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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with her radio. Hey Ashley, I missed just so much

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Speaker 1: last week. I heard it was an incredible podcast. But

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Speaker 1: we're back now with almost in as podcast. Would you

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Speaker 1: like to reveal where you were last week? I would. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of articles getting ready get out there,

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Speaker 1: not getting ready there already out there thinking that we

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Speaker 1: filmed Bachelor in Paradise last week. In fact, that was

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Speaker 1: not the case at all. I was celebrating my bachelor party,

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Speaker 1: and uh I did it alongside a few of my friends,

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Speaker 1: some of which were from The Bachelor. Your husband was

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Speaker 1: there for a period of time. There was Nick, and

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Speaker 1: there was Dean, and there was Wells and there was Blake.

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Speaker 1: Those are are some people that just mean a ton

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Speaker 1: to me as real friends in life. We got, you know,

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Speaker 1: it's really great that it worked out because everybody that

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Speaker 1: to get a vaccine ahead of time. We got two

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Speaker 1: separate houses. We did a boat cruise, we played off

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Speaker 1: It was it was a really uh special time for me,

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Speaker 1: and this is how I wanted to do it. Actually,

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Speaker 1: like if I had it my way, my bachelor party

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Speaker 1: would have been like on a river, kind of fishing,

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Speaker 1: sitting outside, just kind of hanging out, getting good good

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Speaker 1: night's sleep, waking up early. But I really wanted some

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Speaker 1: to me. And so it meant a lot that I

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Speaker 1: get them uh down to Cabo, and even though we

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Speaker 1: I just wanted them to know that, hey, they've had

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Speaker 1: a part of my life. I wanted them there to

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Speaker 1: be celebrated alongside of me, and that I was lucky

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Speaker 1: to be able to share this life with him. If

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Speaker 1: my voice sounds be it is because I didn't stop

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Speaker 1: talking for like the last six days, and I am

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Speaker 1: so tired of talking. But I am excited to be here.

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Speaker 1: I missed you last week. Um, but it was incredible. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Great weather, Uh, great beaches and uh and and a

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Speaker 1: my favorite part. You know there's a couple. Um, my

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Speaker 1: supposed to go down with me. Yeah, he's my best man.

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Speaker 1: And um, about a week and a half ago, he

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Speaker 1: kayleb quinn reveals regrets regarding Bachelor in Paradise love triangle

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Speaker 1: Jared Haven. Oh yes, well how about you read the

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Speaker 1: quote since it's about me, I'd feel awkward. Oh fair enough? Whatever. Well,

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Speaker 1: good time. I regret most promising to Ashley that I

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Speaker 1: would never date Jared. This is what Kayla Quinn says.

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Speaker 1: The thirty year old who was on our season of

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Speaker 1: The Bachelor, Guess My season The Bachelor Bachelor's Season twenty.

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Speaker 1: She said this on Here for the Right Reasons podcast.

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Speaker 1: She finishes with this, because if I never had made

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Speaker 1: the promise, then we wouldn't have been in this predicament.

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Speaker 1: the promise very hard. Kaylea Quinn in with this. There

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Speaker 1: I definitely tried to gauge your interests in Jared before Paradise,

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Speaker 1: I'm certainly regretful and sorry for some of my behavior

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Speaker 1: focused on is as a relationship, and now I'm taking

428
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Speaker 1: a step back and I'm focused on myself and I

429
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 1: want to improve myself and become a stronger man in

430
00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 1: so many ways. And this is the first time, or

431
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Speaker 1: the first time in a long time that he's or

432
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Speaker 1: maybe he's the first time ever that he hasn't lived

433
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Speaker 1: at home. Um, so he's twenty nine, and he said

434
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Speaker 1: that he lived at home for so long because the

435
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 1: cooking was unreal thanks to his mom, Barbara. He also

436
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: said that the process over the past couple of years

437
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 1: has really made him realize that you know, the person

438
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:35,560
Speaker 1: that you choose to marry, you're not just marrying that

439
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: person that you're kind of marrying into a whole family.

