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Speaker 1: What's up? It is Lift Service at Mantila. Yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm Gigi Maguire, I'm Jordie Jor, I am Chloe Summer.

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Speaker 3: I'm lyric A Lore.

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Speaker 4: Welcome, Lady Chloe Summer and lyric Lord. We are definitely

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Speaker 4: excited to have you here. I've been enjoying watching your

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Speaker 4: blog girls girls, you know, because that's.

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Speaker 2: What we are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we love girls girls.

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Speaker 5: Mm hm.

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Speaker 4: And so, who's idea was it to do this blog?

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Speaker 4: I felt like it was yours?

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Speaker 1: Chloe.

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Speaker 2: Why do you feel like it was fine?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I just feel like I could see like it's given,

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Speaker 4: like you know, you'd have your whole travel situation.

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Speaker 2: So I'll say we definitely came up with it together.

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Speaker 2: So me and Lee we were like Instagram friends, Instagram besties,

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Speaker 2: talking all the time. And I told her I'm going

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Speaker 2: to Italy. She's like, I'm coming.

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Speaker 3: It was my birthday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she was like, I'm my girl, You're not coming.

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Speaker 2: You're not coming. She literally her money said, girl, I'm coming.

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Speaker 1: So y'all only know each other from Instagram? Yes, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Before we went to Italy together, we met one other time.

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Speaker 1: That's risque.

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Speaker 3: Because it's like javeline with people you don't know.

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Speaker 5: You.

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Speaker 3: I feel like sometimes you can feel a person's like

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Speaker 3: spirit and vibe through the conversation. So it's just kind

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Speaker 3: of like it was my birthday. I was like, I

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Speaker 3: want to go somewhere that I've never been, but I

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Speaker 3: want to go somewhere far and she's like, I'm going

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Speaker 3: to Italy. I was like, well, let's make it a

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Speaker 3: birthday trip. Let's make it a thing. And was it

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Speaker 3: just as y'all?

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Speaker 2: Was it like a girl's trip one of your friends,

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Speaker 2: one of my friends.

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Speaker 5: She can because I feel like Larry could be very like,

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Speaker 5: you know, very private, let me you know, I'd like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: maybe you pulled her out to be like, come on.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this like show people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she definitely did that because you know, even the

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Speaker 3: first time I met you, I came on it was

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Speaker 3: I was like.

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Speaker 1: But I get it.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's not easy because sometimes I think what

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Speaker 4: can happen is like people talk shit and make you

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Speaker 4: be like I don't even want to say nothing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, mind my business and stay in my little it

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Speaker 5: take the little clips, and it'd be like I cannot

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Speaker 5: say that.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, So from Italy. We literally were is drunk,

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Speaker 2: having a ball, talking and just talking about being a

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Speaker 2: girl's girl. I am a true girl's girl, up and down.

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Speaker 2: I went to all girl high school, I went to

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Speaker 2: fashion school in New York. I'm just a girl's girl.

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Speaker 2: And from there, literally, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know, I kept getting it was it was the Italian wine.

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Speaker 5: We kept getting drunk on wine, like when we get back,

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Speaker 5: we're gonna do this. It was like when we got

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Speaker 5: back to Houston, it was like, hey, we didn't find

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Speaker 5: a video I prefer we're gonna start filming a SAP.

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Speaker 3: And it was like we just kind of made jump

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Speaker 3: half first into it.

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Speaker 1: Because it feels like y'all give best friend vibes.

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Speaker 2: This is my girl. I always tell her, I'm new

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Speaker 2: to Houston, only been here for one year, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I finally feel like Houston's like home because I have

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Speaker 2: like a real friend. Basic Before it was just me

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Speaker 2: and me and my man, Me and my man. But

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Speaker 2: I'm a girl's girl. I need my friends. So we

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Speaker 2: could be like, hey, girl, like he getting on my nerves,

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Speaker 2: Let's go get honey eat, Let's go do something.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: So that's me. Do I need to pull up.

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Speaker 2: It's definitely that girl.

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Speaker 4: As newer friends, because you know how people will act like,

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Speaker 4: oh I don't want to make no new friends and

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Speaker 4: da da da da da. Like Jordan is newer to

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Speaker 4: the show, and we met with her like guests hosting

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Speaker 4: on Way Up and everything, and we've seen her like

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Speaker 4: a reality TV you don't know what you're gonna get

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Speaker 4: in real life, but it's been amazing and now she's

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Speaker 4: permanently on.

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Speaker 1: Love each other.

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Speaker 5: I think our Detroit trip kind of solidified our bond.

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Speaker 3: You can travel travel together.

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Speaker 5: During that day that everything shut down, remember and we

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Speaker 5: were together.

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Speaker 3: Were the same flight. Remember funeral could not get out

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Speaker 3: of Atlanta.

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Speaker 5: We all were going to Detroit for one year anniversary

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Speaker 5: four Way Up and me and Jordan was on the

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Speaker 5: same flight, so we had that experience together. We stayed

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Speaker 5: in the same room, and it's just like we're like

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Speaker 5: okay with you, right, so consimilarly.

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Speaker 2: Situation really give that like when you travel with somebody,

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Speaker 2: you really see the real, the good and ugly. And

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Speaker 2: we just thought it immediately with each other, like Okay,

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Speaker 2: I see how.

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Speaker 4: You Yeah, Like okay, yeah, Because sometimes you do have

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Speaker 4: to like find your friends It don't have to be

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Speaker 4: my day ones.

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Speaker 5: You know, sometimes your day ones be your day nuns.

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Speaker 3: As I always say, I'm the girl, I'm not scared

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Speaker 3: to me. I actually love meeting new girls. Now it's

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Speaker 3: up to you if you rub me the wrong way

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Speaker 3: and cool scratch that is whatever. But I love meeting

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Speaker 3: new friends. I love meeting new girls. I'm always welcoming

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Speaker 3: girls with like open arms. You know, it costs nothing.

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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, yeah, I want to go out to

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Speaker 1: sea too.

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Speaker 2: You probably be like, you know, cool.

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Speaker 5: A lot of times we get, you know, put in

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Speaker 5: that category of since you look a certain way, people

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Speaker 5: proceeding to be a certain way. And then they get

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Speaker 5: to know your neighbor like oh I thought you were

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Speaker 5: going to be and you're really cool as how and

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Speaker 5: then it's like reason but.

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Speaker 2: No reason to poke a hole and a caprice sogn okay,

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Speaker 2: given my girl.

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Speaker 3: Never, I guess because some of us just naturally just

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Speaker 3: have like this like blank or like rest. I'm hungry

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Speaker 3: right now. Listen.

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Speaker 1: You know I already got some food from me.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, look, I got to eat something today because

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Speaker 4: I've been working all day, you know. But so let's

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Speaker 4: talk about a little bit because it's also not so

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Speaker 4: great experiences. I saw one of the blogs you were

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Speaker 4: talking about like many people and you're like, they just

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Speaker 4: kind of want to like copy and paste my life.

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Speaker 4: And we've all had some bad experiences with people who

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they like, you do have to be careful because

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Speaker 2: girls will come in your life. Definitely try to copy

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Speaker 2: and paste. Definitely try to be you or steal your personality.

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Speaker 2: One thing I love about Lirit is like we're girls, girls,

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Speaker 2: we're friends, but we're so different even like you can

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Speaker 2: look at our look at it's just like it's two

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Speaker 2: different persons. I was the same same message with two

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, which one do I wear? Just she

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Speaker 3: liked that one. I'd be like, I'm awares you pick

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Speaker 3: the one that you would wear.

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Speaker 2: You're like, okay, that's it's the opposite. I even tell her,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, you you know which one. I'm a pig.

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Speaker 2: She's like, you know what, You're right that way. So

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Speaker 2: we're not afraid to be who we are. We're not

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Speaker 2: trying to copy and paste each other, which is hard

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Speaker 2: these days.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is a lot of people haven't found themselves,

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Speaker 3: so I feel like they they try to attach themselves

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Speaker 3: just like you know, just now you're naturally gonna steal

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Speaker 3: certain like or not even still just like pick up

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Speaker 3: certain mannerisms or sayings around certain people. But like once

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Speaker 3: it comes down to like you're just like, are you me.

