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Speaker 1: DNA test said, my sister lied about who she is,

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Speaker 1: But I'm about to find out the truth.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you need to know the truth, you know,

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Speaker 2: like we've read enough of these stories to realize the

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Speaker 2: truth hurts and you shouldn't look at it. Red Pill,

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Speaker 2: blue Pill, I don't want to find out I'm a

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Speaker 2: human battery. I would rather eat the steak. Yeah, let

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Speaker 2: me eat the steak. What am I really going towards?

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Speaker 2: All right? By hearing the by seeing the truth. Yes,

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Speaker 2: now I have to go and fight robots and live

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Speaker 2: in squalor. My sister is the robot overlord. I don't

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Speaker 2: want that. You don't want that? Yeah, your sister's the

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Speaker 2: robot overler who we just found out the truth about

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Speaker 2: the sister you're getting red Pill blue Pill. There she

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Speaker 2: is the she is the matrix. Damn you know. I

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Speaker 2: would probably, I would probably want to know the truth,

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Speaker 2: But like the steak tastes so good? Would you? Though?

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Speaker 2: I don't know? Would you want to know the truth?

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Speaker 2: Put your answers, red Pail or blue Pill. Put them

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Speaker 2: in the comments below and on Spotify, because that's is

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Speaker 2: where you're probably hearing this. All right, let's dive in.

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Speaker 1: My older sister, let's call her Rose, and I have

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Speaker 1: had a great relationship since I was a baby. We

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Speaker 1: were raised with an amazing adoptive family, and she's always

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Speaker 1: taken care of me nice. I grew up in a

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Speaker 1: How I was told the story of how me and

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Speaker 2: Addicted, substance addicted. Dude. The amount of crack that I

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Speaker 2: saw people do this weekend in the sane, off the charts,

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Speaker 2: I was like talking to a dude and he's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm like about to shoot up. I'm like respect for

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Speaker 2: being Yeah, right, dude, they had for communication. Yeah, I'm like, damn,

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Speaker 2: all right, all right, Alvin, let's go. His dame is Alvin.

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Speaker 2: It was heroin. I think it might have been trank actually,

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Speaker 2: I forget some kind of opiate with horse Franqulizer.

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Speaker 1: I was told the story of how me and my

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Speaker 2: Took care of us.

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Speaker 1: They never bothered feeding us and used to leave us

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Speaker 2: You know my parents gave me rock collections when I

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Speaker 2: I turned out pretty fine besides the malformed head and

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Speaker 2: that was bid. I'm sure you have a regular super deep.

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Speaker 2: She did this pretty often, and when I was born.

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Speaker 2: My sister was the only one who took care of me.

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Speaker 2: When I was two months old, they left us both

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Speaker 2: dumbster dumps. I would rather be left at buildebear than

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Speaker 2: they could have done the classic Roman baby thing where

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's some destiny deep shit stuff right there. We

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Speaker 1: But a couple months ago, my friend offered me to

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Speaker 1: take a DNA test.

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Speaker 2: All right, get ready for the boat to be rocked.

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Speaker 2: We know this is going to go very well. All

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Speaker 2: Why don't the DNA test companies take the weight? We

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Speaker 2: exposing reality exactly. Edward E. Ancestry, come on, bucking the

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Speaker 1: We did this to find some information about my heritage,

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Speaker 1: since my sister wouldn't speak of them much. Because Rose

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Speaker 2: Well, I can't imagine like that being so traumatizing, Like

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Speaker 2: I want to just distance right off to my family

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Speaker 1: But Op is like, got that, Yeah, that insatiable urge curiosity?

