WEBVTT -  2nd Date Update PODCAST: Premature Question Popping 

0:00:03.400 --> 0:00:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Brooking jubil in the morning. Second date update. The guy

0:00:08.000 --> 0:00:10.559
<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update today let

0:00:10.640 --> 0:00:13.440
<v Speaker 1>his emotions get the best of him on his first

0:00:13.520 --> 0:00:15.880
<v Speaker 1>date and now I don't even know why he's on

0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:17.480
<v Speaker 1>the phone to do a second date update. If I

0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:19.639
<v Speaker 1>were him, I would not want to see this girl again.

0:00:19.720 --> 0:00:21.119
<v Speaker 1>I actually don't even think i'd want to go in

0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:25.400
<v Speaker 1>public again. But regardless, he emailed us and wants to

0:00:25.440 --> 0:00:29.360
<v Speaker 1>do a second date update. His name is Keith. What's up, Keith? Hey, guys,

0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:31.720
<v Speaker 1>how's it going? Oh my god, Keith. I feel like

0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:33.800
<v Speaker 1>you should be embarrassed for yourself, but I don't really

0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.800
<v Speaker 1>know why yet. Yeah, your email was crazy, man, I

0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:39.080
<v Speaker 1>cannot believe what actually happened on your first date. We'll

0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:41.280
<v Speaker 1>get into that in just a second, But first off,

0:00:41.560 --> 0:00:43.160
<v Speaker 1>how'd you meet the girl that you want to call today?

0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:46.879
<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Alison? Alison? So how did you meet Allison?

0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:51.320
<v Speaker 1>We met through an online dating site. Okay, that's pretty normal.

0:00:51.800 --> 0:00:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I just haven't dated very much and my friends finally

0:00:54.320 --> 0:00:58.240
<v Speaker 1>convinced me start doing some online dating. And I tried

0:00:58.280 --> 0:01:01.440
<v Speaker 1>a couple of like the free online services, and just

0:01:01.880 --> 0:01:05.520
<v Speaker 1>they were terrible. I had terrible, terrible experience. Yeah, the

0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:08.319
<v Speaker 1>free ones are never good. It sounds like the memory

0:01:08.400 --> 0:01:13.200
<v Speaker 1>is still haunting him right now. Oh yeah, PTSD one

0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:15.959
<v Speaker 1>girl I met within the first five minute of our date,

0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:19.399
<v Speaker 1>she asked me how much money I made? Do you

0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:21.319
<v Speaker 1>make a lot of money? I realized it's the first

0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:24.000
<v Speaker 1>couple of minutes we've met, But now I want to know, yeah,

0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:28.440
<v Speaker 1>having flashbags. And when I wouldn't tell her, she literally

0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:30.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, all right, well this is done, and she

0:01:30.680 --> 0:01:33.520
<v Speaker 1>left and it was over. Wow. I can't believe you

0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:37.360
<v Speaker 1>even continued online dating after such a horrible experience, I know.

0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:39.920
<v Speaker 1>And then the worst part is it didn't get any better.

0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I met this other girl on a date and she

0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:45.720
<v Speaker 1>brought her dog, and I kid you not, she talked

0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:49.280
<v Speaker 1>to the dog more than she talked to me. All right,

0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.680
<v Speaker 1>so you've had a bad run yeah on these free

0:01:52.840 --> 0:01:55.000
<v Speaker 1>So I finally was like, Okay, I'm gonna stack up.

0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:58.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna pay for like a paid service because maybe

0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.880
<v Speaker 1>the quality will be at her you know. So, is

0:02:01.920 --> 0:02:03.440
<v Speaker 1>this the first date that you went on off of

0:02:03.440 --> 0:02:07.440
<v Speaker 1>that paid site? Yeah? Yeah, And this one sounds like

0:02:07.480 --> 0:02:10.799
<v Speaker 1>it went very well, I mean, at least for you. Yeah.

