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Speaker 1: It's time take Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Table Show. Mollie is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for it to Catch a Cheater. She's been with

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Speaker 2: her boyfriend Nick for a year and now she thinks

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Speaker 2: that something might be going on. So we'll see if

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Speaker 2: we can help her out. In just a minute when

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Speaker 2: we call him and try to catch him if he

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Speaker 2: is cheating. Hopefully he's not. But Mollie, tell us about

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Speaker 2: your situation. What's going on with Nick?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, guys, So I have been dating Nix for

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Speaker 3: about a year now. He's a really great guy and

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Speaker 4: So we did kind of have a rough start.

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Speaker 3: To be fair, Nick had a death in the family

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Speaker 3: and so the kind of honeymoon phase of an early

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Speaker 3: to settle everything that was needed from his family, and

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Speaker 3: when he got back, we did have a little bit

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Speaker 3: of a hard time getting back in this thing of things.

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Speaker 3: But you know, eventually things kind of started to work

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Speaker 3: And you know, things has sort of picked up and

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Speaker 3: he's kind of just pulling back like a lot. You know,

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Speaker 3: when we're together, it's like he's not talking really that much.

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Speaker 3: He's on his phone a lot. He disappears for hours

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Speaker 3: or saying nothing at all, and when I ask him

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Speaker 3: The other thing that's happened is we don't have sex anymore,

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Speaker 3: and I feel like he is hanging out with his

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Speaker 4: In the past.

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Speaker 3: And I know I shouldn't have done in this, but

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Speaker 3: I have looked at his phone a couple of times

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Speaker 3: because I've been a little paranoid, and I do see

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Speaker 3: some messages.

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Speaker 4: From those girls, okay, and the messages themselves.

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Speaker 3: They don't seem like anything serious, are pretty innocuous. But

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Speaker 3: there's this one girl, Brittany, and she seems to constantly

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Speaker 3: me feel a little weird. And I'm just getting tired

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Speaker 3: of him blowing me off and I think that he's

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Speaker 3: and I'm just feeling like he's making me feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm crazy, and I just I need to know if

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Speaker 3: he's cheating or.

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Speaker 2: Not, because but the conversations seemed innocent that you saw

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Speaker 2: on his phone, They do.

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Speaker 3: Seem innocent, Yeah, you know, like they just seem like

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I think that would make anybody uncomfortable,

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Speaker 5: especially if you know that they have a history.

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Speaker 6: I mean, before you brought up to as.

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Speaker 5: Girls, I was like, I don't know, maybe it's like

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Speaker 5: he just needs to retreat and maybe still deal with

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Speaker 5: stuff from before. I mean, loss is something that's or

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Speaker 5: grief I guess is something that's ongoing, right.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I totally agree, And when he came back,

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Speaker 3: like I really wanted to give him time and space

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Speaker 4: But I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm just I have, like the Scott feeling that something's wrong,

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Speaker 3: that he's doing something, and I just feel like I

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Speaker 2: Like now, and have you directly asked him about it?

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Speaker 3: It's tough, like I a little bit, but I don't

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Speaker 4: I don't want to accuse him of something.

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Speaker 3: It's like I'm not right one percent sure, you know,

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Speaker 3: because like I don't want it to get really mad.

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Speaker 6: You don't have to accuse, you could ask.

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Speaker 4: That's true, That's true.

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Speaker 2: You can tell a lot about an answer too, if

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Speaker 2: that's a lot of times a sign that there is

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Speaker 5: Well, he did tell her to stop asking questions about friends,

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Speaker 5: so I don't know if that's the same category. But

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Speaker 5: I feel like anybody would feel a little bit uneasy

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Speaker 6: He now somebody they used to hook up with.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, right, All right, Well, we'll see if we

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Speaker 2: can help you out. We'll play a song, come back

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Speaker 2: and then call him. You already told us what grocery

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Speaker 2: store he's a Rewards card member at, so will play

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Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store and say that every

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Speaker 2: single month, well Lucky Rewards card member whins free flowers

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Speaker 2: delivered from our floral department, we'll see if he sends

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thank you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Plaus I'll come back and get your to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater next, it's.

