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Speaker 1: Hey, this is Dakota, and this is Carly, your favorite

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Speaker 3: I discovered my grandfather's secret stash, and I'm never.

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Speaker 4: Telling my family.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't.

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Speaker 2: I don't blame you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, my grandfather passed away three months ago and the

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Speaker 3: aftermath has been a complete circus.

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Speaker 4: He was not a rich man by any means.

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Speaker 3: He lived in a cramped apartment filled with dusty books

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Speaker 3: and cheap furniture.

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Speaker 4: From the seventies.

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Speaker 3: You would think there was a gold mine hidden there

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Speaker 3: based on how my aunts and uncles were acting, So

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Speaker 3: maybe there is a gold mine. Knowing they've been screaming

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Speaker 3: at each other for weeks over who gets the ceramic

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Speaker 3: plates and old wood carvings that are probably worth ten

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Speaker 3: bucks at a garage sale. It is honestly exhausting to

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Speaker 3: watch grown adults lose their mind over junk. Well, I

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Speaker 3: just wanted to get the cleaning over so I could

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Speaker 3: go back to my actual life.

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Speaker 5: One man's trash, a man's stress utter.

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Speaker 3: Who knows those like carvings could be worth a lot

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Speaker 3: of ponds. Yeah, last weekend I was tass with hauling

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Speaker 3: away his old mahogany dresser, you know, like those like big.

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Speaker 5: Kind dude, I'm familiar.

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Speaker 2: Fun fact, I called DIBs on my grandfather's mahogany. Yes, Sir,

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Speaker 2: I was like, hey, can I have that? When you

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Speaker 2: pass away? He's like, sure, is.

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Speaker 5: There anything in that?

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Speaker 2: No it's not. He's still alive. No, I don't.

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Speaker 4: For now.

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Speaker 5: Sorry.

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Speaker 3: But it was heavy as heck and smelled like mothballs.

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Speaker 3: While I was trying to pull the drawers out to

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Speaker 3: make it lighter, I noticed one of them didn't sit right.

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Speaker 2: Oo.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so there's something spooky in there. By the way,

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Speaker 3: we get there, we go ye the girlfriends in the audience, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we give good advice, goofily about the relationships that matter most.

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Speaker 3: These are true stories submit a dress from around the internet. So,

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Speaker 3: but we don't have all the answers, so let us

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Speaker 3: know what you think with your your thumbs, you know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 4: Question.

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Speaker 2: At some point, I'm Riley.

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Speaker 3: And I'm saying I'm okay, story time, all right, so

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Speaker 3: let's get back into the story. So there was a

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Speaker 3: false bottom made a thin plywood that looks slightly newer

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Speaker 3: than the rest of the wood.

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Speaker 5: Do you think he bought it like that or did

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Speaker 5: he make it?

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Speaker 3: I think he might have bought it like that, you know, no,

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Speaker 3: you think he made it.

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Speaker 6: He went to the store and he said, please give

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Speaker 6: me your finest.

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Speaker 4: The finest Brazilian Like.

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Speaker 2: A false bottom is like if your dresser's four inches deep,

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Speaker 2: then it'll be three inches deep.

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Speaker 3: It's like put things underneath their gold or something. You

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Speaker 2: No, I don't, not at all.

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Speaker 5: But his figure looks pretty nice.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So then it was customized.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay. I pried it open headscrewdriver and found several

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Speaker 3: thick envelopes stuffed with twenty and fifty dollars bills.

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Speaker 5: Oh day, that's a lot of money.

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Speaker 3: Maybe seven k All right, what's your guess how much

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Speaker 3: money is in there?

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Speaker 6: Ah?

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Speaker 5: I think I think maybe five thousand.

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Speaker 4: I think cool.

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Speaker 6: Five?

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think? Put numbers?

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Speaker 3: Numbers up?

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Speaker 4: How much is in there? I see? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Ten tran Okay, well I was.

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Speaker 3: Saying like a million dollars, A million dollars, one mill,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, okay, okay, all right.

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Speaker 3: I counted it twice in the garage. So this is

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Speaker 3: the secret money in the dresser from the dead guy.

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Speaker 5: Ope, he's in the dark shuffling through money.

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Speaker 3: Counted it twice in the garage. It was exactly five thousand,

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Speaker 5: I think I was the closest.

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Speaker 2: What did you say?

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Speaker 4: I said? Okay, yeah, that was very did she sit

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Speaker 2: Seven?

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Speaker 3: Wrong? Not life changing money for some people, but for me,

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Speaker 3: it was a massive relief because my credit card debt

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Speaker 3: has been suff cating me for a year. So this

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Speaker 3: would get Ope out of credit card debt.

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Speaker 6: This feels like the Office episode for Michaels to decide

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Speaker 6: how to use the money.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I just watched that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, pausing right here? Yes, so Op was tasked with

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Speaker 3: like moving this mahogany like dresser because their family member

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Speaker 3: passed away. Should Ope tell their squabbling relatives about what

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Speaker 3: they found immediate now or what.

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Speaker 4: Do you think? Tell?

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Speaker 3: Tell her no, thumbs up, thumbs down down, Red hair

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Speaker 3: says no, kid, big conkaid says no. Everyone says no,

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Speaker 3: big ga on the back.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, everyone says no.

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Speaker 3: I think I think no because of how much squabbling

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Speaker 3: there has been, maybe like sneaky redistribution of the wealth.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you give them, you pay for a coffee, you

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Speaker 6: pay everyone. Let's oh, let's go get you know, Starbucks,

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Speaker 6: And they're like, oh no, no, no, it's on me.

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Speaker 4: No, it's on me.

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Speaker 4: Why are you so uh? Are you so generously?

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Speaker 5: I thought you credit card debt?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? All right, well anymore. I did not say a

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Speaker 3: Later that night, my mom called me crime because her

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Speaker 5: Okay, this is the hobbit.

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Speaker 6: This is all the sacks, filled baggins like stealing spoons.

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Speaker 5: Full build. They were all stealing scoons.

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Speaker 3: They were sneaking baggages. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Fun fact if they sell the dresser. It's around two

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Speaker 3: Oh, so the dresser might be the mahogany dresser might

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Speaker 5: Dresser, So we could get to seven K.

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Speaker 3: We could get the seven K if you sell the dresser.

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Speaker 3: I just sat there listening to her event while I

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Speaker 3: I thought a tiny bit of guilt for about five

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Speaker 3: he was actually alive. None of them visited him for years,

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Speaker 3: but now they're acting like grave robbers. Since then, I've

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Speaker 3: still in a group chat, sending essays about who deserves

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Speaker 3: about this, but before we get into it, what do

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Speaker 4: What OP did so?

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Speaker 3: OPI found money in this mahogany dresser after their grandfather

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Speaker 3: think that Op made the right decision in keeping the money.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like if you don't like your family and

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Speaker 3: the family wasn't good to the grandfather.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and they didn't like him.

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Speaker 2: Here's my question. Yeah, how was OP to the grandfather

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Speaker 2: it kind of like, uh seemed cross? Yeah right, I

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Speaker 3: I feel it doesn't seem like Op he knew her

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean I feel like if she introduced that money

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Speaker 3: into the group chat, it would have been pandemonium.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Whoever was caretaking him for the longest time, I

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Speaker 4: Secretly was taking care of people.

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Speaker 2: Oh man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we got a little bit more of this story.

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Speaker 3: So it is weird how much easier it is to

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Speaker 3: Grandpa would have liked it this way.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: He hated the bickering more than anything. I'm currently sitting

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Speaker 3: paid for with his furniture money, while reading another frantic

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Speaker 3: text from my aunt about a missing decorative. The Ruggs

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Speaker 3: He says it is a fair trade for the back pain.

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Speaker 3: They can keep the plates and the drama. And that's

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Speaker 3: And we are about to get into this next story.

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Speaker 5: Sure.

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Speaker 6: My brother in law invited me and my husband to

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Speaker 6: a spicy party at their father's birthday.

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Speaker 4: What kind of spicy party are we talking?

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Speaker 3: We'll find out.

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Speaker 5: This happened yesterday.

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Speaker 6: We went to my in law's house to celebrate my

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Speaker 5: The entire family was there, including my brother in law

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Speaker 6: They're in an open marriage and they're part of a

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Speaker 6: swingers club.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, they're very off strong.

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Speaker 5: They're very open about that.

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Speaker 4: Oh I mean as they should be.

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Speaker 6: I never had an issue with that, and neither did

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Speaker 6: my husband. But we never had an interest in that

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Speaker 6: my brother in law, after making some small talk, told

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Speaker 6: me that he was organizing a small, spicy party with

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Speaker 6: a couple of friends and they needed two more people.

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Speaker 5: They wanted his brother.

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Speaker 2: Hey, keep it.

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Speaker 4: In the family, dude, Ah, they're not blood related.

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Speaker 5: They're blood related the in law.

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Speaker 6: Oh, he's brother in law, so Opie's husband brother.

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Speaker 2: This is weird.

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Speaker 4: This is weird, super weird.

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Speaker 5: Me and his brother were the perfect couple for it.

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Speaker 6: Apparently, I never in my life felt so uncomfortable as

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Speaker 6: I did in that moment. I would never ask that

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Speaker 6: if you said him, wow, Sophia, I'm not that open, Yes,

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Speaker 6: this is my brother. I thought that maybe he was joking,

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Speaker 6: Interested, but he just said to keep an open mind,

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Speaker 5: Talk to my husband before giving an answer.

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Speaker 6: By the way, this comes from Unusual Insect And if

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you for joining us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you for going.

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Speaker 5: So we've got we've got a doozy of the story.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, wait, can you remind me of all the characters

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Speaker 3: really quick? We got Opie, Okay, we got Opie, Opie's husband,

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Speaker 3: Opie's husband, Opie's husband's brother, Opie's husband's brother, her brother

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Speaker 5: Yeah, her brother in law. And that's it.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I guess also the father who's birth that.

