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Speaker 1: What's up. We're giving you a little extra fun always

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Speaker 1: on a Saturday. Hey, it's working Jeffrey in the morning,

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Speaker 1: and you found the podcast, uh huh. And today we

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Speaker 1: give you two double classics, with the idea being that

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Speaker 1: maybe on the weekend you need something a little bit

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Speaker 1: longer to get your life finished. Whether it's chores. I

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Speaker 1: know a lot of people listen to a lot of

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Speaker 1: chores or they're falling asleep. Yeah, we get a lot

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Speaker 1: of both of those, yes, yep, or drive in whatever

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Speaker 1: it is. And we love reading your comments.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, and this listener also listens to us when

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Speaker 2: they do something else. They said, you have a listener

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Speaker 2: in Columbia. I'm always listening to you guys when walking

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Speaker 2: my dogs, and I look a little funny when laughing

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Speaker 2: out loud while crossing the streets in Columbia.

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Speaker 3: Do your dogs, jah joh John laugh along with you?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's one of the most beautiful countries.

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Thank you so much. Ysting wherever you are

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Speaker 1: and enjoy the next two classic second date updates.

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Speaker 5: The most disappointing thing about a good rom com is

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Speaker 5: knowing that relation ships aren't like that. In real life.

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Speaker 5: I mean, when I've been walking down the street and

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Speaker 5: like a gorgeous woman has only tripped and fallen directly

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Speaker 5: into my arms like four or five.

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Speaker 1: Times or never, Jeff.

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Speaker 5: And then there was that one time I accidentally swapped

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Speaker 5: bodies with a thirteen year old in a lightning storm.

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Speaker 5: I moved, I became a kid for a week while

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Speaker 1: That's kind of weird. Yeah, But other than that, never

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Speaker 1: never happened, never never becomes reality now.

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Speaker 5: But today one of our listeners decided his goal was

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Speaker 5: to bring the magic of rom coms to his dating life,

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Speaker 5: and he went all out with it. You're gonna hear

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Speaker 5: it in your second Date update right after this Second

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Speaker 5: Date updated. Man, we've been hearing from our listeners, especially

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Speaker 5: in the last couple of years, that the dating landscape

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Speaker 5: is more bleak than ever.

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Speaker 1: But like this is the theme song for it, Jeff.

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Speaker 5: We know what I do. Appreciate the guys out there

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Speaker 5: who aren't backing down and aren't giving up. For sure,

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Speaker 5: it's tough for them to land a date, but when

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Speaker 5: they do, they get creative with it. I love that,

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Speaker 5: like a dumpster diving dinner date.

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Speaker 1: We did have that Yeah, that was misguided effort.

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Speaker 5: But unique or a blindfolded romantic trust walk across a freeway.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 5: Nothing brings you together like that type of experience.

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Speaker 1: You're very far apart depending on who gets hit, well,

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Speaker 1: it'll bring you together in the same hospital room.

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Speaker 5: And one of our listeners, Ben said he went creative

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Speaker 5: with his date idea and before we even hear it,

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Speaker 5: Brook's gonna give her sign of approval just for trying.

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Speaker 1: Whenever you ask for my approval before I hear something,

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Speaker 1: it's usually because something is not a good idea.

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Speaker 5: I don't even know what the date it is.

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Speaker 1: You don't, okay, then I think it's good for you.

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Speaker 6: Ben.

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Speaker 1: I love the Yeah, sorry, I thought I was getting

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Speaker 1: tricked by free That happens a lot on the show.

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Speaker 3: That you don't trust any Mann.

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Speaker 1: No, I just don't trust him.

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Speaker 6: It's true.

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Speaker 5: We want to hear what was this creative date idea

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Speaker 5: that you came up with.

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Speaker 6: So in order to understand this date, you kind of

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Speaker 6: have to understand, like how we bonded. Okay, So Amanda

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Speaker 6: and I we met on an app and we bonded

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Speaker 6: over movies, like we both really love movies.

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Speaker 1: If you were about to say you took her to

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Speaker 6: But yeah, so I had this idea that our first

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Speaker 1: Movie theme date, not going to the movies, but movie theme.

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Speaker 5: What does that mean?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 6: Well, I thought about it. I wanted to have something

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so you did Air Force one together and

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Speaker 5: hijack the plane.