440
00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,199
Speaker 1: So it's very it's a very big deal to him

441
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: now that they share similar family values and um, he's

442
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:50,880
Speaker 1: looking for a sweetheart, which is something that his mom

443
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: and him both want him to find that's sweet. Well,

444
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:59,120
Speaker 1: we're some Peter the best big News switching gears quite

445
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: a bit. This is a story that we've been intrigued

446
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:05,120
Speaker 1: by for years, or at least I have. Yes, we've

447
00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 1: asked so many questions, we've made so many assumptions, we've

448
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: never got an answer to it. But Bachelor's Becca Martinez

449
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 1: finally tells the actual story of when she was reported

450
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 1: missing in two thousand eighteen. No, actually, for anybody that

451
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 1: doesn't know we're talking about, please give a brief rundown

452
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 1: of what happened and then what actually happened during this disappearance. Okay,

453
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:32,719
Speaker 1: so do you guys remember that in the midst of

454
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:39,880
Speaker 1: our season airing, I believe um Beca Martinez was reported

455
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: missing from her mother, Like there were actually signs out

456
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 1: there with Becca's face on it, like missing person. And

457
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 1: remember how when it like she finally revealed where she

458
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: was and like that she was okay. She said that

459
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 1: she was living on a pot farm. Well that's maybe

460
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: out all that there was. She said that she this

461
00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:06,160
Speaker 1: is a quote basically to make a very long shory

462
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: store short, I was broke after The Bachelor and I

463
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: had to quit my nanny jobs because you know, she

464
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,679
Speaker 1: had to leave for the show for almost two months,

465
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: and I needed to make some quick cash. So I

466
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: went with a new friend to work on a weed farm,

467
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:27,159
Speaker 1: trimming trimming the weeds, the weed for a couple of weeks.

468
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: And then um, so that was that was true. Um,

469
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 1: but then there was an incident with a bear. She

470
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: said that she like accidentally hit a bear with her

471
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:44,919
Speaker 1: car during this time, and um, she said that she

472
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 1: felt really bad for not telling her parents where she

473
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 1: was when she was on the weed farm. She said

474
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 1: her parents were like traumatized. Um, and then she said

475
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 1: that like once she heard that her parents were so nervous,

476
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: she left the farm the next day. It was a

477
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 1: wild story. I mean we wondered, we were we were confused. Uh,

478
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,439
Speaker 1: there was a lot going on. I'm glad to finally

479
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: have um, some clarity. I remember we we this wasn't

480
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: far off and what we thought was happening, right, We

481
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 1: thought she just kind of took a little trip. This

482
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 1: was kind of where we're landing. But we just didn't

483
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: have confirmation on that. So how do you say anything

484
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: about it if you don't know. Um, we've done that before,

485
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 1: and that ever gets anywhere good. So Becka Martinez has confirmed.

486
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: Now she did disappear, but as soon as her parents

487
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,240
Speaker 1: were worried about her, she came back home. And she

488
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: is now living a happy life as a mother and

489
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: as a business entrepreneur and as a leader and as

490
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: a podcast though she's doing a lot now, she's back

491
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: bigger than ever. Well, Uh, somebody that won't be back

492
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: on a Bachelor Happy Hour podcast is Rachel Lindsay. This

493
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 1: week was a hundred her hundredth episode of the Bachelor

494
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:58,320
Speaker 1: Happy Hour podcast. That she co hosted for years, uh

495
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: with Becca kou friend or for a year? I guess

496
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 1: with Becha Koufer in two years because about two years

497
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: no was it? Yeah, it was I think summer two

498
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:14,760
Speaker 1: thousand and nine. Well, she's now stepping away officially, and

499
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: the quota is she has a love hate relationship with

500
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation. She says that in her final Bachelory Bachelor

501
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 1: Happy Our podcast, Ashley, Um, what's next for Rachel? Do

502
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: we know? And then what's going to be the change up?

503
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 1: On the Bachelor Happy Our podcast? Who's going? But we

504
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 1: we don't know? Rachel said that we we do know

505
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 1: that I have a love hate relationship and I'm thankful

506
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: the opportunity. It's been great. It's been so much fun.

507
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,360
Speaker 1: But all things come to an end. Good things come

508
00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: to an end, and I feel like certain things have

509
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,719
Speaker 1: run their course, and for me, I have run my course.

510
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: I've been struggling, that's no secret. I'm definitely closing the door,

511
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 1: but I'm not like locking it and throwing away the key.

512
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: It's just I have to for me walk away. And yeah,

513
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: it does lead to a question, who's going to be

514
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:05,160
Speaker 1: taking over? You think for her? Is it Natasha could

515
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 1: be could definitely be times. She's already hosting the you know,

516
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: the one with Joe and Tassia. I mean, who else

517
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,080
Speaker 1: would be out there right now? Um, I don't know

518
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: because tashias on happy on the other one. And then

519
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: I was thinking Katie. I was thinking Katie to come up. Yeah,

520
00:28:24,320 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: well it's a big deal. Um, Rachel Lindsay is stepping away.