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Speaker 3: They're asking this ut and the father So Opie's husband's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, kind of like uncle Sam, I want.

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Speaker 4: You, I want you open relationship.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you understand everything, Okay, I understand it.

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Speaker 4: It is concerning.

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Speaker 5: It is concerning.

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Speaker 6: That's true, it could be more common, yeah, but we

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Speaker 4: Oh, we all know, do we do?

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Speaker 5: We all know? Shout it out? We can't. Alabama. We

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Speaker 6: But we got more story after that, I just avoided

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Speaker 3: I mean, you're trying to bring the family together there,

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Speaker 6: Though right now, yeah, I don't think anyone heard it

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Speaker 6: There wasn't any alcohol around the house since my father

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Speaker 5: Blame the situation on my brother in law being a

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Speaker 4: No, he was right on.

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Speaker 3: He was completely sober, completely sober, and he was like,

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Speaker 3: I know what.

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Speaker 5: I want, and I want you.

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Speaker 3: Think drunk drunk drunk thoughts are sober. No, drunk actions

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Speaker 5: Yeh, yeah, there we go. But sober thoughts are also sober.

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Speaker 4: Sober thoughts are also sober thoughts.

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Speaker 6: I still haven't told my husband about it because I

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Speaker 5: That would be the first person I told. Yeah, immediately, they.

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Speaker 3: I wonder, Okay, wait, conspiracy theory. Okay, I'm a husband

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Speaker 5: I hope not. That's even worse.

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Speaker 3: But they both me away, but like maybe, like that's

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Speaker 4: Swap it. Yeah exactly.

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Speaker 5: I really hope not. They both really have a relationship.

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Speaker 5: Due to some conflicts in.

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Speaker 3: The past, they barely have a relationship, and they're.

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Speaker 6: Like, oh, that'll come on in please, I want to.

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Speaker 5: It's like, I just I just missed being close to

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Speaker 5: my brother. This is the only way.

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Speaker 6: And I said very clearly that we weren't interested. So

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Speaker 6: that should be enough, right, And we do have some

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Speaker 3: Update, oh an update.

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Speaker 5: But what do you think do we tell a husband immediately?

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Speaker 3: Do we tell husband we got thumbs up?

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Speaker 2: We got not?

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Speaker 4: Do we tell husband?

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Speaker 6: Do we tell husband we have our name that says okay, story.

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Speaker 4: That says okay, story time.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so cool.

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Speaker 4: You Yeah, I mean I think we for sure, we

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Speaker 5: I would have run. I would have run, not I.

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Speaker 3: Mean also, I feel like this does a reparable damage

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Speaker 3: When you come back from being like, oh yeah, come

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Speaker 4: A little awkward.

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Speaker 5: I want you to come over.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you definitely tell the brother.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I think so too. I think that's the only way.

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Speaker 6: But let's see what these commenters say.

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Speaker 5: But if it's just completely try new experiences.

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Speaker 2: They post this in r slash Swingers Club, I'm like.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, guys, I think it could be cool.

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Speaker 6: Rose Day says, why wouldn't you tell your husband? And

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Speaker 6: OPI responds, I don't want to create another fight between

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Speaker 6: him and his brother, especially after three years of peace. Yes,

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Speaker 6: we had everything changed when the fire Nation asked to

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Speaker 6: be a part of.

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Speaker 3: Their rough relationship.

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Speaker 2: That's on the brother in law though.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not your fault.

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Speaker 2: You should have kept the peace.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like also keeping this information away from

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Speaker 3: your husband could potentially.

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Speaker 4: Cause in your relationship.

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Speaker 3: Protect the relationship that's working, over the relationship that wants

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Speaker 3: to open it to other relationships.

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Speaker 6: True brother in law could go to your husband say hey,

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Speaker 6: I asked your wife to be a part of our

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Speaker 4: And husband? No? Yeah, why she didn't mean it for me?

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Speaker 4: What she doing? What else is she keeping from me?

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Speaker 6: But we do have an update months later, oh two

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think all right, just Devil's Advocate told husband

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Speaker 3: and they've had a great time at a little couple O.

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Speaker 5: Brothers are closer than ever.

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Speaker 3: Brothers are like romy listen, remis.

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Speaker 5: Oh, they did started Rome, they did this, they did things. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: they did.

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Speaker 4: That, they did that.

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Speaker 5: They were doing that. Yeah, but we do have an update,

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Speaker 5: so let's get into it.

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Speaker 6: I decided to give an update since we finally reached

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Speaker 5: The story here. Okay, good listen to our advice.

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Speaker 4: Shout out op for doing the right thing.

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Speaker 6: We've got some claps in the audience because I was

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Speaker 6: that my husband was livid. I've never seen him.

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Speaker 5: Like that before.

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Speaker 4: Really.

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Speaker 6: After a lot of talking, I ended up learning a

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Speaker 5: To keep things short. Brother in law is.

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Speaker 6: A huge a hole who has ruined relationships for my

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Speaker 3: So this brother is probably pulling stuff like this all

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Speaker 5: He's just asking the most out of pocket stuff.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I wouldn't be surprised if his brother has

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Speaker 3: stolen girlfriends from oh He's husband.

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Speaker 2: Before I could see them, Yeah, it was like, oh, you.

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Speaker 4: Want to join what I got going on here?

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Speaker 6: He's like, he's just adding that everyone in the spicy

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like, you know, like Akira, where they just

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Speaker 5: I think, so.

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Speaker 4: Just absorb.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like he gets all of their powers. His family,

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Speaker 6: by the way, always chalked it up to sibling rivalry

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Speaker 3: So I don't believe rivalry. He's just stealing girlfriends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if that's sibling hate.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, what happened after my husband called brother in law

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Speaker 5: Nice?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's boy man.

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Speaker 5: Boundaries.

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Speaker 4: Boy man knows boundaries.

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Speaker 6: He only wanted him to apologize to me for dragging

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Speaker 5: Was just joke and I should be able to take

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Speaker 4: It was not a joke.

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Speaker 5: That was not a joke.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he hung up on us, and that was that

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Speaker 5: Who was very angry.

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Speaker 4: Oh what angry? Who?

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Speaker 6: I don't know?

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Speaker 5: Brother in law.

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Speaker 6: I told her and my father in law what had happened,

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Speaker 6: of it. So mother in law was calling to say

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Speaker 6: to be invited to family gatherings anymore until everything was solved.

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Speaker 6: So everyone is being bent. So it's brother in law

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Speaker 6: and Ope. They're all like, you're both part of that.

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Speaker 4: You not know the context?

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Speaker 5: No, she doesn't care.

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Speaker 4: That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's like when you get pulled into the principal's

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Speaker 3: It's like I was saying, like in New York, my

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Speaker 3: you both, you know what.

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Speaker 6: Equally, Yeah, never leave the bodega store when you're angry.

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Speaker 6: I told my husband about the call, and he was

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Speaker 6: I told him not to bother and that it would

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Speaker 6: the pregnancy passed. Who Yeah, whenever you bring a nude

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Speaker 3: Grand baby effect is crazy, it really is.

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Speaker 2: It brings the worst out of people, sometimes the best.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I talked to this guy on the train and

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Speaker 4: He's a grand grandfather now, like.

455
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,720
Speaker 5: I used to commit crimes all the time.

456
00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:56,199
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then my grandbaby came into the world and

457
00:19:56,240 --> 00:20:02,320
Speaker 3: I reformed. He really liked his grandbaby videos of sweet Yeah.

458
00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 6: He only wanted to make sure that we knew this

459
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,399
Speaker 6: because he didn't want us showing up to ruin everyone's

460
00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:07,000
Speaker 6: good time.

461
00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:07,919
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

462
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,439
Speaker 6: Feels like he didn't understand anything that happened. But we

463
00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 6: got a little bit left of this story, any final fun.

464
00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,119
Speaker 2: I thought the approach that we're gonna do with the

465
00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: brothers is you're both out of it. Then they would

466
00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:19,920
Speaker 2: reach out to OPI like, ah, you guys are fine.

467
00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:21,840
Speaker 2: You guys can come back into the family, get it.

468
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,200
Speaker 2: But it just shows how backwards his family is.

469
00:20:25,359 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a little like golden child syndrome with the

470
00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:30,400
Speaker 3: brother I.

471
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:32,080
Speaker 5: Mean, it seems like they let the brother in law

472
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:33,200
Speaker 5: get away with a lot.

473
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 3: O literally stealing girlfriends for eons. It seems like a're

474
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:37,960
Speaker 3: ruining relationships.

475
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 4: Yeah.

476
00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,720
Speaker 3: Definitely, Uh, definitely letting them get away with a lot.

477
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've seen a common trade of guys where

478
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:48,040
Speaker 2: they'll do something super out of pocket and they're like, oh,

479
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,280
Speaker 2: it's just a joke, just a joke. But every just

480
00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:52,680
Speaker 2: jokes got a little truth to it.

481
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:53,120
Speaker 4: That's true.

482
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:54,840
Speaker 5: Every good joke has some truth in it.

483
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:56,160
Speaker 4: Every joke has a little joke.

484
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:58,520
Speaker 5: Yeah inside that joke. It's kind of a joke.

485
00:20:59,480 --> 00:20:59,800
Speaker 3: Russian.

486
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 4: Yeah.

487
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:05,360
Speaker 5: I think it's grand Yeah.

488
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:08,280
Speaker 3: And it's a little grandma doll. It's Grandma's inside of Grandma's.

489
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 5: I think it's something with an M.

