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<v Speaker 1>Help We Suck At Being Newlywed?

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<v Speaker 2>With Dean Aungler, Haylen Miller Keys, and Jared Haven, an

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<v Speaker 2>iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>What is going on? Everybody? Welcome to an all nude

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds. You might

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<v Speaker 1>be asking yourself why why why are they nude? And

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you why. It's because Jared's not here today,

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<v Speaker 1>so we can do whatever the heck we want.

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<v Speaker 2>We are not nude, we are. That would be a

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<v Speaker 2>wild episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah for the audio for the people listening to this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast on their commute to work.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, knowing that we're nude, be crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we do video for like fifteen seconds.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and imagine how many more likes we get if

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<v Speaker 3>you are nude.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness, like that, I've been nude on this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast before. It's your turn.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>Only I was gonna say, like, only only fans, But

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<v Speaker 1>what's the playoff.

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<v Speaker 2>Only fans we could make only suck?

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<v Speaker 3>What are we doing today, Kaitlin?

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<v Speaker 2>Today we're talking about my bachelorette party. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>your hole in one, your bachelor party, which is coming

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<v Speaker 2>up very quickly. Jard's not here today, so we're just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of going to chat amongst ourselves, chat weddings and

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<v Speaker 2>and everything that's coming up in the next thirty eight days.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice. So basically everything we've talked about every day every

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<v Speaker 1>week for the.

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<v Speaker 2>Way things have changed. I had my bachelorette I don't

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<v Speaker 2>be critical of it. I'm just saying, and you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we hit an RSVP date, so everyone has had to

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<v Speaker 2>have RSVP'd. If they haven't, they're not coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Who has an RVP?

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<v Speaker 2>You brother, shoot and your sister? Thank all right, Tanya, Tanya.

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<v Speaker 3>Rad Oh, Tanya, get on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know you're listening.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we know you're listening.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, maybe we'll call in to Ryan Seacrest one oh

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<v Speaker 1>five point five kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually have no idea what it is. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>just check it's okay, we don't need to check. It's

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<v Speaker 1>irrelevant for my own No, it's okay. We're podcasting right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You can just do this later. Fine, So tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about your bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So my bachelorette party was this past weekend. We

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<v Speaker 2>started on Thursday, and I don't know why. I just

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to soak up every second of the weekend. Friday

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<v Speaker 2>to Sunday felt too short. I think Friday to Sunday

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<v Speaker 2>would have been totally fine. It was a long time,

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<v Speaker 2>but Thursday everyone showed up. I picked up one of

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<v Speaker 2>my girlfriends from the airport and we got checked into

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<v Speaker 2>the hotel. And I had a company help with the

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<v Speaker 2>logistics and the planning and all of that. They're called

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<v Speaker 2>Batch to Basics. So these girls from Pennsylvania flew in

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<v Speaker 2>for my bachelorette and they came and set everything up.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I told them when we were planning this,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't really want the stereotypical like

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<v Speaker 2>bride with balloons and you know, the penis straws and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I wasn't that wasn't appealing to me. I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted it to be like Bridgardton themed and like very

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<v Speaker 2>cute and fun and girly. And that's exactly what they did.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't have any balloons, we didn't have any of that.

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<v Speaker 1>You tell me you didn't have a single penis straw

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<v Speaker 1>your bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 2>Not one penis straw. Come on, It's just not what

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted. And I'm not, like, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that's fine if you're going out and you're partying,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's whole, the whole, like one penis forever. It's

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<v Speaker 2>just not what I wanted penis straws.

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<v Speaker 3>You passed on penis straws.

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<v Speaker 2>I will get them for your preps.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, now I have to get penis straws. Fine,

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<v Speaker 1>twist my arm. I'll get some penis straws for my

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<v Speaker 1>bachelor party.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get them for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, I guess I don't really think you should

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<v Speaker 1>be required to get me anything for my bachelor party.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you got me two bottles of champagne delivered to

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<v Speaker 2>the hotel, which was so nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but I'm like really nice, And.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm also nicer, But I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Just saying you don't have to feel obligated to be

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<v Speaker 1>nice just because I'm the nicest guy in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and Dan for his bachelor party is going on.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait, we're still so

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<v Speaker 1>far from being done with your bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just trying to explain why I can't deliver

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<v Speaker 2>anything to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but that can come later. I want to hear

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<v Speaker 1>more about this bachelorette party.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So we're still on Thursday, the girls show up.

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<v Speaker 2>They decorated. It's so cute. We had this cool, like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know what you call it, nineties cake.

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<v Speaker 2>It kind of reminded me of the cake from Harry

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<v Speaker 2>Potter that Adobe drops on the.

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<v Speaker 3>Stepmom, like covered in frost.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, just really fun. And so we had one

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<v Speaker 2>of those cakes and we all stuck our wine glasses

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<v Speaker 2>in it ate the cake. It was great, and just

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<v Speaker 2>had pizza that night, got dressed up in juicy couture sweatsuits.

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<v Speaker 2>What kind of pizza we had everything? We had cheese

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<v Speaker 2>from me Pepper Roa was the company though, Oh not

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<v Speaker 2>a glue. I didn't even look at the box. Not Domino's,

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<v Speaker 2>that's for sure, like a local ranch, sweatpants, juicy guitur yep.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so fun and we played fish Bowl.

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<v Speaker 3>Is Juicy making a comeback?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I think it already has. Yeah, it's it's back

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<v Speaker 2>better than ever it's back. And it was just really

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<v Speaker 2>fun and which just like played games chilled. I really

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<v Speaker 2>tried not to drink a ton because the night prior

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<v Speaker 2>I was so exhausted. My one of my best friends

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<v Speaker 2>and I went to Taylor Swift. How is that insane.

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<v Speaker 2>She is so good. It is unbelievable, her talent and

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<v Speaker 2>her stamina, Like how, I don't know how she can

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<v Speaker 2>do what she does.

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<v Speaker 3>She's been lip syncing every show.

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<v Speaker 2>That is ridiculous. That's just made that up. I heard

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<v Speaker 2>the Swifties are going to come after you and they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to find her address and they're going to hunt

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<v Speaker 2>you down.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, for the record, I think lip syncing is a

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<v Speaker 1>fine thing to do. You're still performing on stage.

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<v Speaker 2>Where do you have this TikTok conspiracy?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I read an article in Forbes about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, you did not. I think you're just

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<v Speaker 2>making up.

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<v Speaker 1>I am making this up.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So Taylor Swift was incredible. She is so good.

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<v Speaker 2>We just had a really good time. And in my mind,

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<v Speaker 2>I have a really bad concept of time. I think

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, all be home by eleven PM. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna leave a little bit early. Beat traffic. You're not No,

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<v Speaker 2>that was insane. But I knew her set list and

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<v Speaker 2>I knew the last two songs. The last song in particular,

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't need to hear. So I was thinking I

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<v Speaker 2>could just leave a little bit early, get to bed,

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<v Speaker 2>feel well rested, go pick up my friends from the

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<v Speaker 2>airport in the morning and it'll be great. We didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get home until two. I wasn't in bed until two thirty,

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<v Speaker 2>so I texted my friend and I drink a little,

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<v Speaker 2>a little too much. I was a little tipsy, which

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<v Speaker 2>is not like me, and I texted my friend. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, there's no chance I can pick you up

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<v Speaker 2>in the airport. I have to leave in like two

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<v Speaker 2>a few hours, and I need more sleep than that

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<v Speaker 2>if we're about to go into the bachelorette weekend. But

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<v Speaker 2>then my body just woke me up at seven am,

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<v Speaker 2>so I was like, scratch that. So sorry about that

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<v Speaker 2>text that I texted you at two am. I'm on

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<v Speaker 2>my way picked her up. No big deal. But I

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<v Speaker 2>was exhausted, fully exhausted. So we had a very till

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<v Speaker 2>night the first night.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd tell me what was more fun the bachelorette party or.

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor Swift bachelorette I didn't honestly, after Taylor Swift, I

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<v Speaker 2>was on such a high. I wasn't even excited for

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<v Speaker 2>my bachelorette anymore. I was like, honestly, like, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't need a bachelorette after that, but then we

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<v Speaker 2>got into the weekend and it was really fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you still riding that same high?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm a little tired, but I am. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>anytime I look at the photos from either Taylor Swift

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<v Speaker 2>or the Bachelorette, I'm reinvigorated.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, because it's been almost exactly a week since Taylor

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<v Speaker 1>Swift almost Yeah, and this is the first time I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen her in concert.

