Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second day, today's second dater met the girl
Speaker 1: he went out with where I've met almost every single
Speaker 1: girl I've ever dated Christian Mingle dot com, member of
Speaker 1: that site since it started, you know, I just love
Speaker 1: it so much. That's where Nathan apparently met the girl
Speaker 1: he wants us to call today. Nathan, what's up? How
Speaker 1: are you? Man? Good? Good? I love your show, guys,
Speaker 1: thank you appreciate it. So tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about meeting the girl you want us to call today.
Speaker 1: What's her name? Mia? Mia? Okay, so you met her
Speaker 1: on this website. Yeah, I did the normal thing where
Speaker 1: both expressed into a message dirt through the website, and
Speaker 1: from there it was awesome on for a little bit
Speaker 1: and then for about a month straight we were hitting
Speaker 1: probably almost every other night. Sometimes there'll be three four
Speaker 1: days ago by, but it's very progressing from there. So
Speaker 1: you guys talked a lot before you actually met in person.
Speaker 1: That's the thing. We actually haven't met in person yet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: date kind of Nathan's one of those guys that date
Speaker 1: never actually happened. Yeah. I'm walking to the date and
Speaker 1: I get a phone call from her and she tells
Speaker 1: me that she's got an emergency and that she's going
Speaker 1: to have to cancel. She's flying to California. You were
Speaker 1: actually at the place that you're going to meet her,
Speaker 1: and she called you and said that she was flying
Speaker 1: to California. I mean I would literally pulling into the
Speaker 1: restaurant practically, Oh man, you didn't happen to notice if
Speaker 1: she was like in the restaurant or like in the
Speaker 1: vicinity of you when she called you right like maybe
Speaker 1: she was waiting for you and then saw you and
Speaker 1: didn't like your outfit and was like, oh, no, thank you.
Speaker 1: You didn't see her anywhere? Well, look, I've been to
Speaker 1: meet someone before that I didn't like it, and I
Speaker 1: just took off when I saw him, like the ultimate jerk.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't spend months talking to us, So you didn't
Speaker 1: see her around you, did you? No? And that's part
Speaker 1: of the other thing about this that's crazy enough. She
Speaker 1: didn't even have a profile tech so I've never seen
Speaker 1: a picture of her. You never, You've never seen a
Speaker 1: picture of this girl. No, I couldn't tell you what
Speaker 1: she looks like. And I had asked, and she said,
Speaker 1: I'd rather toolp a relationship. Yeah, how do you start
Speaker 1: talking to someone on a dating website that doesn't have
Speaker 1: a profile picture. I know that they're out there. They
Speaker 1: usually have like a silhouette or somebody that hasn't uploaded
Speaker 1: it or whatever. But why would you I don't know.
Speaker 1: I would not talk to somebody on a dating website
Speaker 1: that didn't have a profile picture. I'd want to see
Speaker 1: them from having online dated. Even somebody that only has
Speaker 1: one is kind of sketchy. Guy. Yeah right, you want
Speaker 1: some of them doing activities, and so what made you
Speaker 1: want to talk to her if she didn't have a
Speaker 1: profile picture? In all honesty, at that point that day,
Speaker 1: I just was going around and looking for people online,
Speaker 1: and it's somewhat near the area, and I just sent
Speaker 1: a message saying, hey, how's it going, just casting a
Speaker 1: wide neck. Yeah, I'll be honest with you that they
Speaker 1: didn't have anything to do. I was on the site
Speaker 1: figure that i'd stake up a conversation. So you went
Speaker 1: to go meet her, and she called you right before
Speaker 1: and said that something came up and she had an emergency.
Speaker 1: Do you believe her? Do you think she was lying
Speaker 1: to you? Well? I was lived at first and pissed,
Speaker 1: and but the conversation actually went on. She wanted to
Speaker 1: talk to me while she was waiting for her flight. Okay.