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Speaker 1: After the results came in, I found out some pretty

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Speaker 2: But I see you in the commons if you see

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Speaker 1: So I immediately reached out to her. Let's call her Janet,

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Speaker 1: she's planning a secret meeting. I don't know, guys. When

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Speaker 1: I think her the father was a junk baby daddy

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Speaker 2: She was a ja junkie. The mother she was maybe drinking,

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Speaker 1: So we went to her parents' house. The mom wasn't

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Speaker 2: of the ant? Yes? Exactly. Then when I saw the picture,

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Speaker 1: Basically, Well, yeah, so like Rose kind of created this

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we can assume that's a lot closer to

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Speaker 2: the actual truth here, but I mean it could be.

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Speaker 2: We don't have all the answers yet. So all right,

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Speaker 2: just to recap, Opie thinks that she has a sister, right,

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Speaker 2: this is the sisters a DNA test. Huh, OPI, Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: The sister's like, hey, we came from a like drug

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Speaker 2: Ope was raised by this adopted family. Then she does

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Speaker 2: the ancestry test, meets her aunt aunts real family like

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Speaker 2: her biological grandparents, and her sister is actually her mom. Okay, yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm tracking I'm tracking.

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Speaker 1: We were never abandoned, we didn't have junkie parents, and

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Speaker 1: she fabricated the entire thing to me.

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Speaker 2: Wow, and our adoptive family. Wow, and the adopted family. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Rose knew all along that her parents are looking for her.

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Speaker 1: They came to their senses after a day or so, right,

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Speaker 1: found her and apologized, and after a while she forgave

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00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,560
Speaker 1: him and kept secretly in touch with him. He met

432
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 1: me a few times and I knew him as one

433
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,200
Speaker 1: of Rose's old friends from the park.

434
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 2: Wow.

435
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,800
Speaker 1: So she literally met him like as a child, like

436
00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:16,159
Speaker 1: wow kid, and like still remembers who he was, but

437
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 1: he was just like, oh, an old friend.

438
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 2: Old friend from the park. What park.

439
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:25,040
Speaker 1: I guess the parks that they're freaking rendezvousing at to oh,

440
00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 1: you know, to like not keep it too close. I

441
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,040
Speaker 1: guess he helped us a few times, and apparently they

442
00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: would meet up once every two months in secret. Ironically,

443
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Speaker 1: I'm glad I got to know him before he passed,

444
00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 1: even if I didn't know who he really is. By

445
00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:41,919
Speaker 1: the way, the adoptive family never found out about the

446
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 1: whole thing.

447
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 2: Wow, you gotta do your due diligence, bro. I guess

448
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 2: Rose is just about she's too good at catching me,

449
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 2: if you can honestly like she's Leo.

450
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, I got respect for Rose because she like

451
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,840
Speaker 1: got herself in the situation, but was like, I'm going

452
00:21:57,920 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: to take care of this.

453
00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 2: Baby and figure it out. Yeah, dude, I'm comment team

454
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 2: Rose right now. Yeah. Comment if you're with me so far,

455
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,639
Speaker 2: comment team Rose. But if you want to be just

456
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 2: like Rose, comment team Rose. Oh, just like Rose, just

457
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 2: like Rose, exact same thang. Well, all right, I'm still commenting.

458
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 2: I'm still commenting it. So after hearing this, I told

459
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 2: her we missed a lot by not knowing she is

460
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Speaker 2: my mother, and I told her I understand, and she

461
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:22,880
Speaker 2: did the right thing.

462
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 1: I pulled out and it's a boy sign from the

463
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Speaker 1: picnic basket and some snacks for a late baby shower,

464
00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:31,359
Speaker 1: and we hugged for an hour or so. We had

465
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Speaker 1: a lot of fun, watched a movie, and I headed

466
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Speaker 1: off to my parents adoptive parents' house to have dinner

467
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Speaker 1: with them.

468
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Speaker 2: I mean, that's kind of beautiful, right, ended up like

469
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 2: that till a little bit more.

470
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Speaker 1: I'm glad she is my mother. I feel like, for

471
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 1: the first time in years, I'm complete. I don't care

472
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Speaker 1: that she lied because she did it for the greater

473
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Speaker 1: good and I honestly can't imagine my life right now

474
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Speaker 1: if she did it.

