,239 Speaker 1: in a room? Shut up? And she's like, my real 890 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:27,400 Speaker 1: name is Jamie. Oh, she wanted you to know her 891 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,200 Speaker 1: real name. She she was connected to She was connected 892 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 1: to you, Well, we're gonna go ahead and get into 893 00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: our home segment, or do you have any to ask? Oh? 894 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 1: I wanted to ask. The weirdest place You've ever had sex? 895 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,879 Speaker 1: The weirdest place I've ever had sex? Oh god? Oh wait? Yeah, 896 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 1: Michael's Craft Store. And that was with an employee from 897 00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:50,760 Speaker 1: Michael's craft that I met that day in the Michael's 898 00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: crafts wait wait, wait wait, and then about that action 899 00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,640 Speaker 1: and then she gave me her employee discount. That means 900 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 1: you did good. You did the next time I went 901 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:05,839 Speaker 1: into that Michael's to get like some craft ship, they 902 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 1: were like, oh, aren't you so and So's girlfriend. I 903 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:09,480 Speaker 1: was like, oh, ship, I can't come back to the 904 00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,800 Speaker 1: Michaels anymore. What did you buy? I bought? What didn't 905 00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,799 Speaker 1: I buy? A bottle of a bunch of How much 906 00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,200 Speaker 1: was it? It was? It was a good discount. I 907 00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:23,000 Speaker 1: was like, oh, ship, this is Michael's discounts, like the 908 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:27,120 Speaker 1: back towards like the yarn, not towards the yard. That 909 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,440 Speaker 1: is really towards the yard. It was like towards the 910 00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:33,040 Speaker 1: scrap book. I'd be like, okay, that's like the scrap book. 911 00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:37,000 Speaker 1: That's too upfront. That's you don't know the layout of Michaels. 912 00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:40,520 Speaker 1: You know Michaels, you know by the yarn in the back. 913 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:42,920 Speaker 1: That was that was after That was Actually I took 914 00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,239 Speaker 1: a woman on a date to the Olive Garden that 915 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:47,319 Speaker 1: was next door of the Michaels and the date, like, 916 00:50:47,360 --> 00:50:49,080 Speaker 1: I made out with that woman in the parking lot, 917 00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: and I was drunk from drinking at the Olive Garden, 918 00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,200 Speaker 1: so I walked into Michaels and then sucked that woman. 919 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,319 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, this is the 920 00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:01,120 Speaker 1: employee you met while you were shopping and then guys fucked. Yes, 921 00:51:01,400 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 1: this was after a date with another one. Bro, have 922 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 1: you ever said the weirdest place you've ever fucked? She 923 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 1: beats me Michael's Craft Store? No, no, no, that's pretty good. 924 00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:21,320 Speaker 1: What's yours? I can't even think. Okay, I was probably 925 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:24,239 Speaker 1: just a strip club that's pretty bad on the floor 926 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: and sit sees, Oh my god, wheest place I've ever 927 00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:30,360 Speaker 1: had sex. When I was fucking lover Boing Aily, we 928 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 1: fucked in this alley and it was by water and 929 00:51:32,600 --> 00:51:35,120 Speaker 1: it was like really beautiful boat and then the boat came. 930 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:38,399 Speaker 1: So that was pretty good, and I was sucking. Then 931 00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:40,880 Speaker 1: whenever came it was almost like a show at that 932 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 1: point because they couldn't see my face, and I was 933 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 1: like fucking and I was like, you know, the sounds 934 00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:50,799 Speaker 1: really making these noises noises. You have a really bad 935 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 1: gag reflex. Someone love it. Someone don't. Beard baby does 936 00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: not like it. Sounds like you're gonna but most guys 937 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,120 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, it's just an eager big Oh 938 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:03,200 Speaker 1: my god, they didn't. We're gonna get into our homemail. 939 00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:06,040 Speaker 1: Not that one. We're going to read the queer one 940 00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:10,120 Speaker 1: for Christian's. That's no, that's a girl asking to come on. Yeah, 941 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:12,879 Speaker 1: but she did have a question. Oh is there a question? Well, damn, 942 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,880 Speaker 1: I want listen. We can answer it when she come home. No, 943 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 1: she's not coming on. You see if she if you'll 944 00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,919 Speaker 1: come on, bitches, wheezy fault. I wanted her to come home. 945 00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,839 Speaker 1: It's cool, it's your You look like that. Maybe she'll 946 00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: come on. Maybe she won't know you read it. Huge 947 00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,040 Speaker 1: fan of the show. Listening for a year, You guys 948 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 1: have covered a bunch of topics related to sell sex, health, 949 00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 1: and relationships, but there's one thing you haven't dived into, 950 00:52:35,840 --> 00:52:38,479 Speaker 1: which is a sexuality. A lot of shame around women 951 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 1: not having too much sex or not really wanting it, 952 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,799 Speaker 1: but what about women