0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:15.320
<v Speaker 1>Comparatively speaking, it started out great. Um Mett Allison went

0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:19.880
<v Speaker 1>to Yeah, and just from the moment I saw her, instantly,

0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:22.440
<v Speaker 1>I knew like there was something there. She was she

0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:25.000
<v Speaker 1>was gorgeous. I couldn't believe it. Okay, and then right

0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:26.440
<v Speaker 1>off the bat, she didn't ask you how much money

0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:28.240
<v Speaker 1>you were making, or she didn't have a dog with her,

0:02:28.280 --> 0:02:31.960
<v Speaker 1>So that's a plus. She's also a great part. But

0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you've lowered your standards so much compared

0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to the other incidences that you had. Yeah, I mean,

0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I know my standards had been kind of lowered. But

0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:43.160
<v Speaker 1>she was like better than I ever would have expected.

0:02:43.280 --> 0:02:45.480
<v Speaker 1>She was smart, she was cute, she was sweet, and

0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.560
<v Speaker 1>she just seemed normal. She just seemed like a normal

0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:49.920
<v Speaker 1>person that I had a really great connection with. And

0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:51.640
<v Speaker 1>I you know, it kind of caught me off guard,

0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:54.359
<v Speaker 1>and I just was like starting to feel like overwhelmed,

0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:56.560
<v Speaker 1>but in a good way, like I was. I was swooning,

0:02:56.680 --> 0:02:59.640
<v Speaker 1>and I just got caught up in the moment, and

0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:02.120
<v Speaker 1>that's that's when I think I messed up. Yeah, well,

0:03:02.320 --> 0:03:04.880
<v Speaker 1>you tell everybody what happened and then explain why you

0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:10.200
<v Speaker 1>did this. Okay, just try and understand all the context.

0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.200
<v Speaker 1>So so we meet, we're hanging out, the date's going great,

0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.000
<v Speaker 1>and it just keeps getting better and better and better.

0:03:17.040 --> 0:03:19.720
<v Speaker 1>And she gets up to go to the bathroom, and

0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:23.280
<v Speaker 1>at this point, I'm like, my heart is just like overwhelmed,

0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:26.480
<v Speaker 1>like overflowing. I'm like, she's the one, like she has

0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:30.480
<v Speaker 1>to be. I know it sounds crazy, but I felt it,

0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.680
<v Speaker 1>and so while she was in the bathroom, I decided

0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:37.960
<v Speaker 1>to do something crazy. Um yeah. So so when she

0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:40.600
<v Speaker 1>gets back, she sits down and she looks at me,

0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.360
<v Speaker 1>and she can kind of tell I have something I

0:03:42.360 --> 0:03:44.960
<v Speaker 1>want to say. So I looked to her and I say, look,

0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I know we just met, but there's something I need

0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:51.480
<v Speaker 1>to tell you, and she says okay, And I straight

0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:52.840
<v Speaker 1>up told her I want to spend the rest of

0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:59.240
<v Speaker 1>my life with her. Oh yeah, Like I'm bringing out

0:03:59.240 --> 0:04:03.080
<v Speaker 1>in hives just even hearing that, and I love. Yeah. No,

0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.120
<v Speaker 1>I know it sounds crazy, even you me saying it

0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:07.360
<v Speaker 1>right now, but I don't know. I just was in

0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.240
<v Speaker 1>the moment. I couldn't help it, Like I would have

0:04:10.280 --> 0:04:13.520
<v Speaker 1>regretted it forever if I didn't. I got I made

0:04:13.560 --> 0:04:15.839
<v Speaker 1>a ring out of a paper napkin and I got

0:04:15.880 --> 0:04:20.800
<v Speaker 1>down on one knee and did everybody see this or

0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:26.120
<v Speaker 1>was it? Yeah? People were like plodding, they were smiling there.

0:04:27.720 --> 0:04:31.120
<v Speaker 1>What did she do? She? Uh, well, I could tell

0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:36.840
<v Speaker 1>she was shocked. Um, I don't think she saw that coming. No,

0:04:36.920 --> 0:04:41.599
<v Speaker 1>I guarantee she didn't. Did she think that you were joking? No?

0:04:41.680 --> 0:04:44.839
<v Speaker 1>I mean she knew there's no like, I was dead serious.

0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:47.600
<v Speaker 1>She could see it in my face. How did she react?

