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Speaker 1: Welcome back to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 1: I'm Nila.

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Speaker 2: And it's motherfucking Wednesday in the jungle beach.

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Speaker 1: What's up, beaches? Do you hear the birds.

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Speaker 2: Chirping?

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Speaker 1: We're back in the jungle and it feels so good.

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Speaker 1: I feel home, like I'm at home.

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Speaker 2: Can we just take a moment of silence to possibly?

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Speaker 2: I mean, we do have some nice micros. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: don't know who's gonna pick it, might not pick up

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Speaker 2: the chirps, but just humor me. Give me like ten

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Speaker 2: seconds of silence ready. We all need a we need

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Speaker 2: a clearing If you're watching YouTube right now anyway, I

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Speaker 2: think we all just need to take a breath together.

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Speaker 3: Let's too bad.

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Speaker 1: I think we always need to do that. I think

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Speaker 1: so too. How are you? I'm wonderful? What's going on?

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Speaker 2: I'm in a beautiful home in Costa Rica. My titties

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Speaker 2: are out, I'm not wearing a bra, my skin is clear,

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Speaker 2: my stomach doesn't hurt from toxic as American food.

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Speaker 1: Amen. Life is good.

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Speaker 2: I made seventeen twenty new friends in the past five days.

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Speaker 2: Learned so much from all of them. Sitting with my

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Speaker 2: best friend recording a podcast and the jungle or Tribe

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Speaker 2: husband just showed up. It's mother fucking birthday in a

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Speaker 2: few days. I mean, what life is. Life is fucking great.

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Speaker 1: Life is great. I really can't complain. Every time I

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Speaker 1: get stressed about some shit, I'm like, bitch, bitchhut the

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Speaker 1: fuck up, bitch, you stressed about the wrong shit. And

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Speaker 1: I'm so grateful. I mean, just waking up here, I'm

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Speaker 1: constantly pinching myself, like, what the fuck is this my life?

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Speaker 1: Did I make twenty new friends in Costa Rica? Do

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Speaker 1: they all listen to me and come here? Every time

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Speaker 1: I get a new group, I'm like, you bitches must

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Speaker 1: really trust us because it's a long journey to paradise

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Speaker 1: and they become open and ready and happy. And this

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Speaker 1: is also our one year Good Vibe Retreat anniversary. My love,

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Speaker 1: I know, I know.

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Speaker 2: And for those of you who are like, what the

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Speaker 2: fuck are we talking about, maybe you just chopped in

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Speaker 2: right now here the first time. Hi, welcome. We're talking

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Speaker 2: about our retreat in Costa Rica. We lead retreats in

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Speaker 2: Costa Rica. This is our fifth retreat since last year,

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Speaker 2: and we just wrapped it up today, like literally hours ago.

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Speaker 1: Girls left this morning, and yes, if you haven't heard,

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Speaker 1: go follow the Good Vibe Retreat on Instagram. Go check

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Speaker 1: us out, go look at the website, because we're doing

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Speaker 1: some magical shit in the jungle. We are.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's almost like we don't have to

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Speaker 2: do much like the jungle kind of does it for

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Speaker 2: us in ways. Like and that's what I realized even

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Speaker 2: in this retreat because we had more support, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, wow, even with the support we have, like

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Speaker 2: the girls get exactly what they need. I mean, we've

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Speaker 2: created like a I mean, obviously there's like a foundation

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Speaker 2: and a manual that we follow, but literally, because everybody

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Speaker 2: comes open and with the same intention. Women with intention

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Speaker 2: is some powerful motherfucking shit as student as we make

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Speaker 2: our mind up about some shit, like the universe conspires

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Speaker 2: in your favor. So like we always tell our people,

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Speaker 2: like once.

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Speaker 1: You get here, hold on tight, bitch, because mother Nature's

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Speaker 1: gonna take it away like open hearts, releasing, manifesting, laughing hard,

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Speaker 1: crying hard, like you literally for real. I know we've

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Speaker 1: said this like fifty times, but you really leave with

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Speaker 1: twenty new friends. It's impossible for you not to connect

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Speaker 1: so beautiful. This was a really beautiful group. It was

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Speaker 1: like really was It was like a perfect one year anniversary.

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Speaker 1: I mean, every group is bomb. Honestly, we all have

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Speaker 1: like we always have good vibe tribes. We always get

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Speaker 1: exactly what we need.

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Speaker 2: And this is exactly I think what we needed for

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Speaker 2: this this fifth group, and in celebration of this one

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Speaker 2: year baby that we've created. And you know, as you

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Speaker 2: it should be I lead with intention and I claim

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Speaker 1: I lead with tension, and I claim my power. It

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Speaker 1: my motherfucking power. I claim my mother fucking power.

