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Speaker 1: The Bread Show is on Fred's Biggest Stories of the Day.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure why the Masters it gets me every year,

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Speaker 1: but the mask I watch the Sunday Masters, I do,

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Speaker 1: and I don't watch golf really and I don't normally

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Speaker 1: care about the PGA, but the Sunday Masters, it's like

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Speaker 1: that that little piano music they play. It's like Sunday.

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Speaker 1: It's like perfect Sunday nap, you know, like three or

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Speaker 1: four naps, you know, over the course of four hours.

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Speaker 1: I'll wake up like what because you fall asleep, wow,

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Speaker 1: to see if I can find the Master's music for you? Right,

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Speaker 1: what are you watching?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 3: What are they doing it?

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Speaker 1: They're playing golf, but it tasts like four hours.

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Speaker 3: It is very chill.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like who it's the biggest thing that's ever

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Speaker 2: going to happen to these people, Like if they win, it's.

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Speaker 1: It's it's the greatest moment of their lives. And you're

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Speaker 1: watching it all unfold. And yesterday Roy mcelory almost blew it.

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Speaker 1: He had it, he had it. And this seems to

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Speaker 1: happen on Sunday because the pressure, I think gets to

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Speaker 1: these men. And then and then you know, what's his

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Speaker 1: name Justin Rose I think was his name, came back.

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Speaker 1: He had like nine shot better game that around on

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Speaker 1: Sunday that he's one Saturday. And then it went to

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Speaker 1: a playoff and then Rory almost lost, and I can't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if this is the music. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what I'm listening to. This is a I'm not

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Speaker 1: even gonna I'm not even gonna shot even attempt this.

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Speaker 1: It's a little piano music. Did bloom bloom blam blam

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Speaker 1: bl bloom. You never heard this, you know.

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Speaker 4: I'm about no.

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Speaker 3: I don't watch the Masters, you know, not big on

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Speaker 3: my list, you know.

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Speaker 1: And then you got Jim nance and I can't. I

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Speaker 1: make fun of this every year, but yesterday he was

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Speaker 1: he was on any and and the man, Jim you know,

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Speaker 1: he had to go into a playoff. You could tell

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Speaker 1: like they really tee up the final round sort of

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Speaker 1: like storytelling. And then as they're walking down eighteen and

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Speaker 1: it looks like one of them is gonna win, they

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Speaker 1: get into the really sappy stories when the problem was

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Speaker 1: then it went to a playoff and then Jim Nantzy's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: give me another sheet, you know, because now I gotta

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Speaker 1: do this for another hour. It's like Roy mclory, he's

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Speaker 1: walking down eighteen growing up his parents. This is real,

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Speaker 1: This is real. Growing up, his parents didn't have a

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Speaker 1: lot of money and they spent all of it so

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Speaker 1: that their son would have the best possible chance. And

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Speaker 1: one time, when Roy was thirteen, they went to the

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Speaker 1: driving range and his dad only had a quarter and

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Speaker 1: that was only going to get him thirty balls. And

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Speaker 1: he's like walking, you know, up to the green or whatever.

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Speaker 1: And Roy went to his dad and said, I want

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Speaker 1: to play some golf today and he said, son, I'm

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Speaker 1: dead serious, son, I only have a quarter that's only

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Speaker 1: going to get your thirty balls, and I don't get

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Speaker 1: paid till Tuesday. So hit each one of them like

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Speaker 1: the masters, depends on it.

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Speaker 5: And that moment is now, oh my god, it's like

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Speaker 5: jel him cheers and streaming down my face like that

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Speaker 5: moment is now, it's right now.

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Speaker 1: Rory, Well mess this up that he did, but he won,

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Speaker 1: but he won. Roy Roy McElroy won his first green

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Speaker 1: jacket the thirty five year old. And here's the other thing.

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Speaker 1: Were you watching, Caitlin, because shame time made you watch.

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Speaker 3: I was forced all different places.

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Speaker 1: His wife is not having it. His wife done like him. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you remember a year ago, there were rumors, yep,

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Speaker 1: that Roy was hooking up and I called it before

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Speaker 1: the rumors even came out because I was just watching this.

