WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Christians Mingling

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second day, today's second dater met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>he went out with where I've met almost every single

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<v Speaker 1>girl I've ever dated Christian Mingle dot com, member of

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<v Speaker 1>that site since it started, you know, I just love

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<v Speaker 1>it so much. That's where Nathan apparently met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>he wants us to call today. Nathan, what's up? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Man? Good? Good? I love your show, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you appreciate it. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about meeting the girl you want us to call today.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Mia? Mia? Okay, so you met her

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<v Speaker 1>on this website. Yeah, I did the normal thing where

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<v Speaker 1>both expressed into a message dirt through the website, and

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<v Speaker 1>from there it was awesome on for a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>and then for about a month straight we were hitting

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<v Speaker 1>probably almost every other night. Sometimes there'll be three four

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<v Speaker 1>days ago by, but it's very progressing from there. So

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<v Speaker 1>you guys talked a lot before you actually met in person.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the thing. We actually haven't met in person yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>date kind of Nathan's one of those guys that date

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<v Speaker 1>never actually happened. Yeah. I'm walking to the date and

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<v Speaker 1>I get a phone call from her and she tells

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<v Speaker 1>me that she's got an emergency and that she's going

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<v Speaker 1>to have to cancel. She's flying to California. You were

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<v Speaker 1>actually at the place that you're going to meet her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she called you and said that she was flying

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<v Speaker 1>to California. I mean I would literally pulling into the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant practically, Oh man, you didn't happen to notice if

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<v Speaker 1>she was like in the restaurant or like in the

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<v Speaker 1>vicinity of you when she called you right like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was waiting for you and then saw you and

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like your outfit and was like, oh, no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't see her anywhere? Well, look, I've been to

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<v Speaker 1>meet someone before that I didn't like it, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just took off when I saw him, like the ultimate jerk.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't spend months talking to us, So you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see her around you, did you? No? And that's part

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<v Speaker 1>of the other thing about this that's crazy enough. She

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even have a profile tech so I've never seen

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of her. You never, You've never seen a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of this girl. No, I couldn't tell you what

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<v Speaker 1>she looks like. And I had asked, and she said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd rather toolp a relationship. Yeah, how do you start

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<v Speaker 1>talking to someone on a dating website that doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a profile picture. I know that they're out there. They

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<v Speaker 1>usually have like a silhouette or somebody that hasn't uploaded

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<v Speaker 1>it or whatever. But why would you I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I would not talk to somebody on a dating website

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<v Speaker 1>that didn't have a profile picture. I'd want to see

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<v Speaker 1>them from having online dated. Even somebody that only has

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<v Speaker 1>one is kind of sketchy. Guy. Yeah right, you want

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<v Speaker 1>some of them doing activities, and so what made you

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to her if she didn't have a

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<v Speaker 1>profile picture? In all honesty, at that point that day,

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<v Speaker 1>I just was going around and looking for people online,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's somewhat near the area, and I just sent

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<v Speaker 1>a message saying, hey, how's it going, just casting a

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<v Speaker 1>wide neck. Yeah, I'll be honest with you that they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't have anything to do. I was on the site

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<v Speaker 1>figure that i'd stake up a conversation. So you went

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<v Speaker 1>to go meet her, and she called you right before

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<v Speaker 1>and said that something came up and she had an emergency.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you believe her? Do you think she was lying

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<v Speaker 1>to you? Well? I was lived at first and pissed,

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<v Speaker 1>and but the conversation actually went on. She wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me while she was waiting for her flight. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It made me believe her, and I sort of tried

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<v Speaker 1>to ask her what was going on? Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>I could do? Well? Any help? Nathan. Let's face it,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way she's lying to you because you met

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<v Speaker 1>her on a Christian website. Don't lie, so you know

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<v Speaker 1>that she's telling the truth. But you actually stayed on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and chatted with her while she was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for her plane to leave. Yeah, okay, And you do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that maybe you're getting catfish like she's just

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<v Speaker 1>not who she says she is. I mean, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to believe in the best. But I've texted her a

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<v Speaker 1>few times done and I haven't gotten messages back. So

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<v Speaker 1>nothing bad. Point. There's a large fortune to me that's thinking.