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Speaker 1: That's fine.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, I was thinking like date movies, but

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Speaker 6: I like your ideas too, But what did you go with?

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Speaker 6: I decided to do like different movie scenes because I

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Speaker 1: Okay, so what'd you pick?

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Speaker 5: The recreating famous date movie scenes.

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Speaker 6: Like iconic scenes from movies like for example, the first

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Speaker 6: thing we did was we had a Shrek themed picnic.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think that's a cute thing.

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Speaker 5: Of course, Brook thinks a swamp date is cute as.

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Speaker 2: Long as she figures out the movie associated with it.

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Speaker 5: She got it.

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Speaker 6: She got it right away. Well, it helped. I was

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Speaker 6: talking like Shrek too, you know, it's doing my Shrek voice.

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Speaker 1: So what was next? What happened after the Shrek Picnic?

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Speaker 6: Then I wanted to do like an activity and it

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Speaker 6: was this pottery studio right around the corner from the pond.

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Speaker 1: Like Patrick Swayze ghosts what.

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Speaker 6: You're saying, that's exactly it. So we had the potter wheel.

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Speaker 5: And well, hold on, did you die and come back

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Speaker 5: as a ghost first? In order to do this problem?

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Speaker 6: No, I kept my shirt on.

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Speaker 1: You didn't awkwardly go behind her, did you?

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Speaker 6: Maybe I did, but you know it's a weird or

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: What was her response?

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Speaker 6: I think she said, are you really doing this?

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Speaker 5: Are you really doing this? As in like, wow, this

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Speaker 1: Tone is going to be really important on that sentence,

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Speaker 1: and unfortunately we cannot rect.

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Speaker 5: I'm going to assume that she loved it, so I

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Speaker 6: I thought she was into it. She even said that

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Speaker 5: Take us to the third and final love scene. What

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Speaker 6: So at the end, I had a couple of options.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let her choose.

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Speaker 6: So I told her, like, we could do the dirty

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Speaker 5: Are you even physically capable of that?

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Speaker 6: I think I could take her?

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Speaker 1: I think, did you really leaning into these? Patrick Swayze? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: What was the other option?

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 1: How would you do that?

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Speaker 5: Hould her upside down?

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Speaker 6: There was a tree out there with a branch there.

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Speaker 1: It is did you really hang upside down from a tree?

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Speaker 5: Which one did she choose?

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Speaker 6: Actually, she didn't choose either one of those?

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Speaker 1: Probably for the best.

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Speaker 6: What she recommended that we do the handshake scene from

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Speaker 6: Wolf of Wall Street.

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Speaker 5: Oh I don't know, I remember.

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Speaker 6: In other words, she just gave me a handshake, very

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Speaker 5: All right, So is that how you guys left it?

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Speaker 5: With a firm handshake?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, that was it. And she thanked me for

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Speaker 6: she said, yeah, let's see if we can make that happen.

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Speaker 5: We just went over a list of things that people

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Speaker 1: Somebody, we'll totally get together. Yeah, sure, have you contacted her?

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Speaker 6: I texted her and I messaged her in the app,

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Speaker 6: and I haven't heard from well, I haven't heard back

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Speaker 6: you guys can help me hook up that Spider Man kiss.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean you put in a lot of effort. Whether

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Speaker 5: just the effort alone is worth another shot.

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Speaker 3: You're even this. He's on a radio show to get

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Speaker 5: It should be Oh, is that sleepless sleepless in Seattle?

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Speaker 5: She calls into a radio show. She does, We're going

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Speaker 1: I do kind of remember that.

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Speaker 5: Now we're gonna hook you up on top of the

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Speaker 1: At least the end is definitely Empire State Building a

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Speaker 5: No, Alexis, leave the room. We're gonna do a second

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Speaker 5: date update right after this second date update. Three romantic

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Speaker 5: movie scenes recreated in one very steamy.

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Speaker 1: Date because the pond next to them love.

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Speaker 5: Them moisture coming up from that.

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Speaker 5: Our listener Bend bonded with a woman named Amanda over

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Speaker 5: fun to recreate the swamp picnic from the Shrek movie.

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Speaker 1: It's actually really cute.

