Speaker 1: Second Date up dated. We've heard of all the usual
Speaker 1: dating apps on this segment, for Tinder and bumble Mama,
Speaker 1: hatch Me, you know where the guys in diapers lay
Speaker 1: on top of the giant eggs until they find their match. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but one of our listeners says they met a guy
Speaker 1: on an app where the male has to verify his
Speaker 1: income in order to join it. We just talked about that.
Speaker 2: We talked about the credit score of dating app not
Speaker 2: long ago. This is kind of the same.
Speaker 1: Thing I've heard about an app like this.
Speaker 3: There's a sugar baby. I'm kind of like this.
Speaker 1: I think this is a little bit different than sugar babies,
Speaker 1: and it is. I don't want to judge her, even
Speaker 1: though I'm sure Brook already has one. Sometimes you want
Speaker 1: what you want and it's admirable to go after it.
Speaker 1: So let's talk to her about it a little bit.
Speaker 1: Let's welcome Asha to the show. Asha, how you doing?
Speaker 2: Hey, Heysha?
Speaker 4: Can I ask, like, do you also have to verify
Speaker 4: your salary to be on the app?
Speaker 2: Or is it only? Is this a one sided.
Speaker 1: You never ask a woman how much money she makes.
Speaker 1: That's a very weird question.
Speaker 2: Actually, if we talked about it more, there wouldn't be
Speaker 2: such a gap.
Speaker 1: Whatever, I'm I apologize for that question. Let me ask you,
Speaker 1: why did like signing up for an app like that?
Speaker 1: Why does it appeal to you?
Speaker 5: Well, I was in a long distance relationship for ten
Speaker 5: years and I was the name bread winner. Yeah, so
Speaker 5: I was paying for all the things like flights, vacations, everything,
Speaker 5: and it didn't work out. So now you know, I'm
Speaker 5: just reflecting, and I'm like, I want to take a
Speaker 5: step back and enjoy my life. And I honestly I
Speaker 5: want to be pampered by somebody that has some memes.
Speaker 5: And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm glad we heard from you, because you know,
Speaker 3: assuming always it's like, oh, you just probably want a
Speaker 3: guy to pay for everything, but you've got it both
Speaker 3: you deserved the other end, you're.
Speaker 4: Very passionate about this app, is okay with it?
Speaker 1: It sounds like he has an account on this app already.
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily feel this way, Asha, but I do
Speaker 1: feel like maybe some people listening might think that you're
Speaker 1: not in it to find real love or like a
Speaker 1: true connection, You're just in it for the easy comfort.
Speaker 1: What would you say to people that tell you that.
Speaker 5: I mean, I've had that perspective. I've been on the
Speaker 5: other side, but now you know, I'm a little older,
Speaker 5: I know my worth and I feel like I deserve better.
Speaker 2: Okay, ok So what's your range here?
Speaker 4: Like do you put in like when you sign up
Speaker 4: for an app like this, you're putting in numbers of
Speaker 4: what you're looking for instead of height restrictions.
Speaker 5: Yeah, basically, I mean, I don't know if I'm going
Speaker 5: to say the exact figure to you, but you could guess.
Speaker 1: We're just gonna assume it's in the eight figures and
Speaker 1: call it safe for So tell us about this guy
Speaker 1: that you met on the app though, because in your
Speaker 1: email you said his name is Clip.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's Clip. It's short for Clipton.
Speaker 1: I thought it was Clippy microsofs and no wonder he's
Speaker 1: a bill, it says, it says in the email Clip
Speaker 1: with a P. Clipton does sound like a rich guy's name. Though,
Speaker 1: I will say, how did the initial conversation start, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm assuming Clipton is the one who reached out to
Speaker 1: you first.
Speaker 5: He did. Yeah, he asked me know my favorite place
Speaker 5: in the world to watch the sunset. I think because
Speaker 5: in my bio I put I have an unhealthy obsession
Speaker 5: with chasing sunset.
Speaker 2: That is wow, that is sweet.
Speaker 3: That is sweet.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: What's wrong with this?
Speaker 2: Sounds like a line chat? Because how did you answer?
Speaker 2: What did you say?
Speaker 5: Oh? So, he asked me, and I said, Santorini, Greece. Wow, yeah,
Speaker 5: I'm obsessed with Greece in the Greek Islands. I don't
Speaker 5: think he liked my answer.
