Speaker 1: Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. The guy
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update today let
Speaker 1: his emotions get the best of him on his first
Speaker 1: date and now I don't even know why he's on
Speaker 1: the phone to do a second date update. If I
Speaker 1: were him, I would not want to see this girl again.
Speaker 1: I actually don't even think i'd want to go in
Speaker 1: public again. But regardless, he emailed us and wants to
Speaker 1: do a second date update. His name is Keith. What's up, Keith? Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: how's it going? Oh my god, Keith. I feel like
Speaker 1: you should be embarrassed for yourself, but I don't really
Speaker 1: know why yet. Yeah, your email was crazy, man, I
Speaker 1: cannot believe what actually happened on your first date. We'll
Speaker 1: get into that in just a second, But first off,
Speaker 1: how'd you meet the girl that you want to call today?
Speaker 1: What's her name? Alison? Alison? So how did you meet Allison?
Speaker 1: We met through an online dating site. Okay, that's pretty normal.
Speaker 1: I just haven't dated very much and my friends finally
Speaker 1: convinced me start doing some online dating. And I tried
Speaker 1: a couple of like the free online services, and just
Speaker 1: they were terrible. I had terrible, terrible experience. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: free ones are never good. It sounds like the memory
Speaker 1: is still haunting him right now. Oh yeah, PTSD one
Speaker 1: girl I met within the first five minute of our date,
Speaker 1: she asked me how much money I made? Do you
Speaker 1: make a lot of money? I realized it's the first
Speaker 1: couple of minutes we've met, But now I want to know, yeah,
Speaker 1: having flashbags. And when I wouldn't tell her, she literally
Speaker 1: was like, all right, well this is done, and she
Speaker 1: left and it was over. Wow. I can't believe you
Speaker 1: even continued online dating after such a horrible experience, I know.
Speaker 1: And then the worst part is it didn't get any better.
Speaker 1: I met this other girl on a date and she
Speaker 1: brought her dog, and I kid you not, she talked
Speaker 1: to the dog more than she talked to me. All right,
Speaker 1: so you've had a bad run yeah on these free
Speaker 1: So I finally was like, Okay, I'm gonna stack up.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pay for like a paid service because maybe
Speaker 1: the quality will be at her you know. So, is
Speaker 1: this the first date that you went on off of
Speaker 1: that paid site? Yeah? Yeah, And this one sounds like
Speaker 1: it went very well, I mean, at least for you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Comparatively speaking, it started out great. Um Mett Allison went
Speaker 1: to Yeah, and just from the moment I saw her, instantly,
Speaker 1: I knew like there was something there. She was she
Speaker 1: was gorgeous. I couldn't believe it. Okay, and then right
Speaker 1: off the bat, she didn't ask you how much money
Speaker 1: you were making, or she didn't have a dog with her,
Speaker 1: So that's a plus. She's also a great part. But
Speaker 1: I feel like you've lowered your standards so much compared
Speaker 1: to the other incidences that you had. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I know my standards had been kind of lowered. But
Speaker 1: she was like better than I ever would have expected.
Speaker 1: She was smart, she was cute, she was sweet, and
Speaker 1: she just seemed normal. She just seemed like a normal
Speaker 1: person that I had a really great connection with. And
Speaker 1: I you know, it kind of caught me off guard,
Speaker 1: and I just was like starting to feel like overwhelmed,
Speaker 1: but in a good way, like I was. I was swooning,
Speaker 1: and I just got caught up in the moment, and
Speaker 1: that's that's when I think I messed up. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: you tell everybody what happened and then explain why you
Speaker 1: did this. Okay, just try and understand all the context.
Speaker 1: So so we meet, we're hanging out, the date's going great,
Speaker 1: and it just keeps getting better and better and better.
