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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all sit looking back to back down, giving

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Speaker 1: Everybody you are listening to the voice, come on dig

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Speaker 1: me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man.

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Speaker 1: If y'all only knew, I think I'll tell it to

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Speaker 1: You've got to keep pressing forward. Now, Could I have

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Speaker 1: And I'm giving you this example today not to say hey,

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Speaker 1: this syndicated show. He gives me a syndicated show. Now

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Speaker 1: Do I not realize that there are certain people, man,

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Speaker 1: Good morning Carla for real and living color? Good morning?

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Speaker 1: Let y'all know what you really do. Well, that's good, Steven,

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Speaker 1: and you've always been that way. I mean, you know

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Speaker 1: Understand what you're saying. It got your man to open up? What? Okay? Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: But right now it's time for the nephew to run

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a mister Wilson. How are you doing.

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Speaker 1: My name is brother spring water Man. Listen. We uh

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Speaker 1: I've been baptized, are already doc. But from my understanding,

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's all good, that's all. That's all. It's

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Speaker 1: we're making a lot more convenient for you when we can.

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Speaker 1: Does that make any sense to you? Brother Water? I mean,

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Speaker 1: But you're not there. What may call you don't even

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Speaker 1: I tell you what you cutting like a seven o'clock

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Speaker 1: telling me you would have backtip dow. I don't give

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Speaker 1: I tell you what I call you, brother spring water,

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Speaker 1: Bring water on it. You're gonna get back times so

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Speaker 1: Who called you? Bring y'all I'm gonna I can't kill you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna drying y'all side. I got one more thing

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Speaker 1: I want to say to you when you listening to

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Speaker 1: gotta that matter I'm missing. You ain't got to say

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Speaker 1: to me. I gotta go. You understand you ain't little man?

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Speaker 1: I want to say to you, Is you listening to me? Whatnot?

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harby Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your boy Mason. Hello, man,

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Speaker 1: let me check y'all something. Man, Let me tell you

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Speaker 1: something boy, y'all y'all was boy bred. So man, I say,

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Speaker 1: head man, I was about to act a fool on

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Speaker 1: y'all because y'all would have showed him my crib. You

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Speaker 1: understand me what ty y'all ain't got just better to do.

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Speaker 1: Didn't sit around here and just with people during their day. Man,

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Speaker 1: I ain't never thought y'all could give me with this.

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Speaker 1: Who the hell goes around baptizes of people as like

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Speaker 1: middles On whilly'a baptized people with a pool on the

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Speaker 1: back your f one fifty will I gotta ask you something.

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Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Man?

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Speaker 1: You know it's the Steve Harvey Moran The Show. There

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Speaker 1: might be one today, anybody, Charlie caller, Junior Steve, anybody

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Speaker 1: want to be baptized today? Sometimes you got to rewash

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Speaker 1: you again, reddicate, reddicate your life. All right, we'll have

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Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show? All right, Okay, time for another

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Speaker 1: poem from Junior. All right, this poem is for people

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Speaker 1: who want to know suf you know's how you know?

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Speaker 1: There's motivation for me? All that want you put them,

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Speaker 1: put them in your body. Title up today's poem. Somebody

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00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 1: needs to tell me something. Somebody needs to tell me something.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, somebody needs to tell me something. We

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Speaker 1: come to title No, no, sure, you mess it up.

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Speaker 1: The first line of my poems are always to tight.

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Speaker 1: I got all right once it again. Somebody needs to

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Speaker 1: tell me something. That's the tyler the poet, not not.

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Speaker 1: Somebody needs to tell me something because I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: let it go. I've already asked one time, but I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna ask you some more. You may think I'm stupid

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Speaker 1: and that I shouldn't let it slid, but no one

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Speaker 1: has come close. Some of y'all ain't even track. Now.

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Speaker 1: You might say, Julia when ahead is just gone. But

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Speaker 1: somebody needs to tell me something because it's driving me

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Speaker 1: crazy and not knowing. But somebody need to tell me something,

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Speaker 1: because damn it, I need to know and I need

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Speaker 1: to have to answer by the end of this his show,

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Speaker 1: somebody tell me something. Thank you. I'm telling you something.

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Speaker 1: I'm not snapping nothing. Somebody need to help you write

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Speaker 1: the damn poet, because I'm with Tommy. Now, you ain't

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Speaker 1: no poet. You just rhyming, and that ain't even rights.

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Speaker 1: First of all, that did Ryan the worst day. You

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Speaker 1: cheered him all that first you said it ain't go nowhere.

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Speaker 1: But but you're missing the question of the poem. He

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Speaker 1: finished the poet, He did the whole point. Now, what

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Speaker 1: y'all told him a damn thing, Yes, somebody telling him.

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Speaker 1: And I told what I told you was that you

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Speaker 1: need somebody to help you write your next point. And

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Speaker 1: this is what I have to say. You suck. You

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Speaker 1: know what you know? I expect you like, ok, what

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Speaker 1: the hell you doing? Ain't like poet? That in your

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Speaker 1: eye like poetry and it sucks. Somebody need to tell

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Speaker 1: me that's name of the poem. Ain't you ready? My boy?

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Speaker 1: Ready here? Somebody need to tell tell me something. This

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Speaker 1: is what I'm trying to say. And this ain't being

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Speaker 1: done today. What Somebody need to tell me some what?

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Speaker 1: And I've reset your room and don't know abody know what?

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Speaker 1: I need to find out some for the end of

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Speaker 1: this show. Somebody need to tell me something. We'll let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. That poem was great. Somebody gonna

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Speaker 1: be looking for work. Oh god, he's gonna get fired, right, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the news. So bad and gentlemen and true.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, thank you very much. This is a trip

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Speaker 1: with the news. Well, I'll tell you what. The weather's

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Speaker 1: no joke in Florida. The weather became actually a major

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Speaker 1: complication this week in the search and recovery operation at

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Speaker 1: the site of that collapsed building north of Miami Beach.

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Speaker 1: Four more bodies have been found, bringing the official death

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Speaker 1: toll now to thirty six. They say of the thirty

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Speaker 1: six people, twenty nine of them have been identified. Mayor

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Speaker 1: Dan yellow Levine cavasays the cruise are really up against

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Speaker 1: it thanks to Tropical Storm ELSA. Through the rain and

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Speaker 1: through the wind, they have continued searching. They paused only

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Speaker 1: briefly for lightning, which is legally required for up to

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes for pauses whenever there's a lightning strike within

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Speaker 1: two and a half miles of the site. One hundred

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Speaker 1: and nine people are still missing and unaccounted for. After

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Speaker 1: the January sixth Capitol Hill riot. You may remember this,

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Speaker 1: dozens of large companies openly pledged not to financially support

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Speaker 1: the one hundred and forty seven lawmakers who refuse to

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Speaker 1: certify Joe Biden's election. However, according to the Associated Press,

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Speaker 1: many of them have fallen short of that promise. As

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Speaker 1: you know, Republican lawmakers objected to certifying the vote because

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Speaker 1: Donald Trump bade these false, cloned claims that he supposedly

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Speaker 1: won the election for real. And after that, Walmart and Fiser,

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Speaker 1: and AT and T and General Electric just some of

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Speaker 1: the companies that said they would no longer donate to

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Speaker 1: the legislators who oppose a certification. However, AP says they

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Speaker 1: now have since donated thousands of dollars to the political

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Speaker 1: action committees or packs that support them. For instance, Walmart

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Speaker 1: gave thirty thousand dollars to the National Republican Congressional Committee,

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Speaker 1: which supports GOP members running for House elections, and AP

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Speaker 1: found that ups lockeed Martin, General Motors, and American Express

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Speaker 1: of all since doled out the cash to GOP packs.