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Speaker 5: The pottery scene from Ghost, and after she rejected the

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Speaker 5: upside down Spider Man kiss, they settled on a regular handshake.

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Speaker 1: Okay, very business like Wolf of Wall Street.

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Speaker 5: That's right hot. Now did something been in the middle

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Speaker 5: But Ben, I need to ask you. When you were

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Speaker 5: reaching around her at the pottery place, you were feeling normal? Right?

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Speaker 1: Oh god?

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Speaker 6: Jeff oh yeah, yeah, what you mean?

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Speaker 1: Brook?

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Speaker 5: You know how these go? I mean we had asked

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Speaker 5: that question, but you understand the physical reaction that pottery

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Speaker 1: It does for me, what happened in your art class

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Speaker 1: in high school? Jeffrey, I don't want to know.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'll ask my art teacher to send you the

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Speaker 5: video if you're really that interesting the videos. Yes, Ben,

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Speaker 5: it was all kosher in the pottery place.

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Speaker 6: It was just pottery.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's the best answer. Pottery is really hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like I've taken a pottery class before.

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of us are feeling hot right now?

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Speaker 1: Do you not say anything?

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Speaker 5: Let's get more people in on this action. Were dialing

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Speaker 5: Amanda right now here we go. Hello, Hey, we're looking

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Speaker 5: to speak with Amanda. Is she Hey Amanda, my name

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Speaker 5: is jeff You're on the radio right now with a

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Speaker 1: Hey Amanda, Oh, Amanda, good morning.

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Speaker 5: Don't hang up.

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Speaker 7: What's up.

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Speaker 5: We're doing a segment called a second Date Update, which

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Speaker 7: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 5: And so the guy that reached out to us about you,

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Speaker 5: his name is Ben. Okay, yeah, does that make sense?

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Speaker 7: That does make sense?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 5: So basically, we have heard from Ben about your guys,

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Speaker 5: is recreate a movie date.

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Speaker 1: He put a lot of thought and energy into it

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Speaker 8: Yeah, so I don't know how many details he gave you.

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Speaker 7: A lot.

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Speaker 5: We heard Shrek Ghost and then you guys settled on

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Speaker 5: a Wolf of Wall Street thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and shake at the end.

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Speaker 9: Okay, which was your right let me yes ghast pottery,

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Speaker 8: Had told me that the last thing was going to

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Speaker 8: other dates, like you know, we could stop this right

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Speaker 8: now and just do pretty woman.

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Speaker 1: Pretty woman, Oh where he pays you for your services?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, where he's a businessman and she's a hooker.

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Speaker 1: You know, he wanted to be the person who took

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Speaker 5: Meant, a hook Yeah, she's very respectable in that movie.

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Speaker 1: But he wanted to kiss. They don't kiss a pretty woman.

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Speaker 9: Even if even if he did mean I want to

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Speaker 9: and like it was already pretty elaborate, you guys. It

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Speaker 1: So wait, you're upset that he brought up pretty Woman

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Speaker 8: It just was a little oogie Okay, his intentions didn't

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Speaker 5: But ogre swamp picnic felt right to you.

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Speaker 9: It was multiple references to that, you guys.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I see what you're feeling. Young people call it

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Speaker 5: When I don't want to like bring up any more

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Speaker 6: Beny there, I am here, and let me tell you

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Speaker 6: I feel exactly like the guys from Dude, where's my car?

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Speaker 6: Right now?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? You're hungover?

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Speaker 7: On your back, you're high?

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Speaker 1: Like, what do you mean that?

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Speaker 6: Like, I'm just totally confused, you know.

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Speaker 1: Confused or something that you know liked confused in the title.

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Speaker 5: Why are you so confused?

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Speaker 6: Well, I just had no idea, Like so when I

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Speaker 6: I forgot she was a prostitute. That's not why I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's the whole plot of the movie.

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Speaker 1: You could have chosen something better.

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Speaker 6: Well, it definitely was not my intention. I was not

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Speaker 1: You have to say that after it's always a good things,

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Speaker 1: not try to imply that.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I totally get it.

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Speaker 5: Are you hearing him, Amanda? Do you see where he's

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Speaker 5: coming from.

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Speaker 7: I don't know how you forget that part?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, escort thing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that's kind of the key.

