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<v Speaker 1>at this point, we've done so many second date updates.

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<v Speaker 1>We've basically heard every type of date you could possibly imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, for sure. We've heard restaurant dates, hot air

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<v Speaker 1>balloon dates, drunk dates, sober dates, dates that only happened

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<v Speaker 1>in someone's dream and they didn't realize until we called

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<v Speaker 1>the other person and she found out. Oh wait, that's right,

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<v Speaker 1>it was all a figment of my imagination. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out anyway? Done everything? Well, today we

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<v Speaker 1>have a caller who did something that we haven't heard yet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe. I don't either, a very skeptical or.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Nina, and she's the first person that we've

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<v Speaker 1>spoken to who's gone on an actual zoom date. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we haven't done a zoom day. Yes, no, not what

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update on virtual date? Yeah? So, Nina

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<v Speaker 1>would you zoom with? I zoomed with Evan? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>your first ever zoom date? Two? It was like my

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<v Speaker 1>second one. Oh okay, you're well versed. Yeah. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm meeting an astronaut. Like, yeah, this is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us how you met Evan. I met Evan

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<v Speaker 1>because he accepted me. You know how Facebook has the

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<v Speaker 1>thing of like people you might know? People actually use

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<v Speaker 1>that because at least you can see the mutual friends,

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<v Speaker 1>and then if someone is interested, you can ask your

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<v Speaker 1>mutual friends like hey, do you really know this person?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like every time it suggests something to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like some friend of like my mom. Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. That's how Facebook is. Yeah, on Facebook? So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did you guys strike up a conversation?

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<v Speaker 1>He just messaged you. I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, so he

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<v Speaker 1>just messages me and he was like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just done. Hi. I so some pictures of the beach,

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<v Speaker 1>and she really like going to the beach too. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, yeah, you know, I enjoy going

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<v Speaker 1>out there. Seems like I like seeing you in your bikinis.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like, actually the beach, right. So he passed

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<v Speaker 1>the Facebook test how did the zoom call go? So

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<v Speaker 1>at first he started off really well. So he had

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<v Speaker 1>the idea of ordering food from the same restaurant and

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<v Speaker 1>just Uber eats and stuff like that. So I thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was cute. That is cute. So it's like, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are at the same restaurant, even though you're in

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<v Speaker 1>your own houses, at least you're sharing the same food,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like three times as expensive as going to

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<v Speaker 1>He bought it, so I was like, Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool. That's one. Then he was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's put on this playlist and then we just like

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<v Speaker 1>literally had on like the same music and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like it's gonna sound super teasy, but it was cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like a little French cafe thing. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>in my head, I'm I'll say, if you could get

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<v Speaker 1>a zoom day. Yeah. I literally planned this out for

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<v Speaker 1>somebody once I thought, and she can't. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>he's done this before, like he's not new to the

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<v Speaker 1>zoom date. And I liked them, Like, I mean, there

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<v Speaker 1>were some internet issues, so it was like sometimes they

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<v Speaker 1>were like a little awkward, yeah, because they're like, what,

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<v Speaker 1>like I didn't hear what you're saying audio cuts out

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<v Speaker 1>on zoom. Yeah. I mean first dates are awkward in themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>but then when you can hardly hear the other person

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<v Speaker 1>and there's music playing in the background, that's weird. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like you can't read each other's body language.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, were you able to get some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>like tell on his vibe or if he was into

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<v Speaker 1>you or not. Evan he was cool because he would

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<v Speaker 1>like listen when I said something and then answered you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that sounds like a really low bar, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is really hard for men and other people to hit.

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean it's a it's a really easy way

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<v Speaker 1>to see who a person is pretty quickly, right, because

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<v Speaker 1>it's pretty right in front of you if you're only

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<v Speaker 1>able to talk No, And Evan like, he just looks

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<v Speaker 1>pretty normal from what I was gathering. So I was

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<v Speaker 1>just going for that, like, okay, okay, so I mean

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<v Speaker 1>flowing reviews. Yeah, like how did it end? This is

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<v Speaker 1>the weird part that I was not expecting. We're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about paddle boarding, because I was telling him that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go out there, and all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>he stops and looks down and he's just like oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go in a few minutes, So waiting down

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<v Speaker 1>like at his phone or did he just look down

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<v Speaker 1>naturally like ashamed of something. I mean, he was on

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<v Speaker 1>his laptop, so I'm assuming it was his phone. But

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<v Speaker 1>he just like you know, like when you have that

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<v Speaker 1>look in your face like oh crap. See I can't swim.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would be like, oh crap, that's why you

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<v Speaker 1>brought up people. I can't do that. He had a

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<v Speaker 1>bad experience with a paddleboard in his past, like a

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<v Speaker 1>paddleboard snuck into his room one night and like touched him.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so far off right now. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>you a lot of paddleboard stories like that. So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you think it was? Why did he have to

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<v Speaker 1>go so quick? I don't know. I don't know. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we didn't even get to the dirt, and I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>sucker for a like chocolate cake, and we had like

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<v Speaker 1>finished by me all I said, okay, bye. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the obvious question in this situation is were you wearing pants?