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Speaker 1: President Biden says the race to get more Americans vaccinated

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Speaker 1: is moving closer to close to a critical stage as

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Speaker 1: a fast moving delta varian coronavirus spreads around the nation.

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Speaker 1: Health officials say that while two thirds of US adults

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Speaker 1: are now vaccinated against COVID, the virus has not disappeared

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Speaker 1: because more infection varied out. There still two hundred Americans

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Speaker 1: each day die from coronavirus. And finally, the Coolhannah Jones,

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Speaker 1: the African American woman who want to prelatzer for her

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Speaker 1: New York Times sixteen nineteen project about the history of

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Speaker 1: slavery in this country and its lasting impact. She's accepted

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Speaker 1: a tenured position at the most prominent black university, Howard University,

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Speaker 1: turning down the position that she wanted initially at her

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Speaker 1: alma Matta University of North Carolina. They wouldn't give it

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Speaker 1: to her because a lot of Republicans and other white

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Speaker 1: historians objected to her work. She said, forget about it. Now,

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Speaker 1: back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: the String Show, all right, Come on, Steve, introduce your friend.

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Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen. That damn Jay Anthony Brown. I think

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Speaker 1: what we're about to do now will answer a lot

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Speaker 1: of questions that people have. They have questions. This will

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Speaker 1: answer those questions that people have. From that questions, I

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Speaker 1: hit it, David. The song is to answer the question

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Speaker 1: that everybody's been asking. And we will answer the question

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Speaker 1: that most people have been asking. Here's the answer. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much, Jay Anthony, good morning. Everybody asked the question.

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Speaker 1: Some folks have asked the question why do we Come'd

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Speaker 1: like to know why are you come sweet us? Because

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Speaker 1: it cuts, because it's fed up and we have had enough.

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Speaker 1: Come on downcause when we will comes at times of happiness,

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Speaker 1: Because when we said we will cuss at times of sadness.

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Speaker 1: Some people got it from the mothers and others got

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Speaker 1: it from the dance. Come on, so you can't use

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Speaker 1: nice the words in sound. It'll be real rough to

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Speaker 1: get the words out and takes the place likely shut down.

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Speaker 1: Could you please shut? And now sometimes you want to

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Speaker 1: tell church members, could you just please please shut? Just

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Speaker 1: shut the if boop and now you have Oh, now

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Speaker 1: you have the answer. Now you had the bees and

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Speaker 1: why that is the reason why we cuss. Don't tell

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Speaker 1: me how to run the church. I'm the poust up

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Speaker 1: in here that's always had them out. Could you just

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Speaker 1: shut the IF book? You can. Don't try to tell

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Speaker 1: me what to do. Your mind incur the worst, the

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Speaker 1: worst higher you ever. It's great, it's great. You're so

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Speaker 1: happy I'm here, works Jay. So you're gonna use that

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Speaker 1: song from that? Well? It answers the question the reason

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Speaker 1: why we cuss is right there. I mean, I wonder

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Speaker 1: what question you were talking about when question about the

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Speaker 1: reason why we cuss? Yes, but we do, that's it answers. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's gonna probably end up viral somewhere. That's gonna end

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Speaker 1: up viral somewhere. Oh yeah, but you know what, the

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Speaker 1: only thing I went about did somebody else do it

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Speaker 1: before me? And I'm like, nobody test that that song

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Speaker 1: is right there? I mean, damn whit that's what you

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Speaker 1: were worried about, exactly right, somebody doing it before me? Right,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you, thank you, jays, thank you you're

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Speaker 1: listening to all right, Steve, it is time, It is time.

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Speaker 1: Bring him on in here, the CLO chief Love officer.

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Speaker 1: We have some questions for him, all right, I love it,

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Speaker 1: and you don't have to get ready. Right. This one's

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Speaker 1: from Donna in El Paso, Texas. She says, a year ago,

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Speaker 1: my husband was deployed and he was told he would

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Speaker 1: be away for eighteen months. Six months after he left,

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Speaker 1: I ended up having an affair with his stepbrother, and

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Speaker 1: I got pregnant from our first encounter his stepbrother and

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Speaker 1: I never messed around again after that. But he wants

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Speaker 1: me to have the baby and he will raise it.

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Speaker 1: My husband just told me he's coming home next month,

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Speaker 1: earlier than expected. So should I tell him about the

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Speaker 1: pregnancy now? Or should I wait until he gets home? When? What? What? When?

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Speaker 1: Do you think this gonna be a good time to tell? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I really don't have a suggestion for you. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how with his brother in law, step brother, she

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Speaker 1: had an affair with her husband's step brother. Yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: his stepbrother, and she got pregnant after the first time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and now he didn't told you. He wants you to

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Speaker 1: have the baby and he gonna raise he'll raise it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have no comment. I don't know what to tell

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Speaker 1: I really say, you are. I don't know what to tell. Yo.

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Speaker 1: Just dude, think get his ass whip soon. Just didn't

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Speaker 1: get home. That's what's gonna happen. He thinks understand that

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Speaker 1: that's going to I don't know. I don't know, you know, Uh,

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Speaker 1: but she's so cavalier about it. Should I tell him now?

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Speaker 1: Or wait? What his relationship? Yeah, I tell somebody that's

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Speaker 1: coming home from the that'd be a good day soldier.

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Speaker 1: He'd been deployed thinking he got a wife at home exactly.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell you, but no, you

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Speaker 1: got you're wrong. I have nothing to tell you. I

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Speaker 1: don't know when you should tell it. I really don't.

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Speaker 1: That is no good time. All hell gonna break loose

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Speaker 1: when the man come home, though, because the stepbrother your

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Speaker 1: best to believe he gonna have something to deal Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what you're gonna have to deal with.

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Speaker 1: You don't have a marriage anymore, so I hope that

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Speaker 1: fleeing was worth it, and I hope his his stepbrother,

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Speaker 1: won't you Yeah, he doesn't want to move on. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: the step brother the father of your baby. This is crazy,

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Speaker 1: all right, so we'll move on, Steve. This is from

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Speaker 1: tie and jack Hunt. Would you say Junior these questions?

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Speaker 1: He will be asked? You keep putting no weight, all right?

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Speaker 1: This is from Tye and Jacksonville Steve. Tye says, I've

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Speaker 1: been married for seven years and my wife is my everything.

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Speaker 1: I work hard so she can stay home every day

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Speaker 1: and have a good life. Two months ago I saw her.

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Speaker 1: I saw on her credit card statement that she'd been

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Speaker 1: running a room at a nearby hotel. She said that

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Speaker 1: it was a mistake and she would call the hotel

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Speaker 1: to dispute the charges. I believed her, but then I

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Speaker 1: got a message on Facebook from a man that said

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Speaker 1: my wife had been paying him for sex and he

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Speaker 1: thought I should know. I have not confronted my wife yet,

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Speaker 1: but I'm trying to find this dude, Steve, how should

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Speaker 1: I handle this that you can answer this one? I mean, man,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm trying to find this dude.