0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:51.640
<v Speaker 1>She was calm, She didn't like freak out, but she's

0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:54.719
<v Speaker 1>kind of looked at me after everyone quieted down, and

0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:56.880
<v Speaker 1>it was nice about it, and she was just kind

0:04:56.880 --> 0:05:02.280
<v Speaker 1>of like, this, this is our first day. What did

0:05:02.279 --> 0:05:04.240
<v Speaker 1>you say to her? I was like, I know, but

0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:06.800
<v Speaker 1>I just feel this and I don't I can't deny it.

0:05:06.880 --> 0:05:09.560
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, I think I think I should leave,

0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:13.320
<v Speaker 1>and then she left. Yeah, because Keith, you sound crazy.

0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm listening to lay it out there. I mean, I know,

0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:18.760
<v Speaker 1>I know how I sound. Did she leave you right

0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:22.000
<v Speaker 1>there in the restaurant by yourself? Oh yeah, I've finished

0:05:22.000 --> 0:05:27.640
<v Speaker 1>my eggs, Benedict alone, You've got crazy psycho stuck or

0:05:27.720 --> 0:05:31.080
<v Speaker 1>proposing to you within like the first hour of meeting someone.

0:05:32.120 --> 0:05:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean that kind of thing happens, right,

0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.080
<v Speaker 1>You've seen rom comms when you know, you know, and

0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:39.279
<v Speaker 1>I thought I thought she felt I really thought she

0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:42.039
<v Speaker 1>felt the same way. Maybe she did. Maybe you know what,

0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:43.919
<v Speaker 1>she ran right out of the restaurant to show up

0:05:43.920 --> 0:05:47.240
<v Speaker 1>her wedding dress. She's been busy planning this whole time,

0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and that's why she can't get back to him. Yeah.

0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Probably what what what did she ever do to make

0:05:52.520 --> 0:05:55.360
<v Speaker 1>you think that she thought that she should marry you

0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:59.760
<v Speaker 1>and get engaged right there on your first day? Yeah,

0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:03.920
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's a fair question. Um so when we

0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:07.160
<v Speaker 1>when we were talking, I like to go to comedy shows, um,

0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, in my spare time, and I told her that,

0:06:09.800 --> 0:06:12.159
<v Speaker 1>and she she wanted to come with me. I've never

0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.960
<v Speaker 1>met a single woman who was excited about it. So

0:06:15.080 --> 0:06:17.719
<v Speaker 1>that means, yeah, that you ask for her hand in

0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:21.239
<v Speaker 1>marriage on a first date. Yeah, well I guess I

0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.919
<v Speaker 1>read it wrong. Whatever. Yeah, I'm guessing you haven't talked

0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:28.360
<v Speaker 1>to her since this date. No, and I have tried

0:06:29.000 --> 0:06:31.920
<v Speaker 1>very hard. Yeah, I know she's the one. That's the thing. Like,

0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:35.719
<v Speaker 1>and I should have just waited, played it cool. Yeah,

0:06:35.800 --> 0:06:38.120
<v Speaker 1>could have held my tongue, But I just I couldn't.

0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:43.080
<v Speaker 1>All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, get

0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.479
<v Speaker 1>her on the phone, and see if we can get

0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:47.040
<v Speaker 1>you guys a second date, and then maybe you can

0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:51.200
<v Speaker 1>get married after that day. Okay, oh that would be amazing.

0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:53.680
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we'll get your second date update right

0:06:53.680 --> 0:07:01.480
<v Speaker 1>after this. Hang on in the morning Second Date update.

0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.320
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm hearing in today's second date update?

0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:09.159
<v Speaker 1>Wedding bells. Oh that's right. I feel like this is

0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:11.560
<v Speaker 1>going to be the first ever second date update that

0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:15.440
<v Speaker 1>ends with a couple getting married live on the radio

0:07:15.560 --> 0:07:19.000
<v Speaker 1>over the phone. Wow, if you just tuned in. Keith

0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:22.240
<v Speaker 1>is on the phone. He wants to call Allison. They

0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:25.320
<v Speaker 1>met online, went out for some brunch, He got a

0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:29.000
<v Speaker 1>little wrapped up in his emotions and actually proposed to

0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:33.000
<v Speaker 1>her on their first date, and then she stormed out.