521
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 1: Will be excited to see what she does next. I

522
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 1: know this is I mean, she's got plenty do you know,

523
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: She's got her book, she's got extra, she's got her

524
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 1: other podcast, Higher Learning. I think she's pretty busy. Yeah,

525
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: she's pretty busy. So she is stepping away. Well. Final headline,

526
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: Tyler Cameron spotted holding hands with model Camilla Kendra. This

527
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 1: happened in New York City. He is now getting public

528
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: with his new fleeing. Yeah. Apparently they've been seeing each

529
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,720
Speaker 1: other since January. That's when they were for spott in

530
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: New York City. Um, and just this week he was

531
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: spotted again with her in New York holding hands. So, uh,

532
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 1: you know, his best friend Matt so that he's not

533
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:18,080
Speaker 1: going to be speaking upon the relationship status. Um, but

534
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: it seems like They're a thing for sure. It's a

535
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 1: big deal. It's a big deal. Well, actually that's all

536
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: the headlines we have. Let's take a break and we

537
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: come back with the almost Famous podcast I Heart three

538
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: D Audio. Hello, this segment is brought to you in

539
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: I Heart three D Audio. For maximum effect, headphones are recommended.

540
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: So basically, welcome to the segment of the Almost Simis

541
00:29:59,080 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: podcast where Jared and I are sitting in our apartment

542
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: and the most three D sound you made here here

543
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 1: is lowest barking here. I don't understand why this is

544
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: going to Jared drinking. I don't know larbing well, I

545
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:19,000
Speaker 1: don't know why I'm part of this podcast. Why is

546
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: this going in the almost Famous podcast group? Why can't

547
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: this going to help I sec a dating one? I'm

548
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: sure your time will come. But for this segment, we

549
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 1: thought that we would, um, we would answer some fan

550
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,000
Speaker 1: questions that were sent in for you and I as

551
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,239
Speaker 1: a couple. We love questions because we can never come

552
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 1: up with original content ourselves. I'm not joking about this.

553
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: We do. We love questions. Also, we're very long winded

554
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: and annoying, so you know you were the ones who asked,

555
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: all right, what was the biggest argument you've had since

556
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 1: you've gotten married, since we've gotten married. That's actually a

557
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: good question. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know either

558
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: because the only fights that I can actually think before

559
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: before we were married. Yeah, and it was all about

560
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: bachelor paradise. So we've gone over that though. Um so

561
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: since we've gotten married, probably moving stuff. It's just moving

562
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 1: stuff and that's not like those are like bickers and

563
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 1: those are like really small. But like Gerald'll get moody

564
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,239
Speaker 1: and then I'll get annoyed because I'm O c D

565
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: and I need everything to be super perfect. And when

566
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 1: I say I'm O c D, like I don't mean

567
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: like like no, guys, Like my medication is like formulated

568
00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: so that to help people with O c D tendency

569
00:31:36,840 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: is and anxiety. So it's like I have some real

570
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:44,240
Speaker 1: things here. So when you're diagnosed, you're not very mild.

571
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call it like, you know, some affects people's lives.

572
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: I yes, I like, you know, have to hold on

573
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: door knobs and light switches and finangle things like touch

574
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,720
Speaker 1: them five times. And if I don't touch them five times,

575
00:31:59,840 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: right then I have to do it five times five,

576
00:32:01,720 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: and you don't even know that I do this stuff,

577
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: and it would be so embarrassed that you do, like,

578
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: you know, at night, like sometimes I'll touch my phone

579
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: for like a solid five seconds. You have to count

580
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: to five. You do that before you know that I'm

581
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,239
Speaker 1: doing that, though, No, I've never caught you doing it.

582
00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: And what happens if I don't do it? Quote quote

583
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 1: alsoing bad's gonna happen. Something bad's going to happen to

584
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: our family. Well, don't think that way. That's a terrible way.

585
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: That's that's just my brain is wired. You know. I

586
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: once Tom Brady a couple of years ago and bring

587
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: it back to the man himself. He doesn't believe in

588
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 1: bad luck or anything like that. He broke a mirror

589
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: and walked under a mirra. Tom Brady have to throw

590
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: and touchdown passes left and right from the New England Patriots.

591
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: Broke a mirror, Okay, but he broke a mirror, walked

592
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,600
Speaker 1: under a ladder, and he's like, guys, there's no such

593
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: thing as bad luck. And he's one like three super

594
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: a good way to prove that it doesn't exist. I

595
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 1: trust him. He's an anomaly, obviously, do you guys, hear

596
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 1: that three D sound of an email coming through my phone.