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Speaker 1: First of all, you're not married to the dude. You

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Speaker 1: and the dude took no vibe. Your whole problem is

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Speaker 1: your girl. If there is a problem, now, it sounds

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Speaker 1: quite strange that you would discover this charge. She says

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Speaker 1: she's gonna call the hotel and dispute it. And then

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Speaker 1: right after that a guy calls and says that your

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Speaker 1: wife has been paying him to have sex with her.

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Speaker 1: That's a big coincident. So now me, I would do

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Speaker 1: a little me personally, I would do a little forensic

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Speaker 1: science gathering of information, you know, stuff like that. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how you do that, but you know, you know,

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Speaker 1: you could find out if she was really there not.

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Speaker 1: But your whole problem is with your wife. Your problem

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Speaker 1: ain't with this dude. But then his motivation for calling

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Speaker 1: you and telling you that is I think you ought

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Speaker 1: to know, all right, And none of them what I

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Speaker 1: wanted to really saying. The nephew is here with today's

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Speaker 1: prank phone call. Right after this you're listening show coming

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Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four

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Speaker 1: minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for today, the subject

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Speaker 1: how often should you get a massage? That's a question,

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Speaker 1: how often should you get a massage? All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call.

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Speaker 1: What you got now? You ain't married? Huh, you ain't married.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like everyone ain't married. Watch me work running

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Speaker 1: kat Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Brian. Yeah. How

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Speaker 1: are you doing? Brian? My name is Daniel. Wanted to

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Speaker 1: give you a call today. You got a minute? Yeah? Okay, listen,

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Speaker 1: um you're you're Brian? Um Brian? Right? You're married to

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Speaker 1: uh to Althea Yeah? Hello hello, yeah yeah, that doesn't

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Speaker 1: mean that's my wife's Yeah, okay, got a question for you.

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Speaker 1: I dontly have you guys been married? Going on nine

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Speaker 1: years now? We've been married? Now, who is it? My

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Speaker 1: name is Daniel. Were you um, were you guys married

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Speaker 1: a Greater New Missionary Baptist Church Lena See yeah, yeah, yep, yep,

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Speaker 1: that's the name of that church. Yeah, great by nine years? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's right. Why what's going on? What's asking me all

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Speaker 1: these questions? Fuck? Okay? Do you remember the minister that

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Speaker 1: officiated your actual wedding ceremony? Yeah? No, uh reverend right, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I got the right person. I wanted to make sure

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Speaker 1: I had the right person, Brian. So, I'm I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: if it seemed a little weird to you. Here's here's

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Speaker 1: what's going on. We've just come up with a new discovery,

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Speaker 1: a lot of information that Reverend none of his credentials

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Speaker 1: are true. Everything is false. He's not a minister at all.

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Speaker 1: He never I was a minister, and every single wedding

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Speaker 1: ceremony that he officiated is basically null and void. So,

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Speaker 1: and I hate to be the bearer of bad news,

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Speaker 1: but you and Alphia, even though you think you've been

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Speaker 1: married for nine years, you guys are not married. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: you gotta have the wrong person, because man, that then

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Speaker 1: we got we got married by nine years ago. And

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Speaker 1: what I'm telling you is he he never was ordained.

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Speaker 1: He's never been an ordained minister. He's not a minister

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Speaker 1: at all. So when he performed this ceremony, you're a

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Speaker 1: wedding ceremony, He had no right to be doing that.

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Speaker 1: You guys are not are not married. You know, you

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Speaker 1: guys have been living in sin for nine years. Hold on, hold,

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Speaker 1: hold on that. Let me tell you something. I ain't

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Speaker 1: been living a man. My wife we have been married

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Speaker 1: for nine years and that man he's a preacher. I'm

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Speaker 1: telling he's a preacher. Preach land friend, Sir, as of today,

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Speaker 1: he has no right to be in anybody's pulpit. He

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Speaker 1: has no right to be officiating, whether it's weddings or funerals,

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Speaker 1: no matter what it is, christenings for children. He's not

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Speaker 1: allowed to do that. And we have officially stopped him

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Speaker 1: from doing anything serving under as being a pastor or

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Speaker 1: a minister. We have stopped at But what I want

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Speaker 1: you to know is that you have been living in

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Speaker 1: sin and you don't. We want to try and get

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Speaker 1: you guys married as soon as possible, so you're not

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Speaker 1: living in sin. Oh no, doc, I have been living

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Speaker 1: in those sins. I have been married for nine years.

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Speaker 1: This womanship been taking care of me and my kids

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Speaker 1: for the past Wait. Wait, wait a minute, Wait a minute. Guy,

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Speaker 1: you guys have children. Yeah, yeah, we have two, two kids,

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Speaker 1: two beautiful kids. Okay, then those kids are bastards, Stafford.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. My kids ain't no baskeard.

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Speaker 1: What about your kids? Your kids in basketts? No, sir,

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Speaker 1: my kids, My kids were born in wedlock. Your kids

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Speaker 1: have been born out I'm telling you that man did

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Speaker 1: my service, and he is a preacher. He's a man

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Speaker 1: after God's own heart himself. He hasn't done everything that

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Speaker 1: he comes for me and my family. He is a preacher.

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Speaker 1: So I don't. I know it's hard for you to

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Speaker 1: to to swallow the truth, but I want you to

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Speaker 1: know and I need you to be able to tell

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Speaker 1: out feel that you guys are not married and not

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Speaker 1: as of right now. No, no, okay, Solder, Now, back

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Speaker 1: in the olden days, but before all these all these

726
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Speaker 1: colleges and stuff came came about, you telling me that

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Speaker 1: them men backing old days, that they weren't no preachers,

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Speaker 1: that they wasn't meant men after the clough? Is that

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Speaker 1: what you're saying to me? What are you? What are you?

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Speaker 1: What are you? What are you getting at? Sir? What

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is back in the older days,

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Speaker 1: baking the twenties and thirties, they didn't have all these

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Speaker 1: colleges and all these degrees and stuff like these new

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Speaker 1: preachers got these days. That man now he was from

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Speaker 1: back then, and God called them and that's what they

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Speaker 1: went on too. And all them people that they married

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Speaker 1: back then, they get the same thing today. You don't

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Speaker 1: need no the greed to say that that you're a preacher.

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Speaker 1: You don't need no life to say you're a preacher. Man.

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Speaker 1: My wife will been married for nine years. My kids

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Speaker 1: have been born in wedlock. We were married, we were

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Speaker 1: mad for my friends and family day was all there, sir.

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Speaker 1: The bottom line is that that you have been living

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Speaker 1: in sin because you have not been married with your

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Speaker 1: wife for the last nine years. And your kids, I

746
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 1: hate to say it, your kids are bastards. Now O.

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Speaker 1: Now I've told you, don't say nothing else about my

748
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: kids saying I ain't no cussop, but don't push me.