490
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 6: We have a little bit left to this story, though,

491
00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 6: me and my husband ended up laughing about it later

492
00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,240
Speaker 6: because it was so absurd. But I noticed that it

493
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:19,640
Speaker 6: has taken a toll in my husband's mood, and I'm

494
00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:22,520
Speaker 6: debating suggesting therapy for him because I feel like there's

495
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 6: a lot he doesn't feel comfortable telling me. We're going

496
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,240
Speaker 6: to spend Christmas with my parents, and I hope my

497
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:29,560
Speaker 6: husband will be able to tune out from this entire

498
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,160
Speaker 6: situation and have a good time.

499
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 5: And edit.

500
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,280
Speaker 6: My husband is aware of this post and he will

501
00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:36,720
Speaker 6: read it in his own time. Right now, we will

502
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 6: be focusing on the holidays and he would rather deal

503
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 6: with it when celebrations are over.

504
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,280
Speaker 5: Thank you everyone once, don't blame them. That's it.

505
00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 3: It kind of feels like it is a little unresolved.

506
00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 3: I'm like not super happy with that ending it.

507
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:51,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, we don't know if they actually because they still

508
00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:52,840
Speaker 6: do have an open relationship.

509
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 5: The brother in law. We don't know anything else about that.

510
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 2: Oh is it his kid?

511
00:21:57,280 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 5: Who's kid?

512
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 2: Brother in law? He's like, oh, watch pregnant, whose kid

513
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:01,440
Speaker 2: is it?

514
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's kind of a lottery.

515
00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lottery. It's like this kid is it.

516
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:11,680
Speaker 3: It's like Mama Mia, Mama Mia, Yah me Dad's Yeah.

517
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,160
Speaker 2: Savannah's favorite movie by the way.

518
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:14,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, she hates really Mama.

519
00:22:14,680 --> 00:22:15,200
Speaker 4: She hates me.

520
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, she hates it.

521
00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 4: She hate Mama.

522
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 5: She thinks it doesn't make sense.

523
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 2: It's like, why should I watch a movie for three

524
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,760
Speaker 2: hours and not know who the father is?

525
00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 5: It's true.

526
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:25,160
Speaker 4: Do we ever find out the fall?

527
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,120
Speaker 5: No, they leave it a secret.

528
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 4: I mean they have DNA tests.

529
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 5: It's true.

530
00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,040
Speaker 3: You won twenty three and me tests away from Mama

531
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 3: Mia just being imploded.

532
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 4: True, Yeah, but.

533
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:38,600
Speaker 3: We got one more story before this episode implodes.

534
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 4: You're reading it, I'm reading all you. Yeah, it's all you, baby.

535
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 4: Let's give it up for will Son.

536
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:51,919
Speaker 2: Look shots, Oh boy, here we go. My nephew's friend

537
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 2: tracked me down and asked me out, whoa.

538
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 4: A little stalker? And uh and that's the situations.

539
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 2: Okay, we're about get the ages my friend.

540
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 4: Oh nephew, yikes.

541
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,840
Speaker 2: A few months ago, my family and I, thirty one female,

542
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 2: went out to watch a movie and then have dinner together.

543
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 2: That included my sister and my nephew. Two of my

544
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 2: nephew's friends tagged along, so we got like four people.

545
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, they were.

546
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:22,200
Speaker 2: Friendly and nothing seemed out of the ordinary. Two weeks later,

547
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 2: one of those friends, John sixteen male.

548
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 3: Oh oh eight friends as a child.

549
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,200
Speaker 2: That child showed up on my doorstep and asked if

550
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 2: he could come in. I got a bad vibe and

551
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 2: politely asked him to leave. For context. I live alone

552
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,879
Speaker 2: with my eleven year old daughter, and a virtual stranger

553
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 2: had dropped by at her home unannounced.

554
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 3: Oh yikes, that's really weird.

555
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 5: Did we get the address?

556
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: I looked at the camera and saw he was holding

557
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: flowers and other stuff.

558
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 5: That's nice. All that's nice and early creepy.

559
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 3: Way, yeah, chivalry.

560
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:04,679
Speaker 2: I figured this was just a dumb kid with a

561
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,440
Speaker 2: crush who thought he could woo an adult. I asked

562
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 2: him twice to please leave, but he wouldn't, saying he

563
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,880
Speaker 2: just had to see me and tell me how much

564
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 2: he loves me. Oh, he even made a comment about

565
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 2: me being a single mom.

566
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 5: I love single mom so much.

567
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 3: I watched the Yeah for Stacy's mom, and that's my dream.

568
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 2: I told him I was calling the cops, and when

569
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: I said that, he bolted man. The cops later came,

570
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,720
Speaker 2: took my statement and circled around to make sure he

571
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,080
Speaker 2: wasn't still nearby. I told him that, yes, he was

572
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 2: just a kid, but I barely knew him, and he

573
00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:50,160
Speaker 2: had tracked down my house and wouldn't leave until threatened.

574
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from Rowdy Throwaway and if

575
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: you asbmit your own stories, go to the r slash

576
00:24:55,960 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 2: okay storytime subreddit. I'm Riley, I'm Sam and going to

577
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: read this story goofully with our advice. If you guys

578
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 2: would like to add anything down below, please add it.

579
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: And we're here at VidCon right now. How are we

580
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 2: feeling about this? From SCOTL one to five? How op

581
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:14,880
Speaker 2: handled it?

582
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,399
Speaker 5: If a sixteen year old five?

583
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, great, great, he didn't commit a crime,

584
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: but the cops still yeah, yeah, he didn't commit a crime,

585
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 2: but the cops still dropped by his parents' house to

586
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 2: give him a warning about not leaving private property. When

587
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 2: told I didn't ask them to do that, they took

588
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: the info I gave. I called my sister to find

589
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,919
Speaker 2: out his last name and who his parents were, and

590
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,919
Speaker 2: I just relayed that to the cops since they were asking.

591
00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: I only wanted to make sure he was gone. That

592
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 2: visit was on them.

593
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 3: His mom called me, oh bomby mom momb v mom

594
00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 3: single mom versus.

595
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: She first apologized on the behalf of their son for

596
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: making me feel unsafe.

597
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:10,640
Speaker 3: That's good, that's a good mom, good mom, mama alert.

598
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: But then told me I went way over the line

599
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 2: by involving the cops. Oh, that teenage boys having crushes

600
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: is nothing out of the ordinary, that this could ruin

601
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,919
Speaker 2: his life, and that I should have remembered he's just

602
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 2: a kid.

603
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 5: Okay, Well I don't think the police actually.

604
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: Did any Yeah, it doesn't seem like the police did anything.

605
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 3: Like it's all context, you know. I feel like a

606
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 3: kid shows up with flowers and is like I love you,

607
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: and they're like no, and then maybe does something weird

608
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 3: or like tries the barge in the door, then like

609
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 3: that might be cop calling if it's if it's.

610
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 4: Just like I love you, please, I love you? Yeah right,

611
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:50,439
Speaker 4: I don't know if that's cop worthy.

612
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 5: Sixteen year olds can be tall, though, sixteen.

613
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 3: Year olds can be tall. I'm thinking of a little

614
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 3: shrimp sixteen year old though, Dude.

615
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:57,200
Speaker 5: He's got glasses.

616
00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 3: Yeah.

617
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,239
Speaker 2: My brother is thirteen and he's as tall as I am.

618
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 5: Imagine Riley showing up at your door. That's terrifying.

619
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 2: Let me love you. I need to tell you something,

620
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 2: please please.

621
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,479
Speaker 3: I mean I could see the cop call being like

622
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 3: maybe an overreaction potentially, but you wouldn't intend to do that.

623
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like, who didn't She was like, I'm this skin.

624
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 3: I feel like she could have just threatened the cop

625
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 3: call and not actually called the cops because it seemed

626
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 3: like it seemed like he left when she threatened to call. Yeah,

627
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 3: but I guess what I'm seeing here is like she

628
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 3: threatened to call the cops, yes, then called the cops.

629
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,160
Speaker 4: Kid left, then she like sent the.

630
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 6: Cops to no, no, no, no, she didn't send them. She

631
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 6: just said they said, like who did this?

632
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 5: And she said this, so she so she.

633
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 3: Like reported like she went like through the whole process

634
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 3: of reporting the kid. I think you could have stopped

635
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 3: like one layer earlier. But because there could be like

636
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 3: ramifications on that kid's life if he's being super weird

637
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,479
Speaker 3: and this continues, then I think at warrant's action. But

638
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 3: I think at this point, like you could have stopped

639
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:08,600
Speaker 3: one degree.

640
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, I feel like, yeah, pressing.

641
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 3: Charges he got, he got a warning, So nothing actually happened.

642
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: One of the thought process, like for the kid, Yeah,

643
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 2: you kind of have to be a little because I'd

644
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: be scared that if you know, oh, anytime you get

645
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 2: flowers for a woman and show up at their house,

646
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 2: you can't do that. Ever, I don't want that like discourage.

647
00:28:31,440 --> 00:28:35,919
Speaker 3: Again. Yeah, I mean I think I'm curious how this unfolds.

648
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: I do think nothing actually bad happened to the kid.

649
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 3: He got like a stern warning, which may be deserved,

650
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 3: and maybe there can be context about you can get

651
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 3: flowers for a woman your own age and not stalk them,

652
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 3: and that is what healthy love looks like.

653
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,760
Speaker 2: You think that would be op's responsibility to do that.

654
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 3: No, No, it's a mom's responsibility.

655
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: But mom's responsibility again, Yeah, Okay.

656
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 3: She shouldn't talk to him. He's probably gonna fall in love.

657
00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 2: She paid attention to me.

658
00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

659
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 2: So to top it all off, my sister also told

660
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 2: me I went over the top and that John is

661
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: one of her son's good friends, and that I should

662
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 2: have called her when he wouldn't leave so she could

663
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: have sorted it out. I went with my gut, and

664
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: I don't regret it. That's kind of I see that point.

665
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 5: I don't think OP did anything wrong.

