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<v Speaker 1>We have a girl named Meg on the phone for

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update today and in her email, Meg

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<v Speaker 1>said that after her date she was super disappointed in herself.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Meg, don't be too hard on you. Yeah, So,

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<v Speaker 1>before we go any further, Meg, I just want you

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<v Speaker 1>to know the feeling is mutual. We're all super disappointed

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<v Speaker 1>in you too. Okay, that's fair. No, it's a good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's nowhere else for you to go from here

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<v Speaker 1>but up. Okay, So just remember we couldn't possibly think

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<v Speaker 1>less of you than we already do right now. So

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<v Speaker 1>with that in mind, tell us about your date. Who's

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you disappointed us? Well? I know this guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Sarah gay because I'm cute and he ended up

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<v Speaker 1>being cute in person too. Okay, So I see where

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying, Jeffrey, She is at the bottom. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>can't rock bottom. I mean, obviously things are bad, Meg, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm still just really confusus. Okay, so wait, can

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<v Speaker 1>we start with the disappointment or do we get to

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<v Speaker 1>the disappointment? Where does that come in? Yeah, let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to the disappointment. Why don't you start at the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us a little bit about what you and

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<v Speaker 1>Sergey did. So when we touched on the phone, we

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<v Speaker 1>learned that we both love to travel and on to

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<v Speaker 1>a bit a bunch of places that I have on

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<v Speaker 1>my bucket list, like Machu Picchu, and I decided that

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<v Speaker 1>instead of going to you know, a normal boring sit

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<v Speaker 1>down dinner, it'd be kind of fun to experience other

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<v Speaker 1>cultures together and try street foods from around the world. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so cool. So you booked two one way tickets around

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<v Speaker 1>the world and sit off on your adventure. We went

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<v Speaker 1>across the globe and we started to a South America. SA,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't have some scot about kebab from Peru and

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<v Speaker 1>some chaus. Oh, so like you planned out like meals

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<v Speaker 1>from around the world by finding different restaurants where you

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<v Speaker 1>could go get like appetizers. Essentially exactly it's like on

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<v Speaker 1>the a little snack walk. Oh man, that my heart

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<v Speaker 1>is already full. If someone took me on a snack walk,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds amazing, it doesn't it. Well, it was going

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<v Speaker 1>really well, but I should have stuck with South America,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, because I decided to take us to a

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<v Speaker 1>French spot and I insisted that he tried some street kiche.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the thing. So street kish are these like

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<v Speaker 1>actual restaurants or are these like carts that you're finding

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<v Speaker 1>on the side of the road. No, their food truck.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're at okay, Yeah, you're walking up off the street.

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<v Speaker 1>But like man greets get you. Yeah, it's written right

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<v Speaker 1>there on the side of the truck. It will get you.

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<v Speaker 1>Fifteen minutes after he had the street ki, he was

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<v Speaker 1>just in really bad shape, like he was heaving. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's like webbing is really scary. So I took him

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<v Speaker 1>to her or didn't care. And I felt terrible because

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<v Speaker 1>of this stupid street keech. And so the nice thing

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<v Speaker 1>was that, like our conversation was a little bit surfacing

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<v Speaker 1>at the food trucks, but in the waiting room, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he opened up a little bit. That's nice. In between

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<v Speaker 1>heaves and cold sweats. He's opening up to you. See,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the secret to getting a guy to open up

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Put him in the hospital and he'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you exactly what you want to hear. Get him vulnerable.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was crying to you, is what it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 1>What did he tell you about? What you talk about? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we just talked a little bit about our

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<v Speaker 1>families and where we grew us, and we tried to

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<v Speaker 1>would not talk about food good So obviously I cut

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<v Speaker 1>it short because he wasn't feeling well. I stayed until

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<v Speaker 1>he have a doctor and then I offered to take

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<v Speaker 1>him home, but he just insisted on getting himself a

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<v Speaker 1>lift and taking care of himself and we had a

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<v Speaker 1>really you know, polite hug, and that's kind of how

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<v Speaker 1>things ended. You know. I sent a check in text

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<v Speaker 1>let him know that I had a good time before

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<v Speaker 1>the heavesies. But you know, he's not really there's no

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<v Speaker 1>flirting or or you know, extra engagement. It is all

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<v Speaker 1>very polite. Well, I would assume that he's very embarrassed,

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<v Speaker 1>like anyone who's got food points. I mean, I'm assuming

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<v Speaker 1>that he had food poisoning from the street. Keish it's

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<v Speaker 1>not your best look. So why are you disappointed in

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<v Speaker 1>yourself after this because the Keish didn't kill him? Or

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<v Speaker 1>did you want to get to the rest of the countries. No,

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<v Speaker 1>because the Kish didn't kill me. You know, I feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little responsible because I was on telling him to

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<v Speaker 1>try some food from my country. Oh no, your country,

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<v Speaker 1>your heritage food. Yeah. I want him to know that

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<v Speaker 1>he shouldn't feel in there or be afraid of the French.