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Speaker 1: My kids ain't no bad said. You understand me. You

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Speaker 1: don't get mad, sir. I'm trying to give you the

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00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 1: truth and try to get you in here and get

752
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 1: you married, or you will not be living in sin

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Speaker 1: any more than what you are. I'm living in noose sins.

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00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: Look now, you don't make me whoop your ASTs. You

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00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: understand man, my wife we have been married for nine years.

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Speaker 1: Don't shoot up here called me talking about the way.

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00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 1: Ain't mad that that man, ain't no preacher, you understand.

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00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: I get out of my phone. You that's my life.

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00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 1: Those are my kids. They have been born in red lives.

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Speaker 1: You understand, sir? So, I just wanted to call and

761
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,479
Speaker 1: give you the information so that you could probably stop

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00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,360
Speaker 1: living in sin. That's all I wanted to do. I

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00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 1: ain't living nona sin. That's what I just told you.

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Speaker 1: You ain't hit me. I ain't living an no sin.

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Speaker 1: Maybe everyone that's living a pist of sin. Now, you

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Speaker 1: ain't got nothing else said to me? That man, I

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00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 1: never that's nine years ago. They get your ass off

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Speaker 1: my phone. So so I have one more thing, one

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Speaker 1: more thing I'd like to say. You ain't done nothing

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Speaker 1: else to say to me. You ain't get your asf

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Speaker 1: off my dam's phone? Now, do you understand me? I

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00:49:35,440 --> 00:49:37,879
Speaker 1: ain't got time for this. Plus, sir, can I say

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00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 1: one more thing? What you gotta say on me? Now?

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to let you know that this is

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Speaker 1: nephew tim Me from the Steve warp In Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Your wife and field got me to break phone call you?

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Speaker 1: Oh man, now, oh lord it do yeah? Uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I almost went in on you. Do you al would

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Speaker 1: have made me go down? Yeah? I'm gonna good. I

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Speaker 1: think put you up to this. Silla got me to

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Speaker 1: prank you man, wow, man, oh man, hey man, you

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Speaker 1: are right with me. Brother. I got to ask you something, man,

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Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

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Speaker 1: show in the lands, The Steve harbrom On The show Man.

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Speaker 1: You're stupid, man, get them Steve, because it's you know,

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Speaker 1: you know something, now, come on. You know some pastors

787
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,800
Speaker 1: ain't really past us, you know, but they'd be marrying people.

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Speaker 1: You know that pole going. That happens a lot. You know.

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Speaker 1: They just then called themselves a minister and they are

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Speaker 1: minister and that's not high spoiled works. Nine. Then you

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Speaker 1: know you gotta you know, you gotta shake your folks up.

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Speaker 1: Every nine. The just shake up, That's all it is. Okay,

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Speaker 1: keep on franking. This is pranking in his best Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're the king out of here right every nine? Then

795
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Speaker 1: you got to shake some folks up. I got a

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00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: new little list I'm working on and we're going forward.

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Speaker 1: Who is him? You ain't even ask me? He punched,

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Speaker 1: and then asked, I love that. You knew he was

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Speaker 1: gonna say. Yeah, all right, all right, listen coming up next,

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Speaker 1: it is Today's Strawberry Letter. You're listening to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. It is time for today's Strawberry Letters. M

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Speaker 1: Uh listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your letter uh to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, tell him Steve,

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Speaker 1: or you can just deal with it, or we could

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Speaker 1: read your letter live on the air, like we're getting

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Speaker 1: ready to read this and go ahead. Now buckle up,

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Speaker 1: hold on tight you here it is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: He's crazy, he really is crazy. Whatever I know? All right,

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Speaker 1: now listen, pay attention, Steve subject. My best friend cannot

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Speaker 1: be okay with this? All right, here's Stephen Shirley. I've

812
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Speaker 1: lost my best friend. We've been best friends for over

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Speaker 1: fifteen years, the best of friends. We were thickest thieves

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Speaker 1: and nothing could keep us apart. Whenever she got in relationship,

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Speaker 1: she introduced me as her brother, and I got along

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Speaker 1: with all of her boyfriends. She started dating her in

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Speaker 1: a minute. What Whenever she got into relationships, introduced me

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Speaker 1: as her brother, and I got along with all of

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Speaker 1: her boyfriends. She did that for whatever reason, Like you know,

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Speaker 1: they're close, so she's like, this is my brother. It's

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Speaker 1: not her brother. They're just friends. It's a dude, huh

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Speaker 1: yes that wrote the letter. Huh yes, I wrote the letter. Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is a dude that wrote okay, okay, okay, you're

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Speaker 1: cool now. Whenever she got in relationship, she didn't do

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Speaker 1: it and I got along with all. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: She started dating her current boyfriend and I didn't approve

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Speaker 1: of him at first because he had a reputation of

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Speaker 1: being a liar and a cheater. I played it cool

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Speaker 1: and supported her through all of the drama and break

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Speaker 1: the breakups with him. He knows I don't really like him,

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Speaker 1: so one night he invited me to go to the

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Speaker 1: strip club with him. I met him at the club

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Speaker 1: and ended up having a great time. He paid for

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Speaker 1: all of my drinks and lap dances, and we both

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Speaker 1: ended up getting really drunk. And since I lived close

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Speaker 1: to the strip club, he asked if he could stay

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Speaker 1: on my couch instead of driving all the way home,

838
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:47,279
Speaker 1: so I let him. One thing led to another, and

839
00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: we ended up naked and rolling around on the floor. Okay, ken, yeah,

840
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:59,120
Speaker 1: what I told you to pay attention? Okay, did I

841
00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:05,319
Speaker 1: miss something? The monica miss? Okay? This woman has this man?

842
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 1: Man is writing a letter. Yes, this is written by

843
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: man and his friend who was a girl getting relationship

844
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: with dudes. She didn't improve it is one dude because

845
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: he aling a cheating Okay, now go ahead, because I

846
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: missed list. Okay, So so anyway, he wanted to stand

847
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: on my couch instead of driving all the way home. Dude, yes,

848
00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:35,040
Speaker 1: with over the other dudes? How so we yeah, okay,

849
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: come on, so I let him. One thing led to

850
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: another and we ended up naked and rolling around on

851
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: the floor. Got to worry about what you mean? One

852
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:52,600
Speaker 1: thing led to another, We ended up naked, rolling around.

853
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: Can I finish the letter? And then you respond when

854
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: you start reading? What a god? Tommy? I thought I

855
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: thought these was two girls. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah. But

856
00:55:07,920 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: right in the in the what second or third sentence,

857
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 1: she he says whenever she got into relationships, she introduced

858
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: me as her brother. Yeah, that's why I was confused. Yeah,

859
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:20,880
Speaker 1: so why would you be introducing this lady as your brothers?

860
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah it's the jew Okay, all right, I felt awful.