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<v Speaker 1>Because that can that can really affect out the day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what. I was gonna say no because I

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<v Speaker 1>was wearing a dress. Wouldn't the guys stay on the line,

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<v Speaker 1>if you weren't wearing pants like that wouldn't make a

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<v Speaker 1>guy look down in shame and leave. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It depends on what was happening down below that screen

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<v Speaker 1>for him. He's like, oh, I gotta go below his screen.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, yeah, I don't know that. What do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it is. I'm hoping he's not one of those

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<v Speaker 1>guys that are like cheating on their wife or girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got attack, so I'm honey and on the

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<v Speaker 1>way home, and then I was like, okay, I thought, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>and it'd be so easy to do on a zoom call. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wouldn't feel that guilty. We wouldn't do anything

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<v Speaker 1>right like that would be that would be the excuse. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're the your type of woman that wants like

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<v Speaker 1>a guy to be like loyal and still single. She

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<v Speaker 1>does have pretty big demands. Oh god, okay, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like that bar is so low right now, Well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>see if we can push it down just a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit lower. We're gonna play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Evan for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. Update. Okay, all right, hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners named Nina met a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Evan of her Facebook and apparently Evan checks all her boxes.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got a mouth that he can talk out of.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got ears that he can listen with two of them. Actually, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of guys just have the one and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't even use it. But this guy has both ears,

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<v Speaker 1>knows how to listen. Ladies are turned on right, just

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<v Speaker 1>as you say. Plus he's got decent but still kind

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<v Speaker 1>of spotty wifis. He's a real charmer. So Nina and

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<v Speaker 1>Evan were enjoying a nice zoom date together. Then at

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<v Speaker 1>a certain point, Evan had this shocked expression come over

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<v Speaker 1>his face. He looked down and said he had to

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<v Speaker 1>get going. She doesn't know why, but ever since then,

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<v Speaker 1>Evan seems to be kind of avoiding her. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why we're stepping into help. All that sound right, Nina? Yep? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how are you feeling going into this? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you found a guy who listens to you.

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<v Speaker 1>That feels like there's a lot on the line right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'll take what I can get. Are you nervous?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you excited? What do you think. I'm nervous. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what happened. I'm hoping he's not like married

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<v Speaker 1>with three kids. I don't know. They just sound too

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<v Speaker 1>good to be true the way Jeff described to him,

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<v Speaker 1>there's got to be something wrong with him. But I

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<v Speaker 1>do think I'll take what I could get. Should be

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<v Speaker 1>the new slogan for some dating there. Maybe shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>for plenty of fish or something like I'll take what

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<v Speaker 1>I can get. All right? Are you ready to call Levin? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Are ming him? No? No, no, no, we're

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<v Speaker 1>just we're gonna take what we can get. Wrong, all right, name,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna tell the phone number right now? Here we go? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Evan? Please? Yeah? This is him. Hi, Evan.

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<v Speaker 1>My name's Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Do you have a second to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with us? Uh? I'm sorry, what is this about? This

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<v Speaker 1>is about your dating life, because apparently you do it

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<v Speaker 1>really well, a lot better than most guys do. That's

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<v Speaker 1>actually true. He's not being facetious. I'm sorry. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you know this? Because that's true? Maybe I should clarify.

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<v Speaker 1>One of our listeners reached out to us to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you. You went on a zoom date

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<v Speaker 1>with her, and she had a really good time. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Nina. Okay, that's not a good noise. It

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<v Speaker 1>is not a good side. It sounded like an awesome

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<v Speaker 1>zoom date. She told us about the day, and she

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<v Speaker 1>says that it was really really fun that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>ordered some food together and played some romantic music over

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<v Speaker 1>the video chat and you spoke. She was blown away

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<v Speaker 1>that you could speak and listen. Yea, so she's confused

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<v Speaker 1>while you're avoiding her. Uh yeah, you know, she seemed cool.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wanted to do a nice job, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>make it a nice time. And that's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>blank background. Yeah. I was impressed. I mean I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like you put in the extra effort and it would

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<v Speaker 1>take a lot to like get the two herber drivers

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<v Speaker 1>to deliver the food at the same time, to do

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<v Speaker 1>two different locations. Like you put in some work for this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it wasn't that much work. You're building it

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<v Speaker 1>up like I orchestrated some whole thing. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was pretty easy. It wasn't a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't downplay it, man, I think you got to remember,

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<v Speaker 1>even the bar is very low and dating these days. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, you're basically the George Clooney of Zoom calls. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's exactly what George would have said to be handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, what's the deal, Like, why aren't you calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back? Because she really likes you. Yeah, well, I

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<v Speaker 1>had a nice time, but it's just clear that she's

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<v Speaker 1>hiding things. That she's hiding things. She feels like you're

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<v Speaker 1>hiding things. What wait, wait, what do you mean she

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<v Speaker 1>feels like I'm hiding things? Well, she said the phone

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<v Speaker 1>call ended abruptly, and you had this weird look on