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Speaker 5: It?

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Speaker 3: Just but you can identify it, it'd be like I've

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's given very much, single black female, very much,

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Speaker 5: and it's being very much we are no longer friends.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you gotta cut that off quick because it

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Speaker 2: becomes weird and then it becomes then once they can't

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Speaker 2: hold it anymore, the jealousy and the weirdness comes. It

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Speaker 2: comes over time. You cannot be friends with anybody that

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Speaker 2: wants to be your I want your life, yes, or

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Speaker 3: On it.

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Speaker 5: I feel like I'm gon start saying it that's tea now,

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Speaker 5: Dallas is tea.

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Speaker 4: And that's what happens that when you're around somebody, you

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Speaker 4: end up like you do, end up picking up certain things.

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Speaker 4: But also but I think it's also telling about friendships

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Speaker 4: is when you can be like genuinely happy for somebody

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Speaker 4: when something great happens. You know what's a red flag

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Speaker 4: if you have good things happening but you don't want

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Speaker 1: To feel away.

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Speaker 4: You know, there's been times when you're like, damn, I

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Speaker 4: getting funny or you ever seen.

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Speaker 3: Them stories where it'd be like girls will get text

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Speaker 3: messages from their friends like I want you to come,

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Speaker 3: but don't wear make up or don't dress up, don't

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Speaker 3: I'll be one of my friends to show out that

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Speaker 5: There was a viral story when this girl cursed was

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Speaker 5: like cursing out her friend because she said she showed

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Speaker 5: out too much on her birthday.

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Speaker 3: That's what made me think.

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Speaker 2: I was like, is that real? Because your birthday, everybody,

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Speaker 2: your whole team could just be like yes, like the

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Speaker 2: whole team lit, yeah.

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Speaker 3: It's your birthday. How are you getting out?

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Speaker 1: Done right?

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Speaker 4: And I'm won't tell tell somebody if they're at my

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Speaker 4: try this? Like I would be like where my bag

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Speaker 4: were this, Like, yeah, if I feel like the outfit

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Speaker 4: And I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like that's when we lost recipes. I remember my mom

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Speaker 3: and her friends used to all come and get ready

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Speaker 3: in this day and age, it's too much. If somebody

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Speaker 3: peeped like you got on her homegirl bag and just

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Speaker 3: be like, oh, she wearing girlfriends, I can't help her

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Speaker 3: a bag that might look better with my outfit, Like

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Speaker 3: what's wrong with that? I don't see nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I agree with you.

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Speaker 4: I want my friends to come out and look like

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Speaker 4: go ahead, because you know me, I might come out

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Speaker 4: and sweat suit anyway, that might be my fit and

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Speaker 4: GG going listen, G and Jordan always I'm out way

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Speaker 4: more done up than I am, and I'm gonna come

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Speaker 4: out like damn you going to the gym.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I know how uncomfortable and I know

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Speaker 3: It's nothing that I could do for you, like, right.

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Speaker 5: But then in the long run, it's like, damn, I

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Speaker 6: The friend that stayed friends with or I was introduced

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Speaker 3: You know sometimes the divorce, you're gonna take the kids.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, saying the hard way.

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Speaker 1: I love it, okay. And then you moved there last year?

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Speaker 1: You love him.

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Speaker 5: You just left my man, my man over Miami originally

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Speaker 1: I feel like Atlanta so much me.

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Speaker 5: Only had good experiences. I haven't had anything that made

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Speaker 3: That's what she knows.

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Speaker 5: Like she'll say, I was born in Philly, but I'm

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Speaker 1: Did you move there?

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Speaker 3: Two thousand and five?

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Speaker 5: I literally got there to day of Hurricane Katrina, And

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Speaker 1: Chloe, how long you've been with your man?

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Speaker 2: I've been with him. We've been living together for a year.

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Speaker 5: Moving to Houston was moving in with him together? Okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: So it was June twenty twenty three and I were

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Speaker 2: That's yes, I love him.

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Speaker 1: Is that the first person you live with?

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Speaker 1: First guy?

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Speaker 2: No? No, first guy? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, all right, So I did tell tell us

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Speaker 2: No? Team?

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Speaker 5: So, were y'all having a long distance relationship before you

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Speaker 2: He was already living there, right, and he was like,

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Speaker 2: You're the same thing every night, like Miami is just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: Time we can be ratchet. You want to go now, Litera.

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Speaker 4: I got to ask you, when you did a long

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Speaker 4: What do you think about that experience?

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Speaker 3: Do you have to be politically correct?

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like it was because I felt like it.

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Speaker 3: Was just a what was that doing? I was just

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Speaker 3: I don't even remember what they were talking about. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: It's a little harsh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I didn't even

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Speaker 3: So I love that. I love it for our.

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Speaker 4: Friendship because I wonder what people's experiences are like going

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Speaker 3: And I felt like they called me at a very

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Speaker 1: Thing for me and like therapy on your TV, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Or something and it just was just nothing that.

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Speaker 5: It was sensationalized because it is going to be like,

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Speaker 3: Now, Missyla. I liked her. I like her as a

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Speaker 3: the show is just like very in a whole showy right, Very.

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Speaker 3: It is very hyeah producing, very used. They're right there

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Speaker 1: So shit, okay, I didn't know that. So what do

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Speaker 4: Like you've been through a you know, and you have

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Speaker 4: a partner now?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Do you have one?

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm still involved with my baby daddy, my second

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Speaker 3: So yeah, we're just go together. Okay, we will live well,

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Speaker 3: I live in Houston, he lives in Atlanta. He just

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Speaker 3: kind of comes to you our son. But it's like

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're happy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's like yeah, okay, because we'll be like.

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Speaker 3: Girl those clips I was talking about.

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Speaker 4: Yes, So what made you decide like doing this vlog?

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00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,360
Speaker 4: Because like I said, it does feel like you've been

445
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 4: like okay, let me just mind my business, get out,

446
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 4: you know whatever, what made you decide Okay, it's time

447
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,120
Speaker 4: for us to like go and let me let people

448
00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:56,919
Speaker 4: see me cooking. You even showed yourself getting surgery plastic surgery.

449
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Speaker 3: So I feel like I was okay because you know,

450
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,879
Speaker 3: I started out young. I was like one of the

451
00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:08,840
Speaker 3: first first. So it's just like just living through the

452
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,600
Speaker 3: whole height of social media and then everybody being in

453
00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:15,120
Speaker 3: my business and everything being on display. I will say

454
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:19,640
Speaker 3: that once I had kids, I wanted to protect them

455
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:22,280
Speaker 3: and I wanted to protect myself because I can't operate

456
00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,639
Speaker 3: at one hundred percent for my kids if I'm mentally

457
00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,639
Speaker 3: every day being attacks and I don't care what nobody

458
00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:35,840
Speaker 3: says it. Yes, definitely can definitely be like I'm not

459
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Speaker 3: reading you're online.

460
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Speaker 4: Like that's hard though because people ask you and you

461
00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 4: don't even tend to see it, and then you should

462
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,480
Speaker 4: pop up and.

463
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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying, or be like you know those

464
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,040
Speaker 3: friends who are like kind of friends, they gonna send

465
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Speaker 3: it to you. So, like I said, I do give

466
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Speaker 3: a lot of what's happening right now, know to Chloe,

467
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:05,000
Speaker 3: because she was just like girl, you gotta you know.

468
00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:07,120
Speaker 5: She she's she comes to my house and she's like.

469
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Speaker 3: You gotta show you a couple. Mom, you gotta they

470
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:11,399
Speaker 3: need to see this sort of people need to see like,

471
00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 3: you know, because I worked. I also worked hard to

472
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 3: erase the vixen things. It's there to erase, you know,

473
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,320
Speaker 3: everything that I just feel like doesn't represent the person

474
00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:22,920
Speaker 3: I am today, Like I'm a full time mom and

475
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 3: like that's what I do.

476
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 4: But to be honest, like I think and even if

477
00:21:27,440 --> 00:21:29,720
Speaker 4: we all in here have done things in our past

478
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 4: and have right, but you know that part is what

479
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:35,400
Speaker 4: makes you, like learn lessons and make you who you are.

480
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,640
Speaker 4: I don't think ever like erasing things, but more just

481
00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:39,919
Speaker 4: like this is what I've evolved.

