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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to help rekindle

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Speaker 1: The question is what harsh truth should you tell your partner?

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Speaker 1: Ideally as many harsh truth as possible. And there's another

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Speaker 1: harsh truth that we go live every weekday at three

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Speaker 1: missing out. It's too harsh, it's too harsh, it's too true.

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Speaker 1: But let's go into this harsh reality that throwaway Flat

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Speaker 1: Issues says, and they say, my twenty five female girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: twenty six female Lota has always been on the more

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Speaker 1: quiet and reserve side, but also incredibly kind and conscientious

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Speaker 1: her and knows how to set and stick to boundaries,

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Speaker 1: which is one of the reasons I was attracted her.

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Speaker 1: I bet there's a lot of reasons, but a few

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Speaker 1: weeks ago I think she was too ruthless. Well, a

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Speaker 1: few weeks ago, our upstairs neighbor, who Lata and I

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Speaker 1: betting Lata to babysit her five year old for an

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Speaker 1: hour because her one month old was having trouble breathing

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Speaker 1: a lot of ones to deal with.

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Speaker 2: That is a lot of ones to deal with.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, as Sam would say, damn, that sucks.

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Speaker 1: Quote that does suck. I'm gonna keep going. I'm doing so.

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Speaker 1: The neighbor explained her mother was on the way as

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Speaker 1: care of her other son. She also offered to pay Lata.

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Speaker 1: I was at work at the time.

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Speaker 3: What do you do in the situation?

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Speaker 1: Yes or no? Yeah, of course definitely, I'm taking that baby. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Lata said no. She said she was busy and couldn't

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Speaker 1: do it. Ooh wow, whack or not?

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Speaker 2: Whack whack or not? I'm sorry, divorce or not, break

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Speaker 1: I need more.

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Speaker 2: Context on divorce or not. But whack whack easily.

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Speaker 4: You're just you're literally watching the five year old could

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Speaker 4: help the mom save the baby's life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what are we talking.

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Speaker 1: And getting paid and getting paid like it's busy with what? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I feel like that is a massive laps in character. Yes, huge,

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Speaker 1: divorce prevorse. We got a little prevorce situation. Well, the

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Speaker 1: neighbor end up taking both kids to the hospital. I

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Speaker 1: hear she said no, which seemed to annoy Lotta. It's

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Speaker 1: been three weeks since the event, and our neighbor has

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Speaker 1: You literally weren't there when she needed you for the

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Speaker 2: You're just washing, just watching a kid like.

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Speaker 1: Keela Davis says a life was at steak. Yeah, literal

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Speaker 2: What you do?

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Speaker 1: She says she was just setting boundaries and that our

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Speaker 1: and two, this was a medical emergency. Not her wanting

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Speaker 1: she didn't teach our neighbor a lesson. She only added stress.

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Speaker 1: She didn't need this really upset lot of because she

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Speaker 1: She needs to apologize herself, yes, and put in the work,

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Speaker 4: Hey, hey, Sam, someone just went up and stabbed me.

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Speaker 2: Could you do.

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Speaker 1: I got it, I got somewhere to be, but hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to bleed out and die. Put pressure on

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Speaker 1: I don't want to get in between you and God.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know what. Thanks for setting the boundary.

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Speaker 1: This is I think I think insanity. I think that

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Speaker 1: Lotta was busy cooking dinner and catching up on a

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Speaker 4: I don't want to just divorce this person. I want

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Speaker 1: so what do we think here? What do we think here?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I and I hate the like the the bastardization

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like, because it's really important, it's important to

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Speaker 2: Of those things exactly exactly. And it's like this and

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Speaker 4: It's like the baby is not breathing, you're cooking and

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Speaker 1: You know, you could have just you could have just

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Speaker 4: Yes, of your house. Yes, take the kid. Put the

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Speaker 4: There you go, there, you freaking go. That is it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I think we're gonna get in God, I think

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Speaker 1: Rat says, not the ale. This was a medical emergency,

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Speaker 1: She only added stress. She didn't need this. Person says

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Speaker 1: someone because Lota was busy, that poor five year old

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Speaker 1: I really hope a Lota doesn't want children of her own,

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Speaker 1: B Jackson, not the ale. Good for you for recognizing

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Speaker 1: Now she's jealous. She left half an hour later in

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Speaker 3: It's the neighbor that keeps calling the cops on us

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her daughter's in college when her husband is working

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Speaker 3: And then the trash kind of guy, okay, real Cogan,

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Speaker 1: Last jacked with a free country.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude. I was so livid. I was like, oh, man,

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Speaker 1: Bro? Yeah? Oh my god, but it would help, dude.