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Speaker 1: But there's a woman who does like the post interviews

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Speaker 1: with the golfers that don't win.

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Speaker 3: I remember this.

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Speaker 1: I can't remember what her name is, but but but

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Speaker 1: there was there were rumors that he was getting Roy

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Speaker 1: was getting with that woman. And then he reconcile with

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Speaker 1: his wife, and his wife was there because the Master

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Speaker 1: is like a whole week thing, and there's like family

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Speaker 1: events earlier in the week, and they were showing footage

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Speaker 1: of early in the week, like his daughter did something

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Speaker 1: didn't want to, like, wasn't involved in half the activities,

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Speaker 1: didn't smile one time. It was like she did not

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Speaker 1: want to be there. And then even yesterday they kept

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Speaker 1: going to her and it was like this forced enthusiasm

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Speaker 1: because there were cameras all over her, you know, so

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Speaker 1: she couldn't like not support her husband, but you could tell,

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Speaker 1: you know, I just I could see the body language

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Speaker 1: that this woman was not and then and then even

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Speaker 1: Rory like when he was when he won, he grabs

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Speaker 1: his daughter and not his wife grabbed it, and then

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Speaker 1: he leaves them both of them behind and walks in

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Speaker 1: front of all of them, like fifty feet in front

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Speaker 1: of his whole family, walking up to the thing. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: my wife and my kid would be right there with me.

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Speaker 1: I just won the Masters. Why are they so far

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Speaker 1: behind me? What's my mom? Why are they all with me?

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Speaker 1: I was very upset about this, But he won, and

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Speaker 1: he completed a career Grand Slam, which means he's won

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Speaker 1: all of the all the big tournaments. And he joins

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Speaker 1: a bunch of guys Jack Nicholas, Tiger Woods, Ben Hogan,

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Speaker 1: Gary Player, and Jean Sarah's him who are the only

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Speaker 1: golfers to capture the four major championships in the Master's era.

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Speaker 1: So he's got all of them. So congratulations to Rory.

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Speaker 1: You should watch.

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Speaker 3: It's very I mean, maybe, okay, there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: cheating going on in golf.

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Speaker 1: I think there are shenanigans. Yeah, but you're talking about

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Speaker 1: you're talking about relationships.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I'm here for I got to figure this whole

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Speaker 6: Well, girl, speaking of that my uh my best friend's

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Speaker 6: fiance was at the master's and they can't bring their

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Speaker 6: phone in, so for twelve hours a day.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he's just missing. He's just missing. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I have no idea how they enforce that. I

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Speaker 1: have no idea how they're going to know. I know,

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Speaker 1: your phone down in your pants. I have no idea

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Speaker 1: how they would know.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, girl, twelve hours a day, you

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Speaker 3: don't know if he's okay. That would freak me out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, Mere's Caylin walking into work today. She's always

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Speaker 1: dreamed of being an entertainment reporter on a major's naturally

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Speaker 1: syndicated radio show, and today is her moment. And she

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Speaker 1: once went to her mom and said, Mom, I want

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Speaker 1: to be the lead in the play. And her mom said,

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Speaker 1: we don't have the money.

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Speaker 3: Pretty much, but she always found it somewhere.

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Speaker 1: We don't have the money for the costumes, and cale,

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Speaker 1: why are we supplying the costage? Young young? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and I said, yeah, someone else's not.

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Speaker 1: And then she asked, why can't dad pay for it?

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Speaker 1: And mom said, we don't know who dad is. I'm getting.

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Speaker 3: His dad was making my costume. That's where he was.

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Speaker 1: And then Calen found the cigarettes her dad left behind

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Speaker 1: and sold them beach one by one to raise the

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Speaker 1: money for that day. And she was the star.

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Speaker 3: My grand slam is today of.