475
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she was in survival mood. You know,

476
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 2: I really can't fallow her blame her.

477
00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: And you know, ultimately, if you think about it, the

478
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: adoptive parents, they still love them. They still went through

479
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: all this trouble, not just to adopt the young you know,

480
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 1: probably toddler Ope, but also like lateeen Rose. You know,

481
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:14,600
Speaker 1: they did everything and they I'm sure they love them

482
00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 1: for all they did for them.

483
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also hard for Rose to keep a secret

484
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 2: that long, it's like crazy, could you imagine that were

485
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 2: weighing on you? Like the adoptive parents.

486
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 1: I think is the big one, because you're like, like

487
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: I lied to them basically.

488
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 2: And have we told the adoptive parents. Yeah, Joe updates

489
00:23:29,560 --> 00:23:31,720
Speaker 2: says there Ley, I don't remember if the adoptive parents

490
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,800
Speaker 2: were told. It doesn't sound like no, no so far. No.

491
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: I wonder what will happen when they tell the adoptive parents,

492
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: because they got to say that at some point. Yeah,

493
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, or even to say anything? Are you saying?

494
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: Like all right? I think the question is does Ope

495
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 2: tell the adoptive parents now that she's confronted her.

496
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 1: Mom, because if she doesn't, they kind of continue to

497
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Speaker 1: live this life of like, hey, we we brought these

498
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: we brought these kids in, we raised them. Like there,

499
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: it looks like in a drastically better situation right now

500
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Speaker 1: it's family.

501
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know if saying the real

502
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 2: circumstances changes anything, Yeah, except maybe it's like oh shit,

503
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 2: we don't really know our daughter at.

504
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 1: All right in my in my I mean, I could

505
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 1: see this like reaction of like basically that like oh,

506
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 1: PE's reaction right if maybe Honestly, I think it's probably

507
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: fair to say, like, oh, PE's reaction could be the same.

508
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,040
Speaker 1: Where at first it was like shock and she's like, yeah,

509
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: I can't even look.

510
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,000
Speaker 2: At you in the eyes right now? Are I don't

511
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 2: know who I am?

512
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: But then told the whole story and then it's like

513
00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:32,040
Speaker 1: I get it. It's a tough it's a tough one.

514
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Speaker 1: What what do you got, Riley? Oh?

515
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I found I found something.

516
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 3: I'll put it down here, all.

517
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 2: Right, Sam, producer. Riley just did his homework.

518
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: He smoothed, he slouthed, and I got scared and we

519
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 1: got something. This is a comment from TV Reverie. Thank

520
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: you for sharing the update, But I still have so

521
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: many questions. Have you told your adoptive parents? Do you

522
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: plan to? Does your mom want to? Did she ever

523
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,359
Speaker 1: get back in touch with her mother or her sister?

524
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: So I'm going to answer each one with Op's responses.

525
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: Have you told your adoptive parents?

526
00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 2: Nope?

527
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,880
Speaker 1: Do you plan to? I don't know. Does your mom

528
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 1: want to? I don't think so. Did she ever get

529
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 1: back in touch with her mother?

530
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 2: Hell no? And did she get in touch with her sister?

531
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 2: Perhaps if she does I will make another update, I promise. Wow,

532
00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: that's a lot of no answers, right yeah, basically, And

533
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:20,879
Speaker 2: I mean, like question still, I feel like that was

534
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:24,080
Speaker 2: just like I don't know for all those what's the date?

535
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:26,760
Speaker 2: Can you see the date difference Riley on the last

536
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 2: update to this comment, So.

537
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 3: The store was four years ago and then that comment

538
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 3: was also four years ago. But this I'm looking at

539
00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 3: like the user's profile and Reddit and they have not

540
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,719
Speaker 3: they like posted this story and then no other activity.