482
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah, I just feel like that's

483
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Speaker 3: what And then a lot of it my kids.

484
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Speaker 5: Motivate me to just do something. Step into the light

485
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 5: of motherhood. Yeah, like the light of lightihood and moving

486
00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 5: onward and upward within yourself as a woman.

487
00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 3: Like I can cook like nobody knew.

488
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Speaker 5: That, but here we are. We'll let her come over

489
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 5: and cook for us.

490
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Speaker 2: Okay about can.

491
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Speaker 3: We can do a little listener?

492
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Speaker 1: You can't cut, so what can.

493
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Speaker 3: I'm working, She's I'm working on my girl.

494
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Speaker 5: Okay, good see this is what it's all about. This

495
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 5: is what it's about to be a girl's girl.

496
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Speaker 1: I can't cook.

497
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Speaker 5: She could cook. Teach me how to cook. You're pulling

498
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Speaker 5: you out of your shelf, and like.

499
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Speaker 4: People need to see this, and sometimes you need somebody

500
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Speaker 4: that you could trust to actually say that.

501
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 3: Or else I probably would have still been like watching everybody.

502
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:42,600
Speaker 4: Like, but even the journey for you, like going to

503
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 4: get plastic surgery, that was something that you documented to.

504
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 3: Yes, And I did that because again I'm a mom.

505
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,479
Speaker 3: Now I had these I got to be up at

506
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,240
Speaker 3: the school and stuff, and I had these like you know,

507
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 3: big old boobs, and I just was like, you know,

508
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 3: it's some to tone it down a little bit, like

509
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 3: I'm not again, like I'm so far removed from being

510
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 3: a vixen and all that, and I just wanted a

511
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 3: more subtle look.

512
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,359
Speaker 5: I wanted to look just better in my clothes.

513
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:12,840
Speaker 3: I just felt like it was just like they were

514
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 3: sitting on my neck, Like I just didn't like to

515
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:16,440
Speaker 3: look anymore.

516
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,919
Speaker 5: But you look great, look amazing, Like I like, this

517
00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,399
Speaker 5: friendship is working for us.

518
00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 3: For us, working for the girl.

519
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 5: So one are some more things that that we're gonna

520
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 5: end up seeing on the on the Blood Girls, girls

521
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Speaker 5: and make.

522
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Speaker 1: Sure y'all subscribe.

523
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 2: Yes, subscribe, But I would say, we're having a girl's

524
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: girls walk every first Friday of the month. So it's

525
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: pretty much Houston is a food desert. Like everybody there

526
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 2: is pretty like pretty pretty large overside and well nourished everything,

527
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 2: everything bigger in text. But coming from a place like Miami,

528
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:56,360
Speaker 2: you really noticed.

529
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 3: Because everybody's so skinnier, everybody.

530
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 2: Working health near in Miami literally, So I was just like,

531
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 2: I feel like we need to do something to push

532
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 2: the girls to like work out when I work out

533
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 2: and stuff like, I wish I had a workout partner.

534
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,680
Speaker 2: I wish I had somebody to do this with. Every

535
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 2: first you.

536
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: Heard it, I wish I had a workout partner. That

537
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 3: was so shady.

538
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 4: She's trying to say, trying to say, you're working partner

539
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:19,640
Speaker 4: right here.

540
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 5: She's she's saying, girls approach her.

541
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 3: She isn't working out from the day.

542
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Speaker 2: Out there far. No, you know, I go to my

543
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: workouse on my own, pilates everything. But a lot of

544
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,160
Speaker 2: girls don't have the confidence to do that on their own.

545
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,680
Speaker 2: So I'm like, Okay, let's at least do this walk.

546
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 2: It's three miles first Friday, every month and all the

547
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 2: girls can come. So so far we have a lot

548
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 2: of sign ups, like the girlies are coming and it's

549
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: just like where you're pink and come.

550
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Speaker 1: I had this run Club. I got to restart it again.

551
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Speaker 4: But the wh point of it was that it's for

552
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Speaker 4: people who don't normally wouldn't Like some people it would

553
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,280
Speaker 4: come and they really do run. But then it was

554
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 4: for everybody, like some people who normally wouldn't get out

555
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,720
Speaker 4: and move and you know.

556
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: You just go out.

557
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 4: You can run, jocks, get walk, crawl whatever, just hang out. Yeah,

558
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,040
Speaker 4: And it was like three and a quarter of miles

559
00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 4: and people ended up doing their own little spin offs

560
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 4: and like forming their own groups, going on trips together.

561
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 4: Just a meeting at the run Club. So I like that,

562
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,239
Speaker 4: like to get out and move and encourage people no

563
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:27,640
Speaker 4: matter what space that you're in, whether you're an expert

564
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:30,840
Speaker 4: runner and do marathons or you've never done this at all,

565
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 4: you know, just to know that we're all welcome.

566
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 1: I like that we need to go to Houston and walk.

567
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 3: It's December.

568
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 5: I feel like we need to go out there.

569
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 2: Friday. Friday, So y'all don't come December, maybe January you

570
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 2: never know or we're going to keep having it. But

571
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 2: girls always say it's hard to make friends. So I'm like,

572
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 2: this is your trial. These are the girls are going

573
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: to wake up at eight o'clock in the morning and

574
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Speaker 2: come do a walk.

575
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 1: Do you think it's hard to make friends.

576
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,880
Speaker 2: For me personally? Because I'm really am a girl's girl

577
00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 2: and I'm just so nice to everyone. But I feel

578
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 2: like if you are like more stand offish like litera,

579
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,120
Speaker 2: she's more like stand offs just to herself. I think

580
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,400
Speaker 2: it is harder because people think you're a b I TC.

581
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 3: But I'm not. I'm just I'm more shy, like timid,

582
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 3: like shy, That's what it really is. I'm more just

583
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 3: like a hie until you talk to me and I'm

584
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:30,919
Speaker 3: like oh and then I did this and look at

585
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 3: my kids, and you know, it's like that right, just

586
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 3: like she got to warm up. She's like hi, and

587
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 3: this is my friendlier and I'm like hi.

588
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 4: And some people can misinterpret that, like you said, as

589
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,880
Speaker 4: being you know, standoffish, or maybe she's.

590
00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,240
Speaker 3: But it's not like very much very friendly.

591
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: To be very fair to you. I feel like you

592
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 2: probably don't know why people are trying to come to

593
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 2: your space. You know, so probably and you probably have

594
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: way worse situation than me, So I give you grace

595
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 2: with that versus like I've had weird situations but it

596
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 2: comes off so quick versus like you know.

597
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 3: People will just kind of like lay on you and

598
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,239
Speaker 3: just you just never know what what the motive is

599
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 3: or you know, they're trying.

600
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: To get the little guys up. And you know you

601
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: on the blogs, shit you said.

602
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 3: You're writing from fake page, spilling my tea.

603
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: Oh I know it is.

604
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 3: A real gossip girl.

605
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 4: So tell us a little bit more about your whole situation,

606
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 4: like with your with your man. Okay, okay, So this

607
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,720
Speaker 4: is your first guy that you're living with and you've

608
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 4: been together for.

609
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: Officially a year, especially a.

610
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 2: Year and a half. So he's African. He's going in

611
00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 2: so very different culture, very very different culture. But I'm learning.

612
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 2: I'm learning because African culture is very different than African

613
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: American culture.

614
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 5: So I feel like it takes patience, it takes love.

615
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 5: But did y'all see this story. You got a lot

616
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,680
Speaker 5: of cooking to learn. You got to learn American food,

617
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 5: and don't.

618
00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: Like he don't get American fool, so he can be

619
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 2: grace because he knows like it's hard, so I teach

620
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:09,359
Speaker 2: me how.

621
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 4: To get Did you see this story about this guy

622
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 4: who was like a leader He said there was like

623
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 4: four hundred, yes, and he leveled on the.

624
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 5: People and they found it on his hard drive. It

625
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:23,919
Speaker 5: was and they were all like married women, yes, brothers

626
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 5: and everybody's wife.

627
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 1: You know, the tapes are out.

628
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 4: Yes, they leaked those sex tapes, so they're like actually

629
00:28:37,320 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 4: on you can see them.