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<v Speaker 1>your face, and she didn't know what made you so concerned. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're like talking, We're having a nice time. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't remember what we were talking about exactly. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like the beach or like paddle boarding or something. And

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<v Speaker 1>I look up at the screen and right behind her,

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<v Speaker 1>a naked dude walks through the frame. Whoa, whoa yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you didn't say like, who's the naked dude? You

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<v Speaker 1>just know. Chloti was like I've got to go, oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I didn't really know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is is that like it happened twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you sure you weren't like seeing something else? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Twice as twice as in two separate naked dudes or

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<v Speaker 1>the same naked dude twice? You know, I wasn't looking

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<v Speaker 1>too closely, but it seems like it was the same

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<v Speaker 1>naked dude. Okay, I'm trying to get a visual of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was was it like directly behind her or was it

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<v Speaker 1>way way off in the distance in the background. Dudes,

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<v Speaker 1>describe what he looks like in great detail. Look, I've

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<v Speaker 1>tried to block it from my memory, so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really remember. I mean he was he was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>relatively close, and he walked by. He was like holding

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<v Speaker 1>a jar of peanut butter or something. I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>know what just happened. What was he going to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Is Oh my god? Wait, she's saying thing about random

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<v Speaker 1>naked guy. It seems like she was either like very

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable with it or had no idea what was going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't you bring it to her attention? Why wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you ask, like, who's the naked guy in the background? Yeah, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on a zoom call on a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna like ask that. I'm not gonna point

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<v Speaker 1>behind her be like, who's that naked guy? Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>my curiosity would be killing me. You it's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>there's a naked guy. Never mind, you know, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. I mean, maybe we should just ask

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<v Speaker 1>Nina who that was right now, because she's been on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and she actually wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you, Evan, he's on the other line. Yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I should have mentioned that earlier. Nina. What'd you laugh?

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<v Speaker 1>This is awesome? Terrible? Who's the naked guy? Nita? Oh a,

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<v Speaker 1>Brin was staring up? Can you explain what's going on? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>my parents have been staying with me. Don't tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that was your dad. Do not tell me that was

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<v Speaker 1>your dad. So after they retired, all they have been

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<v Speaker 1>doing is like traveling, So they have spent most of

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<v Speaker 1>like the winter in Europe and like summer and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. So they got into this sting of like

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<v Speaker 1>just being free. It was like their midlife prices things.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I'm not like in the room, they will

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<v Speaker 1>like walk around naked and no one like nuitics colonies

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<v Speaker 1>and like they huff friends whatever, and they're they're really

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<v Speaker 1>like into it. So now your dad just runs amuck

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<v Speaker 1>naked and you don't even care. Well, it's like an

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<v Speaker 1>American thing. I feel to be very tabooish about that.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, if you go to any European country, you

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<v Speaker 1>will find people on the beach toaplets. So there you go, Evan,

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<v Speaker 1>it's her dad. Does that make you feel better? Dad?

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<v Speaker 1>You're telling me that your dad was walking naked through

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<v Speaker 1>your zoom call. That's okay. So I'm like, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. You could literally see down the hall,

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<v Speaker 1>like my house is pretty big, Like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry, Evan. This isn't necessarily a bad thing. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she's close with her family, which is good. They may

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<v Speaker 1>need to work on some boundaries, right if you were

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<v Speaker 1>updating her. My parents don't live with me. They don't

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<v Speaker 1>live with me. Okay, they were visiting. But yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>she's a real free, liberated spirit, which is a fun

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<v Speaker 1>person to date. I'm just saying of it. Okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are just believing her, But how do you know

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<v Speaker 1>that she's like telling the truth. I've only been on

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<v Speaker 1>one zoom date with her. I haven't even seen her

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<v Speaker 1>in person, Like, I don't know, I just feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting set up here. I feel really uncomfortable, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if it's a large, old white guy, that was

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<v Speaker 1>my dad, and I don't know what else to tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's not something that you know my parents had

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<v Speaker 1>at that point, Like they're older. They had me when

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<v Speaker 1>they were older, so they will do whatever the hell

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<v Speaker 1>they want. All right, Well, maybe the answer to this

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<v Speaker 1>is for you guys to do one more zoom date

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<v Speaker 1>and then we have Nina. You bring your dad back

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<v Speaker 1>on naked peanut butter jar around just to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that we can get a perfect comparison, and then Evan

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<v Speaker 1>will be able to tell for certain whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>it really was your dad the last time. My dad

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<v Speaker 1>has a sixth sense of humor. Who would totally direct

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're willing to do that, we will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for the peanut butter. Come on, Evan, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you should say yes. Honestly, she has such a good

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<v Speaker 1>sense of humor. If she promises not to do the

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<v Speaker 1>naked dad thing again, then yeah, I'll do a second zoomer. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is where dating's at. I promise her to do

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<v Speaker 1>the naked dad thing again. Well, there you go. Congratulations Nina,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a second date. Oh my god, Well make

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<v Speaker 1>sure my dad wears hands and make sure let's get

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<v Speaker 1>your mom naked on the next zoom. No, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>Moving ninety two point five