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Speaker 1: So wait, are you not believing him, Amanda? Is that

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I guess not.

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Speaker 5: Well, you got to look on the bright side, Amand

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Speaker 5: at least he didn't bring up Silence of the Lambs. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: thank you and turn you into.

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Speaker 9: There was no less nor skin like, there were no

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Speaker 7: I appreciate.

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Speaker 5: Okay, see now we're thinking, we're thinking positive here.

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Speaker 6: I also kind of meant it as a compliment because

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Speaker 3: That's what Alexis just said. You can hear what she's

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Speaker 5: So this is a little bit awkward.

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Speaker 6: Right now, A little yeah.

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Speaker 5: But the way that we can make this all better

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Speaker 5: is if Amanda, you're willing to give Ben one more

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Speaker 1: You could do a do over and do fifty first

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Speaker 5: Time, So we're fifty shades of first date, you know.

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Speaker 7: So if you guys are going to send us to Hawaii,

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Speaker 7: then I'm in.

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Speaker 3: But I have the money.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well we'll pay for the taxi to the airport,

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Speaker 5: then you handle the rest. So Ben, do you have

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Speaker 3: Does it have to be movies?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 5: Yes, Well, I mean that's how they bonded.

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Speaker 6: Movies are kind of our thing.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: I mean, i'd really like to do like a basic instinct.

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Speaker 1: That's like a scary stalker, isn't it.

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Speaker 5: He meant it as like she's pretty.

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Speaker 6: She's beautiful, beautiful.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure.

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Speaker 5: Ben, I'm gonna ask you again, maybe try something different,

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Speaker 1: You started with Shrek Dude, some.

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Speaker 5: Cute what movie do you have in mind for that

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Speaker 6: I'll be honest, I keep thinking about this and how

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Speaker 5: Dance scene, all right, you know, Ben, I think just

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Speaker 8: Ben?

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Speaker 5: I think your heart is in the right place, for sure,

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Speaker 6: I mean, I just like a lot of movies.

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Speaker 5: I just like your mind is scaring her though, Ben?

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Speaker 1: So is she even on the phone.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, Amanda. Are you still there?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? I'm not sure why.

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Speaker 5: Well, Amanda, I'm sorry for all of this, but best

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Speaker 5: of luck in the dating pool. Ben, you got a

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Speaker 5: lot of work to do. Yeah, Man, I go away

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Speaker 1: Maybe stick with coms, dude, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I can try that. I guess. I am really

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Speaker 3: Ben.

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Speaker 5: The good news is a lot of single women are

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Speaker 1: Now, And.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: You know what, that could have been a really sweet

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean it wasn't subtle like I see

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Speaker 1: There, But I mean, and she tried, she tried to

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Speaker 5: You know what. I do believe there is a woman

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Speaker 5: That's my dream.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to relate a little more.

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Speaker 5: I'm telling you somebody out there for everybody, and we

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Speaker 5: can help you find them. Email the show. We can

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Speaker 5: call that person who's not calling you back and go

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Speaker 5: check out all of our second dates wherever you get

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Speaker 5: your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 5: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. And don't you

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Speaker 5: hate it when you're having a normal conversation with someone

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Speaker 5: hard to know how to react properly to something that's shocking. True.

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Speaker 5: That's exactly how our listener Vincent felt when he got

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Speaker 5: right after this second date update. Does it change your mentality?

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Speaker 5: If you're going out on a date with someone and

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Speaker 1: I imagine immediately trust fund kid.

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Speaker 5: Yeah is that bad?

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Speaker 1: I was smart, but I was completes.

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Speaker 5: I see where you're coming from. Like if I matched

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Speaker 5: what I'm thinking. What she can do my Texas? I

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Speaker 3: Can you help.

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Speaker 1: How many jobs you you know, they still have communications

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Speaker 5: I don't believe it, but now, seriously, it is possible

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Speaker 6: Y'all?

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Speaker 4: So, uh, I met this girl on an app Blair,

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Speaker 4: So well, so I replied, are you in therapy? And

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Speaker 1: Oh I am so with you. Oh boy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I have friends that are therapists, and every time I

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Speaker 3: And we're talking to a girl on tender Ones and

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Speaker 5: Is that how you felt, Vincent?