597
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: I don't even know how this. What is three D

598
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: sound is? So this mike that we're using has three

599
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: different MiGs in different directions, so it's like surround yeah,

600
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: surround sound. So technically three D three D I think

601
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: surround sound audio like surround Yeah, three D audio equal

602
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: surround sound. When I think when I think of three D,

603
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 1: I think of the Terminator ride at Universal. I never

604
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 1: went on that one. He missed out. It's a good one,

605
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: is it there anymore? Think? No? No, no, it got

606
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: taken down a few years ago. Hey, while we were

607
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: removing you got gray in your beard. I know you

608
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: stressed me out. Did you know that I did stress

609
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,200
Speaker 1: him out because you know, I tell him where to

610
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 1: put things and he has to nail them in. It's

611
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,840
Speaker 1: also whenever I do something on my own, it's never

612
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 1: good enough. So I don't make decisions. But more, babe, Okay,

613
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: So this is here's our fright. This is literally what

614
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: we find about. You just throw it up there. I

615
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,760
Speaker 1: don't just throw it up there. I like it a

616
00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: certain way. You just you don't like it a certain

617
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: because then I tell you Hey, that doesn't exactly look right.

618
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: And you, guys, I brace it. I braced him for it.

619
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, you're really gonna get annoyed at me, but

620
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:15,320
Speaker 1: I want to do like I'm not even talking about them.

621
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: You don't have a design. I like, that's okay. Not

622
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: everything has to be perfect, especially why not? Why would

623
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:26,120
Speaker 1: we want things to be because all right, I like

624
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,239
Speaker 1: making decisions, and yes, my decisions may not be the

625
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,399
Speaker 1: same as yours. But it's not. You know, I still

626
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,719
Speaker 1: think it looks good. It's not. I lived without you

627
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,400
Speaker 1: for eight years, and um, I thought my room was

628
00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 1: always very well put together. My my apartments were always

629
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 1: very well organized. It was nice. But like you guys,

630
00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: he loves in space like he like, doesn't he's getting

631
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: so annoyed in her now when you make it sound

632
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: like I'm some sort of pig who has no idea.

633
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:59,879
Speaker 1: You're very clean and organized. It's just when you hang things.

634
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: It's truly when you hang there. This is one of

635
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 1: the issues in our marriage, though, is you can't let

636
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 1: things go right. No, no, because I have obsessive compulsive disorder.

637
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 1: I'm not going to and you guys, it's very mild. Okay,

638
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: but it exists. So if I walk into that room

639
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 1: and I see that you put the photo up there

640
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: with at least three inches of extra negative space, I'm

641
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: gonna just focus in on that. I've got to focus, focus, focused.

642
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: But that is my thing. Like, that's just something you

643
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: have to accept. That's fine, But don't you have to

644
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: accept that. I'm just going to be annoyed by Fine,

645
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: I guess. I guess you'll be independent human being. I

646
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: want to be able to put things together as well,

647
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: and it might not be to your exact perfection, but

648
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 1: I think it looks nice. Yeah, but you know that

649
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: when we have a house, like you can't just like

650
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 1: do anything saying anything about a house. We've lived in

651
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: two apartments together. I think is that the issue is

652
00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 1: because you think it's you think it's temporary. He says.

653
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,640
Speaker 1: This is what he says. What I've told you this

654
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 1: a million times. I never tell you what to put

655
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: up in the bedroom. I never tell you what to

656
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:07,880
Speaker 1: put up in the living room. I never tell you

657
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,359
Speaker 1: what to do with your glam room. Literally, the only

658
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: thing I want is for like a little area of

659
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 1: my own. But you just cannot let it go because

660
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:19,440
Speaker 1: I exists, in my place. But that's still that's actually

661
00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:22,839
Speaker 1: quite rude because you're not letting me have any sense

662
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,000
Speaker 1: of independence. Where I imagine me going into your glam

663
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: room and be like, I don't like that. I think

664
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 1: you should do this, and you're like, this is my

665
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 1: glam room. I love you, but let me have my

666
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 1: glamorroom the way I want. For example, Yes, if I

667
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: want a Superman poster over here and a Tom Brady

668
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: thing over there, and it's not exact, but I kind

669
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,399
Speaker 1: of like the way it looks, just be like, nope,

670
00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: it looks good. It's not like I'm putting things crooked

671
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 1: up there, or you know, there's like one wall that's

672
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: empty while the other wall has fifty two things. I

673
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 1: don't know. This is my only annoyance. I you guys,