666
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: I don't. Yeah, yeah, I don't think nothing. Actually, if

667
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: something happened to the kid, then maybe if he was

668
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 3: in jail, yeah yeah, But I don't I think.

669
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 5: Do you think Op? Do you guys think?

670
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 4: Yeah?

671
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 3: Do you think did it for the right thing or

672
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 3: the wrong things?

673
00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 4: Yeah? Girlfriend say thumbs up.

674
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 3: Everyone just seems to think OPI did the right thing.

675
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,440
Speaker 4: The cops on the sixteen year old.

676
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 2: So we have an update. Hey, it's Dakota, your favorite

677
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 2: host who is always on track here, and we're going

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00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 2: nephew did give John my home address.

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00:29:55,280 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 3: Oh nephew, he's just trying to be a wingman. Bro,

682
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Speaker 3: do you still love these flowers? She's a single mom.

683
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 3: She needs a strong man, like six year old man. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: till you're seventeen.

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00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 6: Somebody tells me that I look so and strong.

686
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 4: Wow, you've grown so much for you're so big.

687
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 5: Tell her you drink milks.

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00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 2: Oh gosh. My sister and my nephew stopped by my house,

689
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 2: and my sister basically brought him along so he could

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Speaker 2: explain an apologizing person. Okay, probably by the year too. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's come on, ye, John.

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Speaker 3: Brings more flowers. I'm sorry for not confessing my love in.

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Speaker 4: The right way.

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Speaker 3: This nephew, nephew Okay.

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Speaker 2: John's mom had complained to another mom in their group

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Speaker 2: about how John's friends were the reason he did something inappropriate.

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Speaker 5: Classic.

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Speaker 2: My sister found out and got my nephew to confess. Apparently,

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Speaker 2: John apparently kept asking my nephew about me after the

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Speaker 2: night we met, and told them and his friends about

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Speaker 2: his crush.

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Speaker 5: Hey, what you're on doing?

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Speaker 6: You're on.

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00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: She's got any man in her life. My nephew and

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00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 2: his friends egged him on to ask me out. One

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00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: of them asked, when was the last time I had

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Speaker 2: a boyfriend? And my nephew answered without thinking, saying, two years.

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Speaker 5: How does okay?

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00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 8: All right?

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00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 4: I'd have been two years? Is that right?

711
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,560
Speaker 5: He's really in tune to your love life.

712
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 6: I don't think I would know the details of my aunt's.

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00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 4: Life like.

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00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 2: I do remember my uncle's last girlfriend because I hug.

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00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 5: Around her, and so what if he's seeing other girls?

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00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: I would know that though, Yeah, like dates and stuff y'all.

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00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 2: Then the group told John he had nothing to lose

718
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: and that I'm probably wanting anybody to ask me out.

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Speaker 5: That's so teenage boy. Oh she's alone, she's so she's

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Speaker 5: probably so sad.

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Speaker 3: Did she your life?

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Speaker 5: Single women are just depressed.

723
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 2: Have you ever seen have you seen missus Robinson?

724
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's waiting waiting for a young, strapping young man play.

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Speaker 5: Guy on the graduate.

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Speaker 3: No, dusty, dustin hassle.

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00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 5: Dusting off and there we go. We got there.

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Speaker 2: My nephew emphasized that he didn't think John would actually

729
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 2: do it, that it was just a stupid dare, and

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00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 2: they kept pressuring him to hand over my address so

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Speaker 2: John could drop off some flowers. He said, John stopping

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00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 2: by my house was never part of the plan. Well,

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Speaker 2: how many dares did you do. It was a triple dog.

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Speaker 5: There did triple dog.

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Speaker 3: He's not going to back down for a triple dog

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Speaker 3: there he Honestly, I do have to give props to

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Speaker 3: the kid for I mean, it's not easy asking a woman.

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Speaker 4: Of any age.

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00:32:55,040 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but single matter, with hours at night, he probably

740
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 3: like the hardest level. That's the hardest level. I mean,

741
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 3: you should not do that, to be clear, don't show

742
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 3: up at people's houses and stock them.

743
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 4: But there's a little bit of courage there. Courage. Yeah, yeah,

744
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Speaker 4: he's got the cahollness.

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Speaker 2: My nephew kept apologizing and saying he didn't think it

746
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 2: would turn into such a big deal. I was having

747
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Speaker 2: none of it. I let him have it, telling him

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Speaker 2: that handing mount my address to people I should yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, throw throw them under the bus.

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00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know put me and my daughter in danger.

751
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 2: That he's old enough to know better, and that he

752
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: acted thoughtlessly.

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Speaker 6: True true, But he's also sixteen, so they don't have

754
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Speaker 6: many thoughts.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but how like he's old enough to know better?

756
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Speaker 3: Is her flowers? He paid for those flowers, played for

757
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 3: those flowers.

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Speaker 4: But it's harder.

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00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 5: He's enough to go to jail.

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00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,600
Speaker 4: He's old is he old enough to go to jail

761
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 4: well like juv juv.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so in for two years, then its record's clean.

763
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, fine, he's fine.

764
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 2: I told him he would ever house it for me again,

765
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 2: and that I don't know what else you're gonna invite her. Yeah,

766
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: And I told him I couldn't really accept his apology

767
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 2: because I don't even know if it's the truth. First

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Speaker 2: I was told that he was shocked and angry at

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Speaker 2: what John did, and now I'm being told it was

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Speaker 2: a stupid prank between boys, so I can't be sure

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Speaker 2: what to believe. That's a good point.

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Speaker 5: He was shocked and angry when he heard a little

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Speaker 5: bit of both.

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Speaker 3: It's probably like like he does have a crush and

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00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 3: he was there. It's like it's like when you have

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Speaker 3: a crush at school and like, oh, like go ask.

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00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:33,840
Speaker 4: Her, oud go do it?

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00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 3: I double dog dare And she says it was a

779
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 3: joke anyway, I just want.

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Speaker 1: It was joke.

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00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. When I was done, I asked my sister if

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00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: she thought my nephew was telling the truth this time,

784
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:50,800
Speaker 2: and she said he was. I then pointed out that

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00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:54,839
Speaker 2: this didn't excuse John for trespassing and refusing to leave

786
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,240
Speaker 2: when told so. So, while I'm angry at my nephew

787
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:02,240
Speaker 2: for handing out my address, I still think there's something

788
00:35:02,360 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 2: wrong with John A little bit left here? Oh boy,

789
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 2: what's wrong with John?

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00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:08,480
Speaker 5: John's got something.

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00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 4: John's got something, you know what.

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00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 3: I think John's a sixteen year old kid that got

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00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:13,399
Speaker 3: triple dog there.

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00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 4: We've all been there, and I think.

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00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:18,399
Speaker 5: John had all the consequences he needs.

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00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think, honestly, OPI handled it well.

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00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 5: I agree.

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00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think John is like learning from his lesson.

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00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 4: A little bit.

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00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 4: I think I think we've done a good job.

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00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 6: I think everyone's received the punishment they needed for the

803
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:30,239
Speaker 6: age that they are.

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00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:32,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

805
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: Did in elementary school, did any of your classmates right

806
00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: crush messages to your teachers?

807
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 5: I don't know.

808
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 4: I have any haughty teacher.

809
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 5: I don't think we had any haughty teachers.

810
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 3: I had one haughty teacher in high school.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,280
Speaker 2: Did anybody like ride alone him haughty teachers?

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00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 3: Haughty teacher?

815
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 4: No, I don't.

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00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 5: I don't think we had any haughty teachers. We had

817
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 5: a lot of really old nuns.

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00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, what are you talking about?

819
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 5: The beautiful they're stunning for their age.

820
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a ton of those flowers in elementary school.

821
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,280
Speaker 2: It was like every other month it would happen.

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00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,280
Speaker 5: You had a hotty teacher.

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00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeahs yeah, yeah, Wait what you've.

824
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 5: Told us all about her special.

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00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:14,000
Speaker 3: That was actually one of the first things that ever

826
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 3: said the podcast.

827
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, my justslectic teacher.

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00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was trying to teach me how to read,

829
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 6: but I couldn't pay attention.

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00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is true. I could not pay attention that

831
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,399
Speaker 2: she would like, and that's why I still can't really

832
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: read these days.

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00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 5: He's overcoming, all.

834
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,720
Speaker 2: Right, a little bit left here this time. My sister

835
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:35,440
Speaker 2: didn't give me and the boys will be boys crap.

836
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 2: She agreed, and said she's bothered by how John's mom

837
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 2: still is making excuses for him. I am, wow, that's

838
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,359
Speaker 2: super weird. I asked, if at least the kid has

839
00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 2: moved on and will leave me alone. And if you

840
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: said that from what he heard, John's dad but the

841
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: fear of God in him, so he likely won't bother

842
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: me again.

843
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,439
Speaker 3: That's good.

844
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 6: And John's God, the Holy Trinity of fear.

845
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 2: He still asked about me, but my nephew has told

846
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: him to drop him.

847
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 5: Hows she doing? Do still think of me?

848
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 2: Do you think a decade from now he might try

849
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,439
Speaker 2: a him He's like, oh, my first love.

850
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe I don't know.

851
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 3: Each other in like a grocery store, Like it's.

852
00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 4: Me John, Oh you've grown up.

853
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 2: Wow, you're so hot.

854
00:37:28,840 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 5: I'm so old now.

855
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 2: So if anything else, I can believe my nephew is

856
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 2: angry at John for dragging him into this and getting

857
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: him in trouble too. Yes, I don't think he's protecting

858
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 2: his friend or trying to soften what happened. It's been

859
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 2: over a month since I called the cops on John,

860
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,920
Speaker 2: So I find the timing of this whole thing weird,

861
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 2: and I feel like both my sister and my nephew

862
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 2: know more. But at least I found out how that

863
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,280
Speaker 2: boy knew where to find me and that he likely

864
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 2: won't try by the same stunt twice. That's enough for me.