Speaker 1: And she gets up to go to the bathroom, and
Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like, my heart is just like overwhelmed,
Speaker 1: like overflowing. I'm like, she's the one, like she has
Speaker 1: to be. I know it sounds crazy, but I felt it,
Speaker 1: and so while she was in the bathroom, I decided
Speaker 1: to do something crazy. Um yeah. So so when she
Speaker 1: gets back, she sits down and she looks at me,
Speaker 1: and she can kind of tell I have something I
Speaker 1: want to say. So I looked to her and I say, look,
Speaker 1: I know we just met, but there's something I need
Speaker 1: to tell you, and she says okay, And I straight
Speaker 1: up told her I want to spend the rest of
Speaker 1: my life with her. Oh yeah, Like I'm bringing out
Speaker 1: in hives just even hearing that, and I love. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: I know it sounds crazy, even you me saying it
Speaker 1: right now, but I don't know. I just was in
Speaker 1: the moment. I couldn't help it, Like I would have
Speaker 1: regretted it forever if I didn't. I got I made
Speaker 1: a ring out of a paper napkin and I got
Speaker 1: down on one knee and did everybody see this or
Speaker 1: was it? Yeah? People were like plodding, they were smiling there.
Speaker 1: What did she do? She? Uh, well, I could tell
Speaker 1: she was shocked. Um, I don't think she saw that coming. No,
Speaker 1: I guarantee she didn't. Did she think that you were joking? No?
Speaker 1: I mean she knew there's no like, I was dead serious.
Speaker 1: She could see it in my face. How did she react?
Speaker 1: She was calm, She didn't like freak out, but she's
Speaker 1: kind of looked at me after everyone quieted down, and
Speaker 1: it was nice about it, and she was just kind
Speaker 1: of like, this, this is our first day. What did
Speaker 1: you say to her? I was like, I know, but
Speaker 1: I just feel this and I don't I can't deny it.
Speaker 1: And she was like, I think I think I should leave,
Speaker 1: and then she left. Yeah, because Keith, you sound crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm listening to lay it out there. I mean, I know,
Speaker 1: I know how I sound. Did she leave you right
Speaker 1: there in the restaurant by yourself? Oh yeah, I've finished
Speaker 1: my eggs, Benedict alone, You've got crazy psycho stuck or
Speaker 1: proposing to you within like the first hour of meeting someone.
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that kind of thing happens, right,
Speaker 1: You've seen rom comms when you know, you know, and
Speaker 1: I thought I thought she felt I really thought she
Speaker 1: felt the same way. Maybe she did. Maybe you know what,
Speaker 1: she ran right out of the restaurant to show up
Speaker 1: her wedding dress. She's been busy planning this whole time,
Speaker 1: and that's why she can't get back to him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Probably what what what did she ever do to make
Speaker 1: you think that she thought that she should marry you
Speaker 1: and get engaged right there on your first day? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's a fair question. Um so when we
Speaker 1: when we were talking, I like to go to comedy shows, um,
Speaker 1: you know, in my spare time, and I told her that,
Speaker 1: and she she wanted to come with me. I've never
Speaker 1: met a single woman who was excited about it. So
Speaker 1: that means, yeah, that you ask for her hand in
Speaker 1: marriage on a first date. Yeah, well I guess I
Speaker 1: read it wrong. Whatever. Yeah, I'm guessing you haven't talked
Speaker 1: to her since this date. No, and I have tried
Speaker 1: very hard. Yeah, I know she's the one. That's the thing. Like,
Speaker 1: and I should have just waited, played it cool. Yeah,
Speaker 1: could have held my tongue, But I just I couldn't.
Speaker 1: All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, get
Speaker 1: her on the phone, and see if we can get
Speaker 1: you guys a second date, and then maybe you can
Speaker 1: get married after that day. Okay, oh that would be amazing.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll get your second date update right
Speaker 1: after this. Hang on in the morning Second Date update.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm hearing in today's second date update?
Speaker 1: Wedding bells. Oh that's right. I feel like this is
Speaker 1: going to be the first ever second date update that
Speaker 1: ends with a couple getting married live on the radio
Speaker 1: over the phone. Wow, if you just tuned in. Keith
Speaker 1: is on the phone. He wants to call Allison. They
Speaker 1: met online, went out for some brunch, He got a
Speaker 1: little wrapped up in his emotions and actually proposed to
Speaker 1: her on their first date, and then she stormed out.