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<v Speaker 1>What AD's name is going on? I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a kid, a boyfriend there, husband, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how long she's in California for. I just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on at all. And how long ago has

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<v Speaker 1>it been since you talked about five days? It's been

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<v Speaker 1>about five days since you actually spoke to her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>still an emergency. You don't think she might need a

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<v Speaker 1>little more time with whatever it is. I mean, in hindsight,

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<v Speaker 1>probably nobody jumped the gun a little bit. But at

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<v Speaker 1>this point I don't understand the miss text messages well,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've got to be emotionally invested. I mean a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people would consider this a relationship even though

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't even met yet. God would definitely for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her, see if we can get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get your second day update. Okay, looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. SEC. I'm gonna be honest, I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't care if Nathan, who was on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update, gets a second date out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know two things about the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he was supposed to meet up with on his date.

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<v Speaker 1>One what does she look like? And two? Why did

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<v Speaker 1>she have to go to California an emergency? Yeah? That's

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<v Speaker 1>all I really want to know. Yeah, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why she had to bail on him before their

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<v Speaker 1>date even started. If you're just tuning into the second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, Nathan is on the phone. He wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call Mia. They met on a Christian dating website. Interesting

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<v Speaker 1>note she didn't have a profile picture. He was just

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<v Speaker 1>chatting up people that day, and God's love is blind

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<v Speaker 1>brought them together. He has no idea what she looks like. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>they were supposed to meet for dinner, and when he

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<v Speaker 1>was walking up the restaurant, she called said she had

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<v Speaker 1>an emergency in California and had to go. So we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't heard from her since, and he's wondering why she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't been calling him back. Now, you do believe her

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<v Speaker 1>that she had some sort of an emergency in California.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I do believe her, But this part

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<v Speaker 1>of me that is just like, why he hasn't she

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<v Speaker 1>reached back out yet? I don't understand that. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you have so much trust in this person that you've

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<v Speaker 1>never seen those of the conversations they were in depth.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, who knows. Maybe she's really good, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was consistent and was just the interests and the stories.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, these aren't like five minute chats or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. We really got end up. Okay, cool, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doubt the phone of her right now. See

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<v Speaker 1>if she picks up the phone, and maybe we can

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<v Speaker 1>find out what happened in California? Or I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want a second date two, I guess we can

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<v Speaker 1>do that. Do you want a second date with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's hear what the explanation is. So you're just like us.

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<v Speaker 1>You just want to know what went on in California

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to call in on your date. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doubt the number right now. All right? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Mia? Please? This is she? Hey Mia,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning from where Brooke and Jewil in the

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<v Speaker 1>Morning the radio show. I'm on the radio, Yes you are?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm sorry? I'm calling you because we

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<v Speaker 1>received an email about you from one of our listeners.

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<v Speaker 1>Really his name is Nathan Okay, and Nathan emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>because he was supposed to go out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with you and then you ended up having an emergency

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to go to in California. Since that day,

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan has been wondering why you're not answering his text messages,

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<v Speaker 1>so he emailed us to call you and ask why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is weird. I know it is, but Nathan wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know if you don't like him if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to see him, something like if you if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to see him, just tell us, We'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan and he won't bug you anymore. But other than that,

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering if you still want to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>So is there anything that we can tell Nathan from you?

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<v Speaker 1>Just tell him I'll call him and sorry, I've been

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<v Speaker 1>I've been busy. So you do want to see Nathan again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just I'm really busy right now. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know when. Okay, I just don't know when. All well,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you talking to us for a few minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>We won't take much more of your time, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just have to know do you want to see Nathan again,

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<v Speaker 1>because it sounds like you don't the way you said that.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't, I'll let him down easy for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I just look, I'm doing some stuff in my personal

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<v Speaker 1>life that I just need to I can't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want him to be involved in. Okay, So your your

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<v Speaker 1>emergency was legit. When you called him at the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and said that you had an emergency, I was speculating

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<v Speaker 1>that you were lying. I'm in California. You are okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did you fly so last minute? Though? Look, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little embarrassed about it. It was for a job.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't want Nathan to judge me for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're embarrassed about the work that you do. Ah, promise

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<v Speaker 1>you won't tell him this, sure, I mean, I'll look,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell him. I will tell him that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to see him again, but I won't tell them any

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<v Speaker 1>other details if they're really embarrassing. So I'm doing a

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<v Speaker 1>photoshoot for Playboy? What You're in a Christian mingles site

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<v Speaker 1>and you're just because I appreciate my body does not

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<v Speaker 1>mean I am not a good Christian. I'm just using

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<v Speaker 1>the body God gave me. Okay. So you're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>photoshoot for Playboy? Yeah? Please? Are you serious? Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a job. Okay, that's I'll tell you why that confuses

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<v Speaker 1>me because he told us about how he met you,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said on your dating profile you didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>have a profile picture. Normally people that would pose for

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<v Speaker 1>Playboy would have a lot of pictures on their dating profile. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But also people who posed for Playboy tend to be