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00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, wow, it's not for me.

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Speaker 4: It's enough for me.

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Speaker 3: I think that is where this story and this episode ends.

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Speaker 4: Twins get up to hijik Yeah.

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Speaker 5: They solve the divorce.

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Speaker 3: And have been living in an apartment together with a

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Speaker 3: roommate ever since. My sister doesn't have a steady job

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Speaker 3: at the moment, So I've been handling her portion of

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Speaker 3: the rent on the apartment.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you're basically the same person, so one job, so

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Speaker 5: they do it.

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Speaker 4: They just swap really fast. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: A few weeks ago, she approached me and told me

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00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:45,479
Speaker 3: that she found a source of income and would likely

904
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 3: be able to start paying for rents. Soons, let's go,

905
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 3: let's go big things. We love when we find independent

906
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 3: sources of income.

907
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: What's the job.

908
00:39:54,239 --> 00:39:56,640
Speaker 3: It's a job, it's a job. It's probably a job, right, Well,

909
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:58,359
Speaker 3: what do you think the job is, Sofia, what.

910
00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:58,879
Speaker 2: Kind of job?

911
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 5: What got a job? I definitely didn't hear the title.

912
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, the title probably an accountants, probably, I don't know

913
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 3: whatever their job.

914
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 2: I was thinking she was like the manager of some

915
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: kind and she was handing out jobs.

916
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, she's her own boss.

917
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 3: Well let's see you or go. So I didn't ask

918
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 3: too many questions when she told me this because I

919
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 3: was just happy.

920
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 4: That she finally found a job.

921
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 5: I'd be too.

922
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like when I was happy when Sophia found

923
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 3: a job after college. And wait, yeah, I found on

924
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,880
Speaker 3: this podcast. So I was just happy she found a job. However,

925
00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 3: I was talking to our roommate two nights ago and

926
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: found out that my sister started an only account and

927
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,600
Speaker 3: has been selling pictures of herself.

928
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:52,240
Speaker 6: Okay, now we've arrived with the problem.

929
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 5: They are twins.

930
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 4: They are twins. I don't even think about that.

931
00:40:56,719 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, they share a face and everything else.

932
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:04,920
Speaker 2: Ye identical, identical. We don't know if they're identical or fraternal.

933
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,640
Speaker 2: Ya yaye, ya yay.

934
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 5: That's not good. That's not good.

935
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 4: That's crazy. Now.

936
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 3: I'm a very positive and forward thinking person. I have

937
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 3: nothing against spicy workers. But she is my identical twin.

938
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 2: There we go.

939
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: Okay, we look exactly alike in almost every way. I

940
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 3: personally do not feel comfortable sharing my body online to strangers.

941
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 5: Fair valid.

942
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 3: On top of that, I am trying to start a

943
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,920
Speaker 3: professional career for myself, and I don't want employer slash

944
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 3: coworkers to find this and think of me.

945
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 4: That and think it is me because she's probably going

946
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 4: under like a stage name or something, and like.

947
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 5: How many employers are really gonna believe?

948
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 3: I swear my evil twin, evil twin by evil sex twin.

949
00:41:56,920 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 3: I confronted my sister when you got home later that

950
00:41:59,360 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 3: night and told her that I will not be speaking

951
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 3: to her until she deletes the account, and that she

952
00:42:04,080 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 3: would have to move out of the apartment. She was

953
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 3: pretty mad about this and stormed out of the apartment

954
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,800
Speaker 3: ended up sleeping at a mutual friend's house for the

955
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 3: last two nights. I've talked to her roommate and some

956
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,720
Speaker 3: friends about this, and they think I overreacted.

957
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 4: Am I d a hole here? And we have an

958
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:19,840
Speaker 4: update seven months later?

959
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 3: Oh boy, but Riley Sophia not at all.

960
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 2: Well, let's get some thumbs up. Is she overreacting her line?

961
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 5: I feel like it's yeah, we got thumbed down, not over.

962
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 3: Okay, question for you if they were friends, yes, would

963
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 3: it be different?

964
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 5: Well, what do you mean?

965
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,399
Speaker 3: Like, all right, let's say it was like, didn't look

966
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 3: Riley and I were living together, and Riley's like, damn,

967
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: I'm a short on rent. I gotta I gotta do something,

968
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 3: starts shaking his booty online.

969
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 6: I don't think there's any problem. Oh, he has a

970
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 6: problem with the concept. She just has a problem with

971
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 6: it being.

972
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 4: But it's not her.

973
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 3: Just because you look like someone doesn't like I feel

974
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 3: like she has. You know, you have autonomy over your

975
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 3: own body. You should be able to do what you want.

976
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: Just because you look like someone else doesn't mean that

977
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 3: you like you're gonna take away or her source, her

978
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 3: only source of income just because she looks like someone else.

979
00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 2: I think that she disagrees with it, which I mean

980
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 2: it makes sense because like there's more connotations to it

981
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 2: because they're identical Twitter.

982
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 3: So it's like she disagrees with it mostly because it

983
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: looks like her, not because of any ideological difference.

984
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 2: Y yeah, exactly because it looks like her. Because it

985
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 2: might it might like hurt her employment later downline. I

986
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,320
Speaker 2: honestly would like sit down with the system to be like, hey,

987
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: can I help you job search? Can we help like

988
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 2: go together and look for other self at.

989
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 3: It it does actually hurt her employment, that's hardly.

990
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:41,760
Speaker 6: Alternatively, phone, we just do audio audio, You're crazy, instead

991
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 6: of a visual aspect, there's just the audio.

992
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 2: Mommy is a job, but it's just audio.

993
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:49,840
Speaker 4: But I mean I feel like the other option.

994
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, it's like you could either go against

995
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 3: the the force or Barista. I mean, imagine the money

996
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,720
Speaker 3: that could be made if they joined.

997
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 6: No no, no, no, it's.

998
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, I mean I feel it's really tough

999
00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 3: because like, I feel like you should have your bodily autonomy,

1000
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 3: you should be able to do what you want. But

1001
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 3: also it affects Ope's ability to make money in the

1002
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 3: future because she looks the exact.

1003
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 5: Same and O P is paying for everything.

1004
00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, and this is but like, this is the only

1005
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 3: way the twin has of making money.

1006
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 2: No, there's I feel like they could brainstorm other ways.

1007
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 4: How much money would the twin have to be making

1008
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 4: for it to be.

1009
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 6: Okay, a couple like a couple of hundred thousand.

1010
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 3: Okay, a couple hundred thousand dollars it's for me, Okay.

1011
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 4: I mean that is possible.

1012
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: I guess to the point where does not have to

1013
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:52,719
Speaker 2: work and the sister doesn't have to work an.

1014
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, So seven months later, A lot has happened since then,

1015
00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,560
Speaker 3: So I decided to make an update. After reading your comments,

1016
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 3: I decided that I probably took it too far. Although

1017
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 3: I was embarrassed and felt violated, at the end of

1018
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 3: the day, it is her body and not mine, which.

1019
00:45:06,880 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 4: I do agree with.

1020
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:10,160
Speaker 3: Yes, true, just because we look the same does not

1021
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 3: mean I get to have a say, nor should it

1022
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 3: affect a relationship. I do think that's true, but I

1023
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 3: do think also by the same token context, there's like

1024
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 3: there is an effect of the twin putting it out

1025
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 3: in the world on O Pea's ability to make money

1026
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 3: as well, so it's not just an isolated thing. So

1027
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 3: I called her and told her I wanted to talk,

1028
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 3: and we had a really long emotional discussion, and I

1029
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 3: obviously decided not to kick her out as long as

1030
00:45:37,640 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 3: she was able to cover her rank going forward. Then

1031
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 3: COVID happened, and as of June, I no longer have

1032
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 3: a job. I was one of the newest people at

1033
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:46,960
Speaker 3: the company I was working, and so I was the

1034
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 3: first let go.

1035
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 5: Oh so if you didn't even lose her job from.

1036
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 7: Her sister, Yeah, So she just lost COVID the pandemic

1037
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,919
Speaker 7: and in a turn of events, my sister has been

1038
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:02,359
Speaker 7: killing it on her only account wow, and is now

1039
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 7: covering my portion of the events until I am able

1040
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 7: to get back on my feet.

1041
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:08,920
Speaker 4: So thank you for your advice.

1042
00:46:09,000 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 3: I might have ruined my relationship with my sister and

1043
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 3: maybe even have been homeless because of it.

1044
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,680
Speaker 4: What is her of events?

1045
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 2: Wow?

1046
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 4: Wow?

1047
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: I like the part where Opie was helping her at

1048
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 2: first and then yes.

1049
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:23,560
Speaker 4: Now it's down switched.

1050
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: I feel like I kind of stand by what I

1051
00:46:25,200 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 3: said where it's like it is it is not. It's

1052
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 3: you know, there's bodily autonomy there, and just because you

1053
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 3: look like someone doesn't mean that you can control their body.

1054
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 5: And I think that same conclusion.

1055
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:40,720
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, Op now has to go find another job.

1056
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 4: Maybe not it's killing it.

1057
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,439
Speaker 5: I knew the job was in front of her.

1058
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 3: The Yeah, exactly. Maybe it's the job we made along

1059
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:48,399
Speaker 3: the way.

1060
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 2: She might be a person that likes to work. So

1061
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,880
Speaker 2: let's say that she goes out and she gets this employer.

1062
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,920
Speaker 2: How do you tell them, Hey, by the way, my

1063
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 2: sister has this account looks like me, it's not I

1064
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,799
Speaker 2: don't I mean like mention it or no.

1065
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 4: Yeah. And also how do they know, you know, it's.

1066
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 5: Like, hey, well background checks.

1067
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's not under it's not going to be

1068
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 3: under their name. It's going to be like a fake name.

1069
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: With AI stuff coming around, you can like face identify

1070
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 2: social things.

