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Speaker 1: Eliza is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 1: She's been with her boyfriend Cooper for two years, but

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Speaker 1: now she thinks that something might be going on, so

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can help her out. Eliza, Sorry,

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Speaker 1: you have to come on the show this way, But

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Speaker 1: what's up? Why do you think Cooper's cheating on you?

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Speaker 2: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not thrilled about it either, But just to

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Speaker 3: be frank about it, he has no interest in any

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Speaker 3: kind of intimacy. I mean I've been throwing myself at

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Speaker 3: him for the past two weeks, and he keeps coming

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Speaker 3: up with some excuse, like he says that he's tired

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Speaker 3: or he's not in the mood. But that's not like him.

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Speaker 3: I mean, he's usually down whenever, whenever, and this is

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Speaker 3: not something that's that's in character for him. And that's

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Speaker 3: really concerning.

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Speaker 4: It is concerning, But is there anything else going on

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Speaker 4: in his life? Because for whatever reason, that's super tied

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Speaker 4: to emotional stuff for dudes.

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Speaker 5: So like if they're going through.

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Speaker 4: Stuff, they don't talk about it and then it kind

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Speaker 4: of comes out in the bedroom.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I can't think of anything. I mean, he's having

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Speaker 3: a good time at work. Nothing is bad there. Everything

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Speaker 3: is good with his family. I mean he just went

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Speaker 3: on like a boy's trip recently. Like there's nothing but

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Speaker 3: that I can think of that he would be, you know,

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Speaker 3: up in his head.

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Speaker 5: About Are you worrying about the boys?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Is it anything happened?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: I can't imagine. So, like I've I've known those guys

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Speaker 3: forever and they're good guys. Like I I I now,

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Speaker 3: you're not me thinking about it. I don't. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: have I wouldn't have said anything would would be possible

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Speaker 3: at that. But I mean, like, I guess that is

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Speaker 3: about the same time that he hasn't started behaving. Hole.

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Speaker 5: Is it just an intimacy thing or has anything else

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Speaker 5: been going on?

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Speaker 3: No, it's pretty much just the intimacy thing. I mean

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Speaker 3: because he's still super cute. I mean, like he brought

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Speaker 3: me flowers the other day, Like he's not. I don't

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Speaker 3: feel like he's inattentive. He's he's home, you know, he's present.

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Speaker 3: I like, I literally I can't think of anything.

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Speaker 4: Do you feel like he's going overboard with how attentive

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Speaker 4: he is and in giving you things?

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Speaker 5: Like do you feel like he's making up for something?

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Speaker 3: No? I mean like this is honestly, this is the

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Speaker 3: way that he is. It's one of the reasons why

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Speaker 3: who loved on me. It's just he's always been really

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Speaker 3: sweet and you know, make sure that I know that

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Speaker 3: he's thinking of me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel weird about the nadas and it especially

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Speaker 4: after our boys trip. If you're just joining us for

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Speaker 4: today's to Catch a Cheater. Eliza is on the phone

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Speaker 4: and she thinks that her boyfriend of two years named

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Speaker 4: Cooper might be messing around. So we're about to call

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Speaker 4: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that

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Speaker 4: he's a rewards card member at and tell him that

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Speaker 4: every single month, we choose one lucky rewards member who

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Speaker 4: gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department, and we'll

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Speaker 4: see if he sends those to his girlfriend Eliza or

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Speaker 4: to somebody else. But first, Eliza, why don't you break

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Speaker 4: down your situation again real quick.

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Speaker 3: Everything's been going great with my boyfriend Cooper up until

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Speaker 3: about two weeks ago. He doesn't seem any interest in intimacy,

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Speaker 3: and no matter what I do, I'm practically throwing myself

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Speaker 3: at him and he's coming up with excuses and that's

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Speaker 3: that's really not like him. I'm kind of concerned, you know,

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Speaker 3: now that you guys talked about it, maybe something happened

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Speaker 3: at the boys' trips that kind ofcerned them off. And

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Speaker 3: that's that's concerning.

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Speaker 4: I hope not didn't mean to, you know, put ideas

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Speaker 4: in your head, but you know, let's find out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, are you right? Are you ready?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yep, let's do it.

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Speaker 5: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from I was looking

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Speaker 1: for our rewards card, remember named Cooper. Hi, Cooper, Please

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Speaker 1: don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually calling with the big congratulations. You're this month's winner.

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Speaker 2: Oh cool? If I won.

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Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one reward card member to

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Speaker 1: say thank you very much for being such a loyal

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Speaker 1: customer by giving them a free gift. And this month

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Speaker 1: it's flowers delivered from our forial apartment to anybody that

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Speaker 1: you want with in the fifty United States, absolutely free.

