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Speaker 1: My fiance didn't want to watch our dog, so she

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Speaker 1: let him get away and now he's lost.

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Speaker 2: I'm furious at her. Am I the ahole?

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Speaker 3: Furious for someone losing your dog? No, so not the Alevin,

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Speaker 3: not the ahole. That's my prediction.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into it.

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Speaker 1: So my fiance, twenty eight female, is currently five months

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Speaker 1: pregnant and has been both fatigued and nauseous lately. I

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Speaker 1: get why she didn't want to help me look for

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Speaker 1: the dog, but I can't get over the lack of

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Speaker 1: empathy and borderline selfish behavior of this either. My dog,

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Speaker 1: six year old Healer slash Corki Nix, runs off at

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Speaker 1: least once a week.

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Speaker 3: God, you need better fences, my guy, I need some

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Speaker 3: fit training.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Usually my fiance will help me find her, but it's

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Speaker 1: not without protest. I honestly didn't even know how she

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Speaker 1: was getting out of our fenced yard, so I installed

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Speaker 1: cameras and found out that.

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Speaker 2: She was scaling the eight foot fence.

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Speaker 3: That is crazy to put your dog in, like the

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Speaker 3: police force or something that is a dog with skills.

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Speaker 2: Those hops to use it.

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Speaker 1: I ended up attaching spinners to the top of the fence,

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Speaker 1: thinking that would solve the issue, but it didn't.

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Speaker 2: I guess that's some sort of like thing where it spins.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, kid, yeah, stops the dog from from getting

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Speaker 1: over it. I brought her out today and was playing

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Speaker 1: with her when my phone rang. I was inside just

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Speaker 1: long enough to grab my phone, and my dog had

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Speaker 1: gotten out already.

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Speaker 2: Bro, this dog is done.

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Speaker 1: I immediately went and searched for her, thinking she couldn't

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Speaker 1: have gotten far. But I couldn't find her anywhere, so

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Speaker 1: I went back to the house and asked my fiance,

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Speaker 1: who was curled up on the sofa, to come help me. YO, like, ut,

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Speaker 1: fuck it again, Let's get a new dog that doesn't

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Speaker 1: run away every five seconds.

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Speaker 2: About that.

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Speaker 1: After I asked her to help, my fiance immediately said no,

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Speaker 1: not doing it. She said she was tired of chasing

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Speaker 1: the dog and that she isn't dealing with it anymore,

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Speaker 1: and that I should have been out there watching her.

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Speaker 1: I explained to her that I had been watching her

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Speaker 1: and simply stepped away for zero point two seconds to

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Speaker 1: grab my phone just inside the sliding door, and she

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Speaker 1: had escaped just point two seconds enough for the dog

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Speaker 1: to escape. She again said it wasn't her problem, and

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Speaker 1: she's not exhausting herself anymore to search for my dog.

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Speaker 1: I won't even say it was unexpected, because, as I

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Speaker 1: said in the past, she has always had a problem

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Speaker 1: with helping me search, but she's never said no. She

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Speaker 1: just complained about it. At first. I went in and

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Speaker 1: searched myself. After maybe half an hour, I came back

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Speaker 1: and asked her again to come help, and she snapped.

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Speaker 1: I said, no, I am so tired of chasing that

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Speaker 1: dog around multiple times a week when I'm already exhausted

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Speaker 1: and throwing up constantly. I panicked and unleashed some yelling,

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Speaker 1: which involved me telling her she was such a bee

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Speaker 1: who lacked empathy, and that I was thoroughly disappointed with

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Speaker 1: my decision to be with someone so heartless.

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Speaker 2: Okay, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, you might have said some things that are gonna

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Speaker 3: be hard to come back from.

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Speaker 1: It was out of pure fear and panic on my part,

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Speaker 1: and I did apologize later after I found my dogd

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Speaker 1: but she said go for yourself, which I.

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Speaker 2: Believe is the appropriate response.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and now she won't talk to me.

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole.

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Speaker 1: Everyone is on my side except my sister, who says,

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Speaker 1: I'm an effing prick because it's not my pregnant fiance's

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Speaker 1: responsibility to quote chase around your effing mount unquote. And

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Speaker 1: she said that she would have left immediately if her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend ever said.

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Speaker 2: What I did to her. Oh God, y'all, we.

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Speaker 1: Got a big mess on her hands and you have

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Speaker 1: to help us sort through it. Please let us know

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Speaker 1: in the comments. Is OP the a whole?

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Speaker 2: Angel? Is the wife the A hole? The angel? Let

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Speaker 2: us know? And why Sam?

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Speaker 1: Please please attempt us to give it, to give a

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Speaker 1: breakdown here?

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Speaker 2: What are we thinking?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so originally I thought this was gonna be a

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Speaker 3: clear cut OP is not the A hole. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like OPI needs some like new friends because they're all

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Speaker 3: just like yes manning him her friends are biased as flaught.

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Speaker 3: You're like, first of all, you need to get a

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Speaker 3: better fence, you know, practical advice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Second, you know I under stand, Oh I lost

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Speaker 2: my dog? Can you help me find Yeah? Once, maybe twice,

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Speaker 2: maybe twice weekly.

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Speaker 3: And your wife's pregnant, Like, are you kidding me? You're

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Speaker 3: gonna make your pregnant? Is a girlfriend? Wife fiance fiance?

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Speaker 3: You're gonna make your pregnant fiance go run around and

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Speaker 3: chase some dumb dog like one. You could probably do

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Speaker 3: that yourself, and to it's your fault for losing this

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Speaker 3: dog all the time. In conclusion, you need a new fence,

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Speaker 3: you need new friends, you need to treat your wife

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Speaker 3: with some goddamn respects. And also the most a holy

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Speaker 3: move of all is yelling at your wife telling her

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Speaker 3: she's an inconsiderate bitch when you are the inconsiderate bitch.

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Speaker 2: Literally like, look at a mirror, my friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of one hundred percent agree with your breakdown.

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Speaker 1: It's just so insane to me that, like a responsible

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Speaker 1: pet owner is like you take care of the pet,

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Speaker 1: and it's like, Okay, you realize that your dog always

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Speaker 1: wants to run out. You need to fix the fencing.

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Speaker 1: You need to go to a trainer, cause, like I

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Speaker 1: think the dog maybe the.

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Speaker 2: Dog is just like like an electric fence for it,

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Speaker 2: like like a shot call.

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Speaker 1: Literally like anything to like, Okay, yeah, he like installed

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Speaker 1: cameras and put a spinner on the fence. Cool, but

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Speaker 1: then it didn't work, so now you have to do

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Speaker 1: the next thing.

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Speaker 2: It seems pretty clear it's Ope's dog, not like bears

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Speaker 2: or hers or whatever. So it's like your responsibility.

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