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Speaker 1: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please, baby,

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Speaker 1: this one right here, right now. Let's go buggle up,

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Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here at

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Speaker 1: the timing, Yes, sir, I just want to tell you

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Speaker 1: this for your go now when you go to Doltan,

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Speaker 1: it's all almost two hours. It's a two hour drive

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Speaker 1: because you gotta stay on two thirty one, okay, to

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Speaker 1: go up there, two thirty one, two thirty one north,

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Speaker 1: and then you're gonna get on this lud junction, like

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Speaker 1: a little junction, then go west. It's just a lule junction,

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Speaker 1: but it's mostly two thirty one off. That's a couple

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Speaker 1: hours up there. Now. Just say thank you, unc, thank

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Speaker 1: I'm just going on straight recollection. We need a Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey key map that's cut off on the one ten,

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Speaker 1: off up in there. I'm sorry, dadda doting solting on

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Speaker 1: the seventh, Montgomery on the fourteen. Let's go buckle up,

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Speaker 1: hold on type, we got it for you here it

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Speaker 1: is thank you, nephew. Subject she needs a shot, but

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Speaker 1: not by cupid. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a married man

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Speaker 1: been an issue in my marriage. I work as a

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Speaker 1: modern day jiggalow, and I mostly get paid to entertain

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Speaker 1: women at corporate events, dinners, and family functions. I also

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Speaker 1: need a tune up, if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: I get paid well for that, but I don't do

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Speaker 1: it often. My wife doesn't know about that part of

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Speaker 1: my job. I always use protection with other women because

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Speaker 1: I have a wife at home. My wife and I

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Speaker 1: have a very active sex life. I never in a

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Speaker 1: But now I have a problem, and I think my

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Speaker 1: morning with an itching and a burning sensation in my underwear.

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Speaker 1: My wife saw I was uncomfortable and suggested that I

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Speaker 1: go by my doctor's office this week. I constantly visit

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Speaker 1: my doctor to get free condoms, and he knows what

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Speaker 1: I do for a living, so it was no problem

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Speaker 1: infection or an STI. I got a shot in my

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Speaker 1: When I got home, all of my courage was gone,

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Speaker 1: and I was scared to bring it up. What if

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Speaker 1: she's cheating on me and her sideman is not using protection.

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Speaker 1: I haven't had unprotected sex with anyone else but her.

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Speaker 1: She needs to take her nasty butt to the doctor

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Speaker 1: and get a shot. Now my Valentine's day and night

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Speaker 1: are ruined by itching and burning. How should I bring

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Speaker 1: up the subject? Yeah, yeah, you heard it. You heard it,

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Speaker 1: You heard it. You know I gotta say this to you, though, Boy,

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Speaker 1: aren't you one to point the finger? Yeah? You were

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Speaker 1: very very calm about it. Wasn't she I am surprised

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Speaker 1: with all your doctor visits, all that stuff, that your

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Speaker 1: is you can catch STIs while using condoms. You said,

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Speaker 1: he didn't tell you that. Now, according to my research,

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Speaker 1: all condoms are not safe. I mean they lessen the risk,

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Speaker 1: but it depends on you know what they're made of.

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Speaker 1: So what the condoms are made of. So I just

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Speaker 1: say again, while you're pointing the finger at your wife,

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Speaker 1: So don't you be calling her nasty. But you don't

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Speaker 1: it is, you know, you modern day jiggolo who uses

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Speaker 1: you do care about yourself, your health, your marriage, your

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Speaker 1: wife's health, your marriage, you care about her. You got

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Speaker 1: to find out the truth. You've got to sit her

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Speaker 1: You got She already knows you told her. She's the

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Speaker 1: blaming your wife and guessing about it. It's already out

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Speaker 1: there anyway. She needs to get her shot. So um

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Speaker 1: this one up. I mean, seriously, this is nothing. This

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Speaker 1: is nothing to play with. Yeah, I'm serious, Are you

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Speaker 1: hidding me? I know you don't like to tell Steve

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Speaker 1: this man cain't go in here. Do you know what's

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Speaker 1: really wrong here? She knows what he does for her.

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Speaker 1: This damn fool, this old I need all my time

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Speaker 1: interrupted to deal with this. You mean uninterrupted? Yeah, cause

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Speaker 1: see you to miss he this No, Shirley, she don't

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Speaker 1: know everything. Yes, the problem, Oh, this fool, this dumbass man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and now he trying to blame her exactly hot. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why he lost his courage I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you why all this is happening already. No,

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Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna have Prier two of Steve's respondent too.

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Speaker 1: I know, itching and burning going on you every time

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Speaker 1: we heard this. I heard all this, y'all crazy. Come on,

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Speaker 1: come on back twenty three minutes after the hours when

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Speaker 1: we'll be back. Subject she needs a shot, but not

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Speaker 1: by Cupid right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. She needs a shot.

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Speaker 1: Gonna help you. This man married works a few part

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Speaker 1: time jobs, which mean ain't none of them that damn good.

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Speaker 1: that do that ain't got one good job. That's what

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Speaker 1: that is. Now, let's just gonna keep it real, so

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Speaker 1: monels on, My line of work has never been an

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Speaker 1: corporate events, dinners and family functions. What and your wife

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Speaker 1: know this? Now? I also have a few older ladies

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Speaker 1: And I get pai paid well for that, but I

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Speaker 1: don't do it often. Now here's the key. My wife

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Speaker 1: don't know about that part of my job. Now I

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Speaker 1: use protection. We have sex. We have a very active

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Speaker 1: hind a million years, you didn't think she cheat on

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Speaker 1: you? You You don't told your wife that you go out

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Speaker 1: with other women. Stuck women, ain't women, ain't stupid? Ain't

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Speaker 1: she don't know about this other line where women gotten

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Speaker 1: So now your dumb ass is set up in here.

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Speaker 1: I would never think in a million years my wife

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Speaker 1: But now I have a problem, and I think my

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Speaker 1: you woke up Sunday morning with an itching and a

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Speaker 1: burning in your drawls? Not when you went to pee.

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Speaker 1: you could have got that from any one of them

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Speaker 1: Now ain't no shots for But you woke up with

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Speaker 1: tell you right now, that's a sexually transmitted fungal disease.

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Speaker 1: If you can get a shot for it, itching and

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Speaker 1: you didn't got yourself a fungal disease, that's you. My

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Speaker 1: other problem, Shelly, I constantly Victor visited my doctor to

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Speaker 1: He just going there because his cheap ass get free

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Speaker 1: That's why he can't quit that. So he can't get

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Speaker 1: infection with just fungal, with the itching and burning. I

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Speaker 1: real jigglow with all these old ass women because you

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Speaker 1: these drugs though, Drive your ass back over to his office.

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Speaker 1: Get some free damn counor. Yeah, Trojan makes some real

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Speaker 1: make no sense, surely, And why you got to go

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Speaker 1: get free? Come? How many condoms you use? It? So

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