1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 2: It's another episode of The Golden Bachelor. We're week six. 4 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,719 Speaker 2: It's an emotional episode, one that I will theme us Indiana. 5 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: Boys. 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:18,440 Speaker 2: We just seem to uh yeah, we just have big hearts. 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 2: We just have big hearts. We just really want love. 8 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 3: I was like, Gary, what in the world are you doing? 9 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: Oh man, all right, well, let's start out with this. 10 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: Uh Teresa's hometown date in New Jersey. Uh. It's a 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:39,479 Speaker 2: beautiful start to this episode. I absolutely love hometown dates 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: on The Golden Bachelo. I didn't know I would because 13 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,920 Speaker 2: of the Green kids being involved, and also the kids 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 2: being involved and the emotion that comes out of all 15 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,000 Speaker 2: of them. I think it is awesome. 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 3: Nobody's tough though you did you notice that there was 17 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 3: like no villainous characters trying. 18 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 2: To get really say two years old? 19 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:01,279 Speaker 3: He's the adult here? 20 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, what are you gonna do? Be like, hey man, 21 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: I don't think you're mature. 22 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 3: Are you really ready for something serious? It's like, I 23 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 3: don't know, you get oriented? Are you gonna want to 24 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 3: hook up with all these ladies after you've become the Bachelor? 25 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 2: I mean Yeah, there's no tough being needed, and I 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 2: think it's a really beautiful piece too. To this, we'll 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 2: kick it off again. We're in New Jersey with Teresa's family. 28 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:30,320 Speaker 2: I you know, have felt strongly about Teresa. 29 00:01:30,360 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, you really think Teresa is like gonna 30 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 3: be here. I don't know. Again, I just I don't 31 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 3: know what it is about Teresa. I just think that 32 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 3: she's silly. She's just like she's like a little fairy, 33 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 3: That's what she is. And she's like wearing this like 34 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: little Sutton dress and I'm just like, just like a 35 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 3: little fairy. She just she contrasts the other two of them, 36 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 3: for sure, because the other two of them seems so 37 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 3: similar and vibes to me Faith and Leslie. 38 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 2: Well, and I think we see a little bit of 39 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: that because I understand, I understand what you're saying. There 40 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: is that level of Teresa where you're like, she feels 41 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: at times maybe a little naive for being seven years old, 42 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 2: a little a little like just happy to be there 43 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: kind of feeling. However, I think we see that cleared up. 44 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: And this is one of the reasons I like this 45 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 2: week's hometown. When it comes to her daughter speaking about 46 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 2: her mother, saying she just really is like the nicest person. 47 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 2: Then we hear the grandkids say, Grandma's over all the time, 48 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: she's a huge piece of our life. 49 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 3: Yeah. 50 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: I think Teresa is genuinely, down to her soul, just 51 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:40,560 Speaker 2: a really joy filled sweet human who, yes, maybe comes 52 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: off like a little fairy like ooh, like I'm just 53 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 2: happy to be here. However, I think there's a depth 54 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 2: and I think a commitment to kindness and joy that 55 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: she has that we're seeing based on what her family 56 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 2: said about her, and I think that's beautiful. 57 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 3: To be specific, Gary was talking to the grandkids and 58 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 3: they say she comes over a lot because she's lonely, 59 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 3: which is so sad. And then they say you should 60 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: be the new papa for us. And then this daughter. 61 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 3: I got emotional when the daughter was saying that, like 62 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 3: it's not a replacement for my dad and that her 63 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 3: really wanting this for her mom. And I was like, 64 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 3: oh my god, could I ever feel that way? I 65 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 3: don't know, it would be so I don't know. So 66 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 3: I think it's like a testament. It's a testament to 67 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 3: how much her mom is like happy with Gary. 68 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: I mean, her daughter is magnificent in this the stuff 69 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 2: that she says about her mom, and then you know 70 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 2: what she said about her late father, and then also 71 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 2: just