541
00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: Right wow damn, So we're left wondering we I.

542
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 1: Think that's a good discussion for everyone in the comments

543
00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: to have, like would you tell? Would you tell them?

544
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: And I think, how do you break that news?

545
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 2: Up? Hard news to break, hard news to break, but

546
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 2: you know what isn't hard news to break? What does

547
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 2: that say? The fact that we're getting into another story

548
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 2: but before we do that. Yes, I was recently in

549
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 2: your old stopping ground, the Baby Babies, San Francisco. I

550
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: was doing a series on what happens to the homeless

551
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:12,200
Speaker 2: when world leaders arrive, and dude, I was walking through

552
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 2: the tenderline. People are just shooting up heroin right in

553
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,119
Speaker 2: front of you or like Trank or whatever. I think

554
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: they call it trank. It's like horse tranquilizer and like heroin,

555
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 2: and like everyone's like like fucking hunched over. Yeah. And

556
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:29,119
Speaker 2: you see like tinfoil everywhere on the ground because what

557
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 2: they do is they heat up the tinfoil to mix

558
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:35,280
Speaker 2: the different the substances together to inject. And I was

559
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,639
Speaker 2: with one of these workers and we went under this

560
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 2: bridge to talk to some people because basically, like the

561
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,880
Speaker 2: city of San Francisco, there's like this global conference called

562
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: APEC where all these world leaders are arriving, and so

563
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: the city is just shepherding homeless people to other areas

564
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,680
Speaker 2: of this like like there's like a no go zone

565
00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 2: and they're just moving people out. Wow. It's literally a

566
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,240
Speaker 2: red square. It's like no homeless people allowed in this area. Wow.

567
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:02,040
Speaker 2: And so they're just like moving them like from that square.

568
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 2: And we went to a little bit like outside the

569
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 2: main city center to under this bridge, and there's this

570
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 2: like old Indian guy that's like under the bridge and

571
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 2: we go up and talk to him and we're like, oh,

572
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 2: what's your name, And it's like Alvin. And we start

573
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 2: talking to him and I'm like, hey, like, do you

574
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: mind if I interview you, and he's like, oh no,

575
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 2: I just got here and I'm like about to like

576
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 2: shoot up, so like it's not a good time, but

577
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,879
Speaker 2: maybe like tomorrow when I have like a little a

578
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 2: moment and I look down and there's just needles like

579
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 2: all over his campsite, And it was I think the

580
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 2: thing that was most surprised by is just how open

581
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 2: everyone is in San Francisco with their drug use. It's

582
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 2: like no one gives a shit. Yeah, like crack pipes everywhere,

583
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 2: fucking needles everywhere, and the police don't do anything.

584
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: I remember, dude, I remember going and I visited recently.

585
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,919
Speaker 1: My old boss actually posted on social and he was like,

586
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: this is the cleanest I've seen Lea in like five years.

587
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: I was there. That was the cleanest and it was

588
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 2: still crazy. Yeah, what was it like like when you

589
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 2: went like a week ago. I mean there was a dude.

590
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 2: Literally I got up at like five am or whatever

591
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 2: to go on my flight back here and there was

592
00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 2: a dude just like on the steps, tinfoil ready, and

593
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,399
Speaker 2: I was like, excuse me, can I have a walked

594
00:28:12,440 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: around him? Can excuse me? Can I get some? Can

595
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:17,679
Speaker 2: I get some? Dude? Yeah, dude, no, I mean there

596
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: was literally like places or it was just like zombies

597
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 2: walking Like I kid you not people like this for

598
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 2: like hours to the point where people they're permanently like that. Yeah,

599
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 2: they can't like straighten out tell you stories. Nuts. Dude.

600
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 2: Don't do drugs kids, No, definitely, no do that. I

601
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 2: think we're going to wrap up this episode and we

602
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Speaker 2: will see you very soon