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<v Speaker 3>No second, because we sawry I hurt radio fests.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I was not with you. That must have been

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<v Speaker 2>another girl.

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<v Speaker 3>Must have been girls always went together.

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<v Speaker 2>I went with my little sister for her sixteenth birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Reputation nice and has she improved her performances?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh. Yeah. I didn't think she could, but absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>What was so great about it.

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<v Speaker 2>The nostalgia factor. I touched on this a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>last week, just to go through every era and just

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<v Speaker 2>be reminded, like, oh my gosh, like I was this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that why they're calling it the ariostore because she

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<v Speaker 1>sings a song from every album?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that really true?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Congrats, thank you, I got there, thank you. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Did she play twenty two?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>She did, yes, because she probably plays a different song

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<v Speaker 1>from every album every different time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, she has a set set list, so let

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<v Speaker 2>me just feel your set set list, set setlist. She

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<v Speaker 2>plays the same songs every time, but she has two

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<v Speaker 2>surprise songs each each concert, And so I made a

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<v Speaker 2>playlist of all the surprise songs she hasn't sung yet.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and that's like the whole anticipation thing. Everyone's freaking

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<v Speaker 2>out there, like, what are our surprise songs going to be?

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's predicting.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't she make some big announcement while you were there?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, she did. Dean well done so much. She announced

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<v Speaker 2>that her next album she's re recording is nineteen eighty nine.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you know why she's rerecording her albums?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I understand the Scooter Brons stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh good, great, Yeah, so that was a huge announcement.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's freaking out.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was like coming out of the TV

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<v Speaker 1>show or something.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what it made. You made it seem like, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think you're thinking of what is it called? Oh yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like nineteen eighty nine TV speak now TV.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what you keep seeing all over the internet.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was confused hers too, but it's speak now

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor's version. There's no television show.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotcha, I gotcha, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was great. I mean, and people were, you know, commenting,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, I think you were at one of

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<v Speaker 2>the best shows. We got the announcement, we got amazing songs,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a blast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great. I'm so happy for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I went into the Bachelorrette weekend and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so glad we got to go to bed super early

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<v Speaker 2>because then I was able to recover for the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was just like so excited that I couldn't sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>I was waking up at five point thirty every morning,

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<v Speaker 2>So that wasn't great. But the next day we're into Friday. Now, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is when I surprised the girls with the puppy party. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and so everyone got these beautiful sulky dresses. All I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted was to dress up in these cute selky dresses,

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<v Speaker 2>have a tea party, picnic, and just spin around enjoy

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<v Speaker 2>being in these crazy dresses that will never, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>typically wear.

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<v Speaker 1>My friends thought you guys were doing like a Disney

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<v Speaker 1>princess theme.

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<v Speaker 2>Bridgerton was the theme.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, because like Phoebe had that purple one, Ali had

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<v Speaker 1>the blue one that looked like snow white and she

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<v Speaker 1>already has the blonde hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was more like Bridgerton, you know, we had.

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<v Speaker 1>That Bridgerton though.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, like I don't even.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what era that was, Disney princesses.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's just like England kings and queens, like the

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<v Speaker 2>Victorian era. Yeah, that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe it is, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't know, I don't know. Actually it's just Bridgerton. It's sweet,

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<v Speaker 2>it's wholesome. Maybe not wholesome. It is a show about sex, but.

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<v Speaker 1>The show is wholesome.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh minus the sex.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I just wanted to dress up in dresses that

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<v Speaker 2>we would never typically be able to do and have

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<v Speaker 2>a picnic and a deep party. That was my goal.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I had this idea that we've been talking

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<v Speaker 2>about for the wedding, and I really want to incorporate

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<v Speaker 2>rescue dogs into the wedding in some way. I just

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know if it would be feasible. So then I

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<v Speaker 2>reached out to this San Diego rescue place and I

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<v Speaker 2>was like Hey, I have the weirdest idea if this,

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<v Speaker 2>If you can't do it, totally understand. But I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to bring puppies to a picnic and rescue and senior dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>And they were like, absolutely, we do puppy parties. So

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, you know, my fiance and I love

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<v Speaker 2>to adopt seniors, would love to like focus on seniors.

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<v Speaker 2>And they're like, we'll do a combination of both. Than

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<v Speaker 2>they did. They brought the cutest puppies and then they

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<v Speaker 2>brought the sweetest seniors. One senior only had two legs

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<v Speaker 2>and he was the happiest dog in the world just

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<v Speaker 2>running around on his two legs. He had a wheelchair,

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<v Speaker 2>but he was like happier off of his wheelchair, just

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<v Speaker 2>running around. We had a blind dog who's eight named Geppetto.

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<v Speaker 2>We had another dog who I think his legs were mobile.

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<v Speaker 2>He was in a wagon the whole time, but had

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<v Speaker 2>a wheelchair that he didn't want to put on. And

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<v Speaker 2>we had a sweet little cross eyed puppy reminded me

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of al It was great. They were

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<v Speaker 2>all so wonderful.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't bring any of them home with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I talked to you about Geppetto, and I was talking

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<v Speaker 2>myself through Geppetto. He was so great, the most loving dog.

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<v Speaker 2>So all the puppies were in a pin. We had

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, use hand sanitizer before we entered the pin.

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<v Speaker 2>And Geppetto was like the dad of the He wasn't,

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<v Speaker 2>but he like took over as dad of the puppies

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<v Speaker 2>and just loved them all so much. But Geppetto is

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<v Speaker 2>too big to fly, and we fly a lot, and

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<v Speaker 2>Al can just go under our seat, so it would

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<v Speaker 2>be really hard. And then it's two hundred dollars to

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<v Speaker 2>fly with Al. Now it would be four hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 2>to fly with Geppetto and Al. It would just be

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<v Speaker 2>too much.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not worth it. Go back to the pound Geepetto.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I'm not going to adopt it. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>still I still want it. Wance Al dies, No, not

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<v Speaker 2>going to die. On to Saturday, Let's get on anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>it was great. We had a great time at the picnic. Saturday.

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<v Speaker 2>What did we do Saturday? Oh Saturday, we played pickaball

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<v Speaker 2>nice and most of my friends had never played. I

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<v Speaker 2>think three of us, four of us had ever played,

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<v Speaker 2>and the rest hadn't and they were all really really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Phoebe was great, Everyone had a blast. Nobody really wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to go, and I could tell, so the whole weekend,

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<v Speaker 2>I just really wanted everyone to have fun because I've

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<v Speaker 2>been to bachelorettes before where people they're dreading going, they're complaining,

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<v Speaker 2>they're just miserable. They're like, this is so stupid. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to drink, I don't want to party, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to spend all this money. And I just

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<v Speaker 2>really wanted it to be fun and enjoyable. And nobody complained,

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<v Speaker 2>and if they did, they didn't do it to my face,

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<v Speaker 2>which was nice. But I think everyone had a good

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<v Speaker 2>time and people kept saying that it was fun and

0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.520
<v Speaker 2>all the activities were great. So I just wanted my

0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:52.040
<v Speaker 2>friends to have a blast, and they all got along

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<v Speaker 2>so well. Also with bachelorettes, and this was something I

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<v Speaker 2>was worried about, you know, like the personalities not meshing

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<v Speaker 2>super well. Everyone got along. There was no drama at all,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was shocking. I feel like that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>unheard of.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm shocked, shocked.

0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Color me shocked.

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<v Speaker 3>So are you happy that it's over now?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I'm sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, like that it's behind you, then you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to worry about, like stress about planning it or anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was never once stressed about planning it. I had

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<v Speaker 2>so much fun. This is getting me excited for my

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<v Speaker 2>thirtieth birthday because you know you'll be able to come

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<v Speaker 2>and I'll be able to do this all over again.

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<v Speaker 3>You're twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 2>I know I've got two years to plan.

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<v Speaker 1>What that might be the weirdest thing you've ever said.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear that might be the weirdest thing I've ever heard.