Speaker 1: It made me believe her, and I sort of tried
Speaker 1: to ask her what was going on? Is there anything
Speaker 1: I could do? Well? Any help? Nathan. Let's face it,
Speaker 1: there's no way she's lying to you because you met
Speaker 1: her on a Christian website. Don't lie, so you know
Speaker 1: that she's telling the truth. But you actually stayed on
Speaker 1: the phone and chatted with her while she was waiting
Speaker 1: for her plane to leave. Yeah, okay, And you do
Speaker 1: you think that maybe you're getting catfish like she's just
Speaker 1: not who she says she is. I mean, I want
Speaker 1: to believe in the best. But I've texted her a
Speaker 1: few times done and I haven't gotten messages back. So
Speaker 1: nothing bad. Point. There's a large fortune to me that's thinking.
Speaker 1: What AD's name is going on? I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's a kid, a boyfriend there, husband, I don't know
Speaker 1: how long she's in California for. I just don't know
Speaker 1: what's going on at all. And how long ago has
Speaker 1: it been since you talked about five days? It's been
Speaker 1: about five days since you actually spoke to her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: still an emergency. You don't think she might need a
Speaker 1: little more time with whatever it is. I mean, in hindsight,
Speaker 1: probably nobody jumped the gun a little bit. But at
Speaker 1: this point I don't understand the miss text messages well,
Speaker 1: and you've got to be emotionally invested. I mean a
Speaker 1: lot of people would consider this a relationship even though
Speaker 1: you haven't even met yet. God would definitely for sure.
Speaker 1: All right, man, well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her, see if we can get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second day update. Okay, looking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning. SEC. I'm gonna be honest, I really
Speaker 1: don't care if Nathan, who was on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update, gets a second date out of this.
Speaker 1: I just want to know two things about the girl
Speaker 1: that he was supposed to meet up with on his date.
Speaker 1: One what does she look like? And two? Why did
Speaker 1: she have to go to California an emergency? Yeah? That's
Speaker 1: all I really want to know. Yeah, I want to
Speaker 1: know why she had to bail on him before their
Speaker 1: date even started. If you're just tuning into the second
Speaker 1: day update, Nathan is on the phone. He wants to
Speaker 1: call Mia. They met on a Christian dating website. Interesting
Speaker 1: note she didn't have a profile picture. He was just
Speaker 1: chatting up people that day, and God's love is blind
Speaker 1: brought them together. He has no idea what she looks like. Anyway,
Speaker 1: they were supposed to meet for dinner, and when he
Speaker 1: was walking up the restaurant, she called said she had
Speaker 1: an emergency in California and had to go. So we
Speaker 1: haven't heard from her since, and he's wondering why she
Speaker 1: hasn't been calling him back. Now, you do believe her
Speaker 1: that she had some sort of an emergency in California.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I do believe her, But this part
Speaker 1: of me that is just like, why he hasn't she
Speaker 1: reached back out yet? I don't understand that. Why do
Speaker 1: you have so much trust in this person that you've
Speaker 1: never seen those of the conversations they were in depth.
Speaker 1: I mean, who knows. Maybe she's really good, but it
Speaker 1: was consistent and was just the interests and the stories.
Speaker 1: I mean, these aren't like five minute chats or anything
Speaker 1: like that. We really got end up. Okay, cool, Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doubt the phone of her right now. See
Speaker 1: if she picks up the phone, and maybe we can
Speaker 1: find out what happened in California? Or I mean, if
Speaker 1: you want a second date two, I guess we can
Speaker 1: do that. Do you want a second date with her?
Speaker 1: Let's hear what the explanation is. So you're just like us.