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Speaker 1: Snow white in the first grade. And now look at

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Speaker 1: her sore in her moment. That's what it is. That's

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Speaker 1: what they do. Jeff Bezos. Blue Origin is going to

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Speaker 1: launch its eleventh crewed flight today with pop star Katie

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Speaker 1: Perry on board. Why not saying why why wouldn't. It's

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Speaker 1: the first all all female crew since someone from the

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Speaker 1: Soviet Union became the first woman in space during his

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Speaker 1: solo flight in nineteen sixty three. Also, Gail King is

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Speaker 1: Origin founder Jeff Bezos. They're going to launch the crew

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Speaker 1: from the company's launch site one in West Texas. It'll

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Speaker 1: fly a suborbital trajectory that will give its crew several

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Speaker 1: minutes of waitless time to float around. Their new Shepherd

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Speaker 1: will land under parachutes on the desert floor to end

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Speaker 1: the trip. The whole ride will take about ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: There'll be a live stream of this. You know it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be on CBS and the whole thing. But I

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Speaker 1: saw them doing all the press over the weekend. Those

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Speaker 8: I was like, oh my god, I kind of want

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Speaker 8: a space suits.

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Speaker 1: Space suits have no functionality whatsoever. They probably spend hours

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Speaker 1: making them just perfect for each one of them, cause

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Speaker 3: Yeah, in these things it looks like fashion nova. I'm

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Speaker 3: not even kidding that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, is there any actual like is this going

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Speaker 1: to save them from anything like it? Because when it's that,

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Speaker 1: when you're going fashion over function, like, is this you know,

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Speaker 1: That shit.

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Speaker 3: The wast oh the little built.

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Speaker 1: A bunch of Coachella stories. Today, some festival goers were

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Speaker 1: stuck in traffic for twelve hours before getting into the

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Speaker 1: Coachella grounds. They were sharing what they didn't have access to,

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Speaker 1: with temperatures at one hundred degrees. Also, Coachella attendees are

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Speaker 1: slamming the festivals diabolical food and drink. Price has been

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Speaker 1: Arts festival, they were mad. For example, one woman shared

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Speaker 1: on TikTok that the taco, nachos and lemonades for two

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Speaker 1: people were one hundred and two dollars. What about this

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Speaker 1: is appealing one way in, one way out. Takes twelve

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Speaker 1: You've done it right?

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Speaker 6: Why because it's the best festival there is. Honestly, it's clean,

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Speaker 6: it's well run. I would never camp at Coachella. So

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Speaker 6: that's their first issue. First of all, the dust storms

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Speaker 6: like so hot. Why would you camp? First of all,

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Speaker 6: that's your first mistake. But it's a great festival.

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Speaker 3: It's run well.

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Speaker 6: If you saw the sets, I mean, I'm gonna talk

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Speaker 3: In the port, but it's amazing.

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Speaker 1: A young Kalin just named her whole life to attend Coachella.

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Speaker 1: This is true, and finally she got her moment to

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Speaker 1: cram with black boogers. Yes, it seems like that they

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Speaker 1: two's and black boogers for Kalin, but she had her

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Speaker 1: shining moment for one shining moment. Let me see you. Oh,

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Speaker 1: we've had lists in the last couple of days, like

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Speaker 1: you know what they found in ubers and just weird stuff.

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Speaker 1: Now the weirdest finds inside unclaimed luggage. So I guess

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Speaker 1: if you and I know, this is confusing to me

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Speaker 1: because they have these places where you can go and

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Speaker 1: buy bags that people just never claimed. And my thing is,

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Speaker 1: bag just doesn't go into the ether if it's lost, right,

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Speaker 1: Like if I go to the airport and I scan

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Speaker 3: How do you flay for five minutes and one hundred?

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Speaker 8: It says, hey, Ki Ki, am I wrong for telling

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Speaker 1: So this woman the friend group wants to have like

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Speaker 3: Are you saying the mom is wrong for wanting to

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Speaker 1: Yes to a girl's weekend?

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Speaker 1: But look, there's a time and a place. Are we

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Speaker 8: Okay, Well, here's the thing. I don't feel like she's wrong, right, Lena.

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Speaker 8: I don't feel like you're wrong for wanting a girl

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Speaker 8: Wrong for maybe being a little annoyed with your friend

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Speaker 8: But you are wrong for planning the annual girls trip

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Speaker 8: And you guys booked the whole trip, didn't tell her,

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Speaker 1: Option, the president has been set. This woman will not

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Speaker 3: But at least you told her.