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<v Speaker 3>You said.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm planning my thirtieth birthday. I know exactly what we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to do. We're either going to go to the

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<v Speaker 2>Emptons or we're going to go to this place in

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<v Speaker 2>New York and it's similar to our wedding venue.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I'm available that week.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, how is that a weird thing to say?

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<v Speaker 2>You know I love to plan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're planning your thirtieth birthday before you even

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<v Speaker 1>want to think about planning your twenty ninth birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care about twenty nine.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why it's weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't do birthday parties. I will for thirtieth.

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<v Speaker 2>M it's not weird.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna get dirty for the thirty yeah in the Hampton's.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, Okay, well you go. No, So do you

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm so weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I'm not saying I don't think you're weird at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't twist my words. I'm saying that is the

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<v Speaker 1>weirdest thing I've.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever heard, yesday. Not No, I'm not. I'm thirty two.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna be like, oh, I cannot wait for

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<v Speaker 1>my thirty fifth birthday party.

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<v Speaker 3>Five it's gonna be wild.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, thirty five is half of seventy. That's okay, a

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<v Speaker 3>big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>I just really enjoyed planning this so much. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>really planning our wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that it wasn't you enjoyed planning, or

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't for me. You're talking you're not fantastic planning.

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<v Speaker 1>But you could just do this for your next birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>which is your twenty ninth birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>No one's gonna pay money for my twenty ninth birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>People will pay for the thirtieth birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I just really love planning, and I want to do

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<v Speaker 2>this more and Phoebe and I've been talking. Phoebe was

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<v Speaker 2>at my bachelorette about doing something like this, like it's

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<v Speaker 2>just so fun for me. So yeah, that's the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing I can really plan at the moment. But hopefully

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<v Speaker 2>Phoebe and I can get our business up and running

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<v Speaker 2>off the ground and I can plan all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>What's your business at an event planning company?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, it is cool. Phoebe's great at Floral's. We just

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<v Speaker 2>like kind of can bounce off each other. But we'll see. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 2>I had a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>That's asking. Well, I didn't ask, but I'm glad you

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<v Speaker 3>had a great time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was great. My favorite thing we did. And

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<v Speaker 2>we also did this at our engagement party kind of

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<v Speaker 2>in a way. Dean and I both hate being the

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<v Speaker 2>center of attention, and so at our engagement party, it

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<v Speaker 2>was just our families left and a couple close friends

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<v Speaker 2>and they were like, let's all go around and talk

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<v Speaker 2>about why we love Dean and Kaylin, and we're like, no, instead,

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<v Speaker 2>let's go around and talk about why we love each

0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:02.760
<v Speaker 2>of you guys, and I alternated. He talked about one

0:17:02.760 --> 0:17:04.959
<v Speaker 2>person and I talked about the next person, and just

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<v Speaker 2>kind of talked about why we love all of those people,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was the highlight of our engagement party for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just very intimate and special and sweet. And

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<v Speaker 2>so we did a version of that at my bachelorette,

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<v Speaker 2>which I learned from Ben Higgins. We were at an

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<v Speaker 2>iHeart radio fest in Vegas and he was like, let's

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<v Speaker 2>go and compliment the person next to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember that, I do remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>And do you remember the weird thing. Let's not bring

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<v Speaker 2>that up.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why igled.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was a weird thing that happened with the

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<v Speaker 2>weird guy. So I had the girls do that and

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<v Speaker 2>it was so sweet. That was like easily the highlight

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<v Speaker 2>of the bachelorette, just seeing everyone like.

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<v Speaker 1>Girls who So you went around and said nice things

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<v Speaker 1>about everyone there.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I did the compliment thing. I said, version of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I see right, So you did. It's like you

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<v Speaker 1>compliment to your right day, compliment to the right and

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<v Speaker 1>so on and so forth.

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<v Speaker 2>So we started off with Tory, and one of my

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<v Speaker 2>friends is just not the most emotional. She's great, a wonderful,

0:18:02.440 --> 0:18:06.280
<v Speaker 2>amazing friend, but it is not like emotional. And so

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<v Speaker 2>she went first, and then Ali, who's a therapist went

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<v Speaker 2>second and made everyone cry, and it was just so

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<v Speaker 2>it was funny and it was just so sweet. So

0:18:15.160 --> 0:18:17.000
<v Speaker 2>girls had only known each other for forty eight hours

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<v Speaker 2>and they're just can already pick up on the great

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<v Speaker 2>things about them and their personalities, and it was very special.

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<v Speaker 3>Should we do it right now? Compliment the person to

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<v Speaker 3>your left.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you gonna compliment? Alistair?

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<v Speaker 3>Alistair? You're so cute?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well that's good. I'm really glad you had fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad all your friends had fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, unless they're lying.

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<v Speaker 1>Which you never know with girls and guys, are had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure they did.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure they did, because you can't fake those smiles

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<v Speaker 2>and those puppies one hundred percent.

0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:48.480
<v Speaker 1>And they had a great time, there's no question in

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<v Speaker 1>my mind. But I bet you there is like some silly,

0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:54.120
<v Speaker 1>like little tiny thing they're.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, no, I know. People weren't excited to go

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<v Speaker 2>to pick a ball and then they played and they

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to leave.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're never gonna when you have a group of

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<v Speaker 1>that many people, you're never gonna do everything that everyone

0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:04.920
<v Speaker 1>wants to do all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But that's also why I tried to not plan

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<v Speaker 2>a lot, because I feel like when you go on

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<v Speaker 2>trips whatever it is, and it's overly planned, you're dreading it.

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<v Speaker 2>So this like first night pizza party, second day puppy party,

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<v Speaker 2>and then dinner on the property and then it's like

0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:23.479
<v Speaker 2>we just lounged by the pool. We didn't really have

0:19:23.520 --> 0:19:25.520
<v Speaker 2>a set schedule or agenda. So I think that made

0:19:25.520 --> 0:19:26.159
<v Speaker 2>people happy.

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<v Speaker 3>It was nice. We hate set schedules.

0:19:29.240 --> 0:19:32.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, don't put us on a boat with a

0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:34.720
<v Speaker 2>set schedule. Oh please don't or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking about, too. Nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, i'm really happy for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you. Yeah, I'm also happy. That's great and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>happy for you. You get to do it next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, wine's gonna be a little different than yours.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's your plan?

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<v Speaker 1>No set schedule. Well, we're on a boat and I've

0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:57.080
<v Speaker 1>got a very strict schedule. I guess we should say that. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing for me. We're getting a house boat. Then for me,

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<v Speaker 1>we're getting a house boat and we're just gonna wing it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna bring some beer. No golf, I'm shocked there's

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<v Speaker 1>a golf course down there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, Yeah, are you gonna get off the boat

0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:11.240
<v Speaker 2>one day in golf.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, so, yeah, at least once.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you are you driving this boat yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Have I ever driven a house boat? No?

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<v Speaker 3>It is it? Probably that hard?

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<v Speaker 1>Probably not.

0:20:22.200 --> 0:20:24.800
<v Speaker 2>One time Dean and I were in like Como and

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<v Speaker 2>the people at the hotel were like, we don't have

0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:27.920
<v Speaker 2>a driver for you. Can you just drive your own boat?

0:20:27.920 --> 0:20:30.000
<v Speaker 2>And she's like, yeah, I've driven a boat plenty of times,

0:20:30.480 --> 0:20:31.000
<v Speaker 2>never driven.

0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:32.440
<v Speaker 3>Gave us a speedboat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was crazy.

0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:34.760
<v Speaker 3>They like, do you want a speedboat for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like yeah, And then we get out to

0:20:37.600 --> 0:20:39.000
<v Speaker 1>the boat and they're like, all right, have fun, and

0:20:39.440 --> 0:20:42.600
<v Speaker 1>they didn't even like give me a briefing or a rundown.

