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Speaker 1: Second date of day. The results are in. It's Brooke

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Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. Because recent studies have shown

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Speaker 1: about fifty percent of couples now meet online compared to

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Speaker 1: just twenty two percent only five years ago.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy.

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Speaker 3: That's a huge John.

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Speaker 2: It's like the pandemic, like super Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It made a really normal, really quick Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So now going forward, Brook, if you want to spice

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Speaker 1: up the relationship with your husband, you're going to have

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Speaker 1: to make him a dating profile.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, I think I could make him a really good one.

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Speaker 1: I mean to be honest, Well, I think joke's on you.

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Speaker 1: He already has one.

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Speaker 5: Wait whoa You're looking for a third right now, according

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Speaker 5: to him, And we're not going to go into that

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Speaker 5: because I want to talk right now because to Jordy,

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Speaker 5: the listener who wrote into our show because apparently he

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Speaker 5: met a girl out in real life, bucking all of

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Speaker 5: the latest trends.

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Speaker 1: You're the minority now, irl, Jeordy, good work, Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the show.

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Speaker 6: Hey guys, So where'd you meet this woman?

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Speaker 7: So?

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Speaker 8: I met Harper at this German bar. Actually, uh, you know,

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Speaker 8: I was playing BOXI ball. Do you guys know what

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Speaker 8: that is.

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Speaker 1: You have bought you ball on my rooftop of my apartment.

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Speaker 1: Like he tossed big these like big colorful balls onto

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Speaker 1: towards the ball.

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Speaker 2: It's an Italian game playing at a German bar.

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Speaker 3: But what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, so you said her name was Harper?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, she was actually a waitress there.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, I assumed that she was gonna be like

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Speaker 1: playing in the stall next year or something like that.

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Speaker 8: Right, No, no, no, no, no. She was super cute,

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Speaker 8: and I mean she was super helpful too, because I

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Speaker 8: actually had to have this like long cock with her

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Speaker 8: to tell her to cut off one of my drunk friends.

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Speaker 9: Friend, you had to do it like nicely, like I

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Speaker 9: told you, I'm sure that's happened to you, and you

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Speaker 9: just don't if you have a.

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Speaker 1: Good friends, if anything, probably makes you look kind of

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Speaker 1: good to her, because you seem like a responsible guy exactly.

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Speaker 8: It's like watching Jerry Springer. It's like you look better

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Speaker 8: than those people.

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Speaker 6: Oh can I ask real quick, was there an indication

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Speaker 6: that she was interested in you?

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Speaker 2: Because cute waitresses get hit on all the time.

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Speaker 1: And they smile and everyone thinks they're getting Brook tries

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Speaker 1: to get them to be the third in her relationship.

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Speaker 3: And Harper, I mean, Harper is a hot name.

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Speaker 1: But again, sorry, that is a conversation for another day.

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Speaker 4: Tell us, how did you work Harper?

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Speaker 1: That's not the right way, Jack, How did you get

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Speaker 1: Harper to agree to a date?

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Speaker 2: There?

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Speaker 5: It is?

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Speaker 8: Well, I just simply asked her on the way out.

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Speaker 8: I was like, look are you single? And she said

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Speaker 8: he was asking and I said I am good. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: And I just said I'd love to take you out sometime.

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Speaker 8: And she actually gave me her number.

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Speaker 6: Oh dude, if we done this and it's our loser line, awesome.

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Speaker 1: Is that your only meet up? Or did you guys

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Speaker 1: actually have a date.

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Speaker 8: No, No, we had a date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so it is her numbers because well, she probably

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Speaker 4: gave your number to get ready.

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Speaker 3: So what did you do?

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Speaker 8: We went out for drinks, little food. You know, she

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Speaker 8: looked amazing. I mean when she was like out of

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Speaker 8: her waiter outfits.

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Speaker 9: You didn't need to mention the second part.

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Speaker 2: She knows.

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Speaker 8: I mean I did have one embarrassing moment on the date.

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Speaker 8: We tried to order some keyshe Lorraine, and I said quickie, Loran.

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Speaker 8: You know I didn't take French in high school, Like

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Speaker 8: excuse me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you're also clashing with the batch you ball

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Speaker 3: in the Germans.

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Speaker 9: Don't want to be elitist by being able to say keish.