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Speaker 1: You've won thirty six long stim red roses, a box

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Speaker 1: of candy or chocolate, and a card to be delivered

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Speaker 1: to anybody. So three hundred and sixteen dollars value.

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Speaker 2: Actually, oh cool.

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Speaker 5: All I need to get this thing ordered.

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Speaker 1: Is just the first and last name of the person

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Speaker 1: that you want to send them to, anything that you

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Speaker 1: like to put on a card, and then we'll get

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Speaker 1: with the address and that'll be good to go.

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Speaker 2: Sure, but let's do madics.

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Speaker 5: Madics? Okay? Perfect?

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Speaker 1: And then do you want to put anything in the

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Speaker 1: card to medics?

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Speaker 2: Think? But I always knew you were of a brief

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Speaker 2: a boxers got.

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Speaker 1: More of a brief sellar boxers guy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and thanks for the other night and for

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Speaker 2: not telling a live.

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Speaker 5: Got it? This might be talking to you. Eliza knows.

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Eliza knows. Well, this is actually the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 1: It's a radio show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi, I'm Nina Ys, I'm Victoria and my name

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Speaker 5: is Jubel.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who was because we do a second

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Speaker 1: call to catch a Cheater, where if you think your

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Speaker 1: significant other might be messing around you, see you, they

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Speaker 1: send flowers to and your girlfriend Eliza is listening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and your girlfriend Eliza now knows that you're cheating

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Speaker 3: on me with tumatics?

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Speaker 2: What what? What? What is this? What?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exactly what I'm thinking. What is this? You're

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Speaker 3: one of your best friends whoa, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: You're cheating on me with your best friend, that's what's happening.

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Speaker 2: No, that's not it at all. I'm not cheating on you.

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Speaker 3: What do you think I'm cheating on you? It's like ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: Why do I think?

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Speaker 3: Because because you haven't wanted to be intimate for like

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Speaker 3: two weeks now, and now you're sending flowers to some

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Speaker 3: bro and you're telling him about his boxers of briefs. Like,

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Speaker 3: what the absolute dude? What are you? Are you gay?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: What is happening?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I'm not gay, and you know me like like we've

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Speaker 2: known each other for you know, years now, we're not

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Speaker 2: I'm not gay.

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Speaker 3: I just okay, I need some I need some supporting

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Speaker 3: facts here, Okay, because I have been I've been practically

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Speaker 3: throwing myself at you and you have wanted nothing to

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Speaker 3: do with me, and now you're sending flowers to another man,

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Speaker 3: and I really don't know what to think about this,

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Speaker 3: and you're asking him or you're thanking him for not

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Speaker 3: telling me. I mean, obviously something weird.

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Speaker 2: Is going on, something weird is going on between us.

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Speaker 2: What are you trying to say that you're sleeping.

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Speaker 3: With your friend. How How plain do I have to be?

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Speaker 3: I've already said it like a thousand times.

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Speaker 2: On a guy's trip, a chick wasn't involved. What it means?

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like, it wasn't like sleeping with another girl

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Speaker 2: on this trip. He's my bro. We do that here

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Speaker 2: and there. So you knew this?

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Speaker 3: What? Why? How?

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Speaker 2: Why?

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Speaker 3: What? This doesn't make any sense. You can't just hook

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Speaker 3: up with somebody and then claim that it's not cheating.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't matter if a woman is involved or not.

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Speaker 3: Your janitals are involved. And that's what I have a

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Speaker 3: problem with.

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Speaker 5: You hook up with your friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, guys do this all the time on guys trips. Okay,

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Speaker 2: like we're just hanging out, we're drinking, playing video games.

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Speaker 2: Something happens, Not a big deal.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I've ever been on a guys trip

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Speaker 5: like that.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you haven't, but trust me, a lot of guys

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Speaker 2: do this. It's not a big deal.

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Speaker 5: Oh do they?

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Speaker 3: But this is a big deal. This is a big

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Speaker 3: deal to me because you are cheating on me. It

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Speaker 3: doesn't matter if you don't think that you are. I

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Speaker 3: oh my god, just just hang up on him, Just

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Speaker 3: hang up on him. I don't even know what's going.

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Speaker 5: On, Eliza. I did. I did hang up on him.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. Sorry, Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like his definition of cheating in yours

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Speaker 1: are quite a bit different.

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Speaker 5: It feels like an unusual situation. First.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, how can he not think that.

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Speaker 5: Definition?

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Speaker 1: And mine is very different as well. So I'm yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you know, at least you found out.

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Speaker 5: I think it's something you decided okay with or not.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. We have a lot of a lot

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Speaker 3: of thinking to do.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. Well, let us know if you need anything

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Speaker 5: from us.

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Speaker 3: Okay, thanks guys. Did he actually say that they just

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Speaker 3: play video games and hook up like that's normal?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: The Jewel shows to catch a cheeter