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Speaker 4: Maybe we need to six Sam on her and just freaking.

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Speaker 3: You know, sim dude, But you said she needed something.

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Speaker 3: You were like, she needs some that's what you said earlier.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think her husband is is his weight.

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Speaker 1: So's Sam seriously might know? Yeah, I'll take one for

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for real, we need it.

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Speaker 1: At this point, there are some relevant there are some

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Speaker 1: relevant comments. So the Yan cunning and says, I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: And then, following through nothing she did had to do

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Speaker 1: Best of luck with recovery and moving on. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: we'll find someone as kind as you are. Then Bubbles

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Speaker 1: Forever says, I'm glad you saw the true her before

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Speaker 1: getting into deep like marriage. Everyone is nice and unrest

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Speaker 4: It's it's insane because it's like, not only is it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is.

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Speaker 4: That is the Also I really want to call out

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think I think op made the

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Speaker 1: But the action combined with the response is just a

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Speaker 1: like that that the the the the the breakup totally warranted.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, final nail in the coffin, final.

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Speaker 1: Nail the coffine or nailing that caffin, oh yes, oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: But I was at John's house or apartment the other day. Uh,

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Speaker 3: I didn't know he had any things.

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Speaker 4: I like, live in a giant building by myself.

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Speaker 1: It does. To be fair, I didn't see a lot

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Speaker 4: The only times I ever see them really are like

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Speaker 3: But I had to go into your garage the other

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Speaker 1: What did you think they were gonna do?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, dude, look at me, I look young

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Speaker 1: You would do anything to me, honestly, Like I feel

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Speaker 1: like I could boss you around where to put trash cans.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I don't want that to happen in the garage.

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Speaker 3: And then so I go up and the elevator stops

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Speaker 3: as soon as I said, I was like, why am

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Speaker 1: Random like a five to ten really intimidating guy like I.

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Speaker 2: Feel like five eleven. Put some respect on his name.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm the one I got, I'm the pitiful here

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Speaker 4: five ten. Okay, we can do now, right now, That's

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Speaker 4: what they were saying at the at the pool party.

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Speaker 3: You said you were five eleven and I'm five eleven?

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Speaker 1: Are you? Huh? I think I'm six foot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I've always thought of myself as five eleven. M but

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Speaker 4: maybe i'm five. I'm definitely five eleven with shoes, which

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, you're definitely five eleven with with hair and shoes.

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Speaker 1: You're definitely you're six foot.

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Speaker 2: Might even might even break the six Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: You guys should legit measure. We have.

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Speaker 2: We've done this before.

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Speaker 3: Wait, Messa, what keep going for the sentence?

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Speaker 2: Our sentence?

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Speaker 1: Height?

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Speaker 2: What complete that sentence?

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Speaker 1: No way?

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Speaker 3: Oh man, Flightless Bird had my neighbor followed my sister

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Speaker 3: into my old apartment?

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Speaker 1: Whoaper? All right?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, Flightless?

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Speaker 2: Oh what's up?

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Speaker 1: Playliste? Hello? Okay, hear us? Yeah, okay, so you had

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Speaker 5: So I had gone out to a work party and

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Speaker 5: got like we were drinking there and then like down

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Speaker 5: and then laid me down in my bed and my

440
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 5: she had waited a few minutes, and the neighbor came

441
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Speaker 5: in after her after already trying to get to me

442
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 5: whenever I was going to the door and in the elevator,

443
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:14,000
Speaker 5: she was having to stand between us. And then like

444
00:23:14,080 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 5: after a few minutes, he followed like opened the door

445
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 5: and then went straight to the bedrooms, and she had

446
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 5: to sit there and get between us. My dogs went

447
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 5: over top of me, and she was yelling at him

448
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 5: to get out. Called her boyfriend because he was in

449
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 5: the car downstairs and has the knife in his car,

450
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Speaker 5: to come up there and help, and then was just

451
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,640
Speaker 5: having to like yell at him get him to leave.

452
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Speaker 5: Finally he had left the apartment and they called the police,

453
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Speaker 5: along with my roomy at the time, who was an

454
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Speaker 5: hour away with her boyfriend. So she was having to

455
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Speaker 5: come back because my sister didn't know where the key

456
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Speaker 5: was and couldn't find it, and didn't want to leave

457
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Speaker 5: me in the apartment by myself, so I brought their

458
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 5: and sister in law came with their gun, and then

459
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:06,720
Speaker 5: while they were waiting, the police came. They had knocked

460
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Speaker 5: on the door and like asked if there was this person,

461
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Speaker 5: and he was saying, they're walking around outside staring up

462
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Speaker 5: at our apartment windows, and then at some point lied

463
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Speaker 5: to the police saying he had lived there in the

464
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Speaker 5: apartment with us.

465
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Speaker 1: So what was he saying when he was like, was

466
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Speaker 1: he saying anything to you when he was like in

467
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Speaker 1: the apartment, Like what, like did he did? He look sober?

468
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Speaker 5: No? I was. I wasn't really like aware of anything

469
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Speaker 5: that happened, but he was sober, he was fine. He

470
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Speaker 5: was trying to tell my sister he knew me and

471
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Speaker 5: my roommate, which we've briefly said like hello and like

472
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Speaker 5: kind of neighborly things like how are you and stuff

473
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Speaker 5: like that. But then the police were talking to him.

474
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Speaker 5: He had tried to tell them and lied to them

475
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Speaker 5: saying he had lived there with us, and obviously that

476
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Speaker 5: was proven wrong, like to the police, and whenever we

477
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 5: went to file the report, against him. The police eventually

478
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 5: like contacted me back, saying they couldn't do anything since

479
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:13,560
Speaker 5: he wasn't there and in the apartment when they got there,

480
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Speaker 5: and like kind of told me I could try to

481
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Speaker 5: file some other kind of reports, but not anything else

482
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Speaker 5: they could do about it since he wasn't trespassing in

483
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Speaker 5: the apartment when they got.

484
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Speaker 1: Oh god, so you can't. Yeah, you can't do anything,

485
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,920
Speaker 1: and you're still living next to this seco.

486
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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we had to live there for the remainder

487
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Speaker 5: of our leader since we couldn't break it. It was

488
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Speaker 5: about half a year.

489
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Speaker 1: Maybe that's like, that's that's a whole half year.

490
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Speaker 2: That's all long.

491
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Speaker 1: That's so long to do that? Did Did you pull

492
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Speaker 1: any creepy crap? Uh? In the six months that you

493
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Speaker 1: were still there?

494
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Speaker 5: We avoided him after that. The next time I saw

495
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Speaker 5: him was with one of my managers that I was

496
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:07,159
Speaker 5: working with that was friends with me. He was helping

497
00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 5: me take some of the DVDs he was giving me

498
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 5: from when he was moving to a different state and

499
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Speaker 5: bringing them up to help put them in the apartment,

500
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 5: and he went into the elevator with us and was

501
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 5: trying to talk to me and him and I just

502
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 5: kind of ignored him. And then once we got out,

503
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 5: I explained to the manager since they already knew what

504
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 5: happened that night and we had told him about it.

505
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 5: I was like, Oh, this is the person who broke

506
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Speaker 5: into our apartment.

507
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Speaker 1: I wonder I mean, any like cameras around your apartment

508
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: that you could like like that you could have used,

509
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:43,480
Speaker 1: or like, no, there's not really anything.

510
00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:49,560
Speaker 5: No, there wasn't any cameras like in the apartment complex

511
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 5: building at all. I let them know that, like went

512
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 5: to the leasing office and told them what happened and

513
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,800
Speaker 5: what like apartment we thought, he then because you weren't.

514
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 4: Completely sure, but that sucks.

515
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 5: They kind of just were like, well, once you get

516
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 5: the report, just let us like give it to us.

517
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: And we'll do what became. You are safe now and

518
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: nothing bad actually happened. But what a creepy shadow to

519
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: have to live in for six months. I'm sorry you

520
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: have to go through that, But neighbors kind of be wax. Sometimes.

521
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: Can't choose your neighbors. Yeah, of course you could, Oh.

522
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Speaker 3: My gosh, we could.

523
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,719
Speaker 1: It will kind of you can't. You can to a

524
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: certain extent.

525
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: By yourself in the wilderness.

526
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, you could. You could choose neighbors.

527
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Speaker 4: Also, shout out to like your your sister and like

528
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 4: your your family.

529
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: Basically who is like you know, there for you?

530
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:47,480
Speaker 5: And oh my god, yeah, I'm very glad that I

531
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 5: have my sister.

532
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, great family, great friends. At least you have

533
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: a great community around you that you've chosen. You're chosen community. Yeah, sick,

534
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:03,400
Speaker 1: You're not chosen community. Sick but in a bad way.

535
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: Well fightlest Thank you so much for calling in, and uh,

536
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 1: I hope your your neighborly interactions go better from here

537
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: on out. Have a good one. The stream by that sucks.

538
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Speaker 2: Dude, Oh my god.

539
00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: Just oh I hate it. I hate it. I hate it.

540
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: What is why? Nine inches is a lot? What? What

541
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Speaker 1: is this? What is it?

542
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 3: I think that's what is that way above? Yeah, that

543
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 3: is a lot.

544
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 2: What's happening. What's happening is like normal for me?

545
00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 3: About you were you're talking about high differences. My mom

546
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,240
Speaker 3: is five to five and my dad is six eight.

547
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: That's that is that is a huge height difference. Yeah.

548
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 4: Someone said, and the chat my boyfriend is six to six,

549
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 4: and how how tall are you the person?

550
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, the person?

551
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 2: Great question. I didn't have to know. Oh whoa.

552
00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: Five one and six six is your mom? Okay, Loki

553
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: be b like that. That's crazy.

554
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, five and then five ten and six, five

555
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 4: six six.

556
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 2: The kids are going to be massive. Yeah yeah, just

557
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 2: trees for children.

558
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, but dude, like that poor five one woman. Dude,

559
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:33,080
Speaker 1: you're saving birth? Oh yeah too, like oh yeah, mini giants.

560
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 3: Dude, my mom didn't I was six. I was eight four.

561
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,160
Speaker 3: Apparently I thought I was eight six my whole life.

562
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 3: My brothers were like nine ten nine to eleven nine

563
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 3: twelve Yeah, pounds pounds?

564
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: Oh okay, I was so confused.

565
00:29:47,560 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 3: What were you guys?

566
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 1: Bounces? I think it was six.

567
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 2: I was fat. You guys know how much mostly know

568
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 2: the story.

569
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Speaker 1: Yeah, well my head was too fat.

570
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Speaker 2: You were cooking, didn't fit?

571
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: You were cooking for a while, fit, dude? I was Yeah,

572
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: I was bag No, I was like eleven months.

573
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 2: My mom was like, I I need for fourteen months

574
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 2: my bellion.

575
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:08,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

576
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 6: So yeah, that's why I was just making cook I

577
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 6: was baking for too long, dude. I've never even thought

578
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 6: about that before. You're so right, bro, the world.

579
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Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys had this, but when

580
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:27,360
Speaker 4: I was like maybe ten years old or something. My

581
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 4: uh child doctor protetist or whatever was like, Oh, yeah,

582
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 4: you're gonna break six feet congratulations. I was like, bro,

583
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 4: He's like, you'll probably be over six feet tall because

584
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 4: my grandpa was like six two or six three or whatever.

585
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 1: So I was like, I definitely, I think I had

586
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Speaker 1: something with Like, I think they said I was gonna

587
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,600
Speaker 1: be like sixe like four or something.

588
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 2: They tell you this, right, You're gonna be so big.

589
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,120
Speaker 2: Why did they tell you this?

590
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:50,680
Speaker 1: Because but I wasn't.

591
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 4: I was fifteen, and he's like, oh, yeah, you're not

592
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 4: even gonna bak six feet. It's not even gonna happen

593
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,800
Speaker 4: for you. I was like, then, why did you tell

594
00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 4: me that?

595
00:30:57,240 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, your growth plates were looking thick?

596
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: Were you not sure?

597
00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

598
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 3: Have you guys ever felt yourself get taller?

599
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:11,120
Speaker 1: What in some areas like.

600
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 3: Like a growth spurt? Have you guys ever felt a

601
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 3: growth spurt in your spine?

602
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 2: I mean the.

603
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Speaker 1: Spy You're just like, dude.

604
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 3: It was New Year's one year and I was laying

605
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 3: in my bed and I felt like I was like, oh,

606
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 3: like my spine got like a little bit.

607
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't think that's how it works man.

608
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 3: My dad also felt that one time while he's in

609
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 3: the locker room.

610
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Speaker 1: That's that's not how it works, dude, Yet it happens.

611
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Speaker 3: I just don't get its tall people issues.

612
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: I don't think so they're both.

613
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 3: Shorter than me.

614
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615
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616
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,440
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Speaker 1: episode from Deep Within the Archives. Time for okop re ware.

619
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Speaker 1: I don't care if my wife's pregnant. I refuse to

620
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 1: clean up her cats poopies. Yeah, bro, I want to

621
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Speaker 1: have one baby with you. I don't want to have

622
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 1: pool babies. You know, a cat's essentially a little little

623
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:15,040
Speaker 1: baby boy.

624
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Speaker 4: You know, if imagine just a baby a human baby,

625
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 4: except they shrunk down, they grew claws from their baby fingertips,

626
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:26,479
Speaker 4: and just our hair.

627
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Speaker 1: Literally can't tell the difference between a human baby and

628
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Speaker 1: a cat.

629
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Speaker 4: Honestly indistinguishable. To ask me, like, regardless, I'm punting both

630
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Speaker 4: four Okay, I get it. I only punch babies. Yeah,

631
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Speaker 4: I leave cats alone, God, cats alone. I have some

632
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 4: animal God. So my wife twenty eight and I thirty six,

633
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 4: are expecting our first baby. Congrats a gas, congrats, I

634
00:32:55,360 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 4: guess I guess whatever. Yea, oh you got knocked up coulations. Wow,

635
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,040
Speaker 4: I play that too. Yeah, put seemen in a vagina.

636
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 4: It's not that hard, stupid, Yo, I've basted a turkey. Wow, delicious?

637
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: You know moist hey called me when they're eighteen and

638
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: in Harvard. Then I'll be proud. There we go that,

639
00:33:15,840 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: I'll be proud. How about you raise your kid into

640
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: adulthood to be a good human seriously, yeah, how about that?

641
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: Then then we'll we'll give you a round of applause.

642
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: But for just dumping some little little little baby ghosts

643
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: and in sad a little meat kid. I don't think so. No,

644
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: congratulations here nuts not it nonezo.

645
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Speaker 2: That's not it.

646
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: Uh.

647
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 4: Now, three years ago, my wife decided she desperately wanted

648
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 4: a cat.

649
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: I thought you were say kid. Nope, no, no, not

650
00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 1: a kid. Look a kid, book a kid. We're talking

651
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: about cats, the real children. What's great about a cat

652
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: is you always choose to have a cat. That's true.

653
00:33:55,040 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 1: That is so true. Like a lot of times. Uh,

654
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Speaker 1: do you have like cats that just like come around?

655
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Speaker 1: I guess you have an apartment complex.

656
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 2: We don't. Yeah, actually there's a neighborhood cat there.

657
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, we have. We have a cat, Sammy. So Sammy

658
00:34:09,920 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: at my place in Sterling and and they're like come

659
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: in and be like, yo, what's up?

660
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Speaker 2: I love that? Is that the fat orange one?

661
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: Ye?

662
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: I love that cat.

663
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: Great cat.

664
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 4: It's a very a very nice, cuddly cat. Now I

665
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 4: hate cats and all animals in the house really, so

666
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 4: I was against children and children.

667
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:28,799
Speaker 2: I hate them all.

668
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:32,720
Speaker 4: I look at my wife's stomach and I'm like, that's disgusting. Later,

669
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 4: could you, could you like get it out of my face?

670
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: Please?

671
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:40,280
Speaker 4: Now she wouldn't stop talking about it. So we finally

672
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 4: made a deal. Okay, what's the deal, John? She would

673
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 4: get a cat and it was her responsibility and I

674
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 4: would have nothing to do with it, to which she agreed.

675
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: I think those are good parameters, you know.

676
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 4: No, Now she's stuck to her word and I stuck

677
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 4: to mine, and I mostly ignore this stupid cat. Fuck

678
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 4: that cat. Fuck it, not literally, but uh, you know

679
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 4: me metaphorically. Now she's pregnant one excuse me.

680
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:11,479
Speaker 1: After another with this woman?

681
00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 4: Can you that is you, can you just get this

682
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 4: out of my face? While it's like growing inside you

683
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:22,760
Speaker 4: like it's it's just too much. A deal is a deal.

684
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 4: I don't care if you're carrying our future son or daughter.

685
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 2: I don't give a shit. You're taking care of that cat, Sam.

686
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 4: I think your no, sadamis because you're foreshadowing of what's

687
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 4: about to happen too. Now she's pregnant, and she asked

688
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 4: me if I could scoop the litter until she gives

689
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 4: birth because of toxoplasmosis.

690
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: Bitch, you know what's toxic this fucking cat. No way

691
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,839
Speaker 1: in the hell clean it up after this guy. You

692
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,440
Speaker 1: expect me to help out with this kid and your cat?

693
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: Only one man, I'm only one man. You go be

694
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,239
Speaker 1: pregnant over there. Don't go take care of your cat.

695
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 1: Let daddy watch some sports on the sports television.

696
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 4: I built you a nice box.

697
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:13,799
Speaker 2: Into the room.

698
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 4: You walk into the box. I do my sports, my beer.

699
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 4: You stay in the box. Stay in the box, don't

700
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 4: leave the box. Get the deal. Hey, Hey, I'm not

701
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,440
Speaker 4: a cruel man. You could have the cat in the

702
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 4: box with you to what are you really gonna be

703
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 4: that generous?

704
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:30,320
Speaker 1: I mean that's generous. Wow? Yeah, show me the Malala

705
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: of our generation.

706
00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 2: But oh my gosh, this is terrible.

707
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 4: But I looked it up and Sam, as long as

708
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,959
Speaker 4: she wears gloves and washes her hands, she should be good.

709
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: So get to pick it up that ship, wifey. What hold?

710
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 4: Let me see really quick what toxic plasmas is. It's

711
00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 4: an infection caused from a parasite and the parasite can

712
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 4: pass to a baby during Pregnancyikes.

713
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 2: This this guy, what is wrong with this? Guys? Just

714
00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 2: wear some gloves.

715
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 3: Just wear some gloves.

716
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:02,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god, he is so out of it take

717
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: care of the cat that he would rather his child

718
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,840
Speaker 1: be like die brain dead then have to pick up

719
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:10,799
Speaker 1: a piece of poop. Bro.

720
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,760
Speaker 4: It comes out like a mix between a baby, a cat,

721
00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 4: and a worm. And he's like everything I hate. I'm

722
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 4: thinking of like something from like there's gotta be a

723
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 4: Rick and Morty of some sort of think of the fly,

724
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 4: you know, like when he like he like gets combined

725
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 4: with the fly.

726
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 2: Have you seen Yeah?

727
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that was the one where Jerry got to

728
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,719
Speaker 4: Jerry Right, what Jerry was combined with the fly?

729
00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: No? No, I'm talking about like the Fly the movie

730
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 1: with uh Jeff Jeff Goldbloom. No, I did John has

731
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:42,840
Speaker 1: not seen anything before, like thousands. I don't watch I

732
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: don't watch fly. I've never even heard of it. You

733
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: ever heard of the fly?

734
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,240
Speaker 2: I never heard of it? Gold bloom, who wow.

735
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:54,360
Speaker 4: Back to the parasite about to rock this baby's world.

736
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 4: So she wasn't happy when he told her that he

737
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:58,760
Speaker 4: wouldn't pick up the cat feces.

738
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 1: You're talking about?

739
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 4: What are you talking about? But I reminded her of

740
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 4: our agreement when we got the cat. I told her

741
00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:10,400
Speaker 4: it was her responsibility and if she didn't want to

742
00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 4: take care of it anymore with the new baby coming,

743
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 4: then we can get rid of it and find it

744
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:16,320
Speaker 4: a new home.

745
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: The baby cat, I know. I was like, interesting word choice,

746
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 2: my friend.

747
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:25,959
Speaker 1: He does not want to to man is not such

748
00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: a dog person, Like it's it's not that serious. Also,

749
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 1: like in terms of work load, cat's like probably the

750
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: least workload.

751
00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 4: Absolutely the least, absolutely the least. It's it's the litter

752
00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:41,279
Speaker 4: box every three days. Maybe if you want to make

753
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,719
Speaker 4: sure it's staying well, how about you get a self

754
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:47,359
Speaker 4: cleaning litter box. Maybe I'm sure those exist. She said no,

755
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 4: and has been scooping up the litter. Her sister was

756
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,360
Speaker 4: over and saw her doing this and flipped out at me,

757
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 4: telling me how dangerous it is. But of course her

758
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 4: sister is going to be on her side and overreact.

759
00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: Yo, how is this this woman with this man? Oh,

760
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 1: he's a dick.

761
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 4: Listen, he's he had an agreement as he's a man

762
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 4: of his word. He's like, Perry, this contract of this

763
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 4: conversation I wrote down. I never wanted the cats, So

764
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 4: I don't see how I'm wrong.

765
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: You can't see it, Sam.

766
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, with as big as dumb as his head, you

767
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 4: know he's he's blinded by he can't do no wrong.

768
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 1: He can't do no wrong, dude. I okay. I'm just like,

769
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: is this not like a red flag that you're like,

770
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 1: maybe I shouldn't have a child with this man that

771
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: won't lift a finger to carry some cat poop?

772
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,919
Speaker 4: You would think you would think, like, girl, get out

773
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 4: of this please, If anything, please run