that don't desire sex at all? 953 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:44,360 Speaker 1: Recently have come to terms of being on the A 954 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:47,040 Speaker 1: sexuality spectrum, and I've had a hard time speaking to 955 00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:49,720 Speaker 1: people because there's not much discussion around it. Being black, queer, 956 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:54,080 Speaker 1: mask presenting woman. On top of this as an added 957 00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: a layer, that's proven to be a bit of a 958 00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:57,960 Speaker 1: roller coaster, especially since I've had sex with a handful 959 00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:02,160 Speaker 1: of people, men and women. Navigating reationships is tricky. Um, 960 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: I would love to speak to you guys who come 961 00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:04,960 Speaker 1: on the podcast about it, since I think it would 962 00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: generate blah blah blah. Here's what I want to talk about, 963 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:13,160 Speaker 1: A sexuality feeling weird and shame about that. A close 964 00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: friend of ours mutual friend UM name starts with the 965 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,880 Speaker 1: K is recently discussed that he may think he's a 966 00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,399 Speaker 1: sexual I want to know how both of you would 967 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,879 Speaker 1: feel if you met someone and got interested in them 968 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:28,359 Speaker 1: with their A sexuality. If you feel like that's like 969 00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:32,960 Speaker 1: a total note, well, how would you work around it? 970 00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 1: If you start want talking anymore? Bro? The nick I'm 971 00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:37,920 Speaker 1: talking to now thinks it's insane that I want to 972 00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:40,879 Speaker 1: go to a sex club, Like no, Like even dealing 973 00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:44,160 Speaker 1: with someone who's vanilla has become a challenge for me. 974 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,280 Speaker 1: I like sex too much, so I would date someone 975 00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: with the and then people, but I would keep someone 976 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:52,880 Speaker 1: in my life if I really liked him that I 977 00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:56,800 Speaker 1: think that's a that's a questions. It's a question to ask, like, okay, 978 00:53:57,000 --> 00:54:01,600 Speaker 1: then to like, also what level of comfort of intimacy 979 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,440 Speaker 1: or the hate that I just said that that are 980 00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 1: they comfortable with it? Does that mean they don't like kissing? 981 00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,200 Speaker 1: Does that mean they don't like any kind of touching? 982 00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,600 Speaker 1: In kind of ways, I think it is to like 983 00:54:10,640 --> 00:54:12,640 Speaker 1: a person a person think if it's somebody I really liked, 984 00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 1: then I would want to maybe be around them, but 985 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 1: I also would want to be honest up front about 986 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,759 Speaker 1: my specific needs. I am a person that likes it 987 00:54:21,760 --> 00:54:24,880 Speaker 1: would be like, what does it look what does it 988 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,440 Speaker 1: look like to you for us to be together? Does 989 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,359 Speaker 1: it mean that like I can have sex with other people, 990 00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 1: because that's something that would be like really necessary for me. 991 00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 1: And if it wouldn't be okay with them, then if 992 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: that's not gonna be something that's compatible. But that's like 993 00:54:36,800 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 1: you have to have a whole last conversation about it. 994 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,720 Speaker 1: I think. So an interesting thing from the mutual friend. 995 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:45,480 Speaker 1: Now he's not I don't know if he is a sexual, 996 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:49,600 Speaker 1: but he brought up that he might be. He masturbates, 997 00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 1: and I found that that was interesting because I guess 998 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,040 Speaker 1: we kind of all assume if someone isn't fucking or 999 00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:01,319 Speaker 1: doesn't like fucking, like they're not getting pleasure. So he masturbates, 1000 00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,360 Speaker 1: he's just not finding interest in intimacy for other people. 1001 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,399 Speaker 1: I've you, guys, ever known anybody like that. I mean, 1002 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,399 Speaker 1: I know that there are people who who are like that. 1003 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,919 Speaker 1: I can't. I think I actually I have another friend 1004 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:15,040 Speaker 1: who's like that as well. I met an a sexual 1005 00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:17,399 Speaker 1: person at the Girl Mob when I did it last year. 1006 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:19,760 Speaker 1: It was a panel I spoke on and she walked 1007 00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,360 Speaker 1: up and that was her issue, is that she was 1008 00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 1: a sexual. And I think her parents every time she 1009 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 1: went around her family, they asked about babies and all 1010 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,680 Speaker 1: this stuff, and so she did actually and I never 1011 00:55:30,719 --> 00:55:32,279 Speaker 1: got her contact. I think I was drunk that did 1012 00:55:32,320 --> 00:55:36,040 Speaker 1: it too. But she's the only person I've met who's 1013 00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:39,879 Speaker 1: openly admit, like known for herself that she was all 1014 00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 1: my friends are hose so bitch. No, I don't know 1015 00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 1: anyone personally. Um, we like sex like everyone that I 1016 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:47,279 Speaker 1: know like