674
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: you got us in the middle of moving and like

675
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 1: hanging days. Okay, so like we organized is pretty much everything,

676
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: and now we're just hanging stuff. This is where we

677
00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: get really frustrated with ourselves. And I know where here's

678
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 1: what you're saying, but I cannot accept it because it

679
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: exists in my apartment and I will go in there

680
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: and see and it feels like there's a sense of

681
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:21,399
Speaker 1: not completeness and not perfection, and that's fine. I will

682
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,479
Speaker 1: accept that, but you have to accept my mood, your mood,

683
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 1: You're just gonna have to, Okay, I will accept your

684
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 1: annoyance sorted that you always Yeah, that's well because eventually

685
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: the day is over in our hanging days are done,

686
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 1: and then we're back to normal and we're not annoying

687
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: at each other. But like if when we move into

688
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: our house, our permanent house, one day, you you acknowledge

689
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 1: that everything does need to be like with now I'm

690
00:37:44,960 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: changing my twod because you never let me have the

691
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: opportunity to hang things on my own. You guys, he nailed.

692
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: I can't believe we're talking about this. He nailed. Oh

693
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: my god. Okay. So we had a task rab It

694
00:37:56,440 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 1: come the other day and I was out and he goes,

695
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: I had them put the amount for the TV up

696
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, did you put in the

697
00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: center of the wall, and he was like, in the

698
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 1: center of the wall, yes it was. And I was like, okay, perfect,

699
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: in the center of the wall. Looks great. This is

700
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,880
Speaker 1: where the old TV was. It's gonna be great. But

701
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: then he didn't take into consideration that it needed to

702
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:25,800
Speaker 1: be completely centered with notable we ended up putting a

703
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 1: kitchen table to the right side of that wall. So

704
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, no, we need to move the TV

705
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 1: to the left. But then the TV console, Um, it

706
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 1: wasn't lining up. So he basically put it so that

707
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: the TV console would be like one ft off from

708
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 1: the center of yes, because then you would have what

709
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 1: had the console where we would have just moved the console.

710
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: Wasn't the moving of the console and the moving of

711
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,399
Speaker 1: the then if we put the console over to the right,

712
00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: it would have bumped into the kitchen table. We would

713
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 1: have moved the kitchen table on to the what the hallway. No,

714
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: we would have figured it out. It was more of

715
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: the annoyance of like, yet again, I can never do

716
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: anything on my own. It was annoyed because I was

717
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 1: right about it. But that's my point, and my point is, sure,

718
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 1: you can have the TV, but then like you come

719
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 1: into my the like the office slash man cave, and

720
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: you're like no, no, no, no, And it's like you

721
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: could like if you didn't tell me all those nose

722
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: or like try to override my decisions in the office,

723
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,920
Speaker 1: the TV would not have annoyed me as much. But

724
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: it's everything I guess them. I guess the bottom of

725
00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: the bottom line is I would prefer just to deal

726
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 1: with your mood for a couple of days. Well, you're

727
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,320
Speaker 1: dealing with it, I know, I am see, and you

728
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 1: could admit that you're annoyed instead of what did I

729
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,840
Speaker 1: just said? I know, But earlier in the car, you're like,

730
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm just my body's tired. No, seriously, I mean, I'm

731
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: very tired today. It's not I My mellowness today had

732
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: nothing to do with annoyance. Of course, when we had

733
00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 1: to move the bracket and I was annoyed, yes, that

734
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 1: was from the annoyance. Now we have two large holes

735
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: in the wall. But you know what I would prefer.

736
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's my mom um. I would prefer holes

737
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 1: in the wall for a temporary period of time than

738
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:19,319
Speaker 1: it's to be crooked or off center. Okay, so we're

739
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 1: going to move on to a lighter topic. Um. Somebody said,

740
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: who will be the mean parent? Who will be the

741
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 1: fun parent. I don't think either one of us are

742
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 1: going to be mean parents. I think they mean the disciplinarian.

743
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 1: I feel as if I will be the disciplinarian. Yes,

744
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,760
Speaker 1: see what. I also feel that I'll be the fun parent.

745
00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 1: I agree. I think you might be both extremes. Not

746
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 1: that you're going to be extreme extreme, but like, yeah,

747
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:51,399
Speaker 1: I don't think we're one or the other. I think

748
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,240
Speaker 1: you're just going to be consistently supportive and loving towards

749
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 1: our children. No, thank you, like I am with the lowest,

750
00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 1: like you are with the lowest. So Jared is way

751
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 1: more fun with Lois and he's way more disciplinary with her,

752
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 1: and I am just constantly like, oh, if she messed up,

753
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: if she got mad and bit someone, I was like

754
00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: a fun fact. Guys. One time Lois bit Chris Harrison.