1071
00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 3: But also with AI stuff coming around, you can like oh.

1072
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:22,440
Speaker 4: Yes, face on anything.

1073
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1074
00:47:22,840 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 2: Sure.

1075
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 3: So it's like you're kind of like duel. I don't

1076
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 3: think you have to say anything. Yeah, it's not me

1077
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 3: someone's created that.

1078
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, helps you even more.

1079
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think you might be fine. I

1080
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,319
Speaker 3: think so, I think we're fine. I like where this ended,

1081
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: and I like where this story and this episode ended. Yes,

1082
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 3: so if you love us, make sure to subscribe We

1083
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 3: love you and see it tomorrow.

1084
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 2: All right, So we just got back from VidCon, Sophia,

1085
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 2: can you give us some more context about what we

1086
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 2: were doing at VidCon and what that looked like?

1087
00:47:54,880 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 6: Of course, So we were asked to be speakers at

1088
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 6: VidCon our first year.

1089
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 2: Yes, doing that? Speak your badges?

1090
00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 5: That awesome, very cool. They brought us into this enclosure.

1091
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 3: And picture of this.

1092
00:48:08,640 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I do.

1093
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 2: Could you sit that to me?

1094
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:11,479
Speaker 5: I'll do that later.

1095
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: Okay, they just give speaker badges to anyone these days, huh.

1096
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,720
Speaker 2: No, there were a lot of people there that didn't

1097
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 2: have that.

1098
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, but they put us in a little glass box

1099
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:21,919
Speaker 6: in the convention center.

1100
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 2: We felt like animals at a zoo, It's true.

1101
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 6: And we read for about an hour. We read a

1102
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,959
Speaker 6: bunch of stories and we had a little audience, which

1103
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:32,640
Speaker 6: was really fun. Literally, and you guys are gonna probably

1104
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 6: have already seen all of that footage because this is

1105
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:35,919
Speaker 6: at the end but.

1106
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 5: We want give you one more story.

1107
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and also some context of those stories and why

1108
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:45,360
Speaker 2: you might be like they aren't really at their fullest potential.

1109
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,480
Speaker 2: So Vic Ganigs invited us together, and whenever we got there,

1110
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 2: we didn't really know what was happening. We thought we

1111
00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:52,640
Speaker 2: didn't know if we were gonna be on stage.

1112
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,439
Speaker 5: We thought we were gonna be in a little room

1113
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 5: by ourselves.

1114
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but then we were in a little room,

1115
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,839
Speaker 2: but people were watching us from you know.

1116
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 6: You're in a little room inside a big room, kind

1117
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 6: of a little Russian doll.

1118
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: So while we get there, we say it, we're talking,

1119
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 2: and then we noticed that there's kids in the audience,

1120
00:49:09,160 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 2: a lot of kids, and kids can watch us.

1121
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1122
00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 6: And then we realized that all of our stories, well four,

1123
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,319
Speaker 6: two out of four have something to do with very

1124
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 6: spicy situations.

1125
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,000
Speaker 2: And you remember those you just saw those. First story

1126
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 2: was about a brother that wanted to the party, wanted

1127
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 2: their wife into a brother in law, wanted Opie into

1128
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 2: their spicy party.

1129
00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1130
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 2: And the second one is about a twin who was

1131
00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 2: a spicy worker. Yeah, and it's like, should that twin

1132
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:36,840
Speaker 2: be a spicy worker or not?

1133
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, So we tried to be a little bit more

1134
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:44,440
Speaker 6: family friendly. So if you're like they weren't making there was.

1135
00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:47,319
Speaker 2: A lot of stuff they had they could played with there.

1136
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, and we we didn't lean into it, but we

1137
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,200
Speaker 6: might have. You also might think maybe we leaned into

1138
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 6: it too much.

1139
00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, you like, why are they cringing so hard? Oh

1140
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:57,240
Speaker 2: that's why.

1141
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 5: But yeah, so anyway, let's get into this story.

1142
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we just kind of want to give some context

1143
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 2: of that. I thought it was funny that it was

1144
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 2: hilarious vicoon and brought us back. I had a great time.

1145
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 5: Me too, I had a fun time. It was fun

1146
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 5: put us back in that box.

1147
00:50:09,400 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: Never put me in the box. Fedcond think that's.

1148
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,240
Speaker 2: So safe, you know, like it felt like the box

1149
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 2: is like whenever movies promote things in New York.

1150
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, and they like the Severns people. I felt like

1151
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 5: the Severns people.

1152
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 2: Inside the box whenever Scream they were like hot boxing

1153
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 2: in that box for five hours or something for the

1154
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,040
Speaker 2: movie promotion of Scream seven or something.

1155
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 5: Oh so good.

1156
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 6: Yeah, but we got another story for you, so let's

1157
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 6: get into it. My wife kept making excuses to leave

1158
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 6: me behind.

1159
00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 5: I should have seen the signs.

1160
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 2: Like the one where she did leave you behind.

1161
00:50:39,800 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 6: My thirty three male wife thirty one female, has a

1162
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 6: school reunion in two days time. We've obviously known about

1163
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 6: it for a few months and we were going to

1164
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:51,200
Speaker 6: drive back to her hometown with our three kids, eight female,

1165
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 6: six female and three male and stay with their mother

1166
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 6: for the weekend and go to the reunion. By the way,

1167
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 6: this comes from throw reunion. And if you want to

1168
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 6: smit your own stories, go to the ARS showcase Storytime

1169
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 6: severed it.

1170
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 2: I'm Sophia, I'm Riley, I'm key On, and we're.

1171
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 5: Here to get good of ice scoofy. But we don't

1172
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 5: have all the answers.

1173
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 6: We only know what we'd do, So let us know

1174
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 6: what you would do in the cunnings and Opie says

1175
00:51:11,400 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 6: this was the plan for months, but two days ago

1176
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 6: she suggested that it would be a good time to

1177
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:20,000
Speaker 6: strip the wallpaper from the lounge and paint the walls. Okay,

1178
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,560
Speaker 6: this is something that needs to happen, and it would

1179
00:51:22,600 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 6: be a lot easier without my three year old underfoot

1180
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 6: keeping away from the paint.

1181
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 5: He's just like this, let me touch it, let me

1182
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 5: touch it.

1183
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: It looks so yummy.

1184
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:34,880
Speaker 6: I said that I've been looking forward to her reunion

1185
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 6: to meet people she went to school with, but she's

1186
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:40,760
Speaker 6: been trying to discourage me. Finally, I decided to pretend

1187
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,600
Speaker 6: to be upset that she's embarrassed of me. Yes, a

1188
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,239
Speaker 6: bit immature and manipulative, but I figured it'd be an

1189
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 6: easy way to get.

1190
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 5: Her to drop it.

1191
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: Are you pretending or not? Yeah?

1192
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 5: Because like, ah, you're not embarrassed of me? Are you?

1193
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 6: Instead, she didn't reassure me. She hasn't said it, but

1194
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 6: it actually feels like she is embarrassed to me.

1195
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:03,040
Speaker 2: What, let's now see a picture of these people.

1196
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 5: Oh no, oh, he went, You're not embarrassed at me?

1197
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 6: Are you?

1198
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:10,760
Speaker 2: And she went, actually I am? Yeah, you say something.

1199
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,879
Speaker 6: She told me that she's going to get a ride

1200
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,520
Speaker 6: with a friend to the reunion. She'll take the kids

1201
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 6: as plan to her mother's for the weekend and.

1202
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 2: We'll call me tom o, who's giving you a ride?

1203
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 5: Yeah? Which friend? Good point? Maybe she's not embarrassed.

1204
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:28,280
Speaker 6: She doesn't want you to unlive the vibe. I tried

1205
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 6: to push back on this, but she won't budge. So

1206
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:33,040
Speaker 6: looks like I'm painting the lounge.

1207
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 2: Wow, she really planned us out. She's playing forty chess.

1208
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:38,880
Speaker 5: Here, She's like, you're gonna paint the lounge.

1209
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 6: I'm gonna take the kids to the mom and then

1210
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,640
Speaker 6: I'm gonna go with my friends.

1211
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 5: To this party.

1212
00:52:44,719 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 2: And now it is sketching up to you at this point.

1213
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 2: You didn't put this together.

1214
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 5: Edit.

1215
00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:51,319
Speaker 6: Not sure if anyone will see this. So I went

1216
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 6: to work as planned and came home after work and

1217
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 6: my kids and wife are gone as was planned. No,

1218
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 6: she hasn't left me. She's packed two days worth of

1219
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 6: clo It's for her and the kids, and that's about it.

1220
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 6: I've been busy stripping wallpaper and I think this is

1221
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 6: going to be a much bigger job than I realized.

1222
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 6: It's one forty am and I've finished for the night.

1223
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,760
Speaker 6: I've still gotten more wallpaper to strip. It's been seven

1224
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:17,279
Speaker 6: hours of stripping so far. Oh, I have tomorrow to

1225
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 6: paint and maybe a bit on Sunday before I drive

1226
00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:19,880
Speaker 6: up to.

1227
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 5: Pick her up from her mother's. And we do have

1228
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:22,280
Speaker 5: an update.

1229
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 2: Interesting, Well what are you doing.

1230
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:25,040
Speaker 5: In this situation?

1231
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: I'll just keep bringing it up. Yeah, sorry that I'm

1232
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:29,320
Speaker 1: sowing bears.

1233
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 5: Sorry you hate me.

1234
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 2: If my wife doesn't want to go to a high school,

1235
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 2: reunion with me. Yeah, that's not my wife.

1236
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 5: Personally, I want my boyfriend to come to every partty

1237
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 5: with me.

1238
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 2: That's crazy, dude. This is my partner I chose to

1239
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 2: be with for the rest of my life and you

1240
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 2: can't even and you're leaving them over there stripping wallpaper.

