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Speaker 1: We have a girl named Meg on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today and in her email, Meg
Speaker 1: said that after her date she was super disappointed in herself.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Meg, don't be too hard on you. Yeah, So,
Speaker 1: before we go any further, Meg, I just want you
Speaker 1: to know the feeling is mutual. We're all super disappointed
Speaker 1: in you too. Okay, that's fair. No, it's a good thing,
Speaker 1: because there's nowhere else for you to go from here
Speaker 1: but up. Okay, So just remember we couldn't possibly think
Speaker 1: less of you than we already do right now. So
Speaker 1: with that in mind, tell us about your date. Who's
Speaker 1: the guy you disappointed us? Well? I know this guy
Speaker 1: named Sarah gay because I'm cute and he ended up
Speaker 1: being cute in person too. Okay, So I see where
Speaker 1: you're saying, Jeffrey, She is at the bottom. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: can't rock bottom. I mean, obviously things are bad, Meg, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I'm still just really confusus. Okay, so wait, can
Speaker 1: we start with the disappointment or do we get to
Speaker 1: the disappointment? Where does that come in? Yeah, let's get
Speaker 1: to the disappointment. Why don't you start at the beginning
Speaker 1: and tell us a little bit about what you and
Speaker 1: Sergey did. So when we touched on the phone, we
Speaker 1: learned that we both love to travel and on to
Speaker 1: a bit a bunch of places that I have on
Speaker 1: my bucket list, like Machu Picchu, and I decided that
Speaker 1: instead of going to you know, a normal boring sit
Speaker 1: down dinner, it'd be kind of fun to experience other
Speaker 1: cultures together and try street foods from around the world. Okay,
Speaker 1: so cool. So you booked two one way tickets around
Speaker 1: the world and sit off on your adventure. We went
Speaker 1: across the globe and we started to a South America. SA,
Speaker 1: you didn't have some scot about kebab from Peru and
Speaker 1: some chaus. Oh, so like you planned out like meals
Speaker 1: from around the world by finding different restaurants where you
Speaker 1: could go get like appetizers. Essentially exactly it's like on
Speaker 1: the a little snack walk. Oh man, that my heart
Speaker 1: is already full. If someone took me on a snack walk,
Speaker 1: that sounds amazing, it doesn't it. Well, it was going
Speaker 1: really well, but I should have stuck with South America,
Speaker 1: I guess, because I decided to take us to a
Speaker 1: French spot and I insisted that he tried some street kiche.
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. So street kish are these like
Speaker 1: actual restaurants or are these like carts that you're finding
Speaker 1: on the side of the road. No, their food truck.
Speaker 1: Oh you're at okay, Yeah, you're walking up off the street.
Speaker 1: But like man greets get you. Yeah, it's written right
Speaker 1: there on the side of the truck. It will get you.
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes after he had the street ki, he was
Speaker 1: just in really bad shape, like he was heaving. Oh
Speaker 1: it's like webbing is really scary. So I took him
Speaker 1: to her or didn't care. And I felt terrible because
Speaker 1: of this stupid street keech. And so the nice thing
Speaker 1: was that, like our conversation was a little bit surfacing
Speaker 1: at the food trucks, but in the waiting room, you know,
Speaker 1: he opened up a little bit. That's nice. In between
Speaker 1: heaves and cold sweats. He's opening up to you. See,
Speaker 1: that's the secret to getting a guy to open up
Speaker 1: to you. Put him in the hospital and he'll tell
Speaker 1: you exactly what you want to hear. Get him vulnerable.
Speaker 1: And he was crying to you, is what it sounds like.
Speaker 1: What did he tell you about? What you talk about? Oh?