her wisdom and being like, hey, you know, it's 72 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 2: going to be sad to not see my mom here. 73 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: She has to move, but I'm the child in this 74 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: relationship still, and that's my mom and she has to 75 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: do whatever she wants to do. I also think it's 76 00:03:57,160 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: worth noting Teresa's comment to her sisters when she's like, 77 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 2: I just I loved it. I just love the Golden 78 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 2: Bachelor so much. She says, I'm competing them against a 79 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: bunch of sixty year old and she's like insecure about it, 80 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 2: and You're like, come on, I know at this point 81 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:18,279 Speaker 2: you're just all doing your best. 82 00:04:18,880 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 3: The sisters are seriously so sold that she's on Cloud night. 83 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 3: Cloud nine says she's found her guy, and I'm like, 84 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 3: oh my god, this is like so intense because like 85 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 3: it's not her guy yet. 86 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 2: Well. I don't have a great comparison to this actually, 87 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 2: but I do have people that I know who live 88 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,640 Speaker 2: in I'm not gonna say retirement community, yeah, retirement communities 89 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,679 Speaker 2: like fifteen over communities, right, that I know, and they've 90 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 2: lost a spouse, and they are constantly dating. They're always 91 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: going to like the happy hours and the cocktail parties 92 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,919 Speaker 2: and talking about what doctor so and so used to 93 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: do and what he's been doing, and all these things 94 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 2: are always said. And then every once in a while, 95 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 2: you know, you get the comment like doctor so and 96 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 2: so and I went to dinner last night at the 97 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 2: local steakhouse or whatever. And there is never this like 98 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: questioning these people are close to me in my life. 99 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 2: There's never this questioning of like is he the right 100 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: guy for you or not? It's just simply a cool 101 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 2: you have companionship. Like I don't care what this dude 102 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 2: is next to they saying, or like what he's communicating. 103 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,000 Speaker 2: I'm just happy now in your seventies and your eighties 104 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 2: that you have somebody to go to dinner with. And 105 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: that makes me thrilled. I don't know if her sisters 106 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: have that as much of a like kind of a 107 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 2: mentality of anything goes like I do when people tell 108 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 2: me this, but I kind of I just don't question it, 109 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:44,279 Speaker 2: like I don't ask them. 110 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 3: Is I think I think you're right? Yeah, that's also 111 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 3: like with everybody else. And you know, I've said this 112 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 3: last week. I just don't understand how they're falling in 113 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 3: love so fast. I'm like, I don't feel you guys 114 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 3: have hung out like nearly enough to feel this. Like 115 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 3: I'm so confused because it just seems like so much 116 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: less time on the actual Bachelor, And I'm like, you 117 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: guys have gone on one date and you feel like 118 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: you're in love already. I'm so I'm like, really, guys, 119 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 3: really yeah fast. 120 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 2: Well, I think it goes right back to what I 121 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 2: was saying. I think at this point in your life, 122 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 2: companionship is love. It's it's close, yeah, yeah, and it's 123 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 2: and it's nice. 124 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 3: Having somebody you want to hang out. 125 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,760 Speaker 2: With is love. Yeah. Having somebody that looks, you know, 126 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 2: across the table at you and you can carry conversation with, 127 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 2: or you can go to bed at night with and yeah, 128 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 2: not have to say a word, and that you can 129 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 2: wake up and maybe go to the pumpkin patch together 130 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: and you both have a laugh or two. Like it 131 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,160 Speaker 2: looks different. You're not trying to raise a family together. 132 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: You're not trying to you know, go through the issues 133 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: when it comes to losing a job together. At this point, 134 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 2: you're both have. 135 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 3: To be perfectly compatible in those big life situations. 