sas. So I think that's a hard thing 1017 00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:49,479 Speaker 1: for people to say because there's this idea of like, Okay, 1018 00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,239 Speaker 1: if I tell people I'm a sexual and then what 1019 00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,880 Speaker 1: if I want what if that feels like it changes, 1020 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:56,319 Speaker 1: like maybe someday I do want to do something else. 1021 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:58,560 Speaker 1: Like that's a that's a difficult and it's also like, right, 1022 00:55:58,640 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 1: what does it mean? And a lot of people do 1023 00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 1: have an understanding about it, so it would be hard 1024 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:04,480 Speaker 1: for people to tell about it. I'm gonna look, I 1025 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 1: wonder if there's a dating app for that ship. There's 1026 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 1: gotta gotta be right. I had a friend of mine, 1027 00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 1: um that didn't have sex for seven years. Um, you 1028 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 1: know I'm talking about no Oh, he didn't have sex 1029 00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:20,279 Speaker 1: for seven years, but that was purposeful, like that was 1030 00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,520 Speaker 1: his choice that he didn't want to. Yeah, I think 1031 00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,160 Speaker 1: it's you just like it just didn't happen. And then 1032 00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 1: after a while I write sexual and then I was like, 1033 00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:28,319 Speaker 1: well do you want to? And he was like, I 1034 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,319 Speaker 1: guess I could. And then finally I was like, we 1035 00:56:30,640 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 1: use a puss and we did, but we wasn't me. 1036 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:38,239 Speaker 1: But I remember like after that it kind of jumped 1037 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:39,799 Speaker 1: started that and he was talking about and he's like, 1038 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:42,160 Speaker 1: after a while, you literally forget about it. And I 1039 00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 1: think with a sexual people it's just they learned like 1040 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 1: feel intimate and feel pleasure from other things to where 1041 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,480 Speaker 1: like that. And it's totally legitimate that people would be 1042 00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,600 Speaker 1: a sexual and just not just not want to have 1043 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:56,400 Speaker 1: that kind of that kind of intimacy with other people. 1044 00:56:56,520 --> 00:56:58,560 Speaker 1: I would date somebody who was a sexual if I could, 1045 00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:00,400 Speaker 1: on the premise that I could suck other people like 1046 00:57:00,480 --> 00:57:02,960 Speaker 1: I would because you're an emotional person. So if this 1047 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: is someone where you only have that emotional connection to 1048 00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,839 Speaker 1: when you're still able to get your rocks off by 1049 00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:09,600 Speaker 1: someone else, yeah, sure, it's like, well, what are you 1050 00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:11,920 Speaker 1: getting out of any relationship? Like friendships give you a 1051 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,600 Speaker 1: kind of intimacy. I did look it up if if 1052 00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:16,800 Speaker 1: any of you guys do feel like you may be 1053 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:21,840 Speaker 1: a sexual. There are dating apps um a Sexuallytic, a 1054 00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:27,160 Speaker 1: sexual match, a sexual Cupid, um, and they actually celibate passions, 1055 00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: and they actually the celibate passions and they also actually 1056 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,600 Speaker 1: say um. The number one site for a sexuals ironically 1057 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 1: is match dot com and that is because because it 1058 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 1: is one of the world's best dating sites. Um, but 1059 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:46,560 Speaker 1: it's one of the best sites for not only finding lovers, 1060 00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:50,280 Speaker 1: but you can't find friendships, companionships and no strings attached romance. 1061 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:54,120 Speaker 1: Right You're finding levels of finding levels of compatibility using 1062 00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 1: match dot com, So that would also be a good 1063 00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,000 Speaker 1: one for a sexual Um, you know what I mean. 1064 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: I didn't mean that you wouldn't come on. I just 1065 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,919 Speaker 1: meant not today. But I do want to talk about 1066 00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 1: the a sexuality spectrum because, like you mentioned, um, what 1067 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:13,440 Speaker 1: level of intimacy. I think that's a conversation you have 1068 00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:16,320 Speaker 1: with any with any person that you're sucking around with 1069 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,280 Speaker 1: or deciding you want to have a relationship with. That's 1070 00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,840 Speaker 1: just like a broader conversation about like what what do 1071 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 1: you want? I watched a documentary anywhere people. I think 1072 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:31,360 Speaker 1: it was like three couple. I do not mean episode 1073 00:58:33,080 --> 00:58:35,480 Speaker 1: before we go. I do want to ask how do 1074 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,560 Speaker 1: you feel when men say they could turn you out 1075 00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:40,160 Speaker 1: or they could change you. I hate that ship. So 1076 00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:43,240 Speaker 1: guys don't usually do that to me, Like I don't 1077 00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:45,440 Speaker 1: come up to me and or saying things like that 1078 00:58:45,480 --> 00:58:47,440 Speaker 1: to me, but they'll do that sometimes if I'm like 1079 00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:50,560 Speaker 1: with somebody, like making