Speaker 1: You know, we just talked a little bit about our
Speaker 1: families and where we grew us, and we tried to
Speaker 1: would not talk about food good So obviously I cut
Speaker 1: it short because he wasn't feeling well. I stayed until
Speaker 1: he have a doctor and then I offered to take
Speaker 1: him home, but he just insisted on getting himself a
Speaker 1: lift and taking care of himself and we had a
Speaker 1: really you know, polite hug, and that's kind of how
Speaker 1: things ended. You know. I sent a check in text
Speaker 1: let him know that I had a good time before
Speaker 1: the heavesies. But you know, he's not really there's no
Speaker 1: flirting or or you know, extra engagement. It is all
Speaker 1: very polite. Well, I would assume that he's very embarrassed,
Speaker 1: like anyone who's got food points. I mean, I'm assuming
Speaker 1: that he had food poisoning from the street. Keish it's
Speaker 1: not your best look. So why are you disappointed in
Speaker 1: yourself after this because the Keish didn't kill him? Or
Speaker 1: did you want to get to the rest of the countries. No,
Speaker 1: because the Kish didn't kill me. You know, I feel
Speaker 1: a little responsible because I was on telling him to
Speaker 1: try some food from my country. Oh no, your country,
Speaker 1: your heritage food. Yeah. I want him to know that
Speaker 1: he shouldn't feel in there or be afraid of the French.
Speaker 1: So when did he get released from the hospital, Like,
Speaker 1: when's the last time that you talked to him? It's
Speaker 1: about a week and a half. I'm sorry. If I
Speaker 1: got food poisoned on a first date I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: calling the guy back either. All you think about where
Speaker 1: you think about them is no, it's terrible. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: like he's not going to eat Keish for at least
Speaker 1: twenty years and you're associated with it. So well, that's
Speaker 1: what I thought. But then after he got sick, you know,
Speaker 1: he's kind of opened up to me, So I'm a
Speaker 1: little confused. Yea, why we were able to have this authentic,
Speaker 1: meaningful conversation and then nothing. Yeah all right, Meg, Well,
Speaker 1: why don't you go grab a plate of Keiche. We'll
Speaker 1: play a song and come back and we'll call surrogate
Speaker 1: for you and get your second date update. All right,
Speaker 1: thank you, Okay, hold on brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second update if you're just joining us for part two
Speaker 1: of the second date Update, we're on the phone with Meg.
Speaker 1: She went out with a guy named Sergey and accidentally
Speaker 1: gave him food poisoning on their date. Oh, she didn't
Speaker 1: give it to him, but yeah. She took him on
Speaker 1: a little tour of all the food trucks in their
Speaker 1: neighborhood and she forced him to eat some Street Keishi
Speaker 1: asked him whatever, which made him open up, just maybe
Speaker 1: not in the way she hoped, because he became violently
Speaker 1: ill and she had to bring him to urgent care,
Speaker 1: and once they released him, he has not reached out
Speaker 1: to her for another date. So Meg, we're going to
Speaker 1: try our best to figure out what's going on with Sergey.
Speaker 1: Thanks you, guys. I really hope Street Keish didn't just
Speaker 1: ruin everything. Well, it did ruin a lot of things. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: probably his pance, but I just think he's embarrassed. I
Speaker 1: think if we can get through that piece for him,
Speaker 1: then it seems like a pretty easy second date situation. Man,
Speaker 1: I sure, hope, so I liked him a lot. All right, Meg,
Speaker 1: Well let's call Sergey and find out why he's ghosting you.
Speaker 1: Are you ready? Yep? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Sergey please? This is Sergey. Hey, Sergey,
Speaker 1: this is young Jeffrey from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: Give a minute to chat with us. I'm sorry, who
Speaker 1: is this? It's young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke
Speaker 1: and Jebil in the Morning. Are you familiar with us
Speaker 1: at all? Hey? Hi, guys, So, yes you listen? Or yes,
Speaker 1: you're cool that we're calling you. I'm sorry, I'm just
Speaker 1: a little confused by all this. Why are you calling me?
Speaker 1: It's a good question, great question. Well, we're doing something
Speaker 1: called a second date update, where we ask people who
Speaker 1: have gone out on a date recently why they're not
Speaker 1: calling the other person back. So, you recently took out
Speaker 1: a woman named Meg, and she told us a little
Speaker 1: bit about what happened. Yeah, she feels bad about it,
Speaker 1: and she's really hoping to get another chance with you.
Speaker 1: She just wants to know what the reason is why
Speaker 1: you're not getting a hold of her. Okay, And for
Speaker 1: the record, she feels terrible about the street keish situation.