457
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

458
00:21:27,840 --> 00:21:29,160
Speaker 4: I mean, you guys hit the nail on the head.

459
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:29,439
Speaker 7: I was.

460
00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,959
Speaker 4: I was immediately nervous because she was going to be

461
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:36,360
Speaker 4: you know, smart and analytical. And I actually changed the location.

462
00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,560
Speaker 4: I text her a different address to like a nicer,

463
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:39,879
Speaker 4: more upscale boll.

464
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 5: She knows she's not just breaking down you as a person,

465
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 5: She's breaking down all of the choices that you make too.

466
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 5: So probably a good call.

467
00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 1: So funny. Did it make you more nervous?

468
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 4: Oh for sure? Yeah. I mean I actually started to

469
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 4: feel hyper aware. And I think I just like say,

470
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,240
Speaker 4: sat and everything I was saying, and I just think

471
00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 4: I came off weird.

472
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 1: Okay, you were.

473
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 5: Uncomfortable, so you still did go out on the date?

474
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 4: Then? Uh, yeah, we met in person and she was

475
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 4: really beautiful and nice and like very warm.

476
00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: Okay, and did you get an invoice for your session?

477
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,919
Speaker 4: Well, she actually made a joke just like that. She

478
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:24,199
Speaker 4: said I was listening a lot and she was talking

479
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 4: and maybe she should pay me.

480
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,879
Speaker 1: That's a big compliment.

481
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 5: Were you like trying to be really listening and attentive

482
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 5: to her? Was that an accident an accident or it could.

483
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 1: Be just how he is as a person. I feel

484
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:39,360
Speaker 1: like it's out of fear that she'll notice any red.

485
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 5: Sometimes I go in like wanting to be super confident,

486
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 5: and then I say nothing, and I'm like, oops, is

487
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 5: that the case?

488
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 4: I did try to listen more than I spoke, but

489
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 4: then as soon as she called it out and I

490
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 4: opened up a little bit more. And then if I'm

491
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 4: being honest, and then I started to like talk about

492
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 4: my own childhood. I had no idea how I got

493
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Speaker 4: into it.

494
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:03,199
Speaker 1: No, I mean, okay, but childhood can be a common

495
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 1: topic on a first date, right like where you grew

496
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 1: up and.

497
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 3: Or if you were bothing, like self deprecating, and I go,

498
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 3: what was the vibe?

499
00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, although I would say something that I think was

500
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,959
Speaker 4: like self deprecating and she'd inquire more about it.

501
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 1: Oh, you wanted to laugh there?

502
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

503
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,120
Speaker 4: So anyway, I just sort of feel like, maybe if

504
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 4: I had been less worried and just more relaxed, and

505
00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:27,080
Speaker 4: if you're.

506
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: So intimidated by or do you want to go out

507
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: with her again, like you think you can get rid

508
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: of those nerves.

509
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:34,879
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe after one date the nerves are gone and

510
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 3: now you.

511
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 5: Feel like you're comfortable.

512
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,919
Speaker 4: I honestly wish I could do a redo, because I

513
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 4: really think that if I just took myself out of

514
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 4: the equation.

515
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 5: We would have a nice time, Okay.

516
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 1: If I wasn't there, it would have been fantastic.

517
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:48,919
Speaker 5: So I don't want to think this for you. But

518
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 5: is it possible that maybe you said too much about

519
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 5: your childhood and the things you were into and the

520
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 5: animals used to cut up and sew back together.

521
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: As long as they were already dead. Yeah, well my

522
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 1: uncle put a zipper on a squirrel once, serial killer.

523
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,920
Speaker 5: Not the right person. A second, I'm saying, do you

524
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,040
Speaker 5: think you you delved too deep into your own childhood

525
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 5: with her?

526
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 4: I don't think so. There's no squirrels with zippers in

527
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 4: my past.

528
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 5: Okay, Well it could be a totally different reason. How

529
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 5: long has it been since you talked to her about

530
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 5: a week ago?

531
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, she's a career woman. Maybe she's just

532
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 1: too busy. She's not even no one's.

533
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,160
Speaker 2: Too busy to text them one they like sorry.

534
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,959
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, yeah, that's sort of what I'm thinking too,

535
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 4: because I've asked her if she wants to go out

536
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 4: again and shook it back to me, but she won't

537
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,440
Speaker 4: actually answer the going out part.