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Speaker 8: Because now if I'm your friend, I feel like you

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Speaker 8: without Why Why would I ask about the trip it's already.

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Speaker 1: Booked because you're the lady who wants to so we

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Speaker 1: different kind of trip, you know what I mean. There

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Speaker 1: Or if it's a girl's trip, we're gonna sit, you know,

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Speaker 8: The baby does not need an invite. But you can

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Speaker 8: you can at least say that. But to just start

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Speaker 1: But it sounds like they've done that and she still

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Speaker 3: Well that's true.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I don't know what you're supposed to do.

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Speaker 8: How do you tell your friend Lee like I don't

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Speaker 3: She said, the baby is always crying and meth is off.

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Speaker 4: You can you can tell your friends like, hey, you know,

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Speaker 3: And I don't think that's bad.

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Speaker 4: And as a mother of a twelve month old, so

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Speaker 3: I've changed my own life. I'm very well aware of that.

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Speaker 4: I am so happy with my choice, and therefore I'm

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Speaker 4: leaving my baby, that's okay. And as friends, I expect

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Speaker 4: but that's like where I'm at, Like, Okay, if I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, But how many times falling in it do your

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Speaker 1: for this. One hundred percent agree. And I don't think

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Speaker 4: Right I have the village. I'm so aware of that,

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Speaker 4: I shouldn't have to be told by you guys, like

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: You have a lot of self awareness about this, Paulic. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And I understand that she's dedicated to being a parent

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Speaker 1: and that's a shame. But you chose to have a kid,

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Speaker 1: and and so you either that's just an extra step

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Speaker 1: I might have to take, or maybe I do. You know,

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Speaker 1: that's another thing. I don't know how many of these

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Speaker 6: I still think you go about it, like Keeky said,

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Speaker 6: So even in the long thing, Hey, we're planning this trip,

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Speaker 6: Hey Maya, I'm so sorry if you can't come because

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Speaker 6: That's a nice way of saying, your baby's not coming

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Speaker 6: and you have to stay home, will miss.

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Speaker 3: You, and you're not being shady about it. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: I'm as a mother, like, we want to be invited,

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Speaker 4: leave whatever. At least I want to get that invite

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Speaker 4: and feel.

435
00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,800
Speaker 3: Included FaceTime you want to then what else you know?

436
00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,000
Speaker 4: But from the mother's perspective, we have to be okay.

437
00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 4: What's staying back and saying Okay, this isn't for me

438
00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:34,320
Speaker 4: do and I don't.

439
00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,360
Speaker 1: Think this woman is. She's proven that, so I guess

440
00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't know how many times I have to ask

441
00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,919
Speaker 1: my friend to go to something the baby shows up

442
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:44,639
Speaker 1: before I'm like okay, he or she's just not getting

443
00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,639
Speaker 1: it and I'm sorry about that, but like this is

444
00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:52,040
Speaker 1: a adult's only trip. Yeah, And I can no longer

445
00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,639
Speaker 1: run the risk of fighting with you about this. I

446
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,760
Speaker 1: think Hey eight five five, five one three five, I

447
00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,080
Speaker 1: love you guys with the Jerry, I'd love to know

448
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:02,440
Speaker 1: what you think. Hey, ky, Hi, how are you, Hi, Ky,

449
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 1: good morning. So what do you think kis court? Essentially,

450
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:06,480
Speaker 1: there's a woman who's part of a friend group who

451
00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:09,000
Speaker 1: brings your kid to everything her baby, and the friends

452
00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,440
Speaker 1: are like, look, we're gonna it's gone on long enough,

453
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 1: We're going on an adult's all girls trip. We don't

454
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:17,000
Speaker 1: want the baby there. So they kind of have planned

455
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:18,040
Speaker 1: this whole thing without her.

456
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Speaker 7: What do you think, Well, I have two toddlers of

457
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,400
Speaker 7: my own. Number one, if I'm going on a girl's trip,

458
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 7: the toddlers for not coming.

459
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:33,159
Speaker 1: With yeah, I mean yeah, And honestly, like I wait.