Speaker 1: You just want to know what went on in California
Speaker 1: that you had to call in on your date. All right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna doubt the number right now. All right? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Mia? Please? This is she? Hey Mia,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning from where Brooke and Jewil in the
Speaker 1: Morning the radio show. I'm on the radio, Yes you are?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm sorry? I'm calling you because we
Speaker 1: received an email about you from one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: Really his name is Nathan Okay, and Nathan emailed us
Speaker 1: because he was supposed to go out on a date
Speaker 1: with you and then you ended up having an emergency
Speaker 1: that you had to go to in California. Since that day,
Speaker 1: Nathan has been wondering why you're not answering his text messages,
Speaker 1: so he emailed us to call you and ask why. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is weird. I know it is, but Nathan wants
Speaker 1: to know if you don't like him if you don't
Speaker 1: want to see him, something like if you if you
Speaker 1: don't want to see him, just tell us, We'll tell
Speaker 1: Nathan and he won't bug you anymore. But other than that,
Speaker 1: he's wondering if you still want to go out with him.
Speaker 1: So is there anything that we can tell Nathan from you?
Speaker 1: Just tell him I'll call him and sorry, I've been
Speaker 1: I've been busy. So you do want to see Nathan again,
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm really busy right now. So I just
Speaker 1: don't know when. Okay, I just don't know when. All well,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you talking to us for a few minutes.
Speaker 1: We won't take much more of your time, but I
Speaker 1: just have to know do you want to see Nathan again,
Speaker 1: because it sounds like you don't the way you said that.
Speaker 1: If you don't, I'll let him down easy for you.
Speaker 1: I just look, I'm doing some stuff in my personal
Speaker 1: life that I just need to I can't. I don't
Speaker 1: want him to be involved in. Okay, So your your
Speaker 1: emergency was legit. When you called him at the restaurant
Speaker 1: and said that you had an emergency, I was speculating
Speaker 1: that you were lying. I'm in California. You are okay?
Speaker 1: Why did you fly so last minute? Though? Look, I'm
Speaker 1: a little embarrassed about it. It was for a job.
Speaker 1: I don't I don't want Nathan to judge me for it.
Speaker 1: You're embarrassed about the work that you do. Ah, promise
Speaker 1: you won't tell him this, sure, I mean, I'll look,
Speaker 1: I'll tell him. I will tell him that you want
Speaker 1: to see him again, but I won't tell them any
Speaker 1: other details if they're really embarrassing. So I'm doing a
Speaker 1: photoshoot for Playboy? What You're in a Christian mingles site
Speaker 1: and you're just because I appreciate my body does not
Speaker 1: mean I am not a good Christian. I'm just using
Speaker 1: the body God gave me. Okay. So you're doing a
Speaker 1: photoshoot for Playboy? Yeah? Please? Are you serious? Yes, it's
Speaker 1: a job. Okay, that's I'll tell you why that confuses
Speaker 1: me because he told us about how he met you,
Speaker 1: and he said on your dating profile you didn't even
Speaker 1: have a profile picture. Normally people that would pose for
Speaker 1: Playboy would have a lot of pictures on their dating profile. Okay,
Speaker 1: But also people who posed for Playboy tend to be
Speaker 1: treated differently because of the way they look like I
Speaker 1: want them make him to get to know me for me,
Speaker 1: you know, for my brain and my personality and not
Speaker 1: my you know, And you talk to him a bunch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you never brought up what you did for a living.
Speaker 1: I didn't want him to think I was some hussy
Speaker 1: or not a good Christian or whatever, because I am.
Speaker 1: I have a really good relationship with God and I
Speaker 1: just happened to do this for a living. When were
Speaker 1: you going to drop this news on him? Well, I
Speaker 1: wanted to get to know him, and I wanted him
Speaker 1: to get to know me, and I wanted to build
Speaker 1: a solid foundation so that he knows where I'm coming from,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's not like because
Speaker 1: there's so many stereotypes, and I hate that there's so
Speaker 1: many stereotypes of women that pose nude and models and
Speaker 1: and just you know, there's so much wrapped happening, and
Speaker 1: not everybody is the attention seeking hussy that they're putt
Speaker 1: you know, right like that, you got a great body,
Speaker 1: God has gifted you with wonderful looks. Might as well
Speaker 1: use them to your advantage and make a little dough.