630
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: You know how awful that is. People are like, why

631
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: are they giving him such a hard time?

632
00:28:44,160 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 4: They were consensual situations and they both knew the camera

633
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 4: was there, so you can see them, like looking in

634
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 4: the camera when it's happening.

635
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: Why would a person do that?

636
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:58,959
Speaker 4: Like, but people were also saying I could see why

637
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 4: because he was well in death out. Oh my god.

638
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 3: He must have been a fool out here sagon lord four.

639
00:29:09,240 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 5: Four hundred and I think everybody was married and yeah,

640
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 5: pretty much married and and and not just married but

641
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 5: married to people that he were friends and family, pastor.

642
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 3: Anybody can.

643
00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 1: Do that on tape?

644
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: Why do that? I don't know. Maybe I'm still old

645
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,000
Speaker 2: school with marriage, but I'll.

646
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 5: Just like you sit in front row, come on there

647
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 5: like just smiling every sing, like the.

648
00:29:40,080 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 3: First after charge.

649
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 4: So I gotta ask you, how much does it matter

650
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:50,320
Speaker 4: to you if a guy is well and down? I

651
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:51,720
Speaker 4: feel like I had this conversation.

652
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: There isn't such thing as too much?

653
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: Does it matter?

654
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,719
Speaker 5: There is such thing as too much? And also you

655
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 5: can have all of that and I know to do

656
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 5: with it, and then it's a waste. Yeah, then it's

657
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 5: a waste.

658
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 3: But that's my opinion.

659
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: How much how much the sis matter to you? Could

660
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: you be with somebody that was like.

661
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 2: I have to be with somebody I'm in love with.

662
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 2: We can work through anything with love.

663
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: Okay, even if it was like this.

664
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:21,160
Speaker 5: I tried that, we want to work through that far.

665
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:22,320
Speaker 1: You won't get that far.

666
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 3: I tried to work through the little one.

667
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 1: What's t I tried.

668
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 3: It didn't last, it didn't.

669
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,440
Speaker 2: You're not gonna get that far.

670
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 3: I was.

671
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: I was in love, and that's not going to get

672
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: that far.

673
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 2: You're in love.

674
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 5: I was. I was in love before we did it,

675
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 5: and I knew going in what I was working with

676
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 5: and I just was like, I love him, and I tried,

677
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 5: but after a while, I was like, I.

678
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 2: Need to get right.

679
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 1: It makes it very easy.

680
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 5: I need I need a back blown situational effort. I

681
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 5: need a whole and he wasn't able to hit that,

682
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying.

683
00:30:55,840 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 3: So it definitely matters, but it's not means yeah.

684
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you could be with somebody that was like

685
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: this or no.

686
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:08,800
Speaker 3: That's a little extreaming extreme.

687
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: That's a matter of extreme that like you know, you

688
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 2: have a month like a.

689
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: Like this, but this like this.

690
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: Need to know the other.

691
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 3: Actually we need all we need, we need to all.

692
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 5: We need to make a listen of pros and the

693
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 5: cons and see where here.

694
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: Okay, everything amazing. It's just this.

695
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: Everything, everything amazing.

696
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: Fifty You know what I'm saying.

697
00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 2: You're chilling good personality, because how could he not generous?

698
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: That's fair? How could you know? I just don't even

699
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 2: feel like we would get that far, just be like,

700
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: oh okay, maybe not.

701
00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 5: And I waited, y'all too. I waited like four or

702
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 5: five months, maybe six months.

703
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 4: He waited because he was like, I gotta get at first.

704
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 4: I got to make sure she ain't love that's what

705
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 4: they do. He was like, we ain't gonna do it

706
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 4: till you love me. Knowing I can that little thing

707
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 4: first time. Do y'all think they'd be knowing because.

708
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 1: They gotta know they never watched porn. They know you

709
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: do look like that.

710
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: They know you know it could be absolutely know.

711
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 3: They're out there measuring and telling their friends and the

712
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 3: whole day.

713
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: Especially when they're young, and like if they play.

714
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: Sports, they've known for a very long time.

715
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: Ship that.

716
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 5: Put on your magnifying all right, so we got this

717
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 5: walk going on.

718
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: Now.

719
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 4: Another thing that you guys talk about is this stay

720
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 4: at home girlfriend lifestyle. So give us that tea because

721
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 4: I would love to be able to stay at home

722
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 4: for just even a little while.

723
00:32:56,160 --> 00:32:57,239
Speaker 1: I don't know if I could do it for too

724
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: long though.

725
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: I mean I've been to stay at home girl firm

726
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 2: for a long time. So it's just you know, you

727
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 2: can have your hustles, you can make your money, you

728
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: can do your one too. For me, I've been doing

729
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 2: social media for about five years through traveling, and I've

730
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 2: just been technically a stay a home girlfriend. I don't

731
00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: go to a job every day.

732
00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's not really you still work, You're doing

733
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 4: your thing like you entrepreneur, entrepreneur.

734
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I say stay at home girlfriend because it's like

735
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 2: you're not going to work. And a lot of people

736
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 2: from the outside looking in. I know for sure because

737
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 2: even girls have gone back and forth to me, They're like,

738
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 2: you don't work. I'm like, yes, I do, but I

739
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 2: work at home the things I do on my phone

740
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:37,959
Speaker 2: and you enjoy yourself.

741
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:39,040
Speaker 1: People be mad about that.

742
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: They hate it like they hate their.

743
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: Everything.

744
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:43,960
Speaker 3: You have every going on.

745
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 5: Yeah.

746
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 3: I literally just said to somebody like, I do work.

747
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes you do.

748
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 2: I do.

749
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: From Atlanta to do this show every other week. And

750
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 1: she fights to it. She'd be like, I'm on the

751
00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 1: train right now.

752
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 5: Com on election Day this morning and then got on

753
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 5: to Wilana flew in the JFK.

754
00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 4: And it's flying right back to go do an episode

755
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 4: of lip service.

756
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 3: South Yeah, South Yeah. I just started it.

757
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 5: Okay, So when you in Atlanta whenever that may be

758
00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 5: in Houston, remember we can do service, yes indeed, and

759
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:31,279
Speaker 5: then go walk you know, gotta be go get a

760
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:36,239
Speaker 5: little hookah after thank you. That's but people do invalidate

761
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 5: you when they feel like you don't do what they do,

762
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,800
Speaker 5: but they feel like they don't physically see you putting

763
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,360
Speaker 5: in the work. It doesn't matter if you see it

764
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 5: or not. Bitch, I'm doing it.

765
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 3: I get up every day and do what I do

766
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 3: and it's smart and make what I may happen.

767
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 5: And just because you don't see it, or just because

768
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:56,279
Speaker 5: it isn't what you perceive as me, still I'm still

769
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 5: and I feel like that's what you were getting.

770
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 4: At both of How would your man feel if you

771
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 4: got like a regular day job but they hate that

772
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:04,280
Speaker 4: for you?

773
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,959
Speaker 2: Mon would kill me. He would kill me.

774
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 3: Because it takes away from his time.

775
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it takes away from his time. And once again,

776
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 2: he's African, so he already is like, you know, he

777
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: respects the things that I do. But he's already like

778
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 2: all right, by five, pack it up, like it's time

779
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 2: to any time. Yeah yeah, Like no, he would. I

780
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,399
Speaker 2: literally like, you could not date a woman. You would

781
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 2: lose your mind. He's like, that's why that's why we work.

782
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: What about you?

783
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 4: What if you got like you were like, look, I

784
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 4: just need to get it. I just want to get

785
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,360
Speaker 4: a job. I want to, like you don't want to.

786
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 5: I'm not going to say that anyway, I wouldn't say that.

787
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: But what when when you were younger, what did you

788
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: think you were going to be?

789
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 2: Like?

790
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 4: Were there things that you were Like when I grow up,

791
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 4: I'm what, did you go to school for?

792
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 3: Forensics? Terminology?

793
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:55,839
Speaker 1: So I need your help?

794
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 5: Give me don't get me your phone in five minutes,

795
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 5: so criminology.

796
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 3: I want to do forensic pathology. That's what I was

797
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 3: going to school for.

798
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 5: But listen, you can't get away with ship especially now.