538
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 1: Oh, but she's so good at mine tricks.

539
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, Harvard, Well, I'm excited to go mono emano with

540
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 5: her on the phone and maybe get myself some free therapy.

541
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:00,760
Speaker 5: If she's up for it, about on her.

542
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,440
Speaker 3: And break her down live on the air. She's gonna cry.

543
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: I wonder she takes our company's insurance.

544
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 5: Okay, we're gonna ask her. I hope you're cool with that, Vincent.

545
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 5: We're gonna take care of ourselves first and then try

546
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 5: and get you a second date update right after this.

547
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 4: Thanks, guys, whatever works.

548
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 5: I'm up for man hold on second date update if

549
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 5: you're just joining us, our listener. Vincent thinks he may

550
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 5: have psyched himself out right before his first date started.

551
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 5: Sounds like it because earlier that day he learned that

552
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:36,720
Speaker 5: Blair is a professional therapist, and that made him feel anxious,

553
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 5: a little hesitant, worried that she might be super analytical

554
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 5: of him. He should have felt excited, though.

555
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 3: Really, I think everybody agreed that it was a little.

556
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 5: Well, I've never had a therapy session end with my

557
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 5: pants still on, although.

558
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:53,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's not a good sign.

559
00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 5: Well I do pay extra for it, so anyway, there's

560
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 5: a word therapy somewhere in there. His though his date

561
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 5: ended fully clothed with a little bit of oversharing into

562
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 5: his childhood past, so she wishes that he could get

563
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 5: a redo on the whole thing.

564
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 1: I think we've all been there where your mouth is

565
00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: just spewing out words and your head is.

566
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:21,600
Speaker 5: Like, no, don't say that, Vincent. If Blair does pick

567
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 5: up here, we're not gonna mention that her job like

568
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 5: affected your mindset for the date. We don't want her

569
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:28,159
Speaker 5: to know that.

570
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 1: Oh really, I don't think it'd be good to be

571
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,159
Speaker 1: honest with a therapists used to it everybody. It seems

572
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: like she'd understands.

573
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 5: Well at least. We don't want to offer that up

574
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 5: right off the bat.

575
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:38,159
Speaker 6: I'll give you that.

576
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 5: Let's see how she felt about the date first. Are

577
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 5: you cool with that?

578
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 4: Vince?

579
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 7: Yeah?

580
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:47,600
Speaker 4: Whatever the play is.

581
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 5: Okay, play out.

582
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:49,439
Speaker 1: I mean the thing is, are you ready to be

583
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: cool because eventually you will be on the phone with

584
00:26:54,800 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: We don't need any more childhood stories, okay, or save

585
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: an embarrassing one and toss it in there for us.

586
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 5: We're down for a little bit of juice. So we're

587
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 5: gonna dial Blair right now. We'll see if she picks up.

588
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 5: Good luck to us all here. We go. Hello, Hi,

589
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 5: we're looking to speak with Blair.

590
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 7: Yes, this is her.

591
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 5: Hey Blair, how you doing today?

592
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 7: I'm doing well? How are you?

593
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 5: Thanks? Morning?

594
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: Hey Blair. Welcome to the show show.

595
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:33,200
Speaker 7: Who is this?

596
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 5: Yeah? This is a radio show. We're called Brooke and

597
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah.

598
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 7: Ah, oh okay. What can I help you with?

599
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 5: Well, we have a lot of problems and we're hoping

600
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 5: that you could work through them with us. You've got

601
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 5: to pick one of us because it's gonna be.

602
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: A long time.

603
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 5: But there is actually a really big issue that we're

604
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 5: looking to fix today right now on the phone with

605
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 5: one of our listeners, that you went on a date

606
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 5: with named Vincent.

607
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 7: Ah oh okay, this is very fascinating. Why would he

608
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 7: contact you?

609
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,360
Speaker 5: Well, because he really had a good time with you

610
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 5: and he was hoping to see you again for another date,

611
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 5: but that hasn't materialized yet, so he isn't sure if

612
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 5: there's a reason why.

613
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, how can I help?

614
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,400
Speaker 5: Well, maybe we could just start with what was your

615
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 5: take on the date with Vincent? How did you feel

616
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 5: about it?