136 00:06:58,160 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: You're just looking for a companion, and I think it's 137 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: I think it's wonderful. So to close up Teresa's date 138 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 2: because she is in or, I guess she was number 139 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 2: one for me. She is the only one that Gary 140 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 2: cannot say, I love you too. Mmm mmmm. 141 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 3: He says, Oh, that's so special to hear thank you 142 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 3: so much. It's just oh, that makes me feel so good. Yeah. 143 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 3: So this, to me is the dead giveaway that she's 144 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,960 Speaker 3: the one that is not going to be picked at 145 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 3: the Rost ceremony, which we have a teaser for, because 146 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 3: he does not complete the Row ceremony. He only gives 147 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 3: the rose to Leslie. So let's let's move on to Faith. 148 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 3: So home down Faith is she kind of lives in 149 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 3: the middle of nowhere, Washington State, and I don't I 150 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 3: want to know, like, do have we ever talked about 151 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 3: like what her marytal past has been, like was she 152 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: ever was she ever married? Because we've never had her 153 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: bring up an ex husband or so I don't remember. 154 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't remember, but no, I don't. I 155 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 2: don't think. 156 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 3: So we know she doesn't lost a husband, but she 157 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 3: has two sons and they say that she falls very 158 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 3: hard and fast, and they also say that she's that like. 159 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 3: They ask him whether or not he's in love with her, 160 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 3: and he's like pretty much. Yeah, he said yes here 161 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:20,480 Speaker 3: and that was another thing at Teresa's hometown he said 162 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 3: when asked by the daughter, are you in love with 163 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: my mom? He would go, he goes, I'm not really sure. 164 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 3: I remember what that feeling. I don't really know if 165 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 3: I can qualify this yet. Remember he was like, it 166 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 3: was nineteen sixty something when I fell in love with 167 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 3: my wife, and I'm not sure is this falling in 168 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 3: love now? And then he was certain when it was 169 00:08:41,880 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 3: with Faith. I just really I'm surprised that they made 170 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 3: this a teaser because it didn't feel like it's a 171 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 3: big cliffhanger to me, because it's just so obvious that 172 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 3: it's between Leslie and Faith now, because those are the 173 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 3: two that he was just like, yes, love, Yeah. 174 00:08:58,559 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: If it's not between those too, then Gary has a 175 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 2: lot of a lot of explaining. 176 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:07,319 Speaker 3: Yeah. 177 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: You know. The Faith relationship has always been interesting in 178 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 2: me because she did get the first impression Rose, and 179 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 2: then we didn't really see a ton from her for 180 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 2: a few weeks. Then we kind of saw her come 181 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,040 Speaker 2: back into the scene. I would say that the Leslie 182 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: and Teresa relationship to Gary make I just know more 183 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 2: about them than I do faith in Gary. It was 184 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,720 Speaker 2: shocking to me when I watched this episode and I 185 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: saw him say that, and I saw him say that 186 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 2: in front of the family. 187 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: Mm hmm, oh, my gosh. Yes, because she looked at 188 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 3: him and yeah, she gave him eyes, which they keep 189 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 3: talking about these eyes that she gives him, and then 190 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:46,599 Speaker 3: he said I love you. Did he say hell with 191 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 3: you first? 192 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I think it was like 193 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 2: kind of like simultaneously they were both like I love 194 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: you and I love you, and it was in front 195 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:57,960 Speaker 2: of the family. This was a very intimate moment. It 196 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 2: was probably the most intimate moment we I've seen ever 197 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:04,319 Speaker 2: on any bachelor show. I think, like, I don't remember 198 00:10:05,120 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 2: a bachelor bachelorette couple going to hometowns and sitting in 199 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: front of the family and looking at each other and 200 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 2: being like I love you and I love you and 201 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,959 Speaker 2: kissing Like I don't remember this. Yeah, So this was 202 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 2: a very intimate moment. I think holds a ton of weight, 203 00:10:20,040 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: and I was shocked to see it. Because I didn't 204 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 2: think we would see Gary say I love you to 205 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:29,200 Speaker 2: anybody until the very end. I had no expectation that 206 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: he would drop the L word. Now, granted again, I'm 207 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 2: not the one to criticize. 