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Speaker 2: Because I think something that came up a lot in

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Speaker 1: Questioned like is am I too much? Is this too much?

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Speaker 2: They've been in different type of positions, different type of jobs,

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Speaker 2: And so it was really beautiful to watch people really

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Speaker 1: I know it's true. It's like and even you know

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Speaker 1: nurturing and always like when you're so conditioned to be

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Speaker 1: accept when people are nurturing us, Like it's so hard,

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Speaker 1: and we also deserve friendships and relationships that provide for

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Speaker 1: I'm really proud that we've created like an environment where

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Speaker 1: there's no shortage of love, there's no shortage of nurturing,

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Speaker 1: And sometimes we build our walls up so high because

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Speaker 1: I mean, life be life, and people fuck you up

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Speaker 1: Where we can cry, or we can when we can

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Speaker 1: that every time, Like women have a hard time accepting it,

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Speaker 1: compassion for like the people that you know sometimes get

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Speaker 2: sitting there speaking with Emily about, you know, our children,

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Speaker 1: Written by Jamila Mapp and Erica Dickerson. That's us, Orlando. Shoot,

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Speaker 1: everybody gets your role on. Everybody gets your mother fucking

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Speaker 1: And I just want to be clear that we wrote

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Speaker 1: I've been I'm gonna write it.

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Speaker 2: Well, look, if they do have a thirty six hunder,

433
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Speaker 2: I will be on that one.

434
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Speaker 1: You're still thirty five, you have time, Okay, you're right.

435
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Speaker 2: Wow, Wow, I'm glad that we got we finally get

436
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 2: to We've been talking about this for so long.

437
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,199
Speaker 1: I'm like, do people think we're lying. For sure, they

438
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 1: think we're lying. These bitches are lying. I know, motherfucking book.

439
00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 1: But actually it's available right now on pre sale, So

440
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 1: you can get this book wherever. Get you get your books.

441
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: I know books are a thing of the past, but no, no,

442
00:23:54,760 --> 00:24:01,080
Speaker 1: not anymore. We're bringing books back, baby, We're bringing books back. Oh,

443
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,119
Speaker 1: motherfuckers don't know how to act? Who reading this is

444
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 1: so cool and it doesn't hurt your back. No, you

445
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 1: can buy on Amazon, but that shit is whack Bones

446
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 1: and Noble buy or buy your books black, find your

447
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: local black bookstore, Bonds and Nobles or Amazon, because it's easy,

448
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,359
Speaker 1: I know, girl, whatever, however, way you can get it.

449
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 1: Just get the book, preferably right now, right now.

450
00:24:33,720 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: Just you can buy multiple copies too. I mean that's that,

451
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: you know. Get one for you, Get one for a friend, you.

452
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Speaker 1: Know, Get one for your homegirl that's pregnant, Get for

453
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Speaker 1: your homegirl that just broke op with her baby daddy. Yeah,

454
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 1: get one for your homegirl that's super happy in her marriage.

455
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Speaker 1: Just get one for all your homegirls and your husband too.

456
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true. This is a book for definitely all

457
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Speaker 2: those people, for sure.

458
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Speaker 1: And there's a gift with purchase if you buy right now,

459
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Speaker 1: If you just click the link in this episode description,

460
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Speaker 1: you can get this book plus us just kidding, we're

461
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: the gift. That would be nice. That would be an

462
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,000
Speaker 1: expensive book.

463
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 2: Though, speaking of other things and other surprises announcements is

464
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Speaker 2: more are you with child?

465
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Speaker 1: Just kidding?

466
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: My clairvoyance said, I will be, but no, I have

467
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: to have sex.

468
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Speaker 1: She tell you, did she tell you around what month

469
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: we need? We're not gonna have to We're gonna have

470
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Speaker 1: to like coordinate. She did not tell me what month. No,

471
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Speaker 1: she didn't. She said it was gonna be soon. Though,

472
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,440
Speaker 1: oh wow, maybe not, maybe not, Maybe we're not going.

473
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Speaker 2: To I just succovered that, in fact, I will be

474
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Speaker 2: having a boy if I ever do conceive, so me too, okay, Well, perfect,

475
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 2: of course, Just like we were matching fucking outfits every

476
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: fucking day, we'll have matching genders of children.

477
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Speaker 1: It'll be perfect. They'll be born in the same year,

478
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: it'll be the same gender, and they'll also be best friends.

479
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:50,679
Speaker 1: And we'll also get married, and we'll have a house

480
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 1: on the same lot that has a bridge that connects

481
00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 1: them just in case we me to talk in the

482
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 1: middle and it'll be perfect.