617
00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 7: It was fine? It fine seems like a good word

618
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,160
Speaker 7: for it. He's beemed like a pleasant guy.

619
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 5: It was fine. Isn't usually a good word?

620
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: He well, that's why was there anything bad that happened?

621
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 3: That's a good question.

622
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 7: I mean he was a little nervous, but aren't we

623
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 7: all when we're first meeting somebody, And.

624
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: That could actually be kind of endearing because it means

625
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:44,479
Speaker 1: that he cares.

626
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 5: Right, it's you get nervous when you meet people too.

627
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 5: Sometimes she never gets nervous.

628
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: Bro have any issues?

629
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 3: Us issues?

630
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 7: I see, So he told you what I do for

631
00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 7: a living.

632
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: Yeah is that okay?

633
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:07,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, of course he knows I'm a therapist, but he

634
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 7: probably doesn't know I'm a past life regression therapist.

635
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: What's that?

636
00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 6: What is that?

637
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 5: What?

638
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 7: I help individuals access memories or experienced from previous lifetime

639
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 7: to address current emotional and psychological, spiritual She's like unlocked.

640
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,160
Speaker 5: No, because I've heard of people when they breakthroughs, they'll

641
00:29:29,200 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 5: be like, I unlocked his memory for She's talking about

642
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 5: like you were a king in the sixteen hundred.

643
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 3: Waits therapy for other lives.

644
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 5: Yes, how that affects who you are in this new life?

645
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 3: She almost got my money. I would have signed up immediately.

646
00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 5: Okay, well, let's be polite. This is her career.

647
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: Sorry I didn't understand fully.

648
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 5: Okay, so that's my apology. We we did not know that.

649
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 7: Some people don't understand it. But it is something I've

650
00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 7: been practicing for over a decade.

651
00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 5: Okay, we did not know that specific We just heard therapist. Yes, okay.

652
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: So what does that have to do though, with why

653
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: you aren't calling him back? Well or you just explaining

654
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 1: that to us.

655
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 7: I usually don't have a personal connection to people that

656
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 7: I date, but in this case I did. I was

657
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 7: home and really thought about it. And I know this

658
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 7: is going to sound silly. I believe in a past

659
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,640
Speaker 7: life he was my dog.

660
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 5: Was your dog in a previous lifetime.

661
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 7: I know what I know.

662
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: How did you come to that realization? Walk us through

663
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:45,240
Speaker 1: the steps?

664
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:51,520
Speaker 7: I had many memories of rubbing his belly, him licking

665
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 7: me like a dog. And I know it sounds silly,

666
00:30:56,080 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 7: but what a coincidence. I mean this is I've been

667
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 7: doing this a long time and I knew I felt

668
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 7: some sort of connection and I couldn't figure it out.

669
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 3: He's such a good boy. He found you all timelines.

670
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 5: He found you again.

671
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: So is dating your past dog off off the table?

672
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 5: Because Brooks hometown that's encouraged.

673
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 7: I know you're having fun with this and it seems weird. Well,

674
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 7: but what do I say, Like, how do I tell

675
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 7: him I can't date him? He was once my dog?

676
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: I say, to your credit, you have been a really

677
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: good sport with us.

678
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we can tell you're not messing with us.

679
00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 5: The good news is you don't have to figure out

680
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 5: how to tell him, because you already have. He's actually

681
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 5: on the other line listening to this conversation.

682
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,040
Speaker 3: Good, very well behaved.

683
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 5: During this entire thing. Vincent, are you there?

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Speaker 4: This is truly not where I thought.

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Speaker 6: This was.

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Speaker 1: None of us.

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Speaker 5: Okay, talk to your previous owner. Say, hi, I'm Blair.

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Speaker 4: So you're saying that you had like visions that I

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Speaker 4: was your dog in another life.

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Speaker 7: Yes, there's been multiple visions of me walking you around

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Speaker 7: in a farm. Yeah, you didn't feel the connection either.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I didn't put two and two together with

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Speaker 4: a dog.

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Speaker 5: Blair. Do you have like a century or a decade

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Speaker 5: when this previous life happened.

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Speaker 7: Yes, this is way back. This is the eighteen hundreds.

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Speaker 5: Oh oh look at that.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, a working dog at that point.