Speaker 1: Why why not?
Speaker 5: I've never been. I've just seen pictures. You know it
Speaker 5: looks really beautiful.
Speaker 1: Oh well you can't. You can't answer like my favorite
Speaker 1: place to watch sunset since a place I've never been before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've taken that.
Speaker 5: Dreams are big dreams. I want to see the world.
Speaker 2: Wait what did he say back? Why do you think
Speaker 2: he didn't like it?
Speaker 5: Maybe he thought like I wasn't on his levels, like, oh.
Speaker 4: You haven't been to Santarni, you would like nail it
Speaker 4: on this app?
Speaker 1: So can I ask, like we need to move forward?
Speaker 1: Have you met up with the guy yet?
Speaker 5: So we haven't met yet. We were just chatting online.
Speaker 5: We did exchange numbers. He asked me about if I
Speaker 5: feel okay about long distance.
Speaker 2: Oh again, you just did that for a decade, I
Speaker 2: know exactly.
Speaker 5: So I was like, I got to be one hundred
Speaker 5: percent honest with you, like I don't want to waste
Speaker 5: your time, but I'm really looking for someone to spoil me,
Speaker 5: Like I'm just being outfront about what I want.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, Well.
Speaker 3: That's the right place to say that.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's a bold You're putting it all on
Speaker 1: the table right there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then he didn't respond after that, Oh so
Speaker 5: I need your home.
Speaker 3: This is weird because if he's on an app, that's like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's obviously like considering that you might be
Speaker 1: a possibility if he's asking, are you up for a
Speaker 1: long distance relationship? So I mean, I guess I assume
Speaker 1: he's not in your same city.
Speaker 5: He's not, but I don't think that would really matter.
Speaker 5: And based on his profile, he travels a lot, so
Speaker 5: I don't think the dates would be all like set
Speaker 5: in one spot anyway.
Speaker 2: Can I ask when we call him, have you talked
Speaker 2: to him on the phone before?
Speaker 5: We haven't talked yet. We just exchange numbers. But really,
Speaker 5: I'm really trying to find like a generous guy who
Speaker 5: can give me, like your fine lifestyle, but I'm I
Speaker 5: need someone who's not a creep. He seems like a
Speaker 5: good dude though.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I just texted her.
Speaker 4: I feel like we're like shopping for a used car,
Speaker 4: Like it depends on the looks and the price range.
Speaker 1: You know, you just bought a brand new car.
Speaker 2: Well, I know, but this one feels like it's more
Speaker 2: of a used situation.
Speaker 1: Well right, well, let's reach out to this used Honda
Speaker 1: and see if he's willing to give it a test
Speaker 1: drive with you in person.
Speaker 5: That sounds great. I really just want to get a
Speaker 5: real update on the books with him, see what he's
Speaker 5: all about.
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll try and set that up for you. We'll
Speaker 1: call him and get your second date update right after
Speaker 1: this second date update. It's funny, we don't usually do
Speaker 1: a lot of second date updates where there was no
Speaker 1: actual date that happened.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I know.
Speaker 1: Strangely, no one protested in studio like they normally would
Speaker 1: if that was the case, because head it was a
Speaker 1: pretty interesting conversation between two people on an exclusive app
Speaker 1: for income verified individuals and.
Speaker 3: Daddy from no that it's a different it's.
Speaker 1: This case and purposes it's class all right, from what
Speaker 1: I understood. Our listener, Asha had a flirty exchange with
Speaker 1: a man named Clip short for Clipton. They discussed their
Speaker 1: favorite sunsets, and she told him hers was Santorini, even
Speaker 1: though she's never actually been there.
Speaker 6: Yea.
Speaker 1: The screensaver on her windows background though, gorge. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it seems like the final straw for the guy Clip
Speaker 1: was when he asked her about doing like a potential
Speaker 1: long distance relationship, and she responded, I'm gonna be completely honest.
Speaker 1: I need a man to pamper me like no other.
Speaker 1: And that's kind of where things started to fall.
Speaker 2: It wasn't really a yes or a no.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we've learned that she's not really very good at
Speaker 1: answering questions directly. She kind of, you know, skirts around
Speaker 1: the outside.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 3: We all do know that she doesn't really want a
Speaker 3: long distance because she did long.