0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:45.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, so I think I do this,

0:20:45.520 --> 0:20:48.040
<v Speaker 1>and I think I do you know, Like it worked,

0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:52.320
<v Speaker 1>and I'm but I can only imagine if someone was

0:20:52.320 --> 0:20:54.439
<v Speaker 1>like maybe scared or hesitant to do it and then

0:20:54.440 --> 0:20:57.399
<v Speaker 1>they start driving, you could easily crash that thing, oh

0:20:57.440 --> 0:20:57.760
<v Speaker 1>for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>And these boats are like so lavish and expensive, and

0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:02.639
<v Speaker 2>there's boats everywhere because that's all people want to do

0:21:02.680 --> 0:21:03.200
<v Speaker 2>on like Como.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, right, and like a lot of there's like a

0:21:05.880 --> 0:21:08.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of courtesies that go into boating that if you

0:21:08.600 --> 0:21:10.920
<v Speaker 1>don't boat, which I don't, but I at least like

0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:13.040
<v Speaker 1>to think that I understand some of those courtesies a

0:21:13.040 --> 0:21:14.840
<v Speaker 1>little bit more than most people would. If you don't

0:21:14.920 --> 0:21:17.040
<v Speaker 1>understand those courtesies, like you could be pissing the wrong

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<v Speaker 1>people off.

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<v Speaker 2>Like right, like the tours, there were groups of like

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<v Speaker 2>you know, probably twenty people on a boat on a

0:21:22.440 --> 0:21:25.760
<v Speaker 2>tour and we're kind of taking up that spot to

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<v Speaker 2>take photos and like to get drune job.

0:21:27.400 --> 0:21:29.119
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, we were sitting in that little lagoon for

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<v Speaker 3>a while, Like that could.

0:21:30.080 --> 0:21:32.800
<v Speaker 2>Have been a courtesy that maybe we weren't at hearing.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking more about like wake like making awake

0:21:35.520 --> 0:21:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and stuff, and like if someone's out of the boat,

0:21:38.480 --> 0:21:41.000
<v Speaker 1>you need to like raise a flag, which, like you know,

0:21:41.000 --> 0:21:43.480
<v Speaker 1>most people probably don't know unless you're like our a boater.

0:21:44.200 --> 0:21:46.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh well, it's a good thing you got practicing, and

0:21:46.440 --> 0:21:50.080
<v Speaker 2>like como, I've driven a boat before, Oh okay a

0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:52.600
<v Speaker 2>couple of times. I had never and you just and

0:21:52.640 --> 0:21:54.480
<v Speaker 2>then at one point Deane just jumps off the side

0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:55.560
<v Speaker 2>of the boat and he's like, you know how to

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<v Speaker 2>drive this, right?

0:21:56.320 --> 0:21:56.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, every time I've driven a boat, it's like I'm

0:21:59.280 --> 0:22:01.159
<v Speaker 1>with the guy that has a boat and he's like, hey,

0:22:01.200 --> 0:22:03.600
<v Speaker 1>do you want to drive real quick? And I'm like, yeah, absolutely.

0:22:03.720 --> 0:22:05.320
<v Speaker 1>But this one that was like, you have to take

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<v Speaker 1>it out of the dock and docket.

0:22:07.080 --> 0:22:07.920
<v Speaker 2>How do you know how to dock?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm good at.

0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Stuff, I guess. I like to think you can put

0:22:12.520 --> 0:22:17.040
<v Speaker 1>me in any scenario with no like pre I don't

0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:21.040
<v Speaker 1>know ideas are of it, and I figure it out, Okay.

0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:23.600
<v Speaker 2>I like to think, yeah, I'm interested to see how

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<v Speaker 2>this hospital is, how many people does it sleep?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

0:22:26.800 --> 0:22:30.040
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of an iffy situation. So there was one

0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:33.680
<v Speaker 1>really nice, like eighty five foot luxury boat that slept

0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:39.159
<v Speaker 1>twelve sixteen actually, but it was like eight thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>for the weekend. And I'm trying to keep the cost

0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:44.679
<v Speaker 1>as low as possible because, like, I don't want my

0:22:44.680 --> 0:22:45.879
<v Speaker 1>friends to have to pay a lot of money. A

0:22:45.880 --> 0:22:47.720
<v Speaker 1>lot of my friends are broke, even though the broke

0:22:47.760 --> 0:22:49.720
<v Speaker 1>friends aren't actually going to be coming now, so that's

0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:52.399
<v Speaker 1>kind of annoying. But because they're not coming, it's going

0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:54.520
<v Speaker 1>to be less people to split, so it's going to

0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:56.040
<v Speaker 1>be more for everyone. Anyway, So I'm so glad I

0:22:56.080 --> 0:22:58.440
<v Speaker 1>kept the cost down, so I got the smallest one.

0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:02.040
<v Speaker 3>It sleeps ten. Telling everyone that sleeps fourteen.

0:23:02.040 --> 0:23:04.040
<v Speaker 2>And how many people are there, there's.

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<v Speaker 3>Probably going to be like around ten. Well, that's a

0:23:07.080 --> 0:23:07.679
<v Speaker 3>weird twitch you.

0:23:08.040 --> 0:23:12.680
<v Speaker 2>I just think it's not I think that's not right.

0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:16.439
<v Speaker 1>Why I thought it's more No, I am merely uh,

0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:18.639
<v Speaker 1>I heard sixteen. This is why I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>have a bachelor party in the first place, because I've

0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:24.800
<v Speaker 1>invited twenty people, I've gotten ten notes, and now I

0:23:24.840 --> 0:23:26.800
<v Speaker 1>feel like like people don't like me.

0:23:27.400 --> 0:23:29.520
<v Speaker 2>I felt that too with mine. You know. I had

0:23:30.200 --> 0:23:31.320
<v Speaker 2>girls say they couldn't come to.

0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:35.280
<v Speaker 1>Be tenty four too exactly. Then we'll splay that by five.

0:23:36.000 --> 0:23:36.960
<v Speaker 1>And that's how I feel.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it does suck and it hurts. And I've been

0:23:42.280 --> 0:23:44.080
<v Speaker 2>dealing with this a little bit with the wedding too.

0:23:44.160 --> 0:23:47.400
<v Speaker 2>When people say no, whether it's a valid reason or not,

0:23:48.440 --> 0:23:50.760
<v Speaker 2>it still hurts and it feels personal and I don't

0:23:50.840 --> 0:23:53.320
<v Speaker 2>think it is and I think we should change our perspective.

0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:55.639
<v Speaker 2>And I do want to say I talked to my

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:58.439
<v Speaker 2>therapists last week and she said, and this pertains to

0:23:58.840 --> 0:24:01.080
<v Speaker 2>yours and our wedding is well, all the people who

0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:04.199
<v Speaker 2>are supposed to be there will be there, and the

0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:07.159
<v Speaker 2>girls that showed up. It was the perfect group. Everyone

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.760
<v Speaker 2>got along. It was. It could not have gone any better. Like,

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:11.879
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't have changed a single thing. Same goes for

0:24:11.920 --> 0:24:13.520
<v Speaker 2>your bachelor party, same goes for the wedding.

0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:15.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but for my bachelor party, I wanted, like my

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:17.719
<v Speaker 1>La friends to hang out with my Colorado friends.

0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:19.520
<v Speaker 2>They'll hang at the wedding, and then I.

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:21.480
<v Speaker 1>Wanted Wells, Brett and Ben to be there too, to

0:24:21.520 --> 0:24:23.360
<v Speaker 1>hang out with all of them because they like. It's

0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:26.840
<v Speaker 1>like three, three or four different friend groups that I

0:24:26.840 --> 0:24:28.280
<v Speaker 1>want that never get to hang out with each other

0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:30.280
<v Speaker 1>because they're not friends. But I could be like the

0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:33.800
<v Speaker 1>common denominator and then they all get to hang out

0:24:33.960 --> 0:24:36.320
<v Speaker 1>and then get to spend time with each other and

0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:38.480
<v Speaker 1>see how much they like each other, which they would,

0:24:38.760 --> 0:24:39.919
<v Speaker 1>but now it's not going to happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Wells, Brett and Ben are a little bougie, so

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:46.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of glad that they're not going.

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:48.359
<v Speaker 1>Well, if they were coming, we would have gotten the

0:24:48.400 --> 0:24:50.400
<v Speaker 1>nice people. Okay, Okay, that's what I'm saying, And they

0:24:50.400 --> 0:24:51.200
<v Speaker 1>have a valid reason.

0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:53.560
<v Speaker 2>I guess they do, they do, they do. But everyone's

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:55.040
<v Speaker 2>going to hang at the wedding, like there's so much

0:24:55.040 --> 0:24:55.920
<v Speaker 2>time to hang at the wedding.

0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:57.639
<v Speaker 3>Look, I get it. You don't have to like comfort me.