0:07:33.120 --> 0:07:35.480
<v Speaker 1>He hasn't talked to her since. It's obvious why she's

0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.120
<v Speaker 1>not talking to him, because she thinks he's a weirdo

0:07:38.320 --> 0:07:41.960
<v Speaker 1>who proposed on the first date. Keith, here's my advice

0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:43.880
<v Speaker 1>to you, man, before we make this phone call. If

0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.440
<v Speaker 1>you fall off that horse, you get right back on.

0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:48.560
<v Speaker 1>When we get her on the phone and you talk

0:07:48.640 --> 0:07:53.960
<v Speaker 1>to her propose again, Keith, just keep proposing. She'll eventually

0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:58.720
<v Speaker 1>say yes. Yeah. I'm not sure that's how that works.

0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:00.320
<v Speaker 1>But I don't know, man, I think you should just

0:08:00.320 --> 0:08:03.680
<v Speaker 1>go for it one more time, Keith, what's your plan here? Apologize?

0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:07.480
<v Speaker 1>I mean I've already apologized so many times on her

0:08:07.560 --> 0:08:13.280
<v Speaker 1>voicemail and shrewd text message, so I think she understands

0:08:13.400 --> 0:08:16.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Okay, I just want a chance to explain.

0:08:16.880 --> 0:08:18.680
<v Speaker 1>All right, there we go. I'm gonna dollar phone Umber

0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:21.040
<v Speaker 1>right now. Okay, look before you call her, if you

0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.520
<v Speaker 1>you guys can like have my back on this, that

0:08:23.560 --> 0:08:26.160
<v Speaker 1>would I need. I need all the help I can get. Yeah,

0:08:25.960 --> 0:08:28.560
<v Speaker 1>you really do. In this second day update, I'm not

0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:29.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie to you. You need all the help you

0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.600
<v Speaker 1>can get. Okay, please, I'm dialing your phone Umber right now.

0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:43.839
<v Speaker 1>Here we go. Hello, I was looking for Alison. Yes,

0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:46.959
<v Speaker 1>this is Alison, Alison. This is Jebil from Brook and

0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:51.040
<v Speaker 1>Jewil in the Morning. How are you good? How are you?

0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm good? Who's this again? I'm sorry, I'm not This

0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:59.400
<v Speaker 1>is Jebil. I host the radio show Brook and Jewel

0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:03.200
<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm not sure what that is. Well,

0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.920
<v Speaker 1>it's a radio show. It's pretty much the only explanation

0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:08.400
<v Speaker 1>I can give you. There is a little bit of talking,

0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:11.200
<v Speaker 1>a lot of crappy music, and we do a segment

0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.240
<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. I'm assuming

0:09:13.240 --> 0:09:16.120
<v Speaker 1>you've never heard of that either, not familiar with it.

0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:18.600
<v Speaker 1>You went out on a date recently with a guy

0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:25.120
<v Speaker 1>named Keith. Oh boy, Yeah, Keith told us about your date.

0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh really, what do you know? Do you know that

0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:31.920
<v Speaker 1>he proposed to me? We do, Yeah, he told us

0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:34.080
<v Speaker 1>all about that. He says that he feels bad, but

0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:36.240
<v Speaker 1>he also wanted to get you on the phone and

0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:37.559
<v Speaker 1>tell you that he liked you a lot and wanted

0:09:37.559 --> 0:09:42.720
<v Speaker 1>to see you again. Really, let me ask you a question. Okay,

0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:45.360
<v Speaker 1>how did you feel when do you propose to you

0:09:45.400 --> 0:09:48.400
<v Speaker 1>on your first date? I thought it was really weird.

0:09:49.440 --> 0:09:52.199
<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's an understatement. Definitely has that ever

0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:57.440
<v Speaker 1>happened to you before? No, definitely not. It was it scary, creepy,

0:09:57.760 --> 0:10:00.560
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of bulls It was crazy. I mean,

0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:04.760
<v Speaker 1>when you picture getting proposed to when you're young, a

0:10:04.800 --> 0:10:07.520
<v Speaker 1>little girl, you don't exactly picture it happening on the

0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:12.760
<v Speaker 1>first date at brunch? Can go no weird? Okay? So yeah,

0:10:12.760 --> 0:10:14.760
<v Speaker 1>He told us all about your date, and he said

0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.240
<v Speaker 1>that he feels really bad and he's tried to apologize

0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:19.120
<v Speaker 1>to you, and he just wanted to be able to

0:10:19.160 --> 0:10:20.800
<v Speaker 1>talk to you again see if you'd go out with him.

