WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Rule of 3

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<v Speaker 1>Second d Remember that famous dress on the internet where

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<v Speaker 1>no one could agree on what color it really was? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see it both ways. Really so progressive Brook.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently that's one of the things that happened on Tara's date,

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<v Speaker 1>because apparently there was some sort of debate that her

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<v Speaker 1>and her date couldn't agree. Oh no, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>similar to the debate that we have in studio every

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<v Speaker 1>day our Jose's pun jokes really funny or super funny?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you debate. Sorry, we're gonna find out what happened

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<v Speaker 1>with Tara though. Let's talk with her. Welcome the show, Tara. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for having me. Oh my god, are you having

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<v Speaker 1>pun problems? Because I can help you, Tara. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have to do with puns. It's something else. Oh alright,

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<v Speaker 1>we're experts in it though. But I love that you

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<v Speaker 1>got in a fight on your first date, is what

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like. Tell us about the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with, so I met him on mine Sames Ian? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>were you excited about Ian? I mean you sound kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like hopefully she was excited. Hopefully excited. Some hog

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<v Speaker 1>girls are like another nine another day. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I kind of call it free food stamps,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like if it's my weekly food. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>they should make that dating app Yeah. So wait, were

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<v Speaker 1>you looking forward to more than a free meal with Ian? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he seems really great. We seem his vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a lot in common. I was explaining, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so how does an argument come up on date one?

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<v Speaker 1>It's complicated. So we both agreed to meet up in

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<v Speaker 1>his park. And like peopleth love going on a long walk,

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<v Speaker 1>so I figured there's no beach nearby, so bad as

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<v Speaker 1>well just walk in the park. That's not just a

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<v Speaker 1>cliche that people say. I think people actually enjoy it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so you're gonna go walk in for your

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<v Speaker 1>first date. So the plan was to walk for a

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<v Speaker 1>while so that we can end up at a restaurant. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's better. I like walking to food work up an

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<v Speaker 1>appetite too. Okay, so how does that go? So, like,

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<v Speaker 1>on the way to dinner, we passed this really cool

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<v Speaker 1>farmer's market. It was a couple of fruit stands, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, look, let's grab a couple of small oranges. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he hates sorges happen. No, get this, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, um, those are actually clementines. Oh clementines. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're almost like cute. Okay, he corrected you. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>I said the same thing. They're just oranges, just small,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Oh yeah, did you say it with that tone?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know, I can get a little sassy,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I think you've been that, he corrected me.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you on that, right. Yeah. She was

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<v Speaker 1>adamant about this, and we started a whole wo wow, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how I mean, how do you go back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>on this argument for that log? Like? How long did

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<v Speaker 1>it last? Maybe like four to five minutes. We got

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<v Speaker 1>over that eventually, and I was just like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just try about something off. Oh wow, well that's

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<v Speaker 1>good but interesting. Yeah, but then you're just there, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's just still sitting with you. Yeah, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>always a healthy phrase to utter on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, let's just stop fighting and move on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean even on the date. Yet technically hopefully you

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<v Speaker 1>did move on. Yeah we did. And okay, we're walking

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<v Speaker 1>past like general streets, and we walked past like a

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<v Speaker 1>parked motorcycle and he stops to look at it for

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<v Speaker 1>a while. He told me he always wanted to get

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<v Speaker 1>on Okay, Oh he's a bad boy, or he's just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to show off, like motorcycle. But I'm a nurse,

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<v Speaker 1>so I said, oh, you've always wanted to die. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my mom's response to after being an EMT for

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<v Speaker 1>fourteen years. Yeah. So it led to another fight that on.

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<v Speaker 1>Them were arguing a little bit like we got over that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to each pharaoh? Can I ask, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you're calling to get another date with this guy? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you like him? You guys, I sound like you vibe

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Yeah, I vibe with him. I just think

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<v Speaker 1>we both have strong personalities. Okay, but you want to

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<v Speaker 1>give it another chance? So is there like a good

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<v Speaker 1>part of the day. Yeah, let's get to some of

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<v Speaker 1>the happy moments at the restaurant. Oh goodness, Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>never ended up going to the restaurant. You didn't why,

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<v Speaker 1>So we ended up finding a lost dog wandering the street.

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<v Speaker 1>So we both felt bad and we stopped to help it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you finally agree on something though you have a common gold.

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<v Speaker 1>This is good the lost dog, but you disagreed on

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<v Speaker 1>what breed of dog. It was, well, kind of disagree

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought we should bring a hog, give a food,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure it's safe, and call the owners. Like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to stay here with the dog and wait

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<v Speaker 1>to see if someone comes by. Did you just call

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<v Speaker 1>like animals yet there? Do you want to put it down?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you do that to control? I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>call the owners because I'd like to see if I

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<v Speaker 1>could find someone in the area, would you. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of stayed with the dog, like I found

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<v Speaker 1>its caller on it. So I tried to call the owners,

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<v Speaker 1>but no one really answered. Oh what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Then you adopted at that point together as a couple. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up convincing him to make fires, in which

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<v Speaker 1>he did at I can't go down the street, so

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<v Speaker 1>I guess there's something good about him. Well turned into

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<v Speaker 1>a rescue mission. If you guys took a picture in

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<v Speaker 1>your phone and started putting up flyers, yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>for an hour later somebody called about the dog after

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<v Speaker 1>we made the fires. I was kind of out. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you put a dog in front of your guys's quarrels

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<v Speaker 1>and your date and you decided to do a humanitarian thing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>a dog humanitarian. Sure, sure cute after the owner picked

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<v Speaker 1>up the dog. I mean is that when the date ended? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to eat like a late dinner with him,

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<v Speaker 1>but he said he was exhausted, so probably mentally all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so that was that was the end of the night. Then, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean since then we only texted a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't really asked me out. But look, I oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you have texted. I think a lot of people texting

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<v Speaker 1>in are saying, like, what, why did she even want

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<v Speaker 1>a second date? Listen, I get it. This is one

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<v Speaker 1>of those random nights where nothing kind of went right

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<v Speaker 1>and you just want to redo. If I'm assuming correctly, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't mind a fire he romance. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of help that. Yeah, that's it. Nothing says hot

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<v Speaker 1>like Clementine versus. Yeah. Alright, let's get another argument going.

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<v Speaker 1>When we reach out to eating ourselves, we'll call him

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get your second date update coming up right

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<v Speaker 1>after this. Okay, thanks, gay hold on, it's the long

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<v Speaker 1>awaited sequel to Three Weddings in a Funeral, Three argue humans,

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<v Speaker 1>and a stray dog. That's what happened on Terra's date

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<v Speaker 1>the other night, Because on the way of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Her and Ian argued over our clementines clementines or just

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<v Speaker 1>baby oranges, our motorcycles, fun or human pancakes waiting to happen?

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<v Speaker 1>And finally, what do you do when you find a

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<v Speaker 1>stray dog? Do you stay with it out on the

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<v Speaker 1>street or take it home and raise it as your

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<v Speaker 1>own for years and years until the owner finally finds you.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a terrible version of that what if game? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's already a stray if you leave it, isn't

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<v Speaker 1>it like? Okay, we're not here to debate that. We're

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<v Speaker 1>here to get We've had enough arguments going on on

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<v Speaker 1>their date. We're just trying to get them to dinner

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<v Speaker 1>because they never even ended up making it to the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant that night. Yeah, luckily we have we have gift

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<v Speaker 1>cards to any restaurant that you would like, twenty five

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<v Speaker 1>dollars or under. Okay, so that choice is yours if

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<v Speaker 1>we can get Ian on the line. Are you ready

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<v Speaker 1>to do this? Yeah? Oh nervous, but okay, Well, well

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. It means you care, don't worry. You got

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<v Speaker 1>your first three fights out of the way, so sail

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<v Speaker 1>it in. This relationship after that, as far as brook

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<v Speaker 1>relationship goes, only three hundred thousand more that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to make it, Jeffrey. That's how you know it's real.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with some men on this show. I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you that. Okay, here we go, Tar, I'm gonna die. Ian.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see what he has to say. Hello, Hey, it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of aggressive, is this Ian? Hey, you are

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<v Speaker 1>lucky enough to be speaking to one of the top

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<v Speaker 1>rated morning shows in North America. No, that's real. According

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<v Speaker 1>to pole that my mom did recently, we're called Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the morning. Okay, why are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>calling me? Okay, you're a little fight see but we've

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<v Speaker 1>heard that actually before from one of our listeners who

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<v Speaker 1>wanted us to get a hold of you. Her name's Tara.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you want on a date with Tara the other night? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is about about Tara? Yeah, yeah, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a segment we do call the second Date Update. We're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to help Tara and you reconnect and finally make

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<v Speaker 1>it to a restaurant for dinner because we heard you

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<v Speaker 1>never made it the other night. No, we didn't. We

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<v Speaker 1>never made it out to dinner. Unfortunately, So unfortunately means

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of wanted to spend more time with Tara.

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<v Speaker 1>How was the date to you? She said, you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went on a long walk. I mean it was nice enough. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like it's a little spiky, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean? Like everything just felt a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>sharp around the edges. And I don't feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>really click. Are you talking about when you guys got

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<v Speaker 1>into an argument over clementines because spino clementines are smooth

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<v Speaker 1>on the outside. They don't have that's more of a pineapple. Okay, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>mister funny guy. Yeah, we heard that you guys had

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<v Speaker 1>a few TIFFs over some fruits and over motorcycles. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna say, like, I mean, you're on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone, why correct them on if they call

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<v Speaker 1>a clementine an orange? Like why why not just leave

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<v Speaker 1>it alone? Who cares about facts, It's just not the timing, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go off feelings. I didn't mean to make a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal of it when she said orange, I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think they're clementine. I don't think she read it

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<v Speaker 1>that way when you said it. I know she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>read it that way, because she was like, no, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an orange. She's the one that started the fight. You

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<v Speaker 1>were just stating the truth, you know, like when you

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<v Speaker 1>have a fight on Facebook. Yeah, and it's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not going to change your mind even though you

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<v Speaker 1>know you're wrong. Fine, Like I'm not gonna try. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>none of us are sixty years old and over, so

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<v Speaker 1>we don't really fight on Facebook. Does get a little fight? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Should do with the old people on Facebook? You give

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<v Speaker 1>them old sketchy linked that anybody could have made up

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<v Speaker 1>to prove your point. I mean, so you're saying that

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<v Speaker 1>you just wish you felt like she was just digging

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<v Speaker 1>her heels in just to argue. Yeah. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>she couldn't be wrong and I couldn't be right. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Yeah, okay, but that's most

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<v Speaker 1>relationships between men and women. I mean, let's let's put

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<v Speaker 1>all the arguments aside, because I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>into the minutia of it. But like, overall, just your

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<v Speaker 1>connection with her, Tara felt like the two of you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of arguing back and forth was a sign that

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<v Speaker 1>you have passion. Could you see it from that perspective?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm gonna be honest with you guys. Nope, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>there wasn't any point that you're like, Wow, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>much spice. I just want to lean in and kiss her.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like I had to like have my guard

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<v Speaker 1>up the whole time because she's gonna call me out

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<v Speaker 1>on something like them. You know again, you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to get into the minutia, but like, yeah, is she

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<v Speaker 1>right about motorcycle? Sure? You know, we could argue that

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<v Speaker 1>all day and night just between us, but let's have

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<v Speaker 1>Tara weigh in on it, because she's actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line and wants to tell you that motorcycles are

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<v Speaker 1>death on wheels. Tara, isn't that true? Yeah? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I used to work at a spinal clinic. She may

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<v Speaker 1>win that argument. Yes, true fact. Yeah. Now can we

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<v Speaker 1>try and focus, Tara? Why don't you say hello to

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<v Speaker 1>your lover boy? Look, I probably was a little harsh there.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize you're on the line. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>maybe next time it better learned before talking to strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh is that pretty? I think so? So are you

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<v Speaker 1>telling me what to do now when I'm on the phone.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I just like to argue but ok, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's an honest statement. Yeah. Yeah, so Tara, in

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<v Speaker 1>your mind, arguing with somebody is a good thing. Definitely.