Speaker 1: I don't right, that's exactly right. And you you said
Speaker 1: that you want to get to know him on another
Speaker 1: level before you go into all that. Right, right, that's
Speaker 1: perfect because you sort of just did that. What do
Speaker 1: you mean, Nathan is actually on the other line and
Speaker 1: heard exactly what you just said. Yeah, you've already been
Speaker 1: this far. You might as well say hi to Nathan. Yeah,
Speaker 1: someone sounds exciting. Update it going. I'm sorry. I didn't
Speaker 1: want you to find out this way, but I don't
Speaker 1: even know what to think anymore. I mean, of all
Speaker 1: the reasons you durned to California, this wasn't even anywhere
Speaker 1: near the list. Yeah, I'm sure I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: know that I hate it. I don't know that I
Speaker 1: know I don't like it. But the people in my life,
Speaker 1: I don't know how they would react if we went
Speaker 1: down this road and you weren't playboy. Yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be the person who judges you. I sort
Speaker 1: of understand where you're coming from. I mean, believe me,
Speaker 1: it's not like I haven't seen the playbool before, and
Speaker 1: but I don't know what's to think you bad boy, Nathan.
Speaker 1: It doesn't make me a bad person, It doesn't make
Speaker 1: me a bad Christian. I really, I actually love what
Speaker 1: I do, and I think God made me for this. Nathan,
Speaker 1: Are you saying that you don't want to see Mia
Speaker 1: because she poses for these type of magazines. I mean,
Speaker 1: I definitely like to see her. Yeah, I was worried
Speaker 1: guys treat me differently when they see me in person,
Speaker 1: you know, and like I don't want to be treated Yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to be treated like every other go out there,
Speaker 1: I understand, But unfortunately for you, you're not. Nathan, So
Speaker 1: are you worried that it's the people in your life
Speaker 1: that are gonna judge you if you were to go
Speaker 1: out with me? And now I guess I am now
Speaker 1: that I'm thinking about it. If we do end up
Speaker 1: going out, I guess I'm worried about what other people
Speaker 1: would think. On the other hand, we had an amazing
Speaker 1: connection and I am like, man, I definitely would like
Speaker 1: to see her and meet her. Okay, I will say
Speaker 1: I know that my husband would have a problem if
Speaker 1: I was taking pictures naked for other men to look at.
Speaker 1: I mean, he would, period. But it's a job, you know.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like being an actor and having to
Speaker 1: kiss somebody else. It's not It's not like I mean
Speaker 1: that's it's my body. But my body in this case
Speaker 1: is just you know, it's it's like an accessory. And Nathan,
Speaker 1: if you like me, who cares what anybody else thinks? Really,
Speaker 1: you guys had a lot of good conversations and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. If she was a porn star and you
Speaker 1: really loved her, then who cares what your parents think
Speaker 1: or your friends? Yeah, that one might be different. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying I love conquers, all right. Yeah, So would
Speaker 1: you go out? Okay? Mia? Would you go out with
Speaker 1: Nathan again? We'll pay for a second day please. You
Speaker 1: guys didn't even really go out in the first time.
Speaker 1: So would you go out with Nathan? Officially? I mean
Speaker 1: if he doesn't think of a bad Christian? Okay, Nathan,
Speaker 1: are you going to be an idiot and pass up
Speaker 1: a date with a playboy model? I will pay for it? Um? Mia?
Speaker 1: How long are you even going to be in Telephonia for? Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Um this is kind of a big
Speaker 1: jock opportunity for me and I really want to not
Speaker 1: blow it, so however long half wants you there. At
Speaker 1: the end of the day, we had an unbelievable connection
Speaker 1: and I did, at the very least, like the meter
Speaker 1: in person and see if the chemistry is there in
Speaker 1: person as well. Sweet awesome, you guys can talk about
Speaker 1: it more in depth than person. That's sounds and mia.
Speaker 1: Just another question. What issues are you show research? Broken
Speaker 1: Jupil in the morning,