208 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:34,560 Speaker 3: It to be hard for him to fall in love 209 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 3: after his wife. 210 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 2: That's why I thought it. I just thought he was 211 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: going to save it to the end and then be like, I, 212 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,199 Speaker 2: you know, I haven't said this in so long, and 213 00:10:42,440 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 2: I know it's you know, I know, but he just like. 214 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: Remember with Michael Aliol, we like didn't want him to 215 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 3: say I love you until it was like him and 216 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 3: whoever he was with, whether it was Danielle or Katie, 217 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:58,040 Speaker 3: because we were like, no, no, no, he hasn't said this 218 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 3: since his wife passed. Got to reserve it. We got 219 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 3: to wait a long time for it. Gary just loves, 220 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 3: he loves. 221 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 2: He's got to us in the anaboys, you got big hearts. 222 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: He's probably the last bachelor who said I love you. Well, yeah, 223 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 3: you didn't say to three people. Now he's say you 224 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 3: to three people. Why does he get a pass and 225 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 3: you like get cremated. 226 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 2: Well, you know the funny part about that is, you 227 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 2: know when I did it, and years later people have 228 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 2: kind of given me the benefit of the down, like 229 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:29,000 Speaker 2: you were so young, like you just weren't mature yet. 230 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:33,679 Speaker 2: And I hate when people say that because who are 231 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 2: they to say anything? But I've always like allowed it 232 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 2: to be said because it like, yeah, that's a free pass. 233 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 2: Like you can't be mad at me because I was 234 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:42,719 Speaker 2: twenty six years old and trying to figure life out. 235 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: What are you gonna say about Gary? 236 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 3: Like Gary is in a bubble of love right now, 237 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 3: he has no idea what he's doing. This environment is 238 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,000 Speaker 3: very difficult for somebody whose age should navigate. 239 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 2: I would say that's a bit. I would say, I 240 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 2: wish people just said it was so hard to a gay. 241 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 2: And Ben was feeling all sorts of emotions and hey, 242 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 2: he had some great people at the end, and so 243 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: of course he cared for all of them. 244 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 3: Wait before we move on, we got to talk about 245 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 3: moving places. 246 00:12:10,080 --> 00:12:11,559 Speaker 2: So it's a big conversation. 247 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because New Jersey girl Teresa's daughter was like, 248 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,319 Speaker 3: if she needs to move to be with him, I mean, 249 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 3: sucks for me, but what am I supposed to do? 250 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: And Faith right off the bat is like, hey, do 251 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 3: you like the country, because, like I can't imagine not 252 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 3: being around my sons. And if this were me, I'd 253 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 3: be like, yeah, you're not taking my mom away from me. 254 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 3: Can't do it. 255 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, what do I think about that? My response would be, 256 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 2: I think that is a very quick way to dispel 257 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: a conversation that should be being had between the two 258 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:56,199 Speaker 2: of you, because he obviously has kids and Grandkidso. 259 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 3: That's what I mean, Like, it's not fair. Okay, you 260 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: guys would have to go back and forth. That's what 261 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:02,479 Speaker 3: that's my thought, because you're right. He dismissed the conversation. 262 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 3: He was like, if it's the two of us, we'll 263 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 3: address it at another time. But it's like, actually, like 264 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 3: probably should address it this early. You're not early right now? 265 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 3: Your top three you probably need to talk about now. 266 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,920 Speaker 3: My solution would be like, you're gonna have to split 267 00:13:17,960 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 3: your time. You're both retired, you should be able to 268 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:24,280 Speaker 3: or I don't know if she's retired, but yeah, especially 269 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 3: with his lifestyle in Indiana, they should be able to 270 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 3: go back and forth like a month or a month there. 271 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 2: Who knows. Why is everybody trying to take people out 272 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:32,560 Speaker 2: of Indiana. It's a good state. Let us let us 273 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 2: out there. Jeez, it ain't all bad. Rip Bobby Knight 274 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 2: by the way, Oh yeah, I. 275 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 3: Heard about that. I was thinking about you. 276 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:44,439 Speaker 2: Bobby Knight passed away this week. A legend in Indiana. 