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Speaker 4: You know, how come I'm a dog and you're a

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Speaker 4: human in these visions. It was I not a human before.

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Speaker 7: There's nothing wrong with being a dog. I mean, animals

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Speaker 7: are such a sacred part of our living, and it's

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Speaker 7: just it's not something that you were once my dog.

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Speaker 7: It's not something I now I will feel like I'm

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Speaker 7: walking the fields to you every time I see you.

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Speaker 7: It's not something I want to have in my romantic relationships.

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Speaker 5: It's not that he was a dog in a past life.

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Speaker 5: It's that he was your dog, Okay, because.

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Speaker 3: You already had that connection.

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Speaker 5: Trying to figure out where we go from, Vincent, this

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Speaker 5: all makes sense to you, right, Really, that's the question, Brook.

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Speaker 1: I need to see where his head is at, which

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Speaker 1: tail is wagging? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Are you understanding what she's saying?

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Speaker 4: I'm hearing it. I don't know if I'm understanding that.

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Speaker 1: Your first question not what type of dog? But you

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Speaker 1: can I mean, I've been thinking about that too, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know what was popular back in the eighteen hundreds.

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Speaker 1: Maybe espaniel, cattle dog, cat dog, cat Okay, yeah, energy

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Speaker 1: those dogs.

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Speaker 5: Vincent, you can understand where she's coming from. If you

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Speaker 5: were in her position, you wouldn't want to date a

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Speaker 5: woman who had previously been your fish or your cat

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Speaker 5: or something, right, that'd be.

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Speaker 4: This whole thing is weird. It's hard to believe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, what do you want to say.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I want to date in my old cat.

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Speaker 1: Come on, I mean, if you look at it from

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Speaker 1: the other perspective, right, Like dog is man's best friend,

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Speaker 1: he's loyal, Like these are all good qualities in a relationship.

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Speaker 5: This is Brook advocating for a human dog.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, trying, oh yeah, for her to give him a chance.

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Speaker 4: Thank you Brook.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so, Vincent, you're still interested in dating Blair even

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Speaker 5: though previously you used to be her pet.

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Speaker 4: I mean allegedly if I was her pet, I have

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Speaker 4: no memory of it.

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Speaker 1: Well until you go through a session with her.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can absolutely help you with that. We can

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Speaker 7: book a session right now.

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, that's great, But what we're interested in booking

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Speaker 5: is a date. If you're willing to give Vincent another shot.

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Speaker 4: Listen, you said we had a pleasant time. You really

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Speaker 4: don't think we can get past this.

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Speaker 7: I would love to have a connection, but I don't

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Speaker 7: think it's best that we date.

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Speaker 5: But maybe she'd be willing to play fetch in the

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Speaker 5: park with you. One time, I.

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Speaker 1: Would know what we all wear in a past life.

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Speaker 4: I bet no.

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Speaker 5: I think you were probably a parrot jose.

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Speaker 1: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Man as a dude. I thought being friend zoned is bad,

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Speaker 5: but being pet zoned that's way worse.

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Speaker 1: Do you call it past life zoned?

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Speaker 3: A paste zone?

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Speaker 5: Oh? It is brutal and there and there's nothing that

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Speaker 5: you can even say as a guy in that position.

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Speaker 5: Whether you believe it or not, it doesn't matter. In

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Speaker 5: her mind. You're always just going to be that pet

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Speaker 5: that she owned two hundred years ago on that farm.

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Speaker 3: Dude has been trying to hump her leg for hundreds

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Speaker 3: of years.

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Speaker 1: It's like, it's enough to know about somebody's current life.

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Speaker 5: Let alone all bringing on the baggage from all their

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Speaker 5: not to make a successful doctor.

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Speaker 3: And she's like, yeah, but you were like a goat

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Speaker 3: in the fourteen hundred. Yeah, don't get ahead of yourself.

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Speaker 1: I saw you eat garbage.

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Speaker 5: It's gonna be a tough road for her and for him,

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Speaker 5: but we're always here to help either of them if

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Speaker 5: they need help going forward, or you you can always

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Speaker 5: email the show. We'll call that person who isn't calling you.

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Speaker 5: Back and go check out all of our second dates

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Speaker 5: wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey