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Ever been left waiting 11 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: by the phone. It's the Fread Show. Logan, Good morning, 12 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 1: welcome to the program. 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: Good morning, good morning, and how are we done? 14 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: Do it all right? 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 3: Man? 16 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: What's going on with this woman? Sylvia? How did you 17 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: guys meet? Tell us about any dates that you've been 18 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: on and then kind of where things are now? 19 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, we met on Hinge. We messaged back and forth. 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 2: It was blurty, it was cute. I got our number 21 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 2: pretty quick and after about a week or so I 22 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: asked her she wanted to grab a bite and some drinks? 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: She said, yes, We were vibing. It was cool, had 24 00:01:08,480 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: some good momentum. 25 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: So I was just, you know, pretty shocked when she 26 00:01:14,360 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: just completely stopped talking to me after the date. Okay, yeah, 27 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: wondering if my favorite morning show can maybe figure out 28 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 2: what happened. 29 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: Oh, you look way to butter us up here, so 30 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: you don't get roasted in part two. I mean, because look, 31 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask. I'm gonna do it. I mean, I 32 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: need you to really search your soul logan, Like when 33 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: you look back on this date, you really thought everything 34 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:40,680 Speaker 1: with normal uh no weird conversations, no weird topics. I mean, 35 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: like this was a normal date. Now you thought, Yeah, 36 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: you know, we kept it. 37 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 2: We kept it pretty pretty clean, avoided all the hot 38 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 2: button notes and just tried to have a good time. 39 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: So let's see if we can figure out what's going 40 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: on in your behalf. We're gonna call Sylvia. I gave 41 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: you a chance, man, I gave you a chance to 42 00:01:57,240 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: come clean. But no, wouldn't that be something I said, Well, well, 43 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: there is the one thing where I dressed up like 44 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: a furry you know, and then we don't even have 45 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: to do part two. We can just move right on. 46 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: But no, you're saying I'm not trying to king shame. 47 00:02:08,840 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 2: But well no I am not either, but I'm doing kosher, 48 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:13,839 Speaker 2: just totally kosher date. 49 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get answers for you. But okay, 50 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: so we're gonna play song. Comeback, Logan, call Sylvia. You'll 51 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: be on the phone. We're gonna ask these questions on 52 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: your behalf, and the hope is that we can figure 53 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,119 Speaker 1: out what's going on. Maybe she's been busy, maybe there's 54 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: some other explanation, and then we can set you guys 55 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 1: up on another date and pay for it. All right, 56 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: that sounds great, hey, Logan, Yeah, yeah, all right, yeah, yeah, 57 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: all right, Logan, let's call Sylvia. You guys recently went 58 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: on a date. You met on one of the dating apps. 59 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: You chat it for a little bit, you went out 60 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: for dinner, you thought everything went really well. You left 61 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,959 Speaker 1: the date thinking, great, we're gonna go on date number two. 62 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: I'll call her tomorrow or I'll text her or whatever 63 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: and then we'll set that up. Except you did that 64 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: and she hasn't responded to you at all. It would 65 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: appear that you're being ghosted, and you want to know 66 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: why that's spun on. Okay, well, let's call her now 67 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: go luck Logan. Thanks guys. Hell, Hi is this Sylvia? 68 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 1: Hey Sylvia, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling 69 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,720 Speaker 1: from the Fred Show, the morning radio show, and I 70 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 1: have to tell you that we are on the radio 71 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: right now and I would need your permission to continue 72 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:21,760 Speaker 1: with the call. Can we chat for just a second 73 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 1: on the show. You can hang up anytime you're calling 74 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: from a radio station, right, Yes? So is that a 75 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: yes that I can? I mean, I can get to 76 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: why if you just say it's okay? 77 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 4: I'm curious? 78 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: So yeah, we're gonna go with a yes on that. 79 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: So we're calling on behalf of a guy named Logan. 80 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: I guess you matched with him on a dating app 81 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: and you guys recently went out to dinner. Do you 82 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: remember Logan? Yes? 83 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 4: I remember Logan? 84 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: So what happened? Because he called us and he said 85 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: that he had made matched with you and that you 86 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: guys went to dinner on a date first day and 87 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: then he thought it went really well and was hoping 88 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: to see you again. Says he's reached out for an 89 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: another date and you haven't responded to him. But it 90 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 1: sounds like you might have a different explanation or a 91 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: different version of what happened. 92 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: Uh yeah, because when the bill came, he asked if 93 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: if we could split it. He wanted to split the bill. 94 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 4: I was so shocked that he asked. 95 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 1: Me to do that. 96 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 4: I was like, wait, I have to pay for my 97 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:25,120 Speaker 4: own food. And here's the next part that really gets me. 98 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 4: He said, yeah, unless you're coming home with me. 99 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: Oh wow. Wow. He was that specific, was he? No? 100 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 4: No, no, yeah, And he wasn't joking. 101 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: He was serious. 102 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 4: Because I asked him one more time, I really have 103 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 4: to pay for my own food, and then he responded 104 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 4: with the same thing again, yes, unless you're coming home 105 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 4: with me. 106 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,719 Speaker 1: You know, first of all, I think if he asks 107 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,320 Speaker 1: you out, or whoever is the asker of the date, 108 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: especially a first date, I feel like you got to 109 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 1: make a good impression. You were the inviter, so you 110 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: got to pay. But what you cannot do if you 111 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,800 Speaker 1: insist on splitting. What you cannot do is then say, oh, 112 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: well I'll pay for it if I get some like 113 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: come on, come on, we can't do that. 114 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,679 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ridiculous. I mean I just paid my mail 115 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 4: and just left and knew I would never see him again. 116 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 1: Oh god. Plus, you're setting yourself up to look like 117 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 1: a total idiot, like, hey, hey, if you come home 118 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: with me and then it's like you, no, I'd rather 119 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: pay for this food and get the hell out of here. 120 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: I forgot to mention that logan. This here logan I 121 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: asked you, man, I asked you to tell me trusted you? Yeah, 122 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: and I should never But why are we First of all, 123 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 1: what you asked her out. You should pay for the date, 124 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: and if you insist on splitting it, you cannot then 125 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: say well but if I get some, I'll pay for it. Hey, man, 126 00:05:41,200 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 1: modern dating rules. It's not my job to feed them 127 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 1: Modern dating in the guide written by you like to do. 128 00:05:51,520 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: It's chivalrous, it's romantic, it's gentlemanly, it's whatever, Like I 129 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: pay for the date you asked her out, Like, make 130 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 1: a good impression, bro. 131 00:05:59,320 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: I'm so sick women using men as free meal cards 132 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,359 Speaker 2: for first dates that never continue on. 133 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: I don't think that's all women are doing. I don't 134 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: think that's what most women are doing. I'm sure there's 135 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: a component of that, right, I don't. I mean, what 136 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: are we saying about you? Then? Maybe women are sick 137 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: of men thinking that if they buy your food that 138 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: they're gonna get laid. 139 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:26,119 Speaker 4: Exactly the next I mean, come on, Like, who says 140 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 4: that to somebody? I mean, what do you expect I 141 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 4: was going to go out with you again. 142 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:32,040 Speaker 1: I'll pay for your foot at hoga? 143 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 2: Let me come on, man, you had the chances to 144 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: prove you were serious about me, and you wouldn't do 145 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 2: anything about it. Oh my god, it was a first date. 146 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 1: Wow. And maybe if you'd paid you would have had 147 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 1: a much better chance at that. I mean, I'm not 148 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: saying one leads to the other, but I can tell 149 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:51,679 Speaker 1: you what what probably won't happen if you don't treat 150 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: her well, nothing, you got nothing. 151 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: I mean, I guess I could have been a little 152 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 2: less front. 153 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 5: But well, men like you don't deserve to date in 154 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,040 Speaker 5: my opinion too, Like, no, truly, like, if you're not 155 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 5: gonna pay for like your little whatever chili's meal, whatever 156 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 5: wherever you went, like that is just all messed up. 157 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 5: If you're gonna take the time to invite a woman 158 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 5: out and to take fred you're looking at me crazy. 159 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: No, you pay for our meals? No I do, no, no, no, no, 160 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: I'm not disagreeing with you. No, I just did. No. 161 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't disagree with you at all. Period. He was right, right, 162 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: that's right. 163 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know who raised this man right exactly. 164 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 1: There's no even trade, like come on, like, no one 165 00:07:30,120 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: owes you anything for doing anything? Like why do you 166 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: think that? I guess The part I don't understand is 167 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: why did Why do you think that's gonna go? 168 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 2: Well? 169 00:07:40,480 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 1: Like why did you? Oh? Well in that case, sure, yeah, 170 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: pay for my dinner absolutely, like no, no, I don't 171 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: think very many people are gonna go, Okay, well I 172 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: want free food, so I guess i'll put. 173 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 2: Out, Like come on, Wayne Gretzky always said you miss 174 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 2: one hundred percent of the shots you don't take. 175 00:07:58,120 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: Then why are you bringing Wayne in it? 176 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 3: Why didn't I next to be here? 177 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: He didn't do anything right? 178 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, like take a girl to a coffee shop 179 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 3: or something, you know, something that's really inexpensive for first date. 180 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 3: This if this is how you feel, if you feel 181 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: like all women are using you to get a meal, which. 182 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: Or don't go or well I was gonna say, do 183 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: something that doesn't require any any like I don't know 184 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: nor you know. The path I was going down is 185 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: if you're that convinced you're being used, then plan dates 186 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: that don't require a big investment. But first of all, 187 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,239 Speaker 1: I don't think you're being used. I think you're saying 188 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 1: stuff like this, which is why you don't wind up 189 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: getting any That's what I think. Yeah, I mean what 190 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: all right, Logan, No, not even Logan, Sylvia. Thank you 191 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: for answering. I'm sorry you had to go through this. 192 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: I appreciate the the transparency. Good luck to you out there, Logan. 193 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:52,839 Speaker 1: I'll know what to tell you. 194 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 2: Man, you know what this I guess you know everyone's 195 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 2: saying I need therapy. 196 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 1: You can probably just shut some eggs. What do you 197 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: need more than their pig? I don't know. I don't 198 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 1: know what just I don't know what just happened. But okay, 199 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: all right, well he got us, he really told me.