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Speaker 4: That's a tough w What was her reaction.

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Speaker 8: She totally laughed it off. It was a little embarrassing,

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Speaker 8: but after that, like, I think it kind of lightened

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Speaker 6: There the date was great, especially if you can be

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Speaker 6: self deprecating about it, you know what I mean, Like

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Speaker 6: it could almost even turn into like your inside joke together.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the next thing, I speak German and then you

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Speaker 1: just ruin it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 8: So we actually like kissed at the end of the day,

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Speaker 8: so that was nice. And she was the one who

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Speaker 8: texted me that night saying that she got home safe

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Speaker 8: and that she shouldain wait to see me. So whoa,

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Speaker 8: Like it seems super clear, right, Are.

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Speaker 2: You sure you didn't read that wrong too, There's no

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Speaker 2: way to read that.

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Speaker 8: I was in English? I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you've you've had a solid first date. You

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Speaker 1: kissed her at the end of it. She's the one

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Speaker 1: saying I can't wait to hang out again.

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Speaker 2: And how long has it been.

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Speaker 8: It's been like ten days or so.

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Speaker 1: Well, something must have happened in her life, Like I

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Speaker 1: already have a feeling this is not your fault.

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Speaker 6: I oh, I can see that were I don't know,

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Speaker 6: maybe work got crazy or there's a family emergency.

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Speaker 1: She really kindled something and was just oh, yeah, but

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Speaker 1: what's happened in those ten days? That's a long time.

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Speaker 1: Have you asked her like, what.

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Speaker 6: Have you doe?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: I mean there was one time where I thought one

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Speaker 8: date was gonna work, but then she asked about a

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Speaker 8: different date, So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: A ball player came into her work.

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Speaker 1: Might be okay, Well, we can reach out to Harper

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Speaker 1: for you and see if she agrees to going out

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Speaker 1: with you one more time. If not, then you might

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Speaker 1: have a backup. Often because Brooke and her husband, you know, but.

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Speaker 2: Jeff not online.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we only like the online one.

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Speaker 4: To be able to keep some distance.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, but you know what, We'll work on Harper first

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Speaker 1: and try and get you your second date update.

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Speaker 10: Right after this second date update, we're in the middle

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Speaker 10: of a second date update with our listener Jordy and

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Speaker 10: Jordy likes cute waitresses at German bachi ball bars.

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Speaker 1: He likes to mispronounce Keish lorraine just to seem vulnerable

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Speaker 1: and flawed.

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Speaker 2: How did he say something?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he said, you said quickly? What did you say, Jordie?

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Speaker 8: I said QUICKI loran quickly.

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Speaker 1: And he really likes to receive texts saying I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to see you again, because that's exactly what is.

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Speaker 4: Dade, Harper said to him after they went out.

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Speaker 1: So why is she not jumping at the chance to

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Speaker 1: hang out again?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she's the one that said she wanted to Jordy.

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Speaker 1: You think there's another guy who mispronounces French words even

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Speaker 1: worse than you do.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's her thing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he tried to order me a quabernetving gone.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, that's hot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I don't even know how you have mispronounced.

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Speaker 3: So much.

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Speaker 1: Yea pronounced.

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Speaker 8: I mean, look, Harper's a really cute waitress. She probably

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Speaker 8: has a lot of guys asking her out.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, I bet she's saying no fifty times

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Speaker 6: a day, every other table.

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Speaker 2: It's so annoying.

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Speaker 3: But that's why you're so special, is that? She said?

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Speaker 2: Yes to you and you guys had a great day

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Speaker 2: issue she said.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, But like, look, guys, if that's it, if that's

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Speaker 8: the thing where she has another guy, like, just convince

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know, in the five minutes so we've spent

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Speaker 2: with you, totally will vouch for you. Thank you, You're

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Speaker 2: welcome like.

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Speaker 1: A good guy, honestly, not even kidding. Yeah, a lot

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Speaker 1: of good guys insist how good they are. So we're

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Speaker 1: just gonna trust you on that, and we're gonna call Harper.

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Speaker 4: Let's see if she answers. Okay, I don't know you.

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Speaker 4: I mean you seem nice from a little bit be spoken. Okay,

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Speaker 4: you just stay where you're at. No, buddy, we don't

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Speaker 2: Let's get her on the phone.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, is this Harper?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Who's calling?