0:24:58.080 --> 0:25:00.159
<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, what do you want me to say? Your

0:25:00.200 --> 0:25:01.160
<v Speaker 2>friends hate you?

0:25:01.200 --> 0:25:03.120
<v Speaker 1>No, But I'm just saying I feel like I'm being

0:25:03.119 --> 0:25:05.920
<v Speaker 1>caddled right now, Like it's okay, some of your friends aren't.

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:06.640
<v Speaker 3>Coming when it's gonna be fine?

0:25:06.680 --> 0:25:07.360
<v Speaker 2>What do you want me to say?

0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:07.960
<v Speaker 1>Be fine?

0:25:08.080 --> 0:25:09.760
<v Speaker 3>You don't need to necessarily say anything.

0:25:09.800 --> 0:25:12.520
<v Speaker 1>I get. I understand the situation. I don't need to

0:25:12.520 --> 0:25:16.160
<v Speaker 1>be comforted about it. I'm just gonna cry.

0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:17.959
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:25:18.080 --> 0:25:19.920
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's where I'm at. There's gonna be maybe

0:25:19.960 --> 0:25:23.320
<v Speaker 1>ten and we'll see how it goes. And that's all

0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:23.680
<v Speaker 1>I got.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna have a blast. So you just dog at night,

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:28.280
<v Speaker 2>or you just float at night.

0:25:29.000 --> 0:25:31.639
<v Speaker 1>You pull up to like a shoreline along the lake,

0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:34.679
<v Speaker 1>and then you anchor down, okay, and then you sleep.

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:37.359
<v Speaker 2>Okay. I think you guys are going to sleep a

0:25:37.359 --> 0:25:38.920
<v Speaker 2>lot or just be drunk the whole time.

0:25:39.000 --> 0:25:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Excuse me. I actually don't really drink very much anymore.

0:25:41.920 --> 0:25:44.080
<v Speaker 2>But that's why I'm I'm curious how this is going

0:25:44.160 --> 0:25:44.320
<v Speaker 2>to go.

0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:46.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I haven't had I haven't done it yet.

0:25:46.480 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll let you know after the back.

0:25:47.680 --> 0:25:49.399
<v Speaker 2>What's your prediction so we can come back to this.

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:52.879
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna drink. Yeah, we're probably gonna play some golf.

0:25:52.920 --> 0:25:58.199
<v Speaker 1>I would imagine, play some games, and we might get

0:25:58.200 --> 0:26:03.240
<v Speaker 1>a speedboat one day, so we'll stay active, maybe jets

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:07.240
<v Speaker 1>because are like too small and they're expensive, so okay,

0:26:07.600 --> 0:26:09.760
<v Speaker 1>but we'll see that sounds fun. But yeah, that's all

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:11.879
<v Speaker 1>I got for you. Sorry, it's not gonna be as

0:26:11.880 --> 0:26:13.320
<v Speaker 1>great as yours, obviously.

0:26:12.960 --> 0:26:17.160
<v Speaker 2>But well yeah, obviously, obviously.

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I didn't. I wanted to cancel the bachelor party, but

0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:22.080
<v Speaker 1>my brother called me. He's like, you have to do this.

0:26:22.280 --> 0:26:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, He's like, everyone does this, you have to

0:26:24.600 --> 0:26:28.520
<v Speaker 1>do it. I was like, dude, fine. I was so

0:26:28.560 --> 0:26:31.160
<v Speaker 1>annoyed and like my other friends, so I put like

0:26:31.320 --> 0:26:33.360
<v Speaker 1>five or six friends in a group chat, the ones

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.320
<v Speaker 1>that I could rely on that I know would be

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.640
<v Speaker 1>able and willing to spend money and want to take

0:26:38.640 --> 0:26:40.560
<v Speaker 1>a trip. So I put everyone in a group chat

0:26:40.680 --> 0:26:43.560
<v Speaker 1>that could do that, and they were like getting mad

0:26:43.560 --> 0:26:45.840
<v Speaker 1>at me for dragging my feet. They were telling me

0:26:45.880 --> 0:26:47.960
<v Speaker 1>that I have to do this, and they were saying, like,

0:26:48.000 --> 0:26:49.399
<v Speaker 1>we're working so hard, and I was like, you're not

0:26:49.440 --> 0:26:52.240
<v Speaker 1>working hard at all. I'm doing everything now, and it

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:54.400
<v Speaker 1>was just getting so freaking annoying, and I was so

0:26:54.480 --> 0:26:57.280
<v Speaker 1>happy to just call it off and say like, I

0:26:57.280 --> 0:26:59.119
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do this. I don't want to stress

0:26:59.119 --> 0:27:01.560
<v Speaker 1>about people not showing up. I don't want to stress

0:27:01.600 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>about over spending and having people spend more money than

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:07.639
<v Speaker 1>they are willing to. And then eventually I was just like, fine,

0:27:07.680 --> 0:27:09.439
<v Speaker 1>I'll do this for you guys, like I'm doing it

0:27:09.480 --> 0:27:09.880
<v Speaker 1>for them.

0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:11.280
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to do this.

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:13.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you're gonna have so much fun. It's gonna

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:15.040
<v Speaker 2>be worth it. You're gonna look back and be like,

0:27:15.040 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 2>that was one of the best weekends of my life.

0:27:16.280 --> 0:27:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it'll be the best weekend of my

0:27:17.640 --> 0:27:19.320
<v Speaker 1>life at all. I think it will be fun.

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:23.359
<v Speaker 2>No, there's something about getting your friends together and friends

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 2>from different even if it's not like all these different

0:27:25.720 --> 0:27:27.720
<v Speaker 2>groups you wanted, it still is different groups. It's gonna

0:27:27.760 --> 0:27:30.680
<v Speaker 2>be great. Can you just have some positivity.

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:32.640
<v Speaker 3>You're still just trying to be too comforting right now?

0:27:32.680 --> 0:27:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh my gosh, is Ross going.

0:27:35.320 --> 0:27:36.720
<v Speaker 3>Uh No, he's definitely not going.

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:37.439
<v Speaker 2>Rat's going though.

0:27:37.560 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay, just me and Brad, just us two.

0:27:42.200 --> 0:27:44.280
<v Speaker 2>Did Mark and Josh tell you that they texted me

0:27:44.320 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 2>and asked me to plan or not plan, but help them.

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there was like a secret group side group test.

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:54.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, and it was just like, come on, it

0:27:54.560 --> 0:27:55.919
<v Speaker 2>got a little exhausting for you.

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 1>And it's also like, okay, if you guys wanted to

0:27:58.640 --> 0:28:00.320
<v Speaker 1>do this, and if you wanted to plan it, why

0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:02.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't you try doing this two months ago?

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:05.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know why nobody took this over sooner or immediately.

0:28:06.080 --> 0:28:07.480
<v Speaker 3>I agree, it hurts my feelings.

0:28:07.600 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 2>It shouldn't hurt your feelings. You were adamant that you

0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:11.639
<v Speaker 2>wanted to do it, but they should have known you

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 2>better that you hate planning.

0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:15.480
<v Speaker 3>Well, I just didn't want to do anything.

0:28:15.760 --> 0:28:19.359
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, that goes back to Dean hating being the

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:20.000
<v Speaker 2>center of attention.

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>I just don't like inviting people places because then I

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm responsible for the one that they're going

0:28:25.080 --> 0:28:27.280
<v Speaker 1>to have or not have, And then, like I said,

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:29.360
<v Speaker 1>if people don't show up, then I feel bad about it.

0:28:29.480 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 3>I'm on the bridgetiers right now.

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:33.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm not allowed to caddle. Suck it up.

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:35.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, thank you, suck it up.

0:28:36.800 --> 0:28:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't really know what to say because I

0:28:39.080 --> 0:28:39.719
<v Speaker 2>am a coddler.

0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:41.560
<v Speaker 1>So we'll see how it goes. Let's just leave at that.

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:42.360
<v Speaker 1>We'll see how it goes.

0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:44.440
<v Speaker 2>We'll see it'll be great.

0:28:46.280 --> 0:28:46.920
<v Speaker 3>Don't say that.

0:28:59.000 --> 0:29:00.800
<v Speaker 2>Can we also talk about your hole in one? Yeah?

0:29:00.800 --> 0:29:01.720
<v Speaker 1>I got a hole in one?