861
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:31,080
Speaker 1: The next no start back, okay, okay, we attended, Okay,

862
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 1: I'll start here. We both ended up getting really drunk,

863
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:36,719
Speaker 1: and since I lived close to the strip club. He

864
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: asked if he could stay on my couch instead of

865
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,959
Speaker 1: driving all the way home, so I let him. One

866
00:55:44,120 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: thing led to another, and we ended up naked and

867
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: rolling around on the floor. I never heard that happen

868
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: to me. Can I Can I say something? No whole

869
00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 1: of Tom, This ain't joke. Yeah, you do pranks. You

870
00:55:57,680 --> 00:56:00,759
Speaker 1: can't say nothing else. You're gonna get me in yes, yeah,

871
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: and we don't want that. I felt awful the next

872
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:07,120
Speaker 1: day and wanted to tell my best friend everything, but

873
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: I waited a week because there was no easy way

874
00:56:10,400 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: to break this news to her. She was furious with me,

875
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: not him. She told me that I never should have

876
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: been hanging out with her man and going to a

877
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: strip club without her knowing it. She accused me of

878
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: pursuing him. She knows her man is not my type,

879
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: and I explained that when I went out with him

880
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 1: to keep the peace. And I explained that I went

881
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: out with him to keep the peace. So now I've

882
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 1: lost my best friend. She's still with this clown, and

883
00:56:38,520 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: I can't get her to see past his lies and manipulation.

884
00:56:42,560 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 1: I miss my best friend. Please help. You're gonna have

885
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:51,239
Speaker 1: to chalk this one up, because you're not gonna be

886
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: able to get that back. You slept with her man.

887
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: You slept with her men. You broke the friend code.

888
00:56:57,480 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: You know, Normally here we would say the girlfriend code,

889
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: but you brought Since you're a dude, we say you

890
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 1: broke the friend code. Okay. I don't care how drunk

891
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,320
Speaker 1: you guys were. I don't care. You crossed the line

892
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: and that's why she's mad at you. You were wrong, Okay,

893
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: you were wrong forgetting with her guy, and we got

894
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: to take a break here. Steve, it is time for

895
00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:21,440
Speaker 1: you to give your response, and we'll do that when

896
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 1: we come back to twenty three after the hour. Today's

897
00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: letter the subject my best friend cannot be okay with this.

898
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve. The subject of this letter,

899
00:57:34,960 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: my best friend cannot be okay with this. We gotta recount.

900
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: Your best friend is not okay with this, and neither

901
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: am I. Now Here. I had to pick through this

902
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:49,800
Speaker 1: because I had to learn this woman has, obviously, I'm

903
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:53,760
Speaker 1: assuming without it being said, her best friend is gay,

904
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 1: a gay guy. Okay. We were thickest thieves and nothing

905
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: could keep us up part whenever she got into relationships.

906
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,360
Speaker 1: She introduced me as her brother, and I got along

907
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: with all her boyfriends. She started dating the current boyfriend.

908
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:11,000
Speaker 1: I didn't approve of him at first because he had

909
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:13,320
Speaker 1: a reputation being lying and cheat it. I played it

910
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:15,800
Speaker 1: cool and supported up through all the drama and breakups

911
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: with him. He knows I don't really like him, so

912
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: one night he invited me to go to strip club

913
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 1: with him. Now they had the strip club. I met

914
00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: him at the club, end up having a great time.

915
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:32,120
Speaker 1: He paid for all my drinks and lap down. We

916
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: both ended up getting really drunk, and since I live

917
00:58:35,320 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 1: close to the strip club, he asked if he could

918
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: stay on my couch instead of driving all the way home.

919
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 1: So I let him hit a sentence that throwed me.

920
00:58:45,760 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: One thing led to another, and we ended up naked

921
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 1: and rolling around on the floor. What thing, yea, what is?

922
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 1: I need to know what that is, so I'll make

923
00:58:55,120 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: sure I don't because if I've been to sell all

924
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: this gotcha in my damn. I'm married and you don't

925
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: go to strip club, so you're good, and I'm not

926
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: sitting up in the floor with another man, and then

927
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: makes this statement. One thing led to another. See ain't

928
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: ain't no, ain't no more damn thing, ain't no damn

929
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: things over him? So ain't no one thing led to another? Dog?

930
00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 1: This has got to be something you've had in your

931
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: head for a long time and has acted on it before,

932
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 1: because ain't no one thing led to another and we

933
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: ended up naked and rolling around on the floor. What

934
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 1: listen to me if I got on short sleeve shirt

935
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,040
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting next to my partner, he got on

936
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: a short sleeve shirt, his arm can't touch. But yeah,

937
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 1: we got that steep. But you're a straight heterosexual man.

938
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 1: I know, I know. I'm just saying, what ain't fenna

939
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 1: happening with me and my partner after we come front

940
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 1: the strip? So now we got up in hill, we're

941
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: back from the strip club, one thing led to another.

942
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:05,439
Speaker 1: We ended up nicking and rolling around on the floor.

943
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: I felt awful the next day. Really, you think you'd

944
01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,680
Speaker 1: have felt all because he crossed the line with her

945
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,360
Speaker 1: his best friends? Man, Okay, so I understand that I

946
01:00:15,440 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 1: wanted to tell my best friend everything. See right here,

947
01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,600
Speaker 1: see dog, Now let me blame something too. It's rules

948
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 1: to this game that we are head read on. What

949
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:31,560
Speaker 1: you cannot do is go tell it well, because you're

950
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 1: gonna hurt the girl. Huh yeah, read on. I felt

951
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: awful the next day. I wanted to tell my best

952
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 1: friend everything, but I waited a week because that was

953
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: no easy way to break this news to her. She

954
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:49,200
Speaker 1: was furious with me, not him. She told me I

955
01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:52,040
Speaker 1: never should have been hanging out with her man and

956
01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: going to a strip club without her knowing it. She

957
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:59,680
Speaker 1: accused me of pursuing him. You probably did, though, but

958
01:00:59,840 --> 01:01:03,360
Speaker 1: he pursued you too. She knows her man is not

959
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: my type. What what didn't you just say? Y'all was

960
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: nicking on the floor. They were drunk, but he ain't

961
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 1: your type. No partner. Somebody was all right somewhere. So

962
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: do you think she she knew that her men, so

963
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: now it's bisexual. I think that she's not a man. Yeah,

964
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 1: I think she's okay with it. First of all, I

965
01:01:32,920 --> 01:01:37,120
Speaker 1: have no solution to this letter. Just let me say that,

966
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: nor will I attempt, because in all honesty, I don't

967
01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: want to offend anymore, and I don't want to say

968
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: anything because I don't know the rules of engagement in

969
01:01:47,400 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: these types of relationships. So for me to say something

970
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: with all that's going on in society today. I really

971
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:55,600
Speaker 1: don't want to have a comment because I don't know.

972
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 1: But but Steve, let me just say this though. Wouldn't

973
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 1: you think it would be the same No, with heterosexuals,

974
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: if your friend slept with your man or your girl

975
01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 1: in the in this case, if I'm a woman, my

976
01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: girlfriend sleeps with my man, it's the same thing. Basically,

977
01:02:13,160 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 1: I can't imagine what you say. I can't flip the Yeah,

978
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,959
Speaker 1: if your best friend slept with your wife, with your girl,

979
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: this is what's happening here. Calhom sleeping with this you

980
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: know how what's happening here? Though? Do you understand what

981
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: you just see? No, I can't fix that. That's how

982
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,840
Speaker 1: you have to look at it. No you can, you can't.