799
00:36:14,320 --> 00:36:16,240
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I bet that comes in handy.

800
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 2: Yeah.

801
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 3: It's like just being able to like think fast, critical thinking,

802
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 3: know one that a person is lying being to what

803
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 3: are the tells.

804
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: Tips?

805
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 3: You just kind of like it's like body language. If

806
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 3: you ask a person a question and it's like they automatically.

807
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 5: Like just like shifting, Like that's just like a breathing, breathing.

808
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 3: It's like starting the you know, I think you got

809
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 3: to ask a question, asks a question in a different way,

810
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 3: same question, but a different way, and you'll get a

811
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 3: different answer. And if you get a different answer, boom right, okay, cheat.

812
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 5: You.

813
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: Heard the boys a different way.

814
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 3: That's a different way. I feel like men are a

815
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 3: work in progress.

816
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: Always there you go. That's with you to say I'm

817
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: a work in progress.

818
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 3: I feel like, okay, I do feel like maybe some

819
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 3: men just aren't like that. But I do also feel

820
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 3: like some men are just wired different, and I feel

821
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 3: like this is something that is just like you gotta

822
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 3: work with them work well, it's up to you if

823
00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 3: you want to work with with with that or with them.

824
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,479
Speaker 1: You have the information, do with.

825
00:37:49,400 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 2: It what you will there, because which works for you

826
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 2: won't work for somebody else. But at the end of

827
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 2: the day, it's no real way to tell what your

828
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: man is doing when you're not with him. So I

829
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: feel like there are ways, well, there are ways. It

830
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,880
Speaker 2: depends on home. You want to stress yourself.

831
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 1: Like my man, he goes to the forensic pathologist.

832
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 3: I'm not going to I'm not going through it.

833
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 2: I'm not going through a phone.

834
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 3: You can't pay me, it's illegal now anyway, I'm not losing.

835
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:16,760
Speaker 2: And stressed over stuff I can't control.

836
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 3: Fifteen pounds or two days gone, the stressed guy out.

837
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:23,279
Speaker 2: I feel like when you're in a relationship, you just

838
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: got to trust each other and go from there. You

839
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 2: never went through a phone, no, no, Okay, when I

840
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: was like seventeen and I never went through one again

841
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,879
Speaker 2: because he was sleeping with his homegirl. Then he used

842
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:33,919
Speaker 2: to bring me around all the time.

843
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,320
Speaker 3: The best friend's always.

844
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 2: And I was seventeen. I will never forget that. I

845
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:39,239
Speaker 2: will never go through a phone.

846
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 3: That gain's the word I want that she is.

847
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 2: I was throwing your face, like y'all just both smiling

848
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:46,320
Speaker 2: in my face and then like everybody.

849
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 3: Else knows, you the only one that don't know. I'll

850
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:50,040
Speaker 3: never go through a phone.

851
00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:50,680
Speaker 2: She was not a girl.

852
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: Girl, I never did it.

853
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 5: Ever you do.

854
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 3: I'm saying that I won't do it now now, Okay,

855
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: she was so cold. I used to go through phones

856
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 3: and I would go right to the to the drama.

857
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 3: So if you go to the message and you go

858
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 3: in your message, I type in my name or I

859
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 3: type in girls names that I were familiar with or whatever,

860
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 3: and I would just like read the all the messages

861
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 3: that came up with you know it just.

862
00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: A word like love.

863
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 3: Address.

864
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm doing it. I'm not doing it. If it meant

865
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: to happen, it'll come. The besties that hit me up

866
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 2: in the DM, whatever the case. They be like, hey,

867
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: that's what they used to do.

868
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,320
Speaker 3: Girl. When I say girl, they used to record videos

869
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 3: and send them to me and my day.

870
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 2: The girlies a help. The girlies like Besie. I just

871
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 2: be like they definitely tell me when they see my

872
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 2: men in Houston.

873
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 5: And they see and they said video head shots proof.

874
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 2: Okay, so it'll come out.

875
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 4: And is that something that you would bring to him,

876
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 4: like somebody sent me this or do you not?

877
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 3: So I'm the type of person I feel like I'm

878
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: not I'm not gonna cry and stay. So if I'm no,

879
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 3: I'm not ready to leave you or whatever, like that's

880
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 3: something that's Those are just things that I keep under

881
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,800
Speaker 3: my hat, okay. And I just feel like sometimes I

882
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 3: just be like, okay, whatever, but it's like there's no

883
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,040
Speaker 3: reason to fuss and fuss and fuss about.

884
00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 1: It unless you're not gonna les.

885
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, just cry, put in your pocket and then I'm

886
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: back over there two days. I love.

887
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 1: Listen, what do you think doing an alement? Cheat? Not

888
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: all right?

889
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 3: I feel like there's like, you know the outline a

890
00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 3: little few people, but.

891
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:41,800
Speaker 1: Have you ever cheated?

892
00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 3: Yes?

893
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 1: I love that pause.

894
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 2: No shift.

895
00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 3: I have and I feel and I was, I was

896
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 3: a lot younger, and I feel like I don't know

897
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 3: it's something. Maybe it's like still guilt guilt in me

898
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 3: about it. I always feel like things that happened like

899
00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 3: in my love life, like I'm still paying for it

900
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:12,320
Speaker 3: because I broke it. I broke somebody's heart that I

901
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 3: feel like wasn't cheating on me, like at that time,

902
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 3: you know, I feel like I broke his heart, but

903
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm still paying for it. I don't

904
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 3: know why. Maybe it's I still feel guilty about.

905
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: Tell me I want to hear this though.

906
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 3: I feel that too. Though. It was like I don't know,

907
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 3: I just I was younger. I was eating a guy,

908
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,320
Speaker 3: I was dancing, you know, like being in a club,

909
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 3: you used to meet a bunch of people, and it

910
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 3: was like once you get introduced to like the glitz

911
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 3: and the glam and like other people can show you

912
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 3: a different type of lifestyle and then like you have

913
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 3: this like regular Joe here, and it was just like

914
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 3: I just kind of started doing my own thing. And

915
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 3: then what happened was he went through my phone and

916
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 3: then it was just like a thing and it was

917
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 3: just like he's crying and like but I love you,

918
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 3: I love you. I'm like I just don't want to

919
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,239
Speaker 3: be with you no more. I don't I can't do

920
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 3: this no more. It was just like an every time

921
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 3: something bad happens in my life, like my love life,

922
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 3: about karma.

923
00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: That's do you know where he is now?

924
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:08,319
Speaker 3: We're friends now?

925
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, so that's not bad karma because at least

926
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 5: you guys are cool.

927
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like married.

928
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:18,240
Speaker 5: Now and look you might have did him my favorite.

929
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 5: It's canceled. It's canceled.

930
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,720
Speaker 1: This is the world.

931
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 2: Does the wife know y'all still cool?

932
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 3: I don't know.

933
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 5: I don't know if she I don't know how that

934
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 5: step back with you if he could. I don't do

935
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 5: me Like, that's not my problem.

936
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: There you go.

937
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 3: I don't do marry man.

938
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,719
Speaker 1: Have you ever cheated?

939
00:42:48,600 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 2: Yes? No, No, I wouldn't do it again, though, just

940
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 2: because I do feel like similar to you, Like I

941
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,799
Speaker 2: feel like you really hurt the person and you think

942
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,880
Speaker 2: cheating could be so small, but you can cheat and

943
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 2: find the love of your life, and now you're just

944
00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 2: in a whole situation. So I just be like, look,

945
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,359
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be my person and things don't work,

946
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 2: we're gonna move on. I'm not about to get into it,

947
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: especially now these days too. You can't even if even

948
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 2: if I wanted to cheat, I couldn't shoat in peace.

949
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 2: You can't go nowhere, especially not in huh. People taking

950
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 2: pictures telling people building.

951
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 3: Exactly imagine this scenario. Imagine cheating on the person that

952
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 3: you're with, because this is kind of what happened to

953
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 3: me in that instance, cheated on and thinking you're about

954
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 3: to be with this person, and the person kind of

955
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 3: like dubs you, and then you're left alone and just

956
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: a girl.

957
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 2: That's crazy hands and feet after that, because.

958
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,600
Speaker 3: Now I can't show a face in the whole town.