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:04.880
<v Speaker 2>You guys, you do not sound very excited.

0:29:05.360 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 3>I got a hole in one.

0:29:07.960 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 2>Still not good enough.

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:10.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how did you feel?

0:29:14.160 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh.

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:16.600
<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if any of any of you

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 1>listeners out there ever played golf before. But the most

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:23.880
<v Speaker 1>illustrious thing a bad golfer can do, like me, is

0:29:23.920 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>get a hole in one.

0:29:25.120 --> 0:29:27.560
<v Speaker 3>It never happened. A lot of people go their whole.

0:29:27.320 --> 0:29:28.920
<v Speaker 1>Lives without ever getting a hole in one.

0:29:29.360 --> 0:29:30.400
<v Speaker 2>You know, do you think that'd be you?

0:29:31.040 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I was kind of like and I was thinking, like,

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:35.000
<v Speaker 1>I'll just never get a hole in one, and I

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:36.960
<v Speaker 1>was fine with it. I came to terms with that.

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:39.000
<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, I like I don't need to get

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 1>a hole on one. Sure i'd love one, but like,

0:29:42.040 --> 0:29:44.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm not good enough to expect to get a hole

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:44.800
<v Speaker 1>in one.

0:29:44.840 --> 0:29:47.160
<v Speaker 3>You know, it just doesn't happen.

0:29:47.280 --> 0:29:50.320
<v Speaker 1>And even like if you think about I know, golf

0:29:50.440 --> 0:29:52.719
<v Speaker 1>isn't your thing, so I can't really get into too

0:29:52.800 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 1>many like specifics. But like you, you don't just like

0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>hit it two hundred yards into the hole ever on

0:29:59.840 --> 0:30:03.000
<v Speaker 1>a four on or par five, like it happens once

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:05.640
<v Speaker 1>in a lifetime essentially, and so.

0:30:05.680 --> 0:30:06.400
<v Speaker 3>I just like my hole.

0:30:06.440 --> 0:30:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Like, but it's funny because like three weeks ago, I

0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:09.960
<v Speaker 1>did have an eagle for the first time in a

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 1>long time. I chipped in from like one hundred and

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 1>fifty yards out, which was cool, but it wasn't like

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:19.720
<v Speaker 1>you don't frame a scorecard with an eagle on it.

0:30:19.800 --> 0:30:21.479
<v Speaker 1>You'll really only frame a scorecard with a whole one

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 1>on it.

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 2>Did you keep it?

0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I still have it. So we drive up to

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.120
<v Speaker 1>the green. We see the ball on the bunker, the

0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:30.480
<v Speaker 1>first guy. We see the ball long, and then we

0:30:30.480 --> 0:30:33.280
<v Speaker 1>see the ball on the green. Another ball on the green,

0:30:33.440 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>and so I got out of the car, I grabbed

0:30:34.840 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 1>my butter, I grabbed my wedge, thinking I like went

0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:41.400
<v Speaker 1>long into the back bunker, and my buddy Josh is

0:30:41.400 --> 0:30:45.000
<v Speaker 1>playing this very specific it's like a speckled vice golf ball.

0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:47.200
<v Speaker 1>So we get up and the ball that's long, which

0:30:47.240 --> 0:30:50.160
<v Speaker 1>I thought was mine, was speckled, and so I was like, okay,

0:30:50.200 --> 0:30:51.719
<v Speaker 1>that's not mine. I must be in the bunker.

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:53.479
<v Speaker 3>So I like start walking towards the bunker.

0:30:53.520 --> 0:30:55.680
<v Speaker 1>But Josh is ahead of me, and he like goes

0:30:55.760 --> 0:30:58.160
<v Speaker 1>up to the hole and looks into it, and he

0:30:58.160 --> 0:31:00.520
<v Speaker 1>he like I could tell he was mad because he's

0:31:00.560 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>like jealous. I guess, like he wanted to be the

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 1>guy that got the whole one, you know. So he

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:08.440
<v Speaker 1>looks at the hole, looks back.

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 3>At me, and he goes, DDE, your ball's in the hole.

0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 1>And then everyone else like reacted big, like jumping up

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:18.880
<v Speaker 1>and down. My buddy tackled me on the green. I'm

0:31:18.920 --> 0:31:20.840
<v Speaker 1>on the green and I'm looking up at Josh and

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:23.440
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this, mother's lying to me right now,

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.240
<v Speaker 1>because I hadn't looked in the hole yet, so I

0:31:25.280 --> 0:31:26.840
<v Speaker 1>hadn't confirmed that my ball was in the hole. So

0:31:26.880 --> 0:31:28.800
<v Speaker 1>I look up at Josh and I was like, is

0:31:28.800 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 1>my ball seriously in the hole right now, Josh? And

0:31:31.720 --> 0:31:35.120
<v Speaker 1>He's like, it's in the hole. And then I was like, okay,

0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:37.280
<v Speaker 1>maybe I actually did make a hole one. So then

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 1>I and everyone's on top of me. At this point,

0:31:39.400 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm doggy piled on the green at the bottom of

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 1>the doggy pile. So I get up and I walk

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 1>over to the hole, and sure enough, my little titleist

0:31:46.160 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 1>ten Provy one X with a smiley face on it,

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:49.560
<v Speaker 1>was sitting in the hole, and the smiley face was

0:31:49.600 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 1>looking right I was looking right up at me. Yeah,

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:58.560
<v Speaker 1>And it was weird because of that series of events,

0:31:59.000 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 1>from hitting it knowing it was good but not seeing it,

0:32:02.560 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 1>to getting up onto the green and not being the

0:32:05.440 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>first one to see it in the cup, and then

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 1>being tackled and celebrating it without having it be confirmed.

0:32:10.480 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 3>There was never like a rush that hit me.

0:32:12.440 --> 0:32:15.400
<v Speaker 1>You know. It never felt like I finally hit a

0:32:15.400 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>hole in one because there were so many weird events

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:20.880
<v Speaker 1>leading up to it that didn't feel like. I didn't

0:32:21.120 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't the first to confirm it, I wasn't the

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 1>first to see it, and so I just never felt

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 1>I never felt like I thought I would feel when

0:32:29.200 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I got a hole in one, if that makes sense.

0:32:31.000 --> 0:32:32.680
<v Speaker 2>Versus like you hit it and you just watch it

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:33.720
<v Speaker 2>roll in exactly.

0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:36.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it's stinks because it was a perfect shot.

0:32:37.120 --> 0:32:40.240
<v Speaker 1>It landed six yards in front of the hole, right

0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:42.200
<v Speaker 1>on the target with the pin obviously, and it just

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>probably just dribbled right into the cup, hit the flag

0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 1>and dropped in. And yeah it was obviously. I'm really

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>happy and excited about it. What stinks is Braemar used

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:55.000
<v Speaker 1>to give people that got a hole in one in

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 1>a tournament. This is like a Skins tournament that we

0:32:56.800 --> 0:32:58.520
<v Speaker 1>were playing in. If you get a hole in one,

0:32:58.600 --> 0:33:01.840
<v Speaker 1>they send you to Caaba for a weekend. And I

0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:06.480
<v Speaker 1>like just missed out on that jackpot by like five months, crazy.

0:33:06.240 --> 0:33:06.760
<v Speaker 3>Which stinks.

0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:07.800
<v Speaker 1>And then if you get a hole in one, I

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:09.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you know this, but you like you're

0:33:09.160 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 1>expected to buy everyone drinks.

0:33:11.880 --> 0:33:14.560
<v Speaker 2>For literally not just your group, for literally the.

0:33:14.480 --> 0:33:16.320
<v Speaker 3>Rest of the day. Everyone's you're supposed to be buying

0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:17.040
<v Speaker 3>everyone drinks.

0:33:17.400 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 2>Your group are like everyone in the bark your group

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:20.360
<v Speaker 2>and everyone at the bar.

0:33:20.440 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 3>Oh.