483
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 2: How we'll get to like run away and go talk

484
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 2: shit in the middle, like, oh.

485
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: My god, he's so fucking annoying, so fuckingnoying me in

486
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Speaker 1: the hallway. Meet me on the bridge, Batman. Maybe on

487
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 1: the bridge cap we can be pragniced, bare foot and

488
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: pregnant together and costa Rica like ah like Ariie little

489
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: bit o my like sing to the birds, pregnant like

490
00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:23,920
Speaker 1: Airka butterflies.

491
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god, this butterfly for you today.

492
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 1: It's gonna be perfect for branding. If you're a second whim.

493
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 1: Our kids will be cute again and small, I.

494
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 2: Know, and our older ones will they'll be off doing

495
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,440
Speaker 2: jungle things. Well, they're gonna be surfing.

496
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: They're just happy, like hosting their junior retreats. Oh my god,

497
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: that has to happen. Well, Learna already told me they

498
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:51,639
Speaker 1: want to work through their own workshop on the Mommy

499
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,280
Speaker 1: and Me retreat.

500
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Speaker 2: What Yeah, I said, yes, yeah, I think so. Oh wow,

501
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: I love this. I can't wait to see what that's

502
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 2: gonna be like. They also told me that they want boyfriends.

503
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: Who is they? Irie and Luna told Orlando that they

504
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 1: both want boyfriends. They just decided.

505
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 2: What Orlando, Why the fuck would you not call me

506
00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 2: immediately and tell me or at least text me or something.

507
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,439
Speaker 2: She told me, Why the fuck didn't you? Why are

508
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 2: you telling me this twenty seventeen days later.

509
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: I don't think you'd be listening. I told you you

510
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: never said that. Yeah they did. They said they want

511
00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: them to buy them stuff and take care of them

512
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 1: and cook for them. Like Orlando, I said, yeah, that's

513
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: a good idea, that makes sense. Okay, Well that threw

514
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: me off. Anyway, on to we have more news.

515
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 2: We are just full of announcements today. So if you

516
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 2: obviously have been listening to us talk about with the

517
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 2: Oar Retreat, and we've done it in Costa Rica for

518
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 2: the last, for the for all of last year, and

519
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 2: for this fifth and sixth retreat. However, surprise, bitches, we

520
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: are taking the Good Retreat to Salulita, Mexico. Salulita, Mexico,

521
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 2: So Salulita, Mexico is a beach town also known as

522
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,919
Speaker 2: Bueblo Magico. Oh you know, and you know what, we

523
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 2: didn't even know what was called that, But that's just

524
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 2: what happens. When you're aligned. You just go where the

525
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 2: magic is.

526
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,199
Speaker 1: When your magic magic finds you.

527
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 2: So yes, we are officially announcing our retreat in Mexico.

528
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Speaker 2: It's going to be on July.

529
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Speaker 1: Fifth through the tenth, and July twelfth through the sixteenth and.

530
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Speaker 2: Wait, yeah, yeah, seventeenth July July twelfth through the seventeenth,

531
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Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, twenty twenty three. We have taken over

532
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Speaker 2: an amazing beautiful private boutique resort ocean view rooms modern.

533
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 2: It's just beautiful. It's absolutely right inside and don't take

534
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 2: my word for it. Just click the link in this

535
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 2: episode description and check out. Or we travel where you

536
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,719
Speaker 2: can see pictures and you can get the vibes. Go

537
00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 2: check out our instagram at the Good Vibe Retreat so

538
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 2: you can really see Sayulita in all its glory. I

539
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: cannot wait to go to where my ancestors are from, Mexico.

540
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: Time to go to your motherland, baby.

541
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 2: And you know I always get a lot of messages

542
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: when I'm home, you do, They really come up to

543
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 2: the surface for me, So I'm really interested to know

544
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: what comes up for me and everyone in this special

545
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,280
Speaker 2: special group. It is basically like we're popping our cherry.

546
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 2: So if you want to pop a cherry with us,

547
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 2: definitely come check us out in July and Mexico. If

548
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 2: you miss this retreat here, don't miss this one. This

549
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 2: one is going to be so special. You have so

550
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 2: much time to plan and you're worth it. You deserve it.

551
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: You don't really need an excuse to take care of yourself.

552
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 2: Just come and do it and you.

553
00:29:57,320 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: Can make payments. All you need to do is put

554
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: a five hundred dollars deposit down and then you can

555
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: budget and everything's taken care of for you. And bitch,

556
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,040
Speaker 1: I know you want to be taken care of because

557
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: nobody likes swing on vacation and still having to plan shit.