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<v Speaker 1>It's passionate and like you want a passionate person, And

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, if you don't want someone who doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any aspirations, but wouldn't you want some sort of balance,

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<v Speaker 1>like instead of constantly arguing me? Ian, what do you

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<v Speaker 1>think about terror's opinion on the disagreements that you had?

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<v Speaker 1>Can we meet halfway there? It is, have half of

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<v Speaker 1>an argument with her and then concede. It's not about

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<v Speaker 1>that for me. Like, that's not what passion looks like

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<v Speaker 1>for me. What does passion look like to you? It

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<v Speaker 1>means like being in like attracted to each other, being passionate,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, not fighting. Yeah, fighting isn't passion. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's a form and not good for me. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with him on that one. Okay, Well, I have pictures

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<v Speaker 1>on my phone of what passion looks like that I

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<v Speaker 1>could text to both of you and maybe one of

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<v Speaker 1>you will come onto my side. Yeah. No, no pictures

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<v Speaker 1>to listeners, to strangers, not to ean No, no, no

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<v Speaker 1>one's going to argue about how passionate these phones. I

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<v Speaker 1>believe you. I don't need to see that. Well, what

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<v Speaker 1>about Tara and Ian and you? Either of you want

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<v Speaker 1>some photos? Oh, I'm all start I'm coming on your

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<v Speaker 1>side over Okay, An, I'm just saying this, like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>just say we were married, Like at least we know

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date that we have passion and like

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of arguing. It's not like years later

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<v Speaker 1>you're practicing the arguments for your future marriage. Yeah, hypotheticals

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<v Speaker 1>always really healthy, never lead to arguments. Ian, Yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say to that. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well maybe maybe the right thing is let's not talking hypotheticals. Ian,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to marry Tara? Second date? Second? We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for that. I'm just talking about a date here,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five dollar wedding with an Applebee's gift card on us.

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<v Speaker 1>I do have my marriage license. I can marry you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>or if you're not into the wedding idea, just a date,

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<v Speaker 1>a regular date. We could do that too. See it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound so bad when you compared to a wed.

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<v Speaker 1>This is an easy step. Just the fact that I

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<v Speaker 1>was called out here onto the radio. It's like so

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<v Speaker 1>confrontational to me. It's not what I'm looking for. Guys, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you're great, but all right, so yourself, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not right. And I thought we were pretty cool and

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<v Speaker 1>chill during this whole thing. Yeah, okay, Well it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like Tara said no before you could get your no wins,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think Tara wins this argument. Okay. On the

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<v Speaker 1>same Jeffrey in the morning, you know, that had the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to be the most wild twist we've ever heard

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. If that guy had just said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, yeah, I could be married to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine said stout whatever happened to in the

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<v Speaker 1>dating world anymore, to take a chance and letting fate

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<v Speaker 1>decide it was a healthy relationship. Boy. It just made

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<v Speaker 1>me think of how passion, How much passion is in

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<v Speaker 1>Brooks marriage. A lot there is. There's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>ton of passion when Brooko's home tonight and tells her

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<v Speaker 1>husband to do the laundry again because he didn't use

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<v Speaker 1>enough softener the first go round. That's called passion. If

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't play semi soft. This doesn't smell right, Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>We are all jealous of Brooke and her relationship. Too

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<v Speaker 1>bad it didn't work out for them. Yeah, wait, too bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the college didn't work out for the college.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and her husband are a okay, And if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to be a okay, you can always reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to us. Email the show. We'll call the person who

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<v Speaker 1>didn't call you back and find all of our second

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<v Speaker 1>date podcasts up wherever you get yours at Brooke and Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>Broke and Jeffrey in the Morning,