755
00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 1: Yeah it wasn't good. I mean it was a little nick.

756
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't anything bad. I don't want you know. I

757
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: think you broke skin though, did she did? She did?

758
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,759
Speaker 1: I mean a little little baby thing, a little baby

759
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 1: she's really bad come into her territory. And he came

760
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: into her hotel room of five days. Yeah, we were

761
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: quarantining and then she hadn't seen people for a few days.

762
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 1: And there's a bunch of people that walked in at

763
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: the same time, and one was Chris and like she

764
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 1: was like freaking out everybody and then like Chris just

765
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: like put his hand out, just kind of like yes, yes,

766
00:41:54,640 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: here you go. Just sniffy whoops, right, our last question

767
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 1: because we did spend so much time on the annoyance question.

768
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of people will be

769
00:42:05,560 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: able to relate to that. We'll find out we're just

770
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:09,879
Speaker 1: trying to give you, guys, good content. You know, we're

771
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: just happy, go lucky. How we're being real, but honestly,

772
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 1: like we are so great and not annoyed each other

773
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: nineties six percent of the time you caught us on

774
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: a week where where there might have been annoying, well,

775
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: it's just it's moving and then busy. And do you

776
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: guys hear that you hear that three D sound from

777
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:38,440
Speaker 1: somebody trying to check their engine outside bud Rhode Island

778
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 1: in Rhode Island. Okay, I'm pressing anybody. Do you pick

779
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: sides when there's drama between your bachelor friends? Luckily, our

780
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: core group of bachelor friends don't get dramatic. I can't

781
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: remember one time we're there was a moment where we

782
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,359
Speaker 1: felt like we had to pick one or the other.

783
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 1: Ye know, So that's good. And then for Ash and I.

784
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: We don't. I don't think we've ever been on an

785
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: opposite side of an argument like that, right, We we

786
00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:14,200
Speaker 1: don't really disagree when it comes to like well, I mean,

787
00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: we certainly disagree, but we have we have good conversations

788
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: and then we see each other's perspective and sometimes you'll

789
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 1: agree with me more or sometimes I'll agree with you more.

790
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 1: It's fun having those conversations with you, Yeah, because we

791
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: usually find common ground and if not, they're all very respectful. Yeah. Um, okay,

792
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 1: so then have you have have you you get that

793
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: three D sound? You hear that? Just see like they

794
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: probably don't hear that at all? Probably not and zing okay,

795
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: last question, do you have baby names picked out yet? Yeah?

796
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,320
Speaker 1: We have a boy name picked out and it's like

797
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 1: a full boy name. We're not saying it. We're never

798
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: gonna say it. Guys. I have had this name picked

799
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:04,200
Speaker 1: out from two thou nine picked out earlier than that. No,

800
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: I wasn't creative enough. Um, but so it's been thirteen years. Wait,

801
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 1: no it hasn't. Wow, I'm done years. I love the name,

802
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:20,239
Speaker 1: but it's for a boy. Jared thinks it's okay for

803
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: a girl. I think it could be okay for a

804
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: girl too, but like everybody, Oh no, no, you don't

805
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: think that you did for a second. No, we're literally

806
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: on the opposite sides of them. You know, at first

807
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 1: you were okay with it, said it was either a

808
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 1: boy or a girl firstborn, this is their name, and

809
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: I thought, well, I like it better, definitely better for

810
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: a boy. Yeah, I know I've never said no, you

811
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 1: did early early on, early on, years ago. I don't

812
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:52,919
Speaker 1: think so. I think you were the one I thought

813
00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:57,799
Speaker 1: we switched. Anyway, we have a name, and we love

814
00:44:57,880 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: it very very much, very much. I don't want anybody

815
00:45:00,680 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 1: else to take it. I'm worried it's going to become

816
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: a popular name. It I don't know. Once we put

817
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: it out there, then it's like the hell the fact

818
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: Wells name. We're not that in people, Jared. People started

819
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: naming their kids Wells the year that Wells was on,

820
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 1: And this is going to be a kind of unique name.

821
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 1: That's pretty cool. Let's hold our horses. I don't I

822
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:27,480
Speaker 1: really get worried about this. I know, Wow, what worries

823
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: I have right talking about privilege, worried about people are

824
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: going to change take my kid's name, but we don't

825
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: really have a girl's name picked out. Mm hmm, it'll

826
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 1: be fun to figure out. Let's name our kid Lois Jr.