Speaker 1: He hasn't talked to her since. It's obvious why she's
Speaker 1: not talking to him, because she thinks he's a weirdo
Speaker 1: who proposed on the first date. Keith, here's my advice
Speaker 1: to you, man, before we make this phone call. If
Speaker 1: you fall off that horse, you get right back on.
Speaker 1: When we get her on the phone and you talk
Speaker 1: to her propose again, Keith, just keep proposing. She'll eventually
Speaker 1: say yes. Yeah. I'm not sure that's how that works.
Speaker 1: But I don't know, man, I think you should just
Speaker 1: go for it one more time, Keith, what's your plan here? Apologize?
Speaker 1: I mean I've already apologized so many times on her
Speaker 1: voicemail and shrewd text message, so I think she understands
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Okay, I just want a chance to explain.
Speaker 1: All right, there we go. I'm gonna dollar phone Umber
Speaker 1: right now. Okay, look before you call her, if you
Speaker 1: you guys can like have my back on this, that
Speaker 1: would I need. I need all the help I can get. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you really do. In this second day update, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. You need all the help you
Speaker 1: can get. Okay, please, I'm dialing your phone Umber right now.
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, I was looking for Alison. Yes,
Speaker 1: this is Alison, Alison. This is Jebil from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. How are you good? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm good? Who's this again? I'm sorry, I'm not This
Speaker 1: is Jebil. I host the radio show Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm not sure what that is. Well,
Speaker 1: it's a radio show. It's pretty much the only explanation
Speaker 1: I can give you. There is a little bit of talking,
Speaker 1: a lot of crappy music, and we do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. I'm assuming
Speaker 1: you've never heard of that either, not familiar with it.
Speaker 1: You went out on a date recently with a guy
Speaker 1: named Keith. Oh boy, Yeah, Keith told us about your date.
Speaker 1: Oh really, what do you know? Do you know that
Speaker 1: he proposed to me? We do, Yeah, he told us
Speaker 1: all about that. He says that he feels bad, but
Speaker 1: he also wanted to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: tell you that he liked you a lot and wanted
Speaker 1: to see you again. Really, let me ask you a question. Okay,
Speaker 1: how did you feel when do you propose to you
Speaker 1: on your first date? I thought it was really weird.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's an understatement. Definitely has that ever
Speaker 1: happened to you before? No, definitely not. It was it scary, creepy,
Speaker 1: a little bit of bulls It was crazy. I mean,
Speaker 1: when you picture getting proposed to when you're young, a
Speaker 1: little girl, you don't exactly picture it happening on the
Speaker 1: first date at brunch? Can go no weird? Okay? So yeah,
Speaker 1: He told us all about your date, and he said
Speaker 1: that he feels really bad and he's tried to apologize
Speaker 1: to you, and he just wanted to be able to
Speaker 1: talk to you again see if you'd go out with him.
Speaker 1: I mean, he should feel bad. What was I supposed
Speaker 1: to do? Say yes and marry the guy? Is right?
Speaker 1: Was there any part of you that thought like, well,
Speaker 1: it's romantic? No? I was completely shocked. It was one
Speaker 1: of those things where you just pause. It took me
Speaker 1: about three minutes to even get a reaction, and I
Speaker 1: didn't even know what to think. Yeah, so I'm guessing
Speaker 1: that the reason you aren't calling him back for a
Speaker 1: second date is because of the wedding proposal? Was there
Speaker 1: anything else? Does there need to be another reason? I
Speaker 1: don't think so that's enough of an explanation. You know,
Speaker 1: Keith did talk to us, and he's really He doesn't
Speaker 1: sound like a weird guy. He just says he got
Speaker 1: caught up in the moment and he was super excited
Speaker 1: because you're like the best girl he's gone out on
Speaker 1: a date with ever, and he handled it the wrong way.