out a bar. I don't know 1080 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,320 Speaker 1: if you all saw the couple in UK that was 1081 00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:56,120 Speaker 1: just so a couple in UK for you guys that 1082 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,200 Speaker 1: don't know. They were riding a train after a night 1083 00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,560 Speaker 1: out UM with each other and I guess they must 1084 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 1: have kissed or something. Even in the narrative, they're not 1085 00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: sure how it ended that way, but basically these guys 1086 00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:09,840 Speaker 1: started heckling them, asking them to kiss because they were 1087 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 1: aroused by the two women kissing to where they even 1088 00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,439 Speaker 1: started throwing coins at them. And then at one point 1089 00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:17,040 Speaker 1: one of the women did get up to confront them, 1090 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: and it turned into where she got beat up by 1091 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,720 Speaker 1: three guys and then they beat up the other couple 1092 00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 1: as well. So they posted a picture of their bloody 1093 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 1: faces online and let them know, like, um that this 1094 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,520 Speaker 1: is also something the homophobic slurs and things that were 1095 00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: geared towards them, um, And it actually brought light to 1096 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:34,840 Speaker 1: this and I liked it because I think when we 1097 00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:40,000 Speaker 1: talk about homophobia, UM, it automatically goes to gay men UM, 1098 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,680 Speaker 1: because they feel like women aren't really gay and a 1099 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 1: lot of men are aroused by it, so they're not 1100 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,440 Speaker 1: looked at the same. So I'm glad that they did 1101 00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:51,240 Speaker 1: bring light that lesbians also do you know, face homophobia 1102 00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:54,280 Speaker 1: and also get you know, kind of things staring at them. 1103 00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:59,400 Speaker 1: We um the security guard of the hotel and I 1104 00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,360 Speaker 1: didn't tell her this, but she was kissing and touching 1105 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,240 Speaker 1: me a lot. We were on vacation, right, and uh. 1106 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,760 Speaker 1: The guy at the hotel was like, you shouldn't hold 1107 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,040 Speaker 1: hands in the uber and he was like, you know, 1108 01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:13,080 Speaker 1: just keep it safe. And I was like damn and 1109 01:00:13,080 --> 01:00:16,320 Speaker 1: he was like, no disrespect, but I mean I get it, 1110 01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 1: Like he didn't know how else I say it. He 1111 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:19,320 Speaker 1: don't want to be rude. He just was like, funk, 1112 01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:22,400 Speaker 1: how do I help these girls? Um? And yeah, it 1113 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 1: was kind of we felt uncomfortable for sure. Well, there's 1114 01:00:25,400 --> 01:00:28,400 Speaker 1: also this thing too, where it's like there's this idea 1115 01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,520 Speaker 1: that you're performing for people. I hate that, like guys 1116 01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:33,840 Speaker 1: that literally once you say you like girls or like 1117 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,160 Speaker 1: that's been my curve line, which doesn't work anymore. If 1118 01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm with my home girl, like and a guy is 1119 01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:39,320 Speaker 1: trying to talk to me that I don't really want 1120 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 1: to talk to something like oh, well this is my girlfriend, 1121 01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:43,720 Speaker 1: And so many times guys have been like, well let 1122 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,160 Speaker 1: me see, I'll kiss then, like on some prove it 1123 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,120 Speaker 1: type ship, and it's like it's really corny. I think, yeah, 1124 01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 1: it's it's really bad. So yeah, but where someone asked 1125 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: you to prove it, not that they've asked me to 1126 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:57,080 Speaker 1: prove it, but I've I've definitely been in lots of 1127 01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,400 Speaker 1: such she cutting to sleaves off her T shirts and 1128 01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:05,320 Speaker 1: she got it, ave ship. I don't have to do that, 1129 01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:07,960 Speaker 1: But like, there's been lots of times where if I'm 1130 01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,360 Speaker 1: with a woman and we're being like if we're kissing 1131 01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:14,680 Speaker 1: or doing something like that, that men will insert themselves, 1132 01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:20,040 Speaker 1: especially when I feel like, oh, this is a dainty BASI. 1133 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:26,560 Speaker 1: I see her T shirt sleeves are full length. But 1134 01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:29,280 Speaker 1: no for for our listeners, I'm sure we hope that 1135 01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 1: all of you guys have enjoyed this episode and learn 1136 01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:34,479 Speaker 1: some some tips, maybe about eating pussy, maybe just mad 1137 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,040 Speaker 1: gay ship apparently, and I kept trying to make it 1138 01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:39,560 Speaker 1: heater as fun. I'm sorry, Um, but um, where can 1139 01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:43,080 Speaker 1: our listeners find you? Where can they get your book? Um? 1140 01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 1: The name of your book? Drop all your little actually 1141 01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:47,280 Speaker 1: dropped the accolades. But where where can people go ahead 1142 01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 1: and support you. The book is called Mostly