Speaker 4: Distance, but he travels a lot, so she you know,
Speaker 4: you're hoping that he just flies you to wherever.
Speaker 5: He is, right, Yeah, totally. I mean I got on
Speaker 5: the app because I was looking for somebody that had
Speaker 5: the means to travel, So I don't think it's weird
Speaker 5: that I brought it up. I don't think it's weird.
Speaker 5: I want to go see the sunset in grease.
Speaker 3: Oh not at all, though, we all do.
Speaker 1: Let's call it Clifton though. I'll she you ready to
Speaker 1: do this?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm ready.
Speaker 1: All right, let's reel this fish for you.
Speaker 4: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, we're looking for clip We're clipton Clippy clip.
Speaker 5: O.
Speaker 1: Hey, uh hi, We're We're a radio show called Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Okay, great cell line. I'm just saying this fhone.
Speaker 1: Line even Okay, Brooks Micron off for a second, please
Speaker 1: so clip. We do this segment called a second date
Speaker 1: update on our show, and I don't know if it
Speaker 1: airs in the city that you're at. We're nationally syndicated show,
Speaker 1: by the way, Yeah, you can look us up online.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey were verified online.
Speaker 2: Worldwide.
Speaker 1: Why do you feel like I need to verify myself?
Speaker 1: He answered his own phone, by the way, and not
Speaker 1: a lot of rich guys that answered their own phones.
Speaker 1: Are you sorry? You still there?
Speaker 6: How can I help you?
Speaker 5: Guys?
Speaker 1: Sorry?
Speaker 2: Time is money, jeff You're right, we're.
Speaker 1: Doing this segment trying to help out one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: It's like a dating segment. Normally we would call people
Speaker 1: who have been on a date with this person before,
Speaker 1: but this is a little different because you've just exchanged
Speaker 1: numbers with this woman and, according to her, had a
Speaker 1: really nice conversation online. Do you remember Asha?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Oh you do?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I was curious if we'd even remember who she was.
Speaker 1: That's good. We're just trying to help her get some
Speaker 1: answers because she's a little confused now that the conversation
Speaker 1: has kind of died down. It's not moving forward.
Speaker 2: She was really excited about you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she mentioned that you two were talking and
Speaker 1: thought maybe she turned you off by saying that she's
Speaker 1: looking for a guy to pamper her. That was the
Speaker 1: last thing that she says came up.
Speaker 6: I don't mind doing that for someone i'm in love with.
Speaker 6: But you know that definitely wasn't my issue with Asha.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. It was your issue that she asked or
Speaker 2: was not your issue.
Speaker 6: It wasn't my issue.
Speaker 1: Okay, you're okay her.
Speaker 4: Well, I mean, if you're going to be on a
Speaker 4: rich guy app you probably are going to expect that
Speaker 4: is the expectation.
Speaker 3: It'd be really funny though you put it in You're like,
Speaker 3: I'm a millionaire and some girls like, oh you're rich.
Speaker 1: He's like, excuse me, how dare business? So what was
Speaker 1: the issue with Asha?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 6: Like I thought we had a real potential until her
Speaker 6: last message came through, and then I realized she's into
Speaker 6: some things that I'm not necessarily.
Speaker 1: Into what Santorini, the sunset on Santorini came up? Is
Speaker 1: that what you're talking about?
Speaker 6: No, listen, I'll I'll open it up and read to you.
Speaker 6: Her message. It was pretty shocking.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, sorry, where is it?
Speaker 6: Okay? She said, I'm going to be one hundred honest
Speaker 6: and truthful with you on what I want, so we
Speaker 6: don't waste that time. I'm looking for someone to soil me.
Speaker 6: So right there, I'm like.
Speaker 2: Do you think you just left the put that word?
Speaker 3: You much different?
Speaker 2: I think she's got spoiled.
Speaker 6: She said it, and there's some people at are end
Speaker 6: of that kind of stuff and that's just not for me.
Speaker 6: Like some people into kinks and everything and that's really
Speaker 6: not me.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if you're not, that's okay. But this is
Speaker 1: a specialty site.
Speaker 3: A lot of these specialties have really weird people on
Speaker 3: him that have weird interests.
Speaker 1: I can see him really thinking, maybe maybe she did me.