277 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: Anybody that's lived in Indiana, most people lived in anywhere 278 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: around the US know of Bobby Knight. What to take 279 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 2: a second and say. He was a huge part of 280 00:13:52,559 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 2: my childhood and he's one of the reasons I went 281 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: to IU, and my life would never be the same 282 00:13:56,160 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 2: without him. People call him complex, Sure you can do that, 283 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 2: but he was a good coach and his legacy will 284 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:06,440 Speaker 2: live on forever in the hearts of US Hoosiers and 285 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 2: including Gary's. I'm imagining because Gary likes sports. Who doesn't 286 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 2: like sports? Final hometown this week, Ashley is Leslie's that's 287 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:28,760 Speaker 2: in Minnesota. Leslie reminds me of like a Victoria Fulish's 288 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 2: not a villain, but she definitely stands out because of 289 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,479 Speaker 2: her energy and kind of her intrigues. 290 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 3: Edgy, She's just edgy. She's not like, you know how, 291 00:14:39,760 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 3: like you qualify. It's like, yes, this is what we do, Okay. 292 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 3: It's like she beautiful, is she hot? She's sexy? She's sexy. 293 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and like she definitely knows it about herself because 294 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 2: of kind of how she introed into the season with. 295 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 3: The Prince thing like we're like, okay, you sleve with Prince. Cool, 296 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 3: Now you are a woman who's love with Prince. I'd 297 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 3: be talking about that too. Yeah, everybody wanted to back 298 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 3: in the day. So Leslie, you know, is a little 299 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: more edgier. She's beautiful. She has never been married, No, 300 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 3: she's been married twice, but she's never felt like she's 301 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,480 Speaker 3: had like a great like love companion, like a life companion. 302 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,200 Speaker 2: Well that makes sense based on kind of her story 303 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:26,240 Speaker 2: of her father passing, her brother helping raise her, and 304 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 2: then her brother kind of which I thought was a 305 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 2: great scene with Gary, her brother being like, you're nothing 306 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 2: like the guy she usually dates, and this makes me 307 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:33,920 Speaker 2: so happy. 308 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 3: They call them menscha's. He's a good person in their family, 309 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 3: and yeah, I thought the brother was going to be 310 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 3: our oh okay, here's our tough guy family move. But 311 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 3: he wasn't. And I loved that he wasn't. He just 312 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: welcomed Gary in. 313 00:15:48,760 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was beautiful. Gary did ask for the brother's permission, 314 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 2: which is a big deal. We see that obviously during 315 00:16:00,880 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 2: The Bachelor every time or during The Bachelor at every time, 316 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:08,280 Speaker 2: but we hadn't seen it yet on the Golden bachel. 317 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: Because there was a father figure here. He was a 318 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 3: father figure and the other ones didn't have that. 319 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, so a very traditional thing kept up by Gary 320 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 2: and the show. It's very you know, we see something 321 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: traditional happen where he does ask for the permission, the 322 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 2: brother grants it to him. I don't think he would stop, 323 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:30,680 Speaker 2: you know, stop him from that. This this couple has 324 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:34,560 Speaker 2: legs to me. If it wasn't Teresa, it's Leslie in 325 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: my mind, because I don't know what Gary's looking for 326 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 2: in that companion and that love interest later on, but 327 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 2: I do know that Leslie would offer him. I think 328 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,840 Speaker 2: the joy that we've seen Gary kind of be attracted 329 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 2: to the adventure that Gary is obviously still attracted to 330 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:55,680 Speaker 2: the energy that Gary maybe too much energy, and it 331 00:16:55,920 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 2: feels I don't know, I wonder if there's something inside 332 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 2: of Gary that's like I could be the first good 333 00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: man to enter into her life romantically, and that excites 334 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: me mm. 335 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 3: Hmm, yeah, totally. It's also cute when the grand the 336 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,120 Speaker 3: kids say, do you actually I think they call her grandma, 337 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 3: which is dorble, Do you actually love my grandma? Are 338 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:16,160 Speaker 3: you an actual couple? Really cute? And that, of course 339 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,960 Speaker 3: starts the love thing. Is he gonna say it? What's 