Speaker 1: That's sweet that he says that, But I mean we
Speaker 1: were vibing. We got along. We had, you know, a
Speaker 1: good connection at first, and I felt a spark, But
Speaker 1: when he broke into tears and started proposing, I thought
Speaker 1: he was crazy. Yeah. Yeah, it changes things a little bit,
Speaker 1: changes your whole vibe. Yeah, Alison, I do need to
Speaker 1: let you know that Keith is actually on the other
Speaker 1: line and wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? No,
Speaker 1: I'm not. Hey, Alison, Oh my god, what do you want?
Speaker 1: I just want a chance to explain myself. I told you,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm sorry. I know that what I did was crazy.
Speaker 1: I know it was insane. I got caught up in
Speaker 1: the moment. I'm an emotional person, and I don't have
Speaker 1: a good excuse. I just got caught up in the moment.
Speaker 1: It's not in nineteen twenties, and you don't just meet
Speaker 1: somebody and marry them off in the afternoon. Yeah. No,
Speaker 1: you're right, I get that. But can you honestly say
Speaker 1: you weren't like feeling anything like? I can't be the
Speaker 1: only one who was feeling something. No, I was. I mean,
Speaker 1: I liked you at first, you seem normal, and I
Speaker 1: definitely felt a connection. But when you broke into tears
Speaker 1: and proposed, I just thought you were crazy. Okay, that
Speaker 1: makes sense, that's totally fair. I'm not crazy. I've had
Speaker 1: some terrible experiences dating in the past, and like, you
Speaker 1: were so cool and normal, and I just like, I
Speaker 1: just felt it. I got washed in that moment. I
Speaker 1: got caught up in it. I feel like, if that's
Speaker 1: the kind of guy you are, then who knows what
Speaker 1: other reckless decisions you'll make down the line. Dude, I
Speaker 1: will red flag is what she's saying. I understand. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I get it. I understand how that could be a
Speaker 1: red flag, or how I could seem crazy and unstable.
Speaker 1: I'm not like, you want to call my friends and
Speaker 1: I have people who will vouch for me. You want
Speaker 1: to supply references to Alison, I will? I will. I'd
Speaker 1: think I think this is important. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: want to lose this potential relationship just because I messed
Speaker 1: up on the first date. I mean, it's a shame
Speaker 1: because I liked him too. I'm just not looking to
Speaker 1: get married tomorrow. I'd like to date someone for a
Speaker 1: little while before we talked about marriage. So you did
Speaker 1: like him though, yeah, I did, Well, then why don't
Speaker 1: you give it one more shot and go out on
Speaker 1: another date. Would you like to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date with Keith? We will pay for it, Alison.
Speaker 1: Before you answer, I just I need you to know
Speaker 1: I did watch a couple of rom coms on Netflix
Speaker 1: the week before we went out, so I was in
Speaker 1: an emotional place already. Blame it on the cos I
Speaker 1: love it. It's like Katherine Heigel just gets to his heart. Man, Alison,
Speaker 1: will you go out with Keith again? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. This whole thing is just
Speaker 1: so weird because you cannot blame her, you, guys, The
Speaker 1: only thing I'm proposing right now is a second date.
Speaker 1: I just want to do this the right way and
Speaker 1: forget about the first date and just move forward. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm asking. Alison. Can you forget about the wedding
Speaker 1: proposal on your first date and go out with Keith
Speaker 1: one more time? I know that's a lot to ask,
Speaker 1: but do you think you can do it? It is
Speaker 1: um if you guys think it's a good idea. I do.
Speaker 1: I think it's a great idea. At least see one
Speaker 1: more time. How he handles himself. I mean, he's not
Speaker 1: totally crazy, right, there. You said he's totally crazy. I
Speaker 1: changed my mind again, I said he's not totally crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just got a little worked up. You know, you're
Speaker 1: saying partially crazy though everybody's partially crazy, and you can't
Speaker 1: find somebody that's fully sae. Yeah, no, I I just can't.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I can't, man, all right, what happened? We
Speaker 1: we were there and then I don't know, man, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: What did we learn? What have we learned? Though? Okay,
Speaker 1: this is all about learning. What did we learn from
Speaker 1: today's second date update? That love isn't real? We've learned that,
Speaker 1: But we've also learned no rom coms before your next date? Okay,
Speaker 1: broken Jupil in the morning.