Dead Things 1143 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,280 Speaker 1: and you can buy it anywhere. I'm like, oh, they're 1144 01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:59,480 Speaker 1: sold out on Amazon, Alex Wanas. I do want to 1145 01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 1: mention that you can possibly watch the show, the movie 1146 01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:08,280 Speaker 1: whatever on TV one day. We cannot wait but that 1147 01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:11,840 Speaker 1: to happen. Can you make sure I'm casting? Look, she 1148 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:16,280 Speaker 1: wrote be that girl like she's look, she's aiming to 1149 01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,480 Speaker 1: be on TV two. So now scripted whatever you need. 1150 01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:22,200 Speaker 1: Unscripted is what I'm being shot for people like the 1151 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:24,480 Speaker 1: agencies and ship. But I would like to do a 1152 01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:26,080 Speaker 1: script I mean, you know what I'm saying. You know me, 1153 01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,640 Speaker 1: we both hold I feel like you know I can 1154 01:02:28,720 --> 01:02:30,240 Speaker 1: and also a bit you better have a black girl 1155 01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 1: in it. So hello, actually we're not trying to see what. No, 1156 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I'll put my Puss on TV? How about any Fanny? 1157 01:02:39,520 --> 01:02:42,960 Speaker 1: And so it's sold on Amazon, so basically we're fucked. No, 1158 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: you can you can order it and like it's actually 1159 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to do like here in New York, I'm 1160 01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,120 Speaker 1: going to go around to a bunch of different bookstores. 1161 01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:50,880 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna be at strand You're going to that's 1162 01:02:50,920 --> 01:02:52,760 Speaker 1: my favorit books. Are you going to Bose Stockings, Yeah, 1163 01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to all that's right by my place, sign 1164 01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,480 Speaker 1: in stock and there's there's definitely like it's good to 1165 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 1: go buy the indie bookstores because the authors make more 1166 01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,920 Speaker 1: money if you go to indie bookstores, and so do 1167 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:09,240 Speaker 1: the publishers. And the bookstores are Yeah, it's it's much so. 1168 01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,280 Speaker 1: Blue Stockings are the very pro queer, pro black. They 1169 01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:13,840 Speaker 1: got their Black Lives Matter ship and all the gay 1170 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 1: flags up there. It's in the Lower East Side on 1171 01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:19,640 Speaker 1: Alan and Stanton. And what I love about this book 1172 01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: store is they have signs that say, please don't steal 1173 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 1: from us, go to the chain down the street if 1174 01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:27,000 Speaker 1: you can't afford it for though. That's cute. Yeah, it's cute. 1175 01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:29,480 Speaker 1: So do you have a social social media handle? Yeah, 1176 01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 1: I'm on Twitter being dumb all the time. Same says 1177 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:34,840 Speaker 1: you have really good tweets. Thank you so much that 1178 01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:37,520 Speaker 1: you seem like a comedian in your tweet. That's basically 1179 01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:39,000 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do, a stand up I feel 1180 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 1: like all the time. It's it's at Kristen underscore our net. 1181 01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:47,720 Speaker 1: But holl you are a second white Christen here, we 1182 01:03:47,760 --> 01:03:54,920 Speaker 1: had the which the author to ship the same black 1183 01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:59,280 Speaker 1: girl name like we know Dan because we get creative 1184 01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:07,880 Speaker 1: with our names. But guys, if you guys want to follows, 1185 01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:12,200 Speaker 1: it's kind of black name Kayla. You don't know. No, 1186 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:17,520 Speaker 1: all my friends named were black. Okay Ta nah is 1187 01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:21,439 Speaker 1: it not? It's Kayla a white name. Oh he said, 1188 01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:25,360 Speaker 1: many whites yo. I want you all to tweet us 1189 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:28,600 Speaker 1: and tell us kayleb black black Kaylor a white Kayley. 1190 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:32,880 Speaker 1: Shut the funk up? You you say, do us some 1191 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,120 Speaker 1: dumb ship? She do be like Pole. I'll be voting 1192 01:04:36,160 --> 01:04:39,960 Speaker 1: on my own in my favorite UM for any of 1193 01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:43,800 Speaker 1: you guys who are interested in in reading Christen's book, 1194 01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:47,760 Speaker 1: following her comedic tweets apparently UM and just more so 1195 01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:51,640 Speaker 1: supporting UM, a woman who is out here doing the 1196 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:54,640 Speaker 1: goddamn thing. We will be putting all of her information 1197 01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,320 Speaker 1: in the description to this episode. And of course, if 1198 01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:01,000 Speaker 1: you guys go to our horrible Underscore Decisions page on Instagram, 1199 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,240 Speaker 1: you'll see our lovely picture and we will also put 1200 01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:06,000 Speaker 1: her information there. Once again, before we get out of here, 1201 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 1: we do want to thank all of our patrons, all 1202 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,280 Speaker 1: of you YouTube people watching us, even though we're never 1203 01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,320 Speaker 1: gonna get money from YouTube because we talked to Nasty. 