959
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 2: Damn Levele homicide.

960
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: And then you probably went back like I'm sorry, you know,

961
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 1: I was real sorry.

962
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 4: But it's hard for guys to get past that. I

963
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 4: think women forgive that more than men do.

964
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,560
Speaker 5: Because making dish it, but they can't say that hurts

965
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 5: them to they that she was giving up that mouth

966
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 5: or whatever. That's why I said, I am not like

967
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 5: staying and crying, like I've seen stuff before and I

968
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 5: just be like, all.

969
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 7: Right, carry on, but yeah, I'll just be like, Jordy,

970
00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 7: have you cheated?

971
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm cheated. I felt really bad about too.

972
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 6: I felt like there was a karmic thing following me.

973
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 6: I feel like I still low key feeling that way. Yeah,

974
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 6: I feel like, you know, he's over married.

975
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: I've cheated, but I never I don't feel bad.

976
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 5: The same cheat it and I never felt did you

977
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 5: really like them?

978
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 1: Because the only reason I've.

979
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 3: Ever cheated was because cheat back.

980
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guy cheats on me.

981
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 4: And I also anytime I've ever cheated has been because

982
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:20,719
Speaker 4: I knew the relationship was over. And so sometimes I

983
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,480
Speaker 4: think we do that because we've already kind of moved on.

984
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,360
Speaker 4: We just haven't like officially ended it, if that makes sense.

985
00:45:27,280 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 5: Like, yes, we ended in our minds, right, we already know,

986
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 5: like you don't get this, you out here doing whatever,

987
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,880
Speaker 5: So let me build them the strength.

988
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:38,520
Speaker 3: That was how I was when I went and got

989
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 3: my back blown out.

990
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: Because it was.

991
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 3: You and I was already out of there.

992
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 5: Mentally, and I just went on it and then with you,

993
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 5: and then I broke up with him after I did it.

994
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 5: I cheated and then I was like, Okay, it's not

995
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:54,560
Speaker 5: gonna work.

996
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: That'll do it. You were like I just.

997
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 3: Because I wanted to keep getting and let me just

998
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:00,959
Speaker 3: can't go.

999
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: From this at home? Yeah, bigger because they're gonna know,

1000
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: are not.

1001
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:06,759
Speaker 3: Really gonna know.

1002
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 2: They don't know. Why can they know?

1003
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 5: Because they're gonna be because it's not it's gonna be

1004
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 5: a little more stressed out.

1005
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 2: You know that's okay, especially if it is like this,

1006
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 2: like it was never hit in the wall anyway.

1007
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: I just feel like, I don't know, I just feel

1008
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: like a guy will know.

1009
00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 4: I don't know why, but you know how sometimes like

1010
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 4: you with somebody they're big and then you feel like damn.

1011
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: You know, stressing me.

1012
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 5: Maybe if it's too soon, let it get back right

1013
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 5: then you got it or you can just go get

1014
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 5: you can go get wet, get layers of rejuvenation like

1015
00:46:55,719 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 5: I did, because that was when.

1016
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 3: I did it. Was that. It's great? Still what did

1017
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 3: it feel like? Nothing? But it was better?

1018
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, hasn't nobody else has laser rejuvenation.

1019
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 3: I've done it. I did it what twice? Three times?

1020
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:12,560
Speaker 2: What?

1021
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 3: Three time?

1022
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 5: Well, I'm gonna tell you why because the first time

1023
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 5: I did it was five six years ago.

1024
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: That's the lost teen all the time.

1025
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 5: So yeah, the first time I did is because I

1026
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 5: was suffering from incontinence and when I saw it, it

1027
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 5: was a thing I got to be. I couldn't hold

1028
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 5: my pee, so I saw that that helps with that, right,

1029
00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 5: and then so it's like a you do it like

1030
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 5: two to three times to reach the full potential. So

1031
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 5: I did that round of it and then you get

1032
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 5: it touched up like two years later. So then I

1033
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 5: got to touch up. And then I was working doing

1034
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 5: promo for a Goals. I had got some light box

1035
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 5: and they're like, any other procedure you want, you could

1036
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,799
Speaker 5: do for free. We offer laser videw and I was like, oh, yeah,

1037
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 5: I've done it before, should I do it again? So

1038
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 5: but listen when I did at that time, the lady

1039
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 5: was like, you don't need it.

1040
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,720
Speaker 3: She was like, much tighter.

1041
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 5: It makes you tighter, But like, what is it? It's

1042
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 5: it's like a probe. It's like a it's like a probe,

1043
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 5: like almost like a dial though, and they put it

1044
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 5: in you and it turns around in a circle and

1045
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 5: it just hits everything with a laser in it.

1046
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it really really works.

1047
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 5: Like I can't comfortably wear a super Plus tampon.

1048
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 2: Oh wow, I can. I can't.

1049
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 3: I can wear it, but.

1050
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it it bothers me and it makes my because

1051
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 5: you know, tampons already make your cramps worse. But like

1052
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 5: with super Plus, I'm like, no, take this out of me,

1053
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 5: but I can't take it.

1054
00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 1: What about you think that could work in your butt. Like,

1055
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,880
Speaker 1: let's just say you do a lot of anal probably.

1056
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 3: I mean, tissue is tissue, you know the ana feel like.

1057
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:50,880
Speaker 1: I'm just saying for the game.

1058
00:48:52,680 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 5: Bottom and that thing back up, because you know, the

1059
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 5: vagina is a is a muscle, so it's fun a contract.

1060
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 3: But you know, with age and and we're in terror, I.

1061
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 5: Hate to say it like that, with age and usage, right, usage,

1062
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 5: With age and usage, you know, we lose elasticity, our

1063
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 5: muscles get weak. And this is what the nurse practitioner

1064
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 5: the very first time, this is what she explained to

1065
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 5: me as the you know, the health benefits and everything

1066
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 5: and why it works.

1067
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 3: And it really did work, she said.

1068
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:36,239
Speaker 5: And now because of that, it's it's it's tighter, it's better,

1069
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 5: it's wetter, and life's great. Yeah, that's still.

1070
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: All right, Choe.

1071
00:49:47,360 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 4: What's something that you haven't done that you want to

1072
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 4: do in the bedroom? I don't know you had a

1073
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 4: first thought. No, I don't because I feel like we've

1074
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 4: like I've done thing like that. I want to do that.

1075
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 2: I want to do Like I'm super against the butt

1076
00:50:06,120 --> 00:50:11,479
Speaker 2: play and all that stuff. So yeah, like we sprinkles, yeah,

1077
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 2: like not not into that, but everything that I have

1078
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: wanted to do. We definitely do, We've done, like I

1079
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 2: feel like that's the key to a bomb relationship is

1080
00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 2: like your sex life has to be top tier. Okay,

1081
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 2: if it's not, it's just like, especially for a man,

1082
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 2: myn is physical beings.

1083
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 4: So yeah, you're right about that's when they go to

1084
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 4: try to feel that boy exactly.

1085
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 2: And we ain't gonna feel well, we're gonna tryna try it.

1086
00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: Boy, Lara, what about you? Is there anything you haven't

1087
00:50:37,160 --> 00:50:40,880
Speaker 1: done that you want to do? H nothing.

1088
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 3: I don't do butt play either. That's not my thing.

1089
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: I just don't even let's not even talk about that.

1090
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,280
Speaker 3: I don't bring don't bring it up, not even a finger.

1091
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 3: I don't like it.

1092
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm not mad at that. I don't do that either.

1093
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 2: I told you a lot of guys we warning it,

1094
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: but we're not doing it in my house.

1095
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 4: He said that in my house, I feel like I

1096
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 4: always hard to stick a finger in there.

1097
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 2: Oh see, I was talking about the other way, like

1098
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 2: gods we wanted that too. Oh oh yeah, and yeah.

1099
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 1: That doesn't even ask that.

1100
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 2: I was just saying, how do you get there? I

1101
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 2: don't know, but that's just like, yeah, and I have

1102
00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:32,880
Speaker 2: friends that like they like Mammy and love it and

1103
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,919
Speaker 2: even like Gabriel and the way. Wait, they said that's

1104
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:36,399
Speaker 2: their thing.

1105
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 3: That is cool.