460
00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:35,320
Speaker 7: For my friends to say, like, oh, the baby is welcome,

461
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,000
Speaker 7: the kids are welcome to come. I don't automatically assume

462
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:41,320
Speaker 7: my children are invited to everything. And I love my

463
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,439
Speaker 7: kids very much, but I don't want them there all

464
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:48,000
Speaker 7: the time. This mom needs to like read the room exactly.

465
00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 7: Like Paulina said, you can't bring your baby everywhere.

466
00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:54,119
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, no, I I think you're right.

467
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, Kate, thank you?

468
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Speaker 4: Or husband, like sometimes I don't want to hang out

469
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Speaker 4: with your husband and your boy friend, like leave them

470
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Speaker 4: at home too.

471
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Speaker 1: I don't think that's any difference. I don't think that's

472
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 1: any different than the girl or the guy that can't

473
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,320
Speaker 1: go anywhere without their significant other. It's like, no, he

474
00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,159
Speaker 1: or she is not invited on this trip. It is not.

475
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 1: It is a guy's trip or a girl's trip. And

476
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Speaker 1: if you then decide I'm bringing my wife or girlfriend, well,

477
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Speaker 1: first of all, that's going to be weird that the

478
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Speaker 1: rest of us don't, or then all of a sudden

479
00:21:19,200 --> 00:21:21,520
Speaker 1: it becomes a whole different kind of trip. Yeah, which,

480
00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 1: I think there's a time and a place for both.

481
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Speaker 3: I agree.

482
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Speaker 1: I think there's a time for us all to go

483
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Speaker 1: somewhere that's kid friendly together. I think it's a time

484
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 1: for us all to go somewhere to get hammered and

485
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 1: not have to worry about the kid or you not

486
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: being being limited as to what you can do because

487
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 1: you got to watch the kid or whatever, like, because

488
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Speaker 1: it does kind of if the intention of the trip

489
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Speaker 1: is for girls to go and have a good time

490
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Speaker 1: and be a little irresponsible, then it does kind of

491
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Speaker 1: put a damper on that, and I don't think that's fair.

492
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Speaker 8: And you know what I feel Lena in this because

493
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 8: you can even say she told her friend like, hey,

494
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Speaker 8: we don't want the baby to come this time. If

495
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,399
Speaker 8: Lena looks up the resort and kids are allowed, she

496
00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,719
Speaker 8: might still say, Hey, I'm bringing her anyway. And then

497
00:21:58,760 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 8: when I hang out with you guys, I just will

498
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,680
Speaker 8: leave the baby with the nanny or with with my

499
00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:02,400
Speaker 8: husband whatever.

500
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Speaker 3: And now it's a family trip.

501
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 8: So I understand Lena's in a tough spot, but I

502
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 8: feel like not telling your friend about the trip at

503
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:09,879
Speaker 8: all is just a little shady.

504
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Speaker 1: Ummm let me see here. I'm going to throw all

505
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:14,720
Speaker 1: the texts. As long as they have times where she

506
00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: can bring her baby, I think it's completely fine for

507
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,760
Speaker 1: this trip to be kid free. However, if they're really

508
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,440
Speaker 1: her friends, they should carve out time for her to

509
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 1: bring her baby. No, they shouldn't. No, they shouldn't.

510
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,920
Speaker 4: I think they mean like other times, like let's go

511
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,639
Speaker 4: to brunch, bring the baby next Friday.

512
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Speaker 1: It sounds like you just invite her somewhere in the

513
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:32,399
Speaker 1: baby comes, they don't have to carve out time. It's

514
00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 1: just this particular trip, we're not doing that. Hey, Emily, Hi, Emily, Hi, Hey,

515
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: good morning. What say you?

516
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Speaker 7: What if the mom is a single mom and she

517
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 7: doesn't have any care for the baby, Hey, look, and.

518
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Speaker 1: I hear that, but but this may not be the

519
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 1: trip for her then, and that's a shame, absolutely right.

520
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 7: I'm just saying the friends need to consider that as well,

521
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 7: and Lena didn't put that in the letter.