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<v Speaker 1>treated differently because of the way they look like I

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<v Speaker 1>want them make him to get to know me for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for my brain and my personality and not

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<v Speaker 1>my you know, And you talk to him a bunch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you never brought up what you did for a living.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want him to think I was some hussy

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<v Speaker 1>or not a good Christian or whatever, because I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a really good relationship with God and I

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<v Speaker 1>just happened to do this for a living. When were

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<v Speaker 1>you going to drop this news on him? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to get to know him, and I wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to get to know me, and I wanted to build

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<v Speaker 1>a solid foundation so that he knows where I'm coming from,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So it's not like because

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<v Speaker 1>there's so many stereotypes, and I hate that there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many stereotypes of women that pose nude and models and

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<v Speaker 1>and just you know, there's so much wrapped happening, and

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<v Speaker 1>not everybody is the attention seeking hussy that they're putt

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<v Speaker 1>you know, right like that, you got a great body,

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<v Speaker 1>God has gifted you with wonderful looks. Might as well

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<v Speaker 1>use them to your advantage and make a little dough.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't right, that's exactly right. And you you said

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<v Speaker 1>that you want to get to know him on another

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<v Speaker 1>level before you go into all that. Right, right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>perfect because you sort of just did that. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you mean, Nathan is actually on the other line and

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<v Speaker 1>heard exactly what you just said. Yeah, you've already been

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<v Speaker 1>this far. You might as well say hi to Nathan. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>someone sounds exciting. Update it going. I'm sorry. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to find out this way, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what to think anymore. I mean, of all

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<v Speaker 1>the reasons you durned to California, this wasn't even anywhere

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<v Speaker 1>near the list. Yeah, I'm sure I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know that I hate it. I don't know that I

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<v Speaker 1>know I don't like it. But the people in my life,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how they would react if we went

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<v Speaker 1>down this road and you weren't playboy. Yeah. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be the person who judges you. I sort

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<v Speaker 1>of understand where you're coming from. I mean, believe me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I haven't seen the playbool before, and

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know what's to think you bad boy, Nathan.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't make me a bad person, It doesn't make

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<v Speaker 1>me a bad Christian. I really, I actually love what

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and I think God made me for this. Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you saying that you don't want to see Mia

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<v Speaker 1>because she poses for these type of magazines. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely like to see her. Yeah, I was worried

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<v Speaker 1>guys treat me differently when they see me in person,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and like I don't want to be treated Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be treated like every other go out there,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand, But unfortunately for you, you're not. Nathan, So

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<v Speaker 1>are you worried that it's the people in your life

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<v Speaker 1>that are gonna judge you if you were to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with me? And now I guess I am now

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm thinking about it. If we do end up

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<v Speaker 1>going out, I guess I'm worried about what other people

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<v Speaker 1>would think. On the other hand, we had an amazing

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<v Speaker 1>connection and I am like, man, I definitely would like

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<v Speaker 1>to see her and meet her. Okay, I will say

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<v Speaker 1>I know that my husband would have a problem if

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<v Speaker 1>I was taking pictures naked for other men to look at.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he would, period. But it's a job, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's like being an actor and having to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss somebody else. It's not It's not like I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that's it's my body. But my body in this case

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<v Speaker 1>is just you know, it's it's like an accessory. And Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>if you like me, who cares what anybody else thinks? Really,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys had a lot of good conversations and stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like that. If she was a porn star and you

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<v Speaker 1>really loved her, then who cares what your parents think

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<v Speaker 1>or your friends? Yeah, that one might be different. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying I love conquers, all right. Yeah, So would

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<v Speaker 1>you go out? Okay? Mia? Would you go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Nathan again? We'll pay for a second day please. You

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<v Speaker 1>guys didn't even really go out in the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>So would you go out with Nathan? Officially? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>if he doesn't think of a bad Christian? Okay, Nathan,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to be an idiot and pass up

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<v Speaker 1>a date with a playboy model? I will pay for it? Um? Mia?

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<v Speaker 1>How long are you even going to be in Telephonia for? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Um this is kind of a big

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<v Speaker 1>jock opportunity for me and I really want to not

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<v Speaker 1>blow it, so however long half wants you there. At

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, we had an unbelievable connection

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<v Speaker 1>and I did, at the very least, like the meter

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<v Speaker 1>in person and see if the chemistry is there in

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<v Speaker 1>person as well. Sweet awesome, you guys can talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it more in depth than person. That's sounds and mia.

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<v Speaker 1>Just another question. What issues are you show research? Broken

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<v Speaker 1>Jupil in the morning,