340 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 3: he gonna do? And then he does it in a 341 00:17:20,640 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 3: private moment when they walk out of the family time 342 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 3: and he just he says like, I love you, I 343 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 3: love you, So now we have two full I love you. 344 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 2: I was shocked the first time, I was floored the 345 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 2: second time. I don't know where Gary's going to go 346 00:17:37,640 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: from here. All I can assume is this, and I 347 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 2: wish I wish the same thing for myself. I'm going 348 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 2: to assume that Gary feels this way about these two women, 349 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 2: that he means what he's saying, and that he might 350 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:51,400 Speaker 2: be in love with three women right now. 351 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, but he didn't say even though he kind of 352 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: admits that he is in love with with Teresa afterward, 353 00:17:57,320 --> 00:17:59,960 Speaker 3: he still didn't say it to her, And I wonder 354 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 3: if the hometown order is accurate. 355 00:18:01,880 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 2: My assumption is that he feels this way, feels very strongly, 356 00:18:06,280 --> 00:18:09,520 Speaker 2: and this is what I hope we all realize and 357 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 2: start to understand that it is possible to feel really 358 00:18:12,960 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 2: strongly about multip people one time, and that we also 359 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 2: start to show some empathy for those on this show 360 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,359 Speaker 2: who feel that way and start to understand how just 361 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 2: difficult getting rid of somebody you care that much about is. 362 00:18:28,960 --> 00:18:32,359 Speaker 2: It does not feel right, it does not feel good, 363 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 2: and in Gary's case, I think it could even be 364 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:41,719 Speaker 2: heightened because he hasn't felt it in so long, and 365 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 2: that you see that emotion coming out of him, and 366 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 2: you see how hard it was for him to even 367 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: get to this point. And I personally am watching this 368 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 2: now and edge of my seat, Florida shocked that he 369 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 2: said it, but also my immediate thought went to Gary, 370 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 2: what in the world are you gonna do? Now? Like who? 371 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 2: Kind of like Jess's famous comment every week is Who's 372 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 2: taking care of Gary? 373 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,000 Speaker 3: I don't know. We see him get out of the 374 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 3: the limo and hear whatever the suv and you're just 375 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 3: know he's not prepared for this rose ceremony to the 376 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,679 Speaker 3: point where now we see he gives out the rose 377 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,640 Speaker 3: to Leslie, which again I thought it was weird that 378 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 3: they didn't give the row. I thought that he would 379 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 3: give a rose to Faith and that it would be 380 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:30,600 Speaker 3: a tie between Leslie and Theresa that would be the 381 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 3: cliffhanger because I do. I feel like Faith is number one. 382 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:35,879 Speaker 3: I think it's so strange that you don't think that 383 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,919 Speaker 3: I don't know. Ask do you know things? And like 384 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,120 Speaker 3: you know things, you know things more than I do. 385 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 3: So now I'm like looking at you for spoilers. 386 00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 2: No, I don't know any spoilers. 387 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 3: No way, you do not know anything because like you 388 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 3: kind of know Gary a little bit more. When is 389 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:51,120 Speaker 3: it coming on the podcast? 390 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 2: I know exactly what he said in interviews, which is 391 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 2: that he's happy and so he ends up with somebody, 392 00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 2: and you didn't. I mean, I think going into the sweek, 393 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 2: Teresa was my number one. I think coming out of 394 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 2: this week, I don't think I could say that any 395 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 2: longer because of the lack of emotion and confidence that 396 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,280 Speaker 2: he showed in that relationship. I think that Faith would 397 00:20:09,320 --> 00:20:13,159 Speaker 2: probably come above Teresa for me. Okay, now the Leslie thing, 398 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 2: I don't know what to do with. I don't again, 399 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 2: That's why I said I don't know what to do 400 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,960 Speaker 2: with the Leslie relationship because I thought Teresa would still 401 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: go above Leslie. But yet Leslie has the rose interesting 402 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 2: peace during the Bachelor when you're asked to be the bachelor. 403 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:30,119 Speaker 2: You're asked not to leave Rose ceremonies, Like you're like, 404 00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:32,159 Speaker 2: it's just hard for them because all the cameras are 405 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 2: set up. 406 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 3: Thanks for the reveal. Yeah, so many years into this. 407 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 2: It just doesn't happen very often because it's hard because 408 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 2: the cameras are on like tripods, they're locked in, and 409 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: so when you leave. 