0:33:20.800 --> 0:33:22.560
<v Speaker 1>And so there was a group of our friends behind,

0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:24.640
<v Speaker 1>like kind of our loose friends behind us, like people

0:33:24.640 --> 0:33:28.080
<v Speaker 1>we know but don't hang out with, and they were like, deed,

0:33:28.280 --> 0:33:30.800
<v Speaker 1>we're getting drinks on you or Dan, thanks for the beer, Dan,

0:33:30.840 --> 0:33:33.640
<v Speaker 1>thanks for the shot, And I'm like, so I just

0:33:33.640 --> 0:33:35.800
<v Speaker 1>started lying to people. I was like, oh no, actually

0:33:35.840 --> 0:33:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I hit one out of bounds, and then my second

0:33:37.560 --> 0:33:39.920
<v Speaker 1>ball that I hit the hole, because like, I'm not

0:33:40.160 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna buy all of your guys's drinks.

0:33:42.920 --> 0:33:44.960
<v Speaker 3>It's gonna be a thousand dollars bar tab.

0:33:45.320 --> 0:33:45.840
<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

0:33:45.840 --> 0:33:47.800
<v Speaker 1>And the reason I found out, the reason that you're

0:33:47.800 --> 0:33:50.200
<v Speaker 1>supposed to buy everyone drinks when you get a hole

0:33:50.240 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 1>in one is because most country clubs have a pool.

0:33:53.520 --> 0:33:56.120
<v Speaker 1>So like every time you pay your Greens fee or

0:33:56.120 --> 0:33:58.480
<v Speaker 1>your cart fee or whatever, or your monthly do's or

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:00.959
<v Speaker 1>whatever it is, they put like two to five dollars

0:34:01.000 --> 0:34:03.360
<v Speaker 1>into this pool, and then if you hit a hole

0:34:03.400 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 1>in one, you get that pool of money. So typically

0:34:06.000 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>it would be like three to five thousand dollars you

0:34:07.760 --> 0:34:08.759
<v Speaker 1>would get and.

0:34:08.719 --> 0:34:09.879
<v Speaker 2>They don't do that anymore either.

0:34:10.200 --> 0:34:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, we just don't do that at the club at

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:14.799
<v Speaker 1>this club, okay. And so like if Wells were to

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:16.680
<v Speaker 1>get a hole in one at his club, which I

0:34:16.680 --> 0:34:18.520
<v Speaker 1>know he has, actually I never I'm not sure if

0:34:18.560 --> 0:34:20.640
<v Speaker 1>they do this sit there either, but like that's what

0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:22.279
<v Speaker 1>my friend was telling me, Like, typically there's like a

0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:23.960
<v Speaker 1>pool of money that goes to the person that gets

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.479
<v Speaker 1>the hole in one, and that's why, Like you're buying

0:34:27.480 --> 0:34:31.640
<v Speaker 1>everyone drinks because you're getting money from everyone essentially, and

0:34:31.760 --> 0:34:34.920
<v Speaker 1>obviously I'm not getting any money. So I want to skin.

0:34:35.120 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>I won sixty dollars on a skin.

0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:39.959
<v Speaker 2>Oh nice, like covered a couple of people's.

0:34:39.640 --> 0:34:41.680
<v Speaker 3>Drinks, covered one shot. Probably.

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So now I've got my first hole in one,

0:34:45.160 --> 0:34:46.879
<v Speaker 1>which is which is great. Now I can go out

0:34:46.880 --> 0:34:50.360
<v Speaker 1>and get a bunch more. Uh, and I need to.

0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:53.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna frame the scorecard. I kept the ball. I'm

0:34:53.600 --> 0:34:55.800
<v Speaker 1>gonna put that in the frame. I'm going to print

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>out a picture of the hole, and I'm gonna post

0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:00.440
<v Speaker 1>a picture a selfie that I took a group that

0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:00.839
<v Speaker 1>I was with.

0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:03.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh cute, I love that up in the office.

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:03.920
<v Speaker 1>In the office.

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:04.399
<v Speaker 2>That's great.

0:35:04.600 --> 0:35:06.200
<v Speaker 1>Gonna build it all myself.

0:35:06.000 --> 0:35:09.000
<v Speaker 2>Love it. Has Ben Higgins gotten a hole in one?

0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:10.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't think so?

0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:11.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh does that make you feel good?

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he has. I'm better at golf than Bennis. What

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.160
<v Speaker 1>last time I played with him? At least I was.

0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:18.839
<v Speaker 2>I think he had one bad day. You always talk

0:35:18.840 --> 0:35:21.200
<v Speaker 2>about Hutbins, Who's better Ben or Wells?

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:21.560
<v Speaker 3>Wells?

0:35:22.400 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 2>And how many does Wells have one hole in one?

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:25.160
<v Speaker 3>Wells only as the one too.

0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:26.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, so you're equal.

0:35:26.600 --> 0:35:27.240
<v Speaker 3>We're equal.

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. The barometer for skill in golf is how many

0:35:30.600 --> 0:35:33.279
<v Speaker 1>hole on ones you have. No, But it's interesting because

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:36.640
<v Speaker 1>one of my buddies at the club where I play, Kyle,

0:35:37.200 --> 0:35:40.120
<v Speaker 1>great golfer, like he's better than Wells. He's been he's

0:35:40.160 --> 0:35:42.560
<v Speaker 1>played thirty five he's been playing golf since he was,

0:35:42.640 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, teenagers. In twenty years, he plays a lot.

0:35:45.239 --> 0:35:47.120
<v Speaker 1>He would play three or four times a week probably

0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:49.440
<v Speaker 1>in his heyday. He just got his first ever hole

0:35:49.480 --> 0:35:51.640
<v Speaker 1>in one like two weeks ago. And so like this

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.839
<v Speaker 1>great golfer that's played so much golf, it took him

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:57.200
<v Speaker 1>twenty years to get his first ever hole in one.

0:35:57.400 --> 0:35:59.359
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's just kind of a testament to how

0:35:59.440 --> 0:36:01.640
<v Speaker 1>random it is. Yeah, and that's all it is at

0:36:01.640 --> 0:36:04.120
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, too, is randomness. Like you

0:36:04.200 --> 0:36:06.399
<v Speaker 1>hit a million good shots on a part three, one

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:08.600
<v Speaker 1>of them goes in no matter, It just is it's

0:36:08.600 --> 0:36:10.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of luck. It's a lot of randomness.

0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, I'm very happy for you. Yeah, thanks, I

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 2>got Dina bottle of woove. It's sitting right in front

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:16.400
<v Speaker 2>of us, unopened.

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we got to put that in the fridge. But yeah,

0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:21.640
<v Speaker 1>my life has it's only up from here.

0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 2>So my life is what were you going to say?

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:27.320
<v Speaker 3>My life is at an acme right now, I'm peaking.

0:36:27.600 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 2>You're preaking.

0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:28.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:31.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So you got your bachelor party, you get to

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:33.480
<v Speaker 2>marry the love of your life.

0:36:34.000 --> 0:36:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly.

0:36:35.160 --> 0:36:37.840
<v Speaker 2>It's all good things, all good things, all great things.

0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Have you bought your tucks yet?

0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:40.560
<v Speaker 1>No? I have not.

0:36:40.880 --> 0:36:43.040
<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're about thirty eight days from the west.

0:36:43.080 --> 0:36:43.799
<v Speaker 3>Oh, how are we?

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Wow?

0:36:44.120 --> 0:36:44.680
<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

0:36:44.680 --> 0:36:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I had no idea.

0:36:45.360 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>When are you going to do that?

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do it when it's going to get done.

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:50.760
<v Speaker 1>But it's on the rundown, so it doesn't it doesn't

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:52.400
<v Speaker 1>matter when I do it because it's going to be

0:36:52.480 --> 0:36:53.360
<v Speaker 1>done before the wedding.

0:36:53.680 --> 0:36:55.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you could have an ill fitting suit.

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I sure could.

0:36:56.800 --> 0:37:00.319
<v Speaker 3>Oh no, it's thirty eight days away.

0:37:00.360 --> 0:37:00.800
<v Speaker 1>You can't.

0:37:00.920 --> 0:37:03.680
<v Speaker 3>You think you can't tailor a suit in thirty eight days.

0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:05.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you got to buy it and then you

0:37:05.480 --> 0:37:07.240
<v Speaker 2>got to you could have two rounds of tailoring.

0:37:07.880 --> 0:37:09.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, so that's a week.

0:37:10.200 --> 0:37:14.080
<v Speaker 2>People are pretty brapped up these days. My tailor two weeks.

0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because it's for having pants a wedding dress.

0:37:16.239 --> 0:37:17.360
<v Speaker 3>We've gone over this weddings.