827
00:45:44,040 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 1: Sure head is you know Lois is watching? Oh? Yeah,

828
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: Lois is just sleeping listening to mom and dad record

829
00:45:50,560 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 1: on this three D thing. All right, well we're going

830
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 1: to hand it over to Ben and Jess. Now, so

831
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: where's this going? This is going on the almost famous podcast.

832
00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: This is These Weeks almost famous podcas House. Jared, you're

833
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: on the podcast. What do you mean? This is like

834
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 1: the podcast podcast. I would have done so much better

835
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,360
Speaker 1: had I known that. Oh that makes means that you

836
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 1: did a great job because you're super organic in yourself.

837
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: I heart three D audio. All right, Jess? What rules

838
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:26,399
Speaker 1: did you have for me at my bachelor party? Um?

839
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 1: I actually pulled one of your friends aside, I think

840
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,000
Speaker 1: without you knowing, and I said, I wanted you to

841
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:37,400
Speaker 1: have one night that you couldn't remember. Well, was that

842
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 1: the night I won the dance contest? Yeah? It was

843
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:41,880
Speaker 1: when you won the booty shaking contest. That's what you

844
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: told me it was. I definitely think it was. Thank

845
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: you for doing that was very sweeter. Here, what are

846
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: we arguing about the most when it comes to wedding planning.

847
00:46:55,560 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 1: Um good, I feel like we've been like pretty similar

848
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 1: on everything. I guess maybe like at the beginning it

849
00:47:11,719 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: was the size, Yeah, but now I think we're just

850
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 1: kind of on the same page. I think we are.

851
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: We had to work through like the size, the music,

852
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,439
Speaker 1: like we've worked through all those things. But I thought

853
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: I felt like we've done it well. Yeah, there's nothing

854
00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 1: that's been like, no massive blow ups, no, and like

855
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: I think that we've heard each other out on everything

856
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,920
Speaker 1: and it makes sense. So yeah, I mean we kind

857
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: of wanted the same thing, right, Like we wanted this

858
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 1: to be a party. We didn't want it to be

859
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,120
Speaker 1: super fancy. We wanted to be a celebration. Maybe your

860
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 1: suit color because you wanted a spring suit in our

861
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:51,920
Speaker 1: weddings in the fall, So we had to figure out

862
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 1: the shade of gray. That's right. Yeah, that's that was

863
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: a big I don't think we're going to make it

864
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 1: through that one. By the way, it's snowing out right now.

865
00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:07,000
Speaker 1: Um it's May ten and it's snowing in Denver. If

866
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: you hear the wind shield wipers going a drive, you

867
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:15,440
Speaker 1: can also hear my tears um. How well, speaking of

868
00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: snow in May, how did you decide to move to

869
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: Denver and not tennesse See this is a great place,

870
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 1: I know. I mean the real reason is my dad

871
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: honestly encourage us that it would be good for us

872
00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: to go out and not being here either of our families.

873
00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: So just for a bit, yeah, for a while, and

874
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,880
Speaker 1: we listen to anything. Jay says, yeah, he's he's rulable,

875
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 1: But it really has been. I think it's been great

876
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 1: for us so far. And I think it's been great

877
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,280
Speaker 1: for us in our first couple of years of marriage.

878
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: And I do love it here. It's just like I

879
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 1: just don't I just don't understand. You don't love the

880
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: hold and you don't love the snow, And this year

881
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,080
Speaker 1: has by far been the most snow and most is

882
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: cold we've had of all time. I just feel like

883
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: it's a lie at this point. It might be. Yeah,

884
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 1: everyone just seems to be going about their merry way,

885
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: and I feel like I want to crawl in a hole. Uh.

886
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 1: Two more questions. Okay, what's one thing I don't know

887
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: about you? And then I'll share one thing I don't

888
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: know about it or that you don't know about. Um,

889
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:38,080
Speaker 1: you don't know about maybe that I won the first

890
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 1: grade spelling me. Did you know that? Yeah? What was

891
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: the last word? Cattle? Welcome to Tennessee. The second place

892
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,399
Speaker 1: person spout it c A D D l E. Yeah,

893
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: I can see that. Yeah, but it's c A T

894
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 1: T l E. So did you did you cry when

895
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: you won? Oh? I was thrilled. I didn't cry. It

896
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: was more just like my head grew four sized figger

897
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 1: and I got to wear a sticker the whole day

898
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:12,200
Speaker 1: that says I'm the winner. What's one thing you don't

899
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: know about me? I would say that my sixth grade

900
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: talent show, I placed the second place because I did

901
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 1: a duet to um Share with my buddy singing. Yeah,

902
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 1: we're big Share fans back then. Interesting, Yeah you've heard

903
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:34,680
Speaker 1: me sing? Could you see me get in second place?