410 00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 3: We saw that one guy run over, we would already 411 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 3: have a camera, yeah, because guys, there are so many 412 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 3: cameras at Row ceremonies and they're all reserved for the 413 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 3: Row ceremony. There's like nobody hanging out like getting footed 414 00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,280 Speaker 3: to the kitchen. So that's why we saw the one 415 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,520 Speaker 3: cameraman run over. 416 00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:04,679 Speaker 2: So that's why when I saw this, I'm like, this, 417 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,439 Speaker 2: poor dude, literally Gary, and I think I did it 418 00:21:07,520 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: once where you're so overwhelmed with emotion and you can't 419 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 2: you don't want to be in that room, like something 420 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,640 Speaker 2: just washed over me, where I was like I don't 421 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 2: want to be here any longer, like I can't, I 422 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 2: don't like doing this. I have to do it, but 423 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:20,639 Speaker 2: I'm not ready to do it, And you just like 424 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 2: leave to get a breath of fresh air or something 425 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 2: And here's the cool other cool part when you do it, 426 00:21:26,240 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: like all the producers are in some room like outside 427 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 2: in the garage, and the camera guys are all locked 428 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 2: in on the cameras, and so when you walk away, 429 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,919 Speaker 2: it's like the first time in months the year standing 430 00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 2: alone in a room, which feels really one second, but sure, 431 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,199 Speaker 2: but that split second is magical. Yeah, you healing in 432 00:21:46,240 --> 00:21:50,800 Speaker 2: your health. So Gary's obviously over. Poor guy, He's. 433 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:54,919 Speaker 3: Gonna throw up looking at two women. Either one of 434 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,120 Speaker 3: them could be the partner, my partner for the rest 435 00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: of my life. Like, I really think that he would 436 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: be almost happy with all three of them right now. 437 00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 3: And it's just like it's not picking some moving out 438 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 3: of a hat, but it's somewhere close. 439 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's somewhere close with him. I think 440 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 2: for him, he's now weighing way notes. I kind of 441 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 2: wish ash that with the Golden Bachelor, maybe they would 442 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 2: have made hometowns and Fantasy Suites one straight week before. 443 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,719 Speaker 3: Then that way he would have like extra time, and 444 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 3: that way fantasy suites would give him the like intimate, quiet, 445 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 3: private time to help make this decision easier for him. 446 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 2: I agree, Yeah, that's what I was, because then they 447 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 2: still get down to two for the final row ceremony. Yeah, 448 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 2: and it can still be two weeks episodes. But I 449 00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 2: do wish he had a little bit more time because going. 450 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 3: With just the family is gonna be even more It's 451 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 3: just so emotional because he's just like going off of 452 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 3: the experience of the family. If he had another like date, yeah, 453 00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 3: vibes wise, it would be different. 454 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, because then you know, you would kind of get 455 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 2: on the same track then as the other shows where 456 00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,080 Speaker 2: you're down to three still for the fantasy suites, two 457 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 2: for the final you know, two weeks. Yeah, but we 458 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 2: give the benefit of the doubt for the Bachelor and Bachelorette, 459 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 2: where they can have three overnights and oftentimes you can 460 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 2: hear when you maybe talk privately with the leads. The 461 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:22,240 Speaker 2: overnights are like the deciding factor. Hometowns are a big deal, 462 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 2: but once you get behind closed doors, then you get 463 00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 2: to ask maybe more intimate questions, you know the person, 464 00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 2: like kind of like let's loose a little bit. You 465 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,639 Speaker 2: see what your chemistry is when nobody's forcing you to talk. 466 00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 2: And I think that's going to be a hard part 467 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,160 Speaker 2: of the Golden is where we're asking them to get 468 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 2: down to the final two. And we've seen it with 469 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: Gary already. He loves the three of them and it's 470 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,360 Speaker 2: and so he could use more time. And I think 471 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 2: this would be one of those scenarios that we could 472 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,760 Speaker 2: give him more time. 473 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, good thought. We don't hear him say this right 474 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 3: now that he this is the hardest choice that he's 475 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 3: had to make, or like this is the most heart 476 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 3: wrenching and awful thing he's experienced since his wife dying. 