0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about just our tailor here in Vegas. I

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:21.640
<v Speaker 2>don't never gone.

0:37:21.680 --> 0:37:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know who Taylor is, but I'm sure the

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:24.640
<v Speaker 1>guy that I'm going to find in Denver.

0:37:25.719 --> 0:37:29.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's gonna be what which Just why haven't you yet?

0:37:29.239 --> 0:37:29.880
<v Speaker 2>That's my question?

0:37:30.200 --> 0:37:31.319
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm still losing weight.

0:37:31.680 --> 0:37:34.080
<v Speaker 2>No, you're not. You hit your target weight, you said yesterday.

0:37:34.880 --> 0:37:36.879
<v Speaker 3>No, I have a new target now.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, what is it?

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred and seventy five pounds?

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I want to be skinny.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, you are skinny.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I'm gonna do it. Don't worry, and I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate your concern, but I don't need you to

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<v Speaker 1>keep letting me know that I need to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>because I know I see that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just saying I know that I need to

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<v Speaker 3>do it.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a reason I haven't asked you since I last

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<v Speaker 2>asked you. But you know, I can't just ignore it,

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<v Speaker 2>because oh, but you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can ignore all the other things on the run.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we've We've hit every single thing on the rundown.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the last one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm getting the talks.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry, Okay, ok wait, oh my god, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to get the talks that I'm not going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you about it obviously now too.

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<v Speaker 2>No, that's really stressful, and that's.

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<v Speaker 1>How I feel like I need to respond to it

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<v Speaker 1>now that you keep pressuring me to.

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<v Speaker 2>Do it because I don't want has been ordered.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want you to feel like the only reason

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<v Speaker 1>I'm getting the tux is because you keep reminding me

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<v Speaker 1>I want I'm doing it for myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want you to.

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<v Speaker 1>Get the satisfaction of being like he did it because

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<v Speaker 1>I reminded it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not about satisfaction. It's about my own stresses.

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<v Speaker 3>But there is the last thing that you should stress about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, oh, I am you can't just tell me

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<v Speaker 2>not to stress about something.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy if you're going to stress about it and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to just don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to Before we wrap up this podcast, I

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<v Speaker 2>would love to talk about the home renovations that you

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 2>have going on.

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:54.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, well our home renovations.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, but you're doing that.

0:38:58.000 --> 0:39:00.799
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you handed me a screwdriver to I.

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:04.080
<v Speaker 2>Did a lot of work today, Dean, So Dean built

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<v Speaker 2>this amazing table that I'm staring at right now. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so beautiful, carved it. I don't know how he did it.

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 2>And then hung up new lights. We got all new appliances,

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<v Speaker 2>and this morning, just very quickly, in a matter of

0:39:15.600 --> 0:39:19.080
<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes, he built an outlet. He just we are

0:39:19.120 --> 0:39:22.520
<v Speaker 2>trying to move all of these little appliances into our pantry,

0:39:22.800 --> 0:39:25.319
<v Speaker 2>and he just builds an outlet like it was the

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<v Speaker 2>easiest thing in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't build an outlet.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know what you did. I created a new one.

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<v Speaker 1>I created well, I guess that kind of is the

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 1>same thing as building an outlet. I put a new

0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:37.960
<v Speaker 1>outlet in the pantry, which I'd never done before.

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<v Speaker 3>Electrical stuff is scary.

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<v Speaker 2>Is scary, and it's even scarier from my side of things,

0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 2>not knowing your knowledge. So when he was putting up

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:48.360
<v Speaker 2>the pendant lights, he was like, I've never seen this before.

0:39:49.200 --> 0:39:52.680
<v Speaker 2>Just clipped these. Hopefully that's okay, and it always is

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:55.680
<v Speaker 2>knock on wood. And then today he's like, I don't

0:39:55.719 --> 0:39:57.319
<v Speaker 2>know if this is going to work. Hopefully our house

0:39:57.400 --> 0:39:58.280
<v Speaker 2>doesn't catch on fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. The thing with electricity is like, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>could make one small mistake and it might not show

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:08.480
<v Speaker 1>right away, but like in five years, there could be

0:40:08.520 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 1>like a short circuit.

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 2>Or something serily. Well, yes, my anxiety was gone.

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:16.399
<v Speaker 3>Great, But that's the.

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:19.400
<v Speaker 1>Thing with electricity is like you could do everything and

0:40:19.520 --> 0:40:22.400
<v Speaker 1>everything works like it should, but there could still be

0:40:22.440 --> 0:40:24.040
<v Speaker 1>like a fault or something in the line.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't do this with this. This is great work.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're saying, even with like you know, the builders.

0:40:31.320 --> 0:40:34.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. Oh same with my van, you know, like

0:40:34.640 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 1>we sleep in the van so often, and I did

0:40:36.680 --> 0:40:39.120
<v Speaker 1>all that electrical myself, and there could just be a

0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:41.480
<v Speaker 1>shorten a line. Maybe I used like tooth thin of

0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:42.960
<v Speaker 1>gage of wire or something.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just so impressive. You are only here for a

0:40:45.960 --> 0:40:48.080
<v Speaker 2>short amount of time and the amount of things you

0:40:48.120 --> 0:40:49.360
<v Speaker 2>get done is crazy.

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I work really hard.

0:40:50.719 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 2>You do work very hard, And I just want to

0:40:52.520 --> 0:40:53.600
<v Speaker 2>say I appreciate that.

0:40:53.960 --> 0:40:54.920
<v Speaker 3>I appreciate that.

0:40:55.840 --> 0:40:56.480
<v Speaker 2>You're welcome.

0:40:58.040 --> 0:41:00.959
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we got to get the appliance in because

0:41:00.960 --> 0:41:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I leave tomorrow for a week.

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<v Speaker 3>So well, yess a week and a half.

0:41:04.160 --> 0:41:06.399
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so I gotta I gotta get this self done

0:41:06.440 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 1>before I leave.

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I hopefully it looks good.

0:41:09.680 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I was trying to think last night while we were

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:15.360
<v Speaker 1>sleeping hot, because like, our water dispenser is pretty like

0:41:15.440 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 1>there's not a lot of depth to it. It's maybe

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:19.879
<v Speaker 1>like twelve inches deep, but our wine cooler is two

0:41:19.920 --> 0:41:22.319
<v Speaker 1>feet deep. And so it's like, how is the water

0:41:22.360 --> 0:41:24.120
<v Speaker 1>cooler going to sit back against the wall now it

0:41:24.160 --> 0:41:26.400
<v Speaker 1>can't because you have to press the button. Is it

0:41:26.440 --> 0:41:29.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna sit up with the wine cooler space? Then there's

0:41:29.760 --> 0:41:32.320
<v Speaker 1>like a cavity behind it. What are we gonna do

0:41:32.320 --> 0:41:32.880
<v Speaker 1>with the cavity?

0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:37.040
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. That's that's something that you you're a

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:37.840
<v Speaker 2>problem solver.

0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:39.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you're like the design girl.

0:41:39.800 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 2>So I got nothing for you right now until I see.

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<v Speaker 1>It, okay. Yeah, So yeah, that's where we're at.

0:41:48.280 --> 0:41:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you got a lot of work to do. I

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 2>think that's a good place to wrap up the podcast.

0:41:52.160 --> 0:41:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I always, uh never really know how to wrap us up.

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 2>You're just so good at it, you know. You do

0:41:56.960 --> 0:41:58.560
<v Speaker 2>the intro, you do the outro. You're just a pro.

0:41:58.760 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>That's funny because every time I'm happing U up, you

0:42:00.520 --> 0:42:01.799
<v Speaker 1>always tell me how bad I am at it.

0:42:02.400 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, that's because you put your central voice

0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:09.920
<v Speaker 2>on and you try to make everyone uncomfortable. No, okay,

0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:12.240
<v Speaker 2>but you've been podcasting for what six years? Seven years?

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<v Speaker 3>Longest job I've ever had.

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh, that's great, and I've been podcasting for less than

0:42:16.640 --> 0:42:18.160
<v Speaker 2>a year six months.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. What did you study in college? And what did

0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:22.200
<v Speaker 3>I study in college?

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<v Speaker 2>Broadcast journalism. That's going to do it for this week's episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much for listening. Follow next week. We're

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