1241
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah. All of your friends are like, where's your husband.

1242
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:52,840
Speaker 6: You're like, oh, he's he's working.

1243
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, you didn't go to high school there. It's

1244
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,200
Speaker 1: just it's my reunion.

1245
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 5: I don't want I'm there.

1246
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:00,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it means I don't know. That just gives me

1247
00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: some thoughts of who's there? Yeah, who does she want

1248
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 2: to meet? Why does she not want me there? You

1249
00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 2: live me questioning things.

1250
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things.

1251
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 8: It's definitely the I want to look better, or like,

1252
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 8: oh I live a different life.

1253
00:54:14,600 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 2: Chad's definitely going to be there.

1254
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:17,959
Speaker 1: Oh Chad her ex.

1255
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 5: But we do have an update.

1256
00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 6: So I made the drive up to my mother in

1257
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:24,319
Speaker 6: law's and picked up my wife and kids. I'm just

1258
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,399
Speaker 6: on my mother in law's college while they're getting ready

1259
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 6: to leave, so I thought i'd post an update. So

1260
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 6: I guess the main thing is I know why my

1261
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 6: wife didn't want me here.

1262
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 2: Oh.

1263
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 6: When I arrived, my mother in law greeted me and

1264
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 6: she asked to talk, and she told me not to

1265
00:54:39,200 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 6: tell my wife.

1266
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:40,720
Speaker 5: She said anything.

1267
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 2: Oh, that's not a good sign.

1268
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 6: But my wife had a terminal illness scare. That was

1269
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 6: why she was up here. My wife had terminal illness.

1270
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:52,920
Speaker 6: Before I met her. I actually removed half of rariola,

1271
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,760
Speaker 6: which she was very self conscious about.

1272
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 5: Did you not know that?

1273
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: I think he did?

1274
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 2: Okay, well he didn't know this was text.

1275
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:03,800
Speaker 6: Okay, maybe he knew about the previous terminal illness.

1276
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,720
Speaker 2: Did Yeah, he said that he knew that before.

1277
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 6: When I saw my wife, she burst into tears and

1278
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 6: hugged me. She didn't tell me anything about her terminal illness,

1279
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 6: and I didn't ask. I let her bring it up

1280
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:16,839
Speaker 6: to me at it We're home, and I couldn't keep

1281
00:55:16,880 --> 00:55:19,240
Speaker 6: this to myself. So I've just spoken to my wife

1282
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 6: and said what her mother told me. She asked me

1283
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 6: about what, and I said about the terminal illness. And

1284
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 6: my wife has no idea what her mother was talking about.

1285
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 5: Wait, whoa wa, what's going on? So don't tell her?

1286
00:55:34,960 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 5: I told you?

1287
00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 2: But so whenever, now I'm confused. While was the wife

1288
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 2: crying whenever he got back up there. I don't know

1289
00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 2: what's happening here. Wait, know, someone's lying.

1290
00:55:46,400 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 6: She said she doesn't have terminal illness and hasn't had

1291
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 6: a terminal illness scare at all.

1292
00:55:52,680 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 5: Now, I don't know what the heck is going on.

1293
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:58,280
Speaker 2: Someone's lying, someone is lying law or the wife.

1294
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,080
Speaker 5: Well, okay, I'm wondering if.

1295
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: Way to throw mother in law under the bus, Opie.

1296
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 6: I'm wondering if the mother in law is covering for

1297
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:10,640
Speaker 6: Op's wife for something else but didn't communicate with wife

1298
00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:11,440
Speaker 6: about the story.

1299
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 5: That's what I'm wondering.

1300
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 2: Who has more of a reason to lie? No, mother

1301
00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:17,480
Speaker 2: in law or the wife.

1302
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:19,799
Speaker 1: I feel like, why, don't know, why would we lie

1303
00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: about this in general?

1304
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1305
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 6: Why was she crying? That's such a good point. Good morning,

1306
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 6: petty potatoes.

1307
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1308
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 2: Is the wife embarrassed about the cancer and she actually

1309
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 2: has it?

1310
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1311
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 6: Confusing. Let's get into this next update. This was written

1312
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 6: with the frame of mind I had at the time.

1313
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 6: What theF do I say?

1314
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 5: You were all right? She effing cheated on me. I

1315
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 5: can't believe it.

1316
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:44,280
Speaker 2: Dang.

1317
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 6: I had a look on her laptop while she was

1318
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,799
Speaker 6: out and in her emails she's been chatting with some guy.

1319
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 6: She sent him money for a rental car, and he

1320
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 6: picked up my wife and my kids, so she never

1321
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 6: went kids, so she never went to her mom's house.

1322
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I believe it.

1323
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:02,839
Speaker 6: Not only does she cheat on me, she gave him

1324
00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 6: money and they all drove up to her mother's together,

1325
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 6: but they did go the moms so she was in

1326
00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,280
Speaker 6: on it. Money we can't even afford. I've been riding

1327
00:57:11,280 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 6: a bicycle to work to try and save fifty dollars

1328
00:57:13,520 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 6: per week on gas because we have no spare money.

1329
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 5: She sent him hundreds. What the f she trusted this

1330
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:22,800
Speaker 5: fing guy with my kids in the back of the car.

1331
00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 5: What if he crashed. I confronted her and she admitted

1332
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 5: it all.

1333
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 6: She said she gave him a bj but when she

1334
00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:31,960
Speaker 6: got on clothes, he didn't want to have spicy sleep,

1335
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:32,560
Speaker 6: so they didn't.

1336
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, sure, that's crazy.

1337
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:39,080
Speaker 1: I did do that. I did that one thing, but

1338
00:57:39,720 --> 00:57:41,280
Speaker 1: yeah I didn't go all the way.

1339
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:44,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, She's like, well, you know, I tried to, but

1340
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:46,520
Speaker 6: then I didn't have a norry. I know you have

1341
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 6: every reason to not believe me.

1342
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 2: It's kind of worse though. We're not gonna lie.

1343
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, she tried and didn't take care.

1344
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 2: Put those put it back on. Actually I'm good.

1345
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,360
Speaker 6: I don't know if that's true. But the thing is

1346
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 6: her body is an fing. But she's the mother of

1347
00:58:01,600 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 6: my kids. So I can't leave her because she stinks.

1348
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,840
Speaker 6: I mean, you could help her. Obviously she sucks, but

1349
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:08,280
Speaker 6: at the time if your.

1350
00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: Partners, but at the time she was sucking.

1351
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,200
Speaker 5: In this case, this woman is the worst.

1352
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 6: But in other cases, if you have a partner who

1353
00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 6: is not taking care of their hygiene, you can you

1354
00:58:18,120 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 6: can be like, hey, you could.

1355
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 2: Say something, Hey, what's going on? My girlfriend calls me trumpet, but.

1356
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 5: Trumpet but all the time that's just a boy thing.

1357
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 8: Whoa, whoa, whoa, Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey for

1358
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 8: the time look at me.

1359
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1360
00:58:32,200 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 6: Yes, that's the main reason I thought she'd never cheat,

1361
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 6: because why the f would someone else want to be

1362
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 6: with her?

1363
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 5: Well, apparently they do.

1364
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 6: This pos Ander have been saying I love you on email.

1365
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 6: Apparently they knew each other in school a schoolorinion, but

1366
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 6: never dated. This effing guy lives at home with his father.

1367
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 6: He's thirty one years old and never moved out.

1368
00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,480
Speaker 5: Oh my mother knew.

1369
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, when this effing guy drove to my mother's house,

1370
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 6: he didn't stay. She took her side and asked her

1371
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 6: if she knew what she was doing. Her mother's idiotic

1372
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,360
Speaker 6: terminal illness story was to cover for my wife, even

1373
00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 6: though I had no idea.

1374
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god, dude, and you were there at the

1375
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 2: house stripping, Yeah, wall paper.

1376
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 5: Oh that whole time when she was cheating on you.

1377
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: Dang, she wanted you to be punished. That felt like,

1378
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 2: dangn that's horrible.

1379
00:59:26,200 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 6: Wow, that is pretty awful. Zang man, What a story.

1380
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 2: That's crazy, What a story.

1381
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 6: But we do have an update fourteen years later, so

1382
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,360
Speaker 6: we're going to get into that update too. Hello, all soo,

1383
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 6: I wasn't quite one hundred percent honest about all.

1384
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:41,680
Speaker 1: So it's all.

1385
00:59:42,040 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 6: It's a freaking liar, liar, liar, liar, pants on fire?

1386
00:59:46,560 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 5: What are you doing? Oh my gosh, I don't trust anyone.

1387
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:53,040
Speaker 6: Everything happened as it played out and with the correct

1388
00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 6: amount of time in between my posts except for this one.

1389
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 6: But it all happened back in twenty ten. Okay, I'm

1390
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 6: not sure how well that's going to be received here,

1391
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 6: and people may claim it was all fake, But it wasn't.

1392
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 6: I try to write everything with the same frame of

1393
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,760
Speaker 6: mind I had back then when it happened. Okay, so

1394
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 6: he's saying this is all true. I'm just writing it

1395
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:12,840
Speaker 6: as if I was just experiencing it.

1396
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 2: So this happened sixteen years ago, and he's writing it

1397
01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,280
Speaker 2: now as.

1398
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 5: If it happened then.

1399
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,680
Speaker 6: So he's doing every update as if this is new

1400
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 6: to him, even though it's not.

1401
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 2: Oh, are you trying to get my brain aneurism? Myn dude?

1402
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 6: Hey, is this included my stunning in hindsight naivete in

1403
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 6: my first and update post, and my anger and disbelief

1404
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 6: in my second update. I thought it'd be interesting for

1405
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 6: people to follow along with something real that was happening

1406
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:40,760
Speaker 6: and then instantly get transported fourteen years in the future.

1407
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 5: I do love a fourteen year old bit. So here's

1408
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:44,160
Speaker 5: my fourteen year update.