1204 01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:15,040 Speaker 1: It says not monetary like we can't get money from 1205 01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:17,800 Speaker 1: your host, but the but thanks for watching on YouTube 1206 01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,920 Speaker 1: and again for our patrons. Without you guys, we wouldn't 1207 01:05:20,920 --> 01:05:23,000 Speaker 1: be where we are today. Um, so we want to 1208 01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 1: thank you. And if you guys are all cut up 1209 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,680 Speaker 1: with all of our episodes, there's another forty episodes on 1210 01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:31,440 Speaker 1: Patreon um. 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Patrons, 1214 01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:41,560 Speaker 1: by the way, and once we get there, I don't 1215 01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:43,600 Speaker 1: say nothing ship because but you'd be talking ship and 1216 01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:44,800 Speaker 1: I'd be like, no, I don't want to do that. 1217 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:48,720 Speaker 1: So okay, gonna be offering more merch options, okay, because 1218 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:50,760 Speaker 1: she'll be like, then we're gonna bring you another episode, 1219 01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:52,680 Speaker 1: and I mean, like, god, damnit, I already see enough 1220 01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,120 Speaker 1: five dollars. Bro That ship is a lot, a lot 1221 01:05:57,160 --> 01:06:02,479 Speaker 1: more than other Patreon platforms offer. Let's like a lot 1222 01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:05,400 Speaker 1: we have to coming. It's a lot of work. But 1223 01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:11,760 Speaker 1: now that we are both self employed, we are more 1224 01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,200 Speaker 1: content and at least do those episodes together. We have 1225 01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,880 Speaker 1: like really worked hard in the last two years curating 1226 01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:19,240 Speaker 1: this podcast and just even trying to make time to 1227 01:06:19,280 --> 01:06:21,520 Speaker 1: get in here. People would think, like if we couldn't 1228 01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:23,480 Speaker 1: do an episode together, like they're right, and sometimes we were. 1229 01:06:23,800 --> 01:06:28,040 Speaker 1: But but seriously though, like it was very hard to 1230 01:06:28,040 --> 01:06:30,480 Speaker 1: make ship it work and put out content, so you 1231 01:06:30,520 --> 01:06:32,360 Speaker 1: didn't even invest it. We both got mix on our 1232 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:33,840 Speaker 1: house now, so I'll be like, bitch for core one 1233 01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:36,120 Speaker 1: by yourself, get a friend, come over ya do that 1234 01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,440 Speaker 1: now that we should be doing it together, Mandy because 1235 01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:43,040 Speaker 1: we have more time. Bitch, I'm staying ask the Bronx. No, 1236 01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: we're not doing time episodes today. No, we're gonna. We're 1237 01:06:45,520 --> 01:06:48,400 Speaker 1: gonna you come long distance to me. Sometimes absolutely not, 1238 01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:49,920 Speaker 1: you're not coming to the Bronx, but you don't go 1239 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:58,959 Speaker 1: about straight. But no, But I want to again shout 1240 01:06:58,960 --> 01:07:01,000 Speaker 1: out to our patrons. That link will also be in 1241 01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 1: the description. So it is eighteen plus because of sucking 1242 01:07:04,520 --> 01:07:09,920 Speaker 1: dick um, but Patreon fist plus sas are eating blood, 1243 01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:15,440 Speaker 1: so it's it's Patreon dot com back slash. Horrible Decisions, Um, again, 1244 01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:17,440 Speaker 1: thank you guys for supporting us. At the end of 1245 01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,479 Speaker 1: this episode, you're going to hear a five minute clip 1246 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 1: from one of our bonus episodes. So before we get 1247 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:23,920 Speaker 1: out of here, I want to let you guys know 1248 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,760 Speaker 1: that this episode was once again brought to you by 1249 01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:30,120 Speaker 1: True and Code. Check out the bras. Get yours now. 1250 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:34,200 Speaker 1: It's fifteen percent off free and easy returns. 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So Grace basically moves back 1258 01:07:59,080 --> 01:08:02,800 Speaker 1: to Memphis, UM to rejoin her family and the church 1259 01:08:03,240 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 1: and kind of, you know, feel a commanderie between the 1260 01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:10,880 Speaker 1: family UM since her sister committed suicide, but it's also 1261 01:08:10,920 --> 01:08:17,040 Speaker 1: seeking revenge on her uncle UM. So what I wanted 1262 01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:22,400 Speaker 1: to talk about now is during Grace's time is this one? Yes, 1263 01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:26,920 Speaker 1: So Darren, Grace's stay back in Memphis, she seeks out 1264 01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:30,760 Speaker 1: other victims from Uncle Mac. And so one of the 1265 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 1: victims was a dominique that sounds like the name I 1266 01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 1: want to I want to go for Uncle Mack paid 1267 01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:40,639 Speaker 1: the lawyer. Yes, So there's a there's a girl, um 1268 01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 1: that Grace finds in the episode who went forward to 1269 01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:49,680 Speaker 1: the cops, said her whole story about being raped by 1270 01:08:49,840 --> 01:08:54,560 Speaker 1: Uncle Mac and then on tape, and then she recanted 1271 01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:58,000 Speaker 1: everything a few days later, and so no charges were 1272 01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:02,080 Speaker 1: brought against Uncle Mac. And when Grace approaches this young lady, 1273 01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:05,760 Speaker 1: her kind of immediate response was, well, I didn't want 1274 01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:09,880 Speaker 1: to ruin everything. So the conversation now that I want 1275 01:09:09,920 --> 01:09:12,160 Speaker 1: to have, UM, and Amanda and I actually kind of 1276 01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: had a conversation UM at lunch, and I would love 1277 01:09:15,360 --> 01:09:18,599 Speaker 1: for you to bring it up. So it's sexual assault 1278 01:09:18,680 --> 01:09:22,240 Speaker 1: victims not feeling the need to come forward, specifically when 1279 01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:25,720 Speaker 1: it's someone in the family or someone close, feeling like, 1280 01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:28,160 Speaker 1: oh my god, now I'm gonna call so much drama. 