558
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 1: So we've planned everything for you. We're taking care of

559
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: you all inclusive, and you're going to make twenty new friends,

560
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:16,719
Speaker 1: so there's no reason for you not to go.

561
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: And also definitely check out our reviews on We Travel

562
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 2: so that you can see what other women are saying

563
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 2: about the Good Vibe retreat. But starting next month, we

564
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: are going to be dropping personal audio diaries essentially from

565
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 2: our retreaties. They were so kind enough to share their

566
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 2: experience in Costa Rica here with us via audio because

567
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 2: we are Oracle.

568
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: What the fuck are we?

569
00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:47,440
Speaker 2: We're audio oracle, oral tradition leaders, oral tradition leaders, and

570
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: so are they everyone, and so you can hear their

571
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 2: experience and their stories with our bonus episodes highlighting their experience.

572
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,680
Speaker 2: So I'm really excited for you guys to hear firsthand

573
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: what the vibes are here. They like, truly, truly, truly

574
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 2: are some on some other shit magic magic magic, So

575
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 2: I'm just really excited.

576
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,560
Speaker 1: I am also very excited. This has been a magical

577
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: twelve months, five years, and I really am looking forward

578
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 1: to like the magic that Mexico brings because our retreats

579
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: are so fucking special. And speaking of magic, you know

580
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: what time it is my love trot, Timely Jungle. I

581
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: picked a three of Swords and I think I picked

582
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: it up reversed, So going to our lovely baby. The

583
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 1: Three of Swords Reversed encourages you to pay attention to

584
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: your inner thoughts and self talk. Your words are powerful,

585
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: especially those you repeat to yourself day after day. You

586
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 1: may be prone to self criticism, limiting beliefs, and negative

587
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: self talk. You may identify with an inner mean girl

588
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:59,960
Speaker 1: or boy who is constantly telling you why you're not

589
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 1: good enough. When you hear these negative thoughts come up.

590
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: Ask yourself whether you would ever utter these words to

591
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: a friend or loved one. And if the answer is hell, no, okay, bitty,

592
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: then why are you speaking these words to yourself? Look

593
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: at how you can shift your thoughts towards the positive

594
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: to reinforce your confidence you have what it takes to

595
00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: be the person you deserve to be. You may also

596
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: be hyper sensitive to other to other's words, and need

597
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 1: to develop a thick skin. Oh my god, are they

598
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: talking to me? Fuck you? Okay, I am very I

599
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 1: can see you shaking your head. You chill, I am

600
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: very tough, very tough, skin thick, so thick, and that

601
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 1: thing it's to me let go of the hurt and

602
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: these words are that the hurt that these words are

603
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 1: causing you. It would only hold you back and do

604
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: some self reflection. What has triggered your feelings and why

605
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: and how might you address the underlying issues. This seems

606
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: very accurate. I think that we all have a lot

607
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: of inner self negative self chatter, even me, Like we've

608
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: come so far, we're doing a lot of big shit.

609
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, and like on paper it's like

610
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: check check check, And I'm still like am I supposed

611
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: to be here, like I feel like an imposters sometimes,

612
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 1: but no, I'm that bitch, So you should remember that

613
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: you're that bitch too, or that king. I don't know

614
00:33:16,360 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: who's listening.

615
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: I'm just exclusive, whatever the fuck you want to be

616
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: that makes you feel big and great powerful.

617
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 1: Remember our last episode, we're like talking really like powerfully

618
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 1: to each other. We need to keep that up because

619
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: you are such a bad bitch with nice titties. And

620
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: that shirt is flowing. Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, your skin is fucking popping, and I

622
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 2: just love your beautiful smile.

623
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Speaker 1: Your laugh is infectious. It sounds like a jungle princess.

624
00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 2: You are a jungle princess. You don't look like one.

625
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: Thank you.

626
00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 2: Well anyway, guys, I don't say something nice to somebody you.

627
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Speaker 1: Love or yourself. We're gonna bring this to a close

628
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 1: because we're losing light. It's getting dark, and we gotta

629
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: go pop some bubble pops some bubbles we do. We

630
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: got a book. Oh okay, So I'm like, we're popping bubbles,

631
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Speaker 1: popping something, popping bottles, popping ass, I don't know, I'm

632
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: popping some mass My man just got to costa rica

633
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 1: and it's our day off, bitch yep. Let's go party.

634
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: Thank you guys for joining us, and go check out

635
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: our book and all of our new merch and our

636
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 1: Patreon and most especially this motherfucking retreat because that's for

637
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,399
Speaker 1: you and you deserve it. And we'll see you guys

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00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 1: next week. We love you.

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Speaker 2: Bye,