983
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: That's how you have to look at it. It's the issue. Yeah,

984
01:02:46,920 --> 01:02:52,120
Speaker 1: that's the issue. And uh no no no, no, no no, no,

985
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 1: that ain't just the issue. No no, no, no no

986
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 1: no no no no. It way motitis. I don't know

987
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:02,560
Speaker 1: how you try throw us in it and simplified, but

988
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:06,680
Speaker 1: that ain't I would have something to say about that

989
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: her best friend slept with her man. Her best friend

990
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: is a man that slept with her man, Now what

991
01:03:16,560 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: she didn't had to wrap her mind, Roddy, these two

992
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: men were sleeping together. Man, she had to know. I'm

993
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 1: out of it. All right, guys, we gotta get out

994
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,360
Speaker 1: of here. You can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter.

995
01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,920
Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry

996
01:03:31,000 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. Okay, you're listening show all right?

997
01:03:38,200 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 1: Time for a comedy break right here. Junior is here

998
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: with things I've never seen? What is this, Junior? Yeah,

999
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, unc Tommy, there's a lot of things that

1000
01:03:46,160 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: you have never seen in your life. I mean it's

1001
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:50,920
Speaker 1: some things like I know you old and everybody you

1002
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:53,320
Speaker 1: probably have, but it's some things I know I ain't

1003
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: never see. Like, for instance, I've never seen a shade

1004
01:03:57,240 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: treet mechanic with a car that's running in perfect condition.

1005
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 1: You ain't never seen you. He gonna tell me everything

1006
01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: wrong with my car, but with his back door missing,

1007
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 1: all is all running out of the car from him

1008
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: and his hat. But he gonna tell me I need

1009
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: a new transmitted Well, I've never seen it. I just

1010
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 1: ain't never seen it. He's another thing I ain't never seen.

1011
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: I ain't never seen people in the South eat a

1012
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: meal without rice if it's chicken and rice, beans and rice,

1013
01:04:29,080 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: Why is rice so every place? Ring? Just rice? You

1014
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,439
Speaker 1: know who I've never met. I've never met this person.

1015
01:04:37,720 --> 01:04:40,520
Speaker 1: I've never met a well rested African mirror. I've never

1016
01:04:40,640 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 1: met one. I ain't never seen it, dog, I ain't

1017
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: never seen it, a well rested African American. Not just

1018
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 1: like that. How you doing? Man? Oh man? Job getting

1019
01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: on my nerves, wife talking crazy to me. Kids won't

1020
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:58,000
Speaker 1: live man, I'm tired. I'm just tired. You ain't never

1021
01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: seen there. I'm never seen a big person eat a

1022
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:10,200
Speaker 1: meal without a died beverage. I ain't ever seen yeah,

1023
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 1: ham hocks, you know, But then a died coke on

1024
01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 1: the side, As if that's gonna change something. I have

1025
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: never seen it. I hear you, Steve. I don't I know,

1026
01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:24,240
Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't gonna do it. I ain't gonna

1027
01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: get no. Look, I've never seen a black funeral. What

1028
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: it is? No clowning going on? Yeah, no, not one.

1029
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 1: Not when you ain't up seeing that. Somebody gonna get

1030
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:45,439
Speaker 1: cussed out in front of the casket every time. He's

1031
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 1: just things we've never seen. We ain't never seen anything.

1032
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: I've never seen Christmas, Valentine's Halloween declarations being put up

1033
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: in the drug store. You just show up one day

1034
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,280
Speaker 1: and they all hanging who keeps that's true. You ain't

1035
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: never seen who hang this up. We don't know who

1036
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:08,720
Speaker 1: that is. I ain't never seen a white person still

1037
01:06:08,760 --> 01:06:11,600
Speaker 1: a bike out of black neighborhood. I ain't never seen.

1038
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 1: You ain't gonna never seen because they already am not.

1039
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: I've been around long time on that. All right, Thank

1040
01:06:20,840 --> 01:06:30,000
Speaker 1: you guys. You're listening. People who overdo their job, all right.

1041
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: They just put a little bit too much in this

1042
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 1: damn job, crossing guard. It don't take all that it

1043
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:44,840
Speaker 1: really god dude. Yeah, but the baby saved jay I

1044
01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:48,919
Speaker 1: I understand it. But sometime they put you, hey, hey, hey, hey,

1045
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 1: gonna cub back on the cub, Hey back up, back

1046
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: up on the on the cub on the cup, and

1047
01:06:56,920 --> 01:07:00,600
Speaker 1: Joe take all that. They're overdo it. I tell you

1048
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,920
Speaker 1: what you got anybody with a yellow jacket that's say

1049
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:10,919
Speaker 1: events staff. You don't I know where I'm sitting. It's

1050
01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: the same game I was at last week. Yeah, can

1051
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:16,640
Speaker 1: I have some of that? They just gave it a jacket.

1052
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: Can I just have just a little at that? But

1053
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: any net roll with a clipboard, I like it. The

1054
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: keyword was net ro any neat roll, let me see,

1055
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: let me see hot man? You see man, I love

1056
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:50,040
Speaker 1: them to show you the hot The mall cop outside

1057
01:07:50,200 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 1: the mall that day then decided, ain't no front do

1058
01:07:56,160 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: drop off? Why you all out? Dog? Hey dog my

1059
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: mama hip went out. I'm not mom dropping my mama.

1060
01:08:10,520 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: The first guy you see at the car wash stuff,

1061
01:08:13,320 --> 01:08:16,840
Speaker 1: that first guy that try to sell you that detail

1062
01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 1: you don't want. You just want to quick wash out,

1063
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,479
Speaker 1: let me spread down. I'm all your I don't I

1064
01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:29,760
Speaker 1: don't want that. Yeah, and then there's a supreme I

1065
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:34,479
Speaker 1: want a supreme or the Supreme select. I don't want that.

1066
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: I just want to quick. I don't want that. I'm

1067
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:42,639
Speaker 1: gonna tell you somebody now, I'm still out here. I'm

1068
01:08:42,680 --> 01:08:45,240
Speaker 1: young and everything. But when I go to the club

1069
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:47,600
Speaker 1: and I go to the bathroom to attended in that,

1070
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: hey you're doing too much. No. I can turn on

1071
01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:57,880
Speaker 1: the wall, I can grab the paper, But what I

1072
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:00,000
Speaker 1: don't need you to do is to go on out

1073
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:02,080
Speaker 1: to the night. What they ended it, They look like

1074
01:09:02,160 --> 01:09:05,479
Speaker 1: who they're doing. You see anything you like? Hey, Dom,

1075
01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:08,720
Speaker 1: I'm in here for two seconds. I didn't hear the

1076
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:16,679
Speaker 1: bun I ain't up the Ushaw church. Oh my god,

1077
01:09:17,080 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: that keep tightening up your road. Just coming back, ladies. Yea,

1078
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:27,519
Speaker 1: lady lady, we got to be packed in here like this.

1079
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 1: There's plenty of space on these other roads. That's looking

1080
01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:37,639
Speaker 1: for another scoot over the Jesus you tired of standing

1081
01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:46,719
Speaker 1: up man, people who over their job to drive through attendant. Okay,

1082
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:53,200
Speaker 1: those ain't your ketchups, those ain't your napting those they

1083
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 1: don't belong to you. Your job is to pass them out. Okay. Yeah.

1084
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: If I wan't nine, damn it, give me nine. Okay,

1085
01:10:00,600 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 1: come off right man, one damn neck. Yeah. Hell, I'm

1086
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:10,040
Speaker 1: puposed to do with it. I'm saying another person over

1087
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 1: do their job. Whoever sang in a restaurant, overdoing your

1088
01:10:15,840 --> 01:10:19,200
Speaker 1: damn job. We are in here for the oysters. That's

1089
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:27,960
Speaker 1: for you. You ain't got the overseeing that we don't

1090
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: even know you was gonna be. Come on, you know

1091
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 1: who really be doing doing it? Now? These pastors on

1092
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,760
Speaker 1: Sunday that act like the damn game man, coming out,

1093
01:10:46,000 --> 01:10:51,439
Speaker 1: I tell you didn't overdoing the job. Dog. You know

1094
01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:55,360
Speaker 1: it's football season. You know it's Sunday. You know this

1095
01:10:55,560 --> 01:11:00,719
Speaker 1: damn games. So like mother, you still up here talking

1096
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 1: about coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

1097
01:11:08,160 --> 01:11:15,280
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening to the Steven Show. Okay, So, Carla,

1098
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:17,759
Speaker 1: we talked off the air. You had a random question

1099
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,599
Speaker 1: for me. Well, you know, I was watching the Today

1100
01:11:21,720 --> 01:11:24,040
Speaker 1: Show and they were talking about they were having this

1101
01:11:24,160 --> 01:11:27,519
Speaker 1: crazy discussion and this is just for the ladies. Do

1102
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:35,280
Speaker 1: you wear underwear with your spanks? So that was the discussion, right,

1103
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: So Hodah said yes, but Jenny said no. Isn't it

1104
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:45,560
Speaker 1: Jenny Laura Bush's daughter that's on the third armor of

1105
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 1: the Today Show? She said no? And so what do

1106
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 1: you say, Shirley. I'm with Jenna Jenna Jenny Jenna Jenna Bush.

1107
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm with missus Jenna Bush. It's too much going on

1108
01:11:59,160 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 1: under there, which mine whole stuff in, you know, eliminate

1109
01:12:03,920 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: lines and all this too much. I need to breathe, Carla,

1110
01:12:07,520 --> 01:12:12,160
Speaker 1: I need to breathe. I need to exhale. Right, So

1111
01:12:12,240 --> 01:12:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm with you on that no underwear with spanks. I

1112
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:17,839
Speaker 1: know we're getting a little too personal. Early this morning.

1113
01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:21,280
Speaker 1: But it is what it is, so we got to

1114
01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,400
Speaker 1: talk about it with our ladies. So I'm with you,

1115
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: Shirly and with Jenna. I'm from the Today Show. Ye

1116
01:12:27,760 --> 01:12:31,120
Speaker 1: I know, underwear with your spanks, come on home, all right,

1117
01:12:31,400 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 1: secrets be told. I don't even wear spanks anymore. I

1118
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:40,600
Speaker 1: just don't pandemics whatever. Man, Hey, listen, follow us the

1119
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 1: whole social media. I met my girl Shirley, and I'm

1120
01:12:44,240 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 1: at lip sparked Carla. All right, thank you girl. Coming

1121
01:12:47,600 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour more of

1122
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening

1123
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:58,000
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve,

1124
01:12:58,120 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: introduce your friend, ladies and gentlemen. That damn Jay Anthony Brown.

1125
01:13:04,080 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 1: I think what we're about to do now will answer

1126
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,879
Speaker 1: a lot of questions that people have. They have questions.

1127
01:13:10,520 --> 01:13:15,519
Speaker 1: This will answer those questions that people have. From that questions,

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01:13:16,000 --> 01:13:19,840
Speaker 1: I hit it, David. The song is to answer the

1129
01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:25,479
Speaker 1: question that everybody's been asking, and we will answer the

1130
01:13:25,680 --> 01:13:32,080
Speaker 1: question that most people have been asking. He's answered. Thank

1131
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 1: you very much, Jay Anthony, good morning. Everybody asked the

1132
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:40,800
Speaker 1: question some folks have asked the question, why dude, we come.

1133
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 1: We like to know why you come, sweetcus, because it

1134
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 1: cuse because they're fed up and we have had enough.

1135
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:55,120
Speaker 1: Come on down, We because when we will cuns at

1136
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:59,879
Speaker 1: times of happiness, because when we said we will cunsant

1137
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:04,559
Speaker 1: times of sadness and God, some people got it from

1138
01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 1: the Mother's God and others got it from the dance.

1139
01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 1: Come on us. So you can't use nice the words

1140
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 1: in sound, it'll be real rough to get the words

1141
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: out and takes the place likely shut down. Could you

1142
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:30,599
Speaker 1: please shut them? And sometimes you want to tell church members,

1143
01:14:30,680 --> 01:14:35,480
Speaker 1: could you just please please shut just shut the ifoop

1144
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 1: and now you have Oh, now you have the answer.

1145
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: Now you had the bees and why that is the

1146
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 1: reason why we cause. Don't tell me how to run

1147
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:50,559
Speaker 1: the church. I'm the pastor up in here. That's always

1148
01:14:51,479 --> 01:14:54,640
Speaker 1: them out. Could you just shut the IF book? You

1149
01:14:54,760 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 1: can don't try to tell me what to do. Are

1150
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: out after your mind? Acurio worst the worst higher you ever.

1151
01:15:09,479 --> 01:15:15,719
Speaker 1: It's great, it's great, you're so happy. I'm here works jay.

1152
01:15:18,680 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 1: So you're gonna use that song from that art is well?

1153
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 1: It answers the question and the reason why we cuss

1154
01:15:25,720 --> 01:15:29,719
Speaker 1: is right there. I mean, what question you were talking

1155
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: about when one question? What about the reason why we cuss? Yes,

1156
01:15:36,080 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 1: but we do? That's it answer. Yeah, that's gonna probably

1157
01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 1: end up viral somewhere. That's gonna end up viral somewhere.

1158
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, But you know what, the only thing I

1159
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,280
Speaker 1: went about, did somebody else do it before me? And

1160
01:15:52,360 --> 01:15:55,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, nobody touched that that song is right there?

1161
01:15:55,120 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 1: I mean, damn, that's what you were worried about, exactly right,

1162
01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:03,200
Speaker 1: somebody doing it before me? Right, all right, thank you,

1163
01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: thank you, Jay, thank you. All right. Steve coming up

1164
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:13,920
Speaker 1: closing remarks right after this. You're listening, all right, Here

1165
01:16:13,960 --> 01:16:16,920
Speaker 1: we are, Steve, last break of the day. It's been

1166
01:16:16,960 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: a great day. What a day on a day. Yeah,

1167
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,760
Speaker 1: it's been a crazy day today. So Steve, now it's

1168
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:28,600
Speaker 1: time for you to take us home with your closing remarks.

1169
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: My closing remarks today, um are gonna be based around

1170
01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: the value of yourself. I think this is important. Uh.

1171
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 1: Tommy sent this to me. He sent me a saying, oh,

1172
01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: you know, a bill boy, and it really triggered me

1173
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 1: to thinking I'm gonna share that with you. But it

1174
01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:55,400
Speaker 1: all pertains to the value of yourself. This can pertain

1175
01:16:55,560 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 1: to you in terms of reaching your goals, your dreams,

1176
01:17:03,880 --> 01:17:08,519
Speaker 1: all in business, and this is for you to consider

1177
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 1: in the relationship of love. It is amazing to me

1178
01:17:13,560 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: why I talk to people, and people talk about how

1179
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:20,760
Speaker 1: they're being treated and handled it and represented and dealt with,

1180
01:17:21,080 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 1: and how they can't seem to get nobody to see

1181
01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:28,120
Speaker 1: their value and their worth. And I'm sitting a bit going,

1182
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute. You can't try to

1183
01:17:32,479 --> 01:17:36,800
Speaker 1: get someone to see something in you that you don't

1184
01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: see in yourself. It starts with you. You know, you've

1185
01:17:43,040 --> 01:17:47,599
Speaker 1: all heard the saying beauty is on the inside. It's

1186
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:51,960
Speaker 1: not just skin deep. That's true. Confidence is not an

1187
01:17:52,080 --> 01:17:58,400
Speaker 1: outward emotion. It's something that starts from within. Everything starts

1188
01:17:58,520 --> 01:18:02,240
Speaker 1: from within and in the zoos and and and and

1189
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: manifest itself in the outward shape or form. So if

1190
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:14,680
Speaker 1: you want people to value you, you must first value yourself.

1191
01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:19,800
Speaker 1: I tell my daughters all the time. You can train

1192
01:18:19,920 --> 01:18:22,800
Speaker 1: a man how to treat you well, Daddy, how do

1193
01:18:22,880 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 1: you train a man? You just don't accept bad treatment

1194
01:18:26,720 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 1: from him. If you don't accept bad treatment from him,

1195
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,559
Speaker 1: little girl of mine, then guess what he can't keep

1196
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,760
Speaker 1: giving it to you. A person can only treat you

1197
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: the way you allow them to do it. If you

1198
01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 1: don't accept a man coming to pick you up late

1199
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:45,760
Speaker 1: all the time, and he comes to pick you up

1200
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:48,280
Speaker 1: late twice, but you stop going with him every time

1201
01:18:48,360 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 1: he late. The next time he want to go out

1202
01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: with you, he got to be on time. Now. If

1203
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:53,880
Speaker 1: he don't want to be on time, then guess what.

1204
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:57,400
Speaker 1: You don't go out. You've trained him how to treat you,

1205
01:18:57,680 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 1: and if he don't line up with what you walk,

1206
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 1: then guess what he not for you. At least you

1207
01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:05,560
Speaker 1: don't have to be mistreated the way he want to

1208
01:19:05,640 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 1: treat you by simply not allowing him to treat you

1209
01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 1: any way he wants to. You cannot have high value

1210
01:19:15,960 --> 01:19:19,439
Speaker 1: for yourself and expect someone else to have a high

1211
01:19:19,560 --> 01:19:22,879
Speaker 1: value of you. That goes into the same thing with business.

1212
01:19:23,240 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 1: You can't go in and ask for a raise if

1213
01:19:25,240 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 1: you don't think you deserved one. What would cause you

1214
01:19:27,560 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 1: to walk in there and ask for a raise if

1215
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 1: you don't think you deserved one, If you don't have

1216
01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 1: the facts to back up a raise. You can't want

1217
01:19:35,400 --> 01:19:37,439
Speaker 1: more money just because you don't spend all the money

1218
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,800
Speaker 1: you had. You got to go in there and ask

1219
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 1: for a raise because you can show value to the company.

1220
01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 1: You're worth this much more to the company. The company

1221
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 1: has become this because of you. Then you can show

1222
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:50,599
Speaker 1: your value. Then you can go in there with a raise,

1223
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 1: and you can go in there with some confidence with

1224
01:19:52,520 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 1: the raise. It happens with goals and dreams. If you

1225
01:19:57,400 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 1: aim too low, your problem as you might hit it.

1226
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna say that for tomorrow. So it's what

1227
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 1: you think of yourself, how you value yourself, that matters most.

1228
01:20:10,680 --> 01:20:12,240
Speaker 1: Now let me tell you what was sent to me.

1229
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:15,200
Speaker 1: I listen to this real careful, because this is going

1230
01:20:15,280 --> 01:20:18,240
Speaker 1: to register with a lot of people here we go.

1231
01:20:18,520 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 1: Listen to me. If you aren't being treated with love

1232
01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:28,200
Speaker 1: and respect, check your price tag. Maybe you've marked yourself down.

1233
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:34,080
Speaker 1: It's you who tells people what you're worth. Get off

1234
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 1: the clearest rack and get behind the glass where they

1235
01:20:39,080 --> 01:20:44,000
Speaker 1: keep the valuables. It's you who tells people what you're worth.

1236
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 1: Get off the clearest rack and get behind the glass

1237
01:20:48,479 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 1: where they keep the valuables. Stop acting like you a

1238
01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:56,960
Speaker 1: sidewalk sale. Stop acting like you can be picked up

1239
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:01,120
Speaker 1: at the swap meet. Stop acting like you belong in

1240
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:05,680
Speaker 1: the junkyard. You're a new car. Don't act like an

1241
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:08,800
Speaker 1: old car. I don't care how old you are to somebody.

1242
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 1: You got to be a new car. Stop putting yourself

1243
01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:17,559
Speaker 1: on the sales rack when clearly you deserve full price.

1244
01:21:18,680 --> 01:21:21,160
Speaker 1: If you lure the value for yourself, that's what we'll

1245
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 1: pay for you, and that's how we'll treat you. And

1246
01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: that's how we respect. If you don't respect yourself, if

1247
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 1: I see you constantly disrespecting yourself, then you're gonna turn

1248
01:21:31,560 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: to me and demand respect. How does that work? Get

1249
01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 1: back there? Be that be a coat where they got

1250
01:21:39,560 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 1: the lock on it. See you can't take me off

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Speaker 1: the rat and just try me on. No, that ain't

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Speaker 1: how this work. See but now you go over that

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Speaker 1: to that valuable section in the store. You everybody been

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Speaker 1: to Macy. You got that stuff where you got to

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Speaker 1: go get a salesperson to come and unlock it for

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Speaker 1: you to even try it on. That's cause they to

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Speaker 1: put a value on that. Or you going over there

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Speaker 1: and just put the little shirt on. T shirts ain't

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Speaker 1: locked up. Anybody can get one. If you're steal this

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Speaker 1: T shirt, it ain't that bigger loss, name before dollars,

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Speaker 1: pack of three. Come over here, Body's swede, Come over here,

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Speaker 1: Body's first stuff. We got locks on this stuff right

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Speaker 1: here because it has value. We know it has value,

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Speaker 1: so we can't just let you try to stop letting

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Speaker 1: people just try you on. You got it, Put the

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Speaker 1: value to yourself, maintain it, you determine your value. Don't

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Speaker 1: let other people do it. You do it all right?

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing your ball, drop the mic, drop

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Speaker 1: the mic. Baby, thank you, Tommy, appreciate. Pimp needed that,

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Speaker 1: but I just need thought starters. Hey man, can I

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