Speaker 1: But why are we even explaining this to him when
Speaker 1: we can just have Asha explain it herself. She is
Speaker 1: on the other line right now wanting to talk to you. Clip.
Speaker 1: Are you playing soil?
Speaker 2: Are you clean or soiled? Right now?
Speaker 5: She's like, I'm like so embarrassed in you. But come on,
Speaker 5: I mean, obviously it was a typo and then spoil me.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, yeah, clip, there she is.
Speaker 5: Hey, I can't believe I wrote that I was babysitting
Speaker 5: at the time, so I guess my hands were full.
Speaker 6: Baby, you told me you were a cosmetics director.
Speaker 5: Cosmetics you could do block either, Yeah, I do. Then
Speaker 5: make up for my nieces for your elementary school plays.
Speaker 4: Oh, I thought you were like, wait, have so much
Speaker 4: money in your lastation.
Speaker 1: Well, you're dealing with toddlers and little kids the whole time,
Speaker 1: so maybe you are kind of into soiling in a
Speaker 1: certain way.
Speaker 5: No again, I meant to say spoil with a P.
Speaker 5: I don't think it's the first person to make a TYPEO.
Speaker 4: Guys, can we please concentrate on the fact Asha that
Speaker 4: you said, you said makeup director and you're just helping
Speaker 4: out with the elementary school play.
Speaker 5: He's a job. I'm good at it. You get paid
Speaker 5: for it from my parents donate to me, and they
Speaker 5: give me bakers after replace.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's actually more than we make here at the
Speaker 1: radio stage. Brooke has been.
Speaker 3: Begging for a salary in Cake and Pie.
Speaker 6: And like, that's my issue with these sites, Like I'm
Speaker 6: trying to meet a high value woman.
Speaker 3: Oh, so everyone should be making It's.
Speaker 6: Not that they need to be making a ton of money,
Speaker 6: but you know, just don't be dishonest about what they're doing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does feel dishonest, Sasha.
Speaker 5: Our cosmetic structor could be anything.
Speaker 2: One app you shouldn't have to lie on is a
Speaker 2: sugar Daddy app.
Speaker 1: Keep the lies for people are like, I'm an entrepreneur.
Speaker 4: It's like you guys, it's like I volunteer as an
Speaker 4: assistant coach for a little league.
Speaker 2: I'm not going to put baseball coach as my job.
Speaker 1: That's actually more respected than this job that we do.
Speaker 1: So maybe you should put that down. But clip, I
Speaker 1: think Asha brings a lot of value that's not necessarily
Speaker 1: through her job title or through any money like her
Speaker 1: value is in her personality and what she could offer
Speaker 1: to you as like a potential good relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a good sign that she, you know, helps kids.
Speaker 5: And yeah, Anne, I look good in a bikini.
Speaker 1: You have that clipt in Oh, So clearly you're seeing
Speaker 1: a little bit of value at least.
Speaker 2: I think we're really back on these sugar Daddy sites.
Speaker 2: That's where we just went by the way.
Speaker 1: We we should try and bring these two together in person.
Speaker 1: You guys haven't even met up yet. And I know
Speaker 1: we can't offer like a plane ticket for you guys
Speaker 1: to fly out and meet each other, but we can't
Speaker 1: offer a gift card to a restaurant in one of
Speaker 1: your cities if you do get together.
Speaker 6: I mean I did have a conversation with her, and
Speaker 6: you know, she said she does look at a bikini,
Speaker 6: and we did get along except.
Speaker 5: For the whole thing.
Speaker 1: And you know, you know that she doesn't she does
Speaker 1: not want you to soil her. Yeah, we're being very clear.
Speaker 6: I think I understand that now. Yeah, I mean, why not,
Speaker 6: I'll be down for it.
Speaker 1: Why not?
Speaker 2: God, you bring up one bikini picture and suddenly men
Speaker 2: have no strength anymore.
Speaker 1: You're a smart woman, well done. You just got yourself
Speaker 1: a second day.
Speaker 6: Girl.
Speaker 5: I got it all right.
Speaker 1: Are you applauding yourself right?
Speaker 3: Do it broke?
Speaker 1: Come on, black razy bikini photo.
Speaker 2: I just love a good bikini.
Speaker 1: Good it's brooken.
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.