522
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, I don't like the whole isolation thing. But again,

523
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 1: I'll say it one more time. How many times you

524
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 1: ask someone or express your needs as a friend group

525
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,399
Speaker 1: and they're ignored Before it's like, well, we can't pause

526
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 1: our lives because this one person can't do the thing

527
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: that we all want to do. I mean, at what

528
00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: point do you do you just sort of do it separately?

529
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I just yeah, I agree. I was a single

530
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:27,240
Speaker 7: mom at one point and so I was able to

531
00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 7: figure things out and I had care. But yeah, you

532
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 7: shouldn't be bringing your baby everywhere. Mom needs mom time.

533
00:23:33,880 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 7: I just it's just a different approach potentially to thinks

534
00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 7: about things that maybe you could include in and have

535
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 7: that conversation versus exclusion.

536
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,960
Speaker 1: It's a very different vibe, Emily. When I'm at the

537
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 1: Senior Frogs in Continental and they're pouring, you know, shots

538
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 1: in my mouth that everyone else's mouth has been attached

539
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 1: to you, and yet there's a baby with a bottle

540
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: next to me. It's a different vibe. We can't have this,

541
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: It's totally.

542
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 7: A different vibe.

543
00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 1: I agree, Emily, don't ForwArt my fun. Have a good day,

544
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,800
Speaker 1: trying to turn up over here and is a baby crying?

545
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 2: Is going on?

546
00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 3: Get rid of the baby.

547
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: It's like the Hangover movie with the baby. What is

548
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:18,439
Speaker 1: this baby doing here? Hey Carlos, Hey, what's going on? Guy? Carlos? Hey? Man,

549
00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 1: what do you? What say you in Kiggi's cord.

550
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 10: Listen man, I say she's got a kick rocks. Listen

551
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 10: what we do and we gotta we gotta. We do

552
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 10: a family like a friends giving every year. You know,

553
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 10: we do a friend's trip as well.

554
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: Every year.

555
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 10: You know, a bunch of couples go to get together

556
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 10: either eat dinner or we do or we do a

557
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 10: trip as well. And you know, it started coming as like, hey,

558
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 10: there's no kids involved. We were pretty you know, specific

559
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 10: on there are no kids invited until one of us.

560
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:44,679
Speaker 1: You know, we're we're old.

561
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 10: I'm forty four years old, so we have older kids now,

562
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 10: you know, so I have a twenty five year old.

563
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 10: My my wife has a twenty seven year old. You know,

564
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 10: so we we're we're older, and so they started on.

565
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 10: One couple started bringing their child because she was twenty three,

566
00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:57,320
Speaker 10: and I was like, what is going on?

567
00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:58,320
Speaker 9: My daughter's out of me here.

568
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 10: We tell them they beat it, you know, And so

569
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,959
Speaker 10: we had to specifically state in our invitations now no offsprings,

570
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 10: because it's just, you.

571
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 1: Know, we just don't allow me.

572
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 10: I don't care if you're an adult. You know, we

573
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 10: talk about things that we shouldn't be talking about around

574
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 10: our children and makes our children uncomfortable. We all pop

575
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:16,680
Speaker 10: gummies and we walk in the door.

576
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 9: You know.

577
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 10: It's one of those that get having fun. Don't freaky

578
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 10: to say, no diddy stuff.

579
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: You guys, are you guys switching partners or something?

580
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: What sort of establish what sort of groups? And are

581
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: you accepting new members?

582
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 10: Don't play well with others? So no, you know, it's

583
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 10: it's just it's something we talk about. You know, there's

584
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,680
Speaker 10: things that you know, even though they're adults, there's just

585
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:41,399
Speaker 10: certain things they shouldn't it shouldn't hear or shouldn't hear

586
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 10: their mother's friends talking about, you know, and it's just

587
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 10: that's it's the rule, and it's no kids, we're having

588
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 10: a good time, we're gonna get wasted. We only do

589
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 10: this once a year, so we're gonna have We're gonna

590
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 10: we're gonna let loose, you know.

591
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 9: So I say she's got to kick rocks.