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<v Speaker 1>So when did he get released from the hospital, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>when's the last time that you talked to him? It's

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<v Speaker 1>about a week and a half. I'm sorry. If I

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<v Speaker 1>got food poisoned on a first date I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>calling the guy back either. All you think about where

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<v Speaker 1>you think about them is no, it's terrible. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like he's not going to eat Keish for at least

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<v Speaker 1>twenty years and you're associated with it. So well, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I thought. But then after he got sick, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of opened up to me, So I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>little confused. Yea, why we were able to have this authentic,

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<v Speaker 1>meaningful conversation and then nothing. Yeah all right, Meg, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you go grab a plate of Keiche. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song and come back and we'll call surrogate

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<v Speaker 1>for you and get your second date update. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, Okay, hold on brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second update if you're just joining us for part two

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<v Speaker 1>of the second date Update, we're on the phone with Meg.

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<v Speaker 1>She went out with a guy named Sergey and accidentally

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<v Speaker 1>gave him food poisoning on their date. Oh, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>give it to him, but yeah. She took him on

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<v Speaker 1>a little tour of all the food trucks in their

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood and she forced him to eat some Street Keishi

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<v Speaker 1>asked him whatever, which made him open up, just maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not in the way she hoped, because he became violently

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<v Speaker 1>ill and she had to bring him to urgent care,

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<v Speaker 1>and once they released him, he has not reached out

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<v Speaker 1>to her for another date. So Meg, we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>try our best to figure out what's going on with Sergey.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks you, guys. I really hope Street Keish didn't just

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<v Speaker 1>ruin everything. Well, it did ruin a lot of things. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>probably his pance, but I just think he's embarrassed. I

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<v Speaker 1>think if we can get through that piece for him,

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<v Speaker 1>then it seems like a pretty easy second date situation. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I sure, hope, so I liked him a lot. All right, Meg,

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<v Speaker 1>Well let's call Sergey and find out why he's ghosting you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you ready? Yep? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Sergey please? This is Sergey. Hey, Sergey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is young Jeffrey from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Give a minute to chat with us. I'm sorry, who

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<v Speaker 1>is this? It's young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jebil in the Morning. Are you familiar with us

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<v Speaker 1>at all? Hey? Hi, guys, So, yes you listen? Or yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you're cool that we're calling you. I'm sorry, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>a little confused by all this. Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 1>It's a good question, great question. Well, we're doing something

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<v Speaker 1>called a second date update, where we ask people who

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<v Speaker 1>have gone out on a date recently why they're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling the other person back. So, you recently took out

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<v Speaker 1>a woman named Meg, and she told us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about what happened. Yeah, she feels bad about it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's really hoping to get another chance with you.

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<v Speaker 1>She just wants to know what the reason is why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not getting a hold of her. Okay, And for

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<v Speaker 1>the record, she feels terrible about the street keish situation.

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<v Speaker 1>We heard about that, Yeah, she told you about that. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you're going to describe the date, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty pretty big moment like that would be the highlight, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you you think me vomiting everywhere was a highlight

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<v Speaker 1>of the date? Okay? That low light? I mean just

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<v Speaker 1>a definitely spotlight, a memorable moment on the date. I see,

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<v Speaker 1>Are you embarrassed? Is that why you're not calling her back? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I had a good time. You know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>very nice even with all that. You had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time before that, Yeah that part, that part wasn't real fun.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, no, she's great. She's really nice. She's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay that I mean, did you guys have chemistry? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We you know, we had fun, we chat, had had

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of food. You heard about the Kish fiasco.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, she is nice to hang out with. So

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you calling this great, ice, fun girl to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with? Um? She just I mean, bottom line,

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<v Speaker 1>she just deserves, you know, someone better than me. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't be honest about my past. I haven't been dating

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<v Speaker 1>for a while and I just I was thinking I

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<v Speaker 1>should get back into it or something. But she'd be

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<v Speaker 1>much better off with somebody, you know, than me. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I could handle their keysh. No, that's terribly Like

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<v Speaker 1>what do you mean she really liked you a lot?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what could be so terrible in your past? It

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<v Speaker 1>makes you undateable for her? I just think I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be dating. You know, she deserves a guy that can

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<v Speaker 1>just be wide open about everything, and I just that's

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<v Speaker 1>just what can't you be open about with her? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you get in trouble with the law or something? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>no it's not. It's not divorce. I just I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think if if she found out, I just don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she could accept me. It's not a you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>common kind of thing like that. So I just like

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<v Speaker 1>I keep saying that, but I just I think I

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<v Speaker 1>just should not be dating right now, and especially with her,

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<v Speaker 1>because she's she's great and you know, she took care

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<v Speaker 1>of me when I was sick and all that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff, so she's really got that sweetness in her

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<v Speaker 1>and I am just a terrible person. Well it's been

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<v Speaker 1>the past, yes, I mean, but it just not now. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>did you commit a crime? Or something like, you're painting

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<v Speaker 1>yourself as a very negative person and you sound yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you sound lovely. Leg I would go have a beer

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<v Speaker 1>with you. I mean, I'm a I'm a terrible judge character. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>keys like, I don't think you're giving yourself a shot. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't decide for other people what they can and

