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Speaker 1: We have a girl named Meg on the phone for

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Speaker 1: a second date update today and in her email, Meg

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Speaker 1: said that after her date she was super disappointed in herself.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, Meg, don't be too hard on you. Yeah, So,

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Speaker 1: before we go any further, Meg, I just want you

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Speaker 1: because there's nowhere else for you to go from here

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Speaker 1: with that in mind, tell us about your date. Who's

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Speaker 1: the guy you disappointed us? Well? I know this guy

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Speaker 1: to the disappointment. Why don't you start at the beginning

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Speaker 1: Sergey did. So when we touched on the phone, we

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Speaker 1: learned that we both love to travel and on to

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Speaker 1: so cool. So you booked two one way tickets around

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Speaker 1: the a little snack walk. Oh man, that my heart

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Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes after he had the street ki, he was

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Speaker 1: it's like webbing is really scary. So I took him

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Speaker 1: of the second date Update, we're on the phone with Meg.

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Speaker 1: She went out with a guy named Sergey and accidentally

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Sergey please? This is Sergey. Hey, Sergey,

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Speaker 1: Give a minute to chat with us. I'm sorry, who

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Speaker 1: is this? It's young Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke

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Speaker 1: at all? Hey? Hi, guys, So, yes you listen? Or yes,

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Speaker 1: you're cool that we're calling you. I'm sorry, I'm just

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Speaker 1: don't you want to say in this? Yeah? I mean, hi,

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Speaker 1: sergaya Meg. Yeah. So here's the thing, Sergey. Meg has

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Speaker 1: been secretly listening on the other line to everything that

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Speaker 1: you've been saying. Why didn't you guys tell me she

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Speaker 1: was listening? I mean, hey, yeah, I'm just glad you're

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Speaker 1: doing okay, So yeah, I listen. I had a nice

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Speaker 1: time and I thought we had a connection. And people

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Speaker 1: make mistakes, you know, people have that credit peofall have

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Speaker 1: seminal records. You know that's the path. But like, if

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Speaker 1: weird to just disappear, I don't even think you'll understand.

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Speaker 1: You know, everything everyone's naming is just so light compareditis.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you would explain me. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: don't need to go into details, but try me. Yes, okay, fine, Um,

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Speaker 1: I'm warning you you're not gonna like me after this. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I can't go in a lot of detail.

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Speaker 1: But a while back, I worked for some um some

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Speaker 1: very bad people. You you would know them as the cartel? What?

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Speaker 1: No way, he's like narcos. Wait you were in Okay, continue,

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Speaker 1: sorry continue cartel? Got it? See that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: You guys say in bad credit? All Let no, and

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Speaker 1: I did you know more than just selling drugs? You know,

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Speaker 1: if I hadn't escaped, i'd be dead. Like, it's just

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Speaker 1: are you being honest? Are you making this up to

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Speaker 1: get out of Like? Is this the most elaborate way

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Speaker 1: to like not to blow somebody off and be no?

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Speaker 1: Hold on? So can we clarify? You were in the

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Speaker 1: cartel with bad credit and that's why you can't go

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Speaker 1: out with me. No, nothing to do with bad credit, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get all the facts here. Had

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Speaker 1: to move to a different city, all that sort of thing.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I can't open up. That's why talking

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Speaker 1: about my past it just doesn't work. I don't need

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Speaker 1: to bring Meg into this, so well, let Meg decide.

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Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, she has a mind, right Meg. So see

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Speaker 1: it's not what you were thinking. It's just the cartel.

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Speaker 1: Is that? Okay? That's huge. I can't say I saw

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Speaker 1: that one coming, but yeah, we should take things slowly.

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Speaker 1: You know. It's like it's mixed though, right Meg, because

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Speaker 1: like part of that really scary, another part of that

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Speaker 1: things that one time. That's Yeah. So, as you were

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Speaker 1: saying before, you know, you can handle anything if you

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Speaker 1: can accept this, you know, I mean, are are you

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Speaker 1: really interested? Well? We probably talk again, and it's nice

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Speaker 1: to not feel as bad about the street keiche. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: I forgot about it. So Megan, are you getting cold

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Speaker 1: feet about this now? Ah? Well, I mean no, he's

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Speaker 1: still the same person I talked to at urgent Care.

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Speaker 1: It's just more information. So nervous, but you know what though,

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Speaker 1: you're starting possibly a relationship in very open, honest way,

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Speaker 1: right and his credit is great, So why are we

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Speaker 1: focusing that was her thing? I don't know. She was

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Speaker 1: obviously concerned about it before. Meg. I'm free on Friday.

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Speaker 1: What do you say, free from prison? Well, I'll look

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Speaker 1: at my calendar. We'll hold on, Meg. You I can't

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Speaker 1: give your answer yet because if he's free on Friday

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Speaker 1: and you agree, we'll actually pay for this date. We

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Speaker 1: will pay for you to go out with the ex

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Speaker 1: cartel member well, I still have to go look at

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Speaker 1: my calendar. Do not say no to the cartel man.

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Speaker 1: I know he's about that. He's got the hookups in Cancoon.

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Speaker 1: You do not want to miss out on this. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I knew I screwed up. You tell somebody once you're

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Speaker 1: with the cartel and they just blow you off. Words

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Speaker 1: to live by, Sergey. Thanks for being a good sport. Meg.

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Speaker 1: Come on, he's been through a lot between the Cartel

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Speaker 1: and the Keiche. Will you give him one more shot?

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Speaker 1: You know it might work again, But I do need

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Speaker 1: to check my calendar. And that's the final answer. All right,

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Speaker 1: there we go. Thank you. I've never I never knew

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Speaker 1: i'd feel so bad for a Cartel member.