Speaker 1: We heard about that, Yeah, she told you about that. Yes,
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're going to describe the date, it's
Speaker 1: a pretty pretty big moment like that would be the highlight, right,
Speaker 1: So you you think me vomiting everywhere was a highlight
Speaker 1: of the date? Okay? That low light? I mean just
Speaker 1: a definitely spotlight, a memorable moment on the date. I see,
Speaker 1: Are you embarrassed? Is that why you're not calling her back? No?
Speaker 1: I mean I had a good time. You know, she's
Speaker 1: very nice even with all that. You had a good
Speaker 1: time before that, Yeah that part, that part wasn't real fun.
Speaker 1: But yeah, no, she's great. She's really nice. She's great.
Speaker 1: Okay that I mean, did you guys have chemistry? Yeah?
Speaker 1: We you know, we had fun, we chat, had had
Speaker 1: a bunch of food. You heard about the Kish fiasco.
Speaker 1: So yeah, she is nice to hang out with. So
Speaker 1: why don't you calling this great, ice, fun girl to
Speaker 1: hang out with? Um? She just I mean, bottom line,
Speaker 1: she just deserves, you know, someone better than me. I
Speaker 1: can't be honest about my past. I haven't been dating
Speaker 1: for a while and I just I was thinking I
Speaker 1: should get back into it or something. But she'd be
Speaker 1: much better off with somebody, you know, than me. I
Speaker 1: just I could handle their keysh. No, that's terribly Like
Speaker 1: what do you mean she really liked you a lot?
Speaker 1: Like what could be so terrible in your past? It
Speaker 1: makes you undateable for her? I just think I shouldn't
Speaker 1: be dating. You know, she deserves a guy that can
Speaker 1: just be wide open about everything, and I just that's
Speaker 1: just what can't you be open about with her? Did
Speaker 1: you get in trouble with the law or something? No, No,
Speaker 1: no it's not. It's not divorce. I just I don't
Speaker 1: think if if she found out, I just don't think
Speaker 1: she could accept me. It's not a you know, a
Speaker 1: common kind of thing like that. So I just like
Speaker 1: I keep saying that, but I just I think I
Speaker 1: just should not be dating right now, and especially with her,
Speaker 1: because she's she's great and you know, she took care
Speaker 1: of me when I was sick and all that kind
Speaker 1: of stuff, so she's really got that sweetness in her
Speaker 1: and I am just a terrible person. Well it's been
Speaker 1: the past, yes, I mean, but it just not now. Um,
Speaker 1: did you commit a crime? Or something like, you're painting
Speaker 1: yourself as a very negative person and you sound yeah,
Speaker 1: you sound lovely. Leg I would go have a beer
Speaker 1: with you. I mean, I'm a I'm a terrible judge character. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: keys like, I don't think you're giving yourself a shot. Man.
Speaker 1: You can't decide for other people what they can and
Speaker 1: they can't handle. Yeah, but you don't necessarily need to
Speaker 1: lay stuff on others, you know. I mean, there's a
Speaker 1: there's a level, you know, and mine's pretty excessive. So
Speaker 1: it's so, yeah, just quit good idea. Ok So whatever
Speaker 1: you did in your past is so bad that you
Speaker 1: think you deserve to never have love and be single
Speaker 1: the rest of your life. Is that what you're saying? Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that that's why I've been struggling with the
Speaker 1: whole dating somebody. You know, it's my first date and
Speaker 1: she was great, and I just you know, it's it's
Speaker 1: kind of likely that you hurt yourself sports injury. Let's
Speaker 1: step back on the field. But you're like, oh my gosh, no,
Speaker 1: I'm not ready to all. This is still very painful
Speaker 1: kind of thing. So I just okay, I don't I
Speaker 1: don't think I need to drag her in. Well, Sergey,
Speaker 1: how about this, Why don't we let Meg decide whether
Speaker 1: it's worth going out with you again? Because she's obviously interested,
Speaker 1: maybe she should be the one that gets the final decision. Meg,
Speaker 1: don't you want to say in this? Yeah? I mean, hi,
Speaker 1: sergaya Meg. Yeah. So here's the thing, Sergey. Meg has
Speaker 1: been secretly listening on the other line to everything that
Speaker 1: you've been saying. Why didn't you guys tell me she
Speaker 1: was listening? I mean, hey, yeah, I'm just glad you're
Speaker 1: doing okay, So yeah, I listen. I had a nice
Speaker 1: time and I thought we had a connection. And people
Speaker 1: make mistakes, you know, people have that credit peofall have
Speaker 1: seminal records. You know that's the path. But like, if
Speaker 1: weird to just disappear, I don't even think you'll understand.
