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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Eathan, good morning. How are you?

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, I'm doing okay, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Okay? I'm just all right. We're great, but we're here

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Speaker 2: to help.

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Speaker 1: You met a woman named Molly, and you think maybe

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Speaker 1: she's ghosting you. So we need to know the backstory.

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Speaker 1: Tell us how you met, and about any days that

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Speaker 1: you've been on so far, and why you think you're

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Speaker 1: being ghosted.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I met Molly on Bumble and I'm you know,

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Speaker 3: I really liked her. I thought we hit it off. Obviously,

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Speaker 3: she messaged me, and you know, the more we started talking,

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Speaker 3: I realized I really liked her. She's smart, she's funny, beautiful,

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Speaker 2: She just kind of had it all.

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Speaker 3: So eventually she gave me her number and I asked

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Speaker 3: her out to dinner. She said, yes, we went out

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Speaker 3: one time, and I thought we had a great night.

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Speaker 3: I had a great time. I thought she did too,

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Speaker 3: And now she's ghosting me. So something must have gone

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Speaker 3: wrong and I'm just not really sure what.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so you look back on this whole

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Speaker 1: thing and you really felt positive about it, except this

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Speaker 1: woman's not responding to you at all. You've called, you've texted, whatever, nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's really strange. I don't Yeah, I understand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's see if we can get Molly on

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Speaker 1: the phone. In a couple of minutes. We'll ask some

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Speaker 1: questions for you. You'll be on the phone and you

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Speaker 1: can jump in at any point that you want to.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the line, and you know, hopefully we

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Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 2: Sound good?

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Speaker 3: All right, yeah, sound good.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back in

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Speaker 1: two minutes and do it. All right, let's see what's

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Speaker 1: going on Part two of waiting by the phone. You've

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Speaker 1: got to hear what happens next after sis. In two minutes,

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Speaker 1: it's the Fread Show. Good morning, Manty guy Guy Las Vegas.

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Speaker 2: You're going.

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Speaker 1: In fifteen minutes, it's the Fread Show, Good morning, and

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Speaker 1: we're commercial free for the next hour. Hey, Ethan, Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 1: all right, let's call Molly. You met on bumble, you

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Speaker 1: went on a date. You felt great about the date,

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Speaker 1: except she has not responded to you since the date.

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Speaker 1: You've texted, You've called, tried to get her to go

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Speaker 1: out again, no response. You think you're being ghosted? You

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Speaker 1: want to know why? Yeah, let's call her now?

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Speaker 2: Good luck? Ethan? All right, Hello, hi issus.

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Speaker 1: Molly, Hey, Molly, good morning. My name is Fredam call

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Speaker 1: from the Fred's Show, the Morning Radio progrum. My whole

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Speaker 1: crew is here, and I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: radio and it would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the call. Can we chat for just a couple of minutes? Okay, yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. We'll see if you're as excited

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Speaker 1: here in about ten seconds. But we're calling up a

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Speaker 1: guy who says he met you on Bumble. His name

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Speaker 1: is Ethan, and I guess you recently went out. Do

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Speaker 1: you remember Ethan?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, yeah, no, oh.

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Speaker 1: No, oh no, oh no no.

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 1: Because we talked to Ethan for a little bit and

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Speaker 1: he said that he was excited to meet you and

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Speaker 1: you have a different version of events.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess yeah, based on what you said. I

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Speaker 4: guess so, yeah, I mean the backstory is we met

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Speaker 4: on bumble. I don't know if you told you that.

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Speaker 1: But I said, you met on bumble And then he

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Speaker 1: had a good time. It sounds like, you know, there's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I just I think it got weird

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Speaker 4: I don't put out on the first date.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and that was fine.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was. I thought it was weird to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, not gonna happen, not gonna happen, Molly, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you trying to. I saw what you were doing there.

