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Speaker 2: It's the Fredshell Memesy.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, welcome, Hi, thank you, thanks for being here

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. Of course, we're trying to figure

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Speaker 1: ghosting you now, So tell us how you met and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I met Chad over Hinge and we've gone

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Speaker 3: out drinks a couple of times, and then I thought

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, So.

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Speaker 3: I've been talking with him about how I got like

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Speaker 2: And so I brought him over.

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Speaker 3: I made like parts on crusted chicken, and to I

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Speaker 3: staked potatoes and asaragus and so, you know, that was

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Speaker 3: but that was kind of it. And then he's completely

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Speaker 3: I thought it was, you know, petting in the right direction.

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Speaker 1: That's pretty wild. You made all that food. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's that's like really attractive. If I went over to

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Speaker 1: you probably it's probably like one of your favorite things

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, And like some of it's like family recipes

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Speaker 2: Like maybe it's not your taste.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, is it the food? Is it?

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Speaker 4: Me?

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Speaker 1: Like you you know, that's like wasting a good outfit.

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Speaker 1: You know, you busted out the family recipe for this guy,

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Speaker 1: and now where'd you go? You know, it's disappeared. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: so nothing like you have you reached out to him

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Speaker 1: or were you just waiting for him, which is okay?

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Speaker 1: But were you just waiting for him to reach out

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Speaker 3: You know, I think I said him like a text

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Speaker 3: You know, we've met.

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Speaker 4: Up a couple of times previously, and just nothing.

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Speaker 1: So you all right, Well, let's call this guy Chad.

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Speaker 1: Of course his name is Chad. Let's see if we

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Speaker 3: It'd be more spiritable.

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Speaker 1: I know, I know it's like having like Karen as

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Speaker 1: I feel bad for Karen's and Chad's. But let's call.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if he's a Chad. We'll call it and

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Speaker 1: we'll see if we can get him on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We'll ask some questions. You'll be on the phone as well.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back and

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Speaker 1: do it. Hang on, ok, let's see what happens next.

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Speaker 1: Part two of Waiting met the phone after Miguel back

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Speaker 1: in two minutes on.

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Speaker 2: The fread show. All it's on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 1: Almost an hour commercial free by the way, glad you're here,

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Speaker 1: Hey Lindsay, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 2: Let's call Chad.

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Speaker 1: You guys went on a few dates, had him over

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Speaker 1: You sent him one text, but he hasn't called you.

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Speaker 3: Good luck, thank you, Let's do it.

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Speaker 4: Hey, this is Chadd.

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Speaker 1: Oh, hey, hey, this is Chad. It's like it's a

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Speaker 1: business called Hi Chad. My name is Fred from the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, The whole cruise here. But I have to

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Speaker 1: So I don't want to take up too much of

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Speaker 2: I remember? Okay, so she called.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, we went out a few times, we

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess she cooked me food.

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Speaker 2: The food was good.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this thing is like, uh, no manners, no training.

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Speaker 4: This dog is large, it's jumping, it's licking, it's barking

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're thinking if I date this woman any further,

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Speaker 4: Don't want to totally out of hand, there's no way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're not trying to be the disciplined area

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 1: I love dogs, but I mean, if you had a

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Speaker 4: And I don't think that Chad was making any.

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Speaker 2: But that's worthing.

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Speaker 1: But what not like the eating the food on the

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Speaker 3: I mean, he just wanted to be up on the couch.

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Speaker 3: He just wanted to be on the couch. It wasn't

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Speaker 4: He was literally right in between us, Like come on,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like you've got to have some order

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Speaker 3: I mean, my dog is a rescue and you know,

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Speaker 4: So it has been like my goal to make him.

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Speaker 3: Working on things still. It's not perfect, but to just

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Speaker 2: And just assume they're from Key, from you.

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Speaker 4: But if I can, if I can just jump in

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Speaker 4: something you told me about bodily fluid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, yeah, what did you want to say?

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Speaker 4: Ched, But Lindley, you had told me, you know, when

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Speaker 1: Know, that's kind of a long time for this behavior

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Speaker 3: Maybe maybe he was acting out because he.

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Speaker 2: Didn't like Chad.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, maybe that was it. I've seen that happen before.

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Speaker 1: So Chad the dog isn't like you. But if you

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Speaker 1: thought that, Linda's if you thought he didn't like Chad truly,

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Speaker 1: then why are we even doing this? You don't think

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Speaker 1: that because you, we wouldn't be calling and trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out why he didn't call again.

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Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, for me, it just comes down to

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Speaker 3: the fact that my dog and I are kids steal.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, and if he thinks he's.

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Speaker 3: A dog or that I'm a parent, it obviously isn't

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Speaker 3: a match.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there you go.

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Speaker 1: Well, Chad, I appreciate you answering the phone and thanks

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Speaker 1: for your explanation and wish you the best. Lindsay wish

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Speaker 1: you the best as well.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, thank you,