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<v Speaker 1>they can't handle. Yeah, but you don't necessarily need to

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<v Speaker 1>lay stuff on others, you know. I mean, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>there's a level, you know, and mine's pretty excessive. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's so, yeah, just quit good idea. Ok So whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you did in your past is so bad that you

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<v Speaker 1>think you deserve to never have love and be single

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<v Speaker 1>the rest of your life. Is that what you're saying? Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that that's why I've been struggling with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole dating somebody. You know, it's my first date and

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<v Speaker 1>she was great, and I just you know, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of likely that you hurt yourself sports injury. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>step back on the field. But you're like, oh my gosh, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not ready to all. This is still very painful

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<v Speaker 1>kind of thing. So I just okay, I don't I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I need to drag her in. Well, Sergey,

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<v Speaker 1>how about this, Why don't we let Meg decide whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's worth going out with you again? Because she's obviously interested,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she should be the one that gets the final decision. Meg,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you want to say in this? Yeah? I mean, hi,

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<v Speaker 1>sergaya Meg. Yeah. So here's the thing, Sergey. Meg has

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<v Speaker 1>been secretly listening on the other line to everything that

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<v Speaker 1>you've been saying. Why didn't you guys tell me she

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<v Speaker 1>was listening? I mean, hey, yeah, I'm just glad you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing okay, So yeah, I listen. I had a nice

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<v Speaker 1>time and I thought we had a connection. And people

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes, you know, people have that credit peofall have

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<v Speaker 1>seminal records. You know that's the path. But like, if

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<v Speaker 1>weird to just disappear, I don't even think you'll understand.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, everything everyone's naming is just so light compareditis.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you would explain me. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to go into details, but try me. Yes, okay, fine, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm warning you you're not gonna like me after this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. I can't go in a lot of detail.

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<v Speaker 1>But a while back, I worked for some um some

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<v Speaker 1>very bad people. You you would know them as the cartel? What?

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<v Speaker 1>No way, he's like narcos. Wait you were in Okay, continue,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry continue cartel? Got it? See that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys say in bad credit? All Let no, and

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<v Speaker 1>I did you know more than just selling drugs? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>if I hadn't escaped, i'd be dead. Like, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>are you being honest? Are you making this up to

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<v Speaker 1>get out of Like? Is this the most elaborate way

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<v Speaker 1>to like not to blow somebody off and be no?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on? So can we clarify? You were in the

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<v Speaker 1>cartel with bad credit and that's why you can't go

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<v Speaker 1>out with me. No, nothing to do with bad credit, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to get all the facts here. Had

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<v Speaker 1>to move to a different city, all that sort of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why I can't open up. That's why talking

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<v Speaker 1>about my past it just doesn't work. I don't need

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<v Speaker 1>to bring Meg into this, so well, let Meg decide.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah exactly, she has a mind, right Meg. So see

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<v Speaker 1>it's not what you were thinking. It's just the cartel.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that? Okay? That's huge. I can't say I saw

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<v Speaker 1>that one coming, but yeah, we should take things slowly.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's like it's mixed though, right Meg, because

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<v Speaker 1>like part of that really scary, another part of that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sexy for some reason. It's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things that one time. That's Yeah. So, as you were

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<v Speaker 1>saying before, you know, you can handle anything if you

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<v Speaker 1>can accept this, you know, I mean, are are you

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<v Speaker 1>really interested? Well? We probably talk again, and it's nice

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<v Speaker 1>to not feel as bad about the street keiche. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I forgot about it. So Megan, are you getting cold

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<v Speaker 1>feet about this now? Ah? Well, I mean no, he's

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<v Speaker 1>still the same person I talked to at urgent Care.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just more information. So nervous, but you know what though,

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<v Speaker 1>you're starting possibly a relationship in very open, honest way,

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<v Speaker 1>right and his credit is great, So why are we

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<v Speaker 1>focusing that was her thing? I don't know. She was

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<v Speaker 1>obviously concerned about it before. Meg. I'm free on Friday.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, free from prison? Well, I'll look

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<v Speaker 1>at my calendar. We'll hold on, Meg. You I can't

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<v Speaker 1>give your answer yet because if he's free on Friday

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<v Speaker 1>and you agree, we'll actually pay for this date. We

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for you to go out with the ex

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<v Speaker 1>cartel member well, I still have to go look at

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<v Speaker 1>my calendar. Do not say no to the cartel man.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he's about that. He's got the hookups in Cancoon.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not want to miss out on this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I screwed up. You tell somebody once you're

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<v Speaker 1>with the cartel and they just blow you off. Words

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<v Speaker 1>to live by, Sergey. Thanks for being a good sport. Meg.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, he's been through a lot between the Cartel

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<v Speaker 1>and the Keiche. Will you give him one more shot?

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<v Speaker 1>You know it might work again, But I do need

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<v Speaker 1>to check my calendar. And that's the final answer. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go. Thank you. I've never I never knew

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<v Speaker 1>i'd feel so bad for a Cartel member.