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Good morning, Hi Harper. That half of the

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Speaker 1: room isn't very excited to talk to you, obviously, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think she talked to us.

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Speaker 4: This half of the.

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Speaker 7: Room very good.

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Speaker 6: I just don't want to come into jeff what are

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Speaker 6: you calling for?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is this is something we do call the

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Speaker 1: second Date Update, and one of our listeners named Jordi

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Speaker 1: asked us to reach out to you.

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Speaker 2: Were you anything else?

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Speaker 7: I said, what do you want me to say?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're just trying to help him out because according

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Speaker 1: to Jeordi, he says he's been putting in a lot

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Speaker 1: of effort trying to figure out a good time that

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Speaker 1: would work for you to meet up, just because he

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Speaker 2: Is it just something where the schedules aren't aligning.

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Speaker 7: No, there was just like a lot of effort. That's

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Speaker 7: kind of a problem.

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Speaker 2: What too much? What do you mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Can you elaborate?

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Speaker 7: I mean, like on the surface when I met him,

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Speaker 7: like I was working and then we went and hung

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Speaker 7: out and like he was a good guy, and well

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Speaker 7: that's like what I was looking for.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like he's what you were looking for. I mean,

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Speaker 2: like I thought, so, okay, so what changed?

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Speaker 7: So we hung out and it wasn't until after that

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Speaker 7: I realized something was off. Like I had every intention

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Speaker 7: to go out again.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, what's the problem. Is it something about him?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? He gave me three options to hang out all

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Speaker 7: in a row, like Friday, Saturday, Sunday, Like, why is

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Speaker 7: he so available?

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Speaker 4: Wait? What do you hold on?

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Speaker 5: Did he want a three day date or he was

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Speaker 5: just like pick a day and we can do that one.

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Speaker 7: No, he was like, these are all the days that

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Speaker 7: I'm available, and I have to believe me and my

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Speaker 7: friends do that. There's a guy between the age twenty

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Speaker 7: four and thirty two ish. If they have that much

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Speaker 7: time to hang out, it really means that he's a loser.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh wait, wait a a loser.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're calling him a loser because he gave you

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Speaker 7: Yeah, because like they're all in a row, and it's

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Speaker 6: Maybe he is like, in my mind, you're a waitress.

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Speaker 2: So he's probably just trying to give you options because it's.

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Speaker 9: Probably hard to align schedules, Like he probably figures you

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Speaker 7: I mean that sounds like an excuse he to use.

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Speaker 1: I guess well, it sounds like he's doing it for you.

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Speaker 1: Because nowadays we hear from a lot of women who

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Speaker 1: tell us guys don't put in enough effort. They want

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Speaker 1: the total opposite, Like he's willing to do whatever just.

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Speaker 2: To see you plans the other days that you say

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but he didn't say that. He was like, I'm

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 8: Sadly this makes sense, but doesn't mean we agree with it.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that it does make sense to me.

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Speaker 3: He's not a loser. Like you liked him, You liked

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Speaker 2: You said that he checked all your boxes basically.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean he did. He actually had decent hygiene.

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Speaker 1: Which okay, But but he's too available for you.

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's why it's hygiene is so good. He has

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Speaker 9: I mean, again, you don't want date someone who wants

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Speaker 3: Need to have a life.

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Speaker 7: Well sure, oh god, and especially in the beginning getting

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Speaker 9: What would you want his response to be when you say, hey,

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Speaker 9: I can't wait.

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Speaker 2: To see you again. What should he have written back to.

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Speaker 7: He shouldn't have. He should have just let me hang

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Speaker 7: for a bit.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that was a red flag. Okay, well it.

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Speaker 2: Was cutting like a game.

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't want to tell you this because it's.

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Speaker 1: Not that he's like super available to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: That's not what this is.

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Speaker 2: He was so busy. It's like we had to call

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Speaker 1: Just in the middle of his extremely hectic day. He's

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Speaker 7: Hey, Harper, Oh so you've been on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Just a little bit, like barely.

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Speaker 8: I heard you call me a loser who has too

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Speaker 7: Well, yeah, they asked me to be honest, and I

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Speaker 2: She didn't say asked me what was I mean, that's

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Speaker 8: So, do you think I'm a loser because I want

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Speaker 8: to go out a second time? Like that part doesn't

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Speaker 9: No, it's just it's.

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Speaker 7: Just a little red flaggy to be able to hang

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Speaker 7: out three nights in a row, and like, my perfect

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Speaker 7: guy would never do that. He shouldn't have all the

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Speaker 9: You know, I'm sorry, guy shouldn't have all the.

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Speaker 8: To be totally clear, I didn't want to hang out

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Speaker 7: Okay, you're just being a little way to chill at

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Speaker 7: this time in your life. You know. Now the time

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Speaker 7: is work hard and we're going to chill later.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, well you're servant.

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Speaker 9: Stein's in a German bar, like, I mean, she probably

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Speaker 9: makes more than I do here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's just like, what are you doing to do.

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Speaker 3: The same thing.

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Speaker 7: Well, you don't even know me, so how about you

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Speaker 7: shut your mouth?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, your mouth, Michael, Who are you complaining about the

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Speaker 1: people bringing you alcohol?

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Speaker 3: I think being a server is a great job.

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Speaker 9: But she's like expecting him to like do all these

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Speaker 4: You stay in your lane and keep not tipping people.

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Speaker 3: I just like, I hate when people do that.

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Speaker 1: This is about Jordie, Jordi. She's concerned that you're too

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Speaker 1: not true. And how much you got going on?

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Speaker 3: You don't want to date?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean it sounds like that would be more

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Speaker 8: you want to play these games. Like we met in

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's actually a point. How busy are you right now?

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Speaker 8: I mean I'm kind of busy. I'm not totally busy.

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Speaker 5: I mean.

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Speaker 11: He's busy right slam Okay, Like, look, I'm looking to

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Speaker 11: get busier, all right, red flaggy much?

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Speaker 3: Oh god, he sounds like a nice guy.

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Speaker 4: That's what she wants.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't want that, but you did want it that night.

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Speaker 8: Look, look, Harper, let's rewind. Pret I didn't call you

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Speaker 8: for two weeks? Are you turned on now?

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Speaker 7: Two weeks? It's only been ten days. We're imagining, car

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Speaker 7: I mean, the reality is you sent me a lot

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Speaker 7: of freaking texts with like a lot of freaking days,

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Speaker 4: It does look bad. It's pretty bad. You know what

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Speaker 4: The thing is? We made him do it. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: Here, he didn't have time, No, but he.

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Speaker 1: Was kind enough to take a little bit of time

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Speaker 1: one more time, and we would pay for that date.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know if he's free.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, Jordy, are you even free or interested?

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Speaker 8: Not anymore? I'm all booked up.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: She's like see you next weekend.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not really into these games that he's

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Speaker 7: playing with me, and I'm not going to follow.

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Speaker 4: Sweetie.

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Speaker 1: God was talking like Brooke now is not okay?

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Speaker 4: You know what? Alright, this is going back.

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Speaker 8: Looking.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning got a text into seventy eighty

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Speaker 1: five nine two that says, with that out look, I

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Speaker 6: I mean, honestly, I think she just doesn't actually want

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Speaker 6: like looking. She says she's looking for something, but she

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Speaker 4: What she just wants to be wanted.

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Speaker 1: And the outlook that I think they're referring to is

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Speaker 1: hang out with you multiple nights in a row, that

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Speaker 1: means he's a loser and must have absolutely nothing going on.

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Speaker 8: You correct that, because when girls try to hang out

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Speaker 8: with me and I tell him I'm sorry, I got

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Speaker 8: two jobs.

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Speaker 1: I'm streaming video games every single night.

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Speaker 4: It also deters. Yes, it also matters what you're busy doing.

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Speaker 9: My D and D club on Friday on Saturday night,

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Speaker 9: so I can't hang out.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, but I make.

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Speaker 4: Tons of money. Hello, Hello, guys, just give up.

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Speaker 1: There's going to be easier to be just quit because

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Speaker 1: actually they're going to feel more attracted to you that.

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Speaker 4: You've given up on that.

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Speaker 3: Based on her, I mean, just too late.

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Speaker 1: She speaks for all women.

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Speaker 3: Hey, I cancel my two guys.

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Speaker 7: That.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, if you need help with your

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Speaker 1: dating life, go ahead email the show. We'll call that

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