592
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 1: I think that is I think I think the kick

593
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: rocks is aggressive. But I think I agree with what

594
00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: you're saying. Carlos, Thank you. Have a good day, you too,

595
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: Now run a hang with Carlin. I do too, and

596
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: I would like to see what they're up to. Hey, Brittany,

597
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: good morning. Hey Brittany, So you bring up a good

598
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 1: point in Kiky's court. It's a it's a group of friends.

599
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 1: One always brings her baby and they're getting tired of it.

600
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 1: So as supposed to fighting about it, they've kind of

601
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 1: branched off and they're planning a girl's trip without her

602
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,800
Speaker 1: and kind of leaving her out of the planning process.

603
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: But what do you think?

604
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Speaker 9: Yeah, so my thing is this is an annual trip

605
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 9: and they do it every year. My thing is, you know,

606
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:32,920
Speaker 9: because they do say that you lose friends and you

607
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 9: become a mom. And that's why I just kind of

608
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 9: like upset me when to hear like their thoughts on it.

609
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 9: They both could have went about it a different way.

610
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 9: My thing is, what if the mother was like, oh,

611
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 9: you know, this is our annual trip. What if like

612
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 9: she had a sitter lined up and this is her

613
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 9: had like her first time away from the baby. And

614
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,399
Speaker 9: you know, I mean, because I assume would be that

615
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 9: obviously you're going on a girls trip. I would not

616
00:26:56,920 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 9: bring a baby to that. It's it's different from like

617
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 9: they were going out to life or like we're just

618
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 9: getting together at home. But you know, they didn't even

619
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 9: say like hey, like you know, like just wanting to

620
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:09,359
Speaker 9: ask like are you still going to come with us?

621
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,399
Speaker 9: You know, they didn't even take it into consideration. They

622
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,360
Speaker 9: just find it without her. So I totally understand where

623
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 9: she's coming from and being upset. I would be upset

624
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 9: too if somebody didn't include me.

625
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and pretty I hear you, and I agree

626
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 1: with that. I gotta believe them. We don't know this,

627
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: but I'm just I'm of the mindset that these folks

628
00:27:26,560 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: are only doing this now because it's a fight every time.

629
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: I gotta think this is a lie. If this is

630
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: just a one time deal she had a baby and

631
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: that we're not inviting her anymore. But we don't know,

632
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 1: do these other girls have kids. Are these other women

633
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,920
Speaker 1: having to accommodate for the kids? I mean, you know,

634
00:27:42,680 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: in the past, have you made suggestions like, well, why

635
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: don't you leave your baby with my babysitter or with

636
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 1: my husband or with my you know, my mom will

637
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,360
Speaker 1: watch both of them so we can go. We don't

638
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 1: know any of this, but I'd like to believe that

639
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: if I start not being invited to things, it's because

640
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 1: I simply won't adjust. I'd like to believe that's.

641
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 9: The case, right, right, right, But for this specific events,

642
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 9: sansitive annually they go every yere I would have just

643
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 9: brought it up to them, like do you still want

644
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 9: to be included? Are you going to have a sitter? Like,

645
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,479
Speaker 9: just so we can plan accordingly. But I mean they

646
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 9: didn't even give rid of the options. So it was

647
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 9: a miscommunication on both ings. They both have communicated.

648
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: I get it.

649
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 10: I get it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Brittany. Have a good day. You're

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Speaker 1: glad you called. I don't know, kids closed. What do

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Speaker 1: you think?

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Speaker 8: Man, you're the judge, Lena, listen you you are right

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Speaker 8: to not want that baby around.

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Speaker 3: Some people don't want to hear it. I don't want

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00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,160
Speaker 3: to hit that crying. How happened? This is your friend.

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00:28:35,520 --> 00:28:37,400
Speaker 3: You could have text her and let her know about

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Speaker 3: the trip.

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Speaker 1: Man's when I.

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00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 3: Find out my friends got separate group chats behind my back.

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Speaker 3: You shady for having to me? Mm hmm, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 1: Put me in a group chat, man, Cancel the reservation

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Speaker 1: at Chippendale. Can't come now. No, baby's a lot in there.

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Speaker 1: No baby, they don't need to be. They're not ready

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Speaker 1: to be. Seeing what happens in that thing, you know,

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Speaker 1: it gets wow, man,