Speaker 1: You know, everything everyone's naming is just so light compareditis.
Speaker 1: I don't think you would explain me. I mean, you
Speaker 1: don't need to go into details, but try me. Yes, okay, fine, Um,
Speaker 1: I'm warning you you're not gonna like me after this. Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I can't go in a lot of detail.
Speaker 1: But a while back, I worked for some um some
Speaker 1: very bad people. You you would know them as the cartel? What?
Speaker 1: No way, he's like narcos. Wait you were in Okay, continue,
Speaker 1: sorry continue cartel? Got it? See that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You guys say in bad credit? All Let no, and
Speaker 1: I did you know more than just selling drugs? You know,
Speaker 1: if I hadn't escaped, i'd be dead. Like, it's just
Speaker 1: are you being honest? Are you making this up to
Speaker 1: get out of Like? Is this the most elaborate way
Speaker 1: to like not to blow somebody off and be no?
Speaker 1: Hold on? So can we clarify? You were in the
Speaker 1: cartel with bad credit and that's why you can't go
Speaker 1: out with me. No, nothing to do with bad credit, Okay.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get all the facts here. Had
Speaker 1: to move to a different city, all that sort of thing.
Speaker 1: So that's why I can't open up. That's why talking
Speaker 1: about my past it just doesn't work. I don't need
Speaker 1: to bring Meg into this, so well, let Meg decide.
Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, she has a mind, right Meg. So see
Speaker 1: it's not what you were thinking. It's just the cartel.
Speaker 1: Is that? Okay? That's huge. I can't say I saw
Speaker 1: that one coming, but yeah, we should take things slowly.
Speaker 1: You know. It's like it's mixed though, right Meg, because
Speaker 1: like part of that really scary, another part of that
Speaker 1: kind of sexy for some reason. It's a lot of
Speaker 1: things that one time. That's Yeah. So, as you were
Speaker 1: saying before, you know, you can handle anything if you
Speaker 1: can accept this, you know, I mean, are are you
Speaker 1: really interested? Well? We probably talk again, and it's nice
Speaker 1: to not feel as bad about the street keiche. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I forgot about it. So Megan, are you getting cold
Speaker 1: feet about this now? Ah? Well, I mean no, he's
Speaker 1: still the same person I talked to at urgent Care.
Speaker 1: It's just more information. So nervous, but you know what though,
Speaker 1: you're starting possibly a relationship in very open, honest way,
Speaker 1: right and his credit is great, So why are we
Speaker 1: focusing that was her thing? I don't know. She was
Speaker 1: obviously concerned about it before. Meg. I'm free on Friday.
Speaker 1: What do you say, free from prison? Well, I'll look
Speaker 1: at my calendar. We'll hold on, Meg. You I can't
Speaker 1: give your answer yet because if he's free on Friday
Speaker 1: and you agree, we'll actually pay for this date. We
Speaker 1: will pay for you to go out with the ex
Speaker 1: cartel member well, I still have to go look at
Speaker 1: my calendar. Do not say no to the cartel man.
Speaker 1: I know he's about that. He's got the hookups in Cancoon.
Speaker 1: You do not want to miss out on this. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I knew I screwed up. You tell somebody once you're
Speaker 1: with the cartel and they just blow you off. Words
Speaker 1: to live by, Sergey. Thanks for being a good sport. Meg.
Speaker 1: Come on, he's been through a lot between the Cartel
Speaker 1: and the Keiche. Will you give him one more shot?
Speaker 1: You know it might work again, But I do need
Speaker 1: to check my calendar. And that's the final answer. All right,
Speaker 1: there we go. Thank you. I've never I never knew
Speaker 1: i'd feel so bad for a Cartel member.