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Speaker 4: I know, right, I don't dare I want to split

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Speaker 4: one point he was like he told me I wasn't

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Speaker 4: I don't know why he kept bringing it up. I

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Speaker 4: never said anything about wanting to hook up. That wasn't

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Speaker 1: Do you think it was like reverse psychology? Do you

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Speaker 1: think he was hoping if he'd like that he was

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Speaker 1: trying to create a challenge, like if he told you

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Speaker 1: you'd be like, oh man, I'll prove him wrong it now.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, if that's what he was going for Get

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Speaker 4: him on the phone, because I want to know what

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Speaker 4: the percentage of that working it.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's a matter.

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Speaker 1: It's so crazy that you say that, because it just

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Speaker 1: so happens that that Ethan is here and I'm so

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Speaker 2: So what's going on, Ethan? You hear this?

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Speaker 1: What what was up with the constant reminder that you

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Speaker 5: Listen, if you guys, if I was a woman, you

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Speaker 5: would think this is totally normal. This is one of

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Speaker 5: those double standard trying to things all right, Like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I mean women say this on dates all the time.

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Speaker 5: What makes it not? What makes it weird when a

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Speaker 1: I don't think you know. I mean, I've had women

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Speaker 1: multiple times. By the way, I'm not going to hook

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Speaker 1: up with you, by the way, you're trying to get

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Speaker 2: In my pants. I mean, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know that I've ever had somebody like constantly

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Speaker 3: Wanted some you know, I wanted to take it slow,

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Speaker 2: I didn't normally bring it up a lot like I

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Speaker 5: I just wanted, I am.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to take it slow, and I want to

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Speaker 3: be really clear about that. And I feel like she

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Speaker 5: Molly.

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Speaker 1: You couldn't contain yourself, could you. I mean, you were

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Speaker 1: just honestly, it wasn't even necessary to finish the day.

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Speaker 1: You were trying to get him in bed so quickly.

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Speaker 3: Yep, that's clearly what happened.

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Speaker 2: I get it. This dude is irresistible.

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Speaker 4: I will tell you, like moving if you want a

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Speaker 4: little bit of like lady advice, just moving forward, like

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Speaker 4: telling somebody that you're not going to put out on

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Speaker 4: the first date, that's totally fine. But the fact that

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Speaker 4: you kept bringing it up, it just made me feel

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Speaker 4: like you saw me and you decided you weren't interested,

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Speaker 4: and you needed me to know that you weren't interested,

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Speaker 4: is what it felt like, Because you just kept bringing

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Speaker 1: Well, that's that whole I don't normally do this kind

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Speaker 1: of line. It's like, yeah, that means you do it

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Speaker 1: that you do it. So it's okay, we don't need

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Speaker 1: to even make the statement, don't even pretend. But okay, Uh, Ethan,

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Speaker 1: it feels like you you you overplayed this. Uh maybe

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Speaker 1: maybe one time would have been okay, But even the

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Speaker 1: saying it, it's like you're assuming that she wanted to

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Speaker 1: doesn't sound like she did either. So look, Molly, would

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Speaker 1: you consider a second chance for this guy?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it? Okay? No, So that's it. That's it.

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Speaker 2: Not even it's like, what's your second date rule? Do

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Speaker 2: you hook up on the second date? Yeah? Yeah, Ethan?

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Speaker 2: Are you more of a second date? Guys?

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Speaker 3: I just I'm just trying to be respectful of myself

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Speaker 3: and other women and women, and I don't know, I

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Speaker 3: think I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion.

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Speaker 1: Okay please yeah, yeah, again, you just kept saying it.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like and it's like we got the message, man,

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Speaker 1: unless you're using it.

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Speaker 3: The way she was looking at me, well it made

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Speaker 3: me feel a little uncomfortable. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She was praying about you, Molly Is. She's a predator,

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Speaker 2: so you know I can.

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Speaker 4: That'll do it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, every single time. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, look, I'm sorry it's talking to work out,

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Speaker 1: but thank you for your time and best of luck

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Speaker 1: to both of you.

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Speaker 3: Thanks. Ery,