904
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 1: Your voice has probably changed since um Okay, final question, Jessica,

905
00:50:45,239 --> 00:50:47,760
Speaker 1: we're both off the hast seat here. In a second,

906
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: we're gonna drive back home. We're gonna get you warm.

907
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: What is your favorite thing about me? And what is

908
00:50:56,560 --> 00:51:01,759
Speaker 1: your least favorite thing about my? Everything about you is

909
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: your generosity and the way you exclude or the way

910
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,719
Speaker 1: you love people without exclusion. You love everyone that you

911
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:19,879
Speaker 1: meet exactly the same, and I just think it's such

912
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: an admorable quality and you give without thinking twice about it.

913
00:51:25,719 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: And I love both these things about you. My leaser

914
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: thing about you is probably m hm oh we got

915
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: elk in the road. M right there, I see them now,

916
00:51:52,960 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 1: um my leaser room, hey boys, um My. At least

917
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: a really value is probably that you like to live

918
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: in cold places. M. I don't know if I like

919
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: to live in cold places. It just so happens that

920
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 1: I do live in them. Yeah, that's just top of mind. Okay,

921
00:52:21,200 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: you have perfect of snow today, al right. My favorite

922
00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 1: thing about you is your desire to love people. Well,

923
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: you have a lot of empathy and you have a

924
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:36,800
Speaker 1: lot of desire to help and not hurt. So everything

925
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 1: you do, I feel like it is done with the

926
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,839
Speaker 1: mindset the best you can of how can I help,

927
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:48,520
Speaker 1: and then eliminating ways that you can hurt. It's just true.

928
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 1: I don't know how sweet it is, just like true?

929
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:55,240
Speaker 1: Is it nice? And then my least favorite thing about

930
00:52:55,280 --> 00:53:00,239
Speaker 1: you is the amount of hair that you shed horse

931
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 1: of a day. I thought I had it under control. Um,

932
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: it's found everyone. And then when I say everywhere everywhere,

933
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 1: I went to play golf the other day and I

934
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,160
Speaker 1: picked up a club and there was a Jessica here

935
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 1: on how do you know it wasn't have been here?

936
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: It's about two ft longing. Well, thanks for joining us

937
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: on our car ride tonight. This has been a lot

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942
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,800
Speaker 1: Thank you for asking about last week. Thank you for

943
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 1: covering last week Ashley. We have a big week ahead

944
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:58,080
Speaker 1: of us. In fact, we have an announcement for our

945
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:02,759
Speaker 1: four year anniversary, which is this upcoming Monday. It's gonna

946
00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:07,560
Speaker 1: be massive. Yeah, hey guys. Actually, the true transparency Ben

947
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 1: and I don't even know what they want the announcement

948
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: is yet. Our producers are working behind the scenes and

949
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: they're going to surprise us. So we're even waiting with

950
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:21,440
Speaker 1: bated breath. Speaking of our producers, one of our beloved

951
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: Becky is she's like retiring from us today. She's moving

952
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 1: up in the I Heart family and We've been with

953
00:54:29,640 --> 00:54:33,280
Speaker 1: her for the past year and she has been the best.

954
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:36,319
Speaker 1: She sends us the most thorough rundown. She does her

955
00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,320
Speaker 1: research so well, and she's so kind and lovely to

956
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: be around. The couraging, yeah, supportive. She's going on to

957
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: do great. She deserves it, right, I mean, we can't

958
00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: be sad for that. She's moving up in life. Um.

959
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: It feels like a lot of people move up in

960
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,279
Speaker 1: life from us, which is a good thing. We want

961
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: people to to far exceed anything we can do. But hey,

962
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 1: we have made it four years and people like Becky

963
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:00,880
Speaker 1: have helped us get there, which is is something extremely

964
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: special and something that we don't take for granted and

965
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 1: we celebrate often. So thank you, Becky for all the

966
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:07,520
Speaker 1: work that you've put in. I wish you the best

967
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: and uh Ashley. We'll be back next week with another

968
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 1: episode of the Almost Famous podcast with an announcement for

969
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,399
Speaker 1: a four year anniversary. It's gonna be crazy, it's gonna

970
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: be awesome. But until then, I've been Been, I've been Ashley.

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