1106
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,399
Speaker 2: Good, they opened up, talked about it. That's their thing.

1107
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: I know they regret saying that to like we were

1108
00:51:47,640 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 1: too honest, you know what.

1109
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 4: I know a lie earlier, we were talking about the

1110
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 4: guy who had the sex with like the four hundred

1111
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 4: different people. Do you notice that if you see the tapes,

1112
00:51:55,680 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 4: he keeps playing with his nipples while he's having sex.

1113
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 4: But he was playing with his own nipples. He was

1114
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 4: like hitting it and then he was like playing with that.

1115
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 4: I don't know if I haven't seen it, but he

1116
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 4: kept on seeing that.

1117
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 3: I just keep seeing the little the professional picture of him.

1118
00:52:14,560 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, like this guy did x y Z.

1119
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 4: That's so funny to me. Is there anything that what's

1120
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,320
Speaker 4: a turn off for you in the bedroom?

1121
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 3: Absolutely? No, absolute, Dry you up and show you this too.

1122
00:52:29,400 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 3: I don't like, do not put your tongue on my ear?

1123
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 3: I will literally I hate that too.

1124
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: I hate that too, is.

1125
00:52:38,120 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 3: Why would you do that? That was disgusting. I want

1126
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:44,840
Speaker 3: to wipe my ear out right now. I'm just thinking

1127
00:52:44,840 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 3: about it.

1128
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't just like that.

1129
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 5: I'm just like, yeah, I don't like, don't put your

1130
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 5: tongue in my ear, ruin the whole thing to make

1131
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 5: me some little don't really that.

1132
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: I don't mind. Well, like your way, don't. It depends.

1133
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 1: I feel like things like that.

1134
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 4: Anything can feel good if it's done in the like

1135
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,640
Speaker 4: right time, or if you are an edible or something.

1136
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,239
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no no, not in feet don't.

1137
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:12,640
Speaker 2: I don't like. Oh I don't like feet. I like

1138
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 2: you like feet, like, okay, my person mean I don't

1139
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 2: want to feed you know, And.

1140
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:22,279
Speaker 3: Are you licking them?

1141
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:22,920
Speaker 5: No?

1142
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that's because okay.

1143
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 3: We're trying it. Didn't like it?

1144
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 1: Wait, you did what ones?

1145
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:31,359
Speaker 3: I tried it?

1146
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 1: Lik a toe? I never tried whatever?

1147
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 2: And what moment are you licking the tight?

1148
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 3: And are they clean? He actually asked me to do it.

1149
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:44,840
Speaker 1: He asked me to lick his toes.

1150
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:48,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I was like, I never did it before.

1151
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 5: He's like, try it, you might like it, And I

1152
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 5: was like, don't like it?

1153
00:53:56,040 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 2: Everybody, Yeah, it was very much. I couldn't like guys, no,

1154
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 2: I can't. But I could rub you. I could rub you,

1155
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:04,280
Speaker 2: but I can't.

1156
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1157
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 5: I didn't once you said a few She said a

1158
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 5: few tones, not a few times, right, person, one person,

1159
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 5: A couple of toes.

1160
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:19,680
Speaker 1: You must have been on with that night like I was.

1161
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,760
Speaker 3: I was, I was willing to go down and flames about.

1162
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 1: It maybe that night. And he'll never forget that either.

1163
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:32,359
Speaker 3: I have a son.

1164
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,840
Speaker 1: That got me was that night I was sucking his

1165
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: toes and next thing I remember, and then he didn't

1166
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: pull out.

1167
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,719
Speaker 4: And now we're here, And how did you say, like,

1168
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 4: come in me, because you know that's how it happens

1169
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 4: when you say it, and then guys can't stop.

1170
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 3: You know what my eyes said, what I said the

1171
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,080
Speaker 3: words give me a sign?

1172
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 5: Mhm really, oh it's got real, talk about a manifestation,

1173
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 5: give me a son?

1174
00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 1: And God said, grant it.

1175
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:12,919
Speaker 3: I wish granted looks just like.

1176
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,919
Speaker 1: That's cute. Did you mean it when? And you meant

1177
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: it when you said it?

1178
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,719
Speaker 3: Like clearly? I mean she was.

1179
00:55:21,640 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 1: Heat of the moment, you saying heat.

1180
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 3: Of the moment. It was very true. But then you know,

1181
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 3: like posts, you know clarity, It was like.

1182
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 1: That just like it happens, it happens, yeah, and then

1183
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:34,720
Speaker 1: it happened.

1184
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 5: So when you found out that not just that you

1185
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:40,040
Speaker 5: were pregnant, but that you were pregnant with the boy.

1186
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:41,880
Speaker 5: Did you refer back to that moment with him? Like yo,

1187
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:43,080
Speaker 5: I really did say.

1188
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 3: We both did. It was it's like still an ongoing thing. Okay,

1189
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 3: I still get picked on about it. I'd be like,

1190
00:55:49,080 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 3: that's cute.

1191
00:55:49,719 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 1: When you're ready for another when you can suck some

1192
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: toades and say.

1193
00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 3: That's how it works. Yeah, right, I got a kid.

1194
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 3: But yeah, my son he looks just like me. He's

1195
00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,959
Speaker 3: so cute. He's one. He's shoving my son.

1196
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:10,720
Speaker 2: Wow.

1197
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 1: Wow, that's so cute.

1198
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 2: He's so cute.

1199
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 3: You got your boy and you girl, are you done?

1200
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: So a year old and uh, seventeen month old?

1201
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 5: Seventeen month old one?

1202
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 3: You're done? Or you want more kids? People like he's

1203
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 3: twenty eight. No, he's true.

1204
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: You feel like you got more kids though, Yeah, you do.

1205
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 3: More, But I don't have any more kids until like

1206
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 3: I'm literally walked down somebody's house.

1207
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:43,280
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm not doing that as a conversation.

1208
00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 3: Like I'm just not doing it no more. It's like

1209
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 3: somebody gotta or it's gonna be me and my two period.

1210
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: But somebody because you're in a relationship.

1211
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's somebody. Well, you can see you.

1212
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,560
Speaker 2: Hear her what I say, he hear her?

1213
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:03,359
Speaker 5: You know, have you discussed that, like, are you getting

1214
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 5: married and you feel like it's gonna happen.

1215
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,560
Speaker 3: I don't know. I know I'm gonna get married, but

1216
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 3: or not, one way or another. I'm gonna be a

1217
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 3: bride walking on somebody. I'll jump in somebody period.

1218
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 4: Do you what if he's like, I don't ever want

1219
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,480
Speaker 4: to get married, does that mean that you're gonna be like, okay,

1220
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 4: we can't do this anymore?

1221
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:25,919
Speaker 3: Or well, that means that we don't share the same

1222
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 3: values in life. Okay, So how can you be with

1223
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:30,800
Speaker 3: somebody that you don't Yeah.

1224
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 4: Because sometimes as women we also feel like he might

1225
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:34,160
Speaker 4: change his mind.

1226
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 2: Oh no, we don't have all day right, especially wanted

1227
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 2: more kids.

1228
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 5: You already have a kid, Like you're already tied to

1229
00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 5: each other for I want another one. So I mean

1230
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 5: I'm saying, if you're with this person that you already

1231
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 5: have a child with, then you guys are tied together

1232
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 5: for life.

1233
00:57:49,960 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 3: Then getting married shouldn't be that far off from right,

1234
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,400
Speaker 3: But neither should having a baby either. And I feel

1235
00:57:56,440 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 3: like a marriage and I never understand this people. I

1236
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 3: feel like when marriages walk away from them. But that's

1237
00:58:02,400 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, so to deal with you years and

1238
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 3: years to come. So it's like commitments you feel like

1239
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 3: we can have.

1240
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 5: I don't understand how people don't realize that. People don't

1241
00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 5: realize like, oh, that's just my mama. No, that lady

1242
00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 5: is in your life for the rest of your life

1243
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 5: at least.

1244
00:58:18,440 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 2: Eighteen years maybe, I.

1245
00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 3: Mean, but you know, because you don't.

1246
00:58:28,400 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 5: You still have a child with this person, have to

1247
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 5: have some type of respect everything.

1248
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 4: But you know, what it is is that a lot

1249
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:38,480
Speaker 4: of people do have kids and don't get married.

