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Speaker 1: how's it going? Oh my god, Keith. I feel like

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Speaker 1: know why yet. Yeah, your email was crazy, man, I

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Alison? Alison? So how did you meet Allison?

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Speaker 1: We met through an online dating site. Okay, that's pretty normal.

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Speaker 1: I just haven't dated very much and my friends finally

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm hearing in today's second date update?

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Speaker 1: to her propose again, Keith, just keep proposing. She'll eventually

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Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello, I was looking for Alison. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm good? Who's this again? I'm sorry, I'm not This

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm not sure what that is. Well,

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Speaker 1: You went out on a date recently with a guy

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Speaker 1: named Keith. Oh boy, Yeah, Keith told us about your date.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, what do you know? Do you know that

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Speaker 1: I have people who will vouch for me. You want

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Speaker 1: because I liked him too. I'm just not looking to

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Speaker 1: like him though, yeah, I did, Well, then why don't

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Speaker 1: second date with Keith? We will pay for it, Alison.

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Speaker 1: love it. It's like Katherine Heigel just gets to his heart. Man, Alison,

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Speaker 1: will you go out with Keith again? I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. This whole thing is just

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Speaker 1: only thing I'm proposing right now is a second date.

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Speaker 1: forget about the first date and just move forward. That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm asking. Alison. Can you forget about the wedding

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Speaker 1: one more time? I know that's a lot to ask,

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Speaker 1: saying partially crazy though everybody's partially crazy, and you can't

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Speaker 1: find somebody that's fully sae. Yeah, no, I I just can't.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I can't, man, all right, what happened? We

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Speaker 1: we were there and then I don't know, man, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: What did we learn? What have we learned? Though? Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is all about learning. What did we learn from

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Speaker 1: today's second date update? That love isn't real? We've learned that,

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Speaker 1: But we've also learned no rom coms before your next date? Okay,

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Speaker 1: broken Jupil in the morning.