1409
01:00:44,360 --> 01:00:44,760
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1410
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:46,720
Speaker 5: I never spoke to my mother in laver again.

1411
01:00:46,960 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 2: Oh what the hell?

1412
01:00:48,640 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 8: Oh what beginning? Because because again mother in law said,

1413
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:55,360
Speaker 8: keep this between us. Yeah, don't ever bring it up.

1414
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 8: You have it's like you have to solmn.

1415
01:00:57,120 --> 01:00:59,520
Speaker 2: Just try to contain it exactly like if you do it,

1416
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:00,680
Speaker 2: I'll coom busted.

1417
01:01:01,040 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 5: I did reconcile with my wife at first, on the

1418
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 5: condition she cut out her mother, which she did.

1419
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 1: Oh wow.

1420
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 6: We argued a lot. I was also immature and brought

1421
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 6: it up a lot. I'd often bring it up to

1422
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:16,200
Speaker 6: shut her down in arguments, asking repeatedly questions like do.

1423
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 5: You want to reconcile her or not?

1424
01:01:17,840 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 6: I texted her a fair partner. He actually apologized the

1425
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 6: pos He passed away a couple of years after all

1426
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:28,439
Speaker 6: this happened, not sure how. In April twenty twelve, things

1427
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 6: were getting worse. My wife and I argued. She threatened divorce.

1428
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,880
Speaker 6: I agreed, but after two weeks or so we made up.

1429
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 6: We were both scared of being alone. I guess my

1430
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 6: wife was chatting with my cousin from England over Facebook

1431
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 6: quite a bit, but all of a sudden they stopped.

1432
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 6: In April twenty thirteen, we argued again. She'd threatened divorce again,

1433
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 6: and this time I agreed and we just didn't talk

1434
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,600
Speaker 6: about it again. I started fixing the house up a bit,

1435
01:01:51,680 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 6: getting things fixed painted, and in August she told our

1436
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 6: kids we were separating while I was at work. My

1437
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 6: girls were devastated. I was absolutely pissed that she did

1438
01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:03,919
Speaker 6: that without me. In the middle of September, she moved

1439
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 6: out with the kids. In December, I finally sold the house,

1440
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 6: split the money, and I bought my current house, a

1441
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 6: bit of a downgrade. I told her not to tell

1442
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 6: anyone she had money.

1443
01:02:12,680 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 5: She did. She invested tenk or so in her new

1444
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:18,120
Speaker 5: partner's friend's business and that was lost. Oh yikes.

1445
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 6: She took a three week holiday to Brazil, leaving the

1446
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 6: kids with me. She repeated this each year until twenty nineteen.

1447
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 6: The money is all gone now. My parents had a

1448
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 6: holiday in England where my cousin took my mother aside

1449
01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,520
Speaker 6: and said he didn't know whether to say anything or not,

1450
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 6: but he told her my wife had told him about

1451
01:02:33,880 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 6: her giving some guy a slappy tuppy.

1452
01:02:37,160 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 2: Oh, so that's why she went down so vacation every year.

1453
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was going down all right.

1454
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 6: Seems like, oh, he knows that wife had like a

1455
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 6: friendship with his cousin. Yeah, and the cousin finds out

1456
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 6: this affair. That's why they stopped talking all of a sudden.

1457
01:02:54,000 --> 01:02:56,480
Speaker 6: My cousin went off on her for cheating. But never

1458
01:02:56,520 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 6: told you until now. I never told my parents why

1459
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 6: we divorced, but had to tell my mom that I knew,

1460
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,440
Speaker 6: and that was the reason. I think she told them

1461
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 6: because she wanted to force a divorce, but maybe got

1462
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 6: cold feet. My wife married a Brazilian guy, nice guy.

1463
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 6: She'd met him here Bud. He had to go back

1464
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 6: to Brazil to look after his elderly mother. She married

1465
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 6: him while visiting. I congratulated her and asked if I

1466
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 6: could hug her when she told me, I've always trying

1467
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:22,480
Speaker 6: to be nice. That long distance marriage didn't work out.

1468
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 6: She's now married another guy. Wow, this time a Dutchman man.

1469
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 6: She's all over the place.

1470
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,760
Speaker 2: She's getting wow, putting all the pins in the world.

1471
01:03:29,800 --> 01:03:32,000
Speaker 1: He's international World Cup.

1472
01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 6: She flew over and married him there and he's back

1473
01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:36,439
Speaker 6: with her here. I said a load of him once.

1474
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,240
Speaker 6: He's a bit of an a hole, probably from what

1475
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 6: she said about me. I had my kids every weekend

1476
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:44,200
Speaker 6: and school holidays. The two girls had to share their bedroom.

1477
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 6: My son had his own small room as for me.

1478
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,480
Speaker 5: Three months after she left, I realized I'm actually a

1479
01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 5: pretty good looking guy and hit the dating world.

1480
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 2: Now twelve years later.

1481
01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 5: Well, no, he realized this three months after she left,

1482
01:03:57,280 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 5: so I don't know.

1483
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 2: Three months after Okay, sorry, I just remember all of that.

1484
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 2: It's twenty nineteen now, and now he said it, okay, apologies.

1485
01:04:03,160 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 6: I met a few women, then met a woman I

1486
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 6: was with for two and a half years before things

1487
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 6: didn't work out. I met a few more women for

1488
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,400
Speaker 6: shorter times, and in twenty nineteen I met my now

1489
01:04:12,480 --> 01:04:14,560
Speaker 6: wife and we have a four year old son together.

1490
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 5: Congrass. Okay, we've got a little bit left to the story.

1491
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 5: Ay yai, yai, this was crazy. Do you have any

1492
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:22,600
Speaker 5: final thoughts.

1493
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:25,920
Speaker 2: Looking at all of the events that have transpired, Apple

1494
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 2: doesn't fall from the tree because mother in law. It's

1495
01:04:29,360 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 2: so crazy stuff and now she's doing this. It's like,

1496
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 2: what's happening. All the money's gone mostly she say, okay,

1497
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 2: care of the kids.

1498
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 5: I hope.

1499
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:41,880
Speaker 6: So that is really it seems like she has really

1500
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 6: just been all over the place for fourteen years, like

1501
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 6: cheated on him, spent all her money, has been going

1502
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:54,000
Speaker 6: through different relationships and marrying people and divorcing people like

1503
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:57,440
Speaker 6: does especially if the kids are with her, because Ohpi

1504
01:04:57,560 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 6: said that he only.

1505
01:04:58,680 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 5: Had kids on the weekend.

1506
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 6: But she moved to the Dutchman's place, and also was

1507
01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,120
Speaker 6: in I think, I don't know if she went to Brazil,

1508
01:05:06,200 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 6: but like, she seems pretty all over the place.

1509
01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:11,560
Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna do some math here. Yeah it

1510
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,160
Speaker 2: was about ten years later. Mm hmm, so the kids

1511
01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:15,600
Speaker 2: were eighteen sixteen to thirteen.

1512
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:19,400
Speaker 5: Yeah. It feels like a really not great time to

1513
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 5: be moving your kids all over the place and be

1514
01:05:21,360 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 5: introducing new relationships all the time. Yeah all the time.

1515
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 2: Yeah that's weird. Yeah yeah, yeay, missus worldwide right here,

1516
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:29,600
Speaker 2: Dala dalai.

1517
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 6: But we got a little bit left. My ex stopped

1518
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:35,439
Speaker 6: talking to me. She's the sort of person that takes

1519
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 6: offense if my life goes well. I warned her with

1520
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,440
Speaker 6: her first husband that it looks like she's jealous and

1521
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 6: to stop it. She did not like here in that

1522
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 6: at all. I don't want to compare my wife to

1523
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:48,600
Speaker 6: my ex, but she's slim, attractive, hygienic, drives. You don't

1524
01:05:48,640 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 6: know how hard it is to be with someone who

1525
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,160
Speaker 6: doesn't drive until you're with someone who does.

1526
01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:53,120
Speaker 5: It works.

1527
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,640
Speaker 6: So we actually had some spare money to do things together.

1528
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 6: Life's much better.

1529
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,439
Speaker 2: I mean, I might need to find someone they can drive.

1530
01:06:00,440 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 5: You have someone who can dry.

1531
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:04,000
Speaker 2: She just never dies because.

1532
01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,720
Speaker 5: You told her you don't want her to. It's your fault.

1533
01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:08,080
Speaker 2: You're right, you're right, You're right.

1534
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:10,520
Speaker 6: I just want to say, reading the replies to my

1535
01:06:10,560 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 6: earlier posts, things were so incredibly obvious. So much of

1536
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 6: the advice was absolutely spot on, But I had to

1537
01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 6: pretend to be how I was back then, with full

1538
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:23,560
Speaker 6: faith in my wife, et cetera. Can't believe how naive

1539
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 6: I was. Wow, this really is a wall of text,

1540
01:06:26,880 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 6: even when I'm trying to be brief.

1541
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:30,439
Speaker 5: Were you were you reading?

1542
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 2: It's okay if you're not brief. What's it of a

1543
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 2: VidCon episode? I hope you guys enjoy that.

1544
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 6: I hope you liked our VidCon episode, and we enjoyed

1545
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:38,840
Speaker 6: VidCon we did.

1546
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 5: Thanks Viccon, Thank you letting I speak there.

1547
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 2: We'll have better stories next time. Yeah, you promise them

1548
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:46,760
Speaker 2: to kids, or maybe worse.

1549
01:06:47,160 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe we'll just go full evil.

1550
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 2: My mom wants me to store her of account, but

1551
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:53,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to film anymore.

1552
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 1: That's just traumatic. I don't think anyone wants.

1553
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:01,080
Speaker 5: But that's the end of this episode. So if you

1554
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:02,440
Speaker 5: love us, make sure to subscribe.

1555
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.