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Speaker 1: Time to Catch a Cheater only on the Table show.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Mollie is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend of one year named Nick might be messing around

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Speaker 2: on her. We're about to call him and pretend to

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Speaker 2: be from the grocery store that he's a rewards card

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Speaker 2: member at, and say that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one Lucky Rewards Card member who gets free flowers delivered

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Speaker 2: from our floral department, absolutely free, and we'll see if

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Speaker 2: he sends those to Molly or to somebody else. But

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Speaker 2: before we do that, Mollie, why don't you refresh everybody's

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Speaker 2: memory about why you think he might be cheating.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Sure.

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Speaker 3: So my boyfriend Nick has been a little secretive recently.

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Speaker 3: He's been doing a lot of time with friends. I

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Speaker 3: feeling that something's wrong. Has been talking to these girls,

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Speaker 3: but a couple of them I know he's hooked up

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Speaker 6: Are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I'm ready?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 4: Hi?

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Speaker 6: May I speak to Nick?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 1: Nick?

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Speaker 6: How are you please? Do not hang up? My name

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Speaker 6: is Chortl.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from and I'm calling to let you know

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Speaker 2: that as a Rewards card member with us, Congratulations, you're

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Speaker 2: this month's big winner.

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Speaker 7: What do I guess?

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Speaker 2: Oh, maybe you're not aware. Every single month, one of

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Speaker 2: our Lucky Rewards Card members gets selected to get free

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Speaker 2: flowers delivered from our Florida department to anywhere in the

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Speaker 2: United States. You just won thirty six long stem red roses,

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Speaker 2: a box of candy and cards sent anywhere. Like I said, Oh, yes, congratulations.

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Speaker 2: It's just our a little way of saying thank you

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Speaker 2: for shopping.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you know the person you want to send

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Speaker 2: them to right now. I can take the information down

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Speaker 2: time to call you back.

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Speaker 7: I can just tell you the person I want to enter. Two,

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Speaker 7: I can give you all the information.

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Speaker 6: Let's start with the first and the last name of

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Speaker 6: the lucky person.

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Speaker 7: You're gonna send these two. Molly, it's a card.

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Speaker 6: Do you want to put anything on a card there?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Can you? Can you write? I get you so.

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Speaker 1: Many of these, but I got some tree once this

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Speaker 1: time I got that's funny, And then also write date

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Speaker 1: night restaurant?

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Speaker 7: Is your turn to choose?

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Speaker 6: That's nice? That is sweet? Any great? That is so nice.

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Speaker 6: So this is obviously your girlfriend is a girlfriend.

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Speaker 7: Wife, it's my girlfriend. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: How you how long you've been together?

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Speaker 4: We've been together for a little bit over a year.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well I'll let you go in just a second. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: first I let you need I need to let you

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Speaker 2: know that Molly, your girlfriend is on the phone actually

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Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 7: Hi, honey, Hi, Hi, what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: This is the Jubile Show, Nick, It's a radio show. Hi, Nick,

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Speaker 5: the whole show's here, Anina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: This is a segment that we do call to Catch

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Speaker 2: a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might

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Speaker 2: be messing around, you see what they send flowers.

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Speaker 6: So that's why Molly is here.

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Speaker 4: Oh are you kidding me?

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Speaker 7: Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 4: Right now?

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Speaker 6: Like we should be happy. Nobody cheating?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no, no, this icy?

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Speaker 7: Am I not setting any flowers?

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Speaker 6: No? Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Great, okay, great, thanks for wasting my time. So I

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Speaker 1: just want you guys to know, every single month, this

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Speaker 1: is something new with Mollie. Honey, I cannot believe you this.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, guys. Just I don't know if she

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Speaker 1: told you, but she is constantly expecting we have cheating

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Speaker 1: like this for months now. She does both like this

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Speaker 1: all since the beginning of our relationship. It's like she's

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Speaker 4: Now, yes, I have been cheated on before.