1281 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:30,840 Speaker 1: Let me not open my mouth. UM. So, Amanda, do 1282 01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:34,639 Speaker 1: you want to talk about what you were telling me earlier? So, UM, 1283 01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:36,519 Speaker 1: this is not easy for me to talk about. I'm 1284 01:09:36,520 --> 01:09:41,759 Speaker 1: gonna tryout. Yeah, when I was younger, so the reason 1285 01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:43,920 Speaker 1: that I really really like I was talking Mandy like 1286 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: to be on the show. I was like DM email 1287 01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:47,519 Speaker 1: like her like tech me or like Mandy, I gotta 1288 01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:50,479 Speaker 1: come because like the green Leaf show is kind of 1289 01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:52,960 Speaker 1: like a Scandal, but it's like with like I told him, 1290 01:09:52,960 --> 01:09:54,360 Speaker 1: like I felt like I was watching Scandal, but it 1291 01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,479 Speaker 1: was like more Christian base. So like it was like 1292 01:09:56,520 --> 01:09:58,240 Speaker 1: in the church. And I grew up in the church, 1293 01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,760 Speaker 1: and my father was a pat ster and he still 1294 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:03,040 Speaker 1: is to this day. He has a congregation. So I 1295 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:04,559 Speaker 1: know what it is to be a pastor's kid. I 1296 01:10:04,600 --> 01:10:06,040 Speaker 1: know what it is to grow up in the spotlight. 1297 01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:09,439 Speaker 1: I know all about that realm. So one of the 1298 01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:12,960 Speaker 1: deacons of the family, like of my not a member 1299 01:10:13,000 --> 01:10:15,040 Speaker 1: of my family directly, but a deacon of the church. 1300 01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,160 Speaker 1: When I was fourteen years old, he's sexually molested me. 1301 01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,519 Speaker 1: And he was married, he had three kids. I was fourteen. 1302 01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:23,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know anything, Like I was still you know, innocent, 1303 01:10:23,240 --> 01:10:25,439 Speaker 1: like my parents raised me like a good quote unquote 1304 01:10:25,439 --> 01:10:27,639 Speaker 1: like church girl. So I didn't know anything about sex. 1305 01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:29,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know anything about like period. I didn't know 1306 01:10:29,640 --> 01:10:33,920 Speaker 1: anything believe in sex before marriage at all. No, that 1307 01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,040 Speaker 1: was bad, Like that was such a taboo in my house. 1308 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,599 Speaker 1: Like no, like you're just supposed to be with your 1309 01:10:37,680 --> 01:10:39,600 Speaker 1: husband on your wedding night and that's it. Like my 1310 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,599 Speaker 1: dad was like so like protecting me and my sister's virginity. 1311 01:10:42,640 --> 01:10:44,600 Speaker 1: I have a sister that's three years older than me, 1312 01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:47,240 Speaker 1: so he was like the prison guard. Like my sister 1313 01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:48,680 Speaker 1: and I would joke when we were little, like, oh, 1314 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:50,360 Speaker 1: we live in a prison. We grew up in a prison. 1315 01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:52,920 Speaker 1: But it was because my dad was like so like 1316 01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 1: overprotective of us. And needless to say, one of the 1317 01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:59,120 Speaker 1: deacons of his church molested me when I was fourteen, 1318 01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:01,559 Speaker 1: And this went on for a few months until I 1319 01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:04,439 Speaker 1: finally came forward to like, you know, say something. Did 1320 01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:07,000 Speaker 1: you battle with coming forward? I did for a long 1321 01:11:07,080 --> 01:11:09,639 Speaker 1: time because like him and my dad were like best friends. 1322 01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:11,599 Speaker 1: Like he would come over our house with his wife 1323 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:13,840 Speaker 1: and his kids and they would play dominoes so three 1324 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:15,920 Speaker 1: in the morning, and then like the guy was singing 1325 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:17,960 Speaker 1: the church like it was it was a lot, and 1326 01:11:18,000 --> 01:11:19,960 Speaker 1: like he would tell me, like, you can't tell anybody 1327 01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:22,439 Speaker 1: because what's gonna happen is like you're gonna get in trouble, 1328 01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:23,600 Speaker 1: Like he would say, like I was gonna get in 1329 01:11:23,640 --> 01:11:25,280 Speaker 1: trouble like you touching my boobs? How am I going 1330 01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,519 Speaker 1: to get in trouble like you found? Like how am 1331 01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:29,240 Speaker 1: I going to get in trouble for something you're doing? 1332 01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:32,200 Speaker 1: But I was just I was fourteen. What was what 1333 01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,640 Speaker 1: was the response? And if this, if this went on 1334 01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:37,080 Speaker 1: for a couple of months, what was the tipping point 1335 01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,040 Speaker 1: to you telling your father that this is what's happening. 