1250
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:41,120
Speaker 3: It's too many people don't Yah.

1251
00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:44,439
Speaker 1: Okay looking from it's not okay with me though, yeah

1252
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:44,800
Speaker 1: for you.

1253
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 3: And I think even with K is that I only

1254
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 3: had K because I was engaged to be married, right.

1255
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 5: It just didn't work out, but that was the goal,

1256
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 5: that was.

1257
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 3: What was here.

1258
00:58:55,680 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, these days people think it's judges to say I

1259
00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,080
Speaker 2: want to get married, Like even on our blog. I

1260
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:02,160
Speaker 2: don't know if I told you about this comment. Somebody

1261
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 2: was like, oh, Chloe's being shady because I had said

1262
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,920
Speaker 2: in Hawaii, I was like, when I got there, I

1263
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 2: was like, yo, if I was married, I would say

1264
00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:11,240
Speaker 2: another child is on the way, and they were like,

1265
00:59:11,280 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 2: that's so shady to say that when you know your

1266
00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 2: friend has two kids not married.

1267
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 3: Those choices that I made, But yeah.

1268
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 2: It's just I hate that people make it.

1269
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 5: That's the choice, that's her standard, and she's standing on it.

1270
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:28,520
Speaker 3: These are the dumb choices I made, you know.

1271
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 2: But I think people just do it all the time.

1272
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,280
Speaker 2: I just use it as an example, like people are.

1273
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 3: Like, I don't ever feel that way when you say that,

1274
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 3: You're like, girl, like I should have said, I mean

1275
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 3: you should. I should have stuck to my guns too,

1276
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 3: But you.

1277
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:44,120
Speaker 2: Know, but I feel like girls feel like get fell away,

1278
00:59:44,400 --> 00:59:46,280
Speaker 2: Like oh, like what you mean you gotta get married,

1279
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 2: or you feel like it's better, or you feel like

1280
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: it's going to last. It's not that, it's just that's

1281
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: my personal.

1282
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:52,640
Speaker 3: Okay.

1283
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 2: And I don't knock you for your not you per se,

1284
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 2: but other girls for personal mors. But it becomes like

1285
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 2: very like heated conversation.

1286
00:59:59,080 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1287
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 3: I had to heat it co versation like that with

1288
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:03,920
Speaker 3: one of my friends before, but it was because see,

1289
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 3: like you speak in a for you type of thing,

1290
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,000
Speaker 3: and I felt like she spoke in a way of

1291
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: like bashing.

1292
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:12,040
Speaker 5: She was like, yeah, because I could ever be a

1293
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 5: baby mam. And I'd be telling her, telling her you

1294
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 5: can because I was a fiance bride to be and

1295
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 5: now I'm baby mama. I had no control over that.

1296
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 5: It just didn't work out.

1297
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 3: And like I tell her, you could be a single

1298
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 3: mom in your marriage, right absolutely literally.

1299
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:34,680
Speaker 1: Lonely.

1300
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, if it doesn't work out. Let's say you got

1301
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,360
Speaker 3: married to the man and you it doesn't work out,

1302
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:45,680
Speaker 3: Boom baby mama, boom single mom. It happened. So it's

1303
01:00:45,720 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 3: like Chloe doesn't speak in that way. She don't speak

1304
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:52,280
Speaker 3: in a way of like like kind of like attacking me.

1305
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 3: It's just like her own world. And I completely support it.

1306
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 3: And I'd be like what I tell you. I told Coy,

1307
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: I said, wait as long as you can, because Chloe

1308
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 3: has no When Chloe first started like really coming around

1309
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 3: some being around my kids, it was one day like

1310
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 3: when she was leaving she I think she like pulled

1311
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 3: me to the side. I would never forget that. She

1312
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 3: was like.

1313
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: She was.

1314
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:19,800
Speaker 5: One of the days when like my kids were just

1315
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 5: like on this and Chloe is just like standing back.

1316
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:25,680
Speaker 2: How you do it?

1317
01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 3: So I'm not be telling her. I would tell anybody

1318
01:01:28,560 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 3: that ever comes in contact with me, young girls, my friends, andybody,

1319
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 3: I'll be like, wait as long as you can, because

1320
01:01:33,480 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 3: it's fun, it's wonderful, it's beautiful. I love being a mom,

1321
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 3: but it's no like at all.

1322
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 5: It's like you were looking at half step at all. Right,

1323
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 5: unless you're a bad mom, then you can yember your life.

1324
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 5: These kids once everything their scheduled, every kid kids and

1325
01:01:54,560 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 5: then but you know, I.

1326
01:01:56,480 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 4: Think for women it's also a time thing too, because

1327
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:01,200
Speaker 4: sometimes us I don't want to wait too long.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and that's unfortunate. Like man can wait

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Speaker 1: and be and.

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Speaker 2: You gotta stand on business. I'm standing on business, like

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Speaker 2: I know what's coming ten tons down. But he knows,

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Speaker 2: like he already knows. He was like, I won't even

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Speaker 2: get you pregnant. Don't want to deal with that because

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be like frands tic going crazy, Like no, we're.

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Speaker 1: Gonna do How does he prevent that from happening.

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Speaker 2: We use we use protection, We do what we need

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Speaker 2: to do to make sure. But like like he already

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Speaker 2: knows it's gonna be a mess.

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Speaker 3: So just like like we already know it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: as a child.

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Speaker 2: He has a child already. He knows like literally what

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Speaker 2: it takes, what it all comes with.

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Speaker 1: How is your child his child's mother with you.

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Speaker 2: So we don't have a strong relationship. But she just

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Speaker 2: got married so like literally like last year, won't yes like.

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Speaker 3: That she never was like somebody is happy with that person.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're not to worry about it. But no,

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Speaker 2: So I hope to build a relationship with her. I

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Speaker 2: always tell him that I love his daughter down like

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Speaker 2: she's eight, about to be nine. He's from the Bronx,

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Speaker 2: like so literally up the street and like it's it's

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Speaker 2: it's good guys, it's cool. But he knows, like I

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Speaker 2: don't want the drama that comes with the back and forth.

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Speaker 2: When can the kid, you know, say it's too much?

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: And like I said, you know he's from the Bronx,

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Speaker 2: so his daughter is here, we're in Houston. It's a

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Speaker 2: lot on the child as well, just you know. So

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Speaker 2: I just want to just do it, not the right way,

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Speaker 2: but the way I feel.

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Speaker 3: Like it's right for your way exactly exactly. And I'm

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Speaker 3: very much the friend of advocate. Hey, I'm so supportiate

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Speaker 3: and please wait, Okay.

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Speaker 2: The birthday. It's a lot of.

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Speaker 3: I told you.

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Speaker 4: Well listen, Congratulations to you guys for coming together to

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Speaker 4: create this girls Girls. We love that because we've always

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Speaker 4: looked at lip service as a space for girls girls,

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Speaker 4: you know, and just to kind of uplift each other

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Speaker 4: and no judgment zones, to have real conversations. The best

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Speaker 4: thing to me is when people come up to me

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Speaker 4: in person and are like, you know, I watch your

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Speaker 4: show all the time.

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Speaker 1: I learned so much.

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Speaker 4: Thank you come through the show and they have a

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Speaker 4: better understanding of each other, and so you know, what

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Speaker 4: you guys are doing is definitely something that we support,

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Speaker 4: right up, lip Services, Ali, thank you and we.

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Speaker 3: Appreciate you for coming. Thank you for sharing girls girls

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Speaker 3: tea girls, and we're gonna do something in Houston.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like, let's figure that out. Let's make it

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Speaker 1: real like girls Girls lip service.

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Speaker 3: You know, collab and we do something like that.

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Speaker 1: I think I like that because y'all also turned up.

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Speaker 1: You know that's important.

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Speaker 2: Yes, the girls gonna hop out, but yes we definitely

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Speaker 2: turn up too.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you so much, we appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Make sure you're sign up with the blog. Girls, girls,

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Speaker 1: and congratulations.

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Speaker 4: Congratulations Congress to everybody watching because it's a crazy night.

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Speaker 1: I'm about to go look on my.

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Speaker 3: Phone on lip service sound. Thank you. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: Yes, all right, it is lip service to you.