477 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 3: But that's coming, and that could even be the final 478 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 3: I would say that's probably the finale. The quote from 479 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:07,959 Speaker 3: the finale, which is just like mind blowing. 480 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 2: I think it's still during this really, I think Jesse 481 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,400 Speaker 2: comes down. But you got to imagine at this point, 482 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 2: Jesse is like probably out of his suit. Well no, 483 00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,399 Speaker 2: because he has to come back to say this is 484 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:18,960 Speaker 2: the final row. 485 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:21,639 Speaker 3: Jis probably has no idea how to handle this with 486 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:22,200 Speaker 3: an elder. 487 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: No, he's I can't imagine how he's learning as he 488 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: goes here. Emotional week. Actually, I did want to mention 489 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 2: that I did shed a lot of tears this week, 490 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 2: and I don't do that all the time. I've done 491 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 2: a lot more during The Golden Bachelor, mostly during the 492 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 2: grand kids segments. I think it was really cute, and 493 00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:51,400 Speaker 2: I also definitely did when Teresa's daughter was talking about 494 00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 2: her late father. 495 00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was the moment where I was like, oh, 496 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 3: I'm willing yeah. 497 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 2: For as much benefit as the show has brought me 498 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 2: in terms of watching TV, and as much joy as 499 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:07,120 Speaker 2: I've had watching these people pursue relationships, I think over 500 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,760 Speaker 2: the last maybe week up until this week, it has 501 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 2: started to like feel a little bit too intimate to 502 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:19,680 Speaker 2: me where my mind goes to my family, and I 503 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 2: hadn't had that happen yet. 504 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,679 Speaker 3: It was when the daughter was talking that I imagine my 505 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 3: dad gone. 506 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it just it's not you know that that's 507 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 2: I guess it's probably healthy and it's not a bad 508 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 2: thing to. 509 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 3: Have my parents dying too often to need this. 510 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a weird place, you know. You don't 511 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,120 Speaker 2: want to lose them. They're good people, all of we've 512 00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 2: been lucky. But that's where I got emotional. Wish the 513 00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 2: best for Gary. Poor dude is in it, and I 514 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 2: hope all of us listening understand how much he's in it. 515 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 2: This is not made for TV. Gary is not a 516 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:56,439 Speaker 2: paid actor, He has no experience on television before. He 517 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 2: is trying to find love and so are these amazing 518 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 2: women that are are with him. This is going to 519 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 2: be a very emotional last few weeks of The Golden Bachelor, Ashley, 520 00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:13,679 Speaker 2: to close out, I do have a little insider information. Okay, yes, 521 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:18,119 Speaker 2: I don't think the franchise has decided if they're going 522 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:19,479 Speaker 2: to do another Golden or not. 523 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 3: What do you mean, like, that's so dumb of them. 524 00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 2: Well that's what I thought. But how mad would we 525 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 2: be if all of a sudden like this show comes 526 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 2: and goes and we never hear about it again. 527 00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 3: Of course there would be outrage. 528 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 2: So let's appreciate the last few weeks of this season. 529 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,920 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not worried. They just haven't like green led 530 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,960 Speaker 3: it yet, but it's obviously going to happen. 531 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 2: I sure hope. So it's been so great. Well, next 532 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 2: week we'll be back breaking down another episode of The 533 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor. It's been a wild ride, a really fun ride. 534 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,679 Speaker 2: We can't wait to continue to talk about it. We 535 00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,639 Speaker 2: wish the best for everybody involved. But until next week, 536 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:00,240 Speaker 2: I've been been. 537 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 3: See you guys. We'll be back with good stories next week. Bye. 538 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on iHeartRadio, 539 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 1: or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.