1336 01:11:40,120 --> 01:11:42,720 Speaker 1: I told my sister, my sister three years older than me, 1337 01:11:42,880 --> 01:11:45,840 Speaker 1: and my sister like she left home. She couldn't deal 1338 01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 1: with like my dad being so strict and like I 1339 01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:50,439 Speaker 1: would see like my sister actually having freedom and I'm 1340 01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:52,640 Speaker 1: fourteen at this time, I was fifteen. I remember my 1341 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,320 Speaker 1: fifteen birthday and this man was like in our living 1342 01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:57,280 Speaker 1: room to celebrate my birthday, and I'm like, I know 1343 01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:59,840 Speaker 1: what he's doing to me, Like like even one time 1344 01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,599 Speaker 1: he was like touching me when we were like out 1345 01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,000 Speaker 1: of baptism, like in the water, like the people are 1346 01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:06,360 Speaker 1: getting baptized and he's like touching me. Like it was 1347 01:12:06,400 --> 01:12:07,800 Speaker 1: just a lot, and I just couldn't deal, So I 1348 01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:10,479 Speaker 1: told my sister. My sister ended up telling her boyfriend 1349 01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:12,960 Speaker 1: and my boyfriend was her boyfriend was the one that 1350 01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:15,439 Speaker 1: ended up like telling my dad and my dad went apeship, 1351 01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:17,320 Speaker 1: Like he kicked him out the church. And that's the 1352 01:12:17,360 --> 01:12:20,800 Speaker 1: difference from the show. Yeah, and they showed the show, 1353 01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:24,360 Speaker 1: they covered and it was it sucked because he was 1354 01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:27,719 Speaker 1: around in the church and and you throughout the season 1355 01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:31,360 Speaker 1: one and into season two, you see that he did 1356 01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:36,120 Speaker 1: it to multiple women and was using scholarship funds from 1357 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:39,040 Speaker 1: the church to pay off the families so that they 1358 01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:41,400 Speaker 1: could shut up that this was happening. So, I mean, 1359 01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:45,240 Speaker 1: I guess I do commend you know, your dad for 1360 01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:48,400 Speaker 1: taking the righteous So he kicked him out the church. 1361 01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:50,840 Speaker 1: Do you know what that relationship is like now? And 1362 01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:53,960 Speaker 1: why was no charges ever pressed? Well, to be honest, 1363 01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,120 Speaker 1: he was like an illegal immigrant, so my dad wanted 1364 01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:58,280 Speaker 1: to get him deport it. But the guy like fled 1365 01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,600 Speaker 1: state with his family and his wife's stood by his 1366 01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:04,320 Speaker 1: side with the kids. It's been what fourteen fifteen years. 1367 01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't know anything of the situation. All I know 1368 01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:08,960 Speaker 1: is like he was cleared of the church and I 1369 01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,600 Speaker 1: just never heard from him again, and he fled like 1370 01:13:11,680 --> 01:13:13,760 Speaker 1: he went to he went to the court, like he 1371 01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:15,880 Speaker 1: didn't go to court. I'm sorry, Like my dad was 1372 01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:17,800 Speaker 1: trying to press charges, but he went to the police 1373 01:13:17,800 --> 01:13:21,000 Speaker 1: station to answer questions and nothing happened after that. He 1374 01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:24,679 Speaker 1: just fleed the state. And I have no idea where 1375 01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:27,519 Speaker 1: he is. And you know, it's crazy. You don't even 1376 01:13:27,560 --> 01:13:29,760 Speaker 1: know that. I don't know. You don't know if he's alive. 1377 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:31,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if he's dead. But I know he 1378 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:33,840 Speaker 1: had three. And the thing is, like I was fourteen. 1379 01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:36,400 Speaker 1: I had just turned fifteen, and he had two young 1380 01:13:36,520 --> 01:13:39,200 Speaker 1: daughters like he had, Like his two daughters were like 1381 01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:40,840 Speaker 1: a few years younger than me, and they were like 1382 01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:43,240 Speaker 1: role modeling me because I was like, they're Bible teacher 1383 01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:46,000 Speaker 1: in church, so I'm like teaching. I'm like teaching his 1384 01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:48,240 Speaker 1: daughters in church about the Bible. Well, why your dad 1385 01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,680 Speaker 1: is like doing things to me with his wife and 1386 01:13:50,720 --> 01:13:52,760 Speaker 1: his three kids in the church. It's crazy because you 1387 01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:56,559 Speaker 1: actually just sigud kind of the next topic. So I'm 1388 01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:58,800 Speaker 1: skipping around here because what you just said is that 1389 01:13:58,880 --> 01:14:03,719 Speaker 1: the wife stayed. UM. Once we get into season two, UM, 1390 01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:07,040 Speaker 1: although he was put into Uncle Mack was put into jail, 1391 01:14:07,360 --> 01:14:12,040 Speaker 1: he was not charged with UM. The molestation of all 1392 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:16,240 Speaker 1: of these underage women, and we see that he eventually 1393 01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:20,120 Speaker 1: gets into a relationship with a woman, and I want 1394 01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,680 Speaker 1: to know your your opinion on this, Brianna. So he 1395 01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,920 Speaker 1: gets into a relationship with another woman. So despite having 1396 01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:30,520 Speaker 1: the allegations of being a pedophile and a child molester UM, 1397 01:14:30,560 --> 01:14:33,360 Speaker 1: this woman has now become his girlfriend and she's at 1398 01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,519 Speaker 1: his house a lot, and they're dating, and she is 1399 01:14:36,640 --> 01:14:39,080 Speaker 1: questioning kind of his movements in the phone. As we 1400 01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,320 Speaker 1: know he was still communicating with an underage girl. But 1401 01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:48,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to know how would you guys react UM 1402 01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:53,720 Speaker 1: to possibly dating someone who was UM I guess accused 1403 01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:59,360 Speaker 1: of child molestation, pedophilia UM or rape. Even if if 1404 01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:01,240 Speaker 1: we want to get into that matter, is that something 1405 01:15:01,280 --> 01:15:02,360 Speaker 1: that you could handle