0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:23.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, he should feel bad. What was I supposed

0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:26.880
<v Speaker 1>to do? Say yes and marry the guy? Is right?

0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:29.920
<v Speaker 1>Was there any part of you that thought like, well,

0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.560
<v Speaker 1>it's romantic? No? I was completely shocked. It was one

0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.840
<v Speaker 1>of those things where you just pause. It took me

0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:39.280
<v Speaker 1>about three minutes to even get a reaction, and I

0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:43.040
<v Speaker 1>didn't even know what to think. Yeah, so I'm guessing

0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:44.880
<v Speaker 1>that the reason you aren't calling him back for a

0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:47.760
<v Speaker 1>second date is because of the wedding proposal? Was there

0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:52.160
<v Speaker 1>anything else? Does there need to be another reason? I

0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:55.240
<v Speaker 1>don't think so that's enough of an explanation. You know,

0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Keith did talk to us, and he's really He doesn't

0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.360
<v Speaker 1>sound like a weird guy. He just says he got

0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.840
<v Speaker 1>caught up in the moment and he was super excited

0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.480
<v Speaker 1>because you're like the best girl he's gone out on

0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:06.840
<v Speaker 1>a date with ever, and he handled it the wrong way.

0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:10.600
<v Speaker 1>That's sweet that he says that, But I mean we

0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:13.880
<v Speaker 1>were vibing. We got along. We had, you know, a

0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.160
<v Speaker 1>good connection at first, and I felt a spark, But

0:11:16.240 --> 0:11:19.160
<v Speaker 1>when he broke into tears and started proposing, I thought

0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:23.320
<v Speaker 1>he was crazy. Yeah. Yeah, it changes things a little bit,

0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:27.000
<v Speaker 1>changes your whole vibe. Yeah, Alison, I do need to

0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:28.840
<v Speaker 1>let you know that Keith is actually on the other

0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:32.120
<v Speaker 1>line and wants to talk to you. Are you kidding me? No,

0:11:32.200 --> 0:11:37.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. Hey, Alison, Oh my god, what do you want?

0:11:38.520 --> 0:11:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I just want a chance to explain myself. I told you,

0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm sorry. I know that what I did was crazy.

0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:46.720
<v Speaker 1>I know it was insane. I got caught up in

0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:52.320
<v Speaker 1>the moment. I'm an emotional person, and I don't have

0:11:52.360 --> 0:11:54.560
<v Speaker 1>a good excuse. I just got caught up in the moment.

0:11:55.640 --> 0:11:57.960
<v Speaker 1>It's not in nineteen twenties, and you don't just meet

0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:02.080
<v Speaker 1>somebody and marry them off in the afternoon. Yeah. No,

0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:04.160
<v Speaker 1>you're right, I get that. But can you honestly say

0:12:04.200 --> 0:12:06.640
<v Speaker 1>you weren't like feeling anything like? I can't be the

0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.640
<v Speaker 1>only one who was feeling something. No, I was. I mean,

0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:12.040
<v Speaker 1>I liked you at first, you seem normal, and I

0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.679
<v Speaker 1>definitely felt a connection. But when you broke into tears

0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:19.840
<v Speaker 1>and proposed, I just thought you were crazy. Okay, that

0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:23.720
<v Speaker 1>makes sense, that's totally fair. I'm not crazy. I've had

0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:27.200
<v Speaker 1>some terrible experiences dating in the past, and like, you

0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:30.600
<v Speaker 1>were so cool and normal, and I just like, I

0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:32.760
<v Speaker 1>just felt it. I got washed in that moment. I

0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:35.199
<v Speaker 1>got caught up in it. I feel like, if that's

0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.800
<v Speaker 1>the kind of guy you are, then who knows what

0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:41.400
<v Speaker 1>other reckless decisions you'll make down the line. Dude, I

0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:45.959
<v Speaker 1>will red flag is what she's saying. I understand. Yeah, yeah,

0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I understand how that could be a

0:12:48.200 --> 0:12:50.439
<v Speaker 1>red flag, or how I could seem crazy and unstable.