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Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, I get that. I get that, and I'm

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Speaker 1: But even when I'm on the other side of the country,

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Speaker 1: when when my mom dies suddenly and I have to

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Speaker 1: deal with all that stuff, and I'm getting messages from

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Speaker 1: her all the time and calls from her all the time,

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Speaker 1: saying that I need to pay attention to her more,

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Speaker 1: that I need to do this or that more.

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Speaker 4: And we go on.

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Speaker 1: Dates every two weeks. We we we we do dinner,

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Speaker 1: we do the whole thing, and we try to make

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Speaker 1: time for each other.

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Speaker 7: I am dealing with a lot right now.

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Speaker 4: I know you're dealing with a lot. I know, but.

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Speaker 1: Somehow I can't get a message from any of my friends,

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Speaker 1: some of would happened to be women without you thinking

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Speaker 1: I'm sleeping with them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but if you're not cheating on me, then where

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Speaker 3: do you keep on going? You get so defensive when

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Speaker 3: I ask you where you're going? It's like, what else

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Speaker 3: am I supposed to think? Like seriously, Like you know that?

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Speaker 3: Like that makes me anxious? And I've been really sensitive

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Speaker 3: to the issues with your family, like I have been.

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Speaker 3: You know I have been. But what am I supposed

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Speaker 3: what am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 4: Seriously? Tell me what am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 1: I think you try to be sensitive with issues in

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Speaker 1: but this is crazy. And you know what, Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: I you know, when one of.

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Speaker 1: Your parents dies, you'll probably be a little depressed too.

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Speaker 7: And it's nothing about you.

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Speaker 1: I love you, but this is this is crazy.

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Speaker 7: This is actually crazy. And listen, I am done being accused.

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Speaker 1: You bought you you guys there, yes, here, I am

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Speaker 7: And if you know, do you want to think about it?

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Speaker 1: When I go out with my friends, it's usually a

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Speaker 7: You're getting into a bad place.

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Speaker 1: I need to go out and be around people, other people,

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Speaker 7: I need space.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I understand that you've been cheated on before. If

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Speaker 2: to choose to trust. Also, somebody else is not responsible

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Speaker 2: but it's on you to trust to manage your anxiety,

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Speaker 2: But nobody can one hundred percent do that for you.

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Speaker 3: Right, But I've like, from my perspective, I feel like

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Speaker 6: Okay, We're not getting angry at somebody.

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Speaker 4: And I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: I've tried so hard to like keep my anxieties at day,

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Speaker 4: But like what am I supposed to think?

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Speaker 3: Like our physical relationship deteriorated?

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Speaker 6: Nick? For her? Can you be more responsive when you're

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can try to do that.

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Speaker 1: And I think that, Yeah, she's right, I can be

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Speaker 1: So I mean, look, we were our first weekend. We

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Speaker 3: Like I felt like you were like you were working

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, guys, this is so much right, And

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Speaker 2: that's the kind of stuff, Molly, where you're in charge

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Speaker 2: you're not feeling that way, you need to look at

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Speaker 2: the situation and go No, a homeless person stopped him.

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Speaker 2: He talked to her for a second, because Nick is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and listen, listen.

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Speaker 4: I'm I'm sorry, I really am, Like I know, I know.

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Speaker 1: You want, I know, and I'm sorry for losing my

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Speaker 1: that's that doesn't help. And listen, I'm not angry at you.

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Speaker 7: I'm just frustrated with the situation. So I know you're apologizing.

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Speaker 1: And I understand that, and I love you and I

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Speaker 7: But when I get home, we need.

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Speaker 4: I don't want you to leave me. I really don't, honey.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to leave you either, and I don't

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Speaker 1: I don't have any desire to really, but we just

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Speaker 6: Cool. Well, I mean I think it's good. It's you're

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Speaker 6: opening up communication.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, good luck.

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