0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:53.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm not like, you want to call my friends and

0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:56.959
<v Speaker 1>I have people who will vouch for me. You want

0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:00.520
<v Speaker 1>to supply references to Alison, I will? I will. I'd

0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.640
<v Speaker 1>think I think this is important. I don't. I don't

0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.640
<v Speaker 1>want to lose this potential relationship just because I messed

0:13:06.720 --> 0:13:09.920
<v Speaker 1>up on the first date. I mean, it's a shame

0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:11.960
<v Speaker 1>because I liked him too. I'm just not looking to

0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.280
<v Speaker 1>get married tomorrow. I'd like to date someone for a

0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:17.080
<v Speaker 1>little while before we talked about marriage. So you did

0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:19.920
<v Speaker 1>like him though, yeah, I did, Well, then why don't

0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:21.280
<v Speaker 1>you give it one more shot and go out on

0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:23.160
<v Speaker 1>another date. Would you like to go out on a

0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.960
<v Speaker 1>second date with Keith? We will pay for it, Alison.

0:13:26.080 --> 0:13:28.240
<v Speaker 1>Before you answer, I just I need you to know

0:13:28.559 --> 0:13:31.280
<v Speaker 1>I did watch a couple of rom coms on Netflix

0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:33.840
<v Speaker 1>the week before we went out, so I was in

0:13:33.840 --> 0:13:38.600
<v Speaker 1>an emotional place already. Blame it on the cos I

0:13:38.679 --> 0:13:43.000
<v Speaker 1>love it. It's like Katherine Heigel just gets to his heart. Man, Alison,

0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.679
<v Speaker 1>will you go out with Keith again? I don't know.

0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:49.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know. This whole thing is just

0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:54.880
<v Speaker 1>so weird because you cannot blame her, you, guys, The

0:13:54.960 --> 0:13:58.040
<v Speaker 1>only thing I'm proposing right now is a second date.

0:13:58.120 --> 0:13:59.839
<v Speaker 1>I just want to do this the right way and

0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:03.240
<v Speaker 1>forget about the first date and just move forward. That's

0:14:03.280 --> 0:14:05.959
<v Speaker 1>all I'm asking. Alison. Can you forget about the wedding

0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:07.920
<v Speaker 1>proposal on your first date and go out with Keith

0:14:07.960 --> 0:14:09.559
<v Speaker 1>one more time? I know that's a lot to ask,

0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:12.480
<v Speaker 1>but do you think you can do it? It is

0:14:12.880 --> 0:14:17.079
<v Speaker 1>um if you guys think it's a good idea. I do.

0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:19.040
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a great idea. At least see one

0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.520
<v Speaker 1>more time. How he handles himself. I mean, he's not

0:14:22.000 --> 0:14:26.000
<v Speaker 1>totally crazy, right, there. You said he's totally crazy. I

0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:30.240
<v Speaker 1>changed my mind again, I said he's not totally crazy. Yeah,

0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:32.880
<v Speaker 1>you just got a little worked up. You know, you're

0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:37.240
<v Speaker 1>saying partially crazy though everybody's partially crazy, and you can't

0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:42.480
<v Speaker 1>find somebody that's fully sae. Yeah, no, I I just can't.

0:14:42.520 --> 0:14:47.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I can't, man, all right, what happened? We

0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:51.120
<v Speaker 1>we were there and then I don't know, man, I'm sorry.

0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.160
<v Speaker 1>What did we learn? What have we learned? Though? Okay,

0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:55.920
<v Speaker 1>this is all about learning. What did we learn from

0:14:55.920 --> 0:15:01.240
<v Speaker 1>today's second date update? That love isn't real? We've learned that,

0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:05.560
<v Speaker 1>But we've also learned no